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Opinions expressed in this program are those of the
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of any entities they represent. Welcome to man talk 133, another
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powerful episode man talk 130 were men man talk 133 were men.
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Tonight I need to slow down y'all working right into the
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you know so tonight, so let me start out like this.
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So I went on a show last night. Shout out to the eagle's nest,
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shout out to brother Satan, apostle Satan and apostle Ty for
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having me on. I appreciate that.
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Thank y'all for having me on the show.
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So I went on this show last night and I, you know, got a
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different perspective of Man Talk 133 and how it is growing
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in, you know, growing in the, in the social media space and also
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growing in just the, the man space, right?
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So many, so, so many people. Now I'm paying attention to Man
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Talk 133. So I want to come on tonight to
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talk about men in ministry, You know, so tonight ain't about it.
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It's not about putting women down.
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It's about us calling men up into their, to their place,
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rightful place where they should be, right.
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So the Kingdom God has never ever stopped needing men ever.
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It it always has needed men, Kingdom men like fathers,
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husbands, teachers, servants, protectors, prayer warriors.
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And yes, men can be prayer warriors, you know, intercessory
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prayers and not prayer, prayers, pray prayers.
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Y'all give them. They're like, gosh, I can't get
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it out. Y'all listen, y'all don't say
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inter accessory prayer warriors. There you go.
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So but the day the church has become filled with women
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faithfully carrying the responsibilities that men are
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supposed to carry, right? So this is this tonight again,
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it's we're going to talk about men in ministry, the crisis
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nobody wants to talk about. So tonight I'm asking, we are
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the men and even more importantly, how do we get them
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back? So tonight is not about guilt,
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but it's about purpose. So you know, the scriptures say
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in Genesis 215, the Lord God tucked man and put him in the
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garden, eating, eating to work and keep it.
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Notice this before Eve, before children, before ministry, God
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gave Adam an assignment. Purpose always comes before
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position. Ephesians 610 through 18.
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I mean, you got to go read all that and, you know, write all
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that down. But it's talking about the armor
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of God, the armor of God. So Paul in this particular
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Scripture wasn't talking and he wasn't writing about passive
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men. He was talking about, he
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describes soldiers, Kingdom men, fight spiritually.
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You know, don't put in the whole, Oh my God, helpless
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salvation, brush plate and righteousness.
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Have your feet show out with the preparation of gossip, peace,
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all of that. You know, he was talking about
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men, Kingdom men, fighting spiritually, right?
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Stick with me. I'm going somewhere.
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I promise you I am 1st Corinthians 6 and 13.
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Watch ye stand fast in the faith.
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Quit, quit. You like men.
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Be strong, right? Modern translation.
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Be watchful, stand firm, act like men, be strong, right?
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So, so tonight, like I said, it's not about bashing men.
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I promise, promise you it's not. It's about trying to get men in
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the position where they could be king of men.
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That's why we're talking about men and ministry tonight.
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So this is God's original design for men.
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God created man not simply to just exist, but to represent
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him. Now He gave men 5 assignments. 5
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assignments is what God gave men.
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The first one was a provider, not just merely money, not going
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out, making as much money as you can make.
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Nothing wrong with that, but that's not what he's talking
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about. But to provide peace, security,
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leadership and prayer. These are the things men are
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supposed to be doing in their homes outside of going out.
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Well, you know, I, I go out and I work and I, you know, and I
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pay all these bills around here. Great.
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But do you provide security to provide leadership?
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Do you pray? These are some of the things you
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know, Do you provide peace or you are just a troublemaker?
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As soon as you walk everybody in the house, warm up.
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There he go, old house. I know he is, You know what I
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mean? So do you provide all of these?
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You know the next one is protector.
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See, Adam fell because he stayed silent.
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The serpent spoke. Adam watched.
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Sometimes silence is sin. If you're quiet, you are
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complacent. You're agreeing with what
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someone is doing. See, he didn't do anything at
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all. He watched as the serpent came
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in and did what he wanted to do right with Eve.
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Priest the first, you are the first pastor in every home.
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You, the father should be the priest, the pastor of your home,
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not the TV, not social media. So you got to set that tone of
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how you're going to be as the priest of your home, how you
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going to lead your home, how you going to God.
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You know how you're going to put restraints on social media for
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your kids? You know how much TV they watch
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or even how much TV you watch. You could be sitting there
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binging on TVI don't know. And and they trying to look for
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you for leadership. And hey, if they see you over
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there chilling with your feet up, guess what they going to do?
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Share what they feet up. So you got to be the you got to
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be the priest of your home, set the tone with prayer and and all
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these different things going to church, you know, making sure
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that you are representing God the right way, right prophet,
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speaking God's truth over your family, not being a fortune
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teller and getting any little crystal balls and doing all this
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stuff like that. And just with the crystal balls.
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I shook it up and the little thing flowed up to the top and
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it said this. Nope, not at all.
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Speaking life like over your kids.
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You are successful, you are powerful.
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You are God's man or woman. You are, you know, going to be
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you're destined to be great even speaking over your wife like
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hey, you know what, listen, you are destined to do great things.
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You will do great things. Speaking these things over your
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wife and kids makes a big difference because if you don't
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do that, how they going to know what they are If they not
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hearing from you and then they may not hear from church and may
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not hear from the people you know that they surround
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themselves around. Good because they may not be
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Christian people all the way in. Christian people get what I'm
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saying and maybe Christian and maybe like 1 footy and 1 foot
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out and maybe Luke Wong is what I'm saying.
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So you got to make sure you do that too.
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A servant leader. Jesus washed feet of his
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disciples. So to the men, leadership isn't
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about power, it's about responsibility.
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How responsible are you? Are you responsible for your
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kids well-being? Are you responsible for their
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growth? Are you responsible for you know
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how they do in school, how they do on their jobs or or you
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condone them going to to their job, fussing out the boss,
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fussing out the customers, but some folk out throwing drinks at
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people and then having their friends recorded and think it's
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the funniest thing in the world. So what are you your servant
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leader or what? I mean they just ain't about
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power. You know Jesus was the ultimate
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leader and he still washed the disciples feet.
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So keep that in mind man. It is not about leadership,
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isn't about power, it's about responsibility.
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So when your family thinks of leadership, what do they think
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of you? This is a question.
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When your family thinks of leadership, do they think of
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you? I make sure I said that right.
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When your family thinks of leadership, do they think of you
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or do they think of you know they pastor or do they think of
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a granddaddy or do they think of you know, Popeyes or leader or
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they think of their uncle, you know, Uncle Michael, Uncle Leroy
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or Uncle June. But whatever y'all call them,
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right? Do they think of them or do they
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think of you when they when your family thinks of leadership?
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Because if they don't think of you when leadership pops up,
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then hey, you, some of you doing that's off that you need to fix
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immediately because they should be thinking of you 100%.
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Now, these are interesting statistics.
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About 60 to 65% of regular church attendees in the US are
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women. Now I gave a statistic last
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night on the show The Eagle's Nest.
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I said that I I felt like, is that the ratio in church and is
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like 8020 like you got 8080% women and 20% men in the church.
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That's what I personally feel like it is based on what I've
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seen. Right.
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So about 60 to 65% of regular church attendees in the US are
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women, while men are significantly underrepresented
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in many congregations. Studies also also consistently
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find that when fathers actively practice their faith, their
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children are much their children are much more likely to remain
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active in church into adulthood. Example you got to be the
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example y'all, you cannot fathers, listen dads, you got to
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be the example you got to be. If you are not the example, then
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they getting that from somewhere else and when they get it from
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the wrong people, we all know what could happen.
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Now I know we always say they can end up in games, but they
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ain't got to really end up in games.
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They can end up, you know, in some activity they don't need to
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be in, you know, like, you know, like a psychic readings and all
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those other kinds of the crystals and all this other
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stuff that they got going on right now.
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If you are missing or you're not representing in church, this
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could happen. Why are men missing?
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Why are we did we going to get in this before the break?
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Why are men missing? So men are missing because I'm
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trying to find something like hey, sorry y'all just bear with
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me. Why men missing?
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This is the one of the biggest, this is one of the biggest
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questions church's face today. Reason #1 no spiritual fathers
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to all, to all the leaders out there, all the pastors and you
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know, prophets and all of that stuff like that, right?
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Know that you matter as a spiritual father no matter what
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people say, no matter what people think and no matter what
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they say. He'll money pastor, He, you
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know, he this and he that. You mean something.
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If there are no spiritual fathers, guess what?
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Men are going to be missing 100%.
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Many men never saw biblical masculinity, yo.
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They always saw a woman as their leader, as their pastor.
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They never saw a man as being their leader because the women
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always prayed. They always did.
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You know, they always showed up, men.
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of any entities they represent. Welcome back to Med Talk 133
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where me and you name we hear A Baker, the Q Baker conversation
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you all see. So I, I kind of, I kind of
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answer this question a little bit and I know you kind of feel
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the same way. You think gambling has changed
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the way fans use, you know, sports and stuff like that?
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Oh yeah, for sure, yeah. If it's rigged up, it doesn't
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seem like sincere or real or genuine, you know?
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Yeah. And what about the officials?
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I know you, I know, you know, you seen some questionable calls
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from these officials that kind of make you be like, what you
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going to do that right now? Right now.
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Right now. And that happened with Wimby.
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It it also happened with shade. You know, I know, I know a lot
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of people like to get on shade for flopping or whatever.
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Yeah, but Wimby does the same thing and he gets those calls
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so. But I don't think that Wimby
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gets half the scrutiny that Shay does.
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For some reason. They love to pick on Shay, man,
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but it's man, it's all the same. They're doing the same thing.
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Yeah, You think about this, man. How many teams do you think
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really benefit from going deep in the playoffs from people
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cheating? Like for me, I think if they
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really want a certain team to get that, I felt like to me this
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was the next year they had it set for them to win it.
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Just based on the games that I've seen.
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I'm just like, bro, they don't as you.
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I like basketball, you play basketball, I play basketball
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and as competitors and we're not even pro as competitors.
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You see a deficit that big, like they made a historic comeback 29
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points right to win by one. As for me as a professional
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player, it like to me you lay down or you got paid to lay
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down. Yeah.
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Yeah, it don't even feel right, you know what I'm saying?
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To nobody that I talked to when. Wendy came down one play.
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I don't know why it was at the end of the game.
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He's dribbling the ball about the cross, half court.
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Then all of a sudden I think it was Bronson that stole the ball.
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But either way, I'm like, why didn't you give it to the point
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guard? Why are you?
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How? Tall is mommy. 73 Trying to
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bring the ball down, brother, that's not your job.
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It was kind of like, man, I knew it was going to.
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Happen. I was like.
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What is he doing? Why is he dribbling that ball as
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soon as he did? And women can dribble, but but
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come on now at the end of the game.
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You got to give to the guard. You got to give the Aaron Fox,
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man, that Fox made that ball, you know?
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What I'm saying? Come on man.
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Got no funny they. Ripped the drawers off them on
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that. One that's great, you know, do
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you think like, you know how we watch like social media and
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stuff like that and you think like the clips that people play,
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like the conspiracy theory side? I don't think it do, but I just
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think that the the clips that they're showing is actually what
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it is. You got caught cheating.
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That's all it is. Yeah.
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No, I agree with that. I agree with that.
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Now some people, some people think that hey, you know, you
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know these clips, why they showing them?
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They show you the game from a flawed perspective.
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They y'all cheated. The refs cheated.
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I've seen a bunch of plays with OKC.
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The man foot was out of bounds. And they completely missed it.
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And they they looked all the way.
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They looked all the way just get y'all just going to just let
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them keep playing like what we saw that we watching the game
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too. We watching the game too.
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So so you know, some people's overall take that they can have
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the overall take that they want, but some people's overall take
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is like it's just they're human. They and you know, they're not
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perfect. I get all that.
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But when I blatantly see stuff like for example, you remember,
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what's the guy's name? Draymond Green?
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They took Draymond Green out against LeBron in them.
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You talking about a 73 and 19. They down 3 to one.
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They come back and beat them. I was like, Yo, I'm a LeBron
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fan, right? But some stuff just don't look
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right that Nope. It's just be obvious.
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Stuff like, come on now. But you got those folks that are
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really that brainwashed to believe in everything that they
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see. Yeah.
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You know, yeah. So go ahead.
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I'm sorry. No, no.
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No, I was about to say they will argue, argue you down about how
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it is real and it can't be rigged and that I'm like, these
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are professional athletes, like you said before, they are paid
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to play. They paid to make these shots,
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to perfect their game, you know, every single day.
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Yeah, this ain't wrestling, bro. This ain't the WWE or whatever.
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This millions of dollars. Millions of dollars to put them
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on the basket. $100 million contracts and you mean to tell
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me y'all can't keep a 29 hold a 29 point lead for 1/4?
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That's what I told my cousin. I said that don't make no sense.
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I ain't nobody off that much now.
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Not at all. Let me.
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Put put me and you out there Shaw.
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Put us out there, bro. We we could have brought them
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back at least half about 15 down by 15 at that point.
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Come on now, we ain't no pros, but man, come on man, we going
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to make a shot of two or three. Come on now, this is the part of
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the show where the audience and us is where we start to split a
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little bit. MJ or LeBron?
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With the most controversial topic ever in sports, right?
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Even then, more than rig, even the sport being rigged, this is
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the most controversial right here.
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Yeah, my opinion, MJ is the coat.
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Yeah. As far as like personal
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accolades, I think LeBron is the GOAT for what he does for for
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the stats that he puts up in the numbers.
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But as as far as like just single player, I mean, even even
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championships with Michael Jordan, you know, like that
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Trump's him too. But he just had this killer
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instinct, this aura about him that was a little bit different.
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And and then the era that he played in too was a little more
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physical, you know? So yeah, he was standing all of
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that and still came out with all them rings, man.
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So I I respect LeBron, but I would have to put MJ as the
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code. So all right, if we if we look
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at it from that perspective, because I had I had a
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conversation with a guy, he's like, no man, you got to look at
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Jordan, look at the rings he got.
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I said, we're going to base it on rings.
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We got to look at Russell. You got to lay on Twitter, you
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know what I'm saying? So I said you can't look at it
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like that, which the MJ has a more killer instinct, period.
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That's right. Period.
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But Kobe has that too. Had that too.
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He had that. Yes, Sir.
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He just, he just, but because of Kobe, who he was and his and his
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attitude and how he played with teammates, he didn't get there.
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He didn't get the respect like LeBron and MJ because if you if
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you look at it, you can easily stick Kobe in there.
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Oh yeah, for sure. As a killer had a killer
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instinct, but the LeBron and the the LeBron you got one I I think
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you got one and one a that I got you know, one did it in his era
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his way another one doing his era this.
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Way you know. What I'm saying, so who you
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think had the great impact on basketball, LeBron or or MJ Aw?
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Man MJ, no question because he he he carried off of the court
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because of his shoes alone. The fashion part of it, like we
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still wear Jordans to this day. I'm not sure if we can say the
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same for LeBron shoes or his impact with with clothing.
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Like what would be wearing that 2030 years from now?
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I don't think so, but you never know.
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But MJ, you know, it's no Trump in that man to come out with
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shoe after shoe after shoe and for it to be no pretty much no
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fails, pretty much. When it comes to the.
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Stylistic part of it, yeah, No. But you know what, a lot of
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people forget this. A lot of people, they get on
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LeBron and they ride him, but they they don't, they forget
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that MJ didn't win nothing until he got his squad with him.
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He didn't win until he got Kerr and and Pippen and robbing and
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legs and them guys like that. So they was like, well, you
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know, LeBron, he couldn't win until he went to Miami with D
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Wade and then with. Same thing, yeah.
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Yeah, but but if you look at it, it's the same exact thing.
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The only thing LeBron did was like he went there.
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He had he had a he was a free agent.
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You go where he wanted to right now.
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I think M JS happened with just, you know, draft trade, whatever
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they did theirs. I don't know how they did it
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back then, but it's the same thing.
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Basically. He didn't win until he got his
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squad. LeBron ain't win till he got his
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squad. But Michael Jordan just has more
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of AI would say basketball presence.
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You know what I mean? Like when you think of
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basketball, he's you you think of MJ now LeBron, that's my dog.
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Like, you know, he, he because you know, he's, I mean, he's
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6869 can run the floor from, you know, he, he, he's got the most
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points, most assists, most all the stuff he has.
27:44
But when you just think of basketball itself, you got to,
27:48
you got to think of, you got to think of MJ, bro.
27:51
You got to and, and here's a let me just add to that, Charles.
27:56
I think that at the end of the game, who you going to go to?
28:01
If you need a killer, You need that one point, you need that
28:04
one bucket. You know, who would you go to?
28:07
Would you go to MJ or would you go to Jordan?
28:10
And I think most people would say Jordan because he was a he
28:13
was a killer. He was assassin.
28:15
Same thing with Kobe. That's why I got Kobe in the
28:20
background right now as my personal favorite.
28:24
But like MJ, man, definitely the GOAT.
28:27
He had the same killer instinct, man, that Kobe had.
28:32
I think that's why they they actually ended up being real
28:34
good friends, man. They they thought the same.
28:37
And of course, Kobe tried to pattern himself after MJ, but
28:42
that's another topic. Yeah, he didn't work too good.
28:45
So we right up against the break man.
28:46
So when we get back out of the break, I want you to think about
28:49
this. Now you can either look at
28:51
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28:57
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Yeah, yeah, yeah. So we back at it.
30:22
So before we went to the break, we was talking about purpose,
30:25
right? So I kind of got well.
30:28
Let me let me drop one more on you right cuz I was with you.
30:31
Why? Why we don't share, right?
30:33
Yeah, one of the things you go, yeah.
30:34
Definitely one of the things I learned when I end up going to
30:37
TV broadcasting. I went to radio broadcasting 1st
30:41
and then with the TV broadcasting school.
30:43
But in radio broadcasting, one of the things that they told us
30:46
in the school is that you can take an interview of a person
30:49
that you're interviewing and chop that interview up and make
30:52
them sound like the worst person on the planet just by that's
30:55
true. You're arranging those clips,
30:56
right? Yep.
30:57
So what they call that is slander.
30:59
Wow. So I'm like, how can I tell you
31:05
what I'm dealing with in my deepest, darkest secrets when
31:09
I'm afraid that not you're going to judge me, but you might
31:12
slander, you might slander my name.
31:13
You might take what I tell you about my experience and go tell
31:16
other people about it. Oh no, they're going to.
31:19
Slander. They're going to do that for
31:23
sure. So why would I want to again?
31:25
So why would I even want to voice that?
31:27
Why would that even come out of my mouth when I feel like that's
31:30
going to be like the end of all? Yeah, yeah.
31:34
But that could be that many of people need to hear your story.
31:41
Yes, that's what we we know that, but no one makes no
31:45
difference. Sometime we know a lot of stuff,
31:48
but no one makes no difference. But if you know that hey I can
31:52
share my story and I could help make one person.
31:56
Yeah, yeah. My story's not for the whole
31:59
world, but I had to go to God to find out.
32:01
We know am I cool because I want to educate the whole world.
32:04
You know no for on your story for the people who are put in
32:07
your path. And you might be at a conference
32:09
of 10,000 people and might one person might need to hear your
32:12
message. You're.
32:13
Going to go, are you going to go show up?
32:15
What if it's only 5 people at that event?
32:17
Are you going to go show up at that?
32:18
Because there might be one out of five that needs to hear your
32:21
talk. It's the same energy.
32:23
So when I got that for myself, like I said, OK, God, I got it.
32:28
It's now I got to do the work. Now you got to do the.
32:31
Work be the work. I got to be the work.
32:33
Yeah, and it's like you were saying, man, you know, like
32:36
people are going to talk about you regardless, right?
32:40
And like we was talking about if a man's been molested, he's not
32:44
going to share that. He's going to hold that in.
32:48
And I was watching the show and I forgot what it was, but the
32:51
dude had this coach had molesting guys, right?
32:57
He had videotapes of it and he found his tape.
33:02
He fought, he fought and he fought.
33:05
He did not want to watch it. He was just and, and by him
33:08
thinking that he was expressing anger.
33:12
All this anger was coming out. And then at the end, he ended up
33:15
watching it and it did happen to him and he, he, he kind of dealt
33:20
with it better. And I guess it's kind of what
33:22
you're saying, like once you know what it is, you can
33:25
identify it, then you can handle it better.
33:29
See, I I didn't tell my mom what happened to me in that in that
33:32
same conversation until I was 46 years old.
33:35
OK. And, and, and I didn't, I had to
33:38
go back and look at how did that affect me.
33:40
Yeah, right. Because it did for sure.
33:43
And it affected me in the military because I would wait, I
33:48
I wouldn't take my shower until like one or 2:00 in the morning
33:50
when there was nobody in the bathroom in the shower, bro.
33:53
Why was that? Why?
33:55
Was that because of what happened to me as a child?
33:58
Oh, OK, I I see what you said. Well, that was that was how it
34:00
affected me. Wow, wow, ain't that something,
34:04
man? And I didn't tell my mom until I
34:06
was in my 40s, bro, after I started this work of healing, it
34:10
was it was right there packed away.
34:11
Yeah, yeah. And I went to my mom and she was
34:13
like, she wasn't surprised either.
34:15
Wow, because it was like, you know, family members.
34:18
She was like, oh, makes it, you know, I'm like what?
34:21
But I'm a 46 at the time. You know, I'm 46 now that when
34:25
I'm sharing this, what happened at six had happened at 5-6 years
34:28
old. You know, it's years, 40 years
34:30
ago. And that's so dangerous, right?
34:33
Packing it in like that, that's a dangerous part about it
34:36
because we think that it doesn't affect us and it really does in
34:42
a way like now you, when you talked about that at an older
34:45
age, how did it impact you? Like was it like a relief?
34:49
Only only because I had dealt with the like.
34:52
I had peeled layers off before I got to that one.
34:54
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. I had.
34:55
I had responsibility of my past, you know, own my own, my past,
35:00
you know, own my decisions and, and the experiences.
35:03
So I was able to as I was peeling those layers because
35:06
that first layer that I had to get in that education was the
35:09
suicide ideation. Like my life was over, man.
35:12
When I took that class, it was over.
35:14
I was ready. I had the plan, the willingness.
35:16
I had everything. I had all of it ready to go.
35:19
But I held on to my youngest daughter, Asia.
35:23
I knew I had mental toughness and I knew I didn't want to do
35:26
that, but it was that battle in my mind like.
35:29
But no, it's hopeless. Why bother bro?
35:32
Nobody cares. Nobody cares, right?
35:35
That's what you think? That's what I think, but I had
35:37
my daughter and I'm like, I can't do that to her.
35:39
So I battled and that's what kept me, you know, from from
35:42
doing that. Yeah.
35:43
So, so you said it was 16 years. What year do you think 567 when
35:49
you really it felt like you had it under control, like, you
35:53
know, the suicidal thoughts in the you know what I mean?
35:56
Like when? It oh, I was, I won't even say
36:00
it's under control right now. OK, I will.
36:03
I will say that at 40 years old, turning 40, there was this blink
36:11
in my in my mind that said there's got to be something
36:13
better than this. Yeah.
36:16
And you know, biblically, 40 years, 40 years is a
36:19
generational change. So I was into that 40 year old
36:23
phase of life. And you know, like I said, those
36:26
prayers got answered. I got in that education.
36:28
So from 46, from 40. And I'm so I'm 56 now.
36:33
So 16 years I've been in personal development, I've done
36:37
cognitive behavior, I've done listening skills, I've done
36:41
grief classes, I've done, I've been in the word six of those 16
36:46
years, I've done recently grief support group.
36:51
And so applying all that to my life in that conscious mind, the
36:57
conscience mind is the middle mind, right Where our morals,
37:00
right. So we get that's where the
37:01
information, that's where the word of God is, is getting into.
37:04
That's where when you take therapy, it's getting into that
37:07
part of the mind of your right or wrongs, good or bads, all
37:09
those opinions lives in that middle mind right there, right?
37:12
So when you start to filter that out with more truths, with with
37:16
your truth, not the stories of the truth.
37:19
Right. It, it, it, it there's a shift
37:21
that they call that where transformation lives.
37:24
And so I applied all those things, man.
37:27
And I've, I've had, I had a challenge.
37:28
The 1st 40 years of my life is what I did.
37:31
Wow. So I went back all the way from
37:33
40 and and and my memory goes back to A2 year old decision
37:37
that I made about my mom and my grandmother.
37:39
Wow. And and inside of that 2 to 4012
37:43
decisions total. Wow.
37:47
And I've been putting off each one of them.
37:49
That's why I said it ain't it ain't, it ain't, it ain't
37:51
completely over. But I'm definitely on the I'm on
37:53
the other side of it right now. Yeah, so people got to
37:55
understand it's work. Oh, it's work.
37:58
It's work. It's work and you got to pull
38:01
off different layers like that. And it's, it's not easy layers.
38:05
It's hard layers, you know what I mean?
38:08
You got to get inside and pull out that all that old stuff.
38:12
It's just like a, you know, taking, taking like a, you know,
38:14
like a, a snake and you put it down into the plumbing.
38:20
Yeah, exactly. That's kind of what it's like.
38:23
And you got to keep doing it over and over and over.
38:26
And and and and and. The biggest part of that was at
38:32
that blink that I heard the willingness, see people not
38:35
willing to do their work. It's conceptual.
38:38
Oh, that sounds good for him. Oh, that sounds good for him.
38:41
I can't do that. Are you willing though?
38:44
You willing to do the work and just take?
38:46
Because once you find that one, I found 12.
38:48
But it was the first one that I found that opened up the door to
38:51
look at the rest of my life. Because if I made that story of
38:54
that, my life was over because my military career came to an
38:56
end. Well, what else did I make up?
38:58
Right. Then I was, I was willing to
39:01
look. So I, I look all the way back
39:03
down 40 and I found 2 year old, 5 year old, 6 year old, 8 year
39:08
old, 11 year old, 14 year old, 17 year old, 23 year old, 36
39:13
year old and 40 year old decision.
39:16
Wow. And I had to go and take
39:17
responsibility because I made when I made all that up, I made
39:21
it up. It was not.
39:22
It was my truth, but it wasn't the truth.
39:24
Yeah. So as a male, when you go
39:26
through those different layers like that, how does it affect
39:29
relationships and you know, stuff like that, buddy, let me
39:34
tell you. After I went back and I started
39:39
to to to discover those relationships that I that I
39:44
sabotaged. I called ex girlfriends.
39:48
I got 2 failed marriages. So I called people in my life
39:52
asking for forgiveness, man. Yeah.
39:54
I took responsibility like that. That was me.
39:57
Yeah, that was me. And so by by being able to be
40:01
willing to do that and call people in my life for forgive,
40:04
not apologizing, but forgiveness because I'm changing my
40:07
behavior, right? So by asking for forgiveness
40:12
again, yes, it's for them, but it's more it's for us first.
40:16
Yeah, yeah. So that I took responsibility.
40:19
And of course, I got mixed. I got mixed.
40:21
What are you calling me for? Don't call me again.
40:24
Yeah. I knew you was crazy.
40:25
Like I got. I got all of that.
40:26
I got all of it. I got all of it.
40:29
Freedom. That's why forgiveness is so
40:32
powerful, because there's freedom on the other side of it,
40:35
man. Yeah.
40:36
Yeah. Self forgiveness.
40:39
Now that through in that process, I already know there
40:44
was some distractions and it was some boy, it was the enemy.
40:48
Was the Devils going at you with everything he had?
40:52
Everything. And the, the, the, the, the, the
40:56
fact that you're still here, it says that you were willing.
41:01
You know what I mean? And you made the point that
41:03
people got to be willing. You got to be willing to pull
41:06
them layers off. You're not willing to pull those
41:08
layers off. It's a wrap.
41:11
It's a wrap, man. You hate to say it, you know?
41:13
I know people say, well, you know, you, you know, you pray
41:15
and you seek the Lord. Yeah, but you still got to do
41:18
something. It's action.
41:20
It's all action, action, action. Hope is an action.
41:24
Prayer is an action. Faith is an action word.
41:26
Those are action words. The Bible, the biblical
41:29
principles, you have to. That's what I tell people, a
41:32
hammer. You look at a hammer in the
41:34
toolbox. We know the hammer is powerful
41:35
because it's a hammer. You don't.
41:38
You don't experience it until you actually pick it up and it's
41:40
used by you. Yeah.
41:42
The hammer has to be used by us to experience the power.
41:45
That's. That's all therapy is.
41:48
That's all the Bible principles are.
41:51
That's all kinds of behavior. You got to take those
41:53
curriculums of education and apply it to your life.
41:56
It's not conceptual. When you apply it to your life,
42:00
you're not going to be the same person.
42:01
The more that you practice applying those principles and
42:03
those tools, you're not going to be the same person.
42:06
And some people, like you said, it's too hard.
42:08
They'd rather stay in this stuck place brother, than just like,
42:12
you know what I know I need help.
42:15
I know some a little off with me and then it's just something
42:19
that's just a little bit off. But you know, I'm good with
42:22
that. That's just how God made me.
42:25
They'll use that one in a heartbeat.
42:27
But it's, that's not how he wants you to live in torture all
42:32
the time. It's just, you know, it's just
42:33
different, man. Some people, you look at it from
42:36
a different perspective than what other people have looked at
42:39
it. You know, I've been watching,
42:40
you know, following and watching your shows and stuff like that.
42:42
That's one of the reasons why I think the enemy was fighting so
42:46
hard for us to get on here, because he already knew the
42:48
power of agreement. In fact, it's going to, you
42:51
know, people watching this show that can really, really get free
42:55
from as, as men. As as men and women, we're not
42:59
exempt. Minimum women aren't exempt.
43:00
We suffer in silence. We suffer in silence.
43:03
And what is that? Yeah, What is that?
43:06
And then it's something and so you got to find somebody.
43:09
You, you have confidence. I don't even like the word trust
43:12
anymore because the word says trust in the Lord have
43:16
confidence in man. So we don't I'm not supposed to
43:19
put my trust in you. I don't trust myself 100%.
43:21
So why would I trust you 100% when I don't trust myself,
43:24
right? So you got to again the word
43:26
says love God with your heart, soul, mind, body and love your
43:31
neighbor with the same measure that you love yourself.
43:33
So guess what? I just been measuring my own
43:35
self first man. Yeah, that's all you got to do.
43:38
When I measure me. OK, No, go ahead, go ahead.
43:40
No, I'm just saying when I, when I measure myself, then I can see
43:43
how much I could give away to you.
43:45
I can't give, I can't give you 100% if I don't have like, I
43:47
can't give that. So I got to measure myself
43:49
first. Exactly.
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Welcome back to Man Talk 133, where Men unite.
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Thank you all for joining the show tonight.
45:34
Tonight we're talking about men in the ministry, the crisis
45:38
nobody wants to talk about. I mean, I'm gazing stuff tonight
45:44
for y'all today really, really, really, really think about you.
45:47
Got to really think about what I gave you like King David before
45:51
I went to break. We were talking about King
45:53
David. He was a great king, yet his
45:57
failures at home had lasting consequences.
46:00
So leadership starts at the crib, y'all?
46:05
It starts at home for show. Raising Kingdom men, older men,
46:12
the dudes in the church, the elders, I mean the deacons, the
46:17
ones that you know people, the ones that they overlook you you
46:20
sit in the corner, you quiet and you know, one that comes to mind
46:25
is Mr. Wilbert. Y'all don't know Mr. Wilbert,
46:28
but Mr. Wilbert, you matter. You older man, you matter.
46:31
I'm telling you older man in the church, you matter, right?
46:37
So I'm just saying like just because you're older and we
46:42
shifting into like a another generation of church, you still
46:47
matter when therefore trick you and think you don't matter
46:51
because you 100% do matter. That's a fact, right?
46:58
So Titus, two older men should teach younger men, right?
47:05
Go and read it. It talks about how they should
47:07
how they supposed to teach. Basically you got to pass the
47:11
knowledge down to the younger men because they don't know
47:15
they, they, they don't have a clue what's going on.
47:17
They think they know everything, but they really don't know
47:19
nothing. Hate to say it like they don't
47:22
know nothing. They don't.
47:24
So mentorship. Paul had Timothy, Moses had
47:31
Joshua, Elijah had Elijah, Jesus had 12.
47:36
Who are you pouring into? So we got all this word in US
47:42
men of God, we got all this word and all this prayer and all
47:45
these ideas and all these great things we want to do for the
47:48
Kingdom. But who are we pouring it into?
47:50
Are we pouring it into the young people?
47:52
Or what are we doing? Put it up on the shelf so-called
47:56
for the right time. Who are we pouring into?
48:00
This really matters. Women too.
48:04
I know this man talking. I'm talking about men.
48:06
Women. Y'all got all this word in
48:07
y'all? Who y'all pouring into for real?
48:11
Y'all got to like, we got to look at this man challenge men.
48:16
We got to challenge men. Pastors, and I know a lot of
48:19
y'all do. We got to challenge men.
48:22
We got to stop entertaining men. They need to be challenged.
48:27
We got to start equipping them to be able to pray at their
48:30
house. We got to put them in
48:31
uncomfortable positions where, hey, I need you to get up here
48:35
and pray or either start them in, start them in like the men's
48:39
fellowship, different things like that where they can pray in
48:43
front of the men first and get comfortable with doing or, you
48:47
know, Sunday schools, you know, stuff like that.
48:50
You got to start equipping them. We got to stop entertaining.
48:54
We got to stop doing all the Holland and all the yeah, all
48:58
that. That's good, fine, they
49:00
entertain, they jump up and they have a new we got to start in
49:04
equipping them, but it be leaders of their homes for real.
49:09
We got to stop doing that. Real growth, real growth happens
49:12
through responsibility. If they're responsible, if you
49:16
get a responsibility, they're going to be responsible and I
49:20
believe in y'all. I know y'all can do it.
49:22
You know what I'm saying? I know y'all can do it.
49:25
You know get to give you a job for you to be responsible.
49:27
You get up every morning and stay early in the morning and
49:32
stay super late because you're responsible.
49:35
You have a responsible, that's my job, that's my responsibility
49:37
to get up early and stay there late because I can't leave my
49:41
job like that. Guess what?
49:45
You can't leave your family like that either.
49:48
I'm just saying you can work. Let's see, 2030 hours of
49:53
overtime a week. If you can't pray for like 2
49:55
minutes over your wife and kids, we got to fix that y'all?
49:59
That's something that structures off.
50:01
We got to fix that right? What would happen if every
50:05
Christian man disciple a younger man?
50:11
Well we have like it would be so Joe the churches would be full.
50:20
Because one thing I do know about young people, when you
50:23
tell them something good, they're going to go and they're
50:28
going to spread the word, say like, for example, Hey, man,
50:31
especially if they play basketball, right?
50:33
Hey, man, check this out, man. There's a court down there off
50:36
so and so. No, you got we got to go up and
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play them boys. We have their ball.
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And I'm telling you every day they have their ball.
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So if we disciple them the right way and just into you know, in
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church and be like and they go to the church, we're like yo
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bro, you got to come check out this church.
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It's crazy. It's yo, you got to come check
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it out for real. It's no joke.
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Come check it out. These are 5 practical steps that
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can help right before I get out of here. 5 practical, 5
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practical steps. Number one, pray daily, pray
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daily, Pray daily is the first one.
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Even if the 5 minutes, I'm going to say hey, 2-3 minutes if you
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ain't used to doing it. I mean, hey, you can go for 5
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minutes, but I'm just saying just start with 2-3 minutes, you
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know #2 read scripture every day.
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Consistency beats intensity. So if you're consistent and you
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read and just say you want to read the Bible in like a year
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and you read you're, you're consistent about doing a certain
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amount every day, you're going to be good to go #3 find
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accountability. No man wins alone.
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You've got to have somebody that's going to be behind you,
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that's going to make sure if they see you getting off, they
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they'll nudge you back to the left.
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If you're getting off to the, you know, to the left and back
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to the right to keep you to keep you lined up.
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You know what I mean? You got to have find
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accountability in somebody, right?
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Hey, serve somewhere. If you come to the church every
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Sunday, you sitting at the back with your arms across the thing
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like this, you know, you just chilling, you know, got one kid
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on the disarm one on the other arm and your wife running around
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doing 3-4 different things and and you just sitting in the back
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chilling served somewhere in church.
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God developed service before leaders.
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You got to be able to serve me first before he well, I mean, I
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can be over. I can be charged with all that,
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but you ain't never served on it.
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So you don't know what to take. You don't know the pressure, you
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don't know the warfare that come with doing all that.
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So you can't sell what you can leave with this, this, this, and
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you ain't never done it. So best thing to do is serve
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first, then work your way into leadership #5 lead at home
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first. You talk about you can leave
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them in the church. You can do all this and that and
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you can't leave your living room.
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You're going to struggle handling a congregation if you
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can't handle your wife and your two or three kids or even 1 kid
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in the living room. Bro, listen, a congregation
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going to run through you or they're going to stiff arm you
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right on out the way. Like boy, get out of here
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straight up. You ain't stop playing with me.
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I don't want to hear nothing. You got to say, pastor, I'm just
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telling y'all how I going to go. So y'all got to learn before you
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can jump in the lead. You first you got to serve, then
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you got to lead at home. First you got to lead at home.
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Y'all for real? For real.
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Just the final challenge. Imagine every father praying
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over his children, every husband leading devotion, every young
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man mentoring another young man, every church full of spiritually
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mature men. Neighborhoods would change.
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Schools would change, families would change.
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Communities would change. Kingdom advances.
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When ordinary man faithfully answer God's call, just answer
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the call. Y'all stop playing Joshua 2415.
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As for me and my house, we will serve the Lord.
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