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UNDERSTATING EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE WITH 19 KEYS · Earn Your Leisure

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  Speaker 1: An illegal alien from Guatemala charged with raping a child
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  Speaker 1: in Massachusetts. An MS thirteen gang member from Al Salvador
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  Speaker 1: accused of murdering a Texas man of Venezuelan charged with
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  Speaker 1: filming and selling child pornography in Michigan. These are just
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  Speaker 1: some of the heinous migrant criminals caught because of President
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  Speaker 1: Donald J. Trump's leadership. I'm Christy nom the United States
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  Speaker 1: Secretary of Homeland Security. Under President Trump, attempted illegal border
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  Speaker 1: crossings are at the lowest levels ever recorded, and over
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  Speaker 1: one hundred thousand illegal aliens have been arrested. If you
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  Speaker 1: are here illegally, your next you will be fined nearly
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  Speaker 1: one thousand dollars a day, imprisoned, and deported. You will
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  Speaker 1: never return. But if you register using our CBP home
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  Speaker 1: app and leave now, you could be allowed to return legally.
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  Speaker 1: Do what's right. Leave now. Under President Trump, America's laws,
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  Speaker 1: border and families will be protected.
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  Speaker 2: Sponsored by the United States Department of Homeland Security KEYS.
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  Speaker 3: I'm gonna say because I feel like, especially in coming
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  Speaker 3: to education, when we write down lists, it actually becomes
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  Speaker 3: easier for us to see them and we can actually
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  Speaker 3: execute on them. And we had a high level conversation
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  Speaker 3: the other day, and it was funny because you never
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  Speaker 3: know where inspiration is gonna come from. I was like, yo,
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  Speaker 3: keys man, I got this brilliant idea, and you looked
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  Speaker 3: at me and said, yeah, you got it from me.
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  Speaker 4: I said, how you know I got.
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  Speaker 2: It from you?
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  Speaker 3: Because I said it before even subconsciously you might have
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  Speaker 3: heard it. I said, damn, this brother's smart. But let's
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  Speaker 3: talk about it because this is bigger than business. But
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  Speaker 3: these are like life principles. And so you got this
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  Speaker 3: theory of ease. And so let's break this down because
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  Speaker 3: I know everybody's writing. That was great, eight apps that
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  Speaker 3: shot he just gave. Let's continue with writing. Let's start
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  Speaker 3: with education and how from a business standpoint that could
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  Speaker 3: be valuable and obviously from a life standpoint.
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  Speaker 4: Well it goes towards growth. Right.
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  Speaker 5: Education is what you learn, you understand me, and so
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  Speaker 5: what you learn would dictate what.
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  Speaker 4: You can do.
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  Speaker 5: So when you talked about that model of effectiveness, he
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  Speaker 5: told you what he uses.
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  Speaker 4: But the game is now that you.
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  Speaker 5: Now have the knowledge, you need the access. The access
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  Speaker 5: is not just what it is by how to use it? Right,
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  Speaker 5: So the education would be okay, shot. I just heard
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  Speaker 5: you say that you built a multi million dollar company
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  Speaker 5: with eight apps.
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  Speaker 4: Can you give me the game?
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  Speaker 5: Because otherwise the time that it's going to take for
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  Speaker 5: me to learn it is going to be wild, except
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  Speaker 5: when you can give me the game, and if I
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  Speaker 5: can pay you to give me the game. Now you're
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  Speaker 5: just giving me access. The people with the most access
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  Speaker 5: today wins. So having the right coach, having the right
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  Speaker 5: mentor having the right teacher is no longer about just
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  Speaker 5: taking a course, right. It's now about having a coach
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  Speaker 5: because everybody have all this access to information, but some
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  Speaker 5: people are using it better because they have better access.
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  Speaker 5: So now everybody got social media, but some people giving
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  Speaker 5: them the game on how to create a media company
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  Speaker 5: in a business. So for me, the education is also
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  Speaker 5: learning how to learn right. See low level? Well, most
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  Speaker 5: people think that low level means something bad.
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  Speaker 4: It doesn't.
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  Speaker 5: Others is just the details. So we have different type
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  Speaker 5: of learners. Most people cannot grass onto the details because
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  Speaker 5: they don't understand the high level, which is the concept.
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  Speaker 5: So when you're learning anything new, you have to say,
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  Speaker 5: do I understand the high level first. If you do that,
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  Speaker 5: now you have a foundation to build on in your brain.
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  Speaker 5: So when we're learning, we go through this process of
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  Speaker 5: unlocking and relocking because I got the keys right now,
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  Speaker 5: when we reprogram it, we unlocking. So literally, neurons in
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  Speaker 5: our brains detached from each other. New information, new perceptions,
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  Speaker 5: new ideas get built into that neuron, then it relocks in.
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  Speaker 5: So we're so afraid of change, right because we want
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  Speaker 5: to stay the same.
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  Speaker 4: We feel like we're missing a piece of ourselves.
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  Speaker 5: But replace the word change with growth, replace the road
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  Speaker 5: change with evolution, right, because then people won't be afraid
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  Speaker 5: of upgrading, won't be afraid of updating. So for me,
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  Speaker 5: education is the most important because when I look across
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  Speaker 5: the spectrum of how all people build, say, wealth is
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  Speaker 5: based on what they know.
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  Speaker 3: So where the first power principle was education, Let's go
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  Speaker 3: to the next one exposure.
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  Speaker 5: Exposure. Exposure is how vast your mind will actually be. Right,
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  Speaker 5: once you are exposed to something and your mind continues
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  Speaker 5: to grow, it will never collapse again. See, the universe
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  Speaker 5: expands at the rate which light or reaching areas that
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  Speaker 5: have never reached before. So that means that when the
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  Speaker 5: universe is getting expanded, it's based on light reaching new places.
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  Speaker 4: The same thing that happened in your mind.
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  Speaker 5: Once you gain enlightenment, now your brain has been sparked
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  Speaker 5: in new ways.
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  Speaker 4: Now it cannot be closed again.
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  Speaker 5: Now you've seen three black men on stage with the
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  Speaker 5: most daparous attire on this planet Earth, teaching about financial education.
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  Speaker 5: You've been exposed to something that will change the foundation
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  Speaker 5: of your reality that you walk on every single day.
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  Speaker 4: So now that you've seen that, you can't go back
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  Speaker 4: to the streets. You can't go back to the hood.
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  Speaker 5: You can't just go back to your apartment and not
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  Speaker 5: want more for yourself. See, in America, they give us
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  Speaker 5: the American dream, so we never comfortable with what we have.
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  Speaker 4: But what is the United Kingdom vision?
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  Speaker 5: See vision gives you direction, but without vision, you don't
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  Speaker 5: know where you're going.
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  Speaker 4: You are blind.
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  Speaker 5: So you must be exposed to things outside this land.
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  Speaker 5: And the most beautiful thing social media did is it
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  Speaker 5: exposed us to brilliant minds, education, perspective in people that
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  Speaker 5: normally would have not gotten that opportunity.
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  Speaker 5: Emotional intelligence is how you deal with life. You know,
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  Speaker 5: I just learned that I'm a violent communicator. I know,
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  Speaker 1: An illegal alien from Guatemala charged with raping a child
• 7:35
  Speaker 1: in Massachusetts. An MS thirteen gang member from El Salvador
• 7:39
  Speaker 1: accused of murdering a Texas. Man of Venezuelan charged with
• 7:44
  Speaker 1: filming and selling child pornography in Michigan. These are just
• 7:48
  Speaker 1: some of the heinous migrant criminals caught because of President
• 7:51
  Speaker 1: Donald J. Trump's leadership. I'm Christine Nohm, the United States
• 7:55
  Speaker 1: Secretary of Homeland Security under President Trump. Attempted illegal order
• 8:00
  Speaker 1: crossings are at the lowest levels ever recorded, and over
• 8:03
  Speaker 1: one hundred thousand illegal aliens have been arrested. If you
• 8:07
  Speaker 1: are here illegally, your next you will be fine nearly
• 8:11
  Speaker 1: one thousand dollars a day. Imprisoned and deported, you will
• 8:15
  Speaker 1: never return. But if you register using our CBP home
• 8:18
  Speaker 1: app and leave now, you could be allowed to return legally.
• 8:22
  Speaker 1: Do what's right, leave now. Under President Trump America's laws,
• 8:27
  Speaker 1: border and families.
• 8:29
  Speaker 2: Will be protected. Sponsored by the United States Department of
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  Speaker 2: Homeland Security.
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  Speaker 5: Violent communication goes to the theory that subconsciously.
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  Speaker 4: We speak from a warmond to be either offensive or defensive.
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  Speaker 5: So I notice when I say things in short form,
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  Speaker 5: it lacks empathy, right because now a person can't properly
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  Speaker 5: understand me. The beauty about high level conversations that make
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  Speaker 5: it very hard to be misunderstood because I got out
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  Speaker 5: the full context of my point. So, when we're talking
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  Speaker 5: about emotional intelligence, a thing about men, Men lack emotional experience.
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  Speaker 5: Women grow or dealing with their emotions more than men.
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  Speaker 5: So when that is the reason that they mature at
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  Speaker 5: a faster rate than men.
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  Speaker 4: Right, See, women are.
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  Speaker 5: More equipped to deal with the low level details. Men
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  Speaker 5: are more of the high level concepts. So when we
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  Speaker 5: look at the difference between the type of jobs that
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  Speaker 5: men and women go is based on their emotional intelligence.
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  Speaker 5: So you as a man, when you learn how to
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  Speaker 5: deal with the spirit of yourself, then you can deal
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  Speaker 5: with your women correctly.
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  Speaker 4: Right.
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  Speaker 5: The problem is we get angry because we don't know
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  Speaker 5: how to identify the feeling. Have you been Are you jealous?
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  Speaker 5: Is this a jealous MGG that you putting out. Jealousy
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  Speaker 5: is when you see somebody have something and you don't
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  Speaker 5: want them to have it, you want it for yourself.
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  Speaker 5: Envy is when you don't particularly don't want them to
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  Speaker 5: have it, but you want it as well. Right, and
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  Speaker 5: sometimes you don't know when you're being jealous or envious
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  Speaker 5: of your.
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  Speaker 4: Brother or your sister.
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  Speaker 5: But see that emotional intelligence allow you to identify those
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  Speaker 5: factors in those flaws and bring them to light. Because
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  Speaker 5: honorable man this Farkin said, when children start to experiment
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  Speaker 5: with sex, they doing in the dark, because even a
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  Speaker 5: child has to innate nature that that is wrong, so
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  Speaker 5: they don't do it in the light.
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  Speaker 4: So when we work on our shadow selves, and that's.
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  Speaker 5: Dealing with who you really are, who you don't show
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  Speaker 5: the world that if they've seen is what they still
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  Speaker 5: love me. But when you have the emotional intelligence to
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  Speaker 5: identify that and you act in a fearless manner, because
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  Speaker 5: courage is acting in the face of fear, not in
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  Speaker 5: the absence of it. So people ask me all the time,
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  Speaker 5: how do I become fearless? You have to act even
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  Speaker 5: when that feeling starts to creep up on you and
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  Speaker 5: try to stop you. That to me is divine emotional intelligence,
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  Speaker 5: not being afraid of your shadow self.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, whoo, y'all gonna learn today.
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  Speaker 4: And I think the last one.
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  Speaker 3: I think the last one is most important, and it's
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  Speaker 3: something that has been a cashphrase of oars from the beginning.
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  Speaker 3: Information is going to be on us, Execution is going
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  Speaker 3: to be on you. So everybody in this room the
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  Speaker 3: night is getting the information. But talk about the power
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  Speaker 3: of execution.
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  Speaker 5: Mm y'all ever heard the story of the first procrastinators
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  Speaker 5: in history?
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  Speaker 4: So listen, this will happened.
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  Speaker 2: Right.
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  Speaker 4: It was one day these two brothers they was working.
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  Speaker 5: They chopping up bricks for the pyramids, and they've been
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  Speaker 5: doing this work every single day.
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  Speaker 4: Right, they don't take no breaks. They get the work
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  Speaker 4: done for the day.
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  Speaker 5: Then they go home, and then one day this brother,
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  Speaker 5: he had this team he was trying to see, so
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  Speaker 5: he said, how about we do this later? He said,
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  Speaker 5: let's do this tomorrow. He said, what is later and
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  Speaker 5: what's tomorrow? Because they didn't have no concept of it
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  Speaker 5: was always now and next. See a baby concept of
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  Speaker 5: time is always now in next. We don't learn later
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  Speaker 5: till we get older. So what happened was he said later, man,
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  Speaker 5: so you mean that this is the time. We don't
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  Speaker 5: have to do it now. He said that sound good,
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  Speaker 5: So they both decided to do it later. Now from
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  Speaker 5: their lineage, they created the ancestry of laziness and procrastination.
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  Speaker 4: Now this is some people ancestors in here.
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  Speaker 5: Some of you are waited last minute to get your
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  Speaker 5: ticket to come to invest vests. Because the science of
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  Speaker 5: procrastination is when you have pain in the mind and
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  Speaker 5: it stops you from moving forward. So I don't feel
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  Speaker 5: like doing it, so I'll do it later, and later
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  Speaker 5: never comes, so you never get it done.
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  Speaker 4: So what you have to do is you have to
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  Speaker 4: learn how to do now.
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  Speaker 5: Because it says be and it is not being maybe later.
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  Speaker 4: See we used to be a being.
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  Speaker 5: It is type of people any thought that I get.
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  Speaker 5: See sometimes they time sensitive. See sometimes that idea can
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  Speaker 5: be done at the wrong time and then it's failure.
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  Speaker 5: But the right idea at the right time always equal success.
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  Speaker 5: So you have to know that procrastination is the abortion
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  Speaker 5: clinic of ideas.
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  Speaker 4: But the most painful part of.
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  Speaker 5: The pregnancy is when a woman is pushing and it's
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  Speaker 5: that crowning phase.
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  Speaker 4: Sometimes they got to put it under. Sometimes I gotta
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  Speaker 4: do a C section.
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  Speaker 5: But if you push through the pain, then you give
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  Speaker 5: birth to every idea that you have.
• 13:12
  Speaker 1: An illegal alien from Guatemala charged with raping a child
• 13:16
  Speaker 1: in Massachusetts. An MS thirteen gang member from Al Salvador
• 13:20
  Speaker 1: accused of murdering a Texas man of Venezuelan charged with
• 13:24
  Speaker 1: filming and selling child pornography in Michigan. These are just
• 13:28
  Speaker 1: some of the heinous migrant criminals caught because of President
• 13:32
  Speaker 1: Donald J. Trump's leadership. I'm Christy Noman, the United States
• 13:35
  Speaker 1: Secretary of Homeland Security. Under President Trump, attempted illegal border
• 13:40
  Speaker 1: crossings are at the lowest levels ever recorded, and over
• 13:44
  Speaker 1: one hundred thousand illegal aliens have been arrested. If you
• 13:47
  Speaker 1: are here illegally, your next you will be fined nearly
• 13:51
  Speaker 1: one thousand dollars a day, imprisoned, and deported. You will
• 13:55
  Speaker 1: never return. But if you register using our CBP home
• 13:59
  Speaker 1: app and lee now, you could be allowed to return legally.
• 14:03
  Speaker 1: Do what's right. Leave now. Under President Trump America's laws,
• 14:08
  Speaker 1: border and families.
• 14:09
  Speaker 2: Will be protected. Sponsored by the United States Department of
• 14:12
  Speaker 2: Homeland Security,