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Learn How To Create Authentic Meaningful Impact That Resonates With your People With Jedidiah McCampbell · Speak In Flow

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  Melinda Lee: I'm trying to be different. I just was looking at
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  like, what am I different about, you know, between the are
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  Toastmasters? What is different?
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  JEDIDIAH McCampbell: Well, no, it is it's very different.
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  Because Toastmasters, it was so focused on the mechanics of
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  speaking. Well.
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  Melinda Lee: And what do you mean by that?
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  Unknown: Well, it's like counting the counter the oz
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  provided that kind of level of feedback. And you'd rather try
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  to get into some of that deeper level, presence. But I think
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  some of the focusing on the mechanics of it can can
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  actually, you know, if you focus on the bad, you get more of it.
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  It's like it almost it almost worsens the problem in some
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  regards. Yeah. It makes you more aware of it. And then and then
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  you get all subconscious and, and you start stumbling more.
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  Yeah, versus focusing in on the heart, and the passion and just
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  coming from that and being present in the moment with, with
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  the environment with the people with who you are. And being okay
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  with who you are. accepting who you are. brings so much freedom
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  to the speaking that it just comes naturally.
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  Yeah. Yeah,
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  that's the difference. That's what I think. I love this
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  process with you is accomplishing
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  Melinda Lee: nothing. It's so funny, because I was debating
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  yesterday, whether I wanted to start using AI, there's an AI
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  tool out there called usually, who were you, I could put my
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  clients in there, and they can start to see their speech, and
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  then usually will count the followers and then the, then
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  that what happens is, then it puts them back into a place of
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  did I not do it? Right? When actually you did like, it's
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  interesting, because when you put a height, yeah, you put a
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  shine a light on it, then it brings it out more. So I've been
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  thinking about? I don't know, it's an interesting tool,
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  because, because but then maybe I use it at a certain time, I
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  think when people are because like you said, when they're
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  super connected to who they are, and their internal dial their
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  internal strength or internal competence, all the eyes on the
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  filler words just naturally go. So I want to bring them into
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  that once they've already connected to it longer deeper
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  for a while, and then they'll be
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  Unknown: decks like Toastmasters is kind of like your first
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  thing. First
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  Melinda Lee: thing. Yeah, it
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  Unknown: should be like the last thing. The last thing. Okay,
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  perfect. Okay, proceed on the mechanics of the last thing.
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  Well, yeah, it's kind of the last thing once you've become in
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  tune with yourself. And can speak from that. Yeah, I think
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  is more powerful. That's what I'm experiencing. And, you know,
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  I wasn't sure what this was gonna be like, but this is
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  definitely better.
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  Melinda Lee: Oh, yeah. It's like, what is happening? What is
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  what are we do you know, just kept with me? Of course, right?
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  You go into any type of programme, you're not sure
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  what's happening. But you went with your gut, you went with
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  your intuition you trust, you know, we had a connection and
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  our first call, and you're like, hey, let's just try this. And so
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  that's courageousness for you. And I really appreciated that
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  you took that step, right? Because not everybody will trust
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  it. You know, they're, they're guarded, they've got a lot of,
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  you know, difficult. They went in made difficult decisions and
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  tough decisions that didn't go well, they thought it was gonna
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  go well, and it didn't. And so I'm glad that you just took the
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  leap of faith anyways. And so you're now able to experience
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  what it feels like to get connected back to feeling what
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  it feels like the flow to be in the moment and be with the
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  audience speak from your heart. And, and then all of this
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  inspiration started coming out. This is what I was here to do.
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  Yeah, right. So true.
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  Unknown: And it awakens inspiration that I've had since
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  I was a teenager, speak and inspire audiences to greatness,
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  and I love that. And so.
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  Melinda Lee: Oh, my gosh, it was so fun to see you. So fun to see
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  you. It was awesome. It was great. It was just yeah, you're
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  in your moment you were in I would feel your words. I can
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  feel your passion. Yeah, when you're speaking and that's what
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  people that's why when you're counting the odds and the other
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  the filler words. You're not feeling you don't feel it.
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  You're just so focused on am I saying the right thing?
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  Unknown: Yeah, yeah. Yeah. And, and so I think I think there's a
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  place for Toastmasters. I think there's a place for that. Yeah.
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  Are the things like that? You know? But it comes after. After
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  that. depths
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  Melinda Lee: the depths when you can go deep inward first. Yeah.
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  And connect to that part of us again, that needs to be
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  reawakened
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  Unknown: again. Yes. Yeah. This is really close to a lot of
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  coaching level work that I've done. Yeah. It's in that realm
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  that I think it's really powerful to coach through into
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  the depth of, of who we are, and knowing who we are becoming
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  comfortable with who we are loving who we are, and accepting
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  that and then from that we can pour into others in such a
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  deeper way. Right. And so that's more valuable. Right? And more
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  impactful than the mechanics of speaking well,
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  Melinda Lee: right. Right. When we can pour into others. That's
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  when they feel that connection. Yeah, that's when you become a
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  really great filler words.
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  Unknown: Sure. But yeah, you could still have a great
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  connection with filler words. Totally, totally 100% massive
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  impact with some filler words with some filler words.
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  Melinda Lee: Totally. 1,000% It's just about who you're being
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  and that connection first. Right so. Oh, my gosh, that makes me
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  so happy. I was really thinking about it a lot. You