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Pregnant Woman Stabs Boyfriend To Death Over Who Would Use The Microwave First · The Breakfast Club

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  Speaker 1: Charlot Maine say the gang, don't get out the shape man,
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  Speaker 1: you are a donkey today does not discriminate. I might
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  Speaker 1: not have the song of today, but I got the
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  Speaker 1: donkey that a donkey man the breakfast club bitch. Please
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  Speaker 1: don't keep today today well and Sharon or today's donkey
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  Speaker 1: that day is very sad. Donkey to day from Monday,
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  Speaker 1: October thirty first goes to thirty three year old Keisha
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  Speaker 1: Golden of Chicago, Illinois, Loot everybody from the shy. This
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  Speaker 1: story saddens me deeply for a number number of reasons,
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  Speaker 1: but it's a teachable moment in this story, and it's
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  Speaker 1: a simple lesson stop trying to make toxic relationships work.
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  Speaker 1: Whenever I see these articles that have headlines like ten
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  Speaker 1: necessary steps to fix a toxic relationship, I don't pay
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  Speaker 1: attention to any of those. Okay, the ones I pay
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  Speaker 1: attention to are ten steps to end a toxic relationship.
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  Speaker 1: Are ten steps on how to stop being in a
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  Speaker 1: toxic relationship. Because the reality is, toxic relationships do not
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  Speaker 1: end well. And this leads me to the story I'm
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  Speaker 1: about to tell you today. Keisha Golden, thirty three years old,
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  Speaker 1: her boyfriend and multiple family members at the house kicking
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  Speaker 1: it on a Sunday, and they began to argue over
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  Speaker 1: the microwave. Okay, listen to what I just said. They
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  Speaker 1: started to argue over the microwave, and Keisha knocked the
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  Speaker 1: plate out her boyfriend's hands. Now, let me tell you something.
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  Speaker 1: When you get to the point where y'are arguing over
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  Speaker 1: something as simple as microwave us, it's time to move on. Okay.
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  Speaker 1: Next thing, you know, you're gonna start hating the way
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  Speaker 1: the person choose. You're gonna start hating the way the
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  Speaker 1: person breathes. Everything about the person is gonna start pissing
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  Speaker 1: you off. And that's what this situation sounds like to me.
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  Speaker 1: It's not the microwaves microwave us that piss Keisha offers
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  Speaker 1: everything that has been going on in their life previously
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  Speaker 1: that I'm sure culminated into this microwave moment. Trust me,
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  Speaker 1: whatever has been happening with these two was brewing and
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  Speaker 1: baking for a while, and this microwave moment was the
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  Speaker 1: final stand because after Keisha knocked the plate out of
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  Speaker 1: her boyfriend's hand, her boyfriend grabbed her and pushed her
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  Speaker 1: down against the counter. Her uncle intervened, stepped between them,
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  Speaker 1: broke them up, and then Keisha's boyfriend went to their
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  Speaker 1: bedroom and a Keisha allegedly continued to argue with him
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  Speaker 1: before grabbing a knife. A family member tried to separate them,
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  Speaker 1: but Keisha allegedly reached around them and stabbed her boyfriend
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  Speaker 1: in the thigh. Golden's boyfriend, who has not been identified,
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  Speaker 1: was taken to a hospital with a severed artery and died.
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  Speaker 1: Now there's a lot of nuance to this story. Number one,
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  Speaker 1: She's eight months pregnant with her boyfriend's child. I'm sure
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  Speaker 1: emotions were through the roof, hormones off, all types of
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  Speaker 1: things going on. Not making excuses of justifying anything she did,
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  Speaker 1: just giving some nuance and remember what I say, you
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  Speaker 1: just don't get to the point of arguing over microwave
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  Speaker 1: use and not leading to a murder. Okay. Prosecutor said
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  Speaker 1: Keisha had no criminal history, but since June between her
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  Speaker 1: and her boyfriend and they have filed five domestic violence
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  Speaker 1: reports with police. Five and for the incidents, Golden accused
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  Speaker 1: her boyfriend of physical violence, including shoking, slapping, or punching her,
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  Speaker 1: and a report made in August with police. Her boyfriend
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  Speaker 1: accused her of stabbing him in the neck. He was hospitalized,
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  Speaker 1: but he didn't press charges. Let me tell you something, man,
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  Speaker 1: we live in a society that really, really really loves
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  Speaker 1: playing crashes. We see it all the time. Nobody wants
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  Speaker 1: to truly help anyone. In fact, instead of getting people
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  Speaker 1: help when we see they needed, we pull out our
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  Speaker 1: phones and record the dysfunction. And then when situations like
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  Speaker 1: this happened, everyone act shocked in surprise and can't believe it,
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  Speaker 1: as if all the signs weren't right there in your face.
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  Speaker 1: These two individuals had no business together, which is why
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  Speaker 1: I told you I don't read articles that tell you
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  Speaker 1: how to fix a toxic relationship. There's no fixing a
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  Speaker 1: toxic relationship. Okay, it's just a trauma bond until both
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  Speaker 1: individuals decide to go fix themselves individually. Okay, do some
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  Speaker 1: work on themselves individually. Okay. Two healed people are two
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  Speaker 1: people on a healing journey can have a healthy relationship
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  Speaker 1: to unhealed people can't do anything but hurt each other. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: So how do you endo toxic relationship carefully? And I'm
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  Speaker 1: not no relationship expert, but I do know that, at
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  Speaker 1: least for me, the number one way to end the
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  Speaker 1: toxic relationship is to stop being in denial about the relationship.
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  Speaker 1: That's the first step to solving any problem. Deal with it,
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  Speaker 1: head up with truth. Stop lying to yourself. Okay, listen
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  Speaker 1: to Eve. Love is blind one hundred times until you
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  Speaker 1: realize that what you think is love is truly not.
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  Speaker 1: You need to elevate and find Okay, what you have
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  Speaker 1: to go from. You know, you have to go from
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  Speaker 1: the now to acceptance. Okay. Once you accept you are
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  Speaker 1: someplace you don't need to be, then you can work
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  Speaker 1: on leaving. And that's all I got. Okay, the rest
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  Speaker 1: you got to talk to an expert about. We'll talk
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  Speaker 1: to your therapist or something. But I am really tired
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  Speaker 1: of us just standing around watching this function and tell
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  Speaker 1: us too late. Now, this woman who is eight months
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  Speaker 1: pregnant is in jail with a two million dollar bail,
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  Speaker 1: and a man is dead for no other reason than
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  Speaker 1: nobody intervened to say, Hey, enough is enough. Please give
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  Speaker 1: Keysha Golden of Chicago your biggest see hall tragic man terrible.
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  Speaker 1: All right, well, thank you for that donkey today, Yes, indeed,
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  Speaker 1: now let's open up the phone lines. Eight hundred five
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  Speaker 1: eight five one oh five one. Let's talk about smelling tart,
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  Speaker 1: smelling ripe, musty must your musty ass, boy, you sent
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  Speaker 1: your little musty ass down somewhere now. Now do you
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  Speaker 1: remember a time where you smell musty funky and somebody
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  Speaker 1: picked it up? Or you just felt embarrassed? Eight hundred
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  Speaker 1: five eight five one oh five one. I have one
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  Speaker 1: you stink right now? No I don't. I got one too,
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  Speaker 1: but I ain't telling it. But just no, having a
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  Speaker 1: black wife will save your stink ass life. Okay, dropping
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  Speaker 1: a clue, mom from my wife telling you stink. So
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  Speaker 1: the last fifty cet interview, I ran out the house
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  Speaker 1: and I didn't put the odor in on. And I'm
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  Speaker 1: a sweater. When I say I'm a sweater, I sweat
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  Speaker 1: like I sweat when I sleep, I sweat. I sweat.
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  Speaker 1: And I remember doing that interview, and I remember smelling myself.
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  Speaker 1: I didn't even want to take a picture with y'all
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  Speaker 1: because I stunk so bad like Iran. So that day
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  Speaker 1: I told you stunk. That was the truth. I mean,
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  Speaker 1: I tell you stink all the time, just because you
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  Speaker 1: like I feel like there's been several instances where envy sting.
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  Speaker 1: He definitely has. I agree with you. No, that's not true.
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  Speaker 1: Yes they have. We actually had a meeting about it.
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  Speaker 1: Musty is one thing. But boy, when somebody tell you
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  Speaker 1: you're ass, think you know what people say and you're
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  Speaker 1: not in the room. I don't talk behind people back
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  Speaker 1: like that. If you stink, I'm gonna tell you in
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  Speaker 1: some way. You actually had to do an intervention one time.
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  Speaker 1: But who somebody here? Well we had an intern. Hey,
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  Speaker 1: how did not do that? Though? Let's not do that.
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  Speaker 1: Let's not do that. See you talk to that any much? Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: you go too far. People used to make Joe's they'd
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  Speaker 1: be like, you smell me and then not me. I
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  Speaker 1: an't no Jo, I don't mean no. Joe is honest.
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  Speaker 1: I tell who you're all talking about. Who you're talking about? Oh,
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  Speaker 1: you're that's someone else? Oh I told you talking about
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  Speaker 1: about when I was a serious Like he said, said,
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  Speaker 1: y'all are talking about a different person. Y'all know if
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  Speaker 1: he was involved in that one? Did me? And you? Yeah?
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  Speaker 1: You you told him, Yeah we did, But y'all talked
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  Speaker 1: about it first before you told them. No, no, no no, no, no,
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  Speaker 1: I told him soon. As as soon as it hit
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  Speaker 1: my nostrils, I thought, but you know what, he was
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  Speaker 1: working too hard. It was it was, it was, it
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  Speaker 1: was something going on around that whole time. And yes,
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  Speaker 1: we all had to be here for like days. Yes
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  Speaker 1: it was a natural disaster. Yes, so no one else stunk.
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  Speaker 1: But this person. Yes, yes, who laughing? That's Taylor. Tell
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  Speaker 1: you better not laugh, Taylor, you better shut up. Oh
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  Speaker 1: eight hundred five eight five one on five one. Let's
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  Speaker 1: us have much musty stories. It's the Breakfast club Boy.