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New-Dirty Little Secret: . “The Ex He Let Go to Get Engaged And Why She’s Not Buying His Fairytale” · Billy The Kidd In The Morning

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  Speaker 1: Get it off your chest to promise you'll feel better.
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  Speaker 2: Welcome to the Dirty Little Secret.
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  Speaker 3: I've been excited to talk about this because it's just
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  Speaker 3: been a soap opera ever since last week where this
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  Speaker 3: guy originally called in for a dirty little secret.
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  Speaker 2: And just in case you.
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  Speaker 3: Don't know, his secret was that his ex girlfriend had
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  Speaker 3: reached out who struggled with alcohol and she sobered up
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  Speaker 3: and she wants him back, even though he was in
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  Speaker 3: a relationship for nine months and he was currently in
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  Speaker 3: a relationship.
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  Speaker 2: As he called, calls us back.
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  Speaker 3: The next day, he breaks it off with his girlfriend,
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  Speaker 3: literally dumps her the next day because he felt bad
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  Speaker 3: that he wanted to meet up with his ex and talks.
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  Speaker 2: So he just broke things off, you know.
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  Speaker 3: And he was telling us, yeah, I just wanted to
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  Speaker 3: do it right away because she was getting ready, you know,
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  Speaker 3: to want me to move in with her.
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  Speaker 2: And it was a whole thing, and it was a lot.
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  Speaker 3: Then he proposes to the ex, his ex of five years,
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  Speaker 3: on Friday morning on the show, right before Valentine's Day,
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  Speaker 3: and oh, it was a whole thing. So and she
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  Speaker 3: said yeah, and everything's good, right, And I'm like, you know,
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  Speaker 3: that day that Friday where he proposed. The ex that
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  Speaker 3: he just broke up with reached out to me, and
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  Speaker 3: I didn't put her on that day.
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  Speaker 2: I didn't tell us, I didn't tell you.
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  Speaker 3: I didn't even mention it because I just, well, it
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  Speaker 3: might be messed up.
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  Speaker 2: But I knew you would try to get me to.
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  Speaker 3: Put her on that day, and I didn't want to
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  Speaker 3: put her on that day because I just didn't want
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  Speaker 3: to mess things up with the proposal.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I get it, and I'm like, maybe.
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  Speaker 3: I'm just too romantic, But at the end of the day,
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  Speaker 3: this is like someone's they just got engaged. Yeah, I
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  Speaker 3: don't want to make and it was sweet, so either way,
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  Speaker 3: I was like, Okay, well let me just figure this out.
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  Speaker 2: Then she couldn't go on then she had to work.
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  Speaker 2: So here we are.
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  Speaker 3: She is on the phone, and I've been so excited
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  Speaker 3: to talk to you and also worried because I mean,
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  Speaker 3: you get broken up with right before you know, Valentine's Day.
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  Speaker 3: It's like, are you okay?
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  Speaker 1: You know what? I am fine? If anything, I'm laughing
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  Speaker 1: about all this because it's just it's all so absurd.
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  Speaker 2: What do you know what this is? What do you
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  Speaker 2: mean absurd?
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  Speaker 1: So he thinks I'm so devastated. He thinks that my
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  Speaker 1: life is going to be so hard without him, But
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  Speaker 1: that is not even how it was. Uh, he thinks
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  Speaker 1: that he dumped me. That really that's what needed to happen.
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  Speaker 1: We were never going to really move in together. It
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  Speaker 1: was never going to be something serious. You know, he's
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  Speaker 1: not a trouble guy, but he just he's fun this
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  Speaker 1: differently than than reality. It's not what he's trying to
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  Speaker 1: make everybody think. It is some big, sweet romantic thing.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, because so that's what I'm curious about, because he
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  Speaker 3: did he didn't say a bad thing about you. He
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  Speaker 3: was very nice. He said you were great, but he
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  Speaker 3: just didn't want to be deceitful and meet with his
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  Speaker 3: X behind your back. But he sounded like you were
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  Speaker 3: devastating and you were just so upset because you planned
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  Speaker 3: on moving together, moving together and all that stuff. So
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  Speaker 3: that's not the case.
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  Speaker 1: That's believe that. I don't believe that was ever going
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  Speaker 1: to happen. And I'm like, I'm glad to hear he
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  Speaker 1: was talking nice about me. That shows a lot of
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  Speaker 1: integrity and I appreciate that, and I don't mean to
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  Speaker 1: bad mouth him. But to tell you the truth, this
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  Speaker 1: isn't not the first time that his ex has gotten
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  Speaker 1: sober quote unquote, and probably it's more like the third.
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  Speaker 1: So oh he've got an idea like, oh, she got
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  Speaker 1: better and now we can be together and our love
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  Speaker 1: is eternal and blah blah blah. But no, she's crazy.
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  Speaker 1: This woman has like a bunch of UIs. She keeps
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  Speaker 1: pretending to get sober or actually maybe she is. I mean,
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  Speaker 1: I'm not trying to like crash her her journey or
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  Speaker 1: old her, but it's not sticking. So the fact that
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  Speaker 1: she says that she's sober now does not mean that
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  Speaker 1: she won't be relapsing as you know, a few months
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  Speaker 1: into their marriage and doing all the crazy stuff she
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  Speaker 1: she always used to do. Him, why did about couple? Prickly?
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  Speaker 3: Okay, so you're painting a different picture than he made
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  Speaker 3: it sound like. He made it sound like, listen, she
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  Speaker 3: had an issue, she got sober. Yeah, I can't believe this.
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  Speaker 3: This is what I mean. Yeah, like he's been waiting
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  Speaker 3: for months for her to actually, you know, get sober
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  Speaker 3: and be healthier.
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  Speaker 2: Like even using his words, he was like, this is
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  Speaker 2: what I prayed for. This is what I prayed for.
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  Speaker 2: But this is not the first time it's happened. It
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  Speaker 2: sounds like which, so.
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  Speaker 1: You can.
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  Speaker 2: Really oh my god.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, because because he's trying to make it look like
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  Speaker 1: a like a round com or like the notebook or
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  Speaker 1: something like, oh, this amazing love story. But he knows
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  Speaker 1: that she's gotten sober before and now she's not. I
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  Speaker 1: think he's just trying of to like get attention over this.
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  Speaker 2: Well, do you think this is going to last?
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  Speaker 1: Oh no, nah, nope, I would that all of my money.
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  Speaker 1: This is not going to last. They probably won't even
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  Speaker 1: make it down the aisle.
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  Speaker 3: You.
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  Speaker 1: I wish them luck, But honestly, he is she's deceiving him,
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  Speaker 1: and he's deceiving himself. She's far too crazy for this
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  Speaker 1: to actually work, no way.
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  Speaker 3: And like you said, I'm not making fun of her journey,
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  Speaker 3: her sobriety journey at all.
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  Speaker 1: Oh No, it's not that. It's just that they're not
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  Speaker 1: being honest with themselves and they're trying to make it
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  Speaker 1: seem like, oh, it's a dream come true and it's
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  Speaker 1: so perfect, Like no, this happened before, and it happened before,
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  Speaker 1: and every time you're like, oh, finally my love story.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah see I didn't know that.
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  Speaker 3: Now if he keeps having it over and over again,
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  Speaker 3: that's crazy, right because he made it sound like this
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  Speaker 3: has never happened again, and I can't believe this is happening.
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  Speaker 1: So yeow, when she is not sober, she is crazy,
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  Speaker 1: she's aggressive, she is like not a safe person to
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  Speaker 1: be around. So I think he's getting himself into something
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  Speaker 1: that I don't know. I'm not sure what his motive is,
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  Speaker 1: but it's it's not how he made it sound.
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  Speaker 3: Well, this is you know, I don't want to say
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  Speaker 3: this sound this makes me feel better, but I was.
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  Speaker 3: I thought about you a lot over the past like
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  Speaker 3: week because I felt so everybody felt so bad because
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  Speaker 3: they were like this blinded, you hit blindsided, you get dumped.
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  Speaker 3: It's Valentine's Day weekend coming up the time, so you
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  Speaker 3: were going to have to spend Valentine's alone. We just
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  Speaker 3: felt there was a lot of people who kept about you.
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  Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, Well, you know what, that is really
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  Speaker 1: sweet that I'm I'm good, And you know, that's a
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  Speaker 1: whole nother piece of it, because I'm sure he's listening
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  Speaker 1: right now for him and for anyone else who's doing like,
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  Speaker 1: trust me, I did not sit at home over Valentine's
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  Speaker 1: and cry and watch the clicks and stuff my face.
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  Speaker 1: I scream. He's just he's an overly emotional person, he's
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  Speaker 1: overly sensitive, so he's putting that on me. I mean,
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  Speaker 1: he's the guy that what called called the radio station
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  Speaker 1: and proposed on the air. That's clearly his personality, not mine.
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  Speaker 1: And this woman, by the way, who's posts on the
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  Speaker 1: air is the woman who ruined his life last time
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  Speaker 1: we talked, and then ruined his life the time before that,
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  Speaker 1: because he keeps convincing him that it's going to be
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  Speaker 1: different at time. So I'm sorry, but oh I don't
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  Speaker 1: need I don't need part of that drama.
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  Speaker 2: So you don't think this was going to last either way,
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  Speaker 2: whether she was in the picture or not.
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  Speaker 1: I don't really think. So, you know, some more of
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  Speaker 1: his sort of melodramatic personality has been coming out, and
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  Speaker 1: I did not see this going much further than it
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  Speaker 1: it already.
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  Speaker 3: Had everything works out for a reason, it sounds like
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  Speaker 3: you're better off. You're definitely not upset like I thought
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  Speaker 3: you were going to be.
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  Speaker 2: So that's not going to be just fine.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, would you have any message for them? If if there,
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  Speaker 3: because I know he's listening. She might be listening as well.
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  Speaker 3: Will you attend their wedding? Oh oh maybe not fine,
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  Speaker 3: but you have a message for them or any kind
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  Speaker 3: of last words that you'd want them to hear.
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  Speaker 1: So truthfully, I wish them the best, I really do.
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  Speaker 1: I hope that this is the time for them. But
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  Speaker 1: my words would be to open your eyes, like you
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  Speaker 1: you would see that this happened before, and you would
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  Speaker 1: see where this ended every other time. To just just
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  Speaker 1: open your eyes to that and remember, I think.
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  Speaker 3: What if me just throw this out there because I'm
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  Speaker 3: a big what if God can states when I do?
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  Speaker 3: Oh God, what if in two three months he says,
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  Speaker 3: you know what I messed Uh, she wasn't the one.
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  Speaker 3: You were actually the one. And he calls you back
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  Speaker 3: and he's like, can we move in together? Can we
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  Speaker 3: try to pick it up where we left off?
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  Speaker 1: No, that's like it's so messy. It's like he's on
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  Speaker 1: this merry go round and like every time he comes
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  Speaker 1: around to the starting point, he's like, oh, something new,
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  Speaker 1: Like oh, I can I can try this again? He
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  Speaker 1: came to me and whatever you got off the crazy train.
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  Speaker 1: And now sorry, I'm done and he's not.
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  Speaker 3: Like you said, he's not a bad guy. But well,
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  Speaker 3: good luck with everything. Now one more what if?
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  Speaker 2: What if? He says, Now, I'm just kidding. I'm kidding.
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  Speaker 3: Well, good luck with good She sounds happy. I hope
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  Speaker 3: you find true love and this worked out. It sounds
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  Speaker 3: like the way it should have. So thanks for calling it.
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  Speaker 3: I'm glad you did. And yeah, good luck with everything.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, thank you, Yeah, thank you so much.
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  Speaker 2: There you don't I mean, she sounds completely same. Oh yeah,
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  Speaker 2: she sounds And I'm not saying I believe all that.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, I do too. It's hard.
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  Speaker 3: I'm not I'm done with the story though, I'm not
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  Speaker 3: the guys nice guy.
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  Speaker 2: I hope they're happy. I hope it works out. I'm
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  Speaker 2: not good. I'm not for the best for on both sides.
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  Speaker 3: I think right it obviously wasn't going to work out,
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  Speaker 3: so hopefully they realized the toxic patterns and they fix it.
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  Speaker 2: But wow, I'm so glad she called in