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Dirty Little Secret: I Had An Affair With My Students Father! · Billy The Kidd In The Morning

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  Speaker 1: Little Secrets mixed one or two point nine Happy Friday.
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  Speaker 1: It's Bailey the Kid. Candislope is a freshly waxed producer. Pooh,
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  Speaker 1: it's over here. Kind of wax.
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  Speaker 2: We waxed his chest, but it didn't really work that well,
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  Speaker 2: so it's kind of spotty. All kind of blends in.
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  Speaker 2: You can't even really tell. So you might have lucked
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  Speaker 2: down on that one. Pooh, it still hurts all good.
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  Speaker 2: And by the way, half Sea Hannah's added again over here.
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  Speaker 2: Canda Slopez went into the breakroom and cut half of
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  Speaker 2: a donut off and left the other half in one
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  Speaker 2: of my biggest pet peeves ever.
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  Speaker 1: I went back for it. Oh you ate both? Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: both halves.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I did good, And so a lot of half
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  Speaker 2: right here if you want it.
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  Speaker 1: No, I don't.
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  Speaker 2: A lot of people online are talking about this because
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  Speaker 2: we posted a video about it, and there's so so
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  Speaker 2: many comments about whether this is rude or not to
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  Speaker 2: cut a donut in half and take one half and
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  Speaker 2: leave the other in the breakroom, And a lot of
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  Speaker 2: people agree with me, that's rude and kind of gross
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  Speaker 2: because you just don't know how that person cut it right,
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  Speaker 2: Like I assume that people are nasty. Yeah you should,
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  Speaker 2: but I'm not, and I'm I didn't cut it in
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  Speaker 2: a nasty I know. But if I didn't see you
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  Speaker 2: cut it, I don't trust that. You know, somebody just
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  Speaker 2: grabbed it with their bare hands, broken in half, I know,
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  Speaker 2: and then left you out there.
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  Speaker 1: Who will I know?
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  Speaker 2: And that's why I don't eat those crusty half donuts.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I hear you. I just leave them in there
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  Speaker 1: either way. Yeah. How many donuts have you had over there?
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  Speaker 1: One and a half? Good for you, Candice, Yeah, that's
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  Speaker 1: Friday whatever. I know. I love that you made a
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  Speaker 1: seaweed soup. I know how I'm about to be donuts
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  Speaker 1: delivered and then just chow down on a couple donuts. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: it's cool.
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  Speaker 2: Good for you. You should enjoy yourself every once in
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  Speaker 2: a while, all right. If you have a secret eight
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  Speaker 2: three three seven eight seven one two nine, whatever your
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  Speaker 2: secret is, maybe it's that you cut the donuts in
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  Speaker 2: the half in the break room at work, whatever the
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  Speaker 2: case may be.
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  Speaker 1: You have one, and it's uh, it's a good one.
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  Speaker 3: Well, it's messy and it's not something I'm proud of.
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  Speaker 3: But I have kind of a dilemma now, So I've
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  Speaker 3: been married for a long time, and a few years
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  Speaker 3: ago I had an affair. And I need to stay anonymous, obviously,
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  Speaker 3: but I can honestly tell you that it's the biggest
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  Speaker 3: regret of my life. My husband found out and I
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  Speaker 3: came clean. I didn't deny it, I owned what I did,
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  Speaker 3: and I kind of thought at one point that our
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  Speaker 3: marriage was over, but somehow he agreed to try. And
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  Speaker 3: you know, I have no excuses. I was pretty disgusted
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  Speaker 3: with myself, but he agreed to try, and we spent
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  Speaker 3: a long time in counseling and there were many, you know,
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  Speaker 3: tears and hard conversations, and we rebuilt and we both
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  Speaker 3: had things we needed to work on, like he was
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  Speaker 3: not the best husband back then, and I was not
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  Speaker 3: the best wife, Like I wasn't the person that he
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  Speaker 3: deserved either. We both turned to God and worked on
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  Speaker 3: ourselves and we rebuilt something and now it's stronger.
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  Speaker 1: Than ever, which amazing.
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  Speaker 2: That's great, Yeah, because that's not easy to do, and
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  Speaker 2: a lot of people don't make it. So I don't
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  Speaker 2: judge people who get back together after some like this.
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  Speaker 2: So you worked it out.
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  Speaker 3: We did, Like I never knew if we would make
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  Speaker 3: it here, but we've been doing well for a while now,
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  Speaker 3: and now there's this kind of like fly in the
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  Speaker 3: ointment doesn't really cover it. So I'm a teacher and
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  Speaker 3: I recently found out that the man that I had
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  Speaker 3: the affair with his daughter is going to be at
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  Speaker 3: my school. And I had not spoken to him since
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  Speaker 3: things blew up years ago, and from what I understand,
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  Speaker 3: he and his wife also stayed together and work things out,
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  Speaker 3: and I've never spoken to his wife as far as
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  Speaker 3: I know. His daughter has no idea. I hope she
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  Speaker 3: has no help, you know, But just knowing they'll be
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  Speaker 3: around is kind of making me feel queasy a lot. Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: Like I'm really scared about parent teacher night and school
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  Speaker 3: events and open house, Like I don't even want to
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  Speaker 3: pass them in the hallway. And so there's a part
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  Speaker 3: of me that has thought like should I tell the
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  Speaker 3: school administration in case things get awkward or weird? But
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  Speaker 3: then like, why would I blow my life up? And
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  Speaker 3: that's not their business and we all moved on and
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  Speaker 3: I don't want anyone to look at me differently. And
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  Speaker 3: I'm going to tell my husband about this, but I
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  Speaker 3: haven't yet that the daughter will be at my school,
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  Speaker 3: like he needs to hear it from me before he
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  Speaker 3: finds out somewhere else. But I'm just I'm just scared
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  Speaker 3: of blowing our lives up. I'm scared of bringing all
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  Speaker 3: that hurt back. And I know that I made this
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  Speaker 3: mess and I have to live with it. But I
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  Speaker 3: am not sure how to proceed when, like I'm have
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  Speaker 3: to deal with them being.
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  Speaker 2: Right, and I get how it would make your stomach turn.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know if you have to tell administration. That's
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  Speaker 2: a good point. I mean, I guess you could get
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  Speaker 2: ahead of it. But you're right, that's like it didn't
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  Speaker 2: happen on in school time. You know, it wasn't like
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  Speaker 2: it was with another teacher, right can't you just have
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  Speaker 2: family history that makes it, you know, uncomfortable for you
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  Speaker 2: to teach her? Are you obligated in Oh, you don't
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  Speaker 2: have to. She's not in like a specific class of
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  Speaker 2: yours though. She just goes to the school.
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  Speaker 3: Right now there?
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  Speaker 1: Okay, Oh, okay.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, that would be then I feel like you'd have
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  Speaker 2: to say something.
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  Speaker 1: If it's not that. I don't know if you have
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  Speaker 1: to say anything.
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  Speaker 2: I don't want everybody in the school know my business
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  Speaker 2: because you know they're gonna look at a certain type
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  Speaker 2: of way.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, the talk of the teacher's lounge, yes there, Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: you know.
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  Speaker 2: I think it's good to talk about this kind of
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  Speaker 2: stuff though, because I'll be honest, I never put any
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  Speaker 2: cheating stuff on the air really because it just gives
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  Speaker 2: me a weird feeling.
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  Speaker 1: This is different, But this is different.
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  Speaker 2: You work through it. You both made your life better,
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  Speaker 2: you stuck together. It feels like there's a happy ending.
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  Speaker 2: You shouldn't let this ruin anything or trigger anything. It's
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  Speaker 2: part of you know, if you properly handle it with
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  Speaker 2: counseling and whatnot, then this should be a bump in
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  Speaker 2: the road and you just keep moving.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, sucks, yeah it thanks for your husband too to.
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  Speaker 3: Have to hear.
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  Speaker 1: And but you know that's going to be a part
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  Speaker 1: of it.
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  Speaker 2: There's things that are going to come up, whether it's
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  Speaker 2: years later, months later, weeks later, where you have to
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  Speaker 2: deal with it.
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  Speaker 1: And I think you're doing it the right way.
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  Speaker 2: You got to tell them, deal with it and move on,
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  Speaker 2: and then I think it'll be okay, thank you, but
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  Speaker 2: good luck and let us.
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  Speaker 1: Let us know.
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  Speaker 2: I would check your policy in your school, like your
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  Speaker 2: handbook or whatever, to see if there's anything that might
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  Speaker 2: pertain to this in a weird way and see if
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  Speaker 2: you're obligated to. If so, then deal with it then,
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  Speaker 2: but maybe double check. But I think I think you're good.
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  Speaker 2: Good luck though, and let us know what happens.
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  Speaker 3: Please, Okay, thank you so much.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, this is why it's just I mean, it's never
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  Speaker 2: worth cheating for a million reasons. Here's another reason. Is
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  Speaker 2: it just never goes away if you move on and
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  Speaker 2: you work through it. There's things that happen and that
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  Speaker 2: come up that make it difficult. And is that like
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  Speaker 2: one moment worth it?
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  Speaker 1: Right?
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  Speaker 2: And the surprise that comes now that she's got to
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  Speaker 2: deal with yah?
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  Speaker 1: Worth tearing your family apart?
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  Speaker 2: Is it worth you know, disappointing your kids, your partner
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  Speaker 2: that you swore that was going to be your only one.
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  Speaker 2: It's just not worth it. Think twice before you do
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  Speaker 2: something stupid.