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Cliff Notes: BE CAREFUL WHO YOU HELP! HOW TO AVOID UNGRATEFUL PEOPLE · Earn Your Leisure

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  Speaker 1: An illegal alien from Guatemala charged with raping a child
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  Speaker 1: in Massachusetts. An MS thirteen gang member from Al Salvador
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  Speaker 1: accused of murdering a Texas man of Venezuelan charged with
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  Speaker 1: filming and selling child pornography in Michigan. These are just
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  Speaker 1: some of the heinous migrant criminals caught because of President
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  Speaker 1: Donald J. Trump's leadership. I'm Christy nom the United States
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  Speaker 1: Secretary of Homeland Security. Under President Trump, attempted illegal border
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  Speaker 1: crossings are at the lowest levels ever recorded, and over
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  Speaker 1: one hundred thousand illegal aliens have been arrested. If you
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  Speaker 1: are here illegally, your next you will be fined nearly
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  Speaker 1: one thousand dollars a day, imprisoned, and deported. You will
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  Speaker 1: never return. But if you register using our CBP home
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  Speaker 1: app and leave now, you could be allowed to return legally.
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  Speaker 1: Do what's right. Leave now. Under President Trump, America's laws,
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  Speaker 1: border and families will.
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  Speaker 2: Be protected sponsored by the United States Department of Homeland Security,
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  Speaker 2: and going to Rashad's point earlier, no one like as
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  Speaker 2: black and brown people, We're not even.
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  Speaker 3: Supposed to have this information. These kind of family secrets
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  Speaker 3: with the public. So do with it as you choose to.
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  Speaker 3: you want to How many of you please put yes
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  Speaker 3: or one thousand stocks last year and marked off the
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  Speaker 3: ideal prices where to get in. It takes work, even
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  Speaker 3: on the holidays when I'm talking to them. Shotty is
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  Speaker 3: like on a treadmill, which you like trout what you're doing,
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  Speaker 2: Through different boards.
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  Speaker 3: I'm like, damn, you got a new land, Sye, Mike,
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  Speaker 3: I need to twelve.
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  Speaker 4: To twenty four millimeter with the scent of lands.
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  Speaker 3: I'm like, damn, you stay on being h how many
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  Speaker 3: how many of you took three weeks off and you're
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  Speaker 3: really just now getting back into the motion. Crying at
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  Speaker 3: this every day there's millions and millions and millions of
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  Speaker 3: dollars able to be able to be made in the
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  Speaker 3: space if you can trade. But I think some people
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  Speaker 3: keep quitting too much. Stop quitting on you if you
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  Speaker 3: want to get the back.
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  Speaker 5: Hopeful helps on the year of you.
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  Speaker 4: The year of you. Yeah, man, like that that is
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  Speaker 4: a fact. Yep, that is a fact. And the great
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  Speaker 4: thing is like, even when I was an advisor, don't
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  Speaker 4: forget like you know, going through like me ands and
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  Speaker 4: stuff when I was learning first couple of years, like training,
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  Speaker 4: and they always say, like, you know, focus on on
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  Speaker 4: high network individuals, like that's what you should focus on,
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  Speaker 4: Like those those are the clients. That's like, you can't
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  Speaker 4: make money with people that aren't high network. That was
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  Speaker 4: a key emphasis of it. And they like really droll
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  Speaker 4: that in your head where it's like you know, everyday
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  Speaker 4: people they're like they could be great people, but our
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  Speaker 4: products are services is not for them, Like it's the
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  Speaker 4: government program literally told me it's government programs things of
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  Speaker 4: that nature that can help people like that. But what
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  Speaker 4: we're talking about, don't focus on that focus behind that
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  Speaker 4: You're gonna waste your time. This is what I'm trying
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  Speaker 4: to explain to you. I'm trying to get you guys
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  Speaker 4: to understand this, Like we we democratize education when it
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  Speaker 4: comes to financial literacy, don't. Sometimes when you have it's
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  Speaker 4: hard to appreciate things when there's an abundance of it
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  Speaker 4: and there's an abundance of information. And what happens over
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  Speaker 4: the course of time is that you have different phases.
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  Speaker 4: When you first receive the information, it's a euphorious it's
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  Speaker 4: like a relationship. You're in an euphoria stage. Then you become
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  Speaker 4: numb to it, then you actually have some level of
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  Speaker 4: resistance from it. Then there's a certain level of envy.
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  Speaker 4: And this is the thing that's that's the crazy part
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  Speaker 4: about life. It's like when you're helping somebody, right, and
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  Speaker 4: it's like you got to be careful who you help
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  Speaker 4: because it's like when you're helping somebody and they're not
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  Speaker 4: really even worthy of helping them. What happens is that
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  Speaker 4: you give them a hundred dollars, give them a hundred dolls,
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  Speaker 4: you give one hundred dollar. They say thank you, that's
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  Speaker 4: my maink and they you for life, they champion you.
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  Speaker 4: And then it's like at some point there's a switch
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  Speaker 4: that happens and they don't even realize that they shouldn't
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  Speaker 4: even be getting one hundred dollars, and they look at
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  Speaker 4: it like they should get thousands, they should be getting more,
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  Speaker 4: because if you're giving me one hundred, how much money
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  Speaker 4: do you have to even give me a hundred? Right,
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  Speaker 4: So now it's a certain level of entitlement that comes
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  Speaker 4: in when they haven't done a tenth of the work
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  Speaker 4: that you've done. They don't even deserve one hundred dollars.
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  Speaker 4: But now they looking at it like damn, that's like yo, bro,
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  Speaker 4: you can't give me a thousand, Like why not just
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  Speaker 4: give it to me? You got it? Why not? And
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  Speaker 4: then at some point don't work for it. But at
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  Speaker 4: some point there's some level of envy. And then at
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  Speaker 4: some point that envy just costs to spill over and
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  Speaker 4: you're like, bro, like I don't got it. I don't
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  Speaker 4: got no money for you. Now that's me all three?
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  Speaker 3: How many cut you off? If you actually, if anything,
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  Speaker 3: I ain't got it? You robbing from Xander. I won't
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  Speaker 3: let you ride him. I'm sorry, go ahead.
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  Speaker 4: Well it's a dangerous cycle because now at that point,
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  Speaker 4: now they could potentially try to harm you. And now
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  Speaker 4: it's a three to sixty moment where the person that
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  Speaker 4: you actually help went from gratitud to envy. Now is
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  Speaker 4: a certain level of danger. This happens all the time.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, the more you help, the less and less appreciative
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  Speaker 1: An illegal alien from Guatemala charged with raping a child
• 7:09
  Speaker 1: in Massachusetts. An MS thirteen gang member from Al Salvador
• 7:13
  Speaker 1: accused of murdering a Texas. Man of Venezuelan charged with
• 7:18
  Speaker 1: filming and selling child pornography in Michigan. These are just
• 7:22
  Speaker 1: some of the heinous migrant criminals caught because of President
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  Speaker 1: Donald J. Trump's leadership. I'm Christy Noman, the United States
• 7:29
  Speaker 1: Secretary of Homeland Security. Under President Trump, attempted illegal border
• 7:34
  Speaker 1: crossings are at the lowest levels ever recorded, and over
• 7:37
  Speaker 1: one hundred thousand illegal aliens have been arrested. If you
• 7:41
  Speaker 1: are here illegally, your next you will be fined nearly
• 7:45
  Speaker 1: one thousand dollars a day, imprisoned, and deported. You will
• 7:49
  Speaker 1: never return. But if you register using our CBP home
• 7:52
  Speaker 1: app and leave now, you could be allowed to return legally.
• 7:56
  Speaker 1: Do what's right. Leave now. Under President true America's laws,
• 8:01
  Speaker 1: border and families will.
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  Speaker 2: Be protected sponsored by the United States Department of Homeland Security.
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  Speaker 4: Flee in on that type of level, this happens on
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  Speaker 4: social media now. People want to Now, they want to
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  Speaker 4: slander you. Now, they want to say that you don't
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  Speaker 4: know what you're talking about.
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  Speaker 3: Now.
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  Speaker 4: The information that they give is not really that, it's
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  Speaker 4: not really that beneficial. It's basic information, and it's like,
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  Speaker 4: well what you have before.
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  Speaker 3: This big facts I want to see. I mean because
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  Speaker 3: even even when I was talking to somebody yesterday, I'm like,
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  Speaker 3: I never agree with having a handler to handle the business.
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  Speaker 3: They're like, no, you should, it works. You just picked
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  Speaker 3: the wrong person. I'm like, if I made myself financially
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  Speaker 3: free and they're not as a place where I am networthwise,
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  Speaker 3: why I need somebody to handle my business when I
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  Speaker 3: made myself broke then made myself rich seems like common sense. No,
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  Speaker 3: you need to give more, create your own opportunity. Be
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  Speaker 3: grateful twenty twenty three. Even boundaries, Hey, even the red Panda.
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  Speaker 3: I'm gonna give you all the prices, y'all take them,
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  Speaker 3: and red Panda, you don't get a chance to like
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  Speaker 3: message me because you want to date me and all
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  Speaker 3: that you are two at thirty and participity No baby, no, no,
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  Speaker 3: even though you gotta be a certain caliber too. No no,
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  Speaker 3: say no more twenty twenty three. To keep the and
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  Speaker 3: and I tell my friends this all the time and family,
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  Speaker 3: I see why celebrities move the way that they do
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  Speaker 3: and then restrict access because you can give so much
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  Speaker 3: that you can make everyone end up hating you because
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  Speaker 3: they feel like once again you're old more And if
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  Speaker 3: you go broke, they're gonna say I never asked you
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  Speaker 3: to give me that.
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  Speaker 2: That's a fact.
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  Speaker 5: Really, man, your gratitude determines your letter.
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  Speaker 4: Like I always say that the part when you out,
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  Speaker 4: the last thing I said about this, this is this
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  Speaker 4: is just gym for life. When you up, they're gonna
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  Speaker 4: always say, like, Yo, can you help me? Can you
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  Speaker 4: do something for me? You didn't do enough for me
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  Speaker 4: when you down your luck. When you down your luck,
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  Speaker 4: the only thing they gonna say is that's crazy, that's crazy.
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  Speaker 4: Are you gonna tell me story? You're gonna tell you
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  Speaker 4: my whole story about how your car got repossessed and
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  Speaker 4: your kid is hungry. They're gonna listen to it. They're
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  Speaker 4: gonna listen to the whole entire story. They gonna look
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  Speaker 4: you in your eyes. It's one or two things they're
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  Speaker 4: gonna say. They're either gonna say that's crazy, or you're
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  Speaker 4: gonna keep you in prayer and won't pray for you,
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  Speaker 4: won't even pray for you, not gonappen. They'll say that
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  Speaker 4: that's how, that's how crazy. Like these people will say that.
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  Speaker 4: They will say, I'm a pray for you, and they
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  Speaker 4: won't even pray for you. They just say like they
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  Speaker 4: won't even they won't even like your picture, let alone
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  Speaker 4: trying to help you, Like they won't like they won't
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  Speaker 4: even say a prayer for you, bro, Like they'll say
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  Speaker 4: I'm gonna pray for you and won't even pray for you.
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  Speaker 4: These are the type of This is the type of
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  Speaker 4: generation that were a.
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  Speaker 3: Whole even man, Yo, bro, I need five thousand dollars
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  Speaker 3: because I said, you don't even know my mama name. Like,
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  Speaker 3: what you mean you want to repost the market Monday's flyer?
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  Speaker 5: You don't give you five grand yo?
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  Speaker 2: Bro? That that literally.
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  Speaker 5: I had a gentleman called me the other day. You
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  Speaker 5: want to start a business, and you figured, like, Yo,
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  Speaker 5: you're from where I'm from. This makes perfect. And so
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  Speaker 5: I'm like, I don't like the idea. I think it's bad.
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  Speaker 5: How much is it going to cost to get this
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  Speaker 5: business off the ground? Ten million dollars? I said, you
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  Speaker 5: haven't made one hundred thousand in a year, how are
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  Speaker 5: you gonna get ten million? But that's where you come in. Now,
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  Speaker 5: that's not where I come in, Bro, That's actually not
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  Speaker 5: why I come in. This is a person who's never
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  Speaker 5: ever not liked the picture, not reposted a story, nothing,
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  Speaker 5: Just like yo, I know you.
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  Speaker 3: No one wants to hear about you, guys, drum pains.
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  Speaker 3: Remember how wild when you were up and come in
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  Speaker 3: and I remember when you had two thousand followers, I
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  Speaker 3: was financially free. The into might clip that up oppose
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  Speaker 3: from twenty sixteen.
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  Speaker 5: Radue goes the long way. And even at the level
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  Speaker 5: that we're at, man, we still are very gracious with
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  Speaker 5: anybody's time. It doesn't matter who it is, right, So
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  Speaker 5: if somebody invites us to do something, we're on time,
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  Speaker 5: we're punctual, and we're gracious for the opportunity. Man, it
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  Speaker 5: goes a long way. You never know the person you meet,
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  Speaker 5: you know, could change your life. And that we still
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  Speaker 5: live by that, so like gratitude is vitally important. Man,
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  Speaker 5: y'all got to really understand that.
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  Speaker 4: My graduates from my school being force back drop drop
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  Speaker 4: Mike drot bag drop draft.
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  Speaker 1: An illegal alien from Guatemala charged with raping a child
• 12:24
  Speaker 1: in Massachusetts. An MS thirteen gang member from Al Salvador
• 12:28
  Speaker 1: accused of murdering a Texas man of Venezuelan charged with
• 12:32
  Speaker 1: filming and selling child pornography in Michigan. These are just
• 12:36
  Speaker 1: some of the heinous migrant criminals caught because of President
• 12:40
  Speaker 1: Donald J. Trump's leadership. I'm Christy Noman the United States
• 12:44
  Speaker 1: Secretary of Homeland Security. Under President Trump, attempted illegal border
• 12:48
  Speaker 1: crossings are at the lowest levels ever recorded, and over
• 12:52
  Speaker 1: one hundred thousand illegal aliens have been arrested. If you
• 12:55
  Speaker 1: are here illegally, your next you will be fine nearly
• 12:59
  Speaker 1: one third thousand dollars a day, imprisoned, and deported. You
• 13:03
  Speaker 1: will never return. But if you register using our CBP
• 13:07
  Speaker 1: home app and leave now, you could be allowed to
• 13:09
  Speaker 1: return legally. Do what's right, leave now. Under President Trump,
• 13:14
  Speaker 1: America's laws, border and families will be protected.
• 13:18
  Speaker 2: Sponsored by the United States Department of Homeland Security,