Your Personal Code of Honor
A personal code of honor isn't legalism. Legalism is an external standard — a set of rules you're trying to hit, and when you miss, you're a failure. A personal code of honor is different. It's the set of principles you've built into the safe zones of your own life — not because a rule says you have to, but because you've decided what kind of person you want to be. And when you fall short of it, you don't throw it away. You say: I'm not there yet, and you keep going.
Nowhere does a code of honor matter more than in your friendships. Culture is expert at enticing you to cross your own lines…
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