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Scotty and his GF are about to take a huge step.... · Scotty and Abby UNFILTERED

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  Speaker 1: Tampa Bay's best music is Magic. Magic. Magic.
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  Speaker 2: 94.9. Thanks for hanging. Having another episode of Scotty and
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  Speaker 2: Abby unfiltered. And I always appreciate when I go through
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  Speaker 2: the episodes and I'm starting to see your comments just
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  Speaker 2: pile on. And one of the things that we mentioned
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  Speaker 2: a few episodes ago was because of Miranda, like the
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  Speaker 2: alcohol we can no longer drink. Yeah. The one that
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  Speaker 2: hurts the most. And we put it in the comments
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  Speaker 2: of like, what are some of the ones that you
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  Speaker 2: all can't drink anymore? And the memories that got brought
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  Speaker 2: up for me just reading some of the comments are
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  Speaker 2: What was the first drink that you ever tried, Abby?
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  Speaker 3: I think it was like a white wine from Publix,
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  Speaker 3: like a cupcake wine.
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  Speaker 2: That sounds like a much more responsible thing than I
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  Speaker 2: did as a teenager. Some of these comments I see,
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  Speaker 2: what is this? Crushinggirl101 says, Four Locos.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, my God.
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  Speaker 3: Those were banned by the time I went to college.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, I think they were still around, but they
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  Speaker 3: didn't have the caffeine in them.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, my gosh. I mean, these things, it's like death
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  Speaker 2: in a can. The truth is, like, as a teenager,
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  Speaker 2: we would have those. We had somebody, like, that would
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  Speaker 2: get them for us. And so one of the first
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  Speaker 2: things I remember ingesting was a Four Loco at, like,
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  Speaker 2: 14 years old.
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  Speaker 1: Oh my God.
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  Speaker 2: Absolutely horrible.
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  Speaker 1: I was still drinking juice boxes.
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  Speaker 2: I wish I was too, but I was a dumb
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  Speaker 2: kid that thought, I literally thought everybody else was doing it.
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  Speaker 2: So I was like, okay, we'll do it too. And
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  Speaker 2: I remember like taking one down and probably the most
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  Speaker 2: messed up I've ever been. Was from a four loco.
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  Speaker 3: I know that's what there's a reason why they're discontinued now.
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  Speaker 2: It's crazy that those things were even on the shelves
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  Speaker 2: for as long as they were. And I just I
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  Speaker 2: couldn't imagine being in college, having those accessible, especially like
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  Speaker 2: you're like, oh, I'm in college. I could turn up.
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  Speaker 2: Let me take what was the game that they used
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  Speaker 2: to play back in college, like Edward Scissorhands, where you
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  Speaker 2: like tape the drinks to your hands and you have
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  Speaker 2: to finish both. This is something the guys did in
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  Speaker 2: the fraternity. Yeah. But having two, four locals, you got
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  Speaker 2: to drink in a party. I'd be in a coma,
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  Speaker 2: like just completely taken out.
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  Speaker 3: I know.
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  Speaker 1: It's terrifying.
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  Speaker 2: A lot of the other comments were popping in. Bacardi
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  Speaker 2: is absolutely disgusting to me, Angie says. And also, oh,
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  Speaker 2: my God. Did you ever do the icing, like getting iced? Oh, yeah, yeah.
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  Speaker 3: I've only done it once because I just thought they
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  Speaker 3: were kind of gross, if I'm honest with you.
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  Speaker 1: They're like that weird lemon carbonation.
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  Speaker 2: I did.
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  Speaker 3: I think I did an ice on my 21st sign night,
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  Speaker 3: but I don't even think I finished it.
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  Speaker 2: It's so painful. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: I liked the idea of it.
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  Speaker 3: I was like, I wish somebody would ice me with
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  Speaker 3: something enjoyable, like ice me with a glass of wine
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  Speaker 3: and I'll drink it all day.
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  Speaker 1: But like a Smirnoff ice?
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  Speaker 3: No.
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  Speaker 2: Why is it always the most painful things? It's like,
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  Speaker 2: I don't know. Is it a rite of passage? Like, oh,
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  Speaker 2: you could handle the pain? Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, I think it's just like a trend. Like,
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  Speaker 3: I think people just started doing them and all of
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  Speaker 3: a sudden it just took off.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: It becomes the cool thing to do.
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  Speaker 2: You know, I guess that brand needed it. Like that's
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  Speaker 2: the one thing that keeps the brand going is people
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  Speaker 2: icing each other. Yeah. As a funny thing to do.
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  Speaker 1: And no one else is buying them otherwise.
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  Speaker 2: Who's just casually having one on a Tuesday?
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  Speaker 1: If you are, go seek help. And I mean that fervently.
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  Speaker 2: What are the other ones? I remember like the is
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  Speaker 2: it Seagram's Seagram's the little like the escapes. Yeah. Like
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  Speaker 2: those little tiny multicolored bottles. They're like, I don't know,
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  Speaker 2: like two percent alcohol. But there's just like sugar and alcohol.
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  Speaker 2: That's all they are. And I always wonder, like, who
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  Speaker 2: are the people that are buying these? Unless it's for
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  Speaker 2: a college party or you're putting them in a punch.
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  Speaker 2: But they're always at the grocery store. I don't know
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  Speaker 2: if they sell them anymore. But I remember growing up
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  Speaker 2: seeing them all the time as a kid.
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  Speaker 1: I never had one.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, well, don't. I think they're absolutely disgusting. Yeah. So
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  Speaker 2: one of the things we talked about, but I think
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  Speaker 2: it's pretty cool to mention for the podcast, fam, is the...
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  Speaker 2: Sydney Sweeney situation that you're in right now. Oh, yeah.
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  Speaker 3: I've been doing these sketches with my friend CJ who
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  Speaker 3: does filmography. We've just been you probably you I'm assuming
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  Speaker 3: you've seen them online because they have a million views
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  Speaker 3: right now. But Sydney Sweeney liked one of them. And
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  Speaker 3: we're like, can we just keep beating this dead horse
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  Speaker 3: until she comes on one of our our sketches?
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  Speaker 2: That's so crazy to have her as big as she is.
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  Speaker 2: I can't. It's just kind of weird for me to
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  Speaker 2: imagine a celebrity just sitting there. And just scrolling Instagram
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  Speaker 2: like the rest of us.
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  Speaker 1: What else is she doing? She's just bopping around, sitting
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  Speaker 1: with Scooter Braun, exploring the world. She's on Instagram too.
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  Speaker 2: I would feel like... Let me change the way I'm
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  Speaker 2: going to say this. I almost want... I want to
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  Speaker 2: get to a place of success where somebody else could
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  Speaker 2: scroll my Instagram for me. And post for me. Because
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  Speaker 2: it just takes so much of our time. And I
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  Speaker 2: feel like with how busy somebody like her is, I
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  Speaker 2: don't even imagine... I thought that she would have a
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  Speaker 2: team running her social media instead of her.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, it totally could be a team.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, I don't know if she physically double tapped it,
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  Speaker 3: but her account double tapped it.
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  Speaker 2: That's so dope. It's just cool to see. It seems
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  Speaker 2: like the post that you're doing, it has over a
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  Speaker 2: million views already.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, we've done two. And so we shot one yesterday.
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  Speaker 1: So by the time you listen to this podcast, the
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  Speaker 1: third one will be live. And that one's. funny but
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  Speaker 1: i think that's the last one we're doing oh okay yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Is it something you're gonna do other celebrities or just
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  Speaker 2: sydney sweeney stuff i don't know it's.
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  Speaker 3: Kind of up to cj cj's the mastermind behind it
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  Speaker 3: he comes up with the script and i just stand
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  Speaker 3: there and feed him lines and roll and roll i'm
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  Speaker 3: like meet me down at davis islands we'll record and
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  Speaker 3: then you know it'll go viral maybe.
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  Speaker 2: Just so busy what's happening with bays on bayshore what's
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  Speaker 2: the any updates on there bringing it i haven't seen
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  Speaker 2: any videos I.
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  Speaker 1: Posted like two days ago.
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  Speaker 2: For Bays on Bayshore? Yeah. Okay, cool. Because people were
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  Speaker 2: asking about it. That's what I was saying. I was like,
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  Speaker 2: people were talking about getting on. And everyone say with
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  Speaker 2: Bays on Bayshore if they would be brave enough to
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  Speaker 2: get on. Oh, yeah.
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  Speaker 1: I don't understand why people feel like they need to
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  Speaker 1: be brave.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know. I guess it's like because we're so
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  Speaker 2: open with what we do.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: For other people, it's like, oh, my God. They realize
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  Speaker 2: how much reach your pages have.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, but it gets reach, but it doesn't get like
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  Speaker 1: that much reach. You know what I mean?
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  Speaker 3: Like, it's not like it's going to go crazy viral
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  Speaker 3: unless you say something unhinged and weird, then yeah, for sure.
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  Speaker 1: You're going to go viral.
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  Speaker 3: Like last night when we were at Ferg's, I was
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  Speaker 3: shooting for, I was doing content, like doing the interviews
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  Speaker 3: and stuff. And It's so funny to see people clam
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  Speaker 3: up and I'm like, you guys are just like not
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  Speaker 3: that serious. Like just give me a hot take about Tampa.
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  Speaker 3: You're going to be on for 10 seconds and people
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  Speaker 3: are going to scroll past it.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. It is just interesting. Yeah. Like you get somebody
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  Speaker 2: before and after, like let's say just like an interview
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  Speaker 2: or a video moment, they'll be the chattiest person. They'll
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  Speaker 2: have great comebacks. They'll have great lines. And all of
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  Speaker 2: a sudden you put a mic and it's like nothing.
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  Speaker 3: I know. Or it's also funny like seeing guys try
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  Speaker 3: to be funny. Like I can't remember what question this
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  Speaker 3: guy picked out because I'll give them a list and
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  Speaker 3: I'll let them ask questions. And I'm basically talking about
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  Speaker 3: the thing I was doing at the bar for the
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  Speaker 3: Rays game where I was going around asking people about
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  Speaker 3: Tampa and the Milwaukee Brewers. And I'll give them a
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  Speaker 3: list because I want them to feel comfortable and confident
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  Speaker 3: what they're going to respond.
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  Speaker 1: It's like you get one question, knock it out of
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  Speaker 1: the park. Everybody wins.
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  Speaker 3: And this guy chose one of the questions. And I was,
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  Speaker 3: I think it was something like, what do you think
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  Speaker 3: is the most overrated part of Tampa or something?
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  Speaker 1: And he was like, bitches. And I was staying there.
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  Speaker 3: I was like, this is such guy humor. It's like
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  Speaker 3: not funny at all. Just come up with something funny
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  Speaker 3: or like, just tell me like your least favorite place
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  Speaker 3: to go out in Tampa.
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  Speaker 1: Like, give me a joke about that. Like, it's not
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  Speaker 1: that hard.
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  Speaker 2: It's not that serious.
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  Speaker 1: Not that serious.
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  Speaker 3: Like just, just say, Oh, I hate going to McDenton's
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  Speaker 3: cause it's a bunch of 19 year olds or something.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know. Like, Just interesting seeing people's humor come out.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. Well, okay, we'll be out there. By the time
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  Speaker 2: this podcast... Oh, this is going to be weird. By
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  Speaker 2: the time this podcast is out, we don't know what
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  Speaker 2: the fate of the Rays will be, but we'll be
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  Speaker 2: out there with the Rays tonight. Yeah. To try to
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  Speaker 2: see if we can get in. We're going to have Alexia,
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  Speaker 2: and we'll have her in soon, possibly tomorrow, to talk
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  Speaker 2: about her World Series experience, because she actually got to
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  Speaker 2: go to the game. And I've always wondered what that
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  Speaker 2: championship level would be like. I've never been to a
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  Speaker 2: Super Bowl, a World Series... the NHL Stanley Cup. Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: And I could only imagine that they just have to
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  Speaker 2: do things differently. It's not going to be a regular
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  Speaker 2: season kind of game.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah. Well, I always feel like playoffs are more intense
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  Speaker 3: and it makes me wish I'm like, damn, I wish
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  Speaker 3: the rest of the season could be like this. Like,
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  Speaker 3: why are we not going hard for every single game?
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  Speaker 3: Because I'll go to like a regular season match for
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  Speaker 3: like the Bucs or the Jags or whatever. And it's
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  Speaker 3: sort of like, OK, things are happening. But I remember
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  Speaker 3: I went to a Jags game right before I moved
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  Speaker 3: to Atlanta and they were playing the Chiefs. And I
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  Speaker 3: remember being so locked in because it was so back
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  Speaker 3: and forth, back and forth.
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  Speaker 2: Like you just didn't.
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  Speaker 3: Know who was going to come out on top, which
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  Speaker 3: was weird because I think the Chiefs, won the super
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  Speaker 3: bowl that season or maybe they went to the super
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  Speaker 3: bowl i think it was the year they played the
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  Speaker 3: eagles and um i remember just thinking oh this is
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  Speaker 3: why people enjoy watching sports because it's so engaging but
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  Speaker 3: then like the you watch the average game and it's
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  Speaker 3: like oh nothing's happening.
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  Speaker 2: It's because there's so many of it that's why it's
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  Speaker 2: so weird for all the sports like baseball has a
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  Speaker 2: ton of games hockey has a ton of games and
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  Speaker 2: then football has you know 16 17 games that it's
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  Speaker 2: They could, I'd say for the other teams, like that's
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  Speaker 2: a lot. To keep it that level of intensity every
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  Speaker 2: single game, that's a lot.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, Mike, that's your job.
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  Speaker 2: I get it. But like football should. Football doesn't have
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  Speaker 2: that many games where it's like you should be bringing
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  Speaker 2: out all the bells and whistles every single time people
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  Speaker 2: are entering that stadium. I know.
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  Speaker 1: I'm like, it's once a week, y'all.
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  Speaker 2: Like have something for us.
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  Speaker 1: Baseball, they should be going balls. You're not getting tackled.
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  Speaker 1: You're not getting hit. You're just running.
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  Speaker 2: It should be as an entertaining factor as it could be.
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  Speaker 3: They're just shooting up in the back, chewing bubble gum.
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  Speaker 3: Hitting balls, catching balls, standing in the outfield.
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  Speaker 2: Have you ever seen, I'm trying to think of, because
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  Speaker 2: everyone raves about how hockey players stretch, but I've seen
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  Speaker 2: now a lot of algorithms of baseball players stretching.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: That's a whole acrobatic in itself.
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  Speaker 1: What are they doing?
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  Speaker 2: The ways they can move their body or move their legs,
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  Speaker 2: it's like pretty much they're doing full splits on the ground.
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  Speaker 2: And people in the audience are just drooling over it. Because,
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  Speaker 2: I mean, they are athletes at the end of the day.
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  Speaker 2: They're sprinting and running like crazy.
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  Speaker 1: I would hope so.
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  Speaker 2: Well, I mean, I will be. Like, back in the day,
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  Speaker 2: I used to, like, poo-poo on baseball players. Because I'm like,
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  Speaker 2: half the time, y'all are just standing there. And you're
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  Speaker 2: just waiting.
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  Speaker 3: Waiting, waiting.
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  Speaker 2: But when it's time to go, it's time to go.
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  Speaker 2: But seeing the way these guys move their body, you're like, oh,
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  Speaker 2: my God. Like, you're still, of course, an elite athlete
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  Speaker 2: at the end of the day. Like, your body does
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  Speaker 2: things that my body could never do. Yeah. Which I
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  Speaker 2: tip my hat to you. So, we'll see. If tomorrow
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  Speaker 2: we're still talking about the Rays, well, then we're still
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  Speaker 2: in it. And we won a game, finally.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like tonight's the final night.
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  Speaker 2: You think it?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, we lost 10.
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  Speaker 3: To 1 last night, and I know it was a
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  Speaker 3: lot more competitive this weekend, but I just don't understand
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  Speaker 3: how you lose that badly.
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  Speaker 2: I know. I don't know. I guess I could look
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  Speaker 2: it up now, but like any other teams that have
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  Speaker 2: been swept in the World Series, because it's almost, I
• 10:13
  Speaker 2: was trying to think through this, like what's more of
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  Speaker 2: a heartbreak? If you just get swept right now, Or
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  Speaker 2: let's say we do the opposite and we start to
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  Speaker 2: come back and we tie it up and, you know,
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  Speaker 2: let's say we win three games and then we lose
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  Speaker 2: the last one. What's more of a heartbreak? The fact
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  Speaker 2: that we got lifted back up or the fact that
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  Speaker 2: we get swept?
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  Speaker 3: The only person that's going to be heartbroken is me
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  Speaker 3: because we don't get paid if they don't keep playing.
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  Speaker 2: That's true.
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  Speaker 1: I was like, damn, what can I.
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  Speaker 3: I'm going to go to the dermatologist. I'm going to
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  Speaker 3: get microneedling. Maybe I'll treat myself to a PRF treatment.
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  Speaker 3: A couple extra hundred.
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  Speaker 1: But if we... If we're out tonight, then I'm out
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  Speaker 1: of luck.
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  Speaker 2: Then that's it. Well, we'll see. Well, hopefully we can
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  Speaker 2: keep it going. There could be a miracle. This could
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  Speaker 2: be the year that history... actually happens.
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  Speaker 3: I know i mean i enjoy anything that's gonna seem
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  Speaker 3: intense or like very engaging and so if the rays
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  Speaker 3: do come back tonight i'll be kind of pissed because
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  Speaker 3: i will just kind of feel like we're just dragging
• 11:00
  Speaker 3: it out because i'm like oh god the brewers win
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  Speaker 3: one more time we're done yeah but i mean if
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  Speaker 3: they make it competitive like i'm interested in that i
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  Speaker 3: want the rays to win i feel like this is
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  Speaker 3: their big comeback story with the roof of the trop
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  Speaker 3: getting blown off and all that blah blah blah blah
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  Speaker 3: um so i hope that this is their year but
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  Speaker 3: i'm I have.
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  Speaker 1: A lot of hope.
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  Speaker 2: Well, we'll see. The game, I mean, by the time
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  Speaker 2: this comes out, we'll already have the truth. So, fingers crossed,
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  Speaker 2: we'll see what we're doing with that.
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  Speaker 1: What's new with you and your lady?
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  Speaker 2: Well, we were just talking yesterday as we're getting ready
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  Speaker 2: to go into the new year. I think the new
• 11:31
  Speaker 2: year is going to be the mark where we actually
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  Speaker 2: move in and start making that more of a permanent thing.
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  Speaker 1: Huge.
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  Speaker 2: It's a massive moment.
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  Speaker 1: So you had that conversation yesterday?
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  Speaker 2: We've started dabbling in the conversation of what it would
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  Speaker 2: look like. And it's been the easiest conversation to have
• 11:47
  Speaker 2: because what we've been dealing with over the past eight
• 11:50
  Speaker 2: months is like medium distance.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: So, you know, over the weekends, she'll come up to
• 11:55
  Speaker 2: the Tampa Bay area, sometimes stay in Tampa with a
• 11:57
  Speaker 2: friend or come sometimes stay with me in St. Pete.
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  Speaker 2: But during the week, for the most part, staying down
• 12:02
  Speaker 2: in our hometown, which is like an hour and a
• 12:04
  Speaker 2: half away. Now we've made it work in the most
• 12:07
  Speaker 2: beautiful ways of how we've adjusted times and schedules, but
• 12:11
  Speaker 2: we're also at the point too, where it's, You know,
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  Speaker 2: you just want to have those more mundane moments. You know,
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  Speaker 2: not everything needs to be a massive date or you
• 12:18
  Speaker 2: need to do these grand gestures, but also just being
• 12:20
  Speaker 2: able to live very mundanely. Like on Sunday when we
• 12:23
  Speaker 2: got back from Chicago, just got to sit on the couch, relax.
• 12:27
  Speaker 2: She napped. I watched football. And it was a very
• 12:30
  Speaker 2: normal as if you're living with a partner situation. Yeah.
• 12:33
  Speaker 2: So we want to have more of those moments where
• 12:35
  Speaker 2: it's like, I just feel so much better when I'm
• 12:38
  Speaker 2: in your space, when we're sharing space together, when we're
• 12:40
  Speaker 2: able to go and do something simple like, grocery shopping
• 12:43
  Speaker 2: or going to the gym and we've decided that's like
• 12:47
  Speaker 2: we're at that time like we're at that time to
• 12:48
  Speaker 2: make that move happen because we see that progression in
• 12:52
  Speaker 2: our relationship and let's go ahead and just let's make
• 12:56
  Speaker 2: it happen a little quicker than I guess other people
• 12:59
  Speaker 2: would say is you know normal but for us it
• 13:02
  Speaker 2: feels right on track.
• 13:03
  Speaker 3: I don't feel like it's I don't feel like that
• 13:06
  Speaker 3: should be out of the norm. Because I've always felt
• 13:09
  Speaker 3: like when you do know something's right, something's just right.
• 13:12
  Speaker 3: As long as you guys are two healthy individuals. And
• 13:14
  Speaker 3: I'm not getting the vibe that this is like a
• 13:16
  Speaker 3: codependency thing. I think you guys have just found the
• 13:19
  Speaker 3: person you want to spend the most time with.
• 13:20
  Speaker 1: And it just makes.
• 13:21
  Speaker 3: It would be dumb to just drag it out for
• 13:23
  Speaker 3: the principle of dragging things out.
• 13:24
  Speaker 1: Because you guys are in your 30s. And, you know,
• 13:27
  Speaker 1: what are you going to do? Drag it out?
• 13:28
  Speaker 2: Because.
• 13:29
  Speaker 1: society says you need to wait a year or two.
• 13:31
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, that's kind of the thought that you
• 13:33
  Speaker 2: go through. Like, that was the big reminder for me.
• 13:34
  Speaker 2: I was like, oh, we are in our 30s, and
• 13:36
  Speaker 2: I know what I want. And every time that I
• 13:38
  Speaker 2: see her, I'm my happiest self. Yeah. Like, I've never
• 13:41
  Speaker 2: felt better in my life than when I'm with her presence.
• 13:44
  Speaker 2: And so to be able to have that and be
• 13:45
  Speaker 2: able to set that up. But here's what's very fascinating.
• 13:48
  Speaker 2: It's like no matter how much, like, she tells me
• 13:50
  Speaker 2: she loves me and I tell her, like, I love her, like,
• 13:53
  Speaker 2: even before bringing up the conversation, I still get that
• 13:55
  Speaker 2: little nervous feeling of, like, that you're being vulnerable here. Hey,
• 13:59
  Speaker 2: like I'm looking forward to this next chapter. How do
• 14:03
  Speaker 2: you feel about it? Cause you're kind of just throwing
• 14:05
  Speaker 2: yourself out in the open and being like, I really hope,
• 14:08
  Speaker 2: like I know we've been on the same page this
• 14:10
  Speaker 2: entire time. I really hope that you're on the same
• 14:12
  Speaker 2: page here or else it's, I don't know. I'm going
• 14:15
  Speaker 2: to feel like an idiot if I throw out the
• 14:16
  Speaker 2: idea and to be able to throw it out there
• 14:18
  Speaker 2: and just be on the same page and being like, yeah,
• 14:20
  Speaker 2: like I think, I think very soon, be able to
• 14:24
  Speaker 2: make that move happen.
• 14:25
  Speaker 3: Do you think she'll move into where you're staying or
• 14:26
  Speaker 3: do you think you guys will find separate quarters?
• 14:29
  Speaker 2: So that's kind of where the yesterday's conversation really dove
• 14:31
  Speaker 2: in because we looked at the situation. We're like, I
• 14:35
  Speaker 2: have the place that I'm staying now, at least till may.
• 14:38
  Speaker 2: So what we're thinking is staying at that place for,
• 14:43
  Speaker 2: you know, the next couple of months till probably may
• 14:46
  Speaker 2: using that as an opportunity to save as much as
• 14:48
  Speaker 2: possible to put money toward, you know, and that's where
• 14:51
  Speaker 2: the next conversation happens is, Do we want an apartment?
• 14:54
  Speaker 2: Do we want to rent a house? Like, where do
• 14:57
  Speaker 2: we want to go from there? Because the apartment I'm
• 14:59
  Speaker 2: in right now, it's beautiful. And it's just small.
• 15:03
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 15:03
  Speaker 2: So, like, we could do it for a little bit.
• 15:04
  Speaker 2: But also, you know, I want to make sure that
• 15:06
  Speaker 2: we're setting ourselves up for success. We have enough space
• 15:09
  Speaker 2: for a couple months. But that's also going to be
• 15:12
  Speaker 2: a conversation with my landlords, a.k.a., you know, some of
• 15:14
  Speaker 2: my closest friends.
• 15:15
  Speaker 1: Our radio competitors. He's like, yeah, I'm jacking up the price.
• 15:20
  Speaker 2: It is kind of funny because it's like I do
• 15:21
  Speaker 2: have to approach them about that because I'm like, you're cool, though,
• 15:25
  Speaker 2: with like, you know, us living together in this space.
• 15:28
  Speaker 2: Is that going to change the price? Does that change
• 15:30
  Speaker 2: the way you look at things or is it just
• 15:32
  Speaker 2: completely OK? And they love and adore her. So it
• 15:34
  Speaker 2: shouldn't be a problem. Yeah. But for the next couple
• 15:37
  Speaker 2: of months, at least till May. It should be in
• 15:39
  Speaker 2: the apartment that I'm in right now. I'm just going
• 15:41
  Speaker 2: to make room and move things around to make sure
• 15:43
  Speaker 2: that she has plenty of stuff, plenty of space for
• 15:45
  Speaker 2: her stuff. Yeah.
• 15:46
  Speaker 1: So she's going to move in in January.
• 15:48
  Speaker 2: Looking at it. I mean, it's really right now it's
• 15:50
  Speaker 2: coming down to just another source of income because she
• 15:53
  Speaker 2: does a lot of time with the Florida Tonight and
• 15:56
  Speaker 2: doing a lot of stuff for that show and is
• 15:58
  Speaker 2: picking up another job to have, you know, two. freelance
• 16:03
  Speaker 2: jobs to be able to make sure that there's no
• 16:05
  Speaker 2: problem with rent.
• 16:06
  Speaker 1: What's the other job she's going to get?
• 16:07
  Speaker 2: She's looking. It just depends. You know, there's plenty of
• 16:11
  Speaker 2: content creation jobs out there. There's also, I mean, what
• 16:15
  Speaker 2: are some of the other ones? Like there's podcast producer
• 16:19
  Speaker 2: jobs that are out there. So something that also gives
• 16:22
  Speaker 2: her the flexibility because her job right now is literally
• 16:24
  Speaker 2: traveling the state of Florida, filming for all these incredible places,
• 16:27
  Speaker 2: restaurants and farms and breweries. bringing it to life. So
• 16:32
  Speaker 2: she needs that flexibility to be able to continue that job.
• 16:34
  Speaker 2: So something else that gives her that flexibility, but also
• 16:36
  Speaker 2: another source of income, because that's the one thing that
• 16:39
  Speaker 2: she's like, I want to make sure that I'm helping
• 16:41
  Speaker 2: and I'm bringing something to the table. Cause truthfully, as
• 16:43
  Speaker 2: much as I would love to just cover the whole thing,
• 16:45
  Speaker 2: I can't wait until I cover the whole thing one day.
• 16:47
  Speaker 2: Let me pay for everything. But I do appreciate that.
• 16:50
  Speaker 2: She's like, I want to bring something as well. Cause
• 16:53
  Speaker 2: then that way we could both save a ton and
• 16:56
  Speaker 2: get something for our next chapter of this relationship.
• 16:59
  Speaker 1: Okay, well, that's very exciting. How do you feel about
• 17:02
  Speaker 1: moving in with somebody?
• 17:03
  Speaker 3: Not quickly, but you had, like, your solo stint, like,
• 17:10
  Speaker 3: without a roommate. Are you going to miss your solo days,
• 17:13
  Speaker 3: or how are you feeling?
• 17:14
  Speaker 2: That's a good question. Because I guess you'll just, like,
• 17:15
  Speaker 2: never live alone again. Yeah, I mean, this was the
• 17:17
  Speaker 2: first time I ever did live alone. I'm glad I
• 17:20
  Speaker 2: had the opportunity because it taught me a lot of
• 17:22
  Speaker 2: the ways of, like, what do I prioritize? What do
• 17:24
  Speaker 2: I need? Like, what are the clean spaces I need?
• 17:27
  Speaker 2: And how minimal am I? But truthfully, like I couldn't
• 17:30
  Speaker 2: be happier to live together with her, to have that
• 17:33
  Speaker 2: space because we live so similarly. You know, we like
• 17:36
  Speaker 2: to have a space that's, you know, of course, everyone's like,
• 17:39
  Speaker 2: you know, clean in certain areas and OK, messy and others.
• 17:42
  Speaker 2: You know, we balance each other out on what tasks
• 17:45
  Speaker 2: we like to do around the house. So I think
• 17:48
  Speaker 2: it has been the perfect amount of time solo in
• 17:50
  Speaker 2: a space. I don't need any more time. I'm good.
• 17:53
  Speaker 2: I mean, pretty much what it looks like when I
• 17:55
  Speaker 2: get home is like I'm doing tasks and I'm just
• 17:57
  Speaker 2: singing and screaming the entire time to songs to keep
• 18:00
  Speaker 2: me on track. I do the same thing when she's around.
• 18:03
  Speaker 2: And what makes it funnier is she does the same
• 18:05
  Speaker 2: thing too. And so, like, we are two weirdos in
• 18:08
  Speaker 2: one space that it finally feels like I have met
• 18:11
  Speaker 2: my match. Somebody that gets it but is not annoyed
• 18:13
  Speaker 2: by it. And somebody that does the same thing that
• 18:15
  Speaker 2: I'm like, I'm cracking up the whole time. And I'm
• 18:17
  Speaker 2: ready to experience that with her. Like, I can't wait. So,
• 18:21
  Speaker 2: all this year, been solo, it's been great, and I'm
• 18:24
  Speaker 2: ready to have You know, us in our own shared
• 18:27
  Speaker 2: living situation.
• 18:28
  Speaker 1: Very nice.
• 18:28
  Speaker 3: Well, I'm excited for both of y'all. And I know
• 18:30
  Speaker 3: she'll be very excited to get out of Arcadia.
• 18:32
  Speaker 2: I know. I know. It's a balance because, you know,
• 18:36
  Speaker 2: it's going to be nice to move up here. And
• 18:37
  Speaker 2: also just to be around your friends. I was thinking
• 18:39
  Speaker 2: about this. I was like, yeah, I can't wait for
• 18:42
  Speaker 2: us to be able to live together. And I'm so
• 18:44
  Speaker 2: excited for you to be able to see your friends more.
• 18:46
  Speaker 2: Because that's something, like, we just crave as humans. And
• 18:49
  Speaker 2: we deserve those things to be able to say, oh,
• 18:51
  Speaker 2: it's a Tuesday night. I'm going to go get drinks.
• 18:55
  Speaker 2: in Tampa with one of my best friends, hell yeah.
• 18:58
  Speaker 2: Like that's what it should be is you're in this
• 19:00
  Speaker 2: area and it makes it a lot easier to get around.
• 19:02
  Speaker 2: So that's probably in the next couple months, I would
• 19:06
  Speaker 2: say probably by January.
• 19:08
  Speaker 1: It's huge.
• 19:09
  Speaker 2: It's huge. It's massive.
• 19:10
  Speaker 1: Have you guys talked about engagement?
• 19:12
  Speaker 2: No, we have not talked about engagement. We haven't had
• 19:15
  Speaker 2: that conversation, which is actually a fascinating thing because I
• 19:17
  Speaker 2: have thought about it a lot as in I've heard
• 19:21
  Speaker 2: couples say they talk about engagement before engagement, but I
• 19:24
  Speaker 2: just don't know how that conversation like what does that
• 19:26
  Speaker 2: look like? Hey, OK, because you want to.
• 19:29
  Speaker 1: Spend the rest of your life with me.
• 19:30
  Speaker 2: Oh, well, I know. But that kind of sounds like
• 19:32
  Speaker 2: the proposal. Isn't that the proposal question?
• 19:34
  Speaker 3: No, I feel like the proposal is more of like
• 19:37
  Speaker 3: it's it's like a ritual or ceremony. Like when you
• 19:39
  Speaker 3: get married, like, yeah, that's when you're technically married. But
• 19:43
  Speaker 3: I think long before that is when you decide, oh,
• 19:44
  Speaker 3: we're just going to spend the rest of our lives
• 19:46
  Speaker 3: with each other. And maybe that happens gradually. I don't
• 19:48
  Speaker 3: really know how you bring that up. up i'm i've
• 19:51
  Speaker 3: never been asked before so i can't i can't i
• 19:54
  Speaker 3: just always kind of felt like it was one of
• 19:55
  Speaker 3: those things that just sort of happened like oh yeah
• 19:57
  Speaker 3: of course we're going to.
• 19:57
  Speaker 2: Yeah well that's kind of what i feel i'm like
• 20:00
  Speaker 2: you know yeah, I think a conversation will be had,
• 20:03
  Speaker 2: you know.
• 20:03
  Speaker 1: Of course, because those are massive, massive decisions.
• 20:07
  Speaker 2: And the only thing that I always thought was, I
• 20:09
  Speaker 2: was like, well, I don't want to like ruin a
• 20:11
  Speaker 2: proposal idea. Like you got to phrase the question properly
• 20:13
  Speaker 2: on how you bring up the topic. So it doesn't
• 20:15
  Speaker 2: sound like I'm actually proposing in that moment. Yeah. But
• 20:17
  Speaker 2: also again, at the end, like we're eight months in,
• 20:20
  Speaker 2: it has been absolutely beautiful and looking forward to every
• 20:22
  Speaker 2: chapter that moves ahead.
• 20:23
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 20:24
  Speaker 1: I've always just said great PR answer.
• 20:26
  Speaker 3: I've always just said that like, I feel, and this
• 20:29
  Speaker 3: isn't me saying, pushing my very strict upbringing but i
• 20:34
  Speaker 3: do think when you move in with someone and you
• 20:36
  Speaker 3: start combining finances is that it.
• 20:38
  Speaker 2: Is a little bit like a marriage a hundred percent to.
• 20:40
  Speaker 3: Where i do think it's smart just to have the
• 20:43
  Speaker 3: conversation on the table and i know you guys are
• 20:45
  Speaker 3: like you guys are two consenting adults but like it
• 20:48
  Speaker 3: is i mean if you guys ever did break up
• 20:50
  Speaker 3: i'm not saying you guys are going to break up
• 20:52
  Speaker 3: it is very much like a marriage already yeah i.
• 20:54
  Speaker 2: Mean here's the thing like we've both come from past
• 20:57
  Speaker 2: where we've lived with previous partners yeah that helps a
• 20:59
  Speaker 2: ton Because we're able to have these conversations just like
• 21:02
  Speaker 2: so much more mature on what we want, what are
• 21:06
  Speaker 2: our fears, what are the things that we need from
• 21:08
  Speaker 2: each other in order to make sure that we're doing
• 21:10
  Speaker 2: the best for each other. And that's been so easy,
• 21:13
  Speaker 2: like to be able to bring up, all right, yeah, like,
• 21:15
  Speaker 2: oh my God, I cannot wait to live with you.
• 21:17
  Speaker 2: And the biggest thing for me, and I've told her this,
• 21:19
  Speaker 2: and I can be vocal on the podcast, my biggest
• 21:21
  Speaker 2: thing is I have to be careful on how fast
• 21:23
  Speaker 2: I go because I'm Girl, I'm ready. Like, let's go.
• 21:26
  Speaker 2: Pedal to the metal. Moving ahead. I love this. I know.
• 21:30
  Speaker 2: I got my eyes set. I got my heart set
• 21:31
  Speaker 2: even more. But I also realized, like, I'm not trying
• 21:34
  Speaker 2: to rush anybody. I'm not trying to pressure anybody. Yeah.
• 21:37
  Speaker 2: I'm trying to take things in chapters. But it is true,
• 21:39
  Speaker 2: like what you said. If you're going to make this
• 21:40
  Speaker 2: big financial move, you got to be on the same page.
• 21:44
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 21:44
  Speaker 1: And I don't have to tell you that. I mean,
• 21:45
  Speaker 1: you literally just went through it a year ago.
• 21:47
  Speaker 2: Oh, yeah. Absolutely. Where it's, you know, jump in. But
• 21:49
  Speaker 2: that's also the difference is, like, some people will buy
• 21:52
  Speaker 2: a house together and And it's like you're both of
• 21:55
  Speaker 2: your names are on the. I know.
• 21:58
  Speaker 3: And then you have no legal protections if you guys
• 22:01
  Speaker 3: are just two separate human beings, which like some people
• 22:03
  Speaker 3: are rich enough to where it's like totally fine.
• 22:05
  Speaker 2: Well, I had friends that just went through that, you know,
• 22:08
  Speaker 2: it was so messy because it's not like they were
• 22:11
  Speaker 2: engaged or married, but they were, you know, they both
• 22:14
  Speaker 2: bought the house together and somebody did something that wasn't right.
• 22:18
  Speaker 2: And so they ended up breaking up and it got
• 22:19
  Speaker 2: so messy because it was like, now you both are
• 22:21
  Speaker 2: sitting on this house, both paying mortgages, both can't live together.
• 22:24
  Speaker 2: One's not letting you live in the other house and
• 22:26
  Speaker 2: you're both waiting to sell it. And in this market,
• 22:28
  Speaker 2: it's like, it wasn't selling. So it's like, you're both
• 22:30
  Speaker 2: just bleeding money, but you like, there's no way this
• 22:34
  Speaker 2: relationship is getting back together. No, no way. But that's so,
• 22:38
  Speaker 2: I was very grateful. That was one of the, like the, the,
• 22:40
  Speaker 2: the smartest things I could have done in previous relationship. Like,
• 22:45
  Speaker 2: don't put my name on the whatever. paperwork for the house. Like,
• 22:49
  Speaker 2: it's your house, enjoy it. But that was one of
• 22:51
  Speaker 2: the things I brought up with Brianda is like, you know,
• 22:54
  Speaker 2: I do want to start looking for a house. And
• 22:56
  Speaker 2: I brought that up. She's like, well, and she said
• 22:57
  Speaker 2: what you said. She's like, well, I don't want to
• 22:59
  Speaker 2: buy a house with somebody unless, you know, I'm married.
• 23:02
  Speaker 2: And I was like, oh, no, I get that. Yeah,
• 23:03
  Speaker 2: me too.
• 23:04
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 23:05
  Speaker 3: And but it does just make things very complicated. But
• 23:08
  Speaker 3: also moving into like, you know, you merge at which
• 23:10
  Speaker 3: one is is the couch mine?
• 23:12
  Speaker 1: Is the couch yours? What do we do?
• 23:14
  Speaker 3: And I know that like when we get into our 30s,
• 23:16
  Speaker 3: I feel like these conversations happen earlier than are the true.
• 23:20
  Speaker 1: The traditional mindset.
• 23:21
  Speaker 3: Like, oh, you typically you date someone for a year
• 23:23
  Speaker 3: and then maybe you move together after that. But like
• 23:25
  Speaker 3: even my friend Taylor and I were talking about that
• 23:27
  Speaker 3: because the guy that she's dating lives in a completely.
• 23:29
  Speaker 1: Different part of the country. She's like, it is a
• 23:31
  Speaker 1: little bit nerve wracking.
• 23:32
  Speaker 3: Like I sometimes feel like I can't just decide whether
• 23:35
  Speaker 3: or not I'm just into this relationship.
• 23:37
  Speaker 1: I'm kind of nervous because he lives so far. It
• 23:40
  Speaker 1: feels like there's pressure.
• 23:42
  Speaker 3: Like, do we you know, if I if this does
• 23:44
  Speaker 3: go well, is this a situation where I have to move?
• 23:47
  Speaker 3: Does he have to move? And we have to make
• 23:48
  Speaker 3: all these hard decisions together. kind of maybe quicker than
• 23:50
  Speaker 3: we thought we were going to have to.
• 23:52
  Speaker 2: Yeah. Where it's, especially as we get older, like we
• 23:54
  Speaker 2: should start looking at these decisions because we, we did
• 23:56
  Speaker 2: the years where we not, not wasted time. That's not
• 23:59
  Speaker 2: the phrase, but it's like, we probably looked past things
• 24:02
  Speaker 2: that now we should probably be able to recognize a
• 24:04
  Speaker 2: lot faster and make the decision a lot faster. So
• 24:08
  Speaker 2: January is probably the time where we'll move into my
• 24:11
  Speaker 2: apartment altogether and make the space. We still have to
• 24:13
  Speaker 2: have the conversations with You know, the landlord situation, our competitors,
• 24:16
  Speaker 2: my friends. Yeah. And make that situation happen. But that's
• 24:19
  Speaker 2: in my head. Now we're looking towards because what we're
• 24:21
  Speaker 2: about to be in November and then just get through
• 24:23
  Speaker 2: the holidays and bada bing, bada boom. We're in it.
• 24:26
  Speaker 1: Then you're in it.
• 24:27
  Speaker 2: Then we're making it happen, which is it's just wild. Like,
• 24:30
  Speaker 2: especially if somebody listened to this podcast in the very
• 24:32
  Speaker 2: beginning and it's like, oh, yeah, here we go. Twenty
• 24:35
  Speaker 2: twenty six going to be so, so single. Just going
• 24:38
  Speaker 2: to go on all these singles adventures.
• 24:39
  Speaker 1: You said single, but then you were like dating seven people.
• 24:42
  Speaker 2: Well, I was just kind of just, I was trying
• 24:45
  Speaker 2: to just see what it was like in the dating world. Yeah.
• 24:48
  Speaker 2: And then I go on a date with Brianna and
• 24:49
  Speaker 2: it just changes everything. I was like, oh, okay. You
• 24:53
  Speaker 2: know what? Screw the old plan. I like the new
• 24:54
  Speaker 2: plan more.
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: Yeah, new plan's more fun.
• 24:56
  Speaker 2: It's just kind of cool to see, especially a lot
• 24:58
  Speaker 2: of people have been on here since the beginning. So
• 25:00
  Speaker 2: big update there with that. The other thing that I
• 25:02
  Speaker 2: was kind of going through yesterday is I got a
• 25:04
  Speaker 2: call from a buddy who I'm going to his wedding in, like,
• 25:07
  Speaker 2: two weeks. And he calls me, and I'm like, oh, God. Like,
• 25:11
  Speaker 2: we don't talk on the phone much. So I'm like, immediately,
• 25:13
  Speaker 2: this is panic mode. Is he calling off the wedding?
• 25:15
  Speaker 2: Is something happening? Is it an emergency? There was an emergency.
• 25:19
  Speaker 2: But I get him on the phone. He's like, dude,
• 25:21
  Speaker 2: I need you to be a groomsman. I'm like, bro, like, what?
• 25:25
  Speaker 2: First off, thank you. What an honor, you know? And
• 25:29
  Speaker 2: this is a great honor. I'm so happy for you.
• 25:31
  Speaker 2: He's like, you need to be able to be a
• 25:33
  Speaker 2: groomsman in the next two weeks and you need to
• 25:36
  Speaker 2: be able to get a suit by this weekend. You'd
• 25:38
  Speaker 2: need to be able to be at the wedding at
• 25:39
  Speaker 2: this time. And I felt so bad because I had
• 25:41
  Speaker 2: to tell him no. And that's the first time. And I,
• 25:44
  Speaker 2: I just never thought about that. Like usually it's an
• 25:46
  Speaker 2: automatic yes. When anybody ever asked you to be a
• 25:48
  Speaker 2: part of their wedding. Yeah.
• 25:49
  Speaker 3: It's kind of insulting two weeks beforehand though.
• 25:51
  Speaker 1: Like you're the backup, you're the B team, you're JV.
• 25:53
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 25:54
  Speaker 2: And when he did mention that, he's like, dude, I
• 25:56
  Speaker 2: know I hate to make it sound like you're a backup,
• 25:57
  Speaker 2: but there was some moving around in the bridal party.
• 26:00
  Speaker 2: So like somebody on his side needs to go to
• 26:03
  Speaker 2: his fiance side. And it's just to even out numbers.
• 26:05
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 26:06
  Speaker 2: And I get that, but I did feel super guilty.
• 26:08
  Speaker 2: Cause I was like, I have, I have to be
• 26:10
  Speaker 2: able to, and I'm glad we have that conversation yesterday
• 26:13
  Speaker 2: on the podcast of like, you gotta be able to
• 26:14
  Speaker 2: just call things as they are. Just shoot it straight.
• 26:17
  Speaker 2: Don't have to beat around the bush. And I just
• 26:19
  Speaker 2: texted him that night. I was like, I gotta be honest. Like,
• 26:21
  Speaker 2: there's no way I can make it happen. Cause I
• 26:22
  Speaker 2: just can't get to the wedding in time. I'm going
• 26:24
  Speaker 2: to get there as soon as the ceremony starts. And
• 26:27
  Speaker 2: to try to just fit in and be a groomsman
• 26:29
  Speaker 2: just in a last minute effort, it would be the
• 26:31
  Speaker 2: dumbest idea.
• 26:32
  Speaker 3: Is this also the wedding you weren't sure that you
• 26:34
  Speaker 3: were going to go to up until recently?
• 26:38
  Speaker 1: Because you didn't get the invitation?
• 26:39
  Speaker 2: Yeah, so this was one of them. So actually, this
• 26:43
  Speaker 2: was the situation of a best friend that I grew
• 26:44
  Speaker 2: up with. Got sent out the save the date back
• 26:48
  Speaker 2: in January. Save the date, just never got the invitation.
• 26:51
  Speaker 2: So that was the one I was like, I don't
• 26:53
  Speaker 2: know if I'm going. I don't know if I'm actually invited.
• 26:57
  Speaker 2: I was. It's just, I've noticed a lot of couples,
• 27:00
  Speaker 2: like weddings are so, so many parts and pieces that
• 27:03
  Speaker 2: things just get missed. So we just kind of forgot
• 27:05
  Speaker 2: to send the actual email. So I finally filled it out.
• 27:08
  Speaker 2: I'm going to that one. The other one, I have
• 27:10
  Speaker 2: another friend getting married in like January. That was one
• 27:15
  Speaker 2: I did not think I was going to. Really? When
• 27:17
  Speaker 2: I was on a bachelor party this past January, it
• 27:19
  Speaker 2: got brought up with a friend group and it was
• 27:22
  Speaker 2: kind of a joke. Because we were asking him if
• 27:23
  Speaker 2: we were going to be in his bridal party, his groomsman.
• 27:25
  Speaker 2: He was like, he got all awkward. He like laughed.
• 27:29
  Speaker 2: And then my friend got all salty. He was like,
• 27:31
  Speaker 2: I mean, no, but you guys will be at the wedding.
• 27:35
  Speaker 2: So that was the only note that I knew. I
• 27:36
  Speaker 2: was like, well, he said we're going to be at
• 27:37
  Speaker 2: the wedding, but that was in January. And I don't
• 27:39
  Speaker 2: get to see this friend a lot. But I did
• 27:42
  Speaker 2: just get the text like two days ago. That's like, hey, dude,
• 27:45
  Speaker 2: what's your address? Got to send the invite, even though it's,
• 27:47
  Speaker 2: you know, three months away. Yeah. So I'm going to
• 27:51
  Speaker 2: that wedding as well. So all these friendships that I
• 27:53
  Speaker 2: thought I was like, is this their way of telling
• 27:55
  Speaker 2: me that our friendship's over?
• 27:57
  Speaker 3: Well, sometimes, I mean, if you could have really leaped
• 28:00
  Speaker 3: and jumped and bounded into this guy's life even more seriously,
• 28:03
  Speaker 3: if you decide to step in for that wedding, like, oh, well, Scott,
• 28:06
  Speaker 3: Scott stepped in when I needed it.
• 28:08
  Speaker 2: I wanted to. I was about to try to play
• 28:10
  Speaker 2: the hero, but I was like this. It would just
• 28:12
  Speaker 2: be so much stress because what it is is we're
• 28:13
  Speaker 2: doing that. We're doing an event here at the radio station.
• 28:16
  Speaker 2: It's like the men's health huddle.
• 28:17
  Speaker 1: Oh, I forgot about that.
• 28:19
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's the day of the wedding.
• 28:20
  Speaker 1: What's the, when is that?
• 28:22
  Speaker 2: November 14th. And it's going to be huge. Well, I
• 28:25
  Speaker 2: hope so. But it is for the man, you know.
• 28:27
  Speaker 1: I don't think I'm down at that event or down
• 28:30
  Speaker 1: for that event.
• 28:30
  Speaker 2: Well, here's where, okay, so we get to, like, this
• 28:32
  Speaker 2: is the podcast conversation. So it's only been spoken conversation
• 28:37
  Speaker 2: so far for that event. It's only been kind of
• 28:39
  Speaker 2: mentioned in meetings. But there's no, like, official invite for, like,
• 28:43
  Speaker 2: you or me, Abby. Like, I haven't got the official
• 28:44
  Speaker 2: invite either.
• 28:45
  Speaker 1: Girl, you don't have to tell me about.
• 28:46
  Speaker 3: With these Ferg's parties they keep inviting me to, like,
• 28:50
  Speaker 3: yesterday we were standing around and on Friday I had gotten, like,
• 28:55
  Speaker 3: a 24-hour heads up to be like, hey, can you
• 28:57
  Speaker 3: go do social media at Ferg's, which Ferg's is the
• 29:00
  Speaker 3: big sports bar down by the chop where the Rays play.
• 29:03
  Speaker 3: And I was like, sure, I can do that. You know,
• 29:05
  Speaker 3: I'll get something together. But, like, I got no information, like,
• 29:08
  Speaker 3: Didn't know who to meet, what time. I mean, I
• 29:10
  Speaker 3: knew what time I had to be there.
• 29:11
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 29:11
  Speaker 3: But like I was looking for a tent because normally
• 29:13
  Speaker 3: there's a big tent set up where you stand and
• 29:15
  Speaker 3: you like say hi to listeners and stuff.
• 29:17
  Speaker 1: There's no tent.
• 29:17
  Speaker 3: We're supposed to go around and just be like, hey,
• 29:20
  Speaker 3: to people, which like candidly, I'm just kind of some
• 29:23
  Speaker 3: random bitch walking around Ferg's. Like it looks a little
• 29:26
  Speaker 3: weird if you don't have someone on promo with you
• 29:28
  Speaker 3: with like the T-shirts.
• 29:29
  Speaker 1: And stuff on. And so I show up.
• 29:31
  Speaker 3: Well, yesterday I didn't even know I was working Ferg's.
• 29:33
  Speaker 3: I found out because I brought it up to Jenna,
• 29:35
  Speaker 3: our boss. And she's like, oh, no, I think you're
• 29:37
  Speaker 3: working tonight. I'm like, well, there's no email for that.
• 29:40
  Speaker 3: And then they sent me Corey's information because apparently I
• 29:44
  Speaker 3: had to go meet Corey. And so I text Corey
• 29:46
  Speaker 3: and he said, Hey, what are we doing tonight at Ferg's?
• 29:48
  Speaker 3: And he goes, I have to be honest with you.
• 29:49
  Speaker 3: I have no idea. Like this is all getting sprung
• 29:51
  Speaker 3: on me too. And so we show up and I'm like,
• 29:54
  Speaker 3: you guys, what is my job?
• 29:55
  Speaker 1: Like, I'm just trying to do.
• 29:56
  Speaker 3: I'm trying to be decent at my job here, and
• 29:57
  Speaker 3: I don't really know what we're supposed to be doing.
• 29:59
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 29:59
  Speaker 3: Well, because you'll go, and you'll do stuff, and then
• 30:01
  Speaker 3: it won't be good enough, but it's because they don't
• 30:03
  Speaker 3: give you expectations.
• 30:04
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's so wild because these things are happening so quick.
• 30:08
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 30:08
  Speaker 2: And it's like, World Series, party, now, go! And you're like, okay,
• 30:12
  Speaker 2: love it, awesome, need details, need to know when, and
• 30:14
  Speaker 2: you need me, and where.
• 30:15
  Speaker 3: You need me. Yeah, there should be some kind of protocol, like,
• 30:17
  Speaker 3: here's two promo kids, go, like, make three.
• 30:20
  Speaker 1: Videos, or whatever.
• 30:21
  Speaker 2: There you go. Like, it's, you know, just that alone,
• 30:23
  Speaker 2: but also... That's a part of it. What you just
• 30:25
  Speaker 2: mentioned is something that I don't think a lot of
• 30:26
  Speaker 2: people recognize is like walking around just a bar alone
• 30:30
  Speaker 2: to try to get content. That's so uncomfortable because nobody.
• 30:33
  Speaker 1: Wants you there. No.
• 30:34
  Speaker 3: And that's why I was fine when we had the
• 30:36
  Speaker 3: promo kids because I'm like, that was my go to line.
• 30:38
  Speaker 1: I was like, can we bribe you with free beer?
• 30:40
  Speaker 3: Because then you're offering something instead of just taking something
• 30:43
  Speaker 3: from them, being like, hey, I need you for this video.
• 30:46
  Speaker 2: Yes.
• 30:46
  Speaker 3: It's like, here, I will buy you a beer if
• 30:48
  Speaker 3: you will just stand here and answer a singular question.
• 30:51
  Speaker 3: And they always go, that's it? And I'm like, see
• 30:53
  Speaker 3: how easy it is to help people? See how easy
• 30:56
  Speaker 3: it is to help me do my job? But yet,
• 30:58
  Speaker 3: nobody wants you there.
• 30:59
  Speaker 1: Everyone's like, what is this girl doing? Who does she
• 31:00
  Speaker 1: think she is?
• 31:01
  Speaker 3: But it's not that bad when you have... support staff
• 31:04
  Speaker 3: with you being like, we're here doing stuff.
• 31:06
  Speaker 2: Yeah, well, you could actually say, I'm with the radio station.
• 31:08
  Speaker 2: I'm not just some random person just getting content.
• 31:12
  Speaker 3: I got a comment, and this was on one of
• 31:14
  Speaker 3: my videos, and I think this comment just really poked
• 31:17
  Speaker 3: at one of my deepest, darkest fears that I'm becoming
• 31:19
  Speaker 3: one of those Tampa influencer wannabes, which I know makes
• 31:22
  Speaker 3: me sound like such a hater, like, Listen, I'm judgmental, too.
• 31:25
  Speaker 3: Some dude and I only get hate comments from men
• 31:27
  Speaker 3: was like, oh, my God, these Tampa influencers are insufferable
• 31:30
  Speaker 3: or something.
• 31:30
  Speaker 1: And I was like, no, I'm not like the other ones.
• 31:32
  Speaker 1: I'm on the radio. This is my job.
• 31:34
  Speaker 2: It's so annoying. Like I as much as it's easy
• 31:38
  Speaker 2: to say, like, don't let comments affect you. Yeah. Like
• 31:40
  Speaker 2: there are some that like poke like we posted it
• 31:42
  Speaker 2: like a DM disaster video the other day. And like
• 31:45
  Speaker 2: it has probably 3000 comments that are telling me that
• 31:48
  Speaker 2: I'm not good at my job. And I was like.
• 31:49
  Speaker 1: What do you mean not good at your job?
• 31:51
  Speaker 2: Like literally telling me that this radio guy needs to
• 31:53
  Speaker 2: get fired. Let me see. Because of my hot take
• 31:56
  Speaker 2: on like a very, it felt like a very easy situation.
• 32:00
  Speaker 1: What video was it?
• 32:01
  Speaker 2: This was the one of.
• 32:04
  Speaker 1: Oh, Alexia looks so cute in this photo.
• 32:07
  Speaker 2: What is the.
• 32:08
  Speaker 1: He said it wasn't technically cheating. Is it that one?
• 32:11
  Speaker 2: It was, I think the one before that. My brain.
• 32:13
  Speaker 2: I'm telling you guys, I have a memory problem. It's something.
• 32:15
  Speaker 1: Her first paycheck went to what?
• 32:17
  Speaker 2: Oh, that's the one. And if you just scroll through
• 32:19
  Speaker 2: the comments, it's probably one in every ten that are like,
• 32:24
  Speaker 2: get this guy off the radio. This guy sucks.
• 32:26
  Speaker 3: I don't know who the radio guy is, but by
• 32:28
  Speaker 3: treating her self-statement shows he brings his own chairs to hotels,
• 32:31
  Speaker 3: basically calling you a cuck. Radio guy thought he was
• 32:33
  Speaker 3: going to get the support of the girlies with this.
• 32:35
  Speaker 1: Meanwhile, they're frying him in the comments. I'm with the guy. Okay,
• 32:39
  Speaker 1: why would you.
• 32:40
  Speaker 3: Take your sister on vacation? See, there's also an equal
• 32:42
  Speaker 3: amount of people siding with you.
• 32:44
  Speaker 1: I'm with the guy.
• 32:45
  Speaker 2: No, no, they're saying they're with the guy as the
• 32:47
  Speaker 2: guy's situation of being upset.
• 32:48
  Speaker 3: Oh, oh.
• 32:49
  Speaker 2: Being upset that his girlfriend's going on vacation with her sister.
• 32:51
  Speaker 1: Gotcha, gotcha, gotcha.
• 32:52
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah.
• 32:52
  Speaker 1: There's like two comments about you. Oh, they're there. Oh, dude,
• 32:55
  Speaker 1: the host for treating yourself. She's not treating herself.
• 32:58
  Speaker 2: It goes on and on.
• 32:59
  Speaker 1: Trust, I got the notification. Radio host is being a
• 33:01
  Speaker 1: pick me.
• 33:02
  Speaker 3: Totally valid to feel slighted that she didn't want to
• 33:05
  Speaker 3: pay him back, blah, blah, blah.
• 33:06
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 33:06
  Speaker 1: Radio dude is filled with soy? What does that mean?
• 33:09
  Speaker 2: I don't know. Trying to say that I'm like, I
• 33:12
  Speaker 2: don't know. I have more estrogen in me. All I
• 33:16
  Speaker 2: said in that video is simply, what, you don't want
• 33:19
  Speaker 2: your girlfriend to treat herself? That's it. And people went
• 33:22
  Speaker 2: on it, and it's like it's on a whole new
• 33:24
  Speaker 2: algorithm for people on Instagram.
• 33:26
  Speaker 1: Is your last name Panda? What does that mean?
• 33:29
  Speaker 2: That I don't know. That I don't know.
• 33:30
  Speaker 3: I do find it interesting, and I was thinking about
• 33:32
  Speaker 3: this today. All the hate comments in here are from men. Yeah,
• 33:35
  Speaker 3: I know.
• 33:36
  Speaker 1: But it's funny because.
• 33:38
  Speaker 3: obviously I posted the Shane Gillis thing not too long
• 33:40
  Speaker 3: ago and all my hate comments were from men and
• 33:42
  Speaker 3: then a couple of like pick me women being like,
• 33:45
  Speaker 3: it is just interesting. Like I really don't receive hate
• 33:48
  Speaker 3: from women, which is shocking as somebody who, when you
• 33:51
  Speaker 3: grow up with other women, you're like bullied by other women.
• 33:53
  Speaker 3: And so it's just so interesting to me that like,
• 33:56
  Speaker 3: it seems like a majority of the angry people on
• 33:58
  Speaker 3: the internet are men.
• 34:00
  Speaker 2: I wonder if it's just, they're more outspoken about the
• 34:04
  Speaker 2: way they feel in that moment. Like women think through
• 34:06
  Speaker 2: things a little more and they don't want their, thoughts
• 34:09
  Speaker 2: or comments to be out in open space like that's
• 34:11
  Speaker 2: the thing that it was shocking me like truthfully i
• 34:13
  Speaker 2: actually don't care about those comments like i whatever yeah
• 34:16
  Speaker 2: you say whatever you want but like some of those
• 34:17
  Speaker 2: names are big names like you go and i'll click
• 34:19
  Speaker 2: on them and i'm like bro you have a massive
• 34:22
  Speaker 2: following you got a podcast i'm like and here you
• 34:24
  Speaker 2: are leaving a comment like this like trying to trash
• 34:27
  Speaker 2: me like you're an odd dude.
• 34:29
  Speaker 3: Well i went on chat gbt naturally Because I don't
• 34:31
  Speaker 3: see my therapist until next week. But I was like,
• 34:34
  Speaker 3: because I was trying to figure out, like, is there
• 34:36
  Speaker 3: something in my content? And I guess it's kind of
• 34:39
  Speaker 3: comforting seeing that you're getting a lot of male negative attention.
• 34:44
  Speaker 3: Is there something about my comment that is specifically triggering
• 34:47
  Speaker 3: to men? And so I was like, I'm noticing a pattern.
• 34:50
  Speaker 3: I don't see a lot of hate comments from women.
• 34:51
  Speaker 3: Not that I want more hate comments from women. But
• 34:54
  Speaker 3: why does it seem like it's majority men leaving these comments?
• 34:58
  Speaker 3: And I got some really interesting responses that I'm sure
• 35:01
  Speaker 3: it dug up from Google somewhere.
• 35:02
  Speaker 2: I mean, I'm very interested because this all goes down,
• 35:05
  Speaker 2: I'm assuming, to some male psychology. Because men, again, a
• 35:10
  Speaker 2: lot of us, well, let's just see what Chad said.
• 35:12
  Speaker 1: So, I mean, there's some of the things that you
• 35:14
  Speaker 1: would expect.
• 35:14
  Speaker 3: The first thing it said is some men perceive confident
• 35:16
  Speaker 3: women as a status threat. Basically, when you publicly express
• 35:20
  Speaker 3: an opinion, it challenges male behavior that men may interpret
• 35:24
  Speaker 3: as a challenge to their own social standing. Basically, like
• 35:26
  Speaker 3: if a woman is being confident, like what does that
• 35:28
  Speaker 3: say about me? So when they insult you, it's an
• 35:31
  Speaker 3: attempt to reestablish a hierarchy. So instead of engaging with
• 35:34
  Speaker 3: an argument, they just will attack your appearance, intelligence, or
• 35:37
  Speaker 3: your sexuality, something like that. They're attempting to put you
• 35:41
  Speaker 3: back in your place, assert dominance. Some men resent women
• 35:44
  Speaker 3: they find attractive but can't control them. They want to
• 35:47
  Speaker 3: provoke an emotional reaction because if you have an emotional reaction,
• 35:51
  Speaker 3: that's a reward. Male peer approval can be more important
• 35:54
  Speaker 3: than your reaction.
• 35:55
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a big one.
• 35:57
  Speaker 3: Some men feel entitled to evaluate women publicly. These are
• 36:01
  Speaker 3: all women specific. And then I think I was asking
• 36:03
  Speaker 3: about some of like the specific sports content that I'm
• 36:06
  Speaker 3: putting out because there is a part of me that
• 36:08
  Speaker 3: does feel a little bit like being a poser when
• 36:10
  Speaker 3: I talk about sports online because I'm not a big
• 36:12
  Speaker 3: sports girly. I enjoy getting drunk at hockey games. And
• 36:15
  Speaker 3: making the occasional like blase comment online. That's the extent
• 36:18
  Speaker 3: of my sports analyst expertise. But they get so much
• 36:23
  Speaker 3: traction that I'm like, OK, it's my job to get
• 36:26
  Speaker 3: traction on the Internet.
• 36:27
  Speaker 1: Naturally, I'm going to keep posting shit.
• 36:29
  Speaker 2: Correct.
• 36:29
  Speaker 3: And there's a part of me that's like, oh, my God,
• 36:31
  Speaker 3: am I so am I being super fake and posery
• 36:34
  Speaker 3: by posting this? I don't think so, because you're bringing
• 36:36
  Speaker 3: a new side of it. Like we're all entitled to
• 36:40
  Speaker 3: our opinions. And that doesn't mean your opinion's right, but
• 36:42
  Speaker 3: you're also entitled to your opinion and you're not hurting
• 36:44
  Speaker 3: anybody along the way. Yeah, because I'm just trying to
• 36:46
  Speaker 3: be like, ha ha laugh funny, because my whole shtick
• 36:48
  Speaker 3: is just talking about the Tampa Bay sports gods, because
• 36:51
  Speaker 3: it does seem like we can never win all at once.
• 36:53
  Speaker 2: No, not all.
• 36:54
  Speaker 1: Statistically, somebody's going to lose. So, I mean, that's kind
• 36:57
  Speaker 1: of the joke. Like, it's satirical. Like, there's no Tampa
• 36:59
  Speaker 1: Bay sports gods.
• 37:00
  Speaker 3: But I am kind of like, damn, it is really
• 37:01
  Speaker 3: funny that the Bucs win for the first time in weeks.
• 37:04
  Speaker 1: And all of a sudden, you know, the Rays are shitting.
• 37:07
  Speaker 2: Like who was in the corner of the Bucs locker
• 37:09
  Speaker 2: room stirring up some spices and leaves?
• 37:12
  Speaker 1: I know there was a cauldron in the Bucs locker room.
• 37:14
  Speaker 1: So I'm like, that was my joke.
• 37:16
  Speaker 3: And so I'm like, oh, my God, do I not
• 37:18
  Speaker 3: sound like I know what I'm talking about?
• 37:19
  Speaker 1: Like, do my.
• 37:20
  Speaker 3: I'm always afraid I'm going to say something and it's
• 37:22
  Speaker 3: going to show how little I know about things rather
• 37:26
  Speaker 3: than just the fact that I'm trying.
• 37:27
  Speaker 1: To make a joke about a situation. Yeah.
• 37:29
  Speaker 2: I think what the truth is, like nobody knows and
• 37:32
  Speaker 2: guys will act like we know a lot about it,
• 37:33
  Speaker 2: but like even make, I don't know what the hell
• 37:35
  Speaker 2: is happening. Like most guys, like, I almost, hmm, let
• 37:39
  Speaker 2: me think how I want to phrase this. Very few
• 37:42
  Speaker 2: are that into the weeds where they know everything that's happening.
• 37:44
  Speaker 3: Oh, for sure.
• 37:45
  Speaker 2: Everyone's a casual fan. And the ones that are really outspoken,
• 37:48
  Speaker 2: they're the most casual bandwagon fans. Like, people are dissing
• 37:51
  Speaker 2: bandwagon face with Raze. I live in Tampa Bay. I've
• 37:53
  Speaker 2: lived here for a long time. I'm a Rays fan.
• 37:55
  Speaker 1: I'm a bandwagoner, too. I'm a listen.
• 37:58
  Speaker 2: I don't go to the games.
• 37:59
  Speaker 3: I'm a Braves fan. I'm a Rangers fan. I feel
• 38:00
  Speaker 3: like I'm actually like genuinely a Braves and a Rangers fan.
• 38:03
  Speaker 3: And then raise 100 percent bandwagon because I live here
• 38:05
  Speaker 3: and it's my job to talk about things happening that
• 38:08
  Speaker 3: are important to people in Tampa. And the Rays are
• 38:10
  Speaker 3: important to people in Tampa. So I'm going to adopt that.
• 38:12
  Speaker 2: Absolutely. You know, but you shouldn't get that. That's what
• 38:15
  Speaker 2: bothers me about especially like leaning forward to like male
• 38:18
  Speaker 2: comments that are like so fired up about sports. I'm like, bro,
• 38:20
  Speaker 2: at the end of the day, and this is what
• 38:22
  Speaker 2: I have to remind guys when they get so upset
• 38:23
  Speaker 2: about it, I'm like, it's literally a game.
• 38:26
  Speaker 1: It's literally a game. And it doesn't change your life.
• 38:28
  Speaker 1: Why are you mad? It's only a game.
• 38:30
  Speaker 2: It's only a game. It doesn't change your life. Like,
• 38:33
  Speaker 2: some guys, and it's so weird, that will get like,
• 38:37
  Speaker 2: my weekend is ruined because my team lost. What?
• 38:42
  Speaker 1: I really don't get that psychology. And listen, I love
• 38:44
  Speaker 1: to win.
• 38:45
  Speaker 3: Like, I love the fact that the Tampa Bay sports
• 38:47
  Speaker 3: teams are really good. But at the end of the day, like,
• 38:49
  Speaker 3: If the Rays lose the World Series, life will continue
• 38:52
  Speaker 3: next week.
• 38:53
  Speaker 2: It will be exciting if we, let's say if we
• 38:55
  Speaker 2: won it, but at the same time, the week after,
• 38:57
  Speaker 2: whether it was a parade or like we simply lose,
• 39:00
  Speaker 2: it's going to look the same.
• 39:01
  Speaker 1: It'd be more fun if we won.
• 39:02
  Speaker 2: Of course. It's more stuff for us to cheer about.
• 39:05
  Speaker 2: And it is fun to see the community come together.
• 39:07
  Speaker 2: But on the same sentence, like don't let it be
• 39:10
  Speaker 2: something that takes the community apart. Yeah. Not once you
• 39:13
  Speaker 2: get upset. Like people like ruin vacations. They'll go lock
• 39:16
  Speaker 2: themselves in the room when they lose. Like, yeah, we'd
• 39:18
  Speaker 2: be all right. We'd be all right. St.
• 39:20
  Speaker 3: Pete will be on fire tomorrow if we lose. I'm
• 39:22
  Speaker 3: a little bit nervous.
• 39:24
  Speaker 2: We're actually going to go out in rage. No, what
• 39:26
  Speaker 2: actually happens is what's so weird is like when teams win,
• 39:29
  Speaker 2: they'll burn down their city. You see those celebrations?
• 39:33
  Speaker 1: And again, it's never women.
• 39:34
  Speaker 3: No, no.
• 39:35
  Speaker 2: Well, again, it's guys trying to outdo guys.
• 39:37
  Speaker 1: Yeah, we won our city since we won the World Series.
• 39:40
  Speaker 2: You see the guys that go on the street and
• 39:42
  Speaker 2: they're jumping on cars and they're swinging on telephone poles.
• 39:46
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 39:46
  Speaker 2: It doesn't make sense. I'm not saying it does.
• 39:47
  Speaker 3: I know. I know.
• 39:48
  Speaker 1: I'm just, you know, I'm, I'm in a little bit
• 39:50
  Speaker 1: of a man hating mood.
• 39:51
  Speaker 2: Oh, understandable.
• 39:53
  Speaker 3: Just between like the sheer amount of times I've become,
• 39:55
  Speaker 3: I've been, been called whore on the internet and then
• 39:58
  Speaker 3: like seeing it just kind of trickle into just my
• 40:00
  Speaker 3: innocent raise.
• 40:01
  Speaker 1: Content that I'm like, just leave me alone. Either date
• 40:05
  Speaker 1: me or leave me alone.
• 40:06
  Speaker 2: Just don't get in my comments. But it's weird though.
• 40:08
  Speaker 2: Cause then we'll kind of end with this, but it's
• 40:10
  Speaker 2: like going through and I was doing the same thing.
• 40:11
  Speaker 2: It's like, I would click on people's profiles and I'm like, dude,
• 40:15
  Speaker 2: this is you and your son, you know?
• 40:17
  Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like, would you say this? I'm like, I'm
• 40:19
  Speaker 3: somebody's son. I'm somebody's daughter. Correct.
• 40:21
  Speaker 1: And you're like, would you want someone to say this
• 40:23
  Speaker 1: to your kid?
• 40:24
  Speaker 2: I don't know. Yeah, it just makes you think. I
• 40:25
  Speaker 2: just always wonder. I'm like, this will probably never happen,
• 40:29
  Speaker 2: but some, I just wish there was some kind of
• 40:31
  Speaker 2: consequence for being a dick, you know? I believe in karma.
• 40:35
  Speaker 2: I think karma's gonna come.
• 40:36
  Speaker 3: I would like to think that there's karma, but sometimes
• 40:39
  Speaker 3: I don't think there is. Yeah. I mean, like, look
• 40:40
  Speaker 3: at Kanye West. Can you get worse than Kanye West?
• 40:43
  Speaker 3: He's still a bajillionaire with a hot wife.
• 40:45
  Speaker 1: You know what I mean?
• 40:46
  Speaker 3: That's true.
• 40:46
  Speaker 2: But also he's, I don't know, he's lost his entire family.
• 40:49
  Speaker 2: Like doesn't have that. But then again, he's still, I
• 40:51
  Speaker 2: don't know. It's a very hard mix up.
• 40:53
  Speaker 1: That's not really karma. It's more like consequences of your
• 40:55
  Speaker 1: own actions.
• 40:56
  Speaker 2: That's true.
• 40:56
  Speaker 1: And I do feel like there's a difference.
• 40:57
  Speaker 2: Yeah. And maybe it's delayed karma.
• 40:59
  Speaker 1: I don't know.
• 41:00
  Speaker 2: I don't know.
• 41:00
  Speaker 3: I know.
• 41:01
  Speaker 2: I guess if karma worked for everything, that'd be nutty.
• 41:04
  Speaker 2: That'd be like magical stuff where you're like, oh my God,
• 41:07
  Speaker 2: that person's tire popped. And I don't know, like all
• 41:09
  Speaker 2: these different things happen all the time. But I do
• 41:11
  Speaker 2: look at these people in the comments.
• 41:12
  Speaker 1: I'm like, damn.
• 41:14
  Speaker 2: Like, what is wrong with you? I hope your podcast fails.
• 41:18
  Speaker 1: You know what?
• 41:19
  Speaker 2: Go do something better with your life instead of getting
• 41:21
  Speaker 2: all my comments.
• 41:22
  Speaker 1: It always comes back around.
• 41:23
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what I think, too. Well, anytime you're listening,
• 41:25
  Speaker 2: you could always put it in the comments. But with
• 41:27
  Speaker 2: the same statement, keep the comments nice. But you always do.
• 41:30
  Speaker 2: So appreciate you, fam. And also, a lot of people
• 41:32
  Speaker 2: just jumping in, whether it's to be a part of
• 41:35
  Speaker 2: the Scotty and Abby Live if we do make an
• 41:36
  Speaker 2: Atlanta run or just being part of the conversation in general.
• 41:40
  Speaker 2: We'll be back tomorrow, hopefully, with Alexia and the World
• 41:42
  Speaker 2: Series update on how that was, when to actually be
• 41:45
  Speaker 2: in the building.