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What's Happening at the Courthouse: A woman has had enough toxic love · "What's happening at the Courthouse?" with Rameez Khan

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  Speaker 1: For some, prison is where it ends.
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  Speaker 2: For all, court is where it begins. Show this is
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  Speaker 2: the real world and this order is what's happening at
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  Speaker 2: the courthouse.
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  Speaker 1: On KFM Mornings with Remis.
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  Speaker 3: Gather around, let's get busted together, it's Remis out at
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  Speaker 3: the Para courthouse where he's asking everybody one simple question.
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  Speaker 1: What are you doing at the courthouse today?
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  Speaker 4: We're drawing a case?
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  Speaker 1: What was the case?
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  Speaker 5: Yes, it was Geneva's violence and violation or protection order?
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  Speaker 5: Who is this person my fiance and the fourth of
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  Speaker 5: my one year old?
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  Speaker 1: Is he still your fiance?
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  Speaker 4: Yes?
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  Speaker 1: And why a.
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  Speaker 4: Protection order just for the future?
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  Speaker 6: In my mind, a prediction order means that the person
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  Speaker 6: is supposed to like stay away from you.
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  Speaker 1: Isn't that so? No?
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  Speaker 4: It depends on are you going to use it?
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  Speaker 5: If this shouldn't evolve us a bit more difficulty, more
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  Speaker 5: complicated you.
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  Speaker 4: So it depends on these terms.
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  Speaker 6: What did he do in order for you to get
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  Speaker 6: a protection order against when you went.
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  Speaker 5: On substance, wrong friends, wrong crafts?
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  Speaker 4: And then he did thinks that it wasn't.
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  Speaker 1: Proud of got you? He's still your fiance, yes it is?
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  Speaker 1: Why would he still be your friend?
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  Speaker 4: Deserves a second chance.
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  Speaker 6: So you said to me earlier on, you go somewhere
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  Speaker 6: to become.
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  Speaker 4: A poak to work?
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  Speaker 1: Is that what you call it?
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  Speaker 4: It's more bitter work than palsmore.
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  Speaker 6: And you're saying he was there, but do you see
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  Speaker 6: you withdrew the case?
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  Speaker 5: So why is he still Because sometimes especially with jennerper
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  Speaker 5: is violent.
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  Speaker 4: The say takes it very serious.
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  Speaker 1: So it's accorded to them even though you were.
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  Speaker 4: Even the case.
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  Speaker 5: Everybody deserve a second chance. It could be you, It
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  Speaker 5: could be anybody that maybe stepping able and then you
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  Speaker 5: end up there.
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  Speaker 6: But also, ma'am, you don't deserve that though.
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  Speaker 4: No I don't. And nobody else hisself also that.
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  Speaker 5: But even judges today they made mistakes in their lives
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  Speaker 5: also that they're not proud of, and look where they
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  Speaker 5: ended up being judges.
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  Speaker 1: You see that you were single for eighteen and a
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  Speaker 1: half years.
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  Speaker 4: That's correct.
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  Speaker 1: Why now what this guy?
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  Speaker 5: It wasn't like I'm when I meet him, and I
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  Speaker 5: didn't know him so well because from out school I
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  Speaker 5: met him through his friends and eventually when he asked
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  Speaker 5: me to be his girlfriend, we obviously slept together and
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  Speaker 5: then the baby was conceived.
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  Speaker 1: Oh yes, okay, because.
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  Speaker 5: I was single, isn't obvious and spy through what happened?
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  Speaker 4: He was excellent father.
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  Speaker 1: Do you visit him?
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  Speaker 4: I did twice. Yes.
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  Speaker 5: I took his son Teiam and his son was very,
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  Speaker 5: very sick. And when I took them, Yes, when I
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  Speaker 5: took his son to see the father, the son ate
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  Speaker 5: immediately and it was better. Some parents keep chordn away
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  Speaker 5: from each other. People's his animosity. I don't believe in
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  Speaker 5: it because the end of the day, when they're bigger,
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  Speaker 5: but affects him emotionally. True true have like generations repeating
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  Speaker 5: the same same.
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  Speaker 1: Has he ever been to a post more before?
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  Speaker 5: Yes, but it was way before my time and that
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  Speaker 5: case was wrongfully accused accused?
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  Speaker 4: Really yes, so it came out.
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  Speaker 6: But this wasn't wrongfully accused. Was you did something did?
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  Speaker 6: Thank you very much for your time, and I appreciate
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  Speaker 6: your wise words of trying to give people.
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  Speaker 1: A second chance.
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  Speaker 2: Anybody can make an innocent mistake.
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  Speaker 6: Those two words together doesn't really match that face. Who
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  Speaker 6: are we to judge?
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  Speaker 1: Thank you very much for your time.
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  Speaker 4: You're welcome.
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  Speaker 1: What are you doing at the court house today?
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  Speaker 4: I mean by smoke clim court?
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  Speaker 6: What is it that this person needs to give back
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  Speaker 6: to you my money.
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  Speaker 1: Why are they not giving it back?
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  Speaker 3: Now?
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  Speaker 2: They got a lot of reasons and a lot of stories.
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  Speaker 1: Did I tell you what the reasons are?
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  Speaker 7: Now?
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  Speaker 2: I was here under twenty fourth and he didn't appear. Okay,
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  Speaker 2: so you another day. So now the police station must
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  Speaker 2: fall the form in got you, they say, and our
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  Speaker 2: pack they don't do that.
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  Speaker 4: So now I want to find out here.
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  Speaker 1: Are you even gonna get this money back?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah?
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  Speaker 2: Because I know him. He just threatened me. Now he's
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  Speaker 2: gonna make a case against me. And now I put
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  Speaker 2: him on name and shame. I put it on my
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  Speaker 2: status because he's my neighbor. You know, everybody knows him.
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  Speaker 1: It's a bad neighbor.
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  Speaker 4: Bad and he's a young boy.
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  Speaker 6: Little he came to borrow some money from you. He
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  Speaker 6: didn't pay it back. What was the term? So what
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  Speaker 6: did he say? How was he going to pay it
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  Speaker 6: back to you?
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  Speaker 2: His girlfriend was pregnant and so he bored the money.
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  Speaker 2: So the baby is now to two years old.
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  Speaker 1: Now, so this money for two years?
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  Speaker 4: Yes? What from two years?
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  Speaker 2: And every time he make promises and then he says
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  Speaker 2: he's losing his job and blah blah blah, and there's
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  Speaker 2: a lot.
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  Speaker 6: Of there's all the reasons is he's still your neighbor.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, he's working any driving Uber, They've got no shame.
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  Speaker 2: And then they on top of it, they greet you
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  Speaker 2: there people.
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  Speaker 4: It's just like that.
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  Speaker 6: And when you see them, this guy wearing like new
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  Speaker 6: clothes and new techis and then oh.
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  Speaker 2: Then my esset, oh my esset comes up and I feel.
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  Speaker 4: Like I want to omit.
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  Speaker 1: You want to vomit.
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  Speaker 4: Because it's making me narman.
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  Speaker 1: And the child like you see this child and strike
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  Speaker 1: this right now. The question is how much money you keep?
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  Speaker 4: My time, my time, my time.
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  Speaker 1: I just need, I just need one more one more question.
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  Speaker 4: The shop go. They don't allowed me to go yes.
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  Speaker 1: To one one moment. It's one moment at the time.
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  Speaker 4: I must go to places.
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  Speaker 1: How much money is this that is personal?
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  Speaker 6: Apparently the small claim score doesn't go more than twenty thousand.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's less than it.
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  Speaker 1: It's less than that.
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  Speaker 2: It's just they are used to do what It mean
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  Speaker 2: his family got the uber a busoner and I also
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  Speaker 2: scam people.
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  Speaker 6: With that also meant do you know other people that
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  Speaker 6: he's done this to as well? Yeah, now why don't
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  Speaker 6: they also come here.
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  Speaker 2: I'm just like to do my things on my own. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: I'm gonna get my money. Doesn't meet it? You pay
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  Speaker 2: me three under the under the rain. At least I
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  Speaker 2: get something, Okay.
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  Speaker 1: Man, it's a principle, you say.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, you have to pay it. He's gonna pay it
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  Speaker 2: when I meet you again. And I'm gonna tell you
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  Speaker 2: did pay me.
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  Speaker 6: Because you saw he was joeling and having a fist
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  Speaker 6: of time in December.
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  Speaker 1: But he's not.
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  Speaker 2: Paying you your money every day every weekend.
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  Speaker 1: But now money comes.
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  Speaker 2: You have money come my way, but it will come
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  Speaker 2: my way.
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  Speaker 1: Thank you very much for your time.
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  Speaker 7: Man.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, let me put the stuff. She's a busy lady.
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  Speaker 4: She's got things to do.
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  Speaker 3: Run Just one more question.
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  Speaker 7: But really, when someone owes you money and you see
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  Speaker 7: them living life on social media, what.
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  Speaker 2: Do you mean.
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  Speaker 4: I have a theory.
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  Speaker 3: If you're going to lend somebody money, yeah, be prepared
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  Speaker 3: to never get it, to see it again.
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  Speaker 4: And that's the only time when you should give it.
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  Speaker 4: When you can do without.
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  Speaker 7: Yeah, that two thousand, that five thousand, that's ten thousand.
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  Speaker 3: It's just going to cause you pain in misery.
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  Speaker 7: Because now you don't want to be in court fighting
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  Speaker 7: for three hundred, four hundred and small.
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  Speaker 1: She's like, even if it's small, small, I want that money.
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  Speaker 7: But the way, I'm rooting for this until she will
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  Speaker 7: get back her money. And then that first story, Wow,
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  Speaker 7: we hear that all.
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  Speaker 2: The time, and I'm so happy that you asked a
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  Speaker 2: repeatedly remis is he still your fiance?
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  Speaker 4: Is he still your fiance?
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  Speaker 7: Because what she's doing now is really just protecting him.
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  Speaker 7: He's in parly. Oh if she is outside defending this
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  Speaker 7: man your honor by dropping the case. And then the statement, no,
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  Speaker 7: we're not dropping this case. You can you can leave
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  Speaker 7: it forgive, It's okay, you can go.
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  Speaker 1: You are going to continue with this case. So yeah,
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  Speaker 1: thank you for me. Thank you very much always