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- 0:00If you're on the twin flame journey and everything's feel
- 0:02very intense, painful and confusing right now, then that
- 0:06is actually a sign that union is getting closer because the
- 0:09awakening before union isn't peaceful.
- 0:12It feels literally like your life is about to fall apart.
- 0:15I'm Julia, I'm a twin flame coach.
- 0:17Me in my twin flame. We have been together for over 7
- 0:20years now and we have helped thousands of twin flames on
- 0:23their journey to twin flame union.
- 0:25So I have written down here 7 things that happens in the
- 0:30awakening just before union that you can identify if you are
- 0:34there in this awakening phase straight before twin flame
- 0:38union. So it's an actually really
- 0:39exciting phase but feels terrifying.
- 0:42And that brings us to the first point, which is that your old
- 0:45life starts collapsing. So things that used to feel fine
- 0:49for you start to feel really misaligned and you just can't
- 0:53take it anymore. So it could be friendships that
- 0:56no longer feel aligned, like you realising why do I feel so
- 0:59drained with this person? How did I allow myself to be
- 1:02friends for so long when clearly they are an energy vampire or we
- 1:06clearly just misaligned. Or it could be a job that you've
- 1:09had for a really long time. It could have been the same
- 1:12company and now you're just like, I literally can't take
- 1:14this anymore. It was fine before, but it's
- 1:17just to know like I have to do something different.
- 1:20And if that is you, I have linked a free PDF in the
- 1:22description on how to find your purpose in five simple steps.
- 1:25So what you will feel is a restlessness, really
- 1:29disconnected, like you can't go back to the old life, but you
- 1:33know, yet they're in the fully aligned life either.
- 1:36Number 2 is that you're becoming hyper aware.
- 1:38So you start noticing your wounds, your patterns, your
- 1:42triggers, especially when it comes to your twin flame
- 1:44connection. Perhaps you're realising that
- 1:47you have a fear of rejection, that you have abandonment wounds
- 1:50or use control to feel safe. And this can feel really
- 1:54overwhelming, like why is this all happening now?
- 1:56But remember, this is just part of the awakening.
- 1:58The whole point of the Twin Flint connection is to help you
- 2:01on your spiritual path, to trigger you.
- 2:03Yes, it's the best romance you can experience, but it's mostly
- 2:07for your spiritual growth and that is tough.
- 2:08All these things and wounds and securities in you.
- 2:11Your soul is OK. We're ready to heal this.
- 2:13Now the third thing that happens is that the push pull
- 2:16intensifies. So it could be like 1 moment
- 2:19you're feeling deep love, unconditional love, certainty,
- 2:23and then the other moment it's the other way around.
- 2:26So you're feeling fear, doubts, urge to control the connection
- 2:30and we just messaged them on social media.
- 2:31And as you know, this is a completely normal part of the
- 2:34twin flame connection. There is this whole push
- 2:37dynamic, the runner chaser dynamic.
- 2:39And what helped me when I was going through all of this was to
- 2:42talk to a psychic. So it's good to have one person
- 2:46that you trust who can channel your guides so that you know
- 2:49what is going on and what is the next steps for you.
- 2:52I've LinkedIn the description, the platform that we recommend
- 2:55in case you don't have a psychic that you go to currently #4 is
- 2:59that your you're feeling lost AF.
- 3:02And I've also put down here ego death face because you literally
- 3:05don't know who you are anymore. You feel empty, confused.
- 3:09Things that define you no longer fits.
- 3:11And this sounds horrible, but this is where your true self
- 3:14emerges. It has to be that eco death face
- 3:17beforehand. The fifth thing that happens is
- 3:20that you're being pulled inward. So this is the hermit face.
- 3:23So you start craving alone time. And there's nothing wrong with
- 3:27that. I know we have a lot of fear of
- 3:29missing out. It's so normal to be like, what
- 3:31did you do this weekend? And you're expected to have
- 3:33socialised, but really take this time to go inwards and let
- 3:37yourself be alone, sit in silence, go on nature walks
- 3:41without a podcast, meditate, meditate, meditate.
- 3:44It's so important on your spiritual journey to do that.
- 3:47Journaling is so important. The reason for this is so that
- 3:50you're shifting from them to you and you will get so many
- 3:53downloads when you allow time for this silence.
- 3:57Number six, you've stopped chasing.
- 3:59If you're the divine feminine in this connection, then chances
- 4:02are you've had a tendency towards chasing.
- 4:05But at this point you've realised that you can't control
- 4:08the connection and you got to surrender and don't postpone
- 4:12your happiness and live now. Create your dream life now and
- 4:16not when you have this fairy tale romance with your dream
- 4:18flame. So be a bit selfish.
- 4:20Think about what do I actually want to experience this
- 4:23lifetime? Make a bucket list, make a
- 4:25vision board, have fun with it. The seventh thing that happens
- 4:28is that emotional balance starts forming.
- 4:30So you're still triggered, but you feel less reactive.
- 4:34Me and my twin flame, we're still getting triggered by each
- 4:36other. Like it doesn't disappear even
- 4:38in Union, I hate to say it, but you become less reactive, so you
- 4:41feel more grounded, more in your power.
- 4:44You choose peace over drama. So this is a really good place
- 4:48to be at this point. So this is kind of how it looks
- 4:50like, the seven step process of awakening that happens before
- 4:54union. And as you can hear, there's no
- 4:56perfection of constant bliss and high value.
- 5:00It's messy, it's raw, and it's transformational.
- 5:03So if this is you, you're not crazy, you're just awakening.
- 5:06And if you want to get to that place of union, being with your
- 5:09twin flame, which is so rewarding both for your soul but
- 5:12also your happiness, then check out our programme Twin Flame
- 5:16Reunion Fast track. I've put it in the description
- 5:18if you want to read more about it, that you'll find specific
- 5:21exercises, very grounded exercises on how to quicker
- 5:24unite with your twin flame. And I'd love to hear, did any of
- 5:27these signs resonate? Do you have a twin flame like
- 5:30Let us know in the comments. Love you so much and see you in
- 5:32the next episode.