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Celebrity Psychic Chris Medina · Untraditionally Lala

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  Speaker 1: What's up, Gorgeous? It is Laalacat with Rand. Big Big Wednesday,
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  Speaker 1: Huge Wednesday, I.
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  Speaker 2: Would say, the biggest Wednesday of two years that we've
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  Speaker 2: been doing this podcast.
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  Speaker 1: I am back on TV with my crew.
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  Speaker 2: Wow. I know what makes this Wednesday special is that
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  Speaker 2: you have been on a show for a long time.
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  Speaker 2: The show went into hiatus yep because of the pandemic. Yes,
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  Speaker 2: and you had the season premiere last night.
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  Speaker 1: Go along, Yes, give him a good clap. Rand loves
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  Speaker 1: a good clap.
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  Speaker 2: All right, tell us let's jump right into it. Nobody
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  Speaker 2: wants to hear any bullshit today. They want to hear
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  Speaker 2: you spill the fucking teeth.
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  Speaker 1: All right, So let's do a pre rec real quick.
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  Speaker 1: Keep in mind, like the season is completed, a lot
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  Speaker 1: of us went toes, A lot of us get along,
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  Speaker 1: a lot of us don't. A lot of us are
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  Speaker 1: cool now. But let's talk about last night's episode, Randa,
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  Speaker 1: what did you think of it?
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  Speaker 2: First of all, I honestly had so much fun watching it.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, there are parts that you know, like that
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  Speaker 2: I probably didn't love as much, the buttle enough with it.
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  Speaker 1: I thought it played out really nicely, like I thought
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  Speaker 1: it was going to be a much bigger deal, and
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  Speaker 1: it was actually just like a clip.
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  Speaker 2: Here's the thing, there's a different time in your life.
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  Speaker 2: And we've discussed this, but here at the end of
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  Speaker 2: the day, I want to talk about the show, the
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  Speaker 2: parts that I do love. I think that your cast,
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  Speaker 2: and I've said this for a long time, the fact
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  Speaker 2: you've been together now for nine years and you guys
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  Speaker 2: still go at it. I mean, I'm in shock. It
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  Speaker 2: is off the chain. When your group gets together.
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  Speaker 1: There's just like whoa rewatching it. It was like, I
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  Speaker 1: remember it so vividly, you know, because I came into
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  Speaker 1: the season as kind of an outsider, right.
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  Speaker 2: Because you can that's right, because you hadn't even seen
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  Speaker 2: the show.
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  Speaker 1: Well, my my crew that you know I am down with,
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  Speaker 1: they're no longer on the show anymore. So I came
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  Speaker 1: in I had Katie and that's pretty much where my
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  Speaker 1: alliances ended.
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  Speaker 2: You know, you have Katie and that's it.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. So I just felt like that day was amazing.
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  Speaker 1: It was the first day that we had filmed. I
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  Speaker 1: was promoting my book, I had a new baby.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, and you're you're you're you're feeling yourself.
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  Speaker 1: I was feeling myself. And you know, the whole thing
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  Speaker 1: was Sheena after I watched the episode and she had
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  Speaker 1: texted me and she was like, what did you think?
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  Speaker 1: And I said, well, our scene made me sob and
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  Speaker 1: it continues to make me sob and she was like,
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  Speaker 1: oh my god, I did the same thing. I just cried.
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  Speaker 2: It's crazy because I watched you watch the episode and
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  Speaker 2: you had tears in your eyes.
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  Speaker 1: I can't stop crying every time I watch it because
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  Speaker 1: it was like for me, and I even think for her,
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  Speaker 1: it was that was the end of our friendship.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: I was like, there's no coming back from this. No
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  Speaker 1: one's getting an apology from me. And you know that's
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  Speaker 1: the fucked up thing about perception is we all have
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  Speaker 1: our own right, you know. So I was thinking in
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  Speaker 1: that moment that she that she had miscarried, that I
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  Speaker 1: was there all the way.
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  Speaker 2: Well, I mean I again, I wasn't in the calls
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  Speaker 2: and the text, but I do know throughout the day
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  Speaker 2: you were saying do you want me to come see you?
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  Speaker 2: You asked her, and she at that point was going
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  Speaker 2: through it and you know, dealing with the brock, right,
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  Speaker 2: the brock of it like all that.
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  Speaker 1: And if you but if you watched the scene where
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  Speaker 1: she's talking to Brock where she's like, I'm having no,
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  Speaker 1: I'm having a panic attack. Now, it's like, well, hold up.
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  Speaker 1: You can't expect everyone to drop everything when you're finally ready.
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  Speaker 2: Right. So, but from what I understand, and tell me
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  Speaker 2: if I'm wrong. That day, because I was around you,
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  Speaker 2: she called you a bunch of times. You offered to
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  Speaker 2: go see her that day, but then she said, no,
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  Speaker 2: she just wants to be alone away for Brock.
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  Speaker 1: Yep, she wanted to go to sleep with Brock with
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  Speaker 1: her man.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: And then she called me and said, you know, I
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  Speaker 1: just found out that Brack is golfing. I checked his location.
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  Speaker 1: He hasn't answered me in a few hours. And you know,
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  Speaker 1: by that time, I had offered a bunch of times
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  Speaker 1: like to come see her. And you know they keep
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  Speaker 1: saying she chose celebrity. No, no, no, I didn't. If anyone
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  Speaker 1: who knows me knows, I don't give a fuck who
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  Speaker 1: you are, what you do, none of it. You and
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  Speaker 1: I had gone on a couple's trip, and you know
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  Speaker 1: shea was also in Palm Springs. I offered over and
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  Speaker 1: over again, even when she said, can you come now,
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  Speaker 1: And I was on my way to dinner. I said,
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  Speaker 1: I can come after. Are you hungry?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah? You were going to bry her food?
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  Speaker 1: Right, I told her, like, I can for sure, I'm
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  Speaker 1: on my way to dinner. I will one hundred percent
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  Speaker 1: come after. She said, by then, i'll be asleep. And
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  Speaker 1: I said, I'm going to text you when I finished
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  Speaker 1: dinner if you are great, if you're not, I will
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  Speaker 1: come to you.
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  Speaker 2: So well, this is what I don't understand about that
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  Speaker 2: whole thing. What I didn't understand is I remember throughout
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  Speaker 2: the day you offered to go see her, and she
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  Speaker 2: was obviously in a lot of pain and you wanted
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  Speaker 2: to be by herself. Remember that you told me that,
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  Speaker 2: And then on our way to dinner, she had called
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  Speaker 2: you and you said, I'll come right after, which the
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  Speaker 2: restaurant was actually much closer to our house. It was easy,
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  Speaker 2: and at that point she was like, you know, I'm
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  Speaker 2: going to sleep or whatever you had told me. But
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  Speaker 2: I just what I'm shocked about is I thought you
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  Speaker 2: guys were communicating well all day, so when all this
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  Speaker 2: stuff blew up, I was shocked at the perception. You know,
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  Speaker 2: both sides totally, but you know, listen. She was going
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  Speaker 2: through a catastrophic, horrible moment. Yeah, and I thought you
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  Speaker 2: were trying to be there for her as a friend,
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  Speaker 2: and at that time she didn't want you there.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: And then when she called you, I think she made
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  Speaker 2: it more about about you who you were going to
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  Speaker 2: dinner with, which had it was irrelevant?
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  Speaker 1: Well for me it was irrelevant, right, But I mean
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  Speaker 1: it doesn't matter.
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  Speaker 2: Like we had by the way, we had dinner with
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  Speaker 2: a bunch of people and you were ready to bail
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  Speaker 2: out of that dinner and had like eat for like
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  Speaker 2: thirty minutes, you said, and then go to our house,
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  Speaker 2: and at that point she didn't she didn't want you there.
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  Speaker 1: So luckily, you know, last night we squashed it. We
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  Speaker 1: have a beautiful moment together, Like I remember that, and
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  Speaker 1: you have to know, like when we're having conversations like that,
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  Speaker 1: like that conversation was very long. Obviously they used all
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  Speaker 1: of the key moments that were important, like anytime you're
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  Speaker 1: watching the show, every moment you see was the most
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  Speaker 1: important of the conversation, you know. So then we move
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  Speaker 1: on where I go outside and Raquel comes to check
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  Speaker 1: on me. What I think she's doing is coming to
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  Speaker 1: check on me. But then she like sits down and
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  Speaker 1: asks me, are we good? And I was like, I
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  Speaker 1: was a little confused when she did that, though, rand
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  Speaker 1: because I was like, well, yeah, we're good. I mean,
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  Speaker 1: I've lashed out you before, but we're in twenty twenty one,
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  Speaker 1: we haven't filmed this show in a couple years, and
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  Speaker 1: if my calculations are correct, that's the last time I
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  Speaker 1: lashed out. Are we not over that? You've been on
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  Speaker 1: my podcast since then. We've texted since then. So I
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  Speaker 1: was a little thrown, you know, And so I tried,
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  Speaker 1: I really, I mean.
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  Speaker 2: And again, it's a way in there. I mean, we've
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  Speaker 2: spent time with Braquel and Pan, so I mean I
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  Speaker 2: I was shocked to see that on the show.
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  Speaker 1: Well I was shocked too, And can I tell you
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  Speaker 1: in that moment, I felt so awkward because she was like,
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  Speaker 1: I just want to make sure we're good, and I'm like, well,
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  Speaker 1: I like you and I really dig you. And then
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  Speaker 1: she comes at me with the well I don't need
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  Speaker 1: your approval. I'm like, okay, then why are you sitting
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  Speaker 1: here asking me if we're good?
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  Speaker 2: You know?
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  Speaker 1: Like I was so lost and my face I remember
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  Speaker 1: through that whole conversation that I was so confused and
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  Speaker 1: I literally jokingly by the way, rand I was like,
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  Speaker 1: oh my god, I said out loud. I was like,
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  Speaker 1: this is the moment that I relapse, Like I'm going
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  Speaker 1: to pick a drink up and she goes, oh no,
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  Speaker 1: don't do that. I go, I'm joking this. Clearly, this
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  Speaker 1: is not gonna if I decide to drink it again
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  Speaker 1: the moment. This isn't going to be the tipping coin.
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  Speaker 1: Trust me, I've been through some shit. This ain't. This
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  Speaker 1: ain't the moment. And like, I was just so lost
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  Speaker 1: by that whole thing, and I remember it being such
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  Speaker 1: an awkward scene that it actually played out really cute
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  Speaker 1: when I was like, do you need to be babied?
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  Speaker 1: And I thought she was so cute and she was
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  Speaker 1: like just a little bit and I'm like, okay, now
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  Speaker 1: we're good, and bamn, here comes Ariana. I felt that
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  Speaker 1: night like I was in the Twilight zone. I was like,
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  Speaker 1: I can't catch a break. I'm tired. I just had
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  Speaker 1: a moment with Sena. It's Shina's birthday, then Ariana, which
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  Speaker 1: by the way, was shwasty baby. I couldn't get a
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  Speaker 1: word in, like again, we got all the key moments
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  Speaker 1: out of that that scene.
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  Speaker 2: Did it go on water because I wasn't there though.
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  Speaker 1: It was NonStop. She wouldn't let me talk and I
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  Speaker 1: was like, I could not get a word in. And
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  Speaker 1: that's when I decided. I was like, I can't. I like,
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  Speaker 1: I'm out.
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  Speaker 2: But here's the thing, shock.
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  Speaker 1: I don't like conversations that are not productive for me.
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  Speaker 2: I understand. Yeah. What I don't understand though, is that
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  Speaker 2: after watching that, I've been around Ariana, I've been around
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  Speaker 2: all your friends, and you guys get along for the
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  Speaker 2: most part, and then something happens in these moments generally
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  Speaker 2: like with alcohol or all of you. You know, maybe
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  Speaker 2: it's all of you in the same place, like all
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  Speaker 2: of you, because I've seen you like you and Ariana
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  Speaker 2: or you and Shena. But I don't think i've seen
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  Speaker 2: the whole group together in a long time.
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  Speaker 1: Well, you know, it's one of those things where you
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  Speaker 1: put a group together who have very i'll call them
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  Speaker 1: passionate people. We're very passionate about what we think, how
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  Speaker 1: we feel. We think that everyone needs to know every
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  Speaker 1: single thing that's going on in our mind, which is
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  Speaker 1: great because for the most part, our rugs are clean.
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  Speaker 1: Ain't nothing under there, you know for the most part,
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  Speaker 1: which I admire because there's no stronger bounce back than
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  Speaker 1: this group. Like we are resilient as it gets, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: you know, And that's why I said at the beginning,
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  Speaker 1: and like we're just we're talking about this episode. A
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  Speaker 1: lot of us are in different places now. You know,
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  Speaker 1: we filmed a whole season where there's a lot of resolve,
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  Speaker 1: But in this episode, this is where my head was at.
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  Speaker 1: You know, I'm watching Marianna. I was like, what do
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  Speaker 1: I do. Do I muzzle her with her faux fur?
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  Speaker 1: Do I throw her in the pool? Do I give
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  Speaker 1: her shock therapy? I don't know. I think the easiest
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  Speaker 1: thing to do.
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  Speaker 2: But people could see my face right now.
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  Speaker 1: I know he's looking at me like please shut up.
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  Speaker 2: But what I think at the end of the day
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  Speaker 2: is I think you guys are passionate people. I think
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  Speaker 2: you're all creative people, and I think that when you
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  Speaker 2: all get together, it's like the fourth of July. So
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  Speaker 2: I was shocked to see a lot of the stuff
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  Speaker 2: I saw on the first episode, but hey, fuck, it
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  Speaker 2: was intense, it was it was exciting.
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  Speaker 1: I thought it was really fantastic.
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  Speaker 2: It was fun to watch it.
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  Speaker 1: It was fun to watch a couple of moments. I
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  Speaker 1: wasn't cringing at myself, but a few people. I was like,
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  Speaker 1: I need to crawl in my own hole because I'm
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  Speaker 1: embarrassed for you right now. Wow, Yeah, this is intense.
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  Speaker 2: I think I just got to say this. I feel
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  Speaker 2: like the fact that vander Pump's back for you and
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  Speaker 2: for your cast is going to be so fun for audiences. They,
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  Speaker 2: I mean, they must be so excited because it's been
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  Speaker 2: been a couple of years.
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  Speaker 1: That's so weird to me, I know, because I feel
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  Speaker 1: like we picked up where we left off.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, you guys have a special ability.
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  Speaker 1: And not only did we pick up where we left off,
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  Speaker 1: there was a whole slew of just emotions that had
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  Speaker 1: happened over the course of two years that it was
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  Speaker 1: just like every time someone talked about something, it was
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  Speaker 1: just building up. And you know, we couldn't be around
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  Speaker 1: each other because we were in quarantine for so long
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  Speaker 1: and the pandemic hit, so it was like there was
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  Speaker 1: no way for us to douke it out anyway. You know,
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  Speaker 1: It's like we picked up filming when you could start
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  Speaker 1: seeing people.
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  Speaker 2: Well, the other thing that I think is very different
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  Speaker 2: is that you know, a lot of you are I
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  Speaker 2: mean a few of you are mothers now and so
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  Speaker 2: that adds a whole nother layer and a whole other dynamic.
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  Speaker 2: So I think I listen at the end of the day,
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  Speaker 2: I'm very, very excited because I saw the first episode
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  Speaker 2: and that was that was I was at the edge
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  Speaker 2: of my seat. I had no idea that this shit
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  Speaker 2: show was happening.
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  Speaker 1: I thought the first episode was great. I hope that
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  Speaker 1: everyone gives it a chance. I know that it looks different.
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  Speaker 1: I know that we've been away for a long time,
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  Speaker 1: but like, give it a chance because everyone knows. I
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  Speaker 1: don't need to go into it. Everyone knows how I
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  Speaker 1: felt about season eight. This season, we're back to the roots.
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  Speaker 1: We are like, it's like these friendships and this history
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  Speaker 1: that really it's beautiful. It's intense, and I hope you
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  Speaker 1: all enjoy it.
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  Speaker 2: Wow. I want to add one thing to that. I
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  Speaker 2: know watching the season did remind me, because I've watched
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  Speaker 2: it from the beginning. It did remind me of the
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  Speaker 2: early days where you know, it just was super raw,
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  Speaker 2: and I think, you guys, it's just I think it's
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  Speaker 2: be a lot of fun for audiences to see. But
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  Speaker 2: I agree. The first episode was a lot of fun.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, it was amazing. And now we are going to
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  Speaker 1: take a break. But before we head into the break,
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  Speaker 1: we have such an epic guest coming on. His name
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  Speaker 1: is Chris Medina. He is a celebrity psychic. Everyone knows
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  Speaker 1: I'm obsessed with psychics. I can't wait for him to
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  Speaker 1: be on the show.
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  Speaker 2: They call him the Howard Stern of psychics. I mean,
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  Speaker 2: come on, that's as cool as a freaking out.
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  Speaker 1: I'm shaking in my night.
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  Speaker 2: Let's tell you one last thing about him. He started
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  Speaker 2: giving readings at the age of three. Bring this man
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  Speaker 2: and I need to know.
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  Speaker 1: Oh honey, we're bringing him in. Trust me, all right.
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  Speaker 1: When we come back, we're back with Chris Medina. We
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  Speaker 1: are back, and we have a pretty epic guest, Chris Medina.
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  Speaker 1: They refer to you as the Howard Stern of psychics.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, the Howard Stern of psychic.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: I pride myself on that. But I said, if I'm
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  Speaker 3: gonna do this, I'm gonna do this the right way,
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  Speaker 3: and I'm gonna come out swinging. None of this love
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  Speaker 3: and light stuff. Yes, honesty is key, Yeah, for sure,
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  Speaker 3: for sure.
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  Speaker 1: So we saw here that you you started doing this
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  Speaker 1: at three. Yeah, I mean well what was that Like
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  Speaker 1: is a three year old to have that ability?
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  Speaker 2: And by the way, and what is that ability at
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  Speaker 2: three that you know you have this special thing? Like,
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  Speaker 2: how does it even.
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  Speaker 3: Need the psychic ability? My dad on my dad's side
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  Speaker 3: of the family, it's all Native American. It's all a
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  Speaker 3: patching India. And my dad back in the day was
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  Speaker 3: a gangster and he's a total biker now long Harley
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  Speaker 3: Davidson type hair, mustache, beard, everything Native still pumps iron.
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  Speaker 3: Would get stone with his friends, okay, and would invite
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  Speaker 3: me in there and give his friends readings.
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  Speaker 1: Wow.
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  Speaker 3: And I remember going up to this one guy and
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  Speaker 3: during during their smoke slash and telling him. My dad
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  Speaker 3: was like, tell him what he needs to hear. And
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  Speaker 3: I was telling the guy that he was sad. I
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  Speaker 3: remember a little little bits and pieces of it that
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  Speaker 3: he was sad and that he was worried about something.
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  Speaker 3: And the guy started crying, and I thought I was
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  Speaker 3: going to get in trouble.
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  Speaker 2: Wow. I was like, oh shit.
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  Speaker 3: And then my Dad's like, no, don't worry about it.
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  Speaker 3: You just told him what he needed to hear. And
• 14:52
  Speaker 3: then my dad would every now and then when we
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  Speaker 3: you know, we'd be on the bike or in the car,
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  Speaker 3: he'd say, tell me what you think about that person,
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  Speaker 3: and like play on that. And because my dad is,
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  Speaker 3: my dad's a more of a medium. He's got the
• 15:02
  Speaker 3: psychic ability, but he's able to see ghosts, so his
• 15:04
  Speaker 3: ability is a little bit different in the stuff with
• 15:07
  Speaker 3: the ghost for me came a little bit later.
• 15:09
  Speaker 1: So for those people that don't understand the difference, what
• 15:13
  Speaker 1: is the difference between a psychic and a medium.
• 15:16
  Speaker 3: A psychic, to me, and this is just my opinion,
• 15:18
  Speaker 3: is somebody that's able to predict the future, past, present,
• 15:21
  Speaker 3: future some people. Somebody's able to get hits off at somebody.
• 15:26
  Speaker 3: Just looking at somebody, I'm able to pick up, you know,
• 15:28
  Speaker 3: what they were like as a kid, things that they're
• 15:30
  Speaker 3: suffering from, things that are holding them back in the
• 15:32
  Speaker 3: present time. And I'd like to dip back into the
• 15:34
  Speaker 3: past life because sometimes the past life bleeds and yeah.
• 15:39
  Speaker 1: But then hold on, I want to the medium is
• 15:42
  Speaker 1: they connect to the other side.
• 15:43
  Speaker 3: The medium side's a little trippy, and I'm different when
• 15:47
  Speaker 3: it comes to the medium side. I see a lot
• 15:48
  Speaker 3: of people on television going out there screaming at ghosts,
• 15:51
  Speaker 3: you know, trying to contact you know, somebody that's passed over.
• 15:53
  Speaker 3: And the ghosts have actually schooled me and have told
• 15:55
  Speaker 3: me why would I come and see you if I
• 15:57
  Speaker 3: don't know you?
• 15:59
  Speaker 2: Right?
• 15:59
  Speaker 3: You know what I mean, saying like like I have
• 16:00
  Speaker 3: no connection to you. So when that, when the ghost
• 16:02
  Speaker 3: comes in, it's usually attached to somebody that I'm reading directly, because.
• 16:07
  Speaker 2: I can't just call in some it has to be
• 16:09
  Speaker 2: with somebody.
• 16:10
  Speaker 3: Yeah, and if I can't and to cut all the
• 16:12
  Speaker 3: red tape, if I can't pick up on them like
• 16:13
  Speaker 3: medium wise, give me a picture of them and I'm
• 16:15
  Speaker 3: able to tap in that way what their life was like,
• 16:18
  Speaker 3: what was what it was like prior to their death,
• 16:20
  Speaker 3: all that good stuff.
• 16:21
  Speaker 2: Let me let me ask you a question. When you
• 16:22
  Speaker 2: see a ghost, what does it look like? Is it
• 16:26
  Speaker 2: the person? Kind of an image? Is it a light?
• 16:28
  Speaker 2: I mean, I'm just curious how that comes across or
• 16:31
  Speaker 2: is it different every time?
• 16:32
  Speaker 3: It's different every time. For me with my dad, he's
• 16:35
  Speaker 3: able to see it in real time, able to communicate
• 16:37
  Speaker 3: with it face to face. I'm able to pick up
• 16:39
  Speaker 3: on it and hear it, not necessarily see it all
• 16:41
  Speaker 3: the time. I don't have that ability that my dad's
• 16:44
  Speaker 3: that my dad has where you could see it all
• 16:45
  Speaker 3: the time. Mine I can hear it. So if I
• 16:47
  Speaker 3: was giving Laala a reading and somebody was going to
• 16:49
  Speaker 3: come through, I'd sit there and give it. It works
• 16:52
  Speaker 3: like this. I'm giving her the reading. I'm telling her
• 16:54
  Speaker 3: what's going on. This person's coming through and telling me, oh,
• 16:56
  Speaker 3: make sure you tell you tell her X, Y and Z.
• 16:59
  Speaker 3: Make sure you say this, because she's going to know
• 17:01
  Speaker 3: who it is. So I'm trying to at the same time,
• 17:03
  Speaker 3: I'm trying to weed out that person because when you
• 17:05
  Speaker 3: open that side up, everybody wants to come through. Oh really,
• 17:08
  Speaker 3: So I'm trying to make sure that it's something specific
• 17:10
  Speaker 3: for her.
• 17:10
  Speaker 2: Got it right?
• 17:11
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's amazing that it is amazing. Yeah, I just
• 17:14
  Speaker 1: think that that would be so overwhelming to experience that
• 17:17
  Speaker 1: at three? Was it? Did you kind of wanted to
• 17:20
  Speaker 1: shut off?
• 17:21
  Speaker 3: The medium stuff didn't start coming in till I was
• 17:23
  Speaker 3: a little bit old, around six or seven. But the
• 17:25
  Speaker 3: psychic stuff, no, everyone asks, can you turn that off?
• 17:27
  Speaker 1: No?
• 17:28
  Speaker 3: It never shuts off.
• 17:29
  Speaker 1: I mean, did you want it to because it seems
• 17:33
  Speaker 1: like you probably already have a lot of your own
• 17:34
  Speaker 1: emotions to deal with, and then you're you're around people
• 17:37
  Speaker 1: and you're like, oh my gosh, yeah.
• 17:39
  Speaker 3: For sure, for sure.
• 17:40
  Speaker 2: I didn't.
• 17:41
  Speaker 3: I didn't want it to dull. I wanted the medium
• 17:43
  Speaker 3: side to go away a little bit.
• 17:44
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it says that in your thirties is when you
• 17:46
  Speaker 2: got really focused on that. Is that correct, Like that's
• 17:49
  Speaker 2: when it really became like it just became your full
• 17:52
  Speaker 2: lie thing.
• 17:53
  Speaker 3: I almost died when I was a kid. I had
• 17:54
  Speaker 3: severe asthma and I'm old. So back back in the day,
• 17:56
  Speaker 3: they would put you in a plastic bubble remember those. Yeah,
• 18:00
  Speaker 3: I would have to sit in there for like a
• 18:01
  Speaker 3: couple for a couple of days to get all the oxygen.
• 18:03
  Speaker 3: So I remember sitting in there and my GUIDs were
• 18:05
  Speaker 3: telling me. I was telling them, look, I'm not afraid anymore.
• 18:08
  Speaker 3: I can die, just let me go. I'm not scared,
• 18:10
  Speaker 3: and they were like, no, you're here for a different reason.
• 18:12
  Speaker 3: You need to concentrate on getting better. We will let
• 18:14
  Speaker 3: you know. So fast forward all these years, from the
• 18:17
  Speaker 3: age of like five until twenty fourteen, my guides came
• 18:20
  Speaker 3: in and said, remember what we told you back then
• 18:22
  Speaker 3: at the age of five. Now it's time. Wow, a
• 18:25
  Speaker 3: normal life. I have two kids. My daughter is twenty three,
• 18:28
  Speaker 3: my son is twenty two.
• 18:29
  Speaker 1: That is so crazy because I'm looking at you and
• 18:31
  Speaker 1: you have such a baby like you don't look grown.
• 18:34
  Speaker 3: I feel like I'm one hundred and twenty years later.
• 18:36
  Speaker 1: Well, I can imagine when you have got people talking
• 18:38
  Speaker 1: to you and sure, I mean, it's enough to just
• 18:41
  Speaker 1: deal with my own set of issues, let alone take
• 18:44
  Speaker 1: on other people.
• 18:44
  Speaker 2: Exactly that thanks till of us.
• 18:46
  Speaker 3: Yeah, so yeah, I just it's so fast forward to
• 18:49
  Speaker 3: twenty fourteen. They came in and said it's time and
• 18:51
  Speaker 3: I was like, well, wait a minute, how is this
• 18:52
  Speaker 3: going to work. I'm making at that time, I was
• 18:54
  Speaker 3: making two hundred thousand dollars a year. I was very comfortable.
• 18:56
  Speaker 3: I had these two kids to raise, a house in
• 18:59
  Speaker 3: a car. And I said, this is not how it
• 19:00
  Speaker 3: works in the material world. I can't just you know, I.
• 19:05
  Speaker 2: Mortgage on a psychic mission. That's tough.
• 19:08
  Speaker 3: So Jay was living with me at the time. He
• 19:10
  Speaker 3: actually helped me run the company that we were working
• 19:12
  Speaker 3: at before. And I told Jay, I said, it's time
• 19:14
  Speaker 3: and he was like, well, what do you mean And
• 19:15
  Speaker 3: I said, they want me to start doing this as
• 19:17
  Speaker 3: a profession. Now He's like, how are we going to
• 19:19
  Speaker 3: do this? I said, I don't know. Reach out to
• 19:20
  Speaker 3: every celebrity, every radio station, every televisiation, anywhere that wants
• 19:24
  Speaker 3: a psychic reading. And then the first thing he booked
• 19:26
  Speaker 3: was Comic Con.
• 19:26
  Speaker 1: Come on, yeah, so I saw that in your bio
• 19:29
  Speaker 1: that you gave a read to a little girl.
• 19:32
  Speaker 3: Yeah, this one was. This is the first. So when
• 19:35
  Speaker 3: people ask me who are your guides? Who are they?
• 19:38
  Speaker 3: And I've only labeled them guides because that's what the
• 19:40
  Speaker 3: public labels them. And I used to just say they
• 19:43
  Speaker 3: don't I've never said I never used those metaphysical hochey words,
• 19:46
  Speaker 3: you know, and so so, for lack of a better word,
• 19:48
  Speaker 3: that I would say guides. So I'm sitting there and
• 19:50
  Speaker 3: this woman comes in. She wants a reading, and she said,
• 19:52
  Speaker 3: you know, I've heard great things about you like a
• 19:54
  Speaker 3: reading and I said, yeah, perfect, I said, but I
• 19:55
  Speaker 3: want to read your daughter first. And the girls like
• 19:58
  Speaker 3: eight or nine years old. And the woman goes, well,
• 20:01
  Speaker 3: what for And I said, because she's a medium, And
• 20:04
  Speaker 3: she said what And I was like, yeah, I said,
• 20:06
  Speaker 3: she talks to dead people. Come on, yeah, come on,
• 20:08
  Speaker 3: yes for sure. And the girl was like, So I
• 20:11
  Speaker 3: told the mom, I said, just have her sit down
• 20:13
  Speaker 3: and say you can leave the door open. And I said,
• 20:14
  Speaker 3: you can hear what I'm telling her, that you don't
• 20:15
  Speaker 3: have to close the door. And I asked the little girl,
• 20:17
  Speaker 3: I said, you know you're different. I said, tell me
• 20:19
  Speaker 3: about the people that you talk to that that nobody
• 20:22
  Speaker 3: else can see. And she said, oh, you mean the
• 20:24
  Speaker 3: little bald girl that comes and plays with me? And
• 20:26
  Speaker 3: my yes, I can't. This is sixth sense and shot
• 20:32
  Speaker 3: on movie right here, and this is a little girl
• 20:34
  Speaker 3: whose mother I was supposed to read, not her.
• 20:36
  Speaker 2: And you read her and he said, because she speaks
• 20:38
  Speaker 2: to she speaks to dead people, right. And then she
• 20:41
  Speaker 2: says to you, oh, the little girl that comes in
• 20:43
  Speaker 2: plays And then she tells me about her dad fall
• 20:46
  Speaker 2: out of the chair.
• 20:46
  Speaker 3: Her dad died of an overdose, and so she's like,
• 20:49
  Speaker 3: my daddy comes and apologize for me. He cries all
• 20:51
  Speaker 3: the time. Yeah, and then she stops midsentense. So this
• 20:55
  Speaker 3: is going to freak you out. And I'm already getting
• 20:56
  Speaker 3: goosebum I know.
• 20:57
  Speaker 1: I know.
• 20:58
  Speaker 3: She's like. She stops and she goes and I'm like,
• 21:02
  Speaker 3: what's the matter and she goes, She's just like looking
• 21:04
  Speaker 3: right behind me, and behind me was a wall. There
• 21:06
  Speaker 3: was nothing there. And I was like, what are you
• 21:08
  Speaker 3: looking at? And she goes, I know how you know
• 21:11
  Speaker 3: how to tell people what to, how to, how to?
• 21:13
  Speaker 3: I know how you tell people what to say or
• 21:16
  Speaker 3: what what? What what you're telling people? I know how
• 21:18
  Speaker 3: you get it? And I was like how? And she
• 21:19
  Speaker 3: goes the two ladies that are talking inside your ear
• 21:23
  Speaker 3: and the big guy behind them telling them what to say.
• 21:26
  Speaker 3: And I was like, you can see them right now?
• 21:27
  Speaker 3: And she goes, yeah. She goes, she goes, can't you
• 21:30
  Speaker 3: hear them? And I was like no, and she goes,
• 21:33
  Speaker 3: that's what. That's how you know what to tell people.
• 21:35
  Speaker 3: They tell you. And I was like, you can see
• 21:38
  Speaker 3: them and she goes, oh, my only medium that I've
• 21:41
  Speaker 3: ever had to read me was.
• 21:43
  Speaker 2: A nine year old with her No, Oh my god,
• 21:47
  Speaker 2: that's amazing. Okay, you have to jump into us.
• 21:50
  Speaker 1: Speacause, hold on, do you have any idea who she
• 21:52
  Speaker 1: may have been talking about when she said the big
• 21:54
  Speaker 1: guy behind you?
• 21:55
  Speaker 2: None of them would I would lose my I lose
• 21:59
  Speaker 2: my shit.
• 21:59
  Speaker 3: If yeah, they don't come and talk to me like
• 22:01
  Speaker 3: I'm sitting here talking to you. They don't say, oh,
• 22:02
  Speaker 3: tell la, la, x Y and Z. You just it
• 22:04
  Speaker 3: just it's just pictures and it's it's just in my head.
• 22:08
  Speaker 3: I just it just comes on. And before I would
• 22:10
  Speaker 3: have to sit there and look at a picture for
• 22:11
  Speaker 3: a little bit and say, okay, let me let me
• 22:12
  Speaker 3: dissect what I'm going to tell her, And now my
• 22:14
  Speaker 3: GUIDs are like, no, you're going to get the information
• 22:16
  Speaker 3: as soon as she picks up with the bone or
• 22:17
  Speaker 3: as soon as you sit down in front of them.
• 22:18
  Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, I like you, so honored to have
• 22:21
  Speaker 1: you on the podcast much thank you. Amazing and like,
• 22:25
  Speaker 1: what an incredible experience that nine year old.
• 22:27
  Speaker 2: Yeah, let's let's jump right in because I need to
• 22:30
  Speaker 2: hear something. This is too too you know me. I
• 22:33
  Speaker 2: love this stuff.
• 22:33
  Speaker 1: Do you care if we get to read from you?
• 22:35
  Speaker 3: Nope, let's do it.
• 22:36
  Speaker 1: Let's do it. Okay, Randal's first, I'm going to.
• 22:38
  Speaker 2: Give you up first.
• 22:39
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm going to give you my spiel first, just
• 22:41
  Speaker 3: to let you know before you answer this question, I
• 22:43
  Speaker 3: do not discuss death and I do not discuss anything
• 22:46
  Speaker 3: that's going to scare the shit out of you.
• 22:47
  Speaker 1: Okay, So keeping said, is.
• 22:49
  Speaker 3: There anything that you want me to stay away from?
• 22:51
  Speaker 1: No, perfect, not at all.
• 22:53
  Speaker 3: The second thing is, for the first couple of minutes,
• 22:54
  Speaker 3: I'm going to go in and give you what my
• 22:56
  Speaker 3: guides are giving me to give you directly, and then
• 22:57
  Speaker 3: I'll open the reading up to any questions that you
• 22:59
  Speaker 3: have in regard to what I said, or if you
• 23:01
  Speaker 3: want to know about something that we didn't get a
• 23:02
  Speaker 3: chance to touch on, we could do it at that time.
• 23:03
  Speaker 3: Does that work?
• 23:04
  Speaker 1: That works great?
• 23:05
  Speaker 3: Perfect? And then the final final thing, and your time
• 23:08
  Speaker 3: is very important and expensive to me. I want you
• 23:09
  Speaker 3: to feel free to jump into call bullshit at any time,
• 23:11
  Speaker 3: Do not hold back, do not worry about trying to
• 23:13
  Speaker 3: be polite. And I want to hurt my feelings, none
• 23:14
  Speaker 3: of that.
• 23:15
  Speaker 2: Okay.
• 23:15
  Speaker 3: If it doesn't resonate or if it sounds off, let
• 23:17
  Speaker 3: me know. When I do had stuff, simply confirm yes,
• 23:19
  Speaker 3: but do not give me any additional detailskat Okay, he's.
• 23:22
  Speaker 1: The real freaking deal. Nice a welcome.
• 23:24
  Speaker 3: I don't know, don't be go ahead, So I'm not
• 23:29
  Speaker 3: going to tell you anything that you don't already know,
• 23:30
  Speaker 3: so when it comes to we touch on it briefly.
• 23:32
  Speaker 3: I just wanted to make sure that I can hit
• 23:33
  Speaker 3: on these things while we're on the show. So with you,
• 23:35
  Speaker 3: even though you and Lala come as a package deal,
• 23:37
  Speaker 3: you guys still have your separate roads of life that
• 23:39
  Speaker 3: you're going down. And with you, I would I said
• 23:42
  Speaker 3: I said redemption earlier, but I don't feel it's that hardcore.
• 23:45
  Speaker 3: I feel like with you, what you're doing is you're
• 23:46
  Speaker 3: kind of like revisiting where you are right now in
• 23:50
  Speaker 3: this time and space, and I feel like there's adjustments
• 23:52
  Speaker 3: that need to be made as far as like when
• 23:53
  Speaker 3: it comes to your way of thinking, things that used
• 23:55
  Speaker 3: to work for you before aren't working for you right now,
• 23:57
  Speaker 3: as far as like the way that you're going about
• 23:59
  Speaker 3: doing things, the way in the way that you feel inside.
• 24:01
  Speaker 3: I feel like you keep it going that you're they
• 24:04
  Speaker 3: give you a very service level to other people, but
• 24:06
  Speaker 3: incredibly intuitive and also an overthinker when nobody else is
• 24:11
  Speaker 3: around correct And I feel like with you that you
• 24:13
  Speaker 3: can This is not a shot at you, but I
• 24:15
  Speaker 3: feel like you need to work on how you can
• 24:17
  Speaker 3: take it rather than you dish it because you love
• 24:19
  Speaker 3: to dish it, but can't take it back necessarily, and
• 24:21
  Speaker 3: so your guides is So I feel like with you
• 24:23
  Speaker 3: that the hardest part right now for you is understanding
• 24:25
  Speaker 3: that and realizing that it's it's not about being vulnerable
• 24:29
  Speaker 3: or weakness or you know, lowering your power in any way,
• 24:32
  Speaker 3: shape or form here. But I feel like with you
• 24:34
  Speaker 3: that again, like I said, there's this thought process to
• 24:36
  Speaker 3: where I want to evolve, but I don't know how
• 24:39
  Speaker 3: that's going to look. I don't I don't know. I
• 24:41
  Speaker 3: don't know whether or not it's going to be accepted.
• 24:44
  Speaker 3: Does that make sense? Yeah, That's where I feel like
• 24:45
  Speaker 3: you're at right now.
• 24:46
  Speaker 2: I think it's beyond on point because I'm going through
• 24:49
  Speaker 2: a whole rebrand in life and just a new way
• 24:54
  Speaker 2: of thinking, and I'm trying you know what I mean.
• 24:56
  Speaker 2: I'm just really like low and I just talked about
• 24:58
  Speaker 2: it literally thirty minutes before you came about just you know,
• 25:01
  Speaker 2: I want I'm trying to I'm changing careers and all
• 25:04
  Speaker 2: this stuff is happening, and it's like overload overload. So
• 25:07
  Speaker 2: what I am in my thoughts alone? Yeah? I am.
• 25:10
  Speaker 2: You thought You've.
• 25:11
  Speaker 3: Gone through a lot in the short time that you've
• 25:13
  Speaker 3: been here, mentally, you've seen a lot, You've witnessed a lot,
• 25:15
  Speaker 3: and so with you, I feel like your memory is
• 25:18
  Speaker 3: the one thing that you need to put into check
• 25:20
  Speaker 3: because I feel like sometimes as much as you want,
• 25:22
  Speaker 3: you want to be about the future, you can really
• 25:24
  Speaker 3: bring your past, from your problems from the past into
• 25:26
  Speaker 3: your future and stop yourself. And I feel like I
• 25:29
  Speaker 3: feel like again your intuition for whatever reason, And again,
• 25:31
  Speaker 3: I know you come as a package deal, but there's
• 25:33
  Speaker 3: something different about your progression right now. So make sure
• 25:36
  Speaker 3: that you take time with it and that you that
• 25:37
  Speaker 3: you allow yourself the opportunity to make the mistakes or
• 25:40
  Speaker 3: learn what you need to learn at this point in time.
• 25:42
  Speaker 3: Because I feel like with you again to say redemption
• 25:44
  Speaker 3: that's a hardcore word, but I also feel like you
• 25:46
  Speaker 3: don't you don't have with all not that not that
• 25:50
  Speaker 3: death is coming here, but you don't have a lot
• 25:51
  Speaker 3: of time to be fucking around. I feel like with you,
• 25:53
  Speaker 3: there's that the next two years are going to be
• 25:55
  Speaker 3: very fast paced for you.
• 25:57
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I would say the next two years are probably
• 25:59
  Speaker 2: the most important year both personally because I have a
• 26:02
  Speaker 2: newborn you know, child, and you know relationship wise and
• 26:05
  Speaker 2: then career wise. I think it's all that I put
• 26:08
  Speaker 2: a lot of pressure on myself a lot about time lately.
• 26:12
  Speaker 2: I never did that before, but now that I'm fifty,
• 26:14
  Speaker 2: I think about it a lot, like every day means
• 26:17
  Speaker 2: something today versus like I think when I was in
• 26:19
  Speaker 2: my thirties, I never even thought about.
• 26:21
  Speaker 3: That's why I'm saying, there's something, there's something with your
• 26:23
  Speaker 3: mentality that's changing here. But I don't want you to
• 26:25
  Speaker 3: stop the progression of that because you're overthinking it, or
• 26:28
  Speaker 3: you're or you don't or you don't see it as
• 26:31
  Speaker 3: clearly as you used to be able to see it before,
• 26:32
  Speaker 3: because now now you're going to be working on not
• 26:35
  Speaker 3: necessarily your intuition here, but a different phase, a different
• 26:38
  Speaker 3: chapter of life. I feel like that what you've gone
• 26:40
  Speaker 3: through before was again a lot of lessons, so now
• 26:42
  Speaker 3: now you have the opportunity to correct what you've learned
• 26:44
  Speaker 3: and kind of move at a different in a in
• 26:46
  Speaker 3: a different direction, somewhat the same, but a different feeling
• 26:49
  Speaker 3: that goes along with that.
• 26:50
  Speaker 2: I one hundred percent, and I think I'm trying to
• 26:54
  Speaker 2: enjoy life more so than worrying about the destination. Every
• 26:58
  Speaker 2: five minutes, because for thirty years of my career was
• 27:02
  Speaker 2: get it done and personally, don't worry about anything else,
• 27:05
  Speaker 2: just get there and and today I want to enjoy
• 27:08
  Speaker 2: the things that are more important, which is my family
• 27:11
  Speaker 2: and a new birth of my career.
• 27:13
  Speaker 3: How's your physical health been lately? The reason, the only
• 27:16
  Speaker 3: reason why I ask, is because you got to take
• 27:17
  Speaker 3: it easy, especially when it comes to your stress and
• 27:19
  Speaker 3: it comes to I don't know if you're an emotional eater,
• 27:22
  Speaker 3: but you, but you you he talked, He knows what
• 27:26
  Speaker 3: needs to be done, but getting him to do it
• 27:28
  Speaker 3: is a different story sometimes. So take it easy because
• 27:31
  Speaker 3: I don't like the way. I'm not saying. I'm not
• 27:32
  Speaker 3: a doctor to take this with a brain of salt
• 27:34
  Speaker 3: if you need to, and I'm not. I would never
• 27:35
  Speaker 3: talk about being overweight because I am as well too.
• 27:38
  Speaker 3: But there's a lot of I feel like with you
• 27:39
  Speaker 3: sometimes I question whether or not people know how stressed
• 27:42
  Speaker 3: you are or what's going on on the inside of you.
• 27:44
  Speaker 3: She may know because she know, yeah, But I feel
• 27:48
  Speaker 3: like with you, that that that I.
• 27:50
  Speaker 2: Share with you, I try to be. I think I
• 27:55
  Speaker 2: think I've built myself over the decades into a way
• 28:00
  Speaker 2: if somebody like She'll always say, I can't believe your
• 28:02
  Speaker 2: hand the stress that you handle the way you do.
• 28:05
  Speaker 2: I think I've packaged myself into a way where it's
• 28:07
  Speaker 2: just kind of how I operate. At the same time, definitely,
• 28:11
  Speaker 2: I have to be concerned with my heart, and.
• 28:13
  Speaker 3: I definitely have I'm glad you said that.
• 28:15
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I have issue. I definitely have some you know,
• 28:17
  Speaker 2: issues that I have to take some preventative medication to prevent.
• 28:21
  Speaker 2: And I also have to change my diet completely. And
• 28:24
  Speaker 2: this all happened what like two weeks ago. Yeah, now
• 28:27
  Speaker 2: I have a food delivery thing because I'm trying to
• 28:30
  Speaker 2: eat really clean.
• 28:31
  Speaker 3: But remember something, This is what I talk about when
• 28:33
  Speaker 3: people talk about manifestation or the power of good intention.
• 28:37
  Speaker 3: Make sure that the intention is there. You've read all
• 28:39
  Speaker 3: the books. You know what I'm saying. You already know
• 28:40
  Speaker 3: what you need to be doing. Start feeling that. Because again,
• 28:43
  Speaker 3: it's one thing to say what you're going to do,
• 28:44
  Speaker 3: it's different for you. I'm talking to as you as
• 28:46
  Speaker 3: an individual to actually to actually put the not the
• 28:49
  Speaker 3: effort to work in, but allow yourself to take yourself there.
• 28:52
  Speaker 2: Right instead of right, instead of just knowing it actually
• 28:55
  Speaker 2: feel do it right right? And I think for the
• 28:57
  Speaker 2: first time, I really freak myself out with my health
• 29:02
  Speaker 2: and and la la, I was like, you need to
• 29:04
  Speaker 2: no more fucking around, Like this is your wake up call.
• 29:07
  Speaker 2: And so now I'm really I've changed the food thing.
• 29:11
  Speaker 2: I've made a commitment to really start there and then
• 29:14
  Speaker 2: hopefully continue down the road. But you're, yeah, you're on
• 29:17
  Speaker 2: point with all that, because that's all happening right now.
• 29:19
  Speaker 3: Do you have any questions in regards to that before
• 29:20
  Speaker 3: I jump off to lala.
• 29:22
  Speaker 2: Am I going to die early?
• 29:23
  Speaker 1: No, don't ask that. I won't ask.
• 29:26
  Speaker 3: That's why I'm telling you to make sure that you're
• 29:28
  Speaker 3: taking it easy.
• 29:29
  Speaker 2: I'm not saying a fucking hint.
• 29:32
  Speaker 3: But again, your way of thinking and tell me if
• 29:35
  Speaker 3: this is wrong, called bullshit if you need to. I
• 29:36
  Speaker 3: feel like again, like I said that, you're that you're
• 29:38
  Speaker 3: very sensitive. But I but I question whether or not
• 29:41
  Speaker 3: you're seeing everything that's going on here because you've been
• 29:44
  Speaker 3: told either don't overthink or whatever the casey B So
• 29:47
  Speaker 3: you bottle a good majority of I.
• 29:49
  Speaker 2: Think I do, and I think I'm really working I
• 29:50
  Speaker 2: have to work on that. I think that's something that
• 29:52
  Speaker 2: I want to, you know, be able to communicate better.
• 29:55
  Speaker 2: And I think that's something that I have to like
• 29:57
  Speaker 2: work on because you know, you, you know, something thinks
• 30:00
  Speaker 2: so well, like whether it's your career or you've been
• 30:03
  Speaker 2: successful in life or whatever it may be, and then
• 30:05
  Speaker 2: you kind of wake up and you realize, Okay, I've
• 30:07
  Speaker 2: got to pivot, you know, I've got to be open minded,
• 30:10
  Speaker 2: I've got to be more vulnerable. And I think that's
• 30:13
  Speaker 2: something that I'm definitely committed to working on, you know,
• 30:16
  Speaker 2: as being way more vulnerable than I've been over the decades.
• 30:20
  Speaker 3: Yeah, because I feel like, like I said, whatever whatever's
• 30:22
  Speaker 3: gone on in the past with you, you're making again
• 30:24
  Speaker 3: to say redemptions. That's just a strong word, but you're
• 30:27
  Speaker 3: making up for the shit that's gone on. And I
• 30:29
  Speaker 3: feel like with you that, like I said, I don't
• 30:31
  Speaker 3: have anything negative to say when it comes to how
• 30:32
  Speaker 3: you earn your money or your career, I don't see that.
• 30:34
  Speaker 3: I feel like right now is a very personal time
• 30:36
  Speaker 3: for you. The next two years are very personal as
• 30:38
  Speaker 3: far as your own personal progression. But then after those
• 30:40
  Speaker 3: two years, I kind of feel like you're going to
• 30:41
  Speaker 3: reach a point and no one's ever completely blissfully happy
• 30:44
  Speaker 3: or peaceful. But you're going to reach out point to
• 30:46
  Speaker 3: where I kind of like the way that I look.
• 30:48
  Speaker 3: I put the time and effort in here, things are
• 30:50
  Speaker 3: kind of I just I feel like you're going in
• 30:51
  Speaker 3: a different direction I am.
• 30:53
  Speaker 2: And it's probably the biggest change in my life right
• 30:57
  Speaker 2: I mean, I'm really really going through a lot of
• 31:00
  Speaker 2: change right now and rebranding, you know, business, and I'm
• 31:04
  Speaker 2: going into a different path and also personally with that
• 31:07
  Speaker 2: a lot of change. You know, I have a brand
• 31:08
  Speaker 2: new daughter six months old that I want to be
• 31:11
  Speaker 2: perfect for, and I think I've put a lot of
• 31:13
  Speaker 2: pressure on myself to be the best version of myself
• 31:18
  Speaker 2: so that when she's old enough to you.
• 31:19
  Speaker 3: Know, there's going to be some lessons to be learning
• 31:21
  Speaker 3: with the baby as well too. She's a beautiful baby,
• 31:24
  Speaker 3: but she's I mean, when she starts to get older,
• 31:26
  Speaker 3: you're going to start to see some of the things.
• 31:28
  Speaker 3: And I'm not I'm not putting a hex or saying
• 31:29
  Speaker 3: anything negative there, but you're going to see some of
• 31:31
  Speaker 3: the things that you think about. She's gonna she's gonna
• 31:34
  Speaker 3: say out loud, and I'm not saying that she doesn't
• 31:36
  Speaker 3: have her mother in her, but you're going to see
• 31:38
  Speaker 3: that sensitive side to her to where you're going to
• 31:39
  Speaker 3: be like, Okay, well wait a minute, we need to
• 31:41
  Speaker 3: switch us up in some way. I feel like I'm
• 31:43
  Speaker 3: not saying she's going to be overly emotional, but the
• 31:45
  Speaker 3: way that she chooses about her boundaries or how she
• 31:49
  Speaker 3: cooperates with other people, you're going to see very much
• 31:51
  Speaker 3: yourself in her. I see a huge lesson there with
• 31:53
  Speaker 3: her in you, and.
• 31:54
  Speaker 2: I want to be when she's old enough to really
• 31:56
  Speaker 2: have conversations. I really want to be dialed in and
• 32:00
  Speaker 2: in the vulnerability, and you know, because I'm sensitive, like
• 32:03
  Speaker 2: beyond like she knows. I mean, you know, I mean
• 32:06
  Speaker 2: I can.
• 32:06
  Speaker 1: I think he's more sensitive than I am.
• 32:08
  Speaker 3: Oh I think so, I'm gonna say that, but I
• 32:13
  Speaker 3: feel like with her, I feel like.
• 32:14
  Speaker 2: That's not true. We're both pretty session.
• 32:15
  Speaker 3: I want to hear that, but she's she's super It's
• 32:18
  Speaker 3: not that you're afraid to talk shit or or to
• 32:20
  Speaker 3: call people out. She's a little bit more direct. But
• 32:23
  Speaker 3: I feel like with her sometimes that ends up happening
• 32:25
  Speaker 3: is that she doesn't go as hardcore as she needs
• 32:27
  Speaker 3: to sometimes, and she can hold herself back and then
• 32:30
  Speaker 3: end up presenting it because she can be like, well,
• 32:31
  Speaker 3: I wish I would have said this or god, you know,
• 32:33
  Speaker 3: blah blah blah, this or whatever. It's difficult for sometimes
• 32:36
  Speaker 3: because she wants to speak up. But at the same time,
• 32:38
  Speaker 3: I feel like that you don't get everything out because
• 32:39
  Speaker 3: that makes sense.
• 32:40
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that makes sense.
• 32:41
  Speaker 3: And then so when I when I was doing your
• 32:43
  Speaker 3: session earlier than thinking about, Okay, what am I gonna
• 32:45
  Speaker 3: tell her? I know who she is. I I've seen
• 32:47
  Speaker 3: you before. Don't be afraid to burn these bridges, especially
• 32:51
  Speaker 3: when you know there's nothing there. And I feel like
• 32:53
  Speaker 3: with you that that I feel like you're cut from
• 32:56
  Speaker 3: a different cloth. Again, it doesn't matter what I think.
• 32:59
  Speaker 3: Start capitalizing on that because I feel like with you
• 33:01
  Speaker 3: that you're going to go into a direction, especially when
• 33:03
  Speaker 3: it comes to business that I'm just going to say
• 33:07
  Speaker 3: this that I feel like is going to be very
• 33:09
  Speaker 3: much admired.
• 33:11
  Speaker 2: Wow.
• 33:11
  Speaker 1: Wow, that's I mean, that's a huge.
• 33:15
  Speaker 3: Yeah. There's two types of people. There's the ones that
• 33:19
  Speaker 3: capitalize on their success and able to you know, turn
• 33:22
  Speaker 3: it into more than than what they had anticipated it
• 33:24
  Speaker 3: was going to be. And I feel like you're on
• 33:26
  Speaker 3: that you're on that part too, But what ends up
• 33:28
  Speaker 3: happening to you is that you get sucked into playing
• 33:30
  Speaker 3: the game. How do you feel about that?
• 33:32
  Speaker 1: I am yes to everything you're saying, but you remember.
• 33:37
  Speaker 3: What I said about you being on two different paths here.
• 33:39
  Speaker 3: He's already, in some way, shape or form, has seen
• 33:42
  Speaker 3: some of that power he's come into. He's he's witnessed
• 33:46
  Speaker 3: how how the game works. Because he's older than you,
• 33:49
  Speaker 3: he's he's and I'm not saying he's reached every little bit,
• 33:51
  Speaker 3: every bit of success in his career. But you're getting
• 33:53
  Speaker 3: ready to You're you're getting ready to make some decisions
• 33:55
  Speaker 3: here that are going to be I feel like you're
• 33:58
  Speaker 3: going to carry you over the next six years as
• 34:00
  Speaker 3: far as like what you do for business here, So
• 34:02
  Speaker 3: don't be afraid to branch. I don't be afraid to
• 34:03
  Speaker 3: do something completely different than what's being done here because
• 34:06
  Speaker 3: I feel like with you again, like I said, you
• 34:08
  Speaker 3: have all these you have all these thoughts her, you
• 34:10
  Speaker 3: can envision it. You you you know the practical and
• 34:12
  Speaker 3: logical side of things, but getting you getting yourself to
• 34:14
  Speaker 3: do it and not overthink it or or it makes
• 34:17
  Speaker 3: it seem like you're a follower, but that's not where
• 34:19
  Speaker 3: I'm going with it. I feel like sometimes you can
• 34:20
  Speaker 3: kind of like wait, wait a little bit till it's
• 34:22
  Speaker 3: too late. Yeah.
• 34:23
  Speaker 2: Yes, she's an overthinker, and she'll procrastinate for for two
• 34:28
  Speaker 2: days straight and before she pulls the trigger sometimes.
• 34:31
  Speaker 3: But it's not but see. But here's the thing with her, though,
• 34:33
  Speaker 3: is that she she knows that I would never ever
• 34:36
  Speaker 3: call you dumb. I would never say that she's a dumber.
• 34:40
  Speaker 3: So I feel like she's very that she could be
• 34:42
  Speaker 3: very calculated and know what it is that she wants.
• 34:44
  Speaker 3: But I feel like I'm gonna steal from what you said.
• 34:45
  Speaker 3: I feel like she does overthink. I feel like she
• 34:48
  Speaker 3: does not want to do anything that's going to paint
• 34:49
  Speaker 3: her in a bad in a bad light, even though
• 34:52
  Speaker 3: some of the you know, some of the ship that
• 34:53
  Speaker 3: she's already done has kind of put her in that position.
• 34:56
  Speaker 3: But I feel like with her, with her again, it's
• 35:00
  Speaker 3: kind of like, you know what needs to be done,
• 35:02
  Speaker 3: don't hold yourself back, and don't wait for somebody else
• 35:04
  Speaker 3: to tell you what to do again, not you being
• 35:06
  Speaker 3: a follower here or kind of guide you in that direction,
• 35:08
  Speaker 3: I feel like you end up kicking yourself on the
• 35:09
  Speaker 3: ass when you don't do what you originally said you
• 35:11
  Speaker 3: were going to do.
• 35:12
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's that's so crazy that you got them. Because
• 35:16
  Speaker 1: I think I'm a pretty you know, I don't. I
• 35:18
  Speaker 1: wouldn't say I'm book smart, but I think I'm a
• 35:19
  Speaker 1: pretty smart cookie when it comes to the real world.
• 35:23
  Speaker 1: But again, the logical side of me is always like,
• 35:26
  Speaker 1: but why would we do that? Because here is where
• 35:28
  Speaker 1: it's safe, and this is where we know that we're gonna,
• 35:31
  Speaker 1: you know, be okay. And I constantly it's so funny
• 35:36
  Speaker 1: because I said to my mom yesterday, I was like,
• 35:39
  Speaker 1: I just need someone to tell me what to do.
• 35:44
  Speaker 1: You know, I'm so sorry.
• 35:48
  Speaker 3: It's okay. It like I said, that's why I want
• 35:51
  Speaker 3: to stay away from this, from this emotional stuff here,
• 35:53
  Speaker 3: because again, like I said, I feel like you, I
• 35:54
  Speaker 3: feel like your guide's angels, messages, whatever it is that
• 35:56
  Speaker 3: you're going to, whatever it is that you choose to
• 35:58
  Speaker 3: call them here, have already implemed minute this thought process
• 36:01
  Speaker 3: in your head. The hardest part is for you to
• 36:02
  Speaker 3: let go and you not to overthink it. But at
• 36:04
  Speaker 3: the end of the day, how many times has she
• 36:06
  Speaker 3: been has she been wrong when it came to what
• 36:08
  Speaker 3: is that she wants to do and.
• 36:09
  Speaker 2: I'm mutching and here's the thing. She overthinks things and
• 36:12
  Speaker 2: then we talk about it multiple days and I'm like
• 36:15
  Speaker 2: a doer on the opposite and I say to her,
• 36:18
  Speaker 2: just just go out. Stop thinking about it, like you
• 36:20
  Speaker 2: know that your reads are always right law like every time,
• 36:24
  Speaker 2: Like when she wanted to start the beauty company, she
• 36:26
  Speaker 2: just did it. And when she does it and it
• 36:28
  Speaker 2: works out for I feel like when she sits in
• 36:30
  Speaker 2: her head too long, that's the stress. That's the questioning herself,
• 36:36
  Speaker 2: questioning herself, and she's waiting for somebody to say to her,
• 36:40
  Speaker 2: this is the path. The path is her. She needs that.
• 36:43
  Speaker 2: She's so good at what she does that when she
• 36:45
  Speaker 2: makes a decision, it works out.
• 36:47
  Speaker 3: It always works you already you have to look at
• 36:49
  Speaker 3: yourself again. Like I said, I'm not disrespecting the other
• 36:51
  Speaker 3: cast members here, but you have to look at yourself
• 36:54
  Speaker 3: in a different light. Look what you brought into fruition
• 36:56
  Speaker 3: on your own right and keep doing that because I
• 36:58
  Speaker 3: feel like with you again, like A said, you have
• 37:00
  Speaker 3: the thought process here to say that you're practical, logical. Yeah, Well,
• 37:03
  Speaker 3: I'll give you that too, But I also feel like
• 37:05
  Speaker 3: when I talked about being calculated and manipulative, people would
• 37:07
  Speaker 3: look at those words as being negative here. But I
• 37:09
  Speaker 3: feel like with you that you're able to read between
• 37:12
  Speaker 3: the lines and see things that most people don't see
• 37:14
  Speaker 3: or would never call out here the difference. What you
• 37:17
  Speaker 3: need to do is start going for it and not
• 37:18
  Speaker 3: hold yourself back, because I feel like that the other
• 37:20
  Speaker 3: shoe is getting ready to drop here when it comes
• 37:22
  Speaker 3: to you, And I'm not worried even if you guys
• 37:24
  Speaker 3: were I'm not saying anything negative about the marriage. But
• 37:26
  Speaker 3: let's say that you guys were to break up, You're
• 37:28
  Speaker 3: going to be okay. You do realize that, right you
• 37:30
  Speaker 3: haven't even you you she's a baller.
• 37:34
  Speaker 2: But but let me let me just say this about her.
• 37:36
  Speaker 2: If she jumped in more headfirst, into the into the pool,
• 37:40
  Speaker 2: head first, without overthinking everything every step, I think her
• 37:45
  Speaker 2: business would be a thirty multiple by now because she's
• 37:48
  Speaker 2: so focused and driven and smart, and sometimes she just
• 37:54
  Speaker 2: holds herself back saying I don't have the answer, but
• 37:56
  Speaker 2: she doesn't need the answer because she could figure it out.
• 37:58
  Speaker 2: She can figured it out.
• 37:59
  Speaker 3: I feel like you need to trust yourself more and
• 38:01
  Speaker 3: not hold yourself back. I mean you you again, when
• 38:03
  Speaker 3: I talked about him talk you know, he likes to
• 38:05
  Speaker 3: dish it, but he can't take it here. You are
• 38:07
  Speaker 3: the same way too. You talk a lot of when
• 38:10
  Speaker 3: not shit talking, but you see things or you're able
• 38:13
  Speaker 3: to read between the lines. Here, start calling that shit out,
• 38:16
  Speaker 3: Start taking yourself where you need to go here. Stop
• 38:18
  Speaker 3: holding yourself back, because that's what I feel like your
• 38:19
  Speaker 3: guys are trying to show you. Here is enough with
• 38:21
  Speaker 3: overthinking and again, but.
• 38:23
  Speaker 2: I want to say one thing to that. When I
• 38:25
  Speaker 2: met her and even today, she just is a one
• 38:29
  Speaker 2: of the smartest people I know, and people don't realize,
• 38:32
  Speaker 2: like people in the public don't realize that she's built
• 38:35
  Speaker 2: an empire, not from any like we're a team. We're
• 38:38
  Speaker 2: a team because we're a couple with a baby and
• 38:40
  Speaker 2: we do some things together like podcasts and stuff. But
• 38:43
  Speaker 2: she's her own CEO. She built her own business, she
• 38:46
  Speaker 2: put her own money in it, she makes her own decisions.
• 38:48
  Speaker 2: Every deal she does is driven by her. I have
• 38:50
  Speaker 2: nothing to do with it. So when people like come
• 38:52
  Speaker 2: up to me and say, you know whatever, I say,
• 38:55
  Speaker 2: she's a boss like she's a real boss. And I
• 38:58
  Speaker 2: think she's in that same place what you're saying, because
• 39:00
  Speaker 2: we talked about it a lot lately. She's struggling a
• 39:02
  Speaker 2: lot lately because she says, I'm ready to go to
• 39:05
  Speaker 2: the next level of her business, and I think she
• 39:08
  Speaker 2: just got to jump ahead first. She's so good at it.
• 39:11
  Speaker 3: Yeah, And also, do you have to trust in the
• 39:12
  Speaker 3: people that are around you to do you honestly think
• 39:14
  Speaker 3: that he would let you do something that was going
• 39:16
  Speaker 3: to make you look you know.
• 39:17
  Speaker 2: Yeah, And she's got partners. She's got partners in New York.
• 39:21
  Speaker 2: She's got partners all over the country and they have
• 39:23
  Speaker 2: her back. And I know, it's funny. This is what
• 39:25
  Speaker 2: I what I what I'm most about my girl that
• 39:28
  Speaker 2: she doesn't realize. She's got these partners in New York
• 39:31
  Speaker 2: that are super successful, right, you have a brand with them,
• 39:34
  Speaker 2: and they've hit a wall. They don't know what to do,
• 39:36
  Speaker 2: and they look to her. They look to her. These
• 39:39
  Speaker 2: are older people who've made a lot of money in
• 39:42
  Speaker 2: business and they look at her and they say, La,
• 39:44
  Speaker 2: how we get into the next level. And La is
• 39:46
  Speaker 2: the one who's put it all on herself to go
• 39:48
  Speaker 2: to the next level in her brand, and she's the leader.
• 39:51
  Speaker 2: She is the leader of all of them. She just
• 39:54
  Speaker 2: needs to do it. And that has to be.
• 39:56
  Speaker 3: Difficult for you too, because again, you are an overthinking
• 39:59
  Speaker 3: You can be too much INSI your own head and
• 40:00
  Speaker 3: looking for that. When I say validation, people look at
• 40:03
  Speaker 3: that as it's being a negative type of thing. But
• 40:06
  Speaker 3: you just want to make sure that you're doing a
• 40:07
  Speaker 3: good job. I feel like you've you kind of came
• 40:09
  Speaker 3: in here. And maybe Mom could speak on this too,
• 40:11
  Speaker 3: I would say you kind of came in here pretty
• 40:13
  Speaker 3: fast as far as like growing up and being independent,
• 40:15
  Speaker 3: kind of like you know, does she learn how to
• 40:17
  Speaker 3: talk and walk really fast at a young age?
• 40:19
  Speaker 2: Yeah?
• 40:19
  Speaker 3: I feel I feel like that that's that if we
• 40:22
  Speaker 3: were going to dip into past lives, I feel like
• 40:24
  Speaker 3: you kind of had it a little bit too good
• 40:25
  Speaker 3: in the past life where things were a little bit
• 40:26
  Speaker 3: easier for you, and you kind of got that here.
• 40:29
  Speaker 3: But now, but now the next step is we're in
• 40:30
  Speaker 3: a different time page, we're a different phase of life here.
• 40:33
  Speaker 3: Uh go go get those opportunities. I feel like you're
• 40:35
  Speaker 3: not the bottom line, I feel like you're not challenging,
• 40:37
  Speaker 3: You're challenging yourself.
• 40:38
  Speaker 1: Enough, I feel like you'll agree with you.
• 40:40
  Speaker 3: I feel like you're bored, and I feel like I
• 40:41
  Speaker 3: feel like with you that again, that if if you
• 40:45
  Speaker 3: don't do it, or you don't allow yourself the opportunity
• 40:47
  Speaker 3: to go strike all the irons hot or do something
• 40:48
  Speaker 3: that's completely different than what's going on here, you I
• 40:51
  Speaker 3: don't mean to put my finger, but you will end
• 40:53
  Speaker 3: up resenting that decision. And the one thing, the one
• 40:55
  Speaker 3: color that looks horrible on you is resentment enough. Because
• 40:59
  Speaker 3: you you, she she will think about it and then
• 41:02
  Speaker 3: and then and be like, well, I wish I would
• 41:03
  Speaker 3: have capitalized, or wish I would have done that.
• 41:05
  Speaker 1: And when she's so crazy that you you talk about
• 41:08
  Speaker 1: resentment because in the program I'm in for being an alcoholic,
• 41:12
  Speaker 1: they gave me a black chip that is the resentment chip.
• 41:15
  Speaker 1: And they probably gave this to me. I mean it
• 41:17
  Speaker 1: was before I conceived my daughter, so oh it was
• 41:21
  Speaker 1: a long time. And the rule with it is once
• 41:24
  Speaker 1: you get rid of your resentments, you pass the chip
• 41:27
  Speaker 1: to someone who needs it more. I'm still holding onto it.
• 41:30
  Speaker 1: I'm not ready to let it go. So I definitely
• 41:34
  Speaker 1: agree it doesn't it doesn't fit well on me.
• 41:37
  Speaker 2: But I think he's I think, but I think in
• 41:39
  Speaker 2: your business, he doesn't want you to wake up five
• 41:41
  Speaker 2: years from now and not have gone after it without
• 41:45
  Speaker 2: not thinking, like.
• 41:46
  Speaker 1: Well, I think he's talking about in life.
• 41:48
  Speaker 3: Yeah, in all aspects, because I feel like with her,
• 41:51
  Speaker 3: like I said, with her overthinking or or however she
• 41:56
  Speaker 3: gets down, I feel like she it can cause like
• 41:57
  Speaker 3: a level of anxiety no wonder. I mean, I'm not
• 42:00
  Speaker 3: saying that, no wonder you were an alcoholic, but she's
• 42:02
  Speaker 3: she's too amped up sometimes and I feel like what
• 42:05
  Speaker 3: ends up happening to her is that that anxiety or
• 42:07
  Speaker 3: that demon and not not saying that you're possessed, but
• 42:09
  Speaker 3: that little thing that likes to fuck with you. It's
• 42:12
  Speaker 3: it's sometimes it's hard to turn off. And I feel
• 42:14
  Speaker 3: like with her that you know, she's a very beautiful woman,
• 42:17
  Speaker 3: and I feel like sometimes she thinks that, you know
• 42:19
  Speaker 3: that people look at her in a different type of life.
• 42:21
  Speaker 3: They don't, they don't see that the human side to her.
• 42:23
  Speaker 3: And I feel like she struggles with that humans, with
• 42:25
  Speaker 3: that human side of herself as far as like you know, again,
• 42:27
  Speaker 3: what's going on on the inside here, Yeah, more than
• 42:29
  Speaker 3: just a beautiful facer. But you guys don't know what
• 42:31
  Speaker 3: it's like to be me.
• 42:32
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yes, I'm like infatuated. I love everything that you're saying.
• 42:38
  Speaker 1: We're going to take a quick break. We will be
• 42:40
  Speaker 1: right back. We are back with Chris Medina, the most
• 42:45
  Speaker 1: epic psychic I've ever been around, ever, and I'm big
• 42:48
  Speaker 1: on psychics. I would like you to talk about my daughter,
• 42:52
  Speaker 1: if that's okay, Ocean and your feels.
• 42:56
  Speaker 3: My feels with her is I feel like she's going
• 42:58
  Speaker 3: to be okay. Like I said at the very beginning
• 43:00
  Speaker 3: of the reading here that I feel like she and
• 43:02
  Speaker 3: dad are going to have some very similar issues as
• 43:04
  Speaker 3: far as the way that their thought processes as a kid.
• 43:07
  Speaker 3: And now that I know, and I'm going to incorporate
• 43:09
  Speaker 3: just a little bit of astrology here. You know, you're
• 43:11
  Speaker 3: the polar opposite of your daughter, right, Yes, so you're
• 43:14
  Speaker 3: Virgo and she's Pisces. The one thing with that there
• 43:17
  Speaker 3: is that since it's the polar opposite, the lessons that
• 43:19
  Speaker 3: could be learned between the two of you guys, as
• 43:21
  Speaker 3: far as like you having her think a little bit
• 43:23
  Speaker 3: more practically and logically with those boundaries between her and
• 43:28
  Speaker 3: other people and also she can teach you how to
• 43:30
  Speaker 3: be a little bit more emotional, okay, and not and
• 43:34
  Speaker 3: not be so black and white sometimes. And I feel
• 43:37
  Speaker 3: like with the black and white as that you can
• 43:39
  Speaker 3: cause that even though you are black and white, it's
• 43:43
  Speaker 3: still there's still that again. You your your frequency is
• 43:46
  Speaker 3: a little bit high strung, A little bit, A little.
• 43:48
  Speaker 2: Bit, A little bit, yeah, a little bit.
• 43:50
  Speaker 1: It's very high strung. In fact, I just did this
• 43:52
  Speaker 1: interview and they said in one of the questions was
• 43:55
  Speaker 1: what's one thing you would change about yourself. I said,
• 43:57
  Speaker 1: I don't want to be so high strung.
• 44:00
  Speaker 3: That's what your daughter is going to teach you is
• 44:01
  Speaker 3: that is that compassion, that being able, that patience there.
• 44:04
  Speaker 3: But I feel like the only I feel like the
• 44:06
  Speaker 3: thing that you're going to get irritated with her is
• 44:08
  Speaker 3: that she's going to move too slow.
• 44:10
  Speaker 1: Oh yes, slow people really anger me out.
• 44:13
  Speaker 3: And but she but but she also I looked at
• 44:16
  Speaker 3: the picture online and I was looking at her face.
• 44:19
  Speaker 3: I also feel it for a sensitive that she's going
• 44:21
  Speaker 3: to be. It's she's going to be. She's going to
• 44:22
  Speaker 3: be a little bit feisty as well too.
• 44:25
  Speaker 1: She's I could definitely see that she's now, she's going
• 44:30
  Speaker 1: to have that that that sensitive side.
• 44:32
  Speaker 3: But I feel like when she when she's mad, or
• 44:34
  Speaker 3: when she's or when she's overly emotional there, then you're
• 44:36
  Speaker 3: going to start to hear the words come out. And
• 44:38
  Speaker 3: I feel like that's where she's going to get her
• 44:39
  Speaker 3: mother's her mother's words or the way she the way
• 44:41
  Speaker 3: that she says certain things. Here, it's going to be
• 44:44
  Speaker 3: very quick and cut.
• 44:46
  Speaker 1: Like you, it's like her mom, Wow, we're all in
• 44:49
  Speaker 1: for a really big treat.
• 44:51
  Speaker 2: Wa wait till the teenage years.
• 44:53
  Speaker 3: But I don't I don't feel like I don't feel
• 44:55
  Speaker 3: like anything negative. I I kind of feel like she's
• 44:57
  Speaker 3: going to be a little bit unique as far as
• 44:59
  Speaker 3: I her learning process too, so kind of have patience
• 45:02
  Speaker 3: with her. How is she now? I know that she's
• 45:04
  Speaker 3: only six months old? How is like her building blocks
• 45:06
  Speaker 3: and things like that?
• 45:07
  Speaker 1: You know, she's actually I'm her mom, So of course
• 45:10
  Speaker 1: I look at her and I'm like, she's a fucking genius.
• 45:13
  Speaker 1: She's like Albert Einstein. But I mean, as what I've
• 45:17
  Speaker 1: seen is she is very curious. She is hyper, Like
• 45:23
  Speaker 1: if you and I are having a conversation, I'm holding her,
• 45:27
  Speaker 1: she will be staring at you the entire time you talk, yeah,
• 45:30
  Speaker 1: and scowling at things that you say. I've been around
• 45:34
  Speaker 1: a lot of I've been around a lot of babies
• 45:36
  Speaker 1: since all my friends have had babies, and you know,
• 45:39
  Speaker 1: their babies are babies. They're looking around, They're like playing
• 45:42
  Speaker 1: with the zippers on their mom shirt. My baby is
• 45:45
  Speaker 1: like watching you speak every word, and if someone else
• 45:48
  Speaker 1: starts talking, she's her attention is on them.
• 45:51
  Speaker 3: She the way that she visualizes, the way that she's
• 45:54
  Speaker 3: going to learn, is just going to be a little
• 45:55
  Speaker 3: bit different. It's not going to be slow or or
• 45:57
  Speaker 3: you have something for you to worry about. She's very
• 45:59
  Speaker 3: much I'm gonna say she is an observer, but she's
• 46:02
  Speaker 3: also somebody. She's also a child that's only gonna I
• 46:04
  Speaker 3: feel like it's going to look at a thing, look
• 46:06
  Speaker 3: at it a couple of times, and get the hang
• 46:07
  Speaker 3: of it really really quickly.
• 46:09
  Speaker 1: Okay, I love that.
• 46:10
  Speaker 3: That's what I get.
• 46:11
  Speaker 2: I'll tell you she's she's very observant. I mean that's
• 46:14
  Speaker 2: what she watches everything. She watches everybody, you know, and
• 46:18
  Speaker 2: I think I think a lot of kids are all
• 46:20
  Speaker 2: over the place, like when they're young. She doesn't do that.
• 46:24
  Speaker 2: She stares right at you. She watches everything.
• 46:27
  Speaker 1: And when I the other day, I was telling her
• 46:29
  Speaker 1: one minute and she put her hand up and she
• 46:31
  Speaker 1: was trying to do you know, And when she did,
• 46:34
  Speaker 1: I was like, you're so genius. You should go to Harvard.
• 46:37
  Speaker 3: She wanted to talk. Now she is she she.
• 46:40
  Speaker 1: Begging to talk. I mean, she is trying to communicate
• 46:43
  Speaker 1: in any way she possibly can.
• 46:45
  Speaker 2: Yeah, she's over like not having a say in the conversation.
• 46:48
  Speaker 1: Yeah, she's ready to you know, if she's an old
• 46:50
  Speaker 1: soul or a new.
• 46:51
  Speaker 3: Soul, I feel like she's a little bit of a
• 46:53
  Speaker 3: newer type of soul. If we were going to dip
• 46:55
  Speaker 3: into the past life with her. And it's so hard
• 46:57
  Speaker 3: to say this because she is a baby. I kind
• 46:59
  Speaker 3: of feel like this is to where she's born at
• 47:02
  Speaker 3: a different time in this lifetime as far as having
• 47:05
  Speaker 3: a little bit easier for her, not not because of
• 47:08
  Speaker 3: who her parents are, but because I feel like she
• 47:10
  Speaker 3: kind of struggled in the past life before and in
• 47:12
  Speaker 3: this lifetime here she has just a little bit easier
• 47:14
  Speaker 3: for her this time around. But my one, my one
• 47:16
  Speaker 3: concern with her is that she's going to want to
• 47:18
  Speaker 3: do everything. So watch out for that because those newer
• 47:21
  Speaker 3: type of souls, and I've seen this recently too, with
• 47:23
  Speaker 3: all the changes that are going on in the world here,
• 47:25
  Speaker 3: those newer type of souls are more curious, They're more
• 47:27
  Speaker 3: wanting to get their hands and everything else. It's not
• 47:30
  Speaker 3: just a vibe for them, it's the experience, okay. And
• 47:33
  Speaker 3: also and also making those memories.
• 47:36
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I love it. Oh my gosh, this was so amazing. Well,
• 47:42
  Speaker 1: now that I've sobbed and you've given me a lot
• 47:45
  Speaker 1: to think about, don't in all the best ways and
• 47:49
  Speaker 1: all I'm not going to I'm gonna start making decisions.
• 47:52
  Speaker 3: And if you need help, you can always hit me up.
• 47:55
  Speaker 1: You don't want to say that to me, because I'm
• 47:57
  Speaker 1: I know.
• 47:58
  Speaker 3: If there's one thing I know, it's Virgo. Really, guys,
• 48:00
  Speaker 3: are you guys? Are you go self sabotaging at times?
• 48:04
  Speaker 3: But know a little bit about a lot of different
• 48:06
  Speaker 3: things here. You guys are always the boot. If you
• 48:08
  Speaker 3: want a quick, fast answer, go to a virgo.
• 48:10
  Speaker 2: Oh my god, yeah, she knows. It's amazing. I get
• 48:14
  Speaker 2: in bed, she's got some show on. I'm like, what's
• 48:17
  Speaker 2: the ship? Oh, you don't know? So this was a
• 48:18
  Speaker 2: murder in nineteen eighty seven in Miami and this guy,
• 48:21
  Speaker 2: and I'm like, who knows this? And then the next
• 48:24
  Speaker 2: day you go in it's like and it's the story.
• 48:26
  Speaker 2: I mean, it's so all over. She knows a little
• 48:29
  Speaker 2: bit about everything.
• 48:31
  Speaker 1: Who knows if any of it is? Like it's worth something?
• 48:33
  Speaker 3: What's her moon ender?
• 48:34
  Speaker 1: Oh my gosh. I always forget what my rising. I
• 48:38
  Speaker 1: know that I have aries and scorpio, and I forget
• 48:41
  Speaker 1: my what my moon is, and I forget which one
• 48:43
  Speaker 1: is my rising.
• 48:44
  Speaker 3: I have to look into that. Yeah, shoot me your
• 48:46
  Speaker 3: stuff later.
• 48:46
  Speaker 1: I would love to is that Okay, it's perfectly put you.
• 48:49
  Speaker 1: I'll put you on the pirole.
• 48:51
  Speaker 3: So what sign are you?
• 48:52
  Speaker 2: Aries? Okay? All right, but I mean you come home
• 48:56
  Speaker 2: to our house and she has something new to share
• 48:58
  Speaker 2: with you about something that she has found wound, looked
• 49:00
  Speaker 2: at red or watch? Yeah, no, she's and then schedule
• 49:05
  Speaker 2: but schedule.
• 49:06
  Speaker 3: The one again, the one. The hardest thing for virgo
• 49:07
  Speaker 3: real fast is allowing yourself the opportunity to be present
• 49:11
  Speaker 3: and not not think three four steps ahead before taking
• 49:14
  Speaker 3: steps one through two, one, two and three. Be present
• 49:17
  Speaker 3: and allow yourself the opportunity to be here.
• 49:20
  Speaker 1: I love that you say that I've because I have
• 49:22
  Speaker 1: to actively tell myself, no, this is the moment we're
• 49:24
  Speaker 1: going to stay in.
• 49:26
  Speaker 3: Because she'll start thinking, she'll start planning for stuff, and
• 49:28
  Speaker 3: it's like it's going to cause her anxiety.
• 49:30
  Speaker 1: What for, Oh, the anxieties through the roof. I have
• 49:32
  Speaker 1: nothing to buffer it. I used to have a cocktail.
• 49:35
  Speaker 2: I don't know. Since the cocktails have gone away, there's
• 49:37
  Speaker 2: not a real there's.
• 49:38
  Speaker 1: No buffer either. No, I'm completely so worry.
• 49:41
  Speaker 3: Would probably she'd be like, oh, you should weave Chris.
• 49:45
  Speaker 1: I would think people were in my apartment there to
• 49:48
  Speaker 1: murder me. I'd be by myself by the way, and
• 49:50
  Speaker 1: I'd be looking in the shoe because I'd be like,
• 49:51
  Speaker 1: they're hiding in the shoe. I know they're home. It
• 49:55
  Speaker 1: was not good.
• 49:56
  Speaker 3: Well, if you need someone to calm you down, you
• 49:58
  Speaker 3: could always hit me up. But I don't have anything
• 50:00
  Speaker 3: negative to tell you, like I said, and I didn't
• 50:01
  Speaker 3: tell you anything. You guys can already know. This is
• 50:04
  Speaker 3: the first time that we've met.
• 50:05
  Speaker 2: So I love that. I love that you knew about me,
• 50:08
  Speaker 2: that I'm going through this like major shift personally and
• 50:11
  Speaker 2: business wise. I'm really trying to. It's like nobody knows.
• 50:14
  Speaker 2: Only she knows. I mean the conversations I've had, so
• 50:17
  Speaker 2: that's that's neat, and then also all the stuff about her.
• 50:21
  Speaker 2: That's her biggest thing. I mean right now in your life.
• 50:23
  Speaker 2: I mean, let's be honest, the biggest thing for you
• 50:25
  Speaker 2: right now in business is that you're trying to move
• 50:28
  Speaker 2: to the next level.
• 50:30
  Speaker 1: Personal business wise.
• 50:33
  Speaker 3: I mean, if anybody's going to do what, it's going
• 50:34
  Speaker 3: to be her. I mean she I mean, like I
• 50:36
  Speaker 3: said to say that, to be manipulative and calculated, not
• 50:38
  Speaker 3: in a negative way, start capitalizing on that because you
• 50:41
  Speaker 3: know what needs to be done. And then she ends
• 50:43
  Speaker 3: up saying I wish I would have done that.
• 50:44
  Speaker 1: I know more of.
• 50:46
  Speaker 3: That I already knows.
• 50:47
  Speaker 2: It's like it's is. When I'm going to say it
• 50:49
  Speaker 2: one last time, I repeat myself, she calls it the
• 50:51
  Speaker 2: hampsteruroll when I review myself. If she just gets on
• 50:54
  Speaker 2: the diving board and she jumps off, even if she
• 50:57
  Speaker 2: doesn't know how deep, how far, he figures it out.
• 51:01
  Speaker 2: She's one of the rare people I've ever met that
• 51:03
  Speaker 2: figures out a blueprint without anybody telling her.
• 51:05
  Speaker 3: Because she hates surprises. She hates to be caught off
• 51:08
  Speaker 3: The surprises she likes is diamonds in a shoebox or
• 51:11
  Speaker 3: money in a shoebox. But to be caught off guard,
• 51:13
  Speaker 3: forget about it.
• 51:14
  Speaker 1: You are you have to fly on my wall. Oh
• 51:21
  Speaker 1: my gosh, what a pleasure to have you. Thank you American.
• 51:24
  Speaker 1: Where can people find you?
• 51:26
  Speaker 3: They could find me on my website Chris Medina dot guye.
• 51:28
  Speaker 3: Sign up for a session half hour hour long session.
• 51:31
  Speaker 3: I love to look me up, see what I'm doing.
• 51:33
  Speaker 3: I don't post a lot of pictures on myself, but
• 51:35
  Speaker 3: feel free to visit my social media at Psychic Chris M.
• 51:38
  Speaker 2: And we're also gonna we're obviously we're gonna post you
• 51:40
  Speaker 2: and they can go to our Instagram. Yeah and look
• 51:43
  Speaker 2: at at Psychic Chris M. It has been the most
• 51:47
  Speaker 2: fun morning. This has been fantastic. We're really grateful to
• 51:50
  Speaker 2: have you.
• 51:50
  Speaker 1: Thank you so much, and thank you guys for listening
• 51:52
  Speaker 1: to another episode of Give Them Laala with Randall. We
• 51:55
  Speaker 1: will catch you next week.