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Dirty Little Secret: I Bought A Fake Engagement Ring! · Billy The Kidd In The Morning

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  Speaker 1: This is dirty little secret secret.
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  Speaker 2: On mixed one or two point nine if you got one,
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  Speaker 2: let us know.
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  Speaker 3: It's feeling a kid can't sloan past producer poo is
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  Speaker 3: here in eight three three seven eight seven one o
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  Speaker 3: two nine. No matter what that secret is, big secret,
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  Speaker 3: little secret, it's time to confess.
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  Speaker 2: You feel better. Just get it off your chest. You
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  Speaker 2: have a secret? What is going on?
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  Speaker 1: Hey?
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  Speaker 4: So, uh, I've actually been keeping a secret from my
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  Speaker 4: girlfriend actually, and uh, well, we've been together for like
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  Speaker 4: I would say, a year and a half and everything's
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  Speaker 4: been really good. You know, I love her, absolutely see
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  Speaker 4: a future with her. But a couple of months ago
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  Speaker 4: she actually basically sat me down and gave me this
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  Speaker 4: big ultimatum about what well she she told me she's
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  Speaker 4: not moving in with me unless we're married. Oh but
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  Speaker 4: then she also said she thinks we should at least
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  Speaker 4: be engaged by the end of this year, and if
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  Speaker 4: we're not, she doesn't know where this really ship is going.
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  Speaker 3: Oh okay, So she's basically saying, all right, that's a
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  Speaker 3: lot of pressure and you've been in for a year
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  Speaker 3: and a half. Is that's a little man? That's real
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  Speaker 3: quick aggressive, you know, I mean I don't know. Some
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  Speaker 3: people get married quick, some people don't. But she's obviously saying, listen,
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  Speaker 3: you want to move in together or if that's the
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  Speaker 3: next move, then I better have a ring on it.
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  Speaker 2: So what do you do now?
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  Speaker 4: Oh? Well, well, ever since then, I've felt this insane
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  Speaker 4: press or. So she keeps telling me we we can
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  Speaker 4: either be engaged or she's not staying with me and
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  Speaker 4: we have to get married tomorrow. But me, like, getting
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  Speaker 4: engage right now is like, I don't know, I don't
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  Speaker 4: I don't really mess with, you know, being engaged right now,
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  Speaker 4: just because I feel like it's a lot of pressure.
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  Speaker 4: Especially we haven't been together for two years yet, so
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  Speaker 4: it's just I feel like it's big.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: So I actually pot a fake wedding, like an engagement ring.
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  Speaker 1: As fake one.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah for what though? This is embarrassed, This is embarrassing.
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  Speaker 4: No, I've planted the ring in the house so she
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  Speaker 4: can see it, like on purpose, so she at least.
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  Speaker 3: Oh.
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  Speaker 1: My god, so she thinks you're gonna propose or your
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  Speaker 1: plan is to propose because she's gonna come across it.
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  Speaker 4: Oh yeah, exactly, exactly exactly, bro, you playing with fire.
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  Speaker 3: So it's it you bought a fake engagement ring and
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  Speaker 3: put it somewhere, So you just put it some of
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  Speaker 3: the house that you know pretty much she would find it.
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  Speaker 2: Do you think she found it?
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  Speaker 4: I think so because her mood has completely changed.
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  Speaker 1: It has been.
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  Speaker 4: Talking to me nice, talking about our next vacation. It's
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  Speaker 4: just like everything just disappeared overnight after after one day.
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  Speaker 4: I'm pretty sure she found it, and she hasn't been
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  Speaker 4: talking about it.
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  Speaker 3: So, yeah, what do you Okay, here's here's a question.
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  Speaker 3: What are you gonna do?
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  Speaker 2: You?
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  Speaker 3: Let's say, if you know, I mean, I know you're
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  Speaker 3: you're trying to buy yourself some more time. I get that,
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  Speaker 3: But what are you gonna do if you do want
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  Speaker 3: to marry her and that ring?
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  Speaker 2: Are you? Do you plan on giving her a fake
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  Speaker 2: engagement ring?
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  Speaker 3: No?
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  Speaker 4: So if it all goes down the way I wanted to,
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  Speaker 4: I would just take the ring back and just implant
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  Speaker 4: a real diamond into it, like like take the fake
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  Speaker 4: diamond out and put a real one in it. But
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  Speaker 4: I just the the real main thing for me is
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  Speaker 4: just time. Like I feel like the timing is not
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  Speaker 4: right yet, where we are in life is just not right.
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  Speaker 3: I just feel like, yeah, and that's understandable, Yes, but
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  Speaker 3: you got to tell her that. Yeah, but sometimes that's
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  Speaker 3: not And I'm not saying what you're doing is right,
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  Speaker 3: but telling someone that, yeah, I need some more time
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  Speaker 3: can be viewed.
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  Speaker 2: By the other person. That's just like you don't want
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  Speaker 2: you don't want this, right. Oh yeah, he's not committed.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, this is an entire show. You're putting on, a game.
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  Speaker 1: You're playing now, deeper than just a fake ring and
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  Speaker 1: a drawer.
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  Speaker 2: But if you're not ready, you're not ready.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, listen, a year and a half, a year
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  Speaker 3: and a half, sometimes you need some more time.
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  Speaker 2: Give me some time, give me six years.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, everybody has their own timeline. You can't rush it.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, if it takes ten years to figure it out, yeah,
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  Speaker 3: you know, I don't think she's in it for that
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  Speaker 3: long of a haul.
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  Speaker 1: Well that's on her.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I need twelve I need a good twelve years.
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  Speaker 3: You know. Let me let me think about this. How
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  Speaker 3: do you know we're going to get along? How do
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  Speaker 3: you know we're gonna you know, we need to handle
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  Speaker 3: every situation. Yeah, the right way she's proposed before you
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  Speaker 3: she even moves in.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, all those traditional rules I think are our
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  Speaker 1: old school.
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  Speaker 2: Like those are out.
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  Speaker 1: You need to know what it's like to live with
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  Speaker 1: somebody to know if you could very exactly.
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  Speaker 2: Some people don't believe that.
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  Speaker 1: I know, but I disagree.
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  Speaker 3: And there's a lot of traditional people who say, we're
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  Speaker 3: not going to move in together unless I got some
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  Speaker 3: kind of commitment on this finger.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I can't. I can't do that.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, well, good luck. Please give us an update. I'm
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  Speaker 3: gonna put you in my prayers because I feel like
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  Speaker 3: you need him, and because if her attitude is completely different.
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  Speaker 2: She did find it.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, And by the way, any guy who usually hides
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  Speaker 3: a ring in the house the women find. I knew
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  Speaker 3: a guy was engaged and he hit the ring and
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  Speaker 3: he goes, oh, I go in the house. I go, oh,
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  Speaker 3: guarantee she found it after they got engaged. He's like, yeah,
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  Speaker 3: I sat there and looked at it for three months. Oh,
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  Speaker 3: I knew where it was. I knew he was going
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  Speaker 3: to pop the question. I'm like, see, so well, good luck,
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  Speaker 3: And I would advise you this. Take your time and
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  Speaker 3: be authentic and don't just get married to get married
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  Speaker 3: because she's putting on pressure.
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  Speaker 2: Do what you want to do. And what feels right.
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  Speaker 2: I agree, Okay, thank you so much.