Latest / Reformed Thinking / Providence and Praise: The Sweet Confluence of Duty and Decree in the Betrothal of Isaac (Genesis 24:22-27)
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- 0:00Welcome back to Reformed Thinking.
- 0:01I am glad you are here. We are going back to the book of
- 0:04Genesis today and I have to admit when I first look at the
- 0:07schedule and saw Genesis 24, specifically verses 22 through
- 0:1127, I thought OK, the Camel chapter.
- 0:15The Camel chapter. That is what everyone calls it.
- 0:17Right. It feels like one of those nice
- 0:19pastoral stories you see illustrated in a children's
- 0:21Bible. You have a servant, some camels,
- 0:25Well, a girl offering water. It seems quaint, but as I
- 0:29started digging into the notes and the commentaries you sent
- 0:31over, I realized I was completely wrong.
- 0:33This isn't just a travel log. It definitely isn't.
- 0:36It feels more like a high stakes theological thriller.
- 0:38That is a much better way to frame it.
- 0:40We are looking at a moment that sits on a knife's edge.
- 0:43If things go wrong here, the entire biblical narrative
- 0:46collapses. And good to be with you by the
- 0:49way. Good to have you.
- 0:50And just so our listeners know where we are coming from,
- 0:53because this matters for how we read the text, we are
- 0:55approaching this as Protestant Christians.
- 0:58We love the Westminster Confession of Faith.
- 1:00We believe that looking at Scripture through the lens of
- 1:02Reformed theology isn't about putting God in a box.
- 1:05It is about seeing the massive scale of what he is doing.
- 1:08We want to see the sovereignty of God and the responsibility of
- 1:11man not as enemies, but as friends.
- 1:14And this text, Genesis 24.2227, might be the single best case
- 1:19study in the entire Bible for how those two things work
- 1:21together. So let's set the stage.
- 1:23Before we get to verse 22, we have Abraham's servant.
- 1:27The text doesn't name him here, but most scholars think it is
- 1:30Eliezer of Damascus. Likely yes.
- 1:32He has traveled 500 miles from Hebron to Aram Naharam.
- 1:35That is not a weekend trip, that is a serious trek.
- 1:37And he is there to find a wife for Isaac.
- 1:39But why is this so intense? Why not just find a nice girl
- 1:42next door in Canaan? Because of the promise, you have
- 1:45to go back to Genesis 3.15. God promised that the seed of
- 1:49the woman would crush the head of the serpent.
- 1:51That is the first announcement of the gospel.
- 1:54That seed, the Messiah, has to come through a specific line.
- 1:56It has to come through Abraham and then through Isaac.
- 1:59But Isaac is single and they are living in Canaan, surrounded by
- 2:04a culture that is spiritually toxic.
- 2:07If Isaac marries A Canaanite, the holy line mixes with the
- 2:11serpent's seed. The covenant is corrupted.
- 2:14So the servant is standing at that well 500 miles from home,
- 2:17carrying the weight of the future Messiah on his shoulders.
- 2:20If he fails, or if he picks the wrong girl, the promise is in
- 2:24jeopardy. That raises the stakes
- 2:26significantly. It is not just about Isaac
- 2:28getting a date. It is about the survival of the
- 2:30Gospel. So the servant praised this very
- 2:33specific prayer. He asked God to identify the
- 2:35woman by having her offer water to his camels.
- 2:38And then Rebecca shows up, She does it.
- 2:40She runs back and forth to the well.
- 2:41And that brings us to verse 22. And it came to pass, as the
- 2:44camels had done, drinking. I want to pause right there when
- 2:47the Camels had finished drinking.
- 2:49We need to talk about the discipline of patience because I
- 2:52think we read that and assume it took 5 minutes.
- 2:54Yeah, she poured a bucket. The camel sipped it.
- 2:56Done. Not even close.
- 2:58A camel that has just crossed a desert is thirsty.
- 3:01A single camel can drink 20, maybe 30 gallons of water. 30
- 3:05gallons easily. And he has 10 camels.
- 3:07So do the math. We are talking about maybe 300
- 3:10gallons of water. And she's drawing this by hand.
- 3:13By hand from a well, pouring it into a through running back,
- 3:18drawing. Again, this is heavy manual
- 3:20labor. This isn't a moment, This is an
- 3:22event. It would take hours.
- 3:23And the servant just. And that is the key.
- 3:26Verse 21 says the man wondering at her held his peace, to wit,
- 3:30whether the Lord had made his journey prosperous or not.
- 3:34He doesn't help her. He doesn't interrupt her.
- 3:36He stands there in silence and watches the entire process
- 3:39finish. That is agonizing.
- 3:41I mean, in our culture, we are obsessed with instant certainty.
- 3:45We want the vibe check to clear immediately.
- 3:47If I were him, the second she poured the first bucket, I would
- 3:50have jumped in and said, OK, that's it, you're the one.
- 3:52Here is the ring. And that would have been a
- 3:54mistake. Why?
- 3:55Because true discernment requires observing the fruit,
- 3:58not just the flower. He needed to know if this was a
- 4:00fluke. He needed to know if she had the
- 4:02character to finish what she started.
- 4:04He was testing her faithfulness by simply letting her work.
- 4:07He respected the process of revelation.
- 4:10He didn't try to force God's hand.
- 4:12He waited to see God's hand revealed in the completion of
- 4:15the task. That is a hard lesson for us.
- 4:18We want answers now. We treat prayer like a vending
- 4:21machine, but he treats it like a crop.
- 4:24He waits for it to ripen so the last camel finishes drinking.
- 4:27The test is over. Now he moves.
- 4:29Verse 22 says the man took a golden earring, or more
- 4:32accurately a nose ring, a nesim, and two bracelets.
- 4:36And here is where we need to slow down, because the details
- 4:39here are incredible and most people skim right over them.
- 4:42Moses, who wrote this, gives us the specific weight of the gold.
- 4:45It says the ring was half a Shekel weight.
- 4:48Right now, why does that matter? Is Moses just keeping a Ledger?
- 4:50Is this just a receipt? I assumed it was just to show
- 4:53that the ring was valuable. You know, look, Abraham has
- 4:56money. It proves he is solvent, sure,
- 4:59but the Hebrew word used here for hash shekel is Becca.
- 5:02Becca. Yes, and Becca isn't just a
- 5:04random weight. It becomes a technical
- 5:06theological term in the Torah. If you flip over to Exodus
- 5:10chapter 30, verses 13 through 15, God establishes A census tax
- 5:15for the people of Israel. Every person, rich or poor, had
- 5:18to pay exactly 1 Becca of silver.
- 5:20Oh, Becca. OK.
- 5:21And what was that money? For it is called the ransom for
- 5:24the soul. It was the atonement money used
- 5:27for the service of the Tabernacle.
- 5:28In Exodus 38 we see that the silver from these Becca's was
- 5:32melted down to make the sockets the bases for the sanctuary.
- 5:36Wait, so you were saying that when the servant puts a Becca
- 5:38weight on Rebecca, he is using the specific weight associated
- 5:42with atonement and the sanctuary?
- 5:44Precisely. This is theological shorthand to
- 5:46a Jewish reader. The word Becca triggers a
- 5:49connection to the Tabernacle. The servant isn't just giving
- 5:51her jewelry to make her look pretty.
- 5:53He is marking her out. It is almost as if she's being
- 5:55weighed and secured according to the standard of the sanctuary.
- 5:59That completely changes how I see this scene.
- 6:02It is not just a transaction, it is almost liturgical.
- 6:05She's being claimed for a holy purpose.
- 6:07She is, she is being bought with a price in a sense to be part of
- 6:11the covenant people. And then he gives her bracelets
- 6:14weighing 10 shekels. 10 is often a number of completeness or
- 6:18testing in Scripture. Think the 10 commandments, the
- 6:2010 plagues. But the function of this gold is
- 6:23what we call an earnest. Like a down payment.
- 6:26Exactly. In the New Testament, Paul talks
- 6:28about the Holy Spirit as the earnest of our inheritance.
- 6:31It is the guarantee that the full amount is coming.
- 6:34This gold binds the woman to the master's house.
- 6:37It is a pledge. Now I have to play devil's
- 6:39advocate here because I know some people listening might be
- 6:41thinking about the prosperity gospel.
- 6:43You hear Preacher say. Look at Abraham's servant.
- 6:46He gave gold. If you have enough faith, God
- 6:48will give you a Rolex. God want you to be rich.
- 6:50Yeah, that is a very common distortion.
- 6:53We have to reject that entirely. Why?
- 6:55I mean, he did give her gold. He did, but we have to look at
- 6:58the function, not just the material.
- 7:00This wealth wasn't a reward for Rebecca to go hoard in a vault,
- 7:04and it certainly isn't a promise that every believer gets a
- 7:06luxury car. In the ancient Near East,
- 7:09marriage was a legal contract between families to secure a
- 7:13bride, especially from a distance.
- 7:15You had to pay the mohar the bride price.
- 7:18You had to prove that the grooms father was solvent.
- 7:20So it is about security, not luxury.
- 7:22It is about survival. It is about proving that if she
- 7:26leaves her family and moves 500 miles away, she isn't going to
- 7:29starve. It is ensuring the lineage can
- 7:31be established legally. This gold was serving the seed,
- 7:35not the self. It was functional capital for
- 7:37the preservation of the messianic line.
- 7:39That is a huge distinction. It is the difference between
- 7:42winning the lottery and being given a budget to build a
- 7:45hospital. 1 is for you, the other is for the mission.
- 7:48That is a great analogy. It is mission capital.
- 7:51Now there's a weird little quirk in the text here regarding the
- 7:54timeline. I noticed in verse 22 the
- 7:56narrator says he gave the gifts before he asked her name.
- 8:00But later in the chapter in verse 47, when the servant is
- 8:02retelling the story to her brother Laden, he says, I asked
- 8:05her name and then I gave her the ring.
- 8:07Good catch. Did he forget what happened or
- 8:10is he lying to Laban? Neither.
- 8:12This is a literary device. Scholars call it prolepsis.
- 8:15Unpack that for us. Prolepsis is when you represent
- 8:18a future act as if it is already done, or you rearrange events to
- 8:22emphasize a point. In verse 22, the narrator is
- 8:25showing us the servant's internal state.
- 8:27His certainty was so high that effectively the giving of the
- 8:31ring happened the moment he saw her character.
- 8:33So he was so sure she was the one just based on the water
- 8:36test. He was operating on assurance of
- 8:38things hoped for the sign of her character, her.
- 8:40His seeded that loyal love and hospitality and watering the
- 8:44camels was so convincing that in his heart the deal was done.
- 8:48He was ready to endow her with the master's wealth before the
- 8:50legal formalities were even finished.
- 8:52That is a bold faith. He trusted that if God provided
- 8:55the character, God would provide the right family.
- 8:57He did, but he still had to check.
- 9:00Which leads us to the next section.
- 9:01Right Section 2, the genealogy. He gives the gold, but there is
- 9:06still one massive hurdle. She has to be from the right
- 9:09bloodline, he asks, as in verse 23.
- 9:12Whose daughter are you? I call this the narrow gate.
- 9:15You see, character is essential. She had to be a worker.
- 9:18She had to be kind. But character alone wasn't
- 9:22enough. Why not?
- 9:23I mean, let's push on this. If she had said I am the
- 9:25daughter of Efron the Hittite, but she was still a wonderful
- 9:28person who watered camels, why couldn't she be the wife?
- 9:31Why is God so obsessed with genetics here?
- 9:33It is not about genetics in the modern sense of race or
- 9:36ethnicity. It is about covenant.
- 9:39The Canaanites and Hittites were under a specific judicial curse.
- 9:42Their culture was steeped in idolatry that was antithetical
- 9:45to the worship of Yahweh. Abraham's command was very
- 9:48specific. Go to my country and to my
- 9:50kindred. So it is about spiritual
- 9:52distinctiveness. Yes, it is the doctrine of
- 9:55election playing out in history. God separates a people for
- 9:58himself. We live in a world that loves
- 10:00inclusivism, the idea that all paths lead to God or that
- 10:04distinctions don't matter. But biblical religion is
- 10:07particular. The elect line is distinct.
- 10:10It is separated from the world. If she was a Canaanite, no
- 10:13matter how nice she was, she would have brought the leaven of
- 10:15idolatry into the House of the promise.
- 10:18So the tension in this moment is incredibly high.
- 10:20He asks the question, and then in verse 24 she answers, I am
- 10:24the daughter of Bethuel, the son of Milka, which she bare unto
- 10:27Nahor. To us, that is just a list of
- 10:29names. To the servant, that is a
- 10:31theological Thunder clap. Because Nahor is Abraham's
- 10:34brother. Exactly, Abraham said.
- 10:36Go to my kindred and here she is.
- 10:37She is the granddaughter of Abraham's brother.
- 10:40She is from the clan of Terra. She fits the legal and spiritual
- 10:43requirements perfectly. It really hits you when you
- 10:46think about the odds, when you do the math.
- 10:48He travels weeks to a foreign land.
- 10:50He picks one city, he goes to one.
- 10:52Well, he arrives at 1:00, one specific time of day, and out of
- 10:56all the women in the city, the one girl who walks up just
- 11:00happens to be his master's grandniece.
- 11:02Statistically it is zero. It is impossible.
- 11:05But here she is. This is Providence over
- 11:07probability, and there is a beautiful detail here regarding
- 11:11her grandmother Milka. If you go back to Genesis 22,
- 11:15right after the intense story of Abraham almost sacrificing
- 11:18Isaac, the narrative suddenly stops.
- 11:21Yeah, it had that weird genealogy list at the end of the
- 11:23chapter. Milka bore these children.
- 11:25Most of us skim that we think, why is this here?
- 11:28But the Holy Spirit put it there to prepare the reader for this
- 11:30exact moment. It shows us that while Abraham
- 11:33was on Mount Moriah offering up his son, God was already miles
- 11:37away preparing the bride for that son.
- 11:39God is weaving the tapestry long before we see the threads.
- 11:42He is. It is a reminder that God's plan
- 11:44is comprehensive. He isn't reacting to problems.
- 11:47He is interior to them. He is ahead of them.
- 11:50And she offers more than just her name.
- 11:52In verse 25 she says we have both straw and prisoner enough
- 11:55and room to lodge in. That is the test of hospitality.
- 11:59It confirms the family resemblance.
- 12:02Think about Genesis 18. Three strangers come to
- 12:04Abraham's tent. What does he do?
- 12:07He runs. He bows, he gets water, he kills
- 12:11the calf. He is frantic to serve them.
- 12:13And here, hundreds of miles away, his kinswoman Rebecca
- 12:17shows the exact same spirit. She doesn't just give water.
- 12:20She offers lodging. She offers straw for the camels.
- 12:23She is eager. So she isn't just genetically
- 12:25linked, she shares the ethos of the Covenant family.
- 12:28She has the culture of the Kingdom, you could say.
- 12:30So the servant has the gifts given, the name confirmed, the
- 12:33lodging secured, the checklist is complete.
- 12:36And this brings us to verse 26. The man bow down his head and
- 12:39worship the Lord. The physical posture here is so
- 12:42important. The Hebrew words are kata, which
- 12:45means to bow the head, and shaka, which means to prostate
- 12:48oneself to get low on the ground.
- 12:50We don't really do that anymore. Maybe we would close our eyes or
- 12:52lift a hand, but he hits the dirt.
- 12:54He makes himself small. He acknowledges that he is a
- 12:57creature and God is the creator. But look at the timing.
- 13:00That is what grabs me. He worships before he goes to
- 13:03meet the family. Right.
- 13:04He hasn't met Bethewel yet. He hasn't met Laban.
- 13:07He hasn't negotiated the bride prize.
- 13:08He doesn't have a signed contract.
- 13:10A pragmatist would wait. A pragmatist would say, OK, Step
- 13:131 is good, but I need to close the deal, then I'll celebrate.
- 13:17Exactly. But the servant is not a
- 13:19pragmatist. He is a worshipper.
- 13:22He sees the hand of God so clearly in the meeting that he
- 13:26interprets the success immediately as divine action.
- 13:30He pauses the mission to give thanks for the mercy.
- 13:33It is the. First, fruits of gratitude.
- 13:35He doesn't wait for the harvest to be in the barn.
- 13:37And this is a total rejection of the idea of chance.
- 13:40The text is training us to be anti secular.
- 13:43The servant doesn't say wow, what a lucky coincidence.
- 13:45He doesn't say, man, I'm really good at picking wells.
- 13:48He sees the heavy hand of Yahweh and.
- 13:50Then he speaks in verse 27 and he says, Blessed be the Lord God
- 13:54of my master Abraham, who has not left destitute, my Master of
- 13:58his mercy and his truth. Those two words, mercy and truth
- 14:02are massive in Hebrew. They are has said and Emet.
- 14:06Let's untack those, he said. Is a word we hear a lot in
- 14:09church circles. It is often translated as loving
- 14:11kindness or steadfast love, but it is more specific than that,
- 14:16He said is covenant loyalty. It is love that is bound by an
- 14:19oath. When God shows, he said he isn't
- 14:22just being nice, He is being faithful to a promise he made.
- 14:26In Amen. Amen is truth, reliability,
- 14:29firmness. So the servant is praising God
- 14:32for acting according to his sworn oath to Abraham.
- 14:35He realizes that finding Rebecca isn't just a happy event, it is
- 14:38God keeping His word. And then he drops this phrase
- 14:41that I think is the anchor for the whole episode.
- 14:43He says. I being in the way the Lord led
- 14:45me. I being in the way the Lord led
- 14:47me. That is the doctrine of
- 14:48concurrence in a nutshell. OK, that is a $5 theological
- 14:53word. Break that down for us.
- 14:54What does the Westminster Confession say about that?
- 14:56Concurrence is the teaching that God's sovereign decree
- 14:59cooperates with human agency without violating it.
- 15:03God works through the will of the creature.
- 15:06Think of it this way, the servant says.
- 15:08I being in the way, that is human responsibility.
- 15:11He had to saddle the camels, he had to walk the 500 miles.
- 15:14He had to stand by the well. He had to open his mouth and
- 15:16pray he was active. He wasn't a robot and he wasn't
- 15:19passive. He wasn't sitting in a hammock
- 15:21in Hebron waiting for God to drop a wife out of the sky.
- 15:24Exactly. But the second-half of the
- 15:26sentence is the Lord led me. That is divine sovereignty.
- 15:30So how do those two fit together?
- 15:32I like to use the analogy of steering a ship.
- 15:35Imagine a captain at the wheel of a massive vessel.
- 15:38For the rudder to work for the ship to be steered, the ship has
- 15:41to be moving and needs forward momentum.
- 15:43If the engines are off and the ship is dead in the water, the
- 15:46captain can turn the wheel all day, but the ship won't turn.
- 15:50So the servant provides the motion.
- 15:51The servant provides the motion, the obedience, The Walking, the
- 15:54being in the way, and because he is in motion, God, the captain,
- 15:58steers him. God directs the moving vessel.
- 16:01That is really helpful. It avoids the two ditches we
- 16:04always fall into. One ditch is fatalism.
- 16:07God controls everything, so I'll just sit here and do nothing.
- 16:09That's the ship with no engine. And the other ditch is deism.
- 16:13God wound up the clock and left. So it is all up to me.
- 16:16That's the ship with no captain. But the biblical view is
- 16:19concurrence. We act, and in our acting God is
- 16:22directing. This also seems to shut down the
- 16:25idea of open theism. It absolutely does.
- 16:28Open theism is the idea that the future is unsettled, that God is
- 16:32waiting to see what humans do and then reacts.
- 16:35But look at the text. The verb nahani, he led me
- 16:38indicates A factual, completed action.
- 16:41God didn't wait to see who came to the well.
- 16:43He didn't look down and say, oh nice, Rebecca showed up, I can
- 16:45work with that. God led him to the House of his
- 16:48master's brethren. The destination was fixed in the
- 16:50divine decree before the servant ever left home.
- 16:53God constitutes the end as well as the means.
- 16:56That is incredibly comforting. That means God isn't up there
- 16:59biting his nails hoping I make the right choice.
- 17:02He is leading, but this brings up a practical question about
- 17:05guidance. We hear people today talk about
- 17:08seeking a word from the Lord. I'm waiting for a sign.
- 17:11Yeah, if the barista spells my name right, I'll take the job.
- 17:15Yeah, people treat guidance like divination, but how does the
- 17:19servant do it? This text gives us the true
- 17:21biblical model. Notice what the servant didn't
- 17:24do. Did he hear a voice from heaven?
- 17:26No. Did he see writing in the sky?
- 17:29Yeah. Did he cast lots?
- 17:31He used prayer plus prudence. He prayed for success, that his
- 17:34dependence. But then he used prudence,
- 17:36wisdom, he said a moral test. He decided I'm going to look for
- 17:40a woman who shows hospitality because that is the character
- 17:43that fits Abraham's house. That is just wisdom.
- 17:46It is. And then he verified it with
- 17:48facts, her lineage. He didn't just go off a feeling
- 17:51or a burning in his bosom. He used his brain.
- 17:54He applied the word he had Abraham's command to the
- 17:57situation in front of him. So true guidance for us isn't
- 18:00about waiting for new special revelations, it is about
- 18:02applying scripture and wisdom to our choices.
- 18:05Exactly as those who hold to cessationism the belief that the
- 18:10Canon of Scripture is closed and the sign gifts have ceased, we
- 18:13believe God guides us primarily through His Word, His Spirit
- 18:17illuminating that Word and His Providence.
- 18:20We don't need new whispers. We need to do what the servant
- 18:24did, Know the command, use wisdom and watch God work.
- 18:28That is so freeing. I don't need to be a Mystic to
- 18:30follow Jesus. I just need to be obedient and
- 18:33wise. Prayer plus prudence.
- 18:35It is a great formula. I want to pivot now to Section 5
- 18:39typology because if we just read this as a history lesson, we
- 18:42miss the Jesus connection. The Reformers love to see Christ
- 18:45in the Old Testament. How does this story point to the
- 18:47Gospel? It is rich with typology, but we
- 18:49have to be careful. We don't want to allegorize
- 18:51every detail. The camels aren't the 10
- 18:53commandments or something silly like that, but we look for the
- 18:55broad patterns, look at the cast of characters.
- 18:57OK, you have Abraham the father. He is the one who originates the
- 19:01plan. He sends the servant to secure a
- 19:03bride for his Son. This mirrors God the Father
- 19:06planning redemption. And then you have Isaac, the
- 19:09son. Isaac is a fascinating figure
- 19:11here. Remember, he's the beloved Son.
- 19:13He was the one laid on the altar in Genesis 22.
- 19:16He was figuratively received back from the dead.
- 19:19And where is he in this chapter? He is absent, He is not on the
- 19:22journey. The servant goes alone.
- 19:24Isaac is above. He is back in the land waiting.
- 19:27This mirrors Christ perfectly. Jesus died, rose and ascended to
- 19:32the right hand of the Father. He is physically absent from the
- 19:35world right now. We love him whom having not seen
- 19:39as Peter says. So the servant represents the
- 19:41Holy Spirit. In a very strong sense.
- 19:43Notice that the servant is never named in this chapter.
- 19:45He never speaks of himself. He doesn't say, hey, look how
- 19:47great of a traveler I am. He only speaks of the father
- 19:50Abraham and the son Isaac. He is entirely consumed with
- 19:54glorifying the Master and securing the bride.
- 19:56That sounds exactly like Jesus describing the Spirit in John
- 19:5916. He shall not speak of himself.
- 20:02He shall glorify me. Precisely.
- 20:04And what does the servant do? He finds the bride in a foreign
- 20:08land, a land of idolatry. He calls her out and he adorns
- 20:12her with gifts, the gold and silver, before she meets the
- 20:16groom. That's the earnest again.
- 20:18Yes, just as the Spirit gives the church spiritual gifts and
- 20:22graces. Now, we haven't seen Christ yet,
- 20:24but we have the jewelry, so to speak.
- 20:27We have the down payment of the Spirit marking us as His.
- 20:30And Rebecca is the church. She is called out of her old
- 20:32life, she has to leave her father's house and she accepts
- 20:36the proposal. I will go based solely on the
- 20:38testimony. Testimony of the servant.
- 20:40She believes the word He brings about the Son.
- 20:42It is the gospel in narrative form.
- 20:45The Father sends the Spirit to rescue a bride from the domain
- 20:47of darkness, adorns her with grace, and brings her home to
- 20:50the marriage supper. It.
- 20:51Elevates the story so much. It is not just about a wedding
- 20:54in Mesopotamia, it is about the wedding of the lamb.
- 20:56Man, that is good. But we do need to land the
- 20:59plane. Section 6 application.
- 21:01We want to be doers of the word. Yeah.
- 21:03How does this apply to the listener right now?
- 21:05Let's start with a single since this is a marriage text.
- 21:07The primary application for a single believer is to look at
- 21:10the criteria. The servant was uncompromising.
- 21:14He sought a spouse from the household of faith.
- 21:17He didn't go to the Canaanites. So missionary dating is out.
- 21:21Completely out. I know the temptation.
- 21:23Oh, I can change him or she has a good heart.
- 21:26But the biblical mandate is only in the Lord.
- 21:29Do not look for a partner in the Canaan of the world.
- 21:33Look for family resemblance, faith, covenant values.
- 21:37And looking at Rebecca, he looked for a worker.
- 21:39Yes, he didn't find her at a gala.
- 21:41He found her at a well doing hard labor.
- 21:44If you are looking for a spouse, look for character that reveals
- 21:46itself in service. Look for someone who is already
- 21:49serving others. Rebecca was in the way of her
- 21:51duty when Providence found her. That is a word for our
- 21:54generation. Yeah, we want to be found, but
- 21:56are we doing the work? Are we serving?
- 21:58Exactly, and let's widen that to decision making in general.
- 22:01I talked to so many people who are paralyzed by the fear of
- 22:04missing God's will. What if I take the wrong job?
- 22:07What if I moved to the wrong city?
- 22:08Will I ruin God's plan? This text cures that anxiety.
- 22:11The servant teaches us. Be in the way of obedience.
- 22:15Do your daily work. Pursue holiness.
- 22:18Keep the commandments. God guides those who are in
- 22:21motion. You don't need to freeze until
- 22:23you get a divine spotlight. Just start walking.
- 22:25Just start walking, use the wisdom you have and trust that
- 22:28God is steering the ship. If you are seeking Him.
- 22:31You can trust that He is leading you even if you don't feel it in
- 22:33the moment. Interpret the open doors and the
- 22:36chance meetings, as God has said, pursuing you.
- 22:39And finally, the discipline of gratitude.
- 22:41This is the third use of the law, using the narrative to
- 22:44guide our life. We need to cultivate the reflex
- 22:47of the servant when the contract is signed or the diagnosis this
- 22:50comes back clear or the baby is born safe.
- 22:53What is your first reaction? Usually if you glad that's over
- 22:56or I handled that well. Right, we take credit or we just
- 23:00feel relief. But the servant bowed his head
- 23:02and worshipped. We need to be quick to identify
- 23:04God's hand and quick to give him the glory.
- 23:07Blessed be the Lord who has not forsaken his mercy.
- 23:09It changes how you view your entire week.
- 23:12If you are looking for God's hand, you will see it.
- 23:15If you are looking for your own cleverness, you will just see
- 23:17yourself. Well said.
- 23:19So let's wrap this up. We have seen this sweet
- 23:21confluence, the servant's rigorous activity, the camel's,
- 23:26the journey, the test perfectly meshed with God's sovereign
- 23:29decree. The preservation of the
- 23:31messianic seed wasn't an accident.
- 23:33It wasn't luck. It was the faithfulness of the
- 23:36covenant God working through the faithful obedience of a servant.
- 23:40And I want to leave our listeners with one final
- 23:42thought, something to chew on this week.
- 23:44The servant blessed God for not forsaking His steadfast love.
- 23:48Which is an interesting phrasing.
- 23:50It implies that deep down, we often expect God to forsake us.
- 23:53We do. We think he is too busy or too
- 23:56distant, or that we have messed up too many times.
- 23:59We think our little problems, our job search, our dating life,
- 24:02our bills don't matter to the King of the Universe.
- 24:05But this text screams the opposite.
- 24:07It does. It tells us that God is
- 24:09intimately involved in the details.
- 24:11So here is the challenge. What if the very mundane details
- 24:16of your week? The emails, the errands, the
- 24:18chance meetings at the coffee shop?
- 24:21What if those aren't distractions?
- 24:22What if those are the camels? Exactly what if those are the
- 24:25camels God is using to carry His covenant promises to your
- 24:29doorstep? That puts a glory on the
- 24:31ordinary. It really does.
- 24:32Look for the has said and he met the mercy and truth in the
- 24:34ordinary this week. Thanks for diving deep with us
- 24:37today on Reformed thinking. It's been a pleasure.
- 24:39We will catch you next time, keep thinking.