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The Pear Tree of Prosperity Hypnosis – Grow Comfort, Boundaries, and Abundance with Money · The Hypnotist

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  Welcome to The Hypnotist, the show that gives you inside
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  access to cutting edge hypnosis with real clients facing
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  genuine. Issues.
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  Brought to you by The Hypnotherapist, demanded by
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  celebrities CE OS and even royalty Adam Cox, these
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  recordings took place live from Evans Clinic in London's world
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  famous Harley Street. So get yourself comfortable and
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  enjoy today's episode of The Hypnotist.
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  The Pear Tree of Prosperity may sound like an unusual name for a
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  hypnosis session, but that's exactly what you're going to be
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  listening to right now. Because I was working with a
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  client that because of their childhood, had quite
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  disempowering beliefs about money, about wealth, about
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  motherhood, and also about expressing joy.
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  And a lot of these things they felt were wrong or ruthless or
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  bad or shameful. So this hypnosis session uses
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  quite an unusual metaphor. This particular client felt that
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  the fruit least desirable for them was the durian fruit.
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  And the durian fruit is a tropical fruit that's quite
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  pungent. It's got quite a smell.
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  It kind of smells like it's gone off.
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  It's very healthy fruit, but it's quite pungent and she
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  didn't like this fruit at all. So I use a metaphor of a durian
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  tree with these quite spiky looking durian fruit on there,
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  and they represent all of the emotions and thoughts and
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  behaviours that came from these disempowering childhood beliefs.
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  Her favorite fruit was a pear. So we imagine this magic watch
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  that shrinks the tree back to when it was tiny, and then she
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  replaces that with a pear tree. And this represents all of the
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  empowering alternative beliefs to replace the ones that she had
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  before. And then this goes forwards in
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  time, and then she can get a sense of wonderful emotions and
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  thoughts and feelings and actions and also opportunities
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  that naturally bear fruit from the updated beliefs.
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  Very metaphorical. But if you have issues with
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  either money or judgement or feeling that you can't express
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  joy, you know you can't smile, you can't laugh.
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  I think you're going to get some value from this session.
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  Some of the suggestions were very, very specific to this
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  client, so ignore any that aren't quite right for you.
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  And if you do like the idea of working with me directly, have a
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  look in the description and you can either do a hypnotherapy
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  suitability test or you can book a free consultation call to
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  explore working with me. For now though, find a quiet,
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  comfortable place where you won't be disturbed.
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  Relax and enjoy the session. Take a deep breath in, and as
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  you breathe in, breathe in that resourceful feeling of calm and
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  relaxation. And as you exhale, just allow
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  your eyelids to close. And as you close, just position
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  your body in such a way where you can allow yourself to relax
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  deeply. That's it.
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  And just become aware of your body or any tension may be
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  hiding the speed of your breath. And maybe if you focus, you can
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  detect a heartbeat or a pulse and notice that the deeper you
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  breathe and the longer you exhale, how your whole body is
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  releasing tension, how you're letting go of anything that is
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  unnecessary. And you can feel how wonderful
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  it would feel to just allow your mind and your body to slow down.
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  That's in breathing gets deeper, the exhales get longer.
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  And then scan your body for any clues of tension.
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  Maybe there's tightness in a muscle or a tendon.
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  And just imagine how good it would feel if that starts to
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  melt away, taking you deeper and deeper, relaxed.
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  And I want you to use the power of your imagination to imagine a
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  garden in Malaysia. An impressive garden full of
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  flowers and plants. But right in the centre of this
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  garden is a durian tree filled with an spiky, jagged fruit.
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  The durian. And I want you to imagine
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  there's a very comfy chair not too far from that tree.
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  And just imagine placing yourself in that chair, staring
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  into the tree, looking at all of these different fruits.
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  And I want you to get a sense that you're drifting deeper and
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  deeper, relaxed, almost using your peripheral vision to zoom
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  out and see the whole tree as an entity, to allow any more
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  tension to melt away as you start thinking this tree
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  represents disempowering beliefs formed in childhood.
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  And I want you to get a sense then each of these fruits, they
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  may be healthy, but for you they represent something pungent,
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  smelly, slimy. And I want you to get a sense
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  that most beliefs are formed in childhood.
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  Beliefs about money and motherhood, beliefs about who
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  you meant to be and what it's OK to say.
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  And sometimes they learn from unconscious role models.
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  Quite often, parents, we learn very quickly what's OK and what
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  isn't OK, and those things that we believe that echo other
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  people's beliefs get reinforced with approval and validation.
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  And those beliefs that contradict that early
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  environment are shot down, leading to either verbal,
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  emotional, sometimes even physical consequences.
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  So there is no shame at all in believing what you believe, but
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  just because you do doesn't mean you have to.
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  Very few people audit their beliefs.
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  They're just there in the background.
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  And a great way to audit a belief is to say, knowing what I
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  now know, would I choose to believe this thing if I didn't
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  believe it already? And I want you to get a feeling
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  that each fruit on this durian tree represents perhaps an idea
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  or a thought, an emotion connected to some of those
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  childhood beliefs. Things like I'm not allowed to
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  express my joy, it's shameful to be a mother.
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  Or perhaps the idea that in order to have money, you have to
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  be ruthless or perhaps superficial.
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  And as you stare into the tree, I want you to get a feeling.
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  Then what if these childhood beliefs are giving you pungent,
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  smelly, disgusting thoughts, feelings, and ideas not because
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  you deserve them, but they're just coming from the underlying
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  beliefs. So let's do something new.
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  Imagine in your hand on that chair, staring into the durian
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  tree, you have a pocket watch. And I want you to imagine this
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  pocket watch is magical. With your finger, you can rotate
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  the clock backwards and as you do see the tree going in
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  reverse, instead of aging, it goes backwards.
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  And perhaps one hour on the clock represents a year of this
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  tree's existence, if the tree is 30 or 40 years old.
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  And what you have to do is to spin the clock back 30 or 40
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  hours and you see the tree shrinking, getting smaller and
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  smaller. And you can decide if you stop
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  the clock when it's just a tiny sapling or a seed in the ground.
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  But when you can imagine that durian tree is a tiny plant, let
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  me know by nodding your head. And at that point it's easy to
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  remove. You can plug the plant out with
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  a single hand or remove the seed.
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  And I want you to imagine you have a ripe pear, and imagine
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  putting that ripe pear, perhaps with six or seven seeds inside
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  in the very hole where the durian tree once was.
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  And just to check that it's growing, I want you to move your
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  magical watch forward half an hour so you get to see what
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  those seeds would look like in six months time.
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  And I want you to see at least one sapling starting to grow and
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  then move it another full rotation.
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  And you can see that small tree at a year and a half and then
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  move it forward a few more years, perhaps four or five, and
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  see the very first pairs on this small tree.
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  And these pairs represent wonderful thoughts, feelings,
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  emotions, or experiences that came from more useful beliefs.
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  And just allow yourself to sit back on that chair and see the
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  clock moving by itself. Now I want you to see the tree
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  growing perhaps one year for every minute that you experience
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  as we plant ideas as to what those pear seeds could have been
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  to grow this particular tree. And I want you to get a feeling
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  that any fruit that flows from this tree is the wonderful
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  consequences of more empowering beliefs.
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  So let's explore those beliefs. Stare into this growing tree and
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  you start to think that money is simply energy, a neutral tool
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  that reflects the value you create in the world.
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  And you're allowed to feel increasingly comfortable with
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  money, free from fear or attention whenever you think
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  about it. Because the more money you have,
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  the more value you must be creating for the world.
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  You know that healthy boundaries around money protect your
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  security and allow generosity to flourish at the right times.
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  Based on your discernment, you welcome the truth.
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  And attracting money often comes from the value you contribute
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  and the courage to take wise risks.
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  You feel valued, seen, and heard because you help others to feel
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  valued, seen, and heard. Maybe you already realize that
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  money itself does not define a person's character, it simply
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  amplifies who they already are. You could think of it like
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  generous people with money can be even more generous, caring
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  people could be even more caring.
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  Adventurous people have the resources to be even more
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  adventurous. But also the opposite is true.
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  Ruthless people could be more ruthless and selfish people
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  could be more selfish. But that has nothing to do with
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  you. That's a reflection of them.
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  Some people are happy and rich, and some people are happy and
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  poor. Some people are rich and
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  miserable and some people are poor and miserable.
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  Money does not define or in fact cause real happiness.
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  You understand that money is not to be feared, but it's to be
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  managed with a healthy respect, with the value it deserves.
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  And you can do that with wisdom and boundaries that support your
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  values, your vision, and your legacy.
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  I want you to feel, as you see the tree continuing to grow more
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  and more pears each season, that you are open to receiving money
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  as a reflection of your worth and the positive differences you
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  make in the world. So give yourself permission now
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  to enjoy the presence of money in your life without guilt or
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  shame, and you can feel safe knowing that money does not
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  change who you are at your core, it only magnifies those
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  wonderful qualities within you. You choose to express joy freely
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  when it uplifts others and honours the moment, but also
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  trust your discernment not to suppress, but just pause that
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  joy when compassion and sensitivity are required.
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  I want you to get a feeling that joy, health, and financial
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  abundance flow easily when it's aligned with authenticity, value
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  and purpose. From this point on, money is
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  just a partner, an ally, not a threat in creating the life that
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  you choose. And maybe you feel more and more
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  relaxed when thinking about money because you know it's
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  simply a balance and a reflection of choices and
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  values. And when you think about
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  mothers, I want you to think that just as there are people
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  good with money and bad with money, there are good mothers
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  and bad mothers. And I want you to get a sense
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  then. Good mothers are caring and
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  generous and dedicated, but also able to make their own choices.
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  And sometimes that means spending time or attention away
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  from a child to show them the essence of hard work and
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  pursuing A worthy goal. You enjoy the balance of being
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  both generous and protective of your resources, knowing both are
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  essential for prosperity. I want you to walk up to the
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  pear tree now fully grown and find the ripest pear and take a
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  bite and just feel how nourishing, how delicious, but
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  also how powerful all of the thoughts, emotions and feelings
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  are coming from these new updated beliefs.
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  And feel that you embody the qualities of care, generosity
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  and wisdom. And you trust that money will
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  amplify these qualities within you as you give yourself full
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  permission to live with joy, compassion, and discernment,
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  knowing that money is just one of many tools that support your
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  freedom and contribution. And I want you to have a feeling
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  that these new beliefs will carry on into your future.
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  And I want you to imagine seeing yourself doing something that
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  will live beyond your own mortality.
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  Maybe it's impact. Maybe it's something tangible.
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  I want you to consider this a legacy that these beliefs will
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  naturally give you resources, emotions, thoughts, and
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  experiences that will increase the quality of your life but
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  also lead to a legacy that lives beyond you.
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  And if you could imagine what that legacy could be, even if
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  it's just a possibility, consider yourself planting a new
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  seed in the ground. That may take many years to
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  grow, but you are setting the intention now, even if it's
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  decades before the legacy becomes a prophecy.
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  And I want you to think at how quickly that smelly, pungent
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  durian tree changed into a delicious pear tree.
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  And just every now and then, if an echo of a thought or emotion
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  connected to those old beliefs comes up, just remember this
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  pear tree and just feel that that thought or emotion wasn't
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  meant for you. There will be other people that
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  like the durian, but the pears are for you.
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  It's time to leave this Malaysian garden and imagine
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  floating up out of the garden, seeing the pear tree from above,
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  grabbing one final pear before you float all the way back to
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  where you are now. And as you climb back into your
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  own body, feeling in the here and the now.
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  Take all of these updated beliefs with you.
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  And when I count from 1:00 to 10:00, you will awaken with
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  these new beliefs. So take a deep breath in through
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  your nose and out through your nose.
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  Wiggle your fingers and wiggle your toes.
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  Connect and calibrate into the here and the now as I now count
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  from 1:00 to 10:00 to awaken you.
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  Starting to count 123 waking up 456 more alert 7-8.
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  Open your eyes. Open your eyes 910.
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  Wide awake. Wide awake.
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  Wide awake. Thank you so much for joining me
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  on today's episode of The Hypnotist.
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  And if you've enjoyed this show or got some benefit from it, you
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  may know of one other friend or family member that may also
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  benefit from this hypnosis session.
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  In which case I'd like to ask a favour of you.
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  And that is if you could spend 10 seconds to share this episode
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  with someone that you know that may also benefit, that would
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  really help me to access new people that don't already know
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  about this show. Thank you very much for
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  listening and I will see you again on the next episode.