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- 0:00The Kima Sutra of Vitziyayana, translated from the Sanskrit in seven parts, with
- 0:06preface, introduction and concluding remarks by Vitsiyayana, translated by Richard Burton, Bagavan
- 0:15Lau, Indrajit and Shivarim Parashuram Bide note to the listener, as I am
- 0:23a native English speaker, I am going to attempt to pronounce the Indian names
- 0:27sprinkled throughout this text in a manner consistent with the normal English pronunciations of such
- 0:33combinations of letters. To people who actually know how such Indian names ought to
- 0:38be pronounced, I am sure I am going to wound their sensibilities, and
- 0:42so I offer my apologies in advance introduction. It may be interesting to some
- 0:50persons to learn how it came about that Vitsiyayana was first brought to light and
- 0:54translated into the English language. It happened thus, while translating with the pundits
- 1:00the Anunga Runga or the stage of love, reference was frequently found to be
- 1:06made to one Vetsya. The sage Vatsia was of this opinion or of that
- 1:11opinion. The sage Vitzia said this, and so on naturally, questions were
- 1:17asked who the sage was, and the pundits replied that Veatsia was the author
- 1:21of the standard work on love in Sanskrit literature, that no Sanskrit library was
- 1:26complete without his work, and that it was most difficult now to obtain in
- 1:30its entire state. The copy of the manuscript obtained in Bombay was defective,
- 1:36and so the pundits wrote to Banaris, Calcutta and Jaipur for copies of the
- 1:41manuscript from Sanskrit libraries in those places. Copies having been obtained, they were
- 1:47then compared with each other, and with the aid of a commentary called Jaya
- 1:51Mangla, a revised copy of the entire manuscript was prepared, and from this
- 1:57copy the English translation was made. The following is the certificate of the chief
- 2:01pundit. The accompanying manuscript is corrected by me. After comparing four different copies
- 2:07of the work. I had the assistance of a commentary called Jayamangla for correcting
- 2:14the portion in the first five parts, but found great difficulty in correcting the
- 2:17remaining portion, because, with the exception of one copy thereof which was tolerably
- 2:23correct, all the other copies I had were far too incorrect. However,
- 2:28I took that portion as correct, in which the majority of the copies agreed
- 2:31with each other. The Aphorisms on Love by vets Yayana contains about one thousand,
- 2:39two hundred and fifty slokas or verses, and are divided into parts,
- 2:46parts into chapters, and chapters into paragraphs. The whole consists of seven parts,
- 2:52thirty six chapters, and sixty four paragraphs. Hardly anything is known about
- 2:57the author. His real name is supposed to be Malanaga or Mruyana, Vitsiyayano
- 3:04being his family name. At the close of the work, this is what
- 3:07he writes about himself. Quote. After reading and considering the works of Babhavra
- 3:14and other ancient authors, and thinking over the meaning of the rules given by
- 3:17them, this treatise was composed according to the precepts of the Holy Writ for
- 3:23the benefit of the World by Vetsyayana, while leading the life of a religious
- 3:29student at Banaris and wholly engaged in the contemplation of the deity. This work
- 3:34is not to be used merely as an instrument for satisfying our desires. A
- 3:38person acquainted with the true principles of this science, who preserves is dharma virtue
- 3:45or religious merit, his artha worldly wealth, and is khema pleasure or sensual
- 3:52gratification, and who has regard to the customs of the people, is sure
- 3:57to obtain the mastery over his senses. In short, an intelligent and knowing
- 4:01person attending to dharma and artha and also to keema, without becoming the slave
- 4:08of his passions, will obtain success in everything that he may do. It
- 4:15is impossible to fix the exact date either of the life of Vitsiyayana or of
- 4:18his work. It is supposed that he must have lived between the first and
- 4:23the sixth centuries of the Christian era. On the following grounds. He mentions
- 4:28that Satkarni Sritvahan, a king of Kuntal, killed malay Ivati, his wife,
- 4:33with an instrument called katari by striking her in the passion of love,
- 4:39and Vetsia quotes this case to warn people of the danger arising from some old
- 4:44customs of striking women when under the influence of this passion. Now, this
- 4:48king of Kuntal is believed to have lived and reigned during the first century AC
- 4:54and consequently Vitsiya must have lived after him. On the other hand, via
- 4:59Hami Hira, in the eighteenth chapter of his Brihat Sanhita, treats of the
- 5:04science of love and appears to have borrowed largely from Vitsiyayana on the subject.
- 5:10Now, via Hamihira is said to have lived during the sixth century a d
- 5:15and as Vitsiya must have written his works previously. Therefore, not earlier than
- 5:19the first century AC and not later than the sixth century AD must be considered
- 5:26as the approximate date of his existence. On the text of the aphorisms on
- 5:31love by Vitsiyayana, only two commentaries have been found, one called Jayamgla or
- 5:40Sutra Bashya and the other Sutra Vriti. The date of the Jayamangla is fixed
- 5:46between the tenth and thirteenth centuries AD, because while treating of the sixty four
- 5:50arts, an example is taken from the Kavya Prakashiya, which was written about
- 5:56the tenth century AD. Again, the copy of the commentary very procured was
- 6:00evidently a transcript of a manuscript which once had a place in the library of
- 6:05a chow Lukyan king named Visha Ladeva. A fact elicited from the following sentence
- 6:12at the end of it. Quote. Here ends the part relating to the
- 6:15art of Love and the commentary on the Vetsiayana Kimasutra, a copy from the
- 6:21library of the King of Kings, vishan Ladeva, who was a powerful hero,
- 6:27as it were, a second Arjuna and head jewel of the chow Ulukya
- 6:31family. End quote. Now it is well known that this king ruled in
- 6:36Guzarat from twelve forty four to twelve sixty two a d. And founded a
- 6:42city called visual Nagur. The date therefore of the commentary is taken to be
- 6:46not earlier than the tenth and not later than the thirteenth century. The author
- 6:51of it is supposed to be one Yashu Dhara, the name given him by
- 6:56his preceptor being Indrapada. He seems to have written it during the time of
- 7:01affliction caused by his separation from a clever and shrewd woman, at least that
- 7:08is what he himself says at the end of each chapter. It is presumed
- 7:12that he called his work after the name of his absent mistress, or the
- 7:15word may have some connection with the meaning of her name. This commentary was
- 7:20most useful in explaining the true meaning of Vitsyayana, for the commentator appears to
- 7:27have had a considerable knowledge of the times of the older author and gives in
- 7:30some places very minute information. This cannot be said of the other commentary called
- 7:36Sutra Vriti, which was written about a d by Narsingh Shastri, a pupil
- 7:43of a Sarveshwar Shastri. The latter was a descendant of Bashskur, and so
- 7:47also was our author, for at the conclusion of every part he calls himself
- 7:53Bashkir Narsingh Shastra. He was induced to write the work by order of the
- 7:58learned rajah v Jalala while he was residing in Benares. But as to the
- 8:03merits of this commentary, it does not deserve much commendation. In many cases,
- 8:09the writer does not appear to have understood the meaning of the original author,
- 8:13and has changed the text in many places to fit in with his own
- 8:16explanations. A complete translation of the original work now follows. It has been
- 8:22prepared in complete accordance with the text of the manuscript, and is given without
- 8:26further comments as made from it. Part one the Vityayana Sutra introductory preface salutation
- 8:37to Dharma, Artha and Keema. In the beginning, the Lord of Beings
- 8:43created men and women, and in the form of commandments in one hundred thousand
- 8:48chapters, laid down rules for regulating their existence with regard to Dharma, Artha
- 8:54and Keema footnotes. Dharma is acquisition of religious merit and is fully described in
- 9:01chapter five, Volume three of Tallboys Wheeler's History of India and in the Edicts
- 9:07of Ahsoka. Artha is acquisition of wealth and property, etc. Keema is
- 9:16love, pleasure and sensual gratification. These three words are retained throughout in their
- 9:22original as technical terms. They may also be defined as virtue, wealth and
- 9:26pleasure, the three things repeatedly spoken of in the Laws of Manu and footnote.
- 9:35Some of these commandments, namely those which treated of Dharma, were separately
- 9:39written by Swayambu Manu, those that related to Arthur were compiled by Brushaspati,
- 9:48and those that referred to Kema were expounded by Nandi, the follower of Mahadeva
- 9:52in one thousand chapters. Now these Keema Sutra aphorisms on love written by by
- 10:00Nandi in one thousand chapters were reproduced by Shivadakatu, the son of Udfalaka,
- 10:07in an abbreviated form in five hundred chapters, and this work was again similarly
- 10:11reproduced in an abridged form in one hundred and fifty chapters by bab Ravya,
- 10:18an inhabitant of the Punchala south of Delhi country. These one hundred and fifty
- 10:24chapters were then put together under seven heads or parts named severally. First Sadharana
- 10:31general topics, Second Samprayo Gika embraces, et cetera. Third Kenya Samprayuktaka union
- 10:41of males and females. Fourth Bari Higkarika on one's own wife. Fifth Paradica
- 10:52on the wives of other people. Sixth Vayska on courtesans. Seventh Alpamshadika on
- 11:03the arts of seduction, tonic medicines, et cetera. The sixth part of
- 11:09this last work was separately expounded by Dataka at the request of the public women
- 11:13of Pataliputra, which is Patna, and in the same way Charayana explained the
- 11:20first part of it. The remaining parts, that is, the second,
- 11:24third, fourth, fifth, and seventh were each separately expounded by Suvarna Nabha,
- 11:30the second part go Takumuka, third part Gonardiya, fourth part Goni Kaputra,
- 11:39fifth part Kuchumara, seventh part respectively. Thus, the work, being
- 11:45written in parts by different authors was almost unobtainable, and as the parts which
- 11:50were expounded by Dataka and the others treated only of the particular branches of the
- 11:54subject to which each part related, and moreover, as the original work of
- 11:58bab Krava was difficult to be mastered on account of its length, Vitsiayana therefore
- 12:05composed his work in a small volume as an abstract of the whole of the
- 12:09works of the above named authors. Part one. Chapter one being the index
- 12:16two or contents of the work. Chapter two will be observations on the three
- 12:22worldly attainments of virtue, wealth and Love. Chapter three on the study of
- 12:28the sixty four arts. Chapter four on the arrangements of a house and household
- 12:33furniture, and about the daily life of a citizen, his companion's amusements,
- 12:37etc. Chapter five about classes of women fit and unfit for congress with the
- 12:45citizen, and of friends and messengers. Part two on sexual union. Chapter
- 12:52one will be kinds of union according to dimensions, force of desire and time.
- 12:58And on the different kinds of love. Chapter two of the embrace.
- 13:05Chapter three on kissing. Chapter four on pressing or marking with the nails.
- 13:11Chapter five on biting and the ways of love to be employed with regard to
- 13:16women of different countries. Chapter six on the various ways of lying down and
- 13:22the different kinds of congress. Chapter seven on the various ways of striking and
- 13:30of the sounds appropriate to them. Chapter eight about females acting the part of
- 13:35males. Chapter nine on holding the lingam in the mouth. Chapter ten,
- 13:43how to begin and how to end the congress, different kinds of congress,
- 13:48and love quarrels. Part three about the acquisition of a wife. Chapter one
- 13:56observations on betrothal and marriage. Chapter two about creating confidence in the girl.
- 14:03Chapter three courtship and the manifestations of the feelings by outward signs and deeds.
- 14:09Chapter four on things to be done only by the man and the acquisition of
- 14:15the girl. Thereby also what to be done by a girl to gain over
- 14:18a man and subject him to her. Chapter five on the different forms of
- 14:24marriage. Part four about a wife. Chapter one on the manner of living
- 14:33of a virtuous woman, and of her behavior during the absence of her husband.
- 14:37Chapter two on the conduct of the eldest wife towards the other wives of
- 14:43her husband, and of the younger wife towards the elder ones. Also on
- 14:48the conduct of a virgin widow remarried, of a wife disliked by her husband,
- 14:54of the women in the King's Harem, and of a husband who has
- 14:56more than one wife. Part five About the wives of other people. Chapter
- 15:03one on the characteristics of men and women and the reason why women reject the
- 15:09addresses of men, about men who have success with women, and about women
- 15:15who are easily gained over. Chapter two about making acquaintance with the woman and
- 15:20of the efforts to gain her over. Chapter three examination of the state of
- 15:26a woman's mind. Chapter four the business of a go between. Chapter five
- 15:35on the love of persons and authority with the wives of other people. Chapter
- 15:41six about the women of the royal Harem and of the keeping of one's own
- 15:45wife. Part six about courtesans. Chapter one on the characteristics of men and
- 15:52women and the reason why women reject the addresses of men, about men who
- 15:58have success with wine women, and about women who are easily gained over.
- 16:03Chapter two of a courtesan living with a man as his wife. Chapter three
- 16:11of the means of getting money, of the signs of a lover who is
- 16:15beginning to be weary, and of the way to get rid of him.
- 16:18Chapter four about a reunion with a former lover. Chapter five of different kinds
- 16:26of gain. Chapter six of gains and losses, attendant gains and losses and
- 16:33doubts. And lastly the different kinds of courtesans. Part seven on the means
- 16:40of attracting others to one's self. Chapter one on personal adornment, subjugating the
- 16:48hearts of others, and of tonic medicines. Chapter two of the means of
- 16:52exciting desire and of the ways of enlarging the lingam miscellaneous experiments and receipts.
- 17:00End of Part one. Chapter one, Part one. Chapter two on the
- 17:07acquisition of Dharma, Artha and Keema. Man the period of whose life is
- 17:14one hundred years should practice dharma, Artha and keema at different times and in
- 17:18such a manner that they may harmonize together and not clash in any way.
- 17:23He should acquire learning in his childhood. In his youth and middle age,
- 17:27he should attend to artha and keema, and in his old age he should
- 17:32perform dharma and thus seek to gain maksha i e. Release from further transmigration
- 17:40or on account of the uncertainty of life. He may practice them at times
- 17:44when they are enjoyed to be practiced, but one thing is to be noted.
- 17:48He should lead the life of a religious student until he finishes his education.
- 17:55Dharma is obedience to the command of the Shastra or holy writ of the
- 17:59Hindus to do certain things, such as the performance of sacrifices, which are
- 18:03not generally done because they do not belong to this world and produce no visible
- 18:08effect, and not to do other things, such as eating meat, which
- 18:12is often done because it belongs to this world and has visible effects. Dharmas
- 18:18should be learnt from the truty, holy writ and from those conversant with it.
- 18:25Arthur is the acquisition of arts, land, gold, cattle, wealth,
- 18:30equipages and friends. It is further the protection of what is acquired and
- 18:36the increase of what is protected. Arthur should be learnt from the king's officers
- 18:41and from merchants who may be versed in the ways of commerce. Keema is
- 18:47the enjoyment of appropriate objects by the five senses of hearing, feeling, seeing,
- 18:52tasting, and smelling, assisted by the mind together with the soul.
- 18:56The ingredient in this is a peculre fuliar contact between the organ of sense and
- 19:02its object, and the consciousness of pleasure which arises from that contact is called
- 19:07keema. Kema is to be learnt from the Kamasutra aphorisms on love, and
- 19:12from the practice of citizens. When all the three dharma, artha, and
- 19:18keema come together, the former is better than the one which follows it.
- 19:22That is, dharma is better than artha, and arthur is better than keema.
- 19:27But arthur should be always first practiced by the king, for the livelihood
- 19:32of men is to be obtained from it. Only Again, Kima being the
- 19:37occupation of public women, they should prefer it to the other two. And
- 19:41these are exceptions to the general rule. Objection one. Some learned men say
- 19:48that as dharma is connected with things not belonging to this world, it is
- 19:52appropriately treated of in a book, and so also is artha, because it
- 19:57is practiced only by the app application of proper means, and a knowledge of
- 20:02those means can only be obtained by study and from books. But Kima,
- 20:07being a thing which is practiced even by the brute creation, and which is
- 20:11to be found everywhere, does not want any work on the subject. Answer
- 20:18this is not so. Sexual intercourse, being a thing dependent on man and
- 20:22woman, requires the application of proper means by them, and those means are
- 20:27to be learnt from the Kima Shastra. The non application of proper means which
- 20:33we see in the brute creation is caused by their being unrestrained, and by
- 20:37the females among them only being fit for sexual intercourse at certain seasons and no
- 20:42more, and by their intercourse not being preceded by thought of any kind.
- 20:48Objection. Two, the Loka Yaktica say religious ordinances should not be observed,
- 20:56for they bear a future fruit. And at the same time it is also
- 21:00doubtful whether they will bear any fruit at all. What foolish person will give
- 21:04away that which is in his own hands into the hands of another. Moreover,
- 21:08it is better to have a pigeon today than a peacock tomorrow, And
- 21:12a copper coin, which we have the certainty of obtaining, is better than
- 21:17a gold coin, the possession of which is doubtful. Footnote. These were
- 21:22certainly materialists, who seem to think that a bird in the hand was worth
- 21:26two in the bush and a footnote answer, it is not so. First,
- 21:33Holy writ which ordains the practice of dharma, does not admit of a
- 21:38doubt. Second, sacrifices such as those made for the destruction of enemies or
- 21:45for the fall of rain, are seen to bear fruit. Third, the
- 21:48sun, moon, stars, planets, and other heavenly bodies appear to work
- 21:53intentionally for the good of the world. Fourth, the existence of this world
- 22:00world is affected by the observance of the rules respecting the four classes of men
- 22:04and their four stages of life. Footnote. Among the Hindus, the four
- 22:10classes of men are the Brahmins or priestly class, the Kushutra or warlike class,
- 22:17the Vaishia or agricultural and mercantile class, and the Shudra or menial class.
- 22:23The four stages of life are the life of a religious student, the
- 22:27life of a householder, the life of a hermit, and the life of
- 22:32a sunyasi or devote and a footnote. Fifth, we see that seed is
- 22:40thrown into the ground with the hope of future crops Vitsiyayana is therefore of opinion
- 22:45that the ordinances of religion must be obeyed. Objection three. Those who believe
- 22:52that Destiny is the prime mover of all things, say, we should not
- 22:56exert ourselves to acquire wealth, for sometimes it is not acquired although we strive
- 23:02to get it, while at other times it comes to us of itself without
- 23:07any exertion on our part. Everything is therefore in the power of Destiny,
- 23:11who is the lord of gain and loss, of success, and defeat of
- 23:15pleasure and pain. Thus we see that Bali was raised to the throne of
- 23:19Indra by Destiny, and was also put down by the same power, and
- 23:25it is Destiny only that can reinstate him. Footnote Bali was a demon who
- 23:32had conquered Indra and gained his throne, and was afterwards overcome by Vishnu at
- 23:37the time of his fifth incarnation. And a footnote answer, it is not
- 23:44right to say so, as the acquisition of every object presupposes at all events
- 23:49some exertion on the part of man. The application of proper means may be
- 23:53said to be the cause of gaining all our ends, and this application of
- 23:57proper means being thus necessary even where a thing is destined to happen, it
- 24:03follows that a person who does nothing will enjoy no happiness. Objection four.
- 24:10Those who are inclined to think that artha is the chief object to be obtained
- 24:15argue thus pleasures should not be sought for, because they are obstacles to the
- 24:19practice of dharma and artha, which are both superior to them, and are
- 24:25also disliked by meritorious persons. Pleasures also bring a man into distress and into
- 24:32contact with low persons. They cause him to commit unrighteous deeds and produce impurity
- 24:37in him. They make him regardless of the future and encourage carelessness and levity.
- 24:44And lastly, they cause him to be disbelieved by all, received by
- 24:48none, and despised by everybody, including himself. It is notorious moreover that
- 24:55many men who have given themselves up to pleasure alone have been ruined along with
- 24:59their f families and relations. Thus, King Dandiyakiya of the Boja dynasty carried
- 25:06off of Brahman's daughter with evil intent and was eventually ruined and lost his kingdom.
- 25:11Indra, too, having violated the chastity of Aphalia, was made to
- 25:17suffer for it footnote. Dandjyakya is said to have abducted from the forest the
- 25:22daughter of a Brahman named Bargava, and, being cursed by the Brahman,
- 25:26was buried with his kingdom under a shower of dust. The place was called
- 25:32after his name, the Dandakya forest, celebrated in the Ramayana, but now
- 25:37unknown. Alhaya was the wife of the sage Gautama. Indra caused her to
- 25:44believe that he was Gautama and thus enjoyed her. He was cursed by Gautama
- 25:48and subsequently afflicted with a thousand ulcers on his body and a footnote. In
- 25:56a like manner, the mighty Kichaka, who tried to seduces Draupadi, and
- 26:00Ravana, who attempted to gain over Sita were punished for their crimes. These
- 26:07and many others fell by reason of their pleasures footnote. Kichaka was the brother
- 26:12in law of King Virata, with whom the Pandavas had taken refuge for one
- 26:18year. Kichaka was killed by Bhima, who assumed the disguise of Draupadi.
- 26:25For this story, the Mahabarato should be referred to the story of Ravana is
- 26:30told in the Ramayana, which with the Mahabarata formed the two great epic poems
- 26:34of the Hindus. The latter was written by Vishya and the former by Valmiki
- 26:41and a footnote answer this objection cannot be sustained, for pleasures being as necessary
- 26:51for the existence and well being of the body, as food, are consequently
- 26:56equally required. They are Moreover, the results of arma and artha. Pleasures
- 27:02are therefore to be followed with moderation and caution. No one refrains from cooking
- 27:07food because there are beggars to ask for it, or from sowing sea because
- 27:11there are dear to destroy the corn when it is grown up. Thus,
- 27:15a man practicing dharma, Artha and Kaema enjoys happiness, both in this world
- 27:21and in the world to come. The good perform those actions in which there
- 27:25is no fear as to what is to result from them in the next world,
- 27:29and in which there is no danger to their welfare. Any action which
- 27:33conduces to the practice of dharma, Artha, and chema together, or of
- 27:37any two or even one of them, should be performed. But an action
- 27:42which conduces to the practice of one of them at the expense of the remaining
- 27:47two should not be performed. End of Part one, Chapter two, Part
- 27:53one, Chapter three on the arts and sciences to be studied, Men should
- 28:00study the Kimasutra and the arts and sciences subordinate there too, in addition to
- 28:07the study of the arts and sciences contained in Dharma and Artha. Even young
- 28:11maids should study this Kimasutra along with its arts and sciences, before marriage,
- 28:17and after it they should continue to do so with the consent of their husbands.
- 28:21Here some learned men object and say that females, not being allowed to
- 28:26study any science, should not study the Kimasutra. But Vetsyayana is of opinion
- 28:32that this objection does not hold good, for women already know the practice of
- 28:36Kamasutra, and that practice is derived from the Kima Shastra or the science of
- 28:41Chema itself. Moreover, it is not only in this but in many other
- 28:45cases, that though the practice of a science is known to all, only
- 28:51a few persons are acquainted with the rules and laws in which the science is
- 28:55based. Thus, the yadnikas or sacrificers, though ignorant of grammar, make
- 29:02use of appropriate words when addressing the different deities, and do not know how
- 29:06these words are framed. Again, persons do the duties required of them on
- 29:11auspicious days which are fixed by astrology, though they are not acquainted with the
- 29:15science of astrology. In a like manner, riders of horses and elephants train
- 29:22these animals without knowing the science of training animals, but from practice only.
- 29:26And similarly, the people of the most distant provinces obey the laws of the
- 29:32kingdom from practice, because there is a king over them, and without further
- 29:36reason footnote. The author wishes to prove that a great many things are done
- 29:42by people from practice and custom, without their being acquainted with the reason of
- 29:48things or the laws in which they are based, and this is perfectly true
- 29:52end footnote. And from experience we find that some women, such as daughters
- 29:57of princes and their me ministers and public women, are actually versed in the
- 30:03Kima Shastra. A female therefore, should learn the Kima Shastra, or at
- 30:07least a part of it, by studying its practice from some confidential friend.
- 30:12She should study alone in private the sixty four practices that form a part of
- 30:18the Kima Shastra. Her teacher should be one of the following persons, that
- 30:22is, the daughter of a nurse, brought up with her and already married.
- 30:26Footnote. The proviso of being married applies to all the teachers and footnote.
- 30:33Or a female friend who can be trusted in everything, or the sister
- 30:37of her mother, that is her aunt, or an old female servant,
- 30:42or a female beggar who may have formerly lived in the family, or her
- 30:48own sister, who can always be trusted. The following are the arts to
- 30:52be studied together with the Kimasutra. One singing, two playing on musical instruments,
- 31:00three dancing four union of dancing, singing and playing instrumental music. Five
- 31:08writing and drawing. Six tattooing. Seven arraying and adorning an idol with rice
- 31:17and flowers. Eight Spreading and arraying beds or couches of flowers or flowers upon
- 31:22the ground. Nine coloring the teeth, garments, hair, nails, and
- 31:29bodies. That is, staining, dyeing, coloring and painting the same.
- 31:34Ten fixing stained glass into a floor. Eleven the art of making beds and
- 31:41spreading out carpets and cushions for reclining. Twelve playing on musical glasses filled with
- 31:48water thirteen storing and accumulating water in aqueducts, cisterns and reservoirs. Fourteen Picture
- 31:59making, trimming and decorating fifteen, Stringing of rosaries, necklaces, garlands and
- 32:06wreaths. Sixteen binding of turbans and chaplets, and making crests and top knots
- 32:13of flowers seventeen scenic representations, stage playing eighteen, Art of making ear ornaments
- 32:23nineteen, Art of preparing perfumes and odours twenty Proper disposition of jewels and decorations
- 32:32and a doorment in dress twenty one. Magic sorcery twenty two Quickness of hand
- 32:42or manual skill twenty three Culinary art that is cooking and cookery twenty four Making
- 32:51lemonades, sherbets, accidulated drinks and spirituous extracts with proper flavor and color.
- 33:00Tailor's work and sewing twenty six Making parrots, flowers, tufts, tassels,
- 33:07bunches, bosses, knobs, etc. Out of yarn or thread twenty seven.
- 33:15Solution of riddles, enigmas, covert speeches, verbal puzzles and enigmatical questions
- 33:22twenty eight a game which consisted in repeating verses and as one person finished,
- 33:28another person had to commence it once, repeating another verse beginning with the same
- 33:32letter with which the last speaker's verse ended. Whoever failed to repeat was considered
- 33:37to have lost and to be subject to pay a forefoot or stake of some
- 33:42kind. Twenty nine. The art of mimicry or imitation thirty Reading, including
- 33:50chanting and intoning thirty one Study of sentences difficult to pronounce. It is played
- 33:58as a game, chiefly by women in chils children, and consists of a
- 34:00difficult sentence being given, and when repeated quickly, the words are often transposed
- 34:06or badly pronounced. Thirty two. Practice with sword, single stick, quarter
- 34:13staff, and bow and arrow thirty three Drawing inferences, reasoning or inferring thirty
- 34:22four carpentry or the work of a carpenter thirty five Architecture or the art of
- 34:30building thirty six. Knowledge about gold and silver, coins, and jewels and
- 34:36gems thirty seven, Chemistry and mineralogy thirty eight Coloring jewels, gems and beads
- 34:46thirty nine, Knowledge of mines and quarries forty Gardening, knowledge of treating the
- 34:54diseases of trees and plants, of nourishing them and determining their age forty one.
- 35:02Art of cockfighting, quail fighting, and ram fighting forty two. Art
- 35:09of teaching parrots and starlings to speak forty three. Art of applying perfumed ointments
- 35:16to the body, and of dressing the hair with ungwins and perfumes and braiding
- 35:21it forty four. The art of understanding writing in cipher and the writing of
- 35:27words in a peculiar way forty five. The art of speaking by changing the
- 35:34forms of words. It is of various kinds. Some speak by changing the
- 35:38beginning and end of words, others by adding unnecessary letters between every syllable of
- 35:44a word, and so on. Forty six. Knowledge of language and the
- 35:50vernacular dialects forty seven. Art of making flower carriages forty eight art of framing
- 35:59mystical diagrams, of addressing spells and charms, and binding armlets forty nine.
- 36:07Mental exercises, such as completing stanzas or verses on receiving a part of them,
- 36:13or supplying one, two or three lines when the remaining lines are given
- 36:17indiscriminately from different verses, so as to make the whole and entire verse with
- 36:22regard to its meaning, or arranging the words of a verse written irregularly by
- 36:28separating the vowel from the consonants or leaving them out altogether, or putting into
- 36:34verse or prose sentences represented by signs or symbols. There are many other such
- 36:38exercises. Fifty composing poems fifty one knowledge of dictionaries and vocabularies. Fifty two.
- 36:52Knowledge of ways of changing and disguising the appearance of persons. Fifty three
- 36:59knowledge of the art of changing the appearance of things, such as making cotton
- 37:02to appear as silk coarse, and common things to appear as fine and good.
- 37:09Fifty four. Various ways of gambling fifty five. Art of obtaining possession
- 37:15of the property of others by means of muntras or incantations. Fifty six.
- 37:22Skill in youthful sports. Fifty seven Knowledge of the rules of society and of
- 37:30how to pay respects and compliments to others. Fifty eight. Knowledge of the
- 37:36art of war, of arms, of armies, etc. Fifty nine knowledge
- 37:42of gymnastics sixty art of knowing the character of a man from his features sixty
- 37:50one knowledge of scanning or constructing verses sixty two arithmetical recreations sixty three, making
- 38:00artificial flowers sixty four, making figures and images in clay. A public woman
- 38:09endowed with a good disposition, beauty, and other winning qualities, and also
- 38:15versed in the above arts, obtains the name of a ganika or public woman
- 38:20of high quality, and receives a seat of honor in an assemblage of men.
- 38:24She is moreover always respected by the king and praised by learned men,
- 38:30and her favor being sought for by all, she becomes an object of universal
- 38:35regard. The daughter of a king, too, as well as the daughter
- 38:38of a minister. Being learned in the above arts, can make their husbands
- 38:44favorable to them, even though these may have thousands of other wives besides themselves.
- 38:50And in the same manner, if a wife becomes separated from her husband
- 38:53and falls into distress, she can support herself easily even in a foreign country,
- 39:00by means of her knowledge of these arts. Even the bare knowledge of
- 39:02them gives attractiveness to a woman, though the practice of them may be only
- 39:07possible or otherwise, according to the circumstances of each case. A man who
- 39:14is versed in these arts, who is loquacious and acquainted with the arts of
- 39:17gallantry, gains very soon the hearts of women, even though he is only
- 39:22acquainted with them for a short time. Chapter four, The Life of a
- 39:29citizen footnote. This term would appear to apply generally to an inhabitant of Hindustan.
- 39:36It is not meant only for a dweller in a city like the Latin
- 39:39urbanus, as opposed to Rusticus and a footnote. Having thus acquired learning,
- 39:46a man with the wealth that he may have gained by gift, conquests,
- 39:51purchase, deposit, or inheritance from his ancestors should become a householder and pass
- 39:58the life of a citizen footnote. Gift is peculiar to a Brahmin conquest to
- 40:04a kshatra, while purchased deposit and other means of acquiring wealth belongs to the
- 40:09Vaishia and a footnote. He should take a house in a city or large
- 40:15village, or in the vicinity of good men, or in a place which
- 40:19is the resort of many persons. This abode should be situated near some water
- 40:23and divided into different compartments for different purposes. It should be surrounded by a
- 40:29garden and also contain two rooms. An outer and an inner one. The
- 40:35inner room should be occupied by the females, while the outer room, balmy
- 40:38with rich perfumes, should contain a bed soft agreeable to the site, covered
- 40:44with a clean white cloth low in the middle part, having garlands and bunches
- 40:49of flowers upon it, and a canopy above it, and two pillows,
- 40:52one at the top and another at the bottom. Footnote They should be natural
- 41:00garden flowers and a footnote. There should be also a sort of couch besides
- 41:05and at the head of this, a sort of stool, on which should
- 41:07be placed the fragrant ointments for the night, as well as flowers, pots
- 41:13containing colirium and other fragrant substances, things used for perfuming the mouth, and
- 41:19the bark of the common citron tree. Near the couch. On the ground
- 41:22there should be a pot for spitting, a box containing ornaments, and also
- 41:28a lute hanging from a peg made of the tooth of an elephant, a
- 41:31board for drawing, a pot containing perfume, some books, and some garlands
- 41:37of the yellow amaranth flowers. Not far from the couch, and on the
- 41:42ground there should be a round seat, a toy cart, and a board
- 41:45for playing with dice. Outside the outer room, there should be cages of
- 41:51birds and a separate place for spinning, carving, and such like diversions footnote
- 41:58birds such as quails, partridges, parrots, starlings, et cetera, and
- 42:02a footnote. In the garden there should be a whirling swing and a common
- 42:07swing, as also a bower of creepers covered with flowers, in which a
- 42:13raised parterre should be made for sitting. Now the householder, having got up
- 42:17in the morning and performed his necessary duties footnote the calls of nature always performed
- 42:23by the Hindus the first thing in the morning and a footnote, should wash
- 42:29his teeth, apply a limited quantity of ointments and perfumes to his body,
- 42:35Put some ornaments on his person, and collierrium on his eyelids and below his
- 42:38eyes. Color his lips with a lactaka footnote, a color made from lac
- 42:46and a footnote, and look at himself in the glass. Having then eaten
- 42:52betel leaves and with other things that give fragrance to the mouth, he should
- 42:55perform his usual business. He should bathe daily, anoint his body with oil
- 43:00every other day, apply a lathering substance to his body every three days footnote.
- 43:07This would act instead of soap, which was not introduced until the rule
- 43:10of the Mohammedans and a footnote. Get his head, including face shaved every
- 43:19four days, and the other parts of his body every five or ten days.
- 43:22Footnote ten days are allowed when the hair is taken out with a pair
- 43:28of pincers and a footnote. All these things should be done without fail and
- 43:34the sweat of the armpits should also be removed. Meals should be taken in
- 43:38the forenoon, in the afternoon and again at night. According to Charayana.
- 43:44After breakfasts, parrots and other birds should be taught to speak, and the
- 43:49fighting of cocks, quails and rams should follow. A limited time should be
- 43:53devoted to diversions with pythematas, vitas and vishtushakas footnote. These are characters generally
- 44:02introduced in the Hindoo drama. Their characteristics will be explained further on end a
- 44:08footnote, and then should be taken the mid day sleep footnote noonday's sleep is
- 44:15only allowed in summer when the nights are short end of footnote. After this,
- 44:22the householder, having put on his clothes and ornaments, should during the
- 44:27afternoon converse with his friends. In the evening there should be singing, and
- 44:31after that the householder, along with his friend, should await in his room,
- 44:37previously decorated and perfumed, the arrival of the woman that may be attached
- 44:40to him, or he may send a female messenger for her, or go
- 44:45for her himself. After her arrival at his house, he and his friend
- 44:51should welcome her and entertain her with a loving and agreeable conversation. Thus end
- 44:57the duties of the day. The following are the things to be done occasionally
- 45:00as diversions or amusements. One holding festivals in honor of different deities footnotes.
- 45:08These are very common in all parts of India and the footnote two social gatherings
- 45:15of both sexes, three drinking parties, four picnics, five other social diversions
- 45:27festivals. On some particular auspicious day, an assembly of citizens should be convened
- 45:32in the temple of Saraswati footnote. In the Asiatic Miscellany and in Sir W.
- 45:40Jones's works, will be found a spirited him addressed to this goddess,
- 45:45who is adored as the patroness of the fine arts, especially of music,
- 45:49and rhetoric. As the inventress of the Sanskrit language, etc. Etc.
- 45:54She is the goddess of harmony, eloquence, and language, and is somewhat
- 45:58analogous to Miner. For further information about her, see Edward Moore's Hindu Pantheon
- 46:06and a footnote there. The skill of singers and of others who may have
- 46:12come recently to the town should be tested, and on the following day they
- 46:15should always be given some rewards. After that they may either be retained or
- 46:21dismissed, according as their performance are liked or not by the Assembly. The
- 46:25members of the Assembly should act in concert, both in times of distress as
- 46:30well as in times of prosperity. And it is also the duty of these
- 46:34citizens to show hospitality to strangers who may have come to the Assembly. What
- 46:39is said above should be understood to apply to all the other festivals which may
- 46:45be held in honor of the different deities according to the present rules. Social
- 46:51gatherings when men of the same age, disposition and talents, fond of the
- 46:55same diversions, and with the same degree of education, sit together in company
- 47:00with public women, or in an assembly of citizens, or at the abode
- 47:06of one among themselves and engage in agreeable discourse with each other, such as
- 47:10called a sitting in company or a social gathering. Footnote. The public women
- 47:16or courtisans vesya of the early Hindus have often been compared with the hetera of
- 47:22the Greeks. The subject is dealt with at some length in H. H.
- 47:27Wilson's Select Specimens of the Theater of the Hindus in two volumes, Treubner
- 47:32and Company, eighteen seventy one. It may be fairly considered that the courtisan
- 47:37was one of the elements, and an important element too, of early Hindu
- 47:40society, and that her education and intellect were both superior to that of the
- 47:45women of the household. Wilson says, quote by the visya or kurtisan,
- 47:52however, we are not to understand a female who has disregarded the obligation of
- 47:57law or the precepts of virtue, but a character reared by a state of
- 48:01manners unfriendly to the admission of wedded females into society, and opening it only
- 48:07at the expense of reputation to women who were trained for association with men by
- 48:14personal and mental acquirements to which the matron was a stranger and a footnote.
- 48:22The subjects of discourse are to be the completion of verses half composed by others,
- 48:28and the testing the knowledge of one another in the various arts. The
- 48:31women, who may be the most beautiful, who may like the same things
- 48:35that the men like, and who may have power to attract the minds of
- 48:38others, are here done homage to drinking parties. Men and women should drink
- 48:45in one another's houses, and here the men should cause the public women to
- 48:50drink, and should then drink themselves liquors such as the madhu, raya,
- 48:55sara, and asawa, which are of bitter and sour tape, also drinks
- 49:00concocted from the barks of various trees, wild fruits, and leaves. Going
- 49:07to gardens or picnics in the forenoon, men, having dressed themselves, should
- 49:13go to gardens on horseback, accompanied by public women and followed by servants,
- 49:17And having done there all the duties of the day, and passed the time
- 49:22in various agreeable diversions, such as the fighting of quails, cocks, and
- 49:27rams, and other spectacles, they should return home in the afternoon in the
- 49:30same manner, bringing with them bunches of flowers, etc. The same also
- 49:37applies to bathing in summer and water from which wicked or dangerous animals have previously
- 49:42been taken out and which has been built in on all sides. Other social
- 49:47diversions, spending nights, playing with dice, going out on moonlight nights,
- 49:54keeping the festive day in honor of spring, plucking the sprouts and fruits of
- 49:59the l mango trees, eating the fibers of lotuses, eating the tender ears
- 50:05of corn, picnicking in the forests when the trees get their new foliage,
- 50:09the udha kakash vedika, or sporting in the water, decorating each other with
- 50:15the flowers of some trees, pelting each other with the flowers of the kadamba
- 50:21tree, and many other sports which may either be known to the whole country
- 50:24or may be peculiar to particular parts of it. These and similar other amusements
- 50:30should always be carried on by citizens. The above amusements should be followed by
- 50:35a person who diverts himself alone in company with a cortisan, as well as
- 50:39by a cortisan who can do the same in company with her maid servants or
- 50:44with citizens. Epithemmata is a man without wealth, alone in the world,
- 50:51whose only property consists of his malika, some lathering substance, and a red
- 50:55cloth, who comes from a good country, and who is skilled in all
- 50:59the arts, and by teaching these arts, is received in the company of
- 51:02citizens and in the abode of public women footnotes. According to this description,
- 51:09Epithemata would be a sort of professor of all the arts, and as such
- 51:14received as the friend and confidant of the citizens. The malika is a seat
- 51:20in the form of the letter T and the footnotes. A vita is a
- 51:27man who has enjoyed the pleasures of fortune, who is a compatriot of the
- 51:30citizens with whom he associates, who is possessed of the qualities of a householder,
- 51:36who has his wife with him, and who is honored in the assembly
- 51:39of citizens and in the abodes of public women, and lives on their means
- 51:44and on them footnote. The vita is supposed to represent somewhat the character of
- 51:50the parasite of the Greek comedy. It is possible that he was retained about
- 51:54the person of the wealthy and dissipated as a kind of private instructor, as
- 52:00well as an entertaining companion and a footnote of a dushaka also called a vahi
- 52:07hasaka, that is, one who provokes laughter, is a person only acquainted
- 52:13with some of the arts, who is a jester, and who is trusted
- 52:16by all. Footnote Fidu Shaka is evidently the buffoon and jester. Wilson says
- 52:23of him that he is the humble companion, not the servant of a prince
- 52:28or man of rank, and it is a curious peculiarity that he is always
- 52:31a brahmin. He bears more affinity to Sancho Panza, perhaps than any other
- 52:37character in Western fiction, imitating him in his combination of shrewdness and simplicity,
- 52:44his fondness of good living, and his love of ease. In the dramas
- 52:47of intrigue, he exhibits some of the talents of Mercury, but with less
- 52:51activity and ingenuity, and occasionally suffers by his interference. According to the technical
- 52:58definition of his attributes is to excite mirth by being ridiculous in person age and
- 53:02attire and a footnote. These persons are employed in matters of quarrels and reconciliations
- 53:10between citizens and public women. This remark applies also to female beggars, to
- 53:17women with their heads shaved, to adulterous women, and to old public women
- 53:22skilled in all the various arts. Thus, a citizen living in his town
- 53:28or village respected by all, should call on the persons of his own caste
- 53:31who may be worth knowing. He should converse in company and gratify his friends
- 53:37by his society, and obliging others by his assistance in various matters, he
- 53:42should cause them to assist one another in the same way. There are some
- 53:46verses on this subject, as follows. A citizen discoursing not entirely in the
- 53:52Sanskrit language, nor wholly in the dialects of the country, on various topics
- 53:58in society obtains great respect. Footnote. This means it is presumed that the
- 54:05citizens should be acquainted with several languages. The middle part of this paragraph might
- 54:08apply to the nihilists and Fenians of the day, or to secret societies.
- 54:15It was perhaps a reference to the thugs, and a footnote. The wise
- 54:21should not resort to a society disliked by the public, governed by no rules,
- 54:25and intent on the destruction of others. But a learned man living in
- 54:30a society which acts according to the wishes of the people, and which is
- 54:32pleasure for its only object, is highly respected in this world. End of
- 54:38Chapters three and four, Part one, Chapter five about the kinds of women
- 54:45resorted to by the citizens and of friends and messengers. When kma is practiced
- 54:52by men of the four castes according to the rules of the Holy Writ,
- 54:57that is, by lawful marriage with virgin of their own caste, it then
- 55:01becomes a mean of acquiring lawful progeny and good fame, and it is not
- 55:06also opposed to the customs of the world. On the contrary, the practice
- 55:10of cama with women of the higher castes and with those previously enjoyed by others,
- 55:15even though they be of the same caste, is prohibited. But the
- 55:20practice of cama with women of the lower castes, with women excommunicated from their
- 55:25own caste, with public women, and with women twice married, is neither
- 55:30enjoined nor prohibited. The object of practicing cama with such women is pleasure only.
- 55:37Footnote This term does not apply to a widow, but to a woman
- 55:42who had probably left her husband and is living with some other person as a
- 55:45married woman. Marie tell Mont as they say in France and a footnote.
- 55:53Nayikas therefore are of three kinds, that is, maids, women twice married
- 56:00and public women footnote any woman fit to be enjoyed without sin. The object
- 56:07of the enjoyment of women is twofold, that is, pleasure and progeny.
- 56:12Any woman who can be enjoyed without sin for the purposes of accomplishing either the
- 56:16one or the other of these two objects is a nayika. The fourth kind
- 56:21of nayika, which Vetzia admits further on, is neither enjoyed for pleasure or
- 56:25for progeny, but merely for accomplishing some special purpose in hand. The word
- 56:31nayika is retained as a technical term throughout and a footnote. Gona Kaputra has
- 56:40expressed an opinion that there is a fourth kind of nayika, that is,
- 56:45a woman who is resorted to on some special occasion, even though she be
- 56:50previously married to another. These special occasions are when a man thinks, thus,
- 56:54a this woman is self willed and has been previously in joy by many
- 57:00others besides myself, I may therefore safely resort to her as to a public
- 57:06woman, though she belongs to a higher caste than mine, and in so
- 57:09doing I shall not be violating the ordinances of Dharma. Or thus b this
- 57:16is a twice married woman, and has been enjoyed by others before me.
- 57:21There is therefore no objection to my resorting to her. Or thus c this
- 57:29woman has gained the heart of her great and powerful husband, and exercises a
- 57:32mastery over him, who is a friend of my enemy. If therefore she
- 57:37becomes united with me, she will cause her husband to abandon my enemy.
- 57:44Or thus d this woman will turn the mind of her husband, who is
- 57:49very powerful in my favor, he being at present disaffected towards me and intent
- 57:54on doing me some harm. Or thus E, by making this woman my
- 58:01friend, I shall gain the object of some friend of mine, or shall
- 58:05be able to affect the ruin of some enemy, or shall accomplish some other
- 58:09difficult purpose. Or thus f by being united with this woman, I shall
- 58:16kill her husband and so obtain his vast riches which I covet. Or thus
- 58:23g The union of this woman with me is not attended with any danger,
- 58:29and will bring me wealth of which, on account of my poverty and inability
- 58:34to support myself, I am very much in need. I shall therefore obtain
- 58:38her vast riches in this way without any difficulty. Or thus h this woman
- 58:46loves me ardently and knows all my weak points. If therefore I am unwilling
- 58:52to be united with her, she will make my faults public and thus tarnish
- 58:55my character and reputation. Or she will bring some great accusation against me,
- 59:01of which it may be hard to clear myself, and I shall be ruined.
- 59:06Or perhaps she will detach from me her husband, who is powerful and
- 59:09yet under her control, and will unite him to my enemy, and will
- 59:14herself join the latter. Or thus I, the husband of this woman,
- 59:21has violated the chastity of my wives. I shall therefore return that injury by
- 59:25seducing his wives. Or thus Jay by the help of this woman, I
- 59:31shall kill an enemy of the king who has taken shelter with her, and
- 59:36whom I am ordered by the king to destroy. Or thus Ka, the
- 59:43woman whom I love is under the control of this woman, I shall,
- 59:46through the influence of the latter, be able to get at the former.
- 59:52Or thus l this woman will bring to me a maid who possesses wealth and
- 59:58beauty, but who is hard to get at and under the control of another.
- 1:00:04Or Lastly, thus, m my enemy is a friend of this woman's
- 1:00:08husband, I shall therefore cause her to join him, and will thus create
- 1:00:13an enmity between her husband and him. For these and similar other reasons,
- 1:00:20the wives of other men may be resorted to, but it must be distinctly
- 1:00:23understood that is only allowed for special reasons and not for mere carnal desire.
- 1:00:30Tcharayana thinks that under these circumstances, there is also a fifth kind of nayika,
- 1:00:36that is a woman who is kept by a minister and who repairs to
- 1:00:39him occasionally, or a widow who accomplishes the purpose of a man with the
- 1:00:44person to whom she resorts. Suvarna Nabya adds that a woman who passes the
- 1:00:51life of an ascetic and in the condition of a widow may be considered as
- 1:00:54a sixth kind of nayika. Go To Kamukia says that the daughter of a
- 1:01:00public woman and a female servant who are still virgins form a seventh kind of
- 1:01:07nayika. Cunardia puts forth his doctrine that any woman born of good family,
- 1:01:12after she has come of age is an eighth kind of nayaka. But these
- 1:01:16four latter kinds of nayakas do not differ much from the first four kinds of
- 1:01:21them, as there is no separate object in resorting to them. Therefore,
- 1:01:25Vetsiayana is of opinion that there are only four kinds of nayikas, that is,
- 1:01:31the maid, the twice married woman, the public woman, and the
- 1:01:36woman resorted to for a special purpose. The following women are not to be
- 1:01:42enjoyed. A leper, a lunatic, a woman turned out of caste,
- 1:01:47a woman who reveals secrets, a woman who publicly admits desire for sexual intercourse,
- 1:01:55a woman who is extremely white woman, one who is extremely black,
- 1:02:01a bad smelling woman, a woman who is a near relation, a woman
- 1:02:07who is a female friend, a woman who leads the life of an ascetic,
- 1:02:12and lastly, the wife of a relation, of a friend, of
- 1:02:16a learned Brahman and of the king. The followers of Brabhavria say that any
- 1:02:22woman who has been enjoyed by five men is a fit and proper person to
- 1:02:27be enjoyed. But Gonika Putra is of opinion that even when this is the
- 1:02:31case, the wives of a relation of a learned Brahman and of a king
- 1:02:36should be accepted. The following are the kinds of friends. One who has
- 1:02:42played with you in the dust, that is in childhood. One who is
- 1:02:45bound by an obligation. One who is of the same disposition and fond of
- 1:02:51the same things. One who is a fellow student. One who is acquainted
- 1:02:55with your secrets and faults, and whose faults and secrets are known to you.
- 1:03:01One who is a child of your nurse, One who is brought up
- 1:03:05with you, One who is an hereditary friend. These friends should possess the
- 1:03:12following qualities. They should tell the truth. They should not be changed by
- 1:03:16time. They should be favorable to your designs. They should be firm.
- 1:03:22They should be free from covetousness. They should not be capable of being gained
- 1:03:27over by others. They should not reveal your secrets. Charayana says that citizens
- 1:03:34form friendship with washermen, barbers, cowherds, florists, druggists, bettle leaf
- 1:03:40sellers, tavern keepers, beggars, pithematas, vitas and vitchu sheikas as,
- 1:03:46also with the wives of all these people. A messenger should possess the following
- 1:03:52qualities, skillfulness, boldness, knowledge of the intention of men by their outward
- 1:04:00signs, Absence of confusion, that is, no shyness, knowledge of the
- 1:04:05exact meaning of what others do or say, good manners, knowledge of appropriate
- 1:04:13times in places for doing different things, ingenuity in business, quick comprehension,
- 1:04:20quick application of remedies, that is quick and ready resources. And this part
- 1:04:27ends with averse. The man who is ingenious and wise, who is accompanied
- 1:04:31by a friend, and who knows the intentions of others, as also the
- 1:04:36proper time and place for doing everything, can gain over very easily, even
- 1:04:42a woman who is very hard to be obtained. End of Part one,
- 1:04:47Part two of sexual union, Chapter one kinds of sexual union according to dimensions,
- 1:04:56force of desire or passion time, man is divided into three classes,
- 1:05:03that is, the hair man, the bull man, and the horseman,
- 1:05:08according to the size of his lingolmn. Women also according to the depth of
- 1:05:13her yonie is either a female deer, a mare, or a female elephant.
- 1:05:18There are thus three equal unions between persons of corresponding dimensions, and there
- 1:05:24are six unequal unions when the dimensions do not correspond, or nine in all,
- 1:05:29as the following table shows equal dimensions are hair man and dear woman,
- 1:05:36bull man and mare woman, horseman an elephant woman. Unequal pairings are hair
- 1:05:45man and mere woman, hair man and elephant woman, bull man and dear
- 1:05:50woman, bull man and elephant woman, horseman and dear woman, horseman and
- 1:05:58mere woman. In these unequal unions, when the male exceeds the female in
- 1:06:03point of size, his union with a woman who is immediately next to him
- 1:06:08in size is called high union and is of two kinds, while his union
- 1:06:13with the woman most remote from him in size is called the highest union and
- 1:06:17is of one kind only. On the other hand, when the female exceeds
- 1:06:23the male in point of size, her union with a man immediately next to
- 1:06:27her in size is called low union and is of two kinds, while her
- 1:06:31union with a man most remote from her in size is called the lowest union
- 1:06:35and is of one kind only. In other words, the horse and mare,
- 1:06:42the bull, and deer form the high union, while the horse and
- 1:06:45deer form the highest union. On the female side, the elephant in bull,
- 1:06:51the mare and hair form low unions, while the elephant and the hair
- 1:06:56make the lowest unions. There are then nine kinds of union, according to
- 1:07:00dimensions. Amongst all these, equal unions are the best, those of a
- 1:07:06superlative degree, that is, the highest and the lowest are the worst,
- 1:07:12and the rest are middling, And with them the high are better than the
- 1:07:15low. Footnote. High unions are said to be better than low ones,
- 1:07:20for in the former it is possible for the male to satisfy his own passion
- 1:07:26without injuring the female, while in the latter it is difficult for the female
- 1:07:30to be satisfied by any means. End footnote. There are also nine kinds
- 1:07:36of union, according to the force of passion or carnal desire, as follows.
- 1:07:43Equal unions are small for both men and women, middling for men and
- 1:07:47women, and intense for men and women. Unequal pairings are small for men
- 1:07:54and middling for women, small for men, in intents for women, middling
- 1:08:00for men and small for women, middling for men and intense for women,
- 1:08:04intense for men and small for women, intense for men, and middling for
- 1:08:10women. A man is called a man of small passion, whose desire at
- 1:08:15the time of sexual union is not great, whose seamen is scanty, and
- 1:08:19who cannot bear the warm embraces of the female. Those who differ from this
- 1:08:25temperament are called men of middling passion, while those of intense passion are full
- 1:08:30of desire. In the same way, women are supposed to have the three
- 1:08:34degrees of feeling as specified above. Lastly, according to time, there are
- 1:08:40three kinds of men and women, that is, the short timed, the
- 1:08:44moderate timed, and the long timed. And of these, as in the
- 1:08:47previous statements, there are nine kinds of union. But on this last head
- 1:08:51there is a difference of opinion about the female which should be stated. Audalika
- 1:08:58says females do not emit as males do. The males simply remove their desire,
- 1:09:04while the females, from their consciousness of desire, feel a certain kind
- 1:09:09of pleasure which gives them satisfaction. But it is impossible for them to tell
- 1:09:14you what kind of pleasure they feel. The fact from which this becomes evident
- 1:09:17is that males, when engaged in coition, cease of themselves after emission and
- 1:09:25are satisfied, but it is not so with females. This opinion is however,
- 1:09:31objected to, on the grounds that if a male be a long timed,
- 1:09:35the female loves him the more, but if he be short timed,
- 1:09:40she is dissatisfied with him, and this circumstance, some say, would prove
- 1:09:45that the female emits also. But this opinion does not hold good. For
- 1:09:49if it takes a long time to allay a woman's desire, and during this
- 1:09:55time she is enjoying great pleasure, it is quite natural then that she should
- 1:10:00wish for its continuation. And on this subject there is a verse, as
- 1:10:03follows by union with men, the lust, desire, or passion of women
- 1:10:09is satisfied, and the pleasure derived from the consciousness of it is called their
- 1:10:14satisfaction. The followers of bob Ravia, however, say that the semen of
- 1:10:19women continues to fall from the beginning of the sexual union to its end,
- 1:10:25and it is right that it should be so, for if they had no
- 1:10:28seamen, there would be no embryo. To this, there is an objection.
- 1:10:33In the beginning of coition, the passion of the woman is middling,
- 1:10:36and she cannot bear the vigorous thrusts of her lover. But by degrees her
- 1:10:42passion increases until she ceases to think about her body, and then finally she
- 1:10:46wishes to stop from further coition. This objection, however, does not hold
- 1:10:51good. For even in ordinary things that revolve with great force, such as
- 1:10:57a potter's wheel or a top, we find that the motion at first is
- 1:11:00slow, but by degrees it becomes very rapid. In the same way,
- 1:11:05the passion of the woman having gradually increased, she has a desire to discontinue
- 1:11:11coition when all the semen has fallen away, and there is a verse with
- 1:11:15regard to this, As follows, the fall of the semen of the man
- 1:11:20takes place only at the end of coition, while the semen of the woman
- 1:11:25falls continually, and after the semen of both has all fallen away, than
- 1:11:30they wish for the discontinuance of coition. Footnote. The strength of passion with
- 1:11:36women varies a great deal, some being easily satisfied and others eager and willing
- 1:11:43to go on for a long time. To satisfy these last thoroughly, a
- 1:11:47man must have recourse to art. It is certain that a fluid flows from
- 1:11:51the woman in larger or smaller quantities, but her satisfaction is not complete until
- 1:11:57she has experienced the spaz genesique, as described in French work recently published and
- 1:12:03called Breviere de la more experimentale par le doctor Jule Guiot and a footnote.
- 1:12:14Lastly, Vitziayano is of opinion that the semen of the female falls in the
- 1:12:18same way as that of the male. Now, some may ask here,
- 1:12:23if men and women are beings of the same kind and are engaged in bringing
- 1:12:28about the same result, why should they have different works to do. Vitzia
- 1:12:33says that this is so because the ways of working, as well as the
- 1:12:38consciousness of pleasure in men and women are different. The difference in the ways
- 1:12:43of working by which men are the actors and women are the persons acted upon,
- 1:12:47is owing to the nature of the male and the female. Otherwise the
- 1:12:51actor would be sometimes the person acted upon, and vice versa. And from
- 1:12:57this difference in the ways of working follows the difference in the consciousness of pleasure.
- 1:13:02For a man thinks this woman is united with me, and a woman
- 1:13:06thinks I am united with this man. It may be said that if the
- 1:13:12ways of working in men and women are different, why should not there be
- 1:13:15a difference even in the pleasure they feel and which is the result of those
- 1:13:20ways. But this objection is groundless, for the person acting and the person
- 1:13:26acted upon being of different kinds. There is a reason for the difference in
- 1:13:30their ways of working, but there is no reason for any difference in the
- 1:13:34pleasure they feel, because they both naturally derive pleasure from the act they perform.
- 1:13:42Footnote. This is a long dissertation, very common among Sanskrit authors,
- 1:13:47both when writing and talking socially. They start certain propositions and then argue for
- 1:13:54and against them. What it is presumed the author means is that although both
- 1:13:59men and women derive pleasure from the act of coition, the way it is
- 1:14:02produced is brought about by different means, each individual performing his own work in
- 1:14:08the matter irrespective of the other, and each deriving individually their own consciousness of
- 1:14:13pleasure from the act they perform. There is a difference in the work that
- 1:14:16each does, and a difference in the consciousness of pleasure that each has,
- 1:14:21but no difference in the pleasure they feel, for each feels that pleasure to
- 1:14:26a greater or lesser degree. And a footnote on this again. Some may
- 1:14:32say that when different persons are engaged in doing the same work, we find
- 1:14:36that they accomplish the same end or purpose, while on the contrary, in
- 1:14:42the case of men, and women, we find that each of them accomplishes
- 1:14:45his or her own end separately, and this is inconsistent. But this is
- 1:14:50a mistake, for we find that sometimes two things are done at the same
- 1:14:55time, as for instance, in the fighting of rams, both the rams
- 1:14:59receive the sho shock at the same time on their heads. Again in throwing
- 1:15:03one wood apple against another, and also in a fight or struggle of wrestlers.
- 1:15:09If it be said that in these cases the things employed are of the
- 1:15:13same kind, it is answered that even in the case of men and women,
- 1:15:16the nature of the two persons is the same, And as the difference
- 1:15:21in their ways of working arises from the difference of their confirmation only, it
- 1:15:26follows that men experience the same kind of pleasure as women do. There is
- 1:15:31also a verse on this subject, as follows men and women, being of
- 1:15:35the same nature, feel the same kind of pleasure, and therefore a man
- 1:15:40should marry such a woman as will love him. Ever afterwards, the pleasure
- 1:15:45of men and women being thus proved to be of the same kind, it
- 1:15:49follows that in regard to time, there are nine kinds of sexual intercourse,
- 1:15:55in the same way as there are nine kinds according to the force of passion,
- 1:16:00there being thus nine kinds of union with regard to dimensions force of passion
- 1:16:04and time, respectively. By making combinations of them, innumerable kinds of union
- 1:16:12would be produced. Therefore, in each particular kind of sexual union, men
- 1:16:16should use such means as they may think suitable for the occasion. Footnote.
- 1:16:23This paragraph should be particularly noted, for it specially applies to married men and
- 1:16:28their wives. So many men utterly ignore the feelings of the women and never
- 1:16:33pay the slightest attention to the passion of the latter. To understand the subject
- 1:16:38thoroughly, it is absolutely necessary to study it, and then a person will
- 1:16:43know that, as doe is prepared for baking, so must a woman be
- 1:16:47prepared for sexual intercourse if she is to derive satisfaction from it. And a
- 1:16:54footnote, at the first time of sexual union, the passion of the man
- 1:17:00is intense and his time is short, but in subsequent unions on the same
- 1:17:04day the reverse of this is the case. With a female. However,
- 1:17:10it is the contrary, for at the first time her passion is weak and
- 1:17:14then her time long, but on subsequent occasions on the same day her passion
- 1:17:18is intense. And her time short until her passion is satisfied. On the
- 1:17:25different kinds of love, men learned in the humanities are of opinion that love
- 1:17:31is of four kinds. That is, one love acquired by continual habit,
- 1:17:38two love resulting from the imagination, Three love resulting from belief. Four love
- 1:17:46resulting from the perception of external objects. One love resulting from the constant and
- 1:17:55continual performance and habit, as, for instance, the love of sexual intercourse,
- 1:18:00the love of hunting, the love of drinking, the love of gambling,
- 1:18:03et cetera, et cetera. Two Love which is felt for things to
- 1:18:09which we are not habituated, and which proceeds entirely from ideas, is called
- 1:18:15love resulting from imagination, as for instance, that love which some men and
- 1:18:19women and eunuchs feel for the a parishtaka or mouth congress, and that which
- 1:18:25is felt by all for such things as embracing, kissing, et cetera,
- 1:18:30et cetera. Three The love which is mutual on both sides and proved to
- 1:18:35be true when each looks upon the other as his or her very own.
- 1:18:41Such is called love resulting from belief. By the learned. Four the love
- 1:18:46resulting from the perception of eternal objects is quite evident and well known to the
- 1:18:50world, because the pleasure which it affords is superior to the pleasure of the
- 1:18:56other kinds of love, which exists only for its sake. What has been
- 1:19:01said in this chapter upon the subject of sexual union is sufficient for the learned,
- 1:19:06but for the edification of the ignorant. The same will now be treated
- 1:19:10of at length and in detail, Chapter two of the Embrace. This part
- 1:19:19of the Kima Shastra, which treats of sexual union, is also called sixty
- 1:19:25four jatush Shashti. Some old authors say that it is called so because it
- 1:19:31contains sixty four chapters. Others are of opinion that the author of this part
- 1:19:36being a person named Panchala, and the person who recited the part of the
- 1:19:42Rigveda called Dashatapa which contains sixty four verses being also called Panchala. The name
- 1:19:50sixty four has been given to the part of the work in honor of the
- 1:19:54rig Vedas. The followers of bab Hravya say, on the other hand,
- 1:19:59that this this part contains eight subjects, that is, the embrace, kissing,
- 1:20:04scratching with the nails or fingers, biting, lying down, making various
- 1:20:10sounds, playing the part of a man, and the aparishtaka or mouth congress,
- 1:20:16each of these subjects being of eight kinds, and eight multiply by eight
- 1:20:20being sixty four. This part is therefore named sixty four. But Vietzhiyana affirms
- 1:20:28that as this part contains also the following subjects, that is, striking,
- 1:20:32crying, the acts of a man during congress, the various kinds of congress,
- 1:20:38and other subjects, the name sixty four is given to it only accidentally,
- 1:20:44as for instance, we say this tree is saptaparna or seven leaved,
- 1:20:48this offering of rice is ponchavarna or five colored, But the tree has not
- 1:20:55seven leaves, neither has the rice five colors. However, the part sixty
- 1:21:00four is now treated of, and the embrace, being the first subject,
- 1:21:04will now be considered. Now. The embrace, which indicates the mutual love
- 1:21:09of a man and woman who have come together, is of four kinds,
- 1:21:13that is, touching, piercing, rubbing, and pressing. The action in
- 1:21:18each case is denoted by the meaning of the word which stands for it.
- 1:21:24One. When a man, under some pretext or other goes in front or
- 1:21:29alongside of a woman and touches her body with his own, it is called
- 1:21:33the touching embrace. Two. When a woman in a lonely place bends down
- 1:21:40as if to pick up something, and pierces, as it were, a
- 1:21:43man sitting or standing with her breasts, and the man in return takes hold
- 1:21:47of them, it is called a piercing embrace. The above two kinds of
- 1:21:53embrace take place only between persons who do not as yet speak freely with each
- 1:21:58other. When two lovers are walking slowly together, either in the dark or
- 1:22:03in a place of public resort, or in a lonely place, and rub
- 1:22:09their bodies against each other, it is called a rubbing embrace. Four.
- 1:22:15When on the above occasion, one of them presses the other's body forcibly against
- 1:22:18a wall or pillar, it is called a pressing embrace. These last two
- 1:22:24embraces are peculiar to those who know the intentions of each other at the time
- 1:22:30of the meeting. The four following kinds of embrace are used. That is,
- 1:22:33jata veshtitaka or the twining of a creeper, rich shad hiroud hakka or
- 1:22:41climbing a tree tila tandulaka or the mixture of sessamon seed with rice, kashiraka,
- 1:22:48or milk and water. Embrace. One When a woman, clinging to
- 1:22:55a man as a creeper, twines round a tree, bends his head down
- 1:22:59to her with the desire of kissing him, and slightly makes the sound of
- 1:23:03soot, embraces him, and looks lovingly towards him. It is called and
- 1:23:09embraced like the twining of a creeper. Two. When a woman, having
- 1:23:14placed one of her feet on the foot of her lover and the other on
- 1:23:17one of his thighs, passes one of her arms round his back and the
- 1:23:21other on his shoulders, makes slightly the sounds of singing and cooing, and
- 1:23:27wishes, as it were, to climb up him in order to have a
- 1:23:30kiss. It is called an embrace like the climbing of a tree. These
- 1:23:35two kinds of embrace take place when the lover is standing. Three. When
- 1:23:41lovers lie on a bed and embrace each other so closely that the arms and
- 1:23:45thighs of the one are encircled by the arms and thighs of the other,
- 1:23:49and are as it were rubbing up against them, this is called an embrace
- 1:23:55like the mixture of sessamon seed with rice. Four. When a man and
- 1:24:00a woman are very much in love with each other and not thinking of any
- 1:24:03pain or hurt, embrace each other as if they were entering into each other's
- 1:24:09bodies, either while the woman is sitting on the lap of the man or
- 1:24:13in front of him, or on a bed. Then it is called an
- 1:24:15embrace like a mixture of milk and water. These two kinds of embrace take
- 1:24:21place at the time of sexual union. Bavavya has thus related to us the
- 1:24:28above eight kinds of embraces. Suvar Nanama, however, gives us four ways
- 1:24:33of embracing simple members of the body, which are the embrace of the thighs,
- 1:24:39the embrace of the jagana i e. The part of the body from
- 1:24:43the navel downwards to the thighs, the embrace of the breasts, the embrace
- 1:24:48of the forehead. One. When one of two lovers presses, forcibly one
- 1:24:55or both of the thighs of the other between his or her own, it
- 1:24:59is called the embrace of thighs. Two. When a man presses the jaghana
- 1:25:04or middle part of the woman's body against his own and mounts upon her to
- 1:25:09practice either scratching with the nail or finger, or biting or striking, or
- 1:25:15kissing the hair of the woman being loose and flowing, It is called the
- 1:25:18embrace of the jagana. Three. When a man places his breast between the
- 1:25:25breasts of a woman and presses her with it, it is called the embrace
- 1:25:29of the breasts. Four. When either of the lover's touches the mouth,
- 1:25:33the eyes, and the forehead of the other with his or her own,
- 1:25:38it is called the embrace of the forehead. Some say that even shampooing is
- 1:25:44a kind of embrace, because there is a touching of bodies in it,
- 1:25:47But Vetsyayana thinks that shampooing is performed at a different time and for a different
- 1:25:53purpose, and it is also of a different character. It cannot be said
- 1:25:57to be included in the embrace. There are also some verses on the subject,
- 1:26:01as follows. The whole subject of embracing is of such a nature that
- 1:26:06men who ask questions about it, or who hear about it, or who
- 1:26:11talk about it, acquire thereby a desire for enjoyment. Even those embraces that
- 1:26:16are not mentioned in the King of Shastra should be practiced at the time of
- 1:26:20sexual enjoyment. If they are in any way conducive to the increase of love
- 1:26:25or passion. The rules of the shastra apply so long as the passion of
- 1:26:29man is middling. But when the wheel of love is once set in motion,
- 1:26:33then there is no shastra and no order. End of Chapter two,
- 1:26:40Part two, Chapter three on kissing. It is said by some that there
- 1:26:46is no fixed time or order between the embrace, the kiss, and the
- 1:26:50pressing or scratching with the nails or fingers, but that all these things should
- 1:26:56be done generally before sexual union takes place, whilst striking, king and making
- 1:27:00the various sounds generally takes place at the time of the union. Vetsyayana,
- 1:27:04however, thinks that anything may take place at any time, for love does
- 1:27:09not care for time or order. On the occasion of the first Congress,
- 1:27:14kissing and the other things mentioned above should be done moderately. They should not
- 1:27:18be continued for a long time, and should be done alternately on subsequent occasions.
- 1:27:24However, the reverse of all this may take place, and moderation will
- 1:27:29not be necessary. They may continue for a long time, and for the
- 1:27:32purpose of kindling love. They may all be done at the same time.
- 1:27:38The following are the places for kissing, that is, the forehead, the
- 1:27:42eyes, the cheeks, the throat, the bosom, the breasts, the
- 1:27:46lips, and the interior of the mouth. Moreover, the people of the
- 1:27:51lat country kiss also on the following places, the joints of the thighs,
- 1:27:56the arms, and the navel. But vets Yayana thinks that though kissing is
- 1:28:00practiced by these people in the above places, on account of the intensity of
- 1:28:04their love and the customs of their country, it is not fit to be
- 1:28:09practiced by all. Now. In a case of a young girl, there
- 1:28:13are three sorts of kisses, the nominal kiss, the throbbing kiss, the
- 1:28:18touching kiss. One, when a girl only touches the mouth of her lover
- 1:28:25with her own, but does not herself do anything, it is called the
- 1:28:28nominal kiss. Two, when a girl, setting aside her bashfulness a little
- 1:28:34wishes to touch the lip that is pressed into her mouth, and with that
- 1:28:39object moves her lower lip, but not the upper one, it is called
- 1:28:43the throbbing kiss. Three, when a girl touches her lover's lip with her
- 1:28:47tongue, and having shut her eyes, places her hands on those of her
- 1:28:53lover, it is called the touching kiss. Other authors describe four other kinds
- 1:28:59of kisses, the straight kiss, the bent kiss, the turned kiss,
- 1:29:03the pressed kiss. One. When the lips of two lovers are brought into
- 1:29:10direct contact with each other, it is called a straight kiss. Two,
- 1:29:15when the heads of two lovers are bent towards each other, and when so
- 1:29:18bent kissing takes place, it is called a bent kiss. Three When one
- 1:29:25of them turns up the face of the other by holding the head and chin
- 1:29:29and then kissing, it is called a turned kiss. Four. Lastly,
- 1:29:34when the lower lip is pressed with much force, it is called a pressed
- 1:29:39kiss. There is also a fifth kind of kiss, called the greatly pressed
- 1:29:45kiss, which is affected by taking hold of the lower lip between two fingers,
- 1:29:49and then, after touching it with the tongue, pressing it with great
- 1:29:53force with the lip. As regards kissing, a wager may be laid as
- 1:29:59to which will get ho hold of the lips of the other. First.
- 1:30:01If the woman loses, she should pretend to cry, should keep her lover
- 1:30:05off by shaking her hands, and turn away from him, and dispute with
- 1:30:10him, saying, let another wager be laid. If she loses this a
- 1:30:15second time, she should appear doubly distressed. And when her lover is off
- 1:30:19his guard or asleep, she should get hold of his lower lip and hold
- 1:30:24it in her teeth so that it should not slip away. And then she
- 1:30:28should laugh, make a loud noise to ride him, dance about, and
- 1:30:32say whatever she likes in a joking way, moving her eyebrows and rolling her
- 1:30:36eyes. Such are the wagers and quarrels as far as kissing is concerned.
- 1:30:43But the same may be applied with regard to the pressing or scratching with the
- 1:30:45nails and fingers, biting and striking. All these, however, are only
- 1:30:51peculiar to men and women of intense passion. When a man kisses the upper
- 1:30:56lip of a woman, while she, in return kisses his lower it is
- 1:31:00called the kiss of the upper lip. When one of them takes both the
- 1:31:04lips of the other between his or her own, it is called a clasping
- 1:31:09kiss. A woman, however, only takes this kind of kiss from a
- 1:31:13man who has no mustache, And on the occasion of this kiss, if
- 1:31:17one of them touches the teeth, the tongue, and the palette of the
- 1:31:20other with his or her tongue, it is called the fighting of the tongue.
- 1:31:27In the same way the pressing of the teeth of the wan against the
- 1:31:30mouth of the other is to be practiced. Kissing is of four kinds,
- 1:31:34moderate, contracted, pressed, and soft, according to the different parts of
- 1:31:41the body which are kissed for. Different kinds of kisses are appropriate for different
- 1:31:45parts of the body. When a woman looks at the face of her lover
- 1:31:48while he is asleep and kisses it to show her intention or desire, it
- 1:31:54is called a kiss that kindles love. When a woman kisses her lover while
- 1:32:00he is engaged in business, or while he is quarreling with her, or
- 1:32:03while he is looking at something else, so that his mind may be turned
- 1:32:08away, it is called a kiss that turns away. When a lover,
- 1:32:13coming home late at night, kisses his beloved who is asleep or in bed,
- 1:32:16in order to show her his desire, it is called a kiss that
- 1:32:20awakens. On such an occasion, the woman may pretend to be asleep at
- 1:32:26the time of her lover's arrival, so that she may know his intention and
- 1:32:30obtain respect from him. When a person kisses the reflection of the person he
- 1:32:34loves. In a mirror, in water, or on a wall, it
- 1:32:39is called a kiss showing the intention. When a person kisses a child sitting
- 1:32:45on his lap, or a picture or an image or figure in the presence
- 1:32:48of the person beloved by him, it is called a transferred kiss. When
- 1:32:54at night at a theater or in an assembly of cast men, a man
- 1:32:59coming up toward a woman kisses a finger of her hand if she be standing,
- 1:33:02or a toe of her foot if she be sitting. Or when a
- 1:33:06woman is shampooing her lover's body, places her face on his thigh, as
- 1:33:11if she was sleepy, so as to inflame his passion, and kisses his
- 1:33:15thigh or great toe. It is called a demonstrative kiss. There is also
- 1:33:20a verse on the subject, as follows. Whatever things may be done by
- 1:33:26one of the lovers to the other, the same should be returned by the
- 1:33:30other. That is, if the woman kisses him, he should kiss her
- 1:33:33in return. If she strikes him, he should also strike her in return.
- 1:33:41Chapter four on pressing or marking, or scratching with the nails. When
- 1:33:47love becomes intense, pressing with the nails or scratching the body with them is
- 1:33:51practiced and it is done on the following occasions, on the first visit,
- 1:33:58at the time of setting out on a journey, on the return from a
- 1:34:00journey, at the time when an angry lover is reconciled, and lastly when
- 1:34:05the woman is intoxicated. But pressing with the nails is not a usual thing
- 1:34:11except with those who are intensely passionate, that is, full of passion.
- 1:34:15It is employed together with biting by those to whom the practice is agreeable.
- 1:34:21Pressing with the nails is of the eight following kinds, according to the forms
- 1:34:26of the marks which are produced. One sounding two, half moon three,
- 1:34:33a circle four, a line five, a tiger's nail or claw six,
- 1:34:42a peacock's foot seven, the jump of a hare eight the leaf of a
- 1:34:47blue lotus. The places that are to be pressed with the nails are as
- 1:34:53follows, the armpit, the throat, the breasts, the lips, the
- 1:34:59jagana or middle parts of the body, and the thighs. But Suvar Nanabia
- 1:35:04is of opinion that when the impetuosity of passion is excessive, then the places
- 1:35:10need not be considered. The qualities of good nails are that they should be
- 1:35:15bright, well set clean, entire convex, soft, and glossy in appearance.
- 1:35:21Nails are of three kinds according to their size, small, middling,
- 1:35:27Large. Large nails, which give grace to the hands and attract the hearts
- 1:35:31of women from their appearance, are possessed by the Bengalese. Small nails,
- 1:35:36which can be used in various ways and are to be applied only with the
- 1:35:41object of giving pleasure, are possessed by the people of the southern districts.
- 1:35:45Middling nails, which contain the properties of both the above kinds, belong to
- 1:35:50the people of the Maharashtra. One When a person presses the chin, the
- 1:35:57breasts, the lower lip, or the yagana of another so softly that no
- 1:36:01scratch or mark is left, but only the hair on the body becomes erect
- 1:36:06from the touch of the nails, and the nails themselves make a sound.
- 1:36:11It is called a sounding or pressing with the nails. This pressing is used
- 1:36:15in the case of a young girl when her lover shampoos her, scratches her
- 1:36:19head, and wants to trouble or frighten her. Two. The curved mark
- 1:36:26with the nails, which is impressed on the neck and the breasts is called
- 1:36:30the half moon. Three. When the half moons are impressed opposite to each
- 1:36:35other, it is called a circle. This mark with the nails is generally
- 1:36:40made on the navel, the small cavities about the buttocks, and on the
- 1:36:44joints of the thigh. Four. A mark in the form of a small
- 1:36:49line, and which can be made on any part of the body is called
- 1:36:53a line. Five. This same line, when it is curved and made
- 1:36:59on the breast, is called a tiger's nail. Six. When a curved
- 1:37:03mark is made on the breast by means of the five nails, it is
- 1:37:06called a peacock's foot. This mark is made with the object of being praised,
- 1:37:12for it requires a great deal of skill to make it properly. Seven.
- 1:37:16When five marks with the nails are made close to one another near the
- 1:37:20nipple of the breast, it is called the jump of a hare. Eight.
- 1:37:27A mark made on the breast or on the hips in the form of
- 1:37:30a leaf of the blue lotus is called the leaf of a blue lotus.
- 1:37:33When a person is going on a journey and makes a mark on the thighs
- 1:37:38or on the breast, it is called a token of remembrance. On such
- 1:37:42an occasion, three or four lines are impressed close to one another with the
- 1:37:46nails. Here ends the marking with the nails. Marks of other kinds than
- 1:37:51the above may also be made with the nails. For the ancient authors say
- 1:37:57that as there are innumerable degrees of skill among men, the practice of this
- 1:38:01art being known to all, so there are innumerable ways of making these marks.
- 1:38:08And as pressing or marking with the nails is independent of love, no
- 1:38:12one can say with certainty how many different kinds of marks where the nails do
- 1:38:15actually exist. The reason of this is Betsiayana says that as variety is necessary
- 1:38:23in love, so love is to be produced by means of variety. It
- 1:38:28is on this account that kurtesans who are well acquainted with various ways and means,
- 1:38:32becomes so desirable. For if variety is sought in all the arts and
- 1:38:36amusements, such as archery and others, how much more should it be sought
- 1:38:42after In the present case, the marks of the nails should not be made
- 1:38:45on married women, but particular kinds of marks may be made on their private
- 1:38:50parts for the remembrance and increase of love. There are also some verses on
- 1:38:56the subject as follows. The love of a woman who sees the marks of
- 1:39:00nails on the private parts of her body, even though they are old and
- 1:39:04almost worn out, becomes again fresh and new. If there be no marks
- 1:39:10of nails to remind a person of the passages of love, then love is
- 1:39:14lessened in the same way as when no union takes place for a long time.
- 1:39:19Even when a stranger sees at a distance a young woman with the marks
- 1:39:23of nails on her breast, he is filled with love and respect for her.
- 1:39:29Footnote. From this, it would appear that in ancient times the breasts
- 1:39:33of women were not covered, and this is seen in the painting of the
- 1:39:36Auejunta and other caves, where we find that the breasts of even royal ladies
- 1:39:42and others are exposed and a footnote. A man also who carries the marks
- 1:39:48of nails and teeth on some parts of his body, influences the mind of
- 1:39:53a woman, even though it be ever so firm. In short, nothing
- 1:39:58tends to increase love so mutch much as the effects of marking with the nails
- 1:40:01and biting. End of Chapter four, Part two, Chapter five on biting
- 1:40:10and the means to be employed with regard to women of different countries. All
- 1:40:16the places that can be kissed are also the places that can be bitten,
- 1:40:20except the upper lip, the interior of the mouth, and the eyes.
- 1:40:26The qualities of good teeth are as follows. They should be equal, possessed
- 1:40:30of a pleasing brightness, capable of being colored, of proper proportions, unbroken,
- 1:40:38and with sharp ends. The defects of teeth, on the other hand,
- 1:40:42are that they are blunt, protruding from the gums, rough, soft,
- 1:40:46large, and loosely set. The following are the different kinds of biting.
- 1:40:53The hidden bite, the swollen bite, the point, the line of
- 1:40:58points, the coral and the jewel, the line of jewels, the broken
- 1:41:03cloud, the biting of the bore. One, the biting which is shown
- 1:41:10only by the excessive redness of the skin that is bitten is called the hidden
- 1:41:15bite. Two, When the skin is pressed down on both sides, it
- 1:41:19is called the swollen bite. Three. When a small portion of the skin
- 1:41:26is bitten with two teeth only, it is called the point. Four.
- 1:41:30When such small portions of the skin are bitten with all the teeth, it
- 1:41:34is called the line of points. Five. The biting which is done by
- 1:41:41bringing together the teeth and the lips is called the coral and the jewel.
- 1:41:45The lip is the coral, and the teeth the jewel. Six. When
- 1:41:51biting is done with all the teeth, it is called the line of jewels.
- 1:41:57Seven. The biting, which consists of unequal risings in a circle,
- 1:42:01and which comes from the space between the teeth, is called the broken cloud.
- 1:42:06This is impressed on the breasts. Eight. The biting, which consists
- 1:42:12of many broad rows of marks near to one another and with red intervals,
- 1:42:16is called the biting of a bore. This is impressed on the breasts and
- 1:42:20the shoulders. And these two last modes of biting are peculiar to persons of
- 1:42:26intense passion. The lower lip is the place on which the hidden bite,
- 1:42:30the swollen bite, and the point are made. Again, the swollen bite,
- 1:42:35and the coral and the jewel bite are done on the cheek. Kissing,
- 1:42:40pressing with the nails, and biting are the ornaments of the left cheek,
- 1:42:44and when the word cheek is used, it is to be understood as
- 1:42:46the left cheek. Both the line of points and the line of jewels are
- 1:42:51to be impressed on the throat. The armpit and the joints of the thighs.
- 1:42:57But the line of points alone is to be impressed on the forehead and
- 1:43:00the thighs. The marking with the nails and the biting of the following things,
- 1:43:06that is, an ornament of the forehead, an ear ornament, a
- 1:43:10bunch of flowers, a betel leaf, or a tamala leaf, which are
- 1:43:15worn by or belong to the woman that is beloved, are signs of the
- 1:43:18desire of enjoyment. Herein the different kinds of biting. In the affairs of
- 1:43:26love, a man should do such things as are agreeable to the women of
- 1:43:29different countries. The women of the central countries, that is between the Ganges
- 1:43:34and the Jumna, are noble in their character, not accustomed to disgraceful practices,
- 1:43:41and dislike pressing the nails and biting. The women of the Balhka country
- 1:43:46are gained over by striking. The women of Avantika are fond of foul pleasures
- 1:43:51and have not good manners. The women of the Maharashtra are fond of practicing
- 1:43:58the sixty four arts. They utter low in harsh words and like to be
- 1:44:02spoken to in the same way, and have an impetuous desire of enjoyment.
- 1:44:08The women of Pataliputra that is the modern Patna, are of the same nature
- 1:44:14as the women of the Maharashtra, but show their likings only in secret.
- 1:44:19The women of the Dravida country, though they are rubbed impressed about at the
- 1:44:24time of sexual enjoyment, have a slow fall of seamen, that is,
- 1:44:28they are very slow in the act of coition. The women of Vanavasi are
- 1:44:33moderately passionate. They go through every kind of enjoyment, cover their bodies and
- 1:44:39abuse those who utter low, mean and harsh words. The women of Avanti
- 1:44:45hate kissing, marking with the nails, and biting, but they have a
- 1:44:48fondness for various kinds of sexual union. The women of Mawa like embracing and
- 1:44:55kissing, but not wounding, and they are gained over by striking. The
- 1:45:00women of Abhira and those of the country about the Indus and five Rivers that
- 1:45:04is the Punjab, are gained over by the Aparishataka or mouth congress. The
- 1:45:11women of Operatika are full of passion and makes slowly the sound sit The women
- 1:45:17of the Latin country have even more impetuous desire and also make the sound.
- 1:45:25The women of the street Rajya and of koshola Uda are full of impetuous desire.
- 1:45:31Their seamen falls in large quantities, and they are fond of taking medicine
- 1:45:35to make it do so. The women of the Odra country have tender bodies.
- 1:45:41They are fond of enjoyment and have a liking for voluptuous pleasures. The
- 1:45:45women of Gandha have tender bodies and speak sweetly. Now, Suvarnarabna is of
- 1:45:53opinion that that which is agreeable to the nature of a particular person is of
- 1:45:58more consequence than that which is agreeable to a whole nation, and that therefore
- 1:46:02the peculiarities of the country should not be observed. In such cases, the
- 1:46:06various pleasures, the dress, and the sports of one country are in time
- 1:46:11borrowed by another, and in such a case these things must be considered as
- 1:46:15belonging originally to that country. Among the things mentioned above, embracing, kissing,
- 1:46:21et cetera, those which increase passion should be done first, and those
- 1:46:27which are only for amusement or variety should be done afterwards. There are also
- 1:46:31some verses on this subject, as follows. When a man bites a woman
- 1:46:36forcibly, she should angrily do the same to him with double force. Thus
- 1:46:43a point should be returned with a line of points, and a line of
- 1:46:45points with a broken cloud. And if she be excessively chafed, she should
- 1:46:50at once begin a love quarrel with him. At such a time, she
- 1:46:55should take hold of her lover by the hair and bend his head down and
- 1:46:59kiss his life lower lip. And then, being intoxicated with love, she
- 1:47:03should shut her eyes and bite him in various places, even by day,
- 1:47:09and in a place of public resort. When her lover shows her any mark
- 1:47:13that she may have inflicted on his body, she should smile at the sight
- 1:47:16of it, and, turning her face as if she were going to chide
- 1:47:19him, she should show him with an angry look, the marks on her
- 1:47:23own body that have been made by him. Thus, if men and women
- 1:47:28act according to each other's liking, their love for each other will not be
- 1:47:31lessened even in one hundred years. Chapter six of the Different ways of lying
- 1:47:40down and various kinds of congress. On the occasion of a high congress,
- 1:47:46the mariigi, dear woman should lie down in such a way as to widen
- 1:47:51her yoni while in a low congress, the hastini elephant woman should lie down
- 1:47:58so as to contract hers, but in an equal congress, they should lie
- 1:48:01down in the natural position. What is said above concerning the mariigi and the
- 1:48:06hastini applies also to the vadawa or mere woman. In a low congress,
- 1:48:12the woman should particularly make use of medicine to cause her desires to be satisfied
- 1:48:16quickly. The dear woman has the following three ways of lying down. The
- 1:48:23widely opened position, the yawning position, the position of the wife of indra.
- 1:48:30One when she lowers her head and raises her middle parts, it is
- 1:48:34called the widely opened position. At such a time the man should apply some
- 1:48:40unguent so as to make the entrance easy. Two, when she raises her
- 1:48:45thighs and keeps them wide apart and engages in congress, it is called the
- 1:48:50yawning position. Three. When she places her thighs with her legs doubled on
- 1:48:57them upon her sides, and thus thus engages in congress, it is called
- 1:49:01the position of indrani, and this is learnt only by practice. The position
- 1:49:06is also useful in the case of the highest congress. The clasping position is
- 1:49:13used in low congress and in the lowest congress, together with the pressing position,
- 1:49:18the twining position, and the mayor's position. When the legs of both
- 1:49:24the male and the female are stretched straight out over each other, it is
- 1:49:29called the clasping position. It is of two kinds, the side position and
- 1:49:33the supine position, according to the way in which they lie down. In
- 1:49:39the side position, the male should invariably lie on his left side and cause
- 1:49:44the woman to lie on her right side, and this rule is to be
- 1:49:46observed in lying down with all kinds of women. When after congress has begun
- 1:49:53in the clasping position, the woman presses her lover with her thighs, it
- 1:49:58is called the pressing position. When the woman places one of her thighs across
- 1:50:02the thigh of her lover, it is called the twining position. When a
- 1:50:08woman forcibly holds in her yoni the lingam after it is in, it is
- 1:50:13called the mare's position. This is learnt by practice only and is chiefly found
- 1:50:17among the women of the Andra country. The above are the different ways of
- 1:50:23lying down mentioned by Babhavra. Suvarnanabia, however, gives the following in addition,
- 1:50:30when the female raises both of her thighs straight up, it is called
- 1:50:33the rising position. When she raises both of her legs and places them on
- 1:50:39her lover's shoulders, it is called the yawning position. When the legs are
- 1:50:45contracted and thus held by the lover before his bosom, it is called the
- 1:50:48pressed position. When only one of her legs is stretched out, it is
- 1:50:54called the half pressed position. When the woman places one of her legs on
- 1:50:59her lover's shoulder and stretches the other out, and then places the latter on
- 1:51:03his shoulder and stretches out the other and continues to do so. Alternately,
- 1:51:09it is called the splitting of a bamboo. When one of her legs is
- 1:51:14placed on the head and the other is stretched out, it is called the
- 1:51:18fixing of a nail. This is learnt by practice only. When both the
- 1:51:24legs of the woman are contracted and placed on her stomach, it is called
- 1:51:28the crab's position. When the thighs are raised and placed one upon the other,
- 1:51:33it is called the packed position. When the shanks are placed one upon
- 1:51:39the other. It is called the lotus like position. When a man during
- 1:51:45congress turns round and enjoys the woman without leaving her, while she embraces him
- 1:51:49round the back all the time. It is called the turning position and is
- 1:51:55learnt only by practice. Thus, says Suvarnanabia, these different ways of lying
- 1:52:00down, sitting, and standing should be practiced in water, because it is
- 1:52:04easy to do so therein. But Vetsyayana is of opinion that congress in water
- 1:52:11is improper because it is prohibited by the religious law. When a man and
- 1:52:16a woman support themselves on each other's bodies or on a wall or pillar,
- 1:52:21and thus while standing engaging congress, it is called the supported congress. When
- 1:52:28a man supports himself against a wall, and the woman, sitting on his
- 1:52:32hands, joined together and held underneath her, throws her arms round his neck,
- 1:52:38and, putting her thighs alongside his waist, moves herself by her feet,
- 1:52:43which are touching the wall against which the man is leaning, it is
- 1:52:45called the suspended congress. When a woman stands on her hands and feet like
- 1:52:50a quadruped, and her lover mounts her like a bull, it is called
- 1:52:56the congress of a cow. At this time, everything that is orderedordinarily done
- 1:53:00on the bosom should be done on the back. In the same way can
- 1:53:03be carried on the congress of a dog, the congress of a goat,
- 1:53:08the congress of a deer, the forcible mounting of an ass, the congress
- 1:53:13of a cat, the jump of a tiger, the pressing of an elephant,
- 1:53:17the rubbing of a boar, and the mounting of a horse. And
- 1:53:21in all these cases the characteristics of these different animals should be manifested by acting
- 1:53:27like them. When a man enjoys two women at the same time, both
- 1:53:31of whom love him equally, it is called the united congress. When a
- 1:53:35man enjoys many women altogether, it is called the congress of a herd of
- 1:53:40cows. The following kinds of congress, that is sporting in water, or
- 1:53:45the congress of an elephant with many female elephants, which is said to take
- 1:53:50place only in the water, The congress of a collection of goats, the
- 1:53:55congress of a collection of deer take place in the imitation of these animal animals.
- 1:54:00In Gramaneri, many young men enjoy a woman that may be married to
- 1:54:04one of them, either one after the other or at the same time.
- 1:54:09Thus one of them holds her, another enjoys her. A third uses her
- 1:54:14mouth, a fourth holds her middle part, and in this way they go
- 1:54:18on enjoying her several parts. Alternately, the same things can be done when
- 1:54:24several men are sitting in company with one courtisan, or when one courtisan is
- 1:54:28alone with many men. In the same way, this can be done by
- 1:54:31the women of the King's harem when they accidentally get hold of a man.
- 1:54:38The people in the southern countries have also a congress in the anis. This
- 1:54:42is called the lower congress. Thus ends the various kinds of congress. There
- 1:54:47are also two verses on the subject, as follows. An ingenious person should
- 1:54:54multiply the kinds of congress after the fashion of the different kinds of beasts and
- 1:54:58of birds. For these different kinds of congress, performed according to the usage
- 1:55:02of each country and the liking of each individual, generate love, friendship,
- 1:55:09and respect in the hearts of women. End of Chapter six, Part two,
- 1:55:15Chapter seven. Of the various modes of striking, and of the sounds
- 1:55:19appropriate to them, sexual intercourse can be compared to a quarrel on account of
- 1:55:28the contrarieties of love and its tendency to dispute the place of striking with passion
- 1:55:33is the body, and on the body the special places are the shoulders,
- 1:55:38the head, the space between the breasts, the back, the jigana or
- 1:55:44middle part of the body, the sides. Striking is of four kinds,
- 1:55:48that is, striking with the back of the hand, striking with the fingers,
- 1:55:53a little contracted striking with the fist, striking with the open palm of
- 1:55:58the hand, on account of its causing pain. Striking gives rise to the
- 1:56:02hissing sound, which is of various kinds, and to the eight kinds of
- 1:56:06crying, that is the sound hin, the thundering sound, the cooing sound,
- 1:56:14the weeping sound, the sound foot, the sound fat, the sound
- 1:56:19soot, the sound plait. Besides these, there are also words having a
- 1:56:26meaning, such as mother, and those that are expressive of prohibition, sufficiency,
- 1:56:31desire, of liberation, pain, or praise, and to which may
- 1:56:35be added sounds like those of the dove, the cuckoo, the green pigeon,
- 1:56:41the parrot, the bee, the sparrow, the flamingo, the duck,
- 1:56:45and the quail, which are all occasionally made use of. Blows with
- 1:56:48a fist should be given on the back of the woman while she is sitting
- 1:56:53on the lap of the man, and she should give blows in return,
- 1:56:57abusing the man as if she were angry, and make the cooing and the
- 1:57:00weeping sounds. While the woman is engaged in congress, the space between the
- 1:57:04breasts should be struck with the back of the hand, slowly at first,
- 1:57:10and then proportionately to the increasing excitement until the end. At this time,
- 1:57:15the sounds hin and others may be made alternately or optionally according to habit.
- 1:57:20When the man making the sound fat strikes the woman on the head with the
- 1:57:26fingers of his hand a little contracted, it is called pras ritaka, which
- 1:57:30means striking with the fingers of the hand a little contracted. In this case,
- 1:57:35the appropriate sounds are the cooing sound, the sound fat, and the
- 1:57:41sound foot in the interior of the mouth, and at the end of congress,
- 1:57:45the sighing and weeping sounds. The sound fat is an imitation of the
- 1:57:49sound of a bamboo being split, while the sound foot is like the sound
- 1:57:55made by something falling into water. At all times, when kiss when singing
- 1:58:00such like things are begun, the woman should give a reply with a hissing
- 1:58:03sound. During the excitement. When the woman is not accustomed to striking.
- 1:58:09She continually utters words expressive of prohibition, sufficiency, or desire of liberation,
- 1:58:15as well as the words father, mother, intermingled with the sighing, weeping,
- 1:58:20and thundering sounds. Footnote. Men who are well acquainted with the art
- 1:58:26of love are well aware how often one woman differs from another in her size
- 1:58:30and sounds. During the time of congress. Some women like to be talked
- 1:58:34to in the most loving way, others in the most abusive way, and
- 1:58:39so on. Some women enjoy themselves with closed eyes in silence, others make
- 1:58:44a great noise over it, and some almost faint away. The great art
- 1:58:48is to ascertain what gives them the greatest pleasure and what specialties they like best.
- 1:58:55And a footnote. Towards the conclusion of the congress, the breasts,
- 1:59:00the jigana, and the sides of the woman should be pressed with the open
- 1:59:02palms of the hand with some force until the end of it, and then
- 1:59:06sounds like those of the quail or the goose should be made. There are
- 1:59:12also two verses on the subject, as follows. The characteristics of manhood are
- 1:59:16said to consist of roughness and impetuosity, while weakness tenderness, sensibility, and
- 1:59:24an inclination to turn away from unpleasant things are the distinguishing marks of womanhood.
- 1:59:30The excitement of passion and peculiarities of habit may sometimes cause contrary results to appear,
- 1:59:35but these do not last long, and in the end the natural state
- 1:59:40is resumed. The wedge on the bosom, the scissors on the head,
- 1:59:45the piercing instrument on the cheeks, and the pinchers on the breasts and sides
- 1:59:50may also be taken into consideration with the other foremodes of striking, and thus
- 1:59:56give eight ways altogether. More ways of striking with instruments are peculiar to the
- 2:00:01people of the southern countries, and the marks made by them are seen on
- 2:00:05the breasts of their women. They are local peculiarities, but Vietziayana is of
- 2:00:11opinion that the practice of them is painful, barbarous, and base, and
- 2:00:15quite unworthy of imitation. In the same way, anything that is a local
- 2:00:20peculiarity should not always be adopted elsewhere, and even in the place where the
- 2:00:26practice is prevalent, excess of it should always be avoided. Instances of the
- 2:00:30dangerous use of them may be given as follows. The king of the Panchalas
- 2:00:35killed the Kurtazan Madhavasina by means of the wedge. During congress. King Shahta
- 2:00:42Karni Shatavahana of the Kantalas deprived his great queen Malavayati of her life by a
- 2:00:48pair of scissors. And Naradeva, whose hand was deformed, blinded a dancing
- 2:00:54girl by directing a piercing instrument in a wrong way. There are also two
- 2:01:00verses on the subject as follows. About these things, there cannot be either
- 2:01:04enumeration or any definite rule. Congress, having once commenced passion alone, gives
- 2:01:10birth to all the acts of the parties. Such passionate actions and amorous gesticulations
- 2:01:17or movements which rise on the spur of the moment and during sexual intercourse,
- 2:01:23cannot be defined and are as irregular as dreams. A horse, having once
- 2:01:28attained the fifth degree of motion, goes on with blind speed, regardless of
- 2:01:32pits, ditches and posts in his way. And in the same manner,
- 2:01:36a loving pair become blind with passion in the heat of congress, and go
- 2:01:41on with great impetuosity, paying not the least regard to excess. For this
- 2:01:45reason, one who is well acquainted with the science of love, and knowing
- 2:01:49his own strength, as also the tenderness, impetuosity and strength of the young
- 2:01:55woman, should act accordingly. The various modes of enjoyment are not for all
- 2:01:59dear time or for all persons, but they should only be used at the
- 2:02:03proper time and in the proper countries and places. Chapter eight about women acting
- 2:02:12the part of a man and of the work of a man. When a
- 2:02:16woman sees that her lover is fatigued by constant congress, without having his desire
- 2:02:21satisfied, she should, with his permission, lay him down upon his back
- 2:02:27and give him assistance by acting his part. She may also do this to
- 2:02:30satisfy the curiosity of her lover or her own desire of novelty. There are
- 2:02:36two ways of doing this. The first is when during congress she turns round
- 2:02:42and gets on the top of her lover in such a manner as to continue
- 2:02:45the congress without obstructing the pleasure of it. And the other is when she
- 2:02:49acts the man's part from the beginning at such a time, with flowers in
- 2:02:55her hair hanging loose, and her smiles broken by hard breathings. She should
- 2:03:00press upon her lover's bosom with her own breasts, and lowering her head frequently,
- 2:03:04should do in return the same actions which he used to do before returning
- 2:03:09his blows and chaffing him. Should say, I was laid down by you
- 2:03:14and fatigued with hard congress. I shall now therefore lay you down in return.
- 2:03:19She should then again manifest her own bashfulness, her fatigue, and her
- 2:03:24desire of stopping the congress. In this way, she should do the work
- 2:03:28of a man, which we shall presently relate. Whatever is done by a
- 2:03:32man for giving pleasure to a woman is called the work of a man,
- 2:03:36and is as follows. While the woman is lying on his bed, and
- 2:03:42is as it were, abstracted by his conversation, he should loosen the knot
- 2:03:45of her undergarments, and when she begins to dispute with him, he should
- 2:03:49overwhelm her with kisses. Then, when his lingam is erect, he should
- 2:03:55touch her with his hands in various places and gently manipulate various parts of the
- 2:04:00body. If the woman is bashful, and if it is the first time
- 2:04:04they have come together, the man should place his hands between her thighs,
- 2:04:09which she would probably keep close together. And if she is a very young
- 2:04:13girl, she should first get his hands upon her breasts, which she would
- 2:04:16probably cover with her own hands, and under her armpits, and on her
- 2:04:20neck. If, however, she is a seasoned woman, he should do
- 2:04:26whatever is agreeable either to him or to her, and whatever is fitting for
- 2:04:30the occasion. After this, he should take hold of her hair and hold
- 2:04:34her chin in his fingers for the purpose of kissing her. On this,
- 2:04:39if she is a young girl, she will become bashful and close her eyes.
- 2:04:44Anyhow, he should gather from the action of the woman what things would
- 2:04:47be pleasing to her during congress. Here, Suvarnabia says that while a man
- 2:04:53is doing to the woman what he likes best during congress, he should always
- 2:04:57make a point of pressing those parts of her body on which she turns her
- 2:05:00eyes. The signs of the enjoyment and satisfaction of the woman are as follows
- 2:05:06her body relaxes, she closes her eyes, she puts aside all bashfulness,
- 2:05:13and shows increased willingness to unite the two organs as closely together as possible.
- 2:05:17On the other hand, the signs of her want of enjoyment, and of
- 2:05:21failing to be satisfied are as follows. She shakes her hands, she does
- 2:05:26not let the man get up, feels dejected, bites the man, kicks
- 2:05:30him, and continues to go on moving after the man has finished. In
- 2:05:35such cases, the man should rub the yoni of the woman with his hand
- 2:05:39and fingers, as the elephant rubs anything with his trunk before engaging in congress,
- 2:05:45until it is softened, and after that is done, he should proceed
- 2:05:48to put his lingam into her. The acts to be done by the man
- 2:05:53are moving forward, friction or churning, piercing, rubbing, pressing, giving
- 2:06:00a blow, the blow of a bore, the blow of a bull,
- 2:06:05the sporting of a sparrow. One. When the organs are brought together properly
- 2:06:12and directly, it is called moving the organ forward. Two. When the
- 2:06:16lingam is held with the hand and turned all round in the yoni, it
- 2:06:20is called churning. Three. When the yonie is lowered and the upper part
- 2:06:26of it is struck with the lingum, it is called piercing. Four.
- 2:06:31When the same thing is done on the lower part of the yonie, it
- 2:06:34is called rubbing. Five When the yonie is pressed by the lingam for a
- 2:06:40long time, it is called pressing. Six. When the lingam is removed
- 2:06:45to some distance from the yoni, and then forcibly strikes it, it is
- 2:06:48called giving a blow. Seven. When only one part of the yonie is
- 2:06:55rubbed with the lingum, it is called the blow of a bore. When
- 2:07:00both sides of the yonie are rubbed in this way, it is called the
- 2:07:03blow of a bull. Nine. When the lingam is in the yonie and
- 2:07:10moved up and down frequently and without being taken out, it is called the
- 2:07:14sporting of a sparrow. This takes place at the end of congress. When
- 2:07:18a woman acts the part of a man, she has the following things to
- 2:07:21do, in addition to the nine given above. That is, the pair
- 2:07:26of tongs, the top, the swing. One. When the woman holds
- 2:07:32the lingam in her yonie, draws it in, presses it, and keeps
- 2:07:36it thus in her for a long time, it is called the pair of
- 2:07:41tongs. Two, When while engaged in congress, she turns round like a
- 2:07:46wheel, it is called the top. This is learnt by practice only.
- 2:07:53Three. When on such an occasion the man lifts up the middle part of
- 2:07:57his body, and the woman turns round her middle part. It is called
- 2:08:01the swing. When the woman is tired, she should place her forehead on
- 2:08:05that of her lover, and should thus take rest without disturbing the union of
- 2:08:09the organs. And when the woman has rested herself, the man should turn
- 2:08:13round and begin the congress again. There are also some verses on the subject,
- 2:08:18as follows. Though a woman is reserved and keeps her feelings concealed,
- 2:08:24yet when she gets on the top of a man, she then shows all
- 2:08:28her love and desire. A man should gather from the actions of the woman
- 2:08:31of what disposition she is and in what way she likes to be enjoyed.
- 2:08:37A woman during her monthly courses, a woman who has been lately confined,
- 2:08:41and a fat woman should not be made to act the part of a man.
- 2:08:48End of Chapter eight, Part two, Chapter nine of the ap Rushtaka
- 2:08:54or Mouth Congress. Footnote. This practice appears to who have been prevalent in
- 2:09:01some parts of India from a very ancient time. The Shustruta, a work
- 2:09:05on medicine some two thousand years old, describes the wounding of the lingam with
- 2:09:11the teeth as one of the causes of a disease treated upon in that work.
- 2:09:15Traces of the practice are found as far back as the eighth century.
- 2:09:18For various kinds of the aparishtaka are represented in the sculptures of many Shaiva temples
- 2:09:24a Bavu Vaneshwara near katak In Orisa and which were built about that period.
- 2:09:31From these sculptures being found in such places, it would seem that this practice
- 2:09:37was popular in that part of the country at that time. It does not
- 2:09:39seem to be so prevalent now in Hindustan. Its place perhaps is filled up
- 2:09:45by the practice of sodomy introduced since the Mohammedan period. And a footnote.
- 2:09:52There are two kinds of eunuchs, those that are disguised as males and those
- 2:09:56that are disguised as females. Eunuchs disguised as females imitate their dress, speech,
- 2:10:03gestures, tenderness, timidity, simplicity, softness, and bashfulness. The
- 2:10:09acts that are done on the jagana or middle parts of women are done in
- 2:10:15the mouths of these eunuchs, and this is called opereshtaka. These eunuchs derive
- 2:10:20their imaginable pleasure and their livelihood from this kind of congress, and they lead
- 2:10:24the life of courtesans. So much concerning eunuchs disguised as females. Eunuchs disguised
- 2:10:33as males keep their desires secret, and when they wish to do anything,
- 2:10:37they lead the life of shampooers. Under the pretense of shampooing, a eunuch
- 2:10:41of this kind embraces and draws towards himself the thighs of the man whom he
- 2:10:46is shampooing, and after this he touches the joints of his thighs and his
- 2:10:50jagana, or central portions of his body. Then, if he finds the
- 2:10:56lingam of the man erect, he presses it with his hands and chaffs him
- 2:11:01for getting into that state. If after this, and after knowing his intention,
- 2:11:05the man does not tell the eunuch to proceed, then the latter does
- 2:11:09it of his own accord and begins the congress. If, however, he
- 2:11:13is ordered by the man to do it, then he disputes with him and
- 2:11:18only consents at last with difficulty. The following eight things are then done by
- 2:11:22the eunuch, one after the other. That is, the nominal congress,
- 2:11:28biting the sides, pressing outside, pressing inside, kissing, rubbing, sucking
- 2:11:35a mango fruit, swallowing up. At the end of each of these,
- 2:11:41the eunuch expresses his wish to stop, But when one of them is finished,
- 2:11:46the man desires him to do another, and after that is done,
- 2:11:48then the one that follows it, and so on. One. When holding
- 2:11:54the man's lingam with his hand and placing it between his lips, the eunuch
- 2:11:58moves about his mouth. It is called the nominal congress. Two. When
- 2:12:05covering the end of the lingum with his fingers collected together like the bud of
- 2:12:09a plant or flour, the unuch presses the sides of it with his lips
- 2:12:13using his teeth. Also, it is called biting the sides. Three.
- 2:12:20When being desired to proceed, the eunuch presses the end of the lingam with
- 2:12:24his lips closed together and kisses it as if he were drawing it out.
- 2:12:28It is called the outside pressing. Four. When being asked to go on,
- 2:12:35he puts the lingum further into his mouth and presses it with his lips,
- 2:12:39and then takes it out. It is called the inside pressing. Five.
- 2:12:46When holding the lingum in his hand, the eunuch kisses it as if
- 2:12:50he were kissing the lower lip, it is called kissing. Six. When
- 2:12:56after kissing it he touches it with his tongue everywhere and passes is the tongue
- 2:13:00over the end of it, it is called rubbing. Seven. When in
- 2:13:05the same way he puts the half of it into his mouth and forcibly kisses
- 2:13:09and sucks it, this is called sucking a mango fruit. Eight. And
- 2:13:16lastly, when with the consent of the man, the eunuch puts the whole
- 2:13:18lingam into his mouth and presses it to the very end, as if he
- 2:13:22were going to swallow it up, it is called swallowing up. Striking,
- 2:13:30scratching, and other things may also be done during this kind of congress.
- 2:13:33The operashtaka is practiced only by unchaste and wanton women, female attendants and serving
- 2:13:41mates, that is, those who are not married to anybody, but who
- 2:13:43live by shampooing. The Akaryas who are ancient and venerable authors are of opinion
- 2:13:50that this operashtaka is the work of a dog and not of a man,
- 2:13:54because it is a low practice and opposed to the orders of the Holy writ,
- 2:14:00and because the man himself suffers by bringing his lingam into contact with the
- 2:14:03mouths of eunuchs and women. But Vetsiayana says that the orders of the Holy
- 2:14:09writ do not affect those who resort to cortisans, and the law prohibits the
- 2:14:13practice of the oparishtaka with married women only as regards the injury to the male
- 2:14:20that can be easily remedied. The people of eastern India do not resort to
- 2:14:24women who practice the oparishtaka. The people of Ahishchatra resort to such women,
- 2:14:31but do nothing with them so far as the mouth is concerned. The people
- 2:14:37of Sakita do with these women every kind of mouth congress, while the people
- 2:14:41of Nagara do not practice this, but do every other thing. The people
- 2:14:46of the Shuracina country on the southern bank of the Jumna do everything without any
- 2:14:50hesitation, for they say that women, being naturally unclean, no one can
- 2:14:56be certain about their character, their purity, their conduct, their practices,
- 2:15:01their confidences, or their speech. They are, not, however, on
- 2:15:05this account, to be abandoned, because religious law, on the authority of
- 2:15:09which they are reckoned pure lays down that the utter of a cow is clean
- 2:15:13at the time of milking, though the mouth of a cow and also the
- 2:15:16mouth of her calf are considered unclean by the Hindoos. Again, a dog
- 2:15:22is clean when he seizes a deer in hunting, though food touched by a
- 2:15:26dog is otherwise considered very unclean. A bird is clean when it causes a
- 2:15:33fruit to fall from a tree by pecking at it, though things eaten by
- 2:15:37crows and other birds are considered unclean. And the mouth of a woman is
- 2:15:41clean for kissing and such like things at the time of sexual intercourse. Vets
- 2:15:46Yayana moreover thinks that in all these things connected with love, everybody should act
- 2:15:52according to the custom of his country and his own inclination. There are also
- 2:15:56the following verses on the subject. The male servants of some men carry on
- 2:16:03the mouth congress with their masters. It is also practiced by some citizens who
- 2:16:07know each other well among themselves. Some women of the Harem, when they
- 2:16:11are amorous, do the acts of the mouth on the yonis of one another,
- 2:16:16and some men do the same thing with women. The way of doing
- 2:16:20this, that is, of kissing the yoni, should be known from kissing
- 2:16:24the mouth. When a man and woman lie down in an inverted order,
- 2:16:28that is, with the head of the one towards the feet of the other,
- 2:16:31and carry on this congress. It is called the congress of a crow.
- 2:16:37For the sake of such things, courtesans abandoned men possessed of good qualities,
- 2:16:43liberal and clever, and become attached to low persons, such as slaves
- 2:16:46and elephant drivers. The aparishtaka or mouth congress should never be done by a
- 2:16:52learned brahmin, by a minister that carries on the business of a state,
- 2:16:58or by a man of good reputation, because though the practice is allowed by
- 2:17:01the Shastras, there is no reason why it should be carried on, and
- 2:17:05need only be practiced in particular cases, as for instance, the taste and
- 2:17:11the strength and the digestive qualities of the flesh of dogs are mentioned in works
- 2:17:16on medicine. But it does not therefore follow that it should be eaten by
- 2:17:20the wise. In the same way, there are some men, some places,
- 2:17:24and some times with respect to which these practices can be made use of.
- 2:17:30A man should therefore pay regard to the place, to the time,
- 2:17:33and to the practice which is to be carried out, as also as to
- 2:17:39whether it is agreeable to his nature and to himself. And then he may
- 2:17:43or may not practice these things according to circumstances. But after all these things
- 2:17:48being done secretly, and the mind of the man being fickle, how can
- 2:17:52it be known what any person will do at any particular time and for any
- 2:17:58particular purpose. Chapter ten of the Way, How to begin and how to
- 2:18:05end the congress, Different kinds of congress and love quarrels. In the pleasure
- 2:18:11room, decorated with flowers and fragrant with perfumes, attended by his friends and
- 2:18:18servants, the citizen should receive the woman, who will come bathed and dressed,
- 2:18:22and will invite her to take refreshment and to drink freely. He should
- 2:18:26then seat her on his left side, and holding her hair, and touching
- 2:18:31also the end and not of her garment, he should gently embrace her with
- 2:18:35his right arm. He should then carry on an amusing conversation on various subjects,
- 2:18:41and may also talk suggestively of things which would be considered as coarse or
- 2:18:46not to be mentioned generally in society. They may then sing, either with
- 2:18:52or without gesticulations, and play on musical instruments, talk about the arts,
- 2:18:56and persuade each other to drink. At last, when the woman is overcome
- 2:19:01with love and desire, the citizens should dismiss the people that may be with
- 2:19:05him, giving them flowers, ointment, and betel leaves. And then when
- 2:19:11the two are left alone, they should proceed as has been already described in
- 2:19:15the previous chapters, such is the beginning of sexual union. At the end
- 2:19:20of the congress, the lovers, with modesty and not looking at each other,
- 2:19:26should go separately to the washing room. After this, sitting in their
- 2:19:31own places, they should eat some betal leaves, and the citizen should apply
- 2:19:35with his own hand to the body of the woman some pure sandalwood ointment or
- 2:19:39ointment of some other kind. He should then embrace her with his left arm,
- 2:19:43and with agreeable words, should cause her to drink from a cup held
- 2:19:48in his own hand, or he may give her water to drink. They
- 2:19:52can then eat sweetmeats or anything else according to their likings, and may drink
- 2:19:58fresh juice, soup, gruel, extracts of meat, sherbet, the juice
- 2:20:03of mango fruits, the extract of the juice of the citron tree mixed with
- 2:20:07sugar, or anything that may be liked in different countries and known to be
- 2:20:13sweet, soft and pure. Footnote the fresh juice of the cocoanut tree,
- 2:20:18the date tree, and other kinds of palm trees are drunk in India.
- 2:20:22It will not keep fresh very long, but ferments rapidly and is then distilled
- 2:20:28into liquor. The lovers may also sit on the terrace of the palace or
- 2:20:33house and enjoy the moonlight and carry on an agreeable conversation. At this time,
- 2:20:39too, while the woman lies in his lap with her face towards the
- 2:20:43moon, the citizen should show her the different planets, the Morning Star,
- 2:20:48the Polar Star, and the seven Rishis or great Bear. This is the
- 2:20:54end of sexual union. Congress is of the following kinds. Loving Congress,
- 2:21:01Congress of subsequent love, Congress of artificial love, Congress of transferred love,
- 2:21:09Congress like that of eunuchs, deceitful Congress, Congress of spontaneous love. One.
- 2:21:18When a man and a woman who have been in love with each other
- 2:21:20for some time come together with great difficulty, or when one of the two
- 2:21:24returns from a journey or is reconciled after having been separated on account of a
- 2:21:30quarrel, then congress is called the loving Congress. Is carried on according to
- 2:21:35the liking of the lovers and as long as they choose. Two. When
- 2:21:41two persons come together while their love for each other is still in its infancy,
- 2:21:46their congress is called the Congress of subsequent love. Three When a man
- 2:21:52carries on the congress by exciting himself by means of the sixty four ways,
- 2:21:58such as kissing it, etc. Or when a man and a woman come
- 2:22:03together, though in reality they are both attached to different persons, Their congress
- 2:22:07is then called Congress of artificial love. At this time, all the ways
- 2:22:13and means mentioned in the Kmo Shastra should be used. Four When a man,
- 2:22:18from the beginning to the end of the congress, though having connection with
- 2:22:22a woman, thinks all the time that he is enjoying another one whom he
- 2:22:26loves, it is called the Congress of transferred love. Five. Congress between
- 2:22:33a man and a female water carrier or a female servant of a caste lower
- 2:22:37than his own, lasting only until the desire is satisfied, is called congress
- 2:22:43like that of eunuchs. Here external touches, kisses and manipulations are not to
- 2:22:48be employed. Six. The Congress between a courtesan and a rustic, and
- 2:22:54that between citizens and the women of villages and bordering countries is called deceitful congress.
- 2:23:03Seven. The congress that takes place between two persons who are attached to
- 2:23:07one another, and which is done according to their own liking, is called
- 2:23:11spontaneous congress. Thus ends the kinds of congress we shall now speak of love
- 2:23:18quarrels. A woman who is very much in love with a man cannot bear
- 2:23:22to hear the name of her rival mentioned, or to have any conversation regarding
- 2:23:28her, or to be addressed by her name through mistake. If such takes
- 2:23:31place, a great quarrel arises, and the woman cries, becomes angry,
- 2:23:37tosses her hair about, strikes her lover, falls from her bed or seat,
- 2:23:43and, casting aside her garlands and ornaments, throws herself down on the
- 2:23:46ground. At this time the lover should attempt to reconcile her with conciliatory words,
- 2:23:52and should take her up carefully and place her on her bed. But
- 2:23:58she, not replying to his question, and with increased anger, should bend
- 2:24:01down his head by pulling his hair, and having kicked him once twice or
- 2:24:07thrice on his arm's head, bosom or back should then proceed to the door
- 2:24:11of the room. Dataka says that she should then sit angrily near the door
- 2:24:16and shed tears, but should not go out because she would be found fault
- 2:24:20with for going away. After a time, when she thinks that the conciliatory
- 2:24:26words and actions of her lover have reached their utmost, she should then embrace
- 2:24:31him, talking to him with harsh and reproachful words, but at the same
- 2:24:35time showing a loving desire for congress. When the woman is in her own
- 2:24:41house and has quarreled with her lover, she should go to him and show
- 2:24:45how angry she is and leave him. Afterwards, the citizen, having sent
- 2:24:50the Vita, the vidushaka or the Pithemerda to pacify her, she should accompany
- 2:24:56them back to the house and spend the night with her lover. Footnote.
- 2:25:01The characteristics of these three individuals have been given in Part one, page thirty
- 2:25:05one and footnote. Thus, and the love quarrels in conclusion, a man
- 2:25:13employing the sixty four means mentioned by Patrava obtains his object and enjoys the woman
- 2:25:20of the first quality, though he may speak well on other subjects if he
- 2:25:24does not know the sixty four divisions, no great respect is paid to him
- 2:25:28in the assembly of the learned. A man devoid of other knowledge, but
- 2:25:33well acquainted with the sixty four divisions, becomes a leader in any society of
- 2:25:37men and women. What men will not respect the sixty four parts, considering
- 2:25:43they are respected by the learned, by the cunning, and by the courtesans
- 2:25:48footnote. A definition of the sixty four parts or divisions is given in Chapter
- 2:25:54two, page forty five and footnote. As the sixty four parts are respected,
- 2:26:01are charming, and add to the talent of women, they are called
- 2:26:03by the acharyas dear to women. A man skilled in the sixty four parts
- 2:26:09is looked upon with love by his own wife, by the wives of others,
- 2:26:13and by courtesans. And of Part two, Part three about the acquisition
- 2:26:20of a wife. Chapter one on marriage. When a girl of the same
- 2:26:26caste and a virgin is married in accordance with the precepts of Holy writ,
- 2:26:31the results of such a union are the acquisition of dharma and arthur offspring,
- 2:26:37affinity, increase of friends, and untarnished love. For this reason, a
- 2:26:43man should fix his affections upon a girl who is of good family, whose
- 2:26:46parents are alive, and who is three years or more younger than himself.
- 2:26:52She should be born of a highly respectable family, possessed of wealth, well
- 2:26:56connected, and with many relations and friends. She should also be beautiful,
- 2:27:01of a good disposition, with lucky marks on her body, and with good
- 2:27:05hair, nails, teeth, ears, eyes, and breasts, neither more
- 2:27:11nor less than they ought to be, and no one of them entirely wanting,
- 2:27:15and not troubled with a sickly body. The man should, of course
- 2:27:20also possess these qualities himself, But at all events, says Gotakamuka, a
- 2:27:26girl who has been already joined with others, that is no longer a maiden,
- 2:27:30should never be loved, for it would be reproachable to do such a
- 2:27:33thing now. In order to bring about a marriage with such a girl,
- 2:27:37as described above, the parents and relations of the man should exert themselves,
- 2:27:43as also such friends on both sides as may be desired to assist in the
- 2:27:48matter. These friends should bring to the notice of the girl's parents the faults,
- 2:27:52both present and future, of all the other men that may wish to
- 2:27:56marry her, and should at the same time extol even to exaggeration all the
- 2:28:01excellencies ancestral and paternal of their friend, so as to endear him to them,
- 2:28:07and particularly to those that may be liked by the girl's mother. One
- 2:28:11of the friends should also distinguish himself as an astrologer and declare the future good
- 2:28:18fortune and wealth of his friend by showing the existence of all the lucky omens
- 2:28:22footnote. The flight of a blue jay on a person's left side is considered
- 2:28:28a lucky omen when one starts on any business. The appearance of a cat
- 2:28:31before anyone at such a time is looked on as a bad omen. There
- 2:28:35are many omens of the same kind en footnote and signs footnote, such as
- 2:28:43the throbbing of the right eye of men and the left eye of women,
- 2:28:46et cetera. En footnote, the good influence of planets, the auspicious entrance
- 2:28:54of the sun into a sign of the zodiac, propitious stars, and fortunate
- 2:28:58marks on his body. Others again should rouse the jealousy of the girl's mother
- 2:29:03by telling her that their friend has a chance of getting from some other quarter
- 2:29:07even a better girl than hers. A girl should be taken as a wife,
- 2:29:13as also given in marriage when fortune, signs, omens, and the
- 2:29:18words of others are favorable. Footnote. Before anything is begun, it is
- 2:29:22accustomed to go early in the morning to a neighbor's house and overhear the first
- 2:29:28words that may be spoken in his family, And according as the words heard
- 2:29:31are of good or bad import so draw an inference as to the success or
- 2:29:35failure of the undertaking. And footnote. For says Gotakamuka. A man should
- 2:29:43not marry at any time he likes. A girl who is asleep, crying,
- 2:29:48or gone out of the house when sought in marriage, or who is
- 2:29:52betrothed to another, should not be married. The following also should be avoided.
- 2:29:58One who is kept concealed, one who has an ill sounding name,
- 2:30:03One who has her nose depressed, one who has her nostril turned up,
- 2:30:07one who is formed like a male, one who is bent down, one
- 2:30:13who is crooked thighs, one who has a projecting forehead, one who has
- 2:30:18a bald head, one who does not like purity, one who has been
- 2:30:24polluted by another, one who is afflicted with the gulma footnote. A disease
- 2:30:31consisting of any glandular enlargement in any part of the body and footnote one who
- 2:30:37is disfigured in any way, one who has fully arrived at puberty, one
- 2:30:43who is a friend, one who is a younger sister, one who is
- 2:30:48a vaishakari footnote a woman, the palms of whose hands and the soles of
- 2:30:54whose feet are always perspiring, and footnote. In this the same way,
- 2:31:00a girl who is called by the name of one of the twenty seven stars,
- 2:31:03or by the name of a tree or of a river is considered worthless,
- 2:31:09as also a girl whose name ends in R or L. But some
- 2:31:13authors say that prosperity is gained only by marrying that girl to whom one becomes
- 2:31:16attached, and that therefore no other girl but the one who is loved,
- 2:31:20should be married by anyone. When a girl becomes marriageable, her parents should
- 2:31:26dress her smartly, and should place her where she can be easily seen by
- 2:31:31all. Every afternoon, having dressed her and decorated her in a becoming manner,
- 2:31:37they should send her with her female companions to sports sacrifices and marriage ceremonies,
- 2:31:43and thus show her to advantage in society. Because she is a kind
- 2:31:46of merchandise. They should also receive with kind words and signs of friendliness.
- 2:31:52Those of an auspicious appearance who may come, accompanied by their friends and relations,
- 2:31:58for the purpose of marrying their daughter, and under some pretext or other,
- 2:32:01having first dressed her becomingly, should then present her to them. After
- 2:32:07this they should await the pleasure of fortune, and with this object should appoint
- 2:32:11a future day on which a determination could be come to with regard to their
- 2:32:16daughter's marriage. On this occasion, when the persons have come, the parents
- 2:32:20of the girls should ask them to bathe and dine, and should say everything
- 2:32:26will take place at the proper time, and should not then comply with the
- 2:32:31request, but should settle the matter later. When a girl is thus acquired,
- 2:32:35either according to the custom of the country or according to his own desire,
- 2:32:41the man should marry her in accordance with the precepts of the Holy Writ
- 2:32:45according to one of the four kinds of marriage. Thus ends marriage. There
- 2:32:50are also some verses on the subject, as follows amusement in society, such
- 2:32:56as completing verses begun by others. Marriages and auspicious ceremonies should be carried on
- 2:33:03neither with superiors nor inferiors, but with our equals, that should be known
- 2:33:09as a high connection when a man, after marrying a girl has to serve
- 2:33:13her and her relations afterwards like a servant, and such a connection is censured
- 2:33:18by the good. On the other hand, that reproachable connection, where a
- 2:33:24man, together with his relations, lords it over his wife, is called
- 2:33:28a low connection by the wise. But when both the man and the woman
- 2:33:33afford mutual pleasure to each other, and when the relatives on both sides pay
- 2:33:37respect to one another, such is called a connection in the proper sense of
- 2:33:41the word. Therefore, a man should contract neither a high connection by which
- 2:33:46he is obliged to bound down afterwards to his kinsman, nor a low connection,
- 2:33:52which is universally reprehended by all. Chapter two of Creating Confidence in the
- 2:34:00Girl. For the first three days after marriage, the girl and her husband
- 2:34:05should sleep on the floor, abstain from sexual pleasures, and eat their food
- 2:34:09without seasoning it either with alkali or salt. For the next seven days,
- 2:34:15they should bathe amidst the sounds of auspicious musical instruments, should decorate themselves,
- 2:34:20dine together, and pay attention to their relations as well as to those who
- 2:34:26have come to witness their marriage. This is applicable to persons of all castes.
- 2:34:31On the night of the tenth day, the man should begin in a
- 2:34:33lonely place with soft words, and thus create confidence in the girl. Some
- 2:34:39authors say that for the purpose of winning her over, he should not speak
- 2:34:43to her for three days, but the followers of bab Rava are of opinion
- 2:34:48that if the man does not speak with her for three days, the girl
- 2:34:52may be discouraged by seeing him spiritless like a pillar, and becoming dejected.
- 2:34:58She may begin to despise him as a eunuch. Vitsyayana says that the man
- 2:35:03should begin to win her over and to create confidence in her, but should
- 2:35:09abstain it first from sexual pleasures. Women, being of a tender nature,
- 2:35:13want tender beginnings, and when they are forcibly approached by men by whom they
- 2:35:18are but slightly acquainted, they sometimes suddenly become haters of sexual connection, and
- 2:35:24sometimes even haters of the male sex. The man should therefore approach the girl
- 2:35:30according to her liking, and should make use of those devices by which he
- 2:35:33may be able to establish himself more and more into her confidence. These devices
- 2:35:39are as follows. He should embrace her first of all, in a way
- 2:35:43she likes most because it does not last for a long time. He should
- 2:35:50embrace her with the upper part of his body, because that is easier and
- 2:35:52simpler. If the girl is grown up, or if the man has known
- 2:35:56her for some time, he may him bring her by the light of a
- 2:36:01lamp. But if he is not well acquainted with her, or if she
- 2:36:03is a young girl, he should then embrace her in darkness. When the
- 2:36:09girl accepts the embrace, the man should put a tambullah or screw of betel
- 2:36:15nut and betel leaves in her mouth, and if she will not take it,
- 2:36:18he should induce her to do so by conciliatory words, entreaties, oaths,
- 2:36:24and kneeling at her feet. For it is a universal rule that however
- 2:36:28bashful or angry a woman may be, she never disregards a man kneeling at
- 2:36:33her feet. At the time of giving this tambula, he should kiss her
- 2:36:37mouth softly and gracefully, without making any sound. When she has gained over
- 2:36:43in this respect, he should then make her talk, And so that she
- 2:36:46may be induced to talk, he should ask her questions about things of which
- 2:36:50he knows or pretends to know nothing, and of which can be answered in
- 2:36:54a few words. If she does not speak to him, he should not
- 2:37:00frighten her, but should ask her the same thing again and again in a
- 2:37:03conciliatory manner. If she does not then speak, he should urge her to
- 2:37:09give a reply, because, as Gotakamuka says, all girls hear everything said
- 2:37:15to them by men, but do not themselves sometimes say a single word.
- 2:37:20When she is thus importuned, the girl should give replies by shakes of the
- 2:37:26head, but if she quarreled with a man, she should not even do
- 2:37:30that. When she is asked by the man whether she wishes for him and
- 2:37:35whether she likes him, she should remain silent for a long time, and,
- 2:37:39when at last importune to reply, should give him a favorable answer by
- 2:37:43a nod of the head. If the man is previously acquainted with the girl,
- 2:37:48he should converse with her by means of a female friend who may be
- 2:37:52favorable to him and in the confidence of both, and carry on the conversation
- 2:37:56on both sides. On such an occasion, the girl should smile with her
- 2:38:01head bent down, and if the female friend say more on her part than
- 2:38:05she was desired to do, she should chide her and dispute with her,
- 2:38:11The female friend should say in jest even what she is not desired to say
- 2:38:15by the girl, and add she says so, on which the girl should
- 2:38:20say indistinctly and prettily, oh, no, I did not say so.
- 2:38:24And she should then smile and throw an occasional glance towards the man. If
- 2:38:31the girl is familiar with the man, she should place near him, without
- 2:38:33saying anything that tamboola the ointment or the garland that he may have asked for,
- 2:38:41or she may tie them up in his upper garment. While she is
- 2:38:43engaged in this, the man should touch her young breasts in the sounding way
- 2:38:48of pressing with the nails, and if she prevents him doing this, he
- 2:38:52should say to her, I will not do it again if you will embrace
- 2:38:56me, and should in this way cause her to embrace him. While he
- 2:39:01is being embraced by her, he should pass his hand repeatedly over and about
- 2:39:05her body. By and by he should place her in his lap and try
- 2:39:11more and more to gain her consent. And if she will not yield to
- 2:39:15him, he should frighten her by saying, I shall impress marks of my
- 2:39:18teeth and nails on your lips and breasts, and then make similar marks on
- 2:39:22my own body, and shall tell my friends that you did them. What
- 2:39:26will you say then? In this and other ways, as fear and confidence
- 2:39:33are created in the minds of children, so should the man gain her over
- 2:39:37to his wishes. On the second and third nights, after her confidence has
- 2:39:43increased still more, he should feel the whole of her body with his hands
- 2:39:48and kiss her all over. He should also place his hands upon her thighs
- 2:39:52and shampoo them, and if he succeed in this, he should then shampoo
- 2:39:56the joints of her thighs. If she tries to prevent him doing this,
- 2:40:01he should say to her what harm is there in doing it, and should
- 2:40:05persuade her to let him do it. After gaining this point, he should
- 2:40:09touch her private parts, should loosen her girdle and the knot of her dress,
- 2:40:13and turning up her lower garment, should shampoo the joints of her naked
- 2:40:18thighs under various pretenses. He should do all these things, but he should
- 2:40:22not at that time begin actual congress. After this, he should teach her
- 2:40:28the sixty four arts, should tell her how much he loves her, and
- 2:40:31describe to her the hopes which he formally entertained regarding her. He should also
- 2:40:37promise to be faithful to her in future, and should dispel all her fears
- 2:40:41with respect to rival women. And at last, after having overcome her bashfulness,
- 2:40:48he should begin to enjoy her in a way so as not to frighten
- 2:40:50her. So much about creating confidence in the girl, and there are moreover
- 2:40:56some verses on the subject. As follows, A man acting according to the
- 2:41:01inclinations of a girl should try and gain her over so that she may love
- 2:41:05him and place her confidence in him. A man does not succeed either by
- 2:41:11implicitly following the inclination of a girl or by wholly opposing her, and he
- 2:41:16should therefore adopt a middle course. He who knows how to make himself beloved
- 2:41:22by women, as well as to increase their honor and create confidence in them,
- 2:41:26this man becomes an object of their love. But he who neglects a
- 2:41:31girl, thinking she is too bashful, is despised by her as a beast
- 2:41:35ignorant of the working of the female mind. Moreover, a girl forcibly enjoyed
- 2:41:41by one who does not understand the hearts of girls becomes nervous, uneasy,
- 2:41:46and dejected, and suddenly begins to hate the man who has taken advantage of
- 2:41:50her. And then when her love is not understood or returned, she sinks
- 2:41:56into despondency, becomes either a hater of men mind altogether, or hating her
- 2:42:01own man. She has recourse to other men. Footnote. These last few
- 2:42:09lines have been exemplified in many ways in many novels of this century. End
- 2:42:15of Chapter two, Part three, Chapter three on courtship and the manifestation of
- 2:42:20the feelings by outward signs and deeds. A poor man possessed of good qualities,
- 2:42:28a man born of a low family possessed of mediocre qualities, a neighbor
- 2:42:33possessed of wealth, and one under the control of his father, mother,
- 2:42:37or brothers should not marry without endeavoring to gain over the girl from her childhood
- 2:42:43to love and esteem them. Thus, a boy separated from his parents and
- 2:42:48living in the house of his uncle should try to gain over the daughter of
- 2:42:50his uncle or some other girl, even though she be previously betrothed to another.
- 2:42:56And this way of gaining over a girl, says Gotakamuka, is unexceptional
- 2:43:01because dharma can be accomplished by means of it, as well as by any
- 2:43:05other way of marriage. When a boy has thus begun to woo the girl
- 2:43:11he loves, he should spend his time with her and amuse her with various
- 2:43:15games and diversions fitted for their age and acquaintanceship, such as picking and collecting
- 2:43:20flowers, making garlands of flowers, playing the parts of members of a fictitious
- 2:43:26family, cooking food, playing with dice, playing with cards, the game
- 2:43:31of odd and even the game of finding out the middle finger, the game
- 2:43:35of six pebbles, and such other games as may be prevalent in the country
- 2:43:41and agreeable to the disposition of the girl. In addition to this, he
- 2:43:45should carry on various amusing games played by several persons together, such as hide
- 2:43:50and seek, playing with seeds, hiding things in several small heaps of wheat
- 2:43:54and looking for them, blind man's bluff, gymnastic exercises, and other games
- 2:44:01of the same sort. In company with the girl, her friends and female
- 2:44:05attendants, the man should also show great kindness to any woman whom the girl
- 2:44:11thinks fit to be trusted, and should also make new acquaintances. But above
- 2:44:16all he should attach to himself by kindness and little services the daughter of the
- 2:44:20girl's nurse, for if she be gained over, even though she comes to
- 2:44:24know of his design, she does not cause any obstruction, but is sometimes
- 2:44:30even able to effect a union between him and the girl. And though she
- 2:44:35knows the true character of the man, she always talks of as many excellent
- 2:44:39qualities to the parents and relations of the girl, even though she may not
- 2:44:43be desired to do so by him. In this way, the man should
- 2:44:48do whatever the girl takes most delight in, and he should get for her
- 2:44:52whatever she may have a desire to possess. Thus he should procure for her
- 2:44:58such playthings as may be hardly known to other girls. He may also show
- 2:45:03her a ball dyed with various colors, and other curiosities of the same sort,
- 2:45:07and should give her dolls made of cloth, wood, buffalo, horn,
- 2:45:13ivory, wax, flour, or earth, also utensils for cooking food,
- 2:45:18and figures in wood, such as a man and woman standing, a
- 2:45:22pair of rams or goats or sheep. Also temples made of earth, bamboo,
- 2:45:28or wood dedicated to various goddesses, and cages for parrots, cuckoos,
- 2:45:33starlings, quails, cocks, and partridges, water vessels of different sorts and
- 2:45:39of elegant forms, machines for throwing water about guitars, stands for putting images
- 2:45:46upon stools, lac red, arsenic, yellow, ointment, vermilion, and
- 2:45:52coleerium, as well as sandalwood, saffron, betel nut, and betal leaves.
- 2:46:00Such things should be given at different times whenever he gets a good opportunity
- 2:46:03of meeting her, and some of them should be given in private and some
- 2:46:07in public, according to circumstances. In short, he should try in every
- 2:46:11way to make her look upon him as one who would do for her everything
- 2:46:16that she wanted to be done. In the next place, he should get
- 2:46:20her to meet him in some place privately, and should then tell her that
- 2:46:24the reason of his giving presents to her in secret was the fear that the
- 2:46:28parents of both of them might be displeased. And then he might add that
- 2:46:33the things which he had given her had been much desired by other people.
- 2:46:37When her love begins to show signs of increasing, he should relate to her
- 2:46:43agreeable stories. If she expresses a wish to hear such narratives, or if
- 2:46:48she takes delight in Legerdamen, he should amaze her by performing various tricks of
- 2:46:54jugglery, or if she feels a great curiosity to see a performance of the
- 2:46:58various arts, he should show his own skill in them. When she is
- 2:47:03delighted with singing, he should entertain her with music. And on certain days,
- 2:47:07and at the time of going together to moonlight fairs and festivals, and
- 2:47:11at the time of her return after being absent from home, he should present
- 2:47:16her with bouquets of flowers, and with chaplets for the head, and with
- 2:47:20ear ornaments and rings. For these are the proper occasions on which such things
- 2:47:26should be presented. He should also teach the daughter of the girl's nurse all
- 2:47:31the sixty four means of pleasure practiced by men, and under this pretext should
- 2:47:37also inform her of his great skill in the art of sexual enjoyment. All
- 2:47:43this time he should wear a fine dress and make as good an appearance as
- 2:47:46possible. For young women love men who live with them, and who are
- 2:47:50handsome, good looking, and well dressed. As for the saying that though
- 2:47:56women may fall in love, they still make no effort themselves to gain over
- 2:48:00the object of their affections, that is only a matter of idle talk.
- 2:48:05Now, a girl always shows her love by outward signs and actions, such
- 2:48:09as the following. She never looks the man in the face and becomes abashed
- 2:48:15when she is looked at by him. Under some pretext or other, she
- 2:48:20shows her limbs to him. She looks secretly at him though he has gone
- 2:48:24away from her side, hangs down her head when she has asked some question
- 2:48:28by him, and answers in indistinct words and unfinished sentences. Delights to be
- 2:48:35in his company for a long time. Speaks to her attendants in a peculiar
- 2:48:39tone with the hope of attracting his attention towards her. When she is at
- 2:48:43a distance from him, does not wish to go from the place where he
- 2:48:48is. Under some pretext or other, she makes him look at different things,
- 2:48:52narrates to him tales and stories very slowly, so that she may continue
- 2:48:58conversing with him for a long time time, kisses and embraces before him.
- 2:49:03A child sitting at her lap draws ornamental marks on the foreheads of her female
- 2:49:07servants. Performs sportive and graceful movements when her attendants speak jestingly to her in
- 2:49:13the presence of her lover, confides in her lover's friends and respects and obeys
- 2:49:20them, shows kindness to his servants, converses with them, and engages them
- 2:49:24to do her work as if she were their mistress, and listens attentively to
- 2:49:30them when they tell stories about her lover to somebody else. Enters his house
- 2:49:35when induced to do so by the daughter of her nurse, and by her
- 2:49:39assistance, manages to converse and play with him. Avoids being seen by her
- 2:49:45lover when she is not dressed and decorated, gives him, by the hand
- 2:49:48of her female friend her ear, ornament, ring, or garland of flowers
- 2:49:54that he may have asked to see, always wears anything that he may have
- 2:49:58presented to her, become dejected when any other bridegroom is mentioned by her parents,
- 2:50:03and does not mix with those who may be of her party or who
- 2:50:07may support his claims. There are also some verses on the subject, as
- 2:50:13follows. A man who has seen and perceived the feelings of the girl towards
- 2:50:18him, and who has noticed the outward signs of movements by which those feelings
- 2:50:24are expressed, should do everything in his power to affect a union with her.
- 2:50:28He should gain over a young girl by childlike sports, a damsel come
- 2:50:33of age by his skill in the arts, and a girl that loves him
- 2:50:37by having recourse to persons in whom she confides. Chapter four about things to
- 2:50:45be done only by the man and the acquisition of the girl thereby, also
- 2:50:50what is to be done by a girl to gain over a man and subject
- 2:50:54him to her. Now, when the girl begins to show her love by
- 2:50:58outward signs and motions, as described in the last chapter, the lover should
- 2:51:05try to gain her over entirely by various ways and means, such as the
- 2:51:09following. When engaged with her in any game or sport, he should intentionally
- 2:51:15hold her hand. He should practice upon her the various kinds of embraces,
- 2:51:20such as the touching embrace, and others already described in a preceding chapter,
- 2:51:26Part two. Chapter two, he should show her a pair of human beings
- 2:51:31cut out of the leaf of a tree, and such things. At intervals.
- 2:51:35When engaged in water sports, he should dive at a distance from her
- 2:51:39and come up close to her. He should show an increased liking for the
- 2:51:43new foliage of trees, and such like things. He should describe to her
- 2:51:48the pangs he suffers on her account. He should relate to her the beautiful
- 2:51:52dream that he has had with reference to other women. At parties and assemblies
- 2:51:58of his caste, he should she should sit near her and touch her under
- 2:52:01some pretense or other, and having placed his foot upon hers, he should
- 2:52:07slowly touch each of her toes and press the ends of the nails. If
- 2:52:11successful in this, he should get hold of her foot with his hand and
- 2:52:15repeat the same thing. He should also press the finger of her hand between
- 2:52:20his toes when she happens to be washing his feet. And whenever he gives
- 2:52:24anything to her or takes anything from her, he should show her by his
- 2:52:28manner, and look how much he loves her. He should sprinkle upon her
- 2:52:33the water brought for rinsing his mouth, and when alone with her in a
- 2:52:37lonely place or in darkness, he should make love to her and tell her
- 2:52:41the true state of his mind, without distressing her in any way. Whenever
- 2:52:46he sits with her on the same seat or bed, he should say to
- 2:52:50her, I have something to tell you in private, And then when she
- 2:52:54comes to hear it in a quiet place, he should express his love to
- 2:52:58her. More More by manner and signs than by words. When he comes
- 2:53:03to know the state of her feelings towards him, he should pretend to be
- 2:53:07ill, and should make her come to his house to speak to him.
- 2:53:11There, he should intentionally hold her hand and place it on his eyes and
- 2:53:16forehead, and under the pretense of preparing some medicine for him, he should
- 2:53:20ask her to do work for his sake in the following words. This work
- 2:53:24must be done by you and by nobody else. When she wants to go
- 2:53:30away, he should let her go with an earnest request to come and see
- 2:53:33him again. This device of illness should be continued for three days and three
- 2:53:39nights. After this, When she begins coming to see him frequently, he
- 2:53:45should carry on long conversations with her. For says Gotakamuka, though a man
- 2:53:50love a girl ever so much, he never succeeds in winning her without a
- 2:53:54great deal of talking. At last, when the man finds since the girl
- 2:54:00completely gained over, he may then begin to enjoy her. As for the
- 2:54:05saying that women grow less timid than usual during the evening and in darkness,
- 2:54:11and are desirous of congress at those times, and do not oppose men then,
- 2:54:16and should only be enjoyed at these hours. It is a matter of
- 2:54:18talk. Only when it is impossible for the man to carry on his endeavors
- 2:54:24alone, he should, by means of the daughter, of her nurse,
- 2:54:28or of a female friend in whom she confides, cause the girl to be
- 2:54:33brought to him without making known to her his design, and he should then
- 2:54:37proceed with her in the manner above described. Or he should, in the
- 2:54:41beginning send his own female servant to live with the girl as her friend,
- 2:54:46and should then gain her over by her means. At last, when he
- 2:54:50knows the state of her feelings by her outward manner and conduct towards him at
- 2:54:56religious ceremonies, marriage ceremonies, fairs, festival theaters, public assemblies, and
- 2:55:01such like occasions, he should begin to enjoy her when she is alone.
- 2:55:07For Vetsiyayana lays it down that women, when resorted to at proper times and
- 2:55:13improper places, do not turn away from their lovers. When a girl possessed
- 2:55:20of good qualities and well bred, though born in a humble family or destitute
- 2:55:24of wealth, and not therefore desired by her equals, or an orphan girl,
- 2:55:31or one deprived of her parents, but observing the rules of her family
- 2:55:35and caste, should wish to bring about her own marriage. When she comes
- 2:55:37of age. Such a girl should endeavor to gain over a strong and good
- 2:55:43looking young man, or a person whom she thinks would marry her on account
- 2:55:46of the weakness of his mind, and even without the consent of his parents.
- 2:55:52She should do this by such means as would endear her to the said
- 2:55:56person, as well as by frequently seeing and meeting him. Her mother also
- 2:56:01should constantly cause them to meet by means of her female friends and the daughter
- 2:56:05of her nurse. The girl herself should try to get alone with her beloved
- 2:56:11in some quiet place, and at odd times should give him flowers, betel
- 2:56:16nut, betel leaves, and perfumes. She should also show her skill in
- 2:56:20the practice of the arts, in shampooing, in scratching, and impressing with
- 2:56:26the nails. She should also talk to him on the subjects he likes best,
- 2:56:30and discuss with him the ways and means of gaining over and winning the
- 2:56:33affections of a girl. But old authors say that although the girl loves the
- 2:56:39man ever so much, she should not offer herself or make the first overtures.
- 2:56:45For a girl who does this loses her dignity and is liable to be
- 2:56:48scorned and rejected. But when the man shows his wish to enjoy her,
- 2:56:54she should be favorable to him and should show no change in her demeanor when
- 2:56:58he embraces her, and should receive all the manifestations of his love as if
- 2:57:03she were ignorant of the state of his mind. But when he tries to
- 2:57:07kiss her, she should oppose him. When he begs to be allowed to
- 2:57:11have sexual intercourse with her, she should let him touch her private parts only
- 2:57:15and with considerable difficulty. And though importuned by him, she should not yield
- 2:57:20herself up to him as if of her own accord, but should resist his
- 2:57:24attempts to have her. It is only moreover, when she is certain that
- 2:57:28she is truly loved, and that her lover is indeed devoted to her and
- 2:57:33will not change his mind, that she should then give herself up to him
- 2:57:37and persuade him to marry her. Quickly. After losing her virginity, she
- 2:57:43should tell her confidential friends about it. Here ends the efforts of a girl
- 2:57:48to gain over a man. There are also some verses on this subject.
- 2:57:52As follows, a girl who is much sought after should marry the man that
- 2:57:56she likes and whom she thinks will be obedient to her and capable of giving
- 2:58:01her pleasure. But when from the desire of wealth, a girl is married
- 2:58:07by her parents to a rich man without taking into consideration the character or looks
- 2:58:11of the bridegroom, or when given to a man who has several wives,
- 2:58:16she never becomes attached to the man, even though he be endowed with good
- 2:58:20qualities, obedient to her, will, active, strong and healthy, and
- 2:58:26anxious to please her in every way. Footnote there is a good deal of
- 2:58:31truth in the last few observations. Woman is a monogamous animal, and loves
- 2:58:37but one, and likes to feel herself alone in the affections of one man,
- 2:58:41and cannot bear rivals. It may also be taken as a general rule
- 2:58:46that women either married into or kept by rich men love them for their wealth,
- 2:58:52but not for themselves. And footnote. A husband who is obedient but
- 2:58:58yet master sure of himself, though he be poor and not good looking,
- 2:59:03is better than one who is common to many women, even though he be
- 2:59:07handsome and attractive. The wives of rich men where there are many wives are
- 2:59:13not generally attached to their husbands and are not confidential with them, and even
- 2:59:18though they possess all the external enjoyments of life, still have recourse to other
- 2:59:22men. A man who is of a low mind, who has falling from
- 2:59:26his social position, and who is much given to traveling, does not deserve
- 2:59:31to be married. Neither does one who has many wives and children, or
- 2:59:37one who is devoted to sport and gambling, and who comes to his wife
- 2:59:41only when he likes. Of all the lovers of a girl, he only
- 2:59:45is her true husband who possesses the qualities that are liked by her. And
- 2:59:50such a husband only enjoys real superiority over her because he is the husband of
- 2:59:54love. Five on certain forms of marriage footnote. These forms of marriage differ
- 3:00:05from the four kinds of marriage mentioned in chapter one, and are only to
- 3:00:09be made use of when the girl is gained over in the way mentioned in
- 3:00:13chapters three and four. And a footnote. When a girl cannot meet her
- 3:00:18lover frequently in private, she should send the daughter of her nurse to him,
- 3:00:22it being understood that she has confidence in her and had previously gained her
- 3:00:28over to her interests. On seeing the man, the daughter of the nurse
- 3:00:31should, in the course of conversation, describe to him the noble birth,
- 3:00:37the good disposition, the beauty, talent, skill, knowledge of human nature,
- 3:00:43and affection of the girl, in such a way as not to let
- 3:00:46him suppose that she has been sent by the girl, and should thus create
- 3:00:50affection for the girl in the heart of the man. To this girl,
- 3:00:54also she should speak about the excellent qualities of the man, especially of the
- 3:01:00qualities which she knows are pleasing to the girl. She should moreover speak with
- 3:01:05disparagement of the other lovers of the girl, and talk about the avarice and
- 3:01:09indiscretion of their parents, and the fickleness of their relations. She should also
- 3:01:15quote samples of many girls of ancient times, such as Secuntala and others,
- 3:01:22who, having united themselves with lovers of their own caste and their own choice,
- 3:01:26were ever happy afterwards in their society. And she should also tell of
- 3:01:31other girls who married into great families, and, being troubled by rival wives,
- 3:01:37became wretched and miserable, and were finally abandoned. She should further speak
- 3:01:41of the good fortune, the continual happiness, the chastity, obedience, and
- 3:01:46affection of the man, and if the girl gets amorous about him, she
- 3:01:52should endeavor to allay her shame and her fear, as well as her suspicions
- 3:01:56about any disaster that might result from the marriage. Footnote about this see a
- 3:02:03story on the fatal effects of love at page one fourteen of Early Ideas,
- 3:02:09a group of Hindu stories collected and collated by Honaryan W. H. Allen
- 3:02:15and Company, London, eighteen eighty one, and a footnote in a word,
- 3:02:22she should act the whole part of a female messenger, by telling the
- 3:02:24girl all about the man's affection for her, the places he frequented, and
- 3:02:30the endeavors he made to meet her, and by frequently repeating it will be
- 3:02:35all right if the man will take you away forcibly and unexpectedly the forms of
- 3:02:41marriage. When the girl is gained over and acts openly with the man as
- 3:02:46his wife, he should cause fire to be brought from the house of a
- 3:02:50Brahmin, and having spread the khusha grass upon the ground and offered an oblation
- 3:02:56to the fire, he should marry her according to the precepts of the religions
- 3:03:00law. After this he should inform his parents of the fact because it is
- 3:03:05the opinion of ancient authors that a marriage solemnly contracted in the presence of fire
- 3:03:09cannot afterwards be set aside. After the consummation of the marriage, the relations
- 3:03:16of the man should gradually be made acquainted with the affair, and the relations
- 3:03:20of the girl should also be apprized of it, in such a way that
- 3:03:24they may consent to the marriage and overlook the manner in which it was brought
- 3:03:28about. And when this is done, they should afterwards be reconciled by affectionate
- 3:03:33presence and favorable conduct. In this manner, the man should marry the girl
- 3:03:39according to the Gundharva form of marriage. When the girl cannot make up her
- 3:03:43mind and will not express her readiness to Mary, the man should obtain her
- 3:03:48in any one of the following ways. One on a fitting occasion, and
- 3:03:54under some excuse, he should, by means of a female friend with whom
- 3:03:58he is well acquainted and whom he can trust, and who also is well
- 3:04:03known to the girl's family, get the girl brought unexpectedly to his house,
- 3:04:07and he should then bring fire from the house of a Brahmin, and proceed
- 3:04:11as therefore described. Two. When the marriage of the girl with some other
- 3:04:16person draws near. The man should disparage the future husband to the utmost in
- 3:04:22the mind of the mother of the girl, and then, having got the
- 3:04:26girl to come with her mother's consent to a neighboring house, he should bring
- 3:04:30fire from the house of a brahmin, and proceed as above. Three.
- 3:04:37The man should become a great friend of the brother of the girl, the
- 3:04:39said brother being of the same age as himself and addicted to courtesans and to
- 3:04:46intrigues with the wives of other people, and should give him assistance in such
- 3:04:50matters, and also give him occasional presents. He should then tell him about
- 3:04:54his great love for his sister, as young men will sacrifice even the their
- 3:05:00lives for the sake of those who may be of the same age, habits
- 3:05:03and dispositions as themselves. After this, the man should get the girl brought
- 3:05:09by means of her brother to some secure place, and, having brought fire
- 3:05:13from the house of a brahmin, should proceed as before. Four. The
- 3:05:18man should, on the occasion of festivals, get the daughter of the nurse
- 3:05:22to give the girl some intoxicating substance, and then cause her to be brought
- 3:05:26to some secure place, under the pretense of some business, and their,
- 3:05:31having enjoyed her before she recovers from her intoxication, should bring fire from the
- 3:05:37house of a brahmin, and proceed as before. Five. The man should,
- 3:05:43with the connivance of the daughter of the nurse, carry off the girl
- 3:05:46from her house while she is asleep, and then, having enjoyed her before
- 3:05:52she recovers from her sleep, should bring fire from the house of a brahmin,
- 3:05:56and proceed as before. Six. When the girl goes to a garden
- 3:06:01or to some village in the neighborhood, the man should, with his friends
- 3:06:07fall on her guards, and, having killed them or frightened them away,
- 3:06:11forcibly carry her off and proceed as before. There are verses on the subject
- 3:06:16as follows. In all the forms of marriage given in this chapter of this
- 3:06:22work, the one that precedes is better than the one that follows it on
- 3:06:26account of its being more in accordance with the commands of religion. And therefore
- 3:06:31it is only when it is impossible to carry the former into practice that the
- 3:06:35latter should be resorted to. As the fruit of all good marriages is love.
- 3:06:41The Gandharva form of marriage is respected even though it is formed under unfavorable
- 3:06:46circumstances, because it fulfills the object sought for. Footnote about the Gandharva Vivaha
- 3:06:54form of marriage see note to page twenty eight of Captain R. F.
- 3:06:58Burton's Vikram and the Vampire, or Tales of Hindu Devilry Longmand, Greening Company,
- 3:07:05London, eighteen seventy. This form of matrimony was recognized by the ancient
- 3:07:11Hindus and is frequent in books. It is a kind of Scotch wedding ultra
- 3:07:16Caledonian, taking place by mutual consent without any form or ceremony. The Gandharvas
- 3:07:22are heavenly minstrels of Indra's court who are supposed to be witnesses end footnote.
- 3:07:31Another cause of the respect accorded to the Gantarva form of marriage is that it
- 3:07:37brings forth happiness, causes less trouble in its performance than any other forms of
- 3:07:41marriage, and is above all the result of previous love. End of Part
- 3:07:48three, Part four About a wife. Chapter one on the manner of living
- 3:07:54of a virtuous woman and of her behavior during the absence of her husband.
- 3:08:01A virtuous woman who has affection for her husband should act in conformity with his
- 3:08:05wishes, as if he were a divine being, and with his consent,
- 3:08:09should take upon herself the whole care of his family. She should keep the
- 3:08:13whole house well cleaned, and arrange flowers of various kinds and different parts of
- 3:08:18it, and make the floor smooth and polished, so as to give the
- 3:08:22whole a neat and becoming appearance. She should surround the house with a garden,
- 3:08:26and place ready in it all the materials required for the morning, noon,
- 3:08:31and even sacrifices. Moreover, she should herself revere the sanctuary of the
- 3:08:37household gods. For says Gunnardia, nothing so much attracts the heart of the
- 3:08:43householder to his wife. As a careful observance of the things mentioned above towards
- 3:08:50the parents, relations, friends, sisters, and servants of her husband,
- 3:08:54she should behave as they deserve. In the garden, she should plant beds
- 3:08:58of green vegetables, bunches of the sugar cane, and clumps of the fig
- 3:09:03tree, the mustard plant, the parsley plant, the fennel plant, and
- 3:09:07the xanthochimus, pictorious clusters of various flowers, such as the trapa bispinosa,
- 3:09:15the jasmine, the Jasminium grandiflorum, the yellow amaranth, the wild jasmine,
- 3:09:22the Tiberna montana, coronaria, the nattiwarta, the China rose, and others
- 3:09:28should likewise be planted, together with the fragrant grass andropogan schynanthus and the fragrant
- 3:09:35root of the plant Andropogon miracatis. She should also have seats and arbors made
- 3:09:41in the garden, in the middle of which a well, tank or pools
- 3:09:45should be dug. The wife should always avoid the company of female beggars,
- 3:09:50female Buddhist mendicants, unchased and roguish women, female fortune tellers and witches.
- 3:09:56As regards meals, she should always consider or what her husband likes and dislikes,
- 3:10:01and what things are good for him and what are injurious to him.
- 3:10:05When she hears the sounds of his footsteps coming home, she should at once
- 3:10:09get up and be ready to do whatever he may command her, and either
- 3:10:13order her female servant to wash his feet or wash them herself. When going
- 3:10:18anywhere with her husband, she should put on her ornaments, and without his
- 3:10:22consent, she should not either give or accept invitations or attend marriages and sacrifices,
- 3:10:30or sit in the company of female friends, or visit the temples of
- 3:10:33the gods. And if she wants to engage in any kind of games or
- 3:10:37sports, she should not do it against his will. In the same way,
- 3:10:43she should always sit down after him and get up before him, and
- 3:10:46should never awaken him when he is asleep. The kitchen should be situated in
- 3:10:52a quiet and retired place, so as not to be accessible to strangers,
- 3:10:56and should always look clean. In the event of any misconduct on the part
- 3:11:01of her husband, she should not blame him excessively, though she be a
- 3:11:05little displeased. She should not use abusive language towards him, but rebuke him
- 3:11:11with conciliatory words, whether he be in the company of friends or alone.
- 3:11:16Moreover, she should not be a scold, for, says Gnardia, there
- 3:11:22is no cause of dislike on the part of a husband so great as this
- 3:11:26characteristic in a wife. Lastly, she should avoid bad expressions, sulky looks,
- 3:11:31speaking aside standing in the doorway and looking at passers, by conversing in
- 3:11:37the pleasure groves, and remaining in a lonely place for a long time.
- 3:11:41And finally, she should always keep her body, her teeth, her hair,
- 3:11:46and everything belonging to her tidy, sweet and clean. When the wife
- 3:11:50wants to approach her husband in private, her dress should consist of many ornaments,
- 3:11:56various kinds of flowers, and a cloth decorated with dias different colors,
- 3:12:01and some sweet smelling ointments or unguents. But her everyday dress should be composed
- 3:12:07of a thin, close textured cloth, a few ornaments and flowers, and
- 3:12:11a little scent, not too much. She should also observe the fasts and
- 3:12:16vows of her husband, and when he tries to prevent her doing this,
- 3:12:20she should persuade him to let her do it. At appropriate times of the
- 3:12:24year, and when they happen to be cheap, she should buy earth,
- 3:12:28bamboos, firewood, skins, and iron pots, as also salt and oil,
- 3:12:35fragrant substances, vessels made of the fruit of the plant rytea anti dyssenterica
- 3:12:41or oval leafed ritea. Medicines and other things which are always wanted should be
- 3:12:48obtained when required and kept in a secret place of the house. The seeds
- 3:12:52of the radish, the potato, the common beet, the Indian wormwood,
- 3:12:58the mango, the cucumber, the eggplant, the kushmanda, the pumpkin,
- 3:13:03gourd, the serena, the bignonia indica, the sandalwood, the premna spinosa,
- 3:13:11the garlic plant, the onion, and other vegetables should be bought and
- 3:13:15sown at the proper seasons. The wife, moreover, should not tell to
- 3:13:20strangers the amount of her wealth, nor the secrets which her husband has confided
- 3:13:24to her. She should surpass all the women of her own rank in life,
- 3:13:28in her cleverness, her appearance, her knowledge of cookery, her pride,
- 3:13:33and her manner of serving her husband. The expenditure of the year should
- 3:13:39be regulated by the prophets. The milk that remains after the meals should be
- 3:13:43turned into ghee or clarified. Butter, oil and sugar should be prepared at
- 3:13:48home. Spinning and weaving should also be done there, and a store of
- 3:13:52ropes and cords, and barks of trees for twisting into ropes should be kept.
- 3:13:58She should also attend to the pounding and cleaning of rice, using its
- 3:14:01small grain and chaff in some way or other. She should pay the salaries
- 3:14:07of the servants, look after the tilling of the fields, and keeping of
- 3:14:11the flocks and herds, superintend the making of vehicles, and take care of
- 3:14:16the rams, cocks, quails, parrots, starlings, cuckoos, peacocks,
- 3:14:22monkeys and deer, and finally adjust the income and expenditure of the day.
- 3:14:28The worn out clothes should be given to those servants who have done good work,
- 3:14:31in order to show them that their services have been appreciated, or they
- 3:14:37may be applied to some other use. The vessels in which wine is prepared,
- 3:14:41as well as those in which it is kept, should be carefully looked
- 3:14:45after and put away at the proper time. All sales and purchases should also
- 3:14:50be well attended. To the friends of her husband, she should welcome by
- 3:14:54presenting them with flowers, ointment, incense, betel leaves, bettel nut.
- 3:15:01Her father in law and mother in law she should treat as they deserve,
- 3:15:05always remaining dependent on their will, never contradicting them, speaking to them in
- 3:15:11few and not harsh words, not laughing loudly in their presence, and acting
- 3:15:16with their friends and enemies as with her own. In addition to the above,
- 3:15:22she should not be vain or too much taken up with her enjoyments.
- 3:15:26She should be liberal towards her servants and reward them on holidays and festivals,
- 3:15:31and not give away anything without first making it known to her husband. Thus
- 3:15:35ends the manner of living of a virtuous woman. During the absence of her
- 3:15:41husband on a journey, the virtuous woman should wear only her auspicious ornaments and
- 3:15:46observe the fasts in honor of the gods, while anxious to hear the news
- 3:15:52of her husband. She should still look after her household affairs. She should
- 3:15:56sleep near the elder women of the house and men, make herself agreeable to
- 3:16:01them. She should look after and keep in repair the things that are liked
- 3:16:05by her husband, and continue the works that have been begun by him.
- 3:16:09To the abode of her relations, she should not go except on occasions of
- 3:16:13joy and sorrow, and then she should go in her usual traveling dress,
- 3:16:18accompanied by her husband's servants, and not remain therefore a long time. The
- 3:16:24fasts and feasts should be observed with the consent of the elders of the house.
- 3:16:31The resources should be increased by making purchases and sales according to the practice
- 3:16:35of the merchants, by means of honest servants superintended by herself the income should
- 3:16:41be increased and the expenditure diminished as much as possible. And when her husband
- 3:16:46returns from his journey, she should receive him at first in her ordinary clothes,
- 3:16:52so that he may know in what way she has lived during his absence,
- 3:16:56and should bring to him some presents, as also materials for the worship
- 3:17:00of the deity. Thus ends the part relating to the behavior of a wife
- 3:17:05during the absence of her husband on a journey. There are also some verses
- 3:17:11on the subject. As follows. The wife, whether she be a woman
- 3:17:15of noble family or a virgin widow, remarried or a concubine, should lead
- 3:17:20a chaste life, devoted to her husband and doing everything for his welfare.
- 3:17:26Footnote Virgin widow probably refers to a girl married in her infancy or when very
- 3:17:33young, and whose husband had died before she arrived at the age of puberty.
- 3:17:39Infant marriages are still the common custom of the Hindoos and a footnote.
- 3:17:45Women acting thus acquire dharma, artha and kaema, obtain a high position and
- 3:17:52generally keep their husbands devoted to them. Chapter two, on the conduct of
- 3:17:58the elder one towards the other wives of her husband, and on that of
- 3:18:03a younger wife towards the elder ones. Also on the conduct of a virgin
- 3:18:07widow remarried, of a wife disliked by her husband, of the women in
- 3:18:13the King's Harem, and lastly on the conduct of a husband towards many wives.
- 3:18:20The causes of remarrying during the lifetime of the wife are as follows.
- 3:18:24One the folly or ill temper of the wife, two, her husband's dislike
- 3:18:31to her, three the want of offspring, four the continual birth of daughters,
- 3:18:39five the incontinence of the husband. From the very beginning, the wife
- 3:18:46should endeavor to attract the heart of her husband by showing to him continually her
- 3:18:50devotion, her good temper, and her wisdom. If, however, she
- 3:18:56bears him no children, she should herself tell her husband to marry another woman,
- 3:19:01And when the second wife is married and brought to the house, the
- 3:19:05first wife should give her a position superior to her own, and look upon
- 3:19:09her as a sister In the morning. The elder wife should forcibly make the
- 3:19:13younger one decorate herself in the presence of their husband, and should not mind
- 3:19:18all the husband's favor being given to her. If the younger wife does anything
- 3:19:24to displease her husband, the elder one should not neglect her, but should
- 3:19:28always be ready to give her most careful advice, and should teach her to
- 3:19:31do various things. In the presence of her husband. Her children, she
- 3:19:37should treat as her own. Her attendants. She should look upon with more
- 3:19:41regard even than on her own servants. Her friends, she should cherish with
- 3:19:46love and kindness, and her relations with great honor. When there are many
- 3:19:52other wives besides herself, the elder wife should associate with the one who is
- 3:19:56immediately next to her in rank and age, and should instigate the wife who
- 3:20:01has recently enjoyed her husband's favor to quarrel with a present favorite. After this,
- 3:20:07she should sympathize with the former, and, having collected all the other
- 3:20:11wives together, should get them to denounce the favorite as a scheming and wicked
- 3:20:16woman, without however, committing herself in any way. If the favorite wife
- 3:20:22happens to quarrel with the husband, then the elder wife should take her part
- 3:20:26and give her false encouragement, and thus cause the quarrel to be increased.
- 3:20:31If there be only a little quarrel between the two, the elder wife should
- 3:20:35do all she can to work it up into a large quarrel. But if
- 3:20:39after this she finds the husband still continues to love his favorite wife, she
- 3:20:45should then change her tactics and endeavor to bring about a conciliation between them,
- 3:20:50so as to avoid her husband's displeasure. Thus ends the conduct of the elder
- 3:20:54wife. The younger wife should regard the elder wife of her husband as her
- 3:21:01mother, and should not give anything away, even to her own relations,
- 3:21:05without her knowledge. She should tell her everything about herself, and not approach
- 3:21:11her husband without her permission. Whatever is told to her by the elder wife,
- 3:21:16she should not reveal to others, and she should take care of the
- 3:21:18children of the senior even more than of her own. When alone with her
- 3:21:24husband, she should serve him well, but should not tell him of the
- 3:21:26pain she suffers from the existence of a rival wife. She may also obtain
- 3:21:33secretly from her husband some marks of his particular regard for her, and may
- 3:21:37tell him that she lives only for him and for the regard that he has
- 3:21:41for her. She should never reveal her love for her husband, nor her
- 3:21:46husband's love for her, to any person, either in pride or in anger.
- 3:21:52For a wife that reveals the secrets of her husband is despised by him.
- 3:21:58As for seeking to obtain in the regard of her husband, Gnardia says
- 3:22:03that it should always be done in private for fear of the elder wife.
- 3:22:07If the elder wife be disliked by her husband or be childless, she should
- 3:22:13sympathize with her, and should ask her husband to do the same, but
- 3:22:16should surpass her in leading the life of a chaste woman. Thus ends the
- 3:22:22conduct of the younger wife towards the elder. A widow in poor circumstances or
- 3:22:28of a weak nature, and who allies herself again to a man, is
- 3:22:33called a widow remarried. The followers of Babhavra say that a virgin widow should
- 3:22:39not marry a person whom she may be obliged to leave on account of his
- 3:22:43bad character or of his being destitute of the excellent qualities of a man.
- 3:22:50She thus being obliged to have recourse to another person. Gunnardia is of opinion
- 3:22:56that as the cause of a widow's marrying again is her desire for happiness,
- 3:23:01and his happiness is secured by the possession of excellent qualities. In her husband
- 3:23:05joined to love of enjoyment. It is better therefore to secure a person endowed
- 3:23:11with such qualities in the first instance. Batesiayana, however, thinks that a
- 3:23:16widow may marry any person that she likes and that she thinks will suit her.
- 3:23:22At the time of her marriage, the widow should obtain from her husband
- 3:23:24the money to pay the cost of drinking parties and picnics with her relations,
- 3:23:30and of giving them and her friend's kindly gifts and presents. Or she may
- 3:23:35do these things at her own cost if she likes. In the same way,
- 3:23:39she may wear either her husband's ornaments or her own. As to the
- 3:23:43presence of affection mutually exchanged between the husband and herself, there is no fixed
- 3:23:48rule about them. If she leaves her husband after marriage of her own accord,
- 3:23:54she should restore to him whatever he may have given her, with the
- 3:23:58exception of the mutual presence. If, however, she is driven out of
- 3:24:03the house by her husband, she should not return anything to him. After
- 3:24:07her marriage, she should live in the house of her husband like one of
- 3:24:11the chief members of the family, but should treat the other ladies of the
- 3:24:15family with kindness. The servants with generosity, and all the friends of the
- 3:24:20house with familiarity and good temper. She should show that she is better acquainted
- 3:24:24with the sixty four arts than the other ladies of the house, And in
- 3:24:28any quarrels with her husband, she should not rebuke him severely, but in
- 3:24:33private do everything that he wishes, and make use of the sixty four ways
- 3:24:37of enjoyment. She should be obliging to the other wives of her husband and
- 3:24:43to their children. She should give presents, behave as their mistress, and
- 3:24:48make ornaments and playthings for their use. In the friends and servants of her
- 3:24:52husband she should confide more than in his other wives. And finally, she
- 3:24:58should have a liking for drinking, party, going to picnics, attending fairs
- 3:25:03and festivals, and for carrying out all kinds of games and amusements. Thus
- 3:25:09ends the conduct of a virgin widow remarried. A woman who is disliked by
- 3:25:15her husband and annoyed and distressed by his other wives, should associate with the
- 3:25:20wife who is liked most by her husband and who serves him more than the
- 3:25:24others, and should teach her all the arts with which she is acquainted.
- 3:25:28She should act as the nurse of her husband's children, and having gained over
- 3:25:33his friends to her side, should through them make him acquainted of her devotion
- 3:25:39to him. In religious ceremonies, she should be a leader, as also
- 3:25:43in vows and fasts, and should not hold too good an opinion of herself.
- 3:25:50When her husband is lying on his bed, she should only go near
- 3:25:52him when it is agreeable to him, and should never rebuke him or show
- 3:25:58obstinacy in any way. If her husband happens to quarrel with any of his
- 3:26:03other wives, she should reconcile them to each other, and if he desires
- 3:26:07to see any woman secretly, she should manage to bring about the meeting between
- 3:26:11them. She should moreover make herself acquainted with the weak points of her husband's
- 3:26:16character, but always keep them secret, and on the whole behave herself in
- 3:26:22such a way as may lead him to look upon her as a good and
- 3:26:26devoted wife. Here ends the conduct of a wife disliked by her husband.
- 3:26:33The above sections will show how all the women of the King Seralio are to
- 3:26:37behave, and therefore we shall now speak separately only about the king. The
- 3:26:43female attendants in the harem called severally. Canchukiyas footnote a name given to the
- 3:26:50maid servants of the zenana of the kings in ancient times on account of their
- 3:26:54always keeping their breasts covered with a cloth, called kanchuki. It was customary
- 3:27:01the olden time for the maid servants to cover their breasts with a cloth,
- 3:27:05while the queens kept their breasts uncovered. This custom is distinctly to be seen
- 3:27:09in the Adjunta Cave paintings and footnote. Mahala rica's footnote. The meaning of
- 3:27:18this word is a superior woman, so it would seem that a mahalarica must
- 3:27:24be a person in authority over the maid servants of the house end footnote and
- 3:27:31mahalkas footnote. This was also appertaining to the rank of women employed in the
- 3:27:37harem. In latter times, this place was given to eunuchs. End footnote.
- 3:27:43Should bring flowers, ointments, and clothes from the king's wives to the
- 3:27:48king, and he, having received these things, should give them his presents
- 3:27:50to the servants, along with the things worn by him the previous day.
- 3:27:56In the afternoon, the king, having dressed and put on his ornaments,
- 3:28:00should interview the women of the harem, who should also be dressed and decorated
- 3:28:05with jewels. Then, having given to each of them such a place and
- 3:28:09such respect as may suit the occasion, and as they may deserve, he
- 3:28:13should carry on with them a cheerful conversation. After that he should see such
- 3:28:18of his wives as may be virgin widows remarried, and after them the concubines
- 3:28:24and dancing girls. All of these should be visited in their own private rooms.
- 3:28:30When the King rises from his noonday sleep, the woman whose duty it
- 3:28:33is to inform the King regarding the wife who is to spend the night with
- 3:28:37him, should come to him, accompanied by the female attendants of that wife,
- 3:28:43whose turn may have arrived in the regular course, and of her who
- 3:28:46may have been accidentally passed over as her turn arrived, and of her who
- 3:28:50may have been unwell at the time of her turn. These attendants should place
- 3:28:56before the King the ointments and unguents sent by each of these wives, marked
- 3:29:01with the seal of her ring, and their names and their reasons for sending
- 3:29:05the ointments should be told to the King. After this, the kings accepts
- 3:29:09the ointment of one of them, who then is informed that her ointment has
- 3:29:15been accepted, and that her day has been settled. Footnote. As kings
- 3:29:22generally had many wives, it was usual for them to enjoy their wives by
- 3:29:26turns, but as it happened sometimes that some of them lost their turns,
- 3:29:31owing to the king's absence or to their being unwell. Than in such cases,
- 3:29:35the women whose turns had been passed over and those whose turns had come
- 3:29:41used to have a sort of lottery, and the ointment of all the claimants
- 3:29:45was sent to the king, who accepted the ointment of one of them,
- 3:29:48and thus settled the question and the footnote. At festivals, singing parties,
- 3:29:56and exhibitions, all the wives of the king should be be treated with respect
- 3:30:01and served with drinks. But the women of the harem should not be allowed
- 3:30:05to go out alone. Neither should any women outside the harem be allowed to
- 3:30:09enter it, except those whose character is well known. And lastly, the
- 3:30:15work which the king's wives have to do should not be too fatiguing. Thus
- 3:30:20ends the conduct of the king towards the women of the harem, and of
- 3:30:24their own conduct. A man marrying many wives should act fairly towards them all.
- 3:30:31He should neither disregard nor pass over their faults, and should not reveal
- 3:30:35to one wife the love passion, bodily blemishes, and confidential reproaches of the
- 3:30:41other. No opportunity should be given to any one of them of speaking to
- 3:30:46him about their rivals. And if one of them should begin to speak ill
- 3:30:50of another, he should chide her and tell her that she has exactly the
- 3:30:54same blemishes in her character. One of them he should please by secret confidence,
- 3:31:01another by secret respect, and another by secret flattery. And he should
- 3:31:05please them all by going to gardens, by amusements, by presence, by
- 3:31:11honoring their relations, by telling them secrets, and lastly by loving unions.
- 3:31:18A young woman who is of a good temper, and who conducts herself according
- 3:31:22to the precepts of the Holy writ wins her husband's attachment and obtains a superiority
- 3:31:28over her rivals. Thus ends the conduct of a husband towards many wives.
- 3:31:33This is also the end of Part four, Part five about the wives of
- 3:31:39other Men, Chapter one of the Characteristics of Men and Women. The reasons
- 3:31:46why women reject the addresses of men, about men who have success with women,
- 3:31:50and about women who are easily gained over the wives of other people may
- 3:31:56be resorted to on the occasions already discs described in Part one, Chapter five
- 3:32:01of this work, But the possibility of their acquisition, their fitness for cohabitation,
- 3:32:07the danger to oneself and uniting with them, and the future effect of
- 3:32:11these unions, should first of all be examined. A man may resort to
- 3:32:16the wife of another for the purpose of saving his own life when he perceives
- 3:32:20that his love for her proceeds from one degree of intensity to another. These
- 3:32:26degrees are ten in number and are distinguished by the following marks. One love
- 3:32:31of the eye, two attachment of the mind, three constant reflection, four,
- 3:32:39destruction of sleep, five emaciation of the body, six turning away from
- 3:32:48objects of enjoyment, seven, removal of shame, eight madness, nine fainting
- 3:32:58ten death. Ancient authors say that a man should know the disposition, truthfulness,
- 3:33:05purity, and will of a young woman, as also the intensity or
- 3:33:09weakness of her passions, from the form of her body and from her characteristic
- 3:33:15marks and signs. But Vitziayana is of opinion that the forms of bodies and
- 3:33:20the characteristic marks or signs are but erring tests of character, and that women
- 3:33:26should be judged by their conduct by the outboard expression of their thoughts and by
- 3:33:30the movements of their bodies. Now as a general rule, Gona Caputra says
- 3:33:35that a woman falls in love with every handsome man she sees, and so
- 3:33:39does every man at the sight of a beautiful woman, but frequently they do
- 3:33:43not take any further steps, owing to various considerations in love. The following
- 3:33:50circumstances are peculiar. To the woman. She loves without regard to right or
- 3:33:56wrong, and does not try to gain over a man simply for the attainment
- 3:33:58of seance particular purpose footnote ampeur touteutin a tou suppose dunfeme amreuse, according to
- 3:34:09Balzac end footnote. Moreover, when a man first makes up to her,
- 3:34:15she naturally shrinks from him, even though she may be willing to unite herself
- 3:34:18with him. But when the attempts to gain her are repeated and renewed,
- 3:34:24she at last consents. But with a man, even though he may have
- 3:34:28begun to love, he conquers his feelings from a regard for morality and wisdom,
- 3:34:33and although his thoughts are often on the woman, he does not yield,
- 3:34:37even though an attempt be made to gain him over. He sometimes makes
- 3:34:43an attempt or effort to win the object of his affections, and having failed,
- 3:34:46he leaves her alone for the future. In the same way, when
- 3:34:50a woman is once gained, he often becomes indifferent about her. As for
- 3:34:56the saying that a man does not care for what is easily gained, and
- 3:35:00only desires a thing which cannot be obtained without difficulty, it is only a
- 3:35:05matter of talk. The causes of a woman rejecting the addresses of a man
- 3:35:11are as follows. One affection for her husband, two desire of lawful progeny,
- 3:35:18three want of opportunity four, anger at being addressed by the man too
- 3:35:26familiarly. Five, difference in rank of life. Six want of certainty on
- 3:35:33account of the man being devoted to traveling seven, thinking that the man may
- 3:35:39be attached to some other person. Eight, fear of the man's not keeping
- 3:35:46his intentions secret. Nine thinking that the man is too devoted to his friends
- 3:35:52and has too great a regard for them. Ten, the apprehension that he
- 3:35:56is not in earnest bashfulness on account of his being an illustrious man. Twelve
- 3:36:05fear on account of his being powerful or possessed of too impetuous a passion.
- 3:36:11In the case of the dear woman thirteen, bashfulness on account of his being
- 3:36:16too clever fourteen, the thought of having once lived with him on friendly terms
- 3:36:22only fifteen, contempt of his want of knowledge of the world sixteen, discussed
- 3:36:31of his low character seventeen, discussed at his want of perception of her love
- 3:36:37for him eighteen. In the case of an elephant woman, the thought that
- 3:36:43he is a hair man or a man of weak passion nineteen, Compassion lest
- 3:36:48anything should befall him on account of his passion twenty, Despair at her own
- 3:36:54imperfections twenty one, fear of discovery twenty two, disillusion at seeing his gray
- 3:37:03hair or shabby appearance twenty three, fear that he may be employed by her
- 3:37:09husband to test her chastity twenty four, the thought that he has too much
- 3:37:15regard for morality. Whichever of the above causes a man may detect, he
- 3:37:20should endeavor to remove it from the very beginning. Thus, the bashfulness that
- 3:37:26may arise from his greatness or his ability, he should remove by showing his
- 3:37:31great love and affection for her. The difficulty of the want of opportunity,
- 3:37:35or if his inaccessibility, he should remove by showing her some easy way of
- 3:37:41access. The excessive respect entertained by the woman for him should be removed by
- 3:37:46making himself very familiar. The difficulties that arise from his being thought a low
- 3:37:52character, he should remove by showing his valor and his wisdom, those that
- 3:37:58come from neglect by extra attention, and those that arise from fear by giving
- 3:38:03her proper encouragement. The following are the men who generally obtain success with women.
- 3:38:09One men well versed in the science of love, two men skilled in
- 3:38:16telling stories, three men acquainted with women from their childhood. Four men who
- 3:38:24have secured their confidence. Five men who send presents to them, six men
- 3:38:31who talk well, seven men who do things that they like. Eight men
- 3:38:39who have not loved other women previously. Nine men who act as messengers.
- 3:38:46Ten men who knew their weak spots. Eleven men who are desired by good
- 3:38:54women. Twelve men who are united with their female friends, thirteen men who
- 3:39:01are good looking, fourteen men who have been brought up with them, fifteen
- 3:39:09men who are their neighbors, sixteen men who are devoted to sexual pleasures,
- 3:39:16even though these be their own servants. Seventeen the lovers of the daughters of
- 3:39:22their nurse. Eighteen men who have been lately married. Nineteen men who like
- 3:39:30picnics and pleasure parties, twenty men who are liberal, twenty one men who
- 3:39:37are celebrated for being very strong, bull men, twenty two enterprising and brave
- 3:39:46men. Twenty three men who surpassed their husbands in learning and good looks,
- 3:39:52in good quality, and in liberality. Twenty four men whose dress and manner
- 3:39:58of living are megan magnificent. The following are the women who are easily gained
- 3:40:03over. One women who stand at the doors of their houses. Two women
- 3:40:11who are always looking out on the street. Three women who sit conversing in
- 3:40:16their neighbor's house. Four. A woman who is always staring at you.
- 3:40:22Five a female messenger. Six a woman who looks sideways at you. Seven.
- 3:40:31A woman whose husband has taken another wife without any just cause. Eight
- 3:40:37a woman who hates her husband or is hated by him. Nine a woman
- 3:40:43who has nobody to look after her or keep her in check. Ten a
- 3:40:48woman who has not had any children. Eleven a woman whose family or caste
- 3:40:54is not well known. Twelve a woman who whose children are dead. Thirteen
- 3:41:03a woman who is very fond of society fourteen, a woman who is apparently
- 3:41:09very affectionate with her husband fifteen, the wife of an actor sixteen, a
- 3:41:16widow seventeen, a poor woman eighteen, a woman fond of enjoyments nineteen,
- 3:41:26the wife of a man with many younger brothers twenty a vain woman twenty one.
- 3:41:35A woman whose husband is inferior to her in rank or abilities. Twenty
- 3:41:41two. A woman who is proud of her skill in the arts. Twenty
- 3:41:46three, a woman disturbed in mind by the folly of her husband. Twenty
- 3:41:52four. A woman who has been married in her infancy to a rich man
- 3:41:56and not liking him when she grows up. Desires a man possessing a disposition,
- 3:42:01talents, and wisdom suitable to her own tastes twenty five. A woman
- 3:42:07who is slighted by her husband without any cause twenty six. A woman who
- 3:42:13is not respected by other women of the same rank or beauty as herself twenty
- 3:42:18seven. A woman whose husband is devoted to traveling twenty eight, the wife
- 3:42:26of a jeweler twenty nine, a jealous woman thirty a covetous woman thirty one,
- 3:42:37an immoral woman thirty two, a barren woman thirty three, a lazy
- 3:42:45woman, thirty four, a cowardly woman, thirty five, a humpbacked woman,
- 3:42:52thirty six, a dwarfish woman, thirty seven, a deformed woman,
- 3:43:00thirty eight, a vulgar woman, thirty nine an ill smelling woman, forty
- 3:43:09a sick woman, forty one an old woman. There are also two verses
- 3:43:15on the subject, as follows. Desire, which springs from nature and which
- 3:43:20is increased by art, and from which all danger is taken away by wisdom,
- 3:43:24becomes firm and secure. A clever man, depending on his own ability
- 3:43:30and observing carefully the ideas and thoughts of women, and removing the causes of
- 3:43:35their turning away from men, is generally successful with them. About making acquaintance
- 3:43:43with the woman and of the efforts to gain her over ancient authors are of
- 3:43:48opinion that girls are not so easily seduced by employing female messengers as by the
- 3:43:54efforts of the man himself, but that the wives of others are more easily
- 3:43:58godded by the aid of female messengers than by the personal efforts of a man.
- 3:44:05But Vitsiayana lays it down that whenever it is possible, a man should
- 3:44:09always act himself in these matters, And it is only when such is impracticable
- 3:44:13or impossible, that female messengers should be employed. As for the saying that
- 3:44:20women who act and talk boldly and freely are to be won by the personal
- 3:44:24efforts of the man, and that women who do not possess these qualities are
- 3:44:28to be got at by female messengers, it is only a matter of talk.
- 3:44:33Now. When a man acts himself in the matter, he should,
- 3:44:37first of all make the acquaintance of the woman he loves in the following manner.
- 3:44:41First, he should arrange to be seen by the woman, either on
- 3:44:45a natural or special opportunity. A natural opportunity is when one of them goes
- 3:44:50to the house of the other, and a special opportunity is when they meet
- 3:44:54either at the house of a friend or a caste fellow, or a minister
- 3:44:58or a a physician, as also on the occasion of marriage, ceremonies,
- 3:45:03sacrifices, festivals, funerals, and garden parties. Second, when they do
- 3:45:11meet, the man should be careful to look at her in such a way
- 3:45:13as to cause the state of his mind to be made known to her.
- 3:45:18He should pull about his mustache, make a sound with his nails, cause
- 3:45:22his own ornaments to tinkle, bite his lower lip, and make various other
- 3:45:26signs of that description. When she is looking at him, he should speak
- 3:45:31to his friends about her and other women, and should show to her his
- 3:45:35liberality and his appreciation of enjoyments. When sitting by the side of a female
- 3:45:41friend, he should yawn and twist his body, contract his eyebrows, speak
- 3:45:46very slowly, as if he were weary, and listen to her indifferently.
- 3:45:52A conversation having two meanings should also be carried on with a child or some
- 3:45:56other person, apparently having regards guard to a third person, but really having
- 3:46:01reference to the woman he loves, And in this way his love should be
- 3:46:05made manifest under the pretext of referring to others rather than to herself. He
- 3:46:11should make marks that have reference to her on the earth with his nails or
- 3:46:16with a stick, and should embrace and kiss a child in her presence,
- 3:46:20and give it the mixture of betel nut and betel leaves with his tongue,
- 3:46:26and press its chin with his fingers in a caressing way. All these things
- 3:46:30should be done at the proper time and improper places. Third, a man
- 3:46:35should fondle a child that may be sitting on her lap, and give it
- 3:46:39something to play with, and also take the same back again. Conversation with
- 3:46:45respect to the child may also be held with her, and in this manner
- 3:46:50he should gradually become well acquainted with her, and he should also make himself
- 3:46:54agreeable to her relations. Afterwards, this acquaintance should be made a pret for
- 3:47:00visiting her house frequently, and on such occasions he should converse on the subject
- 3:47:05of love in her absence, but within her hearing. As his intimacy with
- 3:47:11her increases, he should place in her charge some kind of deposit or trust,
- 3:47:16and take away from it a small portion at a time. Or he
- 3:47:20may give her some fragrant substances or betel nuts, to be kept for him
- 3:47:24by her. After this, he should endeavor to make her well acquainted with
- 3:47:28his own wife, and get them to carry on confidential conversations and to sit
- 3:47:33together in lonely places. In order to see her frequently, he should arrange
- 3:47:39that the same goldsmith, the same jeweler, the same basket maker, the
- 3:47:43same dyer, and the same washerman should be employed by the two families,
- 3:47:48and he should also pay her long visits openly under the pretense of being engaged
- 3:47:54with her on business, and one business should lead to another so as to
- 3:47:58keep up the intercourse between them. Whenever she wants anything, or is in
- 3:48:05need of money, or wishes to acquire skill in one of the arts,
- 3:48:09he should cause her to understand that he is willing and able to do anything
- 3:48:13that she wants, to give her money or teach her one of the arts,
- 3:48:18all these things being quite within his ability and power. In the same
- 3:48:22way, he should hold discussions with her in company with other people, and
- 3:48:26they should talk of the doings and sayings of other persons, and examine different
- 3:48:31things like jewelry, precious stones, etc. On such occasions, he should
- 3:48:37show her certain things with the values of which she may be unacquainted, And
- 3:48:41if she begins to dispute with him about the things or their value, he
- 3:48:45should not contradict her, but point out that he agrees with her in every
- 3:48:50way. Thus ends the ways of making the acquaintance of the woman desired.
- 3:48:56Now, after a girl has become acquainted with the man as above described,
- 3:49:00and has manifested her love to him by the various outward signs and by the
- 3:49:05motions of her body, the man should make every effort to gain her over.
- 3:49:09But as girls are not acquainted with sexual union, they should be treated
- 3:49:13with the greatest delicacy, and the man should proceed with considerable caution, though
- 3:49:20in the case of other women accustomed to sexual intercourse, this is not necessary.
- 3:49:26When the intentions of the girl are known, and her bashfulness put aside,
- 3:49:30the man should begin to make use of her money, and an interchange
- 3:49:33of clothes, rings, and flowers should be made. In this the man
- 3:49:37should take particular care that the things given by him are handsome and valuable.
- 3:49:43He should moreover receive from her a mixture of betel nut and betel leaves.
- 3:49:48And when he is going to a party, he should ask for the flower
- 3:49:50in her hair, or for the flower in her hand. If he himself
- 3:49:56gives her a flower, it should be a sweet smelling one, marked with
- 3:50:01marks made by his nails or teeth. With increasing assiduity, he should dispel
- 3:50:05her fears, and by degrees get her to go with him to some lonely
- 3:50:09place, and there he should embrace and kiss her. And finally, at
- 3:50:15the time of giving her some betel nut, or of receiving the same from
- 3:50:18her, or at the time of making an exchange of flowers, he should
- 3:50:22touch and press her private parts, thus bringing his efforts to a satisfactory conclusion.
- 3:50:31When a man is endeavoring to seduce one woman he should not attempt to
- 3:50:33seduce any other at the same time. But after he had succeeded with the
- 3:50:39first and enjoyed her for a considerable time, he can keep her affections by
- 3:50:43giving her presents that she likes and then commence making up to another woman.
- 3:50:50When a man sees the husband of a woman going to some place near his
- 3:50:52house, he should not enjoy the woman then, even though she may be
- 3:50:56easily gained over at that time. A wise man having a regard for his
- 3:51:01reputation should not think of seducing a woman who is apprehensive, timid, not
- 3:51:07to be trusted, well guarded, or possessed of a father in law or
- 3:51:13mother in law. End of Chapter two, Part five, Chapter three.
- 3:51:20Examination of the state of a woman's mind. When a man is trying to
- 3:51:26gain over a woman, he should examine the state of her mind and act
- 3:51:31as follows. If she listens to him but does not manifest to him in
- 3:51:35any way her own intentions, he should then try to gain her over by
- 3:51:39means of a go between. If she meets him once and again comes to
- 3:51:45meet him better dressed than before, or comes to him in some lonely place,
- 3:51:50he should be certain that she is capable of being enjoyed by the use
- 3:51:54of a little force. A woman who lets a man make up to her
- 3:51:58but does not give herself even after a long time, should be considered as
- 3:52:03a trifler in love. But owing to the fickleness of the human mind,
- 3:52:07even such a woman can be conquered by always keeping up a close acquaintance with
- 3:52:13her. When a woman avoids the attentions of a man, and on account
- 3:52:18of respect for him and pride in herself, will not meet him or approach
- 3:52:22him, she can be gained over with difficulty, either by endeavoring to keep
- 3:52:28on familiar terms with her, or else by an exceedingly clever go between.
- 3:52:33When a man makes up to a woman and she reproaches him with harsh words,
- 3:52:39she should be abandoned at once. When a woman reproaches a man,
- 3:52:43but at the same time acts affectionately towards him, she should be made love
- 3:52:48to in every way. A woman who meets a man in lonely places and
- 3:52:54puts up with a touch of his foot, but pretends, on account of
- 3:52:58the indecision of her mind not to be aware of it should be conquered by
- 3:53:03patience and by continued efforts, as follows. If she happens to go to
- 3:53:07sleep in his vicinity, he should put his left arm round her, and
- 3:53:11see when she awakes whether she repulses him in reality or only repulses him in
- 3:53:16such a way as if she were desirous of the same thing being done to
- 3:53:20her again. And what is done by the arm can also be done by
- 3:53:24the foot. If the man succeeds in this point, he should embrace her
- 3:53:28more closely, And if she will not stand the embrace and gets up,
- 3:53:33but behaves with him as usual the next day, he should consider then that
- 3:53:37she is not unwilling to be enjoyed by him. If, however, she
- 3:53:43does not appear again, the man should try to get over her by means
- 3:53:46of a go between. And if, after having disappeared for some time,
- 3:53:50she again appears and behaves with him as usual, the man should then consider
- 3:53:56that she would not object to be united with him. When a woman gives
- 3:54:01a man an opportunity and makes her own love manifest to him. He should
- 3:54:05proceed to enjoy her. And the signs of a woman manifesting her love are
- 3:54:09these. One she calls out to a man without being addressed by him in
- 3:54:16the first instance. Two she shows herself to him in secret places. Three
- 3:54:22she speaks to him tremblingly and inarticulately. Four she has the fingers of her
- 3:54:28hand and the toes of her feet moistened with perspiration, and her face blooming
- 3:54:35with delight. Five she occupies herself with shampooing his body and pressing his head.
- 3:54:43Six. When shampooing him, she works with one hand only, and
- 3:54:46with the other she touches and embraces parts of his body. Seven she remains
- 3:54:54with both hands placed on his body, motionless, as if she had been
- 3:54:56surprised by something or was over come by fatigue. Eight she sometimes bends down
- 3:55:03her face upon his thighs, and when asked to shampoo them, does not
- 3:55:09manifest any unwillingness to do so. Nine she places one of her hands quite
- 3:55:15motionless on his body, and even though the man should press it between two
- 3:55:18members of his body, she does not remove it for a long time.
- 3:55:24Ten. Lastly, when she has resisted all the efforts of the man to
- 3:55:28gain her over, she returns to him next day to shampoo his body.
- 3:55:33As before, When a woman neither gives encouragement to a man nor avoids him,
- 3:55:39but hides herself and remains in some lonely place, she must be got
- 3:55:45at by means of the female servant who may be near her. If when
- 3:55:48called by the man, she acts in the same way, then she should
- 3:55:52be gained over by means of a skillful go between. But if she will
- 3:55:56have nothing to say to the man, he should consider well about her before
- 3:56:01he begins any further attempts to gain her over. Thus ends the examination of
- 3:56:07the state of a woman's mind. A man should first get himself introduced to
- 3:56:11a woman, and then carry on a conversation with her. He should give
- 3:56:16her hints of his love for her, and if he finds from her replies
- 3:56:20that she receives these hints favorably, he should then set to work to gain
- 3:56:24her over without any fear. A woman who shows her love by outward signs
- 3:56:28to the man at his first interview should be gained over very easily. In
- 3:56:33the same way a lascivious woman who, when addressed in loving words, replies
- 3:56:39openly in words expressive of her love, should be considered to have been gained
- 3:56:43over at that very moment. With regard to all women, whether they be
- 3:56:48wise, simple, or confiding, this rule is laid down that those who
- 3:56:52make an open manifestation of their love are easily gained over. About the business
- 3:57:01of a go between, if a woman has manifested her love or desire,
- 3:57:07either by signs or by motions of her body, and is afterwards rarely or
- 3:57:11never seen anywhere, or if a woman is met for the first time,
- 3:57:16the man should get a go between to approach her. Now the go between,
- 3:57:20having wheedled herself into the confidence of the woman by acting according to her
- 3:57:26disposition, should try to make her hate or despise her husband, by holding
- 3:57:31artful conversations with her, by telling her about medicines for getting children, by
- 3:57:37talking to her about other people, by tales of various kinds, by stories
- 3:57:43about the wives of other men, and by praising her beauty, wisdom,
- 3:57:48generosity, and good nature, and then saying to her, it is indeed
- 3:57:52a pity that you, who are so excellent a woman in every way,
- 3:57:56should be possessed of a husband of this kind, beautiful lady, he is
- 3:58:01not fit even to serve you. The go between should further talk to the
- 3:58:07woman about the weakness of the passion of her husband, his jealousy, his
- 3:58:11roguery, his ingratitude, his aversion to enjoyments, his dulness, his meanness,
- 3:58:18and all the other faults that he may have and with which she may
- 3:58:22be acquainted. She should particularly harp upon that fault or that failing by which
- 3:58:28the wife may appear to be the most affected. If the wife be a
- 3:58:31dear woman and the husband a hair man, then there would be no fault
- 3:58:35in that direction. But in the event of his being a hair man and
- 3:58:41she a mere woman or elephant woman, then this fault should be pointed out
- 3:58:45to her. Goni Caputra is of opinion that when it is the first affair
- 3:58:50of the woman, or when her love has only been very secretly shown,
- 3:58:54the man should then secure and send to her a go between with whom she
- 3:58:58may be already acquainted and in whom she confides. But to return to our
- 3:59:05subject, the go between should tell the woman about the obedience and love of
- 3:59:09the man, and as her confidence and affection increase, she should then explain
- 3:59:15to her the thing to be accomplished in the following way. Hear this,
- 3:59:18o, beautiful lady, that this man, born of a good family,
- 3:59:22having seen you, has gone mad on your account. The poor young man,
- 3:59:28who is tender by nature, has never been distressed in such a way
- 3:59:31before, and it is highly probable that he will succumb under his present affliction
- 3:59:37and experience the pains of death. If the woman listens with a favorable ear,
- 3:59:43then on the following day the go between, having observed marks of good
- 3:59:48spirits in her face, in her eyes, and in her manner of conversation,
- 3:59:52should again converse with her on the subject of the man, and should
- 3:59:56tell her the stories of Valhalia and Indra, of Sukuntala and Dushianti, and
- 4:00:03such others as may be fitted for the occasion. Footnotes. Alhalia was the
- 4:00:09wife of the sage Gautama. She was seduced by Indra, the king of
- 4:00:13the gods. Sakuntala was the heroine of one of the best, if not
- 4:00:20the best, of Hindu plays, and the best known in Sanskrit dramatic literature.
- 4:00:24It was first brought to notice by Sir William Jones, and has been
- 4:00:28well and poetically translated by doctor Monier Williams under the title of Sakuntala or The
- 4:00:35Lost Ring, an Indian drama translated into English prose and verse from the Sanskrit
- 4:00:41of Kalidasa and of footnotes. She should also describe to her the strength of
- 4:00:48the man, his talents, his skill in the sixty four sorts of enjoyments
- 4:00:54mentioned by Bob Prava, his good looks, and his liaison with some praiseworthy
- 4:00:58woman, no mans matter whether this last ever took place or not. In
- 4:01:03addition to this, the go between should carefully note the behavior of the woman,
- 4:01:09which, if favorable, would be as follows. She would address her
- 4:01:11with a smiling look, would seat herself close beside her, and ask her
- 4:01:16where have you been, What have you been doing, Where did you dine?
- 4:01:22Where did you sleep? Where have you been sitting? Moreover, the
- 4:01:26woman would meet the go between in lonely places and tell her stories. There
- 4:01:31would yawn contemplatively, draw long sighs, give her presents, remember her on
- 4:01:37occasions of festivals, dismiss her with a wish to see her again, and
- 4:01:43say to her jestingly, oh, well speaking woman, why do you speak
- 4:01:46these bad words to me, would discourse on the sin of her union with
- 4:01:52the man, would not tell her about any previous visits or conversations that she
- 4:01:56may have had with him, but wish to be asked about these. And
- 4:02:01lastly, would laugh at the man's desire, but would not reproach him in
- 4:02:05any way. Thus ends the behavior of the woman with the go between.
- 4:02:11When the woman manifests her love in the manner above described, the go between
- 4:02:16should increase it by bringing to her love tokens from the man. But if
- 4:02:20the woman be not acquainted with the man personally, the go between should win
- 4:02:24her over by extolling and praising his good qualities and by telling stories about his
- 4:02:30love for her. Here, Audulaka says that when a man or woman are
- 4:02:35not personally acquainted with each other and have not shown each other any signs of
- 4:02:39affection, the employment of a go between is useless. The followers of Babhavra,
- 4:02:46on the other hand, affirm that even though they be personally unacquainted but
- 4:02:50have shown each other's signs of affection, there is an occasion for the employment
- 4:02:54of a go between. Goni Kaputra asserts that a go between the should be
- 4:03:00employed, provided they are acquainted with each other, even though no signs of
- 4:03:05affection may have passed between them. Vetsiayana, however, lays it down that
- 4:03:09even though they may not be personally acquainted with each other and may not have
- 4:03:15shown each other any signs of affection, still they are both capable of placing
- 4:03:18confidence in a go between. Now, the go between should show the woman
- 4:03:24the presence, such as the betel nut in bettel leaves, the perfumes,
- 4:03:28the flowers, and the rings which the man may have given to her for
- 4:03:31the sake of the woman, and on these presents should be impressed the marks
- 4:03:35of the man's teeth and nails, and other signs. On the cloth that
- 4:03:41he may send, he should draw with saffron, both his hands joined together,
- 4:03:45as if in earnest entreaty. The go between should also show to the
- 4:03:50woman ornamental figures of various kinds cut in leaves, together with ear ornaments,
- 4:03:56and chaplets made of flowers containing love letters expressed of the desire of the man.
- 4:04:01Footnote it is presumed that something like the following French verses are intended.
- 4:04:07Cont hoor genra le pu profond homage vouleet vuquenfidet l' en change de language vousserle
- 4:04:16captive montesprit umncoeur, coujupuis d'ame vaubras serl gute lu bonneurs juvoutrey, maison vain
- 4:04:26coumncoeur a de lie, couche, ou se, papier, nousiree, voudir
- 4:04:31avexois, sousay ver lize le' premiere, maud vou verray, cam re mede
- 4:04:39il foetus mesmeu for these condon vouvois en vous m condon vous m u vou
- 4:04:48voisitan and a footnote, and she should cause her to send affectionate presents to
- 4:04:54the man in return. After they have mutually accepted each other's presence, than
- 4:05:00a meeting should be arranged between them. On the faith of the go between.
- 4:05:03The followers of Babhavra say that this meeting should take place at the time
- 4:05:07of going to the temple of a deity, or on occasions of fairs,
- 4:05:11garden parties, theatrical performances, marriages, sacrifices, festivals and funerals, as
- 4:05:18also at the time of going to the river to bathe, or at times
- 4:05:22of natural calamities, fear of robbers, or hostile invasions of the country.
- 4:05:28Footnote. It is supposed that storms, earthquakes, famines, and pestilent diseases
- 4:05:33are here alluded to and a footnote. Goni Kaputra is of opinion, however,
- 4:05:41that these meetings had better be brought about in the abodes of female friends,
- 4:05:45mendicants, astrologers and ascetics. But vets Yayana decides that that place is
- 4:05:50only well suited for the purpose, which has proper means of ingress and egress,
- 4:05:56and where arrangements have been made to prevent any accident occurrence, and when
- 4:06:01a man who has once entered the house can also leave it at the proper
- 4:06:05time without any disagreeable encounter. Now, go betweens or female messengers are of
- 4:06:11the following different kinds. One a go between who takes upon herself the whole
- 4:06:16burden of the business. Two a go between who does only a limited part
- 4:06:22of the business. Three a go between who is the bearer of a letter
- 4:06:26only. Four a go between acting on her own account, five the go
- 4:06:33between of an innocent young woman. Six a wife serving as a go between,
- 4:06:39seven a mute go between. Eight a go between who acts the part
- 4:06:46of the wind. One A woman who, having observed the mutual passion of
- 4:06:52a man and woman, brings them together and arranges it by the power of
- 4:06:56her own intellect. Such a one is called a go between, who takes
- 4:07:01upon herself the whole burden of the business. This kind of go between is
- 4:07:05chiefly employed when the man and the woman are already acquainted with each other and
- 4:07:09have conversed together, and in such cases she is set not only by the
- 4:07:15man, as is always done in all other cases, but by the woman
- 4:07:18also. The above name is also given to a go between who, perceiving
- 4:07:24that the man and the woman are suited to each other, tries to bring
- 4:07:28about a union between them, even though they be not acquainted with each other.
- 4:07:33Two. A go between who, perceiving that some part of the affair
- 4:07:37is already done, or that the advances on the part of the man are
- 4:07:41already made, completes the rest of the business, is called a go between
- 4:07:46who performs only a limited part of the business. Three. A go between
- 4:07:52who simply carries messages between a man and a woman who love each other but
- 4:07:58who cannot frequently meet, is called the bearer of a letter or message.
- 4:08:03This name is also given to one who is sent by either of the lovers
- 4:08:05to acquaint either the one or the other with the time and place of their
- 4:08:09meeting. Four. A woman who goes herself to a man and tells him
- 4:08:16of her having enjoyed sexual union with him in a dream, and expresses her
- 4:08:20anger at his wife, having rebuked him for calling her by the name of
- 4:08:24her rival instead of by her own name, And gives him something bearing the
- 4:08:30remarks of her teeth and nails, and informs him that she knew she was
- 4:08:33formally desired by him, and asks him privately whether she or his wife is
- 4:08:39the best looking. Such a person is called a woman who is a go
- 4:08:43between for herself. Now such a woman should be met and interviewed by the
- 4:08:48man in private and secretly. The above name is also given to a woman
- 4:08:52who, having made an agreement with some other woman to act as her go
- 4:08:56between, gains over the man to her her self by the means of making
- 4:09:01him personally acquainted with herself, and thus causes the other woman to fail.
- 4:09:07The same applies to a man who, acting as a go between for another,
- 4:09:11and having no previous connection with the woman gains her over for himself and
- 4:09:16thus causes the failure of the other man. Five. A woman who has
- 4:09:24gained the confidence of the innocent young wife of any man, and who has
- 4:09:28learned her secrets without exercising any pressure on her mind, and found out from
- 4:09:33her how her husband behaves to her. If this woman then teaches her the
- 4:09:37art of securing his favor and decorates her so as to show her love,
- 4:09:43and instructs her how and when to be angry or to pretend to be so.
- 4:09:48And then, having herself made marks of the nails and teeth on the
- 4:09:52body of the wife, gets the latter to send for her husband to show
- 4:09:56these marks to him and thus excite him for enjoyment. Such is called the
- 4:10:01go between of an innocent young woman. In such cases, the man should
- 4:10:05send replies to his wife through the same woman. Six. When a man
- 4:10:11gets his wife to gain the confidence of a woman whom he wants to enjoy,
- 4:10:16and to call on her and talk to her about the wisdom and ability
- 4:10:20of her husband, that wife is called a wife serving as a go between.
- 4:10:24In this case, the feelings of the woman with regard to the man
- 4:10:28should also be made known through the wife. Seven. When any man sends
- 4:10:33a girl or a female servant to any woman under some pretext or other and
- 4:10:39places a letter in her bouquet of flowers, or in her ear ornaments,
- 4:10:43or marks something about her with his teeth or nails, that girl or female
- 4:10:48servant is called a mute go between. In this case, the man should
- 4:10:54expect an answer from the woman through the same person. Eight. A person
- 4:11:00who carries a message to a woman which has a double meaning, or which
- 4:11:03relates to some past transactions, or which is unintelligible to other people is called
- 4:11:09a go between who acts the part of the wind. In this case,
- 4:11:13the reply should be asked for through the same woman. Thus ends the different
- 4:11:18kinds of go betweens. A female astrologer, a female servant, a female
- 4:11:24beggar, or a female artist are well acquainted with the business of a go
- 4:11:30between and very soon gain the confidence of other women. Any One of them
- 4:11:35can raise enmity between any two persons if she wishes to do so, or
- 4:11:39extol the loveliness of any woman that she wishes to praise, or describe the
- 4:11:43arts practiced by other women in sexual union. They can also speak highly of
- 4:11:48the love of a man, of his skill in sexual enjoyment, and of
- 4:11:54the desire of other women more beautiful even than the woman they are addressing for
- 4:11:58him, and explain the restraint under which he may be at home. Lastly,
- 4:12:05a go between can, by the artfulness of her conversation, unite a
- 4:12:09woman with a man, even though he may not have been thought of by
- 4:12:13her, or may have been considered beyond his aspirations. She can also bring
- 4:12:18back a man to a woman who, owing to some cause or other,
- 4:12:22has separated himself from her. End of Chapter four, Part five. Chapter
- 4:12:31five about the love of persons in authority, For the wives of other men,
- 4:12:39kings and their ministers have no access to the abodes of others, and
- 4:12:43moreover, their mode of living is constantly watched and observed and imitated by the
- 4:12:46people at large, just as the animal world, seeing the sunrise, get
- 4:12:52up after him, and when he sits in the evening, lie down again.
- 4:12:56In the same way. Persons in authority should not therefore do any improper
- 4:13:01act in public, as such are impossible from their position, and would be
- 4:13:05deserving of censure. But if they find that such an act is necessary to
- 4:13:09be done, they should make use of the proper means, as described in
- 4:13:13the following paragraphs. The headmen of the village, the king's officer employed there,
- 4:13:20and the man whose business it is to glean corn, can gain over
- 4:13:24female villagers simply by asking them. Footnote. This is a phrase used for
- 4:13:30a man who does the work of everybody, and who is fed by the
- 4:13:33whole village. End footnote. It is on this account that this class of
- 4:13:39women are called unchased women by voluptuaries. The union of the above mentioned men
- 4:13:46with this class of women takes place on the occasions of unpaid labor, of
- 4:13:50filling the granaries in their houses, of taking things in and out of the
- 4:13:54house, of cleaning the houses, of working in the fields, and of
- 4:13:58purchasing cut wool, flax, hemp, and thread, and at the season
- 4:14:03of the purchase, sale and exchange of various other articles, as well as
- 4:14:09at the time of doing various other works. In the same way, the
- 4:14:11superintendents of cowpens enjoy the women in the cowpens, and the officers who have
- 4:14:18the superintendents of widows, of the women who are without supporters, and of
- 4:14:22women who have left their husbands, have sexual intercourse with these women. The
- 4:14:28intelligent accomplished their object by wandering at night in the village, and while villagers
- 4:14:33also unite with the wives of their sons, being much alone with them.
- 4:14:37Lastly, the superintendents of markets have a great deal to do with the female
- 4:14:41villagers at the time of their making purchases in the market. During the festival
- 4:14:48of the eighth moon, that is, during the bright half of the month
- 4:14:50of Nagashasha, as also during the moonlight festival of the month of Kartika and
- 4:14:56the spring festival of Chetra, women of cities and towns generally visit the women
- 4:15:01of the king's harem in the royal palace. These visitors go to the several
- 4:15:07apartments of the women of the Harem as they are acquainted with them, and
- 4:15:11pass the night in conversation and improper sports and amusement, and go away in
- 4:15:16the morning. On such occasions, a female attendant of the king, previously
- 4:15:22acquainted with the woman whom the king desires, should loiter about and accost this
- 4:15:26woman when she sets out to go home, and induce her to come and
- 4:15:30see the amusing things in the palace. Previous to these festivals, even she
- 4:15:35should have caused it to be intimated to this woman that on the occasion of
- 4:15:39this festival, she would show her all the interesting things in the royal palace.
- 4:15:43Accordingly, she should show her the bower of the coral creeper, the
- 4:15:48garden house with its floor inlaid with precious stones, the bower of grapes,
- 4:15:52the building on the water, the secret passages in the walls of the palace,
- 4:15:58the pictures, the sporting animals, the machines, the birds, and
- 4:16:03the cages of the lions and the tigers. After this, when alone with
- 4:16:07her, she should tell her about the love of the King for her,
- 4:16:11and should describe to her the good fortune which would attend upon her union with
- 4:16:15the King, giving her at the time a strict promise of secrecy. If
- 4:16:21the woman does not accept the offer, she should conciliate and please her with
- 4:16:25handsome presents befitting the position of the King, and having accompanied her for some
- 4:16:30distance, should dismiss her with great affection. Two Or, having made the
- 4:16:36acquaintance of the husband of the woman whom the king desires, the wives of
- 4:16:41the king should get the wife to pay them a visit in the harem,
- 4:16:45And on this occasion a female attendant of the king having been sent thither,
- 4:16:48should act as above described. Three. Or one of the king's wives should
- 4:16:55get acquainted with the woman that the king desires by sending one of the female
- 4:16:59attendant to her, who should, on their becoming more intimate, induce her
- 4:17:03to come and see the royal abode. Afterwards, when she has visited the
- 4:17:08harem and acquired confidence, a female confidante of the king sent thither should act
- 4:17:15as before described. Four. Or the king's wife should invite the woman whom
- 4:17:21the king desires to come to the royal palace, so that she might see
- 4:17:25the practice of the art in which the king's wife may be skilled. And
- 4:17:29after she has come to the harem, a female attendant of the king sent
- 4:17:33thither should act as before described. Five. Or a female beggar in league
- 4:17:41with the king's wife should say to the woman desired by the king, and
- 4:17:45whose husband may have lost his wealth or may have some cause of fear from
- 4:17:48the King, this wife of the king has influence over him, and she
- 4:17:53is moreover naturally kind hearted. We must therefore go to her in this matter.
- 4:17:59I shall arrange for your entrance into the harem, and she will do
- 4:18:03away with all cause of danger and fear from the king. If the woman
- 4:18:07accepts this offer, the female beggar should take her two or three times to
- 4:18:11the harem, and the king's wife there should give her a promise of protection.
- 4:18:17After this, when the woman, delighted with her reception and promise of
- 4:18:21protection, again goes to the harem, then a female attendant of the king
- 4:18:26sent thither should act as directed. Six. What has been said above regarding
- 4:18:32the wife of one who has some cause of fear from the king applies also
- 4:18:37to the wives of those who seek service under the king, or who are
- 4:18:41oppressed by the king's ministers, or who are poor, or who are not
- 4:18:45satisfied with their position, or who are desirous of gaining the king's favor,
- 4:18:51or who wish to become famous among the people, or who are oppressed by
- 4:18:56the members of their own caste, or who want to injure their caste fellows,
- 4:19:00or who are spies of the king, or who have any other object
- 4:19:03to attain. Seven. Lastly, if the woman desired by the king be
- 4:19:10living with some person who is not her husband, then the king should cause
- 4:19:14her to be arrested, and, having made her a slave on account of
- 4:19:18her crime, should place her in the harem. Or the king should cause
- 4:19:22his ambassador to quarrel with the husband of the woman desired by him, and
- 4:19:26should then imprison her as the wife of an enemy of the king, and
- 4:19:30by this means should place her in the harem. Thus ends the means of
- 4:19:36gaining over the wives of others. Secretly, the above mentioned ways of gaining
- 4:19:41over the wives of other men are chiefly practiced in the palaces of kings.
- 4:19:45But a king should never enter the abode of another person. For Abhira,
- 4:19:51the king of the katas was killed by a washerman while in the house of
- 4:19:55another and in the same way, Jayasana, the king of the Kashis,
- 4:19:59was slain by the sk commandant of his cavalry. Footnote. The exact date
- 4:20:03of the reign of these kings is not known. It is supposed to have
- 4:20:07been about the beginning of the Christian era end footnote. But according to the
- 4:20:14customs of some countries, there are facilities for kings to make love to the
- 4:20:18wives of other men. Thus, in the country of the Andras, the
- 4:20:22newly married daughters of the people thereof enter the king's harem with some presents.
- 4:20:26On the tenth day of their marriage and having been enjoyed by the king,
- 4:20:32are then dismissed footnote Andras is the modern country of Tailangam, which is to
- 4:20:38the south of rajamundri En footnote. In the country of the Vatsagumas footnote supposed
- 4:20:48to be a tract of the country to the south of mahwa En footnote,
- 4:20:53the wives of the chief ministers approach the king at night to serve him.
- 4:20:57In the country of the Vadharrbas footnote now known by the name of Behar,
- 4:21:03its capital was Kundimpura, which has been identified with the modern Umravati and footnote,
- 4:21:12the beautiful wives of the inhabitants pass a month in the king's harem under
- 4:21:17the pretense of affection for the king. In the country of the Apparatakas footnote
- 4:21:23also called Apparentakas, being the northern and southern kankan And footnote, the people
- 4:21:30gave their beautiful wives as presents to the ministers and the kings. And lastly,
- 4:21:36in the country the Sarashtras footnote the modern provinces of Katiawar, its capital
- 4:21:42was called Ghirinakunda or the modern junagur And footnote. The women of the city
- 4:21:52and the country enter the Royal Harem for the king's pleasure, either together or
- 4:21:56separately. There are also two verses on the sad subject as follows. The
- 4:22:02above and other ways are the means employed in different countries by kings with regard
- 4:22:07to the wives of other persons. But a king who as the welfare of
- 4:22:11his people at heart, should not on any account put them into practice.
- 4:22:15A king who has conquered the six enemies of mankind becomes the master of the
- 4:22:19whole earth. Footnote. These are lust, anger, avarice, spiritual ignorance,
- 4:22:27pride, and envy, and footnote Chapter six about the women of the
- 4:22:34Royal Harem and of the keeping of one's own wife. The women of the
- 4:22:41royal Harem cannot see or meet any men on account of their being strictly guarded.
- 4:22:45Neither do they have their desires satisfied, because their only husband is common
- 4:22:51to many wives. For this reason, among themselves they give pleasure to each
- 4:22:55other in various ways, as now described, having dressed the daughters of their
- 4:23:00nurses, or their female friends, or their female attendants. Like men.
- 4:23:04They accomplish their object by means of bulbs, roots, and fruits, having
- 4:23:10the form of the lingam, or they lie down upon the statue of a
- 4:23:14male figure, in which the lingam is visible and erect. Some kings who
- 4:23:18are compassionate take or apply certain medicines to enable them to enjoy many wives in
- 4:23:25one night, simply for the purpose of satisfying the desire of their women,
- 4:23:30though they perhaps have no desire of their own. Others enjoy with great affection
- 4:23:36only those wives that they particularly like, while others only take them according as
- 4:23:41the turn of each wife arrives in due course. Such are the ways of
- 4:23:45enjoyment prevalent in Eastern countries, and what is said about the means of enjoyment
- 4:23:49of the female is also applicable to the male by means of their female attendants.
- 4:23:56The ladies of the royal harem generally get men into their apartments in the
- 4:24:00disguise or dress of women. Their female attendants and the daughters of their nurses,
- 4:24:06who are acquainted with their secrets, should exert themselves to get men to
- 4:24:10come to the harem in this way, by telling them of the good fortune
- 4:24:14attending it, and by describing the facilities of entering and leaving the palace.
- 4:24:18The large size of the premises, the carelessness of the sentinels, and the
- 4:24:23irregularities of the attendants about the persons of the royal wives. But these women
- 4:24:29should never induce a man to enter the harem by telling him falsehoods, for
- 4:24:33that would probably lead to his destruction. As for the man himself, he
- 4:24:38had better not enter a royal harem, even though it may be easily accessible,
- 4:24:44on account of the numerous disasters to which he may be exposed there.
- 4:24:48If, however, he wants to enter it, he should first ascertain whether
- 4:24:52there is an easy way to get out, whether it is closely surrounded by
- 4:24:56the pleasure garden, whether it has separating closures belonging to it, whether the
- 4:25:02sentinels are careless, whether the king has gone abroad. And then when he
- 4:25:07is called by the women of the harem, he should carefully observe the localities
- 4:25:11and enter by the way pointed out by them. If he is able to
- 4:25:15manage it, he should hang about the harem every day, and, under
- 4:25:19some pretext or other, make friends with the sentinels, and show himself attached
- 4:25:25to the female attendants of the harem, who may have become acquainted with his
- 4:25:29design, and to whom he should express his regret at not being able to
- 4:25:33obtain the object of his desire. Lastly, he should cause the whole business
- 4:25:37of a go between to be done by the woman who may have access to
- 4:25:41the harem, and he should be careful to be able to recognize the emissaries
- 4:25:45of the king. When a go between has no access to the harem,
- 4:25:51then the man should stand in some place where the lady, whom he loves
- 4:25:55and whom he is anxious to enjoy, can be seen. That place is
- 4:26:00occupied by the king's sentinels. He should then disguise himself as a female attendant
- 4:26:04of the lady who comes to the place or passes by it. When she
- 4:26:10looks at him, he should let her know his feelings by outward signs and
- 4:26:14gestures, and should show her pictures, things with double meanings, chaplets of
- 4:26:18flowers, and rings. He should carefully mark the answer she gives, whether
- 4:26:23by word or by sign or by gesture, and should then try and get
- 4:26:27into the harem. If he is certain of her coming to some particular place,
- 4:26:33he should conceal himself there and at the appointed time should enter along with
- 4:26:37her as one of the guards. He may also go in and out concealed
- 4:26:41in a folded bed or bed covering, or with his body made invisible by
- 4:26:47means of external applications. Footnote the way to make oneself invisible, The knowledge
- 4:26:53of the art of transmigration, or changing ourselves or others into any shape or
- 4:26:59formed by the use use of charms and spells, The power of being in
- 4:27:03two places at once, and other occult sciences are frequently referred to in all
- 4:27:07Oriental literature and footnote. A recipe for one of which is as follows.
- 4:27:15The heart of an ik numen, the fruit of the long gourd or tombi,
- 4:27:19and the eyes of the serpent should all be burnt without letting out the
- 4:27:22smoke. The ashes should then be ground and mixed in equal quantities with water.
- 4:27:29By putting this mixture upon the eyes, a man can go about unseen.
- 4:27:33Other means of invisibility are prescribed by Dujana, Brahmans and Jogishiris. Again,
- 4:27:41the man may enter the harem during the festival of the eighth moon in
- 4:27:44the month of Nargashisha, and during the moonlight festivals when the female attendants of
- 4:27:48the harem are all busily occupied or in confusion. The following principles are laid
- 4:27:55down on this subject. The entrance of young men into harem and their exit
- 4:28:00from them generally take place when things are being brought into the palace or when
- 4:28:06things are being taken out of it, or when drinking festivals are going on,
- 4:28:10or when the female attendants are in a hurry, or when the residence
- 4:28:14of some of the royal ladies is being changed, or when the king's wives
- 4:28:18go to gardens or to fairs, or when they enter the palace on their
- 4:28:22return from them, or lastly, when the king is absent on a long
- 4:28:26pilgrimage. The women of the royal harem know each other's secrets, and having
- 4:28:32but one object to attain, they give assistance to each other. A young
- 4:28:36man who enjoys all of them, and who is common to them all can
- 4:28:41continue enjoying his union with them as long as it is kept quiet and is
- 4:28:45not known abroad. Now in the country of the Arparatacas, the royal ladies
- 4:28:52are not well protected, and consequently many young men are passed into the harem
- 4:28:56by the women who have access to the royal palaces. The wives of the
- 4:29:00king of the Ahira country accomplish their objects with those sentinels in the harem who
- 4:29:06bear the names of Kashtrius the royal ladies in the country of the Vatsagumas cause
- 4:29:11such men as are suitable to enter into the harem along with their female messengers.
- 4:29:18In the country of the Vaidharbas, that sons of the royal ladies enter
- 4:29:22the royal Harem when they please and enjoy the women with the exception of their
- 4:29:26own mothers. In the stri Rajia, the wives of the king are enjoyed
- 4:29:32by his caste fellows and relations. In the Gandha country, the royal wives
- 4:29:37are enjoyed by Brahmans, friends, servants and slaves. In the Samdava country,
- 4:29:44servants, foster children and other persons like them enjoy the women of the
- 4:29:48harem. In the country the Himavatas, adventurous citizens bribe the sentinels and enter
- 4:29:55the harem. In the country the Vanyas and the Kalmyas, Brahmans with the
- 4:30:00knowledge of the king enter the harem under the pretense of giving flowers to the
- 4:30:04ladies and speak with them from behind a curtain, and from such conversation union
- 4:30:10afterwards takes place. Lastly, the women in the harem of the king of
- 4:30:15the praccias conceal one young man in the harem for every batch of nine or
- 4:30:18ten of the women, thus act the wives of others. For these reasons,
- 4:30:26a man should guard his own wife. Old authors say that a king
- 4:30:30should select for sentinels in his harem such men as have their freedom from cardinal
- 4:30:34desires well tested. But such men, though free themselves from carnal desire,
- 4:30:40by reason of their fear or avarice, may cause other persons to enter the
- 4:30:45harem, and therefore Goni Kaputra says that kings should place such men in the
- 4:30:49harem as may have had their freedom from carnal desires, their fear, and
- 4:30:55their avarice well tested. Lastly, Veatsiayana says that under the use the influence
- 4:31:00of dharma, people might be admitted and should be selected who are free from
- 4:31:04carnal desires, fear, avarice, and dharma footnotes. This may be considered
- 4:31:11as meaning religious influence and alludes to persons who may be gained over by that
- 4:31:17means. It may be noted from the above remarks that eunuchs do not appear
- 4:31:21to have been employed in the king's harem in those days, though they seem
- 4:31:25to have been employed for other purposes. See Part two, page forty three,
- 4:31:30end footnote. The followers above Havreya say that a man should cause his
- 4:31:37wife to associate with a young woman who would tell him the secrets of other
- 4:31:41people, and thus find out from her about his wife's chastity. But Vitziayana
- 4:31:48says that as wicked persons are always successful with women, a man should not
- 4:31:52cause his innocent wife to be corrupted by bringing her into the company of a
- 4:31:56deceitful woman. The follow are the causes of the destruction of a woman's chastity,
- 4:32:03always going into society and sitting in company, absence of restraint, the
- 4:32:10loose habits of her husband, want of caution in her relations with other men,
- 4:32:15continued in long absence of her husband, living in a foreign country,
- 4:32:22destruction of her love and feelings by her husband, the company of loose women,
- 4:32:27the jealousy of her husband. There are also the following verses on the
- 4:32:33subject. A clever man learning from the Shastras the ways of winning over the
- 4:32:38wives of other people is never deceived in the case of his own wives.
- 4:32:44No one, however, should make use of these ways for seducing the wives
- 4:32:48of others, because they do not always succeed and moreover often cause disasters and
- 4:32:52the destruction of dharma and artha. This book, which is intended for the
- 4:32:57good of the people and teach them the ways of guarding their own wives,
- 4:33:02should not be made use of merely for gaining over the wives of others.
- 4:33:08End of Part five, Part six about Courtesans. Introductory remarks. This Part
- 4:33:18six about courtesans was prepared by Vietziayana from a treatise on the subject that was
- 4:33:22written by Dataka for the women of Polytaputra the modern Patna, some two thousand
- 4:33:29years ago. Dataka's work does not appear to be extant now, but this
- 4:33:33abridgment of it is very clever and quite equal to any of the productions of
- 4:33:38Emil Zola and other writers of the realistic school of today. Although a great
- 4:33:45deal has been written on the subject of the courtesan, nowhere will be found
- 4:33:48a better description of her, of her belongings, of her ideas, and
- 4:33:52of the working of her mind than is contained in the following pages. The
- 4:33:57details of the domestic and social life of the early Hindus would not be complete
- 4:34:02without mention of the courtesan, and Part six is entirely devoted to this subject.
- 4:34:07The Hindus have ever had the good sense to recognize courtzens as a part
- 4:34:11and portion of human society, and so long as they behaved themselves with decency
- 4:34:17and propriety, they were regarded with a certain respect. Anyhow, they have
- 4:34:22never been treated in the East with that brutality and contempt so common in the
- 4:34:26West, while their education has always been of a superior kind to that bestowed
- 4:34:30upon the rest of women kind in Oriental countries. In the earlier days,
- 4:34:36the well educated Hindu dancing girl and kurtazan doubtless resembled the hetera of the Greeks,
- 4:34:42and being educated and amusing, were far more acceptable as companions than the
- 4:34:48generality of the married or unmarried women of that period. At all times and
- 4:34:52in all countries, there has ever been a little rivalry between the chaste and
- 4:34:56the unchaste. But while some when women are born courtesans and follow the instincts
- 4:35:03of their nature in every class of society, it has been truly said by
- 4:35:07some authors that every woman has got an inkling of the profession in her nature,
- 4:35:11and does her best as a general rule to make herself agreeable to the
- 4:35:15male sex. The subtlety of women, their wonderful perceptive powers, their knowledge,
- 4:35:22and their intuitive appreciation of men and things are all shown in the following
- 4:35:26pages, which may be looked upon as a concentrated essence that has been since
- 4:35:30worked up into detail by many writers in every quarter of the globe. Chapter
- 4:35:37one of the causes of a courtesan resorting to men, of the means of
- 4:35:42attaching to herself the man desired, and of the kind of man that it
- 4:35:47is desirable to be acquainted with. By having intercourse with men, courtesans obtain
- 4:35:55sexual pleasure as well as their own maintenance. Now, when a courtesan takes
- 4:36:00up with a man from love, the action is natural, but when she
- 4:36:03resorts to him for the purpose of getting money, her action is artificial or
- 4:36:08forced. Even in the latter case, however, she should conduct herself as
- 4:36:14if her love were indeed natural, because men repose their confidence on those women
- 4:36:18who apparently love them. In making known her love to the man, she
- 4:36:22should show an entire freedom from avarice, and for the sake of her future
- 4:36:26credit, she should abstain from acquiring money from him By unlawful means. A
- 4:36:33courtesan, well dressed in wearing her ornaments, should sit or stand at the
- 4:36:37door of her house, and without exposing herself too much, should look on
- 4:36:41the public road, so as to be seen by the passers by she being
- 4:36:45like an object on view for sale. Footnote. In England, the lower
- 4:36:52classes of courtesans walk the streets. In India and other places in the East,
- 4:36:56they sit at the windows or at the doors of their houses and footnote.
- 4:37:03She should form friendships with such persons as would enable her to separate men
- 4:37:07from other women and attach them to herself, and repair her own misfortunes,
- 4:37:14to acquire wealth, and to protect her from being bullied or set upon by
- 4:37:18persons with whom she may have dealings of some kind or another. These persons
- 4:37:22are the guards of the town or the police, the officers of the courts
- 4:37:29of justice, astrologers, powerful men or men with interest, learned men,
- 4:37:34teachers of the sixty four arts, pithematis or confidants, vitas or parasites,
- 4:37:42vitushakas or jesterres, flower sellers, perfumers, vendors of spirits, washermen,
- 4:37:52barbers and beggars, and such other persons as may be found necessary for the
- 4:37:59particular object to be acquired. The following kinds of men may be taken up
- 4:38:03with simply for the purpose of getting their money. Men of independent income,
- 4:38:08young men, men who are free from any ties, Men who hold places
- 4:38:14of authority under the king, Men who have secured their means of livelihood without
- 4:38:18difficulty. Men possessed of unfailing sources of income, Men who consider themselves handsome,
- 4:38:27men who are always praising themselves. One who is a eunuch but wishes
- 4:38:33to be thought a man. One who hates his equals, one who is
- 4:38:37naturally liberal, one who has influenced with the king or his ministers, one
- 4:38:44who is always fortunate, one who is proud of his wealth, one who
- 4:38:49disobeys the orders of his elders, one upon whom the members of his caste
- 4:38:55keep an eye, the only son whose father is wealthy, an ascetic who
- 4:39:00is internally troubled with desired, a brave man, a physician of the king
- 4:39:07previous acquaintance. On the other hand, those who are possessed of excellent qualities
- 4:39:14are to be resorted to for the sake of love and fame. Such men
- 4:39:18are as follows, men of high birth, learned with a good knowledge of
- 4:39:22the world, and doing the proper things at the proper times. Poets,
- 4:39:27good storytellers, eloquent men, Energetic men, skilled in various arts, far
- 4:39:34seeing into the future, possessed of great minds, full of perseverance, of
- 4:39:40a firm devotion, free from anger, liberal affectionate to their parents, and
- 4:39:45with a liking for all social gatherings. Skilled in completing verses begun by others
- 4:39:52and in various other sports, free from all disease, possessed of a perfect
- 4:39:56body, strong and not addicted to drinking, powerful and sexual enjoyment, Sociable,
- 4:40:03showing love towards women and attracting their hearts to himself, but not entirely
- 4:40:08devoted to them. Possessed of independent means of livelihood, free from envy,
- 4:40:15and last of all, free from suspicion. Such are the good qualities of
- 4:40:19a man. The woman should also have the following characteristics. She should be
- 4:40:26possessed of beauty and amiability with auspicious body marks. She should have a liking
- 4:40:30for good qualities in other people, as also a liking for wealth. She
- 4:40:36should take delight in sexual unions resulting from love, and should be of a
- 4:40:41firm mind and of the same class as the man. With regard to sexual
- 4:40:45enjoyment, she should always be anxious to acquire and obtain experience and knowledge,
- 4:40:51to be free from avarice, and always have a liking for social gatherings and
- 4:40:56for the arts. The following are the ordinary quality of all women. To
- 4:41:00be possessed of intelligence, good disposition, and good manners. To be straightforward
- 4:41:07in behavior and to be grateful, To consider well the future before doing anything,
- 4:41:12To possess activity, To be of consistent behavior, and to have a
- 4:41:17knowledge of the proper times and places for doing things. To speak always without
- 4:41:22meanness, loud laughter, malignity, anger, avarice, dullness, or stupidity.
- 4:41:30To have a knowledge of the Kamisutra, and to be skilled in all
- 4:41:33the arts connected with it. The faults of the women are to be known
- 4:41:37by the absence of any of the above mentioned good qualities. The following kinds
- 4:41:44of men are not fit to be resorted to by courtesans. One who is
- 4:41:48consumptive, one who is sickly, one whose mouth contains worms, one whose
- 4:41:55breath smells like human excrement, one whose wife is dear to him, one
- 4:42:00who speaks harshly, one who is always suspicious, one who is avaricious,
- 4:42:07one who is pitiless, one who is a thief, one who is self
- 4:42:11conceited, one who has a liking for sorcery, one who does not care
- 4:42:15for respect or disrespect, one who can be gained over, even by his
- 4:42:21enemies by means of money, and lastly, one who is extremely bashful.
- 4:42:27Ancient authors are of opinion that the causes of a courtesan resorting to men are
- 4:42:33love, fear, money, pleasure, returning some act of enmity, curiosity,
- 4:42:41sorrow, constant intercourse, dharma, celebrity, compassion, the desire of
- 4:42:48having a friend, shame, the likeness of the man to some beloved person,
- 4:42:55the search after good fortune, the getting rid of the love of somebody
- 4:42:59else, the being of the same class as the man with respect to sexual
- 4:43:03union, living in the same place, constancy, and poverty. But Vitziayana
- 4:43:11decides that desire of wealth, freedom from his fortune, and love are the
- 4:43:15only causes that affect the union of courtesans with men. Now, a courtesan
- 4:43:22should not sacrifice money to her love, because money is the chief thing to
- 4:43:26be attended to. But in cases of fear, et cetera. She should
- 4:43:30pay regard to strength and other qualities. Moreover, even though she be invited
- 4:43:36by any man to join him, she should not at once consent to a
- 4:43:40union, because men are apt to despise things which are easily acquired. On
- 4:43:45such occasions, she should first send the shampooers, and the singers, and
- 4:43:49the jesters, who may be in her service or in their absence, the
- 4:43:53pithematis, or confidants, and others to find out the state of his feelings
- 4:44:00and the condition of his mind. By means of these persons, she should
- 4:44:03ascertain whether the man is pure or impure, affected or the reverse, capable
- 4:44:10of attachment or indifferent, liberal or niggardly. And if she finds him to
- 4:44:15her liking, she should then employ the vita and others to attach his mind
- 4:44:19to her. Accordingly, the pithematis should bring the man to her house under
- 4:44:26the pretense of seeing the fights of quails, cocks and rams, of hearing
- 4:44:30the mina a kind of starling talk, or of seeing some other spectacle,
- 4:44:37or the practice of some art or he may take the woman to the abode
- 4:44:41of the man. After this, when the man comes to her house,
- 4:44:45the woman should give him something capable of producing curiosity and love in his heart,
- 4:44:49such as an affectionate present, telling him that it was specially designed for
- 4:44:55his use. She should also amuse him for a long time, telling him
- 4:45:00such stories and doing such things as he may take most delight in. When
- 4:45:04he goes away, she should frequently send to him a female attendant skilled in
- 4:45:10carrying on a jesting conversation, and also a small present. At the same
- 4:45:15time, she should also sometimes go to him herself, under the pretense of
- 4:45:18some business, and accompanied by the Pithemarta. Thus then the means of attaching
- 4:45:25to herself the man desired. There are also some verses on the subject,
- 4:45:30as follows. When a lover comes to her abode, a courtesan should give
- 4:45:34him a mixture of betel leaves and betel nut, garlands of flowers, and
- 4:45:40perfumed ointments, and, showing her skill in arts, should entertain him with
- 4:45:44a long conversation. She should also give him some loving presents, and make
- 4:45:48an exchange of her own things with his, and at the same time should
- 4:45:52show him her skill in sexual enjoyment. When a courtizan is thus united with
- 4:45:57her lover, she should always delight him by affectionate gifts, by conversation,
- 4:46:03and by the application of tender means of enjoyment. Chapter two of living like
- 4:46:11a wife. When a Cortizan is living as a wife with her lover,
- 4:46:15she should behave like a chaste woman and do everything to his satisfaction. Her
- 4:46:21duty in this respect, in short, is that she should give him pleasure,
- 4:46:26but should not become attached to him, though behaving as if she were
- 4:46:30really attached. Now, the following is the manner in which she is to
- 4:46:33conduct herself. So as to accomplish the above mentioned purpose. She should have
- 4:46:38a mother dependent on her, one who should be represented as very harsh and
- 4:46:44who looked upon money as her chief object in life. In the event of
- 4:46:48there being no mother, that an old and confidential nurse should play the same
- 4:46:52role. The mother or nurse, on their part, should appear to be
- 4:46:56displeased with the lover and force take her away from him. The woman herself
- 4:47:03should always show pretended anger, dejection, fear, and shame on this account,
- 4:47:07but should not disobey the mother or nurse. At any time. She
- 4:47:11should make out to the mother or nurse that the man is suffering from bad
- 4:47:15health, and making this a pretext of going to see him, she should
- 4:47:19go. On that account. She is moreover to do the following things for
- 4:47:25the purpose of gaining the man's favor, Sending her female attendant to bring the
- 4:47:30flowers used by him on the previous day in order that she may use them
- 4:47:34herself as a mark of affection. Also asking for the mixture of betel nut
- 4:47:38and leaves that have remained uneaten by him, expressing wonder at his knowledge of
- 4:47:45sexual intercourse and the several means of enjoyment used by him, learning from him
- 4:47:51the sixty four kinds of pleasure mentioned by Bathravra, continually practicing the ways of
- 4:47:56enjoyment as taught by him and according to his life, keeping his secrets,
- 4:48:02telling him her own desires and secrets, concealing her anger, never neglecting him
- 4:48:08on the bed when he turns his face towards her, touching any parts of
- 4:48:11his body according to his wish, kissing and embracing him when he is asleep,
- 4:48:18looking at him with apparent anxiety when he is wrapped in thought or thinking
- 4:48:22of some other subject than herself, showing neither complete shamelessness nor excessive bashfulness when
- 4:48:29he meets her or sees her standing on the terrace of her house from the
- 4:48:33public road, hating his enemies, loving those who are dear to him,
- 4:48:37showing a liking for that which he likes, being in high or low spirits
- 4:48:42according to the state that he is in himself, expressing a curiosity to see
- 4:48:48his wives, not continuing her anger for a long time, suspecting even the
- 4:48:53marks and wounds made by herself with her nails and teeth on his body to
- 4:48:59have been made by some other woman, keeping her love for him unexpressed by
- 4:49:03words, but showing it by deeds and signs and hints, remaining silent when
- 4:49:10he is asleep, intoxicated, or sick, being very attentive when he describes
- 4:49:15as good actions and reciting them afterwards to his praise and benefit, giving witty
- 4:49:21replies to him if he be sufficiently attached to her, listening to all his
- 4:49:26stories except those that relate to her rivals, expressing feelings of dejection and sorrow
- 4:49:33if he sighs, yawns, or falls down, pronouncing the words live long
- 4:49:37when he sneezes, pretending to be ill, or to have the desire of
- 4:49:42pregnancy, when she feels dejected, abstaining from praising the good qualities of anybody
- 4:49:48else, and from censuring those who have possess the same faults as her own,
- 4:49:52man, wearing anything that may have been given to her by him,
- 4:49:57abstaining from putting on her ornaments, and from taking food when he is in
- 4:50:02pain, sick, low spirited, or suffering from misfortune, and condoling or
- 4:50:07lamenting with him over the same, wishing to accompany him if he happens to
- 4:50:12leave the country himself, or if he be banished from it by the king,
- 4:50:18expressing a desire not to live after him, telling him that the whole
- 4:50:22object and desire of her life was to be united with him, offering previously
- 4:50:27promise sacrifices to the deity when he acquires wealth or has some desire fulfilled,
- 4:50:33or when he has recovered from some illness or disease, putting on ornaments every
- 4:50:38day, not acting too freely with him, reciting his name and the name
- 4:50:44of his family in her songs, placing his hand on her loins, bosom,
- 4:50:48and forehead, and falling asleep after feeling the pleasure of his touch,
- 4:50:53sitting on his lap and falling asleep there, Wishing to have a child by
- 4:50:59him, desiring not to live longer than he does, abstaining from revealing his
- 4:51:03secrets to others, dissuading him from vows and fasts by saying, let the
- 4:51:11sin fall upon me, keeping vows and fasts along with him when it is
- 4:51:15impossible to change his mind on the subject, telling him that vows and fasts
- 4:51:21are difficult to be observed even by herself when she has any dispute with him
- 4:51:26about them, looking on her own wealth and his without any distinction, abstaining
- 4:51:32from going to public assemblies without him, and accompanying him when he desires her
- 4:51:37to do so, taking delight in using things previously used by him, and
- 4:51:42eating food that he has left uneaten, venerating his family, his disposition,
- 4:51:48his skill in the arts, his learning, his caste, his complexion,
- 4:51:53his native country, his friends, his good qualities, his age, and
- 4:51:59his sweet emperor, asking him to sing and to do other such like things
- 4:52:03if able to do them, going to him without paying any regard to fear,
- 4:52:07to cold, to heat, or to rain, saying with regard to
- 4:52:11the next world, that he should be her lover even there, adapting her
- 4:52:17tastes, disposition, and actions to his liking, abstaining from sorcery, disputing
- 4:52:23continually with her mother on the subject of going to him, and when forcibly
- 4:52:29taken by her mother to some other place, expressing her desire to die by
- 4:52:33taking poison, by starving herself to death, by stabbing herself with some weapon,
- 4:52:38or by hanging herself, and lastly assuring the man of her constancy and
- 4:52:44love by means of her agents, and receiving money herself, but abstaining from
- 4:52:48any dispute with her mother with regard to pecuniary matters. When the man sets
- 4:52:55out on a journey, she should make him swear that he will return quickly,
- 4:52:59and in his absence, should put aside her vows of worshiping the deity,
- 4:53:03and should wear no ornaments except those that are lucky. If the time
- 4:53:08fixed for his return is past, she should endeavor to ascertain the real time
- 4:53:12of his return from omens, from the reports of the people, and from
- 4:53:17the positions of the planets, the moon, and the stars. On occasions
- 4:53:22of amusement and of auspicious dreams, she should say, let me be soon
- 4:53:27united to him. If moreover she feels melancholy or sees any inauspicious omen,
- 4:53:34she should perform some rite to appease the deity. When the man does return
- 4:53:40home, she should worship the god Keema, that is the Indian Cupid,
- 4:53:45and offer oblations to other deities. And having caused a pot filled with water
- 4:53:49to be brought by her friends, she should perform the worship and honor of
- 4:53:53the crow who eats the offerings which we make to the mains of deceased relations.
- 4:54:00The first visit is over, she should ask her lover also to perform
- 4:54:03certain rites, and this he will do if he is sufficiently attached to her.
- 4:54:08Now, a man is said to be sufficiently attached to a woman when
- 4:54:12his love is disinterested, when he has the same object in view as his
- 4:54:17beloved one, when he is quite free from any suspicions on her account,
- 4:54:22and when he is indifferent to money with regard to her. Such is the
- 4:54:26manner of a courtesan living with a man like a wife. And set forth
- 4:54:30here for the sake of guidance from the rules of Dataka. What is not
- 4:54:34laid down here should be practiced according to the custom of the people and the
- 4:54:38nature of each individual man. There are also two verses on the subject,
- 4:54:45as follows. The extent of the love of women is not known even to
- 4:54:49those who are the objects of their affection. On account of its subtlety,
- 4:54:53and on account of the avarice and natural intelligence of womankind, are hardly ever
- 4:55:00known in their true light. Though they may love men and become indifferent towards
- 4:55:04them, they may give them delight or abandon them, or may extract from
- 4:55:10them all the wealth that they may possess. End of Chapter two, Part
- 4:55:15six, Chapter three. Of the means of getting money, of the signs
- 4:55:19of the change of a lover's feelings, and of the way to get rid
- 4:55:22of him. Money is got out of a lover in two ways, that
- 4:55:30is, by natural or lawful means, and by artifices. Old authors are
- 4:55:34of opinion that when a courtesan can get as much money as she wants from
- 4:55:38her lover, she should not make use of artifice. But Vetsyayana lays down
- 4:55:44that though she may get some money from him by natural means, yet when
- 4:55:48she makes use of artifasts, he gives her doubly more. And therefore artifists
- 4:55:52should be resorted to for the purpose of extorting money from him at all events.
- 4:55:57Now the artifice is to be used for getting money from her lover are
- 4:56:00as follows. First taking money from him on different occasions for the purpose of
- 4:56:07purchasing various articles such as ornaments, food, drink, flowers, perfumes,
- 4:56:11and cloths, and either not buying them or getting from him more than their
- 4:56:17cost. Second, praising his intelligence to his face. Third pretending to be
- 4:56:23obliged to make gifts on occasion of festivals connected with vows, trees, gardens,
- 4:56:29temples, or tanks. Footnote. On the completion of a vow,
- 4:56:34a festival takes place. Some trees, such as the peepool and Banyan trees
- 4:56:40are invested with sacred threads like the Brahmins, and on the occasion of this
- 4:56:44ceremony a festival is given. In the same way, when gardens are made
- 4:56:48and tanks or temples built, then also festivals are observed and footnote. Fourth
- 4:56:56pretending that, at the time of going to his house heard jewels have been
- 4:57:00stolen, either by the king's guards or by robbers. Fifth alleging that her
- 4:57:06property has been destroyed by fire, by the falling of her house, or
- 4:57:10by the carelessness of her servants. Six pretending to have lost the ornaments of
- 4:57:15her lover along with her own Seventh, causing him to hear through other people
- 4:57:21of the expenses incurred by her in coming to see him. Eighth, contracting
- 4:57:26debts for the sake of her lover. Nin disputing with her mother on account
- 4:57:33of some expense incurred by her for her lover, and which was not approved
- 4:57:37of by her mother. Tenth not going to parties and festivities in the houses
- 4:57:42of her friends for the want of presence to make to them, she having
- 4:57:47previously informed her lover of the valuable presence given to her by these very friends.
- 4:57:52Eleven, Not performing certain festive rites under the pretense that she has no
- 4:57:59money to perform them with. Twelfth, engaging artists to do something for her
- 4:58:04lover. Thirteen, entertaining physicians and ministers for the purpose of attaining some object
- 4:58:12Fourteenth assisting friends and benefactors, both on festive occasions and in misfortune, Fifteenth
- 4:58:21performing household rites. Sixteen, having to pay the expenses of the ceremony of
- 4:58:27marriage of the son of a female friend, Seventeen, having to satisfy curious
- 4:58:33wishes during her state of pregnancy, Eighteen pretending to be ill and charging her
- 4:58:41cost of treatment. Nineteen having to remove the troubles of a friend. Twentieth
- 4:58:48selling some of her ornaments so as to give her lover a present. Twenty
- 4:58:53first, pretending to sell some of her ornaments, furniture, or cooking utensils
- 4:58:59to a train who has been already tutored how to behave in the matter.
- 4:59:03Twenty second, having to buy cooking utensils of greater value than those of other
- 4:59:08people, so that they might be more easily distinguished and not changed for others
- 4:59:14of an inferior description. Twenty third, remembering the former favors of her lover
- 4:59:21and causing them always to be spoken of by her friends and followers. Twenty
- 4:59:26fourth, informing her lover of the great gains of other courtesans. Twenty fifth,
- 4:59:33describing before them, and in the presence of her lover, her own
- 4:59:37great gains, and making them out to be greater even than theirs, though
- 4:59:41such may not have been really the case. Twenty sixth, openly opposing her
- 4:59:47mother when she endeavors to persuade her to take up with men with whom she
- 4:59:51has been formally acquainted, on account of the great gains to be got from
- 4:59:55them. Twenty seventh, lastly pointing out to her her lover the liberality of
- 5:00:00his rivals. Thus, in the ways and means of getting money, a
- 5:00:08woman should always know the state of the mind, of the feelings, and
- 5:00:11of the disposition of her lover towards her, from the changes of his temper,
- 5:00:17his manner, and the color of his face. The behavior of a
- 5:00:19waning lover is as follows. First, he gives the woman either less than
- 5:00:25is wanted, or something else than that which is asked for. Second,
- 5:00:30he keeps her in hopes by promises. Third, he pretends to do one
- 5:00:34thing and does something else. Fourth, he does not fulfill her desires.
- 5:00:41Fifth, he forgets his promises or does something else than that which he has
- 5:00:45promised. Sixth, he speaks with his own servants in a mysterious way.
- 5:00:52Seventh he sleeps in some other house under the pretense of having to do something
- 5:00:56for a friend. Lastly, he speaks in private with the attendance of a
- 5:01:03woman with whom he was formerly acquainted. Now, when a kutuzan finds that
- 5:01:07her lover's disposition towards her is changing, she should get possession of all his
- 5:01:12best things before he becomes aware of her intentions, and allow a supposing creditor
- 5:01:18to take them away forcibly from her in satisfaction of some pretended debt. After
- 5:01:23this, if the lover is rich and has always behaved well towards her,
- 5:01:29she should ever treat him with respect. But if he is poor and destitute,
- 5:01:33she should get rid of him, as if she had never been acquainted
- 5:01:36with him in any way before. The means of getting rid of a lover
- 5:01:41are as follows. First, describing the habits and vices of the lover as
- 5:01:45disagreeable and censurable, with the sneer of the lip and the stamp of the
- 5:01:49foot. Second, speaking on a subject with which he is not acquainted.
- 5:01:56Third, showing no admiration for his learning and asking a censure upon it.
- 5:02:02Fourth, putting down his pride. Fifth, seeking the company of men who
- 5:02:07are superior to him in learning in wisdom. Sixth, showing a disregard for
- 5:02:12him on all occasions. Seventh censuring men possessed of the same faults as her
- 5:02:18lover. Eighth, expressing dissatisfaction at the ways and means of enjoyment used by
- 5:02:26him, Ninth, not giving him her mouth to kiss, Tenth refusing access
- 5:02:33to her jigana. That is the part of the body between the navel and
- 5:02:37the thighs, eleven, showing a dislike for the wounds made by his nails
- 5:02:44and teeth, twelve, not pressing close up against him at the time when
- 5:02:48he embraces her, thirteen, keeping her limbs without movement at the time of
- 5:02:55congress fourteen, desiring him to employ her when he he is fatigued. Fifteenth,
- 5:03:02laughing at his attachment to her, sixteenth, not responding to his embraces
- 5:03:10seventeenth, turning away from him when he begins to embrace her, eighteenth,
- 5:03:15pretending to be sleepy. Nineteenth, going out visiting or into company when she
- 5:03:22perceives his desire to enjoy her during the daytime, twentieth, misconstruing his words.
- 5:03:30Twenty first, laughing without any joke or at the time of any joke
- 5:03:34made by him, laughing under some pretense. Twenty second, looking with sigh
- 5:03:41glances at her own attendants and clapping her hands when he says anything. Twenty
- 5:03:47third, interrupting him in the middle of his stories and beginning to tell other
- 5:03:51stories herself. Twenty fourth, reciting his faults and his vices and declaring them
- 5:03:57to be incurable. Twenty fifth, saying words to her female attendants, calculated
- 5:04:04to cut the heart of her lover to the quick twenty sixth, taking care
- 5:04:10not to look at him when he comes to her twenty seventh, asking him
- 5:04:15what cannot be granted twenty eighth, and after all, finally dismissing him.
- 5:04:22There are also two verses on this subject, As follows. The duty of
- 5:04:26a courtesan consists in forming connections with suitable men after due and full consideration,
- 5:04:33and attaching the person with whom she is united to herself, and obtaining wealth
- 5:04:37from the person who is attached to her, and then dismissing him after she
- 5:04:41has taken away all his possessions. A courtesan leading in this manner, the
- 5:04:47life of a wife is not troubled with too many lovers, and yet obtains
- 5:04:51abundance of wealth. Chapter four about reunion with a former lover. When a
- 5:05:00courtizan abandons her present lover after all his wealth is exhausted, she may then
- 5:05:04consider about her reunion with a former lover, but she should return to him
- 5:05:10only if he has acquired fresh wealth or is still wealthy, and if he
- 5:05:14is still attached to her, and if this man be living at the time
- 5:05:18with some other women she should consider well before she acts. Now, such
- 5:05:22a man can only be in one of the six following conditions. First,
- 5:05:26he may have left the first woman of his own accord, and may even
- 5:05:30have left another woman since then. Second, he may have been driven away
- 5:05:36from both women. Third, he may have left the one woman of his
- 5:05:40own accord and be living with another woman. Fourth, there is no fourth
- 5:05:45given in the text. Fifth, he may have been driven away from the
- 5:05:48one woman and left the other of his own accord. Sixth, he may
- 5:05:53have been driven away by the one woman and may be living with another one.
- 5:05:59Now, if the man has left both women of his own accord,
- 5:06:02he should not be resorted to on account of the fickleness of his mind and
- 5:06:07his indifference to the excellencies of both of them. Two, As regards the
- 5:06:11man who may have been driven away from both women, if he has been
- 5:06:15driven away from the last one because the woman could get more money from some
- 5:06:19other man, then he should be resorted to, For if attached to the
- 5:06:23first woman, he would give her more money through vanity and emulation, despite
- 5:06:27the other woman. But if he has been driven away by the woman on
- 5:06:32account of his poverty or stinginess, He should not then be resorted to three.
- 5:06:38In the case of the man who may have left the one woman of
- 5:06:41his own accord and been driven away by the other, if he agrees to
- 5:06:45return to the former and give her plenty of money beforehand, then he should
- 5:06:49be resorted to four. In the case of the man who may have left
- 5:06:55the one woman of his own accord and be living with another, woman wishing
- 5:07:00to take up with him again, should first ascertain if he left her in
- 5:07:03the first instance in the hope of finding some particular excellence in the other woman,
- 5:07:08and that, not having found any such excellence, he was willing to
- 5:07:12come back to her and give her much money on account of his conduct and
- 5:07:17on account of his affections still existing for her, Or whether, having discovered
- 5:07:22many faults in the other woman, he would now see even more excellences in
- 5:07:26herself than actually exist, and would be prepared to give her much money for
- 5:07:32these qualities. Or lastly, to consider whether he was a weak man,
- 5:07:37or a man fond of enjoying many women, or one who liked a poor
- 5:07:41woman, or one who never did anything for the woman that he was with.
- 5:07:45After maturely considering all these things, she should resort to him or not,
- 5:07:49according to circumstances. Five, As regards the man who may have been
- 5:07:56driven away from the one woman and left the other of his own accord,
- 5:08:00the former woman wishing to reunite with him, should first ascertain whether he still
- 5:08:06has any affection for her and would consequently spend much money upon her, or
- 5:08:11whether, being attached to her excellent qualities, he did not take delight in
- 5:08:15any other women, Or whether, being driven away from her formerly before completely
- 5:08:22satisfying his sexual desires, he wished to get back to her so as to
- 5:08:26be revenged for the injury done to him, or whether he wished to create
- 5:08:30confidence in her mind and then take back from her the wealth which she formerly
- 5:08:34took from him, and finally destroy her. Or lastly, whether he wished
- 5:08:41first to separate her from her present lover, and then to break away from
- 5:08:45her himself. If after considering all these things, she is of opinion that
- 5:08:49his intentions are really pure and honest, she can reunite herself with him.
- 5:08:55But if his mind be it all tainted with evil intentions, he should be
- 5:08:59a void. Six. In the case of the man who may have been
- 5:09:03driven away by one woman and be living with another. If the man makes
- 5:09:08overtures in return to the first one, the courtesan should consider well before she
- 5:09:14acts, And while the other woman is engaged in attracting him to herself,
- 5:09:18she should try, in her turn, though keeping herself behind the scenes,
- 5:09:22to gain him over on the grounds of any of the following considerations. First
- 5:09:27that he was driven away unjustly and for no proper reason, and now that
- 5:09:33he has gone to another woman, every effort must be used to bring him
- 5:09:36back to myself. Second that if he were once to converse with me again,
- 5:09:41he would break away from the other woman. Third, that the pride
- 5:09:47of my present lover would be put down by means of the former one.
- 5:09:51Fourth that he has become wealthy, has secured a higher position, and holds
- 5:09:56a place of authority under the king. That he is separate from his wife.
- 5:10:03Sixth, that he is now independent. Seventh that he lives apart from
- 5:10:08his father or brother. Eighth that by making peace with him, I shall
- 5:10:14be able to get hold of a very rich man who is now prevented from
- 5:10:18coming to me by my present lover. Nine That as he is not respected
- 5:10:23by his wife, I shall now be able to separate him from her.
- 5:10:29Tenth, that the friend of this man loves my rival, who hates me
- 5:10:33cordially. I shall, therefore, by this means, separate the friend from
- 5:10:37his mistress. Eleven. And lastly, I shall bring discredit upon him by
- 5:10:42bringing him back to me, thus showing the fickleness of his mind. When
- 5:10:48a courtesan is resolved to take up again with a former lover, her Pithemurda
- 5:10:53and other servants should tell him that his former expulsion from the woman's house was
- 5:10:59caused by the will wickedness of her mother. That the woman loved him just
- 5:11:03as much as ever at that time, but could not help the occurrence on
- 5:11:06account of her deference to her mother's will, that she hated the union of
- 5:11:11her present lover and disliked him excessively. In addition to this, they should
- 5:11:15create confidence in his mind by speaking to him of her former love for him,
- 5:11:21and should allude to the mark of that love that she has ever remembered.
- 5:11:25This mark of her love should be connected with some kind of pleasure that
- 5:11:29may have been practiced by him, such as his way of kissing her or
- 5:11:33manner of having connection with her. Thus, and the ways of bringing about
- 5:11:38a reunion with a former lover. When a woman has to choose between two
- 5:11:44lovers, one of whom was formerly united with her, while the other is
- 5:11:48a stranger, the Acarias sages are of opinion that the first one is preferable,
- 5:11:53because his disposition and character, being already known by previous careful observation,
- 5:12:00he can be easily pleased and satisfied. But vets Yayana thinks that a former
- 5:12:04lover, having already spent a great deal of his wealth, is not able
- 5:12:08or willing to give much money again, and is not therefore to be relied
- 5:12:14upon so much as a stranger. Particular cases may, however, arise differing
- 5:12:19from this general rule, on account of the different natures of men. There
- 5:12:25are also verses on the subject. As follows. Reunion with a former lover
- 5:12:30may be desirable so as to separate some particular woman from some particular man,
- 5:12:36or some particular man from some particular woman, or to have a certain effect
- 5:12:40upon the present lover. When a man is excessively attached to a woman,
- 5:12:45he is afraid of her coming into contact with other men. He does not
- 5:12:48then regard or notice her faults, and he gives her much wealth through fear
- 5:12:53of her leaving him. A courtesan should be agreeable to the man who is
- 5:12:57attached to her, and despise the man who does not care for her.
- 5:13:03If while she is living with one man, a messenger comes to her from
- 5:13:06some other man, she may either refuse to listen to any negotiations on his
- 5:13:11part, or a point a fixed time for him to visit her. But
- 5:13:15she should not leave the man who may be living with her and who may
- 5:13:18be attached to her. A wise woman should only renew her connection with a
- 5:13:23former lover if she is satisfied that good fortune, gain, love, and
- 5:13:29friendship are likely to be the result of such a reunion. End of Chapter
- 5:13:34four, Part six, Chapter five of different kinds of gain Many a courtizan
- 5:13:44is able to realize much money every day by reason of many customers. She
- 5:13:48should not confine herself to a single lover under such circumstances. She should fix
- 5:13:53her rate for one night, after considering the place, the season, and
- 5:13:59the condition of the peace people, and having regard to her own good qualities
- 5:14:03and good looks, and after comparing her rates with those of other courtesans.
- 5:14:07She can inform her lovers and friends and acquaintances about these charges. If,
- 5:14:12however, she can obtain a great gain from a single lover, she may
- 5:14:15resort to him alone and live with him like a wife. Now, the
- 5:14:21sages are of opinion that when a courtesan has the option of an equal gain
- 5:14:25from two lovers at the same time, a preference should be given to the
- 5:14:30one who would give her the kind of thing which she wants. But Fatziayana
- 5:14:33says that the preference should be given to the one who gives her gold,
- 5:14:37because it cannot be taken back. Like some other things, it can be
- 5:14:41easily received, and is also the means of procuring anything that may be wished
- 5:14:45for, of such things as gold, silver, copper, bell, metal,
- 5:14:51iron, pots, furniture, beds, upper garments, undervestments, fragrant
- 5:14:57substances, vessels made of gourds, ghee, oil, corn, cattle,
- 5:15:03and other things of a like nature. The first, that is, gold,
- 5:15:07is superior to all the others. When the same labor is required to
- 5:15:11gain any two lovers, or when the same kind of thing is to be
- 5:15:15got from each of them, the choice should be made by the advice of
- 5:15:19a friend, or it may be made from their personal qualities. Or from
- 5:15:23the signs of good or bad fortune that may be connected with them. When
- 5:15:29there are two lovers, one of whom is attached to the Khurasan and the
- 5:15:33other is simply very generous, the sages say that the preference should be given
- 5:15:37to the generous lover, But Vetziayana is of opinion that the one who is
- 5:15:41really attached to the Khurasan should be preferred, because he can be made to
- 5:15:47be generous, even as a miser gives money if he becomes fond of a
- 5:15:51woman. But a man who is simply generous cannot be made to love with
- 5:15:55real attachment. But among those who are attached to her, if there is
- 5:16:00one who is poor and one who is rich, the preferences of course to
- 5:16:03be given to the latter. When there are two lovers, one of whom
- 5:16:07is generous and the other ready to do any service for the courtesan, some
- 5:16:12sages say that the one who is ready to do the service should be preferred,
- 5:16:17But fats Yayana is of opinion that a man who does a service thinks
- 5:16:21that he has gained his object when he has done something once. But a
- 5:16:25generous man does not care for what he has given before. Even here,
- 5:16:30the choice should be guided by the likelihood of the future good to be derived
- 5:16:33from her union with either of them. When one of the two lovers is
- 5:16:38grateful and the other liberal, some sages say that the liberal one should be
- 5:16:42preferred, but Watsiyayana is of opinion that the former should be chosen because liberal
- 5:16:48men are generally haughty, plain spoken, and wanting in consideration towards others.
- 5:16:56Even though these liberal men have been on friendly terms for a long time.
- 5:17:00Yet if they see any fault in the Kurtsan or are told lies about her
- 5:17:04by some other women, they do not care for past services but leave abruptly.
- 5:17:11On the other hand, the grateful man does not at once break off
- 5:17:14from her on account of a regard for the pains she may have taken to
- 5:17:18please him. In this case, also the choice is to be guided with
- 5:17:22respect to what may happen in future. When an occasion for complying with the
- 5:17:27request of a friend and a chance of getting money come together, the sages
- 5:17:33say that the chance of getting money should be preferred, but Vetziayana thinks that
- 5:17:38the money can be obtained tomorrow as well as today. But if the request
- 5:17:42of a friend be not at once complied with, he may become disaffected.
- 5:17:48Even here in making the choice, regard must be paid to future good fortune.
- 5:17:55On such an occasion, however, the Kurtzan might pacify her friend by
- 5:17:59pretending to have some work to do and telling him that his request will be
- 5:18:03complied with next day, and in this way secure the chance of getting the
- 5:18:07money that has been offered her. When the chance of getting money and the
- 5:18:11chance of avoiding some disaster come at the same time, the sages are of
- 5:18:17opinion that the chance of getting money should be preferred, but Vitziana says that
- 5:18:22money has only a limited importance, while a disaster that is once averted may
- 5:18:27never occur again. Here, however, the choice should be guided by the
- 5:18:32greatness or smallness of the disaster. The gains of the wealthiest and best kind
- 5:18:37of courtesans are to be spent as follows, building temples, tanks and gardens,
- 5:18:45giving a thousand cows to different brahmins, carrying on the worship of the
- 5:18:48gods and celebrating festivals in their honor, and lastly performing such vows as may
- 5:18:56be within their means. The gains of other courtesans to be spent as follows,
- 5:19:02having a white dress to wear every day, getting sufficient food and drink
- 5:19:06to satisfy hunger and thirst, eating daily a perfumed tambula that is a mixture
- 5:19:12of betel nut and betel leaves, and wearing ornaments gilt with gold. The
- 5:19:18sage is say that these represent the gains of all the middle and lower classes
- 5:19:22of courtesans. But Vitziayana is of opinion that their gains cannot be calculated or
- 5:19:29fixed in any way, as these depend on the influence of the place,
- 5:19:33the customs of the people, their own appearance, and many other things.
- 5:19:38When a kortizan wants to keep some particular man from some other woman, or
- 5:19:44wants to get him away from some woman to whom he may be attached,
- 5:19:48or to deprive some woman of the gains realized by her from him, or
- 5:19:52if she thinks that she would raise her position or enjoy some great good fortune,
- 5:19:59or become desirable to all men by uniting herself with this man, or
- 5:20:03if she wishes to get his assistance in averting some misfortune, or is really
- 5:20:08attached to him and loves him, or wishes to injure somebody through his means,
- 5:20:15or has regard to some former favor conferred upon her by him, or
- 5:20:19wishes to be united with him merely from desire, or any of the above
- 5:20:25reasons, she should agree to take from him only a small sum of money
- 5:20:29in a friendly way. When a courtizan intends to abandon a particular lover and
- 5:20:34take up with another one, or when she has reason to believe that her
- 5:20:38lover will shortly leave her and return to his wives, or that having squandered
- 5:20:45all his money and became penniless, his guardian or master or father would come
- 5:20:49and take him away, or that her lover is about to lose his position,
- 5:20:56or lastly, that he is of a very fickle mind, she should,
- 5:21:00under any of these circumstances, endeavor to get as much money as she
- 5:21:04can from him, as soon as possible. On the other hand, when
- 5:21:08the courtizan thinks that her lover is about to receive valuable presence or get a
- 5:21:15place of authority from the king, or be near the time of inheriting a
- 5:21:18fortune, or that his ship will soon arrive laden with merchandise, or that
- 5:21:23he has large stocks of corn and other commodities, or that if anything was
- 5:21:29done for him it would not be done in vain, or that he is
- 5:21:33always true to his word. Then should she have regard to her future welfare
- 5:21:37and live with a man like a wife. There are also verses on the
- 5:21:41subject, as follows. In considering her present gains and her future welfare,
- 5:21:48a courtisan should avoid such persons as have gained their means of subsistence with very
- 5:21:52great difficulty, as also those who have become selfish and hard hearted by becoming
- 5:21:59the fair favorites of kings. She should make every endeavor to unite herself with
- 5:22:04prosperous and well to do people, and with those whom it is dangerous to
- 5:22:08avoid or to slight in any way, even at some cost to herself.
- 5:22:14She should become acquainted with energetic and liberal minded men, who, when pleased,
- 5:22:18would give her a large sum of money, even for very little service
- 5:22:23or for some small thing. Chapter six of Gains and Losses attendant gains and
- 5:22:32losses and doubts. As also of the different kinds of courtesans, it sometimes
- 5:22:40happens that, while gains are being sought for or expected to be realized,
- 5:22:45that losses only are the result of our efforts. The causes of these losses
- 5:22:49are weakness of intellect, excessive love, excessive pride, excessive self conceit,
- 5:22:59excessive simplicity, excessive confidence, excessive anger, carelessness, recklessness, influence of
- 5:23:08evil, genius, accidental circumstances. The results of these losses are expense incurred
- 5:23:18without any result, destruction of future good fortune, stoppage of gains about to
- 5:23:23be realized, loss of what is already obtained, acquisition of a sour temper,
- 5:23:30becoming unamiable to everybody, injury to health, loss of hair, and
- 5:23:37other accidents. Now, gain is of three kinds, that is gain of
- 5:23:42wealth, gain of religious merit, and gain of pleasure. And similarly,
- 5:23:48loss is of three kinds, that is loss of wealth, loss of religious
- 5:23:52merit, and loss of pleasure. At the time when gains are sought for,
- 5:23:57if other gains come along with with them, these are called attendant gains.
- 5:24:03When gain is uncertain, the doubt of its being a gain is called
- 5:24:07a simple doubt. When there is a doubt whether either of two things will
- 5:24:11happen or not, it is called a mixed doubt. If while one thing
- 5:24:17is being done, two results take place, it is called a combination of
- 5:24:21two results. And if several results follow from the same action. It is
- 5:24:26called a combination of results on every side. We shall now give examples of
- 5:24:30the above. As already stated, gain is of three kinds, and loss,
- 5:24:37which is opposed to gain, is also of three kinds. A.
- 5:24:42When by living with a great man, a courtizan acquires present wealth, and
- 5:24:47in addition to this, becomes acquainted with other people, and thus obtains a
- 5:24:52chance of future fortune and an accession of wealth, and becomes desirable to all,
- 5:24:57this is called a gain of wealth attended by other gain. B When
- 5:25:04by living with a man, a Kurtasan simply gets money, this is called
- 5:25:07a gain of wealth not attended by any other gain. C. When a
- 5:25:14Kurtazan receives money from other people besides her lover, The results are the chance
- 5:25:19of the loss of future good from her present lover, the chance of disaffection
- 5:25:25of a man securely attached to her, the hatred of all, and the
- 5:25:30chance of a union with some low person tending to destroy her future good.
- 5:25:36This gain is called a gain of wealth attended by losses. D. When
- 5:25:41a Kurtazan, at her own expense and without any results in the shape of
- 5:25:45gain, has connected with a great man or an avaricious minister, for the
- 5:25:51sake of diverting some misfortune or removing some cause that may be threatening the destruction
- 5:25:56of a great gain. This loss is said to be a laws of wealth,
- 5:26:00attended by gains of the future good which it may bring about. E.
- 5:26:07When a Kurtazan is kind, even at her own expense, to a
- 5:26:11man who is very stingy, or to a man proud of his looks,
- 5:26:15or to an ungrateful man skilled in gaining the heart of others, without any
- 5:26:19good resulting from these connections to her in the end, this loss is called
- 5:26:25a loss of wealth, not attended by any gain. F When a Kurtazan
- 5:26:30is kind to any such man is described above, but who, in addition,
- 5:26:34are favorites of the king, and moreover cruel and powerful, without any
- 5:26:40good result in the end, and with a chance of her being turned away
- 5:26:44at any moment, this loss is called a loss of wealth attended by other
- 5:26:48losses. In this way, gains and losses, and attendant gains and losses
- 5:26:53in religious merit and pleasures may become known to the reader, and combinations of
- 5:26:59all of them may also be made. Thus, and the remarks on gains
- 5:27:03and losses, and attendant gains and losses. In the next place we come
- 5:27:08to doubts, which are again of three kinds, that is, doubts about
- 5:27:15wealth, doubts about religious merit, and doubts about pleasures. The following are
- 5:27:21examples. A. When a courtisan is not certain how much a man may
- 5:27:26give her or spend upon her. This is called a doubt about wealth.
- 5:27:32B When a courtizan feels doubtful whether she is right in entirely abandoning a lover
- 5:27:37from whom she is unable to get money, she having taken all his wealth
- 5:27:41from him. In the first instance, this doubt is called a doubt about
- 5:27:45religious merit. C. When a courtisan is unable to get hold of a
- 5:27:52lover to her liking and is uncertain whether she will derive any pleasure from a
- 5:27:56person surrounded by his family or from a low person. This is called a
- 5:28:02doubt about pleasure. D. When a courtisan is uncertain whether some powerful but
- 5:28:08low principled fellow would cause loss to her on account of her not being civil
- 5:28:14to him. This is called a doubt about the loss of wealth. E.
- 5:28:19When a courtizan feels doubtful whether she would lose religious merit by abandoning a
- 5:28:23man who is attached to her without giving him the slightest favor, and thereby
- 5:28:29causing him unhappiness in this world and the next. This doubt is called a
- 5:28:33doubt about the loss of a religious merit. Footnote The souls of men who
- 5:28:40die with their desires unfulfilled are said to go to the world of the manis,
- 5:28:45and not direct to the supreme Spirit. And a footnote f. When
- 5:28:51a courtisan is uncertain as to whether she might create disaffection by speaking out and
- 5:28:56revealing her love, and thus not get her desire, I are satisfied,
- 5:29:00this is called a doubt about the loss of pleasure. Thus, and the
- 5:29:06remarks on doubts mixed doubts. A. The intercourse or connection with a stranger
- 5:29:14whose disposition is unknown, and who may have been introduced by a lover or
- 5:29:18by one who possessed authority, may be productive either of gain or loss,
- 5:29:23and therefore this is called a mixed doubt about the gain and loss of wealth.
- 5:29:30B. When a courtesan is requested by a friend or is impelled by
- 5:29:34pity to have intercourse with a learned Brahmin, a religious student a sacrificer,
- 5:29:40a devotee, or an ascetic, who may have all fallen in love with
- 5:29:45her, and who may be consequently at the point of death. By doing
- 5:29:48this, she might either gain or lose religious merit, and therefore this is
- 5:29:53called a mixed doubt about the gain and loss of religious merit. C.
- 5:30:00If a courtisan relies solely upon the report of other people, that is,
- 5:30:04hearsay about a man and goes to him without ascertaining herself whether he possesses good
- 5:30:11qualities or not, she may either gain or lose pleasure in proportion as he
- 5:30:15may be good or bad, and therefore this is called a mixed doubt about
- 5:30:19the gain and loss of pleasure. Udolika has described the gains and losses on
- 5:30:26both sides as follows. A. If when living with a lover, a
- 5:30:32courtaisan gets both wealth and pleasure from him, it is called a gain on
- 5:30:37both sides. B. When a courtizan lives with a lover at her own
- 5:30:41expense without getting any profit out of it, and the lover even takes back
- 5:30:45from her what he may have formally given her, it is called a loss
- 5:30:49on both sides. C. When a courtisan is uncertain whether a new acquaintance
- 5:30:56would become attached to her, and moreover, if he became attached to her,
- 5:31:00whether he would give her anything. It is then called a doubt on
- 5:31:04both sides about gains. D. When a courtizan is uncertain whether a former
- 5:31:12enemy, if made up by her at her own expense, would do her
- 5:31:17some injury on account of his grudge against her, or if becoming attached to
- 5:31:22her, would take away angrily from her anything that he may have given to
- 5:31:26her. This is called a doubt on both sides about loss. Bob Pravria
- 5:31:32has described the gains and losses on both sides as follows. A. When
- 5:31:37a courtesan can get money from a man whom she may go to see,
- 5:31:41and also money from a man whom she may not go to see, this
- 5:31:45is called a gain on both sides. B. When a courtizan has to
- 5:31:51incur further expense if she goes to see a man, and yet runs the
- 5:31:56risk of incurring an irremediable loss if she does not go to say see him.
- 5:32:00This is called a loss on both sides. C. When a courtisan
- 5:32:06is uncertain whether a particular man would give her anything on her going to see
- 5:32:11him without incurring expense on her part, or whether on her neglecting him,
- 5:32:15another man would give her something. This is called a doubt on both sides
- 5:32:21about gain. D When a courtisan is uncertain whether on going at her own
- 5:32:27expense to see an old enemy, he would take back from her what he
- 5:32:32may have given her, or whether by her not going to see him,
- 5:32:34he would cause some disaster to fall upon her, this is called a doubt
- 5:32:40on both sides about loss. By combining the above, the following six kinds
- 5:32:45of mixed results are produced. That is, a gain on one side and
- 5:32:51loss on the other. B gain on one side, and doubt of gain
- 5:32:55on the other. C Gain on one side and out of loss on the
- 5:33:00other, d Loss on one side and doubt of gain on the other.
- 5:33:07E Doubt of gain on one side and doubt of loss on the other.
- 5:33:12F Doubt of loss on one side and loss on the other. A courtesan,
- 5:33:19having considered all the above things, and taking counsel with their friends,
- 5:33:23should act so as to acquire gain, the chances of great gain, and
- 5:33:29the warding off of any great disaster. Religious merit and pleasure should also be
- 5:33:33formed into separate combinations like those of wealth, and then all should be combined
- 5:33:38with each other so as to form new combinations. When a courtesion consorts with
- 5:33:44men, she should cause each of them to give her money as well as
- 5:33:48pleasure. At particular times, such as the spring festivals, etc. She
- 5:33:52may make her mother announce to the various men that on a certain day her
- 5:33:57daughter would remain with the man who would gratify such and such a desire of
- 5:34:02hers. When young men approach her with delight, she should think of what
- 5:34:07she may accomplish through them. The combination of gains and losses on all sides
- 5:34:12are gain on one side and loss on all others. Loss on one side
- 5:34:18and gain on all others, gain on all sides, loss on all sides.
- 5:34:25A courtisan should also consider doubts about gain and doubts about loss, with
- 5:34:29reference both to wealth, religious, merit, and pleasure. Thus ends the
- 5:34:34consideration of gain loss, attendant gains, attendant losses, and doubts. The
- 5:34:41different kinds of courtesans are a bawd, a female attendant, an unchaste woman,
- 5:34:49a dancing girl, a female artisan, a woman who has left her
- 5:34:55family, a woman living on her beauty, and finally, regular courtesan.
- 5:35:02All the above kinds of courtisans are acquainted with various kinds of men, and
- 5:35:07should consider the ways of getting money from them, of pleasing them, of
- 5:35:11separating themselves from them, and of reuniting with them. They should also take
- 5:35:17into consideration particular gains and losses, attendant gains and losses, and doubts in
- 5:35:22accordance with their several conditions. Thus, then the considerations of courtesans. There
- 5:35:29are also two verses on the subject, as follows, Men want pleasure while
- 5:35:34women want money, and therefore this part, which treats of the means of
- 5:35:40gaining wealth, should be studied. There are some women who seek for love,
- 5:35:45and there are others who seek for money. For the former, the
- 5:35:48ways of love are told in previous portions of this work, while the ways
- 5:35:52of getting money as practiced by courtesans are described in this part of Part six.
- 5:36:00Part seven about the means of attracting others to yourself, Chapter one on
- 5:36:07personal adornment, on subjugating the hearts of others, and on tonic medicines.
- 5:36:15When a person fails to obtain the object of his desires by any of the
- 5:36:18ways previously related, he should then have recourse to other ways of attracting others
- 5:36:23to himself. Now, good looks, good qualities, youth, and liberality
- 5:36:30are the chief and most natural means of making a person agreeable in the eyes
- 5:36:33of others. But in the absence of these, a man or a woman
- 5:36:37must have resort to artificial means or to art and the following are some recipes
- 5:36:42that may be found useful. A. An ointment made of the tiberna montana
- 5:36:48coronaria, the castus speciosis or arabicus, and the flocortia cataphracta can be used
- 5:36:56as an unguent of adornment. B If a fine powder is made of the
- 5:37:03above plants and applied to the wick of a lamp which is made to burn
- 5:37:07with the oil of blue vitriol. The black pigment or lamp black produced therefrom,
- 5:37:12when applied to the eyelashes, has the effect of making a person look
- 5:37:17lovely. C. The oil of the hogweed, the echites putessens, the
- 5:37:25serena plant, the yellow amaranth, and the leaf of the nymphae, if
- 5:37:29applied to the body, has the same effect. D. A black pigment
- 5:37:34from the same plants produce a similar effect. E. By eating the powder
- 5:37:41of the Nulubrium speciosum, the blue lotus, and the Mesna roxburghee with ghi
- 5:37:48and honey, a man becomes lovely in the eyes of others. F The
- 5:37:53above things together with a tiburna, montana coronaria, and the xanthochim as pictorious,
- 5:38:00if used as an ointment, produced the same results. G. If
- 5:38:07the bone of a peacock or of an ayena be covered with gold and tied
- 5:38:11on the right hand, it makes a man lovely in the eyes of other
- 5:38:14people. H In the same way, if a bead made of the seed
- 5:38:18of the jujubi or of the conscient shell be enchanted by the incantations mentioned in
- 5:38:25the Arthur vana Veda, or by the incantations of those well skilled in the
- 5:38:30science of magic, and tied on the hand, it produces the same result
- 5:38:34as described above. I. When a female attendant arrives at the age of
- 5:38:41puberty, her master should keep her secluded, and when men ardently desire her,
- 5:38:45on account of her seclusion and on account of the difficulty of approaching her,
- 5:38:51he should then bestow her hand on such a person as may endow her
- 5:38:55with wealth and happiness. This is a means of increasing the loveliness of a
- 5:39:00person in the eyes of others. In the same way, when the daughter
- 5:39:03of a courtesan arrives at the age of puberty, the mother should get together
- 5:39:07a lot of young men of the same age, disposition, and knowledge as
- 5:39:11her daughter, and tell them that she would give her in marriage to the
- 5:39:17person who would give her presents of a particular kind. After this, the
- 5:39:22daughter should be kept in seclusion as far as possible, and the mother should
- 5:39:26give her in marriage to the man who may be ready to give her the
- 5:39:29presence agreed upon. If the mother is unable to get so much out of
- 5:39:33the man, she should show some of her own things as having been given
- 5:39:37to the daughter by the bridegroom. Or the mother may allow her daughter to
- 5:39:41be married to the man privately, as if she was ignorant of the whole
- 5:39:45affair, and then, pretending that it has come to her knowledge, she
- 5:39:48may give her consent to the union. The daughter, too, should make
- 5:39:52herself attractive to the sons of wealthy citizens unknown to her mother, and make
- 5:39:59them attached to her, and for this purpose should meet them at the time
- 5:40:03of learning to sing, and in places where music is played and at the
- 5:40:07houses of other people, and then request her mother, through a female friend
- 5:40:11or servant, to be allowed to unite herself to the man who is most
- 5:40:15agreeable to her. Footnote. It is a custom of the courtesans of Oriental
- 5:40:22countries to give their daughters temporarily in marriage when they come of age and after
- 5:40:26they have received an education in the Kimasutra and other arts. Full details are
- 5:40:32given of this at page seventy six of Early Ideas, a group of Hindu
- 5:40:37stories collected and collated by Anaryan W. H. Allen and Company, London,
- 5:40:42eighteen eighty one. And footnote. When the daughter of a courtesan is
- 5:40:48thus given to a man, the ties of marriage should be observed for one
- 5:40:52year, and after that she may do what she likes. But even after
- 5:40:56the end of the year, when otherwise engaged, if she should be now
- 5:41:00and then invited by her first husband to come and see him, she should
- 5:41:04put aside her present gain and go to him for the night. Such as
- 5:41:10the mode of temporary marriage among courtesans, and of increasing their loveliness and their
- 5:41:15value in the eyes of others, what has been said about them should also
- 5:41:19be understood to apply to the daughters of dancing women, whose mothers should give
- 5:41:23them only to such persons as are likely to become useful to them in various
- 5:41:29ways. Thus, and the ways of making oneself lovely in the eyes of
- 5:41:33others. A. If a man, after anointing his lingam with the mixture
- 5:41:40of the powders of the white thorn apple, the long pepper, and the
- 5:41:44black pepper and honey, engages in sexual union with a woman, he makes
- 5:41:49her subject to his will. B. The application of a mixture of the
- 5:41:55leaf of the plant vitobrnta of the flowers thrown on a human corpse when carried
- 5:42:00out to be burnt, and the powder of the bones of the peacock and
- 5:42:04of the jiwan jieva bird produces the same effect. See the remains of a
- 5:42:11kite who has dyed a natural death ground into powder and mixed with kowatch and
- 5:42:17honey has also the same effect. D Anointing oneself with an ointment made of
- 5:42:25the plant amblika mirabolans has the power of subjecting women to one's will. E.
- 5:42:33If a man cuts into small pieces the sprouts of the vaj nasuni plant
- 5:42:37and dips them into a mixture of red arsenic and sulfur, and then dries
- 5:42:41them seven times and applies this powder mixed with honey to his lingam, he
- 5:42:47can subjugate a woman to his will directly that he has had sexual union with
- 5:42:52her. Or if by burning these very sprouts at night, and looking at
- 5:42:56the smoke, he sees a golden moon behind, he will then be successful
- 5:43:00with any woman. Or if he throws some of the powder of these same
- 5:43:04sprouts mixed with the excrement of a monkey upon a maiden, she will not
- 5:43:10be given in marriage to anybody else. F If pieces of the arris root
- 5:43:17are dressed with the oil of the mango and placed for six months in a
- 5:43:19hole made in the trunk of the Seasiu tree, and are then taken out
- 5:43:23and made up into annointment and applied to the lingam, this is said to
- 5:43:29serve as the means of subjugating women. G If the bone of a camel
- 5:43:34is dipped into the juice of the plant eclipped of prostata, and then burnt,
- 5:43:38and the black pigment produced from its ashes is placed in a box also
- 5:43:44made of the bone of a camel, and applied together with antimony to the
- 5:43:48eyelashes with a pencil also made of the bone of a camel. Then that
- 5:43:52pigment is said to be very pure and wholesome for the eyes, and serves
- 5:43:56as a means of subjugating others to the person who uses it. The same
- 5:44:00effect can be produced by black pigment made of the bones of hawks, vultures,
- 5:44:06and peacocks. Thus, and the ways of subjugating others to one's own
- 5:44:11will now The means of increasing sexual vigor are as follows. A. A
- 5:44:18man obtains sexual vigor by drinking milk mixed with sugar, the root of the
- 5:44:22uchchata plant, the piper chaba and licorice. B. Drinking milk mixed with
- 5:44:30sugar and having the testicle of a ram or a goat boiled in it is
- 5:44:34also productive of vigor. C. The drinking of the juice of the Headicarium
- 5:44:41gangeticum, the kuili and the kashika plant mixed with milk produces the same effect.
- 5:44:49D The seed of the long pepper, along with the seeds of the
- 5:44:53san severa rocksburgiana and the Hedicarum gangeticum plant, all pounded together and mixed with
- 5:45:00milk, is productive of a similar result E. According to ancient authors,
- 5:45:07if a man pounds the seeds or roots of the Trapa bispinosa, the cassurica,
- 5:45:14the tuscan jasmine, and licorice, together with the kashiracapoli, a kind
- 5:45:18of onion, and puts the powder into milk mixed with sugar and ghee,
- 5:45:22and having boiled the whole mixture on a moderate fire, drinks the paste so
- 5:45:27formed, he will be able to enjoy innumerable women. F In the same
- 5:45:33way, if a man mixes rice with the eggs of the sparrow, and
- 5:45:37having boiled this in milk, adds to it ghee and honey, and drinks
- 5:45:42as much of it as necessary, this will produce the same effect. G.
- 5:45:48If a man takes the outer covering of sessamon seeds and soaks them with
- 5:45:52the eggs of sparrows, and then having boiled them in milk mixed with sugar
- 5:45:57and ghee, along with the fruits of the Trapa bispinosa and the casurica plant,
- 5:46:03and adding to it the flour of wheat and beans, and then drinks
- 5:46:07this composition, he is said to be able to enjoy many women. H
- 5:46:12If ghee, honey sugar and licorice in equal quantities. The juice of the
- 5:46:18fennel plant and milk are mixed together. This nectar like composition is said to
- 5:46:23be holy and provocative of sexual vigor, a preservative of life, and sweet
- 5:46:29to the taste. I. The drinking of a paste composed of the asparagus
- 5:46:36rasimosis, the chevadostra plant, the gaducci plant, the long pepper and licorice
- 5:46:44boiled in milk, honey and ghee in the spring is said to have the
- 5:46:48same effect as the above j Boiling the asparagus rasimosis and the vadastra plant,
- 5:46:56along with the pounded fruits of the Premna spinosa in water and drinking the same
- 5:47:02is said to act in the same way. K Drinking boiled ghee or clarified
- 5:47:07butter in the morning during the spring season is said to be beneficial to health
- 5:47:12and strength, and agreeable to the taste. L If the powder of the
- 5:47:18seed of the shvadastri plant and the flower of barley are mixed together in equal
- 5:47:22parts, and a portion of it that is two pallas in weight is eaten
- 5:47:27every morning on getting up, it has the same effect as the preceding recipe.
- 5:47:33There are also verses on the subject as follows. The means of producing
- 5:47:37love and sexual vigor should be learned from the science of medicine, from the
- 5:47:41Vedas, from those who are learned in the arts of magic, and from
- 5:47:45confidential relatives. Footnote. From the earliest times, Oriental authors have occupied themselves
- 5:47:52about aphrodisiacs. The following note on the subject is taken from page twenty nine
- 5:47:59of a trend inlation of the Hindu art of Love, otherwise the Aungarunga alluded
- 5:48:04to in the preface of this work, Part one, pages three and five.
- 5:48:10Most Eastern treatises divide aphrodisiacs into two different kinds, one the mechanical or
- 5:48:17natural, such as scarification, flagellation, et cetera, and two the medicinal
- 5:48:23or artificial. To the former belong the application of insects, as is practiced
- 5:48:29by some savage races. And all orientalists will remember the tale of the old
- 5:48:33Brahmin whose young wife insisted upon his being again stung by a wasp, and
- 5:48:41the footnote no means should be tried which are doubtful in their effects, which
- 5:48:47are likely to cause injury to the body, which involve the death of animals
- 5:48:52and which bring us in contact with impure things. Such means should only be
- 5:48:56used as are wholly acknowledged to be good and approved of by Brahmins and friends.
- 5:49:04End of Chapter one, Part seven, Chapter two of the Ways of
- 5:49:08Exciting desire and Miscellaneous Experiments and Recipes. If a man is unable to satisfy
- 5:49:18a hastini or elephant woman, he should have recourse to various means to excite
- 5:49:22her passion. At the commencement, he should rub her yoni with his hand
- 5:49:26or fingers, and not begin to have intercourse with her until she becomes excited
- 5:49:30or experiences pleasure. This is one way of exciting a woman. Or he
- 5:49:36may make use of certain apadravias or things which are put on or around the
- 5:49:41lingam to supplement its length or its thickness, so as to fit it to
- 5:49:45the yoni. In the opinion of Bravhabya, these a pradavias should be made
- 5:49:51of gold, silver, copper, iron, ivory, buffalo's horn, various
- 5:49:56kinds of wood, tin, or lead, and should be soft, cool,
- 5:50:00provocative of sexual vigor, and well fitted to serve the intended purpose.
- 5:50:07Vetsyayana however, says that they may be made according to the natural liking of
- 5:50:11each individual. The following are the different kinds of apadravias. One the armlet
- 5:50:18valaya should be of the same size as the lingam and should have its outer
- 5:50:22surface made rough with globules. Two, the couple sangati is formed of two
- 5:50:30armlets. Three the bracelet chudhaka is made by joining three or more armlets until
- 5:50:37they come up to the required length of the lingum. Four the single bracelet
- 5:50:42is formed by wrapping a single wire around the lingum according to its dimensions.
- 5:50:48Five. The kanduka or jalaka is a tube open at both ends with a
- 5:50:53whole through it outwardly rough and studded with soft globules, and made to fit
- 5:50:59the side of the yoni and tied to the waist. When such a thing
- 5:51:03cannot be obtained, then a tube made of the wood apple or tubular stalk
- 5:51:08of the bottle gourd, or a reed made soft with oil and extracts of
- 5:51:12plants and tied to the waist with strings may be made use of, as
- 5:51:18also a row of soft pieces of wood tied together. The above are the
- 5:51:22things that can be used in connection with or in the place of the lingam.
- 5:51:27The people of the southern countries think that true sexual pleasure cannot be obtained
- 5:51:32without perforating the lingum, and they therefore cause it to be pierced, like
- 5:51:37the lobes of the ears of an infant pierced for earrings. Now, when
- 5:51:41a young man perforates his lingam, he should pierce it with a sharp instrument,
- 5:51:45and then stand in water so long as the blood continues to flow.
- 5:51:49At night, he should engage in sexual intercourse, even with vigor, so
- 5:51:53as to clean the hole. After this, he should continue to wash the
- 5:51:57hole with decoction and increase the size by putting into it small pieces of cane
- 5:52:03and the ritea anti dysenterica, and thus gradually enlarging the orifice. It may
- 5:52:10also be washed with licorice mixed with honey, and the size of the hole
- 5:52:15increased by the fruit stalks of the simipatraplant. The whole should be anointed with
- 5:52:19a small quantity of oil. In the hole made in the lingam, a
- 5:52:23man may put apadravias of various forms, such as the round, the round
- 5:52:30on one side, the wooden mortar, the flower, the armlet, the
- 5:52:34bone of the heron, the goat of the elephant, the collection of eight
- 5:52:40balls, the lock of hair, the place where four roads meet, and
- 5:52:45other things named according to their forms and means of using them. All these
- 5:52:49apadravias should be rough on the outside according to their requirements. The ways of
- 5:52:56enlarging the lingam must be now related. When a man wishes to enlarge his
- 5:53:00lingam, he should rub it with the bristles of certain insects that live in
- 5:53:04trees, and then, after rubbing it for ten nights with oils, he
- 5:53:10should again rub it with the bristles as before. By continuing to do this,
- 5:53:14a swelling will be gradually produced in the lingam, and he should then
- 5:53:18lie on a cot and causes lingam to hang down through a hole in the
- 5:53:22cot. After this, he should take away all the pain from the swelling
- 5:53:26by using cool concoctions. The swelling, which is called suka and is often
- 5:53:33brought about among the people of the Dravida country, lasts for life if the
- 5:53:38lingam is rubbed with the following things. That is, the plant Fisalis flexuosa,
- 5:53:45the shivara kandaka plant, the jayusuka plant, the fruit of the eggplant,
- 5:53:51the butter of a she buffalo, the Hastri sharma plant, and the
- 5:53:56juice of the vadra rasa plant. A swelling lasting for one month will be
- 5:54:00produced by rubbing it with oil boiled. In the concoctions of the above things,
- 5:54:06the same effect will be produced, but lasting for six months. The
- 5:54:11enlargement of the lingam is also affected by rubbing it or moistening it with oil
- 5:54:15boiled on a moderate fire, along with the seeds of the pomegranate and the
- 5:54:19cucumber, the juices of the volucca plant, the Hasti sharma plant, and
- 5:54:26the eggplant. In addition to the above, other means may be learnt from
- 5:54:30experienced in confidential persons. The miscellaneous experiments and recipes are as follows. A.
- 5:54:38If a man mixes the powder of the milk hedge plant and the kanaka
- 5:54:42plant with the excrement of a monkey and the powdered root of the longala lika
- 5:54:48plant, and throws this mixture on a woman, she will not love anybody
- 5:54:52else afterwards. B If a man thickens the juice of the fruits of the
- 5:54:57Cassia festula and the Eugenia jambulana by mixing them with the powder of the soma
- 5:55:03plant, the Vernonia anthomintica, the Eclipta prostata, and the Lohopa jehirka,
- 5:55:11and applies this composition to the yoni of a woman and then has sexual intercourse
- 5:55:17with her, his love for her will be destroyed. C The same effect
- 5:55:22is produced if a man has connection with a woman who has bathed in the
- 5:55:26buttermilk of a she buffalo mixed with the powders of the gopalika plant, the
- 5:55:32banu padika plant, and the yellow amaranth d an Ointment made of the flowers
- 5:55:38of the Naucleia kadamba, the hog plum, and the Eugenia jambolana, and
- 5:55:45used by a woman causes her to be disliked by her husband. E Garlands
- 5:55:51made of the above flowers, when worn by the woman, produced the same
- 5:55:55effect. F an ointment made of the fruit of the Asteracantha longifolia or coculaksha
- 5:56:04will contract the yoni of a hastini or elephant woman, and this contraction lasts
- 5:56:10for one night. G an oiment made by pounding the roots of Thenlumbrium speciosum
- 5:56:18and of the blue lotus and the powder of the plant Vesalus flexuosa, mixed
- 5:56:23with ghee and honey will enlarge the yoni of the marigi or deer woman.
- 5:56:30H an Ointment made of the fruit of the Amblica mirabolans soaked in the milky
- 5:56:36juice of the milk hedge plant of the soma plant, the Calotropsis gigantea,
- 5:56:42and the juice of the fruit of the Vernonia anthomentica will make the hair white.
- 5:56:48I The juice of the roots of the madayantica plant, the yellow amaranth,
- 5:56:55the angenica plant, the Cletoria ternatilla, and the Schlakshna parni plant used
- 5:57:02as a lotion will make the hair grow. J an ointment made by boiling
- 5:57:08the above roots in oil and rubbed in will make the hair black and will
- 5:57:12also gradually restore hair that has fallen out. K. If lack is saturated
- 5:57:19seven times in the sweat of the testicle of a white horse and applied to
- 5:57:25a red lip, the lip will become white l The color of the lips
- 5:57:32can be regained by means of the Mada yantica and other plants mentioned under I.
- 5:57:38M A woman who hears a man playing on a reed pipe, which
- 5:57:42has been dressed with the juices of the bahupatica plant, that Taberna montana,
- 5:57:48coronoria, the costas speciosis or arabicus, the pinus, theodora, the Euphorbia
- 5:57:56antiquorum, the vadra, and the cant taca plant becomes his slave. N
- 5:58:04If food be mixed with the fruit of the thorn apple or dathura, it
- 5:58:08causes intoxication. Oh. If water be mixed with oil and the ashes of
- 5:58:15any kind of grass except the cusha grass, it becomes the color of milk.
- 5:58:21P If yellow mirrabolans, the hog plum, the schrowuana plant, and
- 5:58:27the preangu plant be all pounded together and applied to iron pots, these pots
- 5:58:33become red. Q If a lamp trimmed with oil extracted from the shrowuana and
- 5:58:40priangan plants, its wick being made of cloth, and the sluff of the
- 5:58:45skins of snakes, is lighted and long pieces of wood placed near it,
- 5:58:49those pieces of wood will resemble so many snakes. R. Drinking the milk
- 5:58:56of a white cow who has a white calf at her feet is auspicious,
- 5:59:00produces fame and preserves life. S The blessings of venerable Brahmins well propitiated have
- 5:59:10the same effect. There are also some verses in conclusion. Thus have I
- 5:59:15written in a few words the science of Love after reading the texts of ancient
- 5:59:21authors and following the ways of enjoyment mentioned in them. He who is acquainted
- 5:59:26with the true principles of this science pays regard to Dharma, Arthur Chema,
- 5:59:30and to his own experiences, as well as to the teachings of others,
- 5:59:36and does not act simply on the dictates of his own desire. As for
- 5:59:40the errors in the science of Love which I have mentioned in this work,
- 5:59:44on my own authority as an author, I have, immediately after mentioning them,
- 5:59:48carefully censured and prohibited them. An act is never looked upon with indulgence
- 5:59:55for the simple reason that it is authorized by the science. Because it it
- 6:00:00ought to be remembered that it is the intention of the science that the rules
- 6:00:03which it contains should only be acted upon in particular cases, after reading and
- 6:00:08considering the works of Bovhabriya and other ancient authors, and thinking over the meaning
- 6:00:15of the rules given by them, the Kimis Sutra was composed according to the
- 6:00:18precepts of Holy writ For the benefit of the world by Vetsyayana, while leading
- 6:00:25the life of a religious student and wholly engaged in the contemplation of the deity.
- 6:00:30This work is not intended to be used merely as an instrument for satisfying
- 6:00:34our desires. A person acquainted with the true principles of this science, and
- 6:00:41who preserves as Dharma, Artha and Kima, and has regard for the practices
- 6:00:45of the people, is sure to obtain the mastery over his senses. In
- 6:00:51short, an intelligent and prudent person attending to Dharma and Artha and attending to
- 6:00:56Kama, also without becoming the slave of his obtain success in everything that he
- 6:01:02may undertake. Concluding remarks thus ends in seven parts. The Chemisutra avates Yayana,
- 6:01:15which might otherwise be called a treatise on men and women their mutual relationship
- 6:01:21and connection with each other. It is a work that should be studied by
- 6:01:25all, both old and young. The former will find in it real truths
- 6:01:29gathered by experience and already tested by themselves, while the latter will derive the
- 6:01:34great advantage of learning things which some perhaps may otherwise never learn at all,
- 6:01:40or which they may only learn when it is too late, too late,
- 6:01:44those immortal words of Mirabeau to profit by the learning. It can also be
- 6:01:51fairly commended to the student of social science and of humanity, and above all
- 6:01:55to the student of those early ideas which have gradually filtered down through the sins
- 6:02:00of time, and which seemed to prove that the human nature of today is
- 6:02:03much the same as the human nature of the long ago. It has been
- 6:02:08said of Balzac, the great, if not the greatest, of French novelists,
- 6:02:12that he seemed to have inherited a natural and intuitive perception of the feelings
- 6:02:18of men and women, and has described them with an analysis worthy of a
- 6:02:22man of science. The author of the present work must have also had a
- 6:02:26considerable knowledge of the humanities. Many of his remarks are so full of simplicity
- 6:02:30and truth that they have stood the test of time and stand out still as
- 6:02:36clear and true as when they were first written some eighteen hundred years ago,
- 6:02:41as a collection of facts told him plain and simple language. It must be
- 6:02:45remembered that in those early days there was apparently no idea of embellishing the work,
- 6:02:51either with a literary style, a flow of language, or a quantity
- 6:02:56of superfluous patting. The author tells the world what he knew in very concise
- 6:03:00language, without any attempt to produce an interesting story from his facts. How
- 6:03:07many novels could be written. Indeed, much of the matter contained in Parts
- 6:03:11three, four, five, and six has formed the basis of many of
- 6:03:15the stories and the tales of past centuries. There will be found in Part
- 6:03:19seven some curious recipes. Many of them appear to be as primitive as the
- 6:03:25book itself, but in later works of the same nature, these recipes and
- 6:03:30prescriptions appear to have increased, both as regards quality and quantity. In the
- 6:03:36aungar Unga or the Stage of Love mentioned at page five of the preface.
- 6:03:41In Part one, there are found no less than thirty three different subjects,
- 6:03:45for which one hundred and thirty recipes and prescriptions are given, as the details
- 6:03:51may be interesting. These subjects are described as follows. One for hastening the
- 6:03:56paroxysm of the woman, two for delaying the use organs of the man,
- 6:04:00three aphrodisiacs. Four for thickening and enlarging the lingam, rendering its sound and
- 6:04:08strong, hard and lusty. Five for narrowing and contracting the yonie six for
- 6:04:15perfuming the yonie, seven for removing and destroying the hair of the body,
- 6:04:22eight for removing the sudden stopping of the monthly ailment, nine for abating the
- 6:04:29immoderate appearance of the monthly ailment, ten for purifying the womb, eleven for
- 6:04:37causing pregnancy, twelve for preventing miscarriage and other accidents, thirteen for insuring easy
- 6:04:45labor and ready delivery, fourteen for limiting the number of children, fifteen for
- 6:04:52thickening and beautifying the hair, sixteen for obtaining a good black color to it,
- 6:05:00seventeen for widening and bleaching it, eighteen for renewing it, nineteen for
- 6:05:07clearing the skin of the face from eruptions that break out and leave black spots
- 6:05:12upon it, twenty for removing the black color of the epidermis, twenty one
- 6:05:19for enlarging the breasts of women, twenty two for raising and hardening pendulous breasts,
- 6:05:26twenty three for giving a fragrance to the skin, twenty four for removing
- 6:05:33the evil savor of perspiration, twenty five for anointing the body after bathing,
- 6:05:40twenty six for causing a pleasant smell to the breath. Twenty seven drugs and
- 6:05:47charms for the purposes of fascinating, overcoming, and subduing either men or women.
- 6:05:52Twenty eight recipes for enabling a woman to attract and preserve her husband's love.
- 6:06:00Magical coliriums for winning love and friendship, thirty prescriptions for reducing other persons
- 6:06:07to submission, thirty one filter pills and other charms, thirty two fascinating incense
- 6:06:17or fumigation, thirty three magical verses which have the power of fascination. Of
- 6:06:23the one hundred and thirty recipes given, many of them are absurd, but
- 6:06:29not more, perhaps than many of the recipes and prescriptions in use in Europe
- 6:06:33not so very long ago. Love filters, charms and herbal remedies have been
- 6:06:37in early days as freely used in Europe as in Asia, and doubtless some
- 6:06:42people believe in them still in many places. And now. One word about
- 6:06:48the author of the work, the good old Sage Vetziayana, it is much
- 6:06:52to be regretted that nothing can be discovered about his life, his belongings,
- 6:06:56and his surroundings. At the end of part seven he states that he wrote
- 6:07:00the work while leading the life of a religious student, probably at Benaris and
- 6:07:06while wholly engaged in the contemplation of the deity. He must have arrived at
- 6:07:10a certain age at that time, for throughout he gives us the benefit of
- 6:07:15his experience and of his opinions, and these bear the stamp of age rather
- 6:07:19than of youth. Indeed, the work could hardly have been written by a
- 6:07:23young man. In a beautiful verse of the Vedas of the Christians, it
- 6:07:27has been said of the peaceful dead that they wrest from their labors, and
- 6:07:32that their works do follow them. Yes, indeed, the works of men
- 6:07:37of genius do follow them, and remain as a lasting treasure. And though
- 6:07:41there may be disputes and discussions about the immortality of the body or the soul,
- 6:07:45nobody can deny the immortality of genius, whichever remains as a bright and
- 6:07:51guiding star to the struggling humanities of succeeding ages. This work, then,
- 6:07:56which has stood the test of centuries, placed Viatsiayana among the immortals. And
- 6:08:03on this and on him, no better elegy or eulogy can be written than
- 6:08:07the following lines. So long as lips shall kiss and I shall see,
- 6:08:14so long lives this, and this gives life to thee that is the end
- 6:08:21of the Kamisutra by Vatsiayana