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- 0:08Welcome to Postcards to the Universe with Melissa Caprio. Do you believe in magic?
- 0:14What if you were told that all you had to do was get a
- 0:17little creative and work a magic spell to bring anything you can imagine into your
- 0:23life. Here on Postcards to the Universe, we will share manifesting tips,
- 0:29postcards, creativity, abundance, and prosperity. Here is your host, Melissa
- 0:35Caprill. Hi everybody, and welcome to Postcards to the Universe with Melissa creating
- 0:42the life you crave. How are you guys doing. How's your new year
- 0:46going so far? This year? So far, it's been pretty good.
- 0:50There's a lot of chaos, but not terrible chaos, so I think I
- 0:54can handle that. I hope it's working the same for you guys over there
- 0:59to I have a really cool guest all the way across the pond, the
- 1:03Transformational see miss Corey, and he's going to join me in just a few
- 1:08minutes. To my regulars, I want to say thank you so much for
- 1:14being here with me each week. You have no idea how much that means
- 1:18to me. I mean, I love that you guys show up every week,
- 1:23and if you're joining me for the first time. A little bit about
- 1:26me. I'm an author. I have a book and it's titled Postcards to
- 1:30the Universe, Harness the Universe's power and manifest your dreams. And in my
- 1:37book, I have thirty manifesting stories along with the photographs that I took of
- 1:42the contributors of their postcards that they sent me. In A postcard is kind
- 1:48of like a little mini vision board, So it's like whatever somebody wanted to
- 1:51manifest in their life, they would pick one thing they would send me the
- 1:53postcard. I would photograph it. When they're manifestation showed up in the reality,
- 1:59I would share their stories, and I put I categorized it in the
- 2:02book into different different places that we want to manifest more abundance, like in
- 2:09our relationships of course, money right, and health and our careers, and
- 2:15there's just so much more to it, and there's tons of fun exercises and
- 2:22how to manifest in those areas that I put in the book for everybody,
- 2:24and also some writing writing exercises where it helps us get clear on those things
- 2:30that we want to manifest because we're not always sure about what it is we
- 2:35want. We just know a certain feeling we want, right, Like,
- 2:38why do we want more money? What does money represent to you? I
- 2:40mean everybody's like, oh, yeah, it's obvious, but is it obvious?
- 2:44You think it is, but not necessarily true, because money is just
- 2:47a tool to bring you to dot dot dot whatever that is. Right.
- 2:52So those are the things that we work on in the book, And if
- 2:55you're interested in learning more about it, you can purchase my book at Barnes
- 3:00and Noble or Amazon or your favorite bookstore. You can ask them if they
- 3:04don't already have it in stock, to get it for you. So I
- 3:07hope that you. I hope that you do and let me know what your
- 3:09thoughts are on the book. I also started doing live readings from the book,
- 3:15and I'm re photographing the postcards in each in each postcard in the book,
- 3:22and I started reading them on TikTok, Instagram, and I post them
- 3:25on LinkedIn and YouTube and they're five minute videos of everybody's story and I show
- 3:30a picture from the book so that you can follow along. So I would
- 3:35love it if you came aboard and you checked out the videos and liked them
- 3:42and you know, tagged me your thoughts. I mean, that would mean
- 3:45the world to me because this book is my baby and I want to hear
- 3:50what people think and the people that have reached out to me and told me
- 3:53that they really love the book. It means so much to me, so
- 3:55please check it out. A few other things that I'm doing, I started
- 4:00doing a couple of workshops, and one I'm doing is called Manifesting through Gratitude,
- 4:03a visual journey, and that runs Thursday evenings six to eight pm Eastern
- 4:10Time. And in the workshop, we're using gratitude as at our tool to
- 4:15manifesting abundance. And what's really cool about this workshop that I'm doing is I'm
- 4:19having us incorporate our camera phones using that on our daily gratitude practice. So
- 4:27it's five weeks, it's online. You could do it from the comfort of
- 4:30your home. Each week, We're focusing on a different area of our lives,
- 4:33and I'm going to be giving everyone photo prompts and writing exercises to do
- 4:39during our workshop and to get us to get us really into tapping into being
- 4:45grateful for what is already in our life, because the more we tap into
- 4:49that vibration of gratitude, the more things show up for us to be grateful.
- 4:55For so if you have any questions, you know, just reach out
- 4:58to me. But I would love to see there. It's a lot of
- 5:00fun. And another workshop I'm doing this is a one day workshop. It's
- 5:05a Saturday workshop, three hours. It's called put your Wishes to Work and
- 5:10Manifest the life you desire. And this one is going to be held February
- 5:14seventeenth, one to four pm Eastern, that's a Saturday afternoon, and we're
- 5:18going to be making manifesting postcards together. So yeah, check it out.
- 5:23If you want to know more, just go to Postcards to the universe dot
- 5:26com and the workshops are listed and anything about me and it links to all
- 5:30my social media so you can join me and ask me any questions that you
- 5:34want. And I would love to see you in my workshops. And I
- 5:38also have a public Facebook group called Postcards of Love and you can find me
- 5:42on there if you want to share some fun and uplifting stories. It's all
- 5:45fun, uplifting stuff, nothing serious, nothing sad. We just want to
- 5:48add more positivity to the world. So I mentioned my guest and I'm going
- 5:55to read you his bio and I'm going to talk to Seamus. So Seamus
- 5:59Corey knows grief, loneliness and rejection like no other. Because of this,
- 6:04he also knows transformation, empowerment and resilience. His experiences, coupled with his
- 6:11genuine kind and nurturing soul, are the foundation of the Potentially You project and
- 6:16Seemu's vision this and over the past ten years has been successfully delivering wellbeing support,
- 6:24confidence building and pastoral personal development packages for individuals and organizations. And he
- 6:30has a workshop called The Keystone to Success and it's for those who want to
- 6:35do something different, be someone different, go in a different direction, explore
- 6:41the outer reaches, go boldly where you have not traveled before, and explore
- 6:45new world's ideas and concepts until you find the true source of power. And
- 6:50if you want to learn more about Cemus, you can go to him on
- 6:56find uniquely you, dot com, forward Slash Workshops and if you look up
- 7:02his name, it's Seamus core S E A m U S C O R
- 7:08R Y. Hi Seemus, thanks for being here today, Hey me,
- 7:13lista, how are you and listen? Such a real pleasure, It's really
- 7:16really You've You've tacked my bucket lists by being on your show, so absolutely
- 7:24fantastic lested to be here and what a great kick kick off to the new
- 7:28year by being on your show. Such a pleasure for me. Oh,
- 7:30thank you so much. Associates. Are you're in Scotland right? You're in
- 7:34Scotland? Yeah, I am. Currently I'm working in Scotland, but my
- 7:41home base is Manchester in England. That's where That's where I live. So
- 7:46I work in Scotland. I work with organizations across Scotland to deliver wellbeing programs
- 7:55and wellbeing support. I really really in the message O clear and a load
- 8:03that you know, well being is important. People's well being is massively important.
- 8:07You know, I'm massively underrated right now in the world we live.
- 8:11And my message and my mission is clear to support well being, to develop
- 8:18well being for people, and to support people to be the best that they
- 8:22can be through developing good well being program and strategy. So that's where I
- 8:26am right now. I love that, And I know, I know you
- 8:31didn't always feel this way and your background you suffered, you went through some
- 8:35grief and some depression of your own and you weren't always in that space.
- 8:39Co So for everybody listening, can you share a little bit about like what
- 8:43was going on in your life and what made you want to shift into doing
- 8:50and helping people establish their own sense of wellbeing and transformation. Because I agree
- 8:54with you. I think that's so important. I think so many of us
- 8:58have our suffering or have suffered, and we're trying to shift that within ourselves
- 9:05and for those of us who have been doing work for a long time.
- 9:09That's part of the reason I do this show and have guests like you on,
- 9:13is to show that it doesn't have to be like that. You don't
- 9:16have to live in suffering. You can shift your life whatever that looks like
- 9:20for you. So all right, I'm going to give you over and let
- 9:22you tell us your story. Okay, thanks Melissa. Well, my story
- 9:28begins fifty four years ago, believe it or not, and a little village
- 9:33called six Mile Bridge in the western seaboard in the Republic of Ireland. In
- 9:39the Republic of Ireland, and as soon as I was born, Melissa,
- 9:43my father, who was head of our household, decided that I should be
- 9:48a Roman Catholic priest as soon as I was born. So I was chosen
- 9:54to be the Catholic priest in the family, and I was very much throught
- 10:01me early life conditioned in that belief and believe that I had a calling or
- 10:07a vocation from God to be a priest. And I believe nothing else about
- 10:11my life. This was my calling, this was my way of life,
- 10:15this is what I was born to do. At fifteen and a half,
- 10:22I went off just turn sixteen. I went off to join the Capitol Church
- 10:26and enter into seminary life for the next six years. And I can honestly
- 10:31see, Melissa that the experience that I had, and I only speak from
- 10:37my experience. I don't speak for the experience of others within the character Church.
- 10:43I share only my experience. From my experience, was one of systematic
- 10:50abuse one institutional, you know, and it came down to a personal level.
- 10:56It was a horrendous environment to live and walk and study in. And
- 11:03as I suppose, I thought they were all the trappings of the institution Catholic
- 11:09Church. And I see here today I wonder how I got through all that.
- 11:13And I must have had some degree of personal resilience that I wasn't even
- 11:18aware of, because a twenty four I was Orgain, the Roman Catholic priest
- 11:24for the Dices of Pillu and here, presto, I achieved my father's objective,
- 11:30my family's objectives, my community's objective. I became a priest. I
- 11:35became a minister of the club, as it were. But very soon after
- 11:41that, very soon after that, I became aware of I suppose thoughts and
- 11:48ideas and questions, questions entering into my head, and I asked myself,
- 11:54this is Is this all that is? This is? Have I achieved need
- 12:00to achieve in my life? Is this? Is this my life in total?
- 12:03Is this going to be my life for the next fifty years? And
- 12:07these questions came up. I put the master one side because they were in
- 12:11conflict with with my chosen profession. I couldn't really asked myself questions like that,
- 12:20because to do so would be to question the vocation and question the livelihood
- 12:26and question the profession. I got myselvented. But these questions kept coming,
- 12:33and it got me to a point in my life where I had to listen
- 12:39to the universe. I had to begin to listen to the sound and what
- 12:43the universe was telling me. And I got to a point in my life
- 12:48where I reached a personal crisis. I had to take some time away to
- 12:54reflect, and I came to decision that really the choice that was made for
- 13:01me was not the right choice. The choice that I had been chosen for
- 13:07was not right for me. So I made, I suppose the first decision
- 13:13in my life, you know, based on my own experience and knowledge that
- 13:18I had at that partui as I was to leave the Roman Catholic priests.
- 13:24And as I did that, and as you can appreciate, coming from a
- 13:28very rural background, a very small, you know, a community of about
- 13:35nine hundred people who were ninety nine point ninety nine percent Catholic, who saw
- 13:41me as the you know, the wonderful child as it were. So to
- 13:46turn around less than two years later and really sad to them I didn't want
- 13:52to be this anymore was huge. It was huge. It was it was
- 13:58like a nuclear bomb when off in the middle of the community and there were
- 14:01the masters followed for everybody concerned. Not leave myself, because I found myself
- 14:07in a very short space of time after that, homeless and exile, an
- 14:15immigrant, and everybody that I knew and loved and understood me as I thought
- 14:20of that particular trying turned their back on me. I moved to Scotland,
- 14:30and I had to start over. I started in the country that I didn't
- 14:33even have a registration number, so I was considered truly a non entity.
- 14:41I didn't know anybody. I was a stranger in a strange community, in
- 14:43a strange land, in a strange country. And I suppose to pull a
- 14:50long story very short, you know, I suppose I began to ask myself
- 14:58from questions around you know, what, what do I do now? Would
- 15:01it be better? Would it be better for me to continue? Would it
- 15:05be better for me to exist? Would it be better for me to I
- 15:09Would it better be better for me to leave this planet? And thankfully,
- 15:15I suppose I made the decision to stay and get you know, stick in
- 15:22as it more, and in some way find my find my purpose and find
- 15:28my understanding. You know, I and I I suppose I would say to
- 15:35him A lista that in essence, when I, when I listen to the
- 15:41voices of others, they have always kind of led me astray. But when
- 15:46I when I've listened to the voice of the universe and what the universe has
- 15:50told me, and my gut instinct that has always kept me right and steered
- 15:56me on the right path, and I think for the past, you know,
- 16:00twenty four or twenty five years, what I've tried to do is try
- 16:06and answer four fundamental questions in my own life, and my program, as
- 16:11just quite beautifully described, we'll try to answer those questions for individuals who want
- 16:18to who want to share that journey with me. And those four questions are
- 16:22quite fundamental because when I lesked the priest when I was twenty six, I
- 16:26didn't know who I was, Melissa, I didn't know I didn't know what
- 16:32I was. I didn't know what I wanted, and I didn't know how
- 16:37it was going to achieve it. And you know, I can honestly turn
- 16:41around to you and see it right now with my hands and heart and as
- 16:47honest as I as I can be with you that over the past quarter of
- 16:52a century, Yeah, and being that it's been a long quarter of a
- 16:56century, I have had a wonderful journey being guided by the universe, which
- 17:03has opened up new pathways new or opened up new explorations for me. I
- 17:11have really found out a lot about myself. I now know who I am
- 17:17and find out more about myself every single day. I know what I am,
- 17:22whether it be whether it be a well being consultant, whether it be
- 17:26a father, whether it be a grandfather, whether it be a guider,
- 17:30mentor facilitator or trainer. Whatever I am, I know fundamentally who I am,
- 17:37and that is and what I am, and that is to support people,
- 17:41to help people, enable people who might have been our country as confused
- 17:47as I once was as the one or two purpose of life. And I
- 17:51suppose havn't answered those two fundamental questions. The next two questions really are are
- 17:59as a part time and that and that's that basically. And these can be
- 18:03difficult questions because we live in a very confusing world sometimes and really and and
- 18:11I have to say in the listener in terms of your book, and I'll
- 18:12read your book, and your book is absolutely wonderful, absolutely wonderful. It
- 18:18should be on the best sellers, but it's different not on the best sellers.
- 18:23Can I encourage, Can I encourage all your listeners today, wherever you
- 18:30may be, please go out and purchase today postcards to the universe. Please.
- 18:36But if it's not paying me to say that, but it's a wonderful,
- 18:38a wonderful book, because when we align our destiny to the destiny that
- 18:44the universe says has has has given us. Then what what what we want
- 18:51will will appear, what we want to achieve will appear, and it will
- 18:56all also give us the pathway in order to help us achieve what we need
- 19:02to achieve in a life. And that fundamentally is it's where I am,
- 19:07Melitia, and that is my mission in life. It's as simple as that.
- 19:11I'm there to guide, support and find ports people to be the best
- 19:15that they can be, whether that be improved of will being, whether that
- 19:18be improved, or mental health, whether that be encourged, and step outside
- 19:22into the lung grass and maybe do something that they haven't done before. But
- 19:26I've all be there with them as a guide on the side, be their
- 19:30brother from another mother, to support them, you know, take the journey
- 19:34that we really fulfill the destiny for them. Hmm. I love that,
- 19:40And I love that you said something I was really important. You said,
- 19:47anytime I have listened to other people tell me what I should be doing,
- 19:52it has never steered me in the right path. And anytime I've listened to
- 19:56myself and my intuition and the universe and all the signs that we see before
- 20:02us, that you. I mean, because it must have taken a tremendous
- 20:06amount of courage to go against not only your father and your family. And
- 20:11I've been to Ireland and besides Italy, Ireland with the Catholic Church, it's
- 20:17it's a big deal. It's a big deal over there, so I can
- 20:19imagine. And a small town you said, Killolo. I was in Kilolo?
- 20:25Is that where you said you were? Is that where it were?
- 20:26Well? It was. It was the dices of so stretched from Killaloo all
- 20:32the way up to the outskirts of Dublin. That was the size of the
- 20:34dices that I was. That I of you. Yeah, But just knowing
- 20:41that you were taking that chance, that not only was your family going to
- 20:45turn their back on you and you were going to disappoint them, that the
- 20:48whole community would turn their back on you is amazing that you actually listen to
- 20:59what was going on inside of you and had enough reverence for yourself to say
- 21:06that I'm going to take this leap of faith. Because most people, or
- 21:10at least many people, not most people, but many people would stick it
- 21:14out and say, well this was chosen for me, I don't really have
- 21:18a choice, and would mask their their deep unhappiness in other ways, right
- 21:23because they just wouldn't be able to do it. And it's the and you
- 21:27were so young when you did it, so you you went over to Scotland
- 21:33and then you sort of rediscovered yourself. And I don't want to I want
- 21:38to get into that, but we take a break at the half hour mark,
- 21:41so we're going to be coming up to that in just a little bit
- 21:44here, so before we jump into that, but I thought another thing that
- 21:48you said that was really really interesting, and I love that. That's how
- 21:53you try to help people, is that you've experienced this yourself. So it's
- 22:00it's always amazing hearing from somebody who has gone through it themselves, so they
- 22:06can say to you, or say to whoever's listening, you're not alone.
- 22:10I've been there. I know how you feel. I know you feel stuck.
- 22:12I know you feel, you know, miserable in your life. Believe
- 22:17me, I get it. I was there myself. And look at where
- 22:19I'm at now. Because you just said that you have been nothing but living
- 22:25in joy and passion for the last twenty five years, right since you've made
- 22:29those choices for yourself. And that doesn't mean that it's been an easy path.
- 22:33We're not saying that it's going to be easy by any means, right,
- 22:37So let's take our break here and then we're going to dive into what
- 22:41that looked like when you first started coming out of that and you decided to
- 22:45make that shift. So guys, stay tuned and we'll be back in just
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- 24:53believe in magic? What if I told you all you had to do was
- 24:56get a little creative and work a dream spell to bring anything you can imagine
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- 25:33here on Home Times Radio with my show Postcards to the Universe, Creating the
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- 25:42abundance and prosperity, and you will be introduced to the coolest guests, trailblazers,
- 25:48mystics and creatives who enrich our lives. Hi everyone, and welcome back
- 26:00if you're just joining me. I have Semuth Corey on and we're talking about
- 26:06basically, I mean, shifting our lives and finding our internal spark and following
- 26:15along with what we're really meant to do. And Seemuth I was seeking during
- 26:21the break. You know how lonely you must have felt being in the priesthood,
- 26:27knowing deep down that this isn't where you were supposed to be, right
- 26:33and trying to get yourself, trying to get yourself you know, like what
- 26:36do I do now? Right? Like I'm here. I don't want to
- 26:40disappoint God, my family, the church, the community, and but you
- 26:45took a leap of faith and you decided to afford your own paths. So
- 26:49for anybody listening who is feeling stuck, because I know that's part of what
- 26:53you teach or you help with people as people who feel stuck, what would
- 26:57you say is the first saying that they should do? What was the first
- 27:02thing that you did once you once you made the decision and you were on
- 27:06your way to your new your new life? What was What's the first thing
- 27:08somebody should do? It is? I suppose for me, Milisa, it
- 27:15was quite apparent. I suppose when your whole life has been centered around a
- 27:23one particular form of destiny and then that destiny is no more? What?
- 27:30What? What does that leave you with? It leaves you with a void,
- 27:36It leaves you with a real emptiness. It also leaves you confused and
- 27:41full of questions and anxiety and worry about, Like you say, what am
- 27:48I going to do now? This? This didn't work for me? What
- 27:52What am I going to do? Now? Where do I turn? The
- 27:56first thing I would say, Melicta, that we all should do bead breed
- 28:02and we should never forget how to breathe, because breathing is massively important and
- 28:07and for me, I had to learn literally how to breathe again, and
- 28:12learn how to breed properly, and slow my mind down and slow my brain
- 28:18down. So for me, I began to meditate. I began to in
- 28:23any sense connect my energy to the universal energy. I began to try,
- 28:33and I suppose slow down my spinning head and my speeding mind to understand me
- 28:41to be really begin to understand what I wanted to really begin to understand how,
- 28:48what and how I operated. I really had to go on a self
- 28:52exploration by starting how to breathe properly. In terms of finding out who are
- 29:00who am I? Who is this guy Seamus Curry? Who is this guy?
- 29:03Right? Because Sherman's Curry was defined as a ram Acatholic, please take
- 29:08that away from it. Who is you? Know what? Who is he
- 29:12to insult? Who is he to others? And I suppose I've spent the
- 29:17last twenty five years, Melissa answering that question. And when I when I
- 29:22consider that question, and when I think about that question, I suppose one
- 29:26of the first things I have to do is just slow down, because you
- 29:33know yourself that the universe goes as a completely different speed to the speed of
- 29:38everybody else. Right, And when you connect to that frequency you certain things
- 29:47will appear, certain things will show themselves, certain things will come into your
- 29:52path that you've got to take your confidences off and spend time reflecting on and
- 29:57one of them with all do you respect, Melissa. One of the books
- 30:03I first read on this subject was the book by the great doctor Wayne Dyer,
- 30:08who rule the book you will see it when you can believe it,
- 30:12or you'll achieve it when you can believe It's something along that title. And
- 30:17I remember in the early days of my journey getting this book out, and
- 30:22I suppose I was filled with the whole wide range of emotions, right,
- 30:26and the last thing I wanted, with the greatness of respect was an American
- 30:30individual turn around to me and tell me, if by simply connected my awareness
- 30:36and my energy started at the universe and manifesting what I wanted, it would
- 30:40simply arrive. And in the early days, I was a bit of a
- 30:44senate, Melissa, Right, So I said to myself, I'll tell you
- 30:47what. I'm going to get Wayne Dyer's book from the library. And I
- 30:49got it from the library, and I sat down with it, and I
- 30:52kt you not. I went through every single exercise in that book that he
- 30:56told me to do with the real the realization, and my intention was to
- 31:02write to him once the project had failed, as it were, and say
- 31:07to him that in book, a book you had written, was a load
- 31:10of Roberts in essence, in essence, the opposite happened because by doing everything
- 31:19that he instructed me to do through that book, and it's a wonderful book,
- 31:22and likewise, doing everything that you instruct people to do in your book
- 31:27in a similar fashion, honestly, magic happens and the universe comes through for
- 31:33us. And I can honestly sit here today, Citier today in happiness and
- 31:40joy knowing that universe has my back. Mm hmm. I love that it's
- 31:47called You'll see it when you believe it. I know the book well because
- 31:51I've read a lot of ways. Yes, I never read a lot of
- 31:53ways, and he was one of the first lines Ham and Louise Hey who
- 31:57sort of started me on my journey as a similar situation. So I know
- 32:04exactly what you're talking about. And yes, that is that is true.
- 32:09It's it's so many of us think that the universe doesn't have our back,
- 32:15right that life is. We believe those old stories that life is meant to
- 32:21be a struggle, that you have to work super hard to get anywhere in
- 32:25life. And when we tell ourselves these stories, that's what shows up for
- 32:30us. But when we start to shift it and we change it, the
- 32:36universe will surprise us and meet us in magical ways. When we see it
- 32:42already, then we'll believe it. And most of us say we want to
- 32:45let Yeah, like most of us won't believe it. You know, it's
- 32:49like we need the evidence before, but you have to create the evidence in
- 32:53your mind, and then the universe will show it. Yeah. Yeah,
- 32:58And it takes work, work, Don't get me wrong, It absolutely it
- 33:04does. Listening, you just don't create it and you sit back and let
- 33:07the universe do the thing. Right you've got You've got to actively get involved.
- 33:14You have to actually religne your energy and your passion to your manifestation so
- 33:20it can be achieved. Because you've already seen it. You've already you've already
- 33:24seen it. If you turned around twelve months to me, Melissa and said
- 33:30that I would be on an amazing radio show speaking with an amazing host who've
- 33:35written an amazing book. They're speaking to all your amazing listeners out there.
- 33:39You know I would I would have said you crazy, right, I would
- 33:43have said you created twelve months ago. But I mean I made the decision
- 33:47about six months ago, and I met two wonderful papers to make two wonderful
- 33:52paper commence my life. You know, Angela DeMarco and Dana Sardoana who in
- 33:57my opinion, our human angels on these individuals are amazing ladies and gentlemen of
- 34:06the radio audience. Haven't connected with these individuals, connected with them on there
- 34:10going commando podcasts on finding uniquely you dot com. I don't pay me to
- 34:15say this, but I'm encouraging everybody's connected with these two mazing individuals because they
- 34:22clements my path. Right, people comments your path, And as you said,
- 34:27you know you've got to take confidences of that. You've got to reflect
- 34:30on that. And from the moment that connected with Angela and Dana, we
- 34:34were connected. It's like we've been we've been there before, we had seen
- 34:37all the conversations board, we were complete in alignment. And from that initial
- 34:44discussion, from that initial discussion, the program that you see before you in
- 34:49the program that I'm I'm I'm I'm showing and presenting and hopefully going to deliver
- 34:54to some of your listeners. He presented, presented itself, and but not
- 35:00only that. From that, you know, how then do I get the
- 35:05program out? And then I made a connection with you, Mirista, and
- 35:07we spoke and we've connected, and you said to me, why not you
- 35:13come on my show? So I know on your show, so the universe
- 35:16has our back all the time. You know, I have a vision and
- 35:22mission in my mind. You know that I want to spread this message wide
- 35:25across the world. I want it to be a global message. I want
- 35:29people to be aligned in terms of this message, and I want people to
- 35:32connect with this message really at a human to human level, because really,
- 35:37these are the four fundamental questions I think we all ask our sort of some
- 35:42time to time. And if you are stuck, and if you are confused,
- 35:45then speaking to people who have been there, done that, and they'll
- 35:50wear that T shirt in my case me, you know, can help you
- 35:54and support you create the life that you want. It's a simple and as
- 36:00performed as that. It's true. It is true, and that's how we
- 36:04met you and I met It was through Dana's been on my show. Actually,
- 36:08yeah, I haven't had Angela yet, let me say yeah, But
- 36:13that's how you and I met. And we are both doing workshops on their
- 36:19find uniquely you dot com and the workshop, so they have asked both you
- 36:22with famous and me to do a workshop there. So that's what we created,
- 36:28and you and I met, and I never would have thought about doing
- 36:31it that way either until the universe put Dana in my path and that's how
- 36:37we connect it and I don't even know it was like we met through I
- 36:40don't even remember. We met actually online and we're both in Florida. Interestingly
- 36:45enough, we've never met in person. We've met the line and we've connected
- 36:49and now I've done done some work together. So yeah, it is pretty
- 36:52amazing. And that's what happens when you start to follow your half, the
- 37:00path you're meant to be on, and you embracing that, because little things
- 37:07will show up, a book will cross your path, you'll be introduced to
- 37:10someone, you'll take a left when you thought you were going to take a
- 37:15right because someone said, oh no, go look over there, and then
- 37:19that leads you to your next step, and then your next step and your
- 37:22next step. It's always that way. And if you really look at all
- 37:25of those amazing connections that you make, you can see, if you're self
- 37:31aware enough, you can see like, oh wow, that did work out
- 37:37for me, and what it took me a while to learn, and even
- 37:43the painful things were for my benefit. And that takes a while to really
- 37:50understand, because if I didn't have certain experiences in my past, it would
- 37:53have never taken me to where I am now. I had to go through
- 37:59that to get here, absolutely absolutely, and I think it's important to say
- 38:04that, Melissa. It's not going to be an easy journey, and there
- 38:07you know, there are some difficult days in the journeys, some really dark
- 38:10days in the journey. There are days when you want to give up.
- 38:15There will be days when you want to throw in the towel. There will
- 38:17be days when it just won't work for some unknown reason. But it's having
- 38:22that trust, it's having that intuition, it's having that connection, that knowing
- 38:30that when you find your true purpose, irrespective of the challenges that are placed
- 38:35before you, you can achieve because you can see it, you can absolutely
- 38:40see it. And I find myself surrounded by individuals such as yourself, such
- 38:45as Angelus, such as Deana, such as Tara, you know, such
- 38:51as those wonderful you know such as Death, such wonderful paper that are in
- 38:58my circle now. Who if you ever needed to believe in something working,
- 39:02you just go to these people because it's working, and it's working really well.
- 39:07When I see my own life right now, and I've seen the life
- 39:10in which I come from, I'm twenty five years on, I'm fifty four
- 39:15years of age, and I could not be happier. I am a billionaire
- 39:19when it comes to my own level of human happiness right now, because I
- 39:23am a father, I am a grandfather, I am a husband, I've
- 39:28got my own business. I'm doing the work that I've purposefully was I believe
- 39:32truly put in this world to do. I'm in a place I talk to
- 39:37so many people, I support so many people. I've had so many conversations
- 39:42with people that honestly, I am one hundred percent, one hundred percent convinced
- 39:49that this is where the universe wants me to be right now. And you
- 39:53know, to do what I do in the way that I you are,
- 39:55to support so many people, to be there for some many people. I
- 40:00know you feel the same. It's the true sacred ground and sacred territory because
- 40:07you're with people at the most runnable to support them to become stronger. And
- 40:13I suppose that Dana, as you know, uses a really good threat called
- 40:16the buntu and a bontou is I am because we are and we're already as
- 40:23strong as the people we have in our circle. And I think as we
- 40:28take this journey and we support this journey, we certainly once we listen and
- 40:32once we learn how to breed properly, and once we take contencones and reflect
- 40:37of all the things in our life, we also need to do a little
- 40:39bit of clear out. And we also need to do, you know,
- 40:43clear out those things that are not alignment. And these things are it can
- 40:47be difficult and they can be painful to come to terms with, and again
- 40:52we'll need help and support with that. But once you have that clear out,
- 40:55it filled that space with newness and new up journals, a new freshness,
- 41:01and new connections will come into your life that you'd never expected before.
- 41:06And honestly, Melissa, I am connected to universal set of people who stretch
- 41:12the four you know, the five confidents of this world, and you know,
- 41:15I'm connecting the people all over the world. Now some people have never
- 41:20met basically yet, but we've connected through the power of social media, through
- 41:24the power of connection to the problem of technology. So I can be in
- 41:29Scotland tonight speaking to you. We are you, Melissa right now, I'm
- 41:31in Florida, so you're in Florida. I'm in Scotland. You know on
- 41:37Times on Times is managing the session, you know, from their own base.
- 41:43It's so wonderful. It's a wonderful experience. It's wonderful. It's wonderful.
- 41:50Life is wonderful. I love listening to you talk because I can feel
- 41:55every time I talk with you or we connect on social media, You're joy
- 42:00is just cotageous. I'd love that you said I am the billionaire in my
- 42:05own life and it has nothing to do with the actual money in your bank
- 42:08account. I just love that, and I really believe you when you say
- 42:12it. But that that's how you feel, and I think that's why so
- 42:15many people resonate with you and want to talk to you and want to connect
- 42:20with you, because you have that ability, you know, to bring that
- 42:25out and I want to talk about because in your workshop, you ask us
- 42:30questions, right, like, you know, do we stuck in our life?
- 42:32Do we want to renew and reset our you know, in our personal
- 42:37circumstances. And there is one question that stands at and it says, maybe
- 42:42you just want to find out who you really are? And I thought that's
- 42:47interesting, that's really powerful because we don't always know who we really are,
- 42:53because like you said early in the beginning, is other people are telling us
- 42:58who we are, but who are we really? So can you expand on
- 43:01that a little bit? When you when you ask us that question? Who
- 43:05do who are we really? Who are we? Absolutely? So? When
- 43:10when you when you ask this question, who am I? Right? Who
- 43:15am I? Who am I to myself? I know who I am to
- 43:19other people? So you might be a lover, you might be a partner,
- 43:21you might be selves, you might be a creator, you might be
- 43:23a prayer, you might be secilitated. But who am I to myself?
- 43:28What makes me special? What it makes me you need? What it makes
- 43:32me take? And you know? And it may be the first time,
- 43:37Melissa, that we have actually asked that question of ourselves. Yeah, and
- 43:45will you ask that question of yourself? I hate the paper who want to
- 43:50engage me in my service. What it says people is this, if you're
- 43:54prepared to ask the questions. Mm hmm. We appeared to listen to the
- 44:01answer because there might be somethings you like about yourself, and there might be
- 44:09some things that are real strengths in your life and some things that you may
- 44:14not like about yourself. And see those things, even that we don't like,
- 44:17we can change. We can grow, We can we can find new
- 44:24pathways in our life in our journey. We don't have to remain where we
- 44:30are, we don't have to remain stuck. And it's when we find out
- 44:36that we are a person of strength, like for example, for me,
- 44:38when I found out that I have great resilience, when I found out that
- 44:43I have great empathy, when I found out that I have great gifts to
- 44:46connect, support and embolden people. When I found out I have I have
- 44:52the gifts of the gap, as my wife would say, and I have
- 44:55the gift a chat and have the gifts to engage with anybody across any sector,
- 45:00across any sphere in the life. When you have experience those gifts,
- 45:07I think, and you find out who you are because of those gifts.
- 45:10I think that becomes a moral imperative then for you to share those gifts with
- 45:15others. Yeah, I think you know, there's the best script. You
- 45:21say, don't l like your life and keep it under a bed. Put
- 45:24your life somewhere where paper can see it. So when you experience those gifts
- 45:30in yourself, you have a universal moral imperative to share those gifts with others.
- 45:37What might be might be. And if you help another person in the
- 45:43process, that's paying it forwarding a forward. That's doing the universal thing,
- 45:50isn't it. Yeah? I love that you. Yes, And it's so
- 45:53funny because it made me think about myself because I would never have thought it
- 45:59because I'm a visual artist is my background, that I would be doing radio
- 46:02and sharing people's gifts with the world like that is a gift that I have
- 46:07that I didn't know I had, that that that I was meant to do.
- 46:09That I was meant because people find me. I don't seek out.
- 46:14People seek me out and it's always the right fit. And I they have
- 46:19a message that I love and I have found a platform to share it and
- 46:22it just happened and I'm good at it. I'm a fantastic listener. You
- 46:30are right, thank you. Yes I am, Yes, I am.
- 46:37I am always been a good listener, and I've always been a big thinker,
- 46:44and it is not surprising to me that I have attracted people who have
- 46:49messages that need to be shared and that I am the person here sharing these
- 46:53messages with my show, you know, which just wasn't something that I had
- 46:59envisioned for my So that's what's so amazing about doing this kind of work and
- 47:05what you help people find inside themselves because you work one on one with people,
- 47:09and you also work with companies, but you help people find this in
- 47:14themselves. Do you want to talk a little bit about that? Because we
- 47:16only have five minutes left, So why don't you share a little bit about
- 47:20what your workshop is and what you will be sharing with us who take your
- 47:25workshop. Okay, first of all, First of all, I don't claim
- 47:30to be something i'm not. So I'm not a psychiatrist, I'm not a
- 47:34psycholatrist. I'm not playing counflor. I'm not a medical health practitioner. I'm
- 47:38a pastful mentor. I'm a pasful well being consultant. So I think the
- 47:45skills, I think the skills that I've used and gleaned for my pre pre
- 47:50life and my pre ply trailing. I build those gifts into developing a really
- 47:54strong well being mentoring program. And I will tell people who come on my
- 47:59program, well, and if if you join up and join and register for
- 48:04my program, you will be with me and I will be with you every
- 48:07step of the way in terms of this journey. So yes, it may
- 48:10only exists for four weeks actually, but the journey is longer than that.
- 48:15The journey please for the rest of your life, so as your as your
- 48:20guide on the side, as your brother from another mother, I will be
- 48:23with you for as long as the journey exists. And secondly, what I
- 48:28tell people is I will not ask you to do anything anything that I that
- 48:35I haven't done myself. So all the exercises, all the activities in terms
- 48:40of my program, our activities and exercises that I have done myself that I
- 48:46have proved, you know, work for me, and hopefully they may work
- 48:51for you too. Profully, I don't guarantee success. But what I will
- 48:58guarantee though, is that if you invest fully in the program and in this
- 49:04fully in you, and that if you believe you matter, then great things
- 49:08will happen as a result of being on my program. Right, yeah,
- 49:13oh, I agree with you. And it's when is it? When is
- 49:15your starting chas? When is it is it? It's starting in early February
- 49:22now, so I think the first day I have in the calendar is around
- 49:25the eight of February February. So if you go on to find uniquely you
- 49:30dot com, I look for a forward Slash workshops, look for me.
- 49:35You'll see all the new dates up there, Melissa, so they'll all be
- 49:37there. Okay, Now I'm excited for you because I think it's amazing.
- 49:45It's amazing what you're doing. And like I said, I just every time
- 49:49I've talked to you, I leave the conversation feeling so much joy and happiness
- 49:55because you have that energy. You know, you'd love to be with people
- 50:00who are filled with joy. Right, You can feel it when you're when
- 50:02you're in the presence of someone who really loves their life and wants to share
- 50:07it. Compared to being with somebody who all they do is complain and bring
- 50:12you down. You leave that person exhausted. You're like, stay away from
- 50:15me. Right, you want to be with the joyous people. You're like,
- 50:17I want what you got to do it? We deserve to be happiness,
- 50:24so we deserve to have joy in lives. Life is there to be
- 50:29lived and lives to the full. It's not there just to be existed.
- 50:32It's there to be lived every second of every day to be lived or utmost.
- 50:37And what my program will help you to do is begin to become aware
- 50:42of what's really important in your life and how to get what you really want.
- 50:46What you think you want might be different to what you really want.
- 50:52And that's what my program will help to support people to do. No,
- 50:54I love it, yeah, because that's what the exercises I have in the
- 50:58book. Because you think you on something, but that's not what you really
- 51:00want, right And then you discover You discover by really getting to know who
- 51:07you are. Back to that question, who are you getting to know who
- 51:10you are? Then you know we then you'll know what the next steps are
- 51:15to take. So is there anything you want to leave us with? One
- 51:17last thing is we're going to be wrapping up in like a minute. Okay,
- 51:22I'll leave you with one guy you thought, Okay, if you want
- 51:27to be stocked stock, if you want to be on stock connect to my
- 51:34program. Yeah, I love that. It was such a pleasure having you
- 51:37with me today. Thank you so so much. Yeah, we definitely we
- 51:45definitely need to meet face to face, right, So, yeah, you
- 51:49and I definitely need to meet all on Earth playing right, Okay, definitely,
- 51:55Thank you guys, Thank you so much for listening to Postcards to the
- 51:59Universe with Melissa creating the life you crave. Wishing everyone a wonderful week filled
- 52:04with joy, abundance and love. Peace,