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Polygamy Does Not Align With My Faith - May Yul Edochie Speaks · DidiLawren

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Hello and welcome back to my channel.
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My name is Lorenzo who defy and this is burnt with Lawrence
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here. How are you all doing?
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Happy Sunday. Listen, I told myself I am not
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going to talk about. Mary people put these people are
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making it very difficult, like I am stressed online in Lord job
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is not Is the I am stressed and I don't even know these people,
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so let me just dive into the topic today.
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Stories about you, iguchi and his estranged wife.
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Although he came, you know, attacking people who call that a
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strange saying that they are still married living under the
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same roof box. Let me just go back to the
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history. So you let the Chia meal that
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should have been married for over 18 years.
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He got her pregnant when When we were dating during their teens
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dating and he got her pregnant and they got married the parents
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according to the story, the parents force them to get
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married because they said that she was like, no child of mine
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is going to have children outside.
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So that was how they got married at a very tender age, not
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certain that now if you look back at it now, so they got
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married. So they're having children
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sleep, dude, in our homes. You let the cheese that I act in
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movies. And the change being a dutiful
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wife, she was at home doing you know Lisa Lisa businesses.
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You read the chair. When he started, contesting, for
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the presidency trains, 23 presidency made some statement.
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He said that his wife is perfect, his wife that, you
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know, nothing that she has been with him when he had nothing up
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until this point when these are soft.
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So he praised his wife based on that Regatta, People kind of,
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you know, people love, love story, people, love happy
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endings Society. Bought into that story.
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They were like, ever. In fact, they had to make them
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as an example. When girls are looking for
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already made men, they said I asked, see you later chair and
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his wife, they started when they have nothing and today they are
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good. They are for kids.
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They are happy. They are these.
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They are thats hmm. All of a sudden just love that
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came out and said, if you'll Not confess that they're going to
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review a very massive secret that he's been keeping.
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Before you could say Jack you let the check came out.
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Posted a picture of his baby. A baby boy saying that he is now
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married to Judy Austin. People are kind of confused.
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You are like married. I mean, you were expecting
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something like having a child but nobody was expecting
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marriage. Nobody was expecting polygamy,
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has his second wife, kind of situation.
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So when you came, And said that everybody was kind of confused
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who are now calling up. May like me, what is going on?
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You know what is happening? Mary replied and was like, oh
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she's not aware of anything that's going on.
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That she was not aware. People were like, how can your
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husband have you home? Baby, who are the baby?
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Is about a year old. Do you like this?
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There's no way you can see, you don't know that your husband has
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a girlfriend, your husband. You know, got her pregnant, had
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a baby and married her and you're not our way.
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So she came out and clarify that, okay?
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She was aware that we dating, but she was not aware of the
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marriage. So, basically, you'll, according
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to the story, you'll has been dating Judy, Austin for over six
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years. And then when he got her
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pregnant, she had the baby. He now whence because amiibo
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cultural for you to claim a child, you have to pay the bride
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price. So he was not using Tradition as
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an excuse to pay in of claiming that baby, he went and paid a
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bride price and Judy Austin became his second wife.
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So people were kind of confused aside me, are you happy with
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this situation? Are you happy to be a second
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wife? Make him a saint says she's not
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happy to be anybody. Second wife that she does not
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support polygamy. Have faith, does not support
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polygamy. Nobody consulted her before this
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polygamy. Arrangements.
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So she isn't she will not be a party to it.
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You on the other hand and he the second wife, Judy Austin, they
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were always on social media in our faces prison each other.
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You don't think calling you do go, you calling her AJ Lee.
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Hey, you was calling her is jelly, you know, these are the
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pet names that they were using a social media.
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Now, whenever may post, Judy will post and our husband, the
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polygamous husband Comments on both of their pictures so this
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was going on. So when actually make Amazon
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says, she's nice suppose of polygamy May gain a whole lot of
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followers because we were like, this is a modern woman.
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This is a model woman in Nigeria, standing up for herself
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saying, no to a new patriarch is saying no to the system that
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does not favor women so she didn't go hope you were looking.
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If he became money friends are people looking up to have people
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like saying that? This is an example of a woman
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that was presented with this kind of choice and she decided
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not to go with it. People, a lot of people, both
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young old and whatever with supporting her locally and
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internationally, you made the change.
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You made the chicken, the whole lot of fans.
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So fast-forward, she celebrated, her birthday recently and she
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did a foundation, and during the celebration You little cherry
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popped out of nowhere. He was standing there.
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You know, do you know do good? Do you know that?
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This is his wife who God has joined together?
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Let no, man, put asunder, it was cringeworthy like, she was kind
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of just trying to hold ourselves together and according to the
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story, she never wanted him there.
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But he kind of bomb pursued his way.
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So it was either making it creating a scene or just
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allowing him. The stage, you know, to be on
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that stage and she chose to just allow him do whatever he wanted
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to do. So that created a whole lot of
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backlash. Remember people followed her
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people like that because she was saying that she's not expose of
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polygamy, so when all that was going on, you'll actually posted
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the video and social media are people who are kind of confused.
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They said me I don't understand somebody lived, 80 Euros a
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caption on her page where she said you live DJ celebrates his
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estranged wife met Eddie cheese, veggie you attacks Linda saying
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that. Why you calling her is strange?
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She's my first wife, we are legally married, we live in the
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same house. In my Mansion we live in my
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Mansion so that Linda had to change the caption because she
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was like, okay, you know, I am not in your houses so if you say
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you're still married so that kind of generated a whole new
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level of controversy. People are not asking me that
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your what is going on? You should tell us if you're
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still married to this man, if you're still happy to continue
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with this marriage, we can support you but you just have to
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let us know. Don't tell us you're not
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supposed polygamy. And on the other hand, you're
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still living with your husband and you do still married to him.
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So what is the the situation? Give us an update.
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May the chair release the statements and I am going to
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read a statement to you. So may said the ability to
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accept or tolerate challenges and problems in life is virtual
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and should not be misconstrued. There is no point making an
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already bad situation worse. Hence, the need to remain calm
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is crucial. I understand that we all have
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our weaknesses and limitations as humans and I personally
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believe, everyone deserves an opportunity to make things right
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when this tree forgiveness is divine.
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Beyond all the unnecessary facade polygamy is a life
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choice, and no one should be compelled to accept it.
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It is something I think all parties involved should embrace
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willingly and it is okay for anyone who chooses it, some
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religions / Traditions allow polygamy, and I have nothing
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against it. However, I am absolutely certain
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that I will not be Bird as a wife or because George to accept
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a practice that does not align with my faith and family values.
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God bless me with a happy peaceful and lovely family, in a
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beautiful and jointly built mansion that started from Little
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or nothing. Humble beginnings.
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What more should I have been asking for?
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I had a stable loving home prior to the You dented events
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regarding my marriage life is made up of infinite amount of
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choices. Most decision might be tough to
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make. But however we confront our
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options with courage and confidence, we should equally be
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open to the part of our own design.
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I believe that we are solely responsible for our choices and
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we have to accept the consequences of every deed world
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and thought that comes with It's in our lifetime.
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We should understand that taking life-changing decisions.
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Paisley is not the best option. God In His Infinite, messes
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fixes things in his own time. He would definitely answer.
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All our prayers. Thank you all for your
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continuous prayers love and support may God bless you
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abundantly it is my bed months Queen me.
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You'll agree Chi. Hmm.
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After my release is missing. A lot of our fans were happy.
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They said oh message your, she's not going to be numbered but
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there are so many on the line statements there.
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That people are ignoring the fact that may signed.
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It may. You leg Dolce Maci Morris with
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you. Mary is not going anywhere.
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May is going to come out and say, oh, I'm not accepting
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polygamy and nobody is asking me to leave her husband.
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Let's just put it out there. Both are the same time.
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She's like playing both sides saying that.
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She's not accepting her polygamy.
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I hope raid what I pray for you. Pray for duty to die because you
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did the second wife, or you praying for your husband to come
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to his senses live, Judy and come back.
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Home, would you accept, you know, this one, who different
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things involved in layers of unpacking that needs to be done
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in this situation. Now, it is You know, a lot of
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people say, oh, a feminist people are coming to tell me to
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leave her husband. That is not the point.
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If you come out publicly to condemn something, if you come
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up probably to condemn polygamy to say, you're not a party to
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polygamy, but you're still me, you'll able to say, let's say,
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okay maybe I don't want to change her name because that's
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not her brand, my view. You do Chi, that's his name,
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Mary. I don't know how many didn't
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name is but she took the identity of her husband me.
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My other videos talking about the importance of having an
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identity. So me on this other hand
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identity is her husband that is what she's known for.
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So even if May is going to say, okay let me leave you what is my
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going to be called? Let's say, is it going to be me
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and morrocco CC? Or is it going to be more
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careful? Or is it going to be me?
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So I think That has a whole lot of things at play at the moment.
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Yes. People can say, oh, what is,
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what is in a name, change your name.
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Well, if you type, let's say her name.
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Her maiden name is okuru and now she's coming out to say she's
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made of Kuru. Who is going to know me or Coral
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because people are still going to be searching for me.
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You led to Che the the hashtag is still going to be made you
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leader Chaser. I think there's a whole lot of
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play this situation. She's kind of stock and his just
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praying. According to tattoo her post,
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she is praying for God to restore, you know, her happy
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home and one of the things I realized in our text is this
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just denial. She's always been living in
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denial. Let me just put it that way.
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I am not here to bash me. Do chi, I support me Duty.
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I suppose any woman stand up for herself.
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Cough, but not making a stand, like not choosing the path is,
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is I don't even know what to call it.
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Because according to report you later, chasman seeing this lady
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for over six years, they've been dating for over six years.
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I think the situation is that, I mean, African women.
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I think they'd accept cheating as Norm, you know, every man
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must cheat, man, a polygamist by Nature.
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You can't even accept his child because according to miss poste,
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she is ready to accept the product of that.
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If you read your on the line statements, let's say if God
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restored, that child is not going.
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Anyway, that's how the still going to be there.
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Judy can leave more. The child is going to be there.
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So according to the post, she is going to accept.
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Let's accept the child as her husband's child Bots.
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She is not willing to tolerate, you know, to be numbered as a
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wife. Let's say she's the first wife
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and then there's a second one. So she's don't, she's not ready
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to do that. So, wash it.
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Why is she praying for me is praying for you to come back to
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the census, Chase, Judy away. I don't know and then come back
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to her. But what happens to the child
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that child is your husband's child because he has claimed
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that child as his own. So one Thing is Nigerian, women
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are happy with cheating. I don't think any Nigerian woman
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who live a marriage because of cheating, know any Nigerian
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woman dies telling you. Oh, I'm leaving my marriage
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because he cheated on me and God is no truth.
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There are layers of water problems that they are having
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that she couldn't, you know, accommodate not just that she
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didn't know Nigerian woman, whether rich or poor is going to
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give a husband because of cheating.
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Secondly, no natural long live our husband because he got
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somebody pregnant, they will stay I don't know how many that
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you stick it between a whole new level that knowledge around
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woman will leave our marriage even when the husband cheats,
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you know, impregnates. Another woman have a love child,
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got married to her and then divorced her to come back to to
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her. This is not a different layer
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that We hear these things before, I mean happens.
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But is this what she's trying to teach her daughter because the
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daughter came online and said marriage is a sham because
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everybody last last rule, you know, who disgrace your
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disrespect to you or something like that that the daughter was
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talking about on social media. This is an 18 year old child
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coming out to see these things. It's you know, 99 I think coming
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out to talk about marriage in this slide because of what she
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has seen her parents. I mean, you can imagine what
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happens in that house. Forget about what's going on
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social media. Forget about the online in-laws.
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Yeah, we are going to come out and talk about it.
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No problem. But just imagine what goes on
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behind closed doors. You did an interview came out
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and said, listen. Nobody knows what I faced in my
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house so if I decide to use Judy has an escape.
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I should be priests. Like I am a note to my
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responsibility. I got her pregnant and I
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married, Heidi shy away from my responsibilities.
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According to him. He is a new do for even doing
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that or they're in me. I think everybody knows the kind
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of woman did Mary. I think he is for him to come
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out every day. I miss shouting, my first wife,
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my first wife, he is hundred and ten percent.
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Sure. That means not going anywhere
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Maison. Living husband, When I he go
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because I anybody that she's cheat, whether he marries Judy
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now they see another one that is Ian outside that he will be
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cheating with on top of me and Judy so that will not change
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anything that will not end. Even if you did, need is praying
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for her husband, to forego to touch her husband, and bring him
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back to her. That will not change.
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The fact that this guy who cheats, he's been cheating with
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one person for six years. That was Meaning was not like
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stadi for six years. That does not mean.
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He didn't have any other side piece and may was aware of this.
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And she told her rated it, she took all these things just
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because she wants to be married, like Nigerian women.
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What are we doing? What are we doing?
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Like, what level of disrespect are we willing to take?
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I am not saying this is one, this is why I there was so many
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barrage issue. Shoes that are, you know, line
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has been going on. The people are discussing.
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I chose not to talk about it because I was like, let me just
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stick with somebody's marriage Wala before.
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If you now look as if I am I am. You know, trying to to make
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people. I don't know.
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Honestly, I don't know. I didn't of the day.
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She is the one that is going to make a decision.
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You cannot tell somebody what to do with their life because she
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can live out one today. In ego in those she's crying
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because she's thinking I have built with this man for, you
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know, the past, almost two decades and do they just pop up
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out of nowhere? And now he's enjoying everything
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that I have labeled for so that we playing at the back of our
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mind. If me for the past six years,
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allowed her husband to cheat with, dude, this is two people
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have been acting movies. They've been doing lovey, lovey,
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lovey. You know, in the movie industry,
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everybody knows that the way dating, I may also is in the
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industry because there is no women who say that nobody told
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her. Now this brings me to question,
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if you see a friend of yours, the husband cheating, would you
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happily go and tell your friend that?
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Oh, I saw your husband here and here and here he was cheating on
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you. This is what happened.
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Now, there is a whole different story about this one.
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If friend in color bar called our friends to see, ah, I saw
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your husband, it's one that he's a psychic in the hotel.
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They are just about to leave you.
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If you come within the next five minutes now you're going to
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catch them. This woman jumped into a car
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while she was driving in. The husband was about to make a
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U-turn to the other side of the route.
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She on high speed was, you know, they told us to get there before
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5 minutes to catch the husband. So, she was pleading for her to
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turn make a U-turn and, you know, follow the husband because
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she was on high speed. She rammed into a tree and that
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was how she died. So this discussion has been
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going on. If you know, your whole friend's
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husband is cheating, are you going to tell your friend that
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your husband is cheating? Because we can see one of the
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results being that this woman, they told her that her husband
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was cheating and she was trying to get to catch him red-handed
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or probably be The side chick a sheet, that was how she ended
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our life. So would you even see anything?
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Because people were saying that may is denying the, I think male
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is living in denial, she is in it.
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LOL, and because her statements were saying that she has a
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beautiful peaceful loving home. Your husband has been cheating
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for six years with one woman and see there's no loving in that
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home. There's no, I don't know, which
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kind of Peace. Are you having knowing that?
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You're all A man is sleeping with one woman for six years.
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So, Judy is like me is living in denial.
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As far as I'm concerned, she is living in denial.
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So that kind of person. He's saying that you cannot make
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decision in a historic decision. When you're whatever bottom line
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is, for those supporting me because they think that, oh, she
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is like the pillar of a woman, or the example of a woman.
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Also possum polygamy May is going to drink that police.
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Me see like, you know, piping hot, she's going to drink it and
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ask for second, you know, cop, she's going to do it.
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So let's just allow people make that decision.
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If may say she's not happy to be no matters wife but she's happy
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to be wife, all he needs to do is tell Judy, okay, I cannot
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call you wife anymore. I cannot believe second wife so
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that my first wife will be happy.
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All my wife will be happy then. I don't know what he would call.
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He's already calling I jelly. So maybe he will not call a
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second wife and you call like jelly and then you will be
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happy. And then we do your line
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windows. I think we just need to back off
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because sometimes you just need to allow people to build their
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situations. You can think that all I know
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what to do. If I was in that situation, I
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would have left. I would have done this, I would
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have done that. Aunty you are in somebody's
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shoes, you can never tell how you will react in that
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situation. So let's just leave me, May is
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not going anywhere. May was happy for husbands who
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cheats me was how happy for us back to our this side chick 474
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for close to seven years. Me was happy for husband to
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impregnate his side-chick met was the omphalos.
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One side she gave birth to me was still there when he went up
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it up, right price? So do you think new Leave now I
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don't know. So leave me a comment in the
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comment section. What do you think?
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Do you think that means playing both sides or do you think that
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she's funny too difficult part because her kids.
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She's not breastfeeding. Let's face it.
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So it's not like oh I children or the the situation where you
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say she is not financially. Buoyant May is getting
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endorsements Left, Right Center? So that is not even, the issue
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is estate. Frosting for me.
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And that state us is where she said, she's not ready to be non
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bad. So if you remove the number of
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first wife Mae, is happy to be wife.
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I'm not even numbered wife. So what do you think?
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Let me know in the comments section.
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