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Toxic Relationship Stories: Who’s Really in the Wrong? · The conspiracy

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  Speaker 1: Hello, everybody, and welcome back to my YouTube channel, or
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  Speaker 1: welcome to my YouTube channel. I'm CallMeChris, you can call
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  Speaker 1: me Chris. We have Jessica, my older sister, and her child, George,
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  Speaker 1: who we're gonna censor because respect. And we have Alyssa here,
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  Speaker 1: my younger sister as well. It's a family affair today
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  Speaker 1: in Chris's stingy ratchet reddit salon. And we're gonna talk
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  Speaker 1: about some relationship problems, because we have none, and we're experts.
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  Speaker 1: Ha ha ha! Just kidding. We're all high relationship bugs.
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  Speaker 1: George might need to leave at some point, but we'll
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  Speaker 1: see how long he lasts. Who wants to give a compliment? George?
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  Speaker 2: Oh!
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  Speaker 1: Good job! All right, so we'll be doing Jessica's hair today.
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  Speaker 1: She was on the first Reddit episode and the growth
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  Speaker 1: is real. And also underneath is like a black hole.
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  Speaker 1: So we're just gonna be fixing that while she reads
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  Speaker 1: the Reddit stories and we're gonna give our unprofessional opinion.
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  Speaker 1: Thank you, George.
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  Speaker 3: Am I the scallywag for mentioning that I had chronic
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  Speaker 3: toothache while my wife was in labor?
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  Speaker 1: Yes! I just know, I just know where this is
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  Speaker 1: gonna go.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, but before reading it. Okay, yeah.
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  Speaker 1: She just had a baby recently.
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  Speaker 3: I just had a baby, and last year at this time,
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  Speaker 3: I needed root canal. And I will tell you, tooth
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  Speaker 3: pain is real. It's real. It's real. It hurts. However,
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  Speaker 3: I will not deny the tooth pain. However, having contractions
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  Speaker 3: every few minutes over and over and over and over.
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  Speaker 1: I feel so bad for you.
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  Speaker 3: It's a lot to handle.
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  Speaker 1: What does a contraction feel like?
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  Speaker 3: I remember it hurting so bad, but at this point,
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  Speaker 3: I can't pinpoint exactly what it felt like. No.
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  Speaker 1: You get brainwashed? I don't know.
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  Speaker 3: I've heard about this.
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  Speaker 1: The amount of.
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  Speaker 3: Oxytocin that leaves your body when you have a baby makes.
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  Speaker 1: You forget all of the pain, and then you have
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  Speaker 1: to face. Alyssa's a peds nurse, by the way.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: I'm the only one that's not qualified at all to
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  Speaker 1: be in any vicinity of a baby.
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  Speaker 3: I did have the epidural. I had laughing gas, so
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  Speaker 3: I can't say a lot. But I did have to
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  Speaker 3: experience contractions for a while. And man, I just remember
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  Speaker 3: it being an out-of-this-world pain. And I was very, like,
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  Speaker 3: surprised that people just do this naturally. Because I was,
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  Speaker 3: as soon as I saw my midwife, I was like, yeah,
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  Speaker 3: epidural please.
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  Speaker 2: What's a midwife?
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  Speaker 1: Is that like a witch?
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  Speaker 2: I don't know.
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  Speaker 3: No.
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  Speaker 1: Why you laugh? Is it not? No. It sounds like
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  Speaker 1: a medieval witch.
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  Speaker 4: It does, it does.
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  Speaker 3: It does. No, they're, they do like, what Alyssa, like
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  Speaker 3: eight years of schooling? How to give birth tutorial. They
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  Speaker 3: do a lot of schooling. They do a lot of schooling.
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  Speaker 1: Do they actually?
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  Speaker 3: A lot, like eight years.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, and I thought it was like when you get
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  Speaker 1: ordained to be a, like a minister. No. I've left
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  Speaker 1: this vagina, a baby can come out. I thought you
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  Speaker 1: could just get that online.
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  Speaker 3: Nope, nope. She, like the midwives do like eight years
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  Speaker 3: of schooling.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, wow, really?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, no, they do a lot of schooling.
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  Speaker 1: Wow, what a fun name then.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, so it's pretty cool.
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  Speaker 1: Okay. Okay, going on.
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  Speaker 3: Am I the scallywag for mentioning that I had a
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  Speaker 3: chronic toothache while my wife was in labor? I'm posting
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  Speaker 3: this from my wife's account and both perspectives are included. I,
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  Speaker 3: the husband, and asking if I'm the scallywag. This is
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  Speaker 3: a topic we've been debating for almost two years now.
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  Speaker 3: It'd be great to get some outside perspective and judgment.
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  Speaker 3: My perspective, the husband. My wife went into labor three
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  Speaker 3: weeks early, so somewhat unexpectedly. Over the prior couple months,
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  Speaker 3: I had started developing an intermittent toothache about two or
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  Speaker 3: three hours into the 19-hour labor.
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  Speaker 1: Okay.
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  Speaker 3: I probably ate something delicious. After eating something delicious, I
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  Speaker 3: can't quite remember what it was. My tooth started hurting
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  Speaker 3: in an ungodly way. I'm talking sharp, eye-watering pain. Her
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  Speaker 3: contractions at this point were very far apart, and she
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  Speaker 3: was in little discomfort.
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  Speaker 1: I get that.
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  Speaker 3: Over the next couple of hours, the toothache became a
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  Speaker 3: competing topic of conversation with imminent birth of our first child.
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  Speaker 3: I didn't want to leave her side to look for
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  Speaker 3: medicine until her parents arrived. Good on you.
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  Speaker 1: Okay.
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  Speaker 3: Once they arrived to my surprise, I was able to
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  Speaker 3: find oral numbing medication at the hospital convenience store. Nice.
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  Speaker 1: Not sponsored by originals.
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  Speaker 3: No. That with a couple of Exedrin was able to
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  Speaker 3: alleviate the pain just as my wife's contractions started to
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  Speaker 3: pick up. Am I the scallywag for discussing my mouth
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  Speaker 3: pain during her labor? Okay. Wife's perspective. Oh, I like that.
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  Speaker 3: Wife's perspective. My husband and I have been complaining about
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  Speaker 3: toothache for months and months throughout my first pregnancy. It
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  Speaker 3: kept getting worse and every time he complained, I'd say
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  Speaker 3: he should go to the dentist, but he refused. Oh.
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  Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, I love this. This is why you
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  Speaker 1: need both perspectives. This is how all Reddit stories should be.
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  Speaker 3: Okay. So as he mentioned, as I was in labor,
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  Speaker 3: he started once again to complain about his tooth pain. Granted,
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  Speaker 3: I wasn't in terrible pain, but for a few hours
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  Speaker 3: while I was in the hospital getting ready to push
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  Speaker 3: a child out of my body, he continued to complain
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  Speaker 3: frequently about his toothache. Oh my gosh. I did feel
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  Speaker 3: bad he was uncomfortable, but I had asked him multiple
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  Speaker 3: times to get it checked out, and there were other
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  Speaker 3: things at the moment I felt I should be focusing on. Yes. Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: no kidding. I'd like to also mention it wasn't just
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  Speaker 3: he mentioned once or twice his tooth was hurting. This
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  Speaker 3: dominated the conversation for probably a couple hours. He is
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  Speaker 3: a great father and husband, but he is also the scallywag.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, my gosh, I love having both perspectives.
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  Speaker 2: Me too.
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  Speaker 1: This is great. Oh, it's not looking good for you, Todd,
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  Speaker 1: or whatever the fuck your name is.
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  Speaker 3: Hey, baby.
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  Speaker 1: He doesn't know what the fuck I'm saying.
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  Speaker 3: I had some high hopes when I first was reading him.
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  Speaker 3: I was like, oh, you know what? That sucks, man. Like,
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  Speaker 3: you have no control over it. However, you've been complaining
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  Speaker 3: for months. Oh, he likes that.
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  Speaker 1: It's funny.
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  Speaker 3: You've been complaining for months, and you refuse to get
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  Speaker 3: a doctor's appointment or a dentist's appointment?
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  Speaker 1: I was going to ask, like, last time I had
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  Speaker 1: a toothache, it was very gradual. Oh, okay, so mine.
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  Speaker 5: Like, it was a little bit, and then it got
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  Speaker 5: really bad, but then... So even right now, I have
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  Speaker 5: a little bit.
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  Speaker 3: I notice that I'm sensitive on this one tooth right now,
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  Speaker 3: and I'm like, ugh, I should probably make an appointment.
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  Speaker 3: Because last year, when I needed a root canal, I
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  Speaker 3: was a little bit sensitive, but it did come on quite... abruptly. Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: So I was ready to be on this guy's side.
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  Speaker 3: But he knew it. However.
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  Speaker 1: But he knew it was happening and he didn't take
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  Speaker 1: care of it. Yeah. Especially after he knows that a
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  Speaker 1: newborn's about to come. Like you have to take care
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  Speaker 1: of yourself so you can take care of your flippin'
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  Speaker 1: floppin' baby.
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  Speaker 4: Yes.
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  Speaker 1: Is that better?
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  Speaker 3: Do you like that? That is absolutely correct. And you
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  Speaker 3: know what? When you're in child, it's all about the woman.
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  Speaker 3: I'm sorry. When you are giving birth, there is nothing
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  Speaker 3: else that needs to be focused on.
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  Speaker 1: There's no argument there.
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  Speaker 3: No, you need that support system. And honestly, you taking
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  Speaker 3: away from that experience kind of sucks because that's what
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  Speaker 3: you're going to remember.
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  Speaker 1: You could suck it up. Like talking about it isn't
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  Speaker 1: going to do anything.
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  Speaker 3: No.
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  Speaker 1: If you didn't realize that, you know, like get some Orogel,
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  Speaker 1: shove it in your trap. Stop.
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  Speaker 3: Sorry.
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  Speaker 1: Flipping trap.
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  Speaker 3: Stop talking. Agreed.
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  Speaker 1: The people.
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  Speaker 3: Yes. If my husband had been complaining of a toothache
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  Speaker 3: for months and refused to go to the dentist, I'd
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  Speaker 3: be pretty effing pissed. Exactly. I'd be sympathetic over a
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  Speaker 3: sudden toothache and probably joke about the timing. Ongoing one
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  Speaker 3: where he's been refusing treatments for months. Nope. Yeah. It
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  Speaker 3: was the food's fault.
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  Speaker 1: For being delicious. That was so ridiculous. I thought that
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  Speaker 1: was weird.
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  Speaker 3: That was weird. Yeah. Especially after having gone to the
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  Speaker 3: doctor every couple of weeks for the whole pregnancy. Yeah. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: True.
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  Speaker 3: And tooth pain isn't generally something that goes away on
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  Speaker 3: its own after months of hurting. Turns out to be nothing.
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  Speaker 3: It's not something to be effed with. And I'm scallywag
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  Speaker 3: for saying my wife wasn't my dream girl in a
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  Speaker 3: trivia game.
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  Speaker 1: I'm just going to go ahead and say yeah, but
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  Speaker 1: all right.
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  Speaker 3: So my wife and I have been doing game night
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  Speaker 3: ever so often with other couples via Zoom since we
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  Speaker 3: can't go out and see people lately.
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  Speaker 1: Okay.
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  Speaker 3: Oh, this was three years ago, so COVID got it.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, sounds okay.
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  Speaker 3: We were playing this card game the other night that
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  Speaker 3: was basically a trivia game for couples to play, and
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  Speaker 3: you are asked a question, and you write down your answer,
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  Speaker 3: and your partner has to guess what they think you answered.
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  Speaker 3: If they guess correctly, your team gets a point. Whichever
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  Speaker 3: couples knows each other the best wins.
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  Speaker 1: Okay.
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  Speaker 3: So some of the questions in the version were a
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  Speaker 3: little spicy. One of the questions was, who is your
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  Speaker 3: dream man woman to have sex with? I wrote down.
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  Speaker 1: No, say it. What did he say?
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  Speaker 3: I wrote down my spin instructor. Since my wife knows
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  Speaker 3: I think she's hot and thought she'd guess her and
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  Speaker 3: we'd get the point. I.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, I haven't read these stories. Alyssa picked these.
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  Speaker 5: I'm, oh.
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  Speaker 1: No.
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  Speaker 3: Well, F me. Turns out every other husband either wrote
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  Speaker 3: down their wife or a celebrity or fictional character.
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  Speaker 4: Duh.
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  Speaker 3: May as well have said your mom.
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  Speaker 1: You know what this reminds me of?
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  Speaker 3: King of Queens. Carrie was like saying different people and
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  Speaker 3: then she asked Doug.
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  Speaker 1: I think I'm just going to go with that girl
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  Speaker 1: that does your nails.
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  Speaker 5: Good night.
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  Speaker 3: My husband and I laugh so hard.
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  Speaker 1: Oh my gosh that's hilarious.
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  Speaker 3: My wife was livid and upset. I tried to explain
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  Speaker 3: I didn't actually want to do anything with my instructor
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  Speaker 3: and I would never even briefly consider being unfaithful. It
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  Speaker 3: was just me trying to play the game. She doesn't
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  Speaker 3: believe me saying everyone else's instinct was women who didn't
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  Speaker 3: exist or better yet their wives. I feel really bad
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  Speaker 3: but also really confused. I don't know how to deal
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  Speaker 3: with this. Is she overreacting or am I the scallywag?
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  Speaker 1: There's nothing to even say.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: These are things you can think in your head.
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  Speaker 3: I'm going to play real devil advocate here. Oh, wow.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, wow.
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  Speaker 3: My husband and I have a very funny relationship and
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  Speaker 3: we joke all the time. And if it was like
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  Speaker 3: an ongoing joke and I missed that point because he
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  Speaker 3: said that, I think it would have been.
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  Speaker 1: But like somebody in real life?
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  Speaker 3: No, no, no. But like... come on i know i'm
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  Speaker 3: just trying to but at the same time like a
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  Speaker 3: celebrity i.
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  Speaker 4: Get a celebrity i get i get i honestly maybe
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  Speaker 4: even get past that because like it's just like something
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  Speaker 4: that's never gonna happen kind of thing i would be
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  Speaker 4: but like a person that he sees regularly like a
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  Speaker 4: spin instructor.
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  Speaker 1: Regularly and that she's gonna have to see and now
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  Speaker 1: look at this instructor and see her you're right i
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  Speaker 1: changed my mind you're right picturing her on top of
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  Speaker 1: him like that.
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  Speaker 3: You know what he wants that you know what there's
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  Speaker 3: this really cool peloton commercial and adam said that there
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  Speaker 3: was a really cool peloton commercial and i was like
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  Speaker 3: oh probably because the girl in pink is really bouncing
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  Speaker 3: up and down on a fucking bike yeah and he's
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  Speaker 3: like no he's actually really liked the music and he
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  Speaker 3: yeah but whatever.
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  Speaker 4: I'm sure they had great music adam's gonna be so
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  Speaker 4: much trouble after no it's okay hey i gave birth
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  Speaker 4: shit yeah i gave birth to his child he has
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  Speaker 4: to do as I say now.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah, you are. Come on, man. A woman, you know,
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  Speaker 3: in real life, there is such a clear difference between
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  Speaker 3: talking about a celebrity crush or a character from a
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  Speaker 3: TV show that you choose someone realistically could hook up with,
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  Speaker 3: which your wife will be thinking about from now on
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  Speaker 3: when you go to spin class.
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  Speaker 1: That's what I just, this is what I just said.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah. Or worse, whenever they have sex, she'll think,
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  Speaker 3: I bet he's thinking of the spin instructor right now.
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  Speaker 1: Holy, I just can't. I'm like, dude, I'm too insecure
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  Speaker 1: for that.
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  Speaker 3: Bold assumption they will have sex, especially in the near future.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I see divorce in their future, right?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Holy shit.
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  Speaker 3: That didn't work out very well.
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  Speaker 1: At least he was honest.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah. No.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, you know, I'll give you, everyone's human. You
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  Speaker 1: can look at a person, think they're attractive. I mean,
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  Speaker 1: I hope not. Imagine, you know, being with them if
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  Speaker 1: you're with somebody. But, like, you're human. Keep those thoughts
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  Speaker 1: in your f * * * ing brain, okay?
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  Speaker 3: Little bit, little bit.
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  Speaker 1: Keep the inappropriate thoughts in your brain.
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  Speaker 3: Facts.
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  Speaker 1: I'll leave for this story. Okay, bye, George. You were
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  Speaker 1: so good.
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  Speaker 3: Am I the scallywag for not giving my pregnant ex
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  Speaker 3: money for her baby? I, Michelle, 21 female, was in
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  Speaker 3: a lesbian relationship with Paige, 23 female. We had a
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  Speaker 3: very toxic relationship. She had cheated multiple times. The occasion
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  Speaker 3: that did it for me was when she slept with
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  Speaker 3: my sister.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, that was just so, I was so abrupt. All right, okay.
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  Speaker 3: Now she's in a straight relationship and is now five
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  Speaker 3: months pregnant. She has asked me on several occasions to
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  Speaker 3: help her buy things for the baby to which I
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  Speaker 3: have given her 25, 30 bucks here and there for
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  Speaker 3: the last three months. I've told her before that I
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  Speaker 3: can't give her too much as I still need to
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  Speaker 3: buy food and other essentials for myself. A couple of
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  Speaker 3: days ago, she asked me if I could give her
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  Speaker 3: $ 150 to pay for a stroller car seat and more
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  Speaker 3: clothes for the baby to which i told her no
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  Speaker 3: i can't afford it i need to buy myself food
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  Speaker 3: and essentials she told me that she would pay me
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  Speaker 3: back in a few months after she's given birth i
• 11:38
  Speaker 3: told her that was unacceptable and that it is not
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  Speaker 3: my responsibility to pay for your child she called later
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  Speaker 3: that day screaming at me calling me an asshole my
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  Speaker 3: phone hasn't stopped going off her friends and family have
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  Speaker 3: been calling and texting non-stop saying that it's only money
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  Speaker 3: and that i have to help her I don't think
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  Speaker 3: that I do. I called her that morning and told her,
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  Speaker 3: if you can't afford to raise a child, you shouldn't
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  Speaker 3: have gotten pregnant. I may have gone too far with
• 11:58
  Speaker 3: that statement. I'm starting to think maybe I should have
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  Speaker 3: just given her the money and saved myself the drama. So, Reddit,
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  Speaker 3: am I the scallywag?
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  Speaker 1: Wait, okay, I just need a recap. She's a lesbian.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: She's with this woman.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: The woman leaves her.
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  Speaker 3: Well, toxic relationship that cheated multiple times.
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  Speaker 1: Toxic relationship that cheated multiple times. She gets pregnant with
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  Speaker 1: a man's child.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: And sleeps with her sister.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: And she's expected to pay for her baby?
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  Speaker 3: Apparently.
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  Speaker 1: Okay. What?
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  Speaker 3: What? that's a hard no there's just.
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  Speaker 1: Nothing to you weren't married first of all and it's
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  Speaker 1: not your kid in any way biologically.
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  Speaker 3: I don't even know why you gave her 25 bucks
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  Speaker 3: here or there yeah what no.
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  Speaker 2: I don't understand the situation that's so weird it's very strange.
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  Speaker 3: See this is where i like different perspectives.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah for sure because it seems like very.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah and this is also this is where i have
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  Speaker 3: questions yeah i do too like it's like what does
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  Speaker 3: she have on you that you feel the need yeah
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  Speaker 3: that's the thing like does she have something on you
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  Speaker 3: that you want to hide and so you feel the
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  Speaker 3: need and then like how is like her family getting
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  Speaker 3: mad at you like what does she have.
• 12:56
  Speaker 1: Yeah i feel like there's more to this like she
• 12:58
  Speaker 1: did something or something like robbed a bank or something
• 13:02
  Speaker 1: i don't understand because there's no reason why she should
• 13:04
  Speaker 1: be giving the money to.
• 13:06
  Speaker 3: This woman nope nope nope very strange.
• 13:08
  Speaker 5: I'm sorry that one's a that one's a mystery yeah
• 13:11
  Speaker 5: no i don't really know The camera overheated and turned off,
• 13:15
  Speaker 5: and I forgot to turn it back on, so now
• 13:17
  Speaker 5: this happened.
• 13:17
  Speaker 3: Ba-ding!
• 13:18
  Speaker 1: Let's continue.
• 13:19
  Speaker 3: Am I the scallywag for refusing an invitation because my
• 13:21
  Speaker 3: wife wasn't included? I, 36, have a younger sister, Fanny, 31,
• 13:25
  Speaker 3: that got married two days ago. That wedding was a
• 13:27
  Speaker 3: bit rushed because she has some traveling plans with her
• 13:30
  Speaker 3: husband that required many legal arrangements. My wife, 33, and
• 13:33
  Speaker 3: I were planning to go to the ceremony as well
• 13:34
  Speaker 3: as my parents, my brother, and other sister. But one
• 13:37
  Speaker 3: day before, we got a notification from Fanny that after
• 13:39
  Speaker 3: the wedding, we're invited to a reception in a restaurant
• 13:42
  Speaker 3: at night. I asked Fanny if the invitation included my wife.
• 13:45
  Speaker 3: We have a two-year-old child, but we're making arrangements to
• 13:47
  Speaker 3: leave with my wife's mother. And she said that the
• 13:49
  Speaker 3: reception was only for her brothers and parents. due to
• 13:53
  Speaker 3: the rushed event now i respect her decision but i
• 13:56
  Speaker 3: think that my wife and brothers are also immediate family
• 13:58
  Speaker 3: and she must be included in that kind of family
• 14:00
  Speaker 3: events so the next day i went alone to the
• 14:02
  Speaker 3: ceremony and refused to go to the reception for the
• 14:04
  Speaker 3: empathy with my wife my mother called me that night
• 14:07
  Speaker 3: and tried to convince me to go but i refused
• 14:09
  Speaker 3: again and that was all i haven't I haven't a
• 14:12
  Speaker 3: word of this matter again.
• 14:13
  Speaker 1: I haven't a word of this matter again. Sounds like
• 14:16
  Speaker 1: British folk.
• 14:17
  Speaker 3: With my parents, nor Fanny, but I'm doubtful about my actions.
• 14:21
  Speaker 3: Am I the Scallywag? I believe that allowing one person
• 14:24
  Speaker 3: or two does in a big trouble if they're your
• 14:26
  Speaker 3: brother's wives. I don't think you're the... Yeah, that's a
• 14:31
  Speaker 3: little weird. Oh.
• 14:32
  Speaker 1: What was.
• 14:33
  Speaker 3: Sorry, edit. A bit of context for some comments. Okay.
• 14:36
  Speaker 3: I'm from South America, a Latin man, and in my culture,
• 14:39
  Speaker 3: habit that immediate family means parents, siblings, and their couples
• 14:42
  Speaker 3: if they're married or committed. Yeah.
• 14:44
  Speaker 1: That's a very close culture.
• 14:46
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 14:46
  Speaker 1: I mean, even in my white culture, that's pretty normal.
• 14:51
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 14:52
  Speaker 1: To invite the spouse as well, because that's their family,
• 14:55
  Speaker 1: and in and of extension, your family.
• 14:57
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 14:57
  Speaker 1: Yeah. Like, I consider my brother-in-law my brother.
• 15:00
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 15:00
  Speaker 1: I would never invite you to something and not Adam.
• 15:03
  Speaker 1: That would be so weird.
• 15:05
  Speaker 3: It would be weird. That would be so weird.
• 15:06
  Speaker 1: And as Adam, I would feel so awful. I'd be like,
• 15:09
  Speaker 1: what did I do to not get invited? Like, what
• 15:12
  Speaker 1: was the reasoning why she didn't invite her?
• 15:14
  Speaker 3: It wasn't oh there wasn't a reason she just said
• 15:16
  Speaker 3: she just didn't only it's just the reception was only
• 15:19
  Speaker 3: for her brothers and parents due to the rushed event
• 15:22
  Speaker 3: but like.
• 15:22
  Speaker 2: Number of people yeah that is so strange i don't
• 15:25
  Speaker 2: like that that's very i don't like that either i
• 15:27
  Speaker 2: don't like that maybe it's one of these siblings that
• 15:29
  Speaker 2: like love their sibling or some shit that always creeps
• 15:32
  Speaker 2: me out that does creep me out like when like
• 15:33
  Speaker 2: i didn't even think.
• 15:34
  Speaker 1: Siblings are jealous of their of the boyfriends and girlfriends
• 15:37
  Speaker 1: and stuff oh maybe she's secretly in love with him Oh, no,
• 15:40
  Speaker 1: that's not. Oh, that's gross. Oh, she's looking at a
• 15:44
  Speaker 1: picture of George. I was like, incest is not cute, Jessica.
• 15:48
  Speaker 3: No, my husband calmed down her baby and I was worried.
• 15:50
  Speaker 3: Am I the scallywag for showing my friend's new boyfriend
• 15:54
  Speaker 3: my boobs? Am I the scallywag for showing my friend's
• 15:57
  Speaker 3: friends for showing my friend's new boyfriend my boobs? Oh, gosh.
• 16:01
  Speaker 1: Okay.
• 16:01
  Speaker 3: Okay. Why did we both were like, I know it's
• 16:04
  Speaker 3: probably how I said it for context. I female 26
• 16:07
  Speaker 3: and model.
• 16:08
  Speaker 4: Oh, shit.
• 16:09
  Speaker 3: I work with all kinds of photographers, but mostly do
• 16:11
  Speaker 3: fashion and art shoots. I have done a lot of
• 16:13
  Speaker 3: nude and body work. It's my job, and once you've
• 16:15
  Speaker 3: stood naked freezing your tits off, literally, while you get
• 16:18
  Speaker 3: maneuvered into all kinds of positions and pressed up against
• 16:21
  Speaker 3: other people. What kind of model are you?
• 16:23
  Speaker 1: I mean, they do that.
• 16:24
  Speaker 3: That's true.
• 16:24
  Speaker 1: I took art school. I saw a lot of naked bodies.
• 16:27
  Speaker 3: You soon lose all sense of glamour and stuff. I
• 16:29
  Speaker 3: have a boyfriend, and we have been together for years.
• 16:31
  Speaker 3: He's fine with it, with what I do, and I've
• 16:32
  Speaker 3: been on shoots, and has been on shoots with me, etc. Okay.
• 16:35
  Speaker 3: My friend Kate, 24, female, has just started dating Michael, 28, male.
• 16:39
  Speaker 3: And they came to ours for dinner the other night.
• 16:41
  Speaker 3: I let Kate when I was in admin temp and
• 16:43
  Speaker 3: she know what I do, but she doesn't have any
• 16:46
  Speaker 3: experience of it.
• 16:47
  Speaker 1: Okay, so she doesn't know about the nude modeling and
• 16:49
  Speaker 1: she's not comfortable with it. Got it.
• 16:50
  Speaker 3: But when I was talking to Michael and he said
• 16:52
  Speaker 3: he was a photographer, we started to talk work things.
• 16:54
  Speaker 1: Okay.
• 16:54
  Speaker 3: I'm not stupid and I've had enough guys trying to
• 16:56
  Speaker 3: get me to show them stuff, but Michael knew some
• 16:58
  Speaker 3: of the photographers I've worked with and obviously quite well connected.
• 17:02
  Speaker 3: I have a couple of different portfolios depending on the audience,
• 17:05
  Speaker 3: shall we say, and he asked to see some of
• 17:07
  Speaker 3: my shots. I'll admit I did want to impress. Not
• 17:10
  Speaker 3: because I wanted to make anyone jealous or anything like that,
• 17:13
  Speaker 3: but professionally. Anyway, I showed him some of the more
• 17:16
  Speaker 3: arty and nude shoots I've done, which is work that
• 17:19
  Speaker 3: I'm really proud of. He was impressed, I think. We
• 17:21
  Speaker 3: moved on, laughed and drank, etc. The next day, I
• 17:23
  Speaker 3: had a text from Kate calling me a s *
• 17:24
  Speaker 3: * * and a... And saying she can't believe I
• 17:27
  Speaker 3: tried to steal her boyfriend. And I'm honestly so upset.
• 17:30
  Speaker 3: I've been crying on and off for days. My boyfriend
• 17:32
  Speaker 3: said he thought it wasn't weird or inappropriate, but he
• 17:34
  Speaker 3: might just be trying to make me feel better. I
• 17:36
  Speaker 3: genuinely didn't think I was doing anything wrong. Compared to Pornhub,
• 17:39
  Speaker 3: it's honestly so tame in terms of nudity. But now
• 17:42
  Speaker 3: I've lost a friend and I feel like crap.
• 17:47
  Speaker 1: You're in that situation. How do you feel?
• 17:48
  Speaker 3: As the girlfriend of the... As.
• 17:50
  Speaker 1: The girlfriend of the boyfriend.
• 17:53
  Speaker 3: I'd be thrown off i yeah i'd be thrown off
• 17:57
  Speaker 3: and i wouldn't be cool with it straight up no
• 17:59
  Speaker 3: but at the same time okay does it say how
• 18:02
  Speaker 3: long they've been friends because sometimes i feel like certain
• 18:05
  Speaker 3: friends it's like you know they're gonna do it you
• 18:07
  Speaker 3: know what i mean you've been friends for so long
• 18:09
  Speaker 3: that you're like yeah that's just her sure you know
• 18:12
  Speaker 3: what i mean sure.
• 18:13
  Speaker 1: But i mean that's why i'm saying that because it
• 18:15
  Speaker 1: does seem like they've been friends for a long time
• 18:16
  Speaker 1: and she's still thinks it's not good.
• 18:19
  Speaker 3: So I feel like maybe there's a history there. She
• 18:22
  Speaker 3: crossed a boundary.
• 18:22
  Speaker 1: And she crossed a boundary.
• 18:24
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 18:24
  Speaker 1: Like, there are friends that I think of, like, Selena,
• 18:27
  Speaker 1: for example.
• 18:27
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 18:27
  Speaker 1: If she was to show Caleb a picture of her nude,
• 18:29
  Speaker 1: I wouldn't give a fuck. Yeah. I wouldn't give a fly.
• 18:32
  Speaker 1: I would think it's hilarious.
• 18:33
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 18:33
  Speaker 1: Not that Selena's fucking gorgeous.
• 18:35
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 18:35
  Speaker 1: But I would just think... like nothing of it. And
• 18:37
  Speaker 1: I know there's no ill will, but I feel like
• 18:39
  Speaker 1: there's some girlfriends.
• 18:41
  Speaker 3: That are like, I grew up with where I'm like, Oh,
• 18:43
  Speaker 3: if you did that, I'd be pissed.
• 18:45
  Speaker 1: Yeah. So context is needed, but I feel like the
• 18:47
  Speaker 1: context is there because she got pissed. Yeah.
• 18:50
  Speaker 3: You know, you're saying that you're wanting to be professional
• 18:52
  Speaker 3: about it and just show the best shots. But at
• 18:54
  Speaker 3: the same time, it's like, you know what you're doing?
• 18:56
  Speaker 3: You probably have shots without your boobs being shown.
• 18:59
  Speaker 1: That's what I mean. And I respect that he's a photographer,
• 19:01
  Speaker 1: but like, you know what you're doing like women are
• 19:04
  Speaker 1: so can be so manipulative not that men can't be
• 19:07
  Speaker 1: but like she knows what she's doing yeah she knows
• 19:10
  Speaker 1: she's hot great love that for you be a nude
• 19:12
  Speaker 1: model I love that yeah but like I don't know
• 19:15
  Speaker 1: it's a little sticky I'm all for free the nipple
• 19:17
  Speaker 1: but like maybe not in front of your friend's boyfriend
• 19:19
  Speaker 1: no when she's not there i miss right.
• 19:22
  Speaker 3: Yeah no they were there for dinner but they were.
• 19:25
  Speaker 1: Having a private conversation that's even weirder like if it
• 19:27
  Speaker 1: was in front of her yeah i would even think
• 19:29
  Speaker 1: that's maybe okay and like i said like hey is
• 19:31
  Speaker 1: it okay yeah but there was none of that there.
• 19:33
  Speaker 3: Was none of that i don't like that What did
• 19:35
  Speaker 3: the people say?
• 19:36
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 19:36
  Speaker 3: Yes. You showed naked shots of yourself to a friend's
• 19:39
  Speaker 3: new boyfriend. If you're a professional, surely you could have
• 19:41
  Speaker 3: shown him some of your portfolio that didn't involve your
• 19:44
  Speaker 3: naked body to impress. Yeah, exactly. This loose professional connection. Yeah. Also,
• 19:48
  Speaker 3: why are you turning a social personal outing into an
• 19:50
  Speaker 3: opportunity for you to show off professionally?
• 19:53
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 19:53
  Speaker 3: That's pretty tackless. Ooh. Sure, follow up with Michael another
• 19:57
  Speaker 3: time in context if there's a mutual interest in professional discussion,
• 20:00
  Speaker 3: but you were trying to use your connection to Kate
• 20:03
  Speaker 3: to show off nude photos of yourself to impress Michael.
• 20:05
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what it feels like.
• 20:07
  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah. It's just weird. I agree.
• 20:09
  Speaker 1: If it was in a professional setting, like they were
• 20:11
  Speaker 1: actually at a shoot or something.
• 20:12
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 20:12
  Speaker 1: Then, yeah, it's just weird.
• 20:14
  Speaker 3: I agree.
• 20:14
  Speaker 2: It's weird.
• 20:15
  Speaker 1: It's weird. You're weird. Stop showing people your tits.
• 20:17
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 20:18
  Speaker 1: Kate.
• 20:18
  Speaker 3: Stop.
• 20:19
  Speaker 1: Stop that. Okay. Stop it. All right, so I have
• 20:21
  Speaker 1: a few more foils to do on each side and
• 20:23
  Speaker 1: then we will come back and she will be done. Ta-da!
• 20:26
  Speaker 1: Look it. She's all blonde again. Beautiful. Look at that.
• 20:30
  Speaker 1: Look at the underneath. Look how nice and blonde that is. Anyway.
• 20:34
  Speaker 1: And Kevin just opened the door.
• 20:35
  Speaker 3: Hello.
• 20:36
  Speaker 1: Are you caring for the outro? Okay.
• 20:38
  Speaker 4: Okay.
• 20:38
  Speaker 1: Well, thank you so much for watching the video. Loved
• 20:42
  Speaker 1: having you. I like doing these videos. Sorry for my
• 20:44
  Speaker 1: nervous mom energy. Yeah, it's okay. Big steps for Jessica today.
• 20:48
  Speaker 1: She got to spend a whole, what, 20, 30 minutes
• 20:51
  Speaker 1: without George, which I think is big.
• 20:52
  Speaker 3: Yeah. He's crying again, apparently.
• 20:54
  Speaker 1: It's big. Okay, well, we'll finish this up. If you
• 20:57
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• 20:58
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• 21:02
  Speaker 1: This is the best YouTube channel ever. And also, you're great.
• 21:06
  Speaker 1: I'm delirious right now. It's late.
• 21:08
  Speaker 3: I need to eat. It's late. She's dealt with a
• 21:10
  Speaker 3: crying child.
• 21:10
  Speaker 1: Oh, it's fine. It's fine. We love it.
• 21:11
  Speaker 3: Okay.
• 21:12
  Speaker 1: Bye!