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Season 2 - Episode 151 - Detaching from the outcome...I actually can be done. · Good Morning From The Chicken Coop!

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  Welcome to the good morning from the chicken coop, podcast with
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  Kim Johnson, your creative strategist and master mindset.
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  Coach filled with inspiration, distinctions, perspectives and
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  possibilities. We help you to cultivate a
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  mindset that leads you to create the best version of yourself.
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  You could ever imagine join Kim. Every morning from one of her.
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  Favorite happy places her chicken coop, along with all her
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  chickens. Hey everybody.
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  Good morning from the chicken coop.
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  Poop. Okay.
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  How many times have you heard someone tell you?
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  Well, you just have to detach from the outcome.
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  See these kind of things. As a girl who spent her entire
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  adult life in the coaching World.
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  Pretty much my entire occult adult life in the coaching World
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  drive me insane and it doesn't have to just be the you know
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  detach from the outcome statement, it can be just detach
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  just let it go. Don't be.
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  Anxious. Oh my God, people, I gotta tell
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  you. That's the worst advice.
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  You can give people when you're out there and you're trying to
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  be helpful, it is the worst advice you can give them,
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  because if they knew how to do it, they would have already done
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  it. I promise you that and if it
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  sounds like I'm in the jungle today, it's because the wild
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  peacock is out here, roaming around.
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  Anyway, it's the worst advice because you're not telling them
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  the how piece of it and if everybody knew they would do it,
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  or at least they were Attempt to do it.
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  But the, but the issue is you've got to understand that
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  particular juncture of going from doing something to the how
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  piece of it is very tricky for people.
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  So unless you provide the how you hang them up you frustrate
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  them and I can't tell you the number of times in my life when
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  I was a kid. Someone said to me, well, you
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  know, just don't think about it. Just stopped being anxious.
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  It was the most useless advice, I could have ever received.
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  Because I had no clue and plus I was young and I really had no
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  clue. So I want to talk to you about
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  that today. I want to talk to you about
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  detaching from the outcome. Now, this formula can be used
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  across the board for anything, but we're today word detaching
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  from the outcome. Because what's so important when
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  you are focused on making stuff happen, is that you have a
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  willingness to do the work, at the same time, you're doing the
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  envisioned. Because you've got to Envision
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  things, you have to have a big picture in your head.
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  If you don't have a big picture in your head, then you're not
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  going to get what you want out of things.
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  You just won't, you'll just flounder and you'll play bumper
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  cars, and you'll Bang into everybody else, who doesn't have
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  a vision and then you feel very lost in life.
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  So we don't want that. So, the very first thing is, you
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  have to have a vision of that outcome.
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  So, whatever it might be, whether it's creating your own
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  version of a farm, whether it's building a business, whatever it
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  is, you've got to get that. And crystal clear in your head.
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  Write it down. See it rewrite.
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  It see it rewrite. It just keep doing it until it
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  feels like it's so exciting. It's ridiculous.
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  And then you have to go into believing that it's already
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  happened and you have to assume the state of gratitude for it.
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  You have to be so excited. You have to and I'm not
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  exaggerating literally close your eyes and envision yourself.
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  Walking in those shoes acting as if it has already happened.
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  This is the way forward, my friends, I promise you and for
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  those who say well I don't know how to, you know, visualize very
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  well then feel your way through it really feel your way through
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  it. Close your eyes and just feel
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  gratitude for the situation, feel it over and over and over
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  again. And as you feel it, you'll start
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  to recognize that you're getting more and more excited.
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  And even though it's not here, it doesn't matter because you're
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  magnetizing yourself to it because that belief is pulling
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  you. To it are a pulling it to you
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  too, as well. I mean you're going to meet in
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  the middle and then the next step is you have to focus on the
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  actions. Now this is where it gets tricky
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  for people because they'll say well, I don't know how well any
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  small actions lead with Focus. This is the key.
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  Any small actions with Focus will lead to bigger actions,
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  that will come into your life. They will lead to bigger
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  opportunities. Things will just magically show
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  up because you are in a state of out of actually taking action.
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  And when you actually take action things happen, doesn't
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  matter how small the steps are. It doesn't matter.
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  I know we all judge it. When you say well that's the
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  small stuff that's not going to do anything for me and that's
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  bull. It will you keep doing them?
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  Small steps lead forward. Always always always and when
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  they are empowered by belief those small steps become bigger
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  steps and it's not just believing that it will.
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  Show up. It's believing that it has shown
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  up. You see?
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  It's done. You just are locked on it and
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  you have faith. And that is the Letting Go part.
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  That is the Letting Go part. So when you detach from the
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  outcome, you just see it as if it's done and you don't worry
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  about the timeframe. You don't worry about anything,
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  you just see it. As if it's done, when I have
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  gone through my life and many things, I have that I've created
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  in this world. Have not been easy to figure
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  out, navigate and find. But I detached from the outcome,
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  I focused on what my intent was and sure enough, I was able to
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  make them all happen because I detached from the outcome, I
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  took the actions, I stayed focused on seeing it as if it
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  was already done. And before, you know it it's
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  done. So, I hope this is helpful.
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  I hope you can detach from outcomes that you might be
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  working on, and just smile. See them as if they're done.
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  Being gratitude and move yourself forward because the
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  best parts are yet to be. All right, my friends.
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  I hope you have a blessed day and I'll see you tomorrow.
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  Bye. Being gratitude and move
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  yourself forward because the best parts are yet to be.
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  All right, my friends. I hope you have a blessed day
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  and I'll see you tomorrow. Bye.