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Is the Party of Single Women killing the west? | Maintaining Frame 81 · Honey Badger Radio

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  And we are live. Hello everybody, welcome to Honey Badger Radio. My
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  name is Brian here with Allison and this is I decided to make this one
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  a maintaining frame. I guess that's perfectly fine. Yeah, that's what I
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  was. That is exactly what it needs to be. Not second guess yourself.
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  Okay, and we are going to be looking at a recent live stream
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  that was hosted on Lauren Chen's channel. You guys might remember Lauren Chen from
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  back in the day. She used to be the foil to Lacey Green as
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  a blast from the past. Mm hmm. What does that ever happened to
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  Lacey Green? Did she just get on with her life? You know,
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  I don't know. I think she had. She started doing videos where she
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  wanted to be like, you know, more, let's bring everybody together and
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  have a Kumbaya moment or something, and then she was dragged out and lynch.
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  Huh. Then she was dragged down and lynched. I'm sure she's fine.
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  Yeah, I know, I'm I'm met metaphorically, but you know,
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  yeah, you know what I mean, Yeah, I do, I do.
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  So. Yeah, she was called roaming millennial back then. This is
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  Lauren Chen and now she just goes by her actual moniker like that. She
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  was born with Lauren Chen And she is talking with Carl Benjamin, who also
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  used to be known by a different name. He was Sargon of a Cod.
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  You guys probably still call him Sargon. You know, we interviewed him.
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  We interviewed him, was under twenty thousand. We talked to Lauren Chen
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  too. I had her on for far aside chat once. Yeah. For
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  whatever reason, a lot of the people that we end up interviewing get really
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  big. We have the Midas touch for everybody, we got the touch except
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  for ourselves. Yeah, exactly. We are the king makers and queen bakers.
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  You know, we make them, but we never become them. But
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  you know what, that's that's fine. I think it's because maybe maybe our
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  calling is different. Maybe our calling is eventually to make art, you know
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  what I mean, to create stories. Yeah, I mean it's it's fine.
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  Like I don't care as long as the world is improving. Yeah,
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  you're right, as long as the world somebody has to just get in the
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  in the trenches and just excavate the new ways of looking at things that will
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  eventually filter out and just watch it. Like what we talk about here.
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  Eventually it filters out to these guys the bigger, the bigger channels. That's
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  what I've noticed anyway, and then a lot of other people have noticed it
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  too. So absolutely, So let's saw Javier Milia did he went to do
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  you do? You know who Javier Milia is? Right, go ahead and
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  talk still, you know, you have to get a little more content,
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  Okay, a little bit more contact. All right. So he was a
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  recently elected president of Argentina. Oh okay, all right, the guy.
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  Yeah, he had like a costume and a yeah okay, they one anarco
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  capitalist ever elected in the history. And it's really interesting, right as the
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  society hits the wall, how quickly all of this crap ceases If anybody needed
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  it, Argentina, Argentina needed it. So, I mean a lot of
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  these South South American countries are you know, like the guy from Salvador that
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  just was like, hey, how about we throw criminals in prison? And
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  he threw a bunch of criminals in prison, and all of a sudden we
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  were like, wow, we're thriving. Yeah, so there's a connection.
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  Let's do some peer reviewed studies. Yeah, but yeah, I know,
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  but Javier Millie. I won't go into it because it'll take too long,
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  but he did. He was He went to Davos this year at the World
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  Economic Forum, and people were like, why is he going to the world
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  Aren't those people essentially super villains? I want to make people eat bugs and
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  live in pods and they all are. But he went there and he did.
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  He spoke at it, and I guess they were expecting something complimentary and
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  he just went into them like. I mean, he didn't yell or anything.
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  It was a very measured speech. But the stuff he said in that
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  about like basically everything they represent and all of that. I was like nodding
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  the whole time, like yes, I've been saying this, yes, yes,
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  so yeah. I mean, I'm not saying I convince him of anything.
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  I'm just saying that it feels good to to hear a person say what
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  I've been thinking and that person be you know, pretty rational and go into
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  the lions den to say it like these are basically bond villains that all work
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  at this place, so go there or whatever. But oh wait, was
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  this the one the w e F thing? Yeah, the World Economic No,
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  No, that's that's trolling. That's like that he just blue screens himself
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  in there. No he didn't go there, No he didn't. That's just
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  what he wanted to say to them. Yeah, no he didn't go there.
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  He just blew screens himself in there. You got don't do this to
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  me. That hurts my soul. But I still like you. Yeah,
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  it's okay. I'm sorry. It wasn't real. My god. You'll have
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  to pet Jojo for a bit just to Yeah, I can't do it now
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  he's not here. Refluff your soul or however, Yeah, I meant that
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  in an entirely platonic way. Please phrase, don't don't jump over that.
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  Okay, all right, let's get into the video. But befirst, we
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  did get a couple of super chats already, So and then I'll let you
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  think the things and then we'll get started. So Iggy Thunders sends us five
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  dollars and says, Oh, this is gonna be gonna be great. He
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  says, why did the manically depressed boomer tell corny jokes awesome? Why did
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  the manically depressed boomer tell corny jokes that's a stumper? Okay? Why did
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  the manically depressed boomer tell corny jokes. Yes, because he was Dad inside
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  god, Oh my god, so obvious. In hindsight, it's like a
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  really well written mystery novel. Yes, that's the essence of the dad joke.
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  They don't. You don't realize it, but that is that is the
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  essence of the Dad The joke itself is a dad joke. Yes, but
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  I'm saying the generalized essence of a dad joke is that you say it and
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  then it makes so much more sense in retrospect. You know, it's like
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  a plot twist, except in a joke for him, You know what I
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  mean? Yep? Okay? Is that the only one? Or did did?
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  I got another one? I got a super chat for ten dollars from
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  Cooney but they didn't say anything, so it's just a ten dollars super chant,
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  So thank you Cooney. And that's it for Oh wait wait, wait,
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  was there like a superchow that I missed? No, let me double
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  check. I can no, No, it was from yesterday. Unless there's
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  something in the tubes. I have not checked the tubes. I can check
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  the tubes, but mm hmm that would only be too to ce a shout
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  out to anybody who's got their superchow stuck in the tubes. Nope, there's
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  nothing in the tube. So speaking of the tubes or the tunnels, the
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  Badger Tunnels, the Badger Tunnels under New York. Okay, if you would
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  we just get in Let's get into it. Yes, so give us a
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  little bit of context and what yeah, yeah, I'm gonna give you a
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  little lot of context. So so this is a like towards the end that
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  you can see, like the latter half of the of the talk, Lauren
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  cham was just talking to Carl. It was actually originally a larger conversation about
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  like the state of things in Western society and where we're headed and what role
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  like our certain sort of philosophical positions had in getting us here and all that
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  is finding good and I thought it was interesting. But this part is where
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  they talk about dating. And I thought that if we, if we like
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  potentially could hold this in contrast to a lot of the other ways that we've
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  we've seen discussions around the scene between young men and young women, particularly zoomers
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  maybe like younger millennials, and where the things are right now, and and
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  you know, Lauren Chen has some thoughts. She is a millennial, as
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  literally was her old name, and Karl is a millennial as well, I
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  think an older one. So let's see what they're going. So they're talking
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  about dating right now, they're talking about the dating struggles in society, and
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  they're giving their opinions on it. So is that is that enough context?
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  I mean, we'll put it, hold it up against like I said,
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  what we saw from the from the supposed like Red Peel guys, and like
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  the Alex States Site guys and the Chris Williamsons, and let's see where this
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  measures up. Though, I'm gonna play some of this right now, sure
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  before us. Now, I think the last time that I was single was
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  around eight years ago. So much has changed now in the dating landscape from
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  I mean, Tinder was around when I was single, but there's a million
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  other apps now, and not just that, but like hookup culture in general
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  is so much bigger than I ever thought it would get. And you even
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  have like the discussion around body counts. Now, I'd never heard that term
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  before a few years ago, but now we have entire podcasts dedicated to,
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  i mean, finding women who have body counts in the you know, even
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  triple digit. So all right, I'm just pausing for the banana. I
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  don't think that Lauren Chian will come after us, Like I said, I
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  don't think she's an enemy of ours. I met her at myth Con and
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  I interviewed her for our show once. But I do want to address this
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  thing about body counts. I don't think this is a new conversation. I
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  think it feels like a new conversation because it is a conversation in the like
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  that's taking place. So I think that what's happening is the male perspective is
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  creeping in and one of the things that I think a lot of young men
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  who are hoping for a stable relationship with a future they know, and I
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  mean there's just data that back set up that a woman's let's say level of
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  promiscuity can have an effect or has an effect on her ability to commit to
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  a man. So men are concerned about women's sexual history, and I think
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  that to some degree, women are also concerned about men's sexual history. So
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  this isn't really of them. It has to be a one way street.
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  But the truth is that women do have access in a way that most men
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  don't. So it's a it's about like whether or not they can, you
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  know, resist the temptation, but I think men do. Like It's basically
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  what is happening is is that women's preferences are always have always been known,
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  like even if it's not like completely revealed, like you know that necessarily some
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  of the more unreasonable things that they expect from men, like their six feet,
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  six figures, six pack, et cetera. But we knew that women
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  had standards like men, and they were generally high, and men were aware
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  of it, and men generally didn't have a problem with it. They were
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  just like trying to figure out where the line was they could try and cross
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  it. But men's preferences were never really like they were never seen as acceptable,
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  you know what I'm saying, Like they were not like they weren't something
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  we were supposed to talk about. Men were just supposed to be happy that
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  women were around them and gave them the time of day. And I think
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  that now that men are asking questions like what is your body count? Not
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  that that's the only question, you know. They also asked questions like what
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  do you bring to the table, you know, like how what's what's your
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  relationship like with your father? Like these are important questions and men who are
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  looking for a committed relationship are going to ask. So I'm not disagreeing with
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  Lauren here, but I think that she's probably not run into this and the
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  fact that she's like, wow, somebody, these women are in the triple
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  digits. Right, Well, yeah, this is why men are concerned,
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  because they don't want that, right. Yes, sorry, I'm just contending
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  with my microphone. I didn't increase the volume significantly, did I? No?
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  No, it's it was it was loud enough before. Okay, so
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  this is okay, Like now you're too far away? Now what did you
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  do? No? Did I decrease the volume here? No? This is
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  good. You did? Yes, okay, ship, just give me a
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  second. I hate this touch microphone. It's annoying. All right, I
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  think I got it. How's that all right? Yeah, it's fine.
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  No, it's yeah, I totally agree. Let's let's get to like,
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  where's the moment. All I'm saying is that men men basically what we're what
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  Lauren is finding out is that men also have standards and that and that sometimes
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  women don't meet them. Oh how happy are you basically to not be in
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  a position where you are looking for a partner nowadays? Yeah, I'm really
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  glad I'm married. On a daily basis, I'll see something on Twitter that
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  I just think are good, the new low, fantastic, weal done humanity.
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  No, I mean, I just I do not envy young men and
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  women today happen to try and find a partner spend their life with it.
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  And it's not it doesn't seem to be in their minds that that's what they
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  should be looking for either. Actually, it's it's a totally debauched culture that
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  they're living in right now, because I mean, at least when I was
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  young, you still thought, well, I will get married, and you
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  know that the women around you wanted to get married, and so when you've
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  got a long term girlfriend, you knew that having a life partner was on
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  the cards. Right. That just doesn't seem to be the case now,
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  Like, it just doesn't seem to be a common view that young people have,
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  and I feel really bad for them. Yeah, well that's because I
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  think long term relationships are discouraged. I think they're generally discouraged and what especially
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  in women, to not settle down right, to remain single for as long
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  as possible, play the feet, et cetera. This is I mean,
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  this is everywhere. I'm not even like, I'm not speculating. This is
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  what is everywhere. This is like what the Barbie movie is at the end
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  of the day. And I know and people hate that I keep bringing it
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  up but I think you need to know, like just how anti not just
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  male, but anti marriage, anti relationship, anti family, anti child that
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  movie is. And it's winning awards everywhere, it's making billions. Women are
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  going on and watching it. And what is the takeaway? Right that they
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  that they don't need each other, that they should go their separate ways,
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  so we shouldn't have like pairings or families or children. And of course if
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  people listen to this and they live this out, they're gonna be like,
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  why am I miserable? I'm doing everything that the movie said I should do,
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  or that the news people said, or the teacher said, or the
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  TV show said, or the song, the Taylor Swift song I heard said.
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  I mean men are like, men are losing like their wives because of
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  Taylor Swift music. It's ruining relationships. I don't know why. Why would
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  women listen to a woman who's an absolute train wreck and can't keep one relationship
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  working? Why? But they do? I don't know what is wrong with
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  women. I'm sorry, but something is wrong with women because high status.
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  She is high status, and she's pizing the party of single women, you
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  know, and this is this is the thing, This is something that people
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  really really resist. If you are like that, the only politics is what
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  increases the size of the Party of Single Women and what decreases the size of
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  the Party of single women ultimately, even like I just recently watched this video
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  from Tucker h Tucker Carlson about oh, the immigrants, right, the immigrants,
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  and how the Democrats are bringing the immigrants in in order to basically regular
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  actions, right, and I'm like they're already doing like the immigrant issue,
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  Like maybe the immigrant issue is basically the coup de gras, like that it's
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  the final move. It's like the you know, the lethality, right,
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  but the fatality, Yes, that was it, the fatality. However,
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  the real power base is the Party of single women for the Democrats. And
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  it's probably much easier to convince American women that they want to be part of
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  the Party of Single Women then really bring in more migrants and actually, you
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  know, deal with logistics of that. So I mean, the migrants are
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  just icing on a cake. In fact, they're probably the minor issue.
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  Like they say that there is about twenty two million, Well there's one hundred
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  and fifty women of fifty million women, right, And and the thing is
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  that with the single women all vote one way. Single women are the single
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  reason why women more women vote than men. That's let's be honest with the
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  the the voting of single women is the reason why there are more women voting
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  than men. And if if you took out their influence, it would be
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  more equal. And that's uh, you know, that's a really unfortunate thing.
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  And if you don't, if you it's much it's like and in fact,
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  the the conservatives haven't even begun the and even like I think people like
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  I think Sargon may have begun. Maybe Lauren Chen is starting to wake up
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  to this. But the truth is that all the all the democrats democrats need
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  to do to have a win condition and to increase their power is to just
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  increase convincing women to stay single. So all of these narratives about how bad
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  men are, including starting with the like the er narrative of how bad men
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  are, the patriarchal narrative, all of that is just enhancing the party of
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  single women and just making it bigger, making it more powerful. So unless
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  you are combating these narratives, you're not doing much. And unfortunately conservatives are
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  only supporting the narratives by continuing to blame men, because all the narratives of
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  how men are to blame are contributing to the power of the Party of Single
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  Women the end. So you're either fighting those narratives or you're doing not much
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  of anything politically. It's the end of the day. Like even I hate
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  to say it, even like non establishment candidates. You might get a non
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  establishment candidate in, but the power of the Party of Single Women will just
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  keep increasing. In fact, they'll probably use a non establishment candidate to sell
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  more women on staying single because they'll say, well, men, just vote
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  for this horrible nazi, why would you want one in your life? And
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  then at the end there'll be you know, the the the anti establishment candidate
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  will get out office, there will be more single women. Until there is
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  absolutely no way that anything, any any position but a position, can congrue
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  it with the Party of Single Women gets any traction whatsoever, because it just
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  increases and increases and increases, and it feels almost impossible. But the only
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  way that you can stop this process is by challenging what is building the power
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  base of the Party of Single Women, which is single women. Mm hmm,
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  all right, so maybe finish up your dinner. I'm sorry, okay,
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  let's I was fasting all day so I'm hungry, or I'm a place
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  more, Okay. It's like, okay, so are you expected to just
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  be a singleton forever and just continually having dissatisfying sex with strangers or short term
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  partners until you're too old to be appealing to anyone? I mean, what's
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  the plan exactly? You know, you're not gonna live, You're not gonna
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  be twenty one forever. I mean, I I saw Shee on Head a
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  while ago tweeted out something to the fact of, you know, someone she
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  kind of grew up in a similar situation where dating was just implicitly to lead
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  to marriage. Everyone just you know, you get married for people who are
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  not of that mindset, Like, what what is the point aside from temporary
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  companionship maybe carnal desires, but without the idea that this will is part of
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  something greater, it leads to a final end goal. It just it would
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  seem so hollow and pointless to me. But I know nowadays the conversation has
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  almost flipped where if you do want to get married, then that almost makes
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  you the outlier. I have a sister in law who's still I'm just pausing
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  it there for the banana. I think that's it. I think it's important
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  to put in a perspective though, that most people, men and women,
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  do want a monogamous relationship that ends in marriage. They most of them want
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  that. The obstacles are not the desire, although there are some who might
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  want the you know, uh, some alternative kind of pairing where you know,
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  they're in a situationship or polycule or whatever they're calling it these days,
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  and they but they want to stay single. But but that's not what most
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  people want. So that's not really the problem. The problem must be in
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  people understanding how to vet people and pair up and and also putting their expectations
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  in alignment with reality. And I know that they and the thing is,
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  and I'm not gonna say this exclusively, but I think it's when Carl talks
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  about his what he's seeing, I think he's he doesn't explicitly say this,
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  but I think he's speaking from the male perspective that it's, you know,
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  it's not going to be fulfilling and stuff. Right, He's looking at what
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  some of the kind of red pill guys are talking about. When it when
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  it comes to you know, like pursuing women and getting and getting with as
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  many as possible, pursuing like sexual variety. I think that he is saying
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  that it won't be satisfactory. But it's not only that. I think that
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  men generally they don't want that and they're not gonna get the you know,
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  a lot of success. Most of them won't get a lot of success with
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  that. And so the problem is that that men are inevitably going to be
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  disappointed and women may feel like if they do, you know, because like
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  the lifestyle of the of the monogamous commitment is not it's just not celebrated.
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  It's not promoted, you know, And so like if you're a young person,
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  like when I was doing substitute teaching, I was doing a high school
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  and the girls were always on their phones talking about who they're seeing that day,
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  and I could tell that they weren't really happy with it, but that
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  they thought that they had to do it because everyone else was doing it.
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  And I was a substitute teacher. I didn't want to butt in on people's
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  business. I didn't say anything, but I observed and I was like,
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  wow, these not all of them, but the ones I saw. I
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  was like, these girls are really sad because they're you know, they're there
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  and their parents are not involved, you know, and that's like the world
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  they know, it's like what they're told. You know. You can find
• 26:07
  endless fights online over with with middle school and high school girls in particular over
• 26:15
  social media beef. It's like, it's not that they shouldn't be on the
• 26:19
  internet at all, it's it's the quality of what they're experiencing and the non
• 26:26
  involvement of you know, like adults, and a lot of this has to
• 26:30
  do with absent fathers. I mean, that's like it always comes back to
• 26:34
  that in my opinion, like almost always. So I think that when Pearl
• 26:41
  talks about the why it's sad, I think he's he's kind of putting the
• 26:45
  male perspective. Although I yeah, I think it's sad for girls all right,
• 26:52
  play some more single And she was saying that when you're on dating apps
• 26:56
  now it's so common and you know, she lives near a big city to
• 27:00
  just everyone's polyamorous. That's just a thing. Now. I had never heard
• 27:03
  of that before a few years ago, but now amongst young people, it's
• 27:07
  like that's almost the norm yeah, I mean, I can't even lie.
• 27:11
  We did a vox pot the other day and this one woman answering the question.
• 27:17
  The question was on representation in demographics. The question was, well,
• 27:21
  what percentage of the country do you think are gay? And one one girl
• 27:23
  said sixty percent. The most common one was about thirty five percent, and
• 27:32
  so they were shocked to hear that it's two percent, right, And this
• 27:33
  one woman just said, but everyone I know is gay. It's like,
• 27:37
  right, okay, that's interesting, and I imagine it's there's a lot of
• 27:42
  crossover on that then diagram when it comes to being polyamorous and things. Honestly,
• 27:52
  what is she saying is every woman I know is gay or bisexual rights
• 28:00
  and they're dating each other? Is what's going on? And of course they're
• 28:04
  also correspondingly experiencing the high rates of domestic and sexual abuse, and the high
• 28:11
  rates of domestic are sorry, depression and suicide that go along with it.
• 28:15
  That these are package deals when it comes to dating women. Apparently, the
• 28:19
  high the the suicide. The risk of suicide is highest for men at relationship
• 28:26
  breakdown, and that's true for lesbians too. From what from the statistics that
• 28:30
  I've seen and uh, and so this is like the biggest I think the
• 28:37
  biggest causal risk factor. I'm pretty sure that that's what I read from the
• 28:41
  study that I'm thinking of. It took me a while to find that particular
• 28:45
  statistic. But anyway, so relationship breakdown for men and lesbians is what is
• 28:52
  a risk is a big risk factor for for suicide. So they're getting all
• 28:56
  of this squit this so factors of dating women and and they're they're getting they're
• 29:06
  becoming more and more miserable as a result. And I think this is again
• 29:08
  an emergent phenomenon of the single women Party. Yeah, Like, I don't
• 29:14
  think if women pair up with other women that they're going to vote any differently
• 29:17
  than the single Women Party. They are effectively just remain single women. And
• 29:22
  because you know they're now they're under the lgbt Q plus plus whatever rubric.
• 29:29
  So you know, it's just I just wanted to put that out there.
• 29:33
  Shall we listen to a more? Yeah? Let me I got a super
• 29:37
  channel great Indoors gives us ten box and says, when HBr touches others,
• 29:41
  they become big. When h HBr touches themselves, it becomes a punchline sigh,
• 29:47
  a curse wrapped as a gift, but at the same time, the
• 29:49
  gift that keeps giving godspeed badgers God's speed. Well, thank you, I
• 29:56
  get that. Yeah, as long as I can feed my family and keep
• 30:02
  us house, that gets I'm okay. So all right, let's play some
• 30:06
  more. Dating apps are just not for finding relationships. I mean, I've
• 30:11
  never used dating app because I'm too old, thank God, and so I
• 30:15
  but I just hear horror stories from them, and it's just like, well,
• 30:18
  it's just hookups and it's okay, well great, if you want to
• 30:21
  hook up, then use a dating app, dating app, But if you
• 30:25
  don't, just meet someone in real life because again coming back to the coming
• 30:30
  back to the wisdom aspect, there's something about the first impression in the flesh
• 30:37
  that is totally different to anything you can present on a dating app. You
• 30:41
  know, you can't really show who you are or any of your personal charisma
• 30:47
  or like they're off when you meet someone on a dating app. But when
• 30:52
  you meet someone in real life, things are real and there's all sorts of
• 30:56
  factors you can't consciously account for that come in to whether someone finds you interested
• 31:00
  or not. And so just that's how that's how historically how parents and grandparents
• 31:07
  and great grandparents all met. That's how you could meet too. Just don't
• 31:11
  bother with the apps. I mean, I'm inclined to agree. I've used
• 31:15
  dating apps before, like a while ago, and I didn't really get much
• 31:21
  out of it. I think I made a friend. But yeah, I
• 31:26
  mean that's like generally good advice. Unfortunately, like the young people today are,
• 31:30
  they're all on the internet, so it's like how they do everything.
• 31:36
  But I know there are ways like to filter out like people you don't want,
• 31:41
  and you can use dating apps to do it. They say this is
• 31:45
  what, this is what I am, and you don't. You don't make
• 31:48
  yourself open to whoever, and you say this is what I don't want.
• 31:51
  Do they make any yah go ahead? Do they make any definitive conclusions or
• 31:56
  statements or prognostications. Are they just talking about the situation. Let's look at
• 32:07
  let me to jump ahead to another bit because we all know that the situation
• 32:09
  sucks. Let's get to see let's get to the meat of the matter,
• 32:14
  the meat different expectations of men and women. Let me let's see what what
• 32:22
  that has, what that might this might work. Oh let me, uh
• 32:29
  hold on just a second, rab it just finding the section, okay,
• 32:42
  right here, okay, oh yeah, this is a good one. All
• 32:53
  right, let's see it. Yeah, I'm just finding the time. I'm
• 32:57
  just getting going to the time stamp. I'm sorry, all right, great,
• 33:00
  five minutes in. Yep, this is a little bit medior. It's
• 33:04
  actually not that far ahead. But okay, fifty five four. We'll just
• 33:08
  go right here. Yeah, And I think, and obviously there are studies
• 33:12
  about this, but it's really men who are mostly disadvantaged by the fact that
• 33:15
  we're not having those face to face interactions because I mean, if we're just
• 33:20
  being honest, women can be pretty harsh on a man's looks. That's just
• 33:24
  established. I think it's like eighty percent of men are ranked as below average
• 33:28
  from women. But what men, a lot of men don't understand is that
• 33:30
  women will still be willing to go out with a man they don't necessarily find
• 33:35
  attractive if he has other qualities, if he's charismatic. I've I've had friends
• 33:39
  and it will literally have a conversation, ah you going on a day like
• 33:42
  yeah, like is he cute? And that might be a question a woman
• 33:46
  might actually ask another. But if you're if you're a man, I feel
• 33:50
  like the question of oh do you find her attractive? Would you ever ask
• 33:52
  out a woman you didn't find it if you were single? Yeah, I've
• 33:57
  never. I mean, you know, I guess when a friend of yours
• 34:01
  is going on the day it's good looking, and he goes, yeah,
• 34:04
  you know, obviously it's I guess, But it's it's not. It's not
• 34:09
  just the physical looks, is it. That's the thing women are often attracted
• 34:14
  to. Charisma? Yeah, man, aren't really attracted to charisma, confidence,
• 34:19
  humor, none of these things that can act. Then wouldn't then wouldn't
• 34:23
  women be even more influenced by a I don't want to call it a halo
• 34:29
  effect. It's almost like a a fecal effect that society has put around men.
• 34:37
  Like it's it's given them the stink of you know, a latrine pit,
• 34:43
  shall we say? You mean you mean the general like view that women
• 34:49
  are are conditioned to believe about men, Yes, and that paints them.
• 34:54
  You know, it's just it's like our society has sprayed them with feces and
• 34:59
  so yeah, okay, try try to make some woman attracted to you now,
• 35:04
  ha ha ha oh, why aren't you approaching women? Ha ha ha.
• 35:07
  You know, like it's it's uh, wouldn't that tend to make that
• 35:12
  and even like have the idea that women look more towards social cues to the
• 35:16
  attractiveness that their partner. Wouldn't that tend to be a force multiplier for the
• 35:22
  effect of social cues when it comes to the desirability as men as partners.
• 35:30
  Like, I'm just putting that out there. I mean, this feels like
• 35:32
  it's they're not really going anywhere particularly deep. They're just sort of do they
• 35:39
  do they make any inferences like is there should we try another spot? Well,
• 35:46
  I'm on a SECTU called these different expectations. Uh. Then there's the
• 35:52
  flaws of seeking perfection. I don't know about that, unrealistic expectations of dating
• 35:58
  apps, okay, really expectations dating it Okay, sure, let's go there,
• 36:02
  all right? At any point do they they mentioned just how men are
• 36:07
  laboring under a society wide uh D. I need to find a really good
• 36:17
  way of putting this succinctly, a society wide campaign to paint men as completely
• 36:23
  undesirable as husbands, you know, as sexual partners. As intimate partners,
• 36:29
  as emotional partners. I don't think that comes up. No, but no,
• 36:32
  no, okay, well all right, well if you're if you're going
• 36:37
  to talk about how and what is their conclusion about how the West might be
• 36:42
  in decline, maybe we could get to that. Maybe that has a bit
• 36:45
  more meat, because I'm pretty sure that that's what they're that's what the title
• 36:49
  is built on. Yeah, but okay, so basically they're saying people aren't
• 36:52
  partnering there for well, no, I think they kind of change gears.
• 36:57
  Like they're talking. It's it starts off and they're like introduction. Okay,
• 37:01
  they're talking about liberalism, relationship to communism, and the anecdote antidote to communism,
• 37:12
  the limitations of classical liberalism, the role of morality and tradition, the
• 37:16
  metaphysical and spiritual aspects, and then they get into relationships, which which I
• 37:22
  can see how you can draw that line, because like men and women are
• 37:25
  society, you know, gotcha, they are society. I'm just sort of
• 37:37
  feeling a lack of any kind of insight. I don't want to I mean,
• 37:40
  I don't mean to be insulting, but who is that well to the
• 37:45
  individual you know, Carl and Lauren. But it's just like where is the
• 37:51
  meat, Like, where where is the point at which you're like, Okay,
• 37:54
  Westa has a problem. This is what's going on or putting forward a
• 38:00
  conjecture, a causal relationship that we can discuss, because right now it feels
• 38:05
  like we're discussing how partnering is difficult all of this kind of stuff. What
• 38:12
  do you think do you think there's a point where they're just coming to a
• 38:15
  conclusion or presenting a causal statement. Well, okay, let me tell you
• 38:22
  some other ones, so maybe we can make the jump around to something else.
• 38:27
  So we got another section where they talk about, like I said,
• 38:31
  the unrealistic expectations, the need for face to face interaction, the importance of
• 38:37
  judging character. These are obvious things, the flaws of red pill thinking.
• 38:40
  Okay, go let's go there, let's go there, for me to go
• 38:44
  there. Yeah, Like if it's a call, like, let's look at
• 38:46
  like if they're presenting some kind of statement, I want to talk about that
• 38:50
  and not just observing you know, all the dating sphere, it really sucks.
• 38:52
  Well, yes, we all know that. I think it's how many
• 38:55
  times does it need to be said, and people aren't partnering and they have,
• 39:00
  and the honest to god truth is that they got ridiculous expectations, because
• 39:06
  everybody who's basically doesn't have a relationship has ridiculous expectations. I listen to these
• 39:10
  women and what they expect, and I'm like, you got to actually value
• 39:16
  a man's companionship otherwise it's just not going to work. And you obviously don't
• 39:22
  because if you did. Like I was talking about what's his face, Alex
• 39:28
  Syke, he said something about how men are losing out to cats. You
• 39:32
  know that the men call women cat ladies, and and he says, well,
• 39:37
  you know, you're it's just a backhanded insult because you you guys are
• 39:39
  losing out to cats. And I was thinking about that, and yeah,
• 39:50
  yeah, I would agree. But let's let's just assume he's correct. The
• 39:53
  cats are are the men are losing out to cats. Cats are a better
• 39:58
  option. Well, somebody's like, well why can't you know, Like someone's
• 40:00
  pointing out, well, he's just saying that men just need to be better
• 40:04
  than cats. I'm like, okay, so a woman with a cat is
• 40:07
  going to feed that cat, it's gonna tolerate its moods. It's gonna be
• 40:13
  affectionate to that cat. It's gonna give the cat a cat cave. It's
• 40:16
  gonna give a cat space when the cat wants space. It's going to listen
• 40:22
  to the cat's needs and provide all of the cat's needs. And she's gonna
• 40:27
  do that. She's gonna bend over backwards for what you know. I like
• 40:30
  cats, but let's let's face it. They are semi domesticated and fairly aloof
• 40:39
  They can be goofy and funny, and they can they can be great companions,
• 40:45
  but they, if you think about it, the relationship tends to be
• 40:50
  one sided. And we do it because we enjoy their company, all right,
• 40:53
  And if a woman brought that kind of energy to a relationship with a
• 40:58
  man, all right, they don't. They just do not, and apparently
• 41:04
  just do not enjoy men's company for what it is. But they enjoy the
• 41:07
  company of a cat for what it is. You see. That's the difference,
• 41:13
  and that attitude is why they aren't staying partnered like you got the cats,
• 41:22
  was it, Alex Syke? Alex Syke, Yeah, And it's like
• 41:25
  that, you know, a man would probably find it fairly easy to stay
• 41:29
  partner to a woman who treats him like she treats his cat. No,
• 41:35
  but that's not what's happening. At the very least. You just values him
• 41:38
  for his companionship, even if the relationship is far more mutual than a relationship
• 41:43
  with a woman and his cat and their cat like, it is really easy
• 41:46
  for men to be better than cats. Almost every man is going to be
• 41:51
  a better companion for a woman than a cat, because he's going to probably
• 41:57
  provide well more than a cat. And why well, she may have to
• 42:00
  deal with his moods, he may have to deal with hers, you know,
• 42:04
  because it's a reciprocal thing. And yet men apparently don't. They aren't
• 42:08
  competing well with cats, is what Alex Syke said, And what I'm saying
• 42:12
  is the reason why is not because the cats are not petulant, moody,
• 42:16
  selfish, only interested in you if you provide stuff and need to be constantly
• 42:22
  taken care of and fed and petted, you know, all of this stuff.
• 42:25
  It's not because cats aren't an imposition on their owners. It's because women
• 42:31
  value the company of cats. Yeah, and if they valued the company of
• 42:37
  men, they would be with men right now. Because men provide more than
• 42:45
  a cat, but women just don't value the company of men. They don't
• 42:51
  say them themselves. You know, I would like a man in my life
• 42:54
  because I want a man in my life because I enjoy masculine as expressed by
• 43:00
  a man. All right, that's the thing, yep. So it's what
• 43:07
  it reveals. What alex Site's statement reveals is that apparently there's a significant proportion
• 43:13
  of women. I don't know how many who simply just value the company of
• 43:16
  a cat and they do not value the company of a man. And I
• 43:24
  don't know how men can change that, like and if they I don't know
• 43:30
  if men should happen. Well, I mean I think that's why there is
• 43:32
  a red pill exist yep, like like it or not, Like there are
• 43:37
  some people trying to find answers. I mean, what are we We're gonna
• 43:40
  wait for women. We're gonna wait for the politicians. We're gonna wait for
• 43:45
  the media. We're gonna wait for our teachers. No, none of them
• 43:47
  are. They're providing the opposite men. They're driving men away. Like so
• 43:52
  so other men have decided to step up and say something, And I mean,
• 43:58
  like, how can I not celebrate that yes, exactly. Proba,
• 44:00
  we said, we've probably saved lives, to be honest, and I don't
• 44:04
  say that to be boasefull, but I'm sure that there were men like,
• 44:07
  you know, like they were like, well, what the hell am I
• 44:08
  doing? What's the point? Yeah, you know, And the honest to
• 44:15
  god truth is, if it's not going to come from the if dealing with
• 44:19
  the pollution that all of these gigantic institutions are pumping into our social atmosphere,
• 44:25
  the pollution about men, if that like they won't stop, then the only
• 44:32
  thing we can do in response to it is a grassroots effort to start opposing
• 44:37
  it, man by man by man. And that's that doesn't that isn't fun,
• 44:42
  you know, like it's not Oh wow, I just want to have
• 44:45
  a YouTube channel with two million subscribers. Oh wow, that'd be so awesome.
• 44:50
  I want to make I want to make hundreds of thousands a year.
• 44:53
  Well, how do I do that? Well, advocating for issues being non
• 44:59
  gendered, issues being gendered and facing women only, that's how you do it.
• 45:02
  So it's like this is but the real answer is, like, you
• 45:07
  can't use a YouTube channel to cure cancer, right, you have to actually
• 45:14
  do the work. And if the problem is that men are being told that
• 45:20
  they're horrible, then the only way to counter that is to talk to them
• 45:25
  directly, one on one and tell them like every specific instance and work with
• 45:34
  them to overcome the issues in their life as a result of being told that
• 45:38
  they're horrible, and then somehow out of that you just develop the ability to
• 45:45
  deal with all how this message impacts as many men as you can. But
• 45:50
  you can't do that with like a universal message. You can't do that from
• 45:53
  thirty, you know, like one hundred and fifty two thousand feet in the
• 45:58
  air, looking down at your YouTube audience of millions. You can't do that.
• 46:05
  You can't actually solve these problems from that altitude. You have to get
• 46:08
  in the trenches and talk to men and work with men. The only way
• 46:15
  to solve an issue that is a result of poor socialization and an issue that
• 46:20
  is corroding our ability to socialize is through socialization. Yeah, like that's it,
• 46:28
  yep, okay, And it's not a fun it's not like it's not
• 46:32
  like you know what. Let me put it this way. I like it,
• 46:37
  like I were. I talked to the people who support us, I
• 46:42
  talk to people who just are listeners who don't necessarily financially support us. But
• 46:47
  I talk to our audience. I talk to them directly. I find out
• 46:52
  about issues that they're facing. I talk to them about them directly, like
• 46:58
  one on one. And no, this is this is not glamorous work.
• 47:04
  And when I say that, people you know, don't think it's fun.
• 47:06
  I actually enjoy that. I actually enjoy connecting with people on a more one
• 47:12
  to one level. Then I necessarily enjoy doing media and that probably shows to
• 47:17
  be honest. Okay, And but that kind of work for a lot of
• 47:22
  people isn't glamorous. It doesn't give them the attention, it doesn't give them
• 47:25
  the big bucks, you know. It's not the kind of work that they
• 47:29
  want to do. They want the giant YouTube channel. Well, unfortunately that's
• 47:36
  not going to do anything like I mean, honestly, do you if you
• 47:38
  have cancer, do you go to a YouTube channel and say, oh,
• 47:42
  please cure me. Watching this YouTube channel will cure me of cancer? No,
• 47:47
  just like that, YouTube channels will not cure an issue that is essentially
• 47:52
  the destruction of socialism, of being able to have relationships with other human beings.
• 47:57
  That's what we're seeing the destruction of the ability to have relationships with other
• 48:00
  being human beings. That's why so many people are clinging to ideologies as a
• 48:07
  means to connect with other people. That's what's actually happening. The connection between
• 48:14
  other people is torn to pieces. We're no longer capable of socializing. So
• 48:20
  people use ideologies and and kinks and being trans puppies and other weird crap as
• 48:28
  a way to actually socialize with other human beings. Well, how do you
• 48:34
  solve that? Well, you gotta get in the trenches and actually socialize.
• 48:39
  Okay, all right, Like I'm not I said, I'm not even particularly
• 48:47
  good at socializing, and I freaking can pick this up, Richard, as
• 48:53
  as as poor and uncoordinated and weird. Yes, I am making it.
• 49:00
  It is. Yeah, I think it's I think there is an effort being
• 49:04
  made. And you and you're just you're just just just fine. So all
• 49:10
  right. Richard Bier gives us five dollars and says men won't tolerate being sprayed
• 49:15
  with a squirre gun because they left the toilet seed up. Men definitely won't
• 49:19
  agree to being newter to make them more tolerable to the woman either. Well,
• 49:23
  yeah, that's true. That's true in that in that sense, kats
• 49:28
  do have to be changed quite a bit. Uh huh, all right,
• 49:34
  let us continue. This is I I just fast forwarded to the red pill
• 49:37
  thing. I think, yes, let's see mm hmmm. And I feel
• 49:43
  like there's almost there's a self fulfilling prophecy for for a lot of these red
• 49:47
  pillars. They kind of go down the rabbit hole of you know, and
• 49:52
  the statistic without actually and that's something I don't know. If you're familiar with
• 49:53
  Pearl Davis, I'm familiar. Yeah. I hope to have her on the
• 49:59
  show at some point. She's she has an open invite. So far she
• 50:00
  hasn't accepted. But you know, there's a lot of I'd be curious to
• 50:05
  see that. I don't know, because Pearl is okay, so I think,
• 50:09
  you know what, I'm not gonna speculate. All I will say is
• 50:13
  this, from what I know, Pearl intentionally tries to piss off people,
• 50:20
  especially conservatives, and I think that Lauren is a bit sensitive to that.
• 50:24
  So maybe she is like annoyed. There was just this whole thing about calendar
• 50:30
  gaate and whatnot cake gate. So but I don't know if it's about that.
• 50:35
  But anyway, we'll just we'll play more of trying. And it's it's
• 50:38
  kind of ironic because red pill the term obviously from the matrix, it is
• 50:42
  supposed to describe seeing the world as it is. They like to pride themselves
• 50:46
  with saying like, oh, well, you know, eighty percent of divorces
• 50:50
  are initiated by women. Therefore, like you're you're you're basically doomed to get
• 50:53
  divorced. They they can't play statistics in such a way that they make it
• 50:57
  seem as if you're too college educated, peace and it's your first marriage,
• 51:00
  eighty percent chance of divorce, which is actually untrue. You know, if
• 51:05
  you're both well educated people and you don't have divorce in your families, the
• 51:08
  likelihood of you getting divorced or relatively no. Now for people in the Chad.
• 51:12
  That doesn't mean I don't think we should address inequalities in the court systems,
• 51:15
  because of course we should. But I do have an issue with the
• 51:20
  doomer mentality that some of these communities tend to propagate. Especially I'm coming at
• 51:25
  this from a you know, a Christian perspective. I want strong families.
• 51:29
  I want people to get married and have kids. I think it's what's best
• 51:31
  for society. So I'm actually of the opinion. Now I'm not just going
• 51:35
  to say, oh, red pillars are just like feminists, That's not true.
• 51:38
  But I think the end goal, where it's more enforcing the atomization of
• 51:44
  people, we are contributing to the downfoff society, normalizing hooka culture. I
• 51:47
  think that is pretty similar in the two movement. So what do we do
• 51:53
  about it? I mean, I don't think people who would call doomers want
• 52:00
  to be doomers. I think you're talking about a group people that are in
• 52:05
  a position they don't want to be in. So what are you talking about?
• 52:09
  Yeah, what do we do about it? What do we do about
• 52:12
  it? Yeah? This is yeah. I mean like literally, She's like,
• 52:15
  well, I don't think the divorce statistics are quite right, but that
• 52:19
  doesn't mean I don't think we should address it. And then let's move on
• 52:21
  to something else. Wait a minute, you stepped on the You stepped on
• 52:24
  a glowing tile right there, and then you stepped off of the glowing tile?
• 52:28
  Why'd you do that? And then like, I mean, if you
• 52:32
  don't address the problems with the divorce courts, the data on whether or not
• 52:39
  you are likely to get a divorce is almost irrelevant because if the risk exists,
• 52:46
  and it's clearly going to be disfavorled to men, and it's going to
• 52:51
  put them in a terrible position, and if they have children in the marriage,
• 52:54
  that's going to be far worse for them, for their children and for
• 53:00
  the extended family and everything. I think that there are men that can see
• 53:06
  they're being pragmatic, that's all. They're just being pragmatic. They're looking at
• 53:10
  the data and they're like, nah, I don't think it's worth it,
• 53:14
  or they're saying I wish it would change, or if they're still rolling the
• 53:17
  dice, they're trying to improve the odds as much as possible. It's like,
• 53:22
  you know, to get like really nerdy for a moment. It's like
• 53:24
  in you're playing D and D and you're you have to make a role to
• 53:29
  do something, so you don't know what the difficulty is going to be,
• 53:31
  but you know that the failure is going to be catastrophic, so you try
• 53:36
  to give yourself every single bonus you can. You know, whatever bonus you
• 53:39
  can get, you will get because it'll improve your odds. And that's only
• 53:44
  because you're hoping the reward is worth the risk. So if men are just
• 53:49
  like and again, you're only putting this on men, you're not saying,
• 53:54
  you know, like, in what ways do women contribute to this problem?
• 53:59
  Why than are so many women getting I think that the data might show actually
• 54:06
  that the more educated a woman is, the more likely she is to divorce.
• 54:13
  I don't know if this is absolutely true. I don't don't hold me
• 54:15
  to this, but if you know in the chat, let me know,
• 54:20
  because I think a college educated woman or even like a higher degree like a
• 54:25
  bachelor's, master's, doctorate, EHD, the higher they are, the more
• 54:32
  likely they might be to divorce. And I'm not saying that you should marry
• 54:37
  a dumb woman, but I think that, like you know, women who
• 54:40
  are career oriented and driven, they are probably going to treat relationships in marriage
• 54:45
  as like either on par or secondary to their career. So this means that
• 54:53
  their relationship might suffer. They might see, like you know, getting a
• 54:57
  husband, that's kind of like checking a box, like well, I got
• 55:00
  the job, and I got the car, and I got the clothes,
• 55:01
  and I got the apartment in Manhattan. I guess I'll get a man now,
• 55:06
  you know, and that's not like a high priority, so you have
• 55:08
  to wonder about that. I'm just asking the question. I don't pretend to
• 55:13
  know, Alison. You're not pleased with this, are you. I'm just
• 55:22
  it's not really going anywhere. Yeah, well, I don't know what you're
• 55:27
  they're talking. I don't know. I don't know, Like there's not going
• 55:29
  to be any major but no, I don't think so. But let's keep
• 55:35
  going there is. Let's see what else they have to say about. I
• 55:37
  think she was referring to the black pill though not the red pill. Yeah.
• 55:39
  Sorry, well she did say red pill vought. Yeah, I know,
• 55:43
  but I'm thinking I think that what her sentiments that she's espousing or attributing
• 55:47
  are more towards the black Pill than the red pill. Mm hmm. Maybe
• 55:52
  I don't know. Okay, let's go. Yeah. Like I said,
• 55:55
  I think it's a selection bias. The headline grabbing, attention grabbing viral tweets
• 56:01
  and clips are the worst ones. But like I said, I think if
• 56:07
  you go outside and just talk to you know, when you're going around the
• 56:09
  supermarket. Like Weirdly, in Britain, a lot of couples meet at the
• 56:14
  supermarket. I don't know why, like you know, I don't know what
• 56:17
  like is the reason for that. But I think that most women are probably
• 56:22
  just basically normal, and I think most men are probably just basically normal.
• 56:27
  And just go to a few social gatherings, you know, you've got to
• 56:31
  get out of your comfort zone sometimes, go and meet some regular people,
• 56:36
  and you might find you might meet some nice ones. And I completely agree
• 56:39
  with that. It's not to say that the court system doesn't need fixing.
• 56:44
  It is a hangover from a a much, a much more different past.
• 56:51
  But things I don't think are as tragic as people are making out. And
• 56:54
  like you say, saying that eighty percent of divorces are initiated by women is
• 56:59
  not the same saying eighty percent of people get divorced. And even if that's
• 57:04
  true, you could be in that twenty percent that doesn't. It isn't an
• 57:07
  act of God. It isn't just like a volcanic explosion that happens. Relationships
• 57:14
  work when you work. Yeah, but oh straight, I think you're you're
• 57:21
  reduced. Yes, but men now have to work against the party of single
• 57:23
  women and the fact that our institutions actively actively are trying to create more single
• 57:32
  women, like I honestly think that that the demographic that tem the uh the
• 57:42
  Democratic Party or the left or whatever, the more liberal end of any Western
• 57:47
  culture. All Right, they know, they know more single women means more
• 57:53
  power to their particular ideological brand, and they're doing everything in their power to
• 58:02
  make sure that that happens. And you have to look at the situation for
• 58:07
  men. They're not just fighting against the usual issues that that couple's face.
• 58:14
  They're fighting against the fact that you can't have a relationship in which one person
• 58:20
  is perfectly molded to the other and the instant a man is not perfectly molded
• 58:24
  to a woman's desires and needs. The party of the single one party of
• 58:30
  the single women, takes her aside and says he's a narcissist, he's abusive.
• 58:37
  If you if you if you stay with him, he's just going to
• 58:39
  escalate. He's just you know, you know, you're you're just gonna end
• 58:44
  up being beaten, you know, And he what what are you doing?
• 58:47
  Are you becoming a doormat? Are you just complying to his wishes? You
• 58:53
  know? That's the part of the single women just gets in there. Every
• 58:57
  single crack, so we're not just looking at Yeah, yeah, every women
• 59:01
  are are normal, women are average. That's fine, and that's the problem.
• 59:06
  You're absolutely right, Sargon's absolutely right. A normal woman, a normal,
• 59:12
  average woman. You know, most women are just normal and average.
• 59:15
  That's the problem. In order to oppose the Party of Single Women, a
• 59:20
  woman has to be above average when it comes to being disagreeable, rebellious,
• 59:29
  pigheaded, and unwilling to compromise whatever she wants in her life. And she
• 59:39
  also has to really value the companionship of a man. She has to literally
• 59:46
  say, this is mind fuck off. She's gotta be She's gotta have spine,
• 59:51
  above average level of spine, above average level of social disagreeability, above
• 59:59
  average level of understanding the situation or men are in. Because the average woman
• 1:00:05
  is going to be influenced by the Party of Single Women, and that's unfortunate.
• 1:00:09
  Like you know, in previous times, the average woman would be influenced
• 1:00:15
  more by her church, her family, her community. She'd be influenced more
• 1:00:19
  by other women who didn't regard single women as being a good thing. To
• 1:00:24
  be right, she would be influenced by social convention. The average woman's ability
• 1:00:32
  to be in a relationship would be supported by everything around her. Social expectation,
• 1:00:43
  the attitude towards how valuable it was to be a married woman versus a
• 1:00:47
  single woman, religious expectations, the fact that she very clearly understood the value
• 1:00:55
  that a man brought to her in her relationship and it was practical and material
• 1:01:00
  all right, All of this would be supporting the average woman being an average
• 1:01:06
  spouse in an average relationship and making it work. That's not the case now.
• 1:01:14
  Now, if a man gets in the relationship with an average woman,
• 1:01:17
  he is getting in the relationship with the average woman and the party of single
• 1:01:21
  women who is going to constantly be on her tits telling her, oh,
• 1:01:27
  are you are you being taking advantage of? Well, you don't want to
• 1:01:30
  be a patsy, you don't want to be a loser, you don't want
• 1:01:34
  to be used, you don't want to be a dormat, you don't want
• 1:01:37
  to be a submissive wife. You know, they'll be on her tits constantly
• 1:01:44
  to make sure that she's extracting whatever she can from the man, and that
• 1:01:49
  at any point, at any point where he is failing, that becomes abuse
• 1:01:54
  and the deluthe model, which is a nightmare, and he knows about this
• 1:01:59
  that's going to get in there, and all of these influences are going to
• 1:02:01
  be in the relationship with the average woman. And I'm not saying that the
• 1:02:06
  average woman is a bad woman, but the average woman is average. She's
• 1:02:12
  a woman who is likely socially agreeable, who likely listens to other people his
• 1:02:17
  opinion. You know. She is a woman who doesn't have a lot of
• 1:02:22
  spine, who goes with the flow, who arranges her life in the way
• 1:02:27
  that people tell her to because she thinks that they have more intelligence about her
• 1:02:30
  life than she does. The average woman is average. And what Unfortunately,
• 1:02:38
  and I know this is probably going to discuss some guys at this point in
• 1:02:43
  time, men really need more of a warrior, no offense, more of
• 1:02:49
  a woman who has an unusually high level of spine and disagreeable and disagreeability in
• 1:02:55
  order for not to be influenced by all of this crap that's coming from the
• 1:03:00
  party of single women. And I don't mean to be offensive because I know
• 1:03:07
  there's probably guys you're like, but we want submissive, submissive women, well,
• 1:03:09
  submissive submit you know, Yeah, I don't think that I don't I
• 1:03:15
  don't think that this probably is like that. Okay, Okay, I got
• 1:03:17
  a super chow from Tell him Nar, Tell him Nar, and he says,
• 1:03:22
  for twenty bucks, thank you, tell him Nar. To my understanding,
• 1:03:25
  in the US, if a woman has a higher level of education,
• 1:03:30
  he is less likely to be divorced, well I didn't know that, thank
• 1:03:32
  you, than one with less education high school only. However, in the
• 1:03:38
  event of divorce is far more likely to be the one who initiates. Which,
• 1:03:45
  yeah, we know that much, and it's probably likely the case that
• 1:03:49
  maybe, well I'm a thank you for telling me that. All. I
• 1:03:54
  don't want to like get too much in a digression, but I appreciate the
• 1:03:58
  superchow and the information. Okay, can get back to this. I know
• 1:04:03
  if there is something about the red pill he talks about so of the relationship.
• 1:04:10
  Think it literally like a rope that you're weaving between two people. And
• 1:04:15
  if you don't spend any of your time weaving that rope, and if she
• 1:04:17
  doesn't spend any of her time weaving that rope, then it just phras and
• 1:04:20
  it breaks and then you end up going apart and that's the end of the
• 1:04:24
  relationship. But when you're both working on it for each other, then actually
• 1:04:28
  it becomes stronger. And that's making me think, Christ, I'm Gonakabama,
• 1:04:30
  buy my wife some flowers. I haven't bought a flowers a long time.
• 1:04:34
  But it's that kind of thing, you know, the small surprises that show
• 1:04:38
  the other person that you love them, the small acts of kindness that you
• 1:04:42
  do that make their lives a little bit easier. Honestly, you're You're the
• 1:04:45
  one who guarantees whether your relationship goes sour or not. You're the one who
• 1:04:49
  does it, so you know it isn't It isn't random. And I think
• 1:04:56
  for a lot of people who maybe have grown up perpetually online, which I
• 1:05:00
  think I'm just just a little bit older to have not experienced that the idea
• 1:05:04
  that, oh, it's actually my own decision, I can make my own
• 1:05:08
  social way. It's not just. She reads a couple of super chats and
• 1:05:14
  one of them is aranks. I'm gonna read. I'll let this part play
• 1:05:16
  because Zara X is one of our one of our people, so great chat
• 1:05:21
  is always Carl. I pray you'll do as I did and put your faith
• 1:05:24
  in Christ, who is who he says he is in the Bible. Even
• 1:05:27
  if you don't understand belief first, then understand And so something about that I've
• 1:05:31
  you know, I've been tweeting up a storm, getting people mad at me,
• 1:05:36
  kind of looking at Islam and Judaism. I'm just alienating myself from everybody,
• 1:05:41
  basically, and something that I've Oh, that'll do it, Lauren,
• 1:05:45
  that'll do it. Talking about Islam will get you in trouble. But talking
• 1:05:48
  about Judaism, Oh boy. All right, Well I gotta I got a
• 1:05:54
  super chow from Richard Beierre again, and thank you Richard, and he says
• 1:06:00
  five dollars. Consider that Cosmopolitan magazine used to have writer's room where the majority
• 1:06:06
  of the writers were married, women with families, or were writing about the
• 1:06:11
  Cosmo girl template of the single woman living her best life on the career path
• 1:06:15
  and having access to fabulous parties and glamour. Also consider that the creator of
• 1:06:18
  Sex and the City mentioned now unhappy she is with no partner since the series
• 1:06:24
  has ended. I nominate Karen to be the warrior. Well, she's the
• 1:06:28
  barbarian. Okah, you know, I'm the rogue. He is the ranzer
• 1:06:35
  rants Okay, yeah, exactly, Well she is, Okay, so this
• 1:06:39
  is I don't know, I'm not sure if I want to go through much
• 1:06:41
  more of this, it just feels like, Okay, that's that's nice.
• 1:06:46
  More stuff that's not really going to do anything, no offense to either of
• 1:06:49
  these two individuals. Yeah, that's all right, but you guys are not
• 1:06:54
  doing anything. You're talking around this, Yeah exactly. It's like it's like,
• 1:07:03
  oh, the average woman is average, yes, and unfortunately our culture
• 1:07:06
  means that she's in another culture, and in a culture that supported women being
• 1:07:14
  partners, an average woman would be fine. You know, an average woman,
• 1:07:18
  an average man. They would have an average life, they'd have an
• 1:07:21
  average family, and they would be happy, and everybody would be happy,
• 1:07:26
  and we would be trucking along with an amazing civilization going on the way to
• 1:07:30
  Alpha Centauri. But that's not what we got. We have the Party of
• 1:07:35
  single women constantly. And the thing is that people don't understand. It's not
• 1:07:41
  just that the Party of women single women convinces women to be single. It's
• 1:07:46
  that the Party of Single Women gets on women's tits constantly and turns her relationship
• 1:07:55
  with any man into a battleground. Yeah, and if she doesn't do that,
• 1:08:00
  she's accused of being a doormat. That's why she has to become a
• 1:08:04
  warrior. Well, yes, because he's need to fight back against the party
• 1:08:09
  of single women, which is the which is what she's really submitting to.
• 1:08:13
  Honestly. So, you know, if if you're a woman who's decided to
• 1:08:17
  stay at home and make sandwiches for your high powered husband, you're a dormat.
• 1:08:21
  If you're a woman who's decided to be a high powered corporate lawyer and
• 1:08:26
  have a husband who stays at home making sandwiches, you're being used, right,
• 1:08:30
  So essentially, what they the only way to satisfy the party of single
• 1:08:34
  women is to have a man who is who has the cooking skills of Gordon
• 1:08:42
  Ramsay and is as powerful as Christian Gray. And and it's like, there's
• 1:08:47
  no way you can't have a man that satisfies the party of single women,
• 1:08:51
  and the party of single women will gnaw on you if you don't have such
• 1:08:56
  a man, right And and honestly, I think that in the past,
• 1:09:01
  when people when women were like, yeah, well at least I'm not a
• 1:09:04
  spinster, it was a way of shutting other women up. It's just like,
• 1:09:11
  you know, at least I got one shut up fuck off, this
• 1:09:14
  is mine. But now there's like, you can't do that because single women
• 1:09:18
  are so much more cool and they're not being taken advantage of, and they're
• 1:09:21
  glamorous, and their lifestyles are so much better and they're happier and everything better
• 1:09:28
  than women. When woman gets a man, she might as well take up
• 1:09:30
  smoking and injecting crack into her eyeballs? Is that good for her? Men?
• 1:09:34
  Are that good for her? Right? Okay? Like yes, that's
• 1:09:41
  the problem. Like I said, the party of single women will grind on
• 1:09:45
  women who've chosen men as partners. They'll grind and grind and grind and grind
• 1:09:50
  and grind and grind and grind until women leave. And it's hard. You
• 1:09:58
  know, I've experienced that. I think a lot of women have experienced that.
• 1:10:01
  If they really soul search, how much condemnation if you're if your partner
• 1:10:09
  isn't fucking perfect, how much other people will grind on you. Hell,
• 1:10:15
  I've experienced it from feminists on Twitter. You know. They ground and ground
• 1:10:18
  and ground on me about being a submissive wife who makes sandwiches Sami's for my
• 1:10:24
  husband, and I said, well, actually he does the cooping. You
• 1:10:26
  know what they did the instant I said that Oh, he's a beta male.
• 1:10:30
  He's using you the walking lord. You can't win. And that party
• 1:10:38
  of single women makes it that way for women. It create not only does
• 1:10:42
  it make it so you can't win. Instead of saying to the high powered
• 1:10:45
  corporate lawyer, woman who has you know, a stay at home oh,
• 1:10:48
  hey, you're you're you're killing it. You're slaying, and then saying to
• 1:10:53
  the to the homemaker who's making sandwiches, you're killing it, you're slaying.
• 1:10:58
  Wow, you really got the life that you want. That's great, high
• 1:11:00
  five. And to the women who have something in between, you know you
• 1:11:04
  know that that you're making the life you want. Instead of affirming all of
• 1:11:11
  the women and the choices that they've made, they pick at those choices.
• 1:11:15
  Pick pick pick pick pick pick pick pick pick, Oh is he not giving
• 1:11:19
  you enough? Oh? If he's a high powered lawyer, is he not
• 1:11:23
  making enough standwiches? If he's a stay at home mom or a stay at
• 1:11:27
  home dad, is he not uh doing as much work? Is enough?
• 1:11:30
  As a stay at home mom would like doing all the chores instead of teaching
• 1:11:34
  the children to do the chores, is he doing that? Pick pick pick
• 1:11:36
  pick pick pick, pick, pick pick and if you're like a working class
• 1:11:41
  woman has to have a job and her husband has to have a job.
• 1:11:44
  Oh well, you know, and it's just endless, endless picking. And
• 1:11:49
  it's all because of this stupid narrative that men oppress women, and it's all
• 1:11:55
  because of the stupid anti mail campaign that we have constructed. Mm hmm.
• 1:12:01
  So it's like the party of single women is not I'm not just saying,
• 1:12:03
  it's like, oh, well, men are men are you know? So
• 1:12:06
  you know it's all no women. Women get shipped too. And like I
• 1:12:11
  said, unless you're above average, unless you're a kind of woman who can
• 1:12:14
  slam the door in the faces of these nitpicking like eradance, you're gonna have
• 1:12:21
  that in your head. You're gonna go to the hairdresser and all the women
• 1:12:25
  around you, you're gonna be bitching about their partners if they have them.
• 1:12:28
  And then the single woman who wants to prove that her life is great is
• 1:12:30
  gonna be like, oh, well, you know what I did on the
• 1:12:33
  weekend. Well, I got a manicure and then I went to a you
• 1:12:39
  know, I went to a concert with all of my friends, and then
• 1:12:43
  I had a footie call, and then I had sex with the hottest man
• 1:12:46
  you know, and and what do you think is gonna happen there? You
• 1:12:50
  know, it's just this constant drumbeat. All Right, I will shut up
• 1:12:56
  because I've been all right, we'll play a little more. I'm yeah,
• 1:12:58
  that's okay. I think it's Zaranx's comment that starts the yeah it's super chat
• 1:13:01
  that starts this. YEP. Found really interesting is that Muslims will not find
• 1:13:08
  it offensive if you've tried, if you're trying to convert them, because they're
• 1:13:11
  also trying to convert you. I have Muslim friends. I took Middle Studies.
• 1:13:15
  This is something that I'm used to Judaism. A lot of the Jewish
• 1:13:18
  community actively finds it offensive if you try to convert them as an atheist.
• 1:13:23
  Are you offended when people you know might say that they're they're praying for you,
• 1:13:28
  or specifically praying that you find faith in God. No, not at
• 1:13:31
  all. It's actually a very kind thing to say, because that shows that
• 1:13:35
  you're in their thoughts and they care about you. They're just expressing it in
• 1:13:40
  a way that I don't understand. You know, it doesn't it's not it's
• 1:13:46
  not at all bad. It's obviously a kind of what I'm saying, and
• 1:13:53
  like, if I could just choose, I probably would choose to be a
• 1:13:57
  Christian, because, like I said, I know lots of Christians. They're
• 1:14:00
  all kind, people are little happy, and I'm not unhappy or anything,
• 1:14:02
  but like it just would be you know, if there's a button I could
• 1:14:08
  pressed or I become Christian, I'd probably just do it. Just okay,
• 1:14:11
  why not? You know, what what would I lose? You know,
• 1:14:13
  I looked as far as I can tell, I'd looked to everything to gain
• 1:14:15
  right. I just don't want to be inauthentic, and you know, I
• 1:14:19
  feel I feel like there may be some of this discussion is a little bit
• 1:14:23
  outside of our wheelhouse with the religion and the conversion, like you know,
• 1:14:30
  good luck, you know, getting people to agree to Christianity. I don't
• 1:14:33
  have a problem with that. No, no, no, that's not the
• 1:14:36
  part I meant to play. Because she brought up Zaranks to super Chat,
• 1:14:40
  so I thought she was going to read it. Then she put it away
• 1:14:42
  to talk about that. Then she brings it back. So no, no,
• 1:14:44
  no, no, this is the Oh he did a super Chat Okay,
• 1:14:53
  I want to read it. Tyrannics. Sorry, dating is low,
• 1:14:57
  low tier, three star red light district shopping, especially with how it's discussed
• 1:15:00
  poor foundation for marriage with women who aren't wives slash husbands and expect to be
• 1:15:05
  magically made into such. And that's totally true, and that in a lot
• 1:15:12
  of places, Like I said, right, I bet that I'm not speaking
• 1:15:16
  I mean, I'm not an American, but like if you were to go
• 1:15:19
  to like a fairly small rural town with a few thousand people in it,
• 1:15:25
  I bet the women there are much more marriageable material than walking along in l
• 1:15:29
  a and you know, meeting someone who's trying to get ahead there, right,
• 1:15:32
  it's they're going to be just worlds apart, and men are not dealing
• 1:15:41
  with the party of single men. Let's let's be honest. There's a difference
• 1:15:45
  between the average man and the average woman in this current scenario, because the
• 1:15:49
  average man doesn't have a party of single women or single men grinding on him
• 1:15:55
  necessarily to regard his relationship as being undesirable if she isn't both a high powered
• 1:16:03
  lawyer and a sandwich maker. Right, So there's a little bit of a
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  difference here in terms of the messaging from society. I just wanted to point
• 1:16:15
  that out, Tue. Oh and it's interesting. Yeah, Zaron sent them
• 1:16:21
  a message, and he send us a message. Yeah, we read it
• 1:16:25
  earlier. He's always in here, one of our he's one of our regulars.
• 1:16:30
  It's like he's like the guy you know, hig you know, I
• 1:16:35
  know regulars. I'm just I just he's got like his favorite chair and everything.
• 1:16:41
  Like if this was this was a bar, I kind of wish it
• 1:16:44
  was, honestly, but if it was a bar, he would have his
• 1:16:46
  favorite chair, you know, it would be it would be him and great
• 1:16:50
  indoors like sitting like you know, like motorcyclist like g Meredith G. It'd
• 1:17:02
  be like, yeah, Meredith G would be there. She'd be like,
• 1:17:04
  you know, like I don't know, what's the character the one of the
• 1:17:11
  characters from you If you guys were a character from Cheers, is what I'm
• 1:17:14
  saying, who would you be? You know exactly? But you know,
• 1:17:18
  I'd be like Halson's it's funny to see telenar On on here. It's almost
• 1:17:24
  like we're on there, you know. Yeah, it's interesting. It's true.
• 1:17:30
  Okay, somebody knows your name. Any further commentary, Yeah, yeah,
• 1:17:34
  let's keep going. The Millennials, I think successfully made relationships transactional enough
• 1:17:42
  that the Zoomers don't know anything else, and they're having problems describing what they
• 1:17:45
  want to have relationships that doesn't involve a transaction. One of the things absolutely
• 1:17:49
  loathe loathe when young men say is what do you bring to the table.
• 1:17:55
  It's like, really, do you want to write up a contract? Do
• 1:17:57
  you you just shake fucking hands on it? We do? What the fuck
• 1:18:01
  are you talking about? You're looking for a wife, You're looking to be
• 1:18:04
  the woman who's going to be like the folk crum of your life from here
• 1:18:08
  on out. It's like, I want a list of bullet points. Shut
• 1:18:12
  the fuck up. You've been perverted by the millennials and their contract society,
• 1:18:16
  like they want a fucking contract every time you sit down have sex. I
• 1:18:23
  mean, I think you know what, you know what? I think that
• 1:18:28
  Carl's a little he's there's another blind spot because I think the only reason why
• 1:18:32
  zoomer men have started asking this question is because women have been demanding this as
• 1:18:40
  well before, and so men thinking in terms of like, well, if
• 1:18:45
  you're asking for like me to have all these qualities, I should also have
• 1:18:49
  expectation. So Carl might be right that the transactional nature of relationships was inherited
• 1:18:58
  by the millennials. I don't know where that started. I assume it comes
• 1:19:01
  out of, like downstream from gen X maybe. I mean, I never
• 1:19:06
  had that experience as a gen XRA, but I'm not saying it didn't happen.
• 1:19:11
  But I think to say that when men are asking women what they bring
• 1:19:15
  to the table, I think it is unfair to not think that this is
• 1:19:21
  a response to women, because I think women were doing it first. I
• 1:19:26
  mean, what does the six six six come from? Like, what does
• 1:19:29
  that come from? When when you have these interviews with women on the street
• 1:19:32
  and they're like, how much how much do you want a man to spend
• 1:19:34
  on your first date? You know, isn't that women saying this is what
• 1:19:41
  I expect from men? And the truth is, up until men started asking
• 1:19:45
  this question, we didn't ask anything of women. Well, I don't know,
• 1:19:49
  I don't know if any man saying, oh, you know, I
• 1:19:53
  mean, they want her to be attractive, but even that is not really
• 1:19:57
  enough, Like you should expect her to be, you know, like a
• 1:20:00
  good person with values that you like. I mean that that should actually come
• 1:20:06
  first. Honestly, and it's usually reflected in their their their looks improve if
• 1:20:13
  there if their personality is good, you know, mm hmm. But yeah,
• 1:20:19
  I think that he it is more like four to six is yes,
• 1:20:26
  But I think that Uh. I'm not angry about this. I just think
• 1:20:30
  that he's missing where it comes from. Kay, can I do something really
• 1:20:34
  quick here? Yeah? Go ahead, Okay, I'm gonna do a little
• 1:20:38
  experiment. Testing one two three, testing one two three, testing one.
• 1:20:42
  You're too far Yeah, I can't hear you. Okay, okay, Avatar
• 1:20:45
  doesn't react if you're too far away too. Oh no, no, I'm
• 1:20:46
  not I'm just saying so testing one, two, three, four, five,
• 1:20:50
  six, seven, eight million. It's a little low. But all
• 1:20:54
  right, what number did I stop at? Like? Five? Oh?
• 1:21:00
  Oh oh oh? Okay, I think I'm understanding this creature that I have
• 1:21:05
  to occupy space with and speak to. All right, let us continue,
• 1:21:12
  Okay, all right, I'm gonna keep going. But I get the government
• 1:21:15
  signature too, brilliant, fucking you don't understand how far you have fallen from
• 1:21:20
  what being in love is when you ask that question, And that's what that
• 1:21:25
  chap was saying, that it's all just you know, you may as well
• 1:21:28
  be asking for a prostitute and asking for the services she's going to render to
• 1:21:30
  you. You know, you don't ask that fucking question. If you need
• 1:21:34
  to ask a woman that question, she ain't the one. Move on,
• 1:21:38
  you know, if you can't just move on? What the body count?
• 1:21:44
  No, he said, like the what do you bring to the table?
• 1:21:46
  So I okay, I agree that men should be able to, like say,
• 1:21:51
  be discerning and say this woman is not good for me and move on.
• 1:21:56
  And that's totally like, I'm all for it. I think men should
• 1:21:59
  be just. I think they should have standards, but women are the women
• 1:22:05
  are ultimately the gatekeepers. So where are you say? Well, I don't
• 1:22:15
  think that's big that big a problem, honestly, don't. I really don't
• 1:22:20
  think that dating is that the failures in dating are a result of men saying,
• 1:22:25
  well, what do you bring to the table? Yeah, I don't
• 1:22:29
  think that's what's going on here. I mean you can point out as a
• 1:22:32
  problem. I'm sure when it happened happened once, it was a problem.
• 1:22:36
  Maybe I think that he's right. People are, in particular, women focus
• 1:22:48
  a lot more on a list of characteristics than really understanding that our relationship is
• 1:22:56
  about and they and they talk about having like a connection, but you know,
• 1:23:01
  it's I don't know if that this was your experience, but when I
• 1:23:05
  first met Jonathan, my husband, there was a sense of familiarity that was
• 1:23:13
  like really profound, and I don't know, it was just like it was
• 1:23:23
  like you'd always been there somehow, and you can't you can't get that from
• 1:23:29
  a list and a spreadsheet. And I don't know, it's I don't know
• 1:23:34
  how to make that something that that millennials or gen z can really can really
• 1:23:42
  understand. You just always be open to having a companion. Yeah, it
• 1:23:48
  might be the conditions under which, yeah, boys and girls or men and
• 1:23:54
  women meet each other. Because like with Lindsey, you know, I met
• 1:24:00
  her. We obviously we were we weren't like a thing, and we met
• 1:24:03
  at a we spoke on Skype and stuff, But I wasn't thinking about her
• 1:24:09
  like in any other ways other than she was another part of like what was
• 1:24:13
  that skype group that we used to have where all the like people who were
• 1:24:17
  sort of like involved with badgery stuff would hang out. It wasn't like it
• 1:24:21
  was way before discord, right, Yeah, No, it was we had
• 1:24:26
  a Patriot one, and we might have also had just a one for Yeah.
• 1:24:30
  I think it was just like a regular one that people hung out in
• 1:24:31
  and that you know, like Nephanor was in there and Rachel and some of
• 1:24:35
  the other old heads anyway, you know, and Lindsay was just one of
• 1:24:40
  the people in there. So I didn't even like, I'm not even sure
• 1:24:43
  if I knew that was a girl or not. Right at the time,
• 1:24:45
  I wasn't really thinking about that. I was just hanging in there talking to
• 1:24:46
  people. We'd share memes, we would talk or whatever. And then like
• 1:24:49
  I went to a meetup in Calgary. We did the Calgary XPO thing.
• 1:24:55
  We got kicked out, and then we did the meet up and Lindsay showed
• 1:24:59
  up to the meet up with a bunch of other people and I hung up
• 1:25:01
  with all of them, but for whatever reason, was drawn to her and
• 1:25:05
  like I just wanted to talk and really like there wasn't it wasn't even really
• 1:25:11
  even romantic then. It was just like we were getting to know each other.
• 1:25:15
  We we and so like we already had a few things in common.
• 1:25:17
  We're interested. We knew the Badgers were because I was still new to HBr
• 1:25:21
  at the time, we knew the badges were. They were interested in men's
• 1:25:26
  rights, we were interested in in you know, comic books, because she
• 1:25:29
  was going to the comic convention. So there was already like a bunch of
• 1:25:31
  bases and we had like these there were there was a baseline of values that
• 1:25:35
  were already in place that we had. So, you know, and I
• 1:25:40
  dated lots before, and sometimes I think, I think that like what I'm
• 1:25:46
  thinking is and I mean, like I'm only fifty, so I don't know
• 1:25:49
  that I have it all figured out. I don't think I do. But
• 1:25:53
  I think that if you share values, like core values with somebody, you're
• 1:25:58
  way more likely to stay at least friends with them then if you say,
• 1:26:03
  just have the same interests. So simply saying oh do you like anime?
• 1:26:08
  I like anime, that's not enough. That's nothing right. But if you're
• 1:26:12
  like I believe, you know, and in these principles, they don't have
• 1:26:16
  to be political. I'm talking like, you know, I believe that men
• 1:26:19
  and women are human beings. I believe that we should you know, share
• 1:26:24
  in this or that, like this is what I think. You know,
• 1:26:27
  men's role is whatever it is right And if they agree with you, and
• 1:26:30
  they feel strongly and they have the same passion. They have to feel strongly
• 1:26:33
  about something, then I think you're gonna do fine. But like it's not.
• 1:26:40
  I mean, I think that zoomers are not doing that. That's why
• 1:26:44
  it is reduced to something that appears transactional. But I think they're looking for
• 1:26:50
  they're looking for a way to connect. I don't think it's like that they're
• 1:26:54
  cold, you know what I mean? Yeah, Well, ultimately, I
• 1:26:57
  think this is how this works. I wonder this goes anywhere, like what
• 1:27:00
  their ultimate conclusion is. I was gonna say that's I think. Another thing
• 1:27:05
  that really helps is, you know, you can look at it in terms
• 1:27:09
  of liking the same things, but at some point you gotta like some or
• 1:27:15
  rather you could got to like the fact that your partner likes something, if
• 1:27:18
  that makes sense, you know what I mean? You know, if they
• 1:27:23
  have understand but yeah, intriguing because they find it intriguing, right, Yeah,
• 1:27:32
  you can enjoy their enthusiasm for something. You know, that's something that
• 1:27:39
  and I don't know it's it's I do see this sometimes with you know,
• 1:27:44
  young men, there are aspects of socialization that you know, definitely be improved.
• 1:27:55
  For example, a lot of young men seem to think, at least
• 1:28:01
  if they're on the autism speci groom or they're more nerdy, they seem to
• 1:28:04
  regard social situations less as a situation where you're trying to have a mutual good
• 1:28:13
  time with other people and more almost like a competition like I know more,
• 1:28:17
  I can do more, I can be better than you at this, And
• 1:28:21
  it's sort of off putting. And that's something that I see unfortunately, like
• 1:28:28
  where are they going to learn anything different? Right? They're not given the
• 1:28:31
  opportunity to be social with people who will point that out and say, by
• 1:28:34
  howdy, is that exhausting? I'm just trying to have a good time with
• 1:28:38
  you gonna want to turn everything into a fight. This is something I've noticed
• 1:28:43
  that boys get into, or young men get into when they have poor socialization
• 1:28:47
  skills. That's something I will acknowledge. And the girls obviously get into the
• 1:28:53
  constant victimization and constant passive aggressive kind of competition. Yep, that's true.
• 1:29:02
  I'm gonna play a little bit more of this. Yeah, let's let's see
• 1:29:05
  if they find a conclusion here, like something that actually reminds me of something
• 1:29:11
  that a Destiny said about relationships. I know that, yeah, but he
• 1:29:16
  didn't make a good point. Whereas that, you know, we can go
• 1:29:18
  over the what did you bring to the table stuff all we want, but
• 1:29:23
  ultimately, probably what the majority of your relationship, succeeding or failing is going
• 1:29:27
  to come down to is are you able to get along with each other on
• 1:29:30
  the day to day? Do you love each other? Can you build a
• 1:29:32
  life together? And unfortunately, for the Internet age, the data age,
• 1:29:36
  that's not something that's necessarily quantifiable. That's just something you have to go and
• 1:29:40
  live and experience. I don't think he just likes that idea. It's analogue.
• 1:29:46
  That's an analog concept, not digital. Can you get along? Yeah,
• 1:29:55
  And honestly, can you get along has to you with your desire to
• 1:30:00
  get along, which I think goes to that principles and ethics you were talking
• 1:30:04
  about sharing some some values right will will tend to make you want to get
• 1:30:13
  along. Right. And then the other thing is that you also have to
• 1:30:18
  have good skills for conflict de escalation, or if you don't have good skills
• 1:30:23
  for conflict de escalation, you've got good have to have good skills for apologizing.
• 1:30:28
  Afterwards, yeah, one or the other apologizing or making it a joke
• 1:30:35
  or or whatever. And you know, just learning to be to just enjoy
• 1:30:44
  each other and find each other funny. You know, like for example,
• 1:30:50
  I maybe this won't be funny to other people, but my husband Jonathan went
• 1:30:56
  and wanted to get some Halloween cookies, which like the pre made Halloween cookies
• 1:31:02
  and like a little log with like little faces, and he really likes Count
• 1:31:05
  chocolate and they had Count choculate on them. And I looked at this,
• 1:31:09
  I'm like, you're you're gonna hate this. You're you're not going to enjoy
• 1:31:12
  eating this. And can he makes yeah that like Count or not? Uh
• 1:31:17
  yeah, Count Chocula, Count Chocola and Booberry Yeah yeah, yeah exactly.
• 1:31:26
  And he got cookies based on the monster cereals, like some kind of weird
• 1:31:30
  sugar cook Yeah. I know, I know. I'm like, you're gonna
• 1:31:32
  hate this. Like when you go to the grocery store, stay away from
• 1:31:38
  the center aisle, just go to the yeah yeah, yeah, no,
• 1:31:41
  I I totally agree with you, Brian, but just get there, do
• 1:31:46
  what you want. But as I did, like Booberry. Okay, so
• 1:31:50
  he got these cookies I'm like, you're gonna dislike these cookies. Don't buy
• 1:31:55
  the cookies. You gonna hate them. And then he okay, so he
• 1:31:58
  didn't do anything with the cook He's still like, a couple of days ago,
• 1:32:00
  you finally cooked the cookies because we sort of splurged and got a new
• 1:32:04
  air fryer. And yeah, it's very nice. It is ability. We
• 1:32:11
  love our air fryer. Yeah, I just learned you can make boiled eggs
• 1:32:14
  in an air fryer. Do you know that? Like soft boiled eggs.
• 1:32:18
  I can't eat it. I'm actually allergic to eggs. So although this is
• 1:32:24
  this is this is great information, it's not particular. Yeah it is.
• 1:32:29
  Somebody cry for me and my inability to eat eggs. Eggs are a pretty
• 1:32:35
  perfect food if you can eat them. But anyway, so I told them,
• 1:32:42
  yeah, you do not gonna like. So he bakes them in the
• 1:32:44
  air frier because he wants to test the air fryer out, and he's finally
• 1:32:46
  gotten around eating these cookies. He eats one and I'm like, you're making
• 1:32:50
  a face. He's like, no, I'm not making a face, like
• 1:32:54
  you're you don't like these these cookies. And I'm like I told you,
• 1:32:58
  I get to say I told you, and this circumstance, I get to
• 1:33:01
  say I told you because I knew better than you that you wouldn't like these
• 1:33:04
  cookies. I'm like, and so I'm belaboring this, but I'm not trying
• 1:33:09
  to. But it's just like turning these kind of moments into humor, and
• 1:33:14
  being able to turn conflicts into humor, and being able to forgive and be
• 1:33:18
  able to get over stuff like these are all kinds of things that you need
• 1:33:21
  to learn in order to have a relationship. I'm not sure millennials learn this
• 1:33:27
  or gen z. What they learn is to take their emotions and turn them
• 1:33:30
  into weapons. Yeah, and that doesn't work vationship. Where do they get
• 1:33:36
  that? They take their emotions and turn them into weapons and you're not going
• 1:33:41
  to be able to make a relationship on that. Just not Okay, maybe
• 1:33:46
  we should do a series on like, you know, emotional tools, the
• 1:33:54
  emotional labor. Okay, let's let's finish this all right, like play a
• 1:34:01
  little more m So it's it's non rationalistic wisdom, is it? I suppose?
• 1:34:08
  So I told you it's destiny on top of it all from from from
• 1:34:13
  the most successful husband in the world. I don't need to dunkle Disney.
• 1:34:16
  So I actually quite like Desy, but like, but she just did everyone
• 1:34:20
  everyone knew, well, only you know what happened with Destiny, though,
• 1:34:25
  I mean, yes I do, but please tell me. Tell people who
• 1:34:29
  may not know what happened to Destiny. Inform us all what happened to Destiny?
• 1:34:34
  Brian, I am being your Watson, Okay, So yeah, I
• 1:34:39
  mean, I'm sure everybody knows. But Destiny was in an open marriage,
• 1:34:45
  and he was certain that open marriages are perfectly fine for people that, you
• 1:34:53
  know, if they can handle it, which, of course he claimed that
• 1:34:55
  he could. So he was like, not just for open marriages, but
• 1:34:59
  he was kind of the best at it, And as it turns out,
• 1:35:04
  his wife, who can't keep it in her pants, ended up, you
• 1:35:11
  know, sleeping around with other guys, which of course is supposed to be
• 1:35:14
  okay and open. Get this, I get this. She ended up with
• 1:35:17
  a man who basically gave her an ultimatum about open relationships. Yes, he
• 1:35:24
  said, and said, no, you're going to be in an open relationship,
• 1:35:27
  you can't be with me. You have to leave him. So a
• 1:35:30
  monogamous man who demanded monogamy, and this is this wasn't too this wasn't a
• 1:35:36
  ship test that Disney, that Disney Destiny failed. Yeah, because I think
• 1:35:43
  that that's probably what it was. Probably there was a part of her that
• 1:35:47
  was hoping that Destiny would put his foot down and say, I'm not sharing
• 1:35:50
  you a woman. I'm gonna I'm gonna chain you into the sandwich minds.
• 1:35:58
  You're my property, you know, like some some uh some romance trope,
• 1:36:04
  you know what I mean, yep, like the green skinned lizards from Alpha
• 1:36:10
  Centauri need women kind of thing. Yeah, that and that didn't happen.
• 1:36:15
  So she went with the guy who gave her what she actually wanted yep,
• 1:36:20
  which is which is an actual sense that he felt possessive about her sexuality.
• 1:36:28
  But who knows. Maybe that relationship won't last either. I'm sure, Uh
• 1:36:31
  that's the problem. Like the thing is that Destiny failed her ship test,
• 1:36:35
  dodged a bullet. Probably this other dude didn't fail as ship test. He's
• 1:36:40
  probably going to be a DV statistic. And what I mean by that is
• 1:36:45
  she's probably going to if she's deceitful like this, which it really sounds like
• 1:36:49
  she is, She's probably going to accuse him of domestic violence at some point
• 1:36:57
  at least Destiny already has. So there you go, yeah, there you
• 1:37:00
  go. Okay, well she's she's taking him to the cleaners too. And
• 1:37:03
  the divorce because he didn't get a prenup, and that's not the more.
• 1:37:05
  I think that's like the bigger takeaway, because he was like he didn't think
• 1:37:10
  that they mattered that much, right, So Destiny was definitely opposed to people
• 1:37:15
  like uh samaas he was definitely like thinking that we're blowing everything out of proportion
• 1:37:20
  and none of these problems are real, and like you know, men should
• 1:37:24
  just men can handle it whatever it is, right, And so like the
• 1:37:28
  the the cucking stuff and the open marriage stuff. I mean to me,
• 1:37:32
  that's always that's like basically guaranteed disaster in like ninety nine percent of cases.
• 1:37:38
  So not like a big takeaway. Ooh surprise, you know the woman who
• 1:37:41
  want The woman goes in a relationship wanting to fuck other dudes and you let
• 1:37:45
  her, and one dude says, you know what, I don't think you
• 1:37:45
  should fuck other dudes. And then the woman says, oh, I guess
• 1:37:47
  I won't fuck other dudes then, and I'll stay with you. None of
• 1:37:50
  that surprises me. But what I think is the teaching moment is after the
• 1:37:55
  divorce, which she got him to initiate because she was like, well she
• 1:38:01
  she and him are getting divorced, and Destiny claims that he's the one who
• 1:38:04
  initiated because she broke some kind of rule or whatever. And now she's taking
• 1:38:11
  like hundreds of thousands of dollars from him in the divorce and he's like,
• 1:38:15
  and he did not sign a prenup and said, so, you know,
• 1:38:18
  I didn't sign a prenup, so I hope it works outaha. But he
• 1:38:23
  was so sure it was going to And now he is saying that so many
• 1:38:27
  other people who are now like you know, in our circles have seen themselves
• 1:38:32
  personally or they have known someone who has. And he's there and he's like,
• 1:38:35
  wow, I guess there. I guess divorce laws are a problem.
• 1:38:41
  I guess there is something. He's even worse if you'd had kids, Destiny,
• 1:38:45
  Yeah, imagine if he had kids. Imagine all right, but that
• 1:38:49
  is a little bit ironic. I'm pretty sure he thought that his masculine miasma
• 1:38:55
  would prevent that from happening or something. Yeah, like he was just gonna,
• 1:38:58
  like you're in his superpowers of alcohol masculinity to prevent himself from getting essentially
• 1:39:08
  raped for like six figures. But you know, it's just like I'm it's
• 1:39:14
  fine by me. It's like I said to Paul Elam. You know,
• 1:39:16
  like basically every man is like goes into men's rights from a history of traditional
• 1:39:27
  marriage, like or some traditional concept of relationships where they're like, well,
• 1:39:31
  i'm gonna meet a girl, I'm gonna fall in love, we're gonna get
• 1:39:33
  married, we're gonna have kids, gonna be great. And most men who
• 1:39:36
  go who are now here like saying, you know, the laws need to
• 1:39:41
  be changed, like the system is rigged. All these problems they come from
• 1:39:45
  that background. So you know, it's like I said to Paul, they're
• 1:39:47
  all trad before they find out. And so I don't know if Destiny's gonna
• 1:39:51
  figure it out, but he may have a change in tune. I don't
• 1:39:56
  know, so or he'll double down because I've seen that too. All Right,
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  I got another super chow from tell him Nar for thirty bucks. Thank
• 1:40:03
  you, tell em Nar. I don't know if those are for the or
• 1:40:09
  it's it's just so here, Yeah, let me give you a badger chan
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  then, and he gives us thirty bucks. And he says, a lot
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  of bygone situations built for socialization, dancing, going to church, going to
• 1:40:29
  the pub, going fishing, et cetera. Talk boys and young men.
• 1:40:31
  This by example, if you are dancing like in Saturday Night Fever, there's
• 1:40:34
  an element of collaboration with your dance partner as well as competition with other dancers
• 1:40:40
  and collaborating so that everyone is surrounded by good dancers and enjoys themselves. In
• 1:40:44
  church or other religious services, you do things like sing together or try to
• 1:40:47
  learn a lesson from the sermon. These things have declined, so young men
• 1:40:50
  are not socializing as well as they did. And in any socialization with women,
• 1:40:56
  they are competing with other men even if they aren't in the room.
• 1:41:00
  This is not a universal thing, but it is much more common than it
• 1:41:03
  used to be. Yeah, and I think add to that, to add
• 1:41:08
  to what you're saying, boys, organizations are all but completely gone or taken
• 1:41:15
  over by women. I just did a story on Tuesday where it followed up
• 1:41:20
  on a previous story we did. I think it was twenty seventeen. We
• 1:41:25
  did a story where the Boy Scouts was basically going to become a neutral It
• 1:41:30
  became a gender neutral organization and it is no longer the Boy Scouts exclusively because
• 1:41:35
  girls are allowed to join, but also the Girl Scouts remains the Girl Scouts.
• 1:41:43
  So the Girl Scout girls have the Girl Scouts and the Boy Scouts boys
• 1:41:46
  don't have either, really because if girls can be in the Boy Scouts,
• 1:41:49
  it changes the dynamic of the Boy Scouts completely. So the Boy Scouts used
• 1:41:54
  to be a place where boys would learn skills and build friendships and learn like
• 1:42:00
  things like discipline and you know, like these these kind of important and I
• 1:42:05
  would just say it masculine values that they would take with them for the rest
• 1:42:11
  of their life. And boys that you know, like if you were a
• 1:42:14
  boy that was like, oh, I want to join the army one day,
• 1:42:16
  you would go to the Boys if you cared about your military, which
• 1:42:19
  we don't now, but back then, you know we did. We We
• 1:42:23
  loved, we loved being like it was it was an honor to serve,
• 1:42:27
  right, you would if you were in the Boy Scouts you could get a
• 1:42:31
  leg up in the military. So like if you were an Eagle Scout,
• 1:42:33
  they would they would recognize that and it would give you like a bit of
• 1:42:36
  a promotion we start off. But the point of it was it made you
• 1:42:40
  a better, more capable, self sufficient man like you could you you were
• 1:42:45
  more likely to be able to live on your own like if you because because
• 1:42:48
  you learned your skills right. But they'd taken that away and there, I
• 1:42:53
  mean, there are still boy Scouts, but the whole, the whole culture
• 1:42:56
  is different. And on top of that, men can't really be in organizations
• 1:43:01
  without the presence or oversight of women. Now there are still some of these,
• 1:43:09
  but I think it's a diminishing thing. So you mentioned going to the
• 1:43:13
  pub. I think that, you know, you can look at the kind
• 1:43:15
  of stuff that's going on in the UK and Scotland, all these laws that
• 1:43:19
  are happening that are essentially designed to prevent men from being able to socialize without
• 1:43:24
  a feminine kind of oversight, even if that oversight is from the state,
• 1:43:28
  it's a feminine sort of impulse or a feminine expression of that. Right,
• 1:43:33
  Like if you're in Scotland, they made it illegal for men to boast about
• 1:43:38
  sexual conquests. I don't know, I don't know how they enforce it,
• 1:43:43
  but they did and in like in the way. Yeah, if women are
• 1:43:47
  like I think he's branging about sex and I feel uncomfortable, the cops will
• 1:43:53
  come and they'll talk to you. Right, I mean, so men can't
• 1:43:56
  really be men with each other. And I think this is like purposefully to
• 1:44:01
  make it very difficult for them to be able to socialize. So if men
• 1:44:08
  are struggling with socialization, now all of that that tell them our said is
• 1:44:12
  absolutely true, but it's worse than that. So you know, like try
• 1:44:16
  to form a club with men. Try to make a club and watch how
• 1:44:19
  fast, especially if it's in your school or if it's in your place of
• 1:44:25
  work or something, watch how fast hr or like, you know, various
• 1:44:30
  members of the faculty will come down on you and be like, why aren't
• 1:44:31
  you letting women in here? I mean, what is title nine if it
• 1:44:35
  doesn't do that? Right with a dear colleague letter and stuff? If young
• 1:44:40
  men are lacking in socialization, could this not be why women can find socialization
• 1:44:46
  with each other and they can do what they want. You know, they
• 1:44:50
  can have their own groups, they can have their own health spas and all
• 1:44:56
  of this other stuff, and that's fine. They can have their sex segregated
• 1:45:00
  areas because nobody's going to take them away and men don't. And so simultaneously
• 1:45:08
  with having more options to socialize and to make mistakes socializing, women have this
• 1:45:15
  so they gain more ability to do that and men don't have those opportunities,
• 1:45:21
  and it's like, it's like it's unfortunate and and honestly like men end up
• 1:45:28
  being held to a higher standard of even socializing or being social. But anyway,
• 1:45:33
  we should probably finish this. Yeah, well we can just wrap it
• 1:45:39
  up here. I mean, really, what they don't do they don't say
• 1:45:44
  that, they don't there's no like finishing move where they just we get to
• 1:45:49
  see the cosmos on. No, they go into mass migration and they talk
• 1:45:56
  about low birth rates and the selfishiness of choosing not to have children. They
• 1:46:02
  go into like demographic black hole stuff and it's fine, But I don't think
• 1:46:06
  they actually say they don't really like I think they're just talking about the problem
• 1:46:12
  and around the problem. Yeah. I got a super chat from Senior Stix.
• 1:46:15
  He says a two dollars idea why not make a path from Eagle Scouts
• 1:46:19
  to Eagle Scouts via girl Scouts because girl Scouts suck? That's why the Girl
• 1:46:28
  Scouts kind of sucks. Yeah, they're not really as but it's probably because
• 1:46:33
  the girls didn't want that level of intensity. They wanted to socialize more.
• 1:46:40
  But you know, yeah, I mean the Girl Scouts is it's not the
• 1:46:42
  same. It's not just the mirror of the Boy Scouts. It's not.
• 1:46:45
  This is really milk toast. And I don't think that. I I feel
• 1:46:49
  like this they're not getting it. Like, yeah, it's really difficult to
• 1:46:57
  put this all on men, and I know that it's not. You know,
• 1:47:01
  it's not necessarily fair that it's on women either. I mean, they
• 1:47:05
  spent their whole life and culturated in this nonsense too, Like the Party of
• 1:47:12
  single women has been grinding and gnawing on them since birth. Yeah, I
• 1:47:16
  agree. So it's like it's a difficult it's a wicked problem that the human
• 1:47:23
  race has gotten itself into because you know, this is not just us,
• 1:47:28
  the all of the developing nations are going the same route too, Like they're
• 1:47:32
  they're going to eventually lose all of their there it's all gonna flat line.
• 1:47:38
  All the birth rate is gonna flat line, and then it's going to disappear,
• 1:47:42
  and then it's going to drop precipitously. What is there any projection now,
• 1:47:48
  like in one hundred years we're going to be like half I don't know,
• 1:47:54
  yeah, I would like I mean, I saw the tom Woods thing
• 1:47:57
  and we went through it already and you guys can look that up after that.
• 1:48:01
  But regardless, like we're, we're and the thing is that to maintain
• 1:48:06
  our infrastructure with we need the population that we have for the most part,
• 1:48:13
  so we can't really afford necessarily a big contraction, and neither can the earth
• 1:48:17
  because that would definitely cause an ecological holocaust. But the only way to really
• 1:48:27
  deal with this is when you look at the birth rates that you will see
• 1:48:31
  that the patriarchal society's and deepest darkest Africa quote unquote patriarchal are the ones the
• 1:48:41
  ones that are maintaining any kind of birth rate. And I think it's because,
• 1:48:45
  let's be frank, their women still want their men. And we really
• 1:48:51
  need to look at that and say, Okay, we need to solve that.
• 1:48:58
  We need to make it so that women want men again. We need
• 1:49:02
  to figure that out. We need to make it so that women are like,
• 1:49:05
  yeah, I want a man as a companion, just you know,
• 1:49:09
  I don't need to I don't need to answer to anybody about that. It's
• 1:49:12
  you know, it's it's it's not no different than wanting a cat as a
• 1:49:15
  companion, but it's no less legitimate. Like, if you think about it,
• 1:49:19
  human women didn't evolve to be companions to cats or dogs. You know.
• 1:49:27
  That's why when a woman is a companion to, for example, a
• 1:49:31
  large dog, she can die of anaphylactic shock should she engage in any kind
• 1:49:38
  of intimacies with that dog. Did I just gross you out? Uh?
• 1:49:45
  Okay, okay, okay, it's like you know this this They're not there.
• 1:49:56
  We didn't evolve to have these animals as our companions. We've evolved.
• 1:50:00
  Men evolved to have women as companions, and women involved to have men's companions,
• 1:50:03
  and we all evolve to have each other as companions, you know.
• 1:50:08
  Like it's that's sort of the way it is. And it's likely that's somewhere
• 1:50:11
  deeply buried in every woman who thinks that she's satisfied with cats is a part
• 1:50:16
  that isn't, which would explain why they're twice as miserable as married women,
• 1:50:23
  you know. And it's just like we got to reawaken that and we need
• 1:50:28
  to solve this because we're on the leading edge of it, and every other
• 1:50:31
  culture on the planet doesn't seem to be able to deal with it. As
• 1:50:35
  soon as women get all of the creature comforts they could possibly want, and
• 1:50:43
  then society is safe enough that they can walk around and complain about how unsafe
• 1:50:46
  it is, you know, then they just stop wanting men. And that's
• 1:50:54
  that's something women need to deal with. It's something women need to overcome,
• 1:51:00
  and they have in the past, Like like, I keep coming back to
• 1:51:02
  this example, but it is you know, the Savine women, they challenged
• 1:51:09
  what they wanted in men and created a rather important social evolution that we still
• 1:51:15
  benefit from today. So it's possible Christian women changed what they wanted from men.
• 1:51:24
  You know, it's possible. It's possible to do. Just need to
• 1:51:30
  figure out how, and that's really what needs to be done, because otherwise
• 1:51:32
  we're just never gonna kick the party of single women to the curb. We're
• 1:51:35
  just gonna be dealing with it and it's just gonna get more powerful. You
• 1:51:39
  know, what are they forecasting like forty forty five percent women and then by
• 1:51:44
  twenty thirty will be single, and that doesn't include single mothers. It's just
• 1:51:47
  single, just flat single, is that? And that's the low ball,
• 1:51:54
  like and maybe that the majority of women are gonna be single because this is
• 1:51:59
  something that snowball. So this is an effect that snowballs. The more single
• 1:52:01
  women there are, the faster single women are created. Right, So this
• 1:52:10
  is something that's gonna get worse, and the only way to stop it is
• 1:52:15
  just to figure out that conundrum. What do women want? And women have
• 1:52:19
  to do it? All right? Yeah, all right, well I got
• 1:52:26
  another super chowd Richard Bierre gives us another super child, thank you, sir,
• 1:52:30
  and says for five dollars. Humankind was developed to be the servants of
• 1:52:35
  cats. The cats want their social position back, Allison. Of course,
• 1:52:42
  they're playing a long games. Protect we've got to be cat pilled, Brian.
• 1:52:46
  We're delivering the cat pills. They what was behind it all was the
• 1:52:50
  cats. Of course, they want to be re elevated to godhood, and
• 1:52:59
  they feel the party of single Women is the way to go for that.
• 1:53:02
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• 1:53:06
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• 1:54:49
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• 1:54:56
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• 1:55:00
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• 1:55:09
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• 1:55:11
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