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- 0:00Welcome back to the show. We're calling this one Reformed
- 0:03Thinking. Good to be here.
- 0:04We're doing something pretty specific today.
- 0:07We've taken a stack of sources, all from the world of theology,
- 0:10and we're going to try and, you know, pull out the most
- 0:12practical Nuggets for you. We want to see how these old,
- 0:15sometimes pretty dense ideas apply to the reality of your
- 0:19life right now. And I think it's good to set the
- 0:21ground rules for this deep dive. When we say Reformed thinking,
- 0:25we are being really precise. We're two Protestant Christians,
- 0:29and we're looking at all this material through a very
- 0:32particular lens. We're trying to ground our whole
- 0:35discussion in the historic tradition of Reformed theology.
- 0:38Yeah, and for us, that means keeping things consistent with,
- 0:42say, the Westminster Confession of Faith.
- 0:44Exactly gives us a framework. It does.
- 0:46We're not just, you know, reading a text in isolation.
- 0:50We're looking for a systematic understanding of how God relates
- 0:53to his people, and for this deep dive, we're focusing on CS
- 0:56Lewis. Specifically, Mere Christianity.
- 0:59That's right. But we're not even doing the
- 1:00whole book. We are zooming way in on just
- 1:03one chapter. It's titled Let's Pretend.
- 1:06In that title, it's a chapter that stops a lot of people in
- 1:09their tracks. It stopped me.
- 1:11I mean, think about that title for a second.
- 1:12Let's pretend, right? In most Christian circles, and
- 1:16honestly in most moral frameworks in general,
- 1:19pretending is a bad word. It's a negative thing.
- 1:22It immediately makes you think of hypocrisy, yes.
- 1:25Yeah, it implies being fake, putting on a show.
- 1:28Yeah. We're usually taught that
- 1:29authenticity is, you know, the highest virtue.
- 1:32Be true to yourself. So when CS Lewis, who is usually
- 1:35so rigorously logical, comes along and tells me that the next
- 1:38step in my spiritual life is to play a game of make believe.
- 1:41You have to pause. You do.
- 1:43Why is he advocating for something that on the surface
- 1:46just sounds like lying? And that's the hook, isn't it?
- 1:49It seems so counterintuitive. And I think our mission for this
- 1:52deep dive is really to unpack that tension.
- 1:55We need to get a handle on the distinction Lewis is making
- 1:58between deception, which is, you know, hiding who you really are,
- 2:02and aspiration, which is more like acting like who you want to
- 2:06become. I know we're going to get into
- 2:07some pretty heavy concepts later on.
- 2:09I saw the notes about was it rats in the cellar?
- 2:12Oh yeah, that. Sounds, yeah, and very Lewis.
- 2:16It is a strong image and it connects directly to what we
- 2:19believe about human nature, about sin from a reformed
- 2:23perspective. But before we get to the rats,
- 2:25we really have to understand the mask.
- 2:27The mask. OK, so Lewis kicks this whole
- 2:30chapter off with two stories. He says let me put 2 pictures in
- 2:32your mind. The first one is a classic fairy
- 2:35tale, one we all know, Beauty and the Beast.
- 2:38And most people know the Disney version, of course, but the
- 2:41original story has a specific detail that Louis really zeries
- 2:44in on, right? So the story is the girl is
- 2:46forced to marry this monster. She does it, but the key detail
- 2:50Louis highlights is that she kisses the monster as if it were
- 2:53a man. Even though it isn't.
- 2:55Not at all. She treats this beast with the
- 2:58dignity and the affection that you would give to a human being
- 3:01and because she treats him that way.
- 3:03He actually becomes a man. Exactly.
- 3:06The act of treating him as something he wasn't helped turn
- 3:09him into what he could be. It's a fascinating idea.
- 3:11And then he immediately pairs that with a second story.
- 3:15This one's a bit more obscure, but it's just as effective.
- 3:18Yeah, the one about the man who wore a mask.
- 3:19Right, a man who had to wear a mask for years, and this mask
- 3:23made him look much nicer, much more benevolent than he actually
- 3:26was on the inside. He was, for all intents and
- 3:28purposes, hiding his true face. He was.
- 3:31And here's the twist. When he finally took the mask
- 3:34off, years and years later, he found that his own face had
- 3:38actually grown to fit it. He had become the man in the
- 3:41mask. So what started out as a
- 3:43complete disguise, A deception, it became a reality.
- 3:47That is the principle Lewis is building the entire chapter on.
- 3:50He's making a pretty bold argument that the external
- 3:53action the putting on can actually shape the internal
- 3:57nature. And this isn't just like pop
- 3:59psychology. Fake it till you make it.
- 4:01No, not at all. This is getting at the very
- 4:03mechanics of what we call sanctification, how we change.
- 4:07OK, so let's bring this down to earth.
- 4:09Louis transitions from these fairy tales to something that
- 4:12pretty much every Christian does, maybe without even
- 4:14thinking about it. The Lord's Prayer.
- 4:16Our Father. Just those two words, we see
- 4:18them so automatically, our Father who art in heaven.
- 4:21But Louis, he stops us right there.
- 4:24He says, do you have any idea what you were doing when you say
- 4:28those words? You're pretending.
- 4:31It's a really startling claim when you first hear it, but you
- 4:34have to follow his logic. When you say our Father, you are
- 4:37putting yourself in the place of a Son of God.
- 4:40You are standing in a position that legally and naturally
- 4:44belongs to one person, Jesus Christ.
- 4:46And Lewis then immediately reminds us of what we actually
- 4:49are. If I look at myself honestly in
- 4:50the mirror or if I listen to my internal monologue for 5
- 4:53minutes, I am not naturally acting like a son of God.
- 4:58Lewis calls this a bundle of self-centered fears, hopes,
- 5:01greeds, jealousies and self conceit.
- 5:03And that is the Westminster Confession right there.
- 5:06I mean, that's the doctrine of total depravity in a nutshell.
- 5:10We aren't born naturally inclined toward God's will.
- 5:13Not even a little bit. No, we are born inclined towards
- 5:17self. So when this bundle of greed and
- 5:20jealousy stands up and says, Our Father presenting himself as if
- 5:25he shares the will and the interests of God, that is, as
- 5:29Lewis puts it, a piece of outrageous cheek.
- 5:32Well, rageous cheek. I love that phrase.
- 5:33It's so British, but it's true. It's audacious.
- 5:36It is almost disrespectful, isn't it?
- 5:38It would be except for one small detail.
- 5:41What's that? We were ordered to do it.
- 5:42Right. It's not arrogance if you're
- 5:44obeying a direct command, but it is still pretending we're
- 5:48dressing up as Christ. And this brings us to the core
- 5:50distinction. Why pretend?
- 5:53What is the good of it? And this is where Lewis breaks
- 5:55it down into two clear categories.
- 5:57There's bad pretending, and then there's good pretending.
- 6:00OK, let's define those because that's critical.
- 6:02Yeah, bad pretending is what we usually think of when we hear
- 6:05the word. Correct.
- 6:06Bad pretending is when the pretense is there instead of the
- 6:09real thing. It's the substitute.
- 6:11So like the man who promises to help you and he acts like he's
- 6:14going to help you, smiles. Pats you on the back.
- 6:17But has absolutely no intention of actually doing it.
- 6:19That's deception. That is hypocrisy.
- 6:22OK, so that's bad pretense. What's good pretense?
- 6:25Good. Pretending is different.
- 6:27It's where the pretense leads up to the real thing.
- 6:30It's the precursor. Think about children.
- 6:33Lewis uses the example of children playing shop or
- 6:36soldiers. When a little kid puts on a pot
- 6:38for a helmet and marches around with a stick, he's not a
- 6:41soldier. Of course not.
- 6:42He's pretending, but by playing the game but going through the
- 6:46motions, he is in a small way, hardening his muscles,
- 6:50sharpening his wits and preparing himself to maybe one
- 6:53day be a soldier. In reality, the game is the
- 6:56training ground for the reality. I see this with my kids all the
- 6:59time. They Playhouse, they pretend to
- 7:02be the parents. They are not parents, but they
- 7:05are practicing the empathy and the responsibility that they're
- 7:08going to need 20 years from now. Lewis then applies this directly
- 7:11to our social interactions. He talks about putting on a
- 7:13friendly manner. This is such practical advice,
- 7:16he asks. What do you do when you don't
- 7:18feel friendly? We have all been there.
- 7:21You're at a party, or you run into someone you find
- 7:24particularly annoying, and you have absolutely zero desire to
- 7:27be kind or patient or gentle. The world and especially our
- 7:31modern culture might tell you be authentic.
- 7:33If you don't like them, don't fake it.
- 7:35Show them your true self. Right.
- 7:37But Lewis and I would say Christian ethics in general says
- 7:40something totally different. He says no.
- 7:42Put on a friendly manner. Behave as if you were a nicer
- 7:45person than you actually are in that moment.
- 7:48And the weird thing is, the psychological feedback loop on
- 7:50that is real. When you force yourself to act
- 7:53friendly, you often start to actually feel a little bit more
- 7:56friendly. And the inverse is true, which
- 7:58Lewis is quick to warn us about. If you allow yourself to act
- 8:02rudely, you will feel more rude. It's a spiral.
- 8:05It's a spiral. If you indulge the behavior of
- 8:08the old man, as Paul would call it, the sinful nature, you
- 8:11reinforce that nature. If you put on the behavior of
- 8:15the new man, you encourage those feelings to grow.
- 8:18You're carving a new groove. This is where it moves from just
- 8:21general psychology into real theology, Lewis says.
- 8:25When we were dressing up as Christ, the entire internal
- 8:29monologue changes. So it stops being just about
- 8:32conscience, you know, following a list of do's and don'ts and it
- 8:35starts being about a person. This is a critical shift in the
- 8:39Reformed understanding of sanctification.
- 8:42It is not just moralism. It is not just be a good boy or
- 8:47try harder. Right when you were pretending
- 8:49to be Christ. When you're putting on that
- 8:51mask, you start to notice things that you wouldn't notice
- 8:54otherwise. Lewis gives us great example of
- 8:56prayer. You might be kneeling down to
- 8:59say your prayers, but then you realize you are actively
- 9:02ignoring a duty. Yeah, like helping your wife
- 9:04wash up the dishes or writing that letter you promised your
- 9:06friend you would write a week ago.
- 9:07Exactly. And if you're just following a
- 9:09rule called say prayers at 8:00 PM, you might just ignore the
- 9:12dishes. You're checking the box.
- 9:13I've done my duty. But if you are pretending to be
- 9:16Christ, you're forced to ask a different question.
- 9:19Would Christ ignore the need for service right in front of him to
- 9:23go kneel down and be pious? And the answer is clearly no.
- 9:26The pretense forces you into a higher, more holistic reality of
- 9:31obedience. It's all about what the New
- 9:33Testament calls union with Christ, Lewis says.
- 9:36We're trying to catch a good infection.
- 9:39We're not just copying a historical figure from a book.
- 9:42We're trying to let his actual life invade ours.
- 9:44And that leads us to some specific terminology Lewis uses
- 9:47that I think is incredibly helpful.
- 9:48He makes a distinction between two Greek words for life, BIOS
- 9:53and Zoe. OK, let's unpack that BIOS.
- 9:55Yeah, we that's the route for. Precisely.
- 9:58BIOS is a natural biological life.
- 10:00It's the life we get from nature.
- 10:02It runs on food, air and water. But crucially, it always runs
- 10:06down. It decays, it eventually dies.
- 10:08That is the life we are all born with.
- 10:10So that's the default setting. That's the default.
- 10:12And then there's Zoe. Zoe is the spiritual life.
- 10:16It is the life that has existed in God from all eternity.
- 10:19It is uncreated, undecaying and eternal.
- 10:23And the whole point of Christianity, Lewis argues, is
- 10:25not just to make BIOS a little bit nicer.
- 10:27It's not just to Polish up the tin soldier.
- 10:29Exactly. It's not about polishing the tin
- 10:31soldier, it's about turning the tin soldier into a real, living
- 10:34man. It is to inject Zoe into BIOS.
- 10:38The tin soldier analogy is so good because a tin soldier is
- 10:41completely separate from the child who's playing with it.
- 10:44But if that tin soldier actually came to life, it would share the
- 10:47nature of the child. And the part of us that resists
- 10:50this change, that's the tin part, our fallen nature, that
- 10:54bundle of self-centered fears, it clings to its tinness.
- 10:57It doesn't want to be turned into a real man because that
- 11:00involves a kind of death that involves surrendering the
- 11:02autonomy of being a tin soldier. You have to give up control.
- 11:05So how does this infection happen?
- 11:07How do we actually get? Zoe Lewis talks about the means
- 11:10by which Christ works on us. He does.
- 11:12He talks about nature, our own bodies, books, even anti
- 11:16Christian experiences. But he lands very heavily on
- 11:20community, on other people. He says men are mirrors or
- 11:24carriers. Carriers.
- 11:25There's that infection metaphor again.
- 11:27We catch the life of Christ from other people who already have
- 11:30it. This connects directly to the
- 11:32Reformed doctrine of the church, the idea that we are not meant
- 11:35to be solitary Christians. We can't be.
- 11:38Lewis does some some spiritual math here.
- 11:41He says that when 2 Christians are following Christ together,
- 11:44there isn't just twice as much Christianity as when they're
- 11:46apart. He says there's 16 times as
- 11:48much. 16 times that's exponential growth.
- 11:51It is, and it highlights the absolute necessity of the
- 11:54visible church. We need to be around other
- 11:56carriers to catch the infection. You simply cannot sanctify
- 12:00yourself in a vacuum. You need the friction, the
- 12:02encouragement, and the fellowship of other believers.
- 12:05But then right after that, Lewis drops a really important
- 12:07warning. And as someone who has seen
- 12:09people get badly burned by church or, you know,
- 12:12disappointed by their heroes, this part is so crucial.
- 12:16It's the warning against idolatry, plain and simple.
- 12:20Lewis says that while people are carriers, they are never the
- 12:23source. He goes back to an analogy he
- 12:25uses elsewhere of a baby and its mother's milk.
- 12:29It's natural and right for a baby to first take the milk
- 12:32without really knowing the mother.
- 12:33OK, but eventually the baby must grow to recognize the giver, not
- 12:38just the gift. You have to look past the milk
- 12:41to the mother. And if we don't make that leap
- 12:43in our spiritual lives, we're in big trouble.
- 12:46We're building our house on sand.
- 12:48Lewis is incredibly blunt here. He says the best of them will
- 12:52make mistakes. All of them will die.
- 12:54Wow. If you pin your entire faith on
- 12:56a human being, even the holiest, wisest pastor or mentor you
- 13:00know, you are setting yourself up for a catastrophic collapse.
- 13:03That is such a hard balance to strike because on one hand he's
- 13:06saying we desperately need community, we need these
- 13:08carriers, but on the other hand he's saying don't you dare
- 13:12worship the carrier. You have to look through them to
- 13:14the Christ they're. Carrying.
- 13:15So we honor them, we love them, but we don't build our house on
- 13:18them. That's it.
- 13:19Our foundation has to be Christ alone.
- 13:21So we're pretending, we're trying to catch this good
- 13:23infection, we're hanging out with other carriers, and ideally
- 13:29we're slowly becoming these new little Christ's.
- 13:33And then Louis just hits US with a dose of reality.
- 13:37He talked about his own experience with his evening.
- 13:39Prayers. This is where we get to the rats
- 13:41in the cellar. Yeah.
- 13:42Lewis admits that when he reviews his day, the sins he
- 13:45finds are not usually some grand villainous plot to take over the
- 13:49world. They're almost always sins
- 13:51against charity. He says he is sulked or he
- 13:54snapped at someone, or he sneered.
- 13:56The sins of the temper, the sins of the attitude, the small, ugly
- 13:59things. And the common excuse we all
- 14:01make is, well, he has caught off guard.
- 14:03Or I didn't have time to correct myself.
- 14:05I was tired. They startled me.
- 14:07We have a tendency to think that the real us is the calm,
- 14:10collected, thoughtful person we are when we're alone in a quiet
- 14:14room reading a book. Yes, we think the person who
- 14:16snapped when the coffee spilled all over their laptop.
- 14:19That's not the real me. That was just a momentary
- 14:21reaction to stress. And Lewis just says no.
- 14:24He completely destroys that defense.
- 14:27He says the suddenness of the provocation did not create the
- 14:30ill temper, it revealed it. That hurts.
- 14:33He gives this image. If there are rats in a cellar
- 14:36and you go in shouting and stomping your feet, the rats
- 14:38will all hide. You'll go and say see no rats.
- 14:42But if you fling the door open and turn on the lights, suddenly
- 14:45you'll see them scrambling for cover.
- 14:48The suddenness didn't put the rats there.
- 14:49The rats were always there. The suddenness just showed you
- 14:52what the cellar is actually inhabited by.
- 14:55Man, this is the doctrine of total depravity and high
- 14:58definition. The sin is not just the action
- 15:01of me snapping at my wife. The sin is the nature inside of
- 15:06me in the cellar that wants to snap.
- 15:08The rats are resident in the soul.
- 15:10And Lewis points out the terrifying implication of this
- 15:13metaphor. What's that?
- 15:14The cellar is out of reach of your conscious will?
- 15:17You can control your axe to some degree.
- 15:19You can bite your tongue. You can force a smile when you
- 15:22want to scream, but you cannot, by a direct act of your will,
- 15:27change the fact that you wanted to scream.
- 15:29You cannot kick the rats out by simply willing them away.
- 15:32There's a line that just stands out, he says.
- 15:35I cannot by direct moral effort give myself new motives.
- 15:40We are bankrupt. And that realization of
- 15:43bankruptcy is the actual beginning of the gospel.
- 15:45As long as you think you can manage the rats yourself, you'll
- 15:48just keep playing the moral improvement game.
- 15:50You'll just keep trying to be a better, more polished tin
- 15:53soldier. Exactly.
- 15:54It's only when you finally realize I have rats in the
- 15:57cellar that I cannot reach that you finally give up and say,
- 16:00God, you have to do this, I can't.
- 16:02It forces us into a state of total reliance on God.
- 16:06We realize we cannot manufacture this change of heart.
- 16:09It has to be a gift. Which pivots us perfectly into
- 16:12the final movement of the chapter.
- 16:14We started this whole conversation with us pretending
- 16:16to be Christ. Louis ends it with God
- 16:19pretending. Divine make believe.
- 16:21Yes, God looks at us. He sees the rats.
- 16:25He sees the self-centered, greedy, grumbling, rebellious
- 16:28human animal he is under absolutely no illusions about
- 16:32who and what we are. And yet, and yet, he says, let
- 16:36us pretend that this is not a mere creature, but our son.
- 16:40He treats us as if we are Christ.
- 16:42This is the very heart of the doctrine of justification.
- 16:45When God looks at a believer, he does not see our sin.
- 16:49He sees the perfect righteousness of Christ.
- 16:51He declares us righteous long before we are actually fully
- 16:54righteous in our behavior. He treats us as sons before we
- 16:58really learned how to behave like sons.
- 16:59Lewis uses that mother and baby analogy again here, and it's so
- 17:02beautiful. A mother talks to her baby as if
- 17:05the baby understands every word. Right, the baby is just making
- 17:08noises, bubbling, cooing. But the mother speaks to it in
- 17:10full sentences like a rational human being.
- 17:13And because she treats the baby like a human, the baby
- 17:16eventually becomes a human who can speak and understand.
- 17:19Or the dog analogy he uses, right?
- 17:21We treat our dogs as if they're almost human.
- 17:23We talk to them, we give them personalities.
- 17:26And in doing so, they become something more than just a wild
- 17:29wolf. They become a companion.
- 17:31The higher thing raises the lower thing by treating it as if
- 17:34it were already higher. That's it.
- 17:36God's pretending is the engine that actually drives reality.
- 17:39He is not deceived. He knows we are messy.
- 17:42He knows about the rats. But he treats us according to
- 17:46the future He's making for us. He sees the new little Christ
- 17:50inside the Sinner, no matter how small or weak that new life is,
- 17:54and he interacts with. That, as Paul says, he calls
- 17:57into existence the things that do not exist.
- 17:59OK, let's just let's trace the whole arc we've travelled in
- 18:01this chapter. It's really something We start
- 18:04by pretending. We try to act like Christ.
- 18:06We say our Father. Aspirational obedience.
- 18:08Yes, and this attempt to pretend immediately reveals our complete
- 18:13failure. We see the rats in the cellar
- 18:16because we realize we can't sustain the ACT perfectly for
- 18:19even 5 minutes. That failure drives us to
- 18:22despair of our own ability, which then forces us to rely on
- 18:26Christ. And then we find out that Christ
- 18:28has been pretending all along, treating us as sons so that we
- 18:32might one day actually become sons.
- 18:34It moves from our feeble, clumsy attempt at imitation to his
- 18:40powerful divine act of recreation.
- 18:42Yeah, it shifts the entire project from us obeying a set of
- 18:45rules, like a Marxist or a Platonist might follow a
- 18:48philosophy, to us interacting with a living person who is
- 18:51surgically removing the old self and implanting the new self.
- 18:54It. Takes so much of the pressure
- 18:55off. I mean, the pressure to be good
- 18:57is just crushing. If you think it's all up to you,
- 18:59it's. Impossible.
- 19:00But if the pressure is just to stay close to the source, to
- 19:02stay in the way of the infection, that that feels
- 19:05possible. It changes the focus from
- 19:07performance to abiding. We don't pretend in order to
- 19:11earn God's love. We pretend because we have been
- 19:13given a new role, a new identity to grow into.
- 19:17So what does this all mean for the listener today?
- 19:19I mean, what's the big take away?
- 19:20I think the most practical take away is to not be afraid of
- 19:23that. Fake it till you make it dynamic
- 19:25in your spiritual life. As long as the goal is true
- 19:28holiness. If you don't feel like praying,
- 19:30pray anyway. If you don't feel like loving
- 19:33your neighbor, act lovingly toward them anyway.
- 19:35Don't wait for the feelings to arrive before you act.
- 19:38Act and trust that God uses the action itself to shape the
- 19:41feeling. And also check your cellar.
- 19:43Don't be surprised when the rats show up.
- 19:45Exactly. When you snap, when you feel
- 19:47that surge of jealousy, don't just brush it off as I was just
- 19:50tired. Admit it.
- 19:52That is the rat. That is my fallen nature.
- 19:55Confess it and then remember that God sees that rat and still
- 19:58calls you. Son, that is the beauty of
- 20:00reformed thinking, isn't it? Yeah.
- 20:02It's brutally realistic about the depth of sin and wildly
- 20:06optimistic about the power of grace.
- 20:08Yes. It holds those two things in
- 20:10tension. So as we kind of wrap up this
- 20:12deep dive, I want to leave you, the listener with a thought to
- 20:15chew on. We've talked a lot about how God
- 20:18treats us. He treats us as little Christs
- 20:22in order to help us become that well.
- 20:24If you are a carrier of Christ as Lewis says, and if you were
- 20:28meant to imitate God, how does this change the way you treat
- 20:34the difficult people in your life?
- 20:36I mean if you treated that annoying Co worker or that
- 20:38estranged family member not as they are in this moment but as
- 20:42the little Christ they could be, what would happen?
- 20:45That is the challenge, isn't it? Can we actually participate in
- 20:48God's divine make believe toward others?
- 20:51Can we learn to speak to the new man in them, even when the old
- 20:55man is screaming at us? That is where the rubber really
- 20:58meets the road. And if you are a carrier of this
- 21:00infection, what kind of infection are you spreading
- 21:03today? Are people around you catching
- 21:05anxiety and cynicism and criticism from you, or are they
- 21:09catching a little bit of Zoe? That is a question worth asking
- 21:12yourself every single morning. This has been a deep dive into
- 21:15CS Lewis's Mere Christianity. We hope this helps you not just
- 21:18understand the book, but, you know, live the life.
- 21:21Thanks for listening.