Latest / Unshakeable with Human Design - A Human Design For Business Podcast / 429: December Human Design & Astrology Transits w/ Christina Luna
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- 0:11Nicole Laino: Come here to become an unshakable human and build an unshakable business according to your human design.
- 0:17Nicole Laino: I'm your host, Nicole Laino.
- 0:22Nicole Laino: Hello and welcome to Unshakable with Human Design, everybody.
- 0:26Nicole Laino: I'm your host, Nicole Laino.
- 0:27Nicole Laino: I am here with the lovely and talented Christina Luna for our final transit episode of 2025.
- 0:36Nicole Laino: Holy cow, here we are.
- 0:38Nicole Laino: This year has just.
- 0:41Nicole Laino: The year's gone by quickly, but since September, I feel like it has been a rocket ship.
- 0:47Christina Luna: Ooh.
- 0:47Christina Luna: It definitely.
- 0:48Christina Luna: I have so many things to talk about just where December is bringing us to a fresh new shore and how it set it up.
- 0:58Christina Luna: We got set up in September.
- 1:00Nicole Laino: Yeah, we really did.
- 1:01Nicole Laino: And I want to talk about that, and I want to.
- 1:03Nicole Laino: What's your kind of, like, big thing right now?
- 1:06Nicole Laino: What are you sitting with where you're like, this is the thing that's, like, on my heart, the thing that is the one thing I can't, like, let go of or that keeps coming back for me.
- 1:15Christina Luna: For me, it feels like I am realizing that I have a brand new.
- 1:21Christina Luna: Well, I'm developing a new North Star and that my previous North Star was designed to help me heal some old wounds.
- 1:31Christina Luna: But this new North Star is developing from a place of a little bit more healed than before.
- 1:37Christina Luna: And so a lot of things are shifting in my life.
- 1:40Christina Luna: A lot of the reasons I do things, my motivations, my inner fire, it's all changing a lot because it's no longer moving toward and through healing.
- 1:51Christina Luna: It's moving toward something new that I haven't clearly defined quite yet.
- 1:56Christina Luna: It's starting to land, but I believe that's what will be developing for me in December.
- 2:01Nicole Laino: I feel like we're talking about the same thing in just a different way because I feel the same thing.
- 2:05Nicole Laino: For me, the thing that has been coming up as a theme that I keep being brought back to is the year of the snake and the nine year.
- 2:13Nicole Laino: I heard that at the beginning of the year, that nine years are a year of closing, that the snake is a year of shedding.
- 2:19Nicole Laino: And all of these kind of broader themes that have to do with these two energies colliding, these two things colliding.
- 2:28Nicole Laino: Boy, do I feel it now, where it's like I feel all the shedding that has gone on this year.
- 2:35Nicole Laino: Wow.
- 2:36Nicole Laino: Did I let go of things?
- 2:38Nicole Laino: I let go of things that I never imagined I would and let go of them.
- 2:43Nicole Laino: Sometimes things completely left my life, or sometimes it's just they changed in a really dramatic fashion, or at least to me, they did.
- 2:51Nicole Laino: Where the relationship is so different in my life and the entering a new era is what I feel happening.
- 3:00Nicole Laino: Like, there's a chapter closing, and the next chapter is.
- 3:06Nicole Laino: I feel like I'm in that holding pattern right now where it's like, I'm almost there.
- 3:10Nicole Laino: It's there.
- 3:11Nicole Laino: I had that in, like, the water season that we just had with Scorpio and all of the flooding of the water that you talked about in last month's call.
- 3:18Nicole Laino: I could feel that, like, hurry up and wait kind of energy a little bit.
- 3:22Nicole Laino: And I feel that.
- 3:23Nicole Laino: And then I got a reprieve where I started to move, and now I feel it a little bit pulling back again.
- 3:28Nicole Laino: Like, pulling back the arrow, maybe.
- 3:31Nicole Laino: And, yeah, that's theme that keeps coming back for me, is this endings and new beginnings.
- 3:36Nicole Laino: And what does it look like going forward in.
- 3:39Nicole Laino: Like, we have the Year of the Horse coming, which I guess we'll talk more about in January when it.
- 3:43Nicole Laino: We're closer to that happening.
- 3:45Nicole Laino: But.
- 3:46Nicole Laino: And I'm a horse.
- 3:47Nicole Laino: I'm a year of the Horse person.
- 3:48Nicole Laino: Are you.
- 3:49Nicole Laino: Are you a year after me?
- 3:51Christina Luna: I'm a goat.
- 3:52Nicole Laino: You're a goat.
- 3:53Nicole Laino: So you're the next one.
- 3:55Nicole Laino: So those are the things that are standing out to me.
- 3:57Nicole Laino: Like, I really feel like this is a transformative.
- 4:00Nicole Laino: This has been a transformative year.
- 4:02Christina Luna: Yes.
- 4:03Christina Luna: Okay.
- 4:03Christina Luna: So I really want to talk about Sagittarius as an archetypal temple and how it's even more relevant this year.
- 4:11Christina Luna: I. I think I've said that every single month, that this year it feels like every astrologer is saying that right now, but it's because the changeovers that we're experiencing right now, they are actually very epic.
- 4:23Christina Luna: This is a big pivot point, and we're seeing these pivots in our lives at the core because it's affecting us on a identity level.
- 4:34Christina Luna: And when you change something at an identity level, not only changes how we think of ourselves and the character we're playing in our life, but also our values and the way we believe and how we nourish ourselves, what we create in the world.
- 4:46Christina Luna: Like, everything changes when we change our relationship to our identity.
- 4:51Christina Luna: And because we have these large cycles moving into Aries, we've got the Saturn, we've got the Neptune.
- 5:00Christina Luna: A lot of planets are actually changing signs in 2026 because they're all changing signs.
- 5:05Christina Luna: We are shoring up and moving into a whole new way of identifying with ourselves and the role we play in our relationships and the world at large.
- 5:16Christina Luna: And so this moment we're in right now, it's kind of like we took the fall season, we took the fall quarter.
- 5:24Christina Luna: We looked at our life very analytically in Virgo season.
- 5:28Christina Luna: We made some mental adjustments.
- 5:32Christina Luna: We shifted our approach in October.
- 5:35Christina Luna: We went into the deep grotto of our heart.
- 5:39Christina Luna: We went into some deeper wounds.
- 5:40Christina Luna: We went into some strong feelings.
- 5:43Christina Luna: And I'm gonna pause there.
- 5:45Christina Luna: I'm just gonna say, whatever themes were during your month of November with all those water trines, I want you to know that was kind of the preview to where all of the Mercury retrogrades will be next year.
- 5:58Christina Luna: Mercury will retrograde in Pisces, Cancer, and Scorpio, and we'll have a Venus retrograde in Scorpio next year.
- 6:06Christina Luna: So the Scorpio part of our world and the watery elements of our personality and our life, they're going to continue going through an adjustment next year as the rest of our life changes.
- 6:20Christina Luna: And so we're still in this moment where adjusting the weight that we have one foot, we're adjusting it onto this new step so that we can actually remove a foot from the old world and put it into the new world.
- 6:33Christina Luna: And the weight of that is going to be influenced by the weight of our emotional attachments, the.
- 6:42Christina Luna: Our faith, our relationship to uncertainty, to flow, to surrender, to vulnerability, watery things.
- 6:50Christina Luna: And so now that we're in Sagittarius, hopefully we found the deepest temple of our heart.
- 6:59Christina Luna: And hopefully during this Sagittarius season, we can adjust our North Star to a new why for our existence.
- 7:08Nicole Laino: Why?
- 7:09Christina Luna: Sagittarius answers the question why?
- 7:12Christina Luna: So now we're adjusting that why.
- 7:15Nicole Laino: So tell everybody a little bit more about the essence of a Sagittarian or the Sagittarius vibe.
- 7:22Nicole Laino: So you're saying, like, Sagittarius answers the question or asks the question why?
- 7:26Nicole Laino: And is able to answer it.
- 7:28Nicole Laino: What else can we expect?
- 7:30Nicole Laino: So we come out of Scorpio.
- 7:32Nicole Laino: We come out of all of this watery energy.
- 7:34Nicole Laino: We just had the flood.
- 7:35Nicole Laino: We just have all of this energy coming in and stirring up our emotions, getting us to feel everything.
- 7:42Nicole Laino: And is Sagittarius then meant to fire the shot, so to speak, where it's like, now there's a movement towards something new of transformation?
- 7:54Christina Luna: I have two brief stories to talk about.
- 7:56Christina Luna: Sagittarius energy.
- 7:57Christina Luna: I wish I could say it was that simple, but it's actually a little More complex than that.
- 8:02Christina Luna: The first story is there was a movie back in the 80s called Abyss, and there was a character named Virgil.
- 8:09Christina Luna: They were discovering strange phenomenon on their underwater sea lab, and Virgil decided to track this thing down into the abyss.
- 8:17Christina Luna: And it was very dangerous.
- 8:19Christina Luna: And so he goes down the pressure.
- 8:21Christina Luna: It's like this huge dramatic scene when he gets to the bottom of the abyss, which, as the viewer, we don't know if this is a dream.
- 8:30Christina Luna: We don't know if this is real.
- 8:32Christina Luna: We'd like to think that Virgil's having an experience down in the bottom of the abyss, but we don't know with certainty.
- 8:38Christina Luna: It's like he died, or he, at least the reality that he used to live in has died.
- 8:43Christina Luna: And he comes to this place that baffles his mind.
- 8:46Christina Luna: He doesn't even know what he's looking at.
- 8:48Christina Luna: And this truce is something that now takes him all the way back to the surface of the real world again.
- 8:55Christina Luna: So Sagittarius season is like finding the crazy epiphany truth, Finding the kernel or the valuable thing that changes everything for you.
- 9:07Christina Luna: It's fire that moves, but it moves you because it comes from within.
- 9:10Christina Luna: It comes from the depths.
- 9:12Christina Luna: It comes from the dark.
- 9:14Christina Luna: It's a light you find inside of you.
- 9:16Christina Luna: You know, if you think about life in the Northern hemisphere, the light begins to go away in September.
- 9:22Christina Luna: It gets to its darkest point right during Sagittarius season, right before the sun begins to return.
- 9:30Christina Luna: In Capricorn season, we have to find an inner light, an inner spark, something that's real for us, that's from the inside of us, not from the outside.
- 9:40Christina Luna: And so Virgil finds this.
- 9:41Christina Luna: It shoots him back to the surface, and suddenly he's sharing this artifact with the world, and it changes the paradigm.
- 9:48Christina Luna: Ultimately, the paradigm changes during Aquarius season.
- 9:52Christina Luna: The artifact itself is Capricorn season, but Sagittarius is the discovery of it and the possibility of what could be now because of this.
- 10:02Christina Luna: And so it can move us, but it's still an internal movement, and it moves us to bring our gift to the world in a way that will leave a legacy during Capricorn season.
- 10:13Christina Luna: So we will feel stirred, we will feel that instinct.
- 10:18Christina Luna: And you know what is kind of interesting about popular culture, or at least the society we live in?
- 10:25Christina Luna: You know, we've got this archetypal flow of energy, and we get this excited, heartwarming feeling during this season.
- 10:33Christina Luna: And sometimes that fire is dampened because we leverage it into obligations or we leverage it into commercialism.
- 10:44Christina Luna: We leverage into Christmas Jingles and being busy and whatever.
- 10:48Christina Luna: Ultimately, the core of the epiphany is probably something around connection and love.
- 10:55Christina Luna: And if we can hold the kernel of that during a season where there's a lot of expectation and there's a lot of strange emotional dynamics, maybe this year we could make an adjustment to how we put that heart value first and let the other details kind of be, like, secondary.
- 11:16Christina Luna: Yeah.
- 11:17Nicole Laino: I mean, you and I were talking before we hit record, and it's sort of, as I'm listening to you, it's almost like December is like the permission to not go into massive action mode, which maybe some of us are feeling guilty for not being in action a lot.
- 11:33Nicole Laino: Like I was saying to you, I go away the first week in December, I come back, you know, we're home, like, working for, like, two weeks, and then it's holidays again.
- 11:43Nicole Laino: And I was sort of facing my Virgo.
- 11:45Nicole Laino: Ness was like, oh, I have a lot to get done.
- 11:48Nicole Laino: I gotta make a lot out of those two weeks that I have.
- 11:52Nicole Laino: And maybe I don't.
- 11:54Nicole Laino: Maybe it's actually.
- 11:56Nicole Laino: There's something incubating that.
- 11:59Nicole Laino: It's a spark that gets lit.
- 12:00Nicole Laino: It's an idea.
- 12:01Nicole Laino: And I think that kind of leads us into some of the energies that are coming into play in December, even around the sun gates that we always talk about.
- 12:08Nicole Laino: But some of the other planets as well, but these energies that come in, where maybe it's the epiphanies that are coming in, giving you a little bit more of an insight into the direction that you're going in and pointing in the direction that the action happens after the new year rings in.
- 12:25Christina Luna: You just reminded me I work with a lot of female entrepreneurs in the online space.
- 12:30Christina Luna: Like 95% of my clients.
- 12:33Christina Luna: And a lot of times my clients are very surprised when they first start working with me to understand, because they all want to work with me to figure out how to optimize their businesses, optimize the launches, optimize their timing of when they innovate their offers, and, you know, when they acquire new clients or when they nourish their old clients, blah, blah, like, fantastic that we want to talk about that because we're so impactful.
- 12:55Christina Luna: But what they're surprised about is that the spark, power, energy, the flow, the magnetism, it actually originates in our eighth house of intimacy.
- 13:08Christina Luna: It originates in the fifth house of what makes life worth living.
- 13:12Christina Luna: The fifth house and the eighth house have nothing to do with career, work, money, etc.
- 13:17Christina Luna: But they have everything to do with fueling the work that we do with fueling the energy and the transmission behind the work we do.
- 13:27Christina Luna: And the moments where you're overseas, seeing a beautiful artist express themselves, like connecting to a crowd of people, like understanding why your life is worth living, being held vulnerably by a lover, those moments of somatic presence, of excitement, of depth, of epiphany, those are the epiphanies that actually fuel the work that we do.
- 13:53Christina Luna: It's like getting to the why outcome of why we would even put ourselves into the world the way that we do.
- 13:59Christina Luna: It's not for money.
- 14:00Christina Luna: Actually, there's a reason why we put ourselves into the world that.
- 14:04Christina Luna: That has to do with believing something about humanity, believing what, you know, females are worth in their lives and their bodies, believing what humans are capable of.
- 14:15Christina Luna: And Sagittarius season is putting us back in touch with the deeper, fueling why that makes everything possible.
- 14:26Christina Luna: It makes it possible for us to speak in podcasts or put ourselves just to get out of our way, because we believe in something that's bigger than us.
- 14:36Christina Luna: We feel something is a birthright that's bigger than just our personal experience.
- 14:41Nicole Laino: Yeah.
- 14:41Nicole Laino: And if I think about it, like, even going back to what you were saying before about inner fire, the inner fire, that inner light, nothing has ever lit my flame.
- 14:50Nicole Laino: That's, like, just about a great launch.
- 14:54Nicole Laino: It's never about that.
- 14:56Nicole Laino: It's always about, like, the things that light my heart on fire, the things that really are, like, my why?
- 15:02Nicole Laino: If you go back to, like, that deep why again, to what you were saying before, it's these other things that make it all worthwhile.
- 15:11Nicole Laino: Like, I do the other stuff.
- 15:12Nicole Laino: So I get to fly to Copenhagen to see Radiohead.
- 15:15Nicole Laino: Like, that's why I do it.
- 15:17Nicole Laino: It's not for the launch.
- 15:18Nicole Laino: It's not for some number on the wall or something like that.
- 15:23Nicole Laino: So should we dive into the calendar and give them a little bit of some dates or some things, or, you know, what we're seeing?
- 15:29Nicole Laino: What you're seeing?
- 15:30Christina Luna: Yeah, absolutely.
- 15:32Nicole Laino: So I like to start off with the sun, because the sun does tell us kind of the flavor.
- 15:36Nicole Laino: So we talk about Sagittarius as a whole just now.
- 15:40Nicole Laino: If we look at the gates, how they break up, we're kind of talking about the different flavors of the season and the first flavor, I think, which is interesting, you know, that first week, I think it's a time for us to sort of check in with our habits and with our patterns.
- 15:56Nicole Laino: Those could be internal patterns, they could be external patterns.
- 15:59Nicole Laino: What I see with this energy and People who have it is they either have a habit of setting good habits and they have like really great routines and they are really honoring their way.
- 16:12Nicole Laino: It's their way and they're flexible within that.
- 16:15Nicole Laino: However, there's also the other people that fall into bad habits, which we all know that people do that in this season, that sometimes we're drinking too much, we're out too late, we're.
- 16:23Nicole Laino: I think that this is sort of inviting us to check in with that and say, like, what are the habits, the patterns that are going to serve us throughout the month and going forward?
- 16:32Nicole Laino: But I think that's like a little check in point with that first week to say, like, what are the habits that I really want to ingrain in myself?
- 16:41Nicole Laino: You might let some of them go for the holidays, but there's also going to be some that you're like, but I'm still going to be in bed by 10 o' clock because I know that serves me and that serves me overall.
- 16:51Nicole Laino: So that was one of the keys that I had there.
- 16:54Nicole Laino: And then what are you seeing?
- 16:56Nicole Laino: What's kind of jumping out at you?
- 16:58Christina Luna: Well, I definitely feel like the first week is a week where we need to be mindful.
- 17:03Christina Luna: We have a full moon that week in Gemini, we're gonna have Mercury moving direct.
- 17:08Christina Luna: We're gonna have Saturn moving direct.
- 17:09Christina Luna: We've got Venus in Sag.
- 17:10Christina Luna: So there's gonna be this energy of wanting to move forward, wanting to move quickly, wanting to move with passion.
- 17:18Christina Luna: But we have to remember that Mercury will still be in Scorpio.
- 17:21Christina Luna: So we're still gonna be having to create boundaries with ourselves.
- 17:26Christina Luna: It's something really important to remember for a Gemini full moon is that there's a difference between what we have an opinion about, like what our personal subjective truth is and universal truth.
- 17:38Christina Luna: There's a difference there.
- 17:39Christina Luna: And if we can slow things down and try to find some coherence or some congruence with our subjective truth, our opinions and universal truths, and we realize that our passion is real.
- 17:54Christina Luna: It's.
- 17:54Christina Luna: It's important for us to want to scream from the rooftops what we believe is true.
- 17:59Christina Luna: And having a little bit of hubris.
- 18:03Christina Luna: Is that the word I'm looking for?
- 18:04Christina Luna: Having a bit of maturity, that wouldn't be hubris.
- 18:09Christina Luna: Then tell me about hubris.
- 18:10Christina Luna: Why is that word coming into my head?
- 18:12Nicole Laino: I always think hubris is sort of like an exaggeration or excessive pride or self confidence.
- 18:19Nicole Laino: Like it's like overdoing it.
- 18:21Nicole Laino: Hubris is like too much.
- 18:23Christina Luna: That's interesting.
- 18:24Christina Luna: Okay.
- 18:24Christina Luna: So I'm feeling that word landing, and I think that's what we need to temper.
- 18:29Christina Luna: Okay.
- 18:30Nicole Laino: Okay.
- 18:31Christina Luna: We need to recognize when that is activated inside of us because it can be a week where we have a lot of that with a bit of humbleness.
- 18:42Nicole Laino: I feel like, as we go into the second week as well, if I were looking at one week, and I'd say that one week where we're really going to want to hit the gas and maybe we have to pull back, it's probably going to be that second week.
- 18:54Nicole Laino: That second week we have some big energies happening.
- 18:57Nicole Laino: We've got the sun in 26, the Earth in 45, which these are big ego sent, not ego center necessarily.
- 19:03Nicole Laino: 45 sits in the throat, but they are part of the ego circuit, which is business.
- 19:08Nicole Laino: It's like, we go.
- 19:09Nicole Laino: We make it happen.
- 19:10Nicole Laino: The 26 gate wants to take action in the direction of, like, a strategy.
- 19:16Nicole Laino: It's very tactical.
- 19:17Nicole Laino: It's very much like, ooh, I know the launch strategy.
- 19:20Nicole Laino: That's going to get me the thing that I want.
- 19:22Nicole Laino: Plan it, write it out, notice it, but don't necessarily feel like you've got to make it all happen.
- 19:29Nicole Laino: Then the 14th gate is also where Mercury is 14.
- 19:33Nicole Laino: That's a Scorpio gate, of course, but it's also.
- 19:36Nicole Laino: It's this gate of power and great measure, that's what it's called, which is an interesting name.
- 19:41Nicole Laino: It's a gate of luck.
- 19:42Nicole Laino: But it's also.
- 19:43Nicole Laino: This is a gate of knowing what your capacity is.
- 19:45Nicole Laino: So it's a great time to check in with yourself, to say, like, what do I need right now?
- 19:50Nicole Laino: And am I doing something because it feels like I love it?
- 19:53Nicole Laino: 14 is often a gate that is difficult for people to understand because it's so simplistic in the way that it sounds, which is like, it's basically like a do what you love and you'll never work a day in your life kind of gate.
- 20:05Nicole Laino: Like, that's what it is.
- 20:06Nicole Laino: You'll always have capacity if you love it.
- 20:08Nicole Laino: Maybe it's a time to check in with yourself, to be like, am I really speaking about the things that matter to me?
- 20:14Nicole Laino: Am I I really speaking about the things that feel connected to me?
- 20:19Nicole Laino: Or am I being purely strategic?
- 20:22Nicole Laino: Am I being purely egotistical?
- 20:25Nicole Laino: Is everything for a conversion.
- 20:27Nicole Laino: This is a conversation I have to have for myself, too.
- 20:29Nicole Laino: Like, am I sharing enough of what I truly care about, of what I really want to say?
- 20:34Nicole Laino: I think that's a time to sort of check in with that energy.
- 20:38Christina Luna: That'S so appropriate for that week.
- 20:40Christina Luna: I'm noticing that this is a week typically where we come to a deeper truth within ourselves.
- 20:46Christina Luna: Where we are holding.
- 20:48Christina Luna: It's like the queen of wands, like we're holding our passion.
- 20:51Christina Luna: We know that if it's true, we don't have to rush to speak it, that truths are true no matter what truths last.
- 20:59Christina Luna: We don't need to worry about the truth going away anytime soon.
- 21:03Christina Luna: And so there's a maturity in holding that energy.
- 21:07Christina Luna: It's kind of also a week where on the 8th, we've got Mars squaring Saturn, and it's a Saturn that's just moving forward.
- 21:14Christina Luna: So it's a moment where we could even be blocked.
- 21:18Christina Luna: We could have this great idea.
- 21:20Christina Luna: We could want to go live.
- 21:21Christina Luna: We could want to throw something out into the world.
- 21:24Christina Luna: We're feeling a little stretched, and we're just going to do something real quick.
- 21:28Christina Luna: We probably will experience blocks.
- 21:30Christina Luna: And to your point, it's a moment to kind of step back and ask, is this really aligned with what I want to be saying?
- 21:38Christina Luna: Sometimes saying less or saying one specific truth is more powerful than just throwing a lot of energy into the system and that gives way.
- 21:48Christina Luna: Specifically, there's some slow energy during from the 14th through the 20th that's trying to like, hold this, hold it, grow it, hold it, move with intention.
- 22:00Christina Luna: So I feel like there's a lot of discipline that's coming in the month of December.
- 22:05Nicole Laino: Yes, the discipline is definitely there.
- 22:08Nicole Laino: I think then when we hit the holiday time, we have some changes.
- 22:11Nicole Laino: Like from a human design standpoint.
- 22:13Nicole Laino: Well, one, we have the solstice, where we're going to have the 10th gate, you know, around the 20th of the month.
- 22:20Nicole Laino: I always think that this is nice around Christmas, like the week leading up to Christmas.
- 22:24Nicole Laino: I always like to remind people of this that the 10th gate is going to be shining on all of us.
- 22:28Nicole Laino: And 10 and 15 are this beautiful polarity in the G center, which is all about identity.
- 22:33Nicole Laino: But these are gates of love.
- 22:34Nicole Laino: This is a love for yourself to not give away yourself.
- 22:38Nicole Laino: It's really about behaving authentically as you.
- 22:41Nicole Laino: And I think that the way to really test whether you are authentically behaving is to go plop yourself in the middle of family and friends and loved ones where maybe you feel like you've had to conform.
- 22:52Nicole Laino: Some of us feel like that's the place where we are the most authentic.
- 22:55Nicole Laino: And then some of us feel like it is the place where we are the least authentic.
- 22:58Nicole Laino: And the people who Know us the least are the ones who have known us the longest.
- 23:01Nicole Laino: So it's a great time to check in with yourself about what does correct behavior feel like to you?
- 23:07Nicole Laino: And correct behavior, what it reminds us of is that correct behavior comes from loving yourself.
- 23:14Nicole Laino: That when you love yourself as you are, there is no need to please anybody because your job is only to please yourself.
- 23:22Nicole Laino: It's not about conforming to be somebody else or to be more palatable.
- 23:27Nicole Laino: And then around that same time, the 23rd, we hit the.
- 23:33Nicole Laino: There'll be a nodal change.
- 23:34Nicole Laino: This is from.
- 23:35Nicole Laino: In astrology, we're still in the Pisces north node, Virgo south node.
- 23:41Nicole Laino: But in human design, we are going into the 37th gate.
- 23:45Nicole Laino: The 37th gate is where the north node will be.
- 23:47Christina Luna: The.
- 23:47Nicole Laino: The south node will be in 40.
- 23:49Nicole Laino: This is going to give everybody an emotional channel for a while.
- 23:53Nicole Laino: We're all going to be emotional.
- 23:54Nicole Laino: We're going to have this emotional connection between our ego.
- 23:57Nicole Laino: You're.
- 23:58Nicole Laino: Everybody's going to have an.
- 23:58Nicole Laino: Have a defined ego during this time, and everybody's going to have a defined solar plexus.
- 24:03Nicole Laino: And this is the channel of the bargain.
- 24:05Nicole Laino: This is that channel of friendship, community.
- 24:09Nicole Laino: It is about loving one another, but it's also about not giving yourself away.
- 24:13Nicole Laino: So again, challenging us to really ground into holding our boundaries around who we are, around how we think about ourselves, caring for others, but not giving ourselves away in that process.
- 24:26Nicole Laino: And the holidays, I think, can trigger a lot of us into maybe acting in certain ways or thinking we have to be in a particular way, particularly around this energy of I take care of you emotionally, you take care of me materially.
- 24:41Nicole Laino: It's a very familial kind of energy that we're going into.
- 24:45Nicole Laino: And we're going to be there for a couple of months.
- 24:47Nicole Laino: So that all kicks off right around 23rd of December.
- 24:51Nicole Laino: So we might feel a shift there where we go from having these very heady sort of nodal gates of like looking in the direction of thinking about things to maybe feeling them.
- 25:02Christina Luna: Oh, my gosh.
- 25:03Christina Luna: You triggered a couple of really important things I'd love to share.
- 25:07Christina Luna: So the energies I have for that week, the 21st through the 27th, and then the 28th, leading into the first of the year, it ran to cardinal.
- 25:15Christina Luna: Earth.
- 25:16Christina Luna: That's the beginning of Earth.
- 25:18Christina Luna: That's the manifesting generative energy of Earth.
- 25:21Christina Luna: It's like a new arrow being pulled back to manifest in the Earth plane.
- 25:27Christina Luna: And you were talking about how being your most authentic, being sensitive presentation, authentic.
- 25:34Christina Luna: I want to Piggyback onto that and say that I tried an experiment last year.
- 25:39Christina Luna: There's.
- 25:40Christina Luna: I heard about these 12 holy days, and I thought, well, that's so interesting that there would be 12 holy days during this cardinal earth period of time.
- 25:48Christina Luna: What happens on those 12 holy days, which supposedly start on the 25th of December.
- 25:55Christina Luna: So that would be the first day that we notice that the sun is still in the sky.
- 26:01Christina Luna: It's beginning to stay longer.
- 26:03Christina Luna: So on the solstice, it's the shortest day.
- 26:06Christina Luna: And then by the 25th, it looks like the sun is coming back.
- 26:09Christina Luna: So that would mark the beginning of the 12 holy days.
- 26:11Christina Luna: So last year I took note of everything that happened from the 25th all the way till the epiphany, which is on the 6th of January, which is the ending of the holy days, right?
- 26:24Christina Luna: And supposedly whatever you intend and experience on each of those days corresponds to a month of the year.
- 26:32Christina Luna: So December 25th would be January, the 26th is February, 27th is March.
- 26:38Christina Luna: So I was so present and authentic last year.
- 26:42Christina Luna: And I took notes on each of those days, of what happened during the day, how I felt.
- 26:47Christina Luna: And because I set the intention, I came back to presence over and over.
- 26:52Christina Luna: And I took notes in a calendar for the next year.
- 26:56Christina Luna: So in January, I took notes on 25 December.
- 27:00Christina Luna: On the 1st page of February, I took notes for the 26th.
- 27:04Christina Luna: And so I started my days exactly how I'd want to spend an entire month.
- 27:09Christina Luna: So how do I want the month of February to feel?
- 27:12Christina Luna: How do I want the month of March to feel?
- 27:14Christina Luna: And as those days progressed, I noticed, good gosh, you know, I'm really paying attention.
- 27:21Christina Luna: I'm really noticing how things go.
- 27:24Christina Luna: And so I kept like a time tally and everything.
- 27:27Christina Luna: Then for the whole year, I let the experiment run.
- 27:31Christina Luna: And what I found was very interesting is I had a big conflict right in the middle of Christmas Day.
- 27:38Christina Luna: It kind of stood out.
- 27:38Christina Luna: On the very first day of tracking, during the middle of January, around the 15th, had a really big conflict with the same person.
- 27:46Christina Luna: And it tracked the entire year.
- 27:49Christina Luna: It tracked so clearly.
- 27:52Christina Luna: And so this authenticity that you're talking about, imagine on an extra level, what if you were creating from authenticity with your intention, with your presence?
- 28:03Christina Luna: What if everything that you paid attention to and you focused on, you really created space for and gave yourself permission for?
- 28:10Christina Luna: What if it actually had a correlation for the entire next year?
- 28:15Christina Luna: And my experiment, I do experiments like this, like, regularly.
- 28:19Christina Luna: But this one, I'm talking about it now because I can a hundred percent validate that it worked for me.
- 28:25Christina Luna: I don't know if it's because I'm a manifesting generator.
- 28:28Christina Luna: I don't know if it's because when I'm excited about things, I believe them and then they come true.
- 28:33Christina Luna: Like, I'm not really sure if my formula makes this work better for me, but because it's coming up and because we're in that season of giving that presence to our lives, I thought I would share it.
- 28:45Nicole Laino: I love your experiments.
- 28:46Nicole Laino: I wrote it down because I'm going to do it.
- 28:48Nicole Laino: I'll have to remind myself I'm going to put it in my calendar so I don't forget.
- 28:51Nicole Laino: But I love these experiments because whether they quote, unquote, work or not, like as expected or as explained, they tune you in.
- 29:00Nicole Laino: And I don't think that it's ever a bad exercise to be intentionally tuning in and paying attention to the energy that we're in, what we're feeling and what's going on, and then tracking that always.
- 29:13Nicole Laino: So I think that like all of these are worthy exercises.
- 29:15Nicole Laino: But I love this idea of particularly during that week, which is it's sort of this.
- 29:21Nicole Laino: It's the time before everything starts.
- 29:23Nicole Laino: You know, we all get this sort of like little break.
- 29:26Nicole Laino: We're waiting for the next thing, we're waiting for the new year, we're waiting for the clock to strike midnight and then tell us that the new game has started, whatever that might be for us.
- 29:36Nicole Laino: I think it's a really fun thing to check in with yourself on your way to that.
- 29:41Nicole Laino: And I love the idea, like whether it tracks this way or not, but just the idea of thinking like, I'm walking through these 12 days as a little like microcosm kind of way of walking through my year and how can I be more intentional about that?
- 29:56Nicole Laino: So I love that you shared that.
- 29:57Nicole Laino: Thank you.
- 29:58Christina Luna: Yes, of course.
- 29:59Christina Luna: Even down to like I had my house cleaned on the day that corresponds with September.
- 30:04Christina Luna: Like it was so beautiful and it tracked and I'm gonna do it again with even more intention.
- 30:10Christina Luna: Cuz now I know how very real it is.
- 30:14Christina Luna: And that's what Cardinal Earth brings to us.
- 30:17Christina Luna: The real tangible experience of being able to take all of our wisdom, all of our depth, all of our truth and actually make an impact and a mark on the earth.
- 30:28Christina Luna: And we get to start a new calendar year during the energy of Cardinal Earth.
- 30:34Christina Luna: So I kind of feel it's beautiful, even though it's not.
- 30:37Christina Luna: We're celebrating like new Year vibes.
- 30:40Christina Luna: Definitely isn't like, oh, there's a whole new cycle.
- 30:43Christina Luna: But it is a cycle that's built on habits that we intentionally set down.
- 30:49Christina Luna: And on that note, I know this is, like, peeking a little bit too far into the future.
- 30:55Christina Luna: Something that has come up recently.
- 30:57Christina Luna: And I think it's because I'm doing a lot of quarterly readings for the first quarter now is Capricorn season ends around the 20th of January.
- 31:05Christina Luna: And that's oftentimes when our New Year's resolutions fail.
- 31:08Christina Luna: And it's because we enter into Aquarius season.
- 31:11Christina Luna: And Aquarius is about vibes, not policies.
- 31:16Christina Luna: And so we could have the best plans.
- 31:18Christina Luna: But if the vibes change, we need to be able to adjust the plans.
- 31:22Christina Luna: And because we're in an Aquarian time, maybe we can play out our Christmas season.
- 31:28Christina Luna: We can play out our New Year's season based on Vibes and not on formulas.
- 31:34Christina Luna: And I think that will set us up for different ways of approaching legacy, manifestation, resolutions, et cetera.
- 31:42Nicole Laino: Yeah, I love all of that.
- 31:44Nicole Laino: I think resolutions are something that we've, a lot of us have gotten away from.
- 31:48Nicole Laino: Where I look at them as intentions.
- 31:49Nicole Laino: Now it's like I have strong intentions for myself, this where I want to move, because it feels more flexible to me than, like, a resolution.
- 31:56Nicole Laino: Resolutions always felt very rigid to me, and I kind of broke away from that a long time ago.
- 32:02Nicole Laino: Intentions suit me much better.
- 32:05Nicole Laino: So just looking at this month, I feel like we go through these waves of, like, setting those routines, having some ideas come up, really nurturing those ideas, then nurturing ourselves and settling into, like, what's authentic for us.
- 32:20Nicole Laino: And then we're kind of closing out the year.
- 32:22Nicole Laino: I always bring this up because I think that it's worth bringing up, but it's also interesting because we're going to be in this, the 58th gate.
- 32:29Nicole Laino: Mars is in it from Christmas week.
- 32:33Nicole Laino: And then that week between Christmas and New Year's, both the sun and Venus are in it.
- 32:38Nicole Laino: And the 58th gate is the gate of Joy.
- 32:41Nicole Laino: And it's supposed to be a time of joy for us, right?
- 32:43Nicole Laino: The holidays, it's like this time of family.
- 32:45Nicole Laino: And, you know, what brings you joy in the 58th gate?
- 32:49Nicole Laino: One of the things that it reminds us of is that the shadow is dissatisfaction.
- 32:54Nicole Laino: And dissatisfaction is what blocks us from joy.
- 32:58Nicole Laino: Not being grateful for what you have.
- 33:00Nicole Laino: I think there's an invitation here.
- 33:01Nicole Laino: I think at the end of the year, we sort of have this invitation anyway.
- 33:05Nicole Laino: But especially just with that energy kind of being around us in these different ways, just asking us to really tune into what we're grateful for what are we satisfied with rather than what are we dissatisfied with?
- 33:19Nicole Laino: Not what has to change, because I don't like this, but what are we actively choosing because it brings us joy?
- 33:26Nicole Laino: So that's kind of what I wanted to leave everybody with as far as just.
- 33:31Nicole Laino: It's a note I remind myself of every year.
- 33:34Nicole Laino: And this year, we have some other things dancing with it as well.
- 33:37Nicole Laino: But to me, that's what always stands out.
- 33:40Nicole Laino: It's just, can we not focus on what we want to change because we hate it, but actually, like, what do we want to create from this essence of joy?
- 33:47Nicole Laino: Like, things can get better, but we want them to be from that energy of, like, I know how I could make it better.
- 33:53Nicole Laino: You know, there's one that has judgment in it and the other that has possibility.
- 33:59Christina Luna: Beautiful.
- 34:00Nicole Laino: What are your parting words?
- 34:01Nicole Laino: Is there anything else that you want to lead everybody with or sum everything up with for 2025, for December?
- 34:09Nicole Laino: We've said a lot.
- 34:10Christina Luna: Yeah.
- 34:10Christina Luna: I still come back to this place.
- 34:12Christina Luna: There's a compass inside of our hearts, and if we can get to the very deepest root of that compass, that's our task for Sagittarius season.
- 34:22Christina Luna: There's nothing else.
- 34:23Christina Luna: Like, we.
- 34:24Christina Luna: All the outside world, all the noise, all the things, they just don't matter.
- 34:29Christina Luna: They get to be fun expressions from the internal compass.
- 34:35Christina Luna: So that's what I'm caring the most about right now.
- 34:38Nicole Laino: I love that.
- 34:38Nicole Laino: And I think the message, nurture yourself.
- 34:41Nicole Laino: Like, that's permission to tap into your inner compass and to tap into what brings you joy and to tap into, like, yeah, you're gonna have plans, but there's also time to enact those plans once we switch over, and we are in Capricorn season, and the energy is supporting that.
- 34:57Nicole Laino: Christina and I will see you in a couple of days, but Christina and I will see you together next year in 2026, in January.
- 35:05Nicole Laino: My goodness.
- 35:06Nicole Laino: Happy New Year to you, my friend.
- 35:09Christina Luna: Happy New Year and Merry Christmas and Happy Thanksgiving and all the things.
- 35:13Nicole Laino: All the things.
- 35:15Nicole Laino: Thank you so much for being here with us.
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