Latest / Success Story with Scott Clary / Dean Graziosi - New York Times Best-Selling Author, Entrepreneur, and Investor | Millionaire Success Habits
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- 0:00We all want an unfair advantage, whether you say it out loud or not, right?
- 0:03And sometimes when it doesn't work or we try something, we don't realize we were missing some of the ingredients.
- 0:08The thing I'll say is sometimes to move to take uncomfortable action, you gotta go to the dark side.
- 0:12Do whatever it takes to get momentum. Use it. Use whatever dark side, light side,
- 0:18goals, dreams or pain you can to go no more waiting, no more hesitating. I'm freaking go.
- 0:25How would it feel after God described you current life and then played the video the
- 0:29men you could have been? What would you wish? There is no easy but everybody's looking for
- 0:33where's the button? It doesn't exist. You're gonna fail. You're gonna question yourself.
- 0:36You're gonna get in a fight with your significant other. You're gonna miss freaking baseball.
- 0:40You're gonna miss the dance recital. Some of that crap's gonna happen, but it only has to be
- 0:44for a season and a reason not your whole life. And if you don't change it, it could be your whole life.
- 0:49Your past can be your fuel or your anchor. You can decide is my past going to be the thing that
- 0:54says because of that past I must or because of that past I can't. Is the American dream dead?
- 0:59Solid question. In recent years I think...
- 1:04Welcome to Success Story. I'm your host, Scott Clary. The Success Story podcast is part of the
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- 2:45Dean, thank you for joining me. I really, really appreciate you taking the time. I'm excited to do
- 2:49this. I'm going to be following that. It's going to be a lot of fun. I love to kick it off with
- 2:56just a very basic, simple question, just to frame it for the audience. And everybody's a little
- 3:00bit different, but I want you to tell me, is the American Dream dead?
- 3:07Solid question. In recent years, I think the American Dream, there's a lot of things that got a
- 3:15bad name in recent years. But if you look at the foundation or the fundamentals, at least in my
- 3:20opinion, and this is purely my opinion, the American Dream can exist wherever you are in the world.
- 3:25I mean, when I look at the American Dream, except everybody here could have their own opinion,
- 3:29first of all, great to meet everybody. Great to hope you're, hope you're shutting off your
- 3:32phones or distractions. I know there's lots of options that you have, but I'm in a mood today,
- 3:38and I know Scott's on fire. We're going to have some fun today. If you're looking to start scale,
- 3:43take that business to the next level, that's my whole life. It's all I've been talking about,
- 3:4627 years, all I've been doing with my personal life. So I always want to say thank you for spending
- 3:50this time with me. It's going to be a good one. But I wanted to share my interpretation of the
- 3:55American Dream Scott is my grandfather left Italy in the late 1800s, early 1900s, left Italy,
- 4:04didn't have the money to really get a ticket to a ship to take him here. So his parents gave
- 4:11him permission to take his donkey. He sold his donkey when he got to the port, didn't have enough
- 4:16money. And then he made a deal with the captain that he could work and shovel coal in the engine
- 4:22all the way to America. So figure by the time he got there, he didn't have a dollar in his pocket,
- 4:25didn't speak the language, went to Ellis Island, get kicks off, gets kicked off in New York City and
- 4:30says, good luck. And this man left, I've gone back to where they came from. He left this beautiful
- 4:35place, but he knew his life. He knew he was meant for something different. He was meant for more.
- 4:40He had this calling. And he left and my thought of the American dream is he started as a waiter
- 4:47in an Italian restaurant. Then he became the manager of Italian restaurant. And before he passed
- 4:51away, he owned his own Italian restaurant in upstate New York that my grandmother worked at,
- 4:57that my, that my mom and everybody worked at when they were done. It was gone by the time I was born.
- 5:02But to think that that man left Italy with nothing and two generations later, I get to be blessed
- 5:09to make impact and do more things that I could ever imagine possible and be able to retire my
- 5:13parents and feed tens of millions of people through, through feeding America and build churches and
- 5:20employ hundreds of people and all those things. That is the foundation of the American dream.
- 5:25Some of the American dream was also crafted during the industrial revolution when there was lots
- 5:30of jobs available. I get that. But my opinion of the American dream is you have the opportunity to
- 5:35go as far as you want, not based on your pedigree, not based on your religion, not based on your
- 5:40education, based on your ability to model proven practices and persist until you succeed.
- 5:48Maybe that oversimplifies it, but that's maybe I'm the little naive, maybe I'm two rainbows, puppies,
- 5:53and butterflies. And me, it's like if you have a desire, if you can find somebody who's already
- 6:00done what you want to do, you can get rid of the crappy excuses that all of us have stuck in our head.
- 6:06And we can keep moving forward and have a culture of progress, not a culture of perfection,
- 6:11not a culture of comparison, but keep moving forward eventually around one of those corners of
- 6:17struggle will be your next level. And I believe it is, I believe we're going to have a resurgence
- 6:24of the American dream. I think since COVID, things have just been so fragmented and shifted. And if
- 6:30not forbidden, we don't have the same beliefs when it comes to government or politics, we should
- 6:35eat each other, right? The loud fringes, the loud 3% on the right, and the loud 3% on the left
- 6:41has made it to where all of us in the middle were so similar, feel uncomfortable. And I believe it
- 6:46went too far. Could be my opinion again, some people might not agree with me. I wouldn't. I
- 6:51agree with you for the record. I agree. I think it's way too far. It's way way. It's not
- 6:56reality. Yeah, it's not reality. I think it would so far that I think it's going to rebound so hard
- 7:02where the American dream, you'll be proud to say I want the American dream no matter where you live
- 7:06in the world. You'll be proud to say that I'm a capitalist. You'll be proud to say that I'm
- 7:10an entrepreneur. You're proud to say that I yes, I make money and I employ people and I donate
- 7:14and I take care of my family and I take care of my church and I tell or whatever it is you want to
- 7:18do. I think we're coming back to a place where you could be proud that you want success and you go
- 7:23achieve it. And with technology, you could be scared or you can get in front of it. I believe this
- 7:28is the time for prosperity. You just got to get this right between your ears. Yeah, and that's
- 7:33the hardest part, right? So what COVID did, what social media does is it fragments people. Like you
- 7:38said, everybody feels like they're living in this little isolated silo. And I mean, a lot of what
- 7:45you and me both subscribe to is alternative forms of education, community, finding mentors,
- 7:52networking, working with people who have figured it out so you don't have to reinvent the wheel.
- 7:56These are all things that make sense to us. However, I feel like COVID almost made people
- 8:04who have not already bought into the concept of if someone else can do it, you can do it as well.
- 8:10All of a sudden it gets scarier. And the career that you thought was stable that maybe you
- 8:15wanted to work for 20 years and then start to build a side house. All of that was pulled out
- 8:20from underneath you as well. So now if you're in this fighter flight mode and you don't even think
- 8:26a career stable will now entrepreneurship looks 100 times more scary, harder, whatever it is, right?
- 8:33So how do we fix this? What's the fix? Yeah, so here's the right thing. I think we all want an
- 8:41unfair advantage. I mean, whether you say it out loud or not, right? And sometimes when it does
- 8:45work or we tried something, we don't realize we were missing some of the ingredients, right?
- 8:50I mean, I love to look through this lens of, you know, if I haven't shared this much and I'm
- 8:56telling you now you're doing a live event here soon and I'm going to be sharing it that day,
- 8:59but I'll go deep-run it. But I want to share it with you because I love the way you think.
- 9:03You know, I said sometimes when we want success, right? That's something. So if you're here,
- 9:09you're listening, you're watching, you're somebody that knows you meant for more and you're looking
- 9:12for a competitive edge. You're looking for unfair and you're looking where to start and looking to
- 9:16finally break through to stop dabbling, to not feel like a procrastinator, to be scared and more.
- 9:20I get it. I felt every one of those emotions, I still do. We just know how to overcome. So please,
- 9:24no, I'm not talking to blaze. I used to be like that. I'm like that at every, every turn.
- 9:29Still, it never goes away. You know, I'm partners with Tony Robbins and that man pushes me so much
- 9:34and sometimes I'll walk in a room and there's three billionaires and we're doing something big.
- 9:37I'm like, I don't belong in this room. Why are they going to figure out is somebody going to ask me
- 9:40to leave like this? So those feelings never go away. But I wanted to share this. I thought this
- 9:46was a cool analogy. Sometimes we have two out of the three right things to be successful. We go
- 9:54all in and we don't we realize it's like having a car that's an eight cylinder, but you only had six
- 9:58spark plugs in it and you wonder why it will run right. So I was thinking if it was 1897 and you
- 10:05were talking about the American dream, let's talk about America in the late 1800s when there was the
- 10:09gold rush and people, if you were on the east coast, people would say, you got to go west. You got to
- 10:13go to California. There's gold. You can prospect. You can get land, right? If you were going to take
- 10:18that trip and a horse and carriage in the late 1800s, you would need three things. You would need a
- 10:24map. First off, you couldn't just say, I don't know. I'm going to go to where the sun is setting and
- 10:28drive that way. You go off a cliff. You go into a lake. You hit a mountain. You freeze the death. You
- 10:32you know, attacked by Indians. I don't know. So you need a map. We don't just need a map. You need
- 10:36the right map. I promise this will answer the question you're talking about. You ask me. No,
- 10:40no, you're a good storyteller and stories and stories make things stick. So go for it. I'm not.
- 10:47You need the right map. Somebody just wrote the map on a back of a piece of paper because they were
- 10:50there once you get lost. You're done. You're going, getting by Kyle. So you need the right map. But
- 10:56don't you also need a guide? Like, if you got the map, you need somebody to say, Hey, it's got
- 11:00I know you're halfway there. You're feeling down. Come on. We got to go. I know the wheel fell off
- 11:04the wagon. Here's how we fix it. Oh, you got a little turn around on the map. Don't worry. I've
- 11:07been here. Let's pull you back. Let's go this way. And you need the guide to help get you there.
- 11:11Inspire youth. Keep you accountable and bring you all the way to the cave or the mine or the
- 11:16gold set, right? The problem is even if somebody gave you the right map and you have the right guide,
- 11:22right? You don't want a guide that's like hung over. It was there twice. You want the right
- 11:25back. You want somebody who's actually done what it is you want to do. But if you get all the way
- 11:29there and they go, there's where the gold is. It's right behind that rock. And you don't have
- 11:34many tools. You're screwed. You can't dig through a rock with your fingers. And if they gave you
- 11:39the wrong tools at the hand, just spoon and go, Hey, get the gold. You're like, Oh my God. And
- 11:43what people don't realize, you need the right tools. You need a jackhammer. You need something to
- 11:47get through. You get the gold. What you may not have realized as you're on your this journey. I'd
- 11:51want to do your own thing in this crazy time is I'm just going to tell you be looking out for
- 11:56things where you can model proven practices. The map where you can get someone to guide you and
- 12:01keep you accountable. If you if you work out consistently, consistently, most of you either have
- 12:05an accountability partner or someone you work out with the gym or you have a train, right? You need
- 12:09a guide to bring you across. But at the end of the day, you've got to have the right tools, right?
- 12:14If you have yesterday's tools or the wrong tools, it doesn't work. And I bet if you look back at
- 12:18three past opportunities or even scaling your own business, I bet you one of those three were missing.
- 12:23You might have had education and tools, but no one keeping you accountable. You might have the
- 12:28right tool, but you know how to use it. You're you're you're you're jackhammering in the wrong
- 12:32direction. So I think when you look at where we are in history. So here's our title together.
- 12:40Why I believe, and so does my partner Tony Robbins. Why we believe this is the greatest time
- 12:45in at least in our history on this earth is because so many people are stuck because of uncertain.
- 12:51They're waiting to see what happens. They're waiting to see the way the world goes. Which way is the
- 12:56is politics going to go? Which way is inflation going to go? Which way is interest rates going to go?
- 13:00When am I going to what if I do this and people look at me sideways because I'm doing my own
- 13:05thing? Is that if I my greedy and I just want money and I don't want people to look at me that way?
- 13:10So maybe maybe I shouldn't speak by mind because maybe I'll this off half of the people that that
- 13:14could be my clients. Oh, this is just a hard time. All right. I want to just reach through the
- 13:20following and reach through the and shape people though. Don't wait. Don't you understand? You
- 13:23have no competition right now. You have no competition because everybody's waiting. This is the time
- 13:28to get the guide to get the map to get the guide to get the tool model proof of practices and take
- 13:34uncomfortable action. And the last thing I'll say is sometimes to move to take uncomfortable action.
- 13:39You got to go to the dark side. Like everybody says, what gets you to move? What makes you excited?
- 13:43You don't always have to live in the dark side, but sometimes you got to go there. What do I mean by that?
- 13:47Do whatever it takes to get momentum. If you think, hey, if I lead my life the way it is,
- 13:52I'm going to be like my parents. Well, no, I mean that in a bad way. Use it. If I don't use,
- 13:56I'm going to miss out on my children's entire childhood. I won't even know if that's painful.
- 14:02Use it. If you say, I don't, I'm going to be stuck in the career I'm in or the business I'm in
- 14:07that I freaking hate for the next 60 years. I'm going to be in my deathbed. It's off. Use it. Use
- 14:12whatever dark side, light side goals, dreams or aim you can to go no more waiting. No more
- 14:19hesitating. I'm freaking going. What was your dark side? I said it first. I don't want to be like my
- 14:26dad. You know, I could give a whole bunch of, I could give a whole bunch of reasons. My dad's an
- 14:31awesome guy still alive at 88 years old. My dad was married five times. He was the youngest at 12.
- 14:37Physically abused his whole childhood. Never really got help for it. And just amazing man,
- 14:41it was just a little off. I'd say if he was here and he knows and he's in a beautiful state,
- 14:46in a beautiful place now. But the youngest at 12 didn't talk to his brothers and sisters.
- 14:51My mom didn't talk to him since I was three years old. My sister is five years older than me. She
- 14:55doesn't talk to him. So this is a guy that struggled financially, struggled with relationships.
- 15:00And I just saw money was always an issue for me. It was always like choking never enough. When I
- 15:04lived with him, we run down cars, go to school without lunch money. And I just remember,
- 15:08and if I do what he does, I'm going to get what he has. And I have to do something different.
- 15:13And simultaneously, my mom worked three jobs to support us. And we come on late every night. And I'm
- 15:18like, so I don't want to be like him. And I'm going to retire her. I'm going to be thinking that
- 15:22at like 10 years old Scott, like we all have our stuff, right? But that was my 10 year old version.
- 15:28So that was probably by dark side. So when I'm not, when I'm, you know, if I say, I want to be a
- 15:32better version of myself, that's not enough. I look at me and I go, do you want to be your dad? It's
- 15:37hell, no, let's go. I asked why I asked what your dark side was because your dark side, I don't
- 15:44think is that different from a lot of people. I think that that's a very normal dark side. You know,
- 15:50they're going to have their own version of it. But I think a lot of people have even if they
- 15:54didn't struggle with money, you know, they were just comfortable or just okay. Or maybe they
- 16:01didn't go on as many vacations as they would have liked or some, some years were more difficult
- 16:06than others when they're spotlight on. Yeah. Sometimes when money is not there at the level you
- 16:12would hope is you're just lacking complete control of your calendar. Like that's, that's the easiest
- 16:17way for me to boil it down. It doesn't mean, you know, most, I'm betting most people here if money
- 16:22came in, you would take care of yourself first and then the people around. It's not for the
- 16:25Lamborghini and the this and the dad. It's, it's so I can do what I want when I want to do it. If I
- 16:30want to take my kids to school every day, if I want to go to a softball practice or tennis practice
- 16:35and I want to take an extra vacation, but I want to take off for six months because my daughter's
- 16:39a teenager, she's going to go away to college next year and I want to immerse myself with her to
- 16:43me. That's control your time, control your calendar. And that's a price I'd be willing to, I'd be
- 16:48willing to die for claw, claw through steel, you know, crawl through broken glass to have.
- 16:56Well, so why, why were you able to move yourself in a direction and understand what your dark side
- 17:04was and how you never want it to be there when so many people live in it every single day,
- 17:08realize it sucks, but they don't do anything to change your life. Yeah, you know, I could say,
- 17:15you know, when you look back, I'd love to say there's a lot of reasons, just luck. Maybe, maybe,
- 17:19I was just a little more disturbed than most, right? Maybe, maybe, maybe I let the pain sink in
- 17:25more than other people because I want to, I want to like find that thing and get, like, what's the
- 17:31motivator that gets somebody out of this shit and allows them to have the confidence in themselves
- 17:36to go do the thing? Yeah, so I'll, here's, I'm going to share this. So, um, yesterday, I had, I didn't
- 17:44interview with these younger kids and they're doing amazing. They're on YouTube. They interview
- 17:48entrepreneurs and, and uh, they, they flew out to my studio and they asked that they could, you
- 17:53know, they worked with my team, could I please interview them? And I just got to look young
- 17:55entrepreneurs that are trying, right? So I know that they have a huge following and they want to
- 18:00convert and I'm just going to hear this with you. They want to convert from just a following.
- 18:05They want to create a membership site, but I could tell they're scared to do it because what if
- 18:10their clients get mad and I have to ask for money and then I'll seem like a marketer, not an
- 18:14influencer and all this stuff, right? So I waited till we were filming live, Scott, and so I think
- 18:18this would be the best way to describe it. And I said to him, so, um, he said a similar question,
- 18:23why do people get stuck? And why don't they move forward? You know, they said, let me ask you,
- 18:29you're doing this, you want to create a site, you want to charge people, you're worried that people
- 18:33are going to mad, aren't you? And I could see their faces get red because I just brought it up,
- 18:37you're worried that you're going to get comments like trader like sell out, you just want to sell
- 18:41us and they're like, oh, I can tell they're getting flustered. I'm like, so I leaned into I said,
- 18:46what is that fear? Could that fear stop you from actually doing? They said, yes. So okay,
- 18:51secondly, on a scale of one to 10, how painful is that? And he was like denying like, it's so
- 18:57scary, so scary. I was like, okay, pause. Now they're, their brothers, the two years apart. I said,
- 19:03you're 90 and 92, you're at the end of your life. You go and meet your maker and your maker
- 19:10plays you a video of the boys, the men you could have been. But you didn't do it because you were
- 19:16scared and they play a video of you, how you impacted lives and you took that next level action.
- 19:21But you realized because you didn't take this action, because you played small, because you are
- 19:26afraid to move forward, your company dissolved. In fact, you two don't work together, you guys didn't
- 19:32work together anymore. You both took corporate jobs because it was safe. Even though you hated it,
- 19:36you both didn't work out as much as you liked in your relationship or kind of lackluster because
- 19:40the back of your mind, you knew you're this entrepreneur meant for more. I got goosebumps talking
- 19:45about it, right? Because I've met so many of these people and you just played life safe.
- 19:51I said, how would it feel after God described you current life and then played the video, the man,
- 19:56the men you could have been? What would you wish? They were like, they were flustered like, oh my god,
- 20:00I wish we'd go back to do it. I said, okay, so how scary is it now that you're afraid one or two
- 20:04people will say, sell out? They're like, nothing. It's a one. I'm like, how scary is this getting to
- 20:10your end of your life and knowing you missed it? You didn't live into the man that you could have
- 20:13been. You settled for who you were and scared to be and they like, I watched this whole release
- 20:19and that's what I would say. Whatever it takes, like, I know that might be a story you've heard
- 20:24before. I'm not the first one to say, you don't want to get to the end of your life and realize
- 20:27maybe today's the first time you actually hear it because life is going by faster than I ever could
- 20:32have imagined. My daughter is going to be 18. I can't my oldest like it is going by lightning speed.
- 20:38COVID seems like it was a year ago. It's like five now. It's like it's insane how fast things are
- 20:43going. So if it's going this fast, I promise you you're going to get to a time in your life and realize
- 20:48you did miss it or you did play small or you played it safe and I don't think that's what you want or
- 20:52you wouldn't be here. So start feeling those emotions. Get disturbed with leaving your life the
- 20:57way it is. Reverse that and say, what can I do today? So let me last thing. I'm sorry. I'm
- 21:03on a little bit. Why are you apologizing? This is good. Don't apologize. But think about this.
- 21:08So now let's just go back to that and you're sitting with your maker if you believe in God,
- 21:11which I do, but you're sitting with your maker and God shows you this is who you ended up being
- 21:15by playing small. This is who you could have been. What is your wish? Your wish would be can I go
- 21:20back? Here's the cool part. Wish granted. You're here today. 170,000 people died today. If you're
- 21:28listening, you're not want to. You're breathing. You're here today. It's a new day. I don't think
- 21:32you're 92 on your deathbed today. I'll care for 85. You still got time. Your wish could be granted
- 21:38and if you can take that to being more bold, more brave, more creative, then look for somebody who's
- 21:43already done what you've done. Model proven practices. Take uncomfortable action and keep moving forward.
- 21:48There's no mystery to success. You've interviewed some of the greatest people on the planet. I've
- 21:53seen your interviews. You've done amazing stuff in your life, Scott. You know there is no easy
- 21:58button. Everybody's looking for it. Where's the button? It doesn't exist. You're going to fail.
- 22:02You're going to question yourself. We're going to get in a fight with your significant other.
- 22:05You're going to miss freaking baseball. You're going to miss the dance recital. Some of that
- 22:08crap is going to happen, but it only has to be for a season and a reason not your whole life.
- 22:14If you don't change it, it could be your whole life. I love this. Do you subscribe to
- 22:20the Stoicism and like Stoic thought and being very aware of your own death?
- 22:26Not really. I think I read on everything. I think I have pieces of everything into my life.
- 22:32I just noticed that because it's just this concept of you're just it's not meant to be more,
- 22:37but it's just you're aware that at some point you're not going to be on this earth anymore.
- 22:41So like let's that have worked that light of fire. Yeah, let's get over it.
- 22:48So when you look at the American dream and the American dream does it feels
- 22:53that it's out of reach for a lot of people. There's income disparity. There's education disparity.
- 23:00So let's speak just to that for a moment because to not speak to the fact that some people do not
- 23:06start at the same level is ignorant. So how do we I mean you work with a ton of entrepreneurs,
- 23:11you work with entrepreneurs that probably came from very affluent families. Entrepreneurs
- 23:15that came from absolutely nothing. I mean you also had a somewhat of a regs to riches story.
- 23:21I don't know if you were ever homeless or God forbid at that level, but you work with people that
- 23:26probably have gone through addiction and came from absolute poverty and everything. So
- 23:32education, find access to finance from your parents from your front, you know, from just where you come from.
- 23:41What do we do? How do we serve these people? How do we enable the like a the American dream
- 23:47for these individuals that may not come from Ivy League and may not come from parents to make
- 23:52500 grand a year, 200 grand a year, 100 grand a year, whatever. There's two things as you were talking.
- 23:58I love this topic. You know, I wrote a book called The Underdog Advantage because I really believe that
- 24:06we have both talked to people. I know you've heard that story that everybody shared. I mean
- 24:10everyone's heard is twin guys. There's two twins. One, alcoholic, broke,
- 24:17struggling, and the other one was extremely successful and they came from an abusive,
- 24:20alcoholic father and they asked the kid that was an alcoholic and
- 24:24followed his father's footsteps and said, how did you end up like this? And he said, how could I not
- 24:30look at my father? And then they asked the twin brother. It was massively successful. A CEO
- 24:34doing well, a credible family man, when he got tonset. What was the secret? He goes, how could I not
- 24:40look at my father? Right. And I believe the underdog advantage to simplify and is your past can
- 24:48be your fuel or your anchor. And I know some of you are saying, you don't understand my past. I
- 24:52get it and I'm not trying to diminish it. But the worst it is, it could be the more fuel to push
- 24:58you. You can decide, is my past going to be the thing that says, because of that past, I must
- 25:04or because of that past, I can't. And as simple as that sounds, that's the first choice you have
- 25:09to make. Listen, as someone who didn't come from money and I didn't go to college and I lived in
- 25:15a trailer park as a kid and all those things, I remember when I was going after bigger things.
- 25:19You know, even my own family, my sister included who loves me and I loved her. I was like,
- 25:24stop being a dreamer Dean, that's not where we come from. You know, you're doing, I had a collision
- 25:29shopping at auto sales at a young age and was doing apartments. She's like, I'm so proud of me or
- 25:33blue collar. This is who we are, everybody in our family. And I remember when I get done with
- 25:39those conversations and some of your buddies, they'll just be like, oh, dude, you're such a dreamer.
- 25:42Come on, we don't get stuff like that. You have two options with that. One, and you go, maybe they're
- 25:48right. And one, you go quietly, wait until you see me. You're not going to have to hear what I'm saying
- 25:54because what I do is going to be so loud. And I always talk about these subtle shifts. In my book,
- 25:59there's a chapter, I'm not plugging my book in anyway, but in the book, there's a chapter called
- 26:03the Power of You Can't. When your family and friends tell you, you have two choices to go, probably
- 26:08can't or now I must. Right. So there's a shift on all of it. And when you think I need money,
- 26:13let me just ask you something. You have any kids, Scott? Not yet. Not yet soon, but not yet.
- 26:19I wish you that gift of that something you want. And if you don't, that's cool too.
- 26:24But when you have children someday, would you rather leave your kids a massive amount of resources
- 26:31money? Or you knew that when you were gone, that they were massively resourceful. Would you
- 26:37at all? Definitely the second hands down the second. Okay. Do you know, because you know we both
- 26:43do, do you know trust fund kids that have the most incredible resources, resources at their
- 26:50fingertips who live miserable lives? I know trust fund kids and not only have miserable lives,
- 26:55but die from overdose personally. They lose generational wealth in a generation.
- 27:02Regenerations to make it and they blow it in one. Yeah.
- 27:05Right. So I know I know the story. Do we know the story of lotto winners with lots of money
- 27:10that within three years, they're broker than they were when they started. Right. So is it
- 27:15resources or resourcefulness? So when someone says, I didn't go to college. I don't have money.
- 27:20Damn, that's the fuel of resourcefulness. That is the fuel of greatness. Why do you think some of
- 27:25the biggest companies that started when you ever see the picture of Walt Disney and a Microsoft
- 27:31and Apple all started out of garages underdogs with nothing. And guess what? The third one.
- 27:37No one sees you coming. Dean. Come on. The kid that barely got it. I suppose he almost failed
- 27:43English in the eleventh grade. Come on. He's doing what? That that excites him. Right. So you could
- 27:49take these these leverages. You could take these levers and use them as a tool and your toolbox
- 27:55earn anchor that you keep dragging. And I'm not trying to diminish, but today is the day you could
- 27:59make a decision and go, you know what? I'm going to start saying thank you to all that crap I
- 28:04went through because I'm stronger, tougher and more. I have more grit. Listen, my biggest fear
- 28:10Scott is I did come through those strategies, you know, through through that process and no money
- 28:16and divorces and all that stuff. And now I have kids that are growing up in a different way. If
- 28:22you don't think that people I sell rich people problems, my kids that I haven't flown on a court,
- 28:26my youngest kids have never flown on a commercial jet. We find like kids are like, Dad, what is the
- 28:32big one? I'm like, they don't even know what an airport is. Can I just tell you a really funny story?
- 28:39One of my one of my friends also has these problems and it was like a wake up call for him.
- 28:44So he lives in beautiful beautiful condos in sunny isles in Florida. In the turnberry and I mean,
- 28:52these condos, they probably start at five million or whatever and go up from there. And one time he
- 28:58was visiting his parents and he was leaving his parents house lives in the parents live in a
- 29:04different spot and the kids were waiting at the front step of the front door to the parents house.
- 29:08They don't the parents live in a condo. They live in a regular attached home and he started walking
- 29:12to the car that was just parked down the street and the kids weren't walking and he asked like,
- 29:17what are you doing? What like, we're leaving. We're going home now and they said, well, we're
- 29:19waiting for somebody to pull the car around. No, believe me. So, so people say, oh,
- 29:27they're rich people, but no, I don't, I want my kids to want to fight for something. I'm afraid
- 29:32they're not going to have that underdog disability, right? I do everything in my power to try to
- 29:38create obstacles. Like, I wanted to buy my daughter a brand new car when she turned 16. We bought
- 29:42a three year old Hyundai and I made her pay half the down payment. Do you know how hard it was not
- 29:47to go buy her a new ranger over and put a bow on it? She's a good kid. She doesn't drink great grades.
- 29:51I'm so proud of her, but also it's like, take away all the things that she's going to fight for.
- 29:56Like, I'm trying to manufacture crap if you want to know the truth. So if you're underdog disadvantages
- 30:03are there to hurt you, I'm trying to find those for my kids so they become hungry. So it's just a
- 30:09balance. It is, it is just a pure balance. I just want to take a second and thank the sponsor
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- 30:59advantage in entrepreneurship. It's, I mean, my take on it is when you've already figured out
- 31:07how to leave a country, move your whole family on nothing and then find a way to make it
- 31:13in a new culture, new society, maybe new language. It's almost like nothing can stop you.
- 31:19At that point, that's why you see all of these not only entrepreneurs, you see fortune 100 CEO,
- 31:25like you see all the, and this is not a black and white hard and fast rule. But you see
- 31:31this this cohort of people that just kill it basically is the for life. Don't you think they have
- 31:40a level of gratitude just for the opportunity? Of course they do. That's where entitlement kills
- 31:45success because they do have that gratitude. You know, anyways, so we have all this inequality.
- 31:57So where do people put their confidence in education and opportunity? Because again,
- 32:03you want to at least get people on the right track, right? You want to at least get people
- 32:07moving in the right direction because if they can stack a few wins in their favor,
- 32:11then they're going to continue to have to win behind their back, right? So here's,
- 32:16you know, they say if a carpenter has a hammer in his hand, everything he sees is a nail.
- 32:21So maybe I'm a little guilty of that for about what I'm about to say. But I've been in
- 32:25the industry of selling knowledge that I've learned are my own experience for 27 years.
- 32:30I'm partners with Tommy Rollins. He's been selling it for 45 years. This industry
- 32:36of impacting others by our life experience has given us so many gifts.
- 32:42Tony changed my life 27 years ago and I bought his course and then all of a sudden he changed
- 32:46my life and I said, I'm going in this industry. So I'm going to look through that lens for a minute.
- 32:50I really want to stick with me here on this. Think about whether you're how much money you have
- 32:56where you're starting right now. Will college degree or none do you have? What experience do you have?
- 33:02Think about the power of specialized knowledge. Think about this. You know, when I was in my 20s,
- 33:10there was no internet. There was no Wi-Fi. I didn't pull out videos. I couldn't have a great
- 33:13Zoom call like this with you, Scott. I couldn't go on YouTube and look for inspirational or entrepreneurial
- 33:18videos. How to get successful? You have to find a book and read a book. If you're lucky,
- 33:23you could do that, right? But what is specialized knowledge? Specialized knowledge is the complete
- 33:30opposite is a general knowledge. Prior to the last 20 years, if you wanted to do something,
- 33:38your brain would immediately think I have to go to school and I have to get a master's degree in
- 33:42that and then I have to go intern with somebody forever and then I could work my way up. We have
- 33:47collapsed decades into days. You just find somebody who's done what you've already done. They've
- 33:53already done what you want to do and you either cut a check for speed by their force of training,
- 33:58their workshop, their program, go mentor with them, become an apprentice with them and it's the
- 34:02fastest way to condense time by getting specialized knowledge. Meaning if you are an accountant
- 34:12and you've been working for a firm for 20 years and it's time to start your own business. You
- 34:17can go back to school to get a business degree and learn how to run spreadsheets and build templates
- 34:23and business plans and KPIs and SOPs and metrics in the first hire or you can find somebody who's
- 34:29done it and just literally rob this condensed decades and just get the specialized knowledge of how to
- 34:36go from employee to owner. This is where the world was opened up. That's why this industry of
- 34:42providing specialized knowledge Tony was Tony's I mean he's the godfather of the whole thing.
- 34:47Yeah. I don't think there's anybody been in his second as long as him as me. He's he's got 44
- 34:52years. I got almost 30 in this industry every day and watching it grow like this. It's at a
- 34:57billion a day heading towards a trillion a year. I think it is the great equalizer Scott. I think
- 35:03it's the great equalizer because every single person watching and listening right now has an
- 35:07insanely valuable asset called your life experience. You have a skill that you learned at work.
- 35:13You have a life experience that you went through that you're on the other side. You have a passion
- 35:17that you could share with others and in today's world knowledge is the new asset. It is the new
- 35:23currency. If you know how to package it, you know how to deliver it and I think it's the great
- 35:27equalizer. If you have a business you should have an information product on your P&L. If you don't have
- 35:32a business what a great job start. You don't need product in the warehouse. You don't have to buy it.
- 35:37You don't have to spend anything for it. You don't have to warehouse it. You don't have to ship it
- 35:40on a truck. You don't have to worry about inflation because you're not paying for the product. Your
- 35:44product lives here and that's the business we've been in. I truly believe it's the great equalizer.
- 35:51So I have opinions about traditional MBA and traditional school and when I went to university
- 36:00or college called university in Canada they taught you how to learn and how to engage in new ideas
- 36:09that was great but it didn't really give me a lot of tactical and that's my issue with MBAs
- 36:14and that's my issue with sort of legacy education. I have a very strong feeling about legacy education
- 36:20but why do more people still subscribe to legacy education where not all professors but say
- 36:29pick a number 80 90% of professors haven't built a business in their entire life versus
- 36:36learning from people who have literally built a business own a P&L have hired somebody last week.
- 36:43Why is there that disconnect? I think it's just a habit. I think it's way been programmed. I think
- 36:51but it's changing. It's changing really fast and you see it. One of the reasons Tony and I built a
- 36:56company called mastermind.com is nine years ago we talked about it. Seven years ago we were on a
- 37:02golf course. I golfed twice a year. It's with Tony. He golfs twice a year. So two years
- 37:06times a year just gives time to talk. We're on a golf course and we said it's time. It's time to make
- 37:10self-education the new norm. That was our exact words God. So you and I when next time I come to Florida
- 37:15and we're together you and I have a lot of conversation around that. Like how do we make self-education
- 37:20the new norm and collapse time from start to results, right? Go to school for eight years, get an
- 37:25internship or go work for somebody who's freaking doing it today. Like you said they hired somebody
- 37:29an hour ago. They fired somebody a day ago. They have a P&L. They're reading. They have SOPs. They
- 37:34have keep performing indicators like they have KPIs at the start. So I think it is a hangover
- 37:42of an ancient time. I believe the school system I have my own opinions has been growing very linear
- 37:50and the world is growing exponentially. I had a friend of mine. He's got a couple hundred
- 37:54million dollar your business. He said if you took somebody from 50 years ago and you brought
- 37:59them into today and you showed them the phone and you showed them like oh they'd be blown away at
- 38:04everything. He said then if you brought them in the classroom they'd go oh the black boards now
- 38:08are whitewood. And I was like wow that's it that's a pretty right. It doesn't mean elk
- 38:15just all people. But here's here's some things that'll blow your mind. Did you know that only 72%
- 38:22of everybody who gets a degree right now doesn't use it. They don't get a career in that field
- 38:29and 57% of the people that do use it dislike the job they're in. So you got 22% maybe 10 people
- 38:37out of a hundred that get a degree actually use it and like it. It is it is exponentially going to
- 38:43shift and I see it and that's why I think this industry is being fueled. I think my daughter when
- 38:50she's 18 years old when she wants to do something she doesn't think in any other terms except
- 38:55going online going online and finding somebody who's already done what she wants to do and either
- 39:00watch their videos by their course or ask me if you can get coaching by my it is shifting and why
- 39:04I think it's the it's the great equalizer. So it's interesting because it's shifting but then it
- 39:11brings with it a new set of of problems as well because if somebody is going to be a self-taught
- 39:16individual somebody's going to be that that auto-died act right they want to go out into the world
- 39:20and start to explore all of a sudden there's no more regulation there's no more third party that
- 39:28audits the content and there's no more you know it just like the Wild West of learning and that's
- 39:34what scares people shitless. So how do you when you start to become a self-taught individual go
- 39:41out into the world figure out who's legitimate who's actually done it I mean Tony operates at
- 39:47another level like this not even it's not even in the realm of most people that post stuff online
- 39:52right and teach online but you have all these different opportunities so where do you go how do
- 39:58you understand what's good what's not. I think it's a great question that what I believe is
- 40:04looking at the experience they had now could someone young be great about teaching you something
- 40:11they've never done before probably I'm sure it's in some instances but I think we have the
- 40:16opportunity the way things are going there are going to be self-regulated people who don't
- 40:21deliver actual value will last long I think word of mouth is spreading so much that there is
- 40:26message boards everywhere talking about good online education not so good online education
- 40:31and we have the opportunity to do a little research right you find somebody that's in a lane
- 40:35that you're hoping to do you can see have they been in it for three months are they the teacher
- 40:38something they've never done or they somebody who did it for 20 years and now they're serving by
- 40:43delivering the faster half because they can they can give the blueprint of how to get there and
- 40:47what to avoid and I think it just I think as we evolve we will create new regulatory ways and
- 40:56and intuition that you can decide good band or otherwise because that's this is where it's going
- 41:02there's no question about it this is where it's going and you're right I don't want to knock
- 41:09professors but 80% 90% have never done the thing they're teaching you I'd rather learn from the
- 41:13person's actions that's another issue too I guess traditional education also has this problem
- 41:19yeah dad you know when you think about so at first of all that is the that is such a wild domain
- 41:26mastermind.com I love it I can't can't even imagine what that cost you but I was pretty painting
- 41:32but it was worth I have no doubt so masterminds are a very specific way of learning and a very
- 41:42specific way of of teaching and consuming knowledge I've actually noticed that masterminds are a
- 41:47little bit more prevalent in certain industries so I came from software where masterminds are not
- 41:51as as prevalent whereas in real estate there are a lot of masterminds so the mastermind format from
- 41:58somebody that owns the domain itself what is so special about this particular format like maybe just
- 42:04lay out this mastermind as a tailor to a certain kind of person that learns a certain kind of way
- 42:10versus any other kind of learning or whatever networking group. When 29 we co-founded the company
- 42:16and we just said what has moved the needle for us more than any other thing in the world
- 42:20and we we said masterminds and and when we say masterminds we think of it more collected it could
- 42:26be a workshop it could be a community it could be the collaboration of likeminds I think I
- 42:33Earl Lightingill coined a mastermind of two people with the same outcome get together and
- 42:39collaborate and it creates a third mind that's smarter wise I mean we have all solved big of
- 42:45problems when we're in a room with likeminded people with likeminded goals there's zero chance
- 42:50that it hasn't exponentially grown your life and if you haven't had that opportunity maybe that's
- 42:54the unfair advantage you're missing so the the reason that we bought that domain and decided six
- 42:59years ago like let's you know we've been in this business 74 years between the two of us and we're
- 43:03still we're not like we used to do it right we're still doing the biggest events in history we'll do
- 43:07one next couple weeks with you know a million people registered it's insane it's amazing
- 43:12but we said why don't we pull back the curtain show people the power of learning specialized
- 43:17knowledge or the collaboration of getting in a room or getting a course or getting a workshop
- 43:21or getting a you know a community of likeminded people that can help you solve your problems
- 43:27anchoring confidence and courage and give you past to go faster so for me we have a mastermind we have
- 43:34a Tony and I are you know we we have a super high-end mastermind small group that we do but our
- 43:40company has one along the way at each level of likeminded people we have beginners that group
- 43:46together we help them get into their first sales next sales right then we have people that are
- 43:51in the business looking to go from 100 grand a month to a million a month so we have a mastermind
- 43:55of people that are a hundred grand a month going to a million so we can collaborate and all share
- 43:59and we have a group we're probably the average person's worth 50 million dollars
- 44:04but they're the same group looking for the same things looking for more contribution and wealth
- 44:08preservation and family and things like that so it's likeminded people who come together that have
- 44:14collaborative ideas but also have wisdom and skills to allow you to go faster I hope that described
- 44:20it yeah no it does and I think that what I'm trying to get out is there's a lot of people that will
- 44:25put together a mastermind but for the audience is listening if everyone is sort of on the fence
- 44:32about I want to start a business I'm starting a business not going so well I'm starting a business
- 44:37going well but I want to take it to the next level whatever it is or maybe I need to understand
- 44:41how to get out of a business business because I've built it and I want to sell it and I don't even
- 44:44know the first thing there's a cohort of people mastermind networking group whatever it doesn't
- 44:49really matter the name it's the purpose of the people that are sort of activating together that
- 44:54really matters but I want them to understand how to get the most out of this particular format
- 45:01of education so you're doing an event it was a June 15th right so let's use that as
- 45:09June 13th 14th 15 so obviously all that we'll put in show notes and it'll be links and people can
- 45:14go check it out but that particular event you can talk about what you're trying to accomplish
- 45:20and what you're going to teach but it's more important how people are sort of positioned to
- 45:25take away from it and action after it's done or while they're doing it like how do you get the
- 45:30best result yeah so here's what I'd say if you are unfulfilled in your current career I've been
- 45:35thinking about doing this you're kind of a part-time entrepreneur or you have a business and you
- 45:40looking for an unfair advantage well Tony and I do once a year is we get together and share our
- 45:45best practices to accelerate what you're doing in the space we're talking about this year is
- 45:50going to be unlike if you've ever seen any of our prior events this is unlike anything we've
- 45:53ever done we're calling the event the game has changed because it has we've been in it for 74
- 45:58years but because of AI that can think like Tony and I because of technology what used to take
- 46:04getting an email over he getting an email account and this business and that thing and all these
- 46:09different things all of that has been so shifted Tony and I talk about it when we got in it Tony
- 46:14jokes it goes when we got in this business we had to walk up no both ways in the snow right
- 46:18you know it's your father and grandparents or whatever said to you right he said but now
- 46:21we have the opportunity to condense time from when you start to get results we talked about
- 46:26specialized knowledge to learn specialized knowledge that we're going to take teach you over
- 46:30those three days and how to extract your specialized knowledge so high level on day one we're
- 46:37going to show you why this industry why now why you what has changed and literally by day one all
- 46:43than three hours identify the asset you should be sharing then Tony will come on and do what Tony
- 46:48does better than anybody he'll crush any limiting belief she had so you should just go get your
- 46:51limiting beliefs crushed because the man still to this day I'll be watching taking notes and I'll be
- 46:5510 feet away from right day two like so I figured at the end of the day like wow this industry is
- 47:02pretty amazing I see how this could be the great like you know a regulator like you allow me to get
- 47:08in and the amount of where I'm starting I could create this product I do have value day two
- 47:13will show you how to find the person that wants it and how to get a yes through service not some
- 47:18cheesy sales tactics how to find the people that live online that already want to go faster by
- 47:23getting your specialized knowledge turn selling into service and show you how to go from first sale
- 47:28next sale a consistent sales got a great special guest coming on day two day three is how to deliver
- 47:34this message what is going to be the format how are you going to do it with confidence so over three
- 47:38days we're going to show you whether you want to do a mastermind or a community or you want to build a
- 47:43course write a book you want to you know start a workshop will show you how to do the framework where
- 47:48you could plug it into any of them so you see the value see how to find people say yes and see how
- 47:53it becomes a real business I love it because what you're doing is you're basically helping people
- 48:00productize themselves their knowledge their experience they build their own first little brand
- 48:04I mean I love it do work comes there and and here's our want to say we honestly could teach this
- 48:09in 90 minutes and give a glimpse if you know anything about Tony our first year when we did a big
- 48:14training we had hundreds of thousands of people show up we did a couple of hours and we didn't want
- 48:18to stop Scott and people were like thank you so much it won't work then we went to two days now we're
- 48:24three days three hours a day because we want people to really you're going to walk away with
- 48:28tangible pieces to do it's not just a motivation event motivation is great inspiration is wonderful
- 48:34it's fleeting and you lose it this is a capabilities event to show you what's possible in an
- 48:40industry that's exponentially growing this is this is one step ahead right this industry is
- 48:46exploding and you can either be in front of that wave or you look back in three years you go oh damn
- 48:50how to miss that right so that's why we're excited to do this and it's free I think one more
- 48:55thing it is not kind of free it is totally free I was going to say the the the business that you're
- 49:03helping people build I don't think they understand how listen I've built software products that's
- 49:10one form of leverage right you build it once you sell it a million times for a non technical person
- 49:17the the ability to sell knowledge and insight and wisdom and accumulated experience is by far
- 49:23one of the most lucrative businesses that you can try and figure out or learn how to figure out how
- 49:28to do because if you if you want to be you know the versions of entrepreneurship are endless you can
- 49:34you can be a consultant have done it hate hate it you can you can be a service-based business you
- 49:39can do a variety of different things this is probably the one type of business that can rival
- 49:45in terms of you want to talk about business metrics and KPIs like profitability leverage scalability
- 49:53that you can do as a non technical person just packaging up what you already know which is why
- 49:57I'm such a big fan of it I mean the world is built on leverage whether or not it's financial leverage
- 50:02or human leverage or knowledge or or social leverage and organic media everything has to be leverage
- 50:09if you really want scale and this is a great way to do it it's an absolutely phenomenal way to do
- 50:14I like to bring in the sales and marketing piece and you teach people how to identify the
- 50:17avatars and ideal customer profiles and package it up and serve don't sell and it's very very good
- 50:23very very good at how does how do how do people bridge the the knowing doing gap after they consume
- 50:32this content for three days yeah really really great point is the whole theme of this event is you
- 50:38need the map you need the guide and you need the tools and we're going to show people what we've
- 50:44spent the last year on is creating all three of those pieces because what usually stops it is
- 50:49I have the tool but I don't know how to use it I'm overwhelmed too much technology or I have the
- 50:53education but I'll have the right tool you know 74 years in this industry and Scott I think you
- 50:59probably realize is we don't have to do this anymore this is this is a passion project for us we
- 51:04freaking love it because at a time where everybody's bitching the world is going to a hell in a
- 51:08hand basket there's no opportunity Tony I want to be this light of going hey did you ever think
- 51:13about this and this is what you need to do it here's the entry point here's where to start here's
- 51:17how to scale here's how to get through that's you know the what we look at it as where people get
- 51:23stuck we're always looking the way to grease those spots where usually you get stuck on grease it
- 51:28and push you all and that's what we're going to reveal and really share at this event can you
- 51:34take it you know I don't want to just assume that people that are listening to this are people
- 51:40that are say W2 employees that are trying to start their own thing or early stage entrepreneurs
- 51:44you mentioned just one thing that I thought was interesting that I've never really thought of before
- 51:47having an info product on your P&L so maybe give me an example of that for a later stage entrepreneur
- 51:53so say you're doing I don't want somebody who's listening to this say you're doing 50 million
- 51:57or 100 million the top line and they're like oh this is not this is like not my thing like what I
- 52:01got my business I got my you know I got my offerings I got my customer base uh what's the
- 52:06message for that person I great question I was at dinner with my wife my wife owns uh when I
- 52:12met her now she's mostly full-time mom um but when I met her she owned hair salons she's got
- 52:18other called extension bar they're in Arizona she does hair extensions and I had no idea that
- 52:23they were so lucrative right it's like wow right so most are sure we're at dinner with a couple
- 52:28and guys very successful he's doing a company right he's got a company doing around those numbers
- 52:32and he said this is amazing what you and Tony are doing but how would it work for me and then he
- 52:37left he goes well give me example your wife has uh hair salons well how would it work for her I
- 52:41said okay let's go I said my wife I said babe at the end you teach the girls that work for you at
- 52:47the end do they offer the the person in the chair do they offer them shampoo conditioner she goes
- 52:52yeah every time and I said how much do you make she goes I don't know a couple bucks how much of
- 52:55the girls got a couple bucks I said okay you were you were voted the top hairstylist in Arizona
- 53:00eight out of 10 years you had propitia you found a diet on how to get your hair back full you know
- 53:05how make extensions last year what you created a seven module course that women can use to make
- 53:11their hair look beautiful at home what to eat how to get that shine back how to make their extensions
- 53:15last because they're too brand of bob and I said at the end of each one of those
- 53:20visits instead of them selling a shampoo that makes you two bucks what if they said hey and
- 53:25our founder Lisa Graziosi has the seven module course on how to get your hair younger again
- 53:30shinier again get your extensions the last longer it is so powerful would you like me to add that
- 53:34to your cart today for twenty nine ninety five or thirty nine ninety five the guy lost his mind my
- 53:39wife Elbow me and said why aren't we doing this but think of that on your P&L I said how much
- 53:44is that product cost you babe nothing how much does it cost to deliver nothing you can give the
- 53:50girls ten dollars instead of two bucks for shampoo give the girls ten bucks today make more
- 53:54thorough your your impacting people you anchor them in because you're building reciprocity and
- 53:59giving them value and it's an addition at the end this guy's brain exploding like well let's
- 54:04work and we worked on his business and how he can add it into his business and some people could
- 54:08just add it as a value add right for your real estate investor you might just create a course on how
- 54:13to avoid investing in the wrong properties and just train people what the right way is and then
- 54:18you happen to be the company that does it the right way right country company every one of you
- 54:23should have an information product attached to your business I love it dude I absolutely love it okay
- 54:29let's just a couple rapid fire to close this out we wanted to do a whole bunch of stuff I mean
- 54:35I'll throw it over to you first as well anything that you didn't have a chance to speak about that
- 54:39that we should have gone into no I love it I think here's what I'd say the event is free and
- 54:45sometimes when something's free we don't credit it pretend it's a thousand bucks because it
- 54:50should be it's Tony and I for three days I would pretend it's a thousand bucks but you got a free
- 54:54pass you can go to I'm sure that you got the link in the show notes but it's Dean Tony Dean and
- 55:00Tony event.com forward slash Scott I want to make sure yeah Dean and no Dean and Tony live.com I'm
- 55:09sorry Dean and Tony live.com forward slash Scott or it's in the show notes I take go register right
- 55:14now reserve the spot and I would say if you got an accountability buddy or somebody you work with
- 55:19or somebody in your office send the link and say let's do it together because it's going to be
- 55:22magnificent either way I promise you would if it's not for you you're still going to get value
- 55:26so I would say that I'm plugging it because we only get it once we only do it once a year and it
- 55:32is phenomenal people lose their mind over it and I think your your audience can absolutely love it
- 55:38no I think so too other places I mean you know Instagram social Instagram okay perfect so
- 55:45at Dean Graziosi on Instagram that's you'll you'll find everything else there you can go down the
- 55:50rabbit hole okay let's just close with this I want us to last questions biggest misconception
- 56:00about entrepreneurship that you see Dean's misconception I'd say in today's world greed and because
- 56:08in my opinion most entrepreneurs I meet enjoy employing people they enjoy giving money away
- 56:15they enjoy finding good causes they're innovative so they want to solve big problems for people and
- 56:20maybe I've been around the you know maybe I've been around just the right entrepreneurs but I see
- 56:25entrepreneurs when they have the opportunity to have a breakthrough that they do more for others
- 56:31in the invisible than anyone would ever imagine and just remember money earned ethically the
- 56:36byproduct of ethical businesses can produce revenue to that you can impact the world can change
- 56:44you can help make decisions to bring this world to a better place very good and then you know for
- 56:50yourself you've gone through so many seasons in your life you can go back and and tell 20-year-old
- 56:56Dean one thing what would that be think bigger sooner think bigger sooner I love it you know I
- 57:04because there's no competition when you think big everybody's thinking I'm at a hundred grand I
- 57:08want to get to 250 nobody's gone I'm at a hundred grand I want to do 20 million and when you think
- 57:12that big you just you find different things you look through a different lens everything changes
- 57:17and there's nobody else thinking that way so you might as well go all in because it's the same
- 57:20amount of stress to make a hundred grand as it is to do a hundred million