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AJ945 Is Here... · Billy & Lisa in the Morning: The After Show

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Speaker 1: Okay, it is the after show. Hi, everybody, justin here
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Speaker 1: on a gray, rainy, not snowy day. It is not
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Speaker 1: snowing here in Medford. All this big snowstorm that was
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Speaker 1: hyped and teased. I don't know if it's coming when
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Speaker 1: it's coming. I mean, it's just after ten am here
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Speaker 1: and there's nothing. But they did cancel my son's school,
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Speaker 1: which is not fun for me because I get to
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Speaker 1: go home and put up with him for the whole day.
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Speaker 1: I love him, but he's annoying, especially because he needs
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Speaker 1: constant activity. There's no being bored. I had this conversation
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Speaker 1: with him last night and I'm like, dude, I was
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Speaker 1: a kid once too, and I was bored as well.
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Speaker 1: It's okay to be bored. Not to mention. You have
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Speaker 1: an Xbox, an iPad, a virtual reality headset, you have
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Speaker 1: a messenger to talk to your friends. You have enough.
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Speaker 1: Some kids have nothing. I'm telling you these kids. Anyway,
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Speaker 1: I'm here and I have a special guest in the
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Speaker 1: building and her name is now do you want to
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Speaker 1: be called Ashley or aj hold on? Oh? Sorry, go ahead.
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Speaker 2: Unfortunately, calling myself Ashley is too confusing because people will
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Speaker 2: think it's Ashley Filman. Yes, you know, unfortunately I am
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Speaker 2: not her, and I don't want people to think my
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Speaker 2: crazy self boring self is her.
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Speaker 1: I wouldn't say boring, and I wouldn't say crazy at all.
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Speaker 1: Your name is Ashley Janino, Yes, also known as aj AJ,
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Speaker 1: works down on the jam In Morning Show along with
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Speaker 1: Santy and Ashley. She does probably pretty much what I
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Speaker 1: do for the show, and the reason why I brought
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Speaker 1: you on, AJ is because we go way back.
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Speaker 3: We go really way back.
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Speaker 1: Like okay, we're gonna start at the beginning and go
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Speaker 1: through this. So it really is amazing if you think
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Speaker 1: about it, because we started around the same time as interns.
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Speaker 1: You before me, I think about a year or less
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Speaker 1: before you, and then we're still here after all this time.
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Speaker 1: That's crazy. So I guess let's just start there because
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Speaker 1: I like bringing on people that have a part in
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Speaker 1: what I do in my career. So obviously at Ashley
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Speaker 1: on and Santy and you were like next, that's like,
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Speaker 1: well she had a huge part in my career, like
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Speaker 1: I was with you before. Ashley Feldman, you know, yeah, okay,
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Speaker 1: so let's start with this.
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Speaker 3: You are from I grew up in North Reading. I
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Speaker 3: currently live in Tewksbury.
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Speaker 1: Oh, Twksbury. I spent some time in Tewksbury.
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Speaker 3: They do well.
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Speaker 1: The Tewksbury Hospital. Oh yeah, they had a detox there.
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Speaker 1: I think it's gone. And then they had a holding program,
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Speaker 1: so you would go into the detox for a week
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Speaker 1: and then into the holding where they would hold you
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Speaker 1: to get into a program.
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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, all right.
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Speaker 1: You spent a little time in Tukesbury, a lot of
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Speaker 1: a lot of time there. And then they have the hospital.
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Speaker 1: I never was in the hospital. But do you live
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Speaker 1: in near the hospital?
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Speaker 3: Uh, it's not far, not super close. I'm more on
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Speaker 3: like the Lowell line.
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Speaker 1: Oh excuse me, excuse me, no, but there's different.
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Speaker 2: Tewksbury is huge, by the way, it's really big. It
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Speaker 2: takes me like twenty minutes to get from one side
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Speaker 2: to the other.
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Speaker 3: It's insane.
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Speaker 1: Well, if you think about it, I'm more familiar with
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Speaker 1: off of Daskum Road, so ninety three, So when you
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Speaker 1: get off in Daskum Road, there's another whole side to
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Speaker 1: tuk SPERI.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, right, huge. I can't believe it.
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Speaker 1: Okay, but you grew up in North Riting, yep, and
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Speaker 1: I know that you grew up listening to the radio
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Speaker 1: like I did. Our stories are very very similar. Yeah,
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Speaker 1: you grew up listening mostly to Jamin but Kiss two probably.
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Speaker 3: Oh absolutely, Yeah.
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Speaker 2: I mean I listened to Kiss and Jammin and you know,
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Speaker 2: I was into all those stations, and at fourteen, like
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Speaker 2: that's when I decided radio is what I want to do.
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Speaker 3: I was very I always wanted to be involved with music.
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Speaker 2: And at that age, I think I realized, like, I'm
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Speaker 2: not talented.
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Speaker 3: I can't play an instrument.
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Speaker 2: I can't sing, which is what I want to do,
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Speaker 2: but my singing voice sucks. So I was like, oh,
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Speaker 2: they're having so much fun on the radio.
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Speaker 3: That's what I want to do.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, and you grew up listening to Romero, Baltazar, Ramiro
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Speaker 1: and Pebbles Marron Pebbles. Yeah, that was the same for
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Speaker 1: me and Santi who was crazy Kulo And I remember
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Speaker 1: you told me a story about meeting Santy crazy cuop
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Speaker 1: Low in a supermarket. Yeah.
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Speaker 2: So I worked at Stoppin Shop in North Reading while
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Speaker 2: I was in high school. And I was at the
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Speaker 2: register one day scanning groceries and this guy walked by
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Speaker 2: and I'm like, oh my god, you're crazy kool oh
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Speaker 2: and he was like really taken back, and he was
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Speaker 2: with a woman, which is I now know is his wife, Joanne,
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Speaker 2: And so I would see him every so often because
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Speaker 2: he lived in my town. I had no idea and
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Speaker 2: I told him this was I was like sixteen at
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Speaker 2: the time, and I was like, I want to work
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Speaker 2: for you, like I want an internship. And at that point,
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Speaker 2: like I was way too young to get an internship.
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Speaker 2: But fast forward to when I was a junior in college,
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Speaker 2: I started applying to internships and he was the one
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Speaker 2: who interviewed me for my internship with Jammin.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, me too, And when was that? That was twenty
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Speaker 1: ten or eleven?
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Speaker 3: I started in the summer of twenty ten.
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Speaker 1: Yes, okay, so you would all right? So I started
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Speaker 1: as an intern in twenty eleven May. Okay, so you
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Speaker 1: had already been there almost a year. Yeah, okay. So
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Speaker 1: you went to Lacelle.
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Speaker 3: Lasseell College in Newton.
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Speaker 1: Are you endorsed by them? Should be trying to Yeah,
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Speaker 1: you should be.
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Speaker 3: We're a record on it.
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Speaker 1: Yeah. I got at school. I got in the investment
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Speaker 1: for Northern Essex where I started, and then I was
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Speaker 1: the convention speaker there. Oh that's amazing, pretty pretty cool. Okay,
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Speaker 1: So you get hired as an intern at jam and
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Speaker 1: you get interviewed by Santi as did I you start
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Speaker 1: on the Romero show. Now it's Romero Pebbles and Melissa
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Speaker 1: and Santi's the executive producer, and so you start on
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Speaker 1: the production side of it. Did you know anything about production?
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Speaker 2: I did know a little bit because from going to school,
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Speaker 2: I took a couple of radio classes and we had
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Speaker 2: a radio station in the school, in the college that
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Speaker 2: I went to, so I did have some experience with
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Speaker 2: audio editing and stuff like that.
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Speaker 3: So I had a little bit.
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Speaker 2: But this kind of like being here for an internship
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Speaker 2: helped fine tune those things that I learned.
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Speaker 1: And who trained you?
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Speaker 3: His name was just.
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Speaker 1: Lou, Just Lou.
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Speaker 3: I don't know if you ever met him.
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Speaker 1: I don't think so.
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Speaker 2: I think he's in California now I don't have touch
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Speaker 2: with him, but I think Santi still follow.
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Speaker 1: Was he an intern?
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Speaker 3: Yeah?
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Speaker 1: He was an intern? Yeah, oh wow. Yeah. When I
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Speaker 1: when I when I came in, you were the first
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Speaker 1: person that I would have trained me. And then there
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Speaker 1: was Jewels Jewis Flavor, who's still hair on jammin Ye
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Speaker 1: for us yeah, we would alternate days because you know
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Speaker 1: in school, you did like the Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, I
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Speaker 1: mean Monday, Wednesday, Friday or Tuesday Thursday. And so I
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Speaker 1: get hired. I've told the story before about how Santy
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Speaker 1: hired me and I was super nervous and stuff, but
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Speaker 1: he gave me a shot. So I remember that first day.
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Speaker 1: You'll have no recollection of this. I've told this story
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Speaker 1: many times in the podcast, but to be honest, if
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Speaker 1: you remember this, So the first morning I came in,
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Speaker 1: you know, you get up super early, you come into
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Speaker 1: the show. I got here at five. You were here
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Speaker 1: or in our little production studio, and you're showing me
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Speaker 1: everything you do and I don't know anything, like literally,
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Speaker 1: I just came home on parole, you know, like I
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Speaker 1: have no experience with anything, and you're showing me everything.
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Speaker 1: And then it leads up to the show. And then
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Speaker 1: at like six am or six', ten the music starts
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Speaker 1: for the, show the rap song for, marriage the. Intro,
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Speaker 1: yeah AND i think it was acrobatic at the. Time. Maybe. Yeah,
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Speaker 1: anyway the music started and it's kind of a long,
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Speaker 1: song and ask the music, Playing i'm just LIKE i
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Speaker 1: had this wave of, emotion AND i just got super
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Speaker 1: emotional thinking about like WHERE i was and WHERE i,
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Speaker 1: Am like this is really, happening AND i started to, like, well, up,
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Speaker 1: Okay and OBVIOUSLY i couldn't let this chick who's LIKE
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Speaker 1: i just met, No SO i started doing this thing
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Speaker 1: WHERE i. Yawned SO i started Yawning i'm so, tired
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Speaker 1: AND i remember you looked at me and you, go
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Speaker 1: are you? Okay AND i was, like, Yeah i'm just so.
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Speaker 1: Tired oh my, god my eyes are, Watering i'm so.
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Speaker 1: Tired BUT i was really. Crying.
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Speaker 2: YEAH i don't remember that at, all BUT i think
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Speaker 2: that if you were honest about how much this meant to,
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Speaker 2: YOU i THINK i probably would have respected that and
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Speaker 2: been LIKE i get.
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Speaker 1: It. Yeah. Yeah so some of the THINGS i remember
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Speaker 1: about those early days were about with you IS dj
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Speaker 1: Pop dog was so big on on taking, notes, like, oh, yeah,
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Speaker 1: huge because you're doing so many things and you're not gonna,
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Speaker 1: Remember you're gonna, forget and so he would have us take.
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Speaker 1: Notes AND i know that you had a ton of,
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Speaker 1: notes and you taught me about. That and one of
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Speaker 1: the first THINGS i ever remember about you was how
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Speaker 1: you were, efficient meaning like you had your work and
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Speaker 1: you made sure to do it efficiently and get all
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Speaker 1: your work, done and you had your. Notes and that's
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Speaker 1: kind of the first thing THAT i, learned you, know
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Speaker 1: is like don't, slip like write it down so you have.
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Speaker 1: It go buy your notes and get the work.
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Speaker 3: Done, Oh i'm so HONORED i taught that to.
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Speaker 1: You, True, yeah it's. True.
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Speaker 2: YEAH i actually still have that notebook somewhere. Really, yeah
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Speaker 2: it's like it's like put in my, closet like somewhere,
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Speaker 2: buried but, YEAH i still have. IT i remember the
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Speaker 2: front of the notebook said shoot for the moon because
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Speaker 2: even if you, fall you'll land among the.
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Speaker 3: Stars.
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Speaker 1: Wow that's a good. One, yeah that's a good. One so,
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Speaker 1: yeah that's where our journey started. Together and then obviously
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Speaker 1: it's so many changes in. Radio there's just always so
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Speaker 1: many changes that we've been. Through but then The romero
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Speaker 1: Or pebbles And melissa, went and Then ashley, comes the show,
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Speaker 1: changes Then romero, Leaves santy gets. Fired then is The
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Speaker 1: frankie And Ashley, show which we're both working on as.
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Speaker 1: Producers then that show gets, canned and then BUT i,
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Speaker 1: really you, know through all the, changes and then Now
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Speaker 1: obviously you're With ashley on that, show And i'm With
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Speaker 1: billy And. Lisa through all of, That you've been BASICALLY
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Speaker 1: Dj Pup dogs like right. Hand.
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Speaker 2: YEAH i have worked very closely With pup since BASICALLY
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Speaker 2: i started as an, intern And i've learned a lot from, him,
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Speaker 2: HONESTLY i, Mean i've learned a lot from. Everyone like you,
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Speaker 2: said it's been a crazy, ride but, Yeah pup is
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Speaker 2: somebody who has really taken me under his, wing and,
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Speaker 2: uh he literally calls me his right hand.
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Speaker 3: Man oh, woman, yeah, Woman, yeah you know WHAT i.
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Speaker 1: Mean, yeah, yeah, no, NO i, KNOW i. Know, well
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Speaker 1: the thing about that is you a lot of people
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Speaker 1: might not know that when you listen To jammin the
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Speaker 1: staff is very. SMALL i mean obviously of the morning,
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Speaker 1: show but as far as the entire, staff it's very,
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Speaker 1: small and that THAT aj is really a driving force
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Speaker 1: behind what you're hearing every. Day you And, pop but
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Speaker 1: you're Helping pup And pop obviously has a lot of,
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Speaker 1: responsibilities not just In boston but also nationally, Too SO
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Speaker 1: i JUST i, mean you've been doing that for so,
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Speaker 1: long Helping.
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Speaker 3: Pop, yeah AND i, think you, know we just kind
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Speaker 3: of work well.
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Speaker 2: TOGETHER i think obviously through the, Years i've just kind
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Speaker 2: of learned how he, operates AND i kind of work
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Speaker 2: with that for.
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Speaker 3: Him yeah and.
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Speaker 2: Yeah at this, point like, Again i've been here for fifteen,
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Speaker 2: years so it's everything that we're doing is LIKE i
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Speaker 2: JUST i know it at like the back of my
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Speaker 2: hand at this.
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Speaker 3: Point so, yeah, together we just we get it.
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Speaker 1: Done you're kind of like To pop WHAT i am
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Speaker 1: To billy if you think about.
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Speaker 3: It, yeah that makes, sense you.
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Speaker 1: Know, Yeah LIKE i know exactly What billy. Needs every.
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Speaker 1: MORNING i provide him EVERYTHING i, know all, yes, YES
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Speaker 1: i know his credit got.
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Speaker 3: Info oh my, GOD i don't know.
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Speaker 1: That oh my. GOD i just he had to buy
11:01
Speaker 1: jingle ball tickets for like some people or. Whatever he
11:04
Speaker 1: gets Jingle ball, tickets but he needed more by the,
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Speaker 1: yeah and he has to buy them for certain. People, Anyway,
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Speaker 1: well he gets like ten free pairs obviously because He's,
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Speaker 1: billy but like he needs, twenty you, know so he
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Speaker 1: has to buy the other. Ten SO i had to
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Speaker 1: help him buy the tickets just. Now and he gives
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Speaker 1: me his credit. CARD i put it in and it's,
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Speaker 1: like do you want to save this credit card on
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Speaker 1: your on? File And i'm like, no you, know AND
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Speaker 1: i think in my, Head i'm, LIKE i could rob
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Speaker 1: this dude so quick and he would have no, idea you,
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Speaker 1: know because he doesn't check his. Statements he says that
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Speaker 1: all the. Time. Wow, yeah he's a. Mush it's just
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Speaker 1: what it. Is but, yeah so you're to pop WHAT
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Speaker 1: i am To. Billy that's basically what it. Is. Okay
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Speaker 1: so there's been some changes recently with you as far
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Speaker 1: as like your career in a good. Way first of,
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Speaker 1: all a lot of the last fifteen years you've spent
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Speaker 1: behind the. Scenes, yep like not on the air something
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Speaker 1: you would pop on the, air but that now you're
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Speaker 1: on the air On.
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Speaker 3: JAMMIN i have my own.
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Speaker 1: Shift, yeah and what's the?
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Speaker 2: Shift So i'm Doing middays ten am to three pm
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Speaker 2: on jamm in ninety four?
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Speaker 1: Five oh my, god did you always want? That?
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Speaker 2: YES i actually got into radio to be an on air,
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Speaker 2: personality and THEN i got here AND i just focus
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Speaker 2: on everything but, THAT i don't, know everything else just
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Speaker 2: kind of like took my attention away from, that and
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Speaker 2: that really wasn't at the, forefront and then well it
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Speaker 2: wasn't a ton of availability also, true but you, know
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Speaker 2: just it wasn't really a focus of mine, anymore and
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Speaker 2: for some, reason over the past couple of years or,
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Speaker 2: so it's something THAT i decided to start working towards.
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Speaker 3: Again and then over the, summer you, know things. Happened.
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Speaker 2: Drina she decided to step down from her position At,
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Speaker 2: jamming AND i was lucky enough to go in her.
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Speaker 1: Spot so ten to three every weekday and.
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Speaker 3: Then weekends, Too i'll fill in here and.
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Speaker 2: There so this coming WEEKEND i will be On saturday
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Speaker 2: to fill in For jess she needed the day, off
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Speaker 2: but typically Just monday Through.
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Speaker 3: Friday Who's jesse C she's one over our weekend.
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Speaker 1: Jocks oh, okay, okay all, right well that's. Good you
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Speaker 1: having fun at you sound? Great?
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Speaker 3: Yeah, oh thank. YOU i appreciate THAT i am having.
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Speaker 2: Fun it's very, different you, know BECAUSE i had a
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Speaker 2: lot More like you, Said i'm not always on, air
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Speaker 2: but WHEN i was on, air it was with the morning,
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Speaker 2: Show so it was kind of different because it was
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Speaker 2: a conversation kind of a little bit more long, winded
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Speaker 2: where this is like you have ten seconds talk about
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Speaker 2: the contest that's coming up right, right you, know how
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Speaker 2: do you make that exciting in ten.
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Speaker 1: Seconds it's actually. Harder it is very harder than doing
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Speaker 1: it very.
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Speaker 2: Hard there's so many times Where i've been, LIKE i
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Speaker 2: want to say, something but it ends up being like
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Speaker 2: twenty seconds as opposed to the time THAT i want
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Speaker 2: it to.
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Speaker 3: Be so it's been a little bit of a, challenge
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Speaker 3: but it's been a lot of. Fun.
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Speaker 1: Wow so every, day so you do the morning show
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Speaker 1: and then you're on ten to three After, yeah that's.
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Speaker 3: Crazy So i'm just here all the.
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Speaker 1: Time, yeah and you're on the morning show. Too, yeah
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Speaker 1: various times they'll put you on if you have something going.
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Speaker 2: On, yeah like today we talked about HOW i got
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Speaker 2: banned from match before even using, it but then they
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Speaker 2: let me on AND i got a really weird message from.
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Speaker 1: Somebody oh, really well that's the other thing that we
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Speaker 1: have to. Discuss oh, boy yeah it. Is AND i
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Speaker 1: don't know how this. HAPPENED i attributed to my Friend.
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Speaker 1: Zeb my Friend, zeb, yeah my best. Friend, yes you.
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Speaker 1: Know he had been doing social media for a, while you,
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Speaker 1: know not really anything, crazy and then like out of,
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Speaker 1: nowhere he had all these followers and his videos really
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Speaker 1: like took. Over AND i feel like that happened with,
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Speaker 1: You like you started posting content because you're.
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Speaker 3: Single you're in the dating, world SO i post a
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Speaker 3: lot of dating.
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Speaker 1: Content, yeah but that's how it, started as you posting
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Speaker 1: just different you, know things that happened to you on
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Speaker 1: dates or you, know weird guys that hit you. Up
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Speaker 1: but it's like really, Exploded like you have more followers than,
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Speaker 1: me you know then.
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Speaker 2: Wild So santy From jammin is someone who really encouraged
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Speaker 2: me to start. POSTING i remember having a conversation with
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Speaker 2: him and he's, like just like you could go, viral
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Speaker 2: like this could, happen that could, happen AND i was, like,
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Speaker 2: no like that's never gonna. Happen and he'll bring that
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Speaker 2: up today and be LIKE i told. You i'm, like,
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Speaker 2: okay you.
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Speaker 1: Want to tell the. PEOPLE i don't know if this still,
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Speaker 1: stands but you want to tell the after show what
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Speaker 1: your most viral video is or?
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Speaker 3: Was oh do you know the answer to?
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Speaker 1: THIS i think so it's the one where you're putting in.
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Speaker 3: The, NO i actually have one that got more of.
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Speaker 1: You so, okay, wait so the first one That i'm talking.
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Speaker 3: About, Yeah SO i have one video On.
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Speaker 2: Instagram it has four point five million views and all
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Speaker 2: it is is me Saying i'm thirty six and.
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Speaker 3: Single that's. It that's the post.
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Speaker 1: Four point five, million, yes. Insane and then what about
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Speaker 1: the other?
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Speaker 2: One the next one after that Is, yeah it's one
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Speaker 2: Where i'm putting.
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Speaker 1: My retator in has, millions, Right, yeah.
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Speaker 3: That one has like three point two or something like.
15:50
Speaker 1: That social media is so. Weird it is.
15:52
Speaker 3: The weirdest thing because it's either of those.
15:54
Speaker 2: VIDEOS i never would have, guessed, no would get like
15:58
Speaker 2: even a, million you know WHAT i.
15:59
Speaker 1: Mean it's always the videos that you put no effort into.
16:03
Speaker 1: Too you can do these like, elaborate well thought out
16:05
Speaker 1: videos and they'll do, Okay but then simple ones like that.
16:08
Speaker 2: Explode, yeah when you're throw something up and, it, yeah
16:11
Speaker 2: it goes.
16:11
Speaker 3: Crazy. Yeah The internet is a wild.
16:13
Speaker 1: Place it really. Is it really. Is so now you've
16:16
Speaker 1: become this like kind of online you're in the. Algorithms,
16:20
Speaker 1: yeah especially with, dating because that's what everybody is talking,
16:23
Speaker 1: about you, know is the dating? World how hard it?
16:25
Speaker 1: Is you? Know so you pop up on mind OBVIOUSLY
16:27
Speaker 1: i follow, you BUT i see you on my explore pase.
16:30
Speaker 3: Especially you're like there she is?
16:31
Speaker 1: Again yeah, yeah, Yeah SO i mean that begs the,
16:34
Speaker 1: question how is the dating life these?
16:35
Speaker 2: Days SO i kind of took a step back, BECAUSE i,
16:39
Speaker 2: mean to be, blunt dating is just, terrible to the
16:42
Speaker 2: point THAT i couldn't even get myself to go out
16:45
Speaker 2: on dates.
16:46
Speaker 3: Anymore SO i kind of.
16:48
Speaker 2: STOPPED i Think i'm going to try to get back into,
16:50
Speaker 2: it but it's the dating apps that is really trash
16:55
Speaker 2: and makes my life a living.
16:57
Speaker 3: Hell LIKE i would like to find, someone but dating
16:59
Speaker 3: is just not.
16:59
Speaker 1: Fun have you Tried facebook? DATING i sure have no
17:04
Speaker 1: Good my friend is cleaning up On facebook. Date. Really.
17:08
Speaker 1: Yeah so we did a segment on it on the
17:10
Speaker 1: on the on The on The Morning, show and it
17:12
Speaker 1: exploded people like really Into facebook.
17:15
Speaker 2: Dating So facebook dating is WHERE i found the last
17:18
Speaker 2: guy THAT i, dated AND i really really liked, him
17:24
Speaker 2: and we went on seven dates AND i definitely saw
17:28
Speaker 2: myself falling for, him and THEN i found out that
17:32
Speaker 2: he was lying to me and he had a girlfriend
17:33
Speaker 2: of ten.
17:33
Speaker 3: Years, Right, yeah so you know there's. That, yeah BUT
17:37
Speaker 3: i mean that's that's that could happen on any of the.
17:40
Speaker 1: Apps, YEAH i wouldn't Blame facebook dating on. That by the,
17:43
Speaker 1: way did you confront him on?
17:44
Speaker 2: That? Oh? Absolutely what you say He SO i found
17:49
Speaker 2: out at like eleven. Pm so the next, morning at
17:51
Speaker 2: like six, Am i'm, like we need to. Talk we
17:54
Speaker 2: got on the phone AND i said are YOU i
17:58
Speaker 2: asked him if he had a, girlfriend and he's, like,
18:00
Speaker 2: WELL i am dating someone. Else AND i was, like
18:03
Speaker 2: there's a big difference between being in a relationship and.
18:06
Speaker 2: Dating and he's, like, well it's been off and on and,
18:09
Speaker 2: Yeah i'm pretty Sure i'm.
18:10
Speaker 1: Going to be with. Her seven Dates you went on
18:13
Speaker 1: with him seven?
18:13
Speaker 3: Dates, yeah over the course of maybe like two.
18:16
Speaker 1: Months, yeah it's, rough, man it's. Rough one of the
18:20
Speaker 1: issues with dating apps is that they're so, accessible especially
18:23
Speaker 1: when you're a, man, right is, like think about. It
18:26
Speaker 1: you go on, there you can match with. Whoever there's
18:28
Speaker 1: like endless options for women to you, know the endless,
18:31
Speaker 1: options AND i think some people just want more and
18:34
Speaker 1: more and.
18:35
Speaker 2: More, Yeah and that's one of my biggest complaints with the,
18:37
Speaker 2: apps Because i'll get a match And i'll be really
18:39
Speaker 2: excited And i'm not afraid to like start the conversation,
18:42
Speaker 2: first So i'll reach out and, maybe you, know say,
18:45
Speaker 2: hey how's your day, going something simple and nothing, crazy
18:47
Speaker 2: and they just don't respond And i'm, like why did you?
18:51
Speaker 3: Match if we're not even going to, speak what is the?
18:53
Speaker 1: Point, right so frustrating has your have you matched with
18:57
Speaker 1: somebody or talk to somebody on a dating app that
19:00
Speaker 1: has seen Your.
19:00
Speaker 2: Instagram i've actually had a couple of people, like send
19:05
Speaker 2: me a like and they'll send a message with it
19:06
Speaker 2: and they're, like, oh, Like i've seen your.
19:08
Speaker 3: Videos, hah don't do one about. Me oh, yeah, yeah
19:11
Speaker 3: so that's kind of that's.
19:12
Speaker 1: Weird, yeah because some of your, videos a lot of
19:14
Speaker 1: your videos have a lot of. Hits. YEAH i also
19:17
Speaker 1: noticed that on some of the, videos the common section
19:21
Speaker 1: is quite the place with these, men especially On, facebook
19:26
Speaker 1: AND i notice it's a lot of older. Men. Yes,
19:28
Speaker 1: Yeah so what's happening, IS i, think is you're you're
19:31
Speaker 1: getting into The facebook algorithm and it's popping up for. People.
19:35
Speaker 2: YEAH i never would have realized that so many grandpas
19:38
Speaker 2: would have dating at their.
19:39
Speaker 3: Algorithm but they, yeah they get my. VIDEOS i mean
19:44
Speaker 3: they trash.
19:45
Speaker 1: Me, yeah but you respond, Back.
19:47
Speaker 3: Oh, absolutely because people tell me.
19:49
Speaker 2: Don't But i'm, like at the end of the, day
19:51
Speaker 2: they're gonna respond, back so that that's gonna help my.
19:53
Speaker 3: Engagement So i'm Like i'm using.
19:55
Speaker 1: Them it's very. True, yeah although what you're not doing
19:58
Speaker 1: isn't rage. Baiting but that's the word of the year
20:01
Speaker 1: is rage. Bating and that's what people, do is they
20:03
Speaker 1: put up posts that are gonna anger people to get.
20:05
Speaker 3: ENGAGEMENT i MEAN i have done that.
20:07
Speaker 1: Before oh you're a rage.
20:09
Speaker 2: Beator well the video WHERE i Said i'm thirty six and,
20:11
Speaker 2: SINGLE i posted that BECAUSE i knew that there would
20:16
Speaker 2: be rage from, that which is. Crazy it's crazy that
20:19
Speaker 2: ALL i have to say Is i'm thirty six and.
20:21
Speaker 2: Single that video is probably the most insulted Video i've ever.
20:25
Speaker 1: Gotten, Really, yeah just making fun of like your, looks so.
20:28
Speaker 3: Telling me That i'm. Expired you, Know i'm.
20:31
Speaker 1: OLD i don't think you're. EXPIRED i think you're. BEAUTIFUL
20:35
Speaker 1: i think you're. Beautiful by the, way for the people,
20:37
Speaker 1: listening how tall are, You.
20:40
Speaker 3: I'm four nine for.
20:41
Speaker 2: Nine.
20:42
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah she's a, tiny tiny little THING i. Am but, yeah,
20:46
Speaker 1: LISTEN i have friends at a single and that have been
20:49
Speaker 1: single all the. Time AND i hate to be the
20:51
Speaker 1: cliche like you're gonna find, somebody but you're not gonna
20:54
Speaker 1: be alone.
20:54
Speaker 3: Forever it's gonna happen when you least.
20:56
Speaker 1: Expected. YEAH i heard that one. Too that is also true,
21:00
Speaker 1: Too like you don't know you could go home today
21:02
Speaker 1: and go into a coffee shop and see a guy
21:04
Speaker 1: and hit it off with.
21:05
Speaker 3: THEM i would love for that to.
21:07
Speaker 2: Happen it could have, happened like an organic experience like.
21:10
Speaker 2: That that would BE i, mean you can't force, it
21:12
Speaker 2: but that would be the.
21:13
Speaker 3: Goal.
21:14
Speaker 1: Yeah, Yeah so how many followers do you have? Now?
21:16
Speaker 3: Oh, JEEZ i have twenty nine point?
21:21
Speaker 1: Six damn? Yeah are you? Verified? No you submit for?
21:26
Speaker 3: IT i. Tried OH i won't accept.
21:29
Speaker 1: Me, No so you Need, Okay, Okay, OKAY i can
21:32
Speaker 1: help with.
21:32
Speaker 2: This.
21:33
Speaker 1: Okay do you have any article written about you? Anywhere
21:36
Speaker 1: about you being on the? Radio there was?
21:38
Speaker 3: One what about you about being on the? Radio?
21:41
Speaker 1: No but what about when you did the when you
21:44
Speaker 1: shaved your head for?
21:44
Speaker 3: CANCER i think there were any? Articles. Okay at the
21:48
Speaker 3: end of the, Day I'm i'm a nobody.
21:51
Speaker 1: Somebody thanks To. Wait, okay let me. See let me
21:54
Speaker 1: open Your instagram, Profile, okay and go to your go
21:57
Speaker 1: to your profile and hold it up for me to.
21:59
Speaker 1: SEE i just want to. See. Okay So i'm looking
22:03
Speaker 1: at your. Profile thirty Something radio life and anxious but Thriving. Finnish,
22:08
Speaker 1: okay so that was WHY i didn't get it IS
22:12
Speaker 1: i didn't have any kind of. Bio they want to
22:15
Speaker 1: see a bio on.
22:15
Speaker 3: There, yeah like besides WHAT i.
22:18
Speaker 1: HAVE i don't. KNOW i think they want To, yeah
22:20
Speaker 1: they want to know where you, work about your, things about,
22:23
Speaker 1: yourself you. Know oh, okay, yeah so if you look at,
22:26
Speaker 1: mine this is what this. Is this is exactly HOW
22:29
Speaker 1: i got HOW i got, Verified so, mine says co
22:33
Speaker 1: host executive. Producer iHeart. RADIO i tagged iHeart billianlys in The,
22:37
Speaker 1: morning tagged six to TEN, Am Kiss top Thirty, countdown
22:39
Speaker 1: Tagged kiss ONE o eight and THEN i have my
22:41
Speaker 1: wife and my kids And ice Bat. King, okay do
22:45
Speaker 1: you know WHAT i?
22:45
Speaker 3: MEAN i need some, Clout.
22:47
Speaker 1: You need some. CLOUT i would try. THAT i, MEAN
22:49
Speaker 1: i don't know if you feel like if you want
22:51
Speaker 1: to tag Jam in and tagged you, Know ashley in
22:53
Speaker 1: The am in your. Profile, okay it's worth a. Try
22:57
Speaker 1: if it doesn't, work you can always take it. Down, yeah,
22:59
Speaker 1: true you, know but they do ask when somebody asked
23:01
Speaker 1: a question when you went for for, verification what did
23:04
Speaker 1: you put for like.
23:05
Speaker 2: Article SO i do have one article that was written
23:08
Speaker 2: about me WHEN i did a video WHERE i made
23:11
Speaker 2: a hoodie with A qr code and Said i'm. Single oh,
23:14
Speaker 2: okay SO i kind of like turned myself into a walking.
23:16
Speaker 2: Billboard so somebody wrote an article about.
23:18
Speaker 1: That SO i use, That, well do you have a
23:20
Speaker 1: do you have a jam and? Page? Yes, yes you
23:23
Speaker 1: mean that you just sent them. That, yeah, okay, yeah try.
23:26
Speaker 1: That update your, profile make it more like what you.
23:29
Speaker 1: Do so On air ten to, three jam in ninety
23:32
Speaker 1: four to, five On air six to, ten actually in
23:36
Speaker 1: the producer you know WHAT i, mean something like, that
23:38
Speaker 1: and then, yeah all, right that's WHAT i would. Do blue.
23:42
Speaker 1: Check YEAH i, did, listen it wouldn't work for. ME
23:44
Speaker 1: i kept going over and over. Again and then branded
23:47
Speaker 1: from The, bowl who doesn't have like nearly as many
23:50
Speaker 1: followers as, me got Verified, wow and he worked with
23:52
Speaker 1: me on. It and THEN i was, LIKE i think
23:54
Speaker 1: it's the bio BECAUSE i had no, bio and SO
23:57
Speaker 1: i did the bio boom. Verified, Interesting so they, Okay
24:01
Speaker 1: so in radio, WORLD aj you can track, AHEAD i,
24:05
Speaker 1: mean you can. Record if you need to do, something
24:07
Speaker 1: you can, Record and.
24:08
Speaker 3: Are we telling people that you can tell people if.
24:10
Speaker 1: You need, to, well you're here, live you're on the radio. Live,
24:13
Speaker 1: yeah but in situations WHERE i need you to come
24:15
Speaker 1: onto this podcast because people might be, asking why isn't
24:18
Speaker 1: she on the air right?
24:19
Speaker 3: Now i'm doing both at the same.
24:20
Speaker 1: Time not. Good, No so she did a little bit
24:23
Speaker 1: of pre recording just up until. Eleven so we're almost
24:25
Speaker 1: out of. Time BUT i want to say thank you
24:27
Speaker 1: for coming.
24:27
Speaker 3: On thank you so much for having.
24:28
Speaker 1: Me this was. Fun you can come back anytime.
24:30
Speaker 3: Anytime all, right? Tomorrow?
24:32
Speaker 1: Okay where can people follow.
24:33
Speaker 3: You instagram AT aj nine four or?
24:36
Speaker 1: Five, yeah take a trip to her. Instagram look at
24:38
Speaker 1: some of the. Videos they're, funny they're, engaging especially if
24:41
Speaker 1: you're single or like you, know had a bad or
24:42
Speaker 1: a good dating. Experience it really like captures the culture of.
24:46
Speaker 2: Dating, yeah if you're having a bad experience in the dating,
24:49
Speaker 2: world just know that you are not. Alone AND i
24:51
Speaker 2: think some of my experiences may or may not help
24:54
Speaker 2: you feel.
24:54
Speaker 1: Better right, Right thank you for coming, in and, hey
24:57
Speaker 1: thank you for training.
24:58
Speaker 3: Me you know, What you're.
24:59
Speaker 1: Welcome.
24:59
Speaker 3: Yeah can you believe we're still?
25:01
Speaker 1: Here we're still. HERE i believed to all the. Changes
25:03
Speaker 1: so thank, YOU, aj everyone, Else we're back. Tomorrow don't.
25:06
Speaker 1: Forget Nurse fiona is coming to the Podcast. THURSDAY i
25:09
Speaker 1: confirmed with her. YESTERDAY i was supposed to go there
25:11
Speaker 1: today but got rescheduled because of the supposed. Storm but
25:14
Speaker 1: send your questions in any questions you have For Nurse,
25:16
Speaker 1: fiona so answer them all on this. Podcast that's, botox, injectables,
25:21
Speaker 1: fillers laser hair, remoud Which i'm, getting in any kind
25:23
Speaker 1: of skin stuff that she. OFFERS i don't understand. That
25:25
Speaker 1: do you do you get any skin facial? Stuff?
25:28
Speaker 3: Oh, Absolutely oh you.
25:29
Speaker 1: Do, Okay, well if you're LIKE, aj you have any,
25:31
Speaker 1: questions hit us. Up oh in the weight loss, too
25:34
Speaker 1: she does the weight loss. Program she does it also
25:36
Speaker 1: hit the questions on the.
25:37
Speaker 2: Top.
25:37
Speaker 1: Back that's On, thursday but we'll talk. Tomorrow, goodbye