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- 0:03hey everybody
- 0:03welcome back to the Eye Believe Podcast
- 0:05i'm here with Ashley McCrary
- 0:07who is five years into her metastatic journey
- 0:09and she is actually thirteen
- 0:11ish or more years
- 0:12into her actual ocular melanoma diagnosis
- 0:16some of you guys probably recognize her
- 0:17she's been a frequent guest on the Eye Believe Podcast
- 0:20so Ashley
- 0:20thanks so much for coming back
- 0:22i'm so glad to be here thanks for inviting me
- 0:24it's always good to talk with you guys
- 0:26yeah absolutely
- 0:27and ashley and i have so much fun chatting
- 0:29so i hope you guys listening
- 0:30have a blast just listening
- 0:32please drop any comments you have in the description
- 0:35and just know that that ashley is
- 0:38i mean
- 0:39she is such a gift to the ocular melanoma community
- 0:41and i'm gonna do my best not to make you cry
- 0:43like right off the bat
- 0:44but um
- 0:46you guys ashley has been there for me from like
- 0:48day one as soon as she found me or i found her
- 0:51on social media she has made herself more available
- 0:54than i feel like any patient should ever have
- 0:56to make themselves available
- 0:57while dealing with what she has dealt with personally
- 1:00but she has such a huge heart
- 1:02and i think that it's because of that huge heart
- 1:05that she is where she is today
- 1:07and we're going to talk about some of the aid
- 1:09that you guys can get as patients
- 1:11if you are in need of travel assistance
- 1:13ashley has one of the organizations
- 1:15that specifically focuses on travel aid
- 1:17so ashley
- 1:18do you want to tell us a little bit about Eye On Grace
- 1:19and what do you guys do what's your mission
- 1:21absolutely thanks for letting me do that
- 1:23so the Eye On Grace foundation was started in may of
- 1:26twenty twenty four um
- 1:28specifically to help people with ocular melanoma
- 1:30travel for treatment um
- 1:32we think it's extremely important for you to have a
- 1:35a companion with you
- 1:36whether it's a caregiver or a friend
- 1:38and always good to have a second set of ears
- 1:41so our foundation decided in the beginning
- 1:43that we would not only sponsor a patient to travel
- 1:46but also um an additional person to go with them
- 1:49and just i i thought just out of the gate
- 1:51we would give the very specifics to it
- 1:53we
- 1:53we sponsor up to a thousand dollars per person per trip
- 1:56so to make that easier to understand
- 1:58if there's two people
- 1:59we can sponsor up to two thousand dollars per trip
- 2:02um it's anything travel related that is like um flights
- 2:07gas um
- 2:08ubers parking uh
- 2:10toll bridges um
- 2:11hotels things of that nature
- 2:14um we are going back to a
- 2:17hopefully a per diem for food starting january first
- 2:20where it'll be a twenty dollar per meal type of thing
- 2:23but right now it's just for travel
- 2:25and um
- 2:26we have up in i guess in twenty twenty five
- 2:29it's been an exceptional year
- 2:31exceedingly abundantly
- 2:32more than we thought we would be doing
- 2:34our goal was to do five hundred trips for the year
- 2:36and as of yesterday
- 2:37we've done six hundred and thirty trips
- 2:40um this year (2025)
- 2:42over three hundred and twenty five thousand dollars
- 2:44worth of travel grants that been
- 2:45have been awarded and um
- 2:48and we're we have just a ton of support
- 2:50in the ocular melanoma community
- 2:52because most of how we get to do this is um
- 2:55private donations
- 2:56or donations from pharma and medical device companies
- 3:00so very excited about that
- 3:02ashley you're a patient yourself
- 3:04and you as far as i know um
- 3:05the long as long as i have known you
- 3:07which has basically been
- 3:08the entirety of your metastatic journey
- 3:11you've been traveling uh
- 3:12i think from where you live in the auburn area
- 3:16auburn area uh huh
- 3:17auburn alabama
- 3:18in auburn alabama
- 3:19you've been traveling from auburn
- 3:20alabama to philadelphia or potentially i i
- 3:24have you ever gone anywhere other than philly
- 3:25for the moment just yeah
- 3:27so it's just been from auburn to
- 3:29to philly and i say just because we
- 3:31we know like on a map
- 3:32that's actually quite a distance
- 3:35but you do that
- 3:36or you have done that almost every week
- 3:38for a very long time correct
- 3:40a long time so um
- 3:42a couple of things i like to share about my story
- 3:44that i think would be interesting for people to hear is
- 3:47um i was diagnosed in two thousand twelve
- 3:49and um i was class two prame positive
- 3:53um HLA positive
- 3:54and for those of you in the ocular melanoma world
- 3:57you know those
- 3:58those prognostic indicators would typically say
- 4:01that my cancer could come back within five years
- 4:03but i was extremely fortunate
- 4:05that i went eight years without metastatic disease
- 4:08and the reason i wanted to even bring that up
- 4:09is because there's a
- 4:10potentially another resource available
- 4:13which is even
- 4:14how is the catalyst of how Eye On Grace got started
- 4:17so on my eighth year when i was working full time
- 4:20we had a um
- 4:21aflac group come to our office
- 4:23and share their products with us
- 4:25interestingly
- 4:26i did not think i would qualify for a cancer plan
- 4:28through aflac um
- 4:30i had
- 4:30i waited and i asked the person that was in charge um
- 4:34what do you have to do to qualify
- 4:36because i had cancer eight years ago
- 4:37and she said actually
- 4:38in the state of alabama um
- 4:40if you've been longer than five years
- 4:42without metastatic disease
- 4:44then you could qualify for this cancer indemnity plan
- 4:47the reason i mentioned that is
- 4:49that plan is forty five dollars a month
- 4:51and so i i signed up for it literally that day
- 4:53didn't even talk to my husband about it
- 4:55which is extremely unusual
- 4:56i'm it's not like me at all
- 4:58i had to go thirty days without a cancer diagnosis
- 5:00for it to be active so i i signed up
- 5:03paid my first premium august first
- 5:05i had my scans september twenty ninth
- 5:07so almost you know
- 5:08two months later and then learned october first
- 5:11that the cancer had spread
- 5:13um when that happened
- 5:14and we knew we were gonna go to philadelphia
- 5:15we looked at the cancer plan
- 5:17not even knowing Danet what it covered
- 5:19and we learned that um
- 5:20that it really does
- 5:21and they like the terminology bridge the gap
- 5:24and i do like that so
- 5:25aflac will bridge the gap
- 5:27for where insurance drops off
- 5:29and for me that was
- 5:30it would cover for two people to travel and our hotel
- 5:34and it was enough money sometimes to leftover for food
- 5:38then when i got on a clinical trial
- 5:40the trial will pay for some of your
- 5:42you know travel
- 5:43but it doesn't pay for a person to go with you
- 5:45so where aflac bridge the gap for me is where the
- 5:48the clinical trial dropped off
- 5:50and what it could pay for
- 5:51aflac was able to cover for somebody to go with me
- 5:54each time and um
- 5:55they were just anyway
- 5:56it's been over four hundred thousand dollars
- 5:58that i've been paid out from aflac
- 6:00for travel and cancer expenses
- 6:03so i i kind of do a commercial for
- 6:05not just them but if there are other um
- 6:08plans that are out there wherever you live
- 6:09it's different for every state
- 6:11so there's a part of me that i want to say
- 6:13if you're diagnosed with this cancer
- 6:14and you go a period of time um
- 6:17you know being NED
- 6:18no evidence of disease with your scans
- 6:20i say look into it
- 6:21because if you think it might come back
- 6:24it would be beneficial okay
- 6:26so that's that's how this got started
- 6:27so i had this plan i was traveling to philadelphia
- 6:30i got to meet other people like you
- 6:32you know like you
- 6:33and i've met in philly and i've met other people
- 6:36and sometimes the doctors would even say
- 6:38would you and dave meet with this family or this couple
- 6:40and so we had done that over the years
- 6:42and we've met several that um
- 6:45were having gofundme accounts that were exhausted
- 6:47people who have refinanced their house
- 6:50a family who the husband was a fireman
- 6:52that they're collecting money at the stop signs
- 6:54and all this stuff and um
- 6:56and it just broke my heart
- 6:57because so many of them were financially devastated
- 6:59from trying to travel for treatment
- 7:01even some making the decision of
- 7:04we're not gonna travel because we can't afford that
- 7:06we can't afford to put our family through that
- 7:08and it impacted their their treatment decision
- 7:11so in may of twenty twenty four um
- 7:13we decided to to put this foundation together
- 7:15i was selling some artwork then um
- 7:18which kind of um
- 7:20i guess was what we we used to
- 7:23to fund the treatment i mean
- 7:24the travel
- 7:24at first we thought we would do two or three a month
- 7:27and now it's like twenty a
- 7:29twenty a month haha
- 7:30so the artwork is not what
- 7:32what really supports the foundation now
- 7:34even though it is a small component of it
- 7:36but that's really how it got started
- 7:37and i wanted people to know those two factors
- 7:39one
- 7:40that you might actually have something offered to you
- 7:42through your work um
- 7:43that i think would be worth looking into
- 7:45um i got other supplemental insurance today
- 7:48that i think is important that people don't know about
- 7:50like critical illness um
- 7:51which paid me fifty thousand dollars on my um
- 7:54initial diagnosis
- 7:55that's a supplemental thing that you can just
- 7:57when you sign up for your benefits
- 7:59and i got hospital indemnity
- 8:01and so whenever and again
- 8:02that's supplemental um
- 8:03that was not through aflac
- 8:04that was through my work but those
- 8:06those three things those components
- 8:07are something that i wish more people in our
- 8:09our community knew to even look for
- 8:13that were beneficial
- 8:14when i was diagnosed with metastatic disease
- 8:17well this is
- 8:17i mean this is news to me
- 8:19um i'm three years into a metastatic diagnosis
- 8:21and so
- 8:22i have no idea if any of this would be beneficial
- 8:24going into like
- 8:26the new year for me for insurance
- 8:28but i love what you say about how some of these
- 8:31these avenues of support can be a way that the
- 8:34that the gap is bridged and that is
- 8:36that's such a good way to put it because
- 8:38because it can be really devastating to patients
- 8:41to find out that oh
- 8:43my health insurance will cover my treatment
- 8:44but they won't help me
- 8:46get to where i need to get that treatment
- 8:48and to to find these
- 8:49these avenues of extra support that already exist
- 8:52and to just um
- 8:54implement them so let me just
- 8:55just to rephrase you said there was critical
- 8:57critical illness part of your insurance
- 9:00and that's your health insurance through your work
- 9:02right that was
- 9:02that was through health insurance at work
- 9:04and then what was the other part of it
- 9:06it's called hospital indemnity
- 9:07and that usually pays around fifteen hundred dollars
- 9:10per night
- 9:11anytime you are in the hospital for any type of
- 9:13of out patient or inpatient stay overnight
- 9:17it'll pay you fifteen hundred dollars
- 9:18no usually most plans do
- 9:19but again so is it
- 9:20is it paying toward the like
- 9:22toward the total hospital bill
- 9:24or is it paying you and your family
- 9:25like up to fifteen hundred to help with gas
- 9:28to help with the food the cost of child care
- 9:30for example I think hospital indemnity
- 9:34i think that is really more like
- 9:35to help you pay for whatever bills
- 9:37yeah i don't even know
- 9:38but they give it to you directly
- 9:40you can use it for whatever
- 9:42like my situation i don't
- 9:44i don't work
- 9:46i i work with A Cure In Sight
- 9:47but i don't work in such a way that my income
- 9:50is providing everything however
- 9:52my main caregiver is my husband
- 9:53and he is the main provider of our home
- 9:55and so when he has to take off two three
- 10:00i think every single Hepzato procedure that i've had
- 10:02to this point um
- 10:04we've now had we've now had three of those
- 10:06and every single time he's taken off the day of
- 10:10the day before the day after
- 10:12and the next day so
- 10:12he's taken off almost a full week of work
- 10:15every single time and it's great if he has pto
- 10:17but i mean
- 10:19frankly the
- 10:21the way that i look at this
- 10:22it's not fair right
- 10:23it's not fair for him to have to take pto
- 10:25and for us to then feel like we are limited
- 10:28and restricted as a family
- 10:29to what we can do as far as like
- 10:31vacation time
- 10:32and just go have fun as a family and make memories
- 10:34so
- 10:35this is absolutely something that i'm gonna look into
- 10:37i have no idea if it will be beneficial for me
- 10:39in the moment
- 10:39but i really hope those of you guys listening
- 10:41especially if you are at the point that ashley noted
- 10:44right if you are new to this diagnosis
- 10:47your eye was treated and
- 10:48especially
- 10:49if you're in one of those higher risk classifications
- 10:51so if you've been told hey
- 10:53you've got a pretty high risk of
- 10:54of this metastasizing you're having scans
- 10:57i don't know ashley
- 10:57what do you think every three to six months
- 10:59like at a minimum
- 11:01you people you guys in that community
- 11:03you guys should be looking into these kinds of things
- 11:06and if you can't do it alone
- 11:07then find the support that you can to
- 11:09you know from your doctor's office
- 11:10there's social work support
- 11:11there are resources out there
- 11:13and i feel like we
- 11:14because i don't know ashley
- 11:16maybe you maybe you've seen this
- 11:17but i feel like sometimes
- 11:18because we are told oh
- 11:19you're such a rare diagnosis
- 11:21that we get it in our heads
- 11:22that the american cancer society
- 11:25and that some of these larger organizations
- 11:26or
- 11:27just larger things that apply to other cancer patients
- 11:29somehow don't apply to us
- 11:30and i think it's so important to recognize they do
- 11:33they still do apply critical illness
- 11:36that applies to a stage four cancer patient
- 11:38across the board
- 11:38doesn't matter what kind of cancer you have
- 11:41so okay
- 11:42critical illness
- 11:43critical illness benefits
- 11:45and then hospital indemnity
- 11:46and then what was the the part that you enacted um
- 11:49before you were before you were diagnosed with mets
- 11:52that was the aflac plan what was that called
- 11:54so well
- 11:54the the aflac plan is called a cancer indemnity plan
- 11:57and aflac is not the only
- 11:59you know that's supplemental
- 12:00and a lot of times those type of plans are offered
- 12:03like
- 12:03if your business or company brings another company in
- 12:07like aflac so that's separate
- 12:09where the things we you and i were just talking about
- 12:11when you go to sign up for your benefits every year
- 12:14there's gonna be supplemental things under there
- 12:16long term disability short term disability
- 12:18the critical illness
- 12:19i'm just writing these down so you guys are listening
- 12:22write this down now do it with me
- 12:24yeah ok
- 12:25and again i didn't know
- 12:27yeah and this is something
- 12:28if there are people who are listening
- 12:29that there are two of you that are income
- 12:32that you provide income for your family
- 12:33where i was working full time
- 12:35dave was working full time
- 12:36dave got the same thing on his plans
- 12:39for example critical illness um on
- 12:42on his supplemental plan he had a twenty
- 12:45i think or twenty five thousand dollar for me
- 12:48if i ever had anything happen
- 12:49so when we
- 12:49when i was initially diagnosed with metastatic disease
- 12:52we got a check from my company
- 12:54and a check from his company
- 12:55that was just out of the gate
- 12:57here's seventy five thousand dollars
- 12:58to be able to put toward we paid off debt
- 13:01we paid off things so that if i ever didn't work
- 13:04we would you know
- 13:05we would have we would have paid things off
- 13:08and it was not something i was aware of
- 13:10that you could sign up for
- 13:11and it's usually not very expensive
- 13:13and people don't know what it is
- 13:14and so when you're young like you are
- 13:16and young like i was forty two when i was diagnosed
- 13:18why would i sign up for something
- 13:20that seemed like more for older people
- 13:22but i'm really i'm really glad we did
- 13:24and i wish more people knew about it
- 13:25because it's such a small monthly payment
- 13:28for something that paid out really big in my life
- 13:31so those are again
- 13:32those are part of your benefits plan
- 13:34and typically
- 13:34are just supplemental on your benefits plan
- 13:36and then
- 13:36the aflac cancer indemnity plan was totally separate
- 13:39yeah i've traveled to philadelphia
- 13:41over two hundred and thirty times
- 13:43and the fact that that aflac has paid for um
- 13:46every single trip every time i've done um
- 13:49that's incredible and another thing about
- 13:51i will tell you about the cancer indemnity plan is um
- 13:54they will pay you for other things
- 13:56for example if i get nausea medicine
- 13:58a hundred and fifty dollars for nausea medicine
- 14:00the fact that i was on a clinical trial
- 14:02i got two thousand dollars a month
- 14:04just for being on a trial
- 14:05to say i know that that's hard and i don't know what
- 14:08and even now
- 14:09i get two thousand dollars a month just for being on um
- 14:12Kimmtrak and i'm not traveling
- 14:14you know i'm just here in town
- 14:15but so the cancer indemnity plan has been um
- 14:18like i said really really
- 14:20really an an amazing thing for our family
- 14:23that being said um
- 14:24that is why we started because i
- 14:26i just knew that we wanted to be able to pay it forward
- 14:29not everybody has had the opportunity
- 14:31cause unfortunately sometimes
- 14:32you can't qualify for it
- 14:33if you've been diagnosed with cancer
- 14:35so yeah
- 14:36you have to go a period of time either cancer free
- 14:38or try to get this before diagnosed with cancer
- 14:40like if there's anybody with a freckle out there
- 14:42that thinks they might get an ocular
- 14:44melanoma diagnosis go ahead and
- 14:46and get a cancer plan absolutely yeah
- 14:49but like you said you
- 14:50you went a period of time cancer free
- 14:53as in like
- 14:54your eye was treated you had your eye enucleated
- 14:56and then you were considered cancer free
- 14:57until such point that you did metastasize
- 15:00right so
- 15:00that was the point
- 15:01that you qualified for this aflac plan
- 15:03so that's right even if it doesn't apply to everyone
- 15:05like it sounds like
- 15:06it would at least be worth looking into applying for
- 15:09and and if all the qualification is is oh
- 15:12you have to stay cancer free for two months
- 15:14or six months or
- 15:16you know whatever it is
- 15:18well i mean
- 15:18why not
- 15:19this sounds like it would be life changing
- 15:21for patients in this kind of position
- 15:23who are higher risk and
- 15:26and to your point
- 15:27this sounds like the kind of thing that would make it
- 15:29so that Eye On Grace
- 15:30can go to the people who need it the absolute most
- 15:33who are in in a situation
- 15:35where they're two years into metastatic disease
- 15:37or they apply for something like this
- 15:39and they don't qualify that because we
- 15:41i mean obviously you
- 15:42and that's why we're here
- 15:43we recognize there are people
- 15:44who won't qualify for these kinds of things
- 15:47or don't have the insurance benefits
- 15:49or they're already retired and like
- 15:50they're just living off of retirement
- 15:52like there's so many scenarios here
- 15:55that Eye On Grace exists to help
- 15:56to offset
- 15:57and just to bridge the gap between what you have
- 16:00and what you don't
- 16:01yes speaking of that um
- 16:03i would love to be able to
- 16:04you know kind of address who does qualify for this
- 16:06and um because there are other resources out there
- 16:09that Danet and i are gonna talk about in just a minute
- 16:11but with our organization um
- 16:13i don't know this is just how i felt about it
- 16:15when you run your own foundation
- 16:16you get to make up your own rules
- 16:17and as long as your board approves them
- 16:20the way that we started is
- 16:21we said none of us planned on having ocular melanoma
- 16:23we didn't plan on it from an emotional physical
- 16:26you know health position
- 16:27and we definitely didn't plan on it from a financial
- 16:30and even if um even if i
- 16:34you know some some people
- 16:35in order to qualify for travel grants
- 16:37you have to prove hardship
- 16:38or you have to prove that you make
- 16:39less than eighty five thousand dollars a year
- 16:41or something like that and i
- 16:43i can under
- 16:44totally understand why those rules are set in place
- 16:47but with Eye On Grace Foundation
- 16:48we don't look at any finances
- 16:51we just think
- 16:51the fact that you were diagnosed with ocular melanoma
- 16:54is is crappy enough
- 16:57and that we would like to be able to support those
- 17:00we ask people to consider the fact that that um
- 17:04that we aren't looking at your finances
- 17:05and so if you could you know
- 17:07obviously ask for the things that you need
- 17:10and not necessarily excess
- 17:12so when but i will tell you that
- 17:14as long as you have a diagnosis of ocular melanoma
- 17:16that we can verify meaning that you send us a um
- 17:20a a doctor's report
- 17:22an mri a castle diagnostic test
- 17:24something like that um
- 17:26we have an a foundation website
- 17:28it's EyeOnGraceFoundation.org
- 17:31that there is a travel grant application
- 17:33it's one page and on that
- 17:35at the end of that page you have to submit that you um
- 17:38whatever your proof of of diagnosis is
- 17:41then you're immediately approved
- 17:42and i have an administrator
- 17:43Dana Hay that she um
- 17:45we'll send you an email
- 17:46to tell you what you need to do next
- 17:48and basically um
- 17:50once you travel we uh
- 17:52you submit your travel reimbursements now
- 17:54on our website and upload any um
- 17:57receipts that you have
- 17:58so if it's a receipt for your flight
- 17:59or receipt for your parking
- 18:01or again the toll or your uber or whatever um
- 18:04and then we pay people back with venmo paypal
- 18:07or a check we try to do it
- 18:09we love venmo and paypal
- 18:11because you get it in real time
- 18:13checks are fine but i
- 18:14you know
- 18:14you never know when you're gonna get them in the mail
- 18:16but so that's how we pay people back
- 18:18we usually pay back within two to three days
- 18:20if not the day of your submission
- 18:23so it's actually a really
- 18:24really fast
- 18:25and it's not hard the learning curve is not hard at all
- 18:28the other thing we want people to know is
- 18:30sometimes you can't afford your flight
- 18:32yeah like
- 18:33sometimes you don't have a credit card that covers it
- 18:34what do you do for people who say
- 18:36don't have a credit card they can put it on
- 18:38and they literally don't have the money in the bank
- 18:39for a flight
- 18:40a flight across country
- 18:41could be almost a thousand dollars a person
- 18:43it just depends on where you're flying from
- 18:44the airports the airline
- 18:46all of it
- 18:47and not everybody's gonna have that on hand immediately
- 18:49and not everyone is gonna be
- 18:51you know able to qualify for a credit card
- 18:53that would allow them to just put it off for a bit
- 18:56so we have those people yeah
- 18:58they they call us um
- 18:59and they send us they'll submit
- 19:02here's the flight arrangements that we want
- 19:03and we just pay for it
- 19:05we've only had one time in the three hundred
- 19:07and whatever trips
- 19:08that that person was not able to take the trip
- 19:10but we do do the insurance
- 19:12and we were just able to cancel it on our own card and
- 19:15um and it was totally fine
- 19:17the other thing we do that we prefer to do is
- 19:19let's say you're going to philadelphia
- 19:21and you're staying at a hotel
- 19:23we have relationships with four different well
- 19:26it really any any place you want to stay
- 19:28but we have a current relationship
- 19:29with four different places in philly
- 19:31that our card is on file
- 19:32that literally we just send them an email that says
- 19:35we're gonna make a reservation for Danet Peterson
- 19:37she'll be checking in on this day and on that day
- 19:39and charge our card and they do it
- 19:41so as long as we know when you're going
- 19:43we can we can do that
- 19:45we try not to be the um
- 19:46the travel agent and so
- 19:48our relationship in philly is
- 19:50different than other places
- 19:50but
- 19:51let's say that you were going to california for a trip
- 19:54and you wanted to make a hotel reservation
- 19:56you would make it send me the confirmation
- 19:59i would call that hotel and put our card on file
- 20:02okay just to make your life easier
- 20:04then you don't even have to get the hotel reimbursed
- 20:06it just gets billed directly
- 20:08yeah yep
- 20:09and um
- 20:09and if you're going to philadelphia
- 20:11we have uber drivers that contract with us
- 20:13that you don't have to we give them your names
- 20:16you can call them and then they bill us
- 20:18and you don't even have to pay that bill
- 20:20so sometimes
- 20:21people can get off
- 20:21without having anything come out of their pocket
- 20:24that they have to be reimbursed for
- 20:25that we cover just out of the gate
- 20:27yeah i think that's so incredible
- 20:29that you guys have been able to network in such a way
- 20:32and and i think just knowing who you are
- 20:35ashley
- 20:35and knowing how much you value connecting with people
- 20:38i can understand like
- 20:39because i remember seeing your posts
- 20:41like
- 20:41whenever you would travel to philly on a weekly basis
- 20:43and i remember seeing your posts
- 20:45of all the people that you met
- 20:46and they weren't just ocular melanoma patients
- 20:48you met random strangers that you just connected with
- 20:51and i love sorry
- 20:53i love seeing that you've been able to take all these
- 20:56incredible connections that you've made
- 20:59and you've turned them into something
- 21:01that actually serves not just yourself
- 21:03but other people
- 21:04and i think that that is a gift that you have
- 21:07to observe that
- 21:08and to notice something about someone else
- 21:10and a way that this person could be of service to
- 21:13not just you but to other people
- 21:15and to then you know
- 21:16to then put that out in the world and say hey
- 21:18i really i want you to be our go to
- 21:20you know three uber drivers in the philly area
- 21:23and to have the relationship with them already
- 21:25or to you know
- 21:25have established it through other patients
- 21:27like however the connections came about
- 21:29i think it speaks volumes
- 21:31to the kind of person that you are
- 21:32that you're able to build those connections
- 21:34that's really been a special thing too
- 21:36because sometimes you know
- 21:37i don't get to meet our travel
- 21:38we call them travel grant recipients
- 21:40i don't get to meet them face to face
- 21:42and i'll go to philly and i'll see my uber drivers
- 21:44and they're like oh
- 21:45i saw you know
- 21:46mary smith last week
- 21:47and she looks like she's doing so much better
- 21:50and i'm like i've never seen mary smith
- 21:51and that's really cool that you have a
- 21:53a friendship with her and um
- 21:55we had a patient that passed away recently that uh
- 21:58that the uber driver was the last person he spoke to
- 22:02and um he literally
- 22:04at two o'clock in the morning
- 22:05knew that he would be out driving
- 22:06and he texted them and they had this conversation
- 22:09and then our sweet little friend passed away at like
- 22:11two thirty
- 22:12and his last conversation was with the uber driver
- 22:15so they're really special people
- 22:16i know it's kind of a crazy thing
- 22:18um they're special people that we use there
- 22:20so uh
- 22:21there was another thing i was gonna tell you about um
- 22:24that there are other funds too
- 22:25like you you brought up a good point a minute ago
- 22:27that sometimes just the flight alone will exhaust
- 22:30the two thousand dollars that we give
- 22:32and so
- 22:32one of the things that we have found is that there's um
- 22:35we're gonna talk about some other organizations
- 22:37but i wanna talk about philadelphia in particular
- 22:40there's a gentleman
- 22:40and i asked his permission to be able to share his name
- 22:43his name is Ken Luker and Ken um
- 22:45has ocular melanoma he lives in california
- 22:47and he's been undergoing all kinds of treatments
- 22:49but he set up a Ken Luker
- 22:52i guess fund
- 22:53that's what it's called in philadelphia
- 22:55that um
- 22:55is run by Molly Vocino Molly is the social worker there
- 22:59and i met her she's wonderful
- 23:01yeah she is great
- 23:01and so sometimes we will call
- 23:03like this happened just yesterday
- 23:05where the person's um
- 23:07their their flight was about nineteen hundred dollars
- 23:10and uh if they would
- 23:11if we would have paid for their hotel room
- 23:13it would have been over the two thousand dollars
- 23:15so i reached out to molly and said hey
- 23:17could you cover this person's hotel
- 23:19with the Ken Luker Fund and she said absolutely
- 23:22and she was able to do that
- 23:23so anybody can qualify for the Ken Luker Fund
- 23:26i can't believe i'm saying this um
- 23:28in philadelphia you just have to ask
- 23:30philly cannot um
- 23:32promote it
- 23:33is this fund strictly for ocular melanoma patients um
- 23:36or only ocular melanoma because to your point
- 23:40you know as far as other
- 23:41other hospitals avenues of financial aid
- 23:44it's always worth asking
- 23:46if you're traveling to a center
- 23:47and even if you're local
- 23:48and you're going to a medical center regularly
- 23:51it is always worth asking
- 23:52do they have any specific financial aid
- 23:54grants or sponsorship scholarships
- 23:57that they offer to patients like you
- 23:59and like what i discovered
- 24:00this was before the Ken Luker foundation existed
- 24:03and really before Eye On Grace existed
- 24:05i was traveling for a clinical trial that was adjuvant
- 24:08i had to travel to philadelphia from arizona
- 24:11it was kind of in the middle of the
- 24:12the adjustments post pandemic
- 24:14so there was a period
- 24:15when i was able to just get my medicine in the mail
- 24:17and then that you know
- 24:18all the the rules and legislation changed and said uh
- 24:21you have to travel now to go get your medicine
- 24:24so i had to travel at least every three months
- 24:26sometimes more frequently
- 24:27depending on that and i remember asking the hospital
- 24:30just like
- 24:30do you guys have anything that you can do to support me
- 24:33and the hospital in philly had a very specific fund
- 24:35that was a scholarship
- 24:37for a cancer patient who was under a certain age
- 24:39and that worked for me
- 24:40because i was under a certain age
- 24:42so you never know what's out there
- 24:44because sometimes people make donations to say
- 24:46the Sloan Kettering Memorial Center or
- 24:48or to the Honor Health Center
- 24:49or to somewhere in california
- 24:51i mean everywhere across the country
- 24:53i am positive that every major
- 24:54cancer center has scholarship programs
- 24:57that are made in memory of someone who passed away
- 25:00and that they have very specific
- 25:03kind of similar to what you're saying
- 25:04they can't the hospital can't promote it
- 25:05but you can ask about it and you can say hey i'm
- 25:08i'm forty
- 25:09i shouldn't even exist in the cancer community
- 25:12do you have any sponsorships or scholarships
- 25:14grants that i would qualify the
- 25:16the worst they're gonna say is at this time no
- 25:19we don't have anything right now
- 25:21the best they might say is yeah
- 25:22actually we do we
- 25:23we have something that is unique to patients like you
- 25:26or to i mean
- 25:27in my local area there's
- 25:29there's a company um
- 25:30a non profit called Happily Ever After League
- 25:33and they call themselves The Heal Foundation
- 25:35and they specifically service mothers with cancer
- 25:38and so mothers with young children um
- 25:41under a certain age
- 25:42and then i think the other part of it is The Bright
- 25:44i mean we've talked about The Bright Spot Network
- 25:46i mean there are so many places out there
- 25:49that do their best to serve a very niche community
- 25:52a very specific group of people
- 25:54regardless of if they have ocular melanoma
- 25:56now i'm
- 25:56i'm with you ashley
- 25:57of course if there's a
- 25:59a place that is specific to ocular melanoma
- 26:01where only om patients qualify
- 26:04that's gonna be one of the best avenues of help
- 26:06for patients but other avenues do exist
- 26:09and it's always worth asking and looking
- 26:11and just being aware that they could exist out there
- 26:13and if you look for them you might just find them
- 26:16and in fact i would argue you will find them
- 26:18you will you will
- 26:19matter of fact one of the things you mentioned
- 26:21i wanted to tell people why they can't um
- 26:24promote it is um
- 26:25it would be like what they call cherry picking
- 26:27which medicare doesn't allow you it
- 26:29it would be like saying hey
- 26:31come here we've got this special fund
- 26:32and so that's why you should come to our facility
- 26:34so they can't um
- 26:36it's not that they're being selfish
- 26:37and don't want to promote it
- 26:38or tell you about it it's
- 26:39they can't it's
- 26:39they would lose their medicare funding right
- 26:42but if you ask about it they can
- 26:43they can answer and i
- 26:44i guarantee you like you said
- 26:45that almost every center
- 26:47what we call like a center of excellence type of place
- 26:49will have these type of funds
- 26:51and the other thing people need to know is that that
- 26:53that it's very likely that either there's a
- 26:56a Hope Lodge or a Astrazeneca Lodge or a um
- 27:00so i mean
- 27:00even philly's got a lodge
- 27:02it's not close haha
- 27:03it's not at all close to the hospital
- 27:05but there are opportunities like that
- 27:07at a lot of the major places
- 27:09MSK and you know
- 27:10Mayo Clinic and things like that
- 27:11absolutely yeah
- 27:13and that's something else that we can touch on
- 27:15and i was really hoping
- 27:16that we were gonna be able to have
- 27:17somebody from this organization on um
- 27:19they are listed on A Cure In Sight's website
- 27:21i believe both of these organizations are listed as
- 27:23just avenues that you might find extra support for
- 27:26specifically for travel and um
- 27:29i've utilized Hosts for Hospitals
- 27:31and we're gonna put these in the show notes
- 27:32Hosts for Hospitals
- 27:34i think is really pretty specific to the philly area
- 27:36but i could be wrong
- 27:37and they have been i mean
- 27:39a delight to work with
- 27:41and every time that i ever stayed with someone
- 27:43i've actually i've stayed at a hotel
- 27:45that was sponsored by Host for Hospitals
- 27:47i've stayed in a condominium
- 27:49and this was in the philly area
- 27:51but it's it's worth asking
- 27:53you know does Host for Hospitals know of like
- 27:55especially if you're someone like me
- 27:56who doesn't want to travel to philly
- 27:58like frankly
- 27:59i don't i don't want that in my life
- 28:01i have three little kids i don't want to have to travel
- 28:04and i've done enough in the om world um
- 28:07just in my profession
- 28:08to know that there are centers of excellence
- 28:10that treat uveal melanoma
- 28:11and treat it well that are all over the country
- 28:14and i i know we like
- 28:15we talk about philly right now
- 28:16because that's where you've gone the most right
- 28:18and it's i
- 28:18i don't want this to to sound at all in our like
- 28:22in our conversation
- 28:23i don't want this to sound like we're saying
- 28:24you should only go to philadelphia
- 28:26ashley's Eye On Grace Foundation
- 28:28she will sponsor for you
- 28:30to go anywhere that you are seeking medical treatment
- 28:33i mean within reason
- 28:34i think um yeah
- 28:36but to your point i hate to interrupt you
- 28:38but i want people to know that this is like even
- 28:41even if you're having plaque therapy
- 28:43i mean that could be
- 28:44you know just two hours away from your house
- 28:46we will cover the gas and yeah
- 28:47get the gas get the gas card exactly
- 28:50we will cover um
- 28:51you know we have people in canada
- 28:52we have people um
- 28:54you know i
- 28:55matter of fact just yesterday
- 28:56i asked Dana to look at the number of places
- 28:59that we have sponsored people to go and um
- 29:02and it's it's everywhere
- 29:03it from california to michigan to MD Anderson
- 29:07you know texas
- 29:08multiple places in florida um
- 29:10of course MSK and um
- 29:12and even two places in Canada
- 29:15like
- 29:15we have people in Canada that go to Princess Margaret
- 29:18or go wherever um
- 29:20we have people in Canada that were flying to florida
- 29:24for Hepzato yeah
- 29:25for treatment you know yeah
- 29:26it's just i want people to know it's kind of everywhere
- 29:28does Eye On grace help with international patients
- 29:32we do we we
- 29:33we have gosh
- 29:34um i'm trying to think it's like
- 29:36six or eight people that we sponsored in
- 29:38in Canada specifically
- 29:40and those are so they seem pretty easy to me there
- 29:43it's train rides it's
- 29:44you know that kind of thing
- 29:46of flights whatever
- 29:48from Japan
- 29:50and our sweet friend that lives in Norway
- 29:52every time she takes a trip
- 29:53and i know you know who i'm talking about
- 29:55our friend in Norway whenever she goes anywhere
- 29:58um yeah
- 29:59we we sponsor her trips as well
- 30:00okay and two
- 30:01and i guess i would like for people to know
- 30:03you can get up to um
- 30:04ten thousand dollars per person per year
- 30:07and then it starts over and so
- 30:10because we know that's the other thing
- 30:11is that unfortunately
- 30:12like some people will ask me
- 30:13and i'm sure you've been asked
- 30:14so how many more treatments do you have
- 30:17i don't know exactly in our world
- 30:19it'd be great if i knew i wish i knew
- 30:21yeah i wish it was like hey
- 30:22you get five radiation treatments and you're done
- 30:24or six chemo treatments and you're done
- 30:25but no
- 30:26you're on these treatments for sometimes indefinitely
- 30:29i mean you were on Kimmtrak for years right
- 30:31you were on a Kimmtrak and a
- 30:32a prame trial um
- 30:34i can't remember the name of it
- 30:35but you were on two different drugs
- 30:36and you went every week for multiple years
- 30:39i want to say it was over three years that i remember
- 30:41yeah four
- 30:42right at four years and
- 30:43and even with that i don't
- 30:44i don't mean to get caught up in the weeds
- 30:46but since you brought up a trial
- 30:48we have people who were like on the IDE
- 30:49196 trial we have people on prame Tebby trial
- 30:52that their sponsor will pay for most of their travel
- 30:56but it's not all
- 30:58and so again
- 30:58what they do is they'll submit an application to us
- 31:00and they'll say this is what Ideaya paid us back
- 31:03we have a gap of three hundred dollars
- 31:06and we will pay the difference
- 31:09we will pay between what Ideaya paid
- 31:10and what they paid out of pocket
- 31:12we will pay the difference
- 31:13and then the other really cool thing is
- 31:15we want people to be on clinical trials
- 31:18you and i both want people to be on trials
- 31:20because when they're on trials
- 31:21then we learn and we're able to pass on
- 31:23okay so
- 31:24there are some clinical trials right now
- 31:25in the united states
- 31:26that are not providing travel for their trial
- 31:29and we are bridging that gap
- 31:32we they know about us
- 31:33we have the people Quisinostat
- 31:34i can't say it Quisinostat
- 31:37whatever it is anyway
- 31:39that's in miami like multiple
- 31:41a dozen people that were sponsored question yes
- 31:45okay okay
- 31:45do you know about do you know about the compass trial
- 31:49i do not ok
- 31:50so the compass trial is for
- 31:53it's for early treatment like of ocular melanoma
- 31:56for very small lesions and the way that
- 31:58and nobody quote me
- 31:59i could be i could be slightly incorrect
- 32:01but i'm fairly certain that once you're on the trial
- 32:05this compass trial will
- 32:07they will cover your travel to go
- 32:09you know
- 32:09however many times you need to go for this treatment
- 32:11it's a it's a very unique type of treatment
- 32:13it's not it's not laser um
- 32:16it uses a laser
- 32:17but it's an injection that then is activated by a laser
- 32:19and it preserves the healthy vision of the eye
- 32:21as much as possible and it's a really
- 32:23really amazing thing
- 32:25but they don't cover the travel for someone to say
- 32:27go from i don't know
- 32:29arizona to idaho
- 32:30if that's where the treatment is happening
- 32:32and i need to go be evaluated and find out
- 32:34do i
- 32:35as a patient with this tiny tumor that needs treated
- 32:38do i qualify for that trial
- 32:39so this would be a really really honestly i'm
- 32:42i'm just using this as an example
- 32:44but
- 32:44this would be a really unique way to bridge that gap
- 32:46because then we don't have the excuse or the not
- 32:49i don't want to say excuse
- 32:50we don't have the reason to pull back from
- 32:52say enrolling in that trial
- 32:54because they're they're not gonna cover my treatment
- 32:57or they're only gonna cover my treatment travel
- 32:59they're not gonna cover my evaluation travel
- 33:01if you're going to be evaluated for a clinical trial
- 33:04that says we have to check a few things
- 33:06to see if you qualify to do this trial
- 33:08it sounds like
- 33:09you guys would be able to bridge that gap
- 33:11because it's treatment related travel
- 33:13and if you know
- 33:14sometimes that's happened with people who
- 33:15they have to go back for their scans
- 33:16so their scan travel is not covered
- 33:19which that makes no sense to me
- 33:20it doesn't make any sense
- 33:22you can't be on trial if you don't have regular scans
- 33:25like the things
- 33:26the arbitrary things that come up
- 33:27are such a nuisance for us
- 33:29as patients
- 33:30and you have such a unique perspective on that
- 33:33because you've been in the middle of it
- 33:35and while yes
- 33:35you've had the aflac plan
- 33:37you've had all of these other things
- 33:38that you were in a position
- 33:40and just learned enough about them
- 33:42soon enough to be able to implement them for yourself
- 33:44you also have dealt with so much personally
- 33:46and you have a really strong insight
- 33:49into the rest of the community
- 33:50because you connect so well and so easily
- 33:52with so many patients across the world
- 33:54seek your help seek your advice
- 33:56who just need somebody to talk to
- 33:58and you're just one human being
- 33:59i know how much you do and i know how
- 34:01how hard it is i mean
- 34:03i know how hard it is on me
- 34:04i can i can only imagine how hard it is on you
- 34:07like i just got back from the
- 34:08Eye Believe conference and i host that whole conference
- 34:10and i spend i mean
- 34:11you guys i spend the entire weekend
- 34:14basically all day thursday
- 34:15all day friday and all day saturday
- 34:18and i'm i mean
- 34:18i got cumulative less than ten hours of sleep
- 34:21between all three of those days
- 34:23because i was up i was up working so hard
- 34:25trying to make sure that everything went well
- 34:27and we care so much like when we are in this
- 34:30and we are part of an advocacy organization
- 34:32or we are
- 34:33like it like in ashley's case
- 34:35founding a foundation that is going to
- 34:38i mean it
- 34:38it's going to be immortalized
- 34:40it will it will never go away
- 34:41like this is the kind of foundation that will exist
- 34:43long after i mean
- 34:45long after you get to be ninety years old
- 34:47and pass away from something that is not ocular melanoma
- 34:51we're gonna put that out in the universe
- 34:53right right
- 34:54um and i
- 34:54i just think that it's so incredible
- 34:56for this to be a legacy that you're living and leaving
- 35:01wow i know
- 35:02we um
- 35:02is so humbling every day because i say
- 35:04you know we stand on thousands of shoulders y'all
- 35:07we get i mean
- 35:08for it to be mostly privately private donations
- 35:11like you you guys um
- 35:13that is how it's funded you know we'll we
- 35:16i get checks in the mail every day
- 35:18literally every day or you
- 35:19you know you could donate on our
- 35:21our website EyeOnGraceFoundation.org
- 35:23and i try to tell people um
- 35:25you don't have to donate you know
- 35:26this something big it could be twenty five dollars
- 35:29it could be twenty five dollars a month and
- 35:30and that just adds up i mean
- 35:32that's somebody's gas that's somebody's tool
- 35:34that's somebody's uber drive
- 35:35um and then i
- 35:36so people ask me all the time
- 35:38like about how much is it for a person to travel
- 35:41and you and i both know if it's two people
- 35:43easily it's a fifteen hundred dollar um
- 35:45you know with food
- 35:46for sure even just me
- 35:47california like when i travel to california
- 35:50i live in arizona i'm next door
- 35:52and just for me and my husband to fly to california
- 35:54instead of drive so that it was less physically
- 35:56you know strenuous and taxing on my body
- 35:59it was about fifteen hundred total
- 36:01between hotel and flight and that was just two of us
- 36:04right and when you think of that
- 36:05those sweet people who have to go
- 36:07you know our
- 36:08IDE 196 people they're going every three weeks
- 36:11you think about your IE people
- 36:12they're going once a month
- 36:13you you know you're
- 36:14and then you got the scans and all the other things
- 36:16it just adds up and so yeah
- 36:18it does yes
- 36:18for all the people who who donate um
- 36:21it is amazing to see what
- 36:23what has been able to happen with it
- 36:25and the i mean
- 36:26these are life sustaining
- 36:27potentially life saving moments
- 36:29and i know Sophie won't mind me sharing
- 36:31cause she's been so gracious
- 36:33but like
- 36:33Sophie Stevens going to get till treatment
- 36:36and it's worked so well for her um
- 36:38that those are very expensive trips
- 36:40and so in her situation
- 36:41not only was she able to look into what we could cover
- 36:45but
- 36:45i think this would be a good time for us to talk about
- 36:47what other options are out there
- 36:48and there's another foundation that um
- 36:51that i think a lot of it's kind of newer on
- 36:53on to me
- 36:53it's newer on our platforms
- 36:56it keeps coming up but it's the Christine Fox Frauenheim
- 36:59so CFF Christine Fox if you just google that her
- 37:04her uh
- 37:05foundation will come up
- 37:06and she passed away a few years ago
- 37:08um she had done Kimmtrak for a while
- 37:10but her husband and her um
- 37:12brother or it's her husband's brother
- 37:14i can't remember um
- 37:15but they they run this foundation
- 37:17and i have been able to say
- 37:19you know we can't cover this whole trip
- 37:21but could y'all could y'all cover this
- 37:22could you help whatever
- 37:23yeah and they do
- 37:24and they also will cover other things
- 37:26like A Cure In Sight does this as well um
- 37:29so people need to know A Cure In Sight has a
- 37:31a travel fund that you can apply for
- 37:33but y'all also will cover things that i can't cover
- 37:36like my by laws are strictly state
- 37:38i've had people ask me could you cover my um
- 37:42my mortgage or yeah
- 37:44or water bill i mean
- 37:45i'm just giving an example
- 37:46yeah of
- 37:47of something that A Cure In Sight will help to cover
- 37:49specifically yes
- 37:50and and the front
- 37:51the Christine Fox Foundation they
- 37:54they can do that as well if you have a need
- 37:56they can help meet that need
- 37:57i can't do that so um
- 37:59but that organization i do know
- 38:01when you and i talked about the OMF
- 38:03which is like the Ocular Melanoma Foundation
- 38:04they have on their website a place
- 38:07i'm not sure how active that travel grant process is
- 38:10um but again there's
- 38:11there's other organizations
- 38:13i want to say that MRF through Cure OM has
- 38:17has a travel grant process
- 38:18that you can have some degree of a
- 38:20i don't i don't remember the exact process
- 38:22i just know it exists and
- 38:23and similar to i mean
- 38:26i guess i can only speak to A Cure In Sight
- 38:28and so to your point
- 38:29like A Cure In Sight cannot cover everything either
- 38:32and A Cure In Sight is because and
- 38:34and i wanna explain this for people
- 38:36Ashley's foundation the Christine uh
- 38:38Christine Fox
- 38:40i'm saying it the CFF Frauenheim
- 38:42yes Frauenheim
- 38:43The Christine Fox Frauenheim Foundation
- 38:45they exist to to meet a very specific need
- 38:49and A Cure In Sight
- 38:50is the largest patient advocacy organization
- 38:53the most active patient advocacy organization
- 38:55in the world for ocular melanoma specifically
- 38:57and while we do have financial aid
- 39:00we also fund research
- 39:01we also host 5Ks and help gather research
- 39:05research funds for local doctors like say
- 39:08Dr. Prithvi Mruthyunjaya at Stanford Byers Eye
- 39:11like if they raise fifty thousand dollars
- 39:13we say okay
- 39:14Dr. Prithvi like
- 39:15you get half the funds to go to your own research
- 39:17at this facility for ocular melanoma
- 39:19so we we are really far
- 39:23far reaching in the types of assistance
- 39:25and the types of resources that we offer here
- 39:27at A Cure In Sight we have um
- 39:29sponsorships that help to fund like this our
- 39:31our podcast
- 39:32we have sponsorships that are helping to pay uh
- 39:35for the cost of production
- 39:36because it does cost money to produce a podcast episode
- 39:39to have it professionally edited
- 39:41and then to put it out there in the world
- 39:43our conferences
- 39:44the Eye Believe conferences
- 39:45and those of you guys who attended the Eye Believe
- 39:47conference this year you got to see that
- 39:49we were privileged enough to have support
- 39:50from Eye On Grace
- 39:52to help people to travel to the Eye Believe conference
- 39:55Ashley and Melody who's the founder of A Cure In Sight
- 39:57were able to come together and collaborate
- 39:59and i just i think that it is
- 40:02it is so important that people recognize that yes
- 40:04Eye On Grace is here right
- 40:05and the CFF foundation is here
- 40:07and some of these very unique
- 40:08travel specific foundations do exist
- 40:10but please don't let that deter you from applying
- 40:13especially if you're in a far more dire situation
- 40:15and you max out because
- 40:17i mean i
- 40:17i don't know how quickly
- 40:19twenty thousand dollars could be used up
- 40:20but i can imagine if you're traveling every week
- 40:22it'll go quick
- 40:23i mean i
- 40:23i think ashley
- 40:24you would probably know better than anyone
- 40:25because you used to travel every single week
- 40:28so if you can imagine say
- 40:29fifteen hundred
- 40:30so three thousand dollars in flights times fifty two
- 40:33i'm pretty sure
- 40:34that's gonna be more than twenty thousand dollars
- 40:35like i'm pretty sure
- 40:37yeah absolutely absolutely
- 40:39so that's that's
- 40:39i mean
- 40:41it's just so
- 40:42it's so important that you guys listening
- 40:44recognize we are not in competition with each other
- 40:47and ashley you've talked about this before
- 40:49we are not in competition with each other
- 40:51ashley wants A Cure In Sight to continue to succeed
- 40:54and to raise funds and to be able to have what we need
- 40:57to serve the patient community
- 40:58as much as we want her
- 40:59to be able to serve the patient community
- 41:01and we each do that in very unique ways
- 41:03ashley does it in very
- 41:04a very specific way through Eye On Grace
- 41:06and A Cure In Sight does it in kind of a
- 41:09a mixture um a
- 41:10a mixture of ways
- 41:11and those ways all have a very significant impact
- 41:14in different ways financial or otherwise
- 41:16so i'm just gonna piggyback on what you said
- 41:18because i do think it is important that we recognize
- 41:20as well
- 41:21if you are donating on a monthly basis
- 41:23say you've taken you've taken the challenge from ashley
- 41:26right and you're donating twenty five dollars
- 41:28on a monthly basis to Eye On Grace
- 41:30or to some specific foundation
- 41:32that very specifically funds travel
- 41:34and you're willing
- 41:36i just wanna dispel a myth
- 41:37i think that's what i wanna do um
- 41:38because i think that there's a myth in donating
- 41:40to an organization that does more widespread things
- 41:44right like A Cure In Sight
- 41:45we have lots of programs
- 41:46i think there's a myth that like
- 41:47somehow we decide exactly what to do
- 41:50you know with the money
- 41:50and i say we but like the board of A Cure In Sight
- 41:53here's the thing
- 41:54if you make a donation on A Cure In Sight's website uh
- 41:57and you go in and you put in the notes
- 41:59i want this to go specifically to travel aid
- 42:03or to financial aid only for like
- 42:04serving the patient community directly
- 42:07then we honor that like
- 42:08i mean that that's what it goes
- 42:09it's like a contract it
- 42:10it goes in writing and
- 42:12and the money you say you want to go to say research
- 42:14it goes to the research bucket um
- 42:16and so
- 42:17you can designate where you want your funds to go
- 42:19your you know it's
- 42:20it makes it easy in some place like
- 42:21like with Eye On Grace
- 42:23it's super easy because there's just one bucket right
- 42:25it's the travel bucket but if you want your money
- 42:28say you have a the ability to donate fifty dollars
- 42:31and you want half of it to go to research
- 42:33and half of it to go to A Cure In Sight's
- 42:34financial aid program
- 42:35to directly help patients with travel or their
- 42:39their hospital bill
- 42:40we have the ability to
- 42:42to fund whatever need or to reimburse whatever need
- 42:45up to a certain point we have a cap each year
- 42:47depending on how much money we raise
- 42:48but i wanna i wanna be a little blunt and just say
- 42:51if you have decided
- 42:52that you're only going to donate to one organization
- 42:54that is only funding travel
- 42:56then you're going to see a drop off
- 42:58in these other organizations
- 42:59that have the ability to meet other needs
- 43:01aside from just travel like to help pay your mortgage
- 43:03or to pay an electrical bill
- 43:06to help pay for your groceries
- 43:07like other organizations have different limitations
- 43:10and they they can help each other bridge gaps
- 43:13right because like you said
- 43:14you can't do everything
- 43:16Eye On Grace cannot do more than just travel
- 43:18and so we wanna bridge the gaps together
- 43:20and we want i mean
- 43:21i just i want you guys listening to know that we
- 43:23we want each other to succeed and
- 43:25and i truly believe that if
- 43:27if we have people
- 43:28who are willing to donate a hundred dollars
- 43:30on a monthly basis
- 43:32that it's not going to do any kind of a disservice
- 43:34to say okay sure
- 43:35i'm gonna donate that but i'm gonna
- 43:36i'm gonna split it three ways or five ways
- 43:39or i'm gonna donate a hundred dollars
- 43:40to each organization like
- 43:41there's no wrong answer here guys
- 43:43if all you can do is twenty dollars a month
- 43:46like making that regular donation
- 43:48and making it a recurring donation
- 43:50like ashley suggested
- 43:51to go to any of these organizations
- 43:53that you wanna support
- 43:54it makes the world of a difference
- 43:55and it it's like you said ashley
- 43:56it it can be the difference
- 43:57between somebody having the gas money
- 44:00that they need to actually get from place to place
- 44:02or the tiny little bit that's gonna bridge the gap in
- 44:05can we cover the whole hotel bill
- 44:06or just a portion of it
- 44:08so please don't underestimate the ability of your
- 44:10yourself to make an impact
- 44:12even if your donation and your contribution to us
- 44:15as different organizations is small
- 44:17i think that's a really good point
- 44:19and just to to show you how seriously i take it
- 44:22i personally make contributions to A Cure In Sight
- 44:25pretty regularly throughout the year
- 44:27and or
- 44:28you know if somebody's having a birthday fundraiser
- 44:31for A Cure In Sight
- 44:31i'll probably be one of the first people to um
- 44:34to to go toward that
- 44:35birthday fundraisers
- 44:36one of the only good things for facebook these days
- 44:39right yeah
- 44:40so the only other thing
- 44:41i think you and i said that we wanna talk about
- 44:43that we hadn't um
- 44:44but is worth mentioning is um
- 44:46Danet is gonna have something that's attached to this
- 44:48it's another resource page and
- 44:50and one of the things that i've appreciated
- 44:51for example there's a sweet girl
- 44:53Cassie Person um
- 44:55that she lives in in lower alabama's um
- 44:58and she uses Pilots For Christ to fly her to philly um
- 45:02when she goes up there
- 45:03and then she uses us for her apartment
- 45:05i mean not her apartment
- 45:06her um
- 45:07hotel and she has set that up
- 45:09so there are different organizations
- 45:11that helps with flights there's Sky Hope
- 45:14there's um
- 45:15of course like i said
- 45:16Angel Flight
- 45:18and so um
- 45:19again they have their own process
- 45:21but i actually appreciate it when people say
- 45:23you know what we've got our flight covered
- 45:25i mean the flight can be the biggest expense right
- 45:28like i mean
- 45:28the flight really
- 45:29can be the biggest part of the expense
- 45:31it's something we're looking into right now
- 45:33we we is
- 45:34is a huge process but with every airline
- 45:36we are filling out an application for us to be able to
- 45:40for you to be able to donate your miles
- 45:41for example back to delta sky miles
- 45:43and us be able to go in and use that
- 45:45but then you may know somebody today
- 45:47that actually has sky miles
- 45:48they can they can donate them directly to you
- 45:51oh and there are okay
- 45:52there are people who can do that
- 45:54and so i was just gonna tell people like you
- 45:56may know somebody who flies corporately for their work
- 45:59that they've had more sky miles
- 46:01you can imagine how many sky miles i have
- 46:03i can imagine i mean
- 46:04i'm sure they want okay
- 46:05so knowing how many i have
- 46:07there are people who do just like me
- 46:09but they travel for work and so i think
- 46:11you know why not approach somebody like that
- 46:13hey would you like to make a donation to
- 46:16to my job yeah
- 46:17i mean once you get that up and running
- 46:20please please share it with us
- 46:21because that is phenomenal
- 46:22it's well
- 46:23it's something that i'm gonna go ahead and tell you
- 46:25every airline has something like it
- 46:27and it is buried you have to dig far to find it
- 46:31but it is an application process that they can say yes
- 46:33people can donate like
- 46:35you could call ups delta now and say
- 46:37i would like to donate mine
- 46:38to the Eye On Grace Foundation
- 46:40and we would be able to utilize that
- 46:42i guess let's give a specific example
- 46:44let's say you're a flight attendant
- 46:45or you have i don't know
- 46:46your sister is a flight attendant
- 46:48and she accumulates miles from
- 46:50just because she's an employee
- 46:52because she flies
- 46:53maybe a little more often than the average person
- 46:55let's say she accumulates
- 46:56i don't know fifty thousand miles
- 46:59fifty thousand flight miles
- 47:00and that's frankly
- 47:00that's probably a low number
- 47:02to be honest that's a low number
- 47:04that's a pretty low number
- 47:06but that would cover one person's round trip flight
- 47:09for the most part i mean
- 47:09depending on the airline and uh
- 47:12i think that'll be a really unique resource
- 47:14and to your point about all of these resources
- 47:16like you guys listening
- 47:17we've talked about a lot and i personally i
- 47:20i mean i know that some things
- 47:22especially if i'm listening to a podcast
- 47:24like say
- 47:24while i'm doing the dishes or while i'm driving
- 47:26please be safe while you're driving
- 47:27like don't
- 47:28don't be looking at stuff while you're driving
- 47:29but if you're listening to this
- 47:31and you're kind of doing other things
- 47:32please know that i'm gonna do everything that i can
- 47:34to put this together in a shareable way
- 47:37my plan actually
- 47:38just actually
- 47:39and talking with you
- 47:40is that what i'm gonna do is i'm gonna make a canva pdf
- 47:42and so it's gonna have all the travel resources listed
- 47:45we will list this on our website
- 47:47on A Cure In Sight's website where we can like
- 47:49link it we'll put it out in the newsletter
- 47:51we'll put it out on social media
- 47:52i'm making all these promises
- 47:53so megan like
- 47:54who's also a social media person
- 47:56she's gonna be listening be like okay Danet uh
- 47:58okay we're doing that anyway but
- 48:00but we want this to get out there to people because
- 48:03yeah like you said ashley
- 48:05like there
- 48:06there would be so much alleviated
- 48:08for the mental and the emotional
- 48:10the financial load on each patient and their families
- 48:12if we just could make these connections
- 48:14and sometimes we're just
- 48:16we're too far in the pit of despair
- 48:17to make these connections ourselves right
- 48:19so i'm so glad that people like you exist
- 48:21who are willing to talk about this
- 48:23and just put it out there that there are resources
- 48:25and we want you to find them
- 48:27not just the ones that are important to us
- 48:29because ashley founded Eye On Grace
- 48:31or because melody founded A Cure In Sight
- 48:33we want you to find all the available resources to you
- 48:36so we're gonna do our best to make the
- 48:38make that list of resources
- 48:40include some interactive links on the pdf
- 48:42and if you are someone listening to this episode
- 48:44and you hear or you know of something specific
- 48:47that we haven't covered then please
- 48:50please please tell us
- 48:51list it in the comments send us an email
- 48:53you can send an email to
- 48:54contact@ACureInSight.org
- 48:56we would love to know and
- 48:57if you have specific connections
- 48:58you think would be helpful for ashley
- 49:00with the Eye On grace Foundation
- 49:01then um
- 49:02ashley what's the best email for them to contact you
- 49:05so we're like y'all
- 49:06we're now at info@EyeOnGraceFoundation.org
- 49:09and um i
- 49:10i would say
- 49:11i would love for people to send stuff like that because
- 49:13um you brought up something earlier haha
- 49:16for one i always tell people
- 49:18when i have our initial conversation with them
- 49:19i don't wanna over promise and under deliver
- 49:22i don't wanna tell you that we can cover all this
- 49:23and you make all these grand plans
- 49:25and us not have the money
- 49:26and y'all in the month of july alone
- 49:28we paid out over forty thousand dollars
- 49:29in travel grants and i won't i
- 49:31i would be lying if i said
- 49:32that did not cause me to pause
- 49:35because i thought
- 49:35are we gonna have the amount of money coming in
- 49:37that we are gonna have going out
- 49:39and fortunately we do but um
- 49:41but it it could be a reason if
- 49:43if this got out and i'm
- 49:44i'm sponsoring everybody and their brother um
- 49:47do we have enough money coming in
- 49:48so when people go um and
- 49:50and tell us hey we there's
- 49:52there's this resource
- 49:53that can free up money for other people to use
- 49:55i appreciate that i do
- 49:57i appreciate that because i'm like
- 49:58you're thinking of others
- 49:59and i appreciate it it's so important that we
- 50:02that we get creative with this
- 50:04i think because to
- 50:06to your point it's not just the
- 50:08the goal here is not just throw money
- 50:11wherever we think we should throw money and
- 50:13and i i say that kind of casually but
- 50:16but like you said if
- 50:17if there's two thousand dollars total per trip um
- 50:20between a caregiver and a patient that they can take
- 50:22and you can help to free up and
- 50:25and make it so that you don't need that whole
- 50:27two thousand dollars then that frees up
- 50:29maybe another thousand
- 50:30that can go toward another patient
- 50:32more frequently
- 50:33who doesn't have the ability to connect with say
- 50:35Angel Flight or Host for Hospitals or Extended Stay
- 50:39America is through the American Cancer Society
- 50:41that i found them this summer
- 50:42like there's so many resources out there
- 50:44and we're gonna do our best
- 50:45to connect you with as many of them as we can
- 50:48um but like i said
- 50:48if you guys know of more please tell us
- 50:50we want to know and we want to spread the news
- 50:53yeah thank you so much really for
- 50:55for doing this because um
- 50:57i think had i not had um
- 51:00this aflac plan
- 51:01and i would have sat down at the kitchen table i
- 51:03with my husband to say ok
- 51:05what are we gonna do i don't
- 51:06i don't know that i would have
- 51:07i think i would have hit the pit of despair
- 51:10yeah i
- 51:10i do have people who when we talk to them
- 51:13and i know y'all have this situation too
- 51:15when we're able to help somebody
- 51:16and they are completely blown away that this
- 51:20this part of the equation has been handled for them
- 51:23um the emotion behind it
- 51:26the the relief is significant
- 51:28you know i've had people who have said
- 51:30we were literally sitting here saying
- 51:32how many months can we go without paying our mortgage
- 51:35because we're gonna have to pay this is
- 51:36this is equal to a mortgage payment
- 51:38and we don't have the money for both
- 51:40and to hear that our foundation
- 51:41and that your foundation
- 51:42and things like that could actually help um
- 51:45is is significant and um
- 51:47the Christine Fox Frauenheim Foundation
- 51:49you know their motto is you
- 51:51you're not alone you're not doing this alone
- 51:53and i think we all feel that way
- 51:55that we all want to just hold each other's hands
- 51:56and say we're gonna get through this together
- 51:59um the other thing is
- 52:00you know when
- 52:01and this has been really i'm gonna be very transparent
- 52:03about something that is hard
- 52:04my mother had breast cancer and is a survivor
- 52:07and so this is not a bump against like
- 52:09breast cancer month
- 52:10but i'm just gonna use it as an example
- 52:12there's so many resources for breast cancer
- 52:15and i'm so excited and i want it to be that
- 52:17resources for my mom that we were able to use
- 52:20but sometimes i'll see that
- 52:21and i'll be a little envious
- 52:22like i'm like
- 52:23i want nobody's wearing blue and black socks for me
- 52:26in the month of may
- 52:27and everybody's wearing the pink socks
- 52:28but i don't mean that bad
- 52:29i'm just saying
- 52:30when i look at the resources that are available
- 52:32and what we have in terms of resources
- 52:34it's vastly different and so
- 52:36we want people to know that
- 52:37there are resources for ocular melanoma
- 52:39specific to ocular melanoma
- 52:41and we want people to know out there who
- 52:43who want to help in some significant way
- 52:46that we don't want you to disturb giving to
- 52:48for breast cancer for colon cancer
- 52:50or whatever but this is a unique niche of people
- 52:53like you've said that
- 52:53that really could use your help
- 52:55so
- 52:55if there's anybody that somehow sees this and is like
- 52:57i'd like to make a difference in the world for somebody
- 52:59you can make a difference here
- 53:01and in the world of ocular melanoma
- 53:03and helping people travel for life sustaining and life
- 53:06um potentially saving treatment
- 53:08um to get people to a clinical trial
- 53:10that can make a difference in ten years from now
- 53:14yeah that's significant
- 53:15and um
- 53:15we're very proud of what we do
- 53:17it's extremely humbling to see what we do
- 53:19and you know i
- 53:20i say it's so it's so wonderful
- 53:22that i have something positive to focus on
- 53:24every single day i don't get paid to do what i do
- 53:27melody doesn't get paid to do what she does
- 53:29and we pay our administrator
- 53:30and that's it um
- 53:32and so we we just take a lot of pride in what we do
- 53:34but there's a lot of humility in that
- 53:36that we couldn't do what we do
- 53:37without the support of other people
- 53:39and y'all are the same way
- 53:41and so that's why i think we collaborate so well
- 53:43because when people talk to me and they're like
- 53:45i don't know anything about this
- 53:46i'm like go A Cure In Sight
- 53:48they will give you the information
- 53:49here's all the resources Danet and
- 53:51megan have been on youtube for years exactly
- 53:53we got thousands of videos for you
- 53:56it is phenomenal how i think it's all coming together
- 53:58so thank you um
- 54:00for for
- 54:01for doing this today
- 54:02for bringing it to everybody's attention
- 54:03i think it's gonna spark a lot of unique conversations
- 54:06um and
- 54:06and i think it's gonna be great
- 54:08so thank you absolutely well
- 54:11i couldn't have said it better myself
- 54:12ashley
- 54:13thank you so much for being a guest on the Eye Believe
- 54:14Podcast yet again
- 54:15i just want to give a plug to our sponsors
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- 54:25thank you to our sponsors
- 54:26for making sure that we have the ability
- 54:27to get these resources out to patients
- 54:29please consider making a donation
- 54:31following us and subscribing on our youtube channel
- 54:33or on the podcast platforms that you follow
- 54:36and take a look at the resources in the comments
- 54:38and just stay tuned for that resource pdf
- 54:40that i'm gonna make uh
- 54:41accessible to everybody listening to this episode
- 54:44and hopefully you guys can just share it far and wide
- 54:46and this will this will really make a big um
- 54:48i don't know if you guys have heard the idea of like
- 54:50a ripple effect right
- 54:50like the pebble goes in the pond
- 54:52and the ripples just keep going right
- 54:54and if two of you share this video
- 54:57or two of you share the pdf
- 54:58that we're gonna have available for you
- 55:00and then four more of you share it
- 55:01like just imagine the reach that this
- 55:03this will have and being able to share and
- 55:05pay it forward to other patients
- 55:07pay it forward to other families
- 55:08so ashley
- 55:09thanks so much for your passion
- 55:10and we will talk to you guys next time sounds great