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If You Just Got Out of a Relationship (For Women) · Intuitive Coaching with Amy Radio

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Speaker 1: Hi, this is Amy with Intuitive Coaching with Amy Radio,
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Speaker 1: and this is your sacred space for spirituality, intuition, manifestation
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Speaker 1: and metaphysical wisdom. All right, So I did not want
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Speaker 1: to do this show, but my spirit guides just keep
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Speaker 1: giving it to me, and keep giving it to me,
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Speaker 1: and keep giving it to me, so of course I
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Speaker 1: have to do it. So take a breath. I'm pretty
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Speaker 1: sure I'm going to title this show if you just
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Speaker 1: got out of a relationship, Take a breath, tear me out,
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Speaker 1: give yourself a beat. I am seeing more and more
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Speaker 1: people like never before, go from one long term relationship
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Speaker 1: and it might have had a messy ending, it might
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Speaker 1: have had an abrupt ending. They probably came for me
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Speaker 1: to me for Intuitive coaching to help them through it,
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Speaker 1: and then next thing I know, they're right back in
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Speaker 1: another relationship. Take a beat, and I yeah, sure this
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Speaker 1: is you know. I obviously it can apply to men too,
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Speaker 1: but I'm going to talk to women specifically because I'm
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Speaker 1: seeing it a lot smart gifted women who have worked
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Speaker 1: on themselves and deeply spiritual. They finally leave that relationship
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Speaker 1: that's not working, and next thing I know, they're back
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Speaker 1: in a relationship like take a beat, Take a beat,
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Speaker 1: Take a beat, Take a beat, Take a beat. We
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Speaker 1: are living in modern times. When I speak, it said
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Speaker 1: right that we are living in a lot of times,
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Speaker 1: and then they flashed to me. I read a lot
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Speaker 1: of historical romances where way back when, women couldn't own property,
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Speaker 1: women couldn't even really have a intimate relationship without being married,
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Speaker 1: women couldn't vote, women couldn't even hold their own wealth.
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Speaker 1: Maybe towards the regency era, if the circumstances were right,
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Speaker 1: they might be able to have like a brother who
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Speaker 1: allows them to maintain an inheritance that they received. But
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Speaker 1: for the most part, women couldn't have agency over their
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Speaker 1: own life. They needed a man. We are not living
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Speaker 1: in those times. We can take care of ourselves. We
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Speaker 1: can own our own properties, we can work without being
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Speaker 1: in poverty. We can thrive. But even more than that,
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Speaker 1: we have access to resources to help us heal emotionally,
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Speaker 1: to help us look at childhood wounds that might have
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Speaker 1: played out in that romantic relationship. We also, even more
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Speaker 1: on the mystical side, we have never before, never in
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Speaker 1: the history of manifestation, right now, in this time space reality,
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Speaker 1: there are resources to help you attract the exact relationship
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Speaker 1: you desire. And I'm not saying you have to go
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Speaker 1: through a super lengthy healing process, which maybe we saw
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Speaker 1: twenty years ago in love Manifestation. I believe though, you
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Speaker 1: might need to shift yourself concept a bit, the way
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Speaker 1: you see yourself what you believe is possible for you.
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Speaker 1: Give yourself a beat, you can be alone while you
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Speaker 1: return back to center. Also, grieving is a thing. Anytime
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Speaker 1: you're leaving something, there will be a grieving process, no
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Speaker 1: matter how smoothly you think you move through it. I
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Speaker 1: have two things in my life that I was grieving
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Speaker 1: over the last three years. One was leaving the Bay Area.
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Speaker 1: Two was the death of my mother. And only now
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Speaker 1: am I finally getting back to myself where I'm like, ooh,
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Speaker 1: I'm looking at the world again like me and I
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Speaker 1: work on myself. You know, I do my practices. I
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Speaker 1: stay aware, I am self accepting, I'm forgiving, I'm compassionate.
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Speaker 1: I'm not perfect, but yeah, I do the work. And
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Speaker 1: only now, with those being back to back situations, only
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Speaker 1: now am I getting back to myself. I couldn't imagine
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Speaker 1: if I ran into a romantic relationship it would be
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Speaker 1: just a mess. I mean me, A year ago, I
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Speaker 1: would have told him like, oh, I'm going to live
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Speaker 1: happily ever after in the suburbs. Right, and now I'm like,
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Speaker 1: as I'm you know, coming back to myself, I'm like, oh, no,
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Speaker 1: I know who I am. I'm a city girl. Anybody
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Speaker 1: who's been listening to this show for any length of
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Speaker 1: time knows I've lived in the city and the times
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Speaker 1: I've found myself in the suburbs, I've been manifesting myself
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Speaker 1: out just as soon as I manifested myself in right.
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Speaker 1: But that awareness like, literally a year ago, I felt
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Speaker 1: safer being in the area where I grew up because
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Speaker 1: I was grieving. And so you have to give yourself
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Speaker 1: that beat to grieve. You have to give yourself the
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Speaker 1: beat to recover. You have to give yourself the beat
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Speaker 1: to get clear about what you want next and what
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Speaker 1: type of relationship is going to work for you. Jumping
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Speaker 1: from thing to thing to thing to thing to thing,
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Speaker 1: maybe one might work, but you increase your chances of
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Speaker 1: something really working for you if you give yourself the time.
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Speaker 1: And again, I didn't want to give this message. I've
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Speaker 1: been seeing it and I've been like, ooh, really okay,
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Speaker 1: and I'm trying to be open to it, like you know,
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Speaker 1: like I want to be evolved in that way that
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Speaker 1: we can go from one thing to another thing really quickly.
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Speaker 1: And I do believe that if you've been in a
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Speaker 1: long term relationship, maybe that last two years that was
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Speaker 1: you exiting, so you might have been grieving as you
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Speaker 1: were exiting that thing. But I still think everybody needs
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Speaker 1: a beat. You know, back in the day on Sex
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Speaker 1: and the City, they used to say, it's half the
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Speaker 1: time you were with the person that takes you to
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Speaker 1: recover for real, for real. I am gonna stand firm
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Speaker 1: in that, because here are my thoughts. If you give
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Speaker 1: yourself that time, if you really give yourself that time,
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Speaker 1: I truly believe you increase your chances of attracting a
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Speaker 1: relationship that is lasting for you, if that's what you want.
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Speaker 1: And I know there's probably somebody saying, well, Amy, what
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Speaker 1: if somebody's just getting into another relationship that's that's not serious,
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Speaker 1: that's casual, that is you know, they just want some companionship. Cool.
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Speaker 1: I'm down with that. I'm down with that, But you
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Speaker 1: know yourself, you know, if you are a person who
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Speaker 1: has dated casually and then you wound up in a
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Speaker 1: long term situation and you're like, oh, I just want
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Speaker 1: some companionship. But that's not what I'm seeing. I'm seeing
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Speaker 1: people like start planning their futures with people. And in
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Speaker 1: some cases, I'm seeing people like we aplace, like what
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Speaker 1: that role was that their previous partner was with somebody else?
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Speaker 1: And I'm not saying that that's not possible or or
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Speaker 1: or or normal. I'm not saying that. I'm like, just
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Speaker 1: give yourself a beat and make sure. Like my ex
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Speaker 1: husband was really good at putting things together, and I
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Speaker 1: am not. Like that is like where I'm super advanced intuitions,
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Speaker 1: psychic abilities, Like when it comes to putting something together,
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Speaker 1: I'm just not I'm not good at it. Will I
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Speaker 1: my next husband be able to put shit together? Absolutely right,
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Speaker 1: because that is a requirement for me. Right, I'm not
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Speaker 1: talking about that. But you can have what you want
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Speaker 1: and I can get like, oh, well, Amy, I had
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Speaker 1: this person in my life and who was who played
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Speaker 1: this role and so now that role is vacant, so
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Speaker 1: I need to go and fill that role. I understand
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Speaker 1: that rationale. But here's what I have found, right, Like
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Speaker 1: I can't put things together. I can't fix things. But
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Speaker 1: what I have done is it's taught me how to
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Speaker 1: ask for help. I have asked my brother for a
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Speaker 1: lot of help, especially around my car and learning about cars.
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Speaker 1: And it's also forced me to be like, you know
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Speaker 1: where I'm like, girl, you need to figure this out right.
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Speaker 1: And so it doesn't mean I suddenly think I can
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Speaker 1: fix everything and want to fix everything and do all
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Speaker 1: the mechanical things in my life. No, I'm not good
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Speaker 1: at those things. I definitely want an husband who can
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Speaker 1: handle that. But I also now have given myself this
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Speaker 1: to get clear about what I'm actually good at and
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Speaker 1: what I'm not. It's helped me advance my ability to
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Speaker 1: ask for help because one thing with my ex husband,
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Speaker 1: I would say like, hey, can you fix this? But
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Speaker 1: I wouldn't explain to him what I wanted him to do,
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Speaker 1: So then he would set out on a course and
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Speaker 1: next thing, I know, the whole fucking thing is taken
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Speaker 1: apart when I just wanted him to put this piece
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Speaker 1: back right. And so now I'm a lot clearer on
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Speaker 1: how to explain things. And I'm saying this to you
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Speaker 1: because you get to do your life. However, what you want.
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Speaker 1: But I know the message that's been coming forward very
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Speaker 1: very strongly as I'm listening to all these people get
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Speaker 1: back into something is you need to give yourself a beat.
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Speaker 1: And it's so hard for me because I believe that
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Speaker 1: you can have everything you want. But I see why
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Speaker 1: the message is coming through. It's not so much oh
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Speaker 1: you have to be alone. We're not putting rules on it. No,
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Speaker 1: you just need some time to come back to center
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Speaker 1: and reclaim your energy and call your energy back and
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Speaker 1: get clear about the type of relationship you want to
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Speaker 1: be in and get clear about what wasn't working. It's
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Speaker 1: hindsight is twenty twenty and it's a gift that we have.
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Speaker 1: And so if you give yourself a beat, you get
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Speaker 1: to reflect and say, hey, this works for me, this didn't.
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Speaker 1: This made me feel really good in relationship and in partnership,
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Speaker 1: this didn't. This is my style, and this is not
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Speaker 1: my style as opposed to just kind of accepting whatever
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Speaker 1: shows up and entering right back into something that that
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Speaker 1: I'm not saying is a repeat. I will say that,
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Speaker 1: like I haven't. It's an tune into energy of people
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Speaker 1: who've gotten back into something. I will say it's better
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Speaker 1: for them than what they left. Like every time I
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Speaker 1: tune into it psychically and like, oh that is better.
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Speaker 1: But is it right? Is it true to heart? Is
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Speaker 1: is it perpetuating the olden days where women had to
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Speaker 1: marry again or because you know, they wouldn't have a life.
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Speaker 1: But most of these women are the breadwinners, like you know,
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Speaker 1: like most of these women were the ones that were
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Speaker 1: being like capable and holding it down that I'm seeing
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Speaker 1: move back into another situation. And so I'm like, just
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Speaker 1: give yourself a beat. You can be alone without being lonely.
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Speaker 1: You can be there for yourself without without feeling like
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Speaker 1: you're missing out. Now, here's what I know to beat.
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Speaker 1: This is the other piece. I'm gonna throw this one
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Speaker 1: in there. I do know energy really really really really
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Speaker 1: really really well. And so if you don't give yourself
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Speaker 1: a beat and you get back into a relationship, you
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Speaker 1: might think, I just want some companionship. I want to
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Speaker 1: want someone to spend time with. I want someone I
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Speaker 1: can chat with, I can flirt with. Maybe you haven't
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Speaker 1: had that like spark energy in a while, you know,
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Speaker 1: when relationships are petering out, often what goes is that
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Speaker 1: that sexual attraction and maybe you just want to feel
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Speaker 1: beautiful and be in that flirty shiner light type energy.
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Speaker 1: I am ad at that. I'm a fan of it one.
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Speaker 1: But here's what I've seen. If you have been in
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Speaker 1: a long term relationship for a long period of time,
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Speaker 1: nine times out of ten, if you don't take a beat,
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Speaker 1: you're going to attract somebody who's trying to lock it
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Speaker 1: back down and out with myself as even as I
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Speaker 1: say to see you, like I did like right after
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Speaker 1: right after my divorce, I wanted just companionship and that's
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Speaker 1: what I went looking for, and what I attracted were
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Speaker 1: men looking for a wife. And then I realize, oh,
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Speaker 1: because that's who I am, Like, I am a wife,
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Speaker 1: and I'm not ready to be a wife right now.
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Speaker 1: I want there's some things I need to experience in
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Speaker 1: my own life before I can move back into being
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Speaker 1: a wife. And I had to own that there was
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Speaker 1: a distinct difference, right And that's why I stopped dating,
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Speaker 1: because I just kept attracting men that wanted to settle
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Speaker 1: now and get married, have me run their household. And
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Speaker 1: I'm like, yes, I'm very very good at those things,
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Speaker 1: and I love those things. But the quality wasn't there.
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Speaker 1: What I found was I was attracting either energetically my
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Speaker 1: ex husband, we'll say, none were quite as hot. So
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Speaker 1: I did. I did lose that, but I gained some
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Speaker 1: other things. But it was all It all came down
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Speaker 1: about the same energetically, and I was like, well, I
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Speaker 1: don't want to go back to what I left, not
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Speaker 1: that now. The thought was a pathing, you know, it
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Speaker 1: just wasn't the right thing. And I think that is
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Speaker 1: the point and why my spirit guides were saying I
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Speaker 1: need to do this show, is that you can make
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Speaker 1: a lateral move or you can make an upgraded move.
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Speaker 1: And in order to make an upgraded move, you're gonna
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Speaker 1: need to take a beat because it's just too easy
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Speaker 1: to just attract. When it all shakes down, maybe they
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Speaker 1: don't have maybe they work now and your ex didn't work,
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Speaker 1: But then the things there's something else that's missing that
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Speaker 1: you had before, and it all shakes out to be
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Speaker 1: a lateral move. Whereas if you really want an elevated,
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Speaker 1: an elevated relationship, something better than you've ever had before,
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Speaker 1: something that really it's lights out good, so good, take
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Speaker 1: the beat. Take the beat. Take the beat. You don't
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Speaker 1: have to take just whatever. You don't have to make
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Speaker 1: a lateral move. You can be in your own company
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Speaker 1: for five seconds and feel feel all the things you
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Speaker 1: need to feel. Give yourself space to grief. So there's grieving,
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Speaker 1: there's healing that will need to occur. There'll probably be
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Speaker 1: some childhood patterns you'll need to look at. And then
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Speaker 1: you got to get clear about what you want and
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Speaker 1: where you're going. I mean giving myself time. Oh I
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Speaker 1: am so crystal clear about what I'm going to attract next, like,
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Speaker 1: so clear, so clear that when the few times I
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Speaker 1: do share a little bit about what I know my
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Speaker 1: next husband will be, like everybody tells me like amy,
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Speaker 1: that gives me. So it gives me chills because it's
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Speaker 1: true because I spend enough time with it and got
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Speaker 1: really clear on it that yeah, no, that's going to
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Speaker 1: be very very easy for me. And so I want
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Speaker 1: you to have that same ease, but not ease because
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Speaker 1: you just got out of something and right back into
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Speaker 1: something energetically similar. Maybe it's more peaceful, right, but it's
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Speaker 1: still a lateral move. Those are my thoughts. Okay, again,
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Speaker 1: it wasn't the show I wanted to do, but I
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Speaker 1: think I needed to do. So if you just got
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Speaker 1: out of a relationship, the message coming forward is, please
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Speaker 1: give yourself the beat. Give yourself the beat. You have
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Speaker 1: all these resources. We are not women living in olden times, right,
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Speaker 1: so we don't have to just accept whatever we can get.
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Speaker 1: We're not marrying based on societal rules and no, you
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Speaker 1: get to choose what you want and exercise that right
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Speaker 1: to choose. In the world, a lot of women who
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Speaker 1: worked really, really hard so we could have these freedoms,
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Speaker 1: So exercise them. If you're into the ancestors, if you're
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Speaker 1: into the goddesses, cool, exercise all the work that has
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Speaker 1: been done so that women can make really meaningful choices
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Speaker 1: in their romantic life and don't just run back into
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Speaker 1: something cool, all right. I'm Amy of in Tuda Coaching
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Speaker 1: with Amy Oh okay, So I don't think it needs
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Speaker 1: to take you a long time to get ready to
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Speaker 1: be back in a relationship. I don't think it needs
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Speaker 1: to take you a long time. And I'm here to
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Speaker 1: support you in seeking and receiving exactly what you want.
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Speaker 1: And oftentimes that can be done really quickly if your
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Speaker 1: heart's open and you're willing, and you're like I want
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Speaker 1: what I want with all my heart, and I know
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Speaker 1: the right person for me, and I can see it
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Speaker 1: in my mind's eye, and I believe in this relationship,
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Speaker 1: and I've been envisioning this relationship. And sure I've been
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Speaker 1: in relationships that weren't a match to that, but now
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Speaker 1: I'm ready for that. And I know I'm an excellent manifestor,
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Speaker 1: and I know that if I just take a moment
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Speaker 1: and line up with that, I'm going to attract it. Well,
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Speaker 1: that's what I'm here to help you do, so we
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Speaker 1: that is an exact match to what you envision for yourself.
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Speaker 1: Thank you so much for listening to this show. I
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Speaker 1: look forward to connecting with you on the next Take
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Speaker 1: care of Yourself Goodbye.