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- 0:00Speaker 1: But those are big celebrations. It's a birthday and an anniversary.
- 0:04Speaker 1: You've got to get one gift for each.
- 0:07Speaker 2: Matt, can I get away with one present for both?
- 0:10Speaker 3: Absolutely.
- 0:11Speaker 4: You've always got to double down on the opportunity it
- 0:13Speaker 4: presents itself.
- 0:16Speaker 2: Let me ask you this, then. If I do double down,
- 0:18Speaker 2: do I have to increase the budget?
- 0:22Speaker 5: Oh, yeah.
- 0:23Speaker 4: I mean, at least time and a half just to
- 0:26Speaker 4: pretend like you.
- 0:27Speaker 6: Care, you know?
- 0:28Speaker 2: Oh, my God.
- 0:29Speaker 3: Casey Clark Show.
- 0:31Speaker 7: This is the Casey Clark Show.
- 0:34Speaker 2: So, happy birthday again goes out to our oldest guest. Maggie,
- 0:39Speaker 2: who turned 20 over the weekend. Oh my gosh, that's
- 0:41Speaker 2: so exciting. Yeah, we had a great family event and
- 0:45Speaker 2: her friends, and it was just, I believe, one of
- 0:47Speaker 2: her best birthdays in a while. And it was a
- 0:51Speaker 2: pretty impactful birthday, she told me, because she said, Dad,
- 0:55Speaker 2: I'm no longer a teenager. Right. I'm now officially in
- 0:59Speaker 2: my 20s.
- 1:00Speaker 3: Yikes!
- 1:01Speaker 2: And I'm like, dang, it's right. I'm like... How do
- 1:04Speaker 2: you think it makes me feel?
- 1:05Speaker 3: Oh, totally.
- 1:06Speaker 2: I have a kid that's in their 20s.
- 1:07Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 1:08Speaker 2: Like that is, it doesn't make sense. So we were
- 1:11Speaker 2: talking about those birthdays that were pretty impactful for you
- 1:16Speaker 2: trying to get over them or maybe you weren't really
- 1:18Speaker 2: looking forward to them or, I mean, seriously, having a
- 1:21Speaker 2: birthday is just a wonderful blessing, obviously.
- 1:24Speaker 8: Oh, it absolutely is.
- 1:25Speaker 2: But yeah, there's ones that are a little tougher than others.
- 1:28Speaker 1: What about you? I, so I just watched my sister die.
- 1:33Speaker 1: go through the 40th birthday change. And I think that
- 1:36Speaker 1: one's going to be tough for me.
- 1:38Speaker 8: I will say actually my last birthday hit me a little.
- 1:43Speaker 1: Harder than I expected because I'm someone that loves my birthday, right?
- 1:47Speaker 1: And some might say to the point where it's annoying. Um,
- 1:52Speaker 1: but Everyone around me last year was celebrating like big birthdays.
- 1:57Speaker 1: My mom turned 70. My aunt turned 70. My sister
- 2:00Speaker 1: turned 40. A lot of my friends turned 40. So
- 2:03Speaker 1: being 37, that was kind of the first time I
- 2:07Speaker 1: felt like I was getting older, but it wasn't important
- 2:10Speaker 1: because everyone else had.
- 2:12Speaker 8: Bigger birthdays, which is amazing.
- 2:15Speaker 1: And I just felt like it was such a like
- 2:18Speaker 1: blah age it's just oh no sash you're just older
- 2:21Speaker 1: it doesn't mean anything um.
- 2:23Speaker 2: Jolene what was a milestone birthday for you uh.
- 2:27Speaker 8: I feel like 40 yeah what how did that hit
- 2:31Speaker 8: you so hard what was going on.
- 2:33Speaker 5: I don't know i just felt like oh my i'm
- 2:34Speaker 5: like go i don't know it was like the next
- 2:37Speaker 5: death of aging i think like you're not in your
- 2:39Speaker 5: 30s and i don't know that was just the one for.
- 2:42Speaker 2: Me It seems official, doesn't it?
- 2:46Speaker 6: Yeah, I think so.
- 2:47Speaker 2: Like anybody that has a real job, I feel, is
- 2:52Speaker 2: in their 40s or 50s. But when you're still in
- 2:55Speaker 2: your 30s, I still don't feel you have a real job.
- 2:57Speaker 8: I agree with that.
- 2:58Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 2:59Speaker 8: You know?
- 3:00Speaker 1: And it's kind of like, I mean, yeah, of course
- 3:02Speaker 1: you've been an adult for a while by the time
- 3:04Speaker 1: you hit 40, but 40 almost feels like there's no
- 3:07Speaker 1: turning back. You know, for some reason you could turn
- 3:10Speaker 1: back in your 30s. You can't in your 40s.
- 3:13Speaker 6: Yeah, I think so.
- 3:14Speaker 2: Yeah, I think people expect you to be more serious
- 3:17Speaker 2: as well, you know?
- 3:19Speaker 6: Yeah, you're officially an adult.
- 3:21Speaker 2: Yeah. Like, that sucks. My daughter Maggie turned 20 over
- 3:29Speaker 2: the weekend, which means I have a 20-year-old.
- 3:33Speaker 8: That's heavy.
- 3:35Speaker 2: It is heavy. And it was heavy for her, too.
- 3:37Speaker 2: She was saying, Dad, this is a really impactful birthday.
- 3:39Speaker 2: I'm no longer a teenager. I'm like, yeah, you're right.
- 3:42Speaker 2: What about me? I have a kid now that's in
- 3:44Speaker 2: their 20s.
- 3:45Speaker 8: No kidding.
- 3:46Speaker 2: It's just, you know, when you meet somebody, they're like, oh,
- 3:48Speaker 2: you got daughters?
- 3:48Speaker 5: Yeah.
- 3:49Speaker 9: How old?
- 3:50Speaker 2: She's 20. Yeah. What?
- 3:51Speaker 8: You have adult daughters.
- 3:53Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 3:55Speaker 9: Right?
- 3:55Speaker 2: We have four adults now in the house.
- 3:58Speaker 8: That's true.
- 4:00Speaker 2: A younger daughter who's turning, well, she's 18, turning 19 shortly, too. So,
- 4:04Speaker 2: I mean, like... What is happening?
- 4:06Speaker 8: What is going on?
- 4:07Speaker 2: So we were asking you your most impactful birthday. You said, well,
- 4:12Speaker 2: 37 right now.
- 4:13Speaker 1: Yeah. I had a tough time my last birthday.
- 4:16Speaker 8: I'm thinking 40 is going to hit hard. What about
- 4:20Speaker 8: for you?
- 4:21Speaker 2: You know what? I think it was 30.
- 4:22Speaker 9: Okay.
- 4:22Speaker 8: 30 was and 50.
- 4:23Speaker 2: Those two. 40, it was okay. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
- 4:29Speaker 8: So what happened at 30 and 50? 30 and 50.
- 4:31Speaker 10: Boom.
- 4:31Speaker 2: You were right there. It was like, now I'm no
- 4:37Speaker 2: longer in my 20s, which I think it's more youthful
- 4:39Speaker 2: and energetic.
- 4:40Speaker 6: 100%.
- 4:41Speaker 2: And in 50s, you're like, oh, what happened now? Like,
- 4:46Speaker 2: I'm more than half dead, right?
- 4:49Speaker 8: I mean, yeah, kind of.
- 4:51Speaker 2: It's nuts to think about that.
- 4:53Speaker 8: That is really actually scary, yeah.
- 4:56Speaker 2: Felicity, big impactful birthday for you. What was it?
- 4:59Speaker 10: 25.
- 5:02Speaker 6: I don't know why.
- 5:03Speaker 5: When I was younger, I just thought, Like, you know,
- 5:07Speaker 5: my teens, I'm like, hey, by 25, I'm going to have.
- 5:09Speaker 10: My life together.
- 5:10Speaker 6: I'm going to be married.
- 5:10Speaker 10: I'm going to have kids.
- 5:13Speaker 6: 25 rolled around.
- 5:13Speaker 2: I was so single.
- 5:15Speaker 3: You know what?
- 5:18Speaker 6: It was all good. I got over it.
- 5:21Speaker 10: But yeah.
- 5:22Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah.
- 5:25Speaker 1: I definitely agree with that. I was actually watching this
- 5:28Speaker 1: thing about how movies. Particularly, like, in the 80s, those
- 5:34Speaker 1: coming-of-age movies were very geared towards, like, yeah, you're supposed
- 5:38Speaker 1: to have it figured out by your mid-20s. But now
- 5:41Speaker 1: movies nowadays are a little bit better about that. Like,
- 5:44Speaker 1: it's okay if you don't have the perfect job, a spouse,
- 5:49Speaker 1: and a million kids.
- 5:50Speaker 2: Well, according to Mad Men, we should have been running
- 5:52Speaker 2: companies at the age of 25.
- 5:54Speaker 8: Yeah.
- 5:54Speaker 2: Yeah. You know? Yeah.
- 5:57Speaker 10: I can't imagine anyone letting me run their company.
- 5:59Speaker 2: No, exactly. No.
- 6:01Speaker 8: A little different nowadays.
- 6:02Speaker 3: When you're a teenager, 25 seems so old.
- 6:06Speaker 8: No kidding.
- 6:09Speaker 3: You're listening to the KC Clark Show.
- 6:12Speaker 2: Okay, another round of 30-second name game with our friend Kim. Okay,
- 6:17Speaker 2: we're going to put 30 seconds on the clock. All right, Kim.
- 6:21Speaker 2: Now you have to name 10 different items inside that
- 6:24Speaker 2: time frame. The thing is, is you don't know the
- 6:27Speaker 2: topic until just before the timer begins. Are you set?
- 6:31Speaker 7: Oh, God.
- 6:32Speaker 3: No, okay.
- 6:33Speaker 2: All right.
- 6:34Speaker 1: Well, you can use this conversation as inspiration, okay? Because
- 6:37Speaker 1: what we need you to do is name 10 different
- 6:40Speaker 1: things you can say to get off the phone with someone.
- 6:44Speaker 4: Go.
- 6:46Speaker 6: Oh, you know, I really have to go to the bathroom.
- 6:49Speaker 2: Love it.
- 6:49Speaker 6: Somebody else is calling.
- 6:50Speaker 1: Two.
- 6:51Speaker 5: It's an important call that I got to take.
- 6:54Speaker 6: I got to go to the hospital.
- 6:55Speaker 3: Three.
- 6:56Speaker 8: I love it.
- 6:57Speaker 6: My mom's calling.
- 6:59Speaker 2: Four.
- 7:00Speaker 6: I fell. I cut my fingers. Five.
- 7:02Speaker 8: You cut my fingers.
- 7:07Speaker 6: My dog's puking. My cat's puking.
- 7:10Speaker 8: My dad's puking.
- 7:11Speaker 2: No, cat.
- 7:16Speaker 6: My grandpa's here.
- 7:17Speaker 5: Oh, no.
- 7:18Speaker 2: Okay, we ran out of time.
- 7:20Speaker 1: Oh, for Pete's sake.
- 7:22Speaker 9: Oh, my.
- 7:23Speaker 2: Oh, for Pete's sake.
- 7:25Speaker 8: That was so good.
- 7:26Speaker 2: My dad's puking.
- 7:28Speaker 8: My grandpa's puking.
- 7:30Speaker 2: I must. Everybody in that. It started with my dog.
- 7:37Speaker 2: One after another, hey? Are we all eating the same thing? Oh, Kim,
- 7:48Speaker 2: you are the best. You are the best. Gosh. That's
- 7:56Speaker 2: got to be my favorite 30-second name game in history.
- 8:00Speaker 8: I almost cried.
- 8:01Speaker 2: That was so good. Got to go. My dad's puking.
- 8:07Speaker 9: Okay, go.
- 8:09Speaker 8: I'm not going to ask any questions.
- 8:11Speaker 3: I'll call you later.
- 8:12Speaker 2: Oh, my gosh. Kim, you're too much. You're just too much.
- 8:16Speaker 9: I am.
- 8:17Speaker 2: I've been told that before.
- 8:19Speaker 3: You're just too much.
- 8:21Speaker 2: We love talking to you, Kim. You're the best.
- 8:23Speaker 8: Yeah, thanks for the time.
- 8:24Speaker 6: Okay, have a good day.
- 8:26Speaker 2: You too, Kim. Bye.
- 8:27Speaker 4: Bye.
- 8:33Speaker 2: I found this kind of funny. It's from the website askwomen.com.
- 8:37Speaker 2: What are some of the things you didn't let your
- 8:39Speaker 2: partner bring with them when you both moved in together
- 8:42Speaker 2: for the first time? And some of the answers are hilarious.
- 8:48Speaker 2: One of them was his Arizona iced tea can collection.
- 8:52Speaker 1: I don't understand why men, particularly if they were in
- 8:58Speaker 1: a frat house at some point in their lives, why
- 9:01Speaker 1: they collected like empty alcohol bottles.
- 9:04Speaker 2: Stupid things. Now, we did do a beer here named
- 9:09Speaker 2: after the show. So I do have that can.
- 9:11Speaker 7: Oh, of course.
- 9:12Speaker 2: But that's about it. I don't.
- 9:14Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 9:14Speaker 8: And that's not on display on your mantle.
- 9:17Speaker 2: No, it's in. I think it's in my office.
- 9:19Speaker 9: Yeah.
- 9:20Speaker 2: Or my garage. One of the two.
- 9:21Speaker 8: And I think that's perfectly acceptable.
- 9:24Speaker 2: I know guys that have collected beer bottles over the years.
- 9:27Speaker 9: Yeah, that's. Yeah, I know.
- 9:29Speaker 2: And when I see it on display, I go to myself,
- 9:32Speaker 2: that's cool.
- 9:34Speaker 8: Depends on where it is in the home.
- 9:35Speaker 2: Yeah, that's true. Like it's in a bar. Yeah, it
- 9:38Speaker 2: makes kind of sense.
- 9:39Speaker 8: Totally makes sense.
- 9:40Speaker 2: But would I ever do that?
- 9:41Speaker 8: Or put it in your bedroom or something? Come on.
- 9:46Speaker 2: No, I wouldn't. Any posters of any sort.
- 9:50Speaker 6: Right.
- 9:50Speaker 2: You kind of, I don't know.
- 9:52Speaker 1: Especially if it's posters of Scarface, Pink Floyd's Dark Side
- 9:55Speaker 1: of the Moon album.
- 9:57Speaker 2: But what about music magazines? memorabilia? Now, you have some.
- 10:01Speaker 8: I do have some.
- 10:01Speaker 2: But it's nice.
- 10:02Speaker 8: Thank you. You made fun of it before.
- 10:05Speaker 2: Well, listen, it's not for me.
- 10:06Speaker 8: Okay.
- 10:08Speaker 2: But it's a queen, placky thing with queen on it.
- 10:12Speaker 1: Yeah, and it's well-framed and, you know, it's a nice...
- 10:17Speaker 1: It's not just a grubby little post.
- 10:19Speaker 2: No, it's not. You're right.
- 10:23Speaker 9: Right.
- 10:23Speaker 8: Get out of here.
- 10:24Speaker 2: I don't know. Wednesday, what's your story on this?
- 10:29Speaker 6: Well, OK, kind of funny story. My boyfriend and I
- 10:32Speaker 6: are next door neighbors. Like we put the pool ladder
- 10:34Speaker 6: up between the fence so we can just have our
- 10:36Speaker 6: own spaces. But when I like first got to where
- 10:39Speaker 6: I live now, I moved in with him and my
- 10:41Speaker 6: stuff was in boxes. And I don't know, I wasn't
- 10:43Speaker 6: unpacking it because, you know, it's all fairies and dragons.
- 10:46Speaker 6: So I think I think for me, it was he
- 10:48Speaker 6: wouldn't know he didn't want the fairies up.
- 10:50Speaker 8: But dragons he was okay with?
- 10:52Speaker 2: Dragons were okay. You know, dragons. Honey, the dragons can
- 10:56Speaker 2: roll over there. But I got to draw a line
- 10:58Speaker 2: in the sand.
- 10:58Speaker 8: You can't do the fairies.
- 11:00Speaker 2: Listen, I got a rep in this neighborhood. If Gary
- 11:05Speaker 2: across the street sees fairies up, like, it's all over
- 11:08Speaker 2: for me.
- 11:13Speaker 3: It's the Casey Clark show.
- 11:15Speaker 2: If you just popped in, we're talking about this little
- 11:17Speaker 2: survey from askwomen.com. What's something you didn't let your partner
- 11:22Speaker 2: bring into the home when you first got together and
- 11:25Speaker 2: moved in? Is there anything that you didn't let Tyler bring?
- 11:30Speaker 8: A rice cooker.
- 11:31Speaker 1: I remember being like, we don't need that. And now
- 11:33Speaker 1: I'm kicking myself because the rice cooker is like the
- 11:36Speaker 1: greatest invention. Don't you already have a rice cooker? We
- 11:38Speaker 1: didn't at the time. He had one when we first met.
- 11:41Speaker 1: And I was like, we don't, you know, that rice is.
- 11:43Speaker 2: Too exotic for me. see it doesn't go with my
- 11:48Speaker 2: palate so it's just it's just going to just take
- 11:52Speaker 2: up space.
- 11:53Speaker 1: And that's what i thought and then years later we
- 11:55Speaker 1: got another rice cooker like our own that we share
- 11:59Speaker 1: and uh it's the greatest.
- 12:02Speaker 2: Thing ever now you're like i don't want that rice
- 12:04Speaker 2: cooker you probably cooked rice for some floozy yeah i
- 12:10Speaker 2: don't want it.
- 12:11Speaker 4: It's tainted I don't want your floozy cooking rice.
- 12:16Speaker 8: Floozy rice.
- 12:17Speaker 2: I don't need that.
- 12:18Speaker 8: Yeah, that's exactly how that covers you.
- 12:19Speaker 4: If this is going to work, it's only going to
- 12:22Speaker 4: work if we have a pure white rice cooker.
- 12:27Speaker 9: Okay?
- 12:27Speaker 2: Am I making myself clear?
- 12:29Speaker 8: Wow.
- 12:33Speaker 2: Some hard, fast rules over there.
- 12:35Speaker 8: It worked out, right?
- 12:36Speaker 2: It did work out, though. It did. Thank goodness. I know,
- 12:40Speaker 2: it did. It's amazing. Erin, was there anything that you
- 12:44Speaker 2: didn't allow?
- 12:45Speaker 5: His big antlers, his big deer antlers. He wanted to
- 12:49Speaker 5: hang them on the wall in the living room. Wasn't happening.
- 12:52Speaker 8: Yeah, love that.
- 12:53Speaker 3: Antlers?
- 12:53Speaker 10: Yeah.
- 12:55Speaker 5: Yeah, it's big deer.
- 12:57Speaker 2: Heads Okay, did it ever make the property?
- 13:01Speaker 5: Some of them, yes Some of them are at his
- 13:04Speaker 5: dad's house.
- 13:05Speaker 2: Okay, but not where you live No No I can
- 13:12Speaker 2: see that Yeah I can see it, so they're not
- 13:14Speaker 2: in the.
- 13:14Speaker 3: Bedroom Absolutely not.
- 13:17Speaker 2: Not in the hallways, not at the front door, nothing
- 13:20Speaker 2: like that? No. Well, that's fair.
- 13:23Speaker 5: One in the garage and that's about it.
- 13:25Speaker 8: Okay, the garage is a good spot.
- 13:26Speaker 2: I get that.
- 13:26Speaker 8: That's as far as I.
- 13:28Speaker 5: Would let them come to my living room.
- 13:30Speaker 2: Oh, that's fair.
- 13:31Speaker 3: It's the Casey Clark Show.
- 13:34Speaker 2: From the pages of Reddit and Unpopular Opinion, somebody posted,
- 13:38Speaker 2: your job does not need to be fulfilling. Basically, it's
- 13:42Speaker 2: a means to an end. And we put too much
- 13:46Speaker 2: effort and importance in the idea of you have to
- 13:52Speaker 2: love your job. The one that you're in. And what's
- 13:55Speaker 2: that old saying?
- 13:57Speaker 1: Oh, if you love the job you have, you won't
- 13:59Speaker 1: work a day in your life.
- 14:00Speaker 8: That kind of idea.
- 14:04Speaker 1: I think it honestly, we need people in this world
- 14:09Speaker 1: that just do the grind.
- 14:11Speaker 2: Do the grind.
- 14:12Speaker 8: Do you know what I mean?
- 14:12Speaker 2: Oh, I do know.
- 14:13Speaker 1: Like, I think we do need people that are maybe
- 14:17Speaker 1: not super emotionally attached to their job. They're just there
- 14:19Speaker 1: to punch in, punch out. And I think that's perfectly fine.
- 14:22Speaker 2: When I lived in Vancouver many moons ago, I had
- 14:26Speaker 2: a friend who worked for the city of Port Moody.
- 14:30Speaker 2: Maybe it was the town or something. And basically his
- 14:33Speaker 2: job was to clean flower beds, cut grass and do
- 14:37Speaker 2: maintenance stuff year round. Yeah. And wasn't overly important, wasn't
- 14:43Speaker 2: overly complicated. And he's like, it's a job. But he
- 14:47Speaker 2: loved everything he did after the job.
- 14:50Speaker 8: I see.
- 14:50Speaker 1: It freed up a lot of time for himself, and
- 14:52Speaker 1: he obviously made a decent living where he could enjoy
- 14:57Speaker 1: the fruits of his labor.
- 14:58Speaker 8: That's awesome.
- 14:58Speaker 2: That's all he wanted. Jen, does your job actually need
- 15:03Speaker 2: to be fulfilling?
- 15:04Speaker 10: I think your job needs to be very fulfilling.
- 15:06Speaker 2: Okay, why?
- 15:08Speaker 10: Well, because I would rather be in bed, so it
- 15:11Speaker 10: better be fulfilling or I'm just simply not going to go.
- 15:15Speaker 2: Is making a lot of money fulfilling?
- 15:17Speaker 4: Yes.
- 15:20Speaker 3: I wish I did.
- 15:23Speaker 2: But, Jen, my point there is that making a lot
- 15:25Speaker 2: of money fulfilling, but the way you make it isn't.
- 15:28Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying?
- 15:29Speaker 10: Yeah, I think it has to be a balance of both.
- 15:32Speaker 8: Yeah, I think that's fair. You've got to.
- 15:34Speaker 10: Get your butt there, and then you're there for like
- 15:36Speaker 10: 10 hours.
- 15:37Speaker 6: You might as well.
- 15:38Speaker 2: Enjoy it a bit.
- 15:39Speaker 8: You've got to enjoy it a bit.
- 15:40Speaker 2: I don't know, guys. If I'm getting paid like a
- 15:43Speaker 2: large amount of cash... I'd do almost anything to tell
- 15:46Speaker 2: you the truth, knowing that once the bell rings, like,
- 15:51Speaker 2: I'm in the money. You know what I mean? And then, like,
- 15:55Speaker 2: I'll be able to do things to fill that cup
- 15:58Speaker 2: up other than being at work. So, like, basically I
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- 16:23Speaker 8: There's a market for that, I'm sure.
- 16:24Speaker 2: I think there is.
- 16:26Speaker 10: There's a market for everything.
- 16:27Speaker 6: Yes.
- 16:27Speaker 2: There is, no doubt.
- 16:29Speaker 3: The Casey Clark Show.
- 16:31Speaker 7: This is the Casey Clark Show.
- 16:34Speaker 2: I was going through Reddit and under unpopular opinion, somebody posted,
- 16:38Speaker 2: does your job need to be fulfilling? No, it does not.
- 16:42Speaker 8: Yeah, I would totally agree with that.
- 16:43Speaker 2: I kind of feel like a hypocrite when I say that,
- 16:45Speaker 2: when I say I agree with you. No, it doesn't.
- 16:48Speaker 2: But yet we're in a job that's super fulfilling, super fun. Uh-huh.
- 16:52Speaker 9: Right? Right?
- 16:54Speaker 2: You're with me, right?
- 16:56Speaker 9: Right?
- 16:56Speaker 2: You're here, right?
- 16:57Speaker 8: I'm just having the best time.
- 16:58Speaker 2: You're with me?
- 16:59Speaker 8: Yeah, but I mean, there is something to be said for.
- 17:04Speaker 1: Um, even if you get into what you're doing for
- 17:06Speaker 1: a living for the fun of it, and because it's awesome,
- 17:10Speaker 1: that awesomeness can start feeling like work. I think that's
- 17:13Speaker 1: kind of like this dangerous fine line.
- 17:15Speaker 8: Do you know what I mean?
- 17:16Speaker 1: Where you could, you could absolutely love X and Y,
- 17:19Speaker 1: but when you'd have to do it every day, it
- 17:22Speaker 1: does become a grind.
- 17:23Speaker 8: It does become a grind.
- 17:24Speaker 2: Exactly. Listen, if, if, if we did just the podcast, right.
- 17:29Speaker 2: And we could do it anytime we want. Oh, right. Essentially.
- 17:33Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 17:33Speaker 2: So would it be the grind anymore?
- 17:35Speaker 8: Maybe not so much.
- 17:36Speaker 2: You know what I mean? If we picked our own hours,
- 17:38Speaker 2: but we did similar content and slash similar job.
- 17:42Speaker 8: And just sat and chatted every day.
- 17:44Speaker 2: That's basically what we do. I'm in.
- 17:46Speaker 9: Yeah.
- 17:46Speaker 2: And a lot of people are going, what are those
- 17:47Speaker 2: two dummies complaining about? Like, I'm the one that's punching
- 17:51Speaker 2: in and punching out. Like, I get like, it's not
- 17:53Speaker 2: lost on me. I get it.
- 17:54Speaker 8: Sure.
- 17:55Speaker 2: Kim, is your job fulfilling?
- 17:58Speaker 3: Yes, it is.
- 17:59Speaker 4: Oh.
- 17:59Speaker 2: Okay.
- 17:59Speaker 1: And do you feel like you don't go to work
- 18:02Speaker 1: because you're just having fun the whole time?
- 18:04Speaker 6: Some days I feel like I'm having a great time.
- 18:07Speaker 3: Others, yeah, most of the time it's a great day. Okay.
- 18:10Speaker 8: I think that's absolutely fair.
- 18:12Speaker 2: Kim, would you do your job for free? Would you
- 18:15Speaker 2: take a pay decrease to keep the funness?
- 18:17Speaker 6: Probably not.
- 18:18Speaker 2: Yeah, I know. It's not that fun after all. It's
- 18:21Speaker 2: not that fun.
- 18:21Speaker 8: We all need money. I get it.
- 18:23Speaker 2: Yeah, that's not fun.
- 18:24Speaker 6: No.
- 18:25Speaker 2: In fact, if you want to give me a raise
- 18:27Speaker 2: and take more fun out of it, I'd be way
- 18:29Speaker 2: open to that.
- 18:29Speaker 6: Totally.
- 18:30Speaker 2: Than the latter.
- 18:31Speaker 8: Because more money is fun.
- 18:32Speaker 2: Holy moly. Just in itself.
- 18:33Speaker 6: More money is fun.
- 18:34Speaker 2: It is, isn't it though? For those who say money
- 18:37Speaker 2: can't buy happiness, that's what poor people say. Ask somebody
- 18:43Speaker 2: who's rich, and they'll say, hell yeah, buys a lot
- 18:46Speaker 2: of happiness.
- 18:47Speaker 8: I'm having so much fun.
- 18:48Speaker 2: I'm so happy. They really do. Don't listen to the surveys, man.
- 18:52Speaker 2: That's just garbage. No.
- 18:54Speaker 9: Right?
- 18:54Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah. I'm with you.
- 18:57Speaker 3: The Casey Clark Show.
- 19:00Speaker 2: Yeah, man, that's the good stuff. This is where we
- 19:09Speaker 2: celebrate an amazing human. rescuing another human. We call this
- 19:15Speaker 2: the good stuff. Okay, so his name is Matthew Clark.
- 19:20Speaker 2: So Matt just finished his own hand glider flight.
- 19:25Speaker 8: Okay, got it.
- 19:26Speaker 2: So this is where you're in this kind of harness,
- 19:29Speaker 2: and you have this kite above you, and you zoom
- 19:31Speaker 2: off the side of a mountain. He did this on
- 19:35Speaker 2: Vancouver Island. That's when... A call came over the radio.
- 19:40Speaker 2: A 75-year-old pilot, Stephen Parsons, he actually crashed into a
- 19:45Speaker 2: tree and was hanging by his harness. Badly hurt. Rescuers
- 19:49Speaker 2: couldn't reach him. him, but Matt, with no climbing gear,
- 19:53Speaker 2: he was saying, well, I think I could.
- 19:55Speaker 9: I did what I'm good at, I guess, and I
- 19:58Speaker 9: got into the chimney and I climbed up there and
- 20:03Speaker 9: I think the adrenaline made me not really think about
- 20:07Speaker 9: it too much. But I do remember feeling very secure
- 20:11Speaker 9: as I was climbing up.
- 20:12Speaker 4: No.
- 20:13Speaker 8: That's exactly what I'm thinking.
- 20:15Speaker 9: What?
- 20:16Speaker 2: I've seen these pictures of what Matt climbed. And it's
- 20:19Speaker 2: just this little chimney of natural rock.
- 20:23Speaker 6: No.
- 20:23Speaker 2: Where he shimmied himself up. Matt climbed that slippery gully.
- 20:30Speaker 2: And nothing in his hands, no rope, no nothing. He
- 20:33Speaker 2: just freed it. And when he finally got up to Stephen,
- 20:37Speaker 2: because the paramedics couldn't get to him, they had to
- 20:42Speaker 2: wait three hours for a helicopter.
- 20:44Speaker 7: Oh, my gosh.
- 20:45Speaker 2: The great news is our friend Stephen has made a
- 20:49Speaker 2: full recovery. keep in mind 75 years yeah no kidding
- 20:53Speaker 2: and steven is so.
- 20:54Speaker 11: Lucky it hadn't been for him free climbing up that
- 20:58Speaker 11: chimney and cutting me out i mean i was there
- 21:01Speaker 11: 45 minutes and my legs knew it but if it
- 21:04Speaker 11: had been hours which they say it would have been
- 21:06Speaker 11: hours it would have been at least my legs would
- 21:09Speaker 11: have been maybe gone and uh i don't know about
- 21:13Speaker 11: my life but um you know it was.
- 21:16Speaker 1: Huge yeah yeah oh i i'm gonna be sick like
- 21:21Speaker 1: sick with worry oh my goodness.
- 21:23Speaker 2: Um last week matt was awarded the carnegie medal an
- 21:26Speaker 2: honor for people who risk their own lives to save
- 21:28Speaker 2: someone else and when you ask matt yeah you're a
- 21:31Speaker 2: hero this is what he says that's what.
- 21:33Speaker 9: Everyone's telling me honestly i i don't really feel like
- 21:37Speaker 9: a hero um i just i just went to go
- 21:39Speaker 9: help him um so it's it's honestly really weird for
- 21:43Speaker 9: people that are calling me a hero.
- 21:44Speaker 2: No you're a hero you're a hero You're a hero.
- 21:52Speaker 2: And unfortunately, we've had the opportunity to be a part
- 21:59Speaker 2: of a mountain rescue, not like this one, but still
- 22:03Speaker 2: when we have to rely on those that you don't
- 22:06Speaker 2: know to get you off the mountain. Right.
- 22:08Speaker 8: And you're in like tough spots. Yeah.
- 22:10Speaker 2: So just... Hats off, high fives and knuckles to humans
- 22:16Speaker 2: like Matthew Clark, who just run up there without even thinking.
- 22:26Speaker 2: That is nuts. We are asking you in celebration of
- 22:32Speaker 2: the hockey season kicking off tonight, in fact. Manny Mahotra
- 22:36Speaker 2: is the new NHL coach for the Vancouver Canucks, his
- 22:39Speaker 2: first NHL game. But he's been with the organization not
- 22:42Speaker 2: only as a player, but on and off and inside
- 22:44Speaker 2: the organization as a coach. Is it tougher to come
- 22:48Speaker 2: into a new situation, don't know anybody, or would you
- 22:51Speaker 2: rather work for someone that's come through the ranks and
- 22:55Speaker 2: has been promoted?
- 22:56Speaker 1: That you've seen get promoted for all those steps. Okay, well,
- 22:59Speaker 1: what would you rather have?
- 23:00Speaker 2: I think I like seeing somebody move up the ranks.
- 23:03Speaker 8: Do you think that's inspiring?
- 23:05Speaker 2: It can be a lot of the time.
- 23:07Speaker 8: I can see that for sure.
- 23:08Speaker 2: I think when you see an organization that picks from within,
- 23:11Speaker 2: it gives one hope, I guess. I mean.
- 23:16Speaker 2: I've worked with organizations that have done the complete opposite,
- 23:19Speaker 2: where then you basically say to the workforce, you don't
- 23:23Speaker 2: have a chance of any room advancement here, regardless of
- 23:27Speaker 2: your performance. And you're like, well, then it's time for
- 23:30Speaker 2: me to leave.
- 23:30Speaker 8: Yeah, like, what am I even doing here? That is tough.
- 23:33Speaker 2: Versus another organization that says, you know what? We're going
- 23:36Speaker 2: to reward you with this promotion because... of your development
- 23:39Speaker 2: and your skill level and.
- 23:40Speaker 8: What you bring. And your loyalty and working hard.
- 23:41Speaker 2: Yeah, all these things. Sure, right. I do agree it
- 23:44Speaker 2: tends to be a little difficult, but I don't know, man.
- 23:47Speaker 2: I like knowing, you know, the devil you know versus
- 23:49Speaker 2: the devil you don't.
- 23:50Speaker 8: I think that's a really good point, yeah.
- 23:51Speaker 2: You know that? Erin, who would you rather work for?
- 23:55Speaker 5: Probably somebody that got promoted because they probably know the
- 23:57Speaker 5: ins and outs better.
- 23:59Speaker 2: Hmm.
- 24:01Speaker 8: But would it be difficult?
- 24:02Speaker 1: Because at one point they were, you know, equal to you.
- 24:06Speaker 1: Maybe they were even lower than you. And now all
- 24:09Speaker 1: of a sudden they're your boss. Would that be kind
- 24:11Speaker 1: of hard with that power dynamic changing?
- 24:13Speaker 5: I'm pretty laid back. I don't think so.
- 24:17Speaker 8: You're good.
- 24:18Speaker 2: Listen, your promotion is not a reflection of my laziness.
- 24:23Speaker 5: No, exactly.
- 24:24Speaker 9: Right?
- 24:24Speaker 2: Maybe I just don't want the added responsibility.
- 24:27Speaker 8: Hey, that's true.
- 24:28Speaker 2: You know? Yeah. You don't know. You don't know.
- 24:33Speaker 3: It's the Casey Clark Show.
- 24:35Speaker 2: The 26-27 season of the NHL kicks off today. Some
- 24:40Speaker 2: big games on tap, including the Canucks in Edmonton to
- 24:43Speaker 2: take on the Oilers. That will see Manny Malhotra... Well,
- 24:47Speaker 2: his first NHL game as a head coach.
- 24:49Speaker 3: Right.
- 24:50Speaker 8: It's very exciting.
- 24:51Speaker 2: So Manny came up to the systems not only as
- 24:53Speaker 2: a former player of the Canucks, but he was also
- 24:55Speaker 2: in the farm system, worked with the big club for
- 24:57Speaker 2: a little bit. So basically it was an internal promotion.
- 25:01Speaker 9: Right.
- 25:02Speaker 2: So the question now is, is it better as a
- 25:05Speaker 2: leader to be coming in fresh and lead a team
- 25:09Speaker 2: that you don't know? Or is it better as a
- 25:10Speaker 2: leader to come in to a team that you already know?
- 25:14Speaker 1: I can't speak from being the boss perspective, but as
- 25:20Speaker 1: an employee or someone that's pretty low in any of
- 25:25Speaker 1: the ranks. I prefer to have a fresh new boss.
- 25:29Speaker 2: You do.
- 25:29Speaker 1: I don't like the idea of someone that was maybe
- 25:32Speaker 1: an equal to me now all of a sudden getting
- 25:36Speaker 1: promoted and telling me what to do.
- 25:38Speaker 2: You don't like that.
- 25:39Speaker 7: I don't.
- 25:41Speaker 2: You know what?
- 25:41Speaker 1: I don't know if that makes me a bad person,
- 25:43Speaker 1: but I'm willing to admit that it does make me uncomfortable.
- 25:48Speaker 8: The power dynamic shifting is... I don't like it.
- 25:51Speaker 2: Lack of security? Insecurity?
- 25:53Speaker 8: Sure. I just think it's... It's hard.
- 25:57Speaker 2: It's dumb.
- 25:58Speaker 8: It's no. And I mean, don't get me wrong.
- 26:01Speaker 1: It's not like I will disrespect this person that came
- 26:04Speaker 1: up through the ranks and got promoted, but there'd always
- 26:07Speaker 1: be something in the back of my mind. Like, Hey,
- 26:09Speaker 1: we used to key key together by the water cooler.
- 26:11Speaker 1: And now you're telling me what to do. Like it
- 26:13Speaker 1: would just kind of be, be back there in my mind.
- 26:16Speaker 2: It irritates you. It, does yeah it does it irritates
- 26:19Speaker 2: you brandon you said no way it's pretty hard to
- 26:24Speaker 2: jump from just being a regular person to the boss
- 26:27Speaker 2: why is.
- 26:28Speaker 4: That everyone's just gonna give you a hard time.
- 26:30Speaker 2: The respect level is going to be tough to earn
- 26:33Speaker 2: you think.
- 26:34Speaker 1: Yeah yeah because you're kind of like equal playing field
- 26:37Speaker 1: with a lot of people for a while and then
- 26:39Speaker 1: now all of a sudden you're everybody's boss.
- 26:41Speaker 2: Yeah that's the laws of the jungle man that's showbiz
- 26:43Speaker 2: baby You know what you do is you single somebody
- 26:48Speaker 2: out and you fire them.
- 26:49Speaker 8: Yeah. Oh, yeah.
- 26:51Speaker 4: Assert dominance.
- 26:52Speaker 2: Yes, exactly. Assert dominance. You send a message to say, yeah,
- 26:57Speaker 2: I might have been, you know, Kyle, fun Kyle by
- 27:00Speaker 2: the coffee machine, but I'm manager Kyle now, right?
- 27:04Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 27:04Speaker 2: Send a message.
- 27:06Speaker 3: It's the Casey Clark Show.
- 27:08Speaker 2: All right, let's play another round of Quick Draw. Up
- 27:11Speaker 2: for grabs right now. Twyla, it's your chance to beat
- 27:13Speaker 2: the pants off of me, and you're already trash-talking me, okay?
- 27:16Speaker 3: Yeah, well, you know, come at me.
- 27:19Speaker 2: Okay. Let's do it.
- 27:21Speaker 1: So with Quick Draw, Twyla, I will ask you five questions.
- 27:24Speaker 1: It's you against Casey. The questions will be like, name
- 27:26Speaker 1: something that you would see in a classroom that starts
- 27:29Speaker 1: with the letter P.
- 27:31Speaker 2: Pencil.
- 27:32Speaker 8: Pencil. So good.
- 27:34Speaker 2: Oh, oh, wait a second.
- 27:35Speaker 8: You get it.
- 27:36Speaker 2: Okay.
- 27:37Speaker 3: So, yeah.
- 27:38Speaker 2: Shots fired, lady.
- 27:40Speaker 1: I will take the quickest, and here's the kicker here,
- 27:42Speaker 1: the most acceptable answer, okay?
- 27:45Speaker 8: You don't have to buzz in, Twyla. Just shout out
- 27:47Speaker 8: your answer right away.
- 27:48Speaker 9: Ready? Okay. Yep.
- 27:50Speaker 2: All right.
- 27:50Speaker 8: There we go. Twyla versus Casey.
- 27:51Speaker 2: Quick draw.
- 27:52Speaker 3: Okay.
- 27:52Speaker 8: Question one.
- 27:53Speaker 1: Name something you would see in the ocean that starts
- 27:58Speaker 1: with the letter L.
- 28:01Speaker 6: A water lizard. Oh.
- 28:04Speaker 9: Leech. Lizards. Oh.
- 28:08Speaker 1: I think, okay, here's the thing. I'm going to take leech,
- 28:12Speaker 1: even though I think that's more of a freshwater thing.
- 28:14Speaker 2: No, that's, a leech is not in the ocean.
- 28:16Speaker 8: But I, I like.
- 28:18Speaker 2: The leech is actually freshwater. It's only in lakes.
- 28:21Speaker 6: Did you hear that, Casey?
- 28:22Speaker 10: She likes me.
- 28:24Speaker 2: I like you too, but it's wrong. So if a
- 28:25Speaker 2: kid's listening right now and goes to school and.
- 28:27Speaker 9: Says, leech.
- 28:28Speaker 1: But I already said I get it, but I still
- 28:31Speaker 1: want to give Twyla the point.
- 28:33Speaker 3: Dang.
- 28:35Speaker 8: It was a tough one, okay?
- 28:36Speaker 2: You should have said autumn or you should have, you
- 28:38Speaker 2: know what, lumineer and you would have been, I like you,
- 28:41Speaker 2: so it's going to be correct.
- 28:42Speaker 8: You could have said whatever.
- 28:43Speaker 2: You could have said anything, in fact.
- 28:45Speaker 6: Well, Casey's not happy.
- 28:46Speaker 8: Yes, he's not.
- 28:47Speaker 2: Well, because it's a wrong answer.
- 28:48Speaker 8: It's fine. You'll do okay.
- 28:51Speaker 2: All right.
- 28:51Speaker 8: Question two.
- 28:52Speaker 2: Unbelievable. Unbelievable.
- 28:54Speaker 8: Twyla versus Casey. Twyla's up 1-0.
- 28:57Speaker 1: Name a dressing, dip, sauce, or condiment that starts with
- 29:02Speaker 1: the letter H.
- 29:03Speaker 2: Hot sauce.
- 29:04Speaker 10: Hot sauce.
- 29:05Speaker 8: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
- 29:06Speaker 10: Okay.
- 29:07Speaker 8: Casey's up. Or, I mean, it's a tie game.
- 29:09Speaker 2: It's a tie game.
- 29:10Speaker 8: It's a tie game. All right.
- 29:12Speaker 3: 1-1.
- 29:12Speaker 1: Question three in Quick Draw. What's something you'd see at
- 29:15Speaker 1: a nightclub? Yeah, that starts with the letter A.
- 29:20Speaker 2: Animals.
- 29:21Speaker 9: Animals.
- 29:23Speaker 8: They're all animals out there.
- 29:24Speaker 2: They're all animals.
- 29:26Speaker 1: Audio equipment.
- 29:28Speaker 2: Oh, that's a good one. That was a really good one.
- 29:31Speaker 3: I like that one.
- 29:32Speaker 8: I like animals, too.
- 29:33Speaker 2: No, I know, but audio equipment at a nightclub. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
- 29:37Speaker 8: Okay, Twyla, you're up 2-1. Nicely done. Okay, question three.
- 29:42Speaker 1: Name something you would see in a clothing store that
- 29:46Speaker 1: starts with the letter R.
- 29:47Speaker 2: Robes.
- 29:49Speaker 9: Yeah. Oh, yeah. Oh, robes.
- 29:51Speaker 8: Yeah, yeah, yeah. Good one. Twyla, my goodness.
- 29:54Speaker 2: On fire.
- 29:55Speaker 8: Okay, last question.
- 29:58Speaker 1: Twyla's up 3-1. What's a girl's name that starts with
- 30:02Speaker 1: the letter W?
- 30:03Speaker 8: Wanda.
- 30:05Speaker 7: Yeah.
- 30:05Speaker 8: Good one.
- 30:07Speaker 2: All I do is win, win, win, no matter what.
- 30:11Speaker 2: Got money on my mind.
- 30:12Speaker 7: I can never get enough.
- 30:15Speaker 3: The Casey Clark Show.
- 30:17Speaker 7: This is the Casey Clark Show.
- 30:20Speaker 2: We're talking about places that you originally didn't have a
- 30:24Speaker 2: lot of high hopes to going to. And then when
- 30:26Speaker 2: you finally went there, you're like, ah, it's not so bad.
- 30:29Speaker 2: For those that have never been to Toronto.
- 30:31Speaker 8: Okay.
- 30:32Speaker 2: And listen, growing up in Edmonton, we thought Toronto was
- 30:35Speaker 2: this big, bad place. Okay.
- 30:37Speaker 7: Really?
- 30:38Speaker 9: Yeah.
- 30:38Speaker 2: We're just like, because every time as a Westerner growing up,
- 30:41Speaker 2: you're like, well, the election's over by the time I
- 30:44Speaker 2: get to vote. All that other garbage and nonsense.
- 30:46Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
- 30:47Speaker 2: Sure. But listen, I lived in Toronto before. I had
- 30:50Speaker 2: babies that got married there. When you're there, you're like,
- 30:54Speaker 2: I get it. I get why this is a big deal.
- 30:57Speaker 2: Totally get why this is a big deal. But back
- 30:59Speaker 2: in the day when my wife, Susie Cusey, who I
- 31:02Speaker 2: adore and love as my reason for breathing, wanted to
- 31:05Speaker 2: go and just itching to go to New York. She's
- 31:08Speaker 2: been there a thousand times and wanted to take me
- 31:10Speaker 2: for the first time. I was just like, I could
- 31:14Speaker 2: care less. Really? Because I was living in Toronto. I
- 31:16Speaker 2: didn't want to go from another big city to another
- 31:18Speaker 2: big city.
- 31:19Speaker 1: Did you think that it would be exactly the same?
- 31:22Speaker 1: What's the point of spending money?
- 31:24Speaker 2: Exactly. So when I finally went, I fell in love
- 31:27Speaker 2: with New York and I'm like, and I've been back
- 31:29Speaker 2: many times because of it. And I'm like, I love
- 31:32Speaker 2: this city. It's totally different from Toronto. Totally different.
- 31:36Speaker 9: Wow.
- 31:36Speaker 2: Yeah. So I'd go back in a second. In fact,
- 31:41Speaker 2: Maggie and our Maggie and Sue just got back from
- 31:44Speaker 2: a week in New York.
- 31:44Speaker 8: Right.
- 31:45Speaker 2: That's awesome.
- 31:46Speaker 10: So, yeah.
- 31:47Speaker 2: I love New York City. And again, if you think
- 31:49Speaker 2: it's a big city, it is. But it just has
- 31:52Speaker 2: a vibe.
- 31:53Speaker 8: Oh, it absolutely does.
- 31:54Speaker 2: Just has a vibe. Jen, what about for you? Same question.
- 31:59Speaker 2: Didn't originally turn you on, but then you got there
- 32:01Speaker 2: and you're like, this is awesome.
- 32:03Speaker 10: Um, I was kind of thinking the same thing about, like,
- 32:07Speaker 10: Niagara Falls.
- 32:08Speaker 4: Oh.
- 32:09Speaker 10: Just because I thought, okay, once you see the falls, like,
- 32:11Speaker 10: what else is there to do?
- 32:13Speaker 9: Right, right.
- 32:13Speaker 10: And I was pleasantly surprised. There's a lot of really
- 32:17Speaker 10: fun things to do around there.
- 32:19Speaker 2: So what's the hill you go down? Oh, my gosh.
- 32:23Speaker 2: Where all the amusement things are and the wax museums.
- 32:26Speaker 2: You know what I'm talking about?
- 32:27Speaker 10: Yeah, there's like, it's almost like an outdoor, like lower,
- 32:32Speaker 10: sort of like a Vegas-y kind of feel.
- 32:34Speaker 2: Yes, it's a mini Vegas.
- 32:35Speaker 8: Oh, that's very cool.
- 32:36Speaker 2: It's like mini Vegas. Clifton Hill, I just remembered.
- 32:39Speaker 4: Oh, okay.
- 32:39Speaker 2: It's called Clifton Hill.
- 32:41Speaker 4: Oh.
- 32:41Speaker 2: Right.
- 32:42Speaker 3: Yeah, that sounds familiar.
- 32:42Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Hey, same, same with you. We
- 32:44Speaker 2: used to go down to Niagara Falls all the time. Again,
- 32:46Speaker 2: living in Toronto, we actually lived in Oakville. So that
- 32:50Speaker 2: drive was like an hour and a half. So yeah,
- 32:53Speaker 2: I'm with you on that one.
- 32:54Speaker 3: Casey Clark Show.
- 32:56Speaker 7: This is The Casey Clark Show.
- 32:59Speaker 2: We were talking about those places that you weren't too
- 33:02Speaker 2: keen on going to originally, but then once you went,
- 33:06Speaker 2: you're like, okay, not so bad.
- 33:08Speaker 1: So Tyler and I are planning on going to Australia
- 33:11Speaker 1: next year for a wedding.
- 33:14Speaker 8: Now, I have.
- 33:16Speaker 1: A huge fear of creepy crawly and all things that
- 33:19Speaker 1: live in Australia, basically. Australia, I'm sure, is very beautiful
- 33:25Speaker 1: and it looks great. And I do understand, don't get
- 33:28Speaker 1: me wrong, I understand that, you know, I'm not going
- 33:30Speaker 1: to land in Australia and a snake's going to come
- 33:33Speaker 1: out of nowhere and bite me.
- 33:33Speaker 2: Probably not.
- 33:34Speaker 1: Like, I get that, you know, they're where they're supposed
- 33:37Speaker 1: to be in their habitat. But it's never a place
- 33:41Speaker 1: that I've ever wanted to visit on my own volition.
- 33:43Speaker 8: We're going for a wedding, so.
- 33:46Speaker 2: There's the motivation.
- 33:46Speaker 8: That's the motivation to go.
- 33:49Speaker 1: It is one of those places that I think, even
- 33:51Speaker 1: though in the back of my mind, I'm like, I'm
- 33:53Speaker 1: scared because I'm going to get eaten alive.
- 33:55Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 33:56Speaker 8: I bet I'll love it. Like, I just.
- 33:58Speaker 2: You're going to fall in love with it.
- 33:59Speaker 9: Yeah.
- 33:59Speaker 2: I've never been, but I know a ton of people
- 34:02Speaker 2: that go and they had the same kind of initial thoughts.
- 34:07Speaker 2: Am I going to like this?
- 34:08Speaker 7: Yeah.
- 34:09Speaker 8: Oh, there's like sharks, too.
- 34:11Speaker 2: And it's a long way to go, by the way.
- 34:13Speaker 2: It's a long way to go.
- 34:15Speaker 8: It's a long way to travel.
- 34:16Speaker 6: I know.
- 34:17Speaker 8: But I am excited.
- 34:18Speaker 1: And I know I will like it. I'm just trying
- 34:21Speaker 1: to get over that hump of being a little bit
- 34:23Speaker 1: afraid of it.
- 34:24Speaker 2: They say if there was any other country that was
- 34:26Speaker 2: as close to Canada outside of language as the accent,
- 34:30Speaker 2: it is Australia. That's very similar, yeah.
- 34:33Speaker 8: Because I have some Aussie friends, and I can't understand
- 34:35Speaker 8: them half the time.
- 34:36Speaker 2: Yeah, outside, yeah. You go to Newfoundland, same, same.
- 34:39Speaker 9: Same, same.
- 34:40Speaker 2: Sarah, same question for you. A place that you thought originally, nah,
- 34:44Speaker 2: but then when you went, you're like, yeah. Hawaii.
- 34:48Speaker 4: Oh.
- 34:49Speaker 5: I was like, oh, it's going to be super Americanized
- 34:52Speaker 5: and weird and not like Mexico where I had been before.
- 34:55Speaker 2: Okay.
- 34:56Speaker 5: Fabulous.
- 34:57Speaker 8: Okay, so you're completely turned on Hawaii. You love it now.
- 35:02Speaker 3: Love it.
- 35:03Speaker 2: Better than Mexico.
- 35:04Speaker 5: I really love anywhere with.
- 35:07Speaker 6: A good beach.
- 35:09Speaker 8: I'm the same.
- 35:12Speaker 2: Also, we're asking people, because this is an unpopular opinion,
- 35:17Speaker 2: your job does not need to be fulfilling. Yes or no?
- 35:22Speaker 3: The Casey Clark Show.
- 35:24Speaker 2: From the pages of AskWomen.com, what is something your partner
- 35:27Speaker 2: does for you that is no big deal, but you
- 35:31Speaker 2: absolutely adore it? People were posting, every time he goes shopping,
- 35:37Speaker 2: he buys something chocolatey for me.
- 35:40Speaker 8: Oh, that's sweet.
- 35:41Speaker 2: Yeah, it is sweet. Carries my purse when required. No hesitation.
- 35:47Speaker 2: No shame.
- 35:47Speaker 1: Oh, so what does Sue do for you? Without prompting,
- 35:52Speaker 1: and it's a small little thing, but.
- 35:54Speaker 2: It's the best. Everything does for me. My reason for breathing. Exactly.
- 36:00Speaker 2: Everything she does for me. I've been doing my own laundry, though, lately.
- 36:04Speaker 8: Oh, how's that going?
- 36:05Speaker 2: Pretty good. Yeah. Like, what's the big deal? Everything just
- 36:08Speaker 2: goes in.
- 36:09Speaker 9: Same, same.
- 36:10Speaker 2: Comes out same, same.
- 36:12Speaker 8: Yeah, yeah. It's, like, annoying, though.
- 36:13Speaker 1: So that's big that she used to do that for you.
- 36:16Speaker 2: And my color palette for my wardrobe really doesn't... It
- 36:20Speaker 2: isn't really diverse, let's just say.
- 36:21Speaker 8: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
- 36:22Speaker 2: No, I get that. So I can get, you know,
- 36:24Speaker 2: the darks and the lights are pretty much the same.
- 36:27Speaker 2: So it's, yeah, it's easy. So I think I do
- 36:29Speaker 2: that for her.
- 36:30Speaker 7: Oh, okay.
- 36:31Speaker 8: To take that off her plate.
- 36:32Speaker 9: Yeah, of course.
- 36:32Speaker 8: Oh, that is very nice.
- 36:34Speaker 6: Right?
- 36:34Speaker 2: I do my own laundry. I'm a grown man. Look
- 36:35Speaker 2: at you. I can do it. What's the big deal?
- 36:39Speaker 9: Right?
- 36:40Speaker 8: Perfect.
- 36:40Speaker 2: But I do kind of freak out when I put
- 36:43Speaker 2: it in the washer. Then I'm like, now I'm strapped
- 36:46Speaker 2: to the house. Right. Because I don't want the mold.
- 36:49Speaker 8: No, I know.
- 36:50Speaker 2: Right?
- 36:50Speaker 8: But laundry can sit in a washing machine for a
- 36:53Speaker 8: little bit.
- 36:54Speaker 2: For how long?
- 36:54Speaker 8: I don't know, a couple hours?
- 36:56Speaker 2: A couple of hours.
- 36:57Speaker 8: You'll be okay.
- 36:57Speaker 2: I don't think I will.
- 36:58Speaker 3: You can go and do stuff.
- 36:59Speaker 2: I'm not sure.
- 37:01Speaker 10: Okay.
- 37:02Speaker 2: Wow. I'm just watching it.
- 37:05Speaker 8: Not even leaving the room.
- 37:07Speaker 2: No, no, I'm just watching it and staring at it,
- 37:09Speaker 2: counting down the timer. She's like, you know what? You
- 37:12Speaker 2: can do other things. I can't. I'm strapped to the
- 37:15Speaker 2: laundry room. This is a prison.
- 37:16Speaker 8: It's an art.
- 37:17Speaker 2: You're welcome. I don't know why you do this. So
- 37:21Speaker 2: we're asking Nicole, what are the little things your partner
- 37:24Speaker 2: does for you?
- 37:26Speaker 3: You're listening to the KC Clark Show.
- 37:30Speaker 2: If you just popped in, we're talking about a question
- 37:34Speaker 2: from the website AskWomen.com. What is something your partner does
- 37:38Speaker 2: for you that is no big deal, but you absolutely
- 37:42Speaker 2: adore it? A woman posted, when my stepdaughter and I
- 37:45Speaker 2: make crafts, my husband hangs mine up in the house too.
- 37:49Speaker 8: Oh my gosh, that is so adorable. Oh my gosh.
- 37:53Speaker 2: He makes me a latte every morning and brings it
- 37:55Speaker 2: to me in bed. The perfect way to start my day.
- 37:58Speaker 8: I love that. I don't know if you're going to
- 38:01Speaker 8: make fun of me for this one.
- 38:02Speaker 2: Probably will.
- 38:02Speaker 8: Probably. Or maybe it's weird. I don't know. Tyler tucks
- 38:08Speaker 8: me in every night. Is that weird?
- 38:11Speaker 2: That is sweet.
- 38:12Speaker 8: Is it sweet?
- 38:13Speaker 2: It is sweet.
- 38:14Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 38:15Speaker 1: I mean, I generally go to bed a lot earlier
- 38:17Speaker 1: than he does. Um, so just quickly comes in and
- 38:21Speaker 1: he like fluffs up the blankets, make sure the cats
- 38:23Speaker 1: are good, you know, nestles me in real tight.
- 38:27Speaker 2: And then I go to bed. Does he do a story?
- 38:29Speaker 8: No, not quite.
- 38:32Speaker 2: He should up his game and do a feels.
- 38:34Speaker 8: My forehead to make sure I'm not sick.
- 38:37Speaker 2: Yeah. Does he grab your nose? Who's got your nose?
- 38:40Speaker 8: No, I'm too tired.
- 38:42Speaker 2: Okay. No, that is really sweet.
- 38:44Speaker 9: Is it?
- 38:44Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 38:45Speaker 2: Okay. I like that. Chad, what does your partner do
- 38:48Speaker 2: for you? Just a little thing.
- 38:50Speaker 10: Makes coffee in the morning when she wakes up.
- 38:52Speaker 2: Okay, that's a little thing.
- 38:54Speaker 1: So you don't have to worry about it and it
- 38:56Speaker 1: doesn't take that time out of your morning.
- 38:59Speaker 9: Exactly.
- 39:00Speaker 2: Oh, that's so nice. Chad's busy, man. Like, honey, I
- 39:04Speaker 2: can't do everything. Right? And she gets the coffee going. Now,
- 39:10Speaker 2: let me turn that chair around and ask you the
- 39:12Speaker 2: same thing about her. What are the little things you
- 39:14Speaker 2: do for her?
- 39:15Speaker 10: Probably not enough.
- 39:16Speaker 2: Oh, there's a great answer. Look at this guy.
- 39:20Speaker 9: He came.
- 39:21Speaker 2: He's playing. He is on it. Get out of here.
- 39:25Speaker 8: That's a good answer.
- 39:26Speaker 2: What a great answer. Thank you. if elected, Chad's our guy.
- 39:34Speaker 2: Get out. Too much. Maybe not enough. I don't know.
- 39:38Speaker 9: No, not enough.
- 39:40Speaker 2: You got that right. There it is. Chad, we appreciate you, bud.
- 39:44Speaker 9: Thanks, guys. Have a good day.
- 39:45Speaker 8: You too.
- 39:45Speaker 2: See you later.
- 39:46Speaker 7: Bye.
- 39:46Speaker 3: It's the Casey Clark Show.
- 39:51Speaker 2: Sasha's Info Dump.
- 39:54Speaker 1: A big reason why your friendships might not be as
- 39:57Speaker 1: deep or last as long as you'd like them to,
- 39:59Speaker 1: I'll tell you what might be the culprit coming up.
- 40:02Speaker 1: I think we all know that having a pet, I mean,
- 40:04Speaker 1: they just enrich our lives so much.
- 40:06Speaker 9: Oh, absolutely.
- 40:07Speaker 8: And experts say dogs in particular can help you live longer.
- 40:11Speaker 1: Three main reasons. I mean, daily physical activity. Studies show
- 40:15Speaker 1: that dog owners walk an average of 22 more minutes
- 40:18Speaker 1: a day.
- 40:18Speaker 8: Right, yeah.
- 40:19Speaker 1: Because you got to take your dog out for sure.
- 40:21Speaker 1: Stress reduction. Interacting with a pet can lower cortisol, the
- 40:24Speaker 1: stress hormone. And of course, reduced isolation. I mean, even
- 40:28Speaker 1: if you don't see people all the time, at least
- 40:31Speaker 1: you've got a little built-in friend in your home.
- 40:34Speaker 8: So really, it's simple. If you want to live longer...
- 40:38Speaker 8: Go adopt a dog.
- 40:39Speaker 9: That's it.
- 40:39Speaker 2: It's so funny. On that note, my daughter sent me
- 40:43Speaker 2: on Instagram, men who have daughters live longer.
- 40:47Speaker 8: Aw, do you think that's true?
- 40:51Speaker 2: Yeah, I think it is. Also, men who have daughters
- 40:54Speaker 2: are poorer.
- 40:55Speaker 8: Yes, I have heard that as well. I think from you.
- 40:58Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 40:59Speaker 1: Okay, here's an interesting take on why you might be
- 41:01Speaker 1: finding yourself with more, I guess like surface level friends.
- 41:04Speaker 1: You're not forming deep connections or maybe friendships kind of
- 41:07Speaker 1: come and go. Not necessarily a bad thing, but if
- 41:10Speaker 1: you're craving those long lasting connections, one.
- 41:13Speaker 8: Tip from a relationship expert is... Ask for help more.
- 41:17Speaker 1: Asking for favors can actually deepen relationships between friends. Nowadays,
- 41:23Speaker 1: because we have all these apps that can do favors
- 41:26Speaker 1: for us, we don't need to ride.
- 41:28Speaker 8: To the airport.
- 41:28Speaker 1: We can call an Uber. If we're sick, we don't
- 41:31Speaker 1: need someone to bring us groceries. We can get it delivered,
- 41:33Speaker 1: that sort of thing. So we tend to just not.
- 41:36Speaker 8: Ask for help, but it is a really good way
- 41:39Speaker 8: to find out who your friends are.
- 41:41Speaker 2: That's true.
- 41:41Speaker 1: And one of our problems as well is we don't
- 41:44Speaker 1: want to feel like a burden. right we don't want
- 41:45Speaker 1: to ask for help too much but a way to
- 41:47Speaker 1: avoid that is to put yourself in the other person's
- 41:50Speaker 1: shoes like when you can help out a friend you
- 41:53Speaker 1: feel really good about yourself and you're like oh my
- 41:55Speaker 1: gosh this friendship is blooming yeah look at how we're
- 41:57Speaker 1: helping each other we scratch each other's back it's amazing
- 42:00Speaker 1: lifelong yeah so if you can just ask for help
- 42:04Speaker 1: a little bit more and that'll help you build those
- 42:06Speaker 1: long-lasting relationships and that's your info dump it's.
- 42:09Speaker 2: The casey clark show According to a new study, the
- 42:14Speaker 2: average person will wait 29 minutes before they pull the
- 42:18Speaker 2: plug and leave.
- 42:20Speaker 9: Yeah.
- 42:20Speaker 1: So if you were, say, meeting a friend for coffee
- 42:23Speaker 1: or dinner and you were just sitting there twiddling your
- 42:26Speaker 1: thumbs and you didn't hear from them, you're just waiting
- 42:28Speaker 1: and waiting.
- 42:29Speaker 8: Yeah.
- 42:30Speaker 1: 29 minutes is about the time where we're like, you
- 42:31Speaker 1: know what? I'm not doing this anymore. And you get
- 42:33Speaker 1: up and you go.
- 42:33Speaker 2: How long would you wait for me if I'm running late? Yeah. Yeah.
- 42:42Speaker 8: I feel like I can find stuff to do.
- 42:44Speaker 2: Right.
- 42:45Speaker 8: I'm quite comfortable with being by myself.
- 42:47Speaker 9: Sure.
- 42:48Speaker 8: So I think I would.
- 42:49Speaker 1: Give you 45 minutes to an hour.
- 42:52Speaker 2: Wow.
- 42:52Speaker 8: Don't take advantage of that.
- 42:54Speaker 2: No, I'm not. I'm just writing that down. But. Wow.
- 42:57Speaker 8: I think I, yeah.
- 42:57Speaker 2: 45 minutes to an hour? Yeah.
- 42:59Speaker 8: You're welcome.
- 43:02Speaker 2: Tell me you don't have anything else to do today
- 43:04Speaker 2: without telling me you have nothing else to do today.
- 43:05Speaker 8: I was just going to say, my life's not that exciting.
- 43:07Speaker 2: Holy man. An hour? That's crazy. Nicole, same question. How
- 43:12Speaker 2: long do you wait?
- 43:13Speaker 5: Depends on the circumstance, I think.
- 43:15Speaker 6: Like, if I'm out for dinner, I'm probably ordering a drink, waiting.
- 43:18Speaker 5: By the time I've done my drink, I leave.
- 43:20Speaker 9: Okay.
- 43:21Speaker 1: I think that's a good way to look at it. Yeah,
- 43:22Speaker 1: have a little bit of fun while you're waiting anyway,
- 43:25Speaker 1: and then just get.
- 43:25Speaker 8: Out of there.
- 43:26Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 43:27Speaker 7: Okay.
- 43:27Speaker 2: Nicole, you announced to the bar slash restaurant, I'm waiting
- 43:32Speaker 2: for someone. I'm not drinking alone.
- 43:35Speaker 6: Oh, no.
- 43:36Speaker 8: You can't do that.
- 43:37Speaker 5: I feel like during COVID, it became normal to drink alone.
- 43:41Speaker 2: No, because I judge you. I will judge you. If
- 43:45Speaker 2: I see you, I'm like, hey, guys, get a load
- 43:47Speaker 2: of her.
- 43:47Speaker 1: But then it looks even worse when they don't show up,
- 43:51Speaker 1: because then it just.
- 43:52Speaker 2: Looks like you got stood up.
- 43:54Speaker 8: Hey, guys, get a load of her.
- 43:55Speaker 5: She got stood up.
- 43:56Speaker 10: Yeah.
- 43:56Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly.
- 43:57Speaker 5: I just scroll on my phone and enjoy a glass
- 44:00Speaker 5: of wine.
- 44:00Speaker 2: But is that better than drinking alone? I don't know.
- 44:05Speaker 4: I don't know.
- 44:05Speaker 10: Good question.
- 44:07Speaker 6: I'm not sure either.
- 44:08Speaker 2: I walked into the bar by myself and I'm having
- 44:11Speaker 2: a drink by myself or I got stood up. Like
- 44:15Speaker 2: that's a horse race right there.
- 44:17Speaker 3: The Casey Clark Show.
- 44:19Speaker 7: This is the Casey Clark Show.
- 44:22Speaker 2: According to the survey, the average person will wait 29
- 44:26Speaker 2: minutes to then peel out after that mark. That's kind
- 44:31Speaker 2: of our threshold. If you're sash, though, yeah, you'll wait
- 44:35Speaker 2: up until an hour. Like, you'll double that.
- 44:38Speaker 1: I just feel like I'm comfortable with being by myself.
- 44:41Speaker 1: I'm just thinking of one specific scenario where, say, I'm at, like,
- 44:44Speaker 1: a bar or a coffee shop.
- 44:46Speaker 10: Right.
- 44:46Speaker 1: Like, I can keep myself busy. I can answer some emails.
- 44:50Speaker 1: I got it figured out. I'll be okay for 45
- 44:53Speaker 1: minutes to an hour.
- 44:54Speaker 2: Because I'm sitting there with my buddies, and I'm like,
- 44:57Speaker 2: look at this. She's trying to keep herself busy. Somebody's
- 45:00Speaker 2: either standing her up or she has nobody here to meet.
- 45:03Speaker 2: Either or. And that's okay.
- 45:05Speaker 8: That's okay.
- 45:07Speaker 2: Is it?
- 45:08Speaker 8: I think so.
- 45:09Speaker 1: I do stuff by myself all the time. It's about
- 45:11Speaker 1: being comfortable being on your own, Casey. Don't make fun
- 45:14Speaker 1: of me.
- 45:15Speaker 2: I'm not.
- 45:15Speaker 8: You're the one.
- 45:16Speaker 1: You're obviously uncomfortable with a little guy named Casey.
- 45:20Speaker 2: I didn't say I'm making fun of you. I'm just
- 45:22Speaker 2: saying I would judge you with my friends.
- 45:25Speaker 8: That's the definition of making fun.
- 45:28Speaker 2: And you would be maybe a destinational topic for us.
- 45:34Speaker 9: Perhaps. Okay.
- 45:36Speaker 2: I don't know. Teresa, what is your time that you wait?
- 45:43Speaker 2: Let's say you have an appointment.
- 45:47Speaker 6: Yeah, like 20 minutes.
- 45:47Speaker 2: 20 minutes and then you're out?
- 45:50Speaker 5: Yeah, like if I have something else to do or
- 45:52Speaker 5: another appointment, then yeah, I'm going to go.
- 45:54Speaker 6: But 30 tops.
- 45:56Speaker 7: Yeah.
- 45:57Speaker 2: And I'll ask, Hey, like what's going on?
- 45:58Speaker 6: Like, you know, how come?
- 46:00Speaker 3: And then, and then I'm like, well, you know what?
- 46:02Speaker 5: He charges me if I'm late or no show.
- 46:04Speaker 2: That's it. Hey, I love it. Then you go up
- 46:08Speaker 2: there and you, you give them the invoice, don't you?
- 46:10Speaker 2: Like right on the spot.
- 46:12Speaker 10: Yeah, for sure.
- 46:13Speaker 6: Here's a credit for next time.
- 46:15Speaker 2: I'm late just in case. Yeah. I've walked out on
- 46:18Speaker 2: my chiropractor. And I'm like, listen, I've been waiting here
- 46:21Speaker 2: for 25 minutes. I got to go. And the woman
- 46:27Speaker 2: was saying, are you sure? Well, he's going to be
- 46:28Speaker 2: right here. I'm like, well, you said that 25 minutes ago.
- 46:31Speaker 2: So I got to go.
- 46:32Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly.
- 46:34Speaker 2: And by the way, the next time I went there,
- 46:36Speaker 2: I'm like in like that.
- 46:38Speaker 7: Yeah.
- 46:39Speaker 8: Good.
- 46:41Speaker 2: They flagged my file.
- 46:42Speaker 8: The Casey Clark Show.
- 46:47Speaker 1: This has been another episode of the Casey Clark show's
- 46:50Speaker 1: weekly podcast, giving you company on demand. So whenever you
- 46:53Speaker 1: need us, we're here, but not like in a creepy, desperate,
- 46:57Speaker 1: weird way. I promise this episode is hosted and produced
- 47:01Speaker 1: by Casey Clark and me, Sasha. You can follow along
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- 47:08Speaker 8: at Casey Clark. I'm Sasha B. Spencer. If you have
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