Latest / Stuff Mom Never Told You / Feminists Around the World: Sarah McBride, Part 1
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- 0:05Speaker 1: Hey, this is Annie and Samantha and welcome to Stephan
- 0:07Speaker 1: never told your production by her yo.
- 0:18Speaker 2: And today let me put this date here, December third,
- 0:22Speaker 2: twenty twenty four. We are talking about someone who's been
- 0:26Speaker 2: on a lot of people's minds and really has had
- 0:29Speaker 2: people talking though she doesn't even know a lot of
- 0:32Speaker 2: other people don't exist, like she doesn't know you.
- 0:34Speaker 3: And yet we're talking about her.
- 0:36Speaker 2: And yes, we're talking about newly elected Congresswoman Sarah McBride.
- 0:41Speaker 2: Of course, with all of the transphobic rhetoric to happening today,
- 0:44Speaker 2: she has been the topic of a lot of conversation recently.
- 0:48Speaker 2: She has been the main focus for some other members
- 0:50Speaker 2: of Congress who've made it their biggest job, which is
- 0:54Speaker 2: odd because there's a lot happening to make sure she
- 0:56Speaker 2: feels unwelcome, and about her bathroom music, because you know,
- 1:00Speaker 2: that's the most important thing happening here. But before we
- 1:03Speaker 2: dive into that, we want to take a look at
- 1:05Speaker 2: McBride's work and record as a feature of The Activist
- 1:09Speaker 2: around the World. Fyi, this has become a two parter,
- 1:13Speaker 2: so yes, we're going to kind of split about what
- 1:16Speaker 2: is happening, how she got here, and what is happening today,
- 1:19Speaker 2: and then we're going to talk about the reaction, because
- 1:21Speaker 2: there's a lot of comments happening specifically from the trans
- 1:24Speaker 2: community rightly so, so we do want to reflect on
- 1:27Speaker 2: that for those in the trans community, for those in
- 1:29Speaker 2: the queer community. Content warning. Obviously we're going to talk
- 1:33Speaker 2: about anti queer rhetoric and conversation, anti trans rhetoric and conversations.
- 1:39Speaker 3: So this is a bit much.
- 1:40Speaker 2: I understand, but we also do want to take moments
- 1:43Speaker 2: to celebrate a woman who has worked really hard to
- 1:46Speaker 2: get to where she is and felt that it's important
- 1:48Speaker 2: that she does it as her true self, which I
- 1:50Speaker 2: think is a bigger conversation we don't talk about enough
- 1:53Speaker 2: because instead the world is awful.
- 1:56Speaker 3: Anyway, here we go, let's go into it.
- 1:58Speaker 2: So who is Sarah mc McBride has stated she has
- 2:02Speaker 2: always had an interest in politics. Born to David and
- 2:05Speaker 2: Sally McBride in Wilmington, Delaware, McBride isn't a stranger to
- 2:09Speaker 2: policies and standards in general. Her father was a lawyer
- 2:13Speaker 2: while her mother was a counselor, and she actually the
- 2:15Speaker 2: founder of Cabot Callaway School of the Arts, which Sarah
- 2:18Speaker 2: did attend. She soon earned her bachelor's in twenty thirteen
- 2:23Speaker 2: from American University of DC, and is during this time
- 2:26Speaker 2: McBride talks about how her interest in politics really grew.
- 2:30Speaker 2: She had already worked as a staffer for different Delaware campaigns,
- 2:34Speaker 2: including for Governor Jack Markle Attorney General Bo Biden, and
- 2:38Speaker 2: she would soon after be elected as the student body
- 2:43Speaker 2: president at American University. And it was during this time
- 2:47Speaker 2: that McBride came out as trans, and even then she
- 2:50Speaker 2: was getting attention just for existing and coming out. She
- 2:54Speaker 2: made headlines in twenty twelve coming out, and within the
- 2:56Speaker 2: same year she was the first trans woman to work
- 2:59Speaker 2: in the world White House as an intern for the
- 3:02Speaker 2: Obama administration. But as we said, her coming out was
- 3:06Speaker 2: on public display. Here's a bit from her Wikipedia page.
- 3:10Speaker 2: McBride's coming out was featured on NPR, the Huffington Post,
- 3:13Speaker 2: and by Lady Guga's Born This Way Foundation. That's an
- 3:17Speaker 2: interesting added to the other two, but hey, that's interesting.
- 3:21Speaker 2: After coming out, McBride received a call from Delaware Attorney
- 3:26Speaker 2: General Bo Biden saying, quote, Sarah, I just wanted you
- 3:29Speaker 2: to know I'm so proud of you.
- 3:31Speaker 3: I love you.
- 3:32Speaker 2: And you're still a part of the Biden family. Vice
- 3:35Speaker 2: President now President Joe Biden expressed similar sentiments, sharing that
- 3:40Speaker 2: he was proud of her and happy for her. So
- 3:43Speaker 2: definitely already has that link. Has been doing this work
- 3:46Speaker 2: for a minute. So one of those moments where I'm like, man,
- 3:49Speaker 2: you did a lot. What was I doing in twenty thirteen?
- 3:53Speaker 2: I was working for the government. I was working for
- 3:55Speaker 2: the government, just not on that level.
- 3:58Speaker 3: Important as well. You were working for feminist content. We
- 4:02Speaker 3: were doing things. We were doing.
- 4:06Speaker 2: So as an intern, McBride was hard at work advocating
- 4:10Speaker 2: for LGBTQ rights and issues, and she was praised for
- 4:13Speaker 2: her work during her time there. She has acknowledged the
- 4:16Speaker 2: difficulties in coming out. Here's what she published in her
- 4:19Speaker 2: coming out article for the university paper. She writes, I
- 4:23Speaker 2: wrestled with the idea that my dream and my identity
- 4:25Speaker 2: seemed mutually exclusive. I had to pick my life was
- 4:29Speaker 2: passing me by, and I was done wasting it as
- 4:32Speaker 2: someone I wasn't. I'm sure that article was really impactful
- 4:38Speaker 2: as well as very hard to write. From what I
- 4:40Speaker 2: read that it was really moving and touching in the
- 4:43Speaker 2: words that she printed and doing so as a public
- 4:46Speaker 2: figure I couldn't imagine, and becoming her true self propelled
- 4:50Speaker 2: her forward in her activism as well. In twenty thirteen,
- 4:53Speaker 2: McBride was a part of the board of directors of
- 4:56Speaker 2: Equality Delaware, advocating for legal protection for the trends queer community,
- 5:01Speaker 2: and soon she helped pass legislation to help prevent discrimination
- 5:05Speaker 2: based on gender in twenty thirteen in the state of Delaware.
- 5:08Speaker 2: After her success with this legislation, she worked with the
- 5:11Speaker 2: Center of American Progress to advocate for the rights and
- 5:14Speaker 2: protection of the LGBTQ plus community as well. And of course,
- 5:17Speaker 2: during all of this time, she was still heavily involved
- 5:20Speaker 2: in the political world, including speaking at the twenty sixteen
- 5:23Speaker 2: Democratic National Convention during Hillary Clinton's campaign. In the speech,
- 5:28Speaker 2: she paid tribute to her late husband, Andrew Cray, who
- 5:31Speaker 2: was also an activist for the queer community, and though
- 5:34Speaker 2: her husband died a few days after their official wedding,
- 5:38Speaker 2: she has talked openly about the amount of impact Cray
- 5:41Speaker 2: has had on her life, as well as the support
- 5:43Speaker 2: she had from him.
- 5:44Speaker 1: And with all that, in twenty nineteen, McBride decided to
- 5:47Speaker 1: step into the political arena herself and ran for Delaware Senate,
- 5:52Speaker 1: and in twenty twenty, McBride made history as the first
- 5:55Speaker 1: trans person to be a state senator in the United States.
- 5:58Speaker 1: Here's a bit from her website, Sarah McBride dot com quote.
- 6:02Speaker 1: As a state senator, McBride has passed legislation expanding access
- 6:06Speaker 1: to healthcare, requiring mental health and media literacy education in
- 6:10Speaker 1: public schools, promoting green technologies, preventing lead poisoning and youth,
- 6:15Speaker 1: and protecting workers and families. In just her first term,
- 6:19Speaker 1: McBride passed the landmark Healthy Delaware Families Act, providing paid
- 6:24Speaker 1: family and medical leave to workers throughout the first state,
- 6:27Speaker 1: and marking the largest expansion of Delaware's social safety net
- 6:30Speaker 1: in decades.
- 6:42Speaker 2: So with all of that under her belt, she has
- 6:45Speaker 2: now been elected as the first transperson in the United
- 6:48Speaker 2: States House of Representatives. She announced her intention to run
- 6:51Speaker 2: in twenty twenty three to replace Representative Lisa Blunt Rochester.
- 6:55Speaker 2: She was actually endorsed by Rochester and in the twenty
- 6:59Speaker 2: twenty four election she won against John wayland IID. Here's
- 7:03Speaker 2: a bit about her win from NBC News. McBride's key
- 7:07Speaker 2: priorities for her congressional run were expanding access to affordable healthcare,
- 7:12Speaker 2: protecting reproductive rights, and increasing the minimum wage. She told
- 7:16Speaker 2: NBC News in September that her goal in Congress was
- 7:18Speaker 2: to work with her colleagues to break through the artisan
- 7:21Speaker 2: gridlock and actually pass legislation, which she became known for
- 7:25Speaker 2: during her time in Delaware's Senate. During her first term,
- 7:28Speaker 2: she helped pass universal paid family and medical leaf across
- 7:32Speaker 2: the state. So pretty big things. Of course, this is
- 7:34Speaker 2: just very minor details that she's done. There's a lot
- 7:37Speaker 2: of impact that she has had within the Delaware Senate,
- 7:40Speaker 2: which is why she was able to be elected. And
- 7:44Speaker 2: the article continues with a statement she made at her celebration. Quote,
- 7:47Speaker 2: tonight is a testament to Delawareans that here in our
- 7:51Speaker 2: state of neighbors, we judge candidates based on their ideas
- 7:54Speaker 2: and not their identities, McBride said at Delaware's Democratic election
- 7:58Speaker 2: Night celebration Tuesday night. She thanks her friends and family
- 8:01Speaker 2: and her late husband, Andy Cray, who died of cancer
- 8:04Speaker 2: in twenty fourteen, just days after their wedding. Quote, My
- 8:08Speaker 2: time with Andy reinforced for me a simple truth that
- 8:11Speaker 2: hope as an emotion, hope as a phenomenon, only makes
- 8:15Speaker 2: sense in the face of hardship, while at the moment
- 8:18Speaker 2: in America's history, hope sometimes feel hard to come by.
- 8:21Speaker 2: We must never forget that we are the beneficiaries of
- 8:24Speaker 2: seemingly impossible change, which I wish we could just end
- 8:29Speaker 2: it there. You know, that's such a great speech. We
- 8:32Speaker 2: get to make history, you get to move on and celebrate.
- 8:35Speaker 2: But of course with her celebration comes controversy, as she
- 8:40Speaker 2: started her journey with an orientation. Of course, conservative lawmakers
- 8:44Speaker 2: have made their biases known pretty quickly. Here's some information
- 8:48Speaker 2: from The Advocate. Just over two weeks after her historical
- 8:51Speaker 2: election as the first out transgender member of Congress, Delaware
- 8:56Speaker 2: Democratic Representative elect Sarah McBride is facing backline from the
- 9:00Speaker 2: members of the trans community over her response to Republicans
- 9:04Speaker 2: Speaker Mike Johnson's policy banning transgender people from using restrooms
- 9:08Speaker 2: aligned with their gender identity and house controlled facilities in Washington,
- 9:13Speaker 2: d C.
- 9:14Speaker 1: Yeah, and a bit more from the New Yorker quote.
- 9:17Speaker 1: As the first transgender member of Congress and history, she
- 9:20Speaker 1: also experienced an orientation in naked aggression within days of
- 9:24Speaker 1: her arrival. Nancy Mace, a Republican from South Carolina, introduced
- 9:29Speaker 1: a resolution that would restrict access to all single sex
- 9:32Speaker 1: facilities on Capitol Hill to those of the corresponding biological sex.
- 9:38Speaker 1: In other words, May sought a bathroom bill and made
- 9:41Speaker 1: clear that she absolutely intended it as a reaction to McBride.
- 9:47Speaker 1: I'm not going to stand for a man, you know,
- 9:49Speaker 1: someone with a penis in the woman's locker room. May said,
- 9:53Speaker 1: who had claimed to be pro transgender rights as recently
- 9:56Speaker 1: as last year, said of her new proposals, so added
- 10:00Speaker 1: an odd pseudo feminist twist, it's offensive that a man
- 10:04Speaker 1: in a skirt thinks that he's my equal. Mace found
- 10:08Speaker 1: support among Republicans, including Speaker Mike Johnson and Marjorie Taylor Green, who,
- 10:13Speaker 1: according to Politico, told colleagues that she would fight McBride
- 10:17Speaker 1: or the two of them ever to meet in a
- 10:19Speaker 1: woman's bathroom on the Hill.
- 10:21Speaker 3: So professional, Yeah, it's so professional. I'm gonna fight you
- 10:25Speaker 3: because you exist. Really, wow, Anya.
- 10:29Speaker 2: Obviously that rhetoric that May said would be what we
- 10:33Speaker 2: talk about as terse that twist feminist twist.
- 10:37Speaker 3: I'll love how they said that instead.
- 10:38Speaker 2: I mean, it's true, I guess, And disappointingly, not many
- 10:42Speaker 2: of McBride's co workers have stood up for her or
- 10:46Speaker 2: for trans people with this specific issue. However, Alexandria Accassio
- 10:50Speaker 2: Cortez AOC was one of the few who did who
- 10:53Speaker 2: called the bill disgusting of course, so there's a lot
- 10:57Speaker 2: more to be said. We want to come back and
- 10:58Speaker 2: talk about McBride's reaction to this, as well as a
- 11:00Speaker 2: lot of the trans community and the queer community, because
- 11:04Speaker 2: it unfolds a lot. So it's not our typical way
- 11:09Speaker 2: of doing things here at the Activist around the world,
- 11:12Speaker 2: but I think it is important that we look at
- 11:15Speaker 2: this conversation on a deeper level because it does impact
- 11:18Speaker 2: so many. This has a lot of implication. Unfortunately for McBride,
- 11:23Speaker 2: she's kind of become a talking head, I guess for
- 11:26Speaker 2: the transgender community as a leader.
- 11:29Speaker 3: It would be lovely if we could.
- 11:31Speaker 2: Just say she made it there and we're excited, and
- 11:34Speaker 2: yes she has some hiccups, but not that many, and
- 11:36Speaker 2: we're cool with it, and everybody is advocating and supporting her.
- 11:39Speaker 3: But that's not the case.
- 11:40Speaker 2: So we're going to take a pause this week and
- 11:44Speaker 2: come back for the following week as a part two
- 11:47Speaker 2: about the reactions to McBride and this bathroom banning bill.
- 11:52Speaker 1: Yes, yes, so keep an ear out for that. But
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