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90 Day Fiancé 1216 Last Fling Before the Ring” Part 2 · Vanity Farah with Chris Farah

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Speaker 1: Welcome back to Nanity Farah. My name is Chris fare
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Speaker 1: and we're talking none of day fiance. It's season twelve,
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Speaker 1: episode sixteen, last fling before the Ring. Why it's so
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Speaker 1: hard to say ninety day fiance, not any fiance, ninety
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Speaker 1: day fiance, nine te day ninety day? Can you imagine
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Speaker 1: if that's how I said it all the time? All right, okay,
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Speaker 1: let's get into the cups. So I've already talked about
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Speaker 1: on part one Merissa and Edward Palla and Thomas and
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Speaker 1: Ration and Mallory and so obviously I'm gonna move on
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Speaker 1: right now, and we're gonna talk Ashan Maxwell's small. So
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Speaker 1: we're hot on the heels of Rod and Aisha having
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Speaker 1: a you know, come to Jesus moment over a table
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Speaker 1: over the fact that she is rushing into getting married
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Speaker 1: to Maxwell and Rod is an understanding why, and she
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Speaker 1: is upset that he is doubting her and doubting God,
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Speaker 1: and also maybe things that she got pregnant, and also
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Speaker 1: I feel like I wish to God, this is what
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Speaker 1: Chris Ferri is saying, I wish there was an accusation
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Speaker 1: that he was into her. She sometimes is like, are
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Speaker 1: you jealous or some of she says things like that,
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Speaker 1: I'm like, are you saying that he wants to be
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Speaker 1: married to you? Because I almost think that she is,
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Speaker 1: and I wish that she'd be like, God told me
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Speaker 1: that you wish that I was marrying you, and that's
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Speaker 1: what this is about. You know, that'd be my dream
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Speaker 1: come true. But she doesn't, okay, and that's annoying to me.
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Speaker 1: At the same time, he you know, got mad and
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Speaker 1: someone hit the table and she was like, absolutely not violence,
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Speaker 1: Absolutely not, honey. You know what, am I looted? All right? No,
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Speaker 1: I don't like it. I don't like it. It's a
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Speaker 1: deep reference anyway. So she's now obviously outside and she's
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Speaker 1: upset about them denying her. She's wearing a body con
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Speaker 1: super kind of cute cow brown cow print dress. I
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Speaker 1: like the dress. She is cute clothes. I mean, she's
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Speaker 1: really shown it out this entire season. So I don't
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Speaker 1: know if she went shopping on what feels like Shine
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Speaker 1: or Amazon, but it all looks good and you know,
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Speaker 1: good for her. So her sister and Rod are sitting
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Speaker 1: at the table and are just like, well, she just
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Speaker 1: loved in a huff, honey, come on, what now her
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Speaker 1: sister is like, listen, she is digmatized and it could
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Speaker 1: just be pillow talk. She doesn't know what's real and
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Speaker 1: what's not. And Asia almost feels like super offended by that,
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Speaker 1: because one thing about Asia is that she is very
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Speaker 1: strong willed of strong minded. And not only is she
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Speaker 1: that way, she has God behind her will and mind.
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Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, Like everything that Asha thinks
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Speaker 1: and wants she projects as being God's will and want.
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Speaker 1: So it almost makes her even more like strong wills,
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Speaker 1: you know, because it's like, how do you go against
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Speaker 1: not only her will, but God's will, which is, in fact,
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Speaker 1: I guess what, the same. And so she is so
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Speaker 1: confused why they don't trust her in making a good decision,
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Speaker 1: because they're not just not trusting her, they're choosing not
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Speaker 1: to trust God, don't they know? And this is what
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Speaker 1: Asha says that Asha knows in third person what she says,
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Speaker 1: Asha knows what's best for Asia, especially because Asha talks
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Speaker 1: to God. God tells her what's good for her, which
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Speaker 1: is coincidentally also what Asha wants to do. So it's
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Speaker 1: a win win. Oh my god. Oh I was like,
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Speaker 1: oh my god, I put myself and do not disturb. Sorry,
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Speaker 1: I forgot I put an alarm for no reason. I
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Speaker 1: thought I had to leave by now. I don't I
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Speaker 1: have to get ready by now. I'm already ready. Oh
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Speaker 1: I'm so sorry, my love's It's been a fun weekend though,
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Speaker 1: since I got back. I guess weekend all the whole situation.
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Speaker 1: Since I got back from traveling. It's just been some
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Speaker 1: fun social engagements and trying to maintain like leaving in
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Speaker 1: time in LA to avoid traffic and get and park
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Speaker 1: someplace requires me to I don't know, not only have
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Speaker 1: an alarm to leave, have an alarm to start packing
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Speaker 1: my bag, but also making sure that I've been getting
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Speaker 1: dressed by a certain time. You know, I just ta
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Speaker 1: get everything. This is just where I am in my life.
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Speaker 1: This is this is me. Okay. So she is going
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Speaker 1: to get married and she doesn't know who's gonna be there,
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Speaker 1: and Rod is like, I might not be there. I'm
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Speaker 1: just gonna leave, and she's like, okay, but not before
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Speaker 1: you tell the world how you've been in love with
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Speaker 1: me this entire time. Because God told me in my
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Speaker 1: heart that you are her sister. I don't understand this.
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Speaker 1: If her sister really feels this way, then why isn't
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Speaker 1: her sister going to Juliet and being like, Mom, what
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Speaker 1: the fuck? We have got to take her away? How
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Speaker 1: are you here? You have got to talk sensent to her.
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Speaker 1: Where's Dad? We have to like you know, like it
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Speaker 1: doesn't feel like anyone truly is trying to change her mind.
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Speaker 1: And there's like two parts of this, like either you
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Speaker 1: know that Ash's the kind of woman that's gonna do
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Speaker 1: what you're gonna do because she has God on her side.
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Speaker 1: You can't tell her not that shit, can't tell her
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Speaker 1: nothing like Kanye West, or you really need to get
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Speaker 1: through to her. And if it's the second one, it's
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Speaker 1: not gonna be just going sitting at a table somewhere
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Speaker 1: with Rod and just hoping that he does it. What
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Speaker 1: does Juliet have no say in her daughter's life? Like?
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Speaker 1: Does Asha not pay her mom's opinion any mind? Because
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Speaker 1: or does Juliet just not have one? Is that it? Like?
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Speaker 1: Is does does Kathy Asia's sister know that there is
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Speaker 1: no point in doing that? It won't change anything. She's
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Speaker 1: not gonna fight Shenack up of the energy. She wan't
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Speaker 1: Maybe maybe, yeah, maybe Asha's mom Juliette would just be like,
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Speaker 1: she's gonna do what she's gonna do. I'm not fighting
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Speaker 1: with her. I've been fighting with her whole life, not
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Speaker 1: over this. Also, I don't mind her getting a husband
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Speaker 1: and leaving, you know, leaving us whatever. I wonder if
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Speaker 1: that's whether not fighting is hard, because there's two options,
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Speaker 1: either having Asha being miserable and single in the way
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Speaker 1: that things are going now, or having Asha getting married
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Speaker 1: off and thinking that she might be someone else's problem. Finally,
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Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, And sometimes I can't quite
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Speaker 1: tell what's really happening between family dynamics. I hate to
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Speaker 1: and let's move on, shall we. Honey, what a life
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Speaker 1: here we are, Annabelle and Shay Oh day of days.
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Speaker 1: It's Day of He's not nervous, honey. He's been waiting
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Speaker 1: for this his whole life, you know, like, of course
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Speaker 1: he wants things to go well, but you know, here's
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Speaker 1: the thing hot on the heels of his daughter being like,
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Speaker 1: what's gonna happen with the will and him being like,
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Speaker 1: that's really between me and annabel And then that's kind
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Speaker 1: of the end of that conversation. They want everyone, I
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Speaker 1: guess went to bed and woke up and that was fine.
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Speaker 1: Everyone seems okay. Next morning, with everything and how it
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Speaker 1: all played out, he is like, well, I promise I'm
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Speaker 1: not gonna leave her high and because she left her
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Speaker 1: whole life to come here, Like what does that mean?
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Speaker 1: It seems like he has a lot of people asking
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Speaker 1: for a lot of money on his real estate salary
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Speaker 1: from Paducah. Who gets the lake house? That's what they
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Speaker 1: want to know. Who gets the deer heads? All of them? Okay,
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Speaker 1: because they really get to the bottom of that. And
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Speaker 1: we're supposed to believe that everything's okay for them to
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Speaker 1: get married when we know that there's still some questions.
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Speaker 1: So you know, here's the thing. Obviously, it's a second
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Speaker 1: marriage for her, and she is fine with not spending
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Speaker 1: that money, which I'm happy for her not to do,
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Speaker 1: and so I got bit annoyed. So sorry, So everyone's
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Speaker 1: coming together. She got her dress obviously, like she said,
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Speaker 1: it's cute. It's two hundred dollars and it's actually really beautiful.
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Speaker 1: I love it. It's lacy and it's perfect for a
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Speaker 1: smoky mountain wedding. Now Alison's doing her makeup and it's okay,
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Speaker 1: I don't quite understand what palette that is. She does
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Speaker 1: her manicure, and I don't love the color, but okay,
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Speaker 1: maybe that's the color that she wanted. At some point
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Speaker 1: we see her hair and her hair is half a
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Speaker 1: pep down and there wasn't like a lot of like teasing,
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Speaker 1: nor any sort of like bobby pins. It does just
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Speaker 1: kind of feel like they put it half a pap
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Speaker 1: down and then just took a big barrel curling iron
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Speaker 1: and just put some curls in and then drop the
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Speaker 1: curls out of that curling iron. Didn't really shake it out.
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Speaker 1: That's what it is. Gave it some hairspray, and that's
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Speaker 1: what's happening. Now. Not everything has to be glam god bless,
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Speaker 1: but here we are. Now everyone is copacetic. Everyone's like
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Speaker 1: super chill. You know we're supposed to. We're just like, okay,
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Speaker 1: this is a beautiful day, you know. Because they really
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Speaker 1: want us to like Shane Annabel because they want to
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Speaker 1: use us again. So they really want us to like
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Speaker 1: like their love, and we do like their love. We
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Speaker 1: do like their love. Now we all know what the
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Speaker 1: producers missed, which was why they didn't have Nicole threatened
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Speaker 1: to come to the wedding or drive there or get
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Speaker 1: Madison to do something like why they didn't have Nicole
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Speaker 1: come to the wedding and like like she was going
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Speaker 1: to maybe object or something like that is the drama
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Speaker 1: that we didn't get and oh we were I don't
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Speaker 1: want to tell you we were jipped. We were jipped.
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Speaker 1: And I have a whole scene with Nicole being like
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Speaker 1: I cat and get it. I'm gonna tell her everything.
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Speaker 1: And then now the wedding happens. You could have had
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Speaker 1: her come to the wedding with her daughter there. We
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Speaker 1: didn't even meet the daughter to now, Oh I feel
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Speaker 1: bad though, you know she's like Annabelle's like, yeah, my
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Speaker 1: parents can't come. It's three am there, and my daughter
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Speaker 1: can't you know, watch on FaceTime either. I kind of
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Speaker 1: wanted to be like, Okay, well I do get if
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Speaker 1: your parents are really old, like three am is a lot,
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Speaker 1: but your daughter can just patch something in. All those
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Speaker 1: kids are on fucking Snapchat, not on TikTok. Someone can
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Speaker 1: TikTok live for your daughter. I found that interesting also,
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Speaker 1: I'm I would want I want the producers to set
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Speaker 1: up a FaceTime where Shae talks to her daughter, or
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Speaker 1: Alison and Shaye talk to her daughter. Now, if Annabelle's like,
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Speaker 1: my daughter didn't want to be on TV, then just
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Speaker 1: tell me that be like, yeah, just you know, my
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Speaker 1: daughter didn't didn't want It is very private, but you
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Speaker 1: know Shae talked to her. Okay, good then just so
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Speaker 1: I know, you know, then I don't have to be like,
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Speaker 1: oh my god, all this about Alison. But like, who
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Speaker 1: the hell does Shane even care about Annabel's daughter? And
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Speaker 1: then does Annabel want her daughter to come to America?
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Speaker 1: Is that what her daughter wants? What does her daughter do?
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Speaker 1: So many questions, but Alison going back. So Alison has
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Speaker 1: to hear the fact that Annabel doesn't have like a
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Speaker 1: family unit that's gonna like watch or whatever. And she
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Speaker 1: feels bad, but she's doing her makeup and her hair,
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Speaker 1: so she feels, you know, god bless like she's doing
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Speaker 1: that part. She apologizes her being a brat and also
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Speaker 1: sort of like concedes that she would never do for
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Speaker 1: a man what Alison does for her dad. And also
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Speaker 1: like why is her dad's fingernails always so dirty? He's
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Speaker 1: a real estate agent and it's because he has them
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Speaker 1: dogs and he likes to be by a leg and
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Speaker 1: he's an old ast man and it's not just like fingernails.
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Speaker 1: It's like toenails, and it's not just dirty, although it is.
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Speaker 1: It's like dead skin, dead callouses, like all of that.
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Speaker 1: You gotta really, you know, It's like there's a lot
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Speaker 1: to actually keep up and like keep everything looking healthy
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Speaker 1: requires so much, you know, like to have like clear
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Speaker 1: skin and stuff like that. Like a lot of people
13:55
Speaker 1: have to worry about, like what's that kotosis? You know,
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Speaker 1: like kp or like you know when you have like
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Speaker 1: strawberry skin or like that kind of goosebump skin or
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Speaker 1: like ingrown hairs. Oh why I'm bringing you all this up?
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Speaker 1: Is like toenail, fungus, calluses, you know, all of those things.
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Speaker 1: It's like the skin in the body requires an upkeep
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Speaker 1: that the level that just some people don't want to
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Speaker 1: do or don't want to pay attention to. It's kind
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Speaker 1: of like the house metaphor I was saying before, Whereas
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Speaker 1: some people just stop paying attention to something or don't
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Speaker 1: think that something's a problem, whereas for other people they
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Speaker 1: would be quick to be like what's that and can
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Speaker 1: we stop that? And can we fix that? And that
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Speaker 1: needs to be fixed? You know what I'm saying, and
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Speaker 1: so yeah, like not to be ageous or sexist about it,
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Speaker 1: but doesn't like a lot of old men's toes are
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Speaker 1: like that they forgot they're there. They can't get to them.
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Speaker 1: So they're just they're existing. How are they're existing? And
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Speaker 1: usually not great looking, you know. So anyway, there's like
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Speaker 1: an overwhelming, you know, appreciation that I think Alison, I
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Speaker 1: don't know about Abby, but and Madison doesn't get to
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Speaker 1: talk really and Shaye, so definitely Alison and Shae have
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Speaker 1: for Annabelle taking care of Shae for that reason. Shae
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Speaker 1: feels it and Alison is like, I'll never do it
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Speaker 1: for anyone, and I'm happy that someone does it for
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Speaker 1: him and that it's not gonna be me obviously. So
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Speaker 1: we get their outdoor wedding. It's really beautiful. There's like
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Speaker 1: this vista overlooking the mountains. They're kind of in this
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Speaker 1: like gazebo area. It's sort of a small gazebel and
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Speaker 1: then people are sort of packed looking at it, but again,
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Speaker 1: gorgeous landscape, and Shae's sort of like crying. He's like, yeah,
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Speaker 1: this is you know, unlike anything else I've never felt,
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Speaker 1: you know, cared for and loved like this before. And
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Speaker 1: I really think that's really special. I hope that people
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Speaker 1: find the way they want to feel cared forward, care forward,
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Speaker 1: care forward, cared ford, cared or and loved yep, thank you.
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Speaker 1: And it's interesting because it's like you have to really
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Speaker 1: start to isolate what makes you feel good, like what
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Speaker 1: makes you feel cared for? Oh, cared for? Because there
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Speaker 1: is such an emphasis on like what kind of person
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Speaker 1: I want, like what I'm looking for, like you know,
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Speaker 1: physically lifestyle was you know, like kind of person like
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Speaker 1: POV or whatever. But then you have to also find
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Speaker 1: someone who will love you and show you their love
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Speaker 1: in a way that you feel and resonates with you
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Speaker 1: and just like clicks for I guess love language or whatnot,
16:49
Speaker 1: you know, yeah, it seems like Annabelle's love language would
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Speaker 1: be like acts of service, quality touch or you know,
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Speaker 1: physical touch, that kind of thing. And I think that
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Speaker 1: if you aren't mindful of like how you want to
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Speaker 1: be loved and how you want to be cared for
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Speaker 1: and what would make you feel that, if you're not
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Speaker 1: focused on it, you can really chase a lot of
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Speaker 1: wrong things and then wonder why you never feel at
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Speaker 1: home or at peace. And so when I see someone
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Speaker 1: like Shay obviously like be like, oh no, I locked out?
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Speaker 1: This is it? It's like, yeah, like he feels her
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Speaker 1: love and she feels his love whatever way that is.
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Speaker 1: But I think it's a good lesson to be like
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Speaker 1: for people, like what is the way in which you
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Speaker 1: want to feel love? And what are the ways in
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Speaker 1: which you show love? And yeah, it's like, if it's
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Speaker 1: a love language, can you isolate that feeling and then
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Speaker 1: also judge it based upon if you're in a relationship
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Speaker 1: or you're dating someone, if you have the possibility of
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Speaker 1: feeling that with someone and if not. I think that's
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Speaker 1: kind of it the thing you got to look for. Okay,
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Speaker 1: back to the wedding, as we know, when she comes out,
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Speaker 1: I said, he cries again. I'm mad that there's no Nicole.
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Speaker 1: He wrote his own vowels. I think I think they'll
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Speaker 1: be like, oh my god, he's gonna read his own vwels.
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Speaker 1: But then he just has his friend read his vows
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Speaker 1: and then she didn't write vowels the like, she just
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Speaker 1: did her normal vowels. So they get married and they're married.
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Speaker 1: Everyone's happy, they're married. Okay, my loves let's move on
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Speaker 1: to Katie and Josh. Oh my god, Katie and Josh.
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Speaker 1: This was so interesting, right. So Josh meets up at
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Speaker 1: a bar called Swell with we know he has that
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Speaker 1: one UK friend and now we realize he has another
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Speaker 1: UK friend coming. They're the exact same kind of person
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Speaker 1: and they say something later. None of his friends from
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Speaker 1: the could make it except for these two girls. None
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Speaker 1: of his male friends who witnessed him meet Katie by
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Speaker 1: the fact that one of them had met her on
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Speaker 1: a dating app and had brought her to a bar.
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Speaker 1: So there's a whole part of it. It's like, yeah,
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Speaker 1: what are they thinking? Like, please tell me what these
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Speaker 1: men like secretly think and are the whole friend group.
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Speaker 1: I don't mean to say men, it's just that A,
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Speaker 1: we know that was one of his male friends that
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Speaker 1: was with Katie, and also B these girls are like, yeah,
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Speaker 1: none of the other friends could come. None of the
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Speaker 1: other male friends. So both girls guess what are pale?
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Speaker 1: Kind of eccentric, kind of like next door looking white
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Speaker 1: girls with different shades of red hair. Boy, does he
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Speaker 1: have a type? I really even see that many redheads
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Speaker 1: to have two and I'm dating one. They can't tell
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Speaker 1: me that's not that's not just a coincidence. That's because
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Speaker 1: he likes them. That's because he has a thing you
20:09
Speaker 1: got that ginger fetish, honey, he likes it, right, both
20:12
Speaker 1: girls just come on right that. I thought that was interesting.
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Speaker 1: I thought it was interesting. So let me get more
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Speaker 1: of this, like where he's like, a stag do is
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Speaker 1: different than a bachelor party. Is a bachelor party you
20:24
Speaker 1: get to go out and have fun, and a stag
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Speaker 1: do is where your friends come and haze you. And
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Speaker 1: it's this these two girls. And so the way that
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Speaker 1: they hate him is that they bring him a costume,
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Speaker 1: which is like, oh my goddamn costumes can we have anyway?
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Speaker 1: And the costume is obviously are you going to believe it?
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Speaker 1: A redhaired UK white lady costume. That's what they bring him.
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Speaker 1: They bring him ginger spice. So now at this point,
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Speaker 1: this is this is a thing, right, some of it.
21:07
Speaker 1: Sometimes I think the editors do these like Easter eggs
21:12
Speaker 1: or things where they want us to talk about something
21:15
Speaker 1: where they don't want to say it explicitly. For instance,
21:19
Speaker 1: he has again, like I said, a fetish for white
21:22
Speaker 1: women with red hair. Right, That's why these two girls
21:26
Speaker 1: are there and no one else and that's why they
21:29
Speaker 1: brought him that costume, right, And then he's like, oh,
21:32
Speaker 1: I guess it's no, I don't know his accident like that.
21:35
Speaker 1: He's like, it turns out it's Ginger Spoils, but I
21:37
Speaker 1: didn't know it. And it's like you didn't know that
21:38
Speaker 1: Ginger Spice didn't come on even I know Ginger Spice.
21:42
Speaker 1: I'm not from England. So the other thing is that
21:46
Speaker 1: I think the editors or the story people want us
21:49
Speaker 1: to talk about and they won't say it, and they're
21:51
Speaker 1: making me say it, and I'm saying it because I'm
21:54
Speaker 1: mad they're making me say it. But I also want
21:56
Speaker 1: you to co sign that he has like a humiliation kink.
22:05
Speaker 1: Now we've talked about cuckolding for sure, but you know,
22:11
Speaker 1: there's something to like him being humiliated in public. It's like,
22:15
Speaker 1: not like I'm not someone who's dived deep into the
22:20
Speaker 1: cuphold the community. So I'm not quite sure if every
22:23
Speaker 1: cuphold at its base is someone who likes humiliation stuff,
22:29
Speaker 1: or if it's just you know, goes hand in hand
22:31
Speaker 1: sometimes or whatnot. But what I'm saying is surely Josh
22:35
Speaker 1: is being made to resemble a character who like gets
22:39
Speaker 1: off on it and or other people know that about him,
22:41
Speaker 1: and they, you know, try and help him out the
22:42
Speaker 1: best way they can because they take into some I
22:46
Speaker 1: mean MTS bar where he has to walk around in
22:49
Speaker 1: this costume where there's no other dudes there, just him,
22:53
Speaker 1: and then have people be like, hey, what are you
22:55
Speaker 1: doing and he'd be like wearing drag, bad drag, I mean,
22:59
Speaker 1: like why and him being like, because I'm from England,
23:02
Speaker 1: this is what we do and so this is why
23:04
Speaker 1: we're doing it, and then being like cool, cool, none
23:15
Speaker 1: of this clothes, Like all the only two close friends
23:16
Speaker 1: are coming are these two women. And he never hooked
23:21
Speaker 1: up with either one of them. There's no sexual history
23:24
Speaker 1: between them, either one of them. Why can't we have
23:28
Speaker 1: any nice things? We can't have? Like Katie be jealous
23:30
Speaker 1: of them? Is she not? She's not? Is the answer?
23:33
Speaker 1: She doesn't give one fuck. If he's only gonna have
23:37
Speaker 1: two people there, then why doesn't Katie go out and
23:39
Speaker 1: meet him afterward? Katie's like just so tired from making
23:43
Speaker 1: all of her wedding planning happening in one day because
23:45
Speaker 1: she won't be on top of her executive functioning and
23:49
Speaker 1: also does something that it's really problematic. So basically as
23:54
Speaker 1: he's in Ginger Spice Drag and he's talking to these
23:57
Speaker 1: two girls and they're like, how is it going, and
23:59
Speaker 1: he's like, oh, well, well, you know, I mean, she
24:01
Speaker 1: does keep making out with people in front of me
24:03
Speaker 1: all the time, and in a way that makes me
24:05
Speaker 1: feel like she hates me, I mean, or I don't know,
24:07
Speaker 1: or she doesn't respect me or like me, or doesn't
24:09
Speaker 1: understand that I don't want that. And then also like
24:12
Speaker 1: Loki did ask for us to be in an open relationship.
24:15
Speaker 1: They're like, what did you say? And he's like, well,
24:17
Speaker 1: I just, you know, really gave her an eye that
24:22
Speaker 1: made her feel probably that I'm probably not interested right
24:28
Speaker 1: now about it. They're like, it seems like you might
24:35
Speaker 1: have to draw that line of the sand, like maybe
24:40
Speaker 1: like keep that boundary like a little thicker, like in
24:44
Speaker 1: a sharpie ink, because you made a boundary created like
24:52
Speaker 1: an angel dust and it's windy out here, you know
24:58
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Who knows where it is now? She's
25:01
Speaker 1: not paying attention to it. Do you even know where
25:03
Speaker 1: it was? Josh? For all of your are like Katie
25:08
Speaker 1: doesn't do this, or Katy doesn't do that? What the
25:11
Speaker 1: fuck does Josh do? Like Josh made Katie deal with
25:17
Speaker 1: like all his things coming in, Like Katie had to
25:19
Speaker 1: get the apartment. Katie's doing the entire wedding. I mean
25:23
Speaker 1: he could be like, well, she wants to, but at
25:25
Speaker 1: the same time, you could also demand to do something
25:29
Speaker 1: to have a part in something. He has like no backbone,
25:35
Speaker 1: and it's I feel asn't doesn't feel like he has
25:37
Speaker 1: like integrity nor character in that way, Like I don't
25:41
Speaker 1: know what kind of person he is other than a
25:43
Speaker 1: very wishy, washy kind of like nerdy nerd with fluffy
25:54
Speaker 1: hair who could really take a beating. I guess that's
26:01
Speaker 1: his characters character qualities. I don't know. It's so interesting.
26:06
Speaker 1: So he yeah, his friends are like do something. I
26:09
Speaker 1: don't know, and then he comes back to the house.
26:11
Speaker 1: He's not drunk. Remember that, by the way, comes back
26:14
Speaker 1: to the house. Katie's like, Hi, what happened to the
26:18
Speaker 1: Like when Josh and I get together, Honey, it's till
26:22
Speaker 1: four am. Where's his like party, lardy Artie, where's his
26:28
Speaker 1: bachelor party with strippers? If anyone deserved like someone to
26:33
Speaker 1: like get his Jolly's off. For one fleeting moment on
26:39
Speaker 1: this trip. It was Josh who didn't get it. That's
26:43
Speaker 1: such another it's so interesting thing. It's like, what joy
26:48
Speaker 1: has Josh had? I guess making that like sausage sandwich
26:52
Speaker 1: thing for the parents, was it? He really loved that. Okay,
27:03
Speaker 1: So anyway, he obviously, as I said, comes back to
27:05
Speaker 1: the house and his family sees him in the costume
27:10
Speaker 1: and they shake their head. He's so happy to show
27:14
Speaker 1: off it. It's embarrassing, you know what it is? Okay.
27:19
Speaker 1: I hate to say this. It's just I don't want
27:24
Speaker 1: to be like gendered about things. I think that it's
27:26
Speaker 1: cool to like have softness if you're a male, and
27:28
Speaker 1: especially if we're talking about like sis gender heterosexual stuff.
27:30
Speaker 1: He's just and I want people to, you know, have
27:32
Speaker 1: fun and like, you know, it's just that if you
27:36
Speaker 1: want to, it's like this. It's like, if you are
27:38
Speaker 1: gonna worry drag, don't do it so half assidy wholeheartedly.
27:44
Speaker 1: I mean, sorry, don't do it so half acidly. Drag
27:47
Speaker 1: has to be wholeheartedly. He's in bad drag where he's like, oh,
27:52
Speaker 1: they're doing this to me. I don't want to do it,
27:53
Speaker 1: but he remains in the entire time, can't wait till
27:56
Speaker 1: come home and tell his parents about it. And I mean,
28:00
Speaker 1: I could never be with a person like that. It
28:03
Speaker 1: couldn't make me less turned on hard anyway. So Katie
28:13
Speaker 1: and him lay in bed and talk, and this is
28:17
Speaker 1: where he is going to let it be known that
28:19
Speaker 1: he is intending to marry her to be in a
28:23
Speaker 1: monogamous relationship. And so he's like, I talked to my
28:28
Speaker 1: friends and they told me I had to talk to
28:30
Speaker 1: you on the eve before the wedding. She's like, okay,
28:33
Speaker 1: I guess, but I'm just so tired because you left
28:35
Speaker 1: me to do all the wedding stuff to be with
28:38
Speaker 1: your stupid friends, and now you came back not even drunk.
28:42
Speaker 1: And he's like, sorry about that. I'm sorry, I'm not drunk,
28:46
Speaker 1: And obviously, don't worry. I didn't make it with anyone.
28:48
Speaker 1: Don't have to worry about that with me. I know
28:50
Speaker 1: I have to worry about that with you. But I
28:52
Speaker 1: went around town with two of Michael's friends you don't
28:55
Speaker 1: know very well with red hair two ladies, and you
28:57
Speaker 1: surely don't have to worry that I did anything with them,
29:01
Speaker 1: which is in my I want to know it like
29:03
Speaker 1: I wish that she did worry, Okay, God bless So
29:05
Speaker 1: then he's like, so when we get married, I want
29:09
Speaker 1: it to be a thing where you are expecting what
29:14
Speaker 1: I'm expecting. She's like, what's that. He's like to get
29:20
Speaker 1: married just to me and be with me, And she's like, yeah,
29:22
Speaker 1: but what happens if we want to make out with
29:24
Speaker 1: other people? He's like no, She's like, okay, I guess,
29:33
Speaker 1: but what if we want to have a threesome all
29:37
Speaker 1: three of us? And that's when Josh is like, well, maybe,
29:41
Speaker 1: but that's in the future, and you can't, you know,
29:44
Speaker 1: hang your hat on that. Don't hope and pray for that,
29:47
Speaker 1: just maybe probably you know. So she is like, Okay,
29:54
Speaker 1: I'll just marry you monogam on, Leslie, because at the
29:58
Speaker 1: end of the day, I just, I guess want to
29:59
Speaker 1: be with you for the rest of my life. And
30:01
Speaker 1: even though it does seem like I wish I could
30:04
Speaker 1: just definitely make out other people, I don't see a
30:07
Speaker 1: world in which you won't let me do what I
30:09
Speaker 1: want to do because my name is Katie and in
30:14
Speaker 1: this world, people like Katie do what Katie wants to do.
30:20
Speaker 1: It's kind of like Asha, except I don't even care
30:23
Speaker 1: if God wants me to do it or not. It's
30:25
Speaker 1: what I want to do. God's not part of the equation.
30:29
Speaker 1: Just kidding. I do want you to be a Lutheran,
30:31
Speaker 1: but it isn't like Katie's sitting there being like the
30:32
Speaker 1: intrusive thoughts are God telling me what to do all
30:34
Speaker 1: the time, and that's what has happening. Also, no more
30:45
Speaker 1: talk about the Lutheran things. Is a Lutheran priest marrying them? Also?
30:49
Speaker 1: I don't know Lutheranism a lot, but like it was
30:51
Speaker 1: interesting in that at one point they were going to
30:53
Speaker 1: get married in the house, so Lutherans don't have to
30:56
Speaker 1: get married in the church. Is there a Lutheran priest
31:02
Speaker 1: that Katie grew up going to? Is like, you know
31:04
Speaker 1: her childhood priest is gonna be the guy? No? Probably
31:07
Speaker 1: not right? What is that brown haired friend of hers? Like?
31:14
Speaker 1: Real deal? That brown haired friend of hers like gives
31:19
Speaker 1: me like best friend on the Disney sitcom in like
31:22
Speaker 1: the Aughts in the two thousands. There's something about her
31:26
Speaker 1: like I'm like, oh my god, yes, but yeah, Katie
31:33
Speaker 1: is like I know that if I get married to Josh,
31:37
Speaker 1: I'll get to do whatever I want, and I can
31:39
Speaker 1: talk him in anything because he'll do whatever I want. Plus,
31:42
Speaker 1: if I get married to Josh, then my mom will
31:44
Speaker 1: think I'm okay, and they'll think I'm stable. I guess
31:48
Speaker 1: because Josh is stable, because they think Josh is stable,
31:51
Speaker 1: but just because he has that accent, stupid Josh is
31:56
Speaker 1: just like a kind of like an insecured guy wants
32:00
Speaker 1: a you know, immediate life and thinks I'm the hottest
32:03
Speaker 1: person that he's gonna get, and therefore, you know, was
32:06
Speaker 1: putting up with all the things. And also again like
32:10
Speaker 1: I'm more exciting than Josh. I'm more adventurous. I have
32:13
Speaker 1: like more of a like a Jenna Sagua, like a
32:15
Speaker 1: Viv Jodey Viv. I have more of my life force
32:18
Speaker 1: than Josh, and he you know recognizes that. And so
32:22
Speaker 1: if he why would he leave me? He's gonna leave
32:24
Speaker 1: the only exciting fun thing in his life. I know that.
32:28
Speaker 1: So I have a lot of rope. My name's Katie.
32:38
Speaker 1: Maybe that's it. It's so funny, like there used to
32:41
Speaker 1: be this not used to be there's this real sexist,
32:46
Speaker 1: misogynistic song, right, And I remember I used to be
32:49
Speaker 1: on kiothwen on one all the time. And if you
32:52
Speaker 1: are of any person of an elder year, you remember
32:55
Speaker 1: there used to be this song that is like this
32:57
Speaker 1: if you want to be happy for the rest of
32:59
Speaker 1: your life, but make a pretty woman your wife. From
33:04
Speaker 1: my personal point of you, get an ugly woman to
33:07
Speaker 1: marry you. Okay, that is that that song? Okay, horrible,
33:12
Speaker 1: surely right. I feel like Katie in her mind is like,
33:19
Speaker 1: I want like a guy that will concede. I want
33:29
Speaker 1: a guy that will surrender and concede and let me
33:31
Speaker 1: do whatever I want to do it every moment. And
33:33
Speaker 1: that's how I'll be happy for the rest of my
33:36
Speaker 1: life because I not get to do what I want
33:37
Speaker 1: to do. And I think that's like a very important
33:41
Speaker 1: thing Katie knows. Because the thing that we know about Katie,
33:43
Speaker 1: besides the fact that she likes to make out and
33:45
Speaker 1: she has OCD and she has these thoughts or whatever,
33:48
Speaker 1: is that she is, like her mom said, bossy and
33:52
Speaker 1: somewhat like obsessed with herself. And so you can't be
33:57
Speaker 1: that kind of personality type and be with someone who
34:01
Speaker 1: isn't gonna like let that happen. And that's a Josh
34:05
Speaker 1: she knows. I think that she found that. And again,
34:08
Speaker 1: because Josh has the accent that he does, he makes
34:12
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34:15
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34:20
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34:24
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34:27
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34:35
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