Latest / Motivational Podcast / I Won’t Give Up – The Mentality That Will Push You Past Every Obstacle
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- 0:01Speaker 1: We can have a great life, but we always build
- 0:03Speaker 1: this reality around the one thing we don't have.
- 0:06Speaker 2: So therefore our great life we don't even see it.
- 0:09Speaker 1: We see the one piece of clothing we weren't able
- 0:13Speaker 1: to get, versus the amazing things we have, so we
- 0:16Speaker 1: focus on that. I was the king of focusing on
- 0:19Speaker 1: the one bad thing in my life, the one bad
- 0:22Speaker 1: person called me nigger, the everything bad. I focused on that.
- 0:26Speaker 1: But over here was a.
- 0:29Speaker 2: Beautiful reality of my life.
- 0:32Speaker 1: Even though I came from nothing, where I could have
- 0:35Speaker 1: taken my mind for the possibilities of where I can
- 0:38Speaker 1: go if I work harder, that was all over here.
- 0:42Speaker 2: If I lived in the filth over here.
- 0:45Speaker 1: So basically what I started doing was when I was
- 0:48Speaker 1: two ninety seven, I thought about my God, man, like
- 0:52Speaker 1: this could be my life, and I thought, Okay, what
- 0:54Speaker 1: does heaven look like. I don't know, no one does.
- 0:57Speaker 1: I imagine. So I was like, Okay, I imagine that
- 1:01Speaker 1: there's a big long line and you got judgment and
- 1:03Speaker 1: you're God. Let's say you're God and I'm just David Goggins,
- 1:07Speaker 1: big long line and.
- 1:08Speaker 2: You're talking to Jane Jane Doe.
- 1:11Speaker 1: Jane Doe goes by and behind you is a big
- 1:13Speaker 1: white board, and the white board has like just a
- 1:17Speaker 1: piece of paper, and you pull it down. The next
- 1:19Speaker 1: person that lines David Goggins. And on this board it
- 1:23Speaker 1: has all this stuff on it. But I can't see
- 1:25Speaker 1: him too far back in line, so I come up.
- 1:27Speaker 2: I sit down. Now you're talking to me, David. Congratulations,
- 1:30Speaker 2: you made to heaven. How you feel?
- 1:32Speaker 1: And right now I'm three hundred pounds man Eco lab guy,
- 1:35Speaker 1: I'm seventy one years old. This is what I'm thinking
- 1:38Speaker 1: at twenty four years old.
- 1:39Speaker 2: Okay, I'm dead, I'm in heaven. You're God.
- 1:43Speaker 1: You pull the paper down, says David Goggins. I'm reading
- 1:46Speaker 1: it and I'm looking at it and it has my name.
- 1:50Speaker 1: But all this paper it says everything about you, everything,
- 1:54Speaker 1: because God knows all.
- 1:55Speaker 2: And I'm looking at it and I'm seeing one.
- 1:58Speaker 1: Hundred and eighty five Navy seal change people's lives, all
- 2:04Speaker 1: these amazing things, public speaker, blah blah blah blah blah, motivation, all.
- 2:08Speaker 2: The best selling book.
- 2:10Speaker 1: And look at God, said God, the name is right,
- 2:14Speaker 1: but what's on here is not me, He goes, It
- 2:19Speaker 1: should have been you. This was the life that you
- 2:21Speaker 1: were supposed to live, but you didn't try. So this
- 2:26Speaker 1: is the life that you have. So what I think
- 2:28Speaker 1: to myself is are you in heaven? Am I talking
- 2:31Speaker 1: to God? Or am I talking to the devil? Because
- 2:34Speaker 1: I'm in hell now to see that that was supposed
- 2:37Speaker 1: to be my life, but because I didn't try hard enough,
- 2:39Speaker 1: because I didn't put forth every single bit of an
- 2:43Speaker 1: ounce of pressure in my body into being better, that
- 2:47Speaker 1: ended up being a three hundred pound god that may
- 2:50Speaker 1: one thousand dollars a month.
- 2:51Speaker 2: And I was fine there, that was okay. So that's
- 2:54Speaker 2: how my mind works.
- 2:56Speaker 1: It works that way to see where is this gonna
- 2:59Speaker 1: take me? What's the possibility? Well, I have resets, but
- 3:03Speaker 1: my resets are like I call them aid stations, mental
- 3:07Speaker 1: aid stations. So when you're going hard and you're grinding
- 3:10Speaker 1: out the time, like everybody knows you're twenty four hours
- 3:13Speaker 1: in a day, but I'm in the shower, it's a
- 3:16Speaker 1: mental A station. I don't think about shit, I don't
- 3:19Speaker 1: think about people, I don't think about work, I don't
- 3:22Speaker 1: think about running, don't think about working out.
- 3:24Speaker 2: I'm in the car, you know.
- 3:25Speaker 1: The mental A station. I can eating mental air stations.
- 3:29Speaker 1: So people eating and they work and all sorts. Man,
- 3:32Speaker 1: So I can grind hard because a lot of times, man,
- 3:36Speaker 1: I'm in mental air stations chilling. So you have little
- 3:39Speaker 1: mini vacancy, many vacations, man, all day long.
- 3:42Speaker 3: We humans are not really truth seeking animals. We are
- 3:48Speaker 3: social animals. And you know, take you back in time
- 3:52Speaker 3: ten thousand years and you're in a small village. If
- 3:56Speaker 3: you go along to get along, you can survive, you
- 4:00Speaker 3: can procreate. If you're the village truth teller, you might
- 4:04Speaker 3: get club to death in the middle of the night.
- 4:07Speaker 3: Truths are often they don't want to be heard because
- 4:12Speaker 3: important truths can be uncomfortable. They can be awkward, they
- 4:17Speaker 3: can be exhausting, they can make people defensive, even if
- 4:21Speaker 3: that's not the intent. But any high performing organization, whether
- 4:25Speaker 3: it's a sports team, a business, you know, a political organization,
- 4:29Speaker 3: an activist group, I don't care what it is. Any
- 4:32Speaker 3: high performing organization has to have mechanisms and a culture
- 4:39Speaker 3: that supports truth telling. One of the things you have
- 4:42Speaker 3: to do is you have to talk about that, and
- 4:44Speaker 3: you have to talk about the fact that it takes
- 4:46Speaker 3: energy to do that. You have to talk to people,
- 4:49Speaker 3: You have to remind people it's okay that it's uncomfortable
- 4:54Speaker 3: to literally tell people. It's not what we're designed to
- 4:58Speaker 3: do as humans. It's not really, it's kind of a
- 5:01Speaker 3: side effect.
- 5:02Speaker 2: You know.
- 5:02Speaker 3: We can do that, but it's not how we survive.
- 5:05Speaker 3: We mostly survive by being social animals and being cordial
- 5:10Speaker 3: and cooperative, and that's really important. And so there's a
- 5:15Speaker 3: you know, science is all about truth telling. It's actually
- 5:18Speaker 3: a very formal mechanism for trying to tell the truth.
- 5:25Speaker 3: And even in science, you find that it's hard to
- 5:28Speaker 3: tell the truth right. And even you know you're supposed
- 5:33Speaker 3: to have hypothesis and test it and find data and
- 5:35Speaker 3: reject the hypothesis and so on, it's not easy. You
- 5:39Speaker 3: want to set up your culture so that the most
- 5:43Speaker 3: junior person can overrule the most senior person if they
- 5:49Speaker 3: have data.
- 5:52Speaker 4: Your body is your unconscious mind, and it does not
- 5:56Speaker 4: know the difference between an experience in your life that
- 5:59Speaker 4: put an emotion and an emotion that you fabricate.
- 6:03Speaker 2: My thought alone to the body, it's the same.
- 6:06Speaker 4: It believes it's in the experience over and over again.
- 6:11Speaker 4: So if you begin to think unworthy thoughts, wouldn't you
- 6:14Speaker 4: agree that you're gonna begin to feel unworthy. The moment
- 6:17Speaker 4: you feel unworthy, aren't you gonna think more and worthy thoughts?
- 6:20Speaker 4: They You're gonna feel more unworthy, they think more on
- 6:22Speaker 4: the and then finally you're gonna say I am unworthy.
- 6:26Speaker 4: And whenever you say I am anything, what you're saying
- 6:29Speaker 4: is my mind and body are working together. My thoughts
- 6:33Speaker 4: and feelings are aligning to a destiny. So if you
- 6:36Speaker 4: understand then that feelings are the record of the past,
- 6:39Speaker 4: and those feelings are driving your thoughts. Are you thinking
- 6:42Speaker 4: in the future, are.
- 6:43Speaker 2: You thinking in the past.
- 6:45Speaker 4: And as long as you're thinking in the past, and
- 6:47Speaker 4: you believe that your thoughts have something to do with
- 6:49Speaker 4: your destiny, what are you creating more of Now? That
- 6:52Speaker 4: cycle of thinking and feeling creates a state of being,
- 6:55Speaker 4: and a state of being is your personality, and that
- 6:59Speaker 4: chemical contentity becomes so familiar to you that that becomes
- 7:06Speaker 4: your identity. After thirty five and all of a sudden,
- 7:09Speaker 4: when we want to change and we're not going to
- 7:11Speaker 4: think the same thoughts or behave the same way, or
- 7:14Speaker 4: live by the same emotions and we disrupt this chemical continuity,
- 7:18Speaker 4: it feels uncomfortable because now, all of a sudden, it's unfamiliar,
- 7:24Speaker 4: and now you're stepping outside of the old self. And
- 7:28Speaker 4: at least when you suffered, you could predict the next
- 7:31Speaker 4: reason to suffer. Now, all of a sudden, you're not suffering. Now,
- 7:34Speaker 4: what are you gonna do?
- 7:38Speaker 1: So?
- 7:38Speaker 4: Then, if thoughts and feelings produce an imprint in the
- 7:42Speaker 4: quantum field, that invisible field that exists beyond time and
- 7:47Speaker 4: space that's responsive to how you think and feel, then
- 7:51Speaker 4: if you're walking around in your life in a state
- 7:54Speaker 4: of suffering and you're broadcasting an electromagnetic signature, what you're
- 7:59Speaker 4: saying is okay, field, bring me more reasons to suffer,
- 8:05Speaker 4: but bring them in a way that I least expect,
- 8:09Speaker 4: that surprise me, that leave no doubt that they've come
- 8:13Speaker 4: from you.
- 8:16Speaker 5: I know that I am pure spirit, that I always
- 8:20Speaker 5: have been, and that I always will be. There is
- 8:24Speaker 5: inside me a place of confidence and quietness and security,
- 8:29Speaker 5: where all things are known and understood. This is the
- 8:34Speaker 5: Universal Mind God, of which I am a part, and
- 8:38Speaker 5: which responds to me as I ask of it. This
- 8:42Speaker 5: universal mind knows the answer to all of my problems,
- 8:46Speaker 5: And even now the answers are speeding their way to me.
- 8:51Speaker 5: I needn't struggle for them. I needn't worry or strive
- 8:54Speaker 5: for them. When the time comes, the answers will be there.
- 9:00Speaker 5: I give my problems to the great mind of God.
- 9:03Speaker 5: I let go of them, confident that the correct answers
- 9:07Speaker 5: will return to me when they are needed. Through the
- 9:11Speaker 5: great law of attraction, everything in life that I need
- 9:14Speaker 5: from my work and fulfillment will come to me. It
- 9:18Speaker 5: is not necessary that I strain about this. Only believe,
- 9:22Speaker 5: for in the strength of my belief, my faith will
- 9:26Speaker 5: make it so. I see the hand of divine intelligence
- 9:30Speaker 5: all about me, in the flower, the tree, the brook,
- 9:33Speaker 5: the meadow. I know that the intelligence that created all
- 9:37Speaker 5: these things is in me and around me, and that
- 9:41Speaker 5: I can call upon it for my slightest need. I
- 9:44Speaker 5: know that my body is a manifestation of pure spirit,
- 9:48Speaker 5: and that spirit is perfect. Therefore my body is perfect. Also.
- 9:54Speaker 5: I enjoy life, for each day brings a constant demonstration
- 9:58Speaker 5: of the power and wonder of the universe and myself.
- 10:02Speaker 5: I am confident, I am serene, I am sure. No
- 10:07Speaker 5: matter what obstacle or undesirable circumstance crosses my path, I
- 10:12Speaker 5: refuse to accept it, for it is nothing but illusion.
- 10:16Speaker 5: It can be no obstacle or undesirable circumstance to the
- 10:22Speaker 5: mind of God, which is in me, around me, and
- 10:26Speaker 5: serves me now