Latest / The Breakfast Club / How Long Until You Post Your Bae On Social Media?

Transcript

How Long Until You Post Your Bae On Social Media? · The Breakfast Club

• 0:00
  Speaker 1: It's topic time called eight hundred and five five five
• 0:08
  Speaker 1: one to join into the discussion with the Breakfast Club.
• 0:11
  Speaker 2: Talk about it more than everybody.
• 0:13
  Speaker 3: It's dj n V charlamagnea God. We are the Breakfast Club.
• 0:17
  Speaker 3: We have a special guest host this morning, Chris Kaitlyn
• 0:19
  Speaker 3: from South Carolina.
• 0:20
  Speaker 4: Good morning.
• 0:21
  Speaker 3: Now, if you're just joining us, we're asking eight hundred
• 0:24
  Speaker 3: and five eight five one oh five to one, how
• 0:26
  Speaker 3: long until you can post your booi your bay on
• 0:29
  Speaker 3: social media?
• 0:30
  Speaker 5: All right?
• 0:30
  Speaker 3: That is the question. And Chris, you said, we checked
• 0:33
  Speaker 3: your social media. We don't see no pictures in no boo,
• 0:34
  Speaker 3: no bay, no you wire not.
• 0:36
  Speaker 4: The only thing you go see is my man and
• 0:37
  Speaker 4: my dog, not my man, my daddy and my dog.
• 0:39
  Speaker 2: Your daddy and your dog. Jesus Christ.
• 0:42
  Speaker 3: All right, So we're asking how long until you can
• 0:44
  Speaker 3: post your your bay or.
• 0:45
  Speaker 4: Your boot Listen, I am dating for a year. I
• 0:48
  Speaker 4: realized you don't know somebody until you did them for
• 0:50
  Speaker 4: a full year and then after that. But honestly, like
• 0:53
  Speaker 4: I'm not supposed to no man until you proposed to me,
• 0:55
  Speaker 4: then I know.
• 0:56
  Speaker 2: It's your proposal. Yes, that could take three years.
• 0:58
  Speaker 4: Well, be a wait three years until he shows up,
• 1:01
  Speaker 4: Jesus Christ, think.
• 1:02
  Speaker 6: You should go with that father and say not even proposal.
• 1:05
  Speaker 6: Maybe you might propose propost when he proposes to you.
• 1:08
  Speaker 7: With the marriage.
• 1:09
  Speaker 4: Even with Ray, she popped up, and she still didn't
• 1:11
  Speaker 4: confirm she was Like me and my friends showed up,
• 1:14
  Speaker 4: wore white dress. All my friends had on the same
• 1:16
  Speaker 4: bridesmaid's dress. Like, she never confirmed, She just posted that
• 1:19
  Speaker 4: she was married. We still know who her man is.
• 1:22
  Speaker 3: So I want to be like, so what, So let's
• 1:24
  Speaker 3: say you've been dating this guy for two three years,
• 1:26
  Speaker 3: y'all go on vacation.
• 1:27
  Speaker 2: It's just you're gonna crop them out.
• 1:28
  Speaker 4: Yes, Jesus, I don't.
• 1:32
  Speaker 7: The problem with that dope.
• 1:33
  Speaker 6: And when things don't work out, you know what I'm
• 1:35
  Speaker 6: saying now, you feel like you got egg on your
• 1:36
  Speaker 6: face because you don't bleue this man up and got
• 1:38
  Speaker 6: this man literally.
• 1:39
  Speaker 4: And at this point, I mean, let's be real, I
• 1:41
  Speaker 4: feel like, if you're a public figure and you're doing
• 1:43
  Speaker 4: things like that, like you just don't want to give
• 1:45
  Speaker 4: someone that much clout off of you. And that may
• 1:48
  Speaker 4: sound really bad and really shady, but it's just kind
• 1:50
  Speaker 4: of like where I'm at right now. If I'm dating
• 1:52
  Speaker 4: someone like one, I feel like you should have more
• 1:56
  Speaker 4: going on than me. So that's the first thing. But
• 1:58
  Speaker 4: it's just kind of like, okay, if I post you
• 2:00
  Speaker 4: whatever business you have going on, Like I've had a
• 2:02
  Speaker 4: thing of talking to guys and they'll be like, oh,
• 2:04
  Speaker 4: well my business is this, could you share it for me?
• 2:07
  Speaker 4: I don't like that. Yeah, like, don't use me for
• 2:10
  Speaker 4: my followers and like the access I had.
• 2:12
  Speaker 3: But if you do post that, gentlemen, you could also
• 2:14
  Speaker 3: find out information that you might not know.
• 2:16
  Speaker 4: That's true, and that's there's a lot of married men
• 2:23
  Speaker 4: who are real friendly Jesus.
• 2:26
  Speaker 2: Yeah, all right, well let's go to the phone lines.
• 2:28
  Speaker 2: We got married on the line married.
• 2:29
  Speaker 8: Good morning, good morning, good morning, good morning.
• 2:31
  Speaker 5: How are you?
• 2:32
  Speaker 2: I'm good married? Now, now how long til you post
• 2:34
  Speaker 2: your boo your bay?
• 2:35
  Speaker 8: I don't believe that he should be posted as my husband.
• 2:39
  Speaker 8: Come on, Mary and listen, go go step further. If
• 2:43
  Speaker 8: I if I start dating someone who's on my social media,
• 2:47
  Speaker 8: they're coming off.
• 2:48
  Speaker 7: You start dating somebody who does what.
• 2:50
  Speaker 8: If they're already on my social media they were already
• 2:52
  Speaker 8: friends and we started dating follow them?
• 2:57
  Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, and that's what I'm marry.
• 3:01
  Speaker 8: I can't. I can't control social media. I can't control
• 3:04
  Speaker 8: nobody else comments on my post. I can't control nothing else.
• 3:08
  Speaker 8: And sometimes you might post things about and then it'll
• 3:11
  Speaker 8: be like, oh that's how you feel.
• 3:12
  Speaker 2: Like No, I like it.
• 3:16
  Speaker 8: I don't need to be getting on posts about what
• 3:18
  Speaker 8: I'm posted. They thinking I'll make a subliminals against them,
• 3:22
  Speaker 8: like I just can't deal with it.
• 3:23
  Speaker 7: Okay, hit dog will hollow boy? You know what that
• 3:27
  Speaker 7: means about you?
• 3:28
  Speaker 9: Hello?
• 3:28
  Speaker 2: Who's this?
• 3:29
  Speaker 5: Hello?
• 3:31
  Speaker 2: Hey Lauren?
• 3:32
  Speaker 7: Good morning?
• 3:32
  Speaker 2: How long until you can post your buoy your bay
• 3:34
  Speaker 2: on social.
• 3:36
  Speaker 8: I'll say six months, but also I say die until
• 3:40
  Speaker 8: you married.
• 3:43
  Speaker 4: You. That's a gap six months to marry.
• 3:46
  Speaker 8: Yes, listen, just in case as it don't work out.
• 3:52
  Speaker 8: And then you was like, oh, isn't that your man
• 3:54
  Speaker 8: over there with that girl in the bar, you know,
• 3:59
  Speaker 8: just to void public embarrassment. Okay, but yeah, like Cardid said,
• 4:05
  Speaker 8: don't post them until you got a ring on the fingers, post.
• 4:07
  Speaker 7: Some card Okay, I agree?
• 4:09
  Speaker 2: Hellos this heyka.
• 4:12
  Speaker 10: Hey with her?
• 4:15
  Speaker 5: I don't have a ring?
• 4:16
  Speaker 10: You ain't?
• 4:19
  Speaker 9: Oh you?
• 4:19
  Speaker 2: Oh you're quoting Cardy too.
• 4:21
  Speaker 8: I definitely am because it's true marriage.
• 4:24
  Speaker 7: I'm still single, Okay, that's a great way to look
• 4:28
  Speaker 7: at it.
• 4:28
  Speaker 2: Man, what's that?
• 4:29
  Speaker 6: Because I feel like until a person makes a commitment
• 4:31
  Speaker 6: to you, you shouldn't make a commitment to this.
• 4:33
  Speaker 2: Absolutely not.
• 4:34
  Speaker 4: And I just feel like, now what social media is
• 4:36
  Speaker 4: just kind of like that is a thing. It's just
• 4:37
  Speaker 4: kind of like permanent. Granted you can delete it, but
• 4:39
  Speaker 4: it's just kind of like you know when someone post
• 4:41
  Speaker 4: is like oh you did it pop out or what
• 4:44
  Speaker 4: they call it, the reveal, the Grammy revealer, your boo,
• 4:46
  Speaker 4: and I'm just like, yeah, no, but you.
• 4:47
  Speaker 3: Know, you also live life and there's so many things
• 4:49
  Speaker 3: and experiences that you take in right that you want
• 4:51
  Speaker 3: to post on social media, whether you're traveling or you're
• 4:53
  Speaker 3: enjoying something, and a lot of times that might be
• 4:55
  Speaker 3: with your bull or your baby.
• 4:56
  Speaker 4: And guess what, he can take my picture? What I boast?
• 5:00
  Speaker 4: I even do you wne bad at? You know that
• 5:02
  Speaker 4: when the Instagram, when we like reaching the hand, I
• 5:03
  Speaker 4: will let his hand be in the picture because it's
• 5:07
  Speaker 4: just kind of like, Okay, see this man is treating
• 5:08
  Speaker 4: me well, taking me out just as a woman. Like
• 5:11
  Speaker 4: they're going to click on that man's page and be
• 5:12
  Speaker 4: like ooh he fine, let me like his pictures. Let
• 5:15
  Speaker 4: me go in as dms and women are just like that,
• 5:17
  Speaker 4: So you cannot have what I have if you want to.
• 5:19
  Speaker 4: I was punch in the back of your head.
• 5:21
  Speaker 6: Jesus Chris said something that was true to me. You
• 5:23
  Speaker 6: don't know what these men actually want for you. If
• 5:26
  Speaker 6: I was a woman, I would be lary of any
• 5:28
  Speaker 6: man who constantly want to be up in the picture.
• 5:30
  Speaker 6: Why you want to pop up in all these pictures
• 5:32
  Speaker 6: all the time? Why you want to just put your
• 5:33
  Speaker 6: head and you know when I'm posting myselfies, why do
• 5:36
  Speaker 6: you want.
• 5:36
  Speaker 7: Me to tag you thing.
• 5:38
  Speaker 3: Let's say, let's say you've never been at the Bai.
• 5:40
  Speaker 3: I take you to the Bai, I say, and I
• 5:41
  Speaker 3: take you to Dubai. Right, we on a beach in Dubai,
• 5:44
  Speaker 3: or we at the mall and we skied, or we shopping.
• 5:47
  Speaker 3: You can't even say thank you daddy and post a picture.
• 5:50
  Speaker 4: Me now, thank you in the caption, but no, you
• 5:52
  Speaker 4: hand feet. That's it envy, that's right.
• 5:54
  Speaker 6: And most of these women ain't gonna post these old
• 5:56
  Speaker 6: white men that be takings like you bai anyway, y'all
• 5:59
  Speaker 6: ashamed of him? Old sugar daddies, them old Caucasian sugar daddies.
• 6:02
  Speaker 3: Y'all got five a five one oh five one. How
• 6:06
  Speaker 3: long into dating someone before you post them on social media?
• 6:09
  Speaker 2: Let's discuss. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, It's topic time.
• 6:17
  Speaker 1: Eight hundred five five one five one to join into
• 6:20
  Speaker 1: the discussion with the Breakfast Club.
• 6:23
  Speaker 3: Morning, everybody in ceej Envy, Charlemagne, the God we are
• 6:26
  Speaker 3: the Breakfast Club. Now if you're just joining us. Chris
• 6:29
  Speaker 3: Kaitlyn is joining us. She's from South Carolina. She's our
• 6:31
  Speaker 3: guest co host, and we're asking how long until you
• 6:35
  Speaker 3: can post somebody on social media? So your boo, your babe,
• 6:38
  Speaker 3: that is the question, Chris Kaitlyn said. Jane posting, y'all
• 6:41
  Speaker 3: sind you get a rint.
• 6:41
  Speaker 4: Exactly only man you will see on my page right now.
• 6:43
  Speaker 4: If y'all go, is my daddy and my dog?
• 6:47
  Speaker 2: Charlamagne? Are you posting your daddy and your dog?
• 6:49
  Speaker 7: No? No, I don't do that now. And I'm married.
• 6:53
  Speaker 7: You know what I'm saying. I'm just I don't.
• 6:55
  Speaker 6: I don't showcase my my family in that way and things.
• 6:58
  Speaker 4: That you love me you want to keep close to you,
• 6:59
  Speaker 4: That's right.
• 7:00
  Speaker 2: Evil man, that's hello. Who's this?
• 7:02
  Speaker 5: He went on visiting board dingo?
• 7:04
  Speaker 3: What's going on?
• 7:04
  Speaker 5: Better stuff?
• 7:06
  Speaker 2: Ding ding?
• 7:08
  Speaker 5: Hey? Are you doing?
• 7:09
  Speaker 9: Wait?
• 7:09
  Speaker 5: I'm sorry? Who's the guest?
• 7:10
  Speaker 4: So today Chris Calen from Charles and South Carolina with.
• 7:13
  Speaker 5: tBu Chris Hayler. How you doing? You have you have
• 7:16
  Speaker 5: a real love your voice?
• 7:17
  Speaker 8: How you doing?
• 7:18
  Speaker 4: I'm great?
• 7:19
  Speaker 2: How are you?
• 7:19
  Speaker 7: That's that?
• 7:22
  Speaker 5: That's what I'm talking about. I like it. Okay, I'm
• 7:24
  Speaker 5: gonna have to go down to the south real quick.
• 7:26
  Speaker 4: Okay, go ahead, follow you on Instagram. Let me see
• 7:27
  Speaker 4: something real quick.
• 7:28
  Speaker 2: Whoa hey, look put that pressure.
• 7:31
  Speaker 5: I'm gonna put it on that girl. Uh, mister dingo
• 7:35
  Speaker 5: dgo so, mister d g O, go ahead?
• 7:38
  Speaker 2: And all right?
• 7:39
  Speaker 4: How do so?
• 7:40
  Speaker 3: Now we're talking about how long until you can post
• 7:41
  Speaker 3: somebody on social media?
• 7:43
  Speaker 5: Oh no, that's not happening, not at all. I actually
• 7:45
  Speaker 5: lost relationships because of this because I am a firm
• 7:48
  Speaker 5: believer in not hosting. I don't people be putting all
• 7:52
  Speaker 5: that bad juju out there. They be wanting what you got.
• 7:55
  Speaker 5: I don't like my business out there in the street,
• 7:58
  Speaker 5: So I would like to keep stuff on the laps.
• 8:01
  Speaker 5: And then also just to case something happened. I don't
• 8:03
  Speaker 5: really got to worry about the whole taking down takes
• 8:05
  Speaker 5: and hey what happened and all the homies because nah,
• 8:08
  Speaker 5: I'm good Jacob.
• 8:11
  Speaker 2: Yeah, say you reach out to Chris Kaitlyn, she give
• 8:13
  Speaker 2: you a shot.
• 8:13
  Speaker 3: Y'all start dating three or four months and you ain't
• 8:15
  Speaker 3: gonna post it, like, yeah, that's my bait.
• 8:17
  Speaker 5: No, No, no, not at all, because I wanted to
• 8:19
  Speaker 5: actually work. So you know, once we get like married,
• 8:23
  Speaker 5: then I'm comfortable enough to post you. And then when
• 8:26
  Speaker 5: we get the tattoos and all that, that's like thirty
• 8:28
  Speaker 5: years down.
• 8:29
  Speaker 4: That means you ain't going nowhere tattoos.
• 8:33
  Speaker 5: Hold on.
• 8:33
  Speaker 7: That's a great point when you brought up Chris.
• 8:35
  Speaker 6: If you're dating a guy and the guy wants to
• 8:38
  Speaker 6: post you, do you let him because you if you
• 8:41
  Speaker 6: not posting him but you want to post you, do
• 8:42
  Speaker 6: you let him?
• 8:43
  Speaker 2: He can't post me?
• 8:44
  Speaker 4: That's fine, I mean, but I'm not posting you. If
• 8:47
  Speaker 4: you want to post me, that's fine. But I just
• 8:49
  Speaker 4: don't want you to feel away because I'm not going
• 8:50
  Speaker 4: to post.
• 8:50
  Speaker 2: It's like you got some criminal activity out there. You
• 8:52
  Speaker 2: don't want to be a.
• 8:52
  Speaker 3: Nobody or something don't post me.
• 8:57
  Speaker 2: No social Security but nothing.
• 9:00
  Speaker 4: You can't post me because I mean, you know cool,
• 9:02
  Speaker 4: but I like, you're not. I'm not posting you and post.
• 9:05
  Speaker 6: You with the hashtag like they mine wifey.
• 9:12
  Speaker 7: Got homes.
• 9:13
  Speaker 2: I'm sorry, I'm sorry, Troy. She listens to my podcast, Troy,
• 9:21
  Speaker 2: what's up?
• 9:21
  Speaker 9: What's up?
• 9:21
  Speaker 7: What's up?
• 9:22
  Speaker 9: Bro?
• 9:22
  Speaker 3: We're talking about posting your girl. You post your girl,
• 9:25
  Speaker 3: talk to us.
• 9:26
  Speaker 9: So I'm actually getting ready to post her this week
• 9:28
  Speaker 9: because I'm flying her out to Puerto Rico for her birthday.
• 9:31
  Speaker 9: And we've been talking about this our whole relationship.
• 9:35
  Speaker 7: I'm sorry.
• 9:36
  Speaker 3: Yeah, Now let me ask you a question. You said,
• 9:38
  Speaker 3: flying rough from Puerto Rico. I know a lot of
• 9:40
  Speaker 3: people do this, Like she speaks English and you know her.
• 9:43
  Speaker 9: Right, yeah, I've been knowing her for fourteen years.
• 9:45
  Speaker 2: Okay, wait, and she lives in Puerto Rico.
• 9:48
  Speaker 9: No, she lives here.
• 9:49
  Speaker 2: Oh y'all right?
• 9:50
  Speaker 5: Out to yeah?
• 9:52
  Speaker 2: Oh birthday?
• 9:53
  Speaker 9: All right?
• 9:54
  Speaker 2: So you're about to post her. She doesn't want you
• 9:55
  Speaker 2: to post her?
• 9:56
  Speaker 9: Well, she was reluctant about it because it's my reputation
• 9:59
  Speaker 9: in our state but out in past the Smith text.
• 10:02
  Speaker 7: So you know, I'm what you got a reputation for
• 10:05
  Speaker 7: being musty. But she smells what you're talking about?
• 10:08
  Speaker 9: Are you?
• 10:08
  Speaker 4: Are you community peen?
• 10:10
  Speaker 9: I have yeah, yeah, I was a horror.
• 10:22
  Speaker 4: To how long y'all been together since March. I'm sorry, sir,
• 10:28
  Speaker 4: you could be working on yourself though. I'm sorry.
• 10:30
  Speaker 9: I mean I got her divorce and I was single
• 10:34
  Speaker 9: for over a year and a half, so I healed.
• 10:37
  Speaker 4: Wait now wait, you you're divorced. Yeah, and you've been
• 10:41
  Speaker 4: single for a year and how long were you married?
• 10:44
  Speaker 7: For?
• 10:44
  Speaker 9: Four year?
• 10:44
  Speaker 5: Sir?
• 10:45
  Speaker 4: I think you need to heal some more.
• 10:48
  Speaker 5: Are you healing though?
• 10:50
  Speaker 4: Are you healing? Are you holing?
• 10:53
  Speaker 9: I'm you like I have a dual relationship with my
• 10:55
  Speaker 9: ex co parent. I don't care what she got going on.
• 10:59
  Speaker 9: I don't stalk Facebook, Instagram.
• 11:02
  Speaker 7: I think he's holding. He's in between holding and pulling
• 11:05
  Speaker 7: and healing. That's what I hear.
• 11:07
  Speaker 10: But I have fun.
• 11:09
  Speaker 2: Sorry, I love her.
• 11:13
  Speaker 6: I don't believe you. I think you should let that
• 11:14
  Speaker 6: woman trust her instincts. Women, things are never really wrong.
• 11:18
  Speaker 6: She don't want to be posted. She don't want to
• 11:20
  Speaker 6: be posted.
• 11:20
  Speaker 4: She wants you know why. She wants their trip and
• 11:22
  Speaker 4: the trip includes being posted. But she's gonna tell me
• 11:24
  Speaker 4: archive that picture, man, archive mona.
• 11:30
  Speaker 2: Now you're posting your boo, your bay on social media.
• 11:34
  Speaker 10: I am not not no more. I absolute recently just
• 11:37
  Speaker 10: went through this.
• 11:40
  Speaker 2: Good morning.
• 11:41
  Speaker 8: I'm a big fan.
• 11:43
  Speaker 10: I'm so surprised I got through.
• 11:45
  Speaker 7: I feel like retriggering some traumas.
• 11:52
  Speaker 10: I am here for you girls, all right, So let
• 11:54
  Speaker 10: me tell you guys, I dated that you're just being
• 11:58
  Speaker 10: for a year, and then we after a year, we
• 12:01
  Speaker 10: caute official. He posted me first, and that's why I
• 12:05
  Speaker 10: felt like kind of obligated because I didn't want to
• 12:07
  Speaker 10: not post him. And at this time he was good,
• 12:10
  Speaker 10: so all right, I posted him. Now he had a whole,
• 12:13
  Speaker 10: full grown relationship, full grow or over social media. Anybody
• 12:18
  Speaker 10: here so that they happy, all kind of good. If
• 12:22
  Speaker 10: this means a cheat.
• 12:23
  Speaker 7: On me his baby mother, damn, he cheated on you
• 12:27
  Speaker 7: with his baby mother.
• 12:28
  Speaker 10: Cheat on me his baby mother, and I don't play
• 12:30
  Speaker 10: those games now, anybody embarrassing. Had to take all them
• 12:33
  Speaker 10: pictures down, all them videos down, and it's a grab.
• 12:36
  Speaker 3: Well will say this, if you didn't post him, you
• 12:37
  Speaker 3: probably would have never found out that.
• 12:41
  Speaker 10: No, no, that's not true, that's not true.
• 12:44
  Speaker 9: I would have follo out anyway.
• 12:45
  Speaker 10: But I really wish I didn't post him because I
• 12:47
  Speaker 10: just feel like, dang man, anybody I'm not I'm not
• 12:49
  Speaker 10: somebody who posted. So it's that I really went out
• 12:52
  Speaker 10: on a limb. And yeah, doing that again.
• 12:54
  Speaker 7: You should have trusted your gut, your your own relationship.
• 12:57
  Speaker 2: Damn it.
• 12:57
  Speaker 7: Man.
• 12:57
  Speaker 4: Well he still had a baby she didn't know about.
• 13:00
  Speaker 7: Still in the know.
• 13:02
  Speaker 4: And this is why you don't d baby daddies.
• 13:04
  Speaker 2: All right, Well, what's the moral of the story.
• 13:06
  Speaker 4: Don't post that man.
• 13:08
  Speaker 6: Until you get a ring. I agree with him, Chris
• 13:10
  Speaker 6: and everybody else calling up. Don't post that man until
• 13:12
  Speaker 6: you get a ring. Until he makes a real commitment
• 13:14
  Speaker 6: to you. Don't make a real commitment to him. The
• 13:16
  Speaker 6: post go on Instagram official is a real commitment.
• 13:19
  Speaker 4: That is a real commitment. And everyone's gonna know, like
• 13:21
  Speaker 4: when you're when you go out or something like that,
• 13:23
  Speaker 4: they're gonna be like, yeah, I saw your man. That
• 13:24
  Speaker 4: was always the thing. I saw your man. I saw
• 13:26
  Speaker 4: your man.
• 13:27
  Speaker 2: Nobody wants all that.
• 13:28
  Speaker 3: Jesus, all right, Well, when we come back, we got
• 13:30
  Speaker 3: your room and report JT. She she wild out on
• 13:33
  Speaker 3: somebody on social media.
• 13:34
  Speaker 2: We'll get to it next, it don't move. It's the
• 13:36
  Speaker 2: Breakfast Club on morning