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- 0:01SPEAKER_02: How is the soul of a man saved and not be destroyed by a sin?
- 0:09SPEAKER_02: And the answer is God loves you and came to be with you to take away, to help you, and take away, because he knows you and he wants you to experience his love.
- 0:26SPEAKER_02: He wants to come and do what he says, to come and be with you.
- 0:30SPEAKER_02: But to do that, so you can know that you're loved, he has to take away everything that you know is wrong with you.
- 0:38SPEAKER_02: Because you know you're messed up, right?
- 0:42unknown: Amen.
- 0:43SPEAKER_02: Yeah, I mean, sadly so, but we are.
- 0:45SPEAKER_02: We're all messed up.
- 0:47SPEAKER_02: But isn't that amazing?
- 0:48SPEAKER_02: Because we have to ask, when I know that God is with me and knows me in Tanzania and sends a man with so much faith to walk for a week, come and speak three words, what I know is I do not deserve that kind of love.
- 1:07SPEAKER_02: How could that be?
- 1:10SPEAKER_02: Why could that be?
- 1:12SPEAKER_02: I can think of no other reason but he loved me.
- 1:16SPEAKER_00: We're listening to Passing on the Facebook, a podcast for generations.
- 1:21SPEAKER_00: Every week, we bring you a powerful moment from one of our current audiobooks, webinars, or conference topics.
- 1:32SPEAKER_00: This week's episode is a recorded lecture from the 2022 Father's Time Conference entitled Experiencing God's Love by Norm Wakefield.
- 1:42SPEAKER_02: It's so good to be here with you.
- 1:44SPEAKER_02: The last time I was in this room, my wife and I were here visiting and talking with Norm Wakefield.
- 1:58SPEAKER_02: I can tell you're puzzled by that.
- 2:01SPEAKER_02: There aren't too many Norm Wakefields.
- 2:04SPEAKER_02: But this is another Norm Wakefield.
- 2:06SPEAKER_02: I call him Norm One because he's about 12 years older than I am, and he was speaking somewhere over here at Horn Creek in another part of the camp.
- 2:17SPEAKER_02: And I was speaking up in this part of the camp, and we found out that we were in the same place, and we had a wonderful visit.
- 2:25SPEAKER_02: I know of three Norm Wakefields.
- 2:26SPEAKER_02: The other one collects beer cans in Fort Lauderdale.
- 2:30SPEAKER_02: We are never confused with each other.
- 2:32SPEAKER_02: But this other Norm Wakefield is.
- 2:35SPEAKER_02: He and I speak on the same things.
- 2:37SPEAKER_02: He is a real doctor.
- 2:39SPEAKER_02: I'm not.
- 2:41SPEAKER_02: I'm just a plain old teacher, coach, pastor, uh branch.
- 2:47SPEAKER_02: And so I'm so privileged to be here with you.
- 2:51SPEAKER_02: I am really excited for this reason as I start this message.
- 3:01SPEAKER_02: As I was sitting over here tonight, before this started, I said, Lord, it's just on my heart to ask you to show me that you know these fathers and sons.
- 3:18SPEAKER_02: And that you know me and you know we are here.
- 3:26SPEAKER_02: And the reason I ask that, I think it's because the Holy Spirit put it on my heart.
- 3:31SPEAKER_02: But many times in my life, the Lord has shown me that He knows where I am and He loves the people He's put in my path.
- 3:43SPEAKER_02: Tonight, you're in my path, and He loves you.
- 3:48SPEAKER_02: And here's how I know.
- 3:50SPEAKER_02: So what started this was in my first ministry trip.
- 3:55SPEAKER_02: Mission trip was to Tanzania many, many years ago, and I was teaching 21 pastors under a mango tree in a little in front of a mud hut about a mile and a half off the main road, dirt paths going up there.
- 4:12SPEAKER_02: I've never been there before.
- 4:14SPEAKER_02: There are no signs, there's no street names.
- 4:18SPEAKER_02: It's just outside of Igoma, Tanzania.
- 4:21SPEAKER_02: And as I was speaking to these pastors, it's like we hit a spiritual wall.
- 4:30SPEAKER_02: And I could tell they just were not getting it.
- 4:34SPEAKER_02: And I asked the Lord, Lord, would you please help us?
- 4:39SPEAKER_02: We need help.
- 4:41SPEAKER_02: The next day, mid-morning.
- 4:46SPEAKER_02: Well, this, I started to say this old man came walking up, but I'm pretty sure he's not as old as I am now.
- 4:53SPEAKER_02: But um, he was way older than I was.
- 4:56SPEAKER_02: He comes walking up.
- 4:58SPEAKER_02: Now, everyone there, of course, is black.
- 5:02SPEAKER_02: This guy that walks up is black.
- 5:05SPEAKER_02: Me and the two guys that were with me were the only white guys in the village.
- 5:10SPEAKER_02: But this guy walks up and he asks, is this where the man of God is speaking?
- 5:20SPEAKER_02: No, I don't ever call myself that, hardly ever.
- 5:23SPEAKER_02: I don't think I've had too many people call me that.
- 5:26SPEAKER_02: But the pastor's response was, because he wasn't sure that I was the one.
- 5:31SPEAKER_02: He said, Well, there is a guy here from California speaking to us, and he says, Okay.
- 5:42SPEAKER_02: He says, I have a message for this group.
- 5:47SPEAKER_02: Now here's the amazing thing.
- 5:50SPEAKER_02: This man does not know me, and he had walked for one week from Uganda to find us.
- 6:02SPEAKER_02: And God had given him a three-word message.
- 6:10SPEAKER_02: And he walks up, stands in front of this group, and he says, I have walked here from Uganda with this message for you.
- 6:20SPEAKER_02: Listen to him.
- 6:22SPEAKER_02: Three words.
- 6:26SPEAKER_02: And then he sat down.
- 6:29SPEAKER_02: He ate lunch with us, and turned around, and spent another week walking back to Uganda.
- 6:44SPEAKER_02: Why don't you stop and think about that?
- 6:50SPEAKER_02: Jesus loved those men under that mango tree, and he knew where they were, and he knew where I was, and this man didn't know any of us, didn't know how he was gonna find us, and he just took off with the Lord saying, I'll be with you.
- 7:15SPEAKER_02: I was stunned.
- 7:16SPEAKER_02: We were all stunned.
- 7:20SPEAKER_02: My takeaway from that has been that was God showing me I know where you are in the world, and I love you, and I love these men.
- 7:39SPEAKER_02: From that point forward, those men heard the word of the Lord.
- 7:48SPEAKER_02: So tonight I asked kind of that same prayer: Lord, would you just show me so I can speak to these men that you know every single one of them, and they are here because you put them in my path, because you love them.
- 8:04SPEAKER_02: And there are three things that happened that were amazing to me.
- 8:11SPEAKER_02: And you'll see and understand after I finish my message.
- 8:15SPEAKER_02: The first one is their leadoff song was God is with us.
- 8:22SPEAKER_02: You'll see why that's important in a moment.
- 8:25SPEAKER_02: The second was, these are the days of Elijah.
- 8:33SPEAKER_02: My ministry is called the Spirit of Elijah, the turning of the hearts of fathers to their sons, and the hearts of sons to their fathers and to God.
- 8:45SPEAKER_02: And the third was Kevin getting up here and talking about the turning of the hearts of fathers and sons.
- 8:55SPEAKER_02: It was as if the Spirit of God said, Norm, I know where you are.
- 10:26SPEAKER_02: I love these men and their sons.
- 10:29SPEAKER_02: I've given you what I want to speak to.
- 10:37SPEAKER_02: I am so excited.
- 10:43SPEAKER_02: God has a word for you tonight.
- 10:45SPEAKER_02: I, if I give a title to this one, it's Experience God's Love.
- 10:51SPEAKER_02: And I'm going to give an intro, and then we're going, hopefully, God is going to do this.
- 10:55SPEAKER_02: Um I'm excited about the seeds that I'm going to plant in your soils.
- 11:01SPEAKER_02: I'm I mean your souls.
- 11:05SPEAKER_02: Um Piper's podcast, Ask Pastor John, didn't you guys listen to that podcast?
- 11:14SPEAKER_02: Yesterday was an I thought really interesting.
- 11:16SPEAKER_02: It uh it was the two great questions facing or in the universe.
- 11:22SPEAKER_02: That's quite a title.
- 11:24SPEAKER_02: And um I was reminded why what I'm about to share with you, it was it was almost this week, God was already ahead of me saying, I've given you this message.
- 11:34SPEAKER_02: I want you to know this is the one I want you to share.
- 11:37SPEAKER_02: I was reminded why you're about what you're about to hear is so important.
- 11:45SPEAKER_02: He explained why Christians are aliens and strangers in this world.
- 11:51SPEAKER_02: And it's because we have a God-implanted passion to know two great questions of the universe, and we know that God's word speaks to them.
- 12:07SPEAKER_02: Those two questions are the salvation of the soul of man and the glory of the name of God.
- 12:19SPEAKER_02: He called those the two great questions.
- 12:22SPEAKER_02: He turned them into questions.
- 12:24SPEAKER_02: The first one, he turned it this, he questioned it this way: How is the soul of a man saved so that it's not destroyed by sin?
- 12:39SPEAKER_02: Great question for the universe.
- 12:43SPEAKER_02: And the second one, when he talks about the glory of the name of God, he asks it this way How do you glorify God so that he is not belittled by your life?
- 12:57SPEAKER_02: Now, the reason those two questions are so important is because he's our creator.
- 13:04SPEAKER_02: And we are sinners.
- 13:07SPEAKER_02: Oh, I know what the other thing, there was another one, Kevin.
- 13:11SPEAKER_02: When you start talking about, we're hoping and praying for conversions tonight, just hold that one as we go through this.
- 13:21SPEAKER_02: So these two great questions are related to what I want to share with you tonight.
- 13:28SPEAKER_02: I've been blessed.
- 13:29SPEAKER_02: I have a spiritual mentor who has been a father and a dear friend to me for ever since I was 29.
- 13:36SPEAKER_02: He has invested in my life.
- 13:38SPEAKER_02: He has planted seeds in me throughout all the years, and I want to share one with you tonight, or this weekend actually.
- 13:46SPEAKER_02: It's two parts.
- 13:49SPEAKER_02: But he would say to me, Norm, God can't really use you, or you won't really be used of God until two things are settled in you.
- 14:03SPEAKER_02: Again, it's like two questions.
- 14:06SPEAKER_02: These two things have to be settled in a man for God to be glorified in him.
- 14:12SPEAKER_02: And here's those two things.
- 14:14SPEAKER_02: The first one is this that God loves me.
- 14:19SPEAKER_02: That seems so simple, doesn't it?
- 14:23SPEAKER_02: It's profound.
- 14:24SPEAKER_02: You'll see here in a moment.
- 14:27SPEAKER_02: It has to be settled because if you're not settled in that, well, we'll talk more about that in a moment.
- 14:35SPEAKER_02: The second one is this, that I love God.
- 14:40SPEAKER_02: And let me show you how those two relate.
- 14:42SPEAKER_02: They relate to those two great questions of the universe.
- 14:46SPEAKER_02: Because the salvation of a human soul, the only way it can be saved is if God loves that soul.
- 14:57SPEAKER_02: That's the only way.
- 16:10SPEAKER_02: That's how God is glorified.
- 16:12SPEAKER_02: He's glorified in his son.
- 16:16SPEAKER_02: And when a person knows he's loved by God, we love because he first loves us.
- 16:24SPEAKER_02: These two things, guys, have to be settled.
- 16:27SPEAKER_02: And so the salvation of the soul, to show you how these two relate, the salvation of the soul and the glory of God splits mankind into two subsets.
- 16:39SPEAKER_02: And I would venture to say it has split this group into two subsets.
- 16:45SPEAKER_02: These two subsets, you see, on those two questions, there are those in this room and in this world who really don't care about those two questions that face the universe.
- 16:57SPEAKER_02: That's not their interest.
- 16:58SPEAKER_02: I mean, they're they're more interested in, you know, life being happy and fun and comfortable and playing another game or playing sports or making more money.
- 17:10SPEAKER_02: You know, it could be a thousand things in this world, goodness.
- 17:15SPEAKER_02: They really don't care about those two questions.
- 17:20SPEAKER_02: And then there's men in this room and sons in this room that do care about the question.
- 17:27SPEAKER_02: They care.
- 17:29SPEAKER_02: The only thing is, because they care about those two questions, they're share not at home in this world.
- 17:37SPEAKER_02: Because this world doesn't care about them.
- 17:39SPEAKER_02: And you start caring about them, it makes you a stranger and an alien.
- 17:44SPEAKER_02: Amen.
- 17:45SPEAKER_02: Isn't that true?
- 17:46SPEAKER_02: Are you feeling a little stranger and a little more alien these days?
- 17:53SPEAKER_02: As the darkness gets greater and greater, and it is getting greater, it's gone from where we're going to be just strangers and aliens.
- 18:04SPEAKER_02: The attitude of the world toward us is going to be enemies.
- 18:09SPEAKER_02: Objects to be censored, they'll consider us toxic, they will eliminate us.
- 18:23SPEAKER_02: Because they don't care about those two questions.
- 18:26SPEAKER_02: But here's what I've what I've come to.
- 18:29SPEAKER_02: If you care about these two questions, it changes everything.
- 18:35SPEAKER_02: If in the church we had these two things settled, that God loves me and that I love him, it would change our marriages, it would change our families, it would change our churches, it would change our world.
- 18:50SPEAKER_02: The worlds we walk in.
- 18:51SPEAKER_02: We would become the light of the world.
- 18:57SPEAKER_02: And so tonight what I'm going to do is I'm going to focus on the first of those two great questions.
- 19:04SPEAKER_02: And that is, how do we know God loves us?
- 19:11SPEAKER_02: I found this out as I've talked about love.
- 19:14SPEAKER_02: The moment I say it, almost everybody thinks they already know it.
- 19:20SPEAKER_02: Because how long have we heard this word love?
- 19:24SPEAKER_02: All of our lives.
- 19:26SPEAKER_02: We think, oh, another message on love.
- 19:35SPEAKER_02: What we find about knowing that God loves us and knowing that we love Him, knowing the facts is not enough.
- 19:47SPEAKER_02: If it were, we wouldn't be having the apostasy we're seeing.
- 19:52SPEAKER_02: We have thought if our children accept the facts and know the facts, that God loves them, then they're okay.
- 20:00SPEAKER_02: That is being proved it is not true.
- 20:04SPEAKER_02: God's love must be experienced.
- 20:10SPEAKER_02: You don't become convinced that God loves you until it's experienced.
- 20:16SPEAKER_02: And one of the things I realize with my children is I can't make them experience what I've experienced.
- 20:22SPEAKER_02: And neither can you.
- 20:25SPEAKER_02: You can homeschool them, you can teach them, you can preach to them every day, you can pray for them every day.
- 20:33SPEAKER_02: But until God Himself meets them and they experience the love of God and know they're experiencing the love of God, it will not be settled in their hearts that God loves them.
- 20:47SPEAKER_02: And when the hard times come, and they will come, and things don't go like they wish or like they will want them to go, that's when they will question.
- 21:01SPEAKER_02: And if this isn't settled, they will deconstruct as it's popularly called today, which is just another word for apostasy.
- 21:11SPEAKER_02: They will turn and walk away, which is evidence that they did not know that God loved them.
- 21:18SPEAKER_02: And they were not convinced that they loved God.
- 21:23SPEAKER_02: Just let that sink in.
- 21:29SPEAKER_01: Where are you?
- 21:32SPEAKER_01: On those two things.
- 21:43SPEAKER_02: I w my prayer now has been and is this moment in these next few minutes, the presence of God will be manifested in this room.
- 21:59SPEAKER_01: And he will love you.
- 22:08SPEAKER_02: How do we know God loves us?
- 22:10SPEAKER_02: Is it because the Bible tells us so?
- 22:13SPEAKER_02: Jesus loves me, this I know, for the Bible tells me so.
- 22:18SPEAKER_02: I've known that one since I was a little kid.
- 22:23SPEAKER_02: But then it when I came across the verse where God, in his word, it tells us that God loves his enemy, that became a problem.
- 22:35SPEAKER_02: Because now I have the Bible telling me he loves his friends and he loves his enemies.
- 22:40SPEAKER_02: The question is, how do I know which one I am?
- 22:46SPEAKER_02: I'm gonna answer that question.
- 22:53SPEAKER_02: Is it because we feel like he loves us?
- 22:57SPEAKER_02: No.
- 23:04SPEAKER_02: I mean, have you ever been to a funeral where the pastor got up and said, This is such a sad and terrible day?
- 23:12SPEAKER_02: This person is in hell today.
- 23:18SPEAKER_02: I don't think I've ever heard that.
- 23:21SPEAKER_02: It's just almost assumed if they died.
- 23:23SPEAKER_02: They went to heaven and we're here to hope that they did.
- 23:28SPEAKER_02: When we all know they didn't live at all like they knew God.
- 23:34SPEAKER_02: So do feelings make it true?
- 23:37SPEAKER_02: No.
- 23:38SPEAKER_02: Is it because we're good people?
- 23:41SPEAKER_02: No, the Bible's pretty clear on that one, isn't it?
- 23:43SPEAKER_02: And then we, it's like I tell my wife, I we're not short of evidence that I'm a sinner.
- 23:51SPEAKER_02: And that I'm not a good person.
- 23:54SPEAKER_02: The Bible says there's none who does good.
- 23:56SPEAKER_02: Jesus says there's only one who is good.
- 23:58SPEAKER_02: And of course that's God.
- 24:01SPEAKER_02: Here's how you know.
- 24:03SPEAKER_02: It's possible to know because of his presence that he is with me and he is in me.
- 24:13SPEAKER_02: And now what I'd like to do is take you on a flyover over the Old and New Testament that you would see what it is for God to love someone.
- 24:25SPEAKER_02: It's obvious.
- 24:27SPEAKER_02: You don't have to guess.
- 24:32SPEAKER_02: You will know tonight which group you were in.
- 24:35SPEAKER_02: I mean, it's happening right now.
- 24:38SPEAKER_02: Some of you are sitting here and you don't care about those questions, and you're just waiting for this thing to be over.
- 24:43SPEAKER_02: Others of you, you care.
- 24:46SPEAKER_02: And those of you care, I'm going to encourage.
- 24:48SPEAKER_02: What I'm praying and hoping for is that those of you who don't care, that the presence of God will come, the presence of God will come and be with you and come into you.
- 25:06SPEAKER_02: So you might experience the love of God.
- 25:10SPEAKER_02: And it becomes more than fact.
- 25:13SPEAKER_02: Now I can't make that happen.
- 25:16SPEAKER_02: The only way that happens is if God loves you.
- 25:26SPEAKER_02: So how does he convince a boy, a young man, middle-aged man, an old man, that he loves them?
- 25:40SPEAKER_02: God speaks and he acts.
- 25:44SPEAKER_02: Here was my starting point.
- 25:46SPEAKER_02: In Hebrews chapter 1, it says, God, after he spoke long ago to the Father, through the prophets, in many portions and in many ways, in these last days has spoken to us in his Son, whom He appointed heir of all things, and through Him also He made the world.
- 26:00SPEAKER_02: God spoke and He acts, and I want to, I hope you'll be as stunned as I am as we look at these verses.
- 26:09SPEAKER_02: But before we look at them, let's take 30 seconds and pray together.
- 26:16SPEAKER_02: Now here's what I'd like to invite you to do.
- 26:19SPEAKER_02: I would like for you to pray for you.
- 26:22SPEAKER_02: Would you be willing to pray?
- 26:25SPEAKER_02: And we'll all pray at the same time.
- 26:28SPEAKER_02: Would you be willing to ask God for help?
- 26:33SPEAKER_02: Would you be willing to ask Him to do whatever He wants to do in your life tonight?
- 28:54SPEAKER_02: Would you be willing to ask that question over the Lord?
- 28:58SPEAKER_02: If you are, I mean anything?
- 29:07SPEAKER_02: We're just gonna take 30 seconds.
- 29:10SPEAKER_02: Prepare your heart before the Lord for what you're about to read and see and hear.
- 29:20SPEAKER_01: Jesus lives.
- 29:26SPEAKER_02: And wherever he lives, he lives.
- 29:33SPEAKER_01: Are you ready?
- 29:35SPEAKER_01: Thirty seconds.
- 29:37SPEAKER_01: That's right.
- 29:38SPEAKER_01: You just ask me.
- 29:58SPEAKER_01: Father, hallowed be your name.
- 30:05SPEAKER_02: May your kingdom come and your will be done.
- 30:10SPEAKER_01: With everyone in this room.
- 30:13SPEAKER_01: For the glory of your name I pray.
- 30:16SPEAKER_02: Amen.
- 30:20SPEAKER_02: Here's what makes men aliens in the world.
- 30:25SPEAKER_02: Are you ready?
- 30:26SPEAKER_02: Here it comes.
- 30:27SPEAKER_02: Let's start with Abraham.
- 30:30SPEAKER_02: Now the Lord said to Abram, Go forth from your country and from your relatives and from your father's house to the land which I will show you, and I will make you a great nation, and I will bless you and make your name great.
- 30:46SPEAKER_02: Now the words that he spoke, these are words that he spoke, but there are specific words that he speaks to us, and that he spoke to Abram.
- 30:54SPEAKER_02: And basically what he was saying to Abram was My presence will go with you.
- 31:02SPEAKER_02: I will be with you, and you'll be able to see it.
- 31:08SPEAKER_02: He first speaks it, and then he does it.
- 31:12SPEAKER_02: So it's not just believing a fact, you know, just believing some truth.
- 31:17SPEAKER_02: It's believing by faith, these words, and then you obey, and then you experience it.
- 31:27SPEAKER_02: Did you follow that one?
- 31:29SPEAKER_02: You hear the words, you obey, and then you experience.
- 31:37SPEAKER_02: So when does Abraham experience the I wills that God says?
- 31:45SPEAKER_02: He had to obey, he had to leave.
- 31:48SPEAKER_02: He leaves, and what does he find out?
- 31:50SPEAKER_02: God leads him, God is with him, and does everything he said he would do.
- 31:56SPEAKER_02: Just to show you, this isn't an isolated event.
- 31:59SPEAKER_02: To Isaac, the next father.
- 32:01SPEAKER_02: Sojourn in this land, and I will be with you.
- 32:04SPEAKER_02: So now he's explicit.
- 32:06SPEAKER_02: And bless you, for to you and to your descendants I'll give all these lands.
- 32:09SPEAKER_02: So here's the promise.
- 32:10SPEAKER_02: He speaks a promise.
- 32:12SPEAKER_02: I'll be with you.
- 32:12SPEAKER_02: I will do this, so it'll be obvious.
- 32:16SPEAKER_02: And I will establish the oath which I swore to your father Abraham.
- 32:19SPEAKER_02: The Lord appeared to him the same night and said, I am the God of your father Abraham, do not fear, for I am with you.
- 32:31SPEAKER_02: Jacob, next generation.
- 32:33SPEAKER_02: Then the Lord said to Jacob, Return to the land of your fathers and to your relatives, and I will be with you.
- 32:43SPEAKER_02: And he makes him promises, and again, you'll notice with each one of these times when God's presence comes, it's what makes them strangers and aliens.
- 32:55SPEAKER_02: Can you see that?
- 32:57SPEAKER_02: These guys became, they were not of this world anymore.
- 33:09SPEAKER_02: They heard him, they obeyed him, and then God, then they experienced him.
- 33:29SPEAKER_02: Then there's, I think I missed one.
- 33:32SPEAKER_02: Joseph.
- 33:34SPEAKER_02: Then Israel, this is Israel speaking to Joseph, behold, I'm about to die, but God will be with you and bring you back to the land of your fathers.
- 33:42SPEAKER_02: God speaking through his father.
- 33:46SPEAKER_02: Sons, do you believe God can speak to you through your dad?
- 33:54SPEAKER_02: Do you think he can make this promise to you?
- 33:58SPEAKER_02: Would God do that?
- 34:00SPEAKER_02: It's possible.
- 34:04SPEAKER_02: Moses.
- 34:05SPEAKER_02: Remember what he told Moses to do?
- 34:08SPEAKER_02: Go lead the people out of Egypt?
- 34:11SPEAKER_02: And he said to Moses, certainly, I'll be with you.
- 34:15SPEAKER_02: Now remember, Moses is our man of excuses.
- 34:18SPEAKER_02: There's a Moses in all of us.
- 34:20SPEAKER_02: Amen.
- 34:21SPEAKER_02: Ah no, I can't go do this.
- 34:24SPEAKER_02: I'm one for murder.
- 34:26SPEAKER_02: You know what?
- 34:27SPEAKER_02: I'm not really a very good speaker.
- 34:31SPEAKER_02: He could make excuse after excuse.
- 34:33SPEAKER_02: God's answer to every excuse was, I will be with you.
- 34:41SPEAKER_02: Don't be afraid.
- 34:44SPEAKER_02: Now notice what we've done so far.
- 34:46SPEAKER_02: Abraham, Isaac, Jacob, Joseph, Moses.
- 34:50SPEAKER_02: We're talking hundreds of years have passed in history, and God is speaking the same thing, and then he's performing it.
- 35:02SPEAKER_02: And it's what made these guys who they were.
- 35:07SPEAKER_02: They were settled.
- 35:10SPEAKER_02: God loves me, and I love God.
- 35:13SPEAKER_02: Now it did take a while for some of them.
- 35:17SPEAKER_02: But what's so good about the Bible is he shows up, God actually shows us the process.
- 35:25SPEAKER_02: That God is patient.
- 35:29SPEAKER_02: Shall we have an amen right there?
- 35:32SPEAKER_02: I don't know how you couldn't have amen that one, Mike.
- 35:35SPEAKER_02: Immediately.
- 35:37SPEAKER_02: I'm so grateful for that.
- 35:41SPEAKER_02: Gideon fighting against the Midianites.
- 35:43SPEAKER_02: Remember when God told Gideon, send some guys home and go fight the army with just a few guys?
- 35:48SPEAKER_02: Like, duh, does that sound like a smart thing to do?
- 35:54SPEAKER_02: But remember, this is all about love and the glory of God.
- 35:58SPEAKER_02: Why did God have him send them back?
- 36:00SPEAKER_02: Because he said, Surely I'll be with you, and you shall defeat Midian, there's the promise, as one man.
- 36:07SPEAKER_02: So what does Gideon have to do?
- 36:10SPEAKER_02: He has to obey, send some guys home, and lead them into battle.
- 36:18SPEAKER_02: And then what happens?
- 36:21SPEAKER_02: God's with him.
- 36:25SPEAKER_02: And they win the battle.
- 36:27SPEAKER_02: And now what does what does Gideon know?
- 36:32SPEAKER_02: God loves me.
- 36:37SPEAKER_02: Then there's David.
- 36:40SPEAKER_02: Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I fear no evil, for you're with me.
- 36:45SPEAKER_02: He knows.
- 36:46SPEAKER_02: In fact, would you go up against Goliath if you did not know and have that one settled?
- 36:52SPEAKER_02: No.
- 36:53SPEAKER_02: The fact that he did, it was settled.
- 36:56SPEAKER_02: God can use a man where this one's settled.
- 36:58SPEAKER_02: And isn't it encouraging to us when we think about how David really messed up?
- 37:04SPEAKER_02: And you'd think God would turn around and leave him and say, okay, I'm done with you.
- 37:11SPEAKER_02: That's because God's love is not like an earthly love, it's a steadfast forever love.
- 37:19SPEAKER_02: That gives us confidence.
- 37:24SPEAKER_02: Then there's Jeremiah.
- 37:25SPEAKER_02: God called Jeremiah to go speak to Israel, and he said, They'll fight against you, but they will not overcome you.
- 37:32SPEAKER_02: Oh, that's comforting.
- 37:35SPEAKER_02: For I'm with you to deliver you, declares the Lord.
- 37:39SPEAKER_02: Isn't that a good word?
- 37:42SPEAKER_02: It's going to be hard.
- 37:44SPEAKER_02: With both Gideon, David, just think about him.
- 37:47SPEAKER_02: David and Gideon and Jeremiah, God actually tells them, you're going to be in a battle in this world.
- 37:53SPEAKER_02: But don't be afraid.
- 37:55SPEAKER_02: I'm going to be with you.
- 38:00SPEAKER_02: Hello?
- 38:07SPEAKER_02: Israel.
- 38:09SPEAKER_02: Now this is becoming one of my favorite Old Testament verses because here it all comes together.
- 38:20SPEAKER_02: Since you are precious in my sight, he's speaking to Israel, since you are honored, and I love you.
- 38:28SPEAKER_02: Now remember, what are we doing?
- 38:30SPEAKER_02: We're answering the question.
- 38:32SPEAKER_02: We're settling it.
- 38:33SPEAKER_02: How does a man, a young man, an older man, any man, how do they know that God loves them?
- 38:41SPEAKER_02: And I have answered that question and said the answer is it has to be experienced.
- 38:48SPEAKER_02: You have to know because you must experience his presence and its power.
- 38:57SPEAKER_02: His doing something with you and in you.
- 39:01SPEAKER_02: Notice what this says.
- 39:03SPEAKER_02: Since I love you, I will give other men in your place.
- 39:08SPEAKER_02: When I should have wiped you out, I'm going to wipe out others.
- 39:12SPEAKER_02: And other peoples in exchange for your life.
- 39:18SPEAKER_02: Do not fear, for I'm with you.
- 39:28SPEAKER_02: How do you know God loves you?
- 39:31SPEAKER_02: How did Israel know that God loved them?
- 39:35SPEAKER_02: Because he was with them.
- 39:42SPEAKER_02: Let's get really practical here.
- 39:45SPEAKER_02: We don't have any women in here, do we?
- 39:47SPEAKER_02: Nope.
- 39:48SPEAKER_02: That's the father-son retreat for you.
- 39:52SPEAKER_02: If we had them here, I know what they would say.
- 39:55SPEAKER_02: If I asked them this question, which would you rather your husband say to you?
- 39:59SPEAKER_02: I love you or I want to be with you and I will never leave you.
- 40:03SPEAKER_02: Which do you think they would pick?
- 40:06SPEAKER_02: I mean, both of those are good answers.
- 40:10SPEAKER_02: Which would they pick?
- 40:12SPEAKER_02: They would pick the second one.
- 40:14SPEAKER_02: Why?
- 40:14SPEAKER_02: Because they know anybody can say I love you.
- 40:24SPEAKER_02: But to want to be with you means I love you.
- 40:31SPEAKER_02: That's what shows I love you.
- 40:34SPEAKER_02: It's not enough, guys, to say, honey, I love you, and give her a little card.
- 40:42SPEAKER_02: If you don't want to be with her, she knows better.
- 40:47SPEAKER_02: She's not convinced that you love her.
- 40:52SPEAKER_02: But my guess is, it's just a hunch, that if you knew that God loved you and that you loved God, you'd want to be with her.
- 41:03SPEAKER_02: And the reason you don't want to be with her is because you don't know that God loves you by experience.
- 41:12SPEAKER_02: And you don't know that you love Him for His glory.
- 41:19SPEAKER_02: That's how big this is.
- 41:23SPEAKER_02: And same thing, kids.
- 41:25SPEAKER_02: If you say to your dad, or your dad says to you, I love you, but he doesn't want to be with you, what do the kids know, dad?
- 41:35SPEAKER_02: It's just words.
- 41:38SPEAKER_02: You see, it wasn't enough for God to say, I love you, or I will be with you.
- 41:43SPEAKER_02: What had to follow?
- 41:46SPEAKER_02: I will be with you.
- 41:48SPEAKER_02: Action.
- 41:49SPEAKER_02: There had to be power.
- 41:52SPEAKER_02: And guys, this works both ways.
- 41:54SPEAKER_02: Dad, when your sons say, I love you, Dad, sons, do you realize that that word means nothing unless you want to be with your dad?
- 42:06SPEAKER_02: See, it's all about what you love, it's all about where your heart's turned.
- 42:11SPEAKER_02: Somebody that knows the love of the father is going to turn his heart to his children, and what is that going to look like?
- 42:18SPEAKER_02: He'll want to be with them.
- 42:20SPEAKER_02: And when he turns the heart of a son to his dad, guess what he'll want to do?
- 42:26SPEAKER_02: He'll want to be with his dad.
- 42:29SPEAKER_02: Because that's the essence of love.
- 42:32SPEAKER_02: It's the presence.
- 42:34SPEAKER_02: It has to be experienced.
- 42:35SPEAKER_02: Words are just not enough.
- 42:42SPEAKER_02: Look at the next verse.
- 42:46SPEAKER_02: Again to Israel, he says, Since your precious Oh, I just did that one.
- 42:50SPEAKER_02: Isaiah 7.14.
- 42:52SPEAKER_02: Therefore the Lord himself will give you a sign.
- 42:54SPEAKER_02: Behold, a virgin will be with child and bear a son, and she'll call his name God with us.
- 43:04SPEAKER_02: See there it is, God speaking the word again to Israel.
- 43:08SPEAKER_02: I'll be with you.
- 43:09SPEAKER_02: And we let's that's a great segue into the New Testament, isn't it?
- 43:12SPEAKER_02: Remember, God spoke to the fathers to the prophets, now he's speaking in his son.
- 43:16SPEAKER_02: Starts off with Mary.
- 43:18SPEAKER_02: The angel shows up and coming in, he said to her, that is the angel, greetings, favored one.
- 43:24SPEAKER_02: The Lord is with you.
- 43:25SPEAKER_02: Well, yeah, the Lord better be with Mary with what's about to happen and what he's asking her to do.
- 43:30SPEAKER_02: He's asking her to be the mother of the son of God.
- 43:36SPEAKER_02: She had to know God was going to be with her because what did that mean?
- 43:41SPEAKER_02: Well, you know the story.
- 43:42SPEAKER_02: What it meant was she was going to be ostracized.
- 43:45SPEAKER_02: It meant that she was going to be possibly stoned.
- 43:49SPEAKER_02: Of course, how could she be the mother of the son of God and be stoned?
- 43:55SPEAKER_02: She knew God, it was faith.
- 43:57SPEAKER_02: God knew she knew what God said.
- 43:59SPEAKER_02: She knew this was true.
- 44:01SPEAKER_02: And then we have it in Matthew 1, coming right from Isaiah.
- 44:06SPEAKER_02: Now all this took place, that is, the birth of Christ, to fulfill what was spoken by the Lord through the prophet.
- 44:13SPEAKER_02: Behold, the virgin will be with child and shall bear a son, and they shall call his name Emmanuel, which translated means God with us.
- 44:22SPEAKER_02: Guys, let this sink in.
- 44:25SPEAKER_02: The love of God was being poured out on Israel the day that little baby was born.
- 44:36SPEAKER_02: That was the Son of God.
- 44:39SPEAKER_02: It was God with them and with us, mankind.
- 44:46SPEAKER_02: It was God saying, I know where you are, and I love you.
- 44:52SPEAKER_02: And I want to be with you.
- 44:56SPEAKER_02: So he came to be with us.
- 44:58SPEAKER_02: Now, guys, here's an amazing thing.
- 45:02SPEAKER_02: I don't have time to preach this one.
- 45:03SPEAKER_02: I'm just going to throw it out there.
- 45:05SPEAKER_02: This one's for free.
- 45:08SPEAKER_02: Isn't it amazing that God came as a son?
- 45:13SPEAKER_02: Here's why that's important.
- 45:16SPEAKER_02: Dads, to reach your sons, you've got to become a son.
- 45:21SPEAKER_02: Don't reach him from father to son.
- 45:23SPEAKER_02: You've got to become a son, like Jesus became a son, to walk with sons.
- 45:30SPEAKER_02: Let that one sink in.
- 45:33SPEAKER_02: They learn how to be a son by watching you be a son.
- 45:45SPEAKER_02: And they will find out that you are just like they are.
- 45:50SPEAKER_02: And you will find out that you have all the same weaknesses your sons have.
- 45:56SPEAKER_02: You have a hard time listening to your father, and they have a hard time listening to you.
- 46:03SPEAKER_02: You get distracted, they get distracted.
- 46:08SPEAKER_02: You want to do what you want to do, they want to do what they want to do.
- 46:13SPEAKER_02: Right?
- 46:15SPEAKER_02: Isn't that how this works?
- 46:19SPEAKER_02: You want to reach your son?
- 46:22SPEAKER_02: Don't speak over him.
- 46:23SPEAKER_02: Come beside him and be with him as a son.
- 46:30SPEAKER_02: That comes from equipping men, practical tools for life's issues.
- 46:36SPEAKER_02: Let's move on.
- 46:39SPEAKER_02: Now listen to Jesus speak.
- 46:44SPEAKER_02: John 14, 16, he's about to go to the Father.
- 46:47SPEAKER_02: He's going to leave them.
- 46:48SPEAKER_02: He's been with them for three years.
- 46:51SPEAKER_02: And he's about to leave them.
- 46:52SPEAKER_02: And look what he says.
- 46:54SPEAKER_02: I will ask the Father.
- 46:56SPEAKER_02: And he will give you another helper.
- 47:00SPEAKER_02: That he may be with you forever.
- 47:04SPEAKER_02: Did anybody catch the upgrade on that one?
- 47:09SPEAKER_02: It's the forever.
- 47:10SPEAKER_02: Did we ever see forever in the Old Testament?
- 47:13SPEAKER_02: No.
- 47:16SPEAKER_02: Why do we see forever in the New Testament?
- 47:20SPEAKER_02: It's because when Jesus came to be with us, he came to take away everything that could possibly prevent God from coming and being with us forever.
- 47:33SPEAKER_02: And that is Our sin.
- 47:39SPEAKER_02: Which would destroy our soul.
- 47:43SPEAKER_02: How is the soul of a man saved?
- 47:48SPEAKER_02: And not be destroyed by a sin?
- 47:51SPEAKER_02: And the answer is God loves you and came to be with you.
- 48:02SPEAKER_02: To take away, to help you, and take away, because he knows you and he wants you to experience his love.
- 48:08SPEAKER_02: He wants to come and do what he says, to come and be with you.
- 48:12SPEAKER_02: But to do that, so you can know that you're loved, he has to take away everything that you know is wrong with you.
- 48:20SPEAKER_02: Because you know you're messed up, right?
- 48:24unknown: Amen.
- 48:25SPEAKER_02: Yeah, I mean, sadly so, but we are.
- 48:27SPEAKER_02: We're all messed up.
- 48:29SPEAKER_02: But isn't that amazing?
- 48:30SPEAKER_02: Because we have to ask, when I know that God is with me and knows me in Tanzania and sends a man with so much faith to walk for a week, come and speak three words, what I know is I do not deserve that kind of love.
- 48:49SPEAKER_02: How could that be?
- 48:52SPEAKER_02: Why should that be?
- 48:54SPEAKER_02: I can think of no other reason but he loves me.
- 48:59SPEAKER_02: And he knows me, and he wants me to experience his love, and so he came to experience the wrath of God for my sin as the first helper, took away our sin so he could come be with us.
- 49:13SPEAKER_02: Look at the next verse in verse 18.
- 49:16SPEAKER_02: He says, I will not leave you as orphans, I will come to you.
- 49:19SPEAKER_02: Right there you have the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit.
- 49:25SPEAKER_02: He's saying, I'm going to ask to give you the Spirit.
- 49:28SPEAKER_02: But when the Spirit comes, now catch this.
- 49:32SPEAKER_02: Here's what he said in that one chapter.
- 49:34SPEAKER_02: This was a pivot point.
- 49:38SPEAKER_02: I, Jesus, have the life of the Father in me.
- 49:42SPEAKER_02: We are united and we are one.
- 49:46SPEAKER_02: Then he says, I'm going to go to the Father and I'm going to ask the Father to send you another helper, one that's like me, but not me.
- 49:56SPEAKER_02: However, I am united with him because when he comes, I'm coming.
- 50:02SPEAKER_02: So I have the life of the Spirit in me.
- 50:05SPEAKER_02: The Spirit has me, my life in him, and I have the life of the Father in me.
- 50:12SPEAKER_02: And what happens when you're not an orphan anymore?
- 50:14SPEAKER_02: What do you get?
- 50:17SPEAKER_02: You get adopted, and so what do you have now?
- 50:21SPEAKER_02: You have a father.
- 50:24SPEAKER_02: You didn't have a father, that's why you're an orphan.
- 50:28SPEAKER_02: So he says, I'll not leave you as orphans, I will come to you.
- 50:31SPEAKER_02: So who's coming when he comes?
- 50:33SPEAKER_02: So that you're not an orphan anymore?
- 50:35SPEAKER_02: The Father's coming.
- 50:38SPEAKER_02: Guys, be amazed.
- 50:40SPEAKER_02: Be stunned at the love of God.
- 50:44SPEAKER_02: That there is the life of God in a man.
- 50:48SPEAKER_02: Because if the life of God can be in the man Jesus Christ, the God man, what God came to do because he loves us is give us his life.
- 50:59SPEAKER_02: So that we're no longer dead.
- 51:01SPEAKER_02: We have the life of God in a man.
- 51:06SPEAKER_02: Or a boy, a young man, an old man.
- 51:11SPEAKER_02: Because God loves us.
- 51:14SPEAKER_02: And you can see it.
- 51:16SPEAKER_02: It's experiential.
- 51:19SPEAKER_02: It's not enough just to say, well, I know this fact because the Bible tells me so.
- 51:23SPEAKER_02: Because my dad told me so.
- 51:27SPEAKER_02: You see, the people that are apostasizing out of the church are people who thought it was enough to just believe what their dads believed or their moms believed.
- 51:38SPEAKER_02: It was not enough.
- 51:42SPEAKER_02: What holds somebody in the midst of the fire and the storm is the presence of God.
- 51:49SPEAKER_02: And they know it's settled.
- 51:51SPEAKER_02: God loves me.
- 51:52SPEAKER_02: No matter what's happening, I know I have the love of God with me.
- 51:56SPEAKER_02: No one can take away the love of God from me.
- 52:01SPEAKER_02: Come hell or high water, I am not alone.
- 52:09SPEAKER_02: That's good news.
- 52:13SPEAKER_02: Amazing news.
- 52:16SPEAKER_02: In verse 26, but the helper, the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in my name, he will teach you all things and bring to your remembrance all that I said to you.
- 52:25SPEAKER_02: See, whenever we say, I'll be with you, what it means to love, to want to be with somebody is you're there to help them.
- 52:36SPEAKER_02: Through the storm.
- 52:37SPEAKER_02: Through life.
- 52:39SPEAKER_02: Hey sons, can I have your attention here for a moment?
- 52:42SPEAKER_02: Listen, your dad's not perfect.
- 52:46SPEAKER_02: News flash.
- 52:49SPEAKER_02: You know your dad's not perfect.
- 52:52SPEAKER_02: He was never meant to be perfect.
- 52:55SPEAKER_02: What he was meant to be was with you.
- 53:02SPEAKER_02: One messed up guy with another messed up guy.
- 53:07SPEAKER_02: But what makes your dad different than you until you've experienced the love of God is that he has God with him.
- 53:18SPEAKER_02: So that the life of God can love you.
- 53:21SPEAKER_02: He won't love perfect.
- 53:29SPEAKER_02: But if he knows that God loves him, and he knows that he loves God, the love of God will flow through him to you.
- 53:44SPEAKER_02: And he'll be there to help you.
- 53:46SPEAKER_02: That's what you need from a dad.
- 53:51SPEAKER_02: When my son was twelve, I called him out to be with me.
- 53:57SPEAKER_02: I didn't even know them, I didn't know them what I know now about this.
- 54:01SPEAKER_02: It was just the Spirit of God doing this in me.
- 54:03SPEAKER_02: I just knew I had to call Micah to be with me.
- 54:08SPEAKER_02: So I took him on his birthday.
- 54:13SPEAKER_02: I said, I'm going to pick you up after work after work.
- 54:16SPEAKER_02: And I'm going, you and I are going to go together.
- 54:19SPEAKER_02: We're going to go, we're going to do something.
- 54:20SPEAKER_02: And I've been asking God, God, what do you want me to do?
- 54:23SPEAKER_02: Now all I knew was, God said, Norm, I want you to call him out to be with you.
- 54:28SPEAKER_02: So I've been planning for like two weeks, with and two weeks, the day comes and I got no plans.
- 54:36SPEAKER_02: Absolutely no plans.
- 54:37SPEAKER_02: I had no idea what I was going to do.
- 54:40SPEAKER_02: And there was a reason for that, because God was calling me out as a son through the process of me calling my son out.
- 54:49SPEAKER_02: You see, we come as sons.
- 54:54SPEAKER_02: And that's what my father was doing with me.
- 54:57SPEAKER_02: He was showing me that he was with me.
- 54:59SPEAKER_02: And to show me that he was with me, he needed to not show he was with me until I obeyed.
- 55:08SPEAKER_02: So he didn't give me any plans.
- 55:10SPEAKER_02: He just said, Go! Go get him! Take him out.
- 55:15SPEAKER_02: I'll show you what to do.
- 55:16SPEAKER_02: So Micah jumps in the car and he says, Where are we going, Dad?
- 55:20SPEAKER_02: And I said, just wait and see.
- 55:24SPEAKER_02: Seriously, that's all I had.
- 55:26SPEAKER_02: I just said, just wait and see.
- 55:28SPEAKER_02: Because I didn't know.
- 55:29SPEAKER_02: So I put it in reverse, and as I'm backing out, I hear go to Central Park.
- 55:33SPEAKER_02: This is in Huntington Beach, California.
- 55:35SPEAKER_02: So I know where we're going now.
- 55:37SPEAKER_02: We go to the park.
- 55:38SPEAKER_02: We're walking down in the park, and he says, Well, what are we doing here, Dad?
- 55:44SPEAKER_02: Just wait and see.
- 55:46SPEAKER_02: I don't know.
- 55:48SPEAKER_02: I'm just taking this as he gives it to me.
- 55:52SPEAKER_02: So as we're walking down in the park, I see these three chin-up bars, different levels.
- 55:56SPEAKER_02: You've probably seen them before.
- 55:57SPEAKER_02: One's like here, another one's here, another one's up here.
- 56:01SPEAKER_02: And the spirit, I think, the spirit of the Son that is in me, that's calling out to the Father, who is also in me, is guiding me and teaching me.
- 56:16SPEAKER_02: He's helping me.
- 56:17SPEAKER_02: And we get down to the chin-up bars, and Mike is a scrawny little 12-year-old.
- 56:22SPEAKER_02: No offense to the rest of you, scrawny 12-year-olds.
- 56:25SPEAKER_02: But I asked him to do 10 chin-ups on the low bar, which hit him like right here.
- 56:33SPEAKER_02: He did his 10 chin-ups.
- 56:35SPEAKER_02: Even when I'm asking him to do it, I'm thinking this is weird.
- 56:39SPEAKER_02: Seriously.
- 56:40SPEAKER_02: I'm just going with what he's giving to me.
- 56:43SPEAKER_02: See, he's wanting to teach me as a son to trust him and trust his love for me.
- 56:51SPEAKER_02: That because he loves me, he will be with me.
- 56:53SPEAKER_02: And he will give me what I need.
- 56:55SPEAKER_02: He will help me.
- 56:56SPEAKER_02: And that's what I experienced.
- 56:58SPEAKER_02: And that's how I know he loves me.
- 57:01SPEAKER_02: It's settled.
- 57:06SPEAKER_02: That wasn't the weirdest thing.
- 57:08SPEAKER_02: It gets weirder.
- 57:10SPEAKER_02: Next thing that came is asking me to do 10 chinu-ups on the high bar.
- 57:14SPEAKER_02: Now, number one, he can't reach the high bar.
- 57:16SPEAKER_02: Number two, I know there's no way that kid's going to do 10 chin-ups on the high bar.
- 57:21SPEAKER_02: If he gets two, I'm going to be impressed.
- 57:25SPEAKER_02: And he gave me the answer I knew he would give me because he's he's really smart.
- 57:32SPEAKER_02: He knows how to assess situations and circumstances.
- 57:35SPEAKER_02: And he looks up at me and he says, I can't.
- 57:43SPEAKER_02: This just came out of my mouth.
- 57:45SPEAKER_02: Seriously.
- 57:46SPEAKER_02: God just put it in my mouth.
- 57:49SPEAKER_02: I said, I didn't ask you if you could.
- 57:54SPEAKER_02: I said, give me 10 chin-ups on the high bar.
- 57:58SPEAKER_02: He looked back at me to see if I was serious.
- 58:00SPEAKER_02: I put on a serious look.
- 58:03SPEAKER_02: And I said, Give me 10 chin-ups.
- 58:07SPEAKER_02: Now I still don't know what I'm going to do.
- 58:09SPEAKER_02: I just know he's supposed to do 10 chin-ups.
- 58:11SPEAKER_02: And I know he can't.
- 58:13SPEAKER_02: But he does.
- 58:14SPEAKER_02: He shinnies up that middle one, works his way over, gets up to the top one, and he starts on his 10 chin-ups.
- 58:21SPEAKER_02: Now what is happening?
- 58:23SPEAKER_02: Now I have spoken, and now he is obeying.
- 58:29SPEAKER_02: Even though he knows he can't.
- 58:31SPEAKER_02: Are you stunned?
- 58:36SPEAKER_02: That ought to speak to all of us in this room.
- 58:41SPEAKER_02: He gets two, and he's, I know he's not going to get three.
- 58:45SPEAKER_02: And then just comes to me.
- 58:46SPEAKER_02: And I grabbed his thighs and I helped him do ten.
- 58:53SPEAKER_02: I was with him.
- 58:54SPEAKER_02: It was like God saying, now, Norm, and this is speaking to me like God was speaking to my son.
- 59:02SPEAKER_02: He came down, when he came down, we were both kind of huffing and puffing.
- 59:05SPEAKER_02: I was a little younger.
- 59:07SPEAKER_02: But anyway, um and this came to me.
- 59:14SPEAKER_02: I said, Micah, up to now, life with your mom has been 10 chin-ups on the low bar.
- 59:24SPEAKER_02: From here on out, I'm calling you out to be with me.
- 59:28SPEAKER_02: And it's going to be like 10 chin-ups on the high bar.
- 59:32SPEAKER_02: I'm going to ask you to do things.
- 59:34SPEAKER_02: God is going to ask you to do things that you don't think you can do.
- 59:39SPEAKER_02: I do not want you to say to me, I can't.
- 59:44SPEAKER_02: I don't want you to say to God, I can't.
- 59:50SPEAKER_02: If I ask you to do something that I don't think you can do, I promise I will be with you to help you.
- 1:00:02SPEAKER_02: Why?
- 1:00:04SPEAKER_02: Because I love you.
- 1:00:07SPEAKER_02: And I went on to call him out.
- 1:00:09SPEAKER_02: And it's just the Spirit gave me, I'm going to help you walk through life.
- 1:00:12SPEAKER_02: We're going to walk together as sons.
- 1:00:15SPEAKER_02: Do you think my son got it that day at 12?
- 1:00:19SPEAKER_02: What was happening to him?
- 1:00:20SPEAKER_02: I don't think I got what was happening to me.
- 1:00:23SPEAKER_02: You know, I was like, after it was over, I was like, I was just amazed at God's faithfulness and his love for me and his love for my son.
- 1:00:30SPEAKER_02: That's what was amazing to me God gave me what he promised to give me because he loves my son.
- 1:00:42SPEAKER_02: He was loving with me and through me.
- 1:00:45SPEAKER_02: He was loving my son.
- 1:00:47SPEAKER_02: And as he continued through his teen years, I don't think he got it.
- 1:00:51SPEAKER_02: There'd be time and time again, I'd ask him to do things and he would him and all, you know.
- 1:00:58SPEAKER_02: But you know what God was doing with me?
- 1:01:00SPEAKER_02: He was doing the same thing with me.
- 1:01:02SPEAKER_02: Like, love your wife like Christ loved the church.
- 1:01:05SPEAKER_03: Eh.
- 1:01:08SPEAKER_02: Really?
- 1:01:11SPEAKER_02: I don't think I can do that.
- 1:01:15SPEAKER_02: You know what his answer was?
- 1:01:17SPEAKER_02: I can.
- 1:01:26SPEAKER_02: I can.
- 1:01:30SPEAKER_02: Or love your children.
- 1:01:31SPEAKER_02: Turn your heart to your children.
- 1:01:34SPEAKER_02: Ah.
- 1:01:35SPEAKER_02: You mean like take them to Home Depot with me?
- 1:01:42SPEAKER_02: I mean, I can get there a whole lot quicker and back and have more time with my wife.
- 1:01:48SPEAKER_02: Oh, do our do our wives know this one?
- 1:01:52SPEAKER_02: They'd love to go to the grocery store without the kit.
- 1:01:55SPEAKER_02: No, no offense, kids.
- 1:01:56SPEAKER_02: No.
- 1:01:57SPEAKER_02: That was supposed to be a joke.
- 1:01:58SPEAKER_02: I was just saying if you're paying attention and making the connection.
- 1:02:02SPEAKER_02: Now let's get serious.
- 1:02:05SPEAKER_02: Look what he says to his disciples.
- 1:02:08SPEAKER_02: Go therefore and make disciples of all the nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit, teaching them to observe all that I commanded you, and lo, I'm with you always, even to the end of the age.
- 1:02:21SPEAKER_02: Can you hear those guys and their excuses?
- 1:02:25SPEAKER_02: You think they were going, oh yeah, we got this?
- 1:02:29SPEAKER_02: No.
- 1:02:30SPEAKER_02: That's like a hundred chin-ups on the high bar.
- 1:02:33SPEAKER_02: I got a ton of questions.
- 1:02:35SPEAKER_02: Who's paying for this?
- 1:02:36SPEAKER_02: What about the language thing?
- 1:02:38SPEAKER_02: And which one of these other guys do I have to work with?
- 1:02:41SPEAKER_02: And who's going to who's going to who's going to Italy?
- 1:02:46SPEAKER_02: I mean, I got a ton of questions.
- 1:02:48SPEAKER_02: Jesus' answer is, I'll be with you.
- 1:02:55SPEAKER_02: I'll give you what you need because I love you.
- 1:03:01SPEAKER_02: Now back to Hebrews.
- 1:03:04SPEAKER_02: We know we are loved because of his presence with us.
- 1:03:08SPEAKER_02: Make sure that your character is free from the love of money.
- 1:03:11SPEAKER_02: That's just showing a contrast because that's what people in this world put their confidence in.
- 1:03:17SPEAKER_02: It's what they love.
- 1:03:18SPEAKER_02: They love the things they have.
- 1:03:20SPEAKER_02: You know, answering these questions, you know, how's a man's soul saved and how do they live for the glory of God?
- 1:03:27SPEAKER_02: They could care less about that.
- 1:03:28SPEAKER_02: They're interested in making money.
- 1:03:30SPEAKER_02: They're interested in having a bunch of things, cars, houses, all that kind of stuff.
- 1:03:34SPEAKER_02: You know what I mean.
- 1:03:36SPEAKER_02: I mean, you know what the writer of Hebrews means.
- 1:03:39SPEAKER_02: He says, take care of your characters free from this, and be content with what you have.
- 1:03:44SPEAKER_02: Here's what we have, guys.
- 1:03:46SPEAKER_02: He himself has said, because he loves us, I will never desert you nor will I ever forsake you.
- 1:03:54SPEAKER_02: So what do we who believe, what do we who are concerned about the salvation of the soul and concerned about the glory of God?
- 1:04:01SPEAKER_02: What do we say?
- 1:04:03SPEAKER_02: We say confidently, the Lord is my helper, which is another way of saying God loves me.
- 1:04:16SPEAKER_02: It is settled.
- 1:04:19SPEAKER_02: I know he loves me.
- 1:04:22SPEAKER_02: No matter what happens, he's with me.
- 1:04:25SPEAKER_02: The Lord is my helper.
- 1:04:26SPEAKER_02: I will not be afraid, no matter what happens.
- 1:04:28SPEAKER_02: Come hell or high water, no matter if your children turn and go another direction, which of course is terrible.
- 1:04:36SPEAKER_02: I'm going through that right now in my own life.
- 1:04:39SPEAKER_02: It's been the hardest four years of my life.
- 1:04:41SPEAKER_02: I would never have dreamed we'd be going through what we're going through.
- 1:04:46SPEAKER_02: However, in the child that that's happening to, it's because that child does not have it settled that God loves them.
- 1:05:01SPEAKER_02: And that they love God.
- 1:05:04SPEAKER_02: And so God is taking them in his school to teach them.
- 1:05:10SPEAKER_02: And while he's teaching them, guess what my wife and I are experiencing?
- 1:05:17SPEAKER_02: The love of God.
- 1:05:22SPEAKER_02: It's transforming our lives.
- 1:05:25SPEAKER_02: It's making our message, the message of the love of God, authentic and genuine.
- 1:05:31SPEAKER_02: These are not just pie in the sky words.
- 1:05:36SPEAKER_02: This is the life of Christ.
- 1:05:39SPEAKER_02: He loves us, and because he loves us, he will be with us.
- 1:05:45SPEAKER_02: So, guys, let me just sum this up this way.
- 1:05:50SPEAKER_02: Notice in Hebrews 4, he says, Therefore let us draw near with confidence to the throne of grace, so that we may receive mercy and find grace to help in time of need.
- 1:06:01SPEAKER_02: Do you see what he's saying there?
- 1:06:03SPEAKER_02: You know God loves you.
- 1:06:04SPEAKER_02: His presence is near you.
- 1:06:06SPEAKER_02: Just draw near to him, and what will he do?
- 1:06:09SPEAKER_02: He will draw near to you.
- 1:06:13SPEAKER_02: You want to know how your soul is to be saved, and your soul will not be destroyed because of your sin?
- 1:06:18SPEAKER_02: It's because God loves you.
- 1:06:21SPEAKER_02: And he's drawing you to him.
- 1:06:24SPEAKER_02: And I'll almost guarantee in every soul in this room, God has been speaking to you something he wants you to surrender and do.
- 1:06:36SPEAKER_02: And he is saying to you, I will be with you.
- 1:06:42SPEAKER_02: But you will have to surrender and obey to experience his love.
- 1:06:47SPEAKER_02: And until you do, you will not experience his love.
- 1:06:53SPEAKER_02: But if you do, you won't be saved because you obeyed.
- 1:06:59SPEAKER_02: Oh no.
- 1:07:00SPEAKER_02: Your soul will be saved because God loves you.
- 1:07:05SPEAKER_02: You obeyed because he loves you.
- 1:07:10SPEAKER_02: And then you will know.
- 1:07:11SPEAKER_02: It'll be settled in your heart.
- 1:07:15SPEAKER_02: God loves me.
- 1:07:19SPEAKER_02: We know God loves us because he's given us his son, who is God with us.
- 1:07:26SPEAKER_02: That's my summary statement.
- 1:07:28SPEAKER_02: We were asking the question, how do we know God loves us?
- 1:07:30SPEAKER_02: And the answer is He's given us His Son.
- 1:07:36SPEAKER_02: We have His Son.
- 1:07:37SPEAKER_02: We know we have the life of Jesus in us because He loves, because we love God and we love others.
- 1:07:45SPEAKER_02: That's how we know.
- 1:07:46SPEAKER_02: Look at this.
- 1:07:46SPEAKER_02: This is an amazing verse.
- 1:07:48SPEAKER_02: He who has the Son has the life.
- 1:07:50SPEAKER_02: In other words, if you see the Son in you, you got the life.
- 1:07:54SPEAKER_02: He loves you.
- 1:07:55SPEAKER_02: He who does not have the Son of God does not have the life.
- 1:08:05SPEAKER_02: His life.
- 1:08:06SPEAKER_02: Don't you think his life in you would be obvious?
- 1:08:10SPEAKER_02: It's by experience.
- 1:08:15SPEAKER_02: He's asking you to surrender yourself to Jesus.
- 1:08:19SPEAKER_02: And you may be sitting there going, well, you know what?
- 1:08:22SPEAKER_02: I don't really care.
- 1:08:23SPEAKER_02: Or you may be sitting there going, I don't think I can surrender porn.
- 1:08:27SPEAKER_02: I don't think I can surrender drink.
- 1:08:29SPEAKER_02: I don't think I can surrender my reputation.
- 1:08:32SPEAKER_02: I don't think I can surrender my significance.
- 1:08:34SPEAKER_02: I don't think I can surrender this love that I have in this world that makes you at home in this world.
- 1:08:43SPEAKER_02: And he's saying, I know you can't.
- 1:08:50SPEAKER_02: But like a good father, he's saying, Don't tell me you can't.
- 1:08:55SPEAKER_02: I'm asking you to do something I know you can't do, but I will.
- 1:09:00SPEAKER_02: I'll be with you.
- 1:09:02SPEAKER_02: Take the first step.
- 1:09:04SPEAKER_02: Surrender.
- 1:09:10SPEAKER_02: Receive his life.
- 1:09:13SPEAKER_02: Receive his word.
- 1:09:15SPEAKER_02: Receive his promise.
- 1:09:17SPEAKER_02: Some of you guys have just been playing church and you still don't know that God loves you.
- 1:09:25SPEAKER_02: And the reason you know you don't is because you love porn.
- 1:09:35SPEAKER_02: More than you do God.
- 1:09:36SPEAKER_02: See, it's not settled that you love God.
- 1:09:39SPEAKER_02: Which means it's not settled that you know God loves you.
- 1:09:43SPEAKER_02: You settle that one, porn will be history.
- 1:09:51SPEAKER_02: Or drink.
- 1:09:55SPEAKER_02: Or whatever it is.
- 1:09:57SPEAKER_02: Does this make sense?
- 1:10:00SPEAKER_02: Guys, we're down to the heart of things.
- 1:10:02SPEAKER_02: This is what takes us from being an apostate church to being the real, true church of the living God with his love all over us and through us.
- 1:10:15SPEAKER_02: That's incredible.
- 1:10:16SPEAKER_02: We have his life.
- 1:10:18SPEAKER_02: Look how clear this is in this last verse that I want to give you.
- 1:10:23SPEAKER_02: John says, We know that we've passed out of death into life because we love the brethren.
- 1:10:29SPEAKER_02: He who does not love abides in death.
- 1:10:34SPEAKER_02: We've got churches full of dead people.
- 1:10:39SPEAKER_02: They didn't come to give their lives to Jesus.
- 1:10:41SPEAKER_02: They loved their lives in this world, and he said, He who loves his life in this world, he who wants to be at home in this world will lose his life.
- 1:10:52SPEAKER_02: He said, I'm the life.
- 1:10:55SPEAKER_02: So how do you know that God loves you?
- 1:10:59SPEAKER_02: How will your son know that you love him?
- 1:11:02SPEAKER_02: I close with this story.
- 1:11:06SPEAKER_02: You know, I told you I did that with Mike at twelve.
- 1:11:08SPEAKER_02: I'll I'll for years I wondered, did he ever get it?
- 1:11:12SPEAKER_02: Because it just seemed like he wasn't getting it.
- 1:11:15SPEAKER_02: The day he got married, we are in the vestibule about to walk down, you know, where he's gonna meet his wife, Holly.
- 1:11:26SPEAKER_02: And there's the minister, then there's Micah, and then there's me, and then the Grimsman.
- 1:11:32SPEAKER_02: And as we're standing there, Micah turns to me and he said the most powerful words I think he could ever say to me.
- 1:11:41SPEAKER_02: He said, Dad, don't walk behind me.
- 1:11:45SPEAKER_02: Walk beside me.
- 1:11:47SPEAKER_02: Just like you always have.
- 1:11:53SPEAKER_02: If he'd have said to me, Dad, I love you, that would not have been the same.
- 1:11:58SPEAKER_02: Would you agree?
- 1:12:00SPEAKER_02: I just said thanks.
- 1:12:02SPEAKER_02: Or something like that.
- 1:12:03SPEAKER_02: The man when he turned and said, Dad, I want you to walk beside me just like you always have.
- 1:12:10SPEAKER_02: Then I knew that he knew what?
- 1:12:15SPEAKER_02: That I loved him.
- 1:12:16SPEAKER_02: And then what did I know?
- 1:12:19SPEAKER_02: I knew God loved me and I knew he loved me.
- 1:12:23SPEAKER_02: But if that wasn't enough, 2016, I'm speaking in Colombia.
- 1:12:28SPEAKER_02: Micah lives in Puerto Rico.
- 1:12:30SPEAKER_02: I'm doing uh speaking at a seminary, then doing a men's retreat in Bogota, and Micah was going to fly from Puerto Rico to Bogota to go to that men's retreat with me.
- 1:12:38SPEAKER_02: I had an emergency appendectomy in Medellin, and I could not fly to the men's retreat.
- 1:12:45SPEAKER_02: So I called Micah and I said, Micah, I just had emergency appendectomy this morning.
- 1:12:50SPEAKER_02: I'm not, the doctor says I can't fly to Bogota.
- 1:12:54SPEAKER_02: So the retreat's off.
- 1:12:57SPEAKER_02: I get a call back in a few minutes, and here's what I hear.
- 1:13:01SPEAKER_02: Dad?
- 1:13:05SPEAKER_02: I'll see you on Friday.
- 1:13:09SPEAKER_02: I just bought a ticket from Bogota, because we already had the Puerto Rico Bogota.
- 1:13:13SPEAKER_02: From Bogota to Medellin.
- 1:13:16SPEAKER_02: I just want to be with you.
- 1:13:21SPEAKER_02: You mean my son would pay money to be with me?
- 1:13:25SPEAKER_02: You mean my son would actually want to come spend three days with me in Medellin?
- 1:13:34SPEAKER_02: I remember thinking, thank you, Lord, he got it.
- 1:13:40SPEAKER_02: God, may I get it like that.
- 1:13:43SPEAKER_02: May you get it like that.
- 1:13:45SPEAKER_02: May we get it like that.
- 1:13:49SPEAKER_02: Because if we get it and settle it that God loves us and that we love God, when the storms come and they're gonna come, you will not fall away.
- 1:14:03SPEAKER_02: You will be the light in that darkness.
- 1:14:08SPEAKER_02: You will be ready and surrendered.
- 1:14:11SPEAKER_02: Your wives will know that you love them because we had this meeting tonight.
- 1:14:16SPEAKER_02: Your children will know that you love them this weekend.
- 1:14:19SPEAKER_02: I mean, good on you, you are.
- 1:14:24SPEAKER_02: You're here with your sons.
- 1:14:26SPEAKER_02: Hello.
- 1:14:27SPEAKER_02: Sons, do you realize what's happening here?
- 1:14:34SPEAKER_02: Your dad wants to be with you.
- 1:14:37SPEAKER_02: Now, why would he want to do that?
- 1:14:42SPEAKER_02: Because he loves you.
- 1:14:45SPEAKER_02: And that's how God is.
- 1:14:50SPEAKER_02: Wow.
- 1:14:52SPEAKER_02: What do you think about these things?
- 1:14:58SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
- 1:15:01SPEAKER_02: Are they settled in your life?
- 1:15:07SPEAKER_02: Have you settled it that God loves you?
- 1:15:11SPEAKER_02: Well, what I know is only the ones who have experienced his love have that one settled.
- 1:15:23SPEAKER_02: So I've encouraged you guys.
- 1:15:25SPEAKER_02: I hope.
- 1:15:27SPEAKER_02: Hobeim! Whatever he tells you to do, surrender to him.
- 1:15:32SPEAKER_02: For the rest of you that you don't know it for sure, you can know it tonight by surrendering your life to Jesus Christ.
- 1:15:44SPEAKER_02: Kevin, that was the point.
- 1:15:48SPEAKER_02: When you said tonight, conversions.
- 1:15:52SPEAKER_02: Tonight, there are going to be conversions.
- 1:15:56SPEAKER_02: Because some of you, God just moved from the I don't care group to the I do care.
- 1:16:05SPEAKER_02: And you will know because you'll be willing to be strangers and aliens in this world.
- 1:16:15SPEAKER_02: It's strange, guys, to love your wife like Christ loved the church in this world.
- 1:16:20SPEAKER_02: Strange to spend time with your kids and love your kids to this world.
- 1:16:26SPEAKER_02: In the church.
- 1:16:28SPEAKER_02: May God sweep through his church and revive us.
- 1:16:34SPEAKER_02: Amen.
- 1:16:36SPEAKER_02: May he do this.
- 1:16:38SPEAKER_02: May, as we, you know, God intends us to obey him.
- 1:16:41SPEAKER_02: No, let's just go learn from him.
- 1:16:42SPEAKER_02: What do you say?
- 1:16:44SPEAKER_02: Let's learn from him how to be with our children and with our wives.
- 1:16:48SPEAKER_02: What do you say?
- 1:16:50SPEAKER_02: Let's speak the same thing God says to his sons.
- 1:16:53SPEAKER_02: Son, I want to be with you.
- 1:16:55SPEAKER_02: Honey, I want to be with you.
- 1:16:56SPEAKER_02: And then do it.
- 1:16:58SPEAKER_02: And watch what God does.
- 1:17:00SPEAKER_02: And don't let your heart be troubled, no matter what you face.
- 1:17:04SPEAKER_02: Don't let all this junk that's going on politically and in our country, don't let that trouble your heart.
- 1:17:17SPEAKER_02: God loves you.
- 1:17:19SPEAKER_02: And he'll be with us.
- 1:17:23SPEAKER_02: And our testimony to this world that has fallen apart will be the peace of God because we are loved, because God is with us.
- 1:17:32SPEAKER_02: You can't take Jesus away from us.
- 1:17:35SPEAKER_02: Amen?
- 1:17:36SPEAKER_02: So I hope these are settled that God loves me.
- 1:17:40SPEAKER_02: Are you aware of the presence of Jesus Christ in your soul?
- 1:17:44SPEAKER_02: If you aren't, if you are, yes, praise the Lord.
- 1:17:49SPEAKER_02: If you're not, tonight, surrender yourself to him.
- 1:17:54SPEAKER_02: Draw near to him, he'll draw near to you.
- 1:17:56SPEAKER_02: Is it settled that I love God?
- 1:17:59SPEAKER_02: Have you come to that great pivot point in your life where you want to be a stranger and an alien to this world?
- 1:18:05SPEAKER_02: If so, draw near to him.
- 1:18:07SPEAKER_02: He'll draw near to you.
- 1:18:09SPEAKER_02: Receive his forgiveness.
- 1:18:12SPEAKER_02: That's what he came for in the first place.
- 1:18:15SPEAKER_02: Receive his love for your soul.
- 1:18:18SPEAKER_02: That's how God changes and saves a soul.
- 1:18:22SPEAKER_02: Trust and rely on his love.
- 1:18:25SPEAKER_02: Revealed in the cross and the resurrection.
- 1:18:27SPEAKER_02: He lives.
- 1:18:29SPEAKER_02: He knows you.
- 1:18:31SPEAKER_02: He knows me.
- 1:18:32SPEAKER_02: He put you here.
- 1:18:34SPEAKER_02: He put me here.
- 1:18:37SPEAKER_02: And this message is for you.
- 1:18:41SPEAKER_02: Because he loves you.
- 1:18:44SPEAKER_02: Lord Jesus, do this in us now.
- 1:18:46SPEAKER_02: Would you pray?
- 1:18:47SPEAKER_02: Would you surrender yourself to Jesus?
- 1:18:50SPEAKER_02: If God has spoken to you, that he loves you.
- 1:18:54SPEAKER_02: And you know he's with you.
- 1:18:56SPEAKER_02: You know he's here because you know he's been speaking to you about what you don't want to surrender.
- 1:19:01SPEAKER_02: You know you've been trying to be at home in this world and you don't want to be at home in this world anymore.
- 1:19:07SPEAKER_02: You want to know his love, then just obey.
- 1:19:11SPEAKER_02: Even though you don't think you can, obey and just ask his help.
- 1:19:16SPEAKER_02: Go ahead.
- 1:19:17SPEAKER_02: Pray right now.
- 1:19:19SPEAKER_02: If you know he loves you, just thank him.
- 1:19:21SPEAKER_02: Thank him for how he loves you.
- 1:19:24SPEAKER_02: Say, Lord, just show me something else to do so that I can know you love me.
- 1:19:29SPEAKER_02: And have this more settled.
- 1:19:38SPEAKER_02: Father, hallowed be your name.
- 1:19:40SPEAKER_02: Your kingdom come.
- 1:19:43SPEAKER_02: Your will be done.
- 1:19:46SPEAKER_02: Yours is the power and the glory.
- 1:19:50SPEAKER_02: Forever and ever.
- 1:19:52SPEAKER_02: Amen.
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