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How Divine Feminine Energy Makes Men Commit · Mindful Success Path

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  Are you tired of dealing with men who will not commit, who keep kicking the can down the road, and who keep telling you things like, oh, let's just not put a label on our relationship.
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  Or worse, they create all these other new labels like radical monogamy, which mean absolutely nothing while they're sleeping with other people.
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  Well, if that is you, then stick around, because I'm going to be explaining.
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  What creates attraction in men and how not to fall into the trap of being with non-committal men?
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  Hi, my name is Amanda.
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  Welcome to Mindful Success Path.
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  On this channel, we talk about how to manifest what you want in life without all the extra stress, chaos, and drama that most people are accustomed to.
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  So if that's something that you're interested in, make sure to subscribe and hit the notification bell so you don't miss a single video that we have coming out.
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  On this channel, and as always, I have supplemental materials for you, for those of you who want to go deeper.
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  So number one is our masculine and feminine energy dynamics masterclass, which you can find.
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  Below, it's a about 60 minute masterclass, and in it we teach the dynamics between masculine energy and feminine energy, how they work in different areas in your life, uh, how to integrate it within yourself.
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  So let's get into what is happening when a lot of you are getting stuck in relationships with men who do not want to commit.
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  So number one is we have to understand male psychology here.
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  'cause a lot of you don't, unfortunately.
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  And then you start getting into a lot of problems.
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  So healthy masculine men love to commit.
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  They wanna commit.
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  They want to give you the world, and it doesn't take them that long to figure out whether or not they want to commit to you.
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  Um, the problem is that most women don't understand how men operate, which is a big part of what we're covering in both the masculine feminine energy Dynamics Masterclass which you can find below.
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  So number one is.
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  If a man is not committing to you, there is a high likelihood that you pick the wrong guy to begin with.
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  A lot of women don't know how to determine what is a healthy man versus a non-healthy man.
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  So they end up in situations with feminized men who don't make commitments, who don't make plans, who string them along, who keep kicking the can down the road, and who make them jump through hoops, uh, just to prove their worthiness.
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  To a guy.
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  So step number one would be to determine, okay, what is healthy masculine behavior and what is not in those two programs below are gonna help you do that.
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  The second thing to keep in mind is that a lot of women are operating from masculine energy, even in dating.
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  So if you are the one planning all the dates, if you're the one planning all the trips, if you are the one who is always initiating the conversation.
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  Masculine men are not attracted to that.
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  Masculine men play for points.
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  Uh, they want to know that there's a challenge and that they're going to win the challenge and they're going to win the prize.
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  And that prize is you.
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  Most women don't know how to become the prize or how to act like a prize, which again, programs below can help you do that because most women don't know how to do that, then what ends up happening is they kind of let their anxiety take over, right?
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  And then they end up.
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  Um, really taking on the role of the masculine in the relationship.
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  And what that does is that it repels very healthy, masculine men who want to lead, who want to provide, and it causes them to pull away while at the same time you attract very feminized men who don't want commitment and simply just want convenience.
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  Which brings me to my next point.
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  Many of you are too damn convenient.
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  Uh, a lot of you are out here.
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  Um, living with men and then acting like they're wives before you are an actual.
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  Wife.
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  So what happens is if you're too convenient, meaning you're doing everything for him, you're solving all his problems, you're a people pleaser, you're the good girl, you put yourself in a position where you're trying to prove your value to a man, and when you put yourself in the position where you're trying to prove your value to a man, you actually lose value in the eyes.
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  Of healthy masculine men because again, they wanna challenge, they play for points and they want to win you.
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  But if you're putting yourself in a position where you're easily accessible and you're, you're easily just there and available all the time and solving all this guy this guy's problems before he's ever committed anything to you at all, then men will.
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  Treat you like a convenience and they will treat you like a placeholder.
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  And they will have you around for years and years and years and years, uh, because you're convenient and you're there.
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  And you know, sometimes men are lazy, but it's just, it's what it is, right?
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  Like men are not going to exert energy if they don't have to.
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  So men can do this thing.
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  Uh, that to us, a lot of women doesn't really make sense, but they are able to do this where they are just like, oh, this chick is here.
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  She's convenient, she's giving me everything without me really having to put any effort.
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  I'm just going to keep her around.
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  And then what ends up happening is, let's say.
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  You know that relation breaks up well, then he's marrying someone else six months later.
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  The reason why he's marrying her and not you is because she understood how to be in feminine energy and she was likely inconvenient.
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  Um, men don't like things to be too easy.
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  That's not how they actually.
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  Fall in love.
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  Men fall in love when there's a challenge.
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  Men fall in love when there's like emotional commitment, and that has a lot to do with how you're communicating with them.
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  Men actually fall in love with boundaries.
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  Healthy men do fall in love with boundaries.
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  And in addition to that, not only do they create attraction, it there's a certain way of communicating those boundaries in a way where it inspires healthy masculine men rather than having them pull away or shut down, or just not be attracted to you at all.
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  So I just wanted to come on real quick to.
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  Express that in this video today.
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  Many of you have been asking similar kinds of questions in the comments about this, particularly those of you who are dating or perhaps you've been in a relationship for a really long time, but there's still no ring.
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  That's probably what's going on.
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  And if you wanna go deeper, all the ways in which you can work with me, including the programs that I just mentioned, can be found in the description and in the first comment.
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  Thank you so much for giving me your time today.
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  Stay radiant and I'll catch you on the next one.