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The Bachelorette's Mike Johnson · Untraditionally Lala

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  Speaker 1: Hello, gorgeous, Welcome back to the Give Them La La Podcast.
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  Speaker 1: I am coming off of like the best week ever
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  Speaker 1: I took you. I know, rightoo. I took my kid
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  Speaker 1: to Disneyland last week with Jack's and Britts and Cruise
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  Speaker 1: and then Shina, Summer Moon and Brock. We did one
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  Speaker 1: ride for adults. We did like the you said you
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  Speaker 1: did the Incredit Coaster. Yes, in Credit Coaster, we did that.
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  Speaker 1: It was amazing. I just needed something. I was like, Okay,
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  Speaker 1: today's a kid's day. And by the way, Disneyland when
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  Speaker 1: you're there for your kid is like, it's just magical. Right.
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  Speaker 1: Ocean was having the best time. So that was the
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  Speaker 1: only like adult ride we did very early on in
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  Speaker 1: the day and then the rest of the time we
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  Speaker 1: just did like little kid rides. But we were literally
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  Speaker 1: there from like ten am to I want to say,
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  Speaker 1: like ten pm.
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  Speaker 2: And did the kids take naps during the day or
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  Speaker 2: are they just going going going.
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  Speaker 1: Ocean got in one nap and then she was like
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  Speaker 1: ready to roll. And then Summer Moon and her parents
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  Speaker 1: left a little bit earlier than we did. But you know,
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  Speaker 1: Cruisy is also a little champ. You know, the kids
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  Speaker 1: are all champs, but they rallied, so that was amazing.
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  Speaker 1: I took full advantage this weekend of sleeping in. So
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  Speaker 1: what I started doing Jess is on the weekends, I
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  Speaker 1: sleep with my phone downstairs, because if I wake up
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  Speaker 1: in the morning and I check my phone and I
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  Speaker 1: see what time it is, it could be six in
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  Speaker 1: the morning, and already my body is going into time.
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  Speaker 1: Let's start getting up, getting into wake up mode, you know,
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  Speaker 1: like my anxiety starts kicking in and I know, like, okay,
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  Speaker 1: it's it's morning time.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, that's interesting, So you don't So putting your phone
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  Speaker 2: downstairs allows you to sleep longer.
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  Speaker 1: I don't wake up to see what time it is,
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  Speaker 1: so I just wake up when my body feels ready, okay.
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  Speaker 2: And then do you get up or do you continue
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  Speaker 2: to try and sleep if like Ocean isn't up or.
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  Speaker 1: So Ocean has been doing this thing lately where she'll
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  Speaker 1: wake up. And again, I've been her mom for almost
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  Speaker 1: two years, so like, I know her little fusses and
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  Speaker 1: her little cries, and I can tell in the morning
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  Speaker 1: around like eight eight thirty, she's got this like fuss
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  Speaker 1: where I know she's not ready to get up. So
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  Speaker 1: She'll be awake doing her little fussing and then completely
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  Speaker 1: go silent until like ten.
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  Speaker 2: She is a champ with sleeping. She's like her mom
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  Speaker 2: and her geechie that, which is amazing because I mean,
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  Speaker 2: babies are growing, so they need sleep.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. I also think it might be because I run
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  Speaker 1: her into the ground.
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  Speaker 2: You guys are constantly doing fun stuff at the park. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: so that's probably like.
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  Speaker 1: We're constantly doing something where it's like we're going with
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  Speaker 1: your friends today, We're going to the park today, We're
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  Speaker 1: going to see Christmas lights today. Like it's non stop.
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  Speaker 2: And it's not like she goes to bed late because
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  Speaker 2: I've baby set her before. She goes to bed at
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  Speaker 2: like eight, yeah, eight thirty.
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  Speaker 1: So we all exercised our right to sleep in this weekend.
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  Speaker 3: I love that.
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  Speaker 1: Like literally Sunday morning, I woke up at noon stop
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  Speaker 1: and I thought it was like bright and early. So
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  Speaker 1: I'm like I walk downstairs, I look at the clock
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  Speaker 1: and I'm like, oh my gosh, it's eleven nine No,
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  Speaker 1: And I had to like talk myself off the ledge.
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  Speaker 1: What do you mean I felt guilty that I slept
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  Speaker 1: in stop?
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  Speaker 2: Your body needed rest, obviously, did you in was awake
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  Speaker 2: with Gigi.
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  Speaker 1: I'm assuming Ocean was awake kicking it with jij and
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  Speaker 1: she was ready to go down for her nap for
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  Speaker 1: the day.
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  Speaker 2: They let you sleep in. See that's so important. Your
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  Speaker 2: body obviously needed it. Yeah, and it's good you got
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  Speaker 2: that rat.
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  Speaker 1: Totally because I'm telling you, Disneyland kicked my ass. My
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  Speaker 1: body hasn't been that tired since I pushed Ocean out
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  Speaker 1: of my cookie. I was like, what happened? I am
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  Speaker 1: so tired? Yeah, yeah, And then so cut back to Friday,
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  Speaker 1: had a heyday. On Friday, the Utah Utes football team
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  Speaker 1: played USC in not a championship game, but it was
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  Speaker 1: a big game. It was going to determine if USC
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  Speaker 1: could go into winning a national championship or the utah
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  Speaker 1: Utes go on to the Rose Bowl the first Not
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  Speaker 1: that any of you care about this, but I grew
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  Speaker 1: up watching Utah football from the time I was like
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  Speaker 1: a tiny little tot. And I dressed Ocean in her
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  Speaker 1: little red sweater like she was very utah Utes, and
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  Speaker 1: the first quarter was horrendous. I was talking to my
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  Speaker 1: brothers on text and my sister in law, also huge
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  Speaker 1: Utah fans, being like, this is real fucking bad. Guess
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  Speaker 1: what during halftime, I don't know what happened, but the
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  Speaker 1: utah Utes fucking pulled it together and whooped that trojan ass.
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  Speaker 2: I was like, you better work, boys, That's amazing the
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  Speaker 2: utah Ute.
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  Speaker 1: So the mascot is Swoop. It represents the red tailed hawk,
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  Speaker 1: a bird indigenous to the state of Utah. Oh okay, yes,
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  Speaker 1: so that is the mascot. Our mascot is very sexy
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  Speaker 1: because sometimes he wears football uniform. So he looked good.
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  Speaker 1: He looked real good.
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  Speaker 2: Oh sorry, I was gonna say, with everyone at Brittany
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  Speaker 2: and Jack's Jackson's house rooting for.
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  Speaker 1: No, they didn't give two fun Okay. At my mom's
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  Speaker 1: birthday dinner, I volunteered Jacks and his home to host
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  Speaker 1: me to watch the game. And but towards the end
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  Speaker 1: everyone was getting into it. It was just Jackson, britt Me,
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  Speaker 1: my Mom, Ocean Cruisy, Janet and Jason and so towards
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  Speaker 1: the end, you know, the boys started getting into it
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  Speaker 1: because it was It was a really great game, and
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  Speaker 1: I loved watching it because I felt like I was
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  Speaker 1: back in Utah, like that's what I grew up on,
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  Speaker 1: Like football was shoved down my throat as a child,
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  Speaker 1: like Sundays were NFL Monday Night football, Thursday night football,
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  Speaker 1: Friday was high school football, Saturday was it was just
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  Speaker 1: a lot like it was NonStop, and my whole family
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  Speaker 1: was that way. So it felt amazing, especially to watch
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  Speaker 1: Ocean like, not that she cared about the game. Maybe
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  Speaker 1: it was just the running like something she was into
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  Speaker 1: that was happening. She was watching it, dancing, totally into it.
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  Speaker 1: So the University of Utah football team is going to
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  Speaker 1: the Rose Bowl in Pasadena. I'm getting tickets for the
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  Speaker 1: whole family.
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  Speaker 2: When is it.
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  Speaker 1: It's on January second.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, that's a great day.
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  Speaker 1: Great day. That's a great day.
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  Speaker 2: That's a Sunday.
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  Speaker 1: Is Monday? I think it's a Monday. Okay, well that's.
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  Speaker 2: A great day. Everyone's still on like it's twenty twenty three.
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  Speaker 2: But you're not like we got to get back to it.
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  Speaker 1: No, you're not quite there yet where it's like the
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  Speaker 1: grind starts again. So now I've got to go and
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  Speaker 1: get all of my family matching Utah gear. I'm just
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  Speaker 1: very excited. I'm very excited about it that my week
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  Speaker 1: was great and today's podcast is going to be lit
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  Speaker 1: af because I have a fawn. Look a man named
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  Speaker 1: Mike Johnson. Mike Johnson, he was on the Bachelorette. He
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  Speaker 1: is a US Air Force veteran, and he's also a
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  Speaker 1: sex coach, a sex coach, and an author.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, yay, let me say something. I had a lot
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  Speaker 2: of fun during this interview just watching you two. And
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  Speaker 2: you'll hear in the interview Lalla talk about where she's
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  Speaker 2: at in the state of like relationships and whatnot. But
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  Speaker 2: it was a lot of fun to watch Lalla and
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  Speaker 2: Mike chat because I think they have chemistry.
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  Speaker 1: And that's just fun to watch.
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  Speaker 2: That's just fun to watch. So I think you'll hear it.
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  Speaker 2: He'll be able to hear it.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, we talk about a lot of stuff. He is
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  Speaker 1: very smart. And you know what, me talking about my relationship,
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  Speaker 1: I don't even know where I'm at right, Like I
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  Speaker 1: talk about it and I make zero sense. So you
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  Speaker 1: guys just roll with me, because I know you guys
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  Speaker 1: are going through similar things, Like I'm not the only
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  Speaker 1: one being like I don't know what the fuck is happening.
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  Speaker 2: No, people change their I mean I'm there and I
• 8:41
  Speaker 2: feel like, not about my relationship, but just with things
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  Speaker 2: in general.
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  Speaker 1: In life.
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  Speaker 2: One day I'm like I feel this way, and the
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  Speaker 2: next day I'm like, I don't feel that way at all.
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  Speaker 2: It's yeah, we're all up and down and you have
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  Speaker 2: the right to feel that way.
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  Speaker 1: Just roll with it, you know, none of us. Anytime
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  Speaker 1: I hear someone say like I just thought i'd have
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  Speaker 1: my life figured out out by now, my love, we
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  Speaker 1: never have our lives figured out. And just like just
• 9:06
  Speaker 1: when we think we do, life throws us the curveball
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  Speaker 1: to make sure like we're still awake. Just want to
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  Speaker 1: make sure you're still Brandon anyway. When we come back,
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  Speaker 1: We've got Mike Johnson and I'm excited. He's so hot. Hello,
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  Speaker 1: my loves, we are backed with Mike Johnson. You are
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  Speaker 1: very good looking.
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  Speaker 3: Good for you, you're good looking yourself. I am, yeah, definitely,
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  Speaker 3: you know that. Thank you.
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  Speaker 1: No, well, it depends on the day. The moments that
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  Speaker 1: we look like shit, those are called humbling moments.
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  Speaker 3: This is true. My mom loves to give me those
• 9:39
  Speaker 3: humbling moments.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, those moments are good. So the first thing I
• 9:43
  Speaker 1: have to ask, how the how did you end up
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  Speaker 1: on reality TV?
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  Speaker 3: Like?
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  Speaker 1: What made you say like the Bachelorette? That sounds right, Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: that's what you were on Bachelorette.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, well one. I never even had heard of
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  Speaker 3: the Bachelorette, never watched the episode, and they know who
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  Speaker 3: no one was on the show. But I was, true story.
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  Speaker 3: I I was financial advisor, doing pretty good for myself
• 10:03
  Speaker 3: at the military, and I threw my phone one day
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  Speaker 3: at work and my homeboy and my coworker was like,
• 10:07
  Speaker 3: what the hell wrong with you? And I'm like, real story,
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  Speaker 3: I was like why, I'm like, these girls just want
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  Speaker 3: to have sex. And I was like, bro, I'm trying
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  Speaker 3: to get that I want. I want like the real thing.
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  Speaker 3: And I was telling my homeboy like I'm like, I
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  Speaker 3: think I was like twenty eight at the time, twenty nine.
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  Speaker 3: I was like, I wanted wife and kids, bruh. And
• 10:23
  Speaker 3: he was laughing, Okay, he was dying laughing. He was like,
• 10:26
  Speaker 3: what do that can actually get? Women says that? And
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  Speaker 3: I'm like me, I'm you know, I want the real
• 10:31
  Speaker 3: thing or whatever, And so literally about forty five minutes
• 10:34
  Speaker 3: of him just talking about me laughing. A few weeks later,
• 10:37
  Speaker 3: he sent me a Facebook message. Whoever goes on Facebook anyway,
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  Speaker 3: but he sent me a Facebook thing for a calling
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  Speaker 3: casting and I was off work that day, so I
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  Speaker 3: was like, why not?
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  Speaker 1: Really? Yeah, and you had never seen it before, never.
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  Speaker 3: Watched a single episode, never watched one second prior to
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  Speaker 3: that moment.
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  Speaker 1: How was that experience? Because I've been doing reality TV
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  Speaker 1: for a long time, the show you were on is
• 11:00
  Speaker 1: a little bit different because number one, you're competing for
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  Speaker 1: the love of a woman, right.
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  Speaker 3: Yes.
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  Speaker 1: The other thing is is I feel like you guys
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  Speaker 1: are being filmed all the time, Like you're in one
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  Speaker 1: place and it's like cameras are up, you're constantly miked.
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  Speaker 2: That would freak me the fuck out, and really quick
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  Speaker 2: before you go into that experience, I did want to
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  Speaker 2: say because I had a girlfriend who made it pretty fast.
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  Speaker 2: She didn't get on the show, but I heard because
• 11:26
  Speaker 2: this will tie into something you did.
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  Speaker 1: She made it far in the audition process, yes, but
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  Speaker 1: didn't get to that.
• 11:31
  Speaker 2: They really get into your background.
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  Speaker 1: Is that true?
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  Speaker 2: Like they look into like your job and they like
• 11:37
  Speaker 2: it's almost like a mini PI thing.
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  Speaker 1: I love this question.
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  Speaker 3: I don't really know how far they get into it
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  Speaker 3: for every single individual, because some people they find out
• 11:46
  Speaker 3: the streets like damn you fine? Are you good looking?
• 11:49
  Speaker 3: At wherever? The fris Be come on. And then for me,
• 11:51
  Speaker 3: I did have to put my X on there. But
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  Speaker 3: I don't think they ever reached out to her because
• 11:54
  Speaker 3: you know, she would have told my ass. You like
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  Speaker 3: they called me all of it. You know, she would
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  Speaker 3: be all that and my job. No one ever called
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  Speaker 3: my jobs either. I did have a five hundred and
• 12:03
  Speaker 3: eighty three questions psychology test, so like, that part definitely
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  Speaker 3: is there, and you do. I mean, it is a
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  Speaker 3: full extensive background, but I don't know how in depth
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  Speaker 3: they go for every individual. Now, if you're crazy and
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  Speaker 3: you got some shit on your record, then.
• 12:14
  Speaker 1: They might check you out more and then they'll find it.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I think that's what it's probably. I think I'm
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  Speaker 3: assuming that's what it's like because they can't probably go
• 12:21
  Speaker 3: through every single individual, but if you got some let's say, stains,
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  Speaker 3: they might dig deeper.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, I like that, So my job's done there. I
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  Speaker 1: pass that. Good for you. I'm so wounded here I am.
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  Speaker 3: Let me you're fine.
• 12:35
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna unload my baggage on deal. I Since my
• 12:39
  Speaker 1: last relationship, I put a PI on everyone new that
• 12:43
  Speaker 1: comes into my life who I'm like into in that.
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  Speaker 3: Way, what's the return on investment for that?
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  Speaker 1: But my job is done with you the Bachelor. I
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  Speaker 1: did it, That's what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 3: Oh yeah, no, I'm great.
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  Speaker 1: So I get to keep two thousand dollars.
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  Speaker 3: There you go.
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  Speaker 1: Two It's a lot.
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  Speaker 3: I just google your ass.
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  Speaker 1: There's all kind of weaki clean. I'm weakly clean.
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  Speaker 3: I mean I could see online you got a nice
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  Speaker 3: little ass on you.
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  Speaker 1: Tell me more. I took that picture.
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  Speaker 3: Thank you.
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  Speaker 1: I know everyone took this and somebody be like, she
• 13:18
  Speaker 1: probably set it up on a tripod. I was like,
• 13:21
  Speaker 1: I set it up on Jessica. I was like, can
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  Speaker 1: you take a picture of my ass? This could feel
• 13:25
  Speaker 1: very wrong one day. She doesn't like me anymore. She
• 13:29
  Speaker 1: made me take pictures of her naked.
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  Speaker 3: Fact, you gotta be careful about this stuff these days.
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  Speaker 1: I worry about it all the time. I'm like, Jessica, no,
• 13:36
  Speaker 1: which is so funny.
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  Speaker 2: That's not even true, because she was questioning it, like
• 13:40
  Speaker 2: should I do this photo?
• 13:41
  Speaker 1: It's dumb.
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  Speaker 2: I was like, get your ass in the shower. We're
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  Speaker 2: taking a nude photo.
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  Speaker 3: That's something that dudes just can't do. Like my homeboys, like, hey, bro,
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  Speaker 3: you look you've been working out, like, I see you
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  Speaker 3: dig man like dudes can't do that. You just don't
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  Speaker 3: work the same.
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  Speaker 1: No, it does not.
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  Speaker 3: I'm like, what.
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  Speaker 2: To me?
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  Speaker 1: Right, So you really wanted to find love? Your fine
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  Speaker 1: ass was like, I want to be married with kids,
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  Speaker 1: which in my experience doesn't happen often.
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  Speaker 3: In my experience, a lot of women don't have respect
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  Speaker 3: for men because of the things that men have done.
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  Speaker 3: And I completely understand that I have respect your thoughts
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  Speaker 3: on that. I personally absolutely love the respect from others, and.
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  Speaker 1: So I feel that I love this for you.
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  Speaker 3: Thank you.
• 14:23
  Speaker 1: Did you like the girl who was the bachelorette?
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  Speaker 3: She's cool?
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  Speaker 1: She was cool.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, she's definitely cool people.
• 14:28
  Speaker 1: Hannah Brown, how far did you get with her? Well,
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  Speaker 1: I don't mean sexually, just like in the competition, I.
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  Speaker 3: Wasn't meaning sexually. Guy, this is years ago. I think
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  Speaker 3: I got sent home in sixth place.
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  Speaker 1: That's pretty good because how many dudes are there, like
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  Speaker 1: twenty initially it's like.
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  Speaker 3: Thirty, But I mean I don't consider that good.
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  Speaker 1: But yeah, yeah, you're kind of like me where I'm like,
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  Speaker 1: unless I won the sacond.
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  Speaker 3: Well, see, this is the thing about the Bachelor, though,
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  Speaker 3: it's like, it's not a competition to me in terms
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  Speaker 3: of like winning are losing, it's a competition, and cannot
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  Speaker 3: see myself with this person. If not, then I gotta leave.
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  Speaker 1: Did you leave on your own?
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  Speaker 3: No? She let me go.
• 15:07
  Speaker 1: Oh, she let you go.
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  Speaker 3: She definitely let me go.
• 15:09
  Speaker 1: Do you think she let you go because she could
• 15:11
  Speaker 1: feel that like it just wasn't hitting right for both
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  Speaker 1: of you?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah? Absolutely, yeah. I mean, this is the beautiful thing
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  Speaker 3: about being the lead in the show like that is
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  Speaker 3: that you this is the one time you truly can
• 15:20
  Speaker 3: be selfish and can't nobody say shit. Yeah, like, hey,
• 15:23
  Speaker 3: I think you're a great individual. But you might not
• 15:25
  Speaker 3: be for me, but you might be for La La,
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  Speaker 3: or you might be for Jessica, you might be for
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  Speaker 3: someone else.
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  Speaker 1: Right. That would be so hard for me because if
• 15:31
  Speaker 1: you put does the chick have any say in who
• 15:35
  Speaker 1: the men are.
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  Speaker 3: Going to be?
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  Speaker 1: Like? Does she get to say these are the types I.
• 15:38
  Speaker 3: Wish, I wish I would like if I was to
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  Speaker 3: be the lead, I would like, Yo, if you want
• 15:43
  Speaker 3: a good drama show, bring these thirty women on and
• 15:46
  Speaker 3: I'm like all of them right, Yeah, So then it
• 15:48
  Speaker 3: would be really really.
• 15:49
  Speaker 2: Interesting question on all like that that about you being
• 15:53
  Speaker 2: the lead. I when I was googling you heard a
• 15:56
  Speaker 2: rumor and read something where it said you were in
• 16:00
  Speaker 2: the running to be the lead, I think after Hannah's season.
• 16:04
  Speaker 2: But then they chose Peter Weber instead, which is funny
• 16:07
  Speaker 2: because it's the only season I watch, and I think
• 16:09
  Speaker 2: he's so fucking boring. No disrespect to Peter, but he's
• 16:13
  Speaker 2: your homide name, Peter Webber. I loved the season, but
• 16:18
  Speaker 2: I loved it going to be a Bachelor?
• 16:20
  Speaker 1: Were you uh for?
• 16:22
  Speaker 3: I answered, I want to give a caveat because you
• 16:23
  Speaker 3: know how read it are and how people are on
• 16:25
  Speaker 3: the internet. Mike still talking about this years later. One
• 16:28
  Speaker 3: I was asked this question, Okay, but I was in
• 16:31
  Speaker 3: the running. Yeah, and they chose Peter. Peter's a great guy.
• 16:34
  Speaker 1: You're so diplomatic. He's a great guy. I'm like, fuck
• 16:37
  Speaker 1: this mocking.
• 16:39
  Speaker 2: I loved the season, but I did. I did love
• 16:42
  Speaker 2: it because of the women. The women on that season
• 16:44
  Speaker 2: were bomb. They were hilarious, they were fun, they were
• 16:47
  Speaker 2: just entertaining.
• 16:48
  Speaker 1: He does look a little snoozel, doesn't snooze.
• 16:52
  Speaker 3: I mean, I will say if I were the lead,
• 16:55
  Speaker 3: I think I'll bring definitely a different type of attribute
• 16:59
  Speaker 3: to rule, Like what I mean, I think you're just
• 17:02
  Speaker 3: looking at me like different.
• 17:03
  Speaker 1: Well, yeah, the other leads you definitely hit different. You
• 17:06
  Speaker 1: write sex books. You are a sex cold. The ladies
• 17:10
  Speaker 1: are gonna be like, I need to get in the room.
• 17:14
  Speaker 3: You know.
• 17:15
  Speaker 1: Wait, are you writing in this book? You just gave
• 17:17
  Speaker 1: me your book? Yeah, making the love you want? Yes,
• 17:20
  Speaker 1: I can't wait to read this. Are you talking about
• 17:23
  Speaker 1: what you like in this book?
• 17:25
  Speaker 3: No?
• 17:25
  Speaker 1: Because that could make things interesting if you're the bachelor,
• 17:28
  Speaker 1: because all the tricks would be like, I know exactly
• 17:30
  Speaker 1: what he wants. He wants a little salt and pepper
• 17:32
  Speaker 1: shaker or whatever that called. What's it called? What is it?
• 17:39
  Speaker 3: I don't grapefruit trick?
• 17:43
  Speaker 1: Oh, back when I was like twenty three, love the
• 17:46
  Speaker 1: grape fruit trick, A little vibrator on the balls.
• 17:50
  Speaker 2: See you guys know, because.
• 17:53
  Speaker 1: Oh pop, that was like twenty one.
• 17:55
  Speaker 3: Hey, there you go.
• 17:56
  Speaker 1: So what you're doing now being boring?
• 17:58
  Speaker 3: Trust me? Why are you being boring?
• 18:00
  Speaker 1: I don't know.
• 18:00
  Speaker 3: You still got like a good seventy years of life left.
• 18:04
  Speaker 1: Do you think stress fucks up your libido? And shit?
• 18:07
  Speaker 1: I don't think I know Okay, well then that's the reason.
• 18:10
  Speaker 3: There you go. We can work on that.
• 18:12
  Speaker 1: I would love to because you are a sex coach, right,
• 18:14
  Speaker 1: is that true? Yes, let's put you get into that. Yeah,
• 18:18
  Speaker 1: let's break this down all right. You went from what
• 18:20
  Speaker 1: you said, a financial advisor. Yes, so you're good with money.
• 18:23
  Speaker 1: I love that you were in the air Force. Yes,
• 18:27
  Speaker 1: thank you for what you've done for our country.
• 18:28
  Speaker 3: Thank you for your appreciation.
• 18:30
  Speaker 1: And then you were on the Bachelorette. Yes, you've done
• 18:33
  Speaker 1: a lot. Your resume reads and we're all over the place,
• 18:36
  Speaker 1: which I'm digging. So how did you get into being
• 18:38
  Speaker 1: a sex coach.
• 18:40
  Speaker 3: Multiply an individual as a certified sex coach. The reason
• 18:44
  Speaker 3: I got into it was because I myself was molested
• 18:47
  Speaker 3: as a child. Okay, one in four women are sexually
• 18:51
  Speaker 3: assaulted and indoorb's one and six men are. And so
• 18:55
  Speaker 3: I got three women. I care a lot about my
• 18:56
  Speaker 3: mom's sister and grandma. So you add yourself. Let's say
• 18:59
  Speaker 3: you're my fourth lady. One out for you. I have
• 19:02
  Speaker 3: been sexual assaulting and so therefore growing up with women
• 19:04
  Speaker 3: that kind of affected me. And then also when I
• 19:07
  Speaker 3: was in the military, I was a victim's advocate the
• 19:10
  Speaker 3: only male on the entire base, and then I will.
• 19:13
  Speaker 3: My ex and I had a miscarriage and we stopped
• 19:15
  Speaker 3: having sex, and I don't cheat, and so I was like, yo, brother,
• 19:18
  Speaker 3: still horny was up, you know, And so I tried
• 19:21
  Speaker 3: to I was trying to figure out and do all
• 19:23
  Speaker 3: kinds of different things. And someone said go see a
• 19:25
  Speaker 3: sex therapist. And my ex at the time, she was
• 19:27
  Speaker 3: not with it. But then I got her a coerced
• 19:29
  Speaker 3: her to do it, and she was with it. It
• 19:31
  Speaker 3: didn't work, but after we broke up, I just wanted
• 19:34
  Speaker 3: to learn more about I wanted to take away the
• 19:36
  Speaker 3: nicheans that I have as a dumb ass man, and
• 19:38
  Speaker 3: then also to just help other people. And then of
• 19:40
  Speaker 3: course I want to be fantastic.
• 19:42
  Speaker 1: I love all of these reasons. You have a lot
• 19:46
  Speaker 1: of layers. I love this.
• 19:49
  Speaker 2: Yeah, no, this is incredible question for you. Do you
• 19:54
  Speaker 2: think every guy should eat the cookie? Have you heard
• 19:58
  Speaker 2: that expression before?
• 20:00
  Speaker 3: I mean I haven't heard the expression, but you can
• 20:02
  Speaker 3: get you if a woman likes it, absolutely do I
• 20:09
  Speaker 3: like to do it? You damn right, I do.
• 20:11
  Speaker 1: That's good because if you ain't the cookie, you ain't
• 20:16
  Speaker 1: hitting it right, all right? And when a man eats
• 20:19
  Speaker 1: the cookie, there are no red flags.
• 20:21
  Speaker 3: There are feelas you heard her saying, I ain't saying
• 20:24
  Speaker 3: she said it. There you go.
• 20:26
  Speaker 1: I'm the wedding already. Okay. Next question, do you have
• 20:29
  Speaker 1: to go to school to be a sex Are you
• 20:31
  Speaker 1: a sex therapist or do you call yourself a sex coach?
• 20:33
  Speaker 3: And is there a different there's a difference. I'm not
• 20:35
  Speaker 3: a sex therapist. Sex therapist focused on today and behind
• 20:38
  Speaker 3: in the past, sex coach focused on today in the future.
• 20:41
  Speaker 3: I am a certified sex coach. I'm also working on
• 20:44
  Speaker 3: becoming a board certified sexologist. I'll have body simmer next year,
• 20:49
  Speaker 3: a licensed contra practitioner, and then a practitioner of natural healing.
• 20:53
  Speaker 3: I'll have all three of those by the end of
• 20:54
  Speaker 3: next December. And so I'm still going to school for
• 20:57
  Speaker 3: those things. Right now. It's a tons of work. Like
• 21:00
  Speaker 3: it ain't like, hey, stick your penis here, you know,
• 21:03
  Speaker 3: it's so much more work than that, because I have
• 21:05
  Speaker 3: to in order for me to be great in bad
• 21:07
  Speaker 3: one thing that I had to learn was how to receive,
• 21:10
  Speaker 3: and for me individually, I'm just talking about myself. I
• 21:12
  Speaker 3: had a hard time with that and so I had
• 21:13
  Speaker 3: to do a lot of meditation, a lot of breathing work.
• 21:16
  Speaker 3: Outside of just the physical act of sex, you have
• 21:19
  Speaker 3: to understand the mind. And you know, they say if
• 21:23
  Speaker 3: you can make someone mentally with then you can definitely
• 21:26
  Speaker 3: have you know, if I can have your mind, then
• 21:27
  Speaker 3: I can have your body. Right. That's I'm not agreeing
• 21:29
  Speaker 3: or disagreeing with that. That's just something that some people say.
• 21:32
  Speaker 3: And I need to know how the mind works as well.
• 21:34
  Speaker 3: The mind body spirit connection. There's so many pieces into it.
• 21:38
  Speaker 3: People just say, oh, sex, he knows how to fuck.
• 21:40
  Speaker 3: It's like, yeah, I do, But there's so much more.
• 21:44
  Speaker 3: There's so much more to that, so so much more.
• 21:47
  Speaker 1: No, I agree, and men and women are so different
• 21:50
  Speaker 1: because you can be great in bed, but if mentally
• 21:55
  Speaker 1: like you're you don't have me, I'm not getting off.
• 21:58
  Speaker 3: You agree, completely agree with you. But then also it's
• 22:01
  Speaker 3: not just like I continue to harp on the act
• 22:03
  Speaker 3: of the physical act, the core play, as I say, right,
• 22:06
  Speaker 3: there's aftercare. That is a lie. It does so much
• 22:10
  Speaker 3: for a connection, and so it could be as simple
• 22:12
  Speaker 3: as let's say you my girl, and I'm just holding
• 22:14
  Speaker 3: your belly, right, those simple things for a man to
• 22:17
  Speaker 3: knowens just in comparison to just oh baby by busting
• 22:20
  Speaker 3: and goes.
• 22:20
  Speaker 1: Lay down right, Yeah, like throws a wet towelet you
• 22:23
  Speaker 1: to clean yourself off.
• 22:25
  Speaker 3: Sounds like personal experience you've had if anything. Okay, this
• 22:28
  Speaker 3: is a tip for the Fellers right quick, like when
• 22:31
  Speaker 3: you know when whatever happens, right, get warm up the towel.
• 22:35
  Speaker 1: Warm up the towel.
• 22:36
  Speaker 3: I warm up the towel. Bro It's so simple.
• 22:39
  Speaker 1: It's so simple. Yeah, come on, there's two little things
• 22:42
  Speaker 1: there by the faucet.
• 22:45
  Speaker 3: Yeah, like giving them a damn coach's fucking easy.
• 22:49
  Speaker 2: Right, So get into this aftercare more because I'm very
• 22:52
  Speaker 2: and I've never heard of that before because usually it's
• 22:55
  Speaker 2: like sex is over one when the guy has ejaculated.
• 22:59
  Speaker 4: I love that you because like that it's ended when
• 23:02
  Speaker 4: the guy has well because usually they respectfully they get
• 23:06
  Speaker 4: you off first, like like with Kyle, it's always never
• 23:09
  Speaker 4: happens to me ever and.
• 23:11
  Speaker 3: Ever who Kyle is your guy.
• 23:17
  Speaker 1: I didn't realize that there were dudes out there that
• 23:20
  Speaker 1: like also cared if if I was happy at the end.
• 23:23
  Speaker 1: It was like once they were done, it was like
• 23:25
  Speaker 1: that was great. Yeah, And I'm sitting here going I
• 23:30
  Speaker 1: know it was great for you, but like the being
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: in your bathroom for.
• 23:34
  Speaker 3: A word, dumb ass guys. We can get off very
• 23:37
  Speaker 3: quickly right until you train yourself and then you can
• 23:40
  Speaker 3: go like months without getting off. But then you to
• 23:42
  Speaker 3: orgasm different than ejaculation, but we can get into that later.
• 23:44
  Speaker 3: But after care, because you have first you have rising action,
• 23:48
  Speaker 3: which is what happened before penetration. Then you have core play,
• 23:53
  Speaker 3: and then you have aftercare or after play, and after
• 23:56
  Speaker 3: play is super important. It builds up the intimacy. It
• 24:01
  Speaker 3: feels a connection. It's the holding of each other. It's
• 24:04
  Speaker 3: just talking and laughing and having fun, making fun of
• 24:06
  Speaker 3: one another. Right, it's the fair a moments that you
• 24:08
  Speaker 3: smell from each other. It's just being a moment with
• 24:11
  Speaker 3: your person. Now, if you just like a sneaky link,
• 24:13
  Speaker 3: then you might not want to be doing that.
• 24:15
  Speaker 1: No, because I'm for sure getting a toad just so
• 24:18
  Speaker 1: if you're doing that after you better throw me a
• 24:21
  Speaker 1: warm tile and to clean myself off, like if you
• 24:24
  Speaker 1: don't want, because like I can, definitely I'm the type
• 24:28
  Speaker 1: of person where all I want is transparency.
• 24:31
  Speaker 3: That's it, that's my right lunguage by the way, just being.
• 24:34
  Speaker 1: Honest, right, So if I know that you and I
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: like we're just fucking, my mind is not even gonna
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: go anywhere else. I know what this is, right, Yeah,
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: the second you start fucking with my mind. I'm a woman.
• 24:47
  Speaker 1: I'm also thirty two years old. I've lived not a
• 24:51
  Speaker 1: lot of life, but I've lived some life. I'm a mom, Like,
• 24:53
  Speaker 1: I don't have time for that shit, right, So let's
• 24:56
  Speaker 1: call it what it is. You don't need to do
• 24:57
  Speaker 1: like the aftercare with me. I'm a grown up. I
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: can take it. I can have fucks.
• 25:02
  Speaker 3: I have fucks, so sure, I can have fucks.
• 25:05
  Speaker 1: I can have fucks. I'm actually great at that. I'm
• 25:08
  Speaker 1: great at separating that type of shit. Okay, but you're
• 25:14
  Speaker 1: right about that in your book, I'll write that chapter
• 25:16
  Speaker 1: for you.
• 25:17
  Speaker 2: Do you enjoy though, Would you enjoy the aftercare?
• 25:22
  Speaker 1: Aftercare is my favorite part because I'm not a cheater.
• 25:27
  Speaker 3: Percentage of time that you have sex that you feel
• 25:29
  Speaker 3: like you've had a orgasm?
• 25:34
  Speaker 1: Low?
• 25:36
  Speaker 3: Yeah, Okay, so that was like reverse flipped over to like,
• 25:40
  Speaker 3: let's say ninety after care will still be your favorite part.
• 25:44
  Speaker 1: I think.
• 25:44
  Speaker 3: So that's awesome.
• 25:45
  Speaker 1: To know.
• 25:45
  Speaker 3: Yeah, thank you, I'm just learning.
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: I just like those those moments with someone who I'm into,
• 25:55
  Speaker 1: you know, like the sex is great even Like when
• 25:59
  Speaker 1: I think about what I want in a partner, I
• 26:01
  Speaker 1: know that looks are going to fade, and I know
• 26:02
  Speaker 1: that sex as we get older is also going to fade.
• 26:05
  Speaker 1: We're not going to be fucking like Jack Rabbits when
• 26:06
  Speaker 1: we're like ninety seven.
• 26:09
  Speaker 3: I know someone's gonna get mad at that I say this.
• 26:10
  Speaker 3: I really don't care. Look black, doone crack?
• 26:15
  Speaker 1: I know that from experience. Agreed with you. Yes, we
• 26:24
  Speaker 1: all warn anly and fun places. Okay, So you think,
• 26:32
  Speaker 1: like when you're dealing with someone who comes to you
• 26:34
  Speaker 1: there like I need a sex coach. Where do you
• 26:36
  Speaker 1: start with them?
• 26:38
  Speaker 3: Lit's sit down and talk. What is it?
• 26:40
  Speaker 1: Usually what they want? It depends on what they're coming
• 26:42
  Speaker 1: to you for, right, depends on.
• 26:42
  Speaker 3: What they're coming if it's an individual, if it's a
• 26:44
  Speaker 3: couple of it depends on what's going on. Yeah, so
• 26:48
  Speaker 3: a lot of people have this this thing with monogamy, right,
• 26:53
  Speaker 3: but what in actuality happens is we're just we're serial
• 26:59
  Speaker 3: monogamy in comparison to how what we say we want
• 27:02
  Speaker 3: and how we judge other people for not being monogamous,
• 27:05
  Speaker 3: but those that are monogamous are just serial monogamous for
• 27:08
  Speaker 3: the most part, right, And I love what you said
• 27:10
  Speaker 3: about Look, I'm a grown ass woman. Just give it
• 27:12
  Speaker 3: to me straight, you know, what would you like? And
• 27:13
  Speaker 3: then I can tell you that's what I like, so
• 27:15
  Speaker 3: that therefore we can build boundaries and have consent, and
• 27:18
  Speaker 3: then you have a wonderful thing going despite what side
• 27:21
  Speaker 3: of the field that you lie on. And so when
• 27:23
  Speaker 3: it comes to clients, which I don't have many clients
• 27:27
  Speaker 3: one on one just because respectfully, time and money doesn't
• 27:31
  Speaker 3: equate normally, you know, time per hour. And so that's
• 27:34
  Speaker 3: why I'm working on Feelings Seen dot com, which is
• 27:36
  Speaker 3: my newsletter that we're coming out with very soon to
• 27:39
  Speaker 3: be able to help the masses, the masses at hand.
• 27:43
  Speaker 3: And a big thing that the majority of the people
• 27:47
  Speaker 3: that have signed up already have talked about is that
• 27:50
  Speaker 3: they don't know how to communicate normally, as women don't
• 27:52
  Speaker 3: know how to communicate to their man. Hey, babe, I
• 27:54
  Speaker 3: love you, but you just haven't given me an orgasm
• 27:57
  Speaker 3: in like five years, you know, And I'm like, damn
• 28:03
  Speaker 3: you I just want to do to be like, bro,
• 28:08
  Speaker 3: you should really listen to the things that I'm about
• 28:09
  Speaker 3: to start talking about, Yes, seriously, but then also there's
• 28:12
  Speaker 3: things that women could do better as well that guys
• 28:15
  Speaker 3: have asked. And I mean it's just all kinds of
• 28:18
  Speaker 3: things people have come to me and talk to me
• 28:19
  Speaker 3: about privately. You would let your imagination for a while.
• 28:24
  Speaker 1: Okay, Well, what is it usually with men that come
• 28:26
  Speaker 1: to you about like or a couple? What is the
• 28:30
  Speaker 1: man usually have to complain about with the chick.
• 28:33
  Speaker 3: When it's a one on one setting. Normally it's a
• 28:35
  Speaker 3: chick that comes in, it has the has something that
• 28:38
  Speaker 3: she wants it to speak to. Or the times I've
• 28:42
  Speaker 3: had men strictly come in without their lady is because
• 28:46
  Speaker 3: they want to do better because it's something that's taken
• 28:48
  Speaker 3: place already.
• 28:49
  Speaker 1: Well, are they cheated or something?
• 28:51
  Speaker 3: No, I've had times to where cheating has definitely occurred. Right,
• 28:55
  Speaker 3: it's his number two reasons for infidel He's number two
• 28:57
  Speaker 3: reasons for divorce.
• 28:58
  Speaker 1: Might is the first being financial And so the first
• 29:01
  Speaker 1: is financial?
• 29:04
  Speaker 3: Have you not seen these tiktoks? Where again, I'm not
• 29:06
  Speaker 3: condoning this, I'm just speaking about tiktoks to where women
• 29:09
  Speaker 3: are like, yo, he's a billionaire, caught him cheating, but.
• 29:14
  Speaker 2: You you showed me the one that says like he's
• 29:18
  Speaker 2: got red flags but he like it goes down or eats.
• 29:23
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm he's number two. Okay, numbers financially, you ain't
• 29:27
  Speaker 3: got your money right, You're just not even in the game.
• 29:31
  Speaker 1: You want to know what's so crazy is because I
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: have the p I now like I look into financials
• 29:35
  Speaker 1: before I even allow someone in. But let's just say,
• 29:38
  Speaker 1: like I get into that.
• 29:39
  Speaker 3: Was a double on time.
• 29:41
  Speaker 1: If if I meet someone he's set financially, I'm set financially.
• 29:47
  Speaker 3: Set financially, it just.
• 29:48
  Speaker 1: Means we're paying our bills on time and we can
• 29:50
  Speaker 1: live a comfortable life. I'm not looking for you to
• 29:53
  Speaker 1: like get on private planes and take me.
• 29:55
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm gonna go deep brand said Okay, Okay, So
• 29:57
  Speaker 3: when I hear that, I call BS on it, because
• 30:00
  Speaker 3: what is one's bills? Bills are completely different for every person.
• 30:03
  Speaker 3: So what is give me a number to where you're like, hi,
• 30:06
  Speaker 3: I can work with that twenty month, the honey cab month,
• 30:09
  Speaker 3: Like what are we talking a million a month, a
• 30:11
  Speaker 3: million a day?
• 30:12
  Speaker 1: If you're spending a million a day, I think you're
• 30:14
  Speaker 1: a fucking idiot, all right, I agree, And I don't
• 30:16
  Speaker 1: even care. No, no, I can think of a million
• 30:20
  Speaker 1: in one places for you to be spending that money.
• 30:22
  Speaker 1: Like I live in Los Angeles. I'm looking like what's
• 30:25
  Speaker 1: going on out here? Like you want to spend a
• 30:27
  Speaker 1: million a day? I know exactly how you can spend
• 30:29
  Speaker 1: that in a productive way. What do you need for
• 30:31
  Speaker 1: a million dollars a day, million dollars a month? You're
• 30:34
  Speaker 1: fucking crazy. I could go on a tangent about okay,
• 30:37
  Speaker 1: so how much you won't even go there? What is it?
• 30:39
  Speaker 3: What is a minimum like for you to feel comfortable? Like, okay,
• 30:43
  Speaker 3: I'll let you in.
• 30:44
  Speaker 1: It's hard for me to put a number on it
• 30:46
  Speaker 1: because I think for me, it's I need you to
• 30:48
  Speaker 1: have a car. I really don't care what your car
• 30:51
  Speaker 1: is looking like you I need you to be driving
• 30:54
  Speaker 1: with insurance and a driver's license. Like it's a bare minimum.
• 30:57
  Speaker 3: How sad?
• 30:57
  Speaker 1: The bar is very low?
• 31:00
  Speaker 3: Is that? Come on? Now?
• 31:02
  Speaker 1: I'm really being serious, Like, if you as long as
• 31:05
  Speaker 1: we can, you're like pulled together. You got somewhere to live,
• 31:08
  Speaker 1: You're paying your rent, or your mortgage on time, whatever
• 31:11
  Speaker 1: credit card, your racketing.
• 31:13
  Speaker 3: All right, cool, we could talk.
• 31:16
  Speaker 1: Yeah, as long as you're as long as you're falling
• 31:18
  Speaker 1: in line with what you're supposed to do financially, then
• 31:21
  Speaker 1: like I can definitely handle all of that, right, because
• 31:24
  Speaker 1: I've seen money come and go like that. So whatever,
• 31:28
  Speaker 1: let's say we're hitting it off financially at the beginning,
• 31:31
  Speaker 1: all is good and then shit changes, because I've seen
• 31:35
  Speaker 1: that happen quickly. That would not be a reason for
• 31:39
  Speaker 1: me to leave somebody again. I'm only going off of
• 31:44
  Speaker 1: like how I grew up, Like my dad hit on
• 31:46
  Speaker 1: hard times, my mom stepped up to the plate where
• 31:48
  Speaker 1: their arguments, but it was not to the point where
• 31:52
  Speaker 1: they like divorce was on the table. So for me,
• 31:56
  Speaker 1: like you would catch me stripping right like to pay
• 32:00
  Speaker 1: these bills and make sure that we were good. It's
• 32:02
  Speaker 1: just who I am. You'll catch me on only fans fans, No,
• 32:05
  Speaker 1: I don't. But if we were struggling, me and my man,
• 32:08
  Speaker 1: I'd be like, I got you, babe, Like we're all.
• 32:10
  Speaker 3: I got you, I got I do, I got.
• 32:14
  Speaker 1: I Would you fucking cheat? You're done. We're never having
• 32:19
  Speaker 1: another conversation we got kids. You can talk to my lawyer, like,
• 32:22
  Speaker 1: you will never know for real, cheating done. I will
• 32:27
  Speaker 1: never work through it.
• 32:28
  Speaker 3: Let me ask you another question. Yes, so this is
• 32:30
  Speaker 3: the question.
• 32:31
  Speaker 1: Feel like I'm with a therapist right now with you.
• 32:34
  Speaker 3: So how would you feel if you're a guy? Was like, babe,
• 32:37
  Speaker 3: it's been a few years. I absolutely love everything you're doing.
• 32:39
  Speaker 3: You're phenomenal. I don't I'll never cheat on you, but
• 32:42
  Speaker 3: I want to have a conversation around cessential phenomenogamy. What
• 32:45
  Speaker 3: is that Potential nomenogamy is to wear.
• 32:48
  Speaker 1: Where the third party comes in.
• 32:50
  Speaker 3: Yes, yeah, we can go with that term.
• 32:52
  Speaker 2: Yeah, or an open relationship.
• 32:55
  Speaker 3: Yeah, it's a bit different, but yeah, we'll go with that.
• 32:57
  Speaker 1: For me personally, I would say with that comment like,
• 33:01
  Speaker 1: I don't think you're happy at this point in time,
• 33:03
  Speaker 1: and I think this relationship has run its course, and
• 33:05
  Speaker 1: I wish you all the best. Thank you for talking
• 33:07
  Speaker 1: to me before you went and cree, but like, I'm
• 33:09
  Speaker 1: all good. I hope you can find someone who's willing
• 33:11
  Speaker 1: to have threesomes with you, because I ain't it.
• 33:14
  Speaker 3: No, it doesn't have three threesons, but fair, completely fair, Wait.
• 33:16
  Speaker 1: What do you mean it doesn't have to be threesomes
• 33:18
  Speaker 1: if you're the third party.
• 33:20
  Speaker 3: That's why I said we'll go with your term, because
• 33:21
  Speaker 3: I didn't want to get too far in detail into
• 33:23
  Speaker 3: the definitions of it. But it could be you saying, hey,
• 33:26
  Speaker 3: I want to go sleep with another dude every now
• 33:27
  Speaker 3: and or another girl every now and then.
• 33:29
  Speaker 1: I don't want that.
• 33:30
  Speaker 3: That's perfectly fine. The reason I asked was because you
• 33:33
  Speaker 3: were speaking about cheating and infidelity. And what I found
• 33:38
  Speaker 3: via my research is that for the record, I don't
• 33:40
  Speaker 3: condone it, don't condone it. But what I found via
• 33:44
  Speaker 3: my research is that infidelity is because the truth is
• 33:47
  Speaker 3: harder than the lie. Yeah, and so I find that
• 33:51
  Speaker 3: a lot of people have a really hard time telling
• 33:53
  Speaker 3: that truth, whatever that truth may be, and so that
• 33:55
  Speaker 3: therefore they are cowardly and they go being male woman,
• 34:01
  Speaker 3: whatever your gender is, and they seek pleasure outside of
• 34:04
  Speaker 3: that relationship in comparison. That's why I follow that question
• 34:07
  Speaker 3: that was saying, how would you feel about this? And
• 34:09
  Speaker 3: you said that person's truth within their relationship with you,
• 34:12
  Speaker 3: So therefore they'll be scared to bring that up to you,
• 34:14
  Speaker 3: which is their truth, and they never lie to you
• 34:16
  Speaker 3: or don't cheated on you, right.
• 34:17
  Speaker 1: But if that's not, if I'm not interested in that,
• 34:19
  Speaker 1: then we're on different paths.
• 34:21
  Speaker 3: Correct. I agree with you, you know, there's nothing wrong
• 34:23
  Speaker 3: with that, like cool, And.
• 34:25
  Speaker 1: It's weird because I feel like there's conversations that have
• 34:28
  Speaker 1: to be had with couples these days, just because there's
• 34:31
  Speaker 1: so everything is so accessible on your phone, Like you're
• 34:34
  Speaker 1: learning about Oh I could be enough thrupple or I
• 34:36
  Speaker 1: could you know. I'm like, I'm like rated g over
• 34:39
  Speaker 1: here right, like I I like on.
• 34:43
  Speaker 3: You.
• 34:44
  Speaker 1: I just like there's so many things out there sexually
• 34:48
  Speaker 1: with however many people and how it works, and I'm like,
• 34:50
  Speaker 1: this is too much. I don't like it. We all
• 34:52
  Speaker 1: need to find God and that's just where we're at.
• 34:55
  Speaker 1: But so for me, lying freaks me out because I
• 35:01
  Speaker 1: don't want to keep up with the lie. And I
• 35:04
  Speaker 1: also know that karma exists, so when I'm thinking about, okay,
• 35:08
  Speaker 1: I the lie may be easier for me to tell
• 35:11
  Speaker 1: right now, but at some point down the line, I'm
• 35:13
  Speaker 1: gonna have to like pay for that. I'm gonna have
• 35:16
  Speaker 1: to be held accountable. I agree that part freaks me out.
• 35:19
  Speaker 3: And if it's not the person that has to hold
• 35:21
  Speaker 3: you accountable. Someone will hold you accountable, whether it be something,
• 35:26
  Speaker 3: will hold you accountable, agree you completely.
• 35:28
  Speaker 1: So I just like to keep it one hundred and I.
• 35:31
  Speaker 1: I haven't been in a really healthy partnership honestly since
• 35:35
  Speaker 1: I was probably in high school with like my high
• 35:38
  Speaker 1: school sweetheart. You tell me, Doc, I have no fucking idea.
• 35:43
  Speaker 1: I'm attracting something real fucking limitics in these streets. I'm like,
• 35:48
  Speaker 1: I feel like I do the work on myself, but
• 35:50
  Speaker 1: I'm attracted in some weirdos, you know.
• 35:54
  Speaker 2: From an outsider looking in. Here's the thing which pisses
• 35:57
  Speaker 2: me off, but we won't go there. To me, I
• 36:00
  Speaker 2: feel like she goes for the good, the good things
• 36:03
  Speaker 2: like in her past relationship.
• 36:06
  Speaker 1: I guess she.
• 36:07
  Speaker 2: Goes for like she's like, yeah, I get maybe he's
• 36:09
  Speaker 2: not the best looking, maybe he's not this, maybe he's
• 36:11
  Speaker 2: not that, but he's gonna take care of my heart
• 36:13
  Speaker 2: and soul. I can feel it. He's my best friend,
• 36:16
  Speaker 2: and so that's why I'm gonna be with this person.
• 36:18
  Speaker 2: And like it makes it pisses me off because I
• 36:21
  Speaker 2: do feel like Laala goes for the good things, which
• 36:24
  Speaker 2: for some reason in today's world, when you're looking for
• 36:27
  Speaker 2: the good things or something, you find these people and
• 36:31
  Speaker 2: they trick you. It's like when you're looking for the
• 36:34
  Speaker 2: good things, that attracts you to the manipulators. And it's
• 36:37
  Speaker 2: weird to say because like, I feel like I have
• 36:40
  Speaker 2: a good guy. I've been with him for six years,
• 36:41
  Speaker 2: like he's the greatest, but I also feel it's a
• 36:43
  Speaker 2: shout out to Kyle, but I'm lucky, and I feel
• 36:46
  Speaker 2: like she does go for that, like she's not necessarily
• 36:49
  Speaker 2: from an outsider looking in the person that's gonna see
• 36:51
  Speaker 2: hot guy and be like this is it. I don't
• 36:53
  Speaker 2: care what I'm getting with this guy. She's gonna like
• 36:57
  Speaker 2: get with someone and invite I went into her life
• 37:01
  Speaker 2: if they're a good person or she feels they're a
• 37:03
  Speaker 2: good person. So then when you find out they're not,
• 37:05
  Speaker 2: that's what's infuriating. It's like, why are the people who
• 37:08
  Speaker 2: are looking for the good things getting fucked over a lot?
• 37:11
  Speaker 1: So I don't think it's on you.
• 37:12
  Speaker 2: I really dont Does that make sense?
• 37:16
  Speaker 1: Yeah? Why do you? Because when you attract people who
• 37:19
  Speaker 1: are just like not great over and over again, you
• 37:21
  Speaker 1: have to look at like, what is it about me
• 37:24
  Speaker 1: that's allowing this type of person into my life, you know,
• 37:29
  Speaker 1: and I'm the type where my guard is completely down
• 37:33
  Speaker 1: when I meet new people. I'm not damaged that well, no,
• 37:35
  Speaker 1: I'm damaged. But before it was like, let's do this,
• 37:40
  Speaker 1: and then when you do me wrong is when the
• 37:41
  Speaker 1: guard goes up. So I never allow myself to sit
• 37:44
  Speaker 1: there and go When you earn things, then you get
• 37:48
  Speaker 1: a part of me. I give it all, and then
• 37:51
  Speaker 1: when you show me something that I don't like or
• 37:54
  Speaker 1: you do me dirty, then it's like a very quick
• 37:57
  Speaker 1: like I'm done, Like I feel so betrayed. That makes sense,
• 38:01
  Speaker 1: completely made.
• 38:01
  Speaker 3: Both of y'all make complete sense.
• 38:03
  Speaker 1: I feel like this is your podcasting, but I'm taking
• 38:06
  Speaker 1: advantage of the fact that you do what you do
• 38:09
  Speaker 1: to fix me on this podcast.
• 38:11
  Speaker 3: Well, we're gonna give that. We're gonna put the energy
• 38:13
  Speaker 3: back in your seat. I'm just gonna say, what respond
• 38:16
  Speaker 3: to what you said, Jessica, Yeah, my grandma'd be dating
• 38:19
  Speaker 3: some ugly ass dudes too, so.
• 38:22
  Speaker 1: Me and your grandma should go out and troll together.
• 38:24
  Speaker 1: We anting I.
• 38:26
  Speaker 3: Would be like, hey, why are you getting.
• 38:28
  Speaker 1: It, ugliest dude?
• 38:30
  Speaker 3: Come on?
• 38:30
  Speaker 1: But she has her reasons.
• 38:32
  Speaker 3: No, And you know, a dude gotta be like for
• 38:35
  Speaker 3: I'm a straight mail, right, and so for a straight
• 38:37
  Speaker 3: mail to talk about another man's looks, that man has
• 38:40
  Speaker 3: to be extremely uly or extremely good looking, Like, yeah,
• 38:46
  Speaker 3: you can't just be like three to a eight. You
• 38:49
  Speaker 3: gotta be like on the extreme side.
• 38:51
  Speaker 1: Totally. That's very true. So she's dating some ugly but
• 38:56
  Speaker 1: she's I bet she has her reasons.
• 38:58
  Speaker 2: No, Is it because they're kind or funnier?
• 39:00
  Speaker 1: Something?
• 39:01
  Speaker 3: They are kind? Yeah, I appreciate the way that they
• 39:03
  Speaker 3: treat her. Then I get to listen to I grew
• 39:05
  Speaker 3: up with three women, of course, and so we got
• 39:07
  Speaker 3: that woman trongness in the household. And I'm like, damn,
• 39:10
  Speaker 3: this is how you'all feel about man? Okay?
• 39:12
  Speaker 1: Can I tell you what I've learned?
• 39:13
  Speaker 3: Yes? Please?
• 39:15
  Speaker 1: Ugly men will do you the dirtiest, especially an ugly
• 39:18
  Speaker 1: man who's come into like maybe like a little bit
• 39:21
  Speaker 1: of money. Run.
• 39:25
  Speaker 3: Is that the equivalent of a person that was once
• 39:28
  Speaker 3: a beste that got in super shape?
• 39:31
  Speaker 1: Is that the equivalent would you say, an ugly man
• 39:33
  Speaker 1: coming into money?
• 39:35
  Speaker 3: Yeah?
• 39:35
  Speaker 1: I don't know. Oh, I haven't thought about that either.
• 39:39
  Speaker 1: I also don't want to refund anybody.
• 39:42
  Speaker 2: No, but you know what the thing about that is.
• 39:44
  Speaker 2: For the record, Well, I had a friend in high
• 39:47
  Speaker 2: school who was obese and then got great shape and
• 39:51
  Speaker 2: he was like the kindest to women, the funniest. And
• 39:55
  Speaker 2: it's because even when he lost the w yes, he
• 39:57
  Speaker 2: didn't become an asshole.
• 39:58
  Speaker 3: I'll see talking about the thing aspect. I want to
• 40:01
  Speaker 3: compliment that individual, right because I think when you go
• 40:04
  Speaker 3: from no attention to a lot of attention despite what
• 40:07
  Speaker 3: it is, So I'm not coming at noone. They could
• 40:08
  Speaker 3: feel how they want to feel. It's the internet, but y'all,
• 40:11
  Speaker 3: the three of us know what I'm talking about. Like,
• 40:13
  Speaker 3: I commend those individuals because they going from having no
• 40:15
  Speaker 3: attention to getting all of the attention. It's like the
• 40:18
  Speaker 3: two things that show you who you truly are are
• 40:20
  Speaker 3: getting acts to a lot of money, getting asks to
• 40:22
  Speaker 3: a lot of alcohol in or drugs. Right, and then
• 40:24
  Speaker 3: therefore we can change that. And I know you probably
• 40:26
  Speaker 3: have something to say to that part. And I think
• 40:28
  Speaker 3: that when you go from having no attention to a
• 40:31
  Speaker 3: lot of attention, it's definitely commendable when you could still
• 40:34
  Speaker 3: be a wonderful human being.
• 40:37
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I know, I don't feel like we give enough
• 40:38
  Speaker 1: credit to people who are like in these streets being kind, right.
• 40:41
  Speaker 3: We don't. We truly don't.
• 40:43
  Speaker 1: I feel like last podcast we gave a lot of
• 40:44
  Speaker 1: credit to people who were just like being nice. Today
• 40:46
  Speaker 1: we did, right. So sad that we live in a
• 40:49
  Speaker 1: world where I fact like, if you're swinging good dick
• 40:53
  Speaker 1: and you're still nice after that, I want to meet
• 40:57
  Speaker 1: you and give you a gold star. So let's talk
• 41:00
  Speaker 1: about this. Do you feel like you're in your head
• 41:03
  Speaker 1: because you know so much, you have so much knowledge
• 41:05
  Speaker 1: when it comes to this that do you kind of
• 41:08
  Speaker 1: like mind fuck yourself when you're out in the world
• 41:11
  Speaker 1: dating and trying to find a partner undred percent not.
• 41:13
  Speaker 3: Gonna lie about it, one hundred percent when specifically when
• 41:16
  Speaker 3: I'm in the bedroom and it's someone that I really
• 41:18
  Speaker 3: care about, someone I like. I spoke about this on
• 41:19
  Speaker 3: My Homegirl sham bou Duran's podcast. I've definitely had time
• 41:23
  Speaker 3: to where I get in my head because I know
• 41:25
  Speaker 3: how women look at men and judgment and don't have
• 41:28
  Speaker 3: a lot of respect for us, and I know the
• 41:29
  Speaker 3: statistics and all this stuff, and then me, I'm like, yo,
• 41:32
  Speaker 3: I do want your body. I am I am man,
• 41:34
  Speaker 3: I definitely want to have sex. I need to stop
• 41:36
  Speaker 3: saying it, because women want to have sex as much
• 41:37
  Speaker 3: as men do, and if not more. And I do
• 41:41
  Speaker 3: get in my head because I want to. I do
• 41:43
  Speaker 3: want to engage in this activity, but I don't want
• 41:46
  Speaker 3: it to change the way you think I may feel
• 41:48
  Speaker 3: about you.
• 41:49
  Speaker 1: Okay, like once you hit then you're like disconnected.
• 41:52
  Speaker 3: I don't want her to feel that way, but her
• 41:55
  Speaker 3: history and or a capacit experience may tell her that.
• 41:57
  Speaker 3: And then I get in my head overthinking it too much.
• 42:00
  Speaker 1: Right, So when you hear chicks, like when you're getting
• 42:03
  Speaker 1: to know a chick, are their little red flags that
• 42:06
  Speaker 1: you're like, no, no, no, I can't even go there.
• 42:08
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean one that we all use, like we
• 42:10
  Speaker 3: going to dinner day. And personally, if I were to
• 42:14
  Speaker 3: do it first date, I would not want it to
• 42:15
  Speaker 3: be a dinner day or a movie.
• 42:17
  Speaker 1: But what would it be?
• 42:18
  Speaker 3: So I live in Austin, I like, I like you
• 42:21
  Speaker 3: to wear some jeans and your tea crop top. Be comfortable,
• 42:23
  Speaker 3: really comfortable, cozy, got it comfortable cozy. We might take
• 42:27
  Speaker 3: the scooters, we might go walk around the park. We
• 42:29
  Speaker 3: might go grab a bite to eat. I might I
• 42:32
  Speaker 3: might have someone to come out. If we're at the park,
• 42:34
  Speaker 3: I might have someone bring out some wine, like a
• 42:36
  Speaker 3: Butler style, just something really cool, like we're very chill.
• 42:39
  Speaker 3: But then I got one of the homies dressed up
• 42:41
  Speaker 3: in the tucks, right, some vibes like that, just something different.
• 42:47
  Speaker 1: What was your question? I was asking, like, what when
• 42:50
  Speaker 1: you're with someone getting to know her, Like what the
• 42:53
  Speaker 1: red flags?
• 42:54
  Speaker 3: Oh? Yeah, so one red flag that I think we
• 42:55
  Speaker 3: all know depend on how you treat the white staff.
• 43:00
  Speaker 3: I can't deal with that shit. No, Like in my personality,
• 43:03
  Speaker 3: I'm very strong.
• 43:06
  Speaker 1: Where are you from.
• 43:07
  Speaker 3: I'm from Dallas, Okay.
• 43:08
  Speaker 1: So you're Texas boys, So you have manners all right?
• 43:11
  Speaker 3: Yeah? Well I lived all around the world and yeah,
• 43:13
  Speaker 3: I think I got a little bit of everything.
• 43:15
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you're well rounded. But I just I find that
• 43:18
  Speaker 1: I like men from Texas, not all of them, the
• 43:21
  Speaker 1: ones I've encountered. They just I've found that there's something
• 43:25
  Speaker 1: sweet in their soul. I don't know what their mamas did,
• 43:27
  Speaker 1: but they did something right. I'm from Utah, so like
• 43:30
  Speaker 1: it's a little different, but we got them Mormon roots,
• 43:33
  Speaker 1: so we're like, we love that Father. I'm not Mormon,
• 43:37
  Speaker 1: but we're like treat everyone the way you want to
• 43:39
  Speaker 1: be treated.
• 43:40
  Speaker 3: Utah and me being a sex coach, there's a lot
• 43:42
  Speaker 3: of people with a trauma from purity purity culture.
• 43:47
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, it's intense.
• 43:48
  Speaker 3: A lot of trauma from that, which I don't think
• 43:50
  Speaker 3: gets spoken about a lot.
• 43:52
  Speaker 1: Well, that church will make sure it's not spoken about.
• 43:54
  Speaker 3: Well, I'm here to fuck up.
• 43:57
  Speaker 1: Fu shit up. That's the one thing raised in Utah.
• 44:01
  Speaker 1: I was not raised Mormon. I had zero I want
• 44:04
  Speaker 1: to say, like religion. I don't want to say that
• 44:07
  Speaker 1: I had zero, but it was much more spiritual than anything, right,
• 44:10
  Speaker 1: because I had my mom who was like raising a
• 44:12
  Speaker 1: very Christian household. Were you raised Christian? Yes, I assume so, right,
• 44:18
  Speaker 1: and then like very heavy on God in the Bible.
• 44:20
  Speaker 1: And then my dad was raised Mormon. So I think
• 44:22
  Speaker 1: they were both kind of scarred. But there is that
• 44:26
  Speaker 1: thing in Utah where I'm sure a lot of people
• 44:27
  Speaker 1: come to you and they have to deal with like
• 44:29
  Speaker 1: the guilt that that church puts on them.
• 44:31
  Speaker 3: That's I would say one of the top three reasons
• 44:34
  Speaker 3: that I've seen that women have a hard time with orgasm.
• 44:37
  Speaker 1: They feel like it's bad what ye oh oh, no,
• 44:41
  Speaker 1: like shame. There's like a blockage. Oh no, honey, can
• 44:45
  Speaker 1: I tell you yes? Because purity right, like I got that,
• 44:48
  Speaker 1: I don't have that purity whatever. But like if I
• 44:51
  Speaker 1: were living in Utah and I'm like, I don't drink,
• 44:52
  Speaker 1: people are gonna be like, use a Mormon. But it's
• 44:54
  Speaker 1: just I will burn your motherfucking house down if you
• 44:57
  Speaker 1: give me a bod casda right now? Okay. But since
• 45:00
  Speaker 1: I got sober, sex is different. I feel like a
• 45:05
  Speaker 1: new person.
• 45:06
  Speaker 3: That's what's up. I'm happy for your you know, I
• 45:09
  Speaker 3: have a hard time watching uh porn now over like
• 45:13
  Speaker 3: the last three, four, five, six months is because and
• 45:16
  Speaker 3: it's only getting worse and worse because I'll be looking
• 45:20
  Speaker 3: at these artists and I'm like, bro, you ain't hitting
• 45:23
  Speaker 3: it right. I'm looking at the dude aspect right.
• 45:25
  Speaker 1: Oh so you are upset about the way they're hitting it.
• 45:28
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm like, bro, you ain't heitting it right now.
• 45:29
  Speaker 3: She's doing her job, she acting of course. I'm like, hommy,
• 45:32
  Speaker 3: like you teaching all these men to like like beat
• 45:36
  Speaker 3: it up like a jack rabbit. Youah, like a jack
• 45:39
  Speaker 3: rabbit when you're not.
• 45:40
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's making love.
• 45:42
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's bomb bomb rather than making the love you want? Yes,
• 45:49
  Speaker 2: bringing it all back. Is this about sex?
• 45:52
  Speaker 1: No, okay, it's all about love.
• 45:54
  Speaker 3: It's all about self love self.
• 45:57
  Speaker 1: Oh, this is going to be amazing to it. But
• 45:59
  Speaker 1: if after I read this book, I just bagged me
• 46:01
  Speaker 1: a man, and then I owe it all to you?
• 46:03
  Speaker 2: Or maybe Mike, are you single?
• 46:05
  Speaker 1: Wait? But you did go on a date with Meghan King? Right?
• 46:08
  Speaker 3: Yes? Megan is?
• 46:09
  Speaker 1: Yes, like she's great in the iHeart the iHeart Awards.
• 46:12
  Speaker 3: Oh I thought you heart Megan too. I heart Megan? Yes.
• 46:18
  Speaker 1: But it was music, Yes, I love that for you.
• 46:22
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 46:22
  Speaker 3: So the way that when I date for me, it's
• 46:26
  Speaker 3: for myself. I do a three month checking right, So
• 46:30
  Speaker 3: every three months I'm like, man, what have I done
• 46:31
  Speaker 3: for her lately?
• 46:32
  Speaker 1: Okay?
• 46:33
  Speaker 3: Right, that's something I do for myself. And then it's
• 46:35
  Speaker 3: just all about the energy. How does she make me feel?
• 46:38
  Speaker 1: Like?
• 46:39
  Speaker 3: Is she making me grow?
• 46:40
  Speaker 1: She?
• 46:40
  Speaker 3: Is she putting me in check? Okay, so that she
• 46:42
  Speaker 3: knows I've told her my goals. Does she put me
• 46:44
  Speaker 3: in check when I'm falling off in a respectful way?
• 46:46
  Speaker 3: Like I respect the way that she puts me in check? Right? Okay,
• 46:48
  Speaker 3: these are things that I'm looking for you know, I
• 46:50
  Speaker 3: mean besides I, of course all the other stuff, right,
• 46:52
  Speaker 3: I don't look at it like is this the person?
• 46:54
  Speaker 3: The one I look at it is this person and
• 46:56
  Speaker 3: my loving art energy together, right, and my loving being
• 46:59
  Speaker 3: with this person, and I loving having themost respect for
• 47:02
  Speaker 3: this person, and I like those are type of those
• 47:04
  Speaker 3: are things out of questioned, right. And then for myself,
• 47:06
  Speaker 3: I'm like, yeoh, what have I done for this girl lately?
• 47:08
  Speaker 1: So every three months you go through that.
• 47:10
  Speaker 3: List, ain't like exactly three months. It's like a mental thing, right.
• 47:13
  Speaker 1: Right, And then how long do you do that?
• 47:16
  Speaker 3: That's the foreverything. Like if I'm married to you, for
• 47:19
  Speaker 3: you for the next eighty three years, that's a continual thing.
• 47:22
  Speaker 3: I always gotta date you. I always got to always
• 47:24
  Speaker 3: gotta eat the cookie.
• 47:25
  Speaker 1: Right, Yeah, you better be take your dentures out, give
• 47:31
  Speaker 1: me a little gummage.
• 47:32
  Speaker 3: You might like you might like that more honestly.
• 47:35
  Speaker 1: Yeah, of course you wouldn't, because a lot of these dudes.
• 47:38
  Speaker 3: Out here a little week that's a course coming soon.
• 47:40
  Speaker 3: Oh you.
• 47:41
  Speaker 1: It's like jaws out in these streets with people who
• 47:43
  Speaker 1: don't know what the right not Jaws out in these
• 47:47
  Speaker 1: streets breaks me out, get away. And also if your
• 47:51
  Speaker 1: brethday and right, you're not going near my cookie.
• 47:54
  Speaker 3: This is fact. But I gotta talk about the letty.
• 47:55
  Speaker 3: So y'all can't just be coming on the entirety of men,
• 47:58
  Speaker 3: like what about these dead bed when.
• 48:02
  Speaker 1: The like starfish?
• 48:04
  Speaker 3: Yeah, starfishing? Yeah, totally Like you can't be doing that either. Now,
• 48:08
  Speaker 3: come on out, Okay, I didn't charge you up. What's
• 48:11
  Speaker 3: going on?
• 48:12
  Speaker 1: Let's move That is very true.
• 48:13
  Speaker 3: So you know, it's things on both sides. Everybody can
• 48:16
  Speaker 3: work on.
• 48:16
  Speaker 1: Everyone can work on something. Absolutely, I love it. This
• 48:19
  Speaker 1: was really fun. I enjoyed having you on. Thank you
• 48:22
  Speaker 1: so much for joining me on my podcast. I can't
• 48:24
  Speaker 1: wait to read your book, Making the Love you Want.
• 48:28
  Speaker 2: Oh and where can we find you?
• 48:30
  Speaker 1: Obviously? I know you plugged your website, but where is
• 48:33
  Speaker 1: the website again?
• 48:34
  Speaker 3: Just check out feelingscene dot com. The landing page is
• 48:38
  Speaker 3: going to be refreshed very soon because when I made
• 48:41
  Speaker 3: it I was a little inebriated, so therefore it be
• 48:43
  Speaker 3: coming soon.
• 48:45
  Speaker 2: And then your Instagram is at Mike Johnson.
• 48:48
  Speaker 3: Mike Underscore Johnson, just Mike Johnson. You can find me
• 48:50
  Speaker 3: on there. I'm like the only black dude on named
• 48:52
  Speaker 3: Mike Johnson pop star.
• 48:53
  Speaker 1: I actually had a best friend in high school who
• 48:55
  Speaker 1: was blackman Mike Johnson. Oh so just saying, I.
• 49:00
  Speaker 3: Mean, I'm sure you have. Michael Johnson is a very
• 49:02
  Speaker 3: popular name, but at the same time, it is ida
• 49:05
  Speaker 3: Mike Johnson.
• 49:07
  Speaker 1: I love it, and thank you, my love for listening
• 49:09
  Speaker 1: to another episode of You Give Them Mala podcast and
• 49:11
  Speaker 1: I will catch you next week.