Latest / Legally Brunette / Killer Thriller x Docu: Caleb Flynn Guilty in Two Hours!
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- 0:06Speaker 1: Amy Robach and TJ Holmes present Killer Thriller with your host,
- 0:10Speaker 1: Elisa Donovan. Hey, everyone.
- 0:15Speaker 2: Elisa Donovan here from Killer Thriller with Jen Fessler from
- 0:19Speaker 2: Killer Thriller Docu.
- 0:20Speaker 1: Hi, Jen.
- 0:21Speaker 3: Hi, guys. Hi.
- 0:23Speaker 1: And we just.
- 0:25Speaker 2: Got the verdict in the Caleb Flynn case. The former
- 0:29Speaker 2: American Idol contestant has been found guilty of murdering his wife, Ashley,
- 0:33Speaker 2: after a trial involving more than 100,000 text messages with
- 0:39Speaker 2: his mistress, texts about wanting Ashley dead, a missing gun,
- 0:44Speaker 2: and an alleged staged home invasion. So Caleb Flynn was
- 0:49Speaker 2: found guilty on nine counts, one count aggravated murder, three
- 0:54Speaker 2: counts murder, two counts felonious assault, and three counts tampering
- 0:59Speaker 2: with evidence.
- 1:01Speaker 1: Guilty across the board. What were you surprised that it
- 1:05Speaker 1: was so decisive?
- 1:06Speaker 3: No. And it's, it's funny. Cause I was thinking, you know,
- 1:09Speaker 3: we didn't know that the verdict was going to come
- 1:11Speaker 3: in before we recorded. And I was thinking about how
- 1:14Speaker 3: I'm going to have to remember to say, alleged in
- 1:17Speaker 3: front of everything and thinking, which is so stupid because
- 1:21Speaker 3: clearly like there's, I mean, he did it. It was
- 1:25Speaker 3: so preposterous, right? It was like, yeah, someone snuck in
- 1:28Speaker 3: while you were on the couch, only put two bullets
- 1:30Speaker 3: in her head, ran out, nothing else. You told the
- 1:35Speaker 3: mistress you were going to do it tomorrow. It's all like,
- 1:37Speaker 3: of course, like, of course he was getting found guilty.
- 1:40Speaker 2: And he also in the 911 call, he says, my wife,
- 1:45Speaker 2: has two gunshots in her head. So a man who
- 1:49Speaker 2: is shocked by this does a count of what's going on.
- 1:52Speaker 2: He also didn't check on his children until they told
- 1:56Speaker 2: him to.
- 1:56Speaker 3: I wanted to also, do you know, did they talk
- 1:59Speaker 3: about how did the kids not wake up? Did he
- 2:01Speaker 3: have a silencer?
- 2:02Speaker 1: I was wondering that too.
- 2:03Speaker 2: There must've been a silencer is my guess because how,
- 2:06Speaker 2: because also the thing about the dogs that the dogs
- 2:09Speaker 2: woke him and that's why he went There were so
- 2:13Speaker 2: many things to his story and there was zero evidence
- 2:17Speaker 2: that he was not guilty.
- 2:19Speaker 3: From the beginning. Listen, justice prevails. I mean, that's the
- 2:22Speaker 3: only thing, thank God, that this family has justice. And
- 2:28Speaker 3: I don't think that there was the same kind of
- 2:31Speaker 3: discord there was over the Lindsay Clancy case with everybody
- 2:35Speaker 3: being so divided. I think probably everybody watching and listening
- 2:39Speaker 3: felt like we felt, which is that He did it.
- 2:42Speaker 3: He killed his wife. This piece of shit killed his wife.
- 2:45Speaker 3: And the mistress is a rotten witch. And I know
- 2:50Speaker 3: people will say she's a child.
- 2:52Speaker 1: So I do feel, here's what, let me, I don't
- 2:55Speaker 1: disagree with you.
- 2:56Speaker 2: She is, she certainly did not murder this woman, but
- 3:01Speaker 2: she has done and said some unforgivable things. But what,
- 3:07Speaker 2: here's what I'm really over. And I'm going to give
- 3:09Speaker 2: you my quick list. I am really over older men
- 3:13Speaker 2: grooming younger women and then ruining their lives. I am
- 3:17Speaker 2: really sick of men killing their wives instead of just
- 3:20Speaker 2: getting divorced. And I am sick of people hiding behind
- 3:24Speaker 2: religion as some kind of excuse. I mean, do they
- 3:27Speaker 2: really think that God would prefer that they murder someone
- 3:30Speaker 2: that just get divorced?
- 3:32Speaker 1: Or that like, I am so infuriated by by all
- 3:38Speaker 1: of this.
- 3:39Speaker 2: And the defense didn't call one witness for this man,
- 3:42Speaker 2: not one.
- 3:43Speaker 3: I feel like, did he even try to use religion
- 3:46Speaker 3: as an excuse? I don't even think he could have.
- 3:48Speaker 1: Yeah, they kept, he said, I'm going to starve.
- 3:50Speaker 2: I'm going to, I'm going to fast so that God
- 3:53Speaker 2: will get me through this and like, get me to
- 3:55Speaker 2: be able to be with you.
- 3:56Speaker 1: Like what on earth?
- 3:58Speaker 3: No, but I mean, after he, I mean, after he
- 3:59Speaker 3: killed her, there's no like, I mean, he did it. He's,
- 4:03Speaker 3: you killed your wife. There's no, You know, this is
- 4:06Speaker 3: on Jesus. I don't know, whatever he was saying beforehand.
- 4:10Speaker 3: And the part about men, older men grooming younger women.
- 4:14Speaker 3: I think that that happens. I understand where you're coming from.
- 4:17Speaker 1: He was her pastor again.
- 4:20Speaker 3: I know. I know. And she was young. She was
- 4:25Speaker 3: like 22, I think, when they met. I don't know
- 4:27Speaker 3: how old she is now. 24. 24. So she's young.
- 4:33Speaker 3: I have a 24-year-old daughter.
- 4:34Speaker 1: And he's 40.
- 4:36Speaker 3: I know. I was 24. The shit that was coming
- 4:39Speaker 3: out of her mouth, the kind of vile venom that
- 4:46Speaker 3: she was spewing and manipulating, and I don't have right
- 4:51Speaker 3: now sympathy in my heart for her. I don't either.
- 4:53Speaker 3: Even if she was groomed. No, I don't either. I
- 4:55Speaker 3: am so disgusted by this, yes, young woman, but the
- 5:00Speaker 3: way that she... disparaged, attacked, manipulated, tried to manipulate him,
- 5:08Speaker 3: didn't care about the kids, said it's full custody of
- 5:10Speaker 3: them or it's me. Like the kind of shit that
- 5:14Speaker 3: is so egregious. And I get it. She was young.
- 5:17Speaker 3: She is young.
- 5:18Speaker 2: But honestly, to your point, I completely agree with you.
- 5:21Speaker 2: Being young doesn't excuse you of having no moral compass
- 5:25Speaker 2: whatsoever and no understanding, especially as a quote unquote godly person.
- 5:32Speaker 1: It is despicable to me.
- 5:35Speaker 3: Well, she was also, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. It is.
- 5:37Speaker 3: And also I can also say she clearly is mentally ill.
- 5:40Speaker 3: I mean, a hundred thousand million messages over the course,
- 5:44Speaker 3: it was to be that in and of itself. Obsession.
- 5:48Speaker 1: Obsession.
- 5:48Speaker 3: Yeah. Right. Like, like, okay, there's clearly something wrong here.
- 5:52Speaker 3: She's not right in the head. Neither obviously is he,
- 5:55Speaker 3: and he's a murderer and a monster. So all of it.
- 5:59Speaker 1: And how, and doing this with your children, in the house.
- 6:06Speaker 2: What this man, you know, it's rare that there's kind
- 6:09Speaker 2: of like the only, the real victims in this whole
- 6:13Speaker 2: thing are these children. Obviously his wife, who he, aside
- 6:18Speaker 2: from his wife, I mean, it's really awful.
- 6:21Speaker 1: Yes.
- 6:22Speaker 3: And those sweet parents, you know, I, yes, yes. When,
- 6:26Speaker 3: when it was just the reading of the text messages,
- 6:28Speaker 3: when it was her reading them, he, he, I felt
- 6:32Speaker 3: like he was a man who was a piece of
- 6:36Speaker 3: shit husband who was, and we found out later that
- 6:39Speaker 3: he was not like, he was loving to his wife.
- 6:42Speaker 3: He was, you know, they weren't, he wasn't doing what
- 6:46Speaker 3: he was claiming he was doing in terms of like
- 6:49Speaker 3: shutting her down and not going anywhere where she was.
- 6:52Speaker 1: Right, he was leading a double life.
- 6:54Speaker 3: Exactly. But, you know, reading, when she read the text,
- 6:58Speaker 3: it to me sounded like he had gotten involved with
- 7:03Speaker 3: a younger woman who was, it didn't work out the
- 7:07Speaker 3: way he thought it did when he was ready to
- 7:09Speaker 3: say goodbye. She was not having it. Now his reputation
- 7:13Speaker 3: was on the line, his marriage, his kids, his life
- 7:17Speaker 3: was on the line because clearly she wasn't giving in.
- 7:20Speaker 3: And then he got involved in, okay, I love you,
- 7:23Speaker 3: I love you. And then I think he also had
- 7:24Speaker 3: his own sick jealousy, but it never, from those texts,
- 7:29Speaker 3: I never would have got To murder.
- 7:32Speaker 2: When he said, I'd kill her if I could, if
- 7:35Speaker 2: God would forgive me?
- 7:37Speaker 3: A hundred percent. But I still would not have thought
- 7:40Speaker 3: that this man, this American Idol contestant, with these two
- 7:44Speaker 3: beautiful daughters and the dogs and the whole, are you serious? Like,
- 7:48Speaker 3: doesn't there's such, there was never, did he have any
- 7:51Speaker 3: history of any time ever doing anything violent?
- 7:55Speaker 1: I don't think so.
- 7:56Speaker 2: But I do think to your point that it really,
- 7:59Speaker 2: the text messages really do reveal the immaturity of this woman.
- 8:05Speaker 2: And again, this is not, I am not excusing her,
- 8:07Speaker 2: but they sound like a lovesick kid who doesn't, she
- 8:14Speaker 2: almost sounds younger than her age.
- 8:16Speaker 3: 100%, way younger.
- 8:17Speaker 1: Like a teenager.
- 8:19Speaker 3: Yes.
- 8:19Speaker 1: Very, very immature.
- 8:21Speaker 3: Waking up in the morning, checking the phone. oh my God,
- 8:24Speaker 3: how could you have said that to me? You don't
- 8:26Speaker 3: mean it. You don't love me. I don't know what to,
- 8:27Speaker 3: I'm going to break up with you. Now we're back.
- 8:29Speaker 3: I love you. She sounded like an obsessed teenager. It's
- 8:33Speaker 3: very true. I actually like, I guess if I think
- 8:36Speaker 3: of it that way, I would have maybe more sympathy
- 8:40Speaker 3: for her. But now we have a dead woman, a
- 8:42Speaker 3: dead wife and mother.
- 8:44Speaker 2: And no, they never found a murder weapon, no gunshot
- 8:48Speaker 2: residue test, which in and of itself I don't understand that.
- 8:54Speaker 2: The authorities said that, well, he said he responded within
- 8:58Speaker 2: four to six seconds in calling the authorities so that
- 9:03Speaker 2: he already would have residue on him. He would not
- 9:07Speaker 2: have it on his hands. I didn't understand their logic
- 9:12Speaker 2: behind not giving him that test in the first place,
- 9:14Speaker 2: but It left them with no evidence there either, no
- 9:18Speaker 2: blood on Caleb, and the jury still convicted him that quickly.
- 9:24Speaker 2: So were the texts, essentially, they were the murder weapon
- 9:28Speaker 2: in this case?
- 9:28Speaker 3: I think it was the text. I think it was
- 9:30Speaker 3: also his alibi. What are you talking about? So for
- 9:34Speaker 3: the first time, he had a coffee, slept on the couch.
- 9:36Speaker 3: It was two hours. One of his handheld devices was
- 9:40Speaker 3: tracking his steps and his heart rate. He got up.
- 9:44Speaker 3: They said he took, I don't remember the number, 30 steps,
- 9:46Speaker 3: then a hundred steps.
- 9:47Speaker 1: Yeah. Like the whole time he said he was sleeping.
- 9:50Speaker 3: Exactly. So they had that. They said they can't, they
- 9:53Speaker 3: can't link that absolutely to the fact that he was,
- 9:57Speaker 3: you know, up walking, shooting, although the steps I guess
- 10:00Speaker 3: they could, but it was this two hour period of time.
- 10:03Speaker 3: It was the Apple watch, but it shows that he
- 10:07Speaker 3: was already lying. There was some, okay. He gets up
- 10:10Speaker 3: within the two hours. The claim is that, and he
- 10:13Speaker 3: had guns. The claim is that someone comes into the house,
- 10:17Speaker 3: shoots a woman, twice in the head and leaves and leaves.
- 10:21Speaker 3: And that's it. And the kids, so he doesn't wake
- 10:22Speaker 3: up and the dogs don't bark.
- 10:24Speaker 2: And also the, the door, the break where he claimed
- 10:28Speaker 2: that they broke in through the garage door. It's something
- 10:30Speaker 2: that it was only visible when it was open. It's like,
- 10:33Speaker 2: did he just go open the door and kick it
- 10:36Speaker 2: or something? Like, this is not a smart man.
- 10:39Speaker 3: No, but I, I wonder then, but okay. Is it
- 10:41Speaker 3: that he wasn't smart or that he just couldn't say,
- 10:45Speaker 3: I want a divorce. Is it that he had been
- 10:48Speaker 3: playing these women for so long, knowing that his wife
- 10:51Speaker 3: would have.
- 10:52Speaker 1: He's spineless, certainly.
- 10:53Speaker 3: Right, right. Or was it both, right? It's like he couldn't,
- 10:59Speaker 3: it was almost, it's so crazy, right? Because he felt
- 11:02Speaker 3: like it was, maybe he felt like it was his
- 11:05Speaker 3: only alternative. He couldn't bear losing his reputation, his money.
- 11:10Speaker 1: I think that's what it is.
- 11:11Speaker 2: He couldn't bear- losing face, losing his reputation. I think
- 11:16Speaker 2: part of it, that celebrity that I'm gathering, he held
- 11:20Speaker 2: onto very tightly, the little notoriety that he had from
- 11:24Speaker 2: being on American Idol. And perhaps this young girl even
- 11:28Speaker 2: looked at that as some kind of, I'm close to
- 11:31Speaker 2: stardom or something. People have really unhealthy relationships to fame
- 11:39Speaker 2: in that regard.
- 11:40Speaker 1: And so it's, Oh, so here it is.
- 11:44Speaker 2: Okay, 119 to 156, several smaller bursts of steps on
- 11:48Speaker 2: the Apple Watch. 218 to 228, 105 steps recorded by
- 11:53Speaker 2: the Apple Watch. After that, then it stopped recording steps.
- 11:57Speaker 2: And 230, his iPhone began recording movement. And at 231,
- 12:01Speaker 2: the 911 call connected. So for almost, for over an hour,
- 12:08Speaker 2: before the 911 call, he was up and about moving.
- 12:13Speaker 3: You heard, and you heard that 911 call, right?
- 12:16Speaker 1: Yes, I did.
- 12:17Speaker 3: I mean, it was, for me, it was so obviously manufactured.
- 12:24Speaker 3: It was, that's the thing about this case. Like I really,
- 12:29Speaker 3: I think we go too quickly a lot of times
- 12:33Speaker 3: with these cases, right? And, and, really have to always
- 12:36Speaker 3: remember innocent until proven guilty. Guilty beyond a doubt, a
- 12:42Speaker 3: reasonable doubt. There is no gun, no residue, but if
- 12:49Speaker 3: it's me on the jury, this is easy. Two hours
- 12:54Speaker 3: is probably an hour and 45 minutes more than I
- 12:56Speaker 3: would have needed.
- 12:57Speaker 1: It makes no sense otherwise. Why and who and what,
- 13:05Speaker 1: like none of it makes any sense if it's not him.
- 13:08Speaker 3: The fact that he called her. So he calls her,
- 13:10Speaker 3: he calls the mistress in the morning and says, I
- 13:13Speaker 3: chose you. Oh, excuse me. Hours before Ashley died, Caleb tells,
- 13:19Speaker 3: allegedly tells the mistress, Aaliyah, I choose you. I'm free. So,
- 13:25Speaker 3: and then he's dead. And then, then she hears that
- 13:30Speaker 3: Ashley's dead and she calls Caleb and says, were you involved?
- 13:34Speaker 3: And it's like, it's all so, I don't know, obvious. Like, yes,
- 13:40Speaker 3: this is what happened. Right.
- 13:55Speaker 2: Let's start with one of the texts. If your husband
- 13:58Speaker 2: says he stayed up until 4 a.m. trying to figure
- 14:01Speaker 2: out how to kill you, without going to jail, and
- 14:05Speaker 2: then you're murdered.
- 14:06Speaker 1: As a jury member, how do you get past that?
- 14:10Speaker 3: All that is, listen, yes, agreed. All of that, I guess, though,
- 14:14Speaker 3: is circumstantial evidence, right? It's like people can say things
- 14:17Speaker 3: and not mean them. I mean, she even said, remember
- 14:20Speaker 3: when she had a read that she wanted her dead,
- 14:22Speaker 3: that Aaliyah was reading where she said to him, I
- 14:27Speaker 3: want her dead, Caleb. I really want her dead. And
- 14:29Speaker 3: she's like, Starts crying. She's like, I didn't mean it.
- 14:32Speaker 3: I don't want to read this. I didn't mean it. Right.
- 14:34Speaker 3: Because in most cases, people don't mean it. Right. They're words.
- 14:39Speaker 3: And so that could be viewed then as circumstantial evidence.
- 14:43Speaker 3: He said, I wish I could kill her. All of that. Right.
- 14:48Speaker 1: She at least showed remorse. But again, I don't know.
- 14:52Speaker 3: I mean, is she remorseful?
- 14:54Speaker 2: Or sad she got caught, which is how I felt
- 14:56Speaker 2: about every time I saw Caleb crying. I'm like, this
- 14:59Speaker 2: is not a man who feels bad. This is a
- 15:01Speaker 2: man who was embarrassed that he was caught. And now
- 15:04Speaker 2: he has to lose face and pay the consequences.
- 15:08Speaker 1: That's what I saw every time.
- 15:10Speaker 3: You know, it was so weird to me, though, because
- 15:12Speaker 3: when we heard about their actual marriage, as opposed to
- 15:16Speaker 3: what he was telling Aaliyah, right? I'm saying that right now.
- 15:20Speaker 3: What he was telling Aaliyah, when we found out about
- 15:22Speaker 3: what their actual marriage was like, that he was, in fact,
- 15:26Speaker 3: writing her, love you, love you too, I'm sorry, whatever,
- 15:30Speaker 3: what did the doctor say, gave me an inhaler. Whatever
- 15:34Speaker 3: it was, there was nothing acrimonious. There was no, it
- 15:39Speaker 3: didn't sound like there was anything so unusual about their
- 15:43Speaker 3: back and forth. They did, in fact, go to the
- 15:45Speaker 3: movies together. Mm-hmm. she said, what should I, when she
- 15:48Speaker 3: was like, what should I wear tonight? He's like, surprise me.
- 15:52Speaker 3: So he didn't, it's like, okay, did he, was he
- 15:56Speaker 3: just so.
- 15:57Speaker 1: So then what does that?
- 15:59Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 16:00Speaker 1: Then what does that say?
- 16:01Speaker 3: Right. Does that with Aaliyah scared of, um, felt backed
- 16:06Speaker 3: into a corner, but I would say 99.999% of people
- 16:09Speaker 3: who are backed into a corner, don't then take a
- 16:11Speaker 3: gun and shoot their wives. So you know, it's bad,
- 16:14Speaker 3: it's bright. You then say, okay, well, this is, I
- 16:16Speaker 3: have to do something else. So, but I wonder if
- 16:19Speaker 3: he ever showed growing up or they said, no, I've heard,
- 16:24Speaker 3: but like, did he ever show signs of violence and
- 16:29Speaker 3: sociopathic behavior?
- 16:30Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 16:32Speaker 3: Sociopathic maybe, but.
- 16:33Speaker 2: I mean, This is the thing about the human nature
- 16:42Speaker 2: and sort of when you go down a path and
- 16:47Speaker 2: then it's an extreme one and it keeps going and
- 16:52Speaker 2: you have someone who's sort of corroborating that path with you.
- 16:57Speaker 2: And then do you just start to lose your mind
- 17:00Speaker 2: and lose all sense of a moral barometer or what?
- 17:06Speaker 1: Right.
- 17:07Speaker 3: And it doesn't even feel like he thought it through. Like,
- 17:08Speaker 3: it wasn't like he was like, okay, can't ask her
- 17:11Speaker 3: for a divorce. I can't do it. So I'm going
- 17:13Speaker 3: to have to kill her. Like, it sounds like it
- 17:15Speaker 3: was spontaneous. Like, you know what? I just can't do it.
- 17:17Speaker 3: Where's my gun? Like just some manic psychotic, you know,
- 17:24Speaker 3: moment of, I'm not, we're not, obviously he doesn't get
- 17:26Speaker 3: the insanity. No, but like, I don't, it doesn't sound
- 17:31Speaker 3: like he.
- 17:31Speaker 2: Even really defended himself and You think that he was
- 17:35Speaker 2: planning on killing her?
- 17:36Speaker 1: I think so. You mean you think that he just
- 17:38Speaker 1: sort of like couldn't sleep?
- 17:40Speaker 3: I think that he was going to say, it talked
- 17:42Speaker 3: about how he was going to tell the kids that
- 17:44Speaker 3: mommy had an affair. Right. You know, he had people
- 17:48Speaker 3: on his side that would corroborate it.
- 17:51Speaker 1: Right.
- 17:51Speaker 3: How, you know, he was, they were doing all this
- 17:55Speaker 3: preparation in terms of, you know, what he needed to
- 17:59Speaker 3: do first.
- 18:01Speaker 2: But if he is the kind of person who is,
- 18:04Speaker 2: I'm calling it spineless, but someone that has no ability
- 18:08Speaker 2: to be accountable for themselves, he may have gotten to
- 18:14Speaker 2: a place of, okay, here's what I'm going to try
- 18:15Speaker 2: to do, and then realizing it was easier for him
- 18:18Speaker 2: to shoot his wife than it was to have to
- 18:22Speaker 2: have a conversation with his children.
- 18:24Speaker 3: But do you think, that's what I mean, do you
- 18:25Speaker 3: think that he knew he was going to do it
- 18:28Speaker 3: All those texts back and forth the night before with her.
- 18:32Speaker 3: And there were so many of them that were so
- 18:36Speaker 3: involved in the details, right? The part where he said
- 18:40Speaker 3: to her something about how if it all goes as planned,
- 18:44Speaker 3: which it will, and then she freaked out. She's like,
- 18:46Speaker 3: what do you mean if it all goes? Are you
- 18:47Speaker 3: trying to back out of it?
- 18:49Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 18:50Speaker 3: But then talking about the specifics of it.
- 18:52Speaker 1: But doesn't that sound to you like premeditated, like he's
- 18:55Speaker 1: planning it?
- 18:55Speaker 3: It does. It does. But there was so much stuff about, okay,
- 18:58Speaker 3: this is who you're going to have to call afterwards.
- 19:00Speaker 3: And do you know exactly what you're going to say
- 19:01Speaker 3: to the kids? I just wonder if, it doesn't really matter.
- 19:04Speaker 3: He shot his wife. He's going to rot in jail.
- 19:06Speaker 3: But like, did he decide in the moment or did
- 19:10Speaker 3: he always know he was going to kill her?
- 19:12Speaker 2: I mean, when Aaliyah hears that Ashley is dead and
- 19:16Speaker 2: immediately asks Caleb, were you involved? That sounds to me
- 19:21Speaker 2: like his mistress apparently immediately wondered.
- 19:26Speaker 1: Also, like, what kind of a question is that? That's
- 19:29Speaker 1: the first thing you say.
- 19:30Speaker 3: Well, think about it. So their, their plan, I don't
- 19:33Speaker 3: know if we know everything in terms of her story,
- 19:36Speaker 3: but was that he was going to tell her actually
- 19:39Speaker 3: he wanted a divorce and that was a plan and
- 19:42Speaker 3: they were going to bed and in the morning, that's
- 19:45Speaker 3: what was going to happen. And he's like, I'll get
- 19:47Speaker 3: a burner phone. And from, Walmart and I'll call you
- 19:52Speaker 3: right after. I mean, there was like a plan in place.
- 19:55Speaker 3: They were talking about how, what are you going to
- 19:56Speaker 3: say to the kids exactly? Um, and then she wakes
- 20:03Speaker 3: up to Ashley's dead.
- 20:05Speaker 1: What else would be the logical thing? Oh, that God
- 20:08Speaker 1: came down.
- 20:09Speaker 3: No. So I'm saying, so I know her by lightning.
- 20:11Speaker 3: That's what she thought. That's what anybody would have thought.
- 20:14Speaker 3: But do you think there's any chance that she did
- 20:16Speaker 3: have a feeling it was going to happen that she
- 20:18Speaker 3: did know?
- 20:19Speaker 2: I mean, I can't imagine what is going on in
- 20:21Speaker 2: this woman's head because she is batshit.
- 20:24Speaker 1: Nuts as far as I am concerned. And I never
- 20:26Speaker 1: like to.
- 20:27Speaker 2: Say things like that about women because I But I
- 20:30Speaker 2: am telling you, no matter at 24 years old, 22
- 20:33Speaker 2: years old, yes, you are sort of a child and
- 20:35Speaker 2: you are certainly not a grown up, but you still
- 20:38Speaker 2: have some understanding of right and wrong. And texting some
- 20:45Speaker 2: of the things that she did and saying what she said,
- 20:49Speaker 2: there's no rationale there. It sounds like she was hoping
- 20:56Speaker 2: that that is what he would do.
- 20:57Speaker 3: You think so?
- 20:58Speaker 1: Just to get rid of her. I mean, she said.
- 21:00Speaker 2: Things like, you know, until she's gone, I'm gone. Now,
- 21:04Speaker 2: we can assume that that means until they're divorced.
- 21:08Speaker 3: Divorced.
- 21:08Speaker 2: Right?
- 21:08Speaker 1: Of course.
- 21:09Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 21:09Speaker 1: But, you know, this is, again, the.
- 21:12Speaker 2: Thing where these exchanges sound so arrested to me, like
- 21:17Speaker 2: so juvenile. On both sides, on his also, you know,
- 21:22Speaker 2: this like fantastical little weird thing obsessive love story.
- 21:26Speaker 3: And even the way, even the way Malia hated Ashley.
- 21:31Speaker 3: I hate her, Caleb. I hate her. I hate her
- 21:32Speaker 3: so much.
- 21:33Speaker 1: Very extreme.
- 21:34Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah. What do you, I mean, I, I get it.
- 21:37Speaker 3: She was in love with the man who was married
- 21:39Speaker 3: and the whole, the douche calling her names, talking about her,
- 21:44Speaker 3: I guess her decorate, like there was so much, I
- 21:48Speaker 3: didn't see any guilt in those texts. There was just
- 21:51Speaker 3: all just, just, animosity and hatred of this woman.
- 21:56Speaker 1: Yeah again this like very simplistic.
- 21:59Speaker 3: Yeah she's like at one point she's like oh she
- 22:01Speaker 3: wins again or something's that effect because she was having
- 22:04Speaker 3: they were going on a trip for their 15th anniversary
- 22:09Speaker 3: it all i.
- 22:10Speaker 2: Mean this is a delusional person it's fair to say
- 22:13Speaker 2: that this young woman was delusional and i hope that
- 22:18Speaker 2: she is getting, I don't know that she will be
- 22:21Speaker 2: indicted for anything or I don't know.
- 22:24Speaker 1: I don't think so.
- 22:25Speaker 3: What are people saying about that?
- 22:27Speaker 2: I hope that, cause it makes me think of, I
- 22:28Speaker 2: just covered the, um, the girl from Plainville and you know, she,
- 22:34Speaker 2: that girl was, um, Indicted and put in jail for
- 22:38Speaker 2: sending those text messages.
- 22:39Speaker 1: Now that is more extreme. She was directly telling him
- 22:43Speaker 1: to do it. And it was for extended period, et cetera.
- 22:45Speaker 3: That was a sick story. But like, yeah, there was,
- 22:47Speaker 3: is she culpable? Just, but there was never talk, at
- 22:51Speaker 3: least in all the messages that we heard, there was never,
- 22:54Speaker 3: even though I wish I could kill her. I wish,
- 22:58Speaker 3: you know, but there was never kill her, Caleb. There
- 22:59Speaker 3: was never, you have to kill her, Caleb.
- 23:02Speaker 1: Right. She was never encouraging him to do it directly.
- 23:05Speaker 3: Right. Right.
- 23:07Speaker 2: But the prosecutors say that divorce potentially cost Caleb a
- 23:10Speaker 2: lot more than just his marriage. It's time with his daughters,
- 23:12Speaker 2: his church, and his reputation, and also his job with
- 23:16Speaker 2: Ashley's family.
- 23:17Speaker 1: Right.
- 23:18Speaker 2: So he was the VP of their commercial flooring company.
- 23:23Speaker 2: So essentially, this man's entire life was wrapped up with
- 23:29Speaker 2: Ashley and her family.
- 23:31Speaker 1: Right.
- 23:32Speaker 3: So— I know, I don't think that they even, because
- 23:36Speaker 3: remember when, so when it happened and Ashley's mom called
- 23:40Speaker 3: the dad and the dad was away with his buddies
- 23:45Speaker 3: on some trip, right? He drove, I don't know, 12
- 23:47Speaker 3: hours home and got home and said to Ashley's mother,
- 23:51Speaker 3: this is sounding very fishy. Of course, I'm just summing
- 23:54Speaker 3: it up. But like, you know, do you think that
- 23:56Speaker 3: Caleb could have been involved? And the mother's like, don't
- 23:59Speaker 3: you dare. Don't you even. So- And he said, I
- 24:03Speaker 3: never said another thing about it after that. They clearly
- 24:08Speaker 3: had a good relationship with their son-in-law, or at least
- 24:11Speaker 3: good enough that the mother would become so adamant that,
- 24:16Speaker 3: you know, we're not even going there.
- 24:19Speaker 2: But when someone says, do you think he had anything
- 24:22Speaker 2: to do with it? You know, like I think about this, like, okay,
- 24:25Speaker 2: God forbid something happens. should happen to me or my husband.
- 24:30Speaker 2: And if somebody said to Charlie, if I ever passed
- 24:35Speaker 2: away under strange circumstances, if anybody said.
- 24:37Speaker 1: Do you think Charlie has something to.
- 24:40Speaker 3: Do with it?
- 24:41Speaker 2: It's like never in a million years, we do not
- 24:44Speaker 2: have a perfect marriage, but never in a million years
- 24:48Speaker 2: is anyone going to think that he would have anything
- 24:51Speaker 2: to do with my death.
- 24:52Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 24:52Speaker 3: But that's, but that's exactly what, that's what I'm saying
- 24:54Speaker 3: is that that's why the mother, So Ashley's mother is like,
- 24:58Speaker 3: in a million years, she wouldn't have thought that Caleb
- 25:00Speaker 3: would have done it. Nobody knew about Aaliyah. Nobody knew
- 25:05Speaker 3: what he was about to do the next day that
- 25:07Speaker 3: he was going to, you know, according to Aaliyah, ask
- 25:10Speaker 3: for a divorce. I don't think any of them saw
- 25:13Speaker 3: it coming. And maybe that's why he thought he could
- 25:17Speaker 3: get away with it.
- 25:31Speaker 2: Aaliyah initially lied to the FBI about the affair and
- 25:34Speaker 2: weeks before the murder, her phone falls into the ocean
- 25:37Speaker 2: while she's kayaking and her work laptop was lost on
- 25:41Speaker 2: a plane.
- 25:41Speaker 1: I mean, did that affect her credibility?
- 25:45Speaker 3: Does it matter?
- 25:45Speaker 2: To me, that sounds really questionable.
- 25:49Speaker 3: Right. So let me ask you this. I have been wondering.
- 25:51Speaker 3: So even if you erase your messages, and they were
- 25:55Speaker 3: on some app I had never heard of. It wasn't WhatsApp.
- 25:58Speaker 3: But anyway, they were on some, I guess, encrypted app.
- 26:01Speaker 3: and they were both erasing everything. So here they all were.
- 26:05Speaker 3: Did someone not erase all the texts?
- 26:08Speaker 2: I think you can never assume that anything is deleted
- 26:11Speaker 2: when we are talking about technology.
- 26:13Speaker 1: I just think that you can't.
- 26:14Speaker 3: It's all somewhere in a cloud.
- 26:15Speaker 1: It's all somewhere, and it is all discoverable. And I mean,
- 26:20Speaker 1: more than 100,000 messages, that number itself... You know what?
- 26:25Speaker 3: It's what you said earlier is really... I feel like
- 26:29Speaker 3: that is something that children do. That is something that
- 26:32Speaker 3: teenagers do, right? That kind of obsession is not, it's
- 26:37Speaker 3: the kind of obsession where, I don't know, you're 14
- 26:41Speaker 3: and you're in love and all you do from the
- 26:44Speaker 3: minute your eyes open until they close.
- 26:46Speaker 1: When your brain, we might add, is not fully formed, right?
- 26:51Speaker 1: As a teenager.
- 26:53Speaker 3: Right, but she's, so women's brains are, The synapses close at,
- 26:59Speaker 3: I want to say, men, it's 26, where the lobes close.
- 27:04Speaker 3: Please forgive me, anybody who's listening who has- Women, it's
- 27:06Speaker 3: a little bit younger, right? It's younger, right.
- 27:10Speaker 1: So she was there or close.
- 27:11Speaker 3: The brain being fully developed. Yeah. I know it's younger
- 27:16Speaker 3: than men. I know men, it's 26. But that's what
- 27:19Speaker 3: she sounds like. She sounds like, in those texts, like
- 27:22Speaker 3: a crazed teenager. But she's not a teenager. And some
- 27:26Speaker 3: of the things that she said, I don't even think
- 27:28Speaker 3: my kids as teenagers.
- 27:30Speaker 1: On their worst day.
- 27:31Speaker 3: On their worst day, whatever you say, it's me or
- 27:35Speaker 3: your kids.
- 27:36Speaker 1: No. Do you think that we've just, this is me again,
- 27:38Speaker 1: getting back to the kind of general demise of our
- 27:40Speaker 1: entire culture. Right. Is it just that we've lost a
- 27:47Speaker 1: sense of anything that, of anything having real meaning and
- 27:53Speaker 1: kind of human nature? decency and kind of like, I'm
- 27:57Speaker 1: just so perplexed by this kind of the ability for
- 28:02Speaker 1: someone like this to at once be active in their
- 28:05Speaker 1: church and for all intents and purposes, very religious and
- 28:10Speaker 1: God fearing to be able to send these kinds of
- 28:12Speaker 1: text messages, also be having an affair, both sides, him
- 28:18Speaker 1: and her, and then be able to still like, I
- 28:23Speaker 1: just don't, I can't fathom it. Like, I think there's
- 28:26Speaker 1: a real problem.
- 28:27Speaker 3: Well, we've been doing this podcast for a minute now,
- 28:30Speaker 3: and you and I have talked about crimes, unthinkable crimes,
- 28:35Speaker 3: and men and women who are, for all intents and purposes, monsters.
- 28:41Speaker 3: And with all the podcasts that we've done now, I
- 28:44Speaker 3: don't have it figured out. I don't know. Is it
- 28:46Speaker 3: getting worse? Is it getting better? Is it I have
- 28:50Speaker 3: no answers for those questions. I just know it's just depressing, right?
- 28:54Speaker 3: I mean, we are true crime junkies, but still it's
- 29:00Speaker 3: sad and depressing. And this one, I just... This woman was...
- 29:07Speaker 3: And then he tried to... The whole thing about her
- 29:09Speaker 3: having an affair, what was that about?
- 29:11Speaker 1: About Ashley having an affair?
- 29:12Speaker 3: Yes. Did he make that up? Was that like his
- 29:17Speaker 3: way of.
- 29:18Speaker 1: Of excusing his own behavior?
- 29:20Speaker 3: Yes. Yes. I think it was bullshit.
- 29:24Speaker 1: I want to know, I want to know what happens
- 29:26Speaker 1: to Aaliyah.
- 29:27Speaker 2: I want to, I wish I had a camera on
- 29:31Speaker 2: that woman's every day, every moment movement.
- 29:36Speaker 3: I wonder if our list. Yeah, me too. I wonder
- 29:38Speaker 3: if our listeners though. it's funny because I think even
- 29:41Speaker 3: though you know what she's done is unforgivable, so do I,
- 29:45Speaker 3: but you give her probably more grace than I have.
- 29:47Speaker 3: Maybe that will come in time. Maybe it will occur
- 29:50Speaker 3: to me more and more that she was very, very
- 29:52Speaker 3: young and that maybe she was groomed. Right now, I
- 29:55Speaker 3: don't feel any of those things for her. But I
- 29:57Speaker 3: wonder how like I know that I've seen things online
- 30:01Speaker 3: about people even suspecting that she was the one that
- 30:03Speaker 3: did it. Right. And there certainly has not been that
- 30:07Speaker 3: what I've seen, there has not been a lot of
- 30:09Speaker 3: sympathy for her, but as a young woman, maybe I'm
- 30:13Speaker 3: not reading all the right stuff. You tell me, maybe
- 30:15Speaker 3: there is a lot of, of, of people who are sympathetic.
- 30:19Speaker 1: I don't know.
- 30:20Speaker 2: I'll be curious to hear what people have to say
- 30:22Speaker 2: about that. I think that, you know, a lot of
- 30:25Speaker 2: people are very suspicious of her. And that's where I
- 30:29Speaker 2: always take the opposite side on that because I think
- 30:33Speaker 2: that women get the crappy end of things all the time.
- 30:38Speaker 2: And so I'm always willing to give women more grace
- 30:42Speaker 2: on this side. But she is not without fault and
- 30:48Speaker 2: flaws here by any stretch of the imagination.
- 30:51Speaker 1: And so I.
- 30:52Speaker 2: Hope that she uses this, has taken this really to
- 30:56Speaker 2: heart and- I don't know what she's planning to do
- 31:00Speaker 2: with her life.
- 31:00Speaker 3: Where are her parents in all this? Were they there?
- 31:03Speaker 1: Great question.
- 31:05Speaker 3: Where?
- 31:06Speaker 1: That's a great question. And does she have any history
- 31:10Speaker 1: of mental illness? Because this is some.
- 31:13Speaker 3: We never got any of that.
- 31:14Speaker 1: Wacko.
- 31:15Speaker 3: Unlike some of the others. Yeah. Unlike some of these
- 31:17Speaker 3: other trials, this one went quick.
- 31:19Speaker 1: It was so fast.
- 31:20Speaker 3: I mean, this happened in February of 26, right?
- 31:23Speaker 2: So this is a very quick time. I mean, they,
- 31:26Speaker 2: did they speed this up or what? Cause this is
- 31:28Speaker 2: very fast.
- 31:29Speaker 1: For it to happen.
- 31:30Speaker 3: It felt like it was open and shut.
- 31:32Speaker 2: And one last thing that I have to bring up that,
- 31:36Speaker 2: that AI love songs. I just not to make light
- 31:42Speaker 2: of any of this because none of it was taken lightly,
- 31:45Speaker 2: but if ever there was an argument, against AI, it
- 31:49Speaker 2: is these songs.
- 31:51Speaker 1: They are so awful.
- 31:54Speaker 3: So I'm going to tell you something. I found it
- 31:57Speaker 3: like all little hairs all over my body rose. It
- 32:00Speaker 3: was so icky and gross. But if I'm being honest,
- 32:03Speaker 3: I don't think the songs were that bad. It was
- 32:05Speaker 3: just the fact that they did that. I don't know.
- 32:07Speaker 3: They were stupid. There are so many dumb pop.
- 32:09Speaker 1: Love songs right now.
- 32:10Speaker 3: They're so dumb.
- 32:11Speaker 2: And the fact that he, as a supposed singer at
- 32:15Speaker 2: one time, shame on you for that too.
- 32:18Speaker 3: It was the fact that he did it.
- 32:20Speaker 2: And that they made them listen to it in the courtroom.
- 32:23Speaker 1: Yes.
- 32:24Speaker 2: The pain on people's faces of watching that and the
- 32:28Speaker 2: utter sort of disbelief and confusion.
- 32:30Speaker 3: The disgust.
- 32:32Speaker 1: And disgust.
- 32:33Speaker 2: Well, I personally am glad that this did not go
- 32:38Speaker 2: on and on and on and on because he just
- 32:43Speaker 2: needs to be put away. And the sentencing, I believe
- 32:46Speaker 2: they said it will be October 5th.
- 32:48Speaker 1: The judge wanted this to be sped up, but to
- 32:53Speaker 1: give the prosecution enough time to have the impact letters
- 32:58Speaker 1: from the victims.
- 32:59Speaker 3: Is it a death penalty case?
- 33:00Speaker 2: So the prosecutors didn't seek the death penalty, but I
- 33:05Speaker 2: am also reading that capital punishment, although it's legal in Ohio,
- 33:08Speaker 2: the state has an indefinite pause on all executions. So
- 33:12Speaker 2: maybe that's why they didn't put it on the table.
- 33:15Speaker 2: But he is certainly up for life imprisonment.
- 33:18Speaker 3: If I'm a guessing girl, he's going away and he
- 33:20Speaker 3: ain't getting out. So poor Ashley and those poor babies.
- 33:25Speaker 2: Those, those children bless those kids and those parents.
- 33:30Speaker 1: It's really.
- 33:31Speaker 3: I hope that they get some closure from it.
- 33:34Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 33:34Speaker 3: No, they won't closure. No, I don't think they will.
- 33:37Speaker 3: Some kind of some, I don't know, at least some
- 33:42Speaker 3: kind of ending to the story maybe.
- 33:44Speaker 1: Hmm.
- 33:44Speaker 3: All right, well, I actually am happy that this one
- 33:47Speaker 3: wrapped up the way it did. It's just so awful.
- 33:51Speaker 1: Yeah, and so quickly like that.
- 33:52Speaker 2: I think there's certainly no, and they pulled the jury
- 33:56Speaker 2: after the verdict was read to make sure that everyone
- 33:59Speaker 2: did in fact say guilty, and that was their vote,
- 34:02Speaker 2: and they all said yes. So very quickly, they seem
- 34:06Speaker 2: to have no doubt.
- 34:08Speaker 3: That's how I would have voted. Me too. Yeah.
- 34:11Speaker 1: Thanks for chatting, Jen. I always really enjoy these.
- 34:14Speaker 3: Conversations, hard conversations, but yeah. Thanks you guys.
- 34:20Speaker 1: Okay.
- 34:21Speaker 3: Bye. Bye.