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Billing Wedding Guests, AI Romance Scams & Why Men Leave a Mess Everywhere · Two Personal with Joy Taylor

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  Speaker 1: cannot afford to have this wedding, cut it back. As
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  Speaker 1: I stand on it, my generation had the greatest childhood
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  Speaker 1: of all generations of childhoods. But he makes you laugh.
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  Speaker 2: He's funny.
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  Speaker 1: No, I'm funny. He's an irritating comedian. And I am right.
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  Speaker 1: That is an opinion, of course. However, I am right
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  Speaker 1: on this opinion.
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  Speaker 3: Well, that's a tricky question.
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  Speaker 2: No, no, no.
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  Speaker 1: Hey, guys. Welcome to Personal. I'm Joy Taylor alongside Haley
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  Speaker 1: and Specs. It's been an interesting week. Things are getting
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  Speaker 1: a little squirrely around the world. You know how it is. Well,
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  Speaker 1: I forgot to take my happy pills yesterday.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, you felt it. You felt the difference.
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  Speaker 1: I forget what my therapist called it. But like, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: like your body gets real. I don't know. It's such
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  Speaker 1: a weird sensation. I don't know how to explain it.
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  Speaker 1: But like, is it like a withdrawal? Yeah. It feels
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  Speaker 1: like withdrawal, yeah. But it's not like... Your body doesn't hurt.
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  Speaker 1: It just feels like kind of dizzy, but like stronger
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  Speaker 1: than dizzy. But I was in the gym today like....
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  Speaker 2: So, I saw a story where a bride is billing
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  Speaker 2: her guests who RCP'd but didn't attend because of childcare issues.
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  Speaker 2: And to be exact, $ 75.
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  Speaker 1: 90. So....
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  Speaker 2: I'm assuming that's their plate cost, right?
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  Speaker 1: What is her means of recourse if they don't send
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  Speaker 1: her money?
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  Speaker 2: That's a very good question.
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  Speaker 1: What's she going to do? Follow up with the collection agency?
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  Speaker 2: I could not even imagine sending a bill.
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  Speaker 1: What? You know, I see these stories, these horror stories
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  Speaker 1: all the time online. And, you know, people post like
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  Speaker 1: these bride zillas about childcare or guests being like, Hey,
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  Speaker 1: I'm going to bring my kid anyway. Yeah. When they've
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  Speaker 1: said that it's a, it's a no kid wedding. And
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  Speaker 1: I've been to a lot of weddings this year. I
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  Speaker 1: think I went to six weddings this year.
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  Speaker 2: You went to a lot, a lot.
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  Speaker 1: And I've been to, I have no idea how many weddings,
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  Speaker 1: like so many weddings I've been in. two weddings. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: I think I've been into weddings. I've given speeches at
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  Speaker 1: a couple of weddings. Um, and I, you know, in general,
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  Speaker 1: I love, I do love seeing people happy. I have
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  Speaker 1: been married. I had a massive wedding, like 250 people
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  Speaker 1: at the Biltmore in Miami. I, um, was engaged after
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  Speaker 1: I got divorced and was, you know, planning that wedding.
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  Speaker 1: I'm very well versed in weddings. Yeah. I think wedding
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  Speaker 1: culture has gotten a tidbit insane. It's, it's gotten very
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  Speaker 1: for Instagram and it feels icky. I, I, can say
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  Speaker 1: this because I've been engaged. I've multiple times I've been married.
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  Speaker 1: I've done a bachelorette party. I did a massive bachelorette
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  Speaker 1: party in Vegas. It was like 20 girls. This was
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  Speaker 1: a long time ago. So Vegas was much more affordable.
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  Speaker 1: We had a, like I said, a very big wedding.
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  Speaker 1: My family came in from Pittsburgh and from, you know,
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  Speaker 1: people came in from all over the world. And, um,
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  Speaker 1: You know, I think at the time, obviously this was,
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  Speaker 1: this was, I don't know, 10 years ago. I don't
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  Speaker 1: even know what year it is. What year is this? Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: it was, it was 10 years ago. So, you know,
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  Speaker 1: the world was different. Social media was not exactly what
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  Speaker 1: it is today. You didn't have the bachelorette culture that
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  Speaker 1: you have today. You didn't have, you know, this like for,
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  Speaker 1: you know, need to post every single angle. There was
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  Speaker 1: no TikTok, you know, so. I just think in general,
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  Speaker 1: people need to get married the way that they want to,
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  Speaker 1: but there should be some realistic factors when it comes
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  Speaker 1: to your wedding. Like one, if you're having a big wedding,
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  Speaker 1: the wedding is not about you. It's about your guests.
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  Speaker 1: That's the thing. Like you can say whatever you want.
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  Speaker 1: It's our day. No, no, no. If you're having a
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  Speaker 1: big wedding, Then the wedding is about the guests. Like, yes,
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  Speaker 1: it is your wedding and you should do it your way.
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  Speaker 1: And the guests should respect certain things. Like if you're
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  Speaker 1: saying there's no kids here, then there are no kids
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  Speaker 1: at the wedding. There is no, oh, they'll be okay. No, no, no, no, no.
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  Speaker 1: There's no kids at the wedding. I had no kids
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  Speaker 1: at my wedding. I had my nieces and nephews and
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  Speaker 1: that was it. There was no bringing your child to
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  Speaker 1: run around the ceremony.
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  Speaker 3: None of that.
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  Speaker 1: It was not a kid-friendly wedding. It was my family,
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  Speaker 1: the children in my family, and that was it. But
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  Speaker 1: you are asking a lot of people. You're asking people
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  Speaker 1: to travel. You're asking for a day of people's lives
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  Speaker 1: because it is really a day. You've got to get ready.
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  Speaker 1: You've got to drive to wherever the venue is. You're
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  Speaker 1: going to be there for five or six hours. So
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  Speaker 1: you need to provide food. You need to make sure
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  Speaker 1: your guests are comfortable. You need to have music. You
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  Speaker 1: got to have a bar. Like if you're having a
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  Speaker 1: bunch of people there, it's about the guests. If you're
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  Speaker 1: having a small wedding, it's about you. So you should
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  Speaker 1: be strategic about that. And I just think the Instagram
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  Speaker 1: thing has gotten crazy. The bachelorette apps have gotten crazy.
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  Speaker 1: Everything is expensive. You can't expect people to spend $ 3, 000,
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  Speaker 1: $ 4, 000 on your wedding and then spend another $ 5, 000 on
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  Speaker 1: your wedding day and your gift. And it's a whole weekend.
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  Speaker 1: It's a Friday, Saturday, Sunday affair. I just think it's
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  Speaker 1: gotten really, really crazy. And I say that knowing how
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  Speaker 1: much goes into planning a wedding. Cause I planned my wedding.
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  Speaker 1: I had a day of like manager, but I planned
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  Speaker 1: the wedding and yeah, I just, it's just gotten crazy.
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  Speaker 1: Like sending somebody a bill for a plate could not,
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  Speaker 1: and listen, not showing up to the wedding, like having
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  Speaker 1: to cancel is, and people canceled on me. Like you
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  Speaker 1: should expect people to cancel. Life happens. People have emergencies.
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  Speaker 1: Their kids have to go to the doctors. Somebody's parent fell.
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  Speaker 1: Like your car breaks down. Things fucking happen. There are
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  Speaker 1: going to be people that miss your wedding. They miss
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  Speaker 1: their flight. Like any number of things. Billing somebody for
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  Speaker 1: that is fucking insane. If you cannot afford to have
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  Speaker 1: this wedding, get it back. Make a change in the flowers.
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  Speaker 1: Get a different DJ. Cut back on the fucking wreath
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  Speaker 1: that's over your head. It's like the flower arch. It
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  Speaker 1: shouldn't be on your guests to pay for your wedding.
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  Speaker 2: This is true. I think people have weddings definitely out
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  Speaker 2: of their budget. 100%.
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  Speaker 1: Bro. It's like, you know, I saw this thing. Miss me.
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  Speaker 1: I wish I could. I hate, I do this. It's
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  Speaker 1: a bad habit. This is one of the things I'm
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  Speaker 1: going to change for the, try to change for the
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  Speaker 1: rest of the year. And moving into 2027, I see
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  Speaker 1: people on the internet say these like very clever things
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  Speaker 1: that I'm like, you know what? I like that, but
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  Speaker 1: I don't save it. So I can't give them credit.
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  Speaker 1: So I apologize, young lady. But this creator said this
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  Speaker 1: and it makes so much sense. For some people, the
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  Speaker 1: most interesting thing they will ever do is have a wedding.
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  Speaker 3: Damn.
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  Speaker 1: I fear she dragged with that one. I fear she
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  Speaker 1: ate because it's true. And it's not hating. Like, I
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  Speaker 1: had an amazing wedding. My wedding was perfect. I had
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  Speaker 1: a couple of funny stories that were some snafus. And,
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  Speaker 1: you know, now they're funny stories. But yeah, I mean,
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  Speaker 1: I had a great wedding. Loved every second. Well, a
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  Speaker 1: few seconds I didn't love. But overall, went great. Went
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  Speaker 1: exactly as I thought of the wedding. Like, what I wanted.
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  Speaker 1: But yeah, like, then you got to be married. And I,
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  Speaker 1: I do think a lot of people, I do think
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  Speaker 1: a lot of people focus more on the wedding than
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  Speaker 1: they do on actually being married and what that means.
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  Speaker 1: And then it becomes this like ongoing thing where it's like, okay,
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  Speaker 1: you have all the wedding, you have wedding stuff. And
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  Speaker 1: then what's the next Instagram thing? Oh, we got to
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  Speaker 1: have the baby announcements. And then we've got to have
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  Speaker 1: the baby shower announcements. And then we've got to have
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  Speaker 1: the gender reveal. And then the, the, you know, every thing.
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  Speaker 1: And listen, I'm not saying people shouldn't celebrate their lives.
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  Speaker 1: I think Everything sucks. Celebrate your life. Do things the
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  Speaker 1: way you want to do it. Get married the way
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  Speaker 1: you want to get married. Have a day of your dreams.
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  Speaker 1: But sending out a bill to someone for missing your
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  Speaker 1: wedding is fucking embarrassing. Yeah. You don't, you don't deserve friends.
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  Speaker 1: You shouldn't have guests at your wedding.
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  Speaker 2: I wish somebody would send me a bill. I wish
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  Speaker 2: somebody would, I would laugh.
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  Speaker 1: Well, first of all, like if I had to cancel
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  Speaker 1: on a friend last minute for their wedding, I would
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  Speaker 1: send them a gift.
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  Speaker 2: A hundred percent.
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  Speaker 1: Like I, I not now I'm not, I'm a good gift.
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  Speaker 1: I'm a generous gift giver. So they wouldn't need to
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  Speaker 1: send me a bill, but my, my, my, like, unless
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  Speaker 1: it's someone in my family, my philosophy on gift giving
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  Speaker 1: for weddings is basically like, I will cover the cost
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  Speaker 1: of my meal. You know what I mean? Like whatever
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  Speaker 1: that dinner probably costs and a little bit more, is
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  Speaker 1: what I will give in cash.
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  Speaker 2: Got you.
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  Speaker 1: If, if I haven't had to travel far for this wedding,
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  Speaker 1: if I'm, if I'm going, if I'm going on a plane,
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  Speaker 1: that's my gift. I am the gift. My presence is
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  Speaker 1: the present because I'm not finna pay for a flight,
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  Speaker 1: a hotel, my meals, my Ubers, my dress for the wedding,
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  Speaker 1: like drinks, you know, toiletries. Like I'm not doing all
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  Speaker 1: that and giving you a gift. Like, My presence, me
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  Speaker 1: coming to the wedding is, is the gift. What are your,
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  Speaker 1: what are your thoughts on how wedding, how like wedding culture?
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  Speaker 2: Well, you know, I haven't gone to a lot as
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  Speaker 2: an adult, but I see them and I always wonder
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  Speaker 2: like how it feels, I guess, as a guest and
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  Speaker 2: as when you're getting married to have these like destination weddings,
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  Speaker 2: because I just, it's so hard for me to wrap
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  Speaker 2: my brain around expecting people to pay for all that travel.
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  Speaker 2: I guess if you have, depending on who your friends
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  Speaker 2: are and your family, but not everybody has it like that.
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  Speaker 2: And then are you going to get mad they didn't come?
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  Speaker 1: Some people do. Some people do get mad. If you
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  Speaker 1: have a destination wedding, you should expect that people can't come.
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  Speaker 2: Are they usually smaller?
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  Speaker 1: Not necessarily. Sometimes people have destination weddings because they will
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  Speaker 1: be smaller because they know that certain people won't be
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  Speaker 1: able to travel. But yeah, if you're expecting people to
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  Speaker 1: leave the country, you should expect that some people can't come.
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  Speaker 1: People have newborns. People have jobs. People have kids. People
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  Speaker 1: have parents they have to take care of. If you
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  Speaker 1: are expecting people to leave the country, you should expect
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  Speaker 1: that some people are not going to make it. That
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  Speaker 1: is just a given. The other part of this that
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  Speaker 1: people don't consider when they have destination weddings is if
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  Speaker 1: you have a you know, a job, you have to
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  Speaker 1: take time off. So you're asking people to use their
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  Speaker 1: vacation time on your wedding.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's tough.
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  Speaker 1: So not only should you be immensely grateful that people
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  Speaker 1: are there, you should be aware that this is a
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  Speaker 1: incredible ask of people. Like I can go anywhere I
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  Speaker 1: want to. Yeah. But even when I was at corporate,
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  Speaker 1: like I still have to plan my schedule around the shows.
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  Speaker 1: And there were certain times of year I could not travel.
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  Speaker 1: I miss lots of people's weddings and lots of people's
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  Speaker 1: events and baby showers and all kinds of things, birthdays,
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  Speaker 1: because I could not leave during the week. I had
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  Speaker 1: a five-day-a-week show. So one of my best friends got
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  Speaker 1: married in Italy, but he got married in the fall. Well,
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  Speaker 1: that's football season. I cannot ask for five days off
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  Speaker 1: during football season. Now, during the summer, I can do that.
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  Speaker 1: I can give them you know, a heads up, which
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  Speaker 1: I would always do and plan the schedule around so
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  Speaker 1: that I could be gone. You know, I'd add the
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  Speaker 1: weekend days in to get extra days. You know, I've
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  Speaker 1: always been able to maneuver my schedule for travel, but
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  Speaker 1: there's just certain times of year I can't travel. And
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  Speaker 1: there's lots of people like, what if it's an accountant?
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  Speaker 1: I can't travel during tax season if I'm an accountant.
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  Speaker 1: I can't go to, you know, Croatia for your wedding
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  Speaker 1: during tax season. So it's like, if you're going to
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  Speaker 1: have a destination wedding, you have to know there are
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  Speaker 1: certain people that aren't going to be able to make it.
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  Speaker 1: for work reasons, for family reasons, and for emergencies. Like
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  Speaker 1: sometimes things come up and they, for health reasons, like
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  Speaker 1: you've just got to be reasonable about that. And yeah, it's,
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  Speaker 1: it's people, I think sometimes get a little slept up in,
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  Speaker 1: in their wedding, you know, bliss, you can call it,
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  Speaker 1: but it is important to remember that when the wedding
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  Speaker 1: is over, those friends and that family and all those
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  Speaker 1: people that are in your life are still going to
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  Speaker 1: be there. So you don't want to come down from
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  Speaker 1: that and have people looking at you sideways because of
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  Speaker 1: how you acted about that. Like be reasonable. This is
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  Speaker 1: your moment. This is not everybody else's moment. This is
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  Speaker 1: something that people are going to celebrate with you, but
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  Speaker 1: they're going to celebrate. And the next day they're back
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  Speaker 1: to their regular scheduled life. So you need to, you know,
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  Speaker 1: make sure that you keep a little bit of hand
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  Speaker 1: in grass when you're doing these things. Like be generous
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  Speaker 1: of spirit that people are sharing their time to celebrate you.
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  Speaker 1: It's not an obligation. It's not, you know, it's not
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  Speaker 1: like I have missed a lot of things and I've,
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  Speaker 1: you know, I've been sorry and I've sent them gifts,
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  Speaker 1: but yeah, I can't be there. I would love to
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  Speaker 1: be there, but I can't be there. And to your point,
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  Speaker 1: it's fucking expensive. Like if you're asking people to fly
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  Speaker 1: across the world, you have to be aware. There are
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  Speaker 1: some people that cannot afford that.
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  Speaker 2: It's so expensive.
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  Speaker 1: It's crazy. That's crazy. I was looking at a flight
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  Speaker 1: the other day because I was going to travel with
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  Speaker 1: my friends somewhere out of the country. And I was like, well,
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  Speaker 1: I'm not doing that right now. That's crazy. Like $ 8, 000.
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  Speaker 2: Even domestic flights are high right now.
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  Speaker 1: No, I'm not going to spend $ 8, 000 on just the
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  Speaker 1: flight right now.
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  Speaker 2: So did I ever tell you the story when I
• 16:04
  Speaker 2: was in high school and there was this guy?
• 16:08
  Speaker 1: Right.
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  Speaker 2: That like all these girls met online during my space
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  Speaker 2: era aim. Right. And he ended up being a whole
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  Speaker 2: girl that was changing her voice to like scam us all.
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  Speaker 1: She Manti tailed.
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  Speaker 2: It was a whole it was a whole thing. Mind you,
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  Speaker 2: this is like 2005. There's no A.I. or anything.
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  Speaker 3: Right.
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  Speaker 1: An original scammer.
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  Speaker 2: She was an original. And for like, I don't think
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  Speaker 2: we found out till like maybe end of my sophomore year,
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  Speaker 2: early junior year. Like someone went and met the person. Yeah,
• 16:41
  Speaker 2: they went and met the person and figured it all out.
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  Speaker 2: So now I'm seeing all these AI romance scams. And
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  Speaker 2: it got me thinking, I'm like, should this manipulation be
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  Speaker 2: a crime? Because people are like forking out money. They're
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  Speaker 2: uprooting their life. And it's not real.
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  Speaker 1: Well, depending on what... The level of money that's being
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  Speaker 1: sent and how it's being presented, it can be a
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  Speaker 1: crime because that's what happened with Dajon Love. Yeah. You know,
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  Speaker 1: we're kind of being tongue in cheek and saying, free him.
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  Speaker 1: But yeah, he was creating shell companies and committing wire fraud.
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  Speaker 1: So yeah, depending on what it is, it is actually
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  Speaker 1: a crime. But overall, the internet, like the law has
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  Speaker 1: not caught up with the internet. Like we've had the
• 17:29
  Speaker 1: internet long enough that you would think that it has.
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  Speaker 1: And in certain cases, in certain states- there have been
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  Speaker 1: some changes. Like for example, California has the revenge porn law,
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  Speaker 1: which is, you know, applicable to the internet. Like if you,
• 17:45
  Speaker 1: you cannot post nudes of your ex or share them
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  Speaker 1: on porn sites without their consent, like it is a crime.
• 17:53
  Speaker 1: So that should be a crime, right? So there are
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  Speaker 1: certain cases where the law has caught up with the internet,
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  Speaker 1: but then a lot of ways, no, it hasn't. Now
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  Speaker 1: I have, Look, it is wrong to misrepresent yourself on
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  Speaker 1: the internet and ask people for money. 100%. Right? Like,
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  Speaker 1: don't do that. That has to be said. Stop sending
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  Speaker 1: people money on the internet. Stop doing that. Stop doing that.
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  Speaker 1: Stop doing that. I don't want to send people I
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  Speaker 1: know money. Why would you send someone on the internet money?
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  Speaker 1: And I get it. Like people are very lonely. People
• 18:39
  Speaker 1: are lonely. They're desperately lonely. They crave connection. They crave attention.
• 18:44
  Speaker 1: They crave, you know, just a space where they feel
• 18:49
  Speaker 1: like someone cares about them. And I get it. But
• 18:53
  Speaker 1: in the end, stop sending people money on the internet.
• 18:55
  Speaker 1: You remember that story where that woman thought she was
• 18:57
  Speaker 1: dating Brad Pitt?
• 18:59
  Speaker 2: No.
• 19:00
  Speaker 1: No.
• 19:01
  Speaker 3: I do.
• 19:01
  Speaker 2: You remember Specs? Yeah, I remember that. For sure that happened.
• 19:05
  Speaker 2: How did she think this?
• 19:07
  Speaker 1: Because it was an Instagram page. Like, Rap Hit doesn't
• 19:10
  Speaker 1: have Instagram, babe. He's not on there.
• 19:13
  Speaker 2: Like one of those fan pages. Oh my God.
• 19:17
  Speaker 1: People hit me up all the time. Like, oh, is
• 19:20
  Speaker 1: this you? I'm like.
• 19:23
  Speaker 2: People are so gullible.
• 19:24
  Speaker 1: I have one... The only pages I have are... Blue
• 19:30
  Speaker 1: checkmark pages, okay? If it doesn't, furthermore, because you can
• 19:35
  Speaker 1: buy those books, if it doesn't say Joy Taylor Talks,
• 19:38
  Speaker 1: it ain't me, period. If it doesn't say Joy Taylor Talks,
• 19:42
  Speaker 1: it's not me. And I will never ask you for money, okay?
• 19:47
  Speaker 1: I will never ask you for money. I will... ask
• 19:50
  Speaker 1: you to donate to certain nonprofit causes, but I am
• 19:55
  Speaker 1: not going to DM you and say donate to this cause. Okay?
• 19:58
  Speaker 1: If it is not a link on a post, don't
• 20:01
  Speaker 1: put any money on it. And if it does not
• 20:02
  Speaker 1: say Joy Taylor Talks, don't send that bitch money. They
• 20:04
  Speaker 1: are absolutely scamming you. Stop it.
• 20:07
  Speaker 2: People gotta, they gotta up their game. Cause like, That's
• 20:11
  Speaker 2: also another issue. Why are we falling for this stuff? Now, granted,
• 20:14
  Speaker 2: I fell for it when I was 14. I have
• 20:18
  Speaker 2: an excuse.
• 20:20
  Speaker 1: But like, you know, it's mostly older people and scammers. Listen,
• 20:23
  Speaker 1: I've got scams before. I fell for the scam of
• 20:28
  Speaker 1: somebody kidnapping my mother. Yeah. But like we have seen,
• 20:32
  Speaker 1: that's a real thing. People's mothers get kidnapped. Okay. So,
• 20:37
  Speaker 1: you know, and, and, You know, we can laugh about
• 20:40
  Speaker 1: it now, that my situation, but yeah, it was fucking terrifying. However,
• 20:47
  Speaker 1: you know, that is a one, you know, a spur
• 20:50
  Speaker 1: of the moment, like throwing something at you, I'm going
• 20:54
  Speaker 1: to kill your mother type shit. This isn't an ongoing
• 20:57
  Speaker 1: fake relationship where you ask for their number and they
• 20:59
  Speaker 1: won't FaceTime you because this person doesn't exist. So, you know,
• 21:03
  Speaker 1: there's levels to scamming, but, you know, overall, I... I
• 21:09
  Speaker 1: think the world has to wake up and go outside.
• 21:16
  Speaker 1: I agree. Go play outside. I feel like the mother
• 21:18
  Speaker 1: of the earth. Go play outside. We need to get
• 21:21
  Speaker 1: back to playing outside, all right? I have this overall
• 21:26
  Speaker 1: philosophy on saving humanity. Most of you I don't give
• 21:29
  Speaker 1: a fuck about because you're pieces of shit. But in general,
• 21:34
  Speaker 1: as I stand on it, my generation had the greatest
• 21:37
  Speaker 1: childhood ever. of all generations of childhoods. And I will
• 21:42
  Speaker 1: stand on that. And I am right. That is an opinion,
• 21:47
  Speaker 1: of course. However, I am right on this opinion. And
• 21:51
  Speaker 1: the reason for it is we had the benefits of technology,
• 21:54
  Speaker 1: but it did not overwhelm us. We had the ability
• 21:58
  Speaker 1: and the trust of communities where we had neighbors who
• 22:02
  Speaker 1: looked out for your kids and had the the leeway
• 22:07
  Speaker 1: to scold your kids if they were acting up. Yeah.
• 22:12
  Speaker 1: Everybody wasn't gluten-free. Okay. And the fuck you ate some pizza.
• 22:18
  Speaker 1: Like you didn't, you know, you know what I was
• 22:21
  Speaker 1: talking about with my friend the other day, I was
• 22:23
  Speaker 1: talking about with my niece, I was talking about with
• 22:25
  Speaker 1: my niece because she has a child. And I was like,
• 22:30
  Speaker 1: I hope you're, you're, you know, going to raise this,
• 22:32
  Speaker 1: this child proper. You know, I don't want to have
• 22:34
  Speaker 1: to tell you how to be a parent, but you're
• 22:37
  Speaker 1: not going to have this child acting a fool. Because
• 22:41
  Speaker 1: we don't really play that in our family. We don't
• 22:45
  Speaker 1: really play that bad kid shit at all. And I
• 22:50
  Speaker 1: was like, one thing that these newfangled parents lost, a
• 22:56
  Speaker 1: recipe that was lost, that I enforced as an auntie
• 22:59
  Speaker 1: and as just a person in the world, and people
• 23:00
  Speaker 1: be looking at me crazy, don't interrupt adults. Talking about mommy, mommy.
• 23:07
  Speaker 1: I'm like, excuse me. They're looking at me crazy. Like
• 23:10
  Speaker 1: I'm like, you all see us talking. What do you want?
• 23:15
  Speaker 1: And the people looking at me, I'm like, I'm sorry.
• 23:17
  Speaker 1: I don't, maybe you allow children to come up to
• 23:19
  Speaker 1: you and interrupt your conversation, but I don't roll like that.
• 23:22
  Speaker 1: So is this your bad-ass kid? Because I didn't interrupt
• 23:26
  Speaker 1: my mother unless somebody's arm was dangling off. Okay. And
• 23:31
  Speaker 1: I still was nervous. What the fuck do you mean?
• 23:34
  Speaker 1: These are two adults talking. I know you see us talking.
• 23:38
  Speaker 1: So why are you walking over here, just walking in
• 23:41
  Speaker 1: the room announcing yourselves? You just go in the fridge
• 23:44
  Speaker 1: when you feel like it? You touch the thermostat? You
• 23:48
  Speaker 1: leave doors open?
• 23:50
  Speaker 2: Letting all the air out? Or mosquitoes in? That would
• 23:54
  Speaker 2: drive me crazy.
• 23:56
  Speaker 1: All of these things got my ass beat. You're not
• 23:58
  Speaker 1: getting your ass beat for any of them and you're
• 24:00
  Speaker 1: doing all of them.
• 24:02
  Speaker 2: It's different now. I'm guilty of this. I'm working on
• 24:06
  Speaker 2: some of these things as a parent.
• 24:08
  Speaker 1: Run all them bitches back. I did not lose the recipes.
• 24:11
  Speaker 1: I have them. They're all up here. I'm happy to
• 24:13
  Speaker 1: teach a parenting seminar. You see the child approaching. Yes.
• 24:18
  Speaker 1: If it makes a sound that does not include language
• 24:24
  Speaker 1: that implies that there is an emergency that will likely
• 24:27
  Speaker 1: end up in us going to the hospital, I We'll
• 24:31
  Speaker 1: hear the words, excuse me, before anything else comes out.
• 24:36
  Speaker 1: And then after, excuse me, it's still better be important.
• 24:40
  Speaker 1: May I have a glass of water? Yes, you may.
• 24:43
  Speaker 1: You may have a glass of water. You may not
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: have a soda because we all drink sodas right now
• 24:48
  Speaker 1: because it's late. Okay. What the fuck are you talking about?
• 24:52
  Speaker 1: They just do whatever. I'm like, I'm having a conversation
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: with an adult and they just walk out like, nanny.
• 24:58
  Speaker 2: Oh my goodness. It's yeah.
• 25:03
  Speaker 3: Listen you can tell those people by when you hang
• 25:06
  Speaker 3: out with them though like the ones that parents didn't
• 25:08
  Speaker 3: do that because y'all be in the middle of a
• 25:10
  Speaker 3: conversation y'all talking about subject a and they'll just walk
• 25:14
  Speaker 3: right in the middle of y'all and just talk i'm sorry.
• 25:16
  Speaker 2: Talking as an adult you mean as yeah and then
• 25:19
  Speaker 2: you just look at me like.
• 25:23
  Speaker 3: Nigga read the room what are you doing right now
• 25:27
  Speaker 3: like we're not even And that shit is really interesting.
• 25:31
  Speaker 3: Like even like our generation of us, how like you
• 25:35
  Speaker 3: can tell how people were raised by their parents by
• 25:38
  Speaker 3: the way that they hang out with their friends and
• 25:40
  Speaker 3: how they kind of like interject themselves into certain things
• 25:43
  Speaker 3: and how they're willing to change the conversation at any.
• 25:46
  Speaker 1: At any time. Like anyway, so this is what I
• 25:48
  Speaker 1: wanted to talk about. Listen, listen. It's incomprehensible to me.
• 25:58
  Speaker 1: that a child would walk up in the middle of
• 26:01
  Speaker 1: adults talking, not say, excuse me, not have an emergency and,
• 26:07
  Speaker 1: and the parents not freak out. I'd be looking at
• 26:09
  Speaker 1: them like, are you good? Kids do not, kids are
• 26:13
  Speaker 1: not in charge. No. Like I'm childish.
• 26:17
  Speaker 2: They think they are.
• 26:19
  Speaker 1: Like, you don't know, you don't have kids. Okay. Well,
• 26:22
  Speaker 1: your kids are a bane on society. Okay. Your kids suck.
• 26:26
  Speaker 1: You guys have no fucking manners. They have no discipline.
• 26:30
  Speaker 1: They're entitled and they're bad. And all of that is
• 26:35
  Speaker 1: the fucking truth. Get them in line. Because one day
• 26:39
  Speaker 1: they don't walk up with somebody who's bigger than them,
• 26:41
  Speaker 1: got more money than them. Don't give a fuck about
• 26:44
  Speaker 1: their little attitude. And they're going to be confused as
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: to why they are not getting the response that they want.
• 26:48
  Speaker 1: It's because you need to know your place.
• 26:52
  Speaker 2: This is true.
• 26:53
  Speaker 1: We all have places in society.
• 26:54
  Speaker 2: I can't disagree.
• 26:55
  Speaker 1: You're not in charge of everything. I'm not in charge
• 26:57
  Speaker 1: of everything. The fuck? I just walk in thinking everything
• 27:00
  Speaker 1: is for me? All this is all for me? No, bitch.
• 27:02
  Speaker 1: None of it's for you. Actually, you lucky to be
• 27:04
  Speaker 1: in the room. Mind your fucking business. Walking up, interrupting adults. Crazy. Crazy.
• 27:12
  Speaker 1: You know what else?
• 27:13
  Speaker 2: Speaking of the way that people were raised.
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: Men. The way.
• 27:23
  Speaker 2: That men live in their households? This is a conversation
• 27:27
  Speaker 2: going on. Okay. So there's a debate where women are
• 27:29
  Speaker 2: sharing the little trails of messes that their partners leave
• 27:33
  Speaker 2: around the house.
• 27:34
  Speaker 1: Okay.
• 27:35
  Speaker 2: So Specs, the people want to know what kind of
• 27:38
  Speaker 2: man you are.
• 27:40
  Speaker 1: Okay.
• 27:40
  Speaker 2: So we're going to ask you a few questions. Okay.
• 27:42
  Speaker 1: You ready? Yeah, I'm ready.
• 27:44
  Speaker 2: You take your clothes off. The hamper's right there. Are
• 27:47
  Speaker 2: you putting them in the hamper or is it on
• 27:49
  Speaker 2: the floor next to the laundry basket?
• 27:53
  Speaker 3: No, they go in the dirty clothes hamper.
• 27:55
  Speaker 2: You sure? Sure about that?
• 27:58
  Speaker 1: I'm sure. Okay. I'm sure.
• 28:00
  Speaker 3: If I was just outside for like two minutes, I'm like,
• 28:02
  Speaker 3: all right, let me put these to the side.
• 28:04
  Speaker 1: No, no, no. We're not talking about how often you
• 28:06
  Speaker 1: wash them. We're talking about like if they're dirty clothes.
• 28:08
  Speaker 1: If they dirty, dirty, they.
• 28:12
  Speaker 3: Go in the dirty clothes hamper for sure.
• 28:14
  Speaker 2: Absolutely.
• 28:14
  Speaker 3: They go in the dirty clothes hamper.
• 28:16
  Speaker 1: Okay. Yeah.
• 28:17
  Speaker 2: What about the cabinet doors? Are you shutting them? In
• 28:21
  Speaker 2: the drawers.
• 28:22
  Speaker 3: Well, that's a tricky question.
• 28:23
  Speaker 2: No, no, no.
• 28:23
  Speaker 1: I got ADD.
• 28:25
  Speaker 2: If you're finished with what's inside, you should shut the door.
• 28:28
  Speaker 1: You should.
• 28:29
  Speaker 3: You should shut the door. I'm probably shooting like 95%.
• 28:32
  Speaker 3: I'm shooting 95%. I'm not perfect.
• 28:35
  Speaker 1: I'm just a man.
• 28:39
  Speaker 2: What about abandoned socks in random rooms? Like there's a
• 28:42
  Speaker 2: sock in the middle of a couch cushion.
• 28:45
  Speaker 1: No, that's ratchet. No, no, no.
• 28:47
  Speaker 2: All right. So maybe you're getting a pass. You might
• 28:49
  Speaker 2: be getting a pass. Joy, I know you've dealt with this.
• 28:51
  Speaker 3: I had a sub mama, so.
• 28:55
  Speaker 1: I overall have been pretty lucky with the men that
• 29:03
  Speaker 1: I've lived with, with them not being dirty. I've had
• 29:08
  Speaker 1: a couple who were not the cleanest, but for the
• 29:15
  Speaker 1: most part, I've been pretty lucky. I'm trying to think
• 29:20
  Speaker 1: of like, you know, like maybe my early twenties, they
• 29:24
  Speaker 1: were not great, but overall I've had a, I've had
• 29:27
  Speaker 1: a good experience, like more clean than not, but I
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: have been in some insane environments. Like one of the
• 29:40
  Speaker 1: guys I was dating had his mattress on the floor
• 29:43
  Speaker 1: and his dog slept in the bed and not a
• 29:49
  Speaker 1: small dog, a massive dog. I was like, is this
• 29:52
  Speaker 1: a barn?
• 29:53
  Speaker 2: And he had, it wasn't like he just moved in.
• 29:56
  Speaker 2: Like that was his setup.
• 29:57
  Speaker 1: No, he did just move in, but like, don't invite
• 29:59
  Speaker 1: me over then. your house is not ready to have guests.
• 30:01
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 30:02
  Speaker 1: He had a beach towel as a towel. I said,
• 30:08
  Speaker 1: give me your credit card. Like the means he just
• 30:14
  Speaker 1: was incompetent. I was like, give me your credit card.
• 30:16
  Speaker 1: We're going to target. First of all, order a frame.
• 30:21
  Speaker 1: He was like, well, the bed frame hasn't come yet.
• 30:22
  Speaker 1: Get a metal frame. It's $ 30. And then go to
• 30:27
  Speaker 1: any furniture store and get a basic frame. It's $ 30
• 30:31
  Speaker 1: fucking dollars. Maybe it's $ 50. Donate it to a local
• 30:35
  Speaker 1: shelter when you're done. If you don't have the means, fine.
• 30:39
  Speaker 1: But he had the means. So first of all, I
• 30:41
  Speaker 1: made him get a regular metal frame that day. This
• 30:45
  Speaker 1: mattress is not staying on the floor. And your dog
• 30:47
  Speaker 1: better not go anywhere fucking near these sheets if I
• 30:49
  Speaker 1: plan on being in them. One. Two, we're going. We're
• 30:54
  Speaker 1: getting candles. We're getting... Lysol wipes. We're getting real towels. Okay.
• 31:01
  Speaker 1: We're getting plugins for the wall. Right. Okay. These are
• 31:06
  Speaker 1: things you need to have in your home so that
• 31:09
  Speaker 1: it's not disgusting. Okay. Get a little Swiffer for the floor.
• 31:13
  Speaker 1: Cause your, your, your fucking dog has hair everywhere. So, yeah,
• 31:17
  Speaker 1: I mean, I think, I think it's like the little
• 31:19
  Speaker 1: things like men just have, they have just like this
• 31:23
  Speaker 1: layer of scum that they just leave everywhere.
• 31:26
  Speaker 2: Not the layer of scum.
• 31:28
  Speaker 1: But you know what I'm talking about because you have two.
• 31:30
  Speaker 1: You have a young boy and a man in your home.
• 31:33
  Speaker 1: So don't tell me you don't know what I'm talking about.
• 31:35
  Speaker 1: Everywhere they go, it's just like a little film. It's
• 31:40
  Speaker 1: like when they brush their teeth, splashes on the mirror, right?
• 31:44
  Speaker 1: Which we all do, but women tend to clean it
• 31:47
  Speaker 1: immediately or the end of the day. I'm not just
• 31:50
  Speaker 1: going to look at my face with all these toothpastes.
• 31:54
  Speaker 1: spray all over the fucking mirror. They pee all over
• 31:57
  Speaker 1: the place.
• 31:58
  Speaker 2: Right.
• 31:59
  Speaker 1: They like, there's just, when they, when they shave, there's
• 32:02
  Speaker 1: all these like little hairs that they like, can't, they
• 32:05
  Speaker 1: can't seem to get all the little hairs. Right. It's
• 32:07
  Speaker 1: always just like something. It's just like a little something.
• 32:11
  Speaker 1: And I know I have OCD, but yeah, for the
• 32:15
  Speaker 1: most part, as a man, you almost have to be
• 32:17
  Speaker 1: more clean than a woman to compensate for the fact
• 32:21
  Speaker 1: that men are filthy. And I have been like really lucky.
• 32:26
  Speaker 1: Like I've, I've mostly been with men who have extreme OCD,
• 32:30
  Speaker 1: which is a character trait that I happen to love
• 32:33
  Speaker 1: because if I walk in your house and it is clean,
• 32:37
  Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, it's so sexy. Like it, it's sexy
• 32:42
  Speaker 1: to go into a man's home and it is clean. Like,
• 32:45
  Speaker 1: thank you. Because this is what a home is supposed
• 32:48
  Speaker 1: to look like.
• 32:49
  Speaker 2: My best friend's going through this right now. She's dating
• 32:51
  Speaker 2: someone and she was like, I, Didn't know I could
• 32:54
  Speaker 2: meet someone that matched my OCD and cleanliness. Like, I
• 32:57
  Speaker 2: didn't know that was possible.
• 32:58
  Speaker 1: Oh, good, good, good, good. I thought the opposite. Yeah. No,
• 33:00
  Speaker 1: Anna's somebody that has OCD and you know I have OCD. Yeah.
• 33:03
  Speaker 1: You've been to my house. Specs knows too. Like, everything
• 33:06
  Speaker 1: has a place. I might have a couple drawers that
• 33:09
  Speaker 1: are like for my, you know, my panic days that
• 33:12
  Speaker 1: I just throw everything and I get to later. But like,
• 33:14
  Speaker 1: everything is going to be put away. We can't just
• 33:16
  Speaker 1: have like piles of things everywhere. Like, if you come
• 33:19
  Speaker 1: to my house and there's piles of things everywhere, I'm
• 33:20
  Speaker 1: having a mental breakdown.
• 33:23
  Speaker 2: No, your house is very organized.
• 33:25
  Speaker 1: It has to be because one of I hate looking
• 33:28
  Speaker 1: for something and not being able to find it. It
• 33:30
  Speaker 1: is like it will ruin my day.
• 33:32
  Speaker 2: Just so you know, I just got three text messages
• 33:35
  Speaker 2: while we're filming this. Have you seen have you seen
• 33:37
  Speaker 2: these glasses? Do you know where the Timberlands are?
• 33:40
  Speaker 1: Have you seen?
• 33:40
  Speaker 2: Literally, I'm not kidding right now.
• 33:43
  Speaker 1: Well, you guys are going through a moving process. So
• 33:45
  Speaker 1: maybe I'll give a little grace there because things are
• 33:49
  Speaker 1: a bit disruptive.
• 33:50
  Speaker 2: But this just goes to show you how a woman's
• 33:52
  Speaker 2: brain works. I'm able to do this. See it in
• 33:54
  Speaker 2: the corner of my eye pop up and visualize the house.
• 33:57
  Speaker 1: Where they are. They're in this bag over here. We
• 34:02
  Speaker 1: are superior. I think I have passed fully over from
• 34:05
  Speaker 1: feminist to misandrist. I think I just have to accept that.
• 34:09
  Speaker 1: this character trait, but I do think women are superior. Like,
• 34:13
  Speaker 1: we just, we're better. With all due respect, like, there
• 34:17
  Speaker 1: are men I truly love, but, like, we are better.
• 34:21
  Speaker 2: That's why I have superwoman in my bio. I feel
• 34:24
  Speaker 2: like superwoman. Every day.
• 34:26
  Speaker 1: Yeah. I mean, you have to be, otherwise, most part.
• 34:29
  Speaker 3: Y'all have a lot of societal pressures that kind of, like,
• 34:32
  Speaker 3: force y'all to have to, like.
• 34:35
  Speaker 2: But you don't think men don't?
• 34:37
  Speaker 1: Huh?
• 34:37
  Speaker 2: You don't think men have societal pressures?
• 34:39
  Speaker 1: It's like useless. They're all fucking useless. Muscles and dick? Great.
• 34:47
  Speaker 1: After that, what else?
• 34:48
  Speaker 2: You can get some use out of those.
• 34:52
  Speaker 1: We do get use out of those. I love having
• 34:54
  Speaker 1: a man to pick things up and put them down.
• 34:57
  Speaker 1: Love it.
• 34:57
  Speaker 2: We love muscles and dick.
• 34:59
  Speaker 1: What are you talking about? You know what? I want
• 35:03
  Speaker 1: to talk about this in the next episode. I'm going
• 35:04
  Speaker 1: to send you a video that I saw recently. I
• 35:06
  Speaker 1: actually think I did send it to you, but to
• 35:10
  Speaker 1: piggyback off of what Spex is saying. We have an
• 35:14
  Speaker 1: accountability problem with men where we just do not hold
• 35:20
  Speaker 1: men accountable. And it has created this environment in our
• 35:25
  Speaker 1: society where they do not have to do things. And
• 35:28
  Speaker 1: you see it a lot with parenting. There's all these
• 35:31
  Speaker 1: parenting conversations about how men who are active fathers are
• 35:36
  Speaker 1: just shocked at how much praise they get for doing
• 35:39
  Speaker 1: basic things because their fathers did not do shit. And like,
• 35:46
  Speaker 1: you know, men who are actually trying to be active
• 35:49
  Speaker 1: fathers or are doing things that their partners are making
• 35:52
  Speaker 1: them do, you know, holding them accountable are like, it's
• 35:56
  Speaker 1: like shocking that, you know, this is considered to be
• 35:59
  Speaker 1: like a super dad. And it's like, you are literally
• 36:02
  Speaker 1: changing a diaper and taking them on a walk. Yeah. It's,
• 36:07
  Speaker 1: it's not that big of a deal. But yeah, I mean, like,
• 36:10
  Speaker 1: and then the horror stories of men who are just
• 36:13
  Speaker 1: completely uninvolved and they rely on their partner because somebody
• 36:17
  Speaker 1: has to do it. And usually when there's kids involved,
• 36:19
  Speaker 1: it's like, okay, well, you're not going to do it.
• 36:21
  Speaker 1: Someone has to do it. And it usually falls on
• 36:24
  Speaker 1: the woman being the primary parent. The biggest, the biggest
• 36:27
  Speaker 1: thing I think like that has changed with that is
• 36:30
  Speaker 1: saying that a man is babysitting when he is parenting
• 36:34
  Speaker 1: his child. And I would correct other people. We're like, oh,
• 36:36
  Speaker 1: like he's babysitting tonight. He's not babysitting. It's his child.
• 36:39
  Speaker 2: It's his child.
• 36:40
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 36:41
  Speaker 2: He's just with his child.
• 36:43
  Speaker 1: He's just with his child. He's not babysitting. That's not what,
• 36:47
  Speaker 1: who would ever say that about a woman with their kids? No. Oh,
• 36:50
  Speaker 1: she's babysitting. It's literally her kids.
• 36:55
  Speaker 2: No.
• 36:57
  Speaker 1: Crazy. Yeah.
• 37:00
  Speaker 2: It's different. Men are different.
• 37:02
  Speaker 1: Yeah. We're going to get into it next episode.
• 37:08
  Speaker 2: Would you rather?
• 37:08
  Speaker 1: Oh, it's time for would you rather. Okay.
• 37:10
  Speaker 2: Yes. And there was a few good ones that I liked,
• 37:13
  Speaker 2: but this one was partner themed and I thought it
• 37:15
  Speaker 2: went with the theme of the episode. So would you
• 37:18
  Speaker 2: rather have a partner who does everything right, but never
• 37:21
  Speaker 2: makes you laugh? I mean, everything right. Like they've got OCD.
• 37:25
  Speaker 2: They're an active father, but boring as hell and you
• 37:28
  Speaker 2: never laugh. Or would Have a partner who makes you
• 37:31
  Speaker 2: laugh every day, but constantly gets on your nerves.
• 37:37
  Speaker 1: No. At first. Absolutely not.
• 37:41
  Speaker 2: The first one?
• 37:41
  Speaker 1: No. I can't do that. Like, he's constantly fucking up.
• 37:45
  Speaker 2: Yeah, he's just on your nerves every day.
• 37:48
  Speaker 1: No. But he makes you laugh. He's funny. No. I'm funny.
• 37:50
  Speaker 1: He's an irritating comedian. I'll be funny enough for the
• 37:54
  Speaker 1: both of us. Absolutely not. I'll watch some funny reels. No. I...
• 37:59
  Speaker 1: have been driven to my complete wits end with people
• 38:03
  Speaker 1: who are fuck ups in relationships and in life and
• 38:07
  Speaker 1: in business. I don't have the nerves for it anymore. No,
• 38:11
  Speaker 1: get everything right. You can be boring. I will, I,
• 38:15
  Speaker 1: I will make myself laugh. I do it. I do
• 38:18
  Speaker 1: it all the time. Anyway, we'll get a good little chuckle.
• 38:22
  Speaker 1: Absolutely not. What would you, what would you do?
• 38:25
  Speaker 2: I would do the same. I can't. I'm irritated all
• 38:27
  Speaker 2: the time. One thing about me, I hate being irritated. Like,
• 38:34
  Speaker 2: I think I hate it more than being angry. Being
• 38:36
  Speaker 2: irritated is ugh.
• 38:39
  Speaker 1: No. Mm-mm. Yeah. I'm spaz.
• 38:44
  Speaker 2: I feel like you want to laugh every day, Specs.
• 38:46
  Speaker 3: I am the laugh.
• 38:48
  Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. When you're funny, I'm like, I
• 38:51
  Speaker 1: don't need you to be. I would love a funny person,
• 38:53
  Speaker 1: but like, no, I don't need. No, no, no, no, no.
• 38:55
  Speaker 1: You can't be irritating me every fucking day.
• 38:58
  Speaker 3: I'm the Kiki.
• 38:58
  Speaker 2: I'm the Kiki.
• 38:59
  Speaker 1: You're the Kiki?
• 39:01
  Speaker 3: That's probably how a bunch of my exes feel about me.
• 39:04
  Speaker 1: Shit.
• 39:06
  Speaker 2: You see, they thought you was fucking up, but you
• 39:08
  Speaker 2: was funny.
• 39:08
  Speaker 1: You're the funny fuck up. That's, you know what? That's
• 39:12
  Speaker 1: good self-awareness specs.
• 39:15
  Speaker 2: Funny fuck up is crazy. Put my mic on mute now. Oh, man.
• 39:22
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• 39:27
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