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Romeo In The Morning 4-24-26 · Romeo In The Morning

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  Speaker 1: That was going on.
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  Speaker 2: Everybody, it's Romeo. We made it to Friday. We talked
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  a little bit today about should you and your spouse
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  go to bed at the same time? Who does who doesn't. Also,
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  we talked about being Bakersfield right, some of the things
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  that make you unique to Bakersfield. And we took a
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  couple of shots at the Raider fans. Talk about a
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  buddy of mine. He was asking me about red flags
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  between him and his wife. Now, him and his wife
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  have been married for nearly twenty years. They've been married, right,
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  and as far as I know, they're happily married. Now
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  he's he's he's like a lot of guys. You know,
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  they get up early to go to work.
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  Speaker 1: He works out. You know, he's got a.
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  Speaker 2: Construction job or something like that. But he gets up early.
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  So he's up at three in the morning, four in
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  the morning, you know, getting ready to go to work.
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  And I guess he says, him and his wife stop
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  going to bed at the same time. Now, I know
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  she has some sort of office job.
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  Speaker 1: Where she works.
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  Speaker 2: She I think she goes in at eight, if I
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  remember correctly, seven or eight something like that. So obviously
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  there's a three hour time difference between when they head
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  off to work. So he said that they used to
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  go to bed at the same time and now or
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  go to bed together, whatever that meant. And now he's
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  a little he says he doesn't know what's going on
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  or if anything is going on, because now you know,
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  she goes to bed later than he does he but
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  he has to get up earlier.
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  Speaker 1: So he thinks he just called.
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  Speaker 2: To ask me if something was going on. If I
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  thought that was a red flag. To be honest with you,
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  I didn't even know that people went to bed at
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  the same people went to bed together anymore.
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  Speaker 1: I didn't even know that was a thing.
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  Speaker 2: I thought that was something your grandparents did, right, you know,
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  because everybody has different schedules nowadays kids when you got kids,
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  different jobs, Guys go to work earlier or later. I mean,
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  the dynamic has changed to a lot, right, So what
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  do you guys.
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  Speaker 1: Think they do? You guys go to do people still.
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  Speaker 2: Go to bed at the same time already fourteen to
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  five four or seven seven.
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  Speaker 1: And I don't think it's a red flag.
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  Speaker 2: I think she just you know, I think they're just
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  on different schedules, that's all. Even though he did say
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  it has it's been a month or two. I think
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  this just started a couple of months ago, so this
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  is fairly new. I guess that's why he's concerned about
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  it already four two ft four or seven as seven.
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  So a buddy of mine, he's uh, he said, him
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  and his wife, I guess recently stopped going to bed
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  at the same time.
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  Speaker 1: So get he gets up early, though he gets up
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  about three or four in the morning. She doesn't, you know,
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  she starts at eight or nine something like that.
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  Speaker 2: So obviously they have two they have hours between their schedules.
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  So he goes to bed a little earlier, he said. Now,
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  they used to go to bed at the same time,
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  but a couple of months, last couple of months, he's
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  been staying up later, which he doesn't really know if
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  that's a red flag or not.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't think it is. I mean,
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  you guys have been married.
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  Speaker 2: You guys been married for twenty years. I don't I
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  have twenty something years. I don't think it's a red flag.
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  I think she's just staying up later. I mean, maybe
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  she doesn't want to go to bed anymore at as
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  early as you right, I don't know already fourteen five
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  four seven to seven, would you send me here, Hey, roam,
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  she's just staying up later to watch the late night
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  novellas well. Maybe, I mean, I mean these phones. Maybe
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  she's on her phone, Maybe she's scrolling on her phone.
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  I mean, these phones keep you guys up as well.
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  So I don't I don't know. I just told them
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  I didn't think there was I don't think.
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  Speaker 1: There's an issue.
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  Speaker 2: I think their marriage is still good. I don't think
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  there's anything change. I think she's just you know, in fact,
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  I just assume people go to bed at different times.
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  I mean, with the hectic lives that so many of
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  you have, you know, some of you go to work
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  earlier than others. Some of you got kids to get up,
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  some of you got you know, moms and dads have
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  different schedules. So I would just assume that you guys
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  go to bed at different times. It never even occurred
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  to me that people that married couples still even go
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  to bed at the same time. Never would have occurred
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  to me already four two five fours seven.
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  Speaker 1: It's no.
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  Speaker 2: A friend of mine and he was cocking me the
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  other day, and he was asking me about his wife.
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  Him and his wife, I've known them for she's I've
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  known them. We went to college together, so I know
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  them a long time. But they've been married for about
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  twenty years, I think something like that in nineteen eight
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  something on there. And he was telling me recently they
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  just he started they just started going to bed separately,
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  not separately, but at different times.
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  Speaker 1: They used to go to bed together.
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  Speaker 2: And he said the last couple of months that she
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  has started going to bed later. But to be fair
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  about the situation, he gets up early. I mean, he
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  gets up at three o'clock in the morning or three
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  thirty in the morning, something like that, and she goes
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  to work later than that. She's got a regular job,
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  you know, and she gets up at or I don't
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  know when she gets up, but she doesn't have to
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  be worked till later or nine. Something like That's some
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  you know, like an office type job. But he said,
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  the last couple of months they stopped going to bed
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  at the same time. That doesn't seem odd to me.
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  He thinks it's odd, but I mean, look at it
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  like this.
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  Speaker 1: Here's how this was my first thought.
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  Speaker 2: When he told me, remember all your moms, your Mexican moms.
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  Remember how they made your dad tortilla's home fresh made
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  tortillas every day before he went to work. And now
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  after about now does she even get up. She don't
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  even make them lunch no more. Right after about twenty years,
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  she stopped making those fresh home made tortillas for him
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  when he went to work. That's what I think about it.
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  That's how I see it. I think, man, he just's
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  she wants to stay up later.
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  Speaker 1: Nothing. I don't think there's anything going on.
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  Speaker 2: I think she's just you've been together twenty years, probably
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  longer you've been together, but you've been married, so she
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  just wants to go to bed later. You know, she
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  probably accommodated you while you were younger, in your younger years,
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  just like the you know, the Mexican that accommodated her
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  husband and made him tortillas every morning, fresh tortillas, got
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  up when he got up to go to work to
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  make the tortillas, and now she doesn't. Well, things change,
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  you know, people get complacent over the years. I don't
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  think it's a red flag already fourteen five or seven
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  to seven rom yes, the major red flag if going
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  to bed together was something they've always done, unless their
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  schedules changed suddenly, then it might make sense. My husband's
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  work schedule changed, and so did my sleep schedule along
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  with his, just so we make sure we go to
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  bed together regardless of the work schedules changing. I honestly
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  didn't even know that married couples went to went to
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  bed together anymore.
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  Speaker 1: I honestly didn't know that people still going to bed together, I.
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  Speaker 2: Mean, not going to bed together at the same time.
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  Husbands and wives go to bed together at the same time.
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  I thought that was once women really started working. I
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  just assumed that that was a thing of the past, right,
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  because but you have different schedules. How do you How
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  can you go to bed at the same time if
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  you have different schedules?
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  Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying? All righty? Four two, five,
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  four or seven seven? Gordon? How it was going on?
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  Speaker 3: Good morning, Romeo? What are we talking about this morning? Oh?
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  Speaker 2: Friend of mine is worried about his wife stopped going
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  to bed together at the same time.
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  Speaker 1: That something's going on.
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  Speaker 4: Good God, any mighty, I don't go to the bad same
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  time as my husband.
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  Speaker 3: What the heck?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I didn't think anybody did. I didn't even know
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  that was a thing. To be honest.
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  Speaker 3: Me, neither. When that started happening, then something wrong. We
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  don't we about to die. If that what's happening. We're
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  going to bed.
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  Speaker 1: That's awesome, that's all right, thanks for calling. Why. I mean,
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  I just I figure, you know, people are even people
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  in marriage. It's not the same, you know what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 2: It's not like, you know, it's not like the old
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  days when you know, she you know, the wife stayed
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  at home and the husband went to work, and so
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  they go to bed together.
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  Speaker 1: At the same time.
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  Speaker 2: I just assumed, you know, everybody has a job in
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  the house, you know, nobody's everybody's got things to do
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  at the house. And some of some husbands and wives
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  get up earlier than other husbands and wives, so they
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  don't go to bed at the same time because of
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  the different, you know, different schedules in their lives. But
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  somebody said it's a red flag.
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  Speaker 1: I didn't. I didn't realize that.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, oh, oh, alrighty four two four or seven
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  to seven. I mean, I just I told them not
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  to worry about it. I mean, things change, especially over decades.
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  Things change already four two five four or seven to
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  seven and somebody.
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  Speaker 1: I guess he was a little he's a little concerned.
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  Speaker 2: I guess him and his wife been married around twenty
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  years or so. I think they met him being married
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  longer than that. But he was asking me if it
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  was a red flag that they stopped going to bed
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  together at the same time.
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  Speaker 1: Now, mind you, this this happened a few months ago.
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  Speaker 2: I guess it's and I don't know if it's all
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  the time.
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  Speaker 1: But you know, she has a job, he has a job.
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  They get up at different times.
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  Speaker 2: I can understand why she might go to bed later
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  than you, or you earlier than her.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, just because it's a change.
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  Speaker 2: I don't think it's a change that means something's wrong.
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  Speaker 1: Borrey. Not what's going on?
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  Speaker 3: Marty Romeo? Hey? What up? Hey man? You know my
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  wife and not we have the same situation.
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  Speaker 5: Man, But you know, I drive the truck and I
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  have to be at my work at four or fifteen.
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  My wife starts work at age.
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  Speaker 1: Okay.
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  Speaker 6: You know she stays up, watches her like dayline pre
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  recorded shows.
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  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, yeah yeah.
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  Speaker 5: By not only that too, you know.
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  Speaker 6: I pick up my grandson and she spends.
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  Speaker 3: Time with her grandson, and we cooked dinner. So she
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  stays up a later kitchen and I go to bed
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  about seven thirty years he goes at ten o'clock.
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  Speaker 5: So, man, I want to sport to worry about anything,
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  and then what to day, Like Tay's gonna mess her
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  round and she's been on a bed, you know.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, I was arely just to get used to it.
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  Speaker 1: Just said that to all this, you know, that's funny.
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  All right, all right, man, thanks for calling. I mean
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  I just figured people have different schedules.
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  Speaker 2: That's why I never even thought people still still did
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  go to bed together, you know.
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  Speaker 1: To be honest with you, all right, I mean go
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  to bed at.
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  Speaker 2: The same time, yo, roam. Me and my wife go
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  to the room together. But she still watched her shows
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  while I go to sleep. Sometimes it's so hard, by
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  the way, do you guys ever I did that the
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  other night.
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  Speaker 3: You know.
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  Speaker 2: I turned on the television and I thought, you know
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  what I'm gonna lead this.
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  Speaker 1: It was some show that I had.
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  Speaker 2: Seen a million times so you could just listen to it,
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  and I thought, oh, I'll go to sleep. But man,
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  I thought about ten minutes in, I just turned the
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  TV off and just the silence was amazing. Just sitting
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  there in silence, even though I still wasn't really tired,
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  you know, I didn't feel like I was ready to
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  go to sleep. That's why I put the show on.
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  But oh, just laying there in that silence was therapeutic.
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  Speaker 1: A eroam.
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  Speaker 2: Married couples don't go to bed together anymore. They go
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  to bed with.
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  Speaker 1: Their sancho or sancho. Yeah, that might be true.
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  Speaker 2: That might be true already fourteen five, four or seven
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  to seven.
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  Speaker 6: Okay, because she tells me often that she cannot sleep
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  without me next to her. So she'll talk and turn
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  and tell greater days, ready to go to sleep, and
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  then once I lay down and watch TV, she fall asleep.
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  Speaker 1: Well there you go. Congratulations.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm up watching Netflix with my puffs.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, congratulations.
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  Speaker 1: I'm glad you found your soul, made Dave.
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  Speaker 6: Some couple to have that connection, and if you don't
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  have it, then you're wasting your time.
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  Speaker 1: Okay.
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  Speaker 2: I you know, this whole going to bed together thing,
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  I think as I don't really know what to think
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  about it, raider Dave does. That's how I found We
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  go to bed together. We you know that that means
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  something I don't know if it does.
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  Speaker 1: Maybe it does, I just I don't know. You know,
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  I'm not totally sure. I think.
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  Speaker 2: The idea of couples going to bed together has changed
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  because life is different now. You have more options to
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  stay up if you want to stay up, with phones
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  and television and whatever.
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  Speaker 1: The case may be. So maybe Raider Dave is right.
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  Speaker 2: Maybe because there are so many more options of not
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  going to bed rather than going to bed with your
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  spouse that couples who still go to bed together, maybe
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  they are. So maybe Raider Dave's right. Maybe that does
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  mean something now that I think about it, Maybe it
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  does mean more for your relationship that you guys go
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  to bed together, you know, obviously with phones and iPads
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  and television and all the distractions that could keep you
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  away from your spouse.
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  Speaker 1: Maybe rayder Dave's right. Maybe I'll give him this one.
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  He might be right.
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  Speaker 3: Hey, Royal, what's going on? Is?
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  Speaker 1: We ain't what I bangel?
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  Speaker 3: Hey?
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  Speaker 7: You know what I'm sitting here thinking with you. I
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  can't even track by myself.
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  Speaker 3: Could you imagine you go to bedcar I know it,
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  I couldn't.
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  Speaker 5: My good program the door to where I.
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  Speaker 3: Opened the door and.
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  Speaker 5: He'll recognize my place and learn, Hey, he's on his
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  way out by way.
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  Speaker 1: I guess we're traditional.
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  Speaker 7: I'm going to bed, honey, I'm on my way.
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  Speaker 1: That's well.
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  Speaker 2: I don't think that there's anything wrong with that other
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  than yeah, I don't think there's anything wrong with that.
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  Speaker 3: But oh man, all.
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  Speaker 1: Right, Angel Angel felt like he got a little cold
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  or something. I don't know. I just you know.
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  Speaker 2: Now, the more I sit here and I think about
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  what Raider Dave said, and it is, hey, you have
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  a cheese fan.
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  Speaker 1: I bumped into a raider.
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  Speaker 2: I bumped into raider Dave, and we got uh and
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  we got Mendoza. We're winning the Super Bowl. Yeah, Menosa
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  is not even gonna start. You got Kirk Cousins. There
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  might be some real truth to what Raider Dave said.
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  You know, couples who still go to bed together at
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  the same time might have a better connection. They might
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  actually love each other more than those of you that don't.
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  Then the wife who stays up on the iPad or
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  the husband who stays up playing video games or watching TV,
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  and there might be some validity to that. I'm raider Dave,
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  I might have to give you. I might have to
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  give you a Dave, I might be on your side
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  on that one. You're right, I think the couples that
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  go to bed now that I now that now, that
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  greater day put it in that perspective being soulmates, which
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  I still don't believe in soulmates. But the fact that
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  there are so many distractions you apart in your marriage
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  or in your relationship, that going to bed together might
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  actually mean something. It might it might mean more than
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  we're giving it credit for already four two four or
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  seven to seven.
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  Speaker 5: You're a room you.
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  Speaker 3: Think it's an eighth thing.
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  Speaker 1: No, you know, No, I don't.
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  Speaker 6: Me and my wife we're like that.
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  Speaker 5: I just we're just like ready for bed, yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Or I don't.
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  Speaker 3: I don't think you're ready for bed.
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  Speaker 5: We always we go to bed together.
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  Speaker 1: I just I don't. But yeah, I've known you in
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  your life a long time, right, So I just I mean,
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  I think that it's not an age thing.
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  Speaker 2: I think it's more of I just think it really
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  says a lot more about couples and who really care
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  about each other than it does. I mean, Raider Dave
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  gave me an epiphany about the fact that it's so
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  simple and with all the distraction we have for to
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  still go to bed with your spouse when they go
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  to bed. I mean, I think that really does show
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  something about a couple who really loves loves each other.
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  Speaker 1: I don't think it has anything to do. I mean,
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  think about it like this, Joe. When you're young, you're.
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  Speaker 2: You're going to bed together because you want to have
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  sex as you as you as you get into that
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  middle age, and you're still going to bed together, you
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  love each other.
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  Speaker 1: I just I think it's I.
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  Speaker 6: Don't think age.
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  Speaker 1: Don't tell you why that.
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  Speaker 2: I think with all all the distractions and how much
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  time people spend away from their spouses every day with
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  work and kids and and and and travel, ball and
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  all this other nonsense that get in the way of
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  your relationship, to not go to bed together shows something
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  that just shows one more thing that you Yeah, I.
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  Speaker 5: Think, yeah, being a parent too, because that's where you
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  share like, uh, Johnny did this or Mary did that?
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  Speaker 7: Yeah?
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  Speaker 1: Are you right?
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  Speaker 5: You know, and this happened. We always used to like
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  decompress with the kids when we would go to bed,
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  and now they're adults, and you know, it's just more
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  like we'll go she'll go through their tablet and I
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  got to have it dark.
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  Speaker 3: And she knows it. So I'll just say, hey.
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  Speaker 2: Time for well, I mean just But that's another thing, though, Joe,
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  is that was the few minutes in people's lives when
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  they didn't weren't sitting at the dinner table talking to
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  their kids talking. But that was a few minutes where
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  a husband and wife or a couple had to chance
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  to just sit with each other and exactly and that
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  doesn't happening.
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  Speaker 1: So I think, no, I don't think it's age.
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  Speaker 2: I think that people who go to bed together actually
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  love each other more and care about each other more
• 18:11
  than couples who don't.
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  Speaker 1: To be honest with you, you might have you might have
• 18:14
  something there, Da Dad, damn Raider day finally came to.
• 18:17
  Speaker 5: We had We just had our twenty seven year anniversary.
• 18:20
  So yeah, you could be on something there.
• 18:22
  Speaker 2: All right, thanks for going right, all right. I can't
• 18:26
  even take credit for it. It was Raider Dave who's
• 18:28
  changed everything.
• 18:29
  Speaker 5: This one big roam, this, this big boy going on.
• 18:35
  Speaker 1: Big boy, I'm.
• 18:36
  Speaker 7: Gonna have to disagree.
• 18:38
  Speaker 8: Bro.
• 18:40
  Speaker 7: I just we don't go to we don't go to
• 18:42
  sleep at.
• 18:43
  Speaker 3: The same time.
• 18:43
  Speaker 1: Now, go to sleep, Go to bed. There are two
• 18:46
  different things.
• 18:46
  Speaker 5: Go to bed at the same time. We don't go
• 18:48
  to bed at the same time.
• 18:49
  Speaker 6: Okay, Ever, thirty seven years together.
• 18:57
  Speaker 7: And we don't go to bed together.
• 18:59
  Speaker 5: I mean, I get up at two in the morning,
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  so usually by seven, seven thirty, I'm in bed.
• 19:05
  Speaker 7: Okay, you know with the boys, you know what I mean,
• 19:07
  they're reading.
• 19:09
  Speaker 1: And I am gonna.
• 19:11
  Speaker 2: I am gonna say this because I've known you for
• 19:14
  so long. You guys spend so much time together.
• 19:21
  Speaker 5: I was following you for far more, so I was
• 19:24
  calling you for That's why.
• 19:25
  Speaker 2: You're probably of couples, big boy, that of couples, you're
• 19:30
  probably five percent that spends so much time together that
• 19:36
  I could agree with what you're saying.
• 19:39
  Speaker 1: I could agree with what you're saying.
• 19:41
  Speaker 7: And that's what I was getting.
• 19:42
  Speaker 6: That we're always we always do stuff together and have
• 19:45
  a family.
• 19:45
  Speaker 7: We're always together, you know what I mean.
• 19:47
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what I mean. You're always together. So that
• 19:50
  that changes the dynamic a little bit. Yeah, yeah, all.
• 19:53
  Speaker 6: Right, So that as long as we're on the take,
• 19:57
  I don't agree.
• 20:00
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you're right.
• 20:02
  Speaker 7: Sad, but I just it doesn't really, it doesn't count
• 20:05
  to me, and I mean, well, that doesn't pertain to me.
• 20:08
  Speaker 2: Yeah, but most people don't spend as much time with
• 20:11
  their wife as you do.
• 20:12
  Speaker 1: Most people don't either. Most people just don't. It's not
• 20:15
  that's not normal.
• 20:16
  Speaker 2: I mean it's normal, but it's not normal by society standards.
• 20:19
  Speaker 1: That's not normal, uh, for people to spend Leonard, Yeah,
• 20:25
  I'm big boys right.
• 20:26
  Speaker 2: I mean, he doesn't make sense because they spend so
• 20:29
  much time together in their in their day. You know,
• 20:32
  they say that couples only spend about four hours a
• 20:35
  day with each other or something like that because of work,
• 20:38
  because of other commitments like kids and sports and and
• 20:42
  family and some some of you always just don't like
• 20:45
  each other so you try to avoid each other. But
• 20:47
  I mean, I think the average is like four hours
• 20:50
  a day or something like that that you see your
• 20:53
  actual spouse and have time to spend with them, and
• 20:57
  then you still find other things to do, like sit
• 20:59
  on your phone, watch TV, whatever the case may be. Yeah,
• 21:02
  big boy spends uh, far more than four hours a
• 21:06
  day with his wife already four two, five, four or
• 21:09
  seven to seven.
• 21:10
  Speaker 1: So the going to.
• 21:10
  Speaker 2: Bed thing, me, the going to bed thing is uh,
• 21:15
  I think it's really important going to bed together even
• 21:18
  if you don't go to sleep together. And I think
• 21:19
  that people who still go to bed together, I do
• 21:22
  believe love each other more, care about each other more
• 21:26
  even And I was gonna say kind of something similar
• 21:29
  to that with Big Boy, Like I get up at
• 21:30
  three am. Some of you guys will get up at three,
• 21:34
  four five in the morning, right. And some of you
• 21:37
  has stay at home wives. Some of you have wives
• 21:40
  that have jobs. You know, they get up at eight,
• 21:42
  they got to be there at eight, you know, kind
• 21:44
  of normal time, and they'll still go to bed with you.
• 21:48
  They'll still go to bed with you, even if even
• 21:50
  if it's just to be in bed with you. Sometimes
• 21:52
  they might stay on their phone or watch a little
• 21:54
  TV while you fall asleep. But there is something to
• 21:58
  the fact that they will still go to bed with
• 22:01
  you when you go to bed. I think that means
• 22:05
  a lot more than you give it credit for at
• 22:08
  this point in life about going to bed together, right,
• 22:11
  let's say, Rome, Hey, Rome, I agree with rayder Dave.
• 22:15
  Even a broken clockus twice is right. Twice a day,
• 22:19
  it's important to go to bed with At the same time,
• 22:22
  relationships are stronger, and the more you make a point
• 22:26
  to spend time with one another. Going to bed at.
• 22:29
  Speaker 1: The same time helps.
• 22:30
  Speaker 2: That helps that, especially when everyone is so busy nowadays.
• 22:35
  Big Boys right too, You have to make time to
• 22:38
  spend with your wife. A lot of time I can't do.
• 22:41
  I can't do to work. We're going our thirty six
• 22:46
  year together, twenty eight married. When home, I do my
• 22:49
  best to have quality time in our relationship.
• 22:54
  Speaker 1: Have a blessed one. Bro Rader James, Yeah, I mean,
• 22:56
  they're both. Here's the thing, though, and you're both right.
• 23:00
  You're both right.
• 23:03
  Speaker 2: Is with all the distractions in your life, everything that's happening,
• 23:08
  and this is I'm gonna start with raid or day,
• 23:11
  with all the distractions in your life, your kids, your jobs,
• 23:17
  with the internet, with streaming, with everything there is to
• 23:21
  distract you, and how easy it is to communicate with
• 23:26
  people through text messaging, with everything there is to distract
• 23:29
  you from your relationship. The people that go to bed together,
• 23:36
  I think really do love each other more because that
• 23:39
  really does mean something. It really does. But Big Boy
• 23:45
  see Big Boys a little different though, because Big Boy
• 23:47
  is such a family man that every minute he's awake
• 23:54
  and not at work, even when he's at work, he
• 23:57
  spends time with his with his family, with his wife,
• 24:01
  Big Boy, Big Boys the only guy.
• 24:03
  Speaker 1: Well, big Boy is the only guy I know. Actually
• 24:07
  that's not true. There's one another guy I know.
• 24:08
  Speaker 2: Big Boy is the only guy I know that takes
• 24:11
  time out of his work day to spend with his family,
• 24:15
  whether it be his kids or why he takes those
• 24:18
  moments that to be with his family. So I don't
• 24:22
  know many of you guys like that. There are very
• 24:25
  few men out there who will go to work and
• 24:28
  stop during their workday to see their wife or to
• 24:31
  see their kids. It just you guys all can't gotta work.
• 24:36
  So Big Boy's a little bit different. But there's a
• 24:41
  lot of truth to the fact that. Man, if you
• 24:44
  go to bed with your spouse every night, that that
• 24:49
  just shows you're taking care of you know, you're taking
• 24:55
  care of your relationship. You care about your relationship a
• 24:58
  lot more.
• 24:59
  Speaker 1: You know.
• 25:02
  Speaker 2: Yeah, just people don't care about their relationship anymore. There's
• 25:05
  way too many distractions. It seems like people are just
• 25:07
  together nowadays so they don't have to be alone. And reality,
• 25:12
  how much are you really alone? How many of you
• 25:16
  really believe you and your spouse aren't just roommates, you know,
• 25:23
  because I bet if you really broke down your daily routine,
• 25:27
  your weekly routine, your monthly routine, you'd you might as
• 25:31
  well just be roommates.
• 25:33
  Speaker 8: To be honest with you, Romeo, it's so funny you
• 25:35
  talk about this because me and my man we go
• 25:38
  to sleep all the time together. But it's always been
• 25:40
  like that. But when he works, because he works out
• 25:43
  of state, so he can't take time off to come
• 25:46
  see us, but he does call me all day every day.
• 25:49
  That's why I don't understand when people say they don't
• 25:50
  have time to call somebody, But he calls me when
• 25:54
  he's on days, which he is now. He calls me
• 25:57
  at night every night to go to sleep together on
• 25:59
  the phone.
• 26:02
  Speaker 1: That's old school. By the way, show you.
• 26:03
  Speaker 8: My call ong from last night. He called me at
• 26:05
  ten thirty and the call is six hours and fifteen
• 26:09
  minutes long. When I woke up at five and hung
• 26:11
  up the phone.
• 26:12
  Speaker 1: That's that's old school. That's old school.
• 26:15
  Speaker 8: Used to do that when I'm busy, you know, he
• 26:17
  understands really home with the kids, I'm getting up this morning,
• 26:21
  get ready for work. And that's why I think it's
• 26:23
  so funny, because he calls me every are you ready
• 26:25
  for both? Much longer because I'm like, I'm doing digit,
• 26:28
  I'm getting our stuff right, okay, and goes back to
• 26:32
  sleepcause he has, you know, twelve to sixteen hour days.
• 26:35
  Speaker 1: That is great. That's actually no excuse.
• 26:39
  Speaker 8: You guys are crazy. I love me, I love you.
• 26:42
  Speaker 3: That's love.
• 26:44
  Speaker 8: You could say otherwise, well that you're right.
• 26:47
  Speaker 2: It absolutely, it is it absolutely, And if more and
• 26:50
  more people went back to thinking about that and feeling
• 26:53
  that way about each other, they'd probably be happier.
• 26:55
  Speaker 1: In their marriages. They're happier in their relationships.
• 26:57
  Speaker 8: You're right exactly. We've been together twenty fourteen.
• 27:02
  Speaker 1: Twelve years. Oh that's a good run. It's a good run.
• 27:05
  Speaker 8: Still going, still going strong.
• 27:06
  Speaker 6: Oh you know, God, keep going.
• 27:08
  Speaker 1: Oh my god, that's so yeah.
• 27:09
  Speaker 8: I didn't even realize people didn't go to bed together.
• 27:12
  Speaker 2: I was like, what, Oh no, what I would probably
• 27:15
  say eighty percent of couples don't go to bed together,
• 27:18
  probably more than that.
• 27:18
  Speaker 8: Oh my god.
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, No, couples don't love each other anymore. They
• 27:22
  just spend time with day.
• 27:23
  Speaker 2: They just get together so they're not so they feel
• 27:25
  like they're not alone.
• 27:26
  Speaker 8: And then they don't even media happy.
• 27:28
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, that's really what it comes down to anyway.
• 27:31
  Speaker 6: All right, well, thanks for I appreciate Happy fridayayo.
• 27:37
  Speaker 2: I mean, how much of you guys, going to bed
• 27:43
  together means something? It really does. I would I would
• 27:47
  even go now that I've let Raider Dave's ideas sink
• 27:51
  in a little more and more, more and more, I
• 27:54
  would say that going to together probably is one of
• 27:58
  the most important parts of your relationship. That shows how
• 28:02
  much you really care and love each other, how much
• 28:06
  you really want to be with somebody.
• 28:08
  Speaker 1: If they go to bed with.
• 28:09
  Speaker 2: You, and the people don't do that, they don't do
• 28:15
  it anymore because there's everything else is more important. And
• 28:17
  I know you guys will sit there, you guys will
• 28:20
  all sit there and you're all listening right now, and
• 28:21
  you'll say, well, but I love my wife, I love
• 28:24
  my husband, I love you. But do you really do
• 28:28
  you love them enough to go to bed every night together? No,
• 28:31
  you'll make an excuse, oh I got to do this,
• 28:33
  Oh I got to do that, Or you'll stay on
• 28:36
  your phone, or you'll watch Team. That's just that's not love.
• 28:41
  That doesn't show that you really care about somebody. Want
• 28:45
  to be with them. You just make these justifications, and
• 28:51
  it's kind of sad, to be honest with you, if
• 28:52
  you really think about it. It's kind of sad how
• 28:55
  little time you spend with your spouse under this idea of, well,
• 29:02
  I really I love them, I want to be with them.
• 29:06
  Speaker 1: Do you really?
• 29:08
  Speaker 2: I don't know that you really do, because you don't
• 29:12
  go to bed together alright Iportsen.
• 29:13
  Speaker 1: Five four seven seven.
• 29:15
  Speaker 2: Hey, rom my wife and I have been married for
• 29:18
  twenty seven years. There's not a night that we do
• 29:22
  not go to bed together. Well, but yeah, because you
• 29:25
  love each other. That's what I mean when I when
• 29:28
  I say that, you guys, I don't think you understand.
• 29:31
  Speaker 1: What I mean.
• 29:32
  Speaker 2: I think a lot of you guys would think I'm
• 29:34
  being silly. I think a lot of you guys think
• 29:36
  I'm being crazy when I say that. But you're wrong,
• 29:39
  and I'm right. When you love somebody, you want to
• 29:42
  spend time with them, and you care about them and
• 29:45
  you want to be with them. Okay, going to bed
• 29:48
  together is probably the most important thing you can do
• 29:53
  with your spouse. That shows how much you really want
• 29:56
  to be with them and how much you like them,
• 29:59
  or how much you care about them or how much
• 30:00
  you love them, however you want to say it already
• 30:03
  fourteen seven to seven Romeo. My husband and I have
• 30:06
  been married for ten years. We sleep in different bedrooms.
• 30:10
  This works for us very well. Each other, get a
• 30:13
  good sleep, wake up happy. Everyone asks, how do you
• 30:15
  guys make time for the deed? Who said it should
• 30:19
  only happen at bedtime? And in bed there is There
• 30:23
  was an article in twenty twenty five that states couples
• 30:26
  that sleep in different beds have a happier marriage. Yeah
• 30:28
  that's wrong. Yeah, that's stupid. That's people trying to be
• 30:34
  different and trying to do that's trying to make something that
• 30:37
  is not normal normal. You're wrong about that. Now you
• 30:41
  may have a happier marriage, and that may work for you,
• 30:45
  but no, that doesn't. That doesn't that doesn't make you.
• 30:49
  That may make you happy, but that doesn't give you
• 30:52
  a better marriage.
• 30:53
  Speaker 1: No way. So you're wrong. And who wrote who wrote
• 30:57
  the article?
• 30:58
  Speaker 2: Just some clown who's trying to shake up the system.
• 31:02
  The systems worked for years. Humans need personal contact. Human
• 31:09
  beings need to show each other that they love each other.
• 31:13
  Going to bed together is probably one of the most
• 31:17
  the best ways you could do that because that means
• 31:21
  you're willing to stop your day together, although you don't
• 31:26
  really stop your day together.
• 31:27
  Speaker 1: You know, you take your phones and your iPads today
• 31:29
  to get today. But it's very important.
• 31:33
  Speaker 2: Going to bed together is one of the most intimate
• 31:35
  things you can do with your spouse and it has
• 31:41
  nothing to do with sex. I mean, somebody just ask
• 31:46
  me right now, Hey, Rob, Well, what do you think
• 31:49
  how much time should somebody spend together?
• 31:51
  Speaker 6: Well?
• 31:52
  Speaker 2: I think you should spend all the time you can.
• 31:53
  Look at what's going on. You got jobs, Okay, everybody's
• 31:56
  got jobs. So you're gone eight to ten hours away
• 31:59
  from each other.
• 32:01
  Speaker 1: Okay.
• 32:01
  Speaker 2: In the morning, you got a hustle and bustle getting
• 32:05
  the kids together, getting them after school. Maybe you maybe
• 32:08
  you go to work before your wife, or your wife
• 32:10
  goes to work before you, and so you don't see
• 32:15
  each other. Really, don't it sound like it can get
• 32:16
  time to go sit down on the porch, have a
• 32:18
  cup of coffee and talk about your day and what
• 32:20
  you're gonna do.
• 32:21
  Speaker 1: You don't everybody's out.
• 32:24
  Speaker 2: So when you get home, how do you spend time together?
• 32:30
  And society's making our social media is making it more
• 32:33
  and more difficult.
• 32:36
  Speaker 1: Yeah, all right.
• 32:37
  Speaker 9: Hey Romeo, good morning.
• 32:38
  Speaker 1: Hey, good morning. What's up.
• 32:41
  Speaker 9: I just want to kind of comment on what you're
• 32:43
  talking about today about a couple. Okay, well, we've been
• 32:47
  together since nineteen eighty nine.
• 32:50
  Speaker 2: Damn damn.
• 32:56
  Speaker 9: Right, yeah, so we've been together that lot. But we
• 32:59
  all always try with to do things with the kids
• 33:03
  still adult kids. It's like bring them in, grandkids whatever.
• 33:07
  But then when we're like, okay, you know what, and
• 33:10
  you know what, I'm gonna mention too, we have a
• 33:12
  sixty year old son.
• 33:14
  Speaker 1: Why so you know, we.
• 33:20
  Speaker 9: The same bedroom, you know, the same.
• 33:22
  Speaker 2: Room exactly, probably for a little too long.
• 33:26
  Speaker 4: Hey, that's what they made for I'm sorry, that's awesome,
• 33:36
  that's great.
• 33:37
  Speaker 9: If you're gonna if you're gonna, i'm gonna get a
• 33:39
  three bedroom, I'm gonna get to this. And you're like, okay,
• 33:44
  couples saying that's so ridiculous that right together. I don't
• 33:52
  understand if you really the only time that that we
• 33:57
  are like okay, not in the same room or what ever?
• 34:00
  Is uh, you know, things happen whatever.
• 34:03
  Speaker 6: You might have got an argument, Okay, you I'll go
• 34:08
  with you.
• 34:10
  Speaker 1: I'll see you later.
• 34:11
  Speaker 2: Yeah, there's things people, people get.
• 34:14
  Speaker 9: Arguments, so just whatever. But I'm just saying, but yeah,
• 34:18
  and then I'm just gonna say, do what you can together,
• 34:22
  because I'm just gonna say, nineteen eighty nine till now,
• 34:26
  we're gonna go to concerts, were already scheduled constantly, go
• 34:29
  to see uh DJ quick. Oh well, that's the kind
• 34:34
  of couple we allot.
• 34:35
  Speaker 1: That just goes to show how old you are, all.
• 34:37
  Speaker 2: Right, I know, right, maybe Stevie Beal will come along
• 34:44
  here pretty soon you can go.
• 34:50
  Speaker 1: Thanks for calling. That's great.
• 34:53
  Speaker 2: Yeah, are they for seven and seven? She's right though,
• 34:58
  But let me tell you when somebody asked me a
• 35:00
  few minutes ago about spending time together, I mean, when
• 35:06
  you're working eight hours a day, when you're both loving
• 35:09
  your house at different times because you got to go
• 35:11
  to work, you're coming home at different times. Jobs gets
• 35:14
  in the way, and then you don't go to bed together.
• 35:18
  Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe you don't really want to be with each other.
• 35:21
  Speaker 2: Those people that sleep separately, I'm maybe they don't want
• 35:24
  Maybe they don't really like each other. Okay, they're more
• 35:28
  like roommates. How many Yea, that's why they're happier because
• 35:31
  they're roommates. You guys try to make justifications to make
• 35:34
  it seem like you have a good relationship, But do
• 35:37
  you really I don't think you do. You're just trying
• 35:40
  to make yourself feel better by saying, oh, yeah, we
• 35:44
  love each other. Oh yeah, our relationships happy. But because
• 35:47
  you're not spending time together, that's what makes your relationship happy. Well, okay,
• 35:54
  so what are you doing? And I will say this,
• 35:57
  You know the thing about going to bed together. You
• 36:01
  should also do other things though, like going grocery shopping together,
• 36:06
  like running errands together.
• 36:07
  Speaker 1: Those things show.
• 36:11
  Speaker 2: That you really do want to be with that person,
• 36:17
  you know, And I know, you know, I'm gonna make
• 36:20
  fun of Big Boy a little bit because I've known
• 36:22
  him so long. Big Boy and his family do the
• 36:28
  stuff together, the fun stuff and the daily stuff that
• 36:32
  you have to do. There's something to that. Okay, I
• 36:37
  gotta go run these errands. You want to go with me?
• 36:39
  Speaker 1: Yes? I want to go with you.
• 36:42
  Speaker 2: All the tedious things that you don't want to do
• 36:44
  that can be a little of annoying, if you do
• 36:47
  them together, that really shows how much you want to
• 36:50
  be You know, I had a boss who busy, you know,
• 36:55
  twelve hour days. Wife worked twelve hour days. But guess what,
• 36:57
  they always found time, no matter matter how or where
• 37:01
  or where they're doing, to.
• 37:02
  Speaker 1: Just have meals together.
• 37:05
  Speaker 2: I mean, these are the silly things that you guys think, Oh,
• 37:08
  I'm winning because of this, or I'm winning.
• 37:11
  Speaker 1: You're not winning. You're not even with each other. Throw meo.
• 37:16
  Speaker 2: Well, we'll just justify it by saying, oh, kids and jobs.
• 37:20
  That's why our relationship is not the way it should be. No,
• 37:22
  it's not what it should be. It's because you don't
• 37:24
  make the effort to make it what it should be.
• 37:27
  And both of you, not just him, not just her,
• 37:30
  it's both of you. Because I guarantee you this and
• 37:34
  every one of you married couples, you're lying if you
• 37:38
  don't believe this. If you got divorced tomorrow and started
• 37:41
  dating somebody else next week, you would spend every freaking
• 37:45
  minute with them, no matter how busy you were.
• 37:50
  Speaker 1: Funny how that works? Huh what brother, man? We made
• 37:55
  it didn't Wait? That's good?
• 37:58
  Speaker 7: You ain't lying like this man all out all that
• 38:02
  other stuff about with one of the concerts and stuff.
• 38:04
  That's like they need to go to rehab together because
• 38:07
  it's too early in the morning, that.
• 38:08
  Speaker 5: You're joking like that.
• 38:12
  Speaker 7: I know you know what I trouble, but there is Makerfield.
• 38:16
  Speaker 1: Oh no, they're good. They just she's just happy.
• 38:21
  Speaker 7: Yeah, I know why to.
• 38:24
  Speaker 1: Leave her alone?
• 38:26
  Speaker 7: Tell me I'm wrong, Tell me I'm wrong.
• 38:29
  Speaker 1: You wrong, you wrong, You're wrong. I know I know
• 38:33
  exactly what you're thinking. But no, no, you're wrong.
• 38:38
  Speaker 7: A lot of for seven.
• 38:43
  Speaker 1: Some people are just happy, man. Some people just have
• 38:45
  a good life.
• 38:46
  Speaker 7: Well, we're happy, tool We goddamn we ain't going like that.
• 38:50
  Speaker 1: All all right? A fourteen ft four seven to Sevendy.
• 38:56
  How what's going on?
• 38:58
  Speaker 3: Hey Romeo? Thanks answered, But I mean, I'll listen. I've
• 39:02
  listened to your subject this morning about talking about how
• 39:06
  married people should be. Some people should be roommates. Now,
• 39:10
  like that one girl who's who's whose untsman calls her
• 39:13
  just to go to sleep at night. That's that's pretty
• 39:15
  cool about Yeah, that is I'm turning. I'm telling you
• 39:19
  right now, man. Marriage is entrapments. It's what it is.
• 39:24
  I've been married for over twenty seven years, and Gordon
• 39:27
  I look forward to is my little sheep. Don't she
• 39:30
  wakes up there in morning? Hobert Oldfield. So she's there
• 39:35
  at three o'clock in the morning for me every day.
• 39:38
  If she's the first thing I see when I get home,
• 39:42
  why people looked from the television.
• 39:43
  Speaker 2: And you know, that's why I've always said, treat your
• 39:49
  dogs like the greatest things on earth, because they're the
• 39:51
  only are the only living thing in your house that's
• 39:54
  waiting for you to come home, just waiting, very very.
• 39:58
  Speaker 3: True, you know, And I do go grocery shop to
• 40:01
  the other. Well, can we eat every Saturday and Sunday
• 40:04
  we eat lunch together? But yeah, that's it's it's well,
• 40:09
  we do have separate rooms. And by the way, she
• 40:12
  did move into a separate room. I didn't move out,
• 40:14
  so you know.
• 40:16
  Speaker 1: Well, why she move into a separate room.
• 40:21
  Speaker 3: She's she would have never explained it. But anyways, at
• 40:25
  the bottom line, a lot of people do this. It's
• 40:27
  just one of those things goes on. Right now.
• 40:30
  Speaker 2: I think more people are doing it than not doing it.
• 40:34
  More people are doing it trying to justify it. And
• 40:37
  now that you just said that to me, I was
• 40:40
  thinking of what the person texted me and said, we
• 40:43
  have a happier marriage.
• 40:45
  Speaker 1: Well, okay, your.
• 40:46
  Speaker 2: Marriage might be happier now that you're in separate rooms.
• 40:49
  But how good was it before? Then?
• 40:52
  Speaker 1: Happier does not mean better. You know we're happier. No,
• 40:57
  go ahead.
• 40:58
  Speaker 3: Yeah. One of the first things she did, you don't
• 41:01
  I call it the great wall. She built this apparently
• 41:03
  wall wall right down the middle of the bed. We
• 41:05
  have a California King bro that's w Yeah, she did this.
• 41:09
  I'm telling you. If I reached over in the middle
• 41:12
  of the night she knew it.
• 41:16
  Speaker 1: I think you might have bey time for you to go.
• 41:19
  Speaker 3: No, you don't have to think about it so that
• 41:21
  their thing. People grow on you. They just grow on you,
• 41:25
  just just becomes part of you, and it's deposit it
• 41:30
  just even when even when like she's had medical conditions,
• 41:33
  it would look it was. It was very very hard
• 41:37
  on me. Okay, what I was just thinking.
• 41:39
  Speaker 2: Everything you know say it makes total sense. But what
• 41:44
  kind of relationship are you really in? I mean, I
• 41:46
  don't want to be doctor Phil here, but what kind
• 41:48
  of Are you just in a compatible relationship saying you
• 41:51
  both don't have to be alone?
• 41:53
  Speaker 1: Or are you in a loving, caring want to be
• 41:56
  with you? You see what I mean?
• 41:57
  Speaker 2: I don't know every everybody's relationship is differ if if
• 42:01
  they were honest with you, that you're being pretty honest.
• 42:05
  Speaker 3: I mean honestly, I honestly say, she just can't stand
• 42:08
  the thought of me being with somebody off. That's what
• 42:11
  I think. That's that's when Okay, from the from from
• 42:13
  the very beginning, that's what I'm It's just like, I
• 42:17
  know you don't like me, Why won't you let me go?
• 42:21
  Speaker 1: Okay? Fair enough, I mean fair enough. I appreciate the
• 42:23
  phone call. Man, at least you got your ship dog.
• 42:29
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm telling you, man, God not there, don't, don't,
• 42:33
  don't put that ring on your finger.
• 42:34
  Speaker 3: Man, don't, and you get your little bow.
• 42:39
  Speaker 1: I'll get out.
• 42:40
  Speaker 3: You'll be fine.
• 42:41
  Speaker 1: You'll be telling people that get out of here. Marriage
• 42:43
  is great. Get out of here.
• 42:45
  Speaker 3: You can cut out of you walk.
• 42:47
  Speaker 6: I called him before.
• 42:48
  Speaker 1: All right, thanks you from that.
• 42:51
  Speaker 2: Marriage is great, don't If you married the right person,
• 42:55
  it's absolutely amazing. Okay, but see like this lady whoever
• 43:00
  sent me this said about ten years sleeping in different rooms.
• 43:03
  They said, you're right, Rome, I love my sleep more
• 43:04
  than I love my husband, and then laughing emoji. But
• 43:08
  the point is this, if your marriage is amazing, let's
• 43:13
  call it.
• 43:13
  Speaker 1: Let's say tens amazing.
• 43:15
  Speaker 2: Right, and let's say it gets to the point where
• 43:18
  it's a two and you're unhappy. So you say, well, Romeo,
• 43:23
  we went to separate rooms and now we're happier.
• 43:24
  Speaker 1: Well, now you're at a three or four, that's happier.
• 43:28
  Speaker 2: You just got to look at It's all about our
• 43:29
  perspective of where you're at. What I'm telling you is
• 43:33
  one hundred percent the way to show your partner how
• 43:37
  much you truly care, if you do the tedious things
• 43:42
  that you don't really want to do, If you just
• 43:43
  spent ten hours a day at work and you just
• 43:46
  kicked off your shoes and your wife comes home and says, honey.
• 43:49
  Speaker 1: I forgot We got to go to the store and
• 43:50
  buy this and get this, And you say, oh, I
• 43:52
  just got.
• 43:52
  Speaker 2: Off to or no, you put on your whatever these
• 43:55
  stupid shoes are that you guys wear float foes or
• 43:59
  fufos or whatever they are house shoes. You put them
• 44:02
  on and you go with her. That says far more
• 44:08
  than you telling her that you love her.
• 44:10
  Speaker 3: Okay, all right, good morning. I love this conversation.
• 44:14
  Speaker 6: Today.
• 44:16
  Speaker 3: I've been well, we've been married twenty five years.
• 44:19
  Speaker 9: And sometimes we do sleep in separate rooms, but that's
• 44:23
  because sometimes he just snores so loud and he works hard,
• 44:29
  so I will let him sleep in our goat into
• 44:31
  the other room. But there are says that he doesn't
• 44:33
  snore loud and are.
• 44:34
  Speaker 2: Just hold on, let me ask you this question, though, Yes,
• 44:39
  do you go to bed together and he snores?
• 44:42
  Speaker 9: And then you lean, Yes, we do go to bed
• 44:45
  together because I need my son and so does he.
• 44:48
  But yeah, so we do go to sleep together. But
• 44:51
  the thing is that like an hour or so into
• 44:54
  our sleeping, he's snowing like a grizzy bear. I'm like,
• 44:58
  I can't handle this, so I'll go to another.
• 45:01
  Speaker 1: That's different.
• 45:02
  Speaker 2: That's that's that's different than than people who just don't
• 45:06
  go to bed together.
• 45:07
  Speaker 1: And no, it's okay.
• 45:10
  Speaker 9: No, no, we still go to we still we've been
• 45:12
  married twenty five years.
• 45:13
  Speaker 6: We still need our something.
• 45:14
  Speaker 9: So yeah, okay, marriages, what you make of it?
• 45:18
  Speaker 2: Yeah, you're absolutely right, you're absolutely right.
• 45:21
  Speaker 1: Okay, cool, thanks for coming. All right, Yeah, how what's
• 45:24
  going on?
• 45:25
  Speaker 7: Corono? Here we go again. So I was gonna tell you,
• 45:29
  so you know what, you're right because a long time
• 45:32
  ago I tried to find out to talk through the girls,
• 45:34
  and I was attracted to right, try to make them happy,
• 45:37
  and you know, try to but instead now to tell
• 45:40
  somebody that stuff in common with and boy were bonding,
• 45:44
  everything going smoth.
• 45:45
  Speaker 1: You know.
• 45:47
  Speaker 7: It ain't no are you, ain't no fighting, none of
• 45:49
  that stuff like that, because you know we got stuff
• 45:52
  in common that we we have a common ground that
• 45:55
  we operate on. You know what I'm saying.
• 45:56
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I know.
• 45:57
  Speaker 7: Exactly what makes such such a because I want to
• 46:01
  have boys.
• 46:02
  Speaker 3: Wait what.
• 46:05
  Speaker 1: Oh gotcha? Gotcha? Well, I mean at least you figured it.
• 46:08
  Speaker 7: Out, you right about that. We're we're about forty five years.
• 46:14
  Speaker 2: Hey, it's better than never figuring. There are people that
• 46:16
  will never be happy and they're gonna die. They're gonna
• 46:19
  die never knowing they could have been happier within their marriage.
• 46:23
  Speaker 7: Yeah, it's always better to part of somebody. They got
• 46:25
  you got something coming with that way, you know you
• 46:28
  got a level to work with ground.
• 46:31
  Speaker 1: Sure, all right, thanks coming.
• 46:35
  Speaker 2: Here's the thing though, what I'm gonna say about what
• 46:38
  he said, I don't think you necessarily, I mean, I
• 46:41
  agree with what he's saying, but I'm gonna say probably
• 46:45
  about I'm gonna give it I'm gonna be very lenient
• 46:51
  with this. About seventy seventy seventy five percent of you
• 46:55
  are going to die not knowing you could have lived
• 46:59
  much happier in a relationship, whether you found somebody like
• 47:03
  this guy said common ground that you can vibe each
• 47:06
  other with, or whether you just changed the little habits
• 47:10
  that you have in your marriage right now to make
• 47:12
  it better. And I'm going to say probably, zah gosh,
• 47:17
  seventy five seems so eighty maybe eighty percent, eight out
• 47:20
  of ten marriages. You don't know that you can be
• 47:24
  much happier by just going to bed together at the
• 47:27
  same time, or going to the grocery store together, or
• 47:31
  some of the little tedious, annoying things that you don't
• 47:35
  want to do that have to get done if you
• 47:38
  just did them together instead of just being there for
• 47:41
  the fun times.
• 47:42
  Speaker 1: You know.
• 47:44
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't think you guys realize how much that
• 47:48
  takes a toll on your marriage.
• 47:50
  Speaker 1: But hey, you guys want to die not knowing you
• 47:53
  could have lived a better life. That's on you.
• 47:56
  Speaker 3: Hey, what's up wrong?
• 47:57
  Speaker 1: Hey, what's going on?
• 47:59
  Speaker 5: I didn't know that was a thing for people to
• 48:01
  start doing that to me?
• 48:02
  Speaker 3: Is like.
• 48:04
  Speaker 6: Another room.
• 48:05
  Speaker 1: It's not really it's not really a thing.
• 48:07
  Speaker 2: It's some stupid trend and it didn't start in twenty
• 48:09
  twenty five. People thought it was a great idea ten
• 48:13
  years ago, and they're trying to just people are trying
• 48:16
  to make find better ways to get along.
• 48:18
  Speaker 1: With each other. That's what it's all about. It's not
• 48:21
  a thing.
• 48:21
  Speaker 2: People are not happy. They're happier because their marriage was
• 48:24
  already miserable. So they're a little bit happier now because
• 48:28
  they're a little bit further away from each other. They
• 48:30
  wanted to be more happy. They just get divorced and
• 48:32
  go find other people.
• 48:34
  Speaker 5: But you know what, I'm wondering, if they're doing that,
• 48:36
  like this guy that calls that hit white built that
• 48:38
  pyramid chet in another room, they are are there being
• 48:42
  another room because they're up at night texting to another
• 48:44
  somebody else.
• 48:44
  Speaker 3: You they don't want you right their next No.
• 48:46
  Speaker 1: No, it's it's no. It's not always cheating.
• 48:48
  Speaker 8: No.
• 48:49
  Speaker 2: I mean it could lead to that very easily. But
• 48:51
  I know it's just people get tired of each other.
• 48:53
  But they based on what he told me. It was
• 48:57
  very simple. He said, you get used to somebody and
• 49:01
  so as opposed.
• 49:02
  Speaker 1: To leaving them.
• 49:03
  Speaker 2: You're used to them, so you accept sleeping in other bedrooms,
• 49:06
  you accept not being just being roommates.
• 49:08
  Speaker 1: I mean, that's just you get used to stuff. I mean,
• 49:11
  that's just because it is.
• 49:14
  Speaker 5: I enjoy having my wife next to me, you know
• 49:15
  what I mean.
• 49:16
  Speaker 6: And and you see Rome.
• 49:17
  Speaker 5: You know, we always talk together twenty four to seven,
• 49:19
  you know what I mean. If I'm at work, I
• 49:21
  don't see it.
• 49:21
  Speaker 3: But once they come home, Yeah, I'm in the.
• 49:23
  Speaker 5: Passenger seeing we rolling around, you know what I mean,
• 49:25
  getting suf done exactly.
• 49:27
  Speaker 1: That's that's what you should be doing. You should never.
• 49:29
  Speaker 5: Shouldn't care to sit with each other, roam or something
• 49:32
  you ain't me and misunderstand something happening.
• 49:34
  Speaker 1: We to be together, I mean, that's fine.
• 49:37
  Speaker 2: I also I also believe that you know, couples will
• 49:41
  get in arguments and may be maybe fed up with
• 49:43
  each other for moments, but yeah, you still you need
• 49:46
  your time and space apart when you're arguing, But you
• 49:49
  don't need your space.
• 49:51
  Speaker 5: A while back, I told her, I said, I'm gonna
• 49:53
  go lay down already. I said, you make me mad,
• 49:54
  I'm gonna go lay down. I said, you could sleep
• 49:56
  in the in the guest room and I woke up
• 49:59
  Rome where was she at?
• 50:00
  Speaker 1: Of course, of course you know what I mean.
• 50:02
  Speaker 5: So, yeah, I don't know why be with somebody if
• 50:04
  you don't even want to know exactly?
• 50:08
  Speaker 9: Brother?
• 50:08
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean there's a lot going on in that conversation.
• 50:11
  But I mean you just have to understand that just
• 50:18
  because you say you're happier in your marriage doesn't mean
• 50:22
  you're the happiest in your marriage. It just means you
• 50:24
  figure out a way to be happier than be less miserable.
• 50:29
  Happier is not the right word. You found a way
• 50:31
  to be less miserable in your marriage. And it's very
• 50:35
  common for you guys to, like Ruben said, why would
• 50:38
  you want to be with somebody because you're used to it,
• 50:40
  because you're.
• 50:41
  Speaker 1: Afraid to be alone?
• 50:42
  Speaker 2: You know the devil, you know, right, it's always a
• 50:46
  justification before two, five, four.
• 50:48
  Speaker 1: Or seven to seven? Hey, Romeo, would you send me here?
• 50:52
  Speaker 7: Ay?
• 50:52
  Speaker 2: Rome? So, I know two couples that sleep in different rooms,
• 50:55
  and I think it's crazy, because how do you stay
• 50:57
  married to somebody that you can't even sleep in the
• 50:59
  same room with. I don't understand a lot. I don't understand.
• 51:03
  It's like for status, If you really don't like each
• 51:06
  other that much, why are you even still married? Probably
• 51:10
  because they don't want to be alone. They're too scared
• 51:12
  to see they're too scared. They're used to each other.
• 51:15
  They're too scared to go.
• 51:15
  Speaker 1: See what else is out there.
• 51:17
  Speaker 2: You know, that may make them happier, but hey, but
• 51:21
  a lot of the problem also is that a lot
• 51:23
  of people would just go get into the next bad relationship,
• 51:28
  you know what I'm saying, because they choose the same
• 51:30
  person over and over again, so they end up in
• 51:33
  the bad in the same bad relationships over and over
• 51:35
  again and don't realize that they need to change their habits.
• 51:39
  And apart from that, like, I know that there's people
• 51:43
  out there who want to justify it and stuff, but
• 51:47
  I'm like, Okay, when you get married, it's you know,
• 51:50
  you're supposed to be together a partnership, Like you're supposed
• 51:53
  to want to do stuff together. The people know, yeah,
• 51:57
  they sleep in different rooms, so they go they along better.
• 52:01
  But that's not happy. You're right, it's not happy. It's
• 52:04
  less miserable if you're doing things to separate from your spouse.
• 52:09
  Under this idea that we're happier then you weren't happy
• 52:13
  to begin with. You're just less miserable than you were
• 52:16
  because of these things you're doing to spend less time together.
• 52:21
  They don't just want to get a damn divorce because
• 52:23
  they've been married for like seventeen eighteen years plus.
• 52:28
  Speaker 1: Bruh.
• 52:29
  Speaker 2: I've been married like seventeen years and me and my
• 52:31
  husband still do everything together, and we're happy to do
• 52:34
  everything together. I mean that's because you love each other
• 52:37
  and you care about each other. I mean, that's that's
• 52:39
  what marriage is. If you there's no reason to get married.
• 52:43
  I think most people get married nowadays or stay together
• 52:48
  because they're too afraid to be alone. They're too afraid
• 52:51
  to find out that, you know what, there might be
• 52:54
  something better out there, but I don't know, it might
• 52:57
  be just the same.
• 52:58
  Speaker 1: I mean, anybody who says, oh.
• 53:00
  Speaker 2: Never get married because marriage is the problem, No, you're
• 53:03
  the problem.
• 53:04
  Speaker 1: Anybody that's ever told you.
• 53:06
  Speaker 2: Marriage is the problem, it's just trying to justify the
• 53:12
  fact that they're that. They just want to make themselves
• 53:16
  feel better that they're not the problem.
• 53:18
  Speaker 1: But sure the problem.
• 53:20
  Speaker 2: Anybody that you know that says marriage is the problem,
• 53:23
  they're actually the problem. You know, so everybody has stereotypes
• 53:27
  of Bakersfield, right, I was up last week. I had
• 53:30
  to go up to up North for a couple of things.
• 53:34
  That I have a friend of mine that I that
• 53:36
  was still a good friend of mine. I went to
• 53:39
  college with actually Hill in the bar where I went
• 53:41
  to college, so we became real good friends. And he
• 53:45
  was laughing at me because we went we met for
• 53:47
  lunch before I came back, and he was laughing at me.
• 53:50
  He goes, man, boy, you sure, you sure Bakersfield boy?
• 53:54
  You got that truck you drive listening to country music?
• 53:58
  Speaker 1: And I was laughing.
• 54:00
  Speaker 2: Because you know, Baker's got stereotypes, right, everybody drives a truck.
• 54:06
  All the women wear ugs when the wintertime. You know
• 54:08
  a lot of you know, trucker hats. Whatever the case
• 54:12
  may be. But we'll talk about Saturdays at Luigi's. I mean,
• 54:15
  you know your Bakersfield. There's certain stereotypes of Bakersfield that
• 54:18
  you just know your Bakersfield.
• 54:20
  Speaker 1: You go to a.
• 54:23
  Speaker 2: Go to you go to an event, You go to
• 54:26
  a softball a kids softball game with a Bakersfield team,
• 54:30
  or you go to a you know, travel ball with
• 54:33
  with anybody from Bakersfield. You pull in the parking lot,
• 54:37
  there'll be a row white trucks all backed in next
• 54:40
  to each other. The Leno, Chevy three way Chevrolet there
• 54:44
  just look like a nam GMC car lot right, all
• 54:48
  backed in the even the Yukons. So I thought it
• 54:55
  was funny because we started talking about it. And the
• 54:57
  funny part and I'll tell you what the funny part
• 54:59
  about it is. The funny part about it is not that, uh,
• 55:02
  Bakersfield made me Bakersfield. I was Bakersfield before Bakersfield. While
• 55:08
  I was Bakersfield just on an Indian reservation. Because when
• 55:11
  you grow up on an Indian reservation in the middle
• 55:13
  of the woods, you hunt, you fish, you drink, you
• 55:15
  drive trucks. I mean, that's just what you do. It
• 55:18
  was the city that actually changed me when I moved
• 55:20
  to college.
• 55:20
  Speaker 1: The city is what changed me. Then I moved to
• 55:23
  Bakersfield just reverted right back to what I used to do.
• 55:27
  You know.
• 55:28
  Speaker 2: So, but what do you think, you guys ever think
• 55:32
  about that? What makes you Bakersfield? There is stuff that
• 55:35
  we do in Bakersfield that we all do already four two, five,
• 55:42
  four seven to seven. What makes you bake them?
• 55:46
  Speaker 7: There?
• 55:46
  Speaker 2: Are just some things that we do here in Bakersfield
• 55:50
  that everybody does right, every single one of you does
• 55:56
  it already. Four two five, four seven to seven. Hey, Romeo,
• 56:01
  let me tell you about being Bakersfield. This is how
• 56:03
  you know your Bakersfield. When you go out to a
• 56:06
  Friday night football game and every single woman is wearing
• 56:10
  her husband's jacket with her ugs and a hat and
• 56:16
  her ex husband sitting down, her husband sitting in another
• 56:24
  section of the bleachers.
• 56:26
  Speaker 1: That's how you know. That's hilarious, goodbrying. Now, what's going on?
• 56:29
  Speaker 3: Hey, what's up?
• 56:32
  Speaker 5: Hey dude? That's funny you say about the truck because
• 56:34
  I went to a fishing derby and we stayed right
• 56:37
  at bb overnight. Well, roam my parked next truck. Another way.
• 56:41
  We had six white.
• 56:43
  Speaker 7: GMCs trucks back to back, nothing in between.
• 56:46
  Speaker 1: Rome That sounds about right.
• 56:49
  Speaker 2: A couple of.
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  Speaker 3: Cars came and then after that there was like two
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  or three.
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  Speaker 2: More white trucks. That's what. But you know, we go
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  to you know, I go.
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  Speaker 5: All the travel ball with my kids for soccer, and
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  you know what bakers did when they pop up in
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  the back gate and they had that beer and ice
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  jet room. No, I don't know about that, but okay, yeah,
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  you talking a man, they begin to game, all.
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  Speaker 1: Right, all right, there is I will tell you this though,
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  there is not one time.
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  Speaker 2: I had to go to a slow for something, to
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  cow poly over in San Louis for something, and I
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  pulled up to the to the very top of the
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  parking lot, the parking structure, and you knew Bakersfield was
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  there because there must have been about twenty white trucks
• 57:32
  backed in to slots. So as I you know, Bakersfield's
• 57:39
  in town already, four two.
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  Speaker 1: Four, seven to seven? What what? What?
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  Speaker 8: What?
• 57:43
  Speaker 1: Stereotypes of Bakersfield? What makes you Bakersfield.
• 57:46
  Speaker 2: Top on the mountain?
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  Speaker 7: Mister Romeo?
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  Speaker 1: What's going on?
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  Speaker 3: Man?
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  Speaker 4: Man, mister Romeo?
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  Speaker 3: Man.
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  Speaker 8: Today we've officially called his Fernando Mendoza day.
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  Speaker 3: Man.
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  Speaker 1: Oh my god, you guys.
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  Speaker 8: Oh right now, For the next five cars that come
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  through my drive through, many gonna get hooked up.
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  Speaker 7: They just gotta say the secret word, the for mandator.
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  Speaker 6: Let them know, mister Romeo.
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  Speaker 8: Hey man, we got a gold Man sandtrack.
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  Speaker 7: Man. Let's gold.
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you right now this is how you know.
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  Speaker 3: One of the.
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  Speaker 2: Things you know when you talk about Bakersfield. The things
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  that you can always count on. You can count on
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  guys driving truck white trucks. You can count on women
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  always wearing rugs are the two probably most predominant things.
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  The one thing I can count on that I know
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  you're from Bakersfield is whenever I'm talking about something, you
• 58:43
  call me and try to change the subject.
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  Speaker 1: Happens every single day.
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  Speaker 2: I'll be talking about on one topic and somebody will
• 58:51
  call and try to bring something else up, or say
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  something that has nothing to do with anything that we're
• 58:57
  talking about.
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  Speaker 1: Good morning, what's going on, Romeo?
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  Speaker 6: There's something in Baker Show that I observed that I
• 59:04
  didn't know that.
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  Speaker 3: It only happened in Baker Show.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, what.
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  Speaker 6: It's our homeless population have pets. If you notice, they
• 59:15
  all got little Yorkese little chihuahua. And I went to
• 59:19
  other places and I you know, not only are the stuffing,
• 59:22
  but they're making their dogs stuff for as well health.
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  Speaker 3: And you won't see it in others.
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  Speaker 6: Towns are places only in Baker's show. Okay, Notice next
• 59:33
  time you travel somewhere, you'll see it. You know, homeless
• 59:35
  people by themself here, they got pets they got three
• 59:38
  or four little dogs with them.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, true fact, I'm not arguing with you.
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  Speaker 2: But then again, Dave, I travel different than you. I
• 59:45
  don't go to with a homeless art in other cities.
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  Speaker 6: I'm sorry, you know, And we're not out balling like Romeo. Well,
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  I just it was just an observation of mine that
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  I noticed. Okay, that happens only in baker Show.
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  Speaker 2: All right, Uh, how do you know what stereo we got?
• 1:00:00
  Stereotypes is probably the wrong word, but unique things that
• 1:00:04
  all Bakersfield people do, all right, there are some unique
• 1:00:07
  things that all of us do in Bakersfield. And I yeah,
• 1:00:15
  a Romeo, that Raider fan that just called up talking
• 1:00:19
  about the Raiders is a dumb ass.
• 1:00:22
  Speaker 1: That guy's not gonna do anything. He's not.
• 1:00:25
  Speaker 2: I feel bad for these Raider fans. They're so embarrassing.
• 1:00:28
  I mean, he's a rookie. They're not going to the
• 1:00:31
  super Bowl, They're not even gonna make the playoffs just
• 1:00:33
  like they did did last year. I mean, it's just
• 1:00:36
  it's embarrassing for them. But when your life sucks so bad,
• 1:00:42
  when your life is so miserable and you have nothing
• 1:00:44
  to live for, you gotta take what you can get.
• 1:00:48
  You gotta take what you can get. A rom dumb
• 1:00:51
  ass Dave tripping when I went to La where the homeless,
• 1:00:54
  was that they all had dogs. He's probably talking about
• 1:00:57
  his homeless people locked up.
• 1:00:59
  Speaker 1: They don't have no dog. Yeah, you're right.
• 1:01:03
  Speaker 2: One of the things you will notice when you go
• 1:01:05
  anywhere homeless people have dogs. And but one of the
• 1:01:09
  things you also notice, and something others that Raider Dave
• 1:01:12
  said that was stupid was that.
• 1:01:16
  Speaker 1: They're unhealthy. No, those those dogs, some of those dogs.
• 1:01:20
  Speaker 2: If you look at these dogs that these homeless people have,
• 1:01:22
  they're healthier than probably.
• 1:01:24
  Speaker 1: Your dog, to be honest with you, if you really
• 1:01:26
  look at them.
• 1:01:26
  Speaker 2: Alrighty four two, five, four or seven to seven. That's
• 1:01:29
  how you know you're in Bakersfield. Dumbass Raider fans. Hey, Romeo,
• 1:01:33
  tell all those dumbass Raider fans they got the number
• 1:01:37
  one pick in the draft and their quarterback is still
• 1:01:40
  the third best quarterback in their division, the third or
• 1:01:43
  the fourth.
• 1:01:45
  Speaker 1: Who's he better than? I would say.
• 1:01:50
  Speaker 2: He's the fourth best quarterback in the division, probably the
• 1:01:53
  fifth because Kirk Cousins is playing behore ahead of them.
• 1:01:56
  Speaker 1: Right now.
• 1:01:57
  Speaker 2: I think the problem with the Raiders. Is they're just
• 1:02:00
  so stupid. I mean, the fans are just so stupid.
• 1:02:02
  They believe that it's uh that if they get better players,
• 1:02:07
  they're gonna be a better football team, and they're not.
• 1:02:11
  You know, I mean, look at the Cowboys. On paper,
• 1:02:15
  the Cowboys should have won three Super Bowls already. On paper,
• 1:02:19
  the Raiders should have at least made the playoffs every year, right,
• 1:02:22
  but they're not.
• 1:02:23
  Speaker 1: They sock.
• 1:02:25
  Speaker 2: You know, the teams, the three teams in their division
• 1:02:28
  are better and have gotten far better, and they're they're
• 1:02:33
  the worst team in their division. So it's unfortunate that
• 1:02:38
  that's who it is. But that's that's ownership, man, And
• 1:02:42
  that quarterback is gonna do absolutely nothing. They're just going
• 1:02:45
  to ruin another quarterback's career. That's all they're gonna do.
• 1:02:49
  Speaker 1: He can going to roam. Hey, what makes Bakersfield unique?
• 1:02:52
  You ask?
• 1:02:52
  Speaker 2: I say, A big part of it is you, rome
• 1:02:55
  You've been serving us for a while, so thank you.
• 1:02:59
  Speaker 1: That's nice to say. That's nice of you to say,
• 1:03:03
  Romeo in the.
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  Speaker 3: Morning every morning morning.
• 1:03:05
  Speaker 1: On ninety four point one