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Brewsers #379- Emylee Kaliber · Brewsers

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  Speaker 1: Welcome to Bruisers podcast Walk Beer, Coffee, Booze and Bruisers.
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  Speaker 1: I'm your host, Roddie John and today we talked to
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  Speaker 1: Emily Caliber. We talked about how she got into jiu jitsu, modeling,
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  Speaker 1: and so much more. Emily is doing absolutely amazing things,
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  Speaker 1: not only in the modeling world, but also in jiu jitsu,
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  Speaker 1: and she has a huge fan of guns as well.
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  Speaker 1: So we get into all of it, and without further ado,
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  Speaker 1: here is Emily Caliber. I would like to welcome a
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  Speaker 1: show Emily Caliber. How you doing today?
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  Speaker 2: I'm good?
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  Speaker 1: How are you doing well? So for those listening kind
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  Speaker 1: of pennies to the word picture, where are you at
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  Speaker 1: and what's going on around you?
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  Speaker 2: I am in my apartment. I have two cats around
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  Speaker 2: me and that's about it. Just me and my cats.
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  Speaker 1: Nice. Uh yeah, I uh. I was having this conversation
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  Speaker 1: with somebody last night. I love cats. I was raised
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  Speaker 1: with cats, but I have two dogs that are not
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  Speaker 1: fans of cats, so I can not have cats in
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  Speaker 1: this house.
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  Speaker 3: I like dogs, I love all animals, but I can't
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  Speaker 3: like I wouldn't want to have a dog in an
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  Speaker 3: apartment like where they don't have like a yard, right
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  Speaker 3: but I take.
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  Speaker 2: My cats for walks.
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  Speaker 3: I have like all that I have like a stroller,
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  Speaker 3: I take them in and then like they have harnesses,
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  Speaker 3: but I'm very like I'm they're still getting used to it,
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  Speaker 3: like so I'm nervous like letting them have too much freedom.
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  Speaker 1: Right heah. I was curious how does that work with people?
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  Speaker 1: Because like I see people with cats and harnesses and
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  Speaker 1: then you know, the carry the you know, like the
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  Speaker 1: baby carriage works obviously because they're screened and not really
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  Speaker 1: going anywhere, but yeah, how does the harness work for him?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah?
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  Speaker 3: So like with cats, they're really tricky, like they can
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  Speaker 3: like slip out of the harness. So I put a
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  Speaker 3: collar on and a harness and I kind of like
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  Speaker 3: click it the leash to both the collar and the
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  Speaker 3: harness that way, like they cannot get out of it.
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  Speaker 3: Minus is my boy cat. He's like six years old.
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  Speaker 3: He's a big cat, so he's a lot easier to
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  Speaker 3: just grab and like he's slow and big, so I
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  Speaker 3: trust him more.
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  Speaker 2: And then my little one, Leo.
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  Speaker 3: She's like very tiny and very skittish, so I'm way
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  Speaker 3: more nervous with her. So I just kind of let
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  Speaker 3: them like peek I'll like, I'll open the screen a
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  Speaker 3: little bit and let them like kind of peek their
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  Speaker 3: heads out, and I just like I want them to
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  Speaker 3: experience nature and not be inside their whole lives.
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  Speaker 1: No, that makes sense. I mean, obviously I have a
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  Speaker 1: house with the yard that my dogs can run around,
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  Speaker 1: so you know, they get that. Try. I try to
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  Speaker 1: take them on walks whenever I can't.
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  Speaker 2: But what kind of dogs do you have?
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  Speaker 1: I have a miniature Schnauzer who barks at everything, which
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  Speaker 1: is fun. And then I have a terrier mix and
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  Speaker 1: she's my old lady and she is sleeping right now.
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  Speaker 1: So but no, she used to be the crazy one
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  Speaker 1: and now she's the calm one. Because I think that's
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  Speaker 1: just what happens with age.
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  Speaker 2: Definitely, that's what's happening with me.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, less crazy as you get older, Yes, definitely, no
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  Speaker 1: more energy to be crazy.
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  Speaker 3: Also, everything becomes very scary.
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  Speaker 1: That makes sense. Well, let's go all the way back
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  Speaker 1: in time. What is your earliest memory of martial arts.
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  Speaker 2: Like doing it or.
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  Speaker 1: Or so I guess seeing it. Yeah, let's go seeing it.
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  Speaker 3: Honestly, like, I really had no experience with martial arts,
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  Speaker 3: Like I definitely never saw myself doing it. I was
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  Speaker 3: a cheerleader in high school. I didn't even watch UFC
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  Speaker 3: because I like was like, oh, it's too violent, Like
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  Speaker 3: I don't like watching the guys like beat each other
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  Speaker 3: to death.
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  Speaker 2: I'm like, so I never watched that either. And then
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  Speaker 2: so like I it's kind of like I kind of
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  Speaker 2: just fell into it randomly.
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  Speaker 3: I've always been a gun person, like pro Second Amendment,
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  Speaker 3: love self defense, love shooting, and so I was really
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  Speaker 3: into that.
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  Speaker 2: And then it kind of is maybe like a little
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  Speaker 2: depressing of a story. But my dad passed.
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  Speaker 3: Away, who was like he was like my lifeline, my heart,
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  Speaker 3: and when that happened, I kind of like I kind
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  Speaker 3: of like fell apart emotionally, like into depression and anxiety,
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  Speaker 3: and it really almost took me out.
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  Speaker 2: And I like got to a point.
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  Speaker 3: Like a year in where I was like just kind
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  Speaker 3: of sick and tired of feeling awful. So I heard
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  Speaker 3: jiu jitsu was good for mental health. So I googled
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  Speaker 3: self defense classes and Renzo Grazie came up, and I
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  Speaker 3: have no idea who this is, and so I I
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  Speaker 3: just like I went and I tried to class, and
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  Speaker 3: I liked it, but I was like so anxious about it,
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  Speaker 3: but I posted a picture of myself in like a
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  Speaker 3: gee on my social media and then my high school
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  Speaker 3: friend Rick saw the picture and he was like, hey,
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  Speaker 3: come to Bazani.
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  Speaker 2: You should come to Bizani. If you want to do
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  Speaker 2: jiu jitsu, come to Bizani.
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  Speaker 3: And I was like, say less because I hate it
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  Speaker 3: where I am, like it.
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  Speaker 2: Just doesn't feel like personal. It feels like.
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  Speaker 3: Just about money and like just not what I thought
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  Speaker 3: it was going to be about. And so I went
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  Speaker 3: to Bazani. He really took me under his wing. I
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  Speaker 3: was ninety four pounds, I was so like malnourished from
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  Speaker 3: depression and not eating, like I was very weak. I
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  Speaker 3: was depressed, I was anxious, but I really liked it.
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  Speaker 2: I liked the community.
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  Speaker 3: So I just like kept forcing myself to show up
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  Speaker 3: and through like crying and leaving and anxiety attacks and
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  Speaker 3: bruises all up and down and skin weird skin things happening, and.
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  Speaker 2: I just kept.
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  Speaker 3: Going and eventually, like my I don't know, it just
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  Speaker 3: like turned my mental health around, Like I'm like one
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  Speaker 3: hundred and thirty pounds now. I've never been more muscular
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  Speaker 3: in my life. I started learning how to like Meal
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  Speaker 3: Prep and the community is amazing. I love my school.
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  Speaker 3: I love the victor who owns the school. He's amazing.
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  Speaker 3: He really cares about his students, and it just like
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  Speaker 3: it really changed my life.
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  Speaker 2: Honestly.
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  Speaker 1: I love that. I love hearing stories like that where
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  Speaker 1: you find your you know you're in your darkest spot
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  Speaker 1: and then you find your community in a place that
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  Speaker 1: you never thought you were going to find it.
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  Speaker 2: Absolutely, and now I'm addicted.
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  Speaker 3: Like I'm like three and a half years in, and
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  Speaker 3: I'm addicted, even though I've been put out from injuries
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  Speaker 3: like a knee injury and then in my hand got
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  Speaker 3: broken and my first competition and had to get a
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  Speaker 3: big screw put in my hand.
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  Speaker 1: Damn.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, And honestly, I'm still like recovering from that. Nope,
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  Speaker 3: And I'm like, that happened January seventeenth, Good.
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  Speaker 1: Lord, when that was your first competition?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, honestly, probably wasn't a good idea for my first
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  Speaker 3: comp to be a super fight that was sub only
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  Speaker 3: with no rules.
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  Speaker 2: That was probably like not smart. But I don't even
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  Speaker 2: know when it happened.
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  Speaker 3: During the I blacked out, I think I was so
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  Speaker 3: I was so nervous about like the whole thing, But
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  Speaker 3: I don't know when it happened, but I know, like
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  Speaker 3: the girl had my hand like right from the start
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  Speaker 3: and was like twisting my hand and I was like
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  Speaker 3: holding onto my hand trying to like not have a break.
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  Speaker 3: And I don't know when it happened, because like I
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  Speaker 3: walked off the mat thinking I was fine, and like
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  Speaker 3: I could see like swelling starting and I'm like, oh,
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  Speaker 3: that's not good, Like yeah.
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  Speaker 1: So okay, walk us through. Had So this is your
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  Speaker 1: first competition ever. Yeah, and you're a blue belt now, yes,
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  Speaker 1: how how is it that what got you into wanting
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  Speaker 1: to actually start competing?
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  Speaker 2: Just impulse control?
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  Speaker 3: Probably Like my friend Audra, who's goes to my school,
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  Speaker 3: she refs a lot of the local jiu jitsu tournaments,
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  Speaker 3: and it was a it was a fight Back Invitational,
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  Speaker 3: which was for a good cause. It was raising money
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  Speaker 3: for domestic violence survivors. So I was like, oh, I
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  Speaker 3: like that. It's like a women's only tournament. It's for
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  Speaker 3: a good cause, like you know, Like I I just
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  Speaker 3: was like fuck it, like I signed up and then
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  Speaker 3: I got like a match and I was, you know,
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  Speaker 3: I was like okay, cool, like I accept and I
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  Speaker 3: had to lose actually weight starting off jiu jitsu at
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  Speaker 3: ninety four pounds and then now I have to lose
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  Speaker 3: weight at one thirty I was like one thirty seven
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  Speaker 3: and I had to get down to one thirty five.
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  Speaker 3: So not like a lot like a weight, but I
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  Speaker 3: was like really stressed about that because I've never like
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  Speaker 3: had to lose weight before. I've always just been really tiny.
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  Speaker 3: But now I like enjoy food, yeah, which I never
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  Speaker 3: did before. And now I like eating, which is a
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  Speaker 3: problem because then you gotta make sure you're not eating
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  Speaker 3: too much.
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  Speaker 1: But yeah, eating the right things, not yeah, not eating
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  Speaker 1: the bad things and how often? Yes that makes sense yep.
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  Speaker 3: So yeah that's how I ended up doing that.
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  Speaker 1: So were you supposed to So it was only supposed
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  Speaker 1: to be one fight in general, not you weren't supposed
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  Speaker 1: to be a tournament or a series of fights or.
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  Speaker 2: No, it was just one like match one, so only match.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, and then your hand got.
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  Speaker 4: Broken yep, definitely be bad.
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  Speaker 1: That also affected your gun shooting as well, because a
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  Speaker 1: little bit.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I like when I went shooting like maybe I
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  Speaker 3: don't know, like a month after and it just the
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  Speaker 3: shooting pistols. It definitely like the kickback definitely hurt a
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  Speaker 3: little bit, but no problem with ars or like any shoulder.
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  Speaker 3: But I ought to stick with the big guns. But
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  Speaker 3: I'm fine now, Like I can definitely shoot now.
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  Speaker 1: Now do you see yourself doing another competition?
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  Speaker 2: I don't know.
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  Speaker 3: I really I wish this didn't happen, because I absolutely
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  Speaker 3: would like probably like tap cancer out which is in November,
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  Speaker 3: Like I like, I'm thinking about it, but I'm just
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  Speaker 3: like a little because I'm still wearing like when I
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  Speaker 3: go to train, I wear like this little finger thing
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  Speaker 3: that helps like just the joints not go too far
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  Speaker 3: back or forward that I start getting like pain if
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  Speaker 3: it gets pushed either way. So I don't know, like
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  Speaker 3: I want to because I was not prepared at all,
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  Speaker 3: Like I I definitely didn't do the right things to
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  Speaker 3: like prepare for it, and I just was having like
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  Speaker 3: a panic attack every day, like regretting signing up for
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  Speaker 3: the for it, but I was like I hate it
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  Speaker 3: back out, like I gotta go through with it.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, so I did.
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  Speaker 1: What do you what is it about the fight aspect
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  Speaker 1: that really kind of kind of get in your head
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  Speaker 1: about everything?
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  Speaker 3: I think, like because it was like everybody's watching one
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  Speaker 3: match at a time instead of like multiples going on,
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  Speaker 3: Like every all eyes are on me. And when I
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  Speaker 3: used to cheerlead before we would compete, I would just
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  Speaker 3: get the worst anxiety, like before we would go out.
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  Speaker 2: On the mat.
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  Speaker 3: So I think it just like comes with anything like that,
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  Speaker 3: I get terrible anxiety.
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  Speaker 1: So you were a flyer. I imagine that you were in
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  Speaker 1: a base. Yes, that was a flyer, So I mean
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  Speaker 1: that is yeah, because there's like at least three or
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  Speaker 1: four you fly in at one time, not obviously right
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  Speaker 1: next to each other, but so yeah, Plus you're a team,
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  Speaker 1: so nobody's really watching specifically you unless you're doing maybe
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  Speaker 1: the last toss or whatever. So but I can see
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  Speaker 1: I can imagine going from that to this is a
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  Speaker 1: huge difference. Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: I think like, no matter what, I'm my own worst critic. Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: so like I'm just really hard on myself and like
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  Speaker 3: I want to do my best, and if I don't
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  Speaker 3: do my best, I like I'm very hard on myself.
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  Speaker 2: And I'll like go into suppressing thoughts.
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  Speaker 1: Have you tried have you worked on also looking at
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  Speaker 1: the good things that have gone through as well, because
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  Speaker 1: I know there's so many people that I mean, we
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  Speaker 1: all can be our worst critics, and work is we
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  Speaker 1: know what we did worse than anybody else does because
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  Speaker 1: we're the ones doing it. We're the ones who were Like,
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  Speaker 1: because you've done through the reps. Obviously you're a blue belt,
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  Speaker 1: so you've gone through the reps of everything you need
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  Speaker 1: to be knowing when it comes to jiu jitsu, it's
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  Speaker 1: just you know, putting it into action and then so like,
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  Speaker 1: I imagine there were some good things you did through
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  Speaker 1: the competition as well, but you know, obviously the hand
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  Speaker 1: was the biggest bad part.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, honestly, I like it. It's still a blur. It's
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  Speaker 2: still a blur.
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  Speaker 3: Like, but the way I try to look at it
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  Speaker 3: is like where I came from ninety four pounds at
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  Speaker 3: the worst mental health state in my life, didn't think
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  Speaker 3: I was going to survive the loss of my dad
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  Speaker 3: to training jiu jitsu, putting on muscle, learning the craft,
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  Speaker 3: and then stepping out to compete in a super fight.
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  Speaker 3: Like that's that's like something I never saw myself doing
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  Speaker 3: when I started.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, No, it's a big you know feat just doing.
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  Speaker 1: That, right, No, that's a huge Yeah, congratulations on all
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  Speaker 1: of that because that I mean that a lot of
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  Speaker 1: people would let them continue to take them down and
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  Speaker 1: they would just waste away in life, and you didn't
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  Speaker 1: allow it to happen, and luckily you found your community.
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  Speaker 2: Yes.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, And I know my dad like would not want to,
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  Speaker 3: you know, see me waste away. He was always my
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  Speaker 3: biggest fan, like my biggest supporter, my biggest fan, and
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  Speaker 3: so like, I know, like he wouldn't want that.
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  Speaker 2: He would want to see me thrive. So I want to.
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  Speaker 2: I started wanting to live for him instead of wanting
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  Speaker 2: to like die for him.
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  Speaker 1: I love that so much. Well, I mean there's always
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  Speaker 1: November if you want to compete again.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, there's definitely going to be more.
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  Speaker 1: What is he the one who got you in the
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  Speaker 1: guns as well?
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  Speaker 3: No, actually I took him to the gun range to
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  Speaker 3: shoot his first pistol even though he was in the army.
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  Speaker 3: But yeah, uh no, it wasn't him. It was I
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  Speaker 3: think I had a thing for military guys. I definitely
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  Speaker 3: do have a thing for military guys. So it was
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  Speaker 3: like ex boyfriends that were into it, and I just
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  Speaker 3: I've always been a tomboy my whole life, like grew
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  Speaker 3: up with all men, and so I just I love
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  Speaker 3: anything like big guns blowing things up ATVs.
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  Speaker 2: Like, that's that's great for me. I love all that.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean that that gun world is huge, Like
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  Speaker 1: I'm not big in the guns. I think again, everyone
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  Speaker 1: should have a right to own their own guns. Obviously,
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  Speaker 1: I do think that we need to start doing more
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  Speaker 1: mental health checks for some people when it comes to guns.
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  Speaker 1: But and obviously we need if you have a license,
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  Speaker 1: you also need to go out and shoot it and
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  Speaker 1: operate that gun on a regular basis, because let's say
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  Speaker 1: somebody does break in or you do need to actually
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  Speaker 1: use it or whatever. You wouldn't know what the difference
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  Speaker 1: between a empty gun and a full gun is going
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  Speaker 1: to feel like, or where the safety be on a
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  Speaker 1: regular basis. Little things like that.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I think a lot of the fear of guns
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  Speaker 3: comes from like the ignorance to them and not knowing
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  Speaker 3: how to use them. And I think if people familiarize
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  Speaker 3: like they're not going anywhere, you know they're not going anywhere,
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  Speaker 3: so like, learn the I'm safety I have one right
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  Speaker 3: here sitting next to me.
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  Speaker 2: But yeah, like and especially being like.
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  Speaker 3: A small female, like I want to I want to
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  Speaker 3: be able to walk in the cemetery at night alone
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  Speaker 3: and not worry about anything because I know how to
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  Speaker 3: handle myself.
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  Speaker 2: So it gives me that freedom.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, it is so funny to me when I hear
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  Speaker 1: people like, oh, these politicians want to take our guns away,
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  Speaker 1: Good fucking luck. That's that's never going to fucking happen.
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  Speaker 2: Definitely not.
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  Speaker 1: You're gonna have like a Ruby Ridge situation happening where
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  Speaker 1: you get standoffs on a regular basis for people trying
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  Speaker 1: to take guns. So no, no, no one's going to take
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  Speaker 1: your guns away from you. Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: And and then like with what I do for work,
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  Speaker 3: it also right, like it's an industry that can come
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  Speaker 3: with crazy people, so it's good to know how to
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  Speaker 3: defend myself.
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  Speaker 1: How many do you okay, how many do you own
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  Speaker 1: and how many do you carry on a regular basis?
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  Speaker 3: Well, I only carry one usually regular. I never know,
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  Speaker 3: just got like three guns.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, you just like to punish your walking around.
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  Speaker 3: So I I only I wish I owned more. All
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  Speaker 3: my money has gone to my tattoos. But once I,
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  Speaker 3: you know, can save up again, I will definitely buy
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  Speaker 3: some more fun guns. But I have I have four pistols.
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  Speaker 3: I have my everyday carry, which is my SIG. I
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  Speaker 3: have Akeltech, which was my dad's. I have a nineteen eleven,
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  Speaker 3: and I have a Revolver.
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  Speaker 1: Nice. Yeah, that's the other thing is like they're expensive.
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  Speaker 1: I don't own a gun because they're expensive.
• 17:35
  Speaker 2: Yeah, some of them are.
• 17:36
  Speaker 3: You can definitely get pistols for like a reasonable price, like,
• 17:40
  Speaker 3: but I want like bigger guns, like the sig MPX
• 17:45
  Speaker 3: is like my favorite gun ever that I will own
• 17:47
  Speaker 3: one day.
• 17:48
  Speaker 2: But that gun's like two thousand dollars.
• 17:50
  Speaker 1: So whoa, that's yeah, that's too much. Well, so how
• 17:55
  Speaker 1: did you get When did modeling come into your world?
• 17:59
  Speaker 2: When I was eighteen?
• 18:00
  Speaker 3: Well, actually before that, I always wanted to model when
• 18:03
  Speaker 3: I was young, and my dad took me to a
• 18:05
  Speaker 3: Tommy Hill figure like audition when I was like, I
• 18:09
  Speaker 3: don't even know, like a twelve year old, but I always,
• 18:12
  Speaker 3: I don't know, I always wanted to do that, and
• 18:15
  Speaker 3: so when I turned eighteen, I started dabbling and like
• 18:20
  Speaker 3: I started getting tattooed heavily. I always wanted tattoosh and
• 18:24
  Speaker 3: then I found the world of like alternative modeling, and
• 18:27
  Speaker 3: so I just started doing photo shoots with local photographers,
• 18:33
  Speaker 3: doing like trade photo shoots and then I moved to
• 18:36
  Speaker 3: LA for a year when I was twenty one, and
• 18:40
  Speaker 3: I did Inked magazine. When I was out there, I
• 18:43
  Speaker 3: did Tattoo Magazine. I did some acting things, like I
• 18:47
  Speaker 3: just had like I wanted to be famous. I wanted
• 18:50
  Speaker 3: to act and model and do all the things. But yeah,
• 18:55
  Speaker 3: I ended up coming back from LA. That was a
• 18:58
  Speaker 3: long story, but was out there a year, came back
• 19:02
  Speaker 3: and then continued modeling out here and doing just kind
• 19:06
  Speaker 3: of like the alternative stuff, the tattoo expos and I
• 19:10
  Speaker 3: just I love creating art, whether that's like modeling with
• 19:14
  Speaker 3: guns or doing I have like my creative page which
• 19:17
  Speaker 3: is House of Emily on Instagram, and that's like I
• 19:22
  Speaker 3: love doing like horror and like just really creepy and
• 19:26
  Speaker 3: like cosplay and all of it.
• 19:28
  Speaker 2: I love it all.
• 19:29
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I love that how much cosplay has gotten bigger
• 19:32
  Speaker 1: and bigger over the years. And again that's something it's
• 19:34
  Speaker 1: not getting smaller either, because everyone's a fan of something
• 19:37
  Speaker 1: and everyone's a nerd for something too. So like the
• 19:40
  Speaker 1: fact that we're all also like dressing up as it
• 19:43
  Speaker 1: now and like like you said, doing photo shoots and
• 19:45
  Speaker 1: all this other stuff, and people that are like especially
• 19:47
  Speaker 1: the video game cosplayers that like spend so much time
• 19:51
  Speaker 1: when it comes to like building their giant costumes or whatever.
• 19:55
  Speaker 1: It is like there's some there's some local people here
• 19:57
  Speaker 1: that that build like these giant like almost robot things.
• 20:02
  Speaker 1: But this guy's walking around it. It's so awesome to watch.
• 20:06
  Speaker 3: Oh yeah, like the pyramid Head, like with the Silent
• 20:09
  Speaker 3: Hill nurses, Like, oh, I love that.
• 20:12
  Speaker 2: It's so cool.
• 20:13
  Speaker 3: And I like, I did game, I dabble. I like
• 20:16
  Speaker 3: Jack of All Trades, Like kind of is me? I?
• 20:20
  Speaker 3: I when covid hit I did. I was streaming on
• 20:23
  Speaker 3: Twitch playing a horror video game. Like, so I like
• 20:27
  Speaker 3: gaming as well. I'm a nerd. I love Star Wars.
• 20:29
  Speaker 3: I love all the nerdy things.
• 20:32
  Speaker 1: There's nothing wrong with that. Everyone's a nerd or something.
• 20:34
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, what the what was your first nerd tattoo?
• 20:39
  Speaker 2: Well?
• 20:40
  Speaker 3: I do have R two D two on my leg,
• 20:42
  Speaker 3: but that that was like only I did that recently. Actually,
• 20:47
  Speaker 3: my first tattoos was like my my tree up my side.
• 20:52
  Speaker 2: It is like my family tree.
• 20:55
  Speaker 3: It has me and my parents native American animals in it,
• 20:57
  Speaker 3: and then the roots at the bottom turned into like
• 21:01
  Speaker 3: a pumpkin patch and my brother's initials are in the pumpkins,
• 21:05
  Speaker 3: cool and the pumpkins. Like, my dad ran a haunted
• 21:08
  Speaker 3: house when I was young, and so I got to
• 21:12
  Speaker 3: get paid as a ten year old scaring people and that,
• 21:16
  Speaker 3: and that's probably where my love of horror came from.
• 21:19
  Speaker 1: I was gonna say, did it come before that or
• 21:20
  Speaker 1: did they come because of the house.
• 21:22
  Speaker 2: It's definitely because of that.
• 21:23
  Speaker 3: Like my dad loved Halloween, he loved haunted houses, he
• 21:27
  Speaker 3: loved creating. My dad was very theatrical and like, so
• 21:30
  Speaker 3: I definitely get that from him.
• 21:32
  Speaker 1: What how long did you run that for?
• 21:36
  Speaker 3: So the whole family got involved, my mom's side as well.
• 21:39
  Speaker 3: It actually well it started like at my preschool and
• 21:42
  Speaker 3: then it was like in our basement, and then they
• 21:46
  Speaker 3: started renting out this camp.
• 21:50
  Speaker 2: And it got huge, like where people were.
• 21:52
  Speaker 3: Paying to come in, and but then the family fought
• 21:55
  Speaker 3: over money, so it ended up falling apart sadly.
• 22:00
  Speaker 1: That's a that's unfortunate.
• 22:02
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean it was fun.
• 22:04
  Speaker 1: You could also start it up again, you never know.
• 22:07
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, god, I just have too many interests
• 22:10
  Speaker 3: that I struggled to like just stick with one thing.
• 22:14
  Speaker 1: I get that. That makes sense. Well, so you started
• 22:17
  Speaker 1: with horror movies early, I imagine, Oh yeah, what what
• 22:21
  Speaker 1: is your genre of horror movies?
• 22:24
  Speaker 2: I mean definitely not what do I call it? Like
• 22:30
  Speaker 2: the torture porn? Oh yeah, not like the Saw movies.
• 22:36
  Speaker 2: Not like that.
• 22:37
  Speaker 3: Like I like classics, like the Shining Pet Cemetery, the
• 22:43
  Speaker 3: Silence of the Lambs, like I love psychological thrillers.
• 22:47
  Speaker 2: Definitely.
• 22:48
  Speaker 1: I mean I think the first Saw movie, the ending
• 22:50
  Speaker 1: of that movie, that twist was so fantastic.
• 22:53
  Speaker 3: I love the storyline, like no hate to Saw or
• 22:56
  Speaker 3: even Hostile because I love the concept of these movies.
• 23:00
  Speaker 2: I just don't want to see all the tortures.
• 23:02
  Speaker 1: I completely understand that. That makes sense. Have you seen
• 23:05
  Speaker 1: Obsessed yet? No?
• 23:07
  Speaker 2: I have not, but I've heard lots about that. I
• 23:10
  Speaker 2: think it. Is it still in theaters or is it?
• 23:12
  Speaker 1: Yeah? I just watched it last night, and well, what's
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: so funny is that the box office it's getting more
• 23:17
  Speaker 1: money every weekend that it's in theaters. So I don't
• 23:21
  Speaker 1: see it getting released anytime soon. But who knows, I
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: don't know.
• 23:25
  Speaker 2: I just watched Apex last night. It's on Netflix. Have
• 23:30
  Speaker 2: you watched that?
• 23:30
  Speaker 1: I have not watched that one.
• 23:31
  Speaker 3: Now it's a thriller. Charlie starron Is stars in it,
• 23:36
  Speaker 3: and I was very good. That's like up my alley.
• 23:39
  Speaker 3: I would definitely check it out.
• 23:41
  Speaker 1: Okay, I will. I'll add that to my list.
• 23:43
  Speaker 3: It's like, have you seen The Descent? Yes, where they
• 23:47
  Speaker 3: go into.
• 23:48
  Speaker 2: Like the cave.
• 23:49
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that was creepy.
• 23:50
  Speaker 4: Love.
• 23:51
  Speaker 2: I love that those movies. It's kind of like that,
• 23:53
  Speaker 2: Like it's kind of like.
• 23:55
  Speaker 3: That kind of vibe nice but not cave like mountain
• 23:58
  Speaker 3: climbing more.
• 24:00
  Speaker 1: Yeah. Well, yeah, I remember watching Free Solo. I was
• 24:03
  Speaker 1: on a plane and like my hands were just sweating,
• 24:05
  Speaker 1: like it was just it was bad, and I was
• 24:08
  Speaker 1: also sad it was not about Han Solo, so it
• 24:10
  Speaker 1: was very annoying. Yeah, but no, like the Descent, like, well,
• 24:16
  Speaker 1: it's weird about those, Like I, caves are beautiful and
• 24:19
  Speaker 1: I would love to explore more caves, but I'm also
• 24:21
  Speaker 1: not gonna shimmy myself through rocks to go to Like
• 24:25
  Speaker 1: it could be the most beautiful thing I've ever seen
• 24:27
  Speaker 1: in my life, but I'm not gonna shimme myself through
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: rocks to go see it.
• 24:30
  Speaker 2: Sorry, absolutely not. Hell no, yeah, you couldn't pay me
• 24:34
  Speaker 2: to do that.
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: Well, speaking of Paige. So you're a model for Grapple
• 24:39
  Speaker 1: or di How did that partnership come about?
• 24:43
  Speaker 3: I don't even know how I found them on Instagram,
• 24:46
  Speaker 3: but I I found them and like, uh, I really
• 24:51
  Speaker 3: liked their like his style and and so I I
• 24:55
  Speaker 3: think I just like bought a rash guard from him,
• 24:59
  Speaker 3: and I we ended up just like we communicate and
• 25:02
  Speaker 3: then like I put him, I put his stuff onto
• 25:07
  Speaker 3: like other teammates that ended up wearing them. So we
• 25:10
  Speaker 3: just start like filming like roles or like funny videos
• 25:14
  Speaker 3: and and so we just did like an affiliate program
• 25:19
  Speaker 3: really with him, where I like, I have like a
• 25:21
  Speaker 3: discount code and I get like commissioned for that. But
• 25:26
  Speaker 3: I love his like I love his rash guards, and
• 25:29
  Speaker 3: he he has like the horror one and he has
• 25:33
  Speaker 3: like Michael Myers one he put out, Like I like
• 25:35
  Speaker 3: that the horror stuff.
• 25:37
  Speaker 1: I am loving the more collaboration of things like that
• 25:40
  Speaker 1: where you have like, yeah, I love BJJ or I
• 25:43
  Speaker 1: love the gym, but I also love horror movies and
• 25:45
  Speaker 1: I also love whatever it is. And then people just
• 25:48
  Speaker 1: combining their loves of again the nerdiness, but you're combining it,
• 25:52
  Speaker 1: and then people are loving it also and creating more money.
• 25:55
  Speaker 4: Out of it.
• 25:56
  Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I like that's part of the fun for me,
• 25:58
  Speaker 3: is like, well, I love training, but I love showing
• 26:01
  Speaker 3: up in like a nice matching set like that like
• 26:05
  Speaker 3: represents my interests, Like.
• 26:09
  Speaker 1: What do you So obviously the world of jiu jitsu
• 26:12
  Speaker 1: is getting so much bigger for you know, everybody, but
• 26:14
  Speaker 1: also for the women, and I think it's fantastic because again,
• 26:17
  Speaker 1: like you've experienced, if you go to the right place,
• 26:20
  Speaker 1: you are going to find absolutely the right community, the
• 26:23
  Speaker 1: right people you need to be around. And what has
• 26:25
  Speaker 1: that kind of been like for you considering again, like
• 26:28
  Speaker 1: you said, you were in the lowest point and now
• 26:30
  Speaker 1: you are in a place where you help. Probably other
• 26:33
  Speaker 1: women come in as well who are like, oh, I
• 26:35
  Speaker 1: don't know if this is for me or not, because
• 26:37
  Speaker 1: you know, they don't want to be rolling around with
• 26:39
  Speaker 1: a bunch of sweaty dudes, but they can feel at
• 26:41
  Speaker 1: home with rolling around with a bunch of women.
• 26:45
  Speaker 3: Yeah. So I mean I love helping new people male
• 26:52
  Speaker 3: or female. Like I definitely take advantage of the newcomers
• 26:56
  Speaker 3: as well by you know, getting in being the hammer
• 26:59
  Speaker 3: for once because.
• 26:59
  Speaker 2: I'm you know, I get I get abused by.
• 27:02
  Speaker 3: The upper belts, the bigger guys and like I, which
• 27:05
  Speaker 3: I'm totally okay with because they don't like, you know,
• 27:07
  Speaker 3: they have like techniques so they're not actually hurting me.
• 27:10
  Speaker 3: They're they have control and I feel safe with them.
• 27:13
  Speaker 3: But I got to be the hammer once in a while,
• 27:15
  Speaker 3: so sometimes I pick on the new ones, you know,
• 27:18
  Speaker 3: like but yeah, no, I love like I try to
• 27:21
  Speaker 3: like bring.
• 27:24
  Speaker 2: Fellow co workers to jiu jitsu.
• 27:27
  Speaker 3: It's like you can lead them there, but you can't
• 27:29
  Speaker 3: like make them stay. It's on you, like if you
• 27:32
  Speaker 3: if you want to stay, and like it works for you.
• 27:36
  Speaker 3: But I think it's amazing. In my gym in particular,
• 27:40
  Speaker 3: like we have a lot of women. We actually the
• 27:43
  Speaker 3: women of my gym just did a fundraising event called
• 27:46
  Speaker 3: Less Leg, More Heart that's for helping amputees. We all
• 27:51
  Speaker 3: it was a fire truck pull where we all just
• 27:55
  Speaker 3: like hold a fire truck as fast as we could
• 27:58
  Speaker 3: and there's a bunch of teams doing it or single
• 28:00
  Speaker 3: people doing it.
• 28:01
  Speaker 2: And it was great.
• 28:03
  Speaker 3: It was a nice like bonding experience with like the girls.
• 28:06
  Speaker 1: That's awesome. I like that name too, especially for amputees.
• 28:10
  Speaker 1: That's fantastic.
• 28:12
  Speaker 2: Yeah, well, so.
• 28:15
  Speaker 1: I mean I see it all the time where you know,
• 28:18
  Speaker 1: the videos are the video content's so much better now,
• 28:22
  Speaker 1: you know, helping to advance the sport as well, and
• 28:25
  Speaker 1: getting more people eyeballs whether they're you know, obviously they're
• 28:28
  Speaker 1: attractive women doing jiu jitsu, so why wouldn't people want
• 28:32
  Speaker 1: to watch videos of it? So how much more fun
• 28:34
  Speaker 1: is the content creation because some of it's so funny
• 28:37
  Speaker 1: as well, where it's like like it's I think Lori
• 28:40
  Speaker 1: Senko has done great stuff as well, where it's like
• 28:43
  Speaker 1: they make it look real sexy and then all of
• 28:44
  Speaker 1: a sudden like nope, you're getting choked out, or nope,
• 28:47
  Speaker 1: you're you're going to sleep and little things like that. Yeah.
• 28:50
  Speaker 2: No, I love especially making like comedic content. I really love.
• 28:54
  Speaker 3: Like it's really hard to like come up with ideas sometimes,
• 28:58
  Speaker 3: but yeah, I really And then also you've got to
• 29:03
  Speaker 3: get people on board that are.
• 29:04
  Speaker 2: Like down to make content.
• 29:06
  Speaker 3: But luckily, my friend Audra is all about making content
• 29:10
  Speaker 3: with me, so we've made some really funny videos that
• 29:13
  Speaker 3: have gone like a little viral on TikTok as well,
• 29:17
  Speaker 3: like I'm on TikTok as well.
• 29:19
  Speaker 2: But it's so hard to keep up with all of it.
• 29:22
  Speaker 1: Like and everything.
• 29:23
  Speaker 3: Yeah, it's too much like TikTok Instagram. I had a
• 29:28
  Speaker 3: YouTube for a while, I had Facebook. Like it's it's
• 29:31
  Speaker 3: so time consuming and I try to like not have
• 29:34
  Speaker 3: it take up all of my time, but I really
• 29:37
  Speaker 3: like making videos like.
• 29:40
  Speaker 2: So I try to find a balance of it.
• 29:41
  Speaker 1: But yeah, no, that balances are I don't have a
• 29:45
  Speaker 1: TikTok for I mean multiple reasons probably, but also I
• 29:48
  Speaker 1: don't have the time to create the content to do it.
• 29:50
  Speaker 1: And then you know, I'm an audio really only podcast
• 29:53
  Speaker 1: and so like you, like you were asking, like are
• 29:56
  Speaker 1: we doing video? I'm like, no, I don't want to
• 29:58
  Speaker 1: also keep up with that.
• 30:00
  Speaker 2: Yeah no, that's understandable, I.
• 30:03
  Speaker 1: Mean something, but yeah, I'm good for not having it now.
• 30:08
  Speaker 1: Yeah so that's fun. Well, so, I mean with the
• 30:13
  Speaker 1: costumes and the cosplaying the ideas you've had, is there
• 30:16
  Speaker 1: one that you've been having an idea for but you
• 30:19
  Speaker 1: just you just hadn't come about yet or you haven't
• 30:21
  Speaker 1: maybe even figured out how to go about it.
• 30:24
  Speaker 2: Hmmm.
• 30:26
  Speaker 3: I have like a list on my phone of like
• 30:29
  Speaker 3: ideas that I want to do.
• 30:33
  Speaker 2: I would love to do more Star Wars. I just
• 30:35
  Speaker 2: got a Vader.
• 30:36
  Speaker 3: Mask last Halloween, so and I have like a Vader costume,
• 30:41
  Speaker 3: So I would love to do my like sexy Vader
• 30:43
  Speaker 3: like look, anything to bust out my lightsaber.
• 30:47
  Speaker 2: Honestly, I would love to do Padome as well. I
• 30:50
  Speaker 2: have not done.
• 30:52
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I've done slave Lea, which is a big hit.
• 30:58
  Speaker 1: I mean that's that's if you're a star. Where's yeah guy?
• 31:01
  Speaker 1: Especially growing up when I did that was probably like
• 31:03
  Speaker 1: your number one, Like if you want a girl to
• 31:05
  Speaker 1: dress up for you, that's probably what you want.
• 31:08
  Speaker 3: Yeah, and then I like I love Harley Quinn obviously, Yeah,
• 31:13
  Speaker 3: Harley Quinn signed by me.
• 31:14
  Speaker 2: Yeah, my my place, like.
• 31:16
  Speaker 3: I I got led lights everywhere and like I like it.
• 31:20
  Speaker 3: So it's like every inch I can like take pictures
• 31:23
  Speaker 3: and have like a different.
• 31:24
  Speaker 2: Kind of like back roup. Oh yeah that's makes Yeah,
• 31:27
  Speaker 2: I have it.
• 31:28
  Speaker 3: Like said, I have a big dead Pool over my
• 31:30
  Speaker 3: doorway over there. Yeah, I would love to redoce some
• 31:34
  Speaker 3: of my old looks too, Like I would love to
• 31:36
  Speaker 3: redo like Deadpool, like Lady Deadpool.
• 31:39
  Speaker 2: And I don't know, I have a list of ideas.
• 31:45
  Speaker 3: I just did a car show on Thursday, and I
• 31:48
  Speaker 3: did like kind of a Marilyn Monroe pin up.
• 31:52
  Speaker 2: I'm very excited to get those pictures.
• 31:54
  Speaker 1: She was gonna be a hundred this year, that's right.
• 31:57
  Speaker 2: Oh really, I didn't even know that.
• 31:58
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, I forget where, but there's somewhere where,
• 32:03
  Speaker 1: Like every I think it's her birthday, which was I
• 32:05
  Speaker 1: think a couple of weeks ago, but so many people
• 32:08
  Speaker 1: will like will dress up and be around like where
• 32:12
  Speaker 1: she I think where she grew up or something like that.
• 32:14
  Speaker 1: But yeah, there was like a Guinness World Records of
• 32:16
  Speaker 1: like the most people dresses Marilyn Monroe for a birthday
• 32:18
  Speaker 1: the other day.
• 32:19
  Speaker 2: Oh my god, I didn't even know that, and I
• 32:21
  Speaker 2: dressed up.
• 32:23
  Speaker 1: I don't know.
• 32:23
  Speaker 2: They probably wasn't on.
• 32:24
  Speaker 1: Thursday, but it was not on Thursday.
• 32:27
  Speaker 2: I was more just.
• 32:27
  Speaker 3: Going for like a pin up vibe because it's like
• 32:30
  Speaker 3: it was a classic car show and I just had
• 32:35
  Speaker 3: this like I knew there was going to be like
• 32:36
  Speaker 3: an army jeep there, and so I wanted to do
• 32:39
  Speaker 3: like kind of an army pin up.
• 32:41
  Speaker 1: Look awesome. Yeah, I think pin ups might be maybe
• 32:46
  Speaker 1: the original alternative like modeling, even though like although I
• 32:50
  Speaker 1: think they just call alternative modeling because they have tattoos,
• 32:53
  Speaker 1: even though yeah, every model now has the tattoos. So
• 32:56
  Speaker 1: it's it's weird how that line is still what they
• 32:59
  Speaker 1: think is alternative. But then like, no, you're still modeling,
• 33:02
  Speaker 1: but you just want to slap another name on.
• 33:05
  Speaker 3: Yeah, well I think it's like heavily tattooed, like a
• 33:09
  Speaker 3: lot of people have like one or two. It's such
• 33:12
  Speaker 3: a commitment to like get full sleeves and oh yeah.
• 33:15
  Speaker 1: I mean I would love it one day, but again
• 33:17
  Speaker 1: it's the money.
• 33:18
  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, money pain, I'm so old.
• 33:22
  Speaker 1: Yeah, finding a good artist as well.
• 33:24
  Speaker 3: I can help you with that if you ever need.
• 33:26
  Speaker 3: I know so many good artists that are well, actually
• 33:29
  Speaker 3: I don't even know where you're from.
• 33:30
  Speaker 1: You're good. I'm a DFW Texas and we have we
• 33:33
  Speaker 1: have a lot of great artists here as well. But yeah,
• 33:35
  Speaker 1: I had an idea for a while of like going
• 33:37
  Speaker 1: around a different like really good artist, but again, at
• 33:40
  Speaker 1: that point you're also like paying really good prices. But
• 33:43
  Speaker 1: oh yeah, yeah, I don't know. Maybe one day.
• 33:46
  Speaker 3: It's like that's the commitment. You really got to be motivated.
• 33:50
  Speaker 1: Yeah. Well, plus there are so many great styles now too,
• 33:52
  Speaker 1: like obviously black and white and Americana been around forever,
• 33:55
  Speaker 1: but then we're getting people doing like watercolor stuff, and
• 33:58
  Speaker 1: we're getting like all these last That's the other thing
• 34:01
  Speaker 1: is like whether it lasts for so like portrait tattoos,
• 34:04
  Speaker 1: Like you have a really great portrait there, I mean, yeah, oh,
• 34:07
  Speaker 1: that's an amazing dexter.
• 34:09
  Speaker 3: Yeah, and then my whole I have a half leg
• 34:13
  Speaker 3: sleeve of Tarantino movie characters because he's my favorite director.
• 34:18
  Speaker 1: Oh awesome. What do you think of his new one? Goods?
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  Speaker 1: I mean, he hasn't announced when or if it's going
• 34:26
  Speaker 1: to come out, but he said he's doing one.
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  Speaker 3: More, yes, because he has this theory that directors suck
• 34:33
  Speaker 3: after ten movies, and that will be his tenth. I
• 34:36
  Speaker 3: loved his last one Once upon a time in Hollywood.
• 34:38
  Speaker 2: I thought it was amazing.
• 34:39
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that one's an instant classic.
• 34:42
  Speaker 3: Yes, it was very very good, very long, but honestly,
• 34:45
  Speaker 3: like I rewatched it multiple times, and I don't think
• 34:48
  Speaker 3: anything could be taken out of it.
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  Speaker 2: I think every part needs to be in it.
• 34:51
  Speaker 1: No, I fully agree on that. But no, I've thought
• 34:54
  Speaker 1: about portrait tattoos too, like you have, Like whether they
• 34:58
  Speaker 1: stay that great look for that long is a whole
• 35:01
  Speaker 1: other thing.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, that's that's the thing as well. Like I I've
• 35:05
  Speaker 3: heard that portraits like that's like, like, don't mess around
• 35:08
  Speaker 3: with getting a portrait. Do not go to any artists,
• 35:11
  Speaker 3: like because you're just gonna get some. I've seen some
• 35:14
  Speaker 3: terrible portraits, especially people getting like their kids as babies,
• 35:20
  Speaker 3: and it just looks like a monster, like a gollum
• 35:23
  Speaker 3: or something terrifying. Like No, I like I waited a
• 35:28
  Speaker 3: year on a list to get to the guy that
• 35:31
  Speaker 3: did my thigh wow, because I was like, I'm not
• 35:35
  Speaker 3: messing around. I want it's on me to I die.
• 35:37
  Speaker 3: I want the best out there, and I'll pay for it.
• 35:40
  Speaker 1: Like yeah, no, that's exactly right, because it's getting it's
• 35:44
  Speaker 1: gonna be on your body for this year life.
• 35:46
  Speaker 2: Yep.
• 35:48
  Speaker 1: Well, I have a segment on the show. I call
• 35:49
  Speaker 1: it the five Counts, just five random questions. Okay, who
• 35:53
  Speaker 1: was your first concert? Uh?
• 35:56
  Speaker 2: That was Red Hot Chili Pepper is Actually yeah, I
• 36:03
  Speaker 2: was like ten.
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  Speaker 3: My mom My mom was big in a rock, especially
• 36:07
  Speaker 3: nineties rock.
• 36:08
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean they're fantastic.
• 36:09
  Speaker 3: He was actually devastated because the lead singer his name
• 36:14
  Speaker 3: is slipping my mind right now, he just cut all
• 36:18
  Speaker 3: his hair. He had very long, beautiful hair and he
• 36:21
  Speaker 3: just chopped it off, and she was like devastated.
• 36:25
  Speaker 2: Red hot chili pepper singer.
• 36:27
  Speaker 1: Oh, Anthony Keats he did that a long time.
• 36:29
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, that was a long time ago.
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  Speaker 3: But I just remember my mom was like devastated that
• 36:34
  Speaker 3: he cut all his hair.
• 36:35
  Speaker 2: It was like bleached blonde. In short.
• 36:37
  Speaker 1: I do remember him doing bleach blonde. I was like,
• 36:39
  Speaker 1: all right, you can do whatever you want. I guess
• 36:43
  Speaker 1: Number two, if you owned a liquor company, brewery, winery,
• 36:46
  Speaker 1: coffee shop, or dispensary, which one would you own and
• 36:48
  Speaker 1: what would the name be?
• 36:50
  Speaker 2: A coffee shop?
• 36:50
  Speaker 3: For sure, I love making a fancy espresso drinks. I
• 36:55
  Speaker 3: have a really nice espresso machine in my house. Feel
• 36:59
  Speaker 3: like I would involved a name with like cats, like
• 37:04
  Speaker 3: something I don't know me, like something with catnip I
• 37:06
  Speaker 3: don't know. I like, I swear I've thought about this,
• 37:08
  Speaker 3: but I'm like forgetting my ideas.
• 37:10
  Speaker 1: Now it's okay, we'll come back to it. Number three,
• 37:15
  Speaker 1: what emoji do you use most?
• 37:18
  Speaker 2: Hmmm?
• 37:20
  Speaker 3: The emoji I use most is probably I like the eyeballs,
• 37:27
  Speaker 3: like just like the two big eyeballs that are like
• 37:29
  Speaker 3: looking to the side.
• 37:30
  Speaker 2: I like that one a lot.
• 37:32
  Speaker 1: What does that represent to you?
• 37:36
  Speaker 2: Like sarcasm or like side eyeing?
• 37:41
  Speaker 1: I always wonder how people speak of emojis. Number four,
• 37:45
  Speaker 1: who are what inspires you?
• 37:51
  Speaker 2: I think my dad inspired me.
• 37:55
  Speaker 3: And just wanting to live the best life I can
• 38:03
  Speaker 3: for him.
• 38:04
  Speaker 1: Love that. And number five, what would you tell your
• 38:07
  Speaker 1: seventeen year olds self?
• 38:10
  Speaker 2: Don't move to LA with a boy?
• 38:17
  Speaker 1: There you go anyway, listen, do not do that?
• 38:20
  Speaker 2: Yes, don't do that. It will go wrong, just like
• 38:24
  Speaker 2: they tell you.
• 38:27
  Speaker 1: Well, if people, if anybody wants to find out more
• 38:29
  Speaker 1: about you, follow you online, support you in any way,
• 38:31
  Speaker 1: how can.
• 38:32
  Speaker 4: They do so?
• 38:34
  Speaker 3: I'm Emily's caliber on Instagram. That's probably the social media
• 38:38
  Speaker 3: that I use the most, so I would definitely recommend
• 38:43
  Speaker 3: to find me on there.
• 38:45
  Speaker 1: There we go.
• 38:46
  Speaker 3: I also, I don't know if like this is I
• 38:49
  Speaker 3: also do spicy content.
• 38:51
  Speaker 1: There we go? Yeah, talk about it?
• 38:53
  Speaker 3: Oh uh yeah, So I am on of and you
• 38:55
  Speaker 3: can find me on there under the same name.
• 38:58
  Speaker 1: There we go. Emily, Thank you so much for your time.
• 39:01
  Speaker 1: I've loved this, And yeah, I do hope that you
• 39:04
  Speaker 1: go back to competing with the jiu jitsu. But again,
• 39:07
  Speaker 1: train a little bit beforehands and you should be fine.
• 39:10
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean either way, like it's it's my life now.
• 39:13
  Speaker 2: I love it.
• 39:14
  Speaker 3: It's my community, so like I'll be a hobbyist. I'm
• 39:17
  Speaker 3: okay with that as well.
• 39:18
  Speaker 1: But yeah, love it.
• 39:21
  Speaker 4: Thank you, no problem, Thank you.
• 39:36
  Speaker 1: So much Emily for being on the show again. Definitely
• 39:38
  Speaker 1: make sure to go follow her on social media. She
• 39:40
  Speaker 1: was doing absolutely awesome things and only in jiu jitsu,
• 39:42
  Speaker 1: helping others as well when it comes to jiu jitsu,
• 39:45
  Speaker 1: but guns, modeling, all the above. She's doing absolutely great things,
• 39:48
  Speaker 1: so definitely make sure to go follow her on social media.
• 39:51
  Speaker 1: And while you're following her, definitely gonna make sure to
• 39:53
  Speaker 1: follow us at bruisers Pod. That has be R E
• 39:56
  Speaker 1: W sc RSD on the Instagram, the threads and the
• 39:59
  Speaker 1: two with that. If you want to send us an email,
• 40:02
  Speaker 1: it is bruisespot at gmail dot com. If you will follow
• 40:04
  Speaker 1: me directly, it is Ruddy John. That is r O
• 40:06
  Speaker 1: D I E j O N. Roddy John is the
• 40:08
  Speaker 1: name on the Twitter. Okay, youn'a find out what I'm drinking.
• 40:11
  Speaker 1: Maybe we can have a beer together. If you will
• 40:13
  Speaker 1: follow me on the threads or the Instagram. It is official.
• 40:15
  Speaker 1: Ready John, So, until next time, make sure to enjoy life,
• 40:18
  Speaker 1: drink local. Cheers