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90 Day The Single Life Season 5, Episode Episode 15 Tell All Part 1: (2 of 2) · Vanity Farah with Chris Farah

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Speaker 1: Hi, everyone, Welcome back to It's nine a Day, It's
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Speaker 1: The Single Life, It's season five. It's the tell All
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Speaker 1: Part one, but part two of my recap of the
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Speaker 1: tell All Part one. You saw what I did. I'm
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Speaker 1: As we know, Nicole Pedro's sister is being phoned in honey,
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Speaker 1: and we've been going back and forth between Sophie and
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Speaker 1: her and other people talking about whose fault was the
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Speaker 1: demid eyes of this relationship that should have been the
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Speaker 1: relationship of relationships. They would have been the golden couple
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Speaker 1: of ninety Day fiance who somehow, as Sophie said, didn't
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Speaker 1: know that Pedro was on the show when she started
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Speaker 1: talking to him in DMS. But then you know what
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Speaker 1: a coink and inc and then you know it never
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Speaker 1: worked out because she didn't like him anyway. So you know,
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Speaker 1: Nicole is there yelling and Coltie is like, how do
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Speaker 1: I get in Nicole's pants? And Sophie's so disgusted and
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Speaker 1: she's like, I can't believe this is my life. Someone
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Speaker 1: saved me. And I will also say this for talking
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Speaker 1: about Pedro's sister and Pedro's mom and how they affected Sophie.
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Speaker 1: At this point, I'm wondering if Claire is like a
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Speaker 1: don't talk about subject for ninety Day because we never
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Speaker 1: bring her up. And Claire was the best part of
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Speaker 1: Sophie and Rob season one by far, by far, I mean,
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Speaker 1: Sophie is pretty much unwatchable without her, and I feel
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Speaker 1: like not anything once knows that's why they gave her Julia,
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Speaker 1: but like, Julia is no Claire. But I wonder why
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Speaker 1: we didn't talk like, well, Sophie, you know, you also
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Speaker 1: know what it's like to have kind of an intense
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Speaker 1: mom who gets in you know, their children's love life
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Speaker 1: and business, right, but we never do. We're like why, okay,
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Speaker 1: I would have to ask Ross that, like on the
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Speaker 1: d L anyway, Sophie has like been like, well I
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Speaker 1: was still not really over Rob and then you know,
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Speaker 1: Nicole made it really awkward for me, and then Pedro
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Speaker 1: didn't defend me, and that's why you know, things didn't progress.
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Speaker 1: You saw that I pulled away never got back, and
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Speaker 1: I was like, well, you also pulled away the minute
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Speaker 1: you landed and got in the car and saw the
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Speaker 1: disco ball, so I mean, you know, come on. So
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Speaker 1: Pedro's like, well, fuck everyone, here's my secret. I am
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Speaker 1: dating a new person. Her name is Valentina. She's from Colombia.
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Speaker 1: She is the love of my life. And we get,
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Speaker 1: you know, a FaceTime from Valentina, and she is very
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Speaker 1: hot and she has like thick, blonde, chunky highlights like
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Speaker 1: that frame her face and she does that kind of
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Speaker 1: like fox eye eyeliner, and she is hot, like she
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Speaker 1: is hot, and like Liz knows it. Liz is like
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Speaker 1: wait one second, and Liz has to put on her
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Speaker 1: glasses to like see how truly hot she is. She's hot.
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Speaker 1: Now at this point, Nicole, who has been labeled like
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Speaker 1: a shitster for all of Pedro's relationships and like Sophie
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Speaker 1: was like, you're the reason why he's single, could have
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Speaker 1: a moment of resurrection if she could just seemingly be
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Speaker 1: cordial to Valentina, who were assuming she's never met before.
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Speaker 1: Do you think Nicole does it? Spoiler alert she does.
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Speaker 1: She's like, well, so we see me me Valentina, and
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Speaker 1: you know, she seems very nice and we can very
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Speaker 1: much tell that Pedro was like obsessed with her. And yeah,
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Speaker 1: then they asked Nicole, like, Nicole, what do you think
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Speaker 1: of Valentina? And she's like, well, I think she steals
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Speaker 1: like an escort. Now, I don't know if Nicole's mind.
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Speaker 1: She was like, I said escort. I didn't say who.
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Speaker 1: I didn't say whore. I didn't say prostitute. I said escort.
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Speaker 1: It's interesting there's a lot of words for like sex workers, right,
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Speaker 1: like female sex workers, and like, over the course of time,
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Speaker 1: you know, there's like the high end ones and they're
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Speaker 1: usually like called well back in the historical days like
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Speaker 1: a cortison or god bless, but in the eighties and nineties,
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Speaker 1: you know, I was so obsessed with like Cachet and
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Speaker 1: Hatdie Flies that like, if you got paid a lot,
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Speaker 1: you were like a high end escort. But obviously you
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Speaker 1: could just be like a prostitute or whatnot. But Nicole
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Speaker 1: says escort and they're like, why do you think that?
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Speaker 1: And then she says, oh, because I went to her
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Speaker 1: social media and she has a bunch of pictures of
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Speaker 1: her like traveling around in places like Dubai, and no
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Speaker 1: picks of her family. And I almost I wanted to
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Speaker 1: be like, oh, so you think she's a yacht girl.
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Speaker 1: That's what you think. You think she's a yacht girl
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Speaker 1: because there is like the sort of Instagram baddie that
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Speaker 1: portrays like a rich traveling's lifestyle. You know, it's like
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Speaker 1: always going to be a hot picture of them, no
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Speaker 1: one else or maybe a hot friend or two. It's
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Speaker 1: gonna be a lot of travel shots. It's gonna be
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Speaker 1: a lot of like hand with a ring on it,
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Speaker 1: grabbing like a drink of some kind, and then somewhere
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Speaker 1: else on the table just happens to be like a
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Speaker 1: Chanelle bag or do your bag, or you know, Balenciaga
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Speaker 1: bag or a Botega bag. You know, in such a
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Speaker 1: way that is like obviously artfully arranged for you to
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Speaker 1: give off the vibe that you're expensive as shit. And
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Speaker 1: I will also say that that aesthetic to me is
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Speaker 1: played out like that gives like two thousand and like
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Speaker 1: twenty two to me. You know, like Instagram's hard, I guess,
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Speaker 1: you know, for people to like wrap their mind around
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Speaker 1: what kind of profile they have. And if you go
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Speaker 1: to my Instagram, it's literally just all reels of Donnita Fiance.
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Speaker 1: Now I basically do nothing else, but it's by far
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Speaker 1: the highest engagement I'll get. I wonder, like, yeah, Dubai
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Speaker 1: has also become sort of like a place where hot
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Speaker 1: girls go, and if they're not Arab, people wonder why
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Speaker 1: I you know, I think it's interesting. Now this is
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Speaker 1: where Valentina is like, no, no, I'm not a prostitute.
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Speaker 1: You don't know me. You don't know the whole story.
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Speaker 1: You don't know my morals and my values. And I'm
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Speaker 1: a psychologist or a therapist or something. That's how I,
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Speaker 1: you know, live, And like I think either Kimberly or
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Speaker 1: Vanni's like, yeah, that's how she travels. It's from her
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Speaker 1: therapy psychologists sessions, Columbia to Dubai is really really it's
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Speaker 1: a big trip Dubai. The thought of going to Dubai
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Speaker 1: scares the hell out of me. And you know, I
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Speaker 1: come from the desert people, so I don't know why
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Speaker 1: it seems like a like a somehow like scarier Vegas,
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Speaker 1: because Vegas isn't scary, like Vegas is just can be
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Speaker 1: like great and then depressing. The Dubai seems like a
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Speaker 1: very foreign, scary Vegas where I can't tell what's real
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Speaker 1: or what's not. And if I think that something looks safe,
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Speaker 1: it could easily be not safe. However, I will say this,
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Speaker 1: I do have Arabs in my life that are like
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Speaker 1: love Dubai and are like, yeah, if you go there,
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Speaker 1: you you know, like no one there's no crime, there's
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Speaker 1: like no one steals anything or something, and I'm like
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Speaker 1: that's good. But at the same time, I just feel
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Speaker 1: like I would have no rights there as a human.
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Speaker 1: I don't know, it just oh, it's like I wish
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Speaker 1: I could say that I've gotten like stronger and or
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Speaker 1: like more brave as I've gotten older, and I feel
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Speaker 1: like that's not true. I feel like, yeah, like ignorance
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Speaker 1: is bliss and now I feel like I've just learned
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Speaker 1: and I'm too scared of things anyway. Okay, So this
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Speaker 1: is also where we've already like had Pedro deal with
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Speaker 1: the fact that his family can break up his relationships
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Speaker 1: and he's supposedly talking to the love of his life
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Speaker 1: and now his sister has just called her a sex
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Speaker 1: worker on TV. You would think that Pedro would be
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Speaker 1: like Nicole, shut up or or whatever, kaya te tuboca,
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Speaker 1: or be bad at her, or tell Nicole like that
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Speaker 1: she's in the wrong. He doesn't. He doesn't ever. Isn't
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Speaker 1: that interesting? And I wonder if there's a part of
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Speaker 1: him that thinks it's true then, and if he does
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Speaker 1: maybe consider it to be true, why does he think
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Speaker 1: he's going to have enough money to, like, you know,
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Speaker 1: take care of a woman like that, Because if you
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Speaker 1: are like a woman like that, you need financial means
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Speaker 1: and someone can, certainly if she is a sex worker,
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Speaker 1: you can, someone can certainly retire you from that life,
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Speaker 1: but they would have to, you know, make sure that
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Speaker 1: you're taken care of in the way you want to
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Speaker 1: be taken care of, into your standards for the rest
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Speaker 1: of your life. And that's expensive, you know, And It's like,
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Speaker 1: that's basically it's funny because Gino had always said, you know,
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Speaker 1: like he dated sugar Babies and Jazz and he meant
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Speaker 1: on a sugar baby website, and you know, he had
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Speaker 1: promised certain things to Jasmine and definitely didn't deliver. And
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Speaker 1: she has like one of her greatest lines, She's like,
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Speaker 1: if I was a sugar baby, I would be the
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Speaker 1: sugar baby of sugar babies. And I was like, well,
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Speaker 1: I don't know, because I don't feel like you'd be
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Speaker 1: with him. You would feel like you'd gotten someone more
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Speaker 1: uh richer anyway, more richer is what I said. Oh god,
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Speaker 1: So anyways. It is also revealed that Pedro is planning
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Speaker 1: to bring Valentina to the DR and then meet his
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Speaker 1: mom and sister, and Ross like, well, what happens if
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Speaker 1: your mom doesn't like her? He's like, well, if I don't,
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Speaker 1: if my mom doesn't approve, oh well then I'll just
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Speaker 1: never see them again. I don't care about their opinion. Like,
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Speaker 1: if you don't care about their opinion, why are you
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Speaker 1: bringing her? But also there's this thing that none of
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Speaker 1: the fiance people do, which is like, if you can
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Speaker 1: date someone abroad, then it almost guarantees you a spot
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Speaker 1: if they like you. On the new season of Undeath Fiance, right,
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Speaker 1: that's kind of what Elice did. So it feels like
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Speaker 1: he's only too happy to be part of the you know,
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Speaker 1: the multiverse by dating someone abroad. He's not the only one.
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Speaker 1: I feel like, kind of the same thing with Colti,
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Speaker 1: though I think Colti does have a type. Okay, so
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Speaker 1: we are supposed to believe that Pedro doesn't care about
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Speaker 1: his mom's opinion because he loves Valentina so much. And
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Speaker 1: I want to be like, well, don't bring her then,
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Speaker 1: because they're not going to be nice to her. And
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Speaker 1: if this was the love of your life, you would
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Speaker 1: have to make sure that she feels comfortable and safe,
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Speaker 1: and you know it doesn't bode well, especially if without
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Speaker 1: meeting her. Nicole's like on national television. First thing, you're
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Speaker 1: at escort. So we move on to kim Bali. Kim
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Speaker 1: bali Is says that she's still with Wyne and she's
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Speaker 1: going to go back to the UK to hang out
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Speaker 1: with him very soon, and she's going to stay eight
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Speaker 1: days at his house with no Jamal and they're like, okay,
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Speaker 1: so are you guys exclusive? And she's like yes, and
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Speaker 1: they're like, well are you do you? Are you boyf
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Speaker 1: and a girl? And she's like, titles are childish and
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Speaker 1: she's like, yeah, they don't mean anything to us. I
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Speaker 1: mean him, I mean us. And he says that we
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Speaker 1: are just seeing each other. We're seeing each other, and
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Speaker 1: Sophie's like, well, I'm from the UK and seeing each
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Speaker 1: other means that you guys aren't exclusive, that you're not
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Speaker 1: boyfriend or girlfriend. Now I want to be like Sophie,
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Speaker 1: that's kind of what it means in America too, If
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Speaker 1: I mean yeah, if you are like, hey, what's happening here?
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Speaker 1: Like how what's happening here? And someone was like, I
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Speaker 1: don't like labels, so I'm just going to say we're
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Speaker 1: seeing each other. I'd be it's to me, the same
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Speaker 1: thing as dating. Oh you're dating, because dating, to me
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Speaker 1: means that you and this person are forging a path
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Speaker 1: where you go on dates, that you are interested in
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Speaker 1: each other romantically, and the goal is to continue spending
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Speaker 1: time in little pockets where you explore each other's personalities.
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Speaker 1: But dating, if I'm dating someone, it could easily mean
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Speaker 1: I'm also dating other people or I'm open to dating
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Speaker 1: other people or I'm still on the apps or whatever,
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Speaker 1: and seeing each other sort of feels like the exact
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Speaker 1: same thing, because maybe like it's like I could be
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Speaker 1: seeing someone and then still have like a friends with
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Speaker 1: benefit situation, so I mean the same thing. Then Jamal
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Speaker 1: comes out and I guess on between the sheets, there
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Speaker 1: was a moment where Jamal and Sophie were filming where
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Speaker 1: Jamal let it be known that the way in which
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Speaker 1: he found out about his brother Larry was that Kimbally
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Speaker 1: had gotten contacted by Larry. And I don't understand exactly why,
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Speaker 1: but she decided to pretend to be Jamal in communication
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Speaker 1: with Larry. I don't know if it's like Larry had
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Speaker 1: reached out to Jamal's I don't know how this happened,
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Speaker 1: but like so, she pretty much catfished her son by
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Speaker 1: pretending to be her other son. And that the day
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Speaker 1: that Jamal found out, you know, about Larry, he also
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Speaker 1: found out with the catfish. Now when he talks about this,
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Speaker 1: which is his truth, kim Bally truly breaks down and
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Speaker 1: is just like shaking. She's so sad about this and
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Speaker 1: she really regrets her decision. At the same time, I
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Speaker 1: give her grace for talking about it, because it truly,
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Speaker 1: you know, obviously was something that caused her a lot
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Speaker 1: of shame, like a the giving up of the babies
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Speaker 1: for adoption, also be the way that she maneuvered and
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Speaker 1: behaved around it. And I know, I don't think that
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Speaker 1: Kim Bally has like done a lot of therapy enough
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Speaker 1: to like evolve emotionally in herself to be able to
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Speaker 1: like handle such situations in a positive way. She obviously
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Speaker 1: didn't have a therapist at the time for her to
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Speaker 1: tell this to and someone to be like, hey, don't
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Speaker 1: catfish is your son as your other son. But still
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Speaker 1: though Kimberly and Jim all have like a great relationship,
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Speaker 1: he's like, that's my best friend. And you know that
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Speaker 1: part I also relate to because I'm from a single
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Speaker 1: parent household and my dad's my best friend. My dad
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Speaker 1: raised me and he's my best friend. So and you know,
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Speaker 1: parents don't always do the things that they're supposed to
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Speaker 1: do all the time, and they wouldn't, you know, They
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Speaker 1: kind of sometimes operate from a place of what they
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Speaker 1: know and what they can do in never given a moment.
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Speaker 1: So I'm hoping that with Kim Bally's like newfound fame
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Speaker 1: and the fact that she feels better about herself physically,
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Speaker 1: and the fact that she probably has some more money
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Speaker 1: coming in. I'm hoping that she does go to therapy
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Speaker 1: to get all this stuff out a because she's also
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Speaker 1: someone that gets like a lot of hate online. Like
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Speaker 1: people are very like rude about either her choices that
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Speaker 1: she's made. Also they're very mean about her looks. Not everyone,
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Speaker 1: but I, you know, I do see that sometimes, and
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Speaker 1: that sucks. And it's also indicative of like how snarky
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Speaker 1: people can be. And it's a hard thing to have
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Speaker 1: to deal with a lot of hate. Like I can't
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Speaker 1: imagine it. Like I would never in my comedy career
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Speaker 1: ever go to a roast. I would not be able
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Speaker 1: to like deal with someone just like coming at me,
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Speaker 1: you know, like for whatnot, Like I don't have the
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Speaker 1: emotional capability to like be a Lizzo at the Kevin
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Speaker 1: Hart roast. I think that I would just be like, Wow,
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Speaker 1: everyone from everyone thinks that I'm fucking disgusting. I can't deal,
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Speaker 1: you know, I mean truly so. And then and the
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Speaker 1: horrible truth is there's just, yeah, a lot of haters
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Speaker 1: in this world who are only too happy to like
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Speaker 1: share their misery and tear someone down, especially online. And
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Speaker 1: it's kind of like the gross parts of fandom or
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Speaker 1: internet culture. It's so cowardice and it's so negative, and
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Speaker 1: it's like really speaks volumes to how this the haters
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Speaker 1: view life and view like their contribution to this world
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Speaker 1: and also where they have time and energy because there's
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Speaker 1: not enough joy and like activity happening to distract them
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Speaker 1: and or to have their priorities be the beauty and
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Speaker 1: joy in their lives. Okay, so right away, Jamal says
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Speaker 1: that he doesn't like cult, doesn't like him, and that
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Speaker 1: he's a sad man. I found this interesting because again
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Speaker 1: Coulti thought that his two friends on the Die Is
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Speaker 1: gonna be Pedro and Kim Bally and Gino tried tried
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Speaker 1: to be his friend. He was like, fuck you, Geno.
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Speaker 1: There's kind of a back and forth between Colty and
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Speaker 1: Jamal that just feels fake. Colty like gets really upset, right,
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Speaker 1: it was what are you gonna do? What are you
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Speaker 1: gonna do? And it's like, well, I mean he's not
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Speaker 1: gonna do anything. You're sitting on a couch. You can't
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Speaker 1: even stand up. Jamal is not gonna do anything to you.
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Speaker 1: Colt is just but yeah, I don't understand why this
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Speaker 1: like immediate fight happens. I guess it comes from Jamal
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Speaker 1: saying that he doesn't like him and then he's a
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Speaker 1: sad man. But that's true. You know, Colt calls him
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Speaker 1: the P word pussy and and Kimberly is like right there.
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Speaker 1: She's like I'm right here, and I kind of wish
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Speaker 1: that Colty. I'm sorry, I kind of wish that Kimberly
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Speaker 1: would turn to Colty and be like, shut the fuck up,
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Speaker 1: don't talk to my son that way. Also, are we
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Speaker 1: going to get Debbie facetimed in because she was on
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Speaker 1: this season and she's part of the franchise, and can
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Speaker 1: we ask Debbie why she wouldn't take in her son? Also,
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Speaker 1: how does she feels about her son's behavior. I would
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Speaker 1: love that. So this is where, you know, like, you know,
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Speaker 1: Jamal's like, yeah, you just like leached off Courtney, and
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Speaker 1: you know, I think he's doing all this to like,
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Speaker 1: you know, defend Courtney and you have nothing going on
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Speaker 1: for you, and he's like, well, what do you do?
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Speaker 1: You know, you don't have anything. And then Colty's like, well,
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Speaker 1: I actually I have a job. I'm a software developer
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Speaker 1: and video games specialist. And it's like since when and
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Speaker 1: like are you currently employed or like what is soft? Like,
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Speaker 1: so you play video games, do people pay you? I
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Speaker 1: wonder if and I hate to ask this, but I
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Speaker 1: wonder if Colty does streaming where he plays video games
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Speaker 1: for like streamers, because you know, people make money that way. Anyway,
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Speaker 1: I wish I would if I just could like stream
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Speaker 1: myself playing the sims and how people pay me while
20:04
Speaker 1: I play the SIMS. I couldn't imagine Okay or Mario
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Speaker 1: Kart Okay or Mario Party. I'll stop talking and then
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Speaker 1: we get Wayne. Wayne, you know, gets facetimed in zoomed in.
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Speaker 1: And Wayne's weird because they sort of ask him like
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Speaker 1: what's happening with you guys, like what's your label? It's like,
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Speaker 1: I don't like labels. It's like, well, you've been married.
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Speaker 1: He's like, I've been married before. I don't think I
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Speaker 1: ever want to get married again, which I'm like, Kimberly,
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Speaker 1: do you hear that? Also, if you're not gonna ever
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Speaker 1: get married again, then there's no reason for you to
20:33
Speaker 1: come to America on a K one visa. Don't you
20:36
Speaker 1: know how to play the game? What the fucker you know?
20:38
Speaker 1: And then so he also keeps saying, well, it's only
20:41
Speaker 1: been one date. I can't put labels on anything. We've
20:44
Speaker 1: only had one date. And I'm like, no, you've had
20:48
Speaker 1: three dates. And even if you didn't count your daughter's
20:52
Speaker 1: playing skittles with you or whatever the fuck that game was.
20:55
Speaker 1: We watched you go on the train date and then
20:58
Speaker 1: you went and Blacksmith together. That's at least two. Makes
21:04
Speaker 1: no sense. We saw it if someone was so black
21:11
Speaker 1: and white about me without having like some room to
21:14
Speaker 1: be like, well, you know, we're still figuring it out.
21:16
Speaker 1: If if someone was so quick to be like, well,
21:18
Speaker 1: it's only been one date, so I don't know. I
21:20
Speaker 1: think I would sort of like pick up on the
21:21
Speaker 1: fact that he has like nine toes out the door.
21:26
Speaker 1: But Kimberly seems like she's really into it, so we're
21:29
Speaker 1: supposed to believe that it's fine. Also, Jamal likes Wayne.
21:32
Speaker 1: Jamal's like, I still stand Wayne. So Kimberly says that
21:38
Speaker 1: she is going to go to the UK, stay in
21:41
Speaker 1: his house, spend a day in bed, fucking and then
21:45
Speaker 1: he says that he's going to come to San Diego
21:48
Speaker 1: and then they're gonna you know, fucking San Diego and
21:50
Speaker 1: go to the gas light district and then fuck. And
21:52
Speaker 1: then she says by the end of the year, they'll
21:55
Speaker 1: make a decision on what to do, which I was like,
21:59
Speaker 1: that's weird. Why do you gave you the did you
22:03
Speaker 1: guys talk about this timeline? Like on December first, we'll
22:07
Speaker 1: have a conversation to see how these two trips this
22:11
Speaker 1: year went. Anyway, let's move on to Vonna and Tony.
22:17
Speaker 1: So they've been now dating eight months, so they got
22:20
Speaker 1: back together. I'm like, they don't. We don't. They're not
22:23
Speaker 1: living together because she's like, in my culture, you know,
22:27
Speaker 1: you're not really supposed to move in until your husband
22:29
Speaker 1: and wife, and you know, not even fiance would make
22:30
Speaker 1: me feel good. We talk about the fact that he
22:35
Speaker 1: wants kids and she fiercely doesn't want them, and her
22:40
Speaker 1: reasoning is that because she had like a very traumatic
22:43
Speaker 1: childhood where she grew up in like, you know, war
22:46
Speaker 1: and bombing, that the situation with her parents made it
22:51
Speaker 1: so that she had to take care of everyone. And
22:54
Speaker 1: so that makes sense because it feels like when I
22:57
Speaker 1: watch her fashion choices now, it does feel a little
22:59
Speaker 1: like in like infant and a little like young girly
23:03
Speaker 1: and all the pink and stuff like that. So I
23:05
Speaker 1: do think that part of her life living now is
23:07
Speaker 1: that she reclaims the youth she wasn't able to enjoy
23:13
Speaker 1: and the things that do bring her joy, like the
23:15
Speaker 1: dancing and again like the you know, the really intense makeup.
23:19
Speaker 1: And Tony definitely knows this, and he I think is
23:25
Speaker 1: also like, yeah, I said I didn't really want kids,
23:27
Speaker 1: but sometimes when we hang out with my friends who
23:29
Speaker 1: have kids, I'm like, man, I would love a kid
23:31
Speaker 1: to love me, you know, And it's like, Tony'd be
23:33
Speaker 1: a horrible dad. Don't do it. You know people in
23:36
Speaker 1: your life that like, do give any point one in
23:40
Speaker 1: your life that like wants kids, But in your heart
23:42
Speaker 1: of hearts, you're like, don't do it. I think you'd
23:46
Speaker 1: be a really bad parent. It's a really fucked up thing.
23:51
Speaker 1: But I do. I've had people in my life that
23:55
Speaker 1: like have expressed me they want kids, and maybe they've
23:59
Speaker 1: gone through the journey of like trying to have a kid,
24:03
Speaker 1: and I've had to sit on my tongue being like
24:06
Speaker 1: you really would be not a great parent for someone
24:10
Speaker 1: like you really don't have your shit figured out, and
24:13
Speaker 1: or the reason why I feel like you want to
24:14
Speaker 1: be a parent is for some sort of selfish part
24:20
Speaker 1: of your life, or because you're lonely and everything I've
24:23
Speaker 1: seen in your life makes me feel like you are
24:25
Speaker 1: not going to do this kid justice. It's a really
24:28
Speaker 1: like kind of thing anyway. So anyway, so they may
24:37
Speaker 1: get Sanella, who comes out, which of course is Vanya's cousin,
24:40
Speaker 1: and she does not even want to sit next to Tony.
24:42
Speaker 1: She's like, get up, move musical chairs, motherfucker. I almost
24:45
Speaker 1: an next to Tony. Give me my cousin. And they
24:49
Speaker 1: comment on and they're like, well, how do you be
24:50
Speaker 1: about Tony? She's like, I fucking hate him. They should
24:52
Speaker 1: never get married. Please don't get married. He's gross. He's
24:56
Speaker 1: so gross. He makes my cousin cry all the time.
24:59
Speaker 1: And if I I was Vanya, I would assume, knowing
25:03
Speaker 1: that if my cousin was coming to the tell all
25:05
Speaker 1: that this is how she would feel. I wonder if
25:07
Speaker 1: Vanya like told Tony, like Justino, Sanella is coming and
25:10
Speaker 1: she hates your goddamn guts. I wonder if Tony at
25:13
Speaker 1: all cares about making Sanella not hate him. Now, maybe
25:17
Speaker 1: Tony's like, that's that stupid bit. She's always hated me.
25:20
Speaker 1: I don't know, but like Tony and Vanya seem like
25:23
Speaker 1: the worst match possible. Vanya will like lay on her sword,
25:28
Speaker 1: being like our emotional connections there, and it's like he
25:34
Speaker 1: he doesn't appreciate or value you, and it feels like
25:43
Speaker 1: you're just desperate to get married, like every time, you know,
25:48
Speaker 1: like Liz talks about like, oh I'm going through you know,
25:51
Speaker 1: I was in a whole phase and now you know
25:53
Speaker 1: I but when that happened, you know, this happens later,
25:56
Speaker 1: I guess. And they bring Billa out that like Liz
25:59
Speaker 1: is like, I just jump from a relationship to a relationship.
26:02
Speaker 1: Fannie is the first person, like a relationship, girl, what
26:05
Speaker 1: have always wanted to me? Me?
26:06
Speaker 2: Me?
26:06
Speaker 1: You know, like Manya wants to be in a relationship
26:09
Speaker 1: so bad that she has just chosen Tony to be
26:12
Speaker 1: the person. And I like, to me, there is no
26:14
Speaker 1: emotional connection. It makes no sense. Okay, So then we
26:20
Speaker 1: get a relationshipy part where Tony's like, yeah, we do
26:22
Speaker 1: have problems. I do make her cry, but I was
26:24
Speaker 1: the one that said that we should go to therapy
26:26
Speaker 1: and we should, you know, get a therapist. And then
26:29
Speaker 1: it's revealed that like he just said it, but like
26:31
Speaker 1: he hasn't made one movement to find one to make
26:34
Speaker 1: an appointment. When he's pressed about it, he's like defensive
26:39
Speaker 1: about it, but like that is the truth. You can't
26:43
Speaker 1: just be like, let's get a therapist. Good but it
26:45
Speaker 1: bought me more time. He already sort of like talked
26:47
Speaker 1: about the fact that he didn't want to get engaged,
26:49
Speaker 1: and so that's why he thought that the distraction of
26:52
Speaker 1: them moving together would be good enough. But then it
26:54
Speaker 1: was revealed that it isn't like he's going He would
26:57
Speaker 1: only move in if she would put her money with
27:00
Speaker 1: his and get him a bigger house closer to where
27:03
Speaker 1: he wants to work or closer to where he works.
27:07
Speaker 1: I guess like that's he is very selfish and self serving,
27:13
Speaker 1: somewhat narcissistic, Like these are nightmare behaviors. Then Ross asks like, well, Vanya,
27:23
Speaker 1: how's the dancing, how's the Latin dancer. She's like, I
27:25
Speaker 1: don't do that, and it's because he won't let her.
27:30
Speaker 1: And he's like, well they call it, you know, sensual dancing,
27:34
Speaker 1: it's it's lombarda. Have you seen dirty dancing? It's basically
27:39
Speaker 1: that I have to watch her like legs around another man,
27:42
Speaker 1: and she, yeah, gave up something she loves to do
27:47
Speaker 1: for him. She's like, I still get to belly dance, yeah,
27:49
Speaker 1: because belly dancing like you don't do with someone else.
27:51
Speaker 1: You never get to belly dance with a man, you know,
27:53
Speaker 1: like I technically you could, but like belly dancers dance
27:56
Speaker 1: with themselves or with like other women very you know,
28:00
Speaker 1: they love us segregated dance. So Ross asks a great question,
28:06
Speaker 1: which is that okay, Tanya, I mean okay, Tanya is
28:10
Speaker 1: a great like Tony and Vannie name together. So he's like, okay,
28:13
Speaker 1: if Vanya gave up dancing the things she loves so much,
28:18
Speaker 1: what have you given up for this relationship? And this
28:22
Speaker 1: asshole says, my time everyone like Courtney lives is like
28:31
Speaker 1: your time. She's also given up your time? What the what?
28:36
Speaker 1: But he said that out loud, which means that's what
28:39
Speaker 1: he thinks. He's like, well, I'm putting time and energy
28:41
Speaker 1: into this, so my time and energy. As if she hasn't,
28:48
Speaker 1: then he tries to make some case, was like, well,
28:51
Speaker 1: I drive to see her. It takes forty five minutes,
28:54
Speaker 1: and she's like, yeah, he does. He does drive to
28:56
Speaker 1: see me all the time. Every day he drives to
28:58
Speaker 1: see me. So, but what the fuck are they doing?
29:01
Speaker 1: Because you know what they're not doing when they're seeing
29:03
Speaker 1: each other fucking and they're not dancing. I just like this,
29:11
Speaker 1: this is this is nightmarish behavior. I'm single and I
29:15
Speaker 1: wish that I was in a relationship, but I know
29:17
Speaker 1: in my heart that being single is better than this
29:21
Speaker 1: because least you have the like time and energy to
29:24
Speaker 1: spend with people that you like, like your friends and family.
29:27
Speaker 1: And also your family isn't like we want you out
29:30
Speaker 1: of this. And also there's also the possibility, I guess,
29:33
Speaker 1: of meeting someone that would actually be good for you.
29:36
Speaker 1: That's when Ross is like, how's the sex, and the
29:38
Speaker 1: sex is not there. She says they haven't had sex
29:41
Speaker 1: in like a couple of weeks and it's because of him.
29:46
Speaker 1: He says that he has to be emotionally invested to
29:50
Speaker 1: have sex. So a they're like, do you know sounds familiar?
29:54
Speaker 1: You know? Is like tip my hat to him. But
29:56
Speaker 1: also if your emotional connection. Manya is so good, is
30:00
Speaker 1: so great with him, then I would assume that he'd
30:03
Speaker 1: be emotionally invested in it if that's what it takes
30:08
Speaker 1: for him to get his dick hard, which I'm assuming
30:10
Speaker 1: there's other situations. There's other situations. Vonnie doesn't deserve this,
30:22
Speaker 1: you know, like this man like is gonna easily become
30:25
Speaker 1: like one of the most hated people on the show.
30:28
Speaker 1: I mean, Tony is boo. Honestly, Tonny makes you know,
30:36
Speaker 1: a vage dry you know from as like like a
30:38
Speaker 1: Sahara desert. Honey, there is just no well underneath that
30:43
Speaker 1: could possibly wet it again, you know, like there this
30:46
Speaker 1: is nightmare fuel. Anyway, So after that we talk about Liz.
30:56
Speaker 1: So when Liz was on a like Tell All, she
30:59
Speaker 1: had her like old do the one that like you know,
31:01
Speaker 1: like told off ed and then they're like, we why
31:03
Speaker 1: didn't that work out with that guy? And then she
31:04
Speaker 1: said because they got pregnant and then she miscarried and
31:08
Speaker 1: when she miscarried, he didn't step up, which is so
31:12
Speaker 1: fucked up. But she's like, I'm so happy that happened
31:15
Speaker 1: because in the process of this miscarriage, I'd gone to
31:19
Speaker 1: like an urgent care. The doctor like saw a mask
31:21
Speaker 1: and that's how I found out that I had cancer.
31:22
Speaker 1: So it saved my life. And we're like okay, and
31:25
Speaker 1: then they bring out Villa. He comes out and like
31:31
Speaker 1: they haven't seen each other, and it's a lot like
31:32
Speaker 1: you can feel the tension with a knife. And she's like, well,
31:35
Speaker 1: how do you how do you feel seeing him right now?
31:38
Speaker 1: And she like is about to cry and so the
31:41
Speaker 1: answer is complicated. They play a clip where VIA's like
31:44
Speaker 1: I fell in love. I'm in love with her and
31:47
Speaker 1: she had not known that had happened. And when they
31:51
Speaker 1: try and like make them talk, like they really can't
31:54
Speaker 1: talk to each other, and she says she can't say
31:56
Speaker 1: anything and he can't even really look at her, and
31:59
Speaker 1: he's like, I just I feel stupid and I still
32:02
Speaker 1: but I still have feelings there now when he says
32:05
Speaker 1: that Julia, who I forgot was even on stage, who
32:09
Speaker 1: at this point, I'm like, yeah, I mean there's a
32:10
Speaker 1: lot of people on statement. You should leave. But she's
32:12
Speaker 1: like fake, fake, fake, I think this is fake. And
32:15
Speaker 1: I was like, oh shit, why you know what it's
32:18
Speaker 1: because she said that first day. Pedro was like, this
32:22
Speaker 1: is my best friend. He's a hoe, So I want
32:24
Speaker 1: to be like, Julie, you think it's fake? Why do
32:26
Speaker 1: you think it's fake because he wants to be on
32:28
Speaker 1: the show? Do you think it's fake because via things
32:31
Speaker 1: that like Liz is just going to like take off
32:34
Speaker 1: her four carrot diamond ring and just be like, let's
32:36
Speaker 1: have let's have sex right now. You know, I thought
32:39
Speaker 1: that was interesting. Then we meet Liz's actual fiance and
32:45
Speaker 1: his name is Alec. I think, you know, sometimes there
32:48
Speaker 1: are certain names You're like, is it Alex or Alec?
32:51
Speaker 1: They say Alec or Alex? Do you do that? Like?
32:55
Speaker 1: I hate it when I can't when like there's a
32:57
Speaker 1: last letter of something and I'm like, what is the
32:59
Speaker 1: last letter that you said? And to be honest, this
33:05
Speaker 1: does have like a deja vous aspect to the last
33:09
Speaker 1: time that she was on the Tell All with her
33:11
Speaker 1: last dude. She kind of loves to parade like a shorter,
33:17
Speaker 1: beefy guy that comes in and wants to act like
33:21
Speaker 1: the knight and shining armor that's going to finally treat
33:25
Speaker 1: her right and that he's the good guy and he's
33:30
Speaker 1: going to do all the things like that's you know,
33:32
Speaker 1: it's a little like I want to wait and see.
33:36
Speaker 1: You know, it's interesting. She's like, yeah, you know, I
33:40
Speaker 1: was just talking to Alec. I'm gonna pretend it's Alec. Okay.
33:42
Speaker 1: She's like, I was just talking to Alec and obviously
33:45
Speaker 1: I went to the dr and he allowed me to go.
33:47
Speaker 1: And they're like, Alec, you allowed her to go and
33:48
Speaker 1: be a hoe in the dr. She's like yeah, you know.
33:52
Speaker 1: She's like, well, if he didn't, I would have resented him,
33:55
Speaker 1: and he knew that. And the guy's like, yeah, yeah,
33:57
Speaker 1: that's what we I thought. But also, well, it's sort
34:00
Speaker 1: of like the whole time they were dating, they were
34:04
Speaker 1: also just seeing each other because they never put labels
34:07
Speaker 1: in anything, so they were just seeing each other and
34:09
Speaker 1: seeing each other and seeing each other. And then one
34:11
Speaker 1: day he was like, you know what, I see a
34:14
Speaker 1: ring on that finger. It's four carrots. I want to
34:17
Speaker 1: be like, what does Alec do for a living? I'm
34:23
Speaker 1: you know, some girls are relationship girls, and Liz is
34:26
Speaker 1: one of them, you know. But at the same time,
34:28
Speaker 1: Liz is also the kind of girl that would date ed.
34:30
Speaker 1: So I are okay, I need you to tell me this.
34:34
Speaker 1: I'm you know, single, I'm a single person cause there's
34:37
Speaker 1: a little fly that I just hate. I'm a single person.
34:40
Speaker 1: So if you consider yourself yourself someone that's a relationship person,
34:46
Speaker 1: is it because you think you settle a lot? Is
34:52
Speaker 1: that mean to say, do you think you've settled in
34:55
Speaker 1: relationships a lot? Because I feel like the only time
34:58
Speaker 1: I was really in a relationship, I do feel like
35:00
Speaker 1: I was settling, but I was just comfortable and just wanted, like,
35:05
Speaker 1: you know, whatever I wanted. Or is that like the
35:11
Speaker 1: fuck that perception I had that probably keeps me single?
35:14
Speaker 1: I didn't you know, I have a therapist. But don't worry.
35:16
Speaker 1: But if you do listen to this, can you just
35:19
Speaker 1: tell me what you think? Yeah, because it's so interesting
35:24
Speaker 1: to me, Like just how in ninety day fiance I
35:28
Speaker 1: was saying how I'm not a Katie kind of girl
35:30
Speaker 1: and that I'm not someone who's just quirky and crazy
35:33
Speaker 1: and people will just do things for and be like, well,
35:35
Speaker 1: she's you know, that's just Chris being Chris. You know,
35:38
Speaker 1: Like I'm not that kind. I don't have that vibe.
35:40
Speaker 1: I also, I'm not like a relationship girl where you
35:42
Speaker 1: always see me and I'm just like this is my
35:44
Speaker 1: new man, this is my new man. This is my
35:46
Speaker 1: new man. And they all kind of look like or not,
35:48
Speaker 1: and so it's like another world, a foreign world I
35:51
Speaker 1: don't know a part of, but you know, I have
35:52
Speaker 1: curiosity about, you know, and I would like try it
35:55
Speaker 1: on one day for size, but like, yeah, I just
35:58
Speaker 1: it feels like a different language. So Alec has you know,
36:05
Speaker 1: an interesting hairline. But you know, god bless, I think
36:08
Speaker 1: VIA's hotter. But you know, maybe, like I wonder if
36:10
Speaker 1: there's a part of Liz that knows it Via, like,
36:12
Speaker 1: you know, this as a player. And that's why she
36:14
Speaker 1: was like, eh, not for me, because you're gonna just
36:16
Speaker 1: like do this with another girl, you know, cause Via
36:18
Speaker 1: can like definitely be like I was in love with Liz.
36:20
Speaker 1: But VIA's earring gives to me that he can't wait
36:23
Speaker 1: to like hook up with someone new and like the
36:27
Speaker 1: act of flirting with someone and like the hunt like
36:31
Speaker 1: makes him feel really good about himself. Like I think
36:33
Speaker 1: that Via does get a lot of you know, numbers
36:36
Speaker 1: and stuff like that, and I think he's he is
36:38
Speaker 1: a charming person and he's like good looking and he
36:41
Speaker 1: has a great personality, so it probably really works for him,
36:45
Speaker 1: and I think that, you know, like just if I
36:48
Speaker 1: talk about like Sophie's love of validation, like male validation,
36:52
Speaker 1: there's totally men out there that love female validation in
36:56
Speaker 1: that way, you know, and I feel like I can
36:59
Speaker 1: sense that via probably one of them, you know what
37:02
Speaker 1: I mean. Anyway, So Ross is like, well, how's your sex?
37:08
Speaker 1: If no sex is happening over here for Vanya and Tony,
37:11
Speaker 1: how's the sex over here? And Liz is like, it's amazing,
37:14
Speaker 1: It's so good, but it's like sometimes I don't have
37:17
Speaker 1: to do he wants it twice a day. And then
37:20
Speaker 1: they sort of like have a callback to Ed saying
37:23
Speaker 1: that Liz is like banana Rama's in bed just like
37:28
Speaker 1: crazy Liz loves it, you know. Now Here is where
37:32
Speaker 1: Courtney is like watch this. Courney has this way of
37:39
Speaker 1: like stirring the pot and causing drama and tries to
37:45
Speaker 1: do it like in a subtle way where she'd be
37:47
Speaker 1: like me, I know, I'm you know, like Courtney has
37:50
Speaker 1: like that kind of vibe because Courtney's not in your face.
37:53
Speaker 1: You're never gonna like she's not a big yeller. She's
37:55
Speaker 1: not a big like you know, like she's not in
37:58
Speaker 1: a lease or like an Emma. You know, Courtney likes
38:00
Speaker 1: to pretend to be like I didn't do anything, you know,
38:04
Speaker 1: that's her thing. So what she does she decides to
38:10
Speaker 1: lean over and tell Petro that Liz and Jamal had sex,
38:18
Speaker 1: whereas the kids are now saying he cracked her. Okay anyway,
38:24
Speaker 1: So this whisper happens. That's like a stage whisper, and
38:29
Speaker 1: they all have mics on so it's not a whisper,
38:33
Speaker 1: and the camerace picks it up. Everyone sort of hears
38:36
Speaker 1: it so much so that Ross is like, wait, what
38:39
Speaker 1: what And kim Balie, who's on the whole other side
38:42
Speaker 1: of the couch, is like, I know what you said.
38:47
Speaker 1: You said that Liz and Jamal had sex. So it's
38:56
Speaker 1: revealed that Liz and Jamal are like super flirty with
38:58
Speaker 1: each other all the time. I'm and they obviously like
39:02
Speaker 1: sometimes filmed between the sheets, and turns out they know
39:06
Speaker 1: what that last light, honey, they've seen each other between
39:08
Speaker 1: the sheets. Now this is a little interesting because I
39:11
Speaker 1: remember how like the first episode of Single Life, like
39:15
Speaker 1: kim Buly was like flirting with Josh, who's like one
39:17
Speaker 1: of the bad boys in front of Jamal. Jamal hated it.
39:21
Speaker 1: Now we know that Jamal has decided to leave the
39:24
Speaker 1: Bad Boys, which I'm so happy about, only because I
39:27
Speaker 1: think that, like the Bad Boys were just like douches,
39:31
Speaker 1: and I'm hoping that Jamal, you know, like knew that
39:35
Speaker 1: you know the company that you keep like speaks volumes.
39:39
Speaker 1: And so kim Bully is now so upset that Liz
39:45
Speaker 1: had sex with her son. It's hard for me to understand.
39:49
Speaker 1: Ages A. We're supposed to believe that Jamal likes older
39:51
Speaker 1: women because that's what he got with Veronica. I don't
39:54
Speaker 1: like how much older is Liz than Jamal, because kim
39:58
Speaker 1: Bully has to know that she's way older than Liz.
40:01
Speaker 1: So like, if Liz is flirtatious with your son, why
40:07
Speaker 1: is that upsetting to you? Okay, So, but they are
40:11
Speaker 1: and Kimberlee is like devastated, really really upset, and they're like, Liz,
40:16
Speaker 1: is it true, Liz did you have sex with Jamal?
40:19
Speaker 1: And she's like, get Jamal out here, and so right
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Speaker 1: when she says that, We're like, oh, yeah, no, yes,
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Speaker 1: because you would just be like no, no, I mean,
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Speaker 1: Alex is sitting right there, she has the ring bea
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Speaker 1: sitting right there, you know, but she's like, get Jamal
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Speaker 1: out there now. I don't know why that beautiful pa
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Speaker 1: that is doing the Lord's work all over the tell
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Speaker 1: all isn't like task with just pushing Jamal back on
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Speaker 1: stage and be like take Julia's seat, you know, or whatever.
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Speaker 1: God bless, but they don't. Liz is just left to
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Speaker 1: like fend for her own devices, just like you know,
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Speaker 1: floating out you know, in the ether. She's like, well,
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Speaker 1: a long time ago, we did it now. First of all,
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Speaker 1: what does a long time ago mean? Before Single Life
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Speaker 1: started filming, before you went to d R, before you
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Speaker 1: started ding Alec, right after you moved to San Diego.
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Speaker 1: To me, surely it was like in New York after
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Speaker 1: one of their between the sheets filming sessions, right because
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Speaker 1: I'm assuming they were staying at the same hotel and
41:27
Speaker 1: then like you know, production drove them back to the
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Speaker 1: hotel and they were like at the hotel bar and
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Speaker 1: they were drinking, and then yo, god blass. I also
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Speaker 1: don't even know why they didn't like to show Jamal
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Speaker 1: watching the monitor at least having a reaction like you know,
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Speaker 1: but you know, I'm just like can't wait to I really, honestly,
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Speaker 1: can't wait for more of this. However, kim Bally immediately
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Speaker 1: stands up and is like, fuck you, fuck you, Liz.
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Speaker 1: I've been there for you so much. This is disgusting. Okay,
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Speaker 1: so a I still wouldn't tell a woman that's like
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Speaker 1: dealing with cancer to fuck you, because like cancer, trump's
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Speaker 1: like one time hooking up with your son. Also, Kimbally,
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Speaker 1: you like are no saint. You know, like you have
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Speaker 1: a myriad of different choices you make that like are regrettable.
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Speaker 1: So I can't imagine why you can just so easily
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Speaker 1: be like you did something disgusting when we're like, well, babe,
42:28
Speaker 1: I mean Also, one other thing is that a nine
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Speaker 1: to day bestie isn't a real bestie. It's just your
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Speaker 1: best friend at work, your work best friend. And also
42:42
Speaker 1: your work best friend is the one that lives in
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Speaker 1: the same city as you. So like, you know, I
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Speaker 1: don't know, I think that this was like a little
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Speaker 1: bit stage. I think this is a little bit staged.
42:51
Speaker 1: This doesn't really feel real to me, whereas like her
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Speaker 1: crying about the catfish does. Yeah, Kimberly gets so upset
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Speaker 1: about this, and it's interesting because Liz is just sitting
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Speaker 1: there but half of me wants to be like Liz,
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Speaker 1: if you know, if this happened, who gives a fuck?
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Speaker 1: I would have just been like, you know what, yeah
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Speaker 1: when I first met him. Yeah, But then again, why
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Speaker 1: didn't Liz tell Kimberly unless it'd be awkward? You know?
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Speaker 1: She was like, I don't know. But I also hate
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Speaker 1: the fact that Jamal wasn't on stage for it, because
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Speaker 1: it does seem like now it like makes Liz like
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Speaker 1: it sort of gives Liz like the scarlet letter kind
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Speaker 1: of thing where we're supposed to be like, you had
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Speaker 1: sex with Jamal, and it's like, no, Jamal and Liz
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Speaker 1: had sex. Jamal also had sex with Liz. You know
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Speaker 1: who didn't tell you, Kimberly, your best friend slash Son,
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Speaker 1: your actual best friend slash Son, not your ninety day bestie, Jamal,
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Speaker 1: your son didn't tell you straight up? Now tell me
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Speaker 1: if you really had sex with Liz a long time ago,
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Speaker 1: you know, God bless. That ends Part one of this
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Speaker 1: tell all, and technically also part two of my two
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44:17
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44:24
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44:31
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