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57: Find Your People: Build Relationships Where You Can Be Fully Yourself · The Everyday Awesome Project

• 0:26
  Samantha Pruitt: Hey, my beautiful humans, how are you all?
• 0:30
  Samantha Pruitt: It's definitely been a minute since I have taped a solo episode and I'm stoked to be with you all today.
• 0:38
  Samantha Pruitt: Today we're going to talk about finding your people, finding your crew or your team.
• 0:46
  Samantha Pruitt: You know finding your people, and what I mean by that is people who get you, people who share your values and make you a better version of your truest self.
• 1:02
  Samantha Pruitt: You know your crew.
• 1:04
  Samantha Pruitt: There's a vibe match, there's an energy, a frequency to these people, and I know you know exactly what I'm talking about.
• 1:15
  Samantha Pruitt: When you're together, you create more fun, more art, more work, more joy.
• 1:28
  Samantha Pruitt: You're more productive, you get more results.
• 1:32
  Samantha Pruitt: The drive is high, they get you and you feel it Versus.
• 1:40
  Samantha Pruitt: When you're not with your people, you're not with your crew, you're not with your crew, this is not your team, and I know.
• 1:48
  Samantha Pruitt: You know what this feels like too.
• 1:49
  Samantha Pruitt: They drag you down, their vibration is low.
• 1:54
  Samantha Pruitt: With these people, you never feel seen, heard, respected or celebrated.
• 2:04
  Samantha Pruitt: Your values are misaligned, your emotions are misunderstood, actions are misguided and results are negative.
• 2:19
  Samantha Pruitt: Unfortunately, sometimes what happens in the personal space, in the professional space, in the social space, we get confused.
• 2:30
  Samantha Pruitt: These groups of people kind of clomb together.
• 2:33
  Samantha Pruitt: You know we think we belong in that tribe, on that team, with those people, but we don't.
• 2:40
  Samantha Pruitt: Or we yearn to be part of that circle, part of that community, part of that group, but we don't know why.
• 2:49
  Samantha Pruitt: So I want you to ask yourself some questions.
• 2:53
  Samantha Pruitt: If you're not sure, here's a few questions you can ask yourself.
• 2:58
  Samantha Pruitt: When I show up to be with them, do I overthink and stress about how I look, what I wear, how I act, or do I limit up what I'm going to offer?
• 3:11
  Samantha Pruitt: When I want to say something but I'm not sure they'll understand me, if they'll accept my ideas, my feelings or support me?
• 3:24
  Samantha Pruitt: I'm when I'm with these people, do I feel a resistance inside me?
• 3:30
  Samantha Pruitt: This is so important in your life Having your crew, your tribe, your people, your group to be with.
• 3:46
  Samantha Pruitt: And when I say that it can be you and one, you and five, you and 10, you and 100.
• 3:53
  Samantha Pruitt: I don't care.
• 3:54
  Samantha Pruitt: There's no right or wrong way to this, but it's so important to have people that you can connect with, that really, really, genuinely, authentically get you.
• 4:05
  Samantha Pruitt: Yes, it's your authentic life.
• 4:15
  Samantha Pruitt: You're not trying to fit in or limit your full potential and your happiness by being with the wrong people, in the wrong circle or with the wrong team.
• 4:22
  Samantha Pruitt: Like I said, this can be family, yeah, family.
• 4:28
  Samantha Pruitt: Some of us were born into the wrong family.
• 4:31
  Samantha Pruitt: Many people were Friends, old friends, new friends sometimes they just don't fit.
• 4:43
  Samantha Pruitt: Work or coworkers.
• 4:48
  Samantha Pruitt: Being in a space where you're not really seen, heard, respected doesn't feel good.
• 4:54
  Samantha Pruitt: Or a community of people who you think are right for you because maybe you share an interest or a hobby or you live in a certain space Seems to make sense, but when you go there you don't feel good.
• 5:10
  Samantha Pruitt: Just because we look like, are born into or share a space with people does not mean there are people.
• 5:21
  Samantha Pruitt: Now.
• 5:24
  Samantha Pruitt: What I'm not saying is we should self-isolate or reject others.
• 5:31
  Samantha Pruitt: What I'm saying is we should self-isolate or reject others.
• 5:34
  Samantha Pruitt: What I'm saying is it's imperative to listen, to feel and to respect how your relationships with others is working or not working.
• 5:49
  Samantha Pruitt: And what I am urging you to do today is to not closely examine and pick apart every single person in your circle.
• 6:00
  Samantha Pruitt: I'm asking you to listen to yourself, to think about this If I'm spending time or wasting time with the wrong people, they're not really my crew, my team, my tribe.
• 6:17
  Samantha Pruitt: How am I going to find the right people and what am I missing out on?
• 6:22
  Samantha Pruitt: I want you to go find them.
• 6:26
  Samantha Pruitt: And if you already have them and many of us do we are lucky enough to have them.
• 6:31
  Samantha Pruitt: Double down on investing in them.
• 6:31
  Samantha Pruitt: And if you already have them and many of us do we are lucky enough to have them.
• 6:32
  Samantha Pruitt: Double down on investing in them.
• 6:35
  Samantha Pruitt: Invest in those high vibration relationships.
• 6:42
  Samantha Pruitt: Those are your people.
• 6:43
  Samantha Pruitt: We all have them.
• 6:45
  Samantha Pruitt: They're all out there, all different ages, shapes, sizes.
• 6:50
  Samantha Pruitt: Sometimes it's people we wouldn't think we'd have anything in common with.
• 6:55
  Samantha Pruitt: But when we meet them, we hang out with them, we talk to them, we feel good.
• 7:01
  Samantha Pruitt: We can't really put our finger on it, but there's something about so-and-so that just makes me feel good.
• 7:08
  Samantha Pruitt: That's what I'm talking about.
• 7:10
  Samantha Pruitt: They see you, they respect you, they hear you, they cheer you on.
• 7:15
  Samantha Pruitt: Here at the Everyday Awesome Project, we're on the path with you, exploring, experiencing and becoming all of our best selves.
• 7:24
  Samantha Pruitt: I'm just here to tell you well, remind you, don't let others hold you down.
• 7:30
  Samantha Pruitt: Find your circle.
• 7:32
  Samantha Pruitt: That's where your biggest fans are hanging out.
• 7:35
  Samantha Pruitt: They're there waiting for you, just like we are to cheer you on.
• 7:40
  Samantha Pruitt: All right, remember, beautiful humans, how your life feels is more important than how it looks.
• 7:48
  Samantha Pruitt: See you next time.