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- 2:06Speaker 1: And we are live and we're still Yeah, I don't
- 2:08Speaker 1: have to set up the cameras again. So hello everybody,
- 2:11Speaker 1: welcome to Honeyback Radio. Sorry about the problems.
- 2:16Speaker 2: Slightly later than late or usual.
- 2:18Speaker 1: Late, yeah, like a little a little bit later than normal.
- 2:22Speaker 1: My obs crashed and I had to scramble to like
- 2:25Speaker 1: restart it. I don't know what it is. Maybe usually
- 2:28Speaker 1: what it is is a plugin that doesn't like whatever
- 2:32Speaker 1: version I'm on. So sorry about the delay, and I
- 2:36Speaker 1: mean all of this is kind of last minute. Hannah
- 2:38Speaker 1: wasn't able to a show today.
- 2:40Speaker 2: Yeah, thank you for your patience. Yeah, we sort of
- 2:42Speaker 2: had to throw together a show last minute. Thankfully we
- 2:44Speaker 2: had something in the pipeline. So we're going back to
- 2:50Speaker 2: Shira seven because we are we hate ourselves, we want
- 2:55Speaker 2: to self flagellate, and she is the perfect means to
- 2:58Speaker 2: do so. The last episode that we did on she
- 3:02Speaker 2: Ra seven. If you guys don't know, she's a very
- 3:05Speaker 2: getting up there. She's almost three quarters of a million
- 3:08Speaker 2: subs and she's a female dating strategy guru, which honestly,
- 3:17Speaker 2: she very much looks like she isn't spending a rich
- 3:20Speaker 2: man's money, so she's looking a bit like she she's
- 3:25Speaker 2: saying she knows what she's she knows what she's doing,
- 3:27Speaker 2: but she didn't look like she knows what she's doing.
- 3:29Speaker 2: If you get what I'm in, my drift sort of
- 3:31Speaker 2: like a down Yeah, like a Wall Street stockbroker who
- 3:38Speaker 2: rides around in a Toronta Toyota Corolla. I mean, maybe
- 3:41Speaker 2: he's very frugal, But then you also have to scratch
- 3:44Speaker 2: your head a little bit. She could be hugely frugal,
- 3:47Speaker 2: she could be a really frugal person, and she could
- 3:49Speaker 2: be she could have a billionaire in her back pocket,
- 3:51Speaker 2: but it doesn't look like she's she's spending a millionaires
- 3:57Speaker 2: or a billionaire's money. So you know, buyer beware and
- 4:00Speaker 2: taking her advice, especially when she's giving advice to women
- 4:04Speaker 2: who are dating engineers who are finishing up school to
- 4:09Speaker 2: oh well, she basically says, well, I wouldn't stick with it. Yeah,
- 4:14Speaker 2: I wouldn't stick with a man who doesn't come to
- 4:16Speaker 2: the relationship with millions. I wouldn't stick with a man
- 4:19Speaker 2: who looks like he's probably gonna end up making significantly
- 4:22Speaker 2: more than average. But you know, you have to wait
- 4:24Speaker 2: for him to actually get through school and get a job.
- 4:27Speaker 2: I wouldn't do that. You do, you though, seys you do?
- 4:31Speaker 2: You loser? But you like pick me? You do you
- 4:36Speaker 2: pick me? But yeah, it's she doesn't look like she
- 4:41Speaker 2: walks her talk. It doesn't look like she's got a
- 4:44Speaker 2: rich man in her back pocket. So I'm not exactly
- 4:47Speaker 2: sure why women are taking her advice to get a
- 4:50Speaker 2: rich man. Seems a little bit counterintuitive. I mean, at
- 4:53Speaker 2: the very least, when you know Todate, Tate presents her himself.
- 4:57Speaker 2: He presents himself as what he thinks is all audience
- 5:00Speaker 2: wants to be. But essentially she's presenting herself as not
- 5:04Speaker 2: having achieved the very thing she tells her audience that
- 5:07Speaker 2: they will achieve by listening to her. Probably not. So
- 5:10Speaker 2: I'm wondering what she really is selling. And I think
- 5:12Speaker 2: she's selling cope sour grapes. There's there's no need to,
- 5:18Speaker 2: I don't.
- 5:18Speaker 3: Know, be a pick me.
- 5:21Speaker 2: You can spend your life just wanting to be picked
- 5:24Speaker 2: by the perfect man. Don't be a pick me. Just
- 5:28Speaker 2: spend your eternity trying to figure out exactly what you'll
- 5:32Speaker 2: take for being picked.
- 5:35Speaker 1: Yep, waiting to be picked.
- 5:39Speaker 2: But you know that this is this is wasting your
- 5:43Speaker 2: life on. That's fine, because you don't want to undersell
- 5:46Speaker 2: your value. You're rapidly decreasing value.
- 5:51Speaker 4: God damn.
- 5:53Speaker 2: Anyway, she was.
- 5:54Speaker 1: Looking for Wall Street and she just got wall She
- 6:00Speaker 1: got Wall Street, all right. She wanted the Wall Street,
- 6:05Speaker 1: she just got the Wall.
- 6:08Speaker 2: I'm just I'm just putting it out there, like it
- 6:10Speaker 2: is one thing to, you know, talk about getting in
- 6:14Speaker 2: relationships when you're an older woman and you know, and
- 6:18Speaker 2: wanting a companion and presenting yourself as somebody who knows
- 6:23Speaker 2: how to land a rich man when you obviously haven't
- 6:26Speaker 2: you get what I'm saying, you know, and I wouldn't
- 6:29Speaker 2: I you know, like if she was a woman who's
- 6:31Speaker 2: just like you know, I'm older, I'm interested in a companion,
- 6:35Speaker 2: I'm going to do my part in the relationship. I'm
- 6:38Speaker 2: going to bring something to the table. No problem with that,
- 6:40Speaker 2: no problem. The problem is she is somebody who says,
- 6:45Speaker 2: I've got a rich man, I know how to get
- 6:46Speaker 2: things from rich men. She's selling herself that like that,
- 6:50Speaker 2: and she does not look the part. And also it's
- 6:53Speaker 2: unethical to encourage people to engage in this kind of
- 6:57Speaker 2: con artistry. I mean, we've called Tate out for that
- 7:00Speaker 2: in the past, and I think this is genuinely worse.
- 7:03Speaker 2: She is, Yeah, okay, because the amount of intrusion into
- 7:12Speaker 2: people's lives is greater. It's one thing to send money
- 7:16Speaker 2: to an OnlyFans model because she gives you a sob story.
- 7:21Speaker 2: It's another thing to have to tell people to tell women,
- 7:24Speaker 2: and this is something that she does. To show up
- 7:30Speaker 2: on the doorstep of a rich man in the middle
- 7:34Speaker 2: of inclement weather and feed him a line about being
- 7:38Speaker 2: homeless in order to acquire your target, is what she says.
- 7:45Speaker 2: That's yeah, that that is like you're you're now in
- 7:48Speaker 2: his space, You're now occupying his physical resources, and you're
- 7:54Speaker 2: doing so under false pretenses. That's that's getting to be
- 7:59Speaker 2: a very sketchy and sort of I think pretty much.
- 8:02Speaker 2: I think that might be criminal too, so you know,
- 8:07Speaker 2: but anyway, this is what she does. She counsels women,
- 8:09Speaker 2: and I think ultimately what she's counseling women is to
- 8:13Speaker 2: feel sour grapes over the fact that they have not
- 8:16Speaker 2: bothered to start their life. I mean, really, you're just
- 8:19Speaker 2: sitting there getting dusty in a corner corner, waiting to
- 8:22Speaker 2: be picked, Like, who the hell do you have? Like
- 8:27Speaker 2: what position are you in to judge women who just
- 8:29Speaker 2: decided to start that just was like, okay, you are
- 8:31Speaker 2: a good companion. Let's start a life. You know the
- 8:35Speaker 2: position are you judging? Like your entire life is about
- 8:38Speaker 2: being picked. Your entire freaking value is about being picked.
- 8:43Speaker 2: And you you turn around and look at women like
- 8:45Speaker 2: me who are just like, Okay, I like you. We
- 8:49Speaker 2: have a good simpatico. We seem to share some of
- 8:53Speaker 2: the same ideas and values, and let's start a life.
- 8:57Speaker 2: It's not settling in so far as you're said for
- 9:00Speaker 2: another person. It's just getting on with things, you know
- 9:02Speaker 2: what I mean? You know, and and that that's it,
- 9:06Speaker 2: Like that I got picked twenty seven years ago and
- 9:10Speaker 2: what moved on with my life. But she is sitting
- 9:13Speaker 2: in the state of getting dustier and dustier in a closet,
- 9:17Speaker 2: waiting to be picked by the perfect thing that will
- 9:21Speaker 2: validate her entire existence. I mean, from that perspective, who
- 9:26Speaker 2: is the real pick me? Okay, just just pointing that out,
- 9:31Speaker 2: just laying it out there.
- 9:33Speaker 1: But yeah, so let's get into the video.
- 9:36Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I know this is.
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- 11:19Speaker 2: twenty eighth. It's going to be at twelve is it pm?
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- 12:00Speaker 2: to you, Brian, let's get started with this.
- 12:02Speaker 1: All right, let's get into the video. So I picked
- 12:04Speaker 1: a few time codes. Last time we did this, we
- 12:07Speaker 1: were Yeah. So last time we did this. This is
- 12:12Speaker 1: a three and a half hour live stream that Shira
- 12:16Speaker 1: seven did. Goes to show how much free time she has.
- 12:19Speaker 1: I couldn't look if I'd been doing it for two hours.
- 12:23Speaker 1: I start to really struggle, like I just want to
- 12:25Speaker 1: like get I just get really tired. I don't see
- 12:28Speaker 1: how she does it, but I guess again, you're in
- 12:30Speaker 1: your bedroom, you're comfortable. You could probably just veg out
- 12:34Speaker 1: for hours and hours on a live stream, and she
- 12:38Speaker 1: is essentially just reading her chat for three and a
- 12:40Speaker 1: half hours, six and seventy two thousand subscribers. I'm just
- 12:46Speaker 1: putting it out there. And last time we went through
- 12:50Speaker 1: this beast of a video, Alison picked out a few
- 12:55Speaker 1: things you want to respond to with regards to the
- 12:58Speaker 1: topic of her video, which is picked me picks the
- 13:00Speaker 1: bottom of the barrel. Men. So we talked a little
- 13:03Speaker 1: bit about what she means by a pignesia. What are
- 13:06Speaker 1: you know her points. And again we are talking about
- 13:09Speaker 1: a live stream that's very like, you know, repetitive and
- 13:14Speaker 1: rambly and long and not focused and not concise. So
- 13:20Speaker 1: it's like being sent to you know, a dreg heap
- 13:24Speaker 1: to find like an edible piece of moldy bread, like
- 13:28Speaker 1: just not even gold, not silver, no precious metals, just
- 13:33Speaker 1: like something of some sustenance that you can at least
- 13:37Speaker 1: pick up and look at and say, yeah, there might
- 13:39Speaker 1: be something in here, yeah, that there might be something
- 13:42Speaker 1: of value. So now I'm gonna I picked out some
- 13:45Speaker 1: clips of where Shira doesn't talk about Pygniesias but instead
- 13:51Speaker 1: talks about dusty men, which is all of you out
- 13:55Speaker 1: there in the audience. All of you are basically like
- 13:59Speaker 1: sub are men. And the first clip I tried again,
- 14:05Speaker 1: I just picked a few. It's three hour street.
- 14:07Speaker 2: The only difference between a non subpart men and a
- 14:10Speaker 2: subpar and on par men is if he values himself
- 14:14Speaker 2: so little that he has he believes he should pay,
- 14:18Speaker 2: not just pay for everything, but do everything, essentially, like
- 14:22Speaker 2: crawl into her flipping skin and just be her, you know,
- 14:26Speaker 2: like just just do make do everything. And then she says,
- 14:30Speaker 2: if if you don't you know, if you don't encourage
- 14:34Speaker 2: a man or you, if you aren't capable of making
- 14:37Speaker 2: inspiring a man to basically do everything for you, then
- 14:41Speaker 2: I guess you're a low value woman. But like, what
- 14:45Speaker 2: if you're a woman who just sort of is okay
- 14:46Speaker 2: with doing things for herself, you know what I mean?
- 14:49Speaker 2: Like I talked about how you missed the window for
- 14:52Speaker 2: having a man wipe your ass, so you gotta learn
- 14:54Speaker 2: to do that yourself.
- 14:56Speaker 1: You know.
- 14:56Speaker 2: But but what if you just somebody who enjoys doing
- 15:00Speaker 2: things for themselves get some satisfaction out of that, and
- 15:03Speaker 2: that you also don't mind doing things for other people
- 15:06Speaker 2: because you enjoy the feeling of helping, you know, of
- 15:10Speaker 2: being of service. Like what if you're that kind of woman?
- 15:12Speaker 2: Does does does that make you low value?
- 15:14Speaker 1: So?
- 15:15Speaker 2: Low value women are women who enjoy doing things period
- 15:20Speaker 2: for themselves and others who have a sense of self reliance,
- 15:23Speaker 2: And low value men are men who have any sense
- 15:26Speaker 2: of self worth and don't see themselves entirely in terms
- 15:30Speaker 2: of service to moment to women. So I mean, when
- 15:33Speaker 2: when when she says you guys are dusties, I would
- 15:37Speaker 2: honestly consider taking that as a compliment. And when she says,
- 15:41Speaker 2: if you're a woman, and she's saying you're a pig micia,
- 15:43Speaker 2: which is basically every woman I think, but her, because
- 15:46Speaker 2: she's she is. She is so high value. She ain't
- 15:50Speaker 2: ever gonna be picked friends. She is so high value.
- 15:53Speaker 2: There isn't a man in the universe who's gonna pick her.
- 15:56Speaker 2: So she's definitely not a pignecia. So everybody else her
- 16:00Speaker 2: as a pick Mesha. And if she calls you a
- 16:02Speaker 2: pick Misha, well I would consider that to be a
- 16:05Speaker 2: compliment too, because you are capable of enjoying your own
- 16:10Speaker 2: self reliance. You're gonna pick your eggs. You're gonna you're
- 16:14Speaker 2: gonna pick those chicken eggs, and you're gonna put them
- 16:16Speaker 2: in your chicken apron and you are gonna be a
- 16:18Speaker 2: useful human being that feeds others. God, God, damn, that's
- 16:23Speaker 2: just a worthless consider it a compliment. Whenever this woman
- 16:27Speaker 2: insults someone, you should give yourself a pat on the
- 16:30Speaker 2: back that you're doing something right.
- 16:32Speaker 3: All right.
- 16:32Speaker 2: I just wanted to put that out there.
- 16:34Speaker 1: All right, that's fine, Let's play the video, all right,
- 16:37Speaker 1: So I'm playing it now.
- 16:39Speaker 3: Oh Valerie, what is the best way to handle a
- 16:42Speaker 3: man that tries to push my boundaries, doesn't take no
- 16:45Speaker 3: for an answer, then have a price on the answer.
- 16:49Speaker 2: Okay, no, is that the full?
- 16:56Speaker 1: No? Let me play some more of it, all right,
- 17:00Speaker 1: give me thirty seconds? Okay, m hm.
- 17:07Speaker 3: You won't take no for an answer? Okay, Well, if
- 17:10Speaker 3: I do this, then you need to give me this
- 17:12Speaker 3: much money. If you start charging, they'll start taking no
- 17:17Speaker 3: for an answer. I promise you, because every time somebody
- 17:21Speaker 3: asked me something I don't want to do, I put
- 17:23Speaker 3: a price on.
- 17:25Speaker 1: All right, all right, so you know what? You know
- 17:29Speaker 1: what they call it when a woman puts a price
- 17:32Speaker 1: on doing things for a man? Sarah, word, is there
- 17:35Speaker 1: a word for that? Like a job title? I feel like?
- 17:42Speaker 1: So she is talking about sex?
- 17:45Speaker 2: Oh, she's talking about sex? Mm hmmm, because it could
- 17:49Speaker 2: be emotional labor with these No.
- 17:51Speaker 1: I again, this is like long winded stuff. The context
- 17:56Speaker 1: is the woman was saying, I'm with a man who
- 18:00Speaker 1: is sexually aggressive, pushy, and she's claiming he doesn't take
- 18:05Speaker 1: no for an answer. Obviously she could just destroy his
- 18:08Speaker 1: life by making an allegation and there isn't much he
- 18:11Speaker 1: can do. But instead she's reframing it like, well, you
- 18:15Speaker 1: could do that, But why don't you hold on to
- 18:17Speaker 1: the detonator and don't press the button and instead what
- 18:21Speaker 1: can you get out of that? What can you get
- 18:23Speaker 1: out of that? Man? So, I mean that's what I think.
- 18:26Speaker 1: You know, she's not gonna be. She's not very direct
- 18:30Speaker 1: really when it comes to stuff that might implicate her.
- 18:33Speaker 1: But that's my suspicion, my theory.
- 18:40Speaker 2: Okay, how about this.
- 18:45Speaker 1: Leave, well, he she will if the guy is no
- 18:52Speaker 1: longer a utility.
- 18:55Speaker 2: Yeah, don't don't make these bargains and ultimatums. Just grab
- 19:00Speaker 2: her freaking dignity and leave, like say no and move
- 19:06Speaker 2: on like I I mean, I have done that with
- 19:14Speaker 2: pushy man, Like I'm not interested in that. Let us
- 19:20Speaker 2: move on, let us part. You go find yourself. Do
- 19:23Speaker 2: you font find a woman who wants to be pushed,
- 19:26Speaker 2: you know, but to put a price on it. So
- 19:29Speaker 2: she's essentially saying that if she puts a.
- 19:32Speaker 1: Piece as an opportunity, well either they'll stop or they'll
- 19:37Speaker 1: pay the price.
- 19:39Speaker 2: So basically she's for sale. Okay, Well, I think fundamentally
- 19:42Speaker 2: that's one of the problems here. A pygmisha, apparently, in
- 19:49Speaker 2: her world, is a woman who isn't for sale, Like
- 19:54Speaker 2: it's I don't think they I don't it. It's really interesting.
- 19:57Speaker 2: There's this TV trope that's like evil doesn't understand good.
- 20:01Speaker 2: You know that TV trope?
- 20:03Speaker 1: Mm hmm.
- 20:04Speaker 2: She doesn't understand the concept of not being for sale.
- 20:08Speaker 2: Like there are I you know, like I will run
- 20:11Speaker 2: a business. I will put out a product. If you're
- 20:14Speaker 2: interested in that product, you can purchase it. If not,
- 20:17Speaker 2: you know, fine, But there are things that are not
- 20:20Speaker 2: for sale, right my opinion, you know, my body, that
- 20:25Speaker 2: kind of stuff that is not negotiable. And I don't
- 20:31Speaker 2: like necessarily being pressured into having a certain opinion or
- 20:35Speaker 2: being forced to do things with my with my body
- 20:37Speaker 2: in certain ways. Right, non negotiables, you just walk. And
- 20:43Speaker 2: the thing is that I don't think she understands the
- 20:45Speaker 2: picmishes aren't for sale. It's not that they're going for
- 20:49Speaker 2: a low price, it's that they are not for sale,
- 20:53Speaker 2: right Piicmichhes choose based on different factors than what she
- 21:00Speaker 2: I don't think she comprehends that. You see what I'm saying.
- 21:03Speaker 1: It's like she thinks that.
- 21:04Speaker 2: They've settled for a low ball offer when what they've
- 21:08Speaker 2: settled for is a person who gives their life meaning. Settled,
- 21:13Speaker 2: you know, they found a man who gives their life meaning,
- 21:18Speaker 2: who shares values, who they enjoy building something with, and
- 21:23Speaker 2: they've committed to them because they aren't for sale, you
- 21:27Speaker 2: know what I mean. The relationship, the interaction isn't a
- 21:31Speaker 2: monetary thing, you know, it is an emotional, spiritual, an
- 21:38Speaker 2: ethical because you want somebody who shares your ethics, that
- 21:41Speaker 2: kind of thing. And you know, women who live their
- 21:43Speaker 2: life that way often don't get to take advantage of
- 21:48Speaker 2: by men because there is this saying you can't cheat
- 21:53Speaker 2: an honest woman. Right, If that's what you seek, that's
- 21:58Speaker 2: what you get. If that's what you honestly seek. Not
- 22:02Speaker 2: a man to fix your life, not a man to
- 22:05Speaker 2: pay for you, you know, or to asymmetrically pay more
- 22:10Speaker 2: in the relationship, but you actually seek a life partner
- 22:13Speaker 2: who shares values in philosophies and ethics and a goal
- 22:17Speaker 2: and gives your life meaning and purpose, because I honestly,
- 22:21Speaker 2: I think that's life what life partners should do. I know,
- 22:24Speaker 2: we're all about the complete autonomy and the cynical like
- 22:28Speaker 2: we're just we're just brushing past each other like two
- 22:31Speaker 2: ships the night we don't actually integrate in any real sense,
- 22:34Speaker 2: because god, that would be intimacy and we're all terrified
- 22:37Speaker 2: of that. But you know, why would you be with
- 22:40Speaker 2: someone who doesn't give you purpose?
- 22:42Speaker 1: Get what I'm saying, Yeah, I do, But I think
- 22:46Speaker 1: that her goals are not to find someone. I guess
- 22:52Speaker 1: like the female dating strategy is about like getting a
- 22:56Speaker 1: man to settle down with, but it has to be
- 22:58Speaker 1: the the the man that offers the most possible benefit
- 23:04Speaker 1: and the least amount of risk or labor. So they
- 23:10Speaker 1: think they're trying to minmax relationships. And it's a very
- 23:14Speaker 1: cold and almost like analytical but really dehumanizing way like
- 23:21Speaker 1: that men are not men right their their wallets, their
- 23:24Speaker 1: credit limits, their homes, their their vehicles, their trips, they're
- 23:30Speaker 1: you know, occasionally maybe they you know, if they're even
- 23:33Speaker 1: in it for the sex. There there's some sexual pleasure
- 23:36Speaker 1: angle in there, and that's how it's broken down. That's
- 23:40Speaker 1: like the very I mean, it's like, I don't I
- 23:43Speaker 1: don't even think it's the mirror. It is why I said,
- 23:46Speaker 1: I don't think it's as I think the entertain is
- 23:48Speaker 1: a lot less awful because the red pill guys are
- 23:53Speaker 1: very few of them could actually use all of the
- 23:56Speaker 1: tools that the red pill bros that are selling them
- 24:00Speaker 1: are you know, selling so like Andrew Tate's lifestyle can
- 24:04Speaker 1: probably only be accomplished by a very small percentage of men.
- 24:08Speaker 1: So most of the men who are followers of his
- 24:11Speaker 1: and that listen to what he says, even though he
- 24:13Speaker 1: doesn't really say the same things he used to. None
- 24:15Speaker 1: of those guys are gonna get to that level. So
- 24:18Speaker 1: they're just kind of like trying to, you know, get
- 24:21Speaker 1: something that will give them enough market value to attract
- 24:27Speaker 1: a regular woman. They don't want to be like like,
- 24:30Speaker 1: you know, and I'm not even this is assuming that
- 24:32Speaker 1: any of the stuff these guys boast is true, because
- 24:34Speaker 1: I don't necessarily believe that, you know, with most of
- 24:38Speaker 1: these guys that they're actually as sort of like sexually
- 24:42Speaker 1: successful as they claim. I just don't think it's true.
- 24:45Speaker 1: But barring that, even even then, most of the men
- 24:49Speaker 1: who follow these guys, they they they can never get
- 24:53Speaker 1: to that level, so they're not going to benefit. In fact,
- 24:56Speaker 1: they're probably just gonna end up getting frustrated in their
- 24:58Speaker 1: own way, so ultimately will harm them. But with these women,
- 25:04Speaker 1: because women have inherent value based on their youth. At
- 25:08Speaker 1: least young women are just going to I think that
- 25:14Speaker 1: it's going to do more damage to relationships when young
- 25:16Speaker 1: women see men as nothing but essentially a vehicle for
- 25:21Speaker 1: material gain and status and a way to make other
- 25:25Speaker 1: women jealous and to go on trips, et cetera. And
- 25:28Speaker 1: it's not fulfilling ultimately, especially when you're younger. So I
- 25:32Speaker 1: think that's what I'm saying is is that what what
- 25:35Speaker 1: Shira is selling women can actually like use, But what
- 25:41Speaker 1: like the red pill guys are selling, most men won't
- 25:43Speaker 1: be able to take advantage of. They may learn a
- 25:45Speaker 1: few things from it, but I don't think it's going
- 25:47Speaker 1: to pan out the same way for them.
- 25:48Speaker 2: First of all, red pill bros, we should go back
- 25:51Speaker 2: to pick up artists. Let's go back to like we can.
- 25:53Speaker 1: Just it's the same thing. It's the same thing, p
- 25:56Speaker 1: uas whatever.
- 25:57Speaker 2: Oh yeah, but the red pill bros Are a little
- 25:58Speaker 2: bit like Okay, well let's get away from that conversation.
- 26:03Speaker 2: What Manifestel is saying is going to destroy already existing
- 26:08Speaker 2: relationships like she she is she like I watched her
- 26:14Speaker 2: inject poison into an already existing relationship that was probably
- 26:19Speaker 2: going to turn out just fine for the woman, right
- 26:21Speaker 2: she I mean, she might not end up with a multimillionaire,
- 26:24Speaker 2: but she's going to end up with an engineer. She's
- 26:25Speaker 2: probably gonna have a very decent, upper middle class life.
- 26:28Speaker 2: It's perfectly fine. And I watched this woman inject poison
- 26:32Speaker 2: into it. So her advice is going to destroy existing relationships.
- 26:37Speaker 2: Her advice is also essentially like to to to create
- 26:42Speaker 2: a situation where women get everything and men get nothing.
- 26:45Speaker 3: What is that?
- 26:47Speaker 2: That is dishonest and it's abusive. Like at the very least,
- 26:51Speaker 2: the red pill bros expect to bring something to the table,
- 26:55Speaker 2: like they expect to have a job, They expect to
- 26:57Speaker 2: do the manly things right there. They expect that there
- 27:01Speaker 2: are going to be expectations placed on them in the relationship.
- 27:05Speaker 2: They're not just going in saying the woman pays for
- 27:08Speaker 2: everything and cleans up and has the kids.
- 27:11Speaker 1: Well, that's what exactly, that's what the red pill bros
- 27:14Speaker 1: even tell them that they have to be like, you know,
- 27:16Speaker 1: they have to be active, They have to you know, produce,
- 27:22Speaker 1: they have to do what like what they would call
- 27:24Speaker 1: what men do, go out there and build and create
- 27:27Speaker 1: and you know, fight her battles et cetera. So there
- 27:30Speaker 1: is still a lot being asked of those men. And
- 27:32Speaker 1: and I think that most men are looking for that,
- 27:35Speaker 1: Like they're not they're looking for handouts. They're no, no, no,
- 27:40Speaker 1: they want they want to be able to like act
- 27:43Speaker 1: in the world. And what they want more than anything
- 27:45Speaker 1: is to be appreciated for it. And that's you know,
- 27:49Speaker 1: so like you're right, I mean, that's what I'm saying. Like,
- 27:51Speaker 1: it isn't it isn't. This is not a both sides
- 27:55Speaker 1: thing because these female strategies people are like all about
- 28:00Speaker 1: out take take, take, take, take, take, take, and anything
- 28:02Speaker 1: that they give you you should be like falling on
- 28:05Speaker 1: your knees and thanking them for you know. It's like
- 28:09Speaker 1: this is not the same.
- 28:10Speaker 2: So yeah, it's entirely one sided.
- 28:16Speaker 1: Yeah, it's completely irrelevant.
- 28:19Speaker 2: The man's comfort is irrelevant, the man's resources are irrelevant.
- 28:24Speaker 2: Providing anything in return to the man is irrelevant. Like
- 28:27Speaker 2: uh yeah, the red pill bros. I mean, aside from Tate,
- 28:31Speaker 2: who's unique, you know, they they do think that a
- 28:37Speaker 2: man needs to provide. They think that a man needs
- 28:40Speaker 2: to be manly, They think that a man needs to lead.
- 28:42Speaker 2: That means that not not just do what he wants,
- 28:46Speaker 2: but know what the woman needs ultimately and provide it
- 28:49Speaker 2: for her, which ironically is exactly what Sheira is asking
- 28:54Speaker 2: for or demanding, but apparently wants to give nothing in exchange.
- 29:00Speaker 1: Yeah, but like I said, she's poisoning.
- 29:02Speaker 2: Already existing relationships. She is providing cope for women who
- 29:07Speaker 2: want to live their entire life in a state of
- 29:10Speaker 2: not of uh of uh almost being picked. I don't
- 29:14Speaker 2: it's not being picked, but it's almost being picked, you know,
- 29:19Speaker 2: because somebody who lives their entire life waiting to be
- 29:22Speaker 2: picked is so much less of a pick me than
- 29:24Speaker 2: someone who just got on with things. But anyway, so
- 29:28Speaker 2: it's like it's it's a it's a and it all,
- 29:32Speaker 2: And ultimately there's no relationship in which you can get
- 29:36Speaker 2: create this perfect, clear, one sided thing. Right, this is
- 29:40Speaker 2: an impossible relationship that she's presenting. All relationships will fall short,
- 29:45Speaker 2: all relationships the woman will end up being a pick misha,
- 29:49Speaker 2: because there's no way you can get away from You can't.
- 29:52Speaker 2: You can't take away the satisfaction a man who sees
- 29:56Speaker 2: himself totally in service, the satisfaction a man gets in
- 30:01Speaker 2: providing money to his findow you can't take that away.
- 30:04Speaker 2: So it's not one sided anymore. You see what I'm
- 30:06Speaker 2: saying anything any emotional satisfaction. A man gets in the
- 30:09Speaker 2: relationship and suddenly the woman is a pygneesia because she's
- 30:13Speaker 2: she's giving him something.
- 30:16Speaker 1: Anyway, all right, I had a super chat a couple
- 30:19Speaker 1: of them. Alan Nator retro gives a ten dollars Canadian
- 30:22Speaker 1: and says, wait, Dusty, like Dusty Rhodes. Hard times are
- 30:26Speaker 1: when a man has worked at a job for thirty years.
- 30:28Speaker 1: They give him a watch, kick him in the button,
- 30:30Speaker 1: say hey, a computer took your place, daddy. What hard
- 30:34Speaker 1: times or that's hard times? Thank you for that. And
- 30:37Speaker 1: then Selene gave us a dollar ninety nine, thank you
- 30:41Speaker 1: and says, I like princess treatment and reciprocating. Yet it
- 30:45Speaker 1: sounds normal. Yeah, I'm healthy actually, so yeah.
- 30:49Speaker 2: I mean, if you're a princess who wants to treat
- 30:52Speaker 2: her man like a king, that's that's yeah. Well, you
- 30:54Speaker 2: know it's a little renaissance, but it's still reciprocating, right.
- 30:59Speaker 1: Indeed, all right, let's play some more. I got the
- 31:01Speaker 1: next This is a time stamp number two, so I'm
- 31:05Speaker 1: want to play it now.
- 31:06Speaker 3: Yeah, across them if if it cost them.
- 31:17Speaker 2: What, they won't crossing?
- 31:18Speaker 1: What that no? I well that's I couldn't get exactly
- 31:24Speaker 1: to where the time stamp starts because we're talking about
- 31:27Speaker 1: three hours. So she's about to say it. Now this
- 31:30Speaker 1: is the actual start of the thing.
- 31:31Speaker 3: Okay, here we go from your child's fault, get another
- 31:37Speaker 3: man with more money, and never look back unless you
- 31:39Speaker 3: have to for visitations. Focus on that. Focus on leveling
- 31:45Speaker 3: up to a man with more money. That means focus
- 31:47Speaker 3: on yourself to get to the point to where only
- 31:50Speaker 3: man with money are able to date you. Okay, mentally.
- 31:59Speaker 1: Get a level of out often, but you don't.
- 32:04Speaker 2: Okay, is this what is this? This is a culmination
- 32:08Speaker 2: of giving women autonomy over their own lives.
- 32:17Speaker 1: I don't want to say it, but.
- 32:19Speaker 2: It's just the elephant in the living room.
- 32:22Speaker 5: Like, okay, so these is you choose whatever man is
- 32:28Speaker 5: available to you when you are young and fertile and
- 32:30Speaker 5: you have his children, Like, what's the point of having
- 32:33Speaker 5: all his.
- 32:33Speaker 2: Resources if you produce dysfunctional children? You know the resources
- 32:37Speaker 2: are supposed to go to children, not just you, not
- 32:41Speaker 2: just your gigantic vein of pre trash that you're constructing there,
- 32:48Speaker 2: you know, That's what's that I've always think about that,
- 32:50Speaker 2: like if when I die, will anybody want to keep
- 32:54Speaker 2: anything that I've that I have? Is there anything unique
- 32:58Speaker 2: enough to be kept, you know what I mean? Or
- 33:01Speaker 2: is it all just going to be piled into a
- 33:03Speaker 2: U haul and dumped and then that's the sum total
- 33:07Speaker 2: of my life, a gigantic pilot trash, and I guess
- 33:13Speaker 2: we're all competing on making it bigger. Okay, go ahead,
- 33:16Speaker 2: Oh well.
- 33:16Speaker 1: No, I was going to say, do you think that
- 33:19Speaker 1: that that's what's going to be left of you? Is
- 33:21Speaker 1: all the shit that you bought in your life?
- 33:24Speaker 2: Will me?
- 33:25Speaker 1: I hope that.
- 33:26Speaker 2: I hope that you know, the you know, like maybe
- 33:30Speaker 2: the art, maybe the the the analysis I've imparted, you know,
- 33:34Speaker 2: the writing that I've done, Like the things that I've
- 33:36Speaker 2: created might be of value to people, But the things
- 33:40Speaker 2: I've bought are just in service of creating things, you
- 33:42Speaker 2: know what I mean. It's just in service of being
- 33:44Speaker 2: creative or building a life. Or if you are somebody
- 33:48Speaker 2: who has children, feeding clothing and raising healthy children, resources
- 33:53Speaker 2: are for something not just like pre trash, like this
- 33:57Speaker 2: is her monument, a gigantic like that that like I
- 34:01Speaker 2: was talking about the previous one that we talked about.
- 34:03Speaker 2: This the the the goblin woman with all the crap
- 34:06Speaker 2: on her back.
- 34:07Speaker 1: That's what this is. Yep, Li's this.
- 34:10Speaker 2: This is this is the don't be a pycnesia be
- 34:13Speaker 2: a goblin woman with a gigantic pile of garbage on
- 34:16Speaker 2: her back, And don't don't accept starting your life with
- 34:22Speaker 2: a life partner until he can promise you an even
- 34:26Speaker 2: larger pile of garbage.
- 34:31Speaker 1: Yep, winning, All right, let's play some more of this.
- 34:35Speaker 1: Now she's gonna say the thing. Okay, so well she
- 34:38Speaker 1: started to. But yeah about the money, and she's thirty six,
- 34:41Speaker 1: thirty four, Yeah, a little bit more.
- 34:47Speaker 3: And if your baby daddy has money, that find one
- 34:51Speaker 3: with more money. Okay, Congress, we.
- 34:56Speaker 2: Don't don't value the relationship between your the father and
- 35:00Speaker 2: and the children.
- 35:01Speaker 1: Right, If your baby daddy has money, but he doesn't
- 35:04Speaker 1: have enough money, despite the fact that he is the
- 35:07Speaker 1: father of your child, find another man that has more
- 35:13Speaker 1: money and go with him. Do you think this might
- 35:18Speaker 1: contribute to the fatherlessness problem we have?
- 35:21Speaker 2: Oh no, that's just dead beat dads, Brian.
- 35:24Speaker 1: Yeah, that's just dead be dads. Not stepping up guys, traditionalists.
- 35:27Speaker 2: That's what they tell me.
- 35:29Speaker 1: Yeah, I know, I hear it all the time too.
- 35:30Speaker 1: They're not taking responsibility. Blah blah blah. The government tricked
- 35:34Speaker 1: the women into marrying it. But the women they can't
- 35:36Speaker 1: do anything about it. They get incentives financial all over
- 35:41Speaker 1: the place. You want tax breaks, you want to get
- 35:43Speaker 1: a big ass return, you want to get a cell phone,
- 35:46Speaker 1: you want to get a house, you want to get
- 35:48Speaker 1: a car, you want to get like food stamps. There's
- 35:51Speaker 1: videos of women, single moms with multiple kids from multiple
- 35:55Speaker 1: baby daddies doing the math, showing you this is how
- 35:59Speaker 1: you gain the system. Here's how I get this much money,
- 36:02Speaker 1: and it's actually predicated on what is the absolute worst
- 36:07Speaker 1: case scenario for her and her children. But because she
- 36:12Speaker 1: gets gratification in the short term, none of this other
- 36:15Speaker 1: stuff matters. And women like this they treat it the
- 36:18Speaker 1: same way. It's all just like it's like numbers on
- 36:21Speaker 1: a chart, you know, I'll just move this over here.
- 36:24Speaker 1: And the men they don't matter. I mean, like the
- 36:27Speaker 1: man that doesn't make enough money to make her happy
- 36:31Speaker 1: might be willing to break his back to support his children,
- 36:35Speaker 1: but that doesn't matter because he's dusty now even though
- 36:39Speaker 1: she got pregnant by him, assumedly by her own choice.
- 36:44Speaker 1: So yeah, yeah, I.
- 36:47Speaker 2: Mean, because we're not talking about abuse or sexual violence situations.
- 36:51Speaker 1: No, no, obviously moment category. Women chose to have sex
- 36:56Speaker 1: with the dude, chose to like, do it unprotected, chose
- 37:00Speaker 1: to let him inside her, chose to keep the baby,
- 37:05Speaker 1: chose not to you know, give it up for adoption,
- 37:08Speaker 1: did not choose abortion, did not choose like to leave
- 37:12Speaker 1: it at a firehouse or a church like all these options.
- 37:15Speaker 1: She didn't do it. She just kept it. And now
- 37:18Speaker 1: she's just like, well fuck him. But I mean this
- 37:21Speaker 1: is a normal Okay, let me put it this way.
- 37:24Speaker 2: There are a lot more women doing taking advice from
- 37:27Speaker 2: this woman then men will ever be able to live
- 37:30Speaker 2: a life like Andrew Tate and like him. Yes, yeah,
- 37:37Speaker 2: it's it's just unless you are like an MMA fighter
- 37:40Speaker 2: who's ripped. And also, I don't know, he seems weird
- 37:44Speaker 2: looking to me, but I guess he's attractive.
- 37:46Speaker 1: He's tall. When you have enough money, it doesn't matter, yeah.
- 37:49Speaker 2: Exactly, but I mean to use his lover boy method
- 37:53Speaker 2: on women, So presumably he's attractive to something. But regardless,
- 37:58Speaker 2: like he's a you know, most men aren't going to
- 38:01Speaker 2: be that's not that's not a lifestyle accessible to most men.
- 38:05Speaker 2: She's preaching a lifestyle that is acceptable to women. Get
- 38:09Speaker 2: rid of the father of your children. Don't care about
- 38:12Speaker 2: the relationship between your child and its father. Go for yourself,
- 38:16Speaker 2: Go get more resources elsewhere.
- 38:20Speaker 1: M h.
- 38:21Speaker 2: And you know this is actually really interesting because I
- 38:23Speaker 2: took a primatology course in college and she basically is
- 38:29Speaker 2: expressing the goals and emotional range of a chimp. Is
- 38:37Speaker 2: that edgy?
- 38:40Speaker 1: No? I agree, I see what you're saying. Yeah, no,
- 38:43Speaker 1: I mean.
- 38:43Speaker 2: Because that literally what you learn is that chimpanzees, the
- 38:48Speaker 2: males compete over reproductive opportunities, the females compete over resources.
- 38:54Speaker 2: And chimpanzees are not like humans. Humans have a very
- 38:58Speaker 2: different social structure, starting with the fact that we trust enough,
- 39:02Speaker 2: we trust each other enough to share a language, like
- 39:04Speaker 2: we we are willing to share the ability to communicate
- 39:08Speaker 2: with each other. That's that's something chimps. There's not enough
- 39:11Speaker 2: tru trust among chimps to create a language, but that
- 39:15Speaker 2: And she's like, literally, she's like, yeah, let's just let's
- 39:19Speaker 2: just chimp out, ladies, and let's just go for the
- 39:22Speaker 2: basest instincts, which is reached or resources from men, not
- 39:28Speaker 2: not any of the higher stuff, not love, not affection,
- 39:32Speaker 2: not making sure our children have a father so that
- 39:34Speaker 2: they're equipped for their future lives. Now, let's just chimp
- 39:38Speaker 2: out and go base. Like, let's go back to monkey.
- 39:42Speaker 1: Monkey Monkey, all right, let's play the next have the bite.
- 39:49Speaker 1: I'm gonna play it now. No no sound please, because
- 39:52Speaker 1: it'll change the camera. So here we go.
- 39:58Speaker 3: When you walk up pass, Okay, it's not about other people.
- 40:05Speaker 3: Get the get the bag first. The friends and the
- 40:09Speaker 3: providers will come after.
- 40:12Speaker 1: Promise you, all right, get the bag first, she says, like, like,
- 40:19Speaker 1: forget friends, forget providers. Basically, uh, it's it's just really
- 40:27Speaker 1: kind of how do I put it, It's just cold.
- 40:31Speaker 1: It's just really cold. So and I mean, I only
- 40:35Speaker 1: I picked these clips just to show you essentially what
- 40:38Speaker 1: she thinks about men. I mean, I don't know how
- 40:41Speaker 1: else to put it. They either don't exist or they
- 40:45Speaker 1: exist to be exploited.
- 40:48Speaker 2: Yep, and converse.
- 40:50Speaker 1: You're probably better off not existing because then she doesn't
- 40:54Speaker 1: notice you.
- 40:55Speaker 2: Women either wait to be picked in the corner and
- 40:58Speaker 2: support her and her endeavors. Or their picniches, you know.
- 41:03Speaker 2: And and also this is like what is the point
- 41:07Speaker 2: to your life? Like has this person ever just sat
- 41:11Speaker 2: down and thought, Hey, I'm gonna die? What happens? You know,
- 41:15Speaker 2: like what have I left? Well?
- 41:19Speaker 1: I know people who literally don't care that, you know,
- 41:22Speaker 1: like what happens. Like they're just like, well, I'm going
- 41:25Speaker 1: to turn into dust and I'm gonna like return to
- 41:27Speaker 1: the earth and no one's you know, eventually people are
- 41:30Speaker 1: gonna forget who I am. I forget my name. So
- 41:33Speaker 1: I mean there are people who legit think it doesn't matter.
- 41:37Speaker 1: I'm not one of those people, but might be he
- 41:42Speaker 1: might be more inclined to be like, well, I want
- 41:45Speaker 1: to get everything I can. And I imagine I'll make
- 41:49Speaker 1: a prediction. I don't think we'll ever learn the truth
- 41:51Speaker 1: about it, but I imagine she's gonna end up like
- 41:54Speaker 1: these women like Madonna, who essentially spend the rest of
- 41:58Speaker 1: their life, no matter how old they get, trying to
- 42:02Speaker 1: stay young, trying to stay relevant. You know, like if
- 42:06Speaker 1: you look at I watched the movie Dick Trace. You
- 42:09Speaker 1: ever see the Dick Tracy movie House?
- 42:12Speaker 2: No, I don't think so.
- 42:14Speaker 1: I never saw it before, but I watched it. I
- 42:16Speaker 1: watched most of I haven't finished it yet. I watched
- 42:19Speaker 1: most of it not long ago. It was like came
- 42:21Speaker 1: out in nineteen ninety and it had like Warren Baby
- 42:25Speaker 1: in it and all these like big actors, and they
- 42:27Speaker 1: all had like these crazy makeup. That's why I want
- 42:29Speaker 1: to watch it, for the makeup and the costumes and
- 42:32Speaker 1: the music and everything. So with Danny Elfman did the soundtrack. Anyway,
- 42:35Speaker 1: Madonna's in the movie because at the time, she was,
- 42:39Speaker 1: you know, really really popular, at the peak of her
- 42:41Speaker 1: career probably, and she was playing the main character. When
- 42:44Speaker 1: I saw her, I was like, holy crap, I forgot
- 42:46Speaker 1: that Madonna used to be somewhat attractive. Like today she
- 42:49Speaker 1: looks like that muppet from the band, you know, the Janice. Yeah,
- 42:55Speaker 1: she looks like jan Like so many women that get
- 42:58Speaker 1: a lot of work done end up looking like jan
- 43:00Speaker 1: from the Mumpets, And you know, and I'm like, well,
- 43:03Speaker 1: the only the only thing I could think of that's
- 43:06Speaker 1: causing this is that she doesn't want to not be
- 43:12Speaker 1: like she doesn't want to come back down to Earth
- 43:15Speaker 1: and realize that she is a mortal woman with a
- 43:19Speaker 1: limited amount of time on this earth, and she may
- 43:22Speaker 1: have like regrets about life choices. I know that she
- 43:24Speaker 1: was like with guy Ritchie for a while, and I
- 43:26Speaker 1: don't know if she has kids. I don't know if
- 43:29Speaker 1: she's a mother, but she I think all that has
- 43:32Speaker 1: passed her by and now she's not willing to face
- 43:37Speaker 1: the reality of that. So she's just doing concerts like
- 43:40Speaker 1: sixty years old, you know, getting all this plastic surgery,
- 43:43Speaker 1: getting probably getting BBLS and all this other crap so
- 43:47Speaker 1: that she can like still look like she did in
- 43:49Speaker 1: nineteen eighty four, and she just doesn't, like it's obvious
- 43:53Speaker 1: to anyone who's paying attention. Her skin is so tight
- 43:55Speaker 1: can bounce a corter off of it. And I feel
- 43:57Speaker 1: like this woman's gonna end up in a Simms place,
- 44:00Speaker 1: as a lot of women are heading, because they also
- 44:04Speaker 1: were convinced that being a girl boss for your whole
- 44:07Speaker 1: life and never like you know, seeking anything else, never
- 44:10Speaker 1: asking whether like what is on this earth, in this
- 44:13Speaker 1: world at this point in life is actually really what's important.
- 44:18Speaker 1: And because they have so much pride and they there,
- 44:21Speaker 1: they have no humility and no desire to look at
- 44:24Speaker 1: themselves take a hard look and say, you know, what
- 44:26Speaker 1: have I done? With my life because they won't do that,
- 44:29Speaker 1: they refuse to because it's too painful. Then they just
- 44:31Speaker 1: double down on that. They double down, double down, until
- 44:35Speaker 1: you know, they become something that there that is unrecognizable,
- 44:39Speaker 1: which is what happened to Madonna. And I'm going to
- 44:41Speaker 1: make a prediction that that may very well happen to
- 44:43Speaker 1: this woman if she doesn't like you know, the money,
- 44:47Speaker 1: though she doesn't, but she might. Her she's banking on
- 44:51Speaker 1: the finding the guy, and she thinks that she stays
- 44:55Speaker 1: on this course and continues to level up when which
- 45:00Speaker 1: of course she can't level up much more because as
- 45:02Speaker 1: she gets older, she levels down. She's going to level down. Yeah,
- 45:07Speaker 1: but I mean, I don't know, maybe she's going to
- 45:10Speaker 1: find Like I think that there is a one of
- 45:12Speaker 1: the sound one of the timecodes I got is her
- 45:16Speaker 1: talking about getting with a much older man, and I
- 45:20Speaker 1: think that she doesn't say it explicitly again because they
- 45:23Speaker 1: never do. But the idea is maybe I'll inherit all
- 45:26Speaker 1: this shit when he passes away, and that'll be like
- 45:29Speaker 1: my ultimate reward, my ultimate level up.
- 45:32Speaker 2: Okay, let's move on to the next timecode, which are
- 45:35Speaker 2: we at least three in or.
- 45:37Speaker 1: This is let me see what where are we at? Now?
- 45:41Speaker 1: Forty five forty eight? So I'm at this is actually
- 45:45Speaker 1: the fifth timecode, the one I'm about to do. It's
- 45:47Speaker 1: the fifth one, so jumping ahead to one seventeen o nine,
- 45:53Speaker 1: So I gotta go back a little bit. Sorry, I
- 45:57Speaker 1: don't want to miss all of the context here, so
- 46:01Speaker 1: I'll just have to listen to fifteen seconds.
- 46:04Speaker 2: Another goddamn snicker.
- 46:08Speaker 1: Yeah, they'll probably be another snigger. All right, here we go.
- 46:12Speaker 3: I act like you're having a breakdown. Sometimes you gotta
- 46:18Speaker 3: fake it, man, Sometimes you gotta have a.
- 46:21Speaker 1: Fake She hasn't done it yet. I'm gonna play it.
- 46:26Speaker 1: It's at one seventeen oh nine and I'm at one
- 46:28Speaker 1: sixteen fifty seven, so you can just just don't respond
- 46:31Speaker 1: to this yet.
- 46:32Speaker 2: Okay, just give me a moment. All right, guys, we're
- 46:35Speaker 2: doing a lot of work here. Please go to feed
- 46:37Speaker 2: the Badger dot com slash just the tip and give
- 46:39Speaker 2: us a tip and a comment so we can do
- 46:42Speaker 2: something other than listen to her a snicker.
- 46:46Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, here we go.
- 46:52Speaker 3: Okay, see if you really love you or are you
- 46:55Speaker 3: just a roommate? Sprinkle, sprinkle, just give him notice I said,
- 47:02Speaker 3: I'm not gonna be able to do this anymore. I'm tired.
- 47:05Speaker 3: And when i'm you know what, I'm giving you the
- 47:08Speaker 3: duty of paying all the bills because I know you
- 47:11Speaker 3: can do it. You're a man, You're a real man.
- 47:13Speaker 3: I respect you. You're so smart, Like girl, tell them
- 47:16Speaker 3: all this stuff you need to hear. You'll probably get
- 47:19Speaker 3: a second income or work from home and then do
- 47:21Speaker 3: another job or start a business or whatever. You could
- 47:25Speaker 3: do something side hustle, whatever. But I'm not going to
- 47:28Speaker 3: be able to do it anymore. After give him a time,
- 47:31Speaker 3: after two more months, I'm done just telling you. Now
- 47:36Speaker 3: he's gonna figure it out.
- 47:38Speaker 2: Does this community have a lot of problems with dusty men?
- 47:47Speaker 2: I mean, it sounds like most of the like they're
- 47:49Speaker 2: they're making some very It's it's really weird because you know, chimpanzees,
- 47:57Speaker 2: they have a promiscuous mating system and they have a hierarchy.
- 48:00Speaker 2: But for the most part, I'm a good portion of
- 48:04Speaker 2: what what happened is there'll be a coalition that takes
- 48:06Speaker 2: over the troop, a coalition of males, and they'll all
- 48:08Speaker 2: sort of get an opportunity to mate, and then the
- 48:10Speaker 2: coalition will change in a year or so or a
- 48:12Speaker 2: couple of years, and then they'll all get an opportunity
- 48:15Speaker 2: to mate. So ultimately, over the course of the lifetime
- 48:17Speaker 2: of a male chimp, they generally do actually achieve reproductive success,
- 48:21Speaker 2: but it's promiscuous. There's no pair bonding. The males don't
- 48:25Speaker 2: generally do a lot of parental activity with the with
- 48:30Speaker 2: their children, even though even though in that circumstance, somehow
- 48:34Speaker 2: chimps children chimp I don't know what. I guess children
- 48:38Speaker 2: is close enough. They actually do benefit from having their
- 48:42Speaker 2: father around somehow, I don't know. They don't know how,
- 48:44Speaker 2: but they just do.
- 48:47Speaker 1: Chimps, I don't know. I think we call them that. Okay, baby,
- 48:52Speaker 1: probably like a scientific term that's a lot better, but yeah,
- 48:55Speaker 1: go ahead.
- 48:56Speaker 2: My point, my overall point in pointing this out, is
- 48:59Speaker 2: that they don't like there's no no real resource provision
- 49:05Speaker 2: from the male chimp to the female chimp when it
- 49:07Speaker 2: comes to child rearing or anything. The female chimp is
- 49:10Speaker 2: on our own for developing resources. So we've got this
- 49:13Speaker 2: very bizarre situation, and I don't think it's actually justifiable
- 49:19Speaker 2: because while these women are going after dusty men, which
- 49:22Speaker 2: incidentally I'm starting to there's a picture being painted that
- 49:27Speaker 2: a dusty man, because it's not just a dusty man
- 49:30Speaker 2: is on their radar because they are having sex with them,
- 49:33Speaker 2: and they're apparently having children with them. But it seems
- 49:36Speaker 2: like a dusty man is actually a man who is
- 49:40Speaker 2: significantly more attractive and or has more social clout something
- 49:45Speaker 2: like that, and they want to have children with them,
- 49:48Speaker 2: but they just don't have the financial resources. So they
- 49:51Speaker 2: have the child and then they have to go grope
- 49:53Speaker 2: to find resources. But this is not something that you
- 49:55Speaker 2: see in the wild. This is like this is like,
- 49:59Speaker 2: you know, wanting your cake and eating it too. This
- 50:02Speaker 2: is the behavior of a promiscuous mating system also trying
- 50:07Speaker 2: to also be a pair bonding system. You see what
- 50:11Speaker 2: I'm saying. Like they're promiscuously mating with the dusky men
- 50:15Speaker 2: or the duskyment the dusty men, sorry, and they're trying
- 50:23Speaker 2: to find a provider on top of that, which isn't
- 50:26Speaker 2: how humans do. That's half how chimps do and half
- 50:32Speaker 2: how humans do. But what humans generally do is pair bonding.
- 50:37Speaker 2: And I know some people are like, ah no, that's nobody.
- 50:39Speaker 2: It's actually true. The fact that human beings are pair
- 50:42Speaker 2: bonders is like an uncontroversial fact in anthropology. It's the
- 50:46Speaker 2: fact that other things are hung on, Like, how did
- 50:49Speaker 2: that evolve? And essentially that evolved from two things resource
- 50:53Speaker 2: provisioned by the male and preference by the female. So
- 50:58Speaker 2: the only reason why pair bonding evolved is because human
- 51:03Speaker 2: females develop a preference for a male and they stick
- 51:09Speaker 2: with that male and then the provision gets incentivized. So
- 51:13Speaker 2: that's how that or that's the main theory on how
- 51:16Speaker 2: I evolved. I shouldn't say it's that's finalized, because you know,
- 51:19Speaker 2: there's not nothing really as final in science. But so
- 51:24Speaker 2: what again, what I'm seeing is this sort of weird,
- 51:27Speaker 2: screwed up combination of promiscuous chimp mating and trying to
- 51:33Speaker 2: have a pair bonding system. And honestly, what I've heard
- 51:37Speaker 2: come out of this kind of scenario is that the
- 51:41Speaker 2: guy she has children with or a child with will
- 51:47Speaker 2: always hold some element of connection to her. And I
- 51:55Speaker 2: don't just mean like financial, illegal social, I mean sexual
- 51:59Speaker 2: and emotional. And the guy who comes on the into
- 52:04Speaker 2: the picture to pay for that will always be on
- 52:08Speaker 2: some level second place to the man she had children
- 52:12Speaker 2: with because we aren't promiscuous breeders. We're pair bonders. And
- 52:18Speaker 2: she's going to make that connection with the father of
- 52:20Speaker 2: her children or the fathers of their children, and men
- 52:23Speaker 2: who just walk on and give her resources. You're not
- 52:27Speaker 2: going to be in the same ballpark like it. It's
- 52:32Speaker 2: it's really highly unlikely, like she's already made that kind
- 52:36Speaker 2: of biochemical connection to a man or men, as the
- 52:39Speaker 2: case may be. Maybe if she has multiple baby I
- 52:42Speaker 2: don't know if it works that bay, but that but
- 52:44Speaker 2: that's something to consider.
- 52:45Speaker 1: The less I have is of her talking about having
- 52:49Speaker 1: like orbiters or taking advantage of orbiters and guys in
- 52:53Speaker 1: the friend zone. That's one of the clips I have
- 52:56Speaker 1: because they are they are being used as utility. It's
- 52:59Speaker 1: not an accident according to her. So I mean it
- 53:05Speaker 1: makes sense.
- 53:05Speaker 2: It makes sense, like I'm just being weird as a
- 53:09Speaker 2: woman because this gives me a visceral reaction of disgust.
- 53:12Speaker 1: I'm not saying it's normal. Maybe I know there's women watching,
- 53:16Speaker 1: but there I think that there are women who do,
- 53:20Speaker 1: in fact have men around them that they know are
- 53:24Speaker 1: attracted them, but they're not attracted those men, but they
- 53:27Speaker 1: keep them around because those men could be useful. And
- 53:30Speaker 1: they're basically beta orbiters or guys that have been put
- 53:34Speaker 1: in the friend zone, but they want to keep them
- 53:36Speaker 1: in touch because again, it's like having a spare, you know,
- 53:39Speaker 1: if you need it, and you and they'll use them.
- 53:41Speaker 1: I know a guy who was well years ago, but
- 53:45Speaker 1: he was there. He had a woman who used them
- 53:47Speaker 1: as an emotional tampon whenever she would like get done
- 53:50Speaker 1: wrong by some guy that she was fucking and she
- 53:54Speaker 1: would use him as the emotional bounce back, but never
- 53:57Speaker 1: did anything with him, you know, and kept him like
- 54:00Speaker 1: close by. And then when she would start like fucking
- 54:03Speaker 1: around with another guy, you know, she would like complain
- 54:08Speaker 1: about the other guy to this guy. Right. It was
- 54:10Speaker 1: just I was like, dude, you this is an abusive relationship.
- 54:13Speaker 1: I know you don't think so, but you you should
- 54:16Speaker 1: not put up with that shit. I you know, and
- 54:18Speaker 1: I was. I was in my twenties, so it was
- 54:19Speaker 1: a long time ago. By the way, I had a
- 54:21Speaker 1: birthday yesterday. I even forget to say it. So, yeah,
- 54:25Speaker 1: it was yesterday. No, it's okay, it's all right, but
- 54:28Speaker 1: it's fine. Fifty one. That's all I'm going to say.
- 54:32Speaker 2: Congratulations, Congratulations, well, you know, I am still here that
- 54:37Speaker 2: there is that, so I'll take it.
- 54:39Speaker 1: But uh yeah, no, I mean that's totally happens. And
- 54:42Speaker 1: what I think when she says dusty men, I think
- 54:44Speaker 1: what that means is men that that if she is Medusa,
- 54:51Speaker 1: these are the men who meet her gaze but turned
- 54:53Speaker 1: to stone and so like, there are men that she's
- 54:56Speaker 1: obviously would have sex with, take an interest in sexually,
- 55:02Speaker 1: but when she finds out they don't live up to
- 55:05Speaker 1: her standards financially, even if they have even if they're
- 55:08Speaker 1: you know, got everything else together, Like they don't have
- 55:11Speaker 1: kids from other women floating around. They're working on like
- 55:15Speaker 1: their education, or they're working on a career, or they're
- 55:17Speaker 1: building something, but they're still in the early stages of
- 55:20Speaker 1: whatever that is. I think that the best way to
- 55:24Speaker 1: guarantee that that, or at least help make that successful
- 55:27Speaker 1: is if a woman comes into the man's life and
- 55:29Speaker 1: becomes a support a helpmate to him to help him
- 55:33Speaker 1: build that. But women like this don't want to be
- 55:36Speaker 1: a part of the support system. They don't want to
- 55:38Speaker 1: be the cheerleader, they don't want to help, They just
- 55:40Speaker 1: want to benefit. So they're just like, well, until you
- 55:43Speaker 1: show up with everything set up, I'm not going to
- 55:47Speaker 1: look at you. So I think dusty men are men
- 55:49Speaker 1: who have essentially, like you said, they're not meeting her
- 55:54Speaker 1: financial standards or economic standards, but they might meet other standards,
- 55:59Speaker 1: you know, they might be attractive and then like other
- 56:01Speaker 1: men that are you know, that don't do that, Like
- 56:04Speaker 1: they're just regular guys that are struggling, you know, just
- 56:07Speaker 1: like everybody is. Yeah, they're not even on the radar.
- 56:11Speaker 1: They're not even meeting Medusa's gays. They're like they're they're
- 56:14Speaker 1: in another the you know they're in They're in the
- 56:16Speaker 1: Parthenon somewhere else.
- 56:18Speaker 2: The men in like home mask server call it not
- 56:21Speaker 2: people yeah.
- 56:23Speaker 1: Not people, yeah, but not people category.
- 56:26Speaker 2: Yeah. I don't know, like there's there's just things that
- 56:29Speaker 2: about this.
- 56:30Speaker 1: That are but I did get some super Child's and stuff,
- 56:35Speaker 1: and I do have more time codes, and.
- 56:37Speaker 2: Maybe it's just a matter of mentality, but it's like
- 56:40Speaker 2: I I just I'm just going back to the pick
- 56:42Speaker 2: me thing. So if you stay in a state of
- 56:45Speaker 2: wanting to be picked but not not believing that anybody
- 56:50Speaker 2: is worthy of picking you, you're essentially staying in pick
- 56:54Speaker 2: me mentality. For the rest of your life like that
- 56:58Speaker 2: that and is that your own value? Like you know,
- 57:03Speaker 2: maybe maybe someone are like they just grab them in,
- 57:06Speaker 2: They're like, okay, let's build Like I got an idea,
- 57:09Speaker 2: You've got an idea, they're compatible, let's build Like is
- 57:12Speaker 2: that that can't possibly be a pick me because you're
- 57:16Speaker 2: done with it? Like if you if you want your
- 57:18Speaker 2: pick me stage to be like you know, very short,
- 57:22Speaker 2: how can that define you for the rest of your life?
- 57:26Speaker 2: Like I mean, I just had a check box. I'm like, okay, check,
- 57:28Speaker 2: got it done, Let's move on. Yeah, And because I
- 57:33Speaker 2: didn't really enjoy being in the stage of not being picked.
- 57:39Speaker 2: But if you think about it, being in the stage
- 57:41Speaker 2: of not being picked, is focusing on being picked, you.
- 57:45Speaker 1: Know what I mean? Yeah, of course, yeah, sure. And
- 57:48Speaker 1: once you once you're like in a relationship, I mean,
- 57:51Speaker 1: now you're like, Okay, I'm done. Now I can get
- 57:53Speaker 1: back to having a life. Yeah, I can actually start
- 57:57Speaker 1: living my life. Well, not that you couldn't do it before,
- 57:59Speaker 1: but you know what I mean, Like when now I've
- 58:02Speaker 1: entered a new chapter. Yeah, and this is going to
- 58:05Speaker 1: be exciting, right.
- 58:06Speaker 2: So yes, it's like, let's get on with things.
- 58:09Speaker 1: Yeah. So okay, so I got some super chows and
- 58:13Speaker 1: I got a big one too, so uh, Codra Dodger
- 58:18Speaker 1: gives us fifty dollars super Child, Thank you, Cardro Dodger.
- 58:22Speaker 1: I will play you a I'll play you a voice
- 58:26Speaker 1: line from Oliver Reed, one of my favorite people from Hollywood.
- 58:30Speaker 2: There are going to be a lot of people on
- 58:31Speaker 2: this program that will laugh at that, and there will
- 58:33Speaker 2: be several who would probably be quite indignant.
- 58:36Speaker 1: I'm not indignant because this is indicative of the bad
- 58:40Speaker 1: manners of a lot of chauvinist ladies. All right, thank you,
- 58:44Speaker 1: very super classy takedown. I'm part of Oliver Reid. And
- 58:49Speaker 1: then Meredith g gave us five dollars. Thank you, Meredith
- 58:53Speaker 1: and says dating show honey for the badgerss. There's a
- 58:55Speaker 1: part of me that wonders if the grifter gives bad
- 58:59Speaker 1: advice because there is a perverse thrill she gets destroying lives.
- 59:04Speaker 1: Just a thought. Well, I do think that there's a
- 59:06Speaker 1: way of competing with women. I have considered this for sure.
- 59:11Speaker 1: I mean, I think I think Manifestel does it too.
- 59:14Speaker 1: I think that that like they give women really bad
- 59:18Speaker 1: advice and it kind of like gives them a bit
- 59:22Speaker 1: more of a secure position, especially if they're Yeah, especially
- 59:26Speaker 1: if they're shooting for like really high value men, Like
- 59:30Speaker 1: why wouldn't you take women out of the competition? You know,
- 59:34Speaker 1: there's not only does she snicker like Muttley from the
- 59:37Speaker 1: Wacky Races, but she actually tries to sabotage the other racers.
- 59:45Speaker 2: But it's like people, I think people underestimate because there's
- 59:49Speaker 2: interesting qualities about the way that that pair bonders operate,
- 59:56Speaker 2: and even like promiscuous like spezies will sabotage each other's
- 1:00:01Speaker 2: mating opportunities. If there if a female champ wants a
- 1:00:06Speaker 2: particular male chimp and he's going after another female chimp,
- 1:00:09Speaker 2: she might actually do like a distress call and then
- 1:00:12Speaker 2: just Russian and present herself. So, I mean, there's all
- 1:00:15Speaker 2: kinds of things that in particular what they're noticing in biologies,
- 1:00:19Speaker 2: there's all kinds of competitive strategies among women are female animals,
- 1:00:24Speaker 2: including like sexual aggression like up to the point well,
- 1:00:28Speaker 2: I mean if it was if it was human, we
- 1:00:29Speaker 2: would probably consider it a form of rape. But they're animals,
- 1:00:33Speaker 2: so they got different the way we have a different
- 1:00:35Speaker 2: conception of consent so for example, the topie antelope, the females,
- 1:00:40Speaker 2: a female who is less desirable female will insert herself
- 1:00:46Speaker 2: into the mating of a male with a female that
- 1:00:49Speaker 2: he desires. So I mean, at that point that's sort
- 1:00:52Speaker 2: of like rape by deception in our context, but you know,
- 1:00:55Speaker 2: in their context, it's just you know, all's fair in
- 1:00:57Speaker 2: love and war for the topie antelope. But you know,
- 1:01:01Speaker 2: so we're seeing that there's a lot of aggressive strategies.
- 1:01:05Speaker 2: And since human beings are paara bonders and we sort
- 1:01:08Speaker 2: of have this kind of unique setup where we're not
- 1:01:12Speaker 2: just para bonders, but we don't like form these kind
- 1:01:14Speaker 2: of nucleuses around a pair bonding pair like for example,
- 1:01:18Speaker 2: wolves or other kind of pair bonding animals. Generally the
- 1:01:21Speaker 2: social group is the pair that is the breeding pair,
- 1:01:25Speaker 2: and then they're offspring from various generations. We actually have
- 1:01:30Speaker 2: extended sort of tribes which even goes beyond, like we
- 1:01:34Speaker 2: have the clan, which is like maybe multiple generations of
- 1:01:38Speaker 2: breeding pairs, but then you have even bigger which is
- 1:01:42Speaker 2: like different lineages of breeding pairs all managing to coexist
- 1:01:47Speaker 2: within a social structure, which means we have different social
- 1:01:51Speaker 2: pressures in different ways we express this kind of competition
- 1:01:54Speaker 2: with wolves. In particular, the dominant female will suppress the
- 1:02:01Speaker 2: mating of all the other females, so they'll go into heat,
- 1:02:04Speaker 2: but the dominant female, well mother female usually but sometimes
- 1:02:09Speaker 2: there are some stranger animals, will prevent all of the
- 1:02:12Speaker 2: other female wolves in the pack from mating. So I
- 1:02:16Speaker 2: think that there is actually this competition where a woman
- 1:02:20Speaker 2: who either perceives herself as high status or is high status,
- 1:02:26Speaker 2: or wants to pretend to high status. By engaging in
- 1:02:31Speaker 2: this behavior, they will actually destroy the mating opportunities of
- 1:02:35Speaker 2: other women and try to control them. And that will
- 1:02:38Speaker 2: either be because they want to maintain their status because
- 1:02:42Speaker 2: they can because they're high status, or it could be
- 1:02:44Speaker 2: because they want to generate the perception in themselves that
- 1:02:48Speaker 2: they're high status.
- 1:02:49Speaker 3: That makes sense, and I.
- 1:02:50Speaker 2: Think shei Ra is in that category of she wants
- 1:02:54Speaker 2: to destroy the relationship and reproductive opportunities of other women
- 1:02:59Speaker 2: because it generates a sense that she has that power,
- 1:03:02Speaker 2: therefore she is high status. And I say that based
- 1:03:05Speaker 2: on that one we talked about in the previous episode,
- 1:03:08Speaker 2: that one moment where a woman is talking about being
- 1:03:14Speaker 2: in a relationship with a man who is going through
- 1:03:17Speaker 2: engineering school. I've repeated that, and she without directly saying, oh, yeah,
- 1:03:22Speaker 2: he's not good enough for her, for you poison the
- 1:03:26Speaker 2: relationship by saying I wouldn't do it like someone who
- 1:03:29Speaker 2: a woman who is high value like me. You might
- 1:03:32Speaker 2: be lower value, but I'm high value.
- 1:03:34Speaker 3: I wouldn't.
- 1:03:35Speaker 2: And the thing is that all the woman has to
- 1:03:37Speaker 2: do is wait, he's probably gonna get a job. They're
- 1:03:40Speaker 2: probably gonna be comfortably upper middle class. Maybe he'll get
- 1:03:44Speaker 2: some some business opportunities that could pay off really big, right,
- 1:03:50Speaker 2: because there's lots of innovation and engineering and software that
- 1:03:54Speaker 2: can end up paying off real big. And she will
- 1:03:57Speaker 2: have opted out of it just because this woman said
- 1:04:01Speaker 2: I wouldn't.
- 1:04:01Speaker 1: Wait.
- 1:04:02Speaker 2: Yeah, that's destructive, that's poison. And I think that that
- 1:04:06Speaker 2: is because she wants to feel like she has control
- 1:04:10Speaker 2: over other women's relationships, because that makes her feel like
- 1:04:13Speaker 2: a dominant alpha female. Okay, all right, that's my analysis
- 1:04:19Speaker 2: of that.
- 1:04:19Speaker 1: I got a super more super Chow's so Richard Bierre
- 1:04:23Speaker 1: gave us five dollars, Thank you, Richard, and says could
- 1:04:27Speaker 1: pair bonding also have been a response to sexuality. I
- 1:04:30Speaker 1: think he means sexually transmitted infections or diseases that could
- 1:04:35Speaker 1: result in serility or even death when left untreated, and
- 1:04:38Speaker 1: before treatments were developed. Being too casual with sexuality would
- 1:04:43Speaker 1: be playing Russian Roulette blindfolded. I mean, I think syphilis
- 1:04:49Speaker 1: was like a big thing back in the day.
- 1:04:52Speaker 2: Yeah, it's because it came from the Americas. Like Europeans
- 1:04:55Speaker 2: had no defense against it, really because it was they.
- 1:04:59Speaker 2: You know, we had this conversation about smallpox, but syphilis
- 1:05:02Speaker 2: was introduced from the Americas to Europe. But we did
- 1:05:06Speaker 2: miss a I don't know if you did this intentionally,
- 1:05:08Speaker 2: but you missed the problem.
- 1:05:10Speaker 1: No, I read that one. I read that one. Oh wait, no,
- 1:05:13Speaker 1: I started to and then we got no because I
- 1:05:15Speaker 1: played the Oliver Reed thing and I didn't read it. Yeah,
- 1:05:18Speaker 1: so okay, Alix, and we don't call them monkeys anymore.
- 1:05:21Speaker 1: Can't take you anywhere, okay, thank you. And then Richard
- 1:05:24Speaker 1: Bierre gave us five and said, Muttley, don't just do something.
- 1:05:28Speaker 1: Stand there, stop the page and stop the page, okay.
- 1:05:34Speaker 1: And then let's see we got a rumble rant because
- 1:05:37Speaker 1: I always give those the next step up. Nova Fan
- 1:05:40Speaker 1: twenty one gave us a dollar and said snick a please,
- 1:05:43Speaker 1: and then we got a super chat super chat from
- 1:05:48Speaker 1: Albert Data retro and he says, for five two dollars,
- 1:05:51Speaker 1: Canadian Madonna played Breathless. Mahoney, Yes, that's right. I remember
- 1:05:57Speaker 1: that because I'm watching the movie. So all right, anyway,
- 1:06:01Speaker 1: that's that. So I don't know if I did I
- 1:06:03Speaker 1: play the next clip already. Yes, it was about being
- 1:06:08Speaker 1: okay with using men. So let's move on to the
- 1:06:10Speaker 1: next one, because we're trying to get this under a
- 1:06:13Speaker 1: certain amount of time.
- 1:06:15Speaker 2: Right, Yeah, it's not going to happen, I don't think,
- 1:06:18Speaker 2: but we'll try.
- 1:06:19Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, one thirty nine, forty fifty, forty one
- 1:06:26Speaker 1: forty So I got to go back a little bit
- 1:06:28Speaker 1: right here. It's fine.
- 1:06:28Speaker 3: Somebody that ain't got no money, tell a married women
- 1:06:34Speaker 3: Tedy's young girls, who would it turns into? Now that
- 1:06:39Speaker 3: bank account don't don't get boring, No, them, luxury vehicles
- 1:06:46Speaker 3: in that house don't get boring. Them vacations don't get
- 1:06:49Speaker 3: boring though, you know what I'm saying, Yes they do. Oh,
- 1:06:53Speaker 3: y'all have to think about this if y'all are young.
- 1:06:56Speaker 1: Yeah, So she is basically and she's talking to young
- 1:07:00Speaker 1: earls now telling them, you know, there there is only
- 1:07:06Speaker 1: what you can get. There is only what you can
- 1:07:09Speaker 1: get in this life, essentially, is what she's saying, right, vacations, clothes, money,
- 1:07:14Speaker 1: credit cards, cars, whatever.
- 1:07:18Speaker 2: I think. I think honestly, we're seeing an existential crisis
- 1:07:21Speaker 2: here of meaning.
- 1:07:24Speaker 1: Do you mean like with this woman, I can tell
- 1:07:27Speaker 1: you with with like people in general like a lot
- 1:07:31Speaker 1: like most of us are are. Most of us are
- 1:07:34Speaker 1: struggling with this. And I think that it's partly because
- 1:07:39Speaker 1: of how good we all have it. It goes back
- 1:07:41Speaker 1: to that paradox I was talking about, where, you know,
- 1:07:45Speaker 1: the more comfortable we are, and I'm not saying we
- 1:07:47Speaker 1: could then again the the Toqueville, the Topeville paradox, And
- 1:07:55Speaker 1: I'm saying that it doesn't mean that you can't find
- 1:07:58Speaker 1: meaning in a modern in society with modern conveniences. I'm
- 1:08:02Speaker 1: not saying that we got to go live like the
- 1:08:03Speaker 1: Amish or be Luodites. I'm saying that we are taking. Firstly,
- 1:08:09Speaker 1: we're taking for granted how good we have it. We're
- 1:08:12Speaker 1: not like most people just don't count their blessings on
- 1:08:15Speaker 1: that front, especially if you live in a Western country.
- 1:08:18Speaker 1: Even with all of the problems that we have. But
- 1:08:21Speaker 1: more than that, they're not. They think that, for whatever reason,
- 1:08:25Speaker 1: you know, what it means to live is just to like,
- 1:08:29Speaker 1: I don't know, get more of what is out there,
- 1:08:32Speaker 1: Like we're you know, I'm all, I'm tried. Go ahead.
- 1:08:38Speaker 2: Well, I mean if I if I was a person
- 1:08:42Speaker 2: who really wanted to get meaning through physical things, I
- 1:08:48Speaker 2: would be choosing a lot more valuable physical things than
- 1:08:54Speaker 2: what she's presenting. Like honestly, like if you're if you're
- 1:08:58Speaker 2: getting value from bed off and beyond touch keys, uh,
- 1:09:02Speaker 2: you know, fifty dollars pillows, Ah, I don't know a
- 1:09:07Speaker 2: two hundred and fifty dollars head headboard, fabricated wood headboard,
- 1:09:12Speaker 2: Like really, is that what you're getting value from? Like,
- 1:09:16Speaker 2: if you're gonna go do this, go big, Like get
- 1:09:20Speaker 2: the silk rugs, Get the elaborate wood carvings from from Bali,
- 1:09:24Speaker 2: the silver filigree, the one of the kind prints and
- 1:09:28Speaker 2: art art paintings. You know, get the actual furniture that's
- 1:09:34Speaker 2: built by an actual carpenter, not just prefab off of
- 1:09:38Speaker 2: an assembly line. You know, like get custom stuff, like
- 1:09:41Speaker 2: really good custom stuff, stuff that makes you satisfied to
- 1:09:46Speaker 2: look at it as opposed to just cheap, o, mass
- 1:09:50Speaker 2: produced crap. And that's what the funny thing is, Like
- 1:09:53Speaker 2: look at her. And I'm not saying that that's a
- 1:09:57Speaker 2: bad life. It's fine. You want decoration your life, that's fine.
- 1:10:00Speaker 2: But if you're going to hinge your entire purpose and
- 1:10:04Speaker 2: meaning on things, get better things.
- 1:10:09Speaker 1: I guess. I mean, like I think, I think that
- 1:10:11Speaker 1: I don't know, he adds to the waste in the world.
- 1:10:16Speaker 2: No, that's what I'm saying, Like, don't add to the
- 1:10:19Speaker 2: waste in the world. You know, get better things. If if,
- 1:10:22Speaker 2: if you are going to take your I'm not saying
- 1:10:24Speaker 2: that this is the way to go, Brian, I'm just
- 1:10:27Speaker 2: saying that, if this is your choice, get better things,
- 1:10:30Speaker 2: get more things, get more expensive things, get more things
- 1:10:34Speaker 2: that are original, you know, get things that actually have
- 1:10:38Speaker 2: some value, some actual value to them, not just mass
- 1:10:42Speaker 2: produced crap. On the first story of like a I
- 1:10:45Speaker 2: don't know what a bungalow in in, Like what what
- 1:10:51Speaker 2: life are you selling here? Because a woman can have
- 1:10:54Speaker 2: your life with a guy who makes forty five thousand
- 1:10:57Speaker 2: dollars a year, and yet you're saying don't do that.
- 1:11:01Speaker 1: Why Yeah, Like if she was.
- 1:11:04Speaker 2: Surrounded by you know, uh, I don't know Tiffany and
- 1:11:09Speaker 2: and uh still like two hundred counts silks.
- 1:11:16Speaker 1: Tiffany's and and.
- 1:11:18Speaker 2: Uh an actual cran crafted furniture, and you know, I
- 1:11:25Speaker 2: don't know, really expensive sheets and pillows and and really
- 1:11:29Speaker 2: looked like she was was spending money. You know, maybe
- 1:11:33Speaker 2: it would be worth it to say, hey, wait for
- 1:11:35Speaker 2: a man who's rich, but she ain't got one. And
- 1:11:39Speaker 2: if a woman wants her lifestyle, a man who makes
- 1:11:41Speaker 2: forty five thousand a year probably can afford it for
- 1:11:44Speaker 2: her if she has a part time job on top
- 1:11:47Speaker 2: of that. So why is she saying, yeah, they dusty,
- 1:11:53Speaker 2: Like you get what I'm saying, I do. I know
- 1:11:57Speaker 2: it's a craft.
- 1:11:59Speaker 1: Women don't hold themselves to the same standards they hold
- 1:12:03Speaker 1: man so it doesn't matter. Like I mean, I guess what,
- 1:12:10Speaker 1: like maybe she doesn't know what high end expensive things
- 1:12:16Speaker 1: actually looks like. Maybe she came from nothing, And maybe
- 1:12:20Speaker 1: that's where this attitude, this materialist like let me, you know,
- 1:12:25Speaker 1: get everything I can while I can attitude comes from
- 1:12:28Speaker 1: this idea that once you know, maybe she was really
- 1:12:31Speaker 1: poor growing up. I mean, I wouldn't be surprised if
- 1:12:34Speaker 1: that was the case.
- 1:12:35Speaker 2: And it made her resentful, Sure, go ahead, it made
- 1:12:39Speaker 2: her resentful.
- 1:12:40Speaker 1: Well, I mean, I don't know, I'm speculating, so what
- 1:12:44Speaker 1: made her resentful? And so now I was like, now
- 1:12:46Speaker 1: I'm gonna get mine, that's all. Yeah.
- 1:12:48Speaker 2: But like I said, it just comes down to this.
- 1:12:50Speaker 2: If you want to find meaning in things, get better things,
- 1:12:54Speaker 2: get your man to give you better things, give you
- 1:12:57Speaker 2: the money for better things.
- 1:12:59Speaker 1: Yeah. But again we come back to the problem because
- 1:13:03Speaker 1: if you're if you don't value the man on some level,
- 1:13:08Speaker 1: he's not going to value you enough to get you
- 1:13:11Speaker 1: the things that are probably like that have the value
- 1:13:15Speaker 1: that you hope like. It's certainly not sentimental value, you know,
- 1:13:20Speaker 1: So because you don't care about him, he's just a
- 1:13:23Speaker 1: means to an end. And I think to some degree
- 1:13:25Speaker 1: that is going to be impact like what he does
- 1:13:30Speaker 1: for you, because I think that when when when you
- 1:13:34Speaker 1: don't value your partner or someone you're seeing beyond what
- 1:13:38Speaker 1: they can provide. I think on some level, even subconsciously,
- 1:13:41Speaker 1: they're going to know that and they're going to be
- 1:13:44Speaker 1: less They're going to be more reserved with like what
- 1:13:47Speaker 1: they share. Right, And again I think that you know
- 1:13:51Speaker 1: what another definition of a dusty man probably is is
- 1:13:54Speaker 1: a man who does have all of these good things,
- 1:13:56Speaker 1: but he's not just he's not making you exclusive seeing
- 1:14:01Speaker 1: other women and he's giving them stuff. And by that
- 1:14:04Speaker 1: like he's not going to, like, you know, spend too
- 1:14:07Speaker 1: much money on a bunch of women when he can
- 1:14:10Speaker 1: spend enough to keep them you know, hanging on. So anyway,
- 1:14:17Speaker 1: let me.
- 1:14:18Speaker 2: Uh, let's go to the next one.
- 1:14:20Speaker 1: Yeah, let me jump to the next thing. Well, let
- 1:14:22Speaker 1: me make sure to miss any super childs or anything.
- 1:14:24Speaker 2: Just put it this way. I am, I am meeting
- 1:14:27Speaker 2: her where she is. She wants to get her value
- 1:14:30Speaker 2: from the things that she can get, right sure that
- 1:14:33Speaker 2: she doesn't want a greater purpose. She doesn't want to
- 1:14:36Speaker 2: talk about legacy, she doesn't want to talk about building
- 1:14:39Speaker 2: or creating anything. She wants to find her value in
- 1:14:43Speaker 2: the things she can acquire. Fine, even by that metric,
- 1:14:49Speaker 2: you're not there, you're you're you're just not there. And
- 1:14:55Speaker 2: it's funny because I don't even think she realizes she's
- 1:14:58Speaker 2: not there.
- 1:15:01Speaker 1: Yep, Okay, all right, and you'll play some more.
- 1:15:04Speaker 2: These things don't ultimately give your life meaning and value.
- 1:15:09Speaker 1: No, they don't. Let me play some more. But we're
- 1:15:11Speaker 1: gonna wait, I.
- 1:15:12Speaker 2: Will say, I will say there is some art that
- 1:15:15Speaker 2: I definitely like.
- 1:15:18Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, I'm gonna play more. Let's be quiet.
- 1:15:22Speaker 1: Ten seconds before the clip actually begins, but I can't
- 1:15:25Speaker 1: get it closer, so we're just gonna play it from here.
- 1:15:27Speaker 1: Don't respond to these ten seconds. All right, Here we go.
- 1:15:31Speaker 3: You're choosing his money and his lifestyle. Okay, all right,
- 1:15:38Speaker 3: so you're.
- 1:15:38Speaker 2: Choosing his money and his lifestyle. Excuse me, lady, but again,
- 1:15:43Speaker 2: I'm sorry. You gotta get back to this, like, what
- 1:15:46Speaker 2: lifestyle do you have? You're saying, oh, oh you you lady,
- 1:15:53Speaker 2: You don't you know, don't take I mean she's actually
- 1:15:55Speaker 2: making women worse offer than her, is what I'm getting at.
- 1:16:00Speaker 1: Yeah, that's that's.
- 1:16:02Speaker 4: Oh.
- 1:16:03Speaker 2: There you go, and they're obviously enjoying it, to the
- 1:16:06Speaker 2: tune of nearly a quarter of a million subs. Okay, said,
- 1:16:11Speaker 2: I will shut up.
- 1:16:11Speaker 1: Now, all right, I'm playing it. We're not even there yet.
- 1:16:14Speaker 1: Well we just got there, I think, Yeah, we're just
- 1:16:17Speaker 1: getting there. Okay, here we go.
- 1:16:21Speaker 3: College guys paying for dates is not a provider yet
- 1:16:26Speaker 3: in training? But whose money was it?
- 1:16:28Speaker 1: They?
- 1:16:28Speaker 3: Mama's money? H Can they pay for a vacation, Can
- 1:16:33Speaker 3: they pay your cardner? Right, that's that's the difference. But
- 1:16:36Speaker 3: if you're in college, you're supposed to be having fun anyway,
- 1:16:40Speaker 3: so it's okay. But when you get to the age
- 1:16:43Speaker 3: where you're trying to consider dating seriously for long term
- 1:16:47Speaker 3: relationships or marriage, you got a date for lifestyle, all right.
- 1:16:52Speaker 1: So college women, your your your stix figures and debt
- 1:17:00Speaker 1: going to college hunting men because that's like one of
- 1:17:03Speaker 1: the primary reasons women go to college having fun and
- 1:17:11Speaker 1: men aren't supposed to have some kind of feeling about
- 1:17:14Speaker 1: women like that are out here in college is having
- 1:17:17Speaker 1: fun getting an education, which we know the education they're
- 1:17:22Speaker 1: going to get just make some hostile towards men anyways,
- 1:17:25Speaker 1: And they don't get a job most of the time.
- 1:17:27Speaker 1: Plus most of them aren't even trying to get a career.
- 1:17:30Speaker 1: They're going to college to find promising men that are
- 1:17:34Speaker 1: going to pursue a career. So you're in the rat race. Like,
- 1:17:38Speaker 1: if you're a college student and you're a boy, you
- 1:17:41Speaker 1: may not know that you're in the race already at
- 1:17:45Speaker 1: that point, even if you're legitimately just trying to get
- 1:17:48Speaker 1: an education. How many women are going to college just
- 1:17:51Speaker 1: because they got grants on the basis of them being women.
- 1:17:57Speaker 1: They get grants, they get scholarships, they get preferential treatment.
- 1:18:02Speaker 1: We already went through all of this, and if they're
- 1:18:04Speaker 1: like black women, it's even more of that. Black women
- 1:18:07Speaker 1: are the most educated group in America. And when I
- 1:18:12Speaker 1: put education quotes, because it's it's crap, like they don't
- 1:18:15Speaker 1: know where the countries are, and you know, it's just
- 1:18:18Speaker 1: the education is garbage. But they do get the debt.
- 1:18:21Speaker 1: The debt is real, the education is fake, and they
- 1:18:24Speaker 1: get all this debt, and then they look for a
- 1:18:26Speaker 1: man that's actually good, like God, meets a certain standard.
- 1:18:30Speaker 1: And that man has to pay for her dates and
- 1:18:33Speaker 1: her car note because she said it pay for her
- 1:18:36Speaker 1: car note, her trips, and likely her debt, and she's
- 1:18:42Speaker 1: just fine with that. And this is what legit happens
- 1:18:45Speaker 1: like all the time.
- 1:18:50Speaker 2: I just want to say. She says, date for lifestyle.
- 1:18:54Speaker 1: Consider the essentially date the lifestyle that you want. So
- 1:18:59Speaker 1: you're gonna like base say, I I guess, but I
- 1:19:02Speaker 1: mean it depends like, well, if you got beer money,
- 1:19:04Speaker 1: you don't get to go on champagne dates. I thought
- 1:19:09Speaker 1: this was a quality.
- 1:19:11Speaker 2: Yeah, but a date for lifestyle. Well, where's the lifestyle
- 1:19:15Speaker 2: that she's acquired through her strategies?
- 1:19:20Speaker 1: Weight their furniture? I don't know that. What is that?
- 1:19:23Speaker 1: Aaronson's I really like, this.
- 1:19:29Speaker 2: Is what I'm getting at. Don't let this woman ruin
- 1:19:32Speaker 2: you know, your lifestyle or what you want, because she ain't.
- 1:19:37Speaker 2: She's not showing that her strategy's gating her anything except
- 1:19:41Speaker 2: you know, what you're seeing, unless she's got like some
- 1:19:46Speaker 2: like Malibu mansion hidden somewhere. You know. She gets off
- 1:19:51Speaker 2: the set and everything is like just silk rugs and
- 1:19:53Speaker 2: tiffany and all kinds of amazing. I mean, like the lighting,
- 1:19:59Speaker 2: you know, and all kinds of just just just astounding
- 1:20:03Speaker 2: stuff and marble statues and all, you know, and and
- 1:20:06Speaker 2: a fountain that flows wine and cheese. Who knows.
- 1:20:13Speaker 1: I don't forget about that. Yeah, I don't forget about
- 1:20:15Speaker 1: the uh fondue, Yeah, exactly, chocolate fountain.
- 1:20:21Speaker 2: Chocolate fountain, a permanent twenty four to seven chocolate fountain
- 1:20:24Speaker 2: in her fourier. And she has the double staircase and
- 1:20:27Speaker 2: the butlers and everything, and she just has it off screen,
- 1:20:30Speaker 2: you know, like she's not like her strategies have gotten
- 1:20:35Speaker 2: her that lifestyle. The lifestyle you see right there. Okay,
- 1:20:41Speaker 2: you can get that with a man who makes forty
- 1:20:45Speaker 2: five thousand a year right by staying with him and
- 1:20:50Speaker 2: not listening to her, is what I'm getting at. Her
- 1:20:54Speaker 2: strategies have obviously failed her, and they if they don't
- 1:20:59Speaker 2: have if there's no return very shortly, then I think
- 1:21:04Speaker 2: we can consider her strategies to be permanent failures. Okay,
- 1:21:09Speaker 2: in terms of her own metric, which is everything is
- 1:21:13Speaker 2: judged by what you can get, right, she ain't getting
- 1:21:15Speaker 2: a lot.
- 1:21:18Speaker 1: Yeah, and I know unless I mean I would imagine
- 1:21:22Speaker 1: if if she had succeeded, she wouldn't be making videos,
- 1:21:25Speaker 1: she'd be living that best life. Yeah.
- 1:21:28Speaker 2: Well, I mean, you probably don't see a woman who's
- 1:21:31Speaker 2: actually married to a billionaire doing stuff like this. But regardless,
- 1:21:35Speaker 2: my point is that she's selling something, and in the
- 1:21:38Speaker 2: process of selling this, she's selling a strategy that isn't
- 1:21:42Speaker 2: delivering what she says it is because at least, like
- 1:21:46Speaker 2: at least Andrew Tate has like incredibly good looking women
- 1:21:49Speaker 2: on his arm. Right when you look at that, and
- 1:21:52Speaker 2: you see, okay, well, Andrew Tate can get incredibly good
- 1:21:55Speaker 2: looking women to do his bidding. Maybe if I listen
- 1:21:59Speaker 2: to him, I can get you know, Betty down the street,
- 1:22:02Speaker 2: who's you know, like maybe a five and a half
- 1:22:05Speaker 2: to pay attention to me? Right, So there's there's something
- 1:22:09Speaker 2: like there's something that maybe you know, he's showing he's
- 1:22:13Speaker 2: indicating that his strategy has worked, at least for him.
- 1:22:17Speaker 1: Mm hmm.
- 1:22:17Speaker 2: There's no evidence that her strategy even works for her.
- 1:22:21Speaker 2: And yes, I know it is completely bankrupt, which is
- 1:22:24Speaker 2: probably why it hasn't worked for her. But consider you know,
- 1:22:29Speaker 2: her almost three quarters of a million subscribers. Consider that
- 1:22:34Speaker 2: she is the best counter example to why you shouldn't
- 1:22:37Speaker 2: listen to her.
- 1:22:40Speaker 3: That's what I'm getting.
- 1:22:42Speaker 1: Yeah, I know, I get it. Okay, I mean I think, Well, anyway,
- 1:22:46Speaker 1: let's continue.
- 1:22:47Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm sorry, I keep digressing into this.
- 1:22:50Speaker 1: It's okay, I'm gonna play now. This is like five
- 1:22:53Speaker 1: seconds before she gets to her point. So let her
- 1:22:57Speaker 1: get to her get to the point.
- 1:22:59Speaker 3: Was that that other man and you almost got busted.
- 1:23:01Speaker 3: Save it, use it, flip it, and then get a
- 1:23:05Speaker 3: gift out of it. If you're smart, you gotta save
- 1:23:07Speaker 3: up stuff. Then you can throw it in the space
- 1:23:11Speaker 3: and make them buy you a gift for lying to
- 1:23:13Speaker 3: oh honey eighty eight eight sprinkle sprinkle meet meeting a
- 1:23:18Speaker 3: potential provider. You're scared your main provider will find out
- 1:23:22Speaker 3: how to deal with the stress of getting called. He
- 1:23:25Speaker 3: don't provide one hundred percent he cheats. That's why I
- 1:23:27Speaker 3: meany girl. First of all, if he cheat, don't provide
- 1:23:30Speaker 3: a hundred percent, you shouldn't be worried about losing him
- 1:23:32Speaker 3: at all. Okay. Number two, if you're gonna date someone,
- 1:23:37Speaker 3: go to the other side of town. Okay, here you go,
- 1:23:44Speaker 3: And the only way you were literally gonna get caught
- 1:23:47Speaker 3: is if he goes to the same exact place.
- 1:23:52Speaker 1: So essentially not.
- 1:23:53Speaker 2: What which essentially cheat?
- 1:23:56Speaker 1: Okay, go ahead, Yeah, I mean normalized cheating. I guess, like,
- 1:23:58Speaker 1: what if what if you? I mean, she it sounds
- 1:24:02Speaker 1: to me like she'd be okay with you having a side,
- 1:24:07Speaker 1: dude on the side if you just suspect the man
- 1:24:10Speaker 1: you're with is cheating, like I mean, like because I mean,
- 1:24:14Speaker 1: you could just be up front and be like, Okay, look,
- 1:24:16Speaker 1: this isn't working for me. I don't work this way whatever.
- 1:24:21Speaker 1: But no, instead, it's like, well, I think something shady's
- 1:24:24Speaker 1: going on, So I'm gonna do some jady shit too.
- 1:24:27Speaker 1: I guess two wrongs make a who cares? So anyway,
- 1:24:35Speaker 1: I got oh, I got a super chat that I
- 1:24:36Speaker 1: didn't read. I'm gonna get it out of the way.
- 1:24:39Speaker 1: Albert Naida retro gets this five dollars Canadian says, to
- 1:24:42Speaker 1: be the man. Whoo, you've got to beat the man,
- 1:24:45Speaker 1: So talk to it and spin on that thing. Whoo,
- 1:24:48Speaker 1: thank you, and then he gives another two dollars Canadian
- 1:24:51Speaker 1: says the tape bros. Another paints it up fourteen year olds,
- 1:24:56Speaker 1: all right, nobody.
- 1:24:58Speaker 2: Nobody is uh like the thing is that A lot
- 1:25:01Speaker 2: of the things that the red pill bros Just make
- 1:25:03Speaker 2: me shake my head too. It's like, I remember somebody
- 1:25:08Speaker 2: came into my Twitter and they were like, well, but
- 1:25:11Speaker 2: it's okay when men cheat. I'm like, no, it isn't.
- 1:25:15Speaker 2: And they said, but it's different. I'm like, yes, but
- 1:25:18Speaker 2: ethics and morality, you know, that's uh that we're we're
- 1:25:23Speaker 2: supposed to be rising above chimp? Are are you know?
- 1:25:27Speaker 3: Monkey?
- 1:25:29Speaker 1: And uh?
- 1:25:30Speaker 2: But it's like this is this is sickening, and the
- 1:25:34Speaker 2: fact that these women drag children into this is beyond
- 1:25:37Speaker 2: the pale. Like it's one thing I it is. It
- 1:25:42Speaker 2: is horrible that they're dragging men into their bullshit. But
- 1:25:46Speaker 2: kids have absolutely no ability to get out of this
- 1:25:50Speaker 2: with a woman who's willing to break their relationship the
- 1:25:54Speaker 2: most one of the most important relationships in their life
- 1:25:57Speaker 2: that will determine their happiness, their success. There's their their autonomy,
- 1:26:04Speaker 2: their self, you know, whether or not they value themselves.
- 1:26:07Speaker 2: And these women are willing to break that relationship for money.
- 1:26:11Speaker 3: Mm hmm.
- 1:26:13Speaker 2: It's despicable all right, next.
- 1:26:17Speaker 1: Right, there's only like three left.
- 1:26:22Speaker 3: What do I do if a dusty won't leave me
- 1:26:26Speaker 3: alone and it's trying to get between me and my provider?
- 1:26:29Speaker 3: Just tell them tell me pregnant, live baby laugh. See,
- 1:26:34Speaker 3: I'm prayedant by my provider.
- 1:26:43Speaker 2: Who are who are the these people dealing with? Like?
- 1:26:46Speaker 1: Like? Are are we?
- 1:26:47Speaker 2: Are we back to like the mating mountains, like the
- 1:26:50Speaker 2: tope antelope have like like and you're just doing eyeballing
- 1:26:54Speaker 2: each other from the bushes?
- 1:26:56Speaker 1: Like have you guys heard all that or not? Because
- 1:26:59Speaker 1: the sea changed? Because Alison couldn't stay quiet for a second,
- 1:27:02Speaker 1: but she said that essentially, women should lie to men
- 1:27:09Speaker 1: and tell them they're pregnant by another man. To get
- 1:27:11Speaker 1: rid of them. And by the way, this is okay,
- 1:27:15Speaker 1: that's bad enough, But when you consider all of the
- 1:27:19Speaker 1: horror stories of women claiming much worse than I am
- 1:27:23Speaker 1: pregnant by another man, but things like I am pregnant
- 1:27:29Speaker 1: by a man and that man raped me when she
- 1:27:31Speaker 1: actually cheated. And this happens all the time. And the
- 1:27:36Speaker 1: reason why it happens all the time is because we
- 1:27:39Speaker 1: as a society tolerate it. We're just like, well, that's
- 1:27:43Speaker 1: what you get to the man. So remember when this
- 1:27:47Speaker 1: woman says, lie, it's fine. This is like setting the
- 1:27:51Speaker 1: precedent for all the dishonesty and manipulation that happens in Like,
- 1:27:57Speaker 1: why are all these people on Mari Povich talking about
- 1:28:00Speaker 1: you are not the father? That's why, because the people
- 1:28:03Speaker 1: like this anyway.
- 1:28:07Speaker 2: I just, uh, why is what baffles me is why
- 1:28:12Speaker 2: is this dusty able to get in between your relationship
- 1:28:17Speaker 2: with you and your provider?
- 1:28:21Speaker 1: Yeah? What does that even mean? The provider does? Does
- 1:28:23Speaker 1: he know about the dusty?
- 1:28:26Speaker 2: Jesus Christ, I can't.
- 1:28:28Speaker 1: You're saying like, I'm sorry, but this is just to me,
- 1:28:32Speaker 1: It's just I don't care how effective it is. I
- 1:28:36Speaker 1: don't care how strategically viable. It is it's immoral. You
- 1:28:40Speaker 1: need to find a better way. That's all it is.
- 1:28:42Speaker 1: It's im moral, and it's going to lead to problems.
- 1:28:45Speaker 1: It's going to lead to problems.
- 1:28:47Speaker 2: Well, it's immral, But you know, like she is nothing.
- 1:28:54Speaker 2: No amount of saying it's a moral is going to
- 1:28:57Speaker 2: penetrate her audience. The only thing, and it might start
- 1:29:00Speaker 2: to penetrate, is it's ineffective, and you are being played
- 1:29:05Speaker 2: for a fool. She is destroying your life in order
- 1:29:11Speaker 2: to justify her own choices. She's counseling, and she's probably
- 1:29:17Speaker 2: enjoying the whole process of destroying other women's shot at
- 1:29:22Speaker 2: happiness in order to make herself feel more alpha and
- 1:29:26Speaker 2: also to justify her own choices. That is what I
- 1:29:29Speaker 2: think is going on here. So listen to her at
- 1:29:34Speaker 2: your peril, and this is the thing. Look at what
- 1:29:38Speaker 2: she has. Is that the life you want? If you're
- 1:29:41Speaker 2: a person who values only the material things, is that
- 1:29:48Speaker 2: the material setup that will satisfy you? Well, if it is,
- 1:29:54Speaker 2: then listen to her advice For me as a I
- 1:29:57Speaker 2: don't necessarily value material things over my mine much. I
- 1:30:00Speaker 2: like being comfortable. I value personal skills and the ability
- 1:30:05Speaker 2: to express myself and creativity and purpose more than anything
- 1:30:10Speaker 2: else for me. But if I were a person who
- 1:30:14Speaker 2: valued put my value in things, they wouldn't be those things.
- 1:30:20Speaker 1: Okay, I remember play more business. Well it's like a
- 1:30:26Speaker 1: couple left. Okay, so let's do this one now the.
- 1:30:29Speaker 3: Other way around. You already impressed them when they approached
- 1:30:33Speaker 3: you and asked you for that number. Okay. You don't
- 1:30:36Speaker 3: pay for nothing on no dates, and you expect and
- 1:30:39Speaker 3: treat them as a provider. Only they start talking dusty,
- 1:30:45Speaker 3: You dismissed them and never never go back again. You
- 1:30:48Speaker 3: don't bring nothing to the table, period.
- 1:30:53Speaker 1: Well you are the table.
- 1:30:56Speaker 2: Yeah, I think that's her point. She won't bring nothing
- 1:30:58Speaker 2: to the table period. Even though generally people find self
- 1:31:01Speaker 2: actualization in the things that they do, break to the table.
- 1:31:04Speaker 2: That's where you find purpose.
- 1:31:09Speaker 1: Yep, all right, next one. I'm just this is just
- 1:31:13Speaker 1: to give you an idea of what she thinks about
- 1:31:15Speaker 1: the average man, or even men, not even the average man.
- 1:31:19Speaker 1: What she thinks about the men that she would consider
- 1:31:23Speaker 1: spending time with, giving her offering up, I'm sorry, blessing
- 1:31:28Speaker 1: them with her presence. This is what she thinks about them.
- 1:31:33Speaker 1: So next time, clip to twelve. Okay, here we go.
- 1:31:42Speaker 3: What do we think of these men that want women
- 1:31:46Speaker 3: to settle for a walk on the first date. I
- 1:31:49Speaker 3: think that you should tell them that you're going to
- 1:31:51Speaker 3: be there, and you don't show up and they'll be
- 1:31:53Speaker 3: walking alone and get the picture.
- 1:31:57Speaker 1: That was the short one. So basically, if you know how,
- 1:31:59Speaker 1: we talk about like, you'll see people talking about like,
- 1:32:03Speaker 1: you know, how what should I what's a good idea
- 1:32:06Speaker 1: for a first date? Because you don't want to like overspend,
- 1:32:11Speaker 1: you don't know how it's going to turn out. Again,
- 1:32:14Speaker 1: the things are tough out here. People can't afford groceries
- 1:32:17Speaker 1: or gas thanks to women's voting patterns. But anyway, I digress,
- 1:32:23Speaker 1: And yet men are still expected to shell out all
- 1:32:25Speaker 1: kinds of I remember the woman who was like she
- 1:32:27Speaker 1: had a conniption because this dude had the audacity to
- 1:32:31Speaker 1: take her take her to cheesecake factory. So sometimes what's
- 1:32:36Speaker 1: a good idea for a first date is something where
- 1:32:38Speaker 1: there isn't a lot of investment and you can just
- 1:32:40Speaker 1: like spend some time get to know each other. So
- 1:32:43Speaker 1: the suggestion was going for a walk. Now I might have, like,
- 1:32:47Speaker 1: you know, shelled out a little bit like, oh, let's
- 1:32:49Speaker 1: have coffee or something. But sometimes that's all you can do.
- 1:32:53Speaker 1: And again, men want to know why women are interested
- 1:32:57Speaker 1: in them. So maybe it is a good idea to
- 1:33:00Speaker 1: to keep your you know, your your cards close to
- 1:33:03Speaker 1: your chest. And she says, well, don't date. So basically,
- 1:33:07Speaker 1: if you don't have anything to offer materially, don't bother.
- 1:33:10Speaker 1: In fact, deceive them, tell them you're gonna be there,
- 1:33:13Speaker 1: and then don't show up and then they'll learn. So
- 1:33:19Speaker 1: maybe they'll just go for a walk, or maybe they'll
- 1:33:22Speaker 1: just go for a walk.
- 1:33:23Speaker 2: Right, yeah, I generally walk at this park at this time.
- 1:33:28Speaker 2: You can join me. If you wish you we can
- 1:33:29Speaker 2: have a jet. And if you don't know, you don't
- 1:33:32Speaker 2: show up, well get my walk in for the day.
- 1:33:38Speaker 1: All right. Last one can't believe we're gonna get through
- 1:33:42Speaker 1: these three eight twenty five, so like right here, that's
- 1:33:49Speaker 1: good enough. All right, here we go.
- 1:33:52Speaker 3: You get a young man. They don't they haven't experienced
- 1:33:54Speaker 3: life enough yet. They don't know what else is out there.
- 1:33:56Speaker 3: They don't know if you're the best, they don't know
- 1:33:58Speaker 3: if you're great compared to other women, and they want
- 1:34:01Speaker 3: to buy it now.
- 1:34:02Speaker 1: So do they.
- 1:34:07Speaker 3: Want to commit. They want to see what's out there.
- 1:34:09Speaker 3: That's why I tell y'all to day, older men they're
- 1:34:12Speaker 3: faster to commit because they've already been there and they
- 1:34:15Speaker 3: know what's out there.
- 1:34:18Speaker 1: And they have more I mean, the truth is, older
- 1:34:21Speaker 1: men have more resources. They they have more money in
- 1:34:24Speaker 1: the bank. They got that you can tell if they're like,
- 1:34:28Speaker 1: their potential has been realized. And so therefore, again it's
- 1:34:33Speaker 1: a shortcut. It's a short cuts at the top.
- 1:34:35Speaker 2: Just it's so funny because lots of societies did that
- 1:34:38Speaker 2: in the past. They would pair women at their most
- 1:34:41Speaker 2: fertile peak or even like a little bit before. But
- 1:34:44Speaker 2: they wouldn't like that. Usually if they married young, they
- 1:34:47Speaker 2: would have a few years to get used to running
- 1:34:49Speaker 2: the household before anything. You know, give it a few
- 1:34:54Speaker 2: years and then you get to the point where they
- 1:34:57Speaker 2: actually will survive childbirth, because you know, our ancestors were
- 1:35:00Speaker 2: a little bit concerned about things like that. And uh,
- 1:35:03Speaker 2: and issued pair of girls at there are young women
- 1:35:06Speaker 2: at their most fertile period with men who had already
- 1:35:10Speaker 2: proven themselves economically. And but that was oppression.
- 1:35:15Speaker 1: Apparently women are at till opressed ails. And do you
- 1:35:19Speaker 1: see the quality of this woman's furnishings. Obviously, she is
- 1:35:24Speaker 1: essentially a slave.
- 1:35:26Speaker 2: To growing shade on her furnishings. All and I'm not
- 1:35:31Speaker 2: on my furnishings are not better. But then again, I
- 1:35:33Speaker 2: don't take value from them. Yeah, so there's there's the difference.
- 1:35:39Speaker 2: I'm just saying, if I were to take value from
- 1:35:41Speaker 2: the things that I own more than you know, my
- 1:35:44Speaker 2: own creative endeavors and purpose, I would have better things
- 1:35:49Speaker 2: well than what she has.
- 1:35:53Speaker 1: All right, Well, those are all the clips that I had,
- 1:35:56Speaker 1: the uh, that I was willing to bear.
- 1:36:01Speaker 2: Those those are all the clues.
- 1:36:03Speaker 1: It gives you the sense, It gives you the well,
- 1:36:05Speaker 1: I mean, like I just want to you know, it
- 1:36:06Speaker 1: just gives you the sense of what's going on? What everybody?
- 1:36:10Speaker 2: Yeah, go ahead, we took her out of context. Feel
- 1:36:13Speaker 2: free to watch the entire three and a half hours
- 1:36:15Speaker 2: of this woman.
- 1:36:19Speaker 1: Uh yeah, let me know what you guys think in
- 1:36:22Speaker 1: the comments. Yeah, sure, I mean I look, maybe I
- 1:36:27Speaker 1: just don't. I don't think you can. If you're a
- 1:36:30Speaker 1: woman and you and you agree with this, you I'm
- 1:36:33Speaker 1: not telling you not to do it. Do whatever you want,
- 1:36:36Speaker 1: have whatever strategy you want, do whatever you need to do.
- 1:36:39Speaker 1: But I don't think it is a good long term solution.
- 1:36:44Speaker 1: I don't think it's going to work out for you.
- 1:36:45Speaker 1: But good luck.
- 1:36:47Speaker 2: Well, let's put it this way. Her long term solution
- 1:36:50Speaker 2: has got her square in the income bracket of a
- 1:36:54Speaker 2: woman who is like the stay at home wife of
- 1:36:58Speaker 2: a man who's making like fifty k forty five fifty k,
- 1:37:02Speaker 2: a frugal lifestyle, a frugal lifestyle. So unless, and by
- 1:37:09Speaker 2: her own admission, she wouldn't be dating such a man.
- 1:37:13Speaker 2: So that lifestyle that she has has to be her
- 1:37:16Speaker 2: own labor. Maybe it's the YouTube videos. Who knows. So
- 1:37:22Speaker 2: what is the benefit of listening to her tell you
- 1:37:26Speaker 2: to leave men who are affording you a reasonable lifestyle?
- 1:37:34Speaker 1: Right?
- 1:37:35Speaker 2: What is the benefit? Like even if we just bring
- 1:37:37Speaker 2: it down to the material and forget the ethics, the morality,
- 1:37:41Speaker 2: and believe me, my stomach is churning to do this
- 1:37:44Speaker 2: because it disgusts me. But let's just bring it down
- 1:37:46Speaker 2: to the material. Right, Her strategy is not getting her
- 1:37:52Speaker 2: a better life than lower min her class. So if
- 1:37:56Speaker 2: your man is able to provide you that life, and
- 1:37:59Speaker 2: you're able to have a part time job or work
- 1:38:01Speaker 2: an easier job that has a bit more flexibility, or
- 1:38:04Speaker 2: take care of your children more or whatever. Why would
- 1:38:08Speaker 2: you listen to this woman? And if you're about to
- 1:38:10Speaker 2: be set up in that lifestyle, why would you listen
- 1:38:13Speaker 2: to this woman? And if you're about to get an
- 1:38:15Speaker 2: engineer who's going to earn four times what she apparently
- 1:38:18Speaker 2: has in terms of her income, why would you listen
- 1:38:21Speaker 2: to this woman on a material level? This is dumb.
- 1:38:25Speaker 2: She doesn't have a good strategy. Her strategy is failure
- 1:38:30Speaker 2: and cope. Is that what you're listening to? Failure and
- 1:38:33Speaker 2: cope and excuse why you don't have to make any
- 1:38:36Speaker 2: effort at all to get a relationship and define purpose.
- 1:38:40Speaker 2: You can just continue to stay in that state of
- 1:38:43Speaker 2: almost being picked as your identity and then say to
- 1:38:48Speaker 2: every other woman who's like, yeah, I just want to
- 1:38:49Speaker 2: get on with my life, Oh you're the pick me? Yeah,
- 1:38:52Speaker 2: well I didn't care about being picked. I just wanted
- 1:38:56Speaker 2: to get to the next part, like who who is
- 1:39:00Speaker 2: the pick me? The women who stay in the continuous
- 1:39:03Speaker 2: state of waiting to be picked and wanting to see themselves,
- 1:39:07Speaker 2: they see themselves that their value isn't getting the very
- 1:39:11Speaker 2: very being picked by the very very very best top
- 1:39:14Speaker 2: thing that they can get or the women who are
- 1:39:16Speaker 2: like that is irrelevant. Let me get on with my life.
- 1:39:21Speaker 2: Who is the fucking pick me? And who is the
- 1:39:23Speaker 2: dusty right? Who is the dusty man? Who is the
- 1:39:28Speaker 2: high value man? The provider man? Well high valuch, he
- 1:39:31Speaker 2: doesn't use high value. Who's the high is the high
- 1:39:33Speaker 2: value man? A man who sees himself exclusively in how
- 1:39:37Speaker 2: he serves women or is it? A man who understands
- 1:39:40Speaker 2: his own purpose and realizes that his time is valuable,
- 1:39:45Speaker 2: his resources are valuable, and he wants a partner, not
- 1:39:49Speaker 2: an infant in the shape of a forty five year
- 1:39:51Speaker 2: old woman who.
- 1:39:56Speaker 1: All right, well, um, we can wrap it up.
- 1:40:00Speaker 2: She's done, Okay, okay, well let me see. We probably
- 1:40:06Speaker 2: don't have any thank yous because I don't have the
- 1:40:08Speaker 2: thing up yet. But yeah, thank you to everybody who's
- 1:40:11Speaker 2: sending a super child if you enjoy this content or
- 1:40:14Speaker 2: you don't have anything left to say. I said it all, or.
- 1:40:17Speaker 1: Well what do I add? I mean, she's a cunt.
- 1:40:20Speaker 1: She should deserve to die alone. But I mean, like whatever,
- 1:40:23Speaker 1: but there's probably a simp somewhere that's gonna give her
- 1:40:25Speaker 1: what she asks for. And she's probably gonna be okay,
- 1:40:29Speaker 1: and that's okay. I mean, what are you gonna do? Like,
- 1:40:32Speaker 1: you know, I, yeah, I don't. I don't pretend to
- 1:40:38Speaker 1: tell people what's best for them. But I do think
- 1:40:42Speaker 1: that men should be aware of what's going on out
- 1:40:45Speaker 1: here with these women, or at least some of these
- 1:40:47Speaker 1: women that are playing these games, so that they don't
- 1:40:50Speaker 1: buy into the lie that this never happens because women
- 1:40:53Speaker 1: are angels. Because they're not. And that's basically the the
- 1:40:58Speaker 1: that's my thesis as it were, women or not angels,
- 1:41:02Speaker 1: some of them are extremely twisted and materialistic and manipulative, okay,
- 1:41:08Speaker 1: and you should know what to look for so you
- 1:41:10Speaker 1: can avoid them.
- 1:41:11Speaker 2: On the level of strategy, she is poor on the
- 1:41:14Speaker 2: level of ethics and morality. I can't even articulate her. Yeah,
- 1:41:23Speaker 2: I just it's like I can't even like, I don't
- 1:41:26Speaker 2: even want to look at her through the lens of
- 1:41:28Speaker 2: ethics or morality because I think it would burn out
- 1:41:32Speaker 2: my eyes. Mm hm, So I might as well just
- 1:41:36Speaker 2: just go down and look at the term just in
- 1:41:39Speaker 2: terms of material Is this a valuable strategy? No, it's not.
- 1:41:43Speaker 2: It is not. And furthermore, I'll just say one thing.
- 1:41:49Speaker 2: The true purpose of life is to love and be loved.
- 1:41:55Speaker 2: You are opting out of this using this strategy if
- 1:41:59Speaker 2: you're a woman, Okay, you know, I mean, I'm not
- 1:42:04Speaker 2: saying that you have to go with broke men, but
- 1:42:09Speaker 2: be reasonable and be willing to put your shoulder to
- 1:42:13Speaker 2: the task too, because there's something to be said for
- 1:42:17Speaker 2: the relationship with the self and the understanding of your
- 1:42:20Speaker 2: own autonomy and being able to live a purposeful life.
- 1:42:25Speaker 2: And she's not offering that, and nor is she offering
- 1:42:28Speaker 2: anything really great in terms of material success. So three
- 1:42:34Speaker 2: quarters of a million subs. God lord.
- 1:42:40Speaker 1: Well, there's a difference between the kind of content that
- 1:42:43Speaker 1: men watch on YouTube and the kind of content that
- 1:42:45Speaker 1: women watch on YouTube as well as podcasting. So women
- 1:42:50Speaker 1: just have different preferences.
- 1:42:53Speaker 2: Yeah, that's true, apparently, So okay, So that's if you
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- 1:44:06Speaker 4: These are machines, dude, Okay, they are literal machines. They
- 1:44:12Speaker 4: are talking point machines. They are impossible to fucking deal with,
- 1:44:15Speaker 4: especially if you have like especially if you have like
- 1:44:18Speaker 4: a couple of dudes who have good memory. On top
- 1:44:20Speaker 4: of that, too, holy shit, you're fucked