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- 0:00Are you ready to see how God's truth can transform your marriage and goals?
- 0:05Hey everyone, welcome back to the Couples Journey blog series podcast.
- 0:09We're on the final part of the series, looking for good excuses?
- 0:13Today, Ray and Annie wrap up this series with heartfelt reflections on trusting
- 0:18God's guidance, avoiding excuses, and genuinely working together in His purpose.
- 0:23Stay tuned, your journey of faith and unity is just beginning.
- 0:27Here's the final part of this week's series.
- 0:31As we close this series, we pray that you've encountered God through these shared
- 0:36biblical truths and testimonies.
- 0:38We hope that the lessons learned and the encouragement received will motivate
- 0:42you and your spouse to make meaningful changes in the days ahead,
- 0:46particularly in setting goals and working toward them together.
- 0:49The journey might seem tough at times, but that's exactly why we need Jesus
- 0:54Christ, not just to save us from the cycle of sin that often clouds our perceptions
- 0:59of goal-setting, but also to free us from the many excuses that hold us back.
- 1:03Our reflection on Proverbs 15 verse 22 reminds us of an important truth.
- 1:09Without consultation, plans are frustrated, but with many counselors, they succeed.
- 1:15From this verse, we've shared some key lessons. 1. The importance of communication and counsel. 2.
- 1:22Avoiding rash decisions. 3. Keeping trust and confidentiality. 4.
- 1:27Building purpose and confidence together based on these lessons.
- 1:30Here are some practical applications that could help in your journey. 1.
- 1:35Regular joint discussions. Make time to talk about future plans,
- 1:38goals, and decisions as a couple.
- 1:40Sharing perspectives helps ensure you're both aligned before taking action. 2.
- 1:45Seek wise advice when facing big decisions, whether it's finances,
- 1:50family matters, or career changes.
- 1:53Consult trusted friends, family members, or spiritual mentors for guidance. 3.
- 1:59Practice patience and deliberation. Resist impulsive decisions.
- 2:03Take time to reflect, pray, or meditate on your options before moving forward. 4.
- 2:09Maintain confidentiality. Respect each other's privacy.
- 2:13Keep sensitive issues between yourselves until both of you are ready to share or act. 5.
- 2:20Create a shared vision. Work together to establish clear, mutual goals.
- 2:25Reinforcing your support and confidence in each other's direction is vital. 6.
- 2:31Develop a counsel network. Build a support system of whys. Trustworthy individuals
- 2:36who can offer counsel during challenging times.
- 2:39A small group of like-minded faith partners who understand your goals and are
- 2:44trustworthy can be a great help.
- 2:46Especially if you're clear on accountability and what that means for your journey.
- 2:50For us, even our children serve as accountability partners. They see us every
- 2:55day, which keeps us honest and committed.
- 2:587. Be open and transparent. Foster a safe environment where both of you feel
- 3:03comfortable sharing your intentions and concerns without fear of judgment or
- 3:08external interference.
- 3:09You and your spouse may come up with even more applications.
- 3:13Your personal journey is unique, And that's encouraging.
- 3:17Our ultimate goal is to strengthen trust, promote unity, and increase the chances
- 3:22of achieving marriage goals rooted in Christ Jesus.
- 3:25This isn't just about methods or techniques. It's about truly embracing biblical
- 3:30principles, relearning what God's Word teaches us, and allowing His transformative
- 3:35work to change our desires and work in us and our partners.
- 3:40May we not be discouraged on the potential challenges or threats along the way.
- 3:44Rather, let's be encouraged from the message of Philippians 1 verse 6.
- 3:48For I am confident of this very thing, that he who began a good work in you
- 3:53will perfect it until the day of Christ Jesus.
- 3:56God is working in us, especially in our growth, transformation,
- 4:00and journey toward his purpose. It is ongoing and sure.
- 4:06Before we close, we want to invite you to engage with us and support the Couples
- 4:10Journey blog series podcast.
- 4:13By following this channel, leaving comments, and sharing episodes with your
- 4:17family and friends, you're helping us in our mission to transform marriages today.
- 4:23Your support encourages more couples to seek God's guidance and grow stronger together.
- 4:28Thank you for being part of this journey. Together, we can make a difference.
- 4:33Here's the final part of today's episode.
- 4:38As we come to the end of this series, Ray and Annie pray that you've encountered
- 4:42God's Word and experienced His power to inspire change in your marriage.
- 4:47Remember, with Jesus Christ at the center, every challenge becomes an opportunity for growth.
- 4:53Join us next week for another impactful series that will deepen your walk with
- 4:57God and strengthen your marriage.
- 5:00Until then, keep journeying with Christ.