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- 0:00Speaker 1: I decided to delete my Instagram. I would be on
- 0:02Speaker 1: set working, I'd come and sit in my chair and.
- 0:04Speaker 2: Just scroll, scroll, scrolls, clros scroll, and it was becoming
- 0:08Speaker 2: a problem.
- 0:08Speaker 1: I was just obsessed with it, and I was obsessed
- 0:10Speaker 1: to find out what they thought about me. So I
- 0:12Speaker 1: decided to make an announcement and say that I'm taking
- 0:15Speaker 1: a break from social media. And the thing that really
- 0:17Speaker 1: upset me is the press ran with that and they
- 0:19Speaker 1: tried to make out that I was having this mental breakdown.
- 0:23Speaker 1: They took the story in the wrong direction. Oh look,
- 0:26Speaker 1: he's not the perfect, happy, go lucky kid you think
- 0:28Speaker 1: he is. He's having a nervous breakdown in New York
- 0:31Speaker 1: kind of painted people looking for help in the wrong light.
- 0:39Speaker 3: What's up, every one. I'm Izzy, your real life English
- 0:42Speaker 3: fluency coach, and today we're having great conversation to learn
- 0:45Speaker 3: English with between the actor and the famous actor Tom
- 0:48Speaker 3: Holland in podcaster Jay Schtty. In this interview, we get
- 0:52Speaker 3: to see Tom opening up and talk about why he
- 0:55Speaker 3: decided to step away from Instagram to protect his mental health.
- 0:59Speaker 3: And the clip is packed with so many useful expressions
- 1:02Speaker 3: in English, and I'll help you master all of these today,
- 1:05Speaker 3: and if you go to our app, you can even
- 1:07Speaker 3: practice everything so you become more fluent and capable of
- 1:11Speaker 3: using these words when you speak. You can check that
- 1:13Speaker 3: out for free by clicking the link in the description below.
- 1:15Speaker 3: Now let's get started with a lesson. First, you'll watch
- 1:18Speaker 3: the clip, then you'll learn with it, and at the end,
- 1:21Speaker 3: I'm gonna let you test your comprehension by watching the
- 1:24Speaker 3: entire clip if final time, without any subtitles.
- 1:33Speaker 2: I was in New York.
- 1:34Speaker 1: I was shooting The Crowning Crowded Room, and I was
- 1:37Speaker 1: having a really hard time with the job just because
- 1:39Speaker 1: of how taxing it was. And I decided to delete
- 1:43Speaker 1: my Instagram because I just felt like I was so
- 1:46Speaker 1: addicted to this kind of false version of my life
- 1:48Speaker 1: that it was just taking over. I would be on
- 1:51Speaker 1: set working, I'd come and sit in my chair and
- 1:53Speaker 1: just scroll scroll, scrolls, crow, scroll, and it.
- 1:54Speaker 2: Was becoming a problem.
- 1:57Speaker 1: I was just obsessed with it, and I was obsessed
- 2:00Speaker 1: to find out what people were saying and how people
- 2:02Speaker 1: what they thought about me. So I decided to make
- 2:05Speaker 1: an announcement and say that I'm taking a break from
- 2:07Speaker 1: social media, and the thing that really upset me is.
- 2:10Speaker 1: The press ran with that, and they tried to make
- 2:13Speaker 1: out that I was having this mental breakdown. And what
- 2:17Speaker 1: upset me was if I was having a mental breakdown,
- 2:20Speaker 1: that's not for you to report on.
- 2:26Speaker 3: All right, now, let's break down the clip and learn
- 2:28Speaker 3: all the devas vocabulary in pronisation with Tom hulland.
- 2:32Speaker 2: I was in New York. I was shooting the Crown
- 2:34Speaker 2: crowded room.
- 2:35Speaker 3: In this context, shooting means filming the crowded room. We
- 2:39Speaker 3: should mention here is a psychological thriller TV series where
- 2:43Speaker 3: Tom is a protagonist. So he says he was having
- 2:46Speaker 3: a hard time filming it, meaning he was struggling. It
- 2:49Speaker 3: was a difficult moment for him. That's a nice casual
- 2:53Speaker 3: location you can use too, They said it all the time.
- 2:55Speaker 3: Check this out. Our family doesn't run from things.
- 2:58Speaker 2: Miles.
- 3:00Speaker 4: Yeah, I know. It's a hard time.
- 3:09Speaker 1: And I was having a really hard time with the
- 3:11Speaker 1: job just because of how taxing it was.
- 3:13Speaker 3: The emotional That's also what he meant by saying he
- 3:16Speaker 3: was taxing. It was difficult, exhausting and drained his energy.
- 3:21Speaker 3: In Tom's case, playing this intense role in this series
- 3:24Speaker 3: was emotionally taxing.
- 3:26Speaker 1: I decided to delete my Instagram because I just felt
- 3:29Speaker 1: like I was so addicted to this kind of false
- 3:32Speaker 1: version of my life that it was just taking over.
- 3:34Speaker 3: And something takes over, it takes control. Tom means Instagram
- 3:39Speaker 3: was taking control of his life, of his thoughts and actions,
- 3:42Speaker 3: and it was hard to focus on his job. See
- 3:44Speaker 3: how he describes what he would do.
- 3:46Speaker 1: I would be on set working, I'd come and sit
- 3:48Speaker 1: in my chair and just scroll, scroll, scrolls, crow, scroll,
- 3:50Speaker 1: and it.
- 3:50Speaker 3: Was This action is called scrolling. It's a common expression nowadays,
- 3:55Speaker 3: but you should know this particular use of the verb
- 3:57Speaker 3: to scroll already existed before his mirdphones, since we also
- 4:00Speaker 3: scroll on a computer using a mouse. Another expression that
- 4:04Speaker 3: people use these days to refer to this specific negative
- 4:08Speaker 3: experience of scroll scroll, scroll when using Instagram or TikTok
- 4:13Speaker 3: is doom scrolling.
- 4:14Speaker 1: I was just obsessed with it, and I was obsessed
- 4:17Speaker 1: to find out what people were saying and how people
- 4:19Speaker 1: what they thought about me.
- 4:20Speaker 3: Did you notice how Tom pronounces the words that end
- 4:22Speaker 3: with a tea sound. Let's give a listen to this
- 4:25Speaker 3: part again, but more slowly.
- 4:26Speaker 1: I was obsessed to find out what he was saying.
- 4:31Speaker 3: All these words were pronounced with a stop T out
- 4:35Speaker 3: what thought about? Natives often do this now to do
- 4:41Speaker 3: stop T sound, It was simply prepared to make a
- 4:43Speaker 3: T sound, But then you stop the flow of air
- 4:46Speaker 3: and make a short pause. Now, try to repeat after
- 4:49Speaker 3: me out why about? Now? What else can we find
- 4:55Speaker 3: here that's more advanced pronunciation? Well, these phrases have some
- 5:00Speaker 3: nected speech in them. That's when Natives cut link and
- 5:03Speaker 3: morephords together when they speak. The word obsessed ends with
- 5:07Speaker 3: a T sound obsessed, And because the next word starts
- 5:11Speaker 3: with a T, they morph obsessed tough, not obsessed too,
- 5:17Speaker 3: but obsessed tough, and a D from find gets linked
- 5:21Speaker 3: to the vowel sound from the next word find out. Now,
- 5:24Speaker 3: let's try to repeat after a time.
- 5:26Speaker 1: And I was obsessed to find out what people were saying.
- 5:28Speaker 1: And I was obsessed to find out what people was
- 5:32Speaker 1: saying and say like, I'm taking a break from social
- 5:39Speaker 1: media because I feel like my mental health will benefit
- 5:42Speaker 1: from it. And the thing that really upset me is
- 5:44Speaker 1: the press ran with that, and they tried to make
- 5:47Speaker 1: out that I was having this mental breakdown.
- 5:50Speaker 3: To run with something is a collocation that means to
- 5:53Speaker 3: take an idea and develop it further without hesitation. It
- 5:56Speaker 3: can be used in both negative and positive context. For example,
- 6:01Speaker 3: a more positive situation could be she had a great
- 6:04Speaker 3: idea for the project and the team ran with it,
- 6:07Speaker 3: meaning they developed and expanded on the idea. In this case,
- 6:11Speaker 3: Tom is saying that the press, that is magazines, newspapers,
- 6:14Speaker 3: TV news, etc. They took this story, which was pretty straightforward,
- 6:19Speaker 3: and they changed the narrative and that's what he means
- 6:22Speaker 3: by this.
- 6:22Speaker 1: Line, and they tried to make out that I was
- 6:25Speaker 1: having this mental breakdown.
- 6:28Speaker 3: In this context, to make out refers to creating a
- 6:30Speaker 3: certain impression or to pretend, for example, she's trying to
- 6:34Speaker 3: make out that she's rich. So instead of focusing on
- 6:38Speaker 3: the positive reason behind his decision, the press made it
- 6:41Speaker 3: sound like he was having a mental breakdown, a point
- 6:44Speaker 3: where a person gets so stressed because of their thoughts
- 6:47Speaker 3: and emotions that they collapse. They stop functioning properly, like
- 6:51Speaker 3: when a machine breaks down. And Tom was upset with
- 6:54Speaker 3: the news because he was actually taking steps to avoid
- 6:58Speaker 3: reaching that point of breakdown. And by the way, remember
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- 7:34Speaker 1: They took the story in the wrong direction, and they
- 7:37Speaker 1: try they painted again this negative light on mental health.
- 7:41Speaker 1: Rather than saying, oh, he's doing it, it's okay that
- 7:44Speaker 1: he's doing it, so we should all feel okay to
- 7:46Speaker 1: do it too, they were saying, oh.
- 7:48Speaker 2: Look, he's not the perfect, happy, go lucky kid you
- 7:51Speaker 2: think he is.
- 7:51Speaker 1: He's having a nervous breakdown in New York. And I
- 7:54Speaker 1: think that that was a really unfair line of journalism.
- 7:58Speaker 4: Let's say, yeah, yeah, absolutely, absolutely.
- 8:00Speaker 5: It almost sounds like you were actually preemptively going, I'm
- 8:05Speaker 5: doing this so that I don't right go in that direction.
- 8:09Speaker 5: At least, I'm not trying to put words in your mouth.
- 8:11Speaker 5: But absolutely, it's almost like I'm proactively seeing that I
- 8:14Speaker 5: could end up in a position where sure I might
- 8:16Speaker 5: have a breakdown. I don't want to be in that position,
- 8:18Speaker 5: and so I'm responsibly saying, guys, I'm taking a break
- 8:21Speaker 5: right in order to protect myself.
- 8:23Speaker 2: One hundred percent.
- 8:24Speaker 4: Yeah, which makes a lot of sense and actually is
- 8:25Speaker 4: quite admirable.
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- 8:50Speaker 1: They took the story in the wrong direction, and they
- 8:53Speaker 1: try they painted again this negative light on mental health.
- 8:57Speaker 3: To paint something negatively means to describe or show something
- 9:00Speaker 3: in a bad way. It's very similar to try to
- 9:03Speaker 3: make out something about a situation, to paint it a
- 9:07Speaker 3: certain way. And he goes on to use yet another
- 9:10Speaker 3: similar phrase. Check it out.
- 9:11Speaker 1: They took the story in the wrong direction, and they
- 9:14Speaker 1: try they painted again this negative light on mental health.
- 9:18Speaker 3: To show someone any bad light or negative light, as
- 9:21Speaker 3: he says, is exactly what he's talking about. And by
- 9:24Speaker 3: the way, you may also hear the opposite phrase in
- 9:27Speaker 3: a good light.
- 9:28Speaker 1: They were saying, Oh, look, he's not the perfect, happy
- 9:31Speaker 1: go lucky kid you.
- 9:32Speaker 2: Think he is. He's having a nervous breakdown in New York.
- 9:35Speaker 1: And I think that that was a really unfair line
- 9:38Speaker 1: of journalism.
- 9:39Speaker 3: If you call someone happy go lucky, you mean they
- 9:42Speaker 3: are not concerned about the future and just enjoy life
- 9:45Speaker 3: without planning. Tom felt this way or method of doing journalism,
- 9:50Speaker 3: or as he says, this line of journalism was unfair.
- 9:55Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, absolutely absolutely.
- 9:57Speaker 5: It almost sounds like you were actually pre emptively going
- 10:01Speaker 5: I'm doing this so that I don't go in that direction.
- 10:05Speaker 3: If you act prehemptively in a situation, you're thinking ahead
- 10:09Speaker 3: and doing something in advance to avoid problems. For example,
- 10:12Speaker 3: packing the night before a trip helps you avoid rushing
- 10:15Speaker 3: things in the morning. You're acting preemptively in case something
- 10:19Speaker 3: expected happens, you have time to deal with it. In
- 10:23Speaker 3: a strategic context, like in the military, a preemptive strike
- 10:26Speaker 3: is an attack launched to prevent an expected attack from
- 10:30Speaker 3: the enemy.
- 10:32Speaker 2: How old are you Danty too?
- 10:36Speaker 1: You're having some kind of preemptive midlife crisis moment a motorbike.
- 10:42Speaker 2: I'll take you for a riding it sometimes, you know.
- 10:43Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, absolutely absolutely.
- 10:45Speaker 5: It almost sounds like you were actually preemptively going, I'm
- 10:50Speaker 5: doing this so that I don't go in that direction.
- 10:54Speaker 5: At least, I'm not trying to put words in your mouth.
- 10:56Speaker 3: But absolutely, putting words in one's mouth refers to saying
- 10:59Speaker 3: as one means one thing when a person really meant
- 11:02Speaker 3: something else. Imagine two people having an argument. You could
- 11:07Speaker 3: hear something like I didn't say this, don't try to
- 11:09Speaker 3: put words in my mouth. In this case, Jay Shatty
- 11:13Speaker 3: is just being respectful, saying he knows Tom didn't say
- 11:16Speaker 3: those words exactly, but that that's what he understands from
- 11:19Speaker 3: Tom's story.
- 11:20Speaker 5: It's almost like I'm proactively seeing that I could end
- 11:22Speaker 5: up in a position where sure I might have a breakdown.
- 11:25Speaker 5: I don't want to be in that position, and so
- 11:26Speaker 5: I'm responsibly saying, guys, I'm taking a break right in
- 11:30Speaker 5: order to protect myself.
- 11:31Speaker 3: Another word we use to talk about taking action early
- 11:35Speaker 3: is proactively, like exercising regularly is a proactive way to
- 11:40Speaker 3: maintain good health. Instead of just waiting until it gets
- 11:43Speaker 3: sick to go to the doctor.
- 11:44Speaker 5: It's almost like I'm proactively seeing that I could end
- 11:47Speaker 5: up in a position where sure I might have a breakdown.
- 11:49Speaker 5: I don't want to be in that position, and so
- 11:51Speaker 5: I'm responsibly saying, guys, I'm taking a break right in
- 11:54Speaker 5: order to protect myself.
- 11:56Speaker 3: To end up means to eventually find yourself in a
- 11:59Speaker 3: certain situation, and often without planning it. For example, the
- 12:03Speaker 3: movie we wanted to see was sold out. There were
- 12:05Speaker 3: no tickets available, so we ended up seeing a different one.
- 12:09Speaker 3: All right, I know you've been waiting for this part.
- 12:11Speaker 3: Now we're going to test your comprehension by watching the
- 12:14Speaker 3: entire clip in final time without subtitles, and I'm going
- 12:17Speaker 3: to ask you some quiz questions. Let's do this.
- 12:25Speaker 2: I was in New York.
- 12:26Speaker 1: I was shooting the Crowning Crowded Room, and I was
- 12:30Speaker 1: having a really hard time with the job just because
- 12:32Speaker 1: of how taxing it was.
- 12:34Speaker 3: Which word describes something that is physically or mentally difficult
- 12:38Speaker 3: and exhausting, shooting tasking taxing.
- 12:51Speaker 1: I decided to delete my Instagram because I just felt
- 12:54Speaker 1: like I was so addicted to this kind of false
- 12:57Speaker 1: version of my life that it was just taking over.
- 13:00Speaker 1: Would be on set working, I'd come and sit in
- 13:01Speaker 1: my chair and just scroll, scroll, scrolls, coros scroll, and
- 13:03Speaker 1: it was becoming a problem. I was just obsessed with it,
- 13:08Speaker 1: and I was obsessed to find out what people were
- 13:10Speaker 1: saying and how people what they thought about me. So
- 13:13Speaker 1: I decided to make an announcement and say that I'm
- 13:16Speaker 1: taking a break from social media.
- 13:17Speaker 2: And the thing that really upset.
- 13:19Speaker 1: Me is the press ran with that and they tried
- 13:21Speaker 1: to make out that I was having this mental breakdown,
- 13:25Speaker 1: and what upset me was if I was having a
- 13:28Speaker 1: mental breakdown, that's not for you to report on.
- 13:31Speaker 3: What does the phrase run with it mean? To run
- 13:35Speaker 3: as fast as possible, to accept an idea and develop
- 13:38Speaker 3: it further, to ignore instructions and do your own thing.
- 13:51Speaker 1: And they tried to make out that I was having
- 13:54Speaker 1: this mental breakdown, and what upset me was if I
- 13:58Speaker 1: was having a mental breakdown, it's not for you to
- 14:00Speaker 1: report on. They took the story in the wrong direction,
- 14:04Speaker 1: and they try they painted again this negative light on
- 14:07Speaker 1: mental health, rather than saying, oh, he's doing it, it's
- 14:11Speaker 1: okay that he's doing it, so we should all feel
- 14:13Speaker 1: okay to do it too.
- 14:14Speaker 2: They were saying, Oh, look.
- 14:16Speaker 3: Do you remember to phrase Tom used here meaning to
- 14:19Speaker 3: make someone look bad, to paint any bad light.
- 14:33Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, absolutely, absolutely, it almost sounds like you were
- 14:37Speaker 5: actually preemptively going, I'm doing this so that I don't
- 14:42Speaker 5: go in that direction. At least I'm not trying to
- 14:45Speaker 5: put words in your mouth. But absolutely, it's almost like
- 14:47Speaker 5: I'm proactively seeing that I could end up in a
- 14:49Speaker 5: position where sure I might have a breakdown. I don't
- 14:52Speaker 5: want to be in that position, and so I'm responsibly saying, guys,
- 14:55Speaker 5: I'm taking a break right in order to protect myself.
- 14:58Speaker 2: One hundred percent.
- 14:59Speaker 4: Yeah, which makes a lot of sense, and it actually
- 15:00Speaker 4: is quite admirable.
- 15:01Speaker 3: Again, which of these actions is an example of a
- 15:04Speaker 3: preemptive one? Putting on sunscreen when at the beach, fixing
- 15:09Speaker 3: a leak in your house, apologizing after hurting someone's feelings.
- 15:23Speaker 3: All right, guys, great job. Now remember to go and
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- 15:31Speaker 3: can start you for kambiliar practice right away. And I
- 15:35Speaker 3: I've spent a lot of time with you, more than
- 15:36Speaker 3: you've wanted you are.
- 15:39Speaker 4: You are a very nice fellow.
- 15:41Speaker 3: But I suspect what are you doing?
- 15:45Speaker 4: Are you new to show business?
- 15:50Speaker 3: Just about to storm off your show?
- 15:53Speaker 4: Part of the half?
- 15:54Speaker 3: How are things You gotta mic yourself?
- 15:56Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly, we're cutting corners around here.
- 15:59Speaker 3: Yeah, you know.
- 16:01Speaker 2: What, I'm just curious.
- 16:01Speaker 3: I was bringing up