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What did you find out AFTER you got married? · Johnjay & Rich On Demand

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  Speaker 1: Payon's been married for what two months now? Yeah, just
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  Speaker 1: about two months, and this is breaking news. I can't
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  Speaker 1: wait to hear she found something out about Kadeem, her
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  Speaker 1: husband that you didn't know before you got married.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. I feel so betrayed. And to be completely honest,
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  Speaker 2: I feel like our entire relationship and marriage has been
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  Speaker 2: based on a lie. What I do, I do? He
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  Speaker 2: gets on my nerves I discovered about him.
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  Speaker 3: This is so stupid.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, So you know KaDee and I we actually met
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  Speaker 2: in college playing basketball. He played basketball his whole life.
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  Speaker 2: I played basketball in my whole life. Both their dads
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  Speaker 2: were our coaches growing up. That's where we that's where
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  Speaker 2: we are, that's where we connect.
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  Speaker 3: Right.
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  Speaker 2: So, Kadem he actually shoots the basketball with his left hand,
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  Speaker 2: but he writes and eats with his right hand. So
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  Speaker 2: he told me when we first started dating that when
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  Speaker 2: he was like three or four, when he really started
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  Speaker 2: to pick up a basketball, that he broke his right arm,
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  Speaker 2: so he had to learn how to shoot with his
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  Speaker 2: left hand. I was like, makes sense to me. You
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  Speaker 2: do everything else with your right hand, You're just a
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  Speaker 2: left handed shooter. Pretty cool whatever. Come to find out,
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  Speaker 2: apparently this mofo is ambidextrious.
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  Speaker 4: He's not just left handed.
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  Speaker 1: So did he not break his arm? Didn't break his
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  Speaker 1: army straight up?
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  Speaker 2: This lie?
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  Speaker 4: Why wouldn't he just says, Amid.
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  Speaker 1: I would think the bigger thing is not about being ambidextriate.
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  Speaker 1: So that he lied.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, why he just got on it. But I was like,
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  Speaker 2: why would you make that story up and tell me that?
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  Speaker 2: He was like I told you that. I was like, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: so apparently this is just something he tells random people.
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  Speaker 2: So apparently I was just a random person at one point.
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  Speaker 2: And why you were?
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  Speaker 4: You were betrayed?
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  Speaker 1: Did he write both perfectly?
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  Speaker 3: No?
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  Speaker 2: He so he's he can write with his right hand,
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  Speaker 2: but if like he were to flex or punch, he's
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  Speaker 2: punching with his left makes sense. But if he was
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  Speaker 2: gonna go kick somebody, he's kicking with his right foot.
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  Speaker 1: You know what happened to Rich? Oh the story? Rich?
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  Speaker 3: I'm left handed, but I went to a Catholic school
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  Speaker 3: in all the desks were those little right handed desks,
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  Speaker 3: and I couldn't reach over far enough to write. And
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  Speaker 3: then one of my nuns said, well, the devil is
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  Speaker 3: left handed, so I switched to my right hand.
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  Speaker 1: That is diabude.
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  Speaker 3: I even got I asked my parents to put me
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  Speaker 3: in a class where they would pull me out of
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  Speaker 3: class and show me how to write with my right
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  Speaker 3: hand on the chel But you see, like how crazy
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  Speaker 3: do you see? How crazy neat my writing is. That's
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  Speaker 3: because of all that, because I was afraid to write.
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  Speaker 2: Walk around with like the rulers back then did.
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  Speaker 3: But there when we used to have to do essays,
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  Speaker 3: I could flip back and forth pretty regularly. I'd write
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  Speaker 3: something with my right and then I'd switch to my
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  Speaker 3: left and you couldn't tell the difference.
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  Speaker 1: So Paynt found out that her husband is ambidextrious. That's
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  Speaker 1: the big lie before she got married, Sarah, Sarah, what
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  Speaker 1: did you find out about your significant other after you
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  Speaker 1: got married?
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  Speaker 5: It was a couple of years after that. He showed
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  Speaker 5: me a YouTube video of himself up against Joey Chestnut,
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  Speaker 5: the world hot dog eating champion.
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  Speaker 6: No way, that's awesome.
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  Speaker 1: I'm assuming he did not win. He did not win,
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  Speaker 1: but he's right next to him sucking down hot dogs
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  Speaker 1: left right.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, he signed up because he was a little bit
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  Speaker 5: inebriated and he decided he wanted some free sausages.
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  Speaker 1: Well, I I get that. How did he how did
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  Speaker 1: he do? What did he?
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  Speaker 3: Was he at least in the in the competition?
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  Speaker 5: No, no, no, he's a guy next to the bad.
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  Speaker 1: If you would have known this before he got married,
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  Speaker 1: but you've been like, WHOA hold on a minute, I
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  Speaker 1: don't think so.
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  Speaker 5: I think it would have sealed the deal a lot quicker.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, all right, Sarah, thank you for calling in. Christina,
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  Speaker 1: what did you find out about your significate other after
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  Speaker 1: you got married?
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  Speaker 7: I found out literally during an episode of Everyone Loves Raymond.
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  Speaker 7: This is after three years, and I said, could you
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  Speaker 7: imagine if there's something that I was doing that you
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  Speaker 7: repeatedly did not like? And that's when he told me
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  Speaker 7: he actually doesn't like anything with lemons, referring to my
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  Speaker 7: lemon chicken.
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  Speaker 1: Oh no, so you making lemon chicken. He would still
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  Speaker 1: eat it.
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  Speaker 2: Oh.
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  Speaker 7: I was making it once a week and he was
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  Speaker 7: eating it the whole thing. Never said anything, he said something. Yeah,
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  Speaker 7: he finally said something during an episode of Everyone.
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  Speaker 1: Loved Its kind of cute. Thank you, Christina, thanks for
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  Speaker 1: sharing that story. These are really cute. I thought he
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  Speaker 1: was gonna go totally stop. I found out that he was,
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  Speaker 1: you know, gay only fan star.
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  Speaker 2: Jeez, that's how I felt.
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  Speaker 3: Told me, I'm.
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  Speaker 1: Sure you are shook to the core.
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  Speaker 8: Why would you lie to me?
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  Speaker 1: Let's do more eight seven, seven, nine three seven one
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  Speaker 1: oh four seven. What did you find out about your
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  Speaker 1: significant other after you got married? We'll talk to you next,
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  Speaker 1: John Daine Rich Go La La Real Matt. Stephanie Peyton
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  Speaker 1: told us that she learned something about her husband after
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  Speaker 1: they got married. Don't be married two months she learned
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  Speaker 1: that he's ambidextrius. What did you learn about your significant
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  Speaker 1: other after you got married?
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  Speaker 6: Oh?
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  Speaker 4: Well, I don't know if she told you about My
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  Speaker 4: husband and I dated for nine years before we got married,
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  Speaker 4: and three years after he and I got married, I
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  Speaker 4: found out he had a brother.
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  Speaker 1: What and.
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  Speaker 4: Well, no, I'll even back up. Even before we got married.
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  Speaker 4: Two weeks before we got married, he came home. We
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  Speaker 4: had just moved in together, getting ready for the wedding,
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  Speaker 4: and he came home one day, two weeks before we
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  Speaker 4: got married, and he said, Hey, my brother Tony wants to.
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  Speaker 5: Come over and meet you.
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  Speaker 4: And I went, who's Tony? He's my brother? Okay, Well
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  Speaker 4: I didn't think much of about it. And then three
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  Speaker 4: years afterwards, we have a joint profile on Facebook and
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  Speaker 4: I get this sund request from somebody and I said, hey,
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  Speaker 4: do you know who this person is? He goes, yeah,
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  Speaker 4: that's my brother, and I'm like, okay, wait a minute,
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  Speaker 4: are there any other siblings I need to know about?
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  Speaker 4: And at that time, no, that was the last one.
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  Speaker 3: So that if you don't ask him, you just don't
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  Speaker 3: find out. It's not like they're trying to keep it.
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  Speaker 3: They just don't share.
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  Speaker 9: Don't share them, they don't. Yeah, that was a little
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  Speaker 9: bit of a surprise.
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  Speaker 1: He Stephanie, thanks for listening, Thanks for calling in, Thank
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  Speaker 1: you for listening.
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  Speaker 8: Yeah, you got it.
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  Speaker 1: At eight seven seven ninety seven four seven. One of
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  Speaker 1: what did you find out about your certificate? Other after
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  Speaker 1: he got married a couple texts, Lisa says that he
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  Speaker 1: drank two beers every night after he got home from work.
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  Speaker 1: I was worried too. It increased, and I told him
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  Speaker 1: I wouldn't be married to an alcoholic. Forty years later,
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  Speaker 1: it's still just two beers every night. Oh wow. My
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  Speaker 1: mom found out after twenty years of marriage that my
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  Speaker 1: dad had been married two times prior instead of one.
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  Speaker 1: During my grandmother's funeral. Both ex wives and my mom
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  Speaker 1: were in attendance to pay respect. My dad's response was,
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  Speaker 1: we didn't have kids, so it didn't seem like it mattered.
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  Speaker 1: It was just my practice marriage. He's like, you, I
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  Speaker 1: got it right when we got married. Betty says, we
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  Speaker 1: got married. When he met me, he told me his
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  Speaker 1: name was NICKI when he got I'm married, I learned
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  Speaker 1: out that his name was Miguel. Violet says I got married,
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  Speaker 1: I found out he folds the towels wrong. Uh, let's
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  Speaker 1: see my second holes. My second husband told me he
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  Speaker 1: liked men, okay, and then a comment to that. Kim says,
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  Speaker 1: I have two ex husbands who did that. One I
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  Speaker 1: stayed close with the other lived his double life, telling
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  Speaker 1: his family and friends that was the problem. Yikes. Jennifer says,
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  Speaker 1: I found out if I got married that he choose
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  Speaker 1: his tongue. YEA like this painful. Yeah, I do it
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  Speaker 1: all the time. Really, yeah. I feel like it's getting
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  Speaker 1: all the toxins out of my tongue, putting them back
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  Speaker 1: into your mouth, and then sometimes I'll spit it out.
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  Speaker 1: Sounds great, let's see. Anyway, there's a bunch of text
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  Speaker 1: messages Charmon, what'd you find out about your your significant other? Sharman? Charman?
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  Speaker 1: Oh my God, might have us muted. Sure, I'm gonna
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  Speaker 1: keep I'll go a couple more of these, Charman, hopefully
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  Speaker 1: you can pick up. Let's see, Oh, josh As, I
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  Speaker 1: found out that she was by? Interesting. Okay, well hold on, Charman,
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  Speaker 1: we'll come back to you. Gloria.
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  Speaker 10: I found out that he was by.
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  Speaker 7: And I had.
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  Speaker 10: Like I kind of knew, but once they got married,
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  Speaker 10: he came clean.
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  Speaker 3: Why not share that before? You think that would be
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  Speaker 3: something you need to know?
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  Speaker 9: But is that what.
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  Speaker 6: He wanted to bring someone else in? Like, what was
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  Speaker 6: the point of sharing that? It's like at that point,
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  Speaker 6: you guys, I.
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  Speaker 10: Think it was, Well, it was during COVID and you
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  Speaker 10: know a lot of people were going through loneliness, that
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  Speaker 10: kind of thing. So I think that ladam pumpling to.
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  Speaker 1: Me, Yeah, you're quarantine, went on floor around what test
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  Speaker 1: things out? Let's see it. Let's see how you are.
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  Speaker 1: Are you still with him, Gloria, Yes.
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  Speaker 10: I am. We've been married for nine years now.
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  Speaker 1: Well, thanks for calling in, Thank you. Just check in
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  Speaker 1: with Sherman. Charmany there, Charman not Sherman Charman anyway, maybe Charlemagne.
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  Speaker 1: It's Charlemage from the Breakfast there. It is all right,
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  Speaker 1: well I'll put it back on hold. There's a text here.
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  Speaker 1: This is so funny because you know, so we got
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  Speaker 1: our radio show which is live, and then we always
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  Speaker 1: Apple podcast where we get podcasts. So people are listening
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  Speaker 1: to todays like right now. Here's a text about the
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  Speaker 1: May sixth podcast. May six that was last week this Texas,
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  Speaker 1: and I was out of town and sometimes I was
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  Speaker 1: trying to do the show from a studio in Hawaii.
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  Speaker 1: Maybe we had technical difficulties or whatever. But because my
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  Speaker 1: son was graduating this Texas. Why is John j missing
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  Speaker 1: from half of the segments on the May six podcast?
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  Speaker 1: He was also missing from segments on May fifth. Jan
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  Speaker 1: is never quiet for that long? Who kidnapped him? Jan?
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  Speaker 1: Who kidnapped Jan? Anyway? Kyle's get a poppy update Poppy,
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  Speaker 1: the puppy.
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  Speaker 6: Poppy, she's our puppy that we got from Love Papa,
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  Speaker 6: I think three or four weeks ago now I'm losing count,
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  Speaker 6: but she was a welcome new member of our family.
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  Speaker 6: For the majority of us. There's two people in our household,
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  Speaker 6: or two beings in our household, I should say that
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  Speaker 6: I feel are just going to take a little bit
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  Speaker 6: longer to warm up, one of which my husband. It
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  Speaker 6: took a lot of convincing for him to say yes
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  Speaker 6: that we could adopt her. And the other being is
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  Speaker 6: our other dog, Daisy. She hates all dogs. She's just
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  Speaker 6: not a fan of them, and she really doesn't like
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  Speaker 6: that Poppy's in the household now like the and I'm
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  Speaker 6: pretty sure she's only looked her in the eye about
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  Speaker 6: seven times, and that's when she's barking at her to
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  Speaker 6: get away from her. But I have this hope that
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  Speaker 6: it's like, it's just gonna take time for them to
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  Speaker 6: come around to each other. So there's been some really big,
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  Speaker 6: awesome things that have happened that have given me such
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  Speaker 6: extra hope where I'm like.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, this is it, this is the moment.
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  Speaker 6: So Scott comes to me and he goes, son, Amazon
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  Speaker 6: packs may be coming.
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  Speaker 1: They're like sticks for Poppy.
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  Speaker 6: I was like, acoustics.
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  Speaker 1: He's like, yeah, like you ordered her choosticks.
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  Speaker 9: This is amazing.
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  Speaker 6: This is a great sign that you're starting to accept
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  Speaker 6: it and love her too.
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  Speaker 1: You want to get her treats like out.
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  Speaker 6: So I got all excited about that, and like then,
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  Speaker 6: like you know, the next day, I'm in my room
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  Speaker 6: and I'm getting ready and Scott comes in. He goes,
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  Speaker 6: Oh my gosh, he goes. I would never have believed
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  Speaker 6: this unless I saw it with my own eyes.
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  Speaker 1: And I was like, what, he goes, Daisy just played
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  Speaker 1: with pop. I said, so bad, he.
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  Speaker 6: Goes, Yeah, but it wasn't necessary.
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  Speaker 1: It wasn't like an obvious play.
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  Speaker 6: Like they were both near each other, and Daisy got
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  Speaker 6: mad for a second, and then her tail started wagon
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  Speaker 6: and like she got a lot of little a little
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  Speaker 6: bit of energy and they started like playing a little bit.
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  Speaker 1: I was like, stop it.
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  Speaker 6: I still have yet to witness this.
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  Speaker 1: Because she at you.
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  Speaker 6: But but I was like, this is so huge.
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  Speaker 1: So you guys, there is hope, no good Okay, listen,
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  Speaker 1: I'm hesitant to do this, you guys, Okay, so bear
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  Speaker 1: with me. But let's just try it. Charman, good morning,
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  Speaker 1: Good morning.
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  Speaker 9: Well, you guys are gonna probably be blown away by this.
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  Speaker 8: But after I got married, I found out that my
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  Speaker 8: husband is a gang member.
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  Speaker 1: Oh like gang member, like street gang, or like cartel
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  Speaker 1: or like mafia.
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  Speaker 2: Like.
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  Speaker 9: A Latin king.
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  Speaker 3: Gang member.
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  Speaker 1: And I hesitate to ask how you found out?
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  Speaker 2: How do you stumble up?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah?
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  Speaker 9: No, exactly, No, he he he got a phone call
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  Speaker 9: and he was very hush hush about it. So I
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  Speaker 9: kept questioning and questioning him, and he ended up telling me.
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  Speaker 9: And I'm like, oh my god, why didn't you tell
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  Speaker 9: me this before we got married? Because I didn't think.
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  Speaker 7: You would marry me?
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  Speaker 9: And I was like, you know, I don't, I don't
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  Speaker 9: judge people, but I wish he would have told me
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  Speaker 9: that that's what he was.
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  Speaker 8: Not that.
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  Speaker 9: I mean, I know I'm protected. I'm not worried about that,
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  Speaker 9: but just knowing and him keeping something so big from
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  Speaker 9: me was like way out there?
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  Speaker 8: So is the call secrets from him?
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  Speaker 3: When he gets a call, is it he's getting, you know,
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  Speaker 3: assigned a task or something from the gang?
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  Speaker 9: Yes, and no, he's.
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  Speaker 8: God, I don't know if I should say that on
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  Speaker 8: the air.
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  Speaker 9: But yeah, he's getting a call.
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  Speaker 5: For for him to go do things.
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  Speaker 1: But is he a hit man?
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  Speaker 9: Since I really I don't want to see.
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  Speaker 1: You, so you're still you're still married to him?
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  Speaker 9: Oh, definitely.
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  Speaker 1: But he lives in the United States. He lives in
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  Speaker 1: the United States, but works for a Mexican cartel.
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  Speaker 8: Well he's Puerto Rican, not a cartel. He's not a cartel.
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  Speaker 8: Things get done and things get said, so you know,
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  Speaker 8: and it's never it's it's never about anything that has
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  Speaker 8: to do with a family or anything like that.
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  Speaker 9: It's just you know, you just you don't you can't
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  Speaker 9: cross him. And he's not a bad guy. You've got
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  Speaker 9: the biggest heart in the world that I've ever met,
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  Speaker 9: Like he's he's my everything. But just I wish you
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  Speaker 9: would have said something, you know, so I would have
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  Speaker 9: been prepared because the phone call, it wasn't I wasn't
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  Speaker 9: prepared for.
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  Speaker 1: Hey, what happened in the beginning of this phone I
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  Speaker 1: tried to pick you up twice and it didn't work.
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  Speaker 1: And I'm doing something that I.
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  Speaker 6: Had don't know. So I was trying to stop her
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  Speaker 6: from saying there, no, no, no.
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  Speaker 1: I was gonna say because my wife She's one of
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  Speaker 1: these people where like her and I are talking and
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  Speaker 1: if there's a disconnection on the phone when she calls back,
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  Speaker 1: the whole conversation about what happened. What happened, I'm driving
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  Speaker 1: through a tunnel. Why did we get disconnected? It must
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  Speaker 1: be you. It must not be to mean. I'm like, Blake,
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  Speaker 1: it doesn't matter, which is what we would we talk about.
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  Speaker 1: But I don't understand my phone must be acting weird.
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  Speaker 1: And that's the whole conversation. And then I go, Okay,
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  Speaker 1: I gotta go buy. So I was like, I want
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  Speaker 1: to know what happened to try when we tried to
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  Speaker 1: pick up twice, pick up twice and pick up what happened?
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  Speaker 1: And I know, And it's funny because I I'm doing
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  Speaker 1: what I despise what happened? We tried to pick up twice?
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  Speaker 9: You doing that, John Jay, I do appreciate you doing that.
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  Speaker 1: Because just let your husband know I was nice to you.
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  Speaker 2: He is.
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  Speaker 9: He's very nice to me. I don't think I could
• 16:07
  Speaker 9: do any wrong in his eyes from what he says.
• 16:09
  Speaker 1: So I am thank you for calling in it, Thanks
• 16:13
  Speaker 1: for listening. I'm glad you called back.
• 16:15
  Speaker 8: Yeah, me too, Thank you.