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This One’s a Real Nail Biter · Untraditionally Lala

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  Speaker 1: Hello, gorgeous.
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  Speaker 2: It's Lala Kent.
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  Speaker 1: Welcome to Untraditionally Lala.
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  Speaker 3: Hey Vibbs is yours truly, Laala Kent, Welcome to the
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  Speaker 3: bonus episode of Untraditionally La La.
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  Speaker 1: Hello, Easton Burningham? How are we doing?
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  Speaker 2: Hello? I'm great, I'm great. I'm injured. I'm great.
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  Speaker 1: I'm great. I'm injured. What happened?
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  Speaker 2: Shoulder, thigh, you name it? I got it.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, is that just from your gay softball league
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  Speaker 3: that you play in those injuries?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, the road.
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  Speaker 4: The shoulder is kind of a compound of that golf.
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  Speaker 4: And I love sleeping on my side so that.
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  Speaker 3: You can get I knew you could get wrinkles on
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  Speaker 3: your face from sleeping on your side.
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  Speaker 2: I don't care about that. I like a good night's sleep.
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  Speaker 1: I can dislocate my shoulder sleeping on my side.
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  Speaker 2: Well, like I just am a side sleeper.
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  Speaker 4: So for like, over the years, like it just keeps
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  Speaker 4: pulling in, like weakening limbs. From what I was told
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  Speaker 4: yesterday when they took my.
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  Speaker 1: Blood, you did PRP in your shoulder.
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  Speaker 3: So I've only done PRP on my face, which is
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  Speaker 3: why I'm so concerned about the now shoulder thing. Being
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  Speaker 3: a side sleeper because I've acted actively stopped or tried
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  Speaker 3: to stop sleeping on my side to avoid getting wrinkles.
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  Speaker 3: And I woke up this morning in full panic because
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  Speaker 3: I had a.
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  Speaker 1: Crease going in the opposite direction, which.
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  Speaker 3: Meant that my face was pushed against the pillow for
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  Speaker 3: an extended period of time causing a wrinkle. That if
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  Speaker 3: that happens on a regular basis, it will stay that way,
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  Speaker 3: and I'm not okay with that?
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  Speaker 1: Can I tell you something wild?
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  Speaker 3: Nikki Garcia, we had her on Unlikely an Unlikely Affair,
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  Speaker 3: the podcast I have with Amber.
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  Speaker 1: We were talking about.
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  Speaker 3: How younger men they don't understand the aging process and
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  Speaker 3: the wrinkles and the things that happened to your body.
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  Speaker 3: And I was like, I can't be with someone who
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  Speaker 3: doesn't know what crows speed are the crows speed are.
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  Speaker 3: Yet it started giving me anxiety, which is what this
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  Speaker 3: bonus is all about.
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  Speaker 1: Is anxiety.
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  Speaker 4: By the way, I know that I get that, but
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  Speaker 4: that's where I'm saying, like I sleeping. If I don't
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  Speaker 4: sleep well, my day is fulling of anxiety. And now
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  Speaker 4: I'm putting that together like if I don't have a
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  Speaker 4: good night sleep, I wake up a little anxious, like
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  Speaker 4: my breath work through the night when I was sleeping
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  Speaker 4: wasn't where it was supposed to be. And I wake
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  Speaker 4: up and I feel like I don't look at like wrinkles.
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  Speaker 4: I sleep so terribly like arm wise placement of limbs
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  Speaker 4: that I wake up and instead of wrinkles in that,
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  Speaker 4: I'm thinking, why does this part of my body hurt? Now?
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  Speaker 3: Right?
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  Speaker 1: That's called the aide's like the lower back.
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  Speaker 4: When I wake up, I'm like, well, that's a little tight,
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  Speaker 4: I mean a little bar No.
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  Speaker 2: It is.
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  Speaker 1: It's a real thing. And it starts kicking in your thirties.
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  Speaker 4: Give anxiety because now how does one sleep.
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  Speaker 1: On your back?
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  Speaker 3: And it's speaking of anxiety, so obviously I feel like anxiety.
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  Speaker 3: I don't know if it's just because people are starting
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  Speaker 3: to talk about it more because everyone has a platform
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  Speaker 3: to talk about it, or if everyone has always struggled
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  Speaker 3: with anxiety for me. For me, I think that everyone's
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  Speaker 3: anxiety has kicked in because we have so much access
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  Speaker 3: to everything all the time, whether it's what's going on
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  Speaker 3: in the world, what's going on next door.
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  Speaker 1: Then you add in the like the vanity portion of it,
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  Speaker 1: and you.
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  Speaker 3: See all of these people like I saw yesterday, Kylie
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  Speaker 3: Jenner actually crushed it in that movie with Charlie x
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  Speaker 3: c X and Kylie plays herself, but actually that is
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  Speaker 3: kind of hard to do.
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  Speaker 1: When they're like, play yourself, but here's a script.
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  Speaker 3: To follow, you're like, wait a minute, hold on, Kylie
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  Speaker 3: Jenner pretty much ate.
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  Speaker 1: All I could focus on, though, was the fact that
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  Speaker 1: she too has had two kids.
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  Speaker 3: Her boobs look normal, granted she had a boot job,
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  Speaker 3: Her jawline is impeccable, her whole face, her hair, all
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  Speaker 3: of it. Now, it's not lost on me that she
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  Speaker 3: has access to everything on the plan.
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  Speaker 2: You don't say, but go look at her in twenty twelve.
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  Speaker 1: You sit, We're not shading anybody.
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  Speaker 2: No, do what you want.
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  Speaker 4: Then, all I'm saying is you can't compare her looks
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  Speaker 4: to what anyone looks like because her looks are artificial.
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  Speaker 3: So yeah, but okay, well that brings me to my
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  Speaker 3: point of anxiety. You start looking and you're like, oh
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  Speaker 3: my god, Like I already called doctor Diamond and said,
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  Speaker 3: like we got to fix this jaw, Like I'm coming
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  Speaker 3: in April eighteenth, No, April fifteenth, Like you got to carve.
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  Speaker 1: Me out, buddy.
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  Speaker 2: We have different anxieties.
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  Speaker 1: We certainly do.
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  Speaker 3: So Anyway, Alex's earl came out saying that there's like
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  Speaker 3: a stigma around anxiety medication. And she goes on to
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  Speaker 3: say that she has been medicated since the age of fourteen.
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  Speaker 2: She's off of it, right, So.
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  Speaker 3: This is a quote she did an article, an interview
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  Speaker 3: with people. It can feel really scary, and there feels
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  Speaker 3: and there feels like there's like a stigma around it
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  Speaker 3: at times. But honestly, a lot of my friends, a
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  Speaker 3: lot of people I know, are also on medication for
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  Speaker 3: anxiety depression OCD, whatever it is.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know if she's still medicated.
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  Speaker 2: Can I say one thing?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, after like even my relapse going on seven months,
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  Speaker 4: right or we're like six and a half going on
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  Speaker 4: seven I was on anti anxiety and anti depression, and
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  Speaker 4: I want to say it was escatalopram, and I'll double
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  Speaker 4: check when I went in for my peptides, and that doctor,
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  Speaker 4: the old gentleman.
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  Speaker 3: Here, now I allowed to say that you were on
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  Speaker 3: your fourth relapse.
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  Speaker 4: Yes, no, I couldn't stop relapsing and I was on
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  Speaker 4: these pills and I there was just like there was
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  Speaker 4: no light at the end of the tunnel.
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  Speaker 2: So I went and got these peptides. There was a.
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  Speaker 4: Gentleman who was forty years sober or forty five, Yeah,
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  Speaker 4: and he came in and he put a short hand
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  Speaker 4: on my shoulder and he goes, you're going to continue
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  Speaker 4: to relapse if you continue to take these meds.
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  Speaker 3: Wow.
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  Speaker 2: And I'll never forget that.
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  Speaker 4: That sticks with me every day and being off my
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  Speaker 4: medicine has honestly relieved me of more anxiety. Wow. And
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  Speaker 4: I don't not for everybody. I'm speaking on me, and
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  Speaker 4: it's a personal thing. But like even if you you know,
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  Speaker 4: if you still have anxiety while taking meds, maybe you know,
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  Speaker 4: like I I'm not going to say like I took
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  Speaker 4: I stopped doing my meds and like everything was roses. No.
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  Speaker 4: I had to work, I breath work, I had to
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  Speaker 4: compartmentalize different things that I was thinking about.
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  Speaker 2: It took a lot of work. But I where I
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  Speaker 2: am right now.
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  Speaker 4: I thank God that I am not on any anxiety medication.
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  Speaker 1: Well, and again that's your personal experience.
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  Speaker 2: For me, it's.
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  Speaker 3: Your personal experience, and everybody is different and it's not
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  Speaker 3: one size fits all.
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  Speaker 4: I think everybody's like chemical imbalance is different in everybody's life.
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  Speaker 3: I'm a single person, Like everything has to be a
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  Speaker 3: tailored any prescription you go on, even your doctor.
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  Speaker 1: You guys have to be on the same page. And
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  Speaker 1: even a.
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  Speaker 3: Doctor, no one knows you like you know you. If
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  Speaker 3: something is feeling off, you have to We've spoken about this.
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  Speaker 3: Advocate for your health in every capacity, including mental, which
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  Speaker 3: I believe is the most important. Yes, And I was
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  Speaker 3: on anti anxiety medication and antidepression medication and I was
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  Speaker 3: drinking on.
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  Speaker 1: It like I couldn't because how stupid am I. I'm like,
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  Speaker 1: I'm just why I got really depressed.
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  Speaker 3: It's like it's called the Daily Sunday Series because you've
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  Speaker 3: been sipping on as apressant.
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  Speaker 4: And that's where I think where I would take my
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  Speaker 4: med and I was like, I'm still depressed, so I
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  Speaker 4: would go down the liquor thing and it was like
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  Speaker 4: I was hoping that pill would be the cure of all.
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  Speaker 2: I still had to do work.
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  Speaker 4: Even if maybe if I took the pills and I
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  Speaker 4: did the work that I still did, maybe the pills
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  Speaker 4: would benefit me.
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  Speaker 2: But right now, I like where I'm at okay.
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  Speaker 1: So then there shouldn't be anything that changes.
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  Speaker 2: There's the thing.
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  Speaker 3: I tend to go to holistic route before I tap
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  Speaker 3: in medication. But I'm also I'm not somewhare though that
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  Speaker 3: it's against it. I'm like, there are points in time
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  Speaker 3: where it's like I'm going to need to tap in
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  Speaker 3: science and someone put me on something. I am not
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  Speaker 3: on anything right now, just like my regular supplements. But
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  Speaker 3: I will say when I started filming again, I had
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  Speaker 3: so much anxiety it was debilitating for me to leave
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  Speaker 3: the house.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah that I was there, I'm there, I'm all. I
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  Speaker 4: think everybody's there. And the one thing that I always
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  Speaker 4: have to get there, I can get anxiety, Like overthinking
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  Speaker 4: is what gives me anxiety.
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  Speaker 1: Tell me this, when you when you make a plan,
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  Speaker 1: do you start playing it in your mind, like what
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  Speaker 1: are we going to talk about her? And then order?
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  Speaker 1: And then what if? What if what I ate doesn't.
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  Speaker 2: Agree with me? Well, then that's.
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  Speaker 4: Whatever I eat. You gotta make sure because I'm a
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  Speaker 4: homeplate shitter. So if i'm out about I'm eating salads.
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  Speaker 4: But when I make plans, Yes, that is what I
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  Speaker 4: used to do and I'm doing it now. But I'm
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  Speaker 4: trying to work on it and not think I made plans.
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  Speaker 4: What are these plans going to consist of? What conversation?
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  Speaker 4: What if this doesn't go right? Oh my gosh, what
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  Speaker 4: if so and so says this? And something is brought
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  Speaker 4: up that I don't want to talk about. Oh my gosh,
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  Speaker 4: what if so and so comes and brings more conversation?
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  Speaker 4: And then I go, wow, I want to cancel. Now
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  Speaker 4: I make the plan, and I go perfect, what am
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  Speaker 4: I doing right now?
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  Speaker 3: Oh?
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  Speaker 2: Keep your head where you're keeping my hair?
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  Speaker 4: And then even when it's getting closer and I'm like, oh,
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  Speaker 4: I have to start getting ready. What am I going
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  Speaker 4: to wear? Let's brush my tea? Should I do whitening strips?
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  Speaker 4: Just let's think in the now, and before you know it,
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  Speaker 4: you're blowing my you you can go out, And then
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  Speaker 4: that's what I've tried to do.
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  Speaker 2: And I'm not thinking of any conversation.
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  Speaker 4: I'm not even thinking, like, I can't even think about
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  Speaker 4: how I'm going to say hello to you, because that
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  Speaker 4: anxiety right there will send me home.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, So I just think, okay, right now I'm going
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  Speaker 2: to get out of my car. Do I have everything? Yes?
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  Speaker 4: Okay, let's walk and enjoy this scene I'm not thinking
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  Speaker 4: about who I'm seeing, where we're going.
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  Speaker 2: I'm just enjoying what is going on around me at
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  Speaker 2: that time.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, because once you get there, does your anxiety.
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  Speaker 4: Kind of that's dissipated because now it's like I've looked
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  Speaker 4: at things.
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  Speaker 2: And I'll be like, did you guys?
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  Speaker 4: See Like it's almost like just being in the now
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  Speaker 4: has brought me so much peace, well peace, and not
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  Speaker 4: only that, but like little conversations that you're worried about having.
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  Speaker 2: Now I'm like, did you see the billboard of Da
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  Speaker 2: Da Da Da? I had no idea that was coming out,
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  Speaker 2: and now it started a whole thing. And now just.
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  Speaker 3: Being in this it gives me so much anxiety, see literally,
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  Speaker 3: And I think that's another reason why I keep a
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  Speaker 3: very group of friends, because I know who I feel
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  Speaker 3: comfortable with.
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  Speaker 1: It feels effortless. I don't worry. I look forward to
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  Speaker 1: it any time.
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  Speaker 3: Like even if I have a group that I'm going
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  Speaker 3: with and they're like, oh I invited so, and so I'm.
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  Speaker 2: Like, oh no, how was I going to throw it off?
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  Speaker 1: That may throw off the dynamic and it and then
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  Speaker 1: I have.
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  Speaker 3: To ask them how they've been and they're going to
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  Speaker 3: tell me a bunch of shit that I.
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  Speaker 2: Don't care about. The ball talk. Ball talk? Is the anxiety?
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  Speaker 1: Is this normal?
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  Speaker 3: Yes?
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  Speaker 2: I think this is what comes with age.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, I feel like it should be calmed down with age.
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  Speaker 4: No, because I feel like no, no, no, no, no,
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  Speaker 4: I look at it, and because I have anxiety.
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  Speaker 2: I feel like with age you get more of it.
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  Speaker 4: You feel like you should be in a certain spots
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  Speaker 4: you're looking at other people's life, comparing yourself.
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  Speaker 2: Why am I not ahead?
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  Speaker 4: Or things like that when you're young in twenty or
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  Speaker 4: twenty one going out comparison is the.
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  Speaker 1: Is the raw? Is the thief of joy?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's so true. Yeah, but like that, I feel
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  Speaker 2: like a lot of people do that, you know, so,
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  Speaker 2: I think.
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  Speaker 1: When they see things, you start aspiring.
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  Speaker 4: Like they Let me just put it this way for you.
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  Speaker 4: You have kids, Yes, you see a whole bunch of
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  Speaker 4: other kids you don't, But how many other of those
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  Speaker 4: people are comparing those not the kids, but the lifestyles
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  Speaker 4: of kids around a lot?
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  Speaker 2: I know it.
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  Speaker 4: You may not see it, but like there's a lot
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  Speaker 4: of people who are seeing, like what other kids are
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  Speaker 4: getting from their parents that maybe I can't afford now
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  Speaker 4: that starts to give me anxiety. Where have I gone wrong?
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  Speaker 4: What have I done? How can I get better?
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  Speaker 3: They haven't hit that point yet in minutes because Ocean's
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  Speaker 3: still so young. She's going to be starting like real
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  Speaker 3: big kids school soon. Yeah, I'm still unsure where she's
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  Speaker 3: going to go at this point in time.
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  Speaker 1: You have to remember we're going the private school.
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  Speaker 4: Route, and then there's going to be kids, see and
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  Speaker 4: I'm only thinking for me, not my kid, But like,
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  Speaker 4: it will start to give me anxiety if she's falling
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  Speaker 4: back in school or if she's ahead in school. You
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  Speaker 4: start there's just anxiety that just keeps coming as an
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  Speaker 4: adult type hit.
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  Speaker 3: But I have to say this, what she experiences at school,
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  Speaker 3: she's going to experience at the other house anyway. Like
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  Speaker 3: Ocean has already been in really amazing cars, She's already
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  Speaker 3: been on private jets, and I have to she doesn't talk.
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  Speaker 1: About it, no, like those things.
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  Speaker 2: But there's parents that you'll never be able to do that.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, but there's parents that will never be able to
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  Speaker 4: do that for their kid or anything else.
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  Speaker 3: It is one percent of the population on the planet
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  Speaker 3: that maybe less I know, but no, it will actually
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  Speaker 3: experience life in that way. The stressors, yes, of kids,
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  Speaker 3: especially in a place like Los Angeles. People are giving
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  Speaker 3: their sixteen year olds Aston Martin's as their first car.
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  Speaker 3: And for me, I have experienced all of that that.
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  Speaker 3: I think if Ocean came to me, I'd be like,
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  Speaker 3: get the fuck over it. You're not having that car.
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  Speaker 3: There's your Hyundai, which I love, by the way, I
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  Speaker 3: mean Hunda very say, very like, that's.
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  Speaker 2: What I would be getting. Car love Corolla. Get out
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  Speaker 2: of here. That's where I'm at.
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  Speaker 1: Do you know how hard I rock with my GMC Denali.
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  Speaker 2: That's a very nice vehicle. Oh, very nice.
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  Speaker 1: No, it's very nice.
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  Speaker 4: It's very nice, very nice, very nice.
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  Speaker 2: Not a Chevy. It's a GMC Yukon Denali, not just
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  Speaker 2: a Yukon.
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  Speaker 4: Maybe I don't know cars, very you do not know cars,
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  Speaker 4: because yours is the top tier of that brand. I
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  Speaker 4: thought the Escalade was well that, yes, but then you're
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  Speaker 4: two different cars. I mean you could have got yours
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  Speaker 4: with like a bigger engine that's like a sport exactly why,
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  Speaker 4: And then I don't know escalades dark invader lightsabers on
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  Speaker 4: the back of the Escalator.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, those big long lights, like what are we doing
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  Speaker 2: and feel.
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  Speaker 1: The need to spend more money on a car where I'm.
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  Speaker 2: Like, I have you more anxiety throw to pit.
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  Speaker 3: Bulls in here to children, I mean most of the time,
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  Speaker 3: which also gives me massive anxiety when I because I
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  Speaker 3: keep like my area very clean, right, And then Lisa
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  Speaker 3: gets in all her shit in the center console and
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  Speaker 3: I then I look in the back and the kid's
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  Speaker 3: Ocean is eating whatever she's eating, spilling crumbs everywhere.
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  Speaker 1: Sosa is unscrewed the lid to her bottle because she
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  Speaker 1: can do that now, and is whipping the milk everywhere.
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  Speaker 1: I go into full panic.
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  Speaker 3: Actually, I think motherhood has allowed me, as much as possible,
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  Speaker 3: with just what's in my nature to kind of let
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  Speaker 3: go and find the gray because by nature, I'm more
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  Speaker 3: like my dad. Where I'm I just am very particular
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  Speaker 3: about things. I start feeling like there's an elephant on
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  Speaker 3: my chest when Ocean, listen how simple this is, and
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  Speaker 3: I have to actively you guys, you guys are gonna
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  Speaker 3: think I'm horrible. I have to actively tell myself to
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  Speaker 3: like not worry about it. This is how silly it gets.
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  Speaker 3: If she decides to bring a stuffy and a book
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  Speaker 3: into my room because I go but it doesn't belong
• 16:26
  Speaker 3: there in my head. I don't tell her that. I
• 16:27
  Speaker 3: just let it happen.
• 16:28
  Speaker 1: And I'm like, you can take it back downstairs. But
• 16:31
  Speaker 1: I'm like, but it doesn't belong.
• 16:32
  Speaker 2: Oh, you need to work the K Pop.
• 16:34
  Speaker 3: Demon Hunter book and the ginormous technicolored stuffy doesn't go
• 16:40
  Speaker 3: in my bedroom.
• 16:41
  Speaker 2: Yeah, but think how excited she gets, would you? I know?
• 16:43
  Speaker 1: But that's what I'm saying is there are some things
• 16:45
  Speaker 1: that are just.
• 16:46
  Speaker 2: In Is that OCD?
• 16:48
  Speaker 4: It might be that's OCD, because like for me, I
• 16:51
  Speaker 4: can I was last night. I slept with a thing
• 16:54
  Speaker 4: on my leg just to wrap it middle of the night,
• 16:57
  Speaker 4: woke up, took it off and just through it. Don't
• 16:59
  Speaker 4: know where it went. I picked that up this morning,
• 17:01
  Speaker 4: but like, could you do that? I would fold it
• 17:04
  Speaker 4: and put it back into the cabin.
• 17:06
  Speaker 2: I just throw it on the ground and we'll figure it out.
• 17:07
  Speaker 3: Because I don't want to wake up to it. I
• 17:09
  Speaker 3: need to wake up in the morning. I have such
• 17:10
  Speaker 3: a strict routine. I don't want anything that does not belong,
• 17:15
  Speaker 3: even the cord that comes out of my nightstand that
• 17:18
  Speaker 3: I plug. You need to exposure I'm exposed.
• 17:23
  Speaker 2: No, you need more exposure therapy.
• 17:25
  Speaker 4: You need to wake up with your why to bring
• 17:29
  Speaker 4: you down from one hundred when little things are off,
• 17:32
  Speaker 4: to not send you down a spiral.
• 17:34
  Speaker 3: Okay, but tell me this. Do you think it's because
• 17:36
  Speaker 3: I have such little control? Which sounds weird because I
• 17:39
  Speaker 3: actually do have a lot of control in my life,
• 17:41
  Speaker 3: but there are certain things that we cannot control. So
• 17:44
  Speaker 3: do you think that it manifests itself into me controlling
• 17:48
  Speaker 3: the one thing that I can control, which is my bedroom.
• 17:51
  Speaker 4: Here's the one thing that I'm taking from this. You
• 17:53
  Speaker 4: can control a lot of things. You can't control any outcomes.
• 17:58
  Speaker 4: You can control the outcome of this. Yes, the outcome
• 18:01
  Speaker 4: is so clean. That is your outcome with everything that
• 18:04
  Speaker 4: you do in life. Yes, you can do it and
• 18:06
  Speaker 4: you have control. But what is the outcome with where
• 18:10
  Speaker 4: you're going?
• 18:11
  Speaker 1: You don't know, but the house would.
• 18:14
  Speaker 2: So there you go.
• 18:15
  Speaker 4: You're you You like it because you know that you
• 18:18
  Speaker 4: have control over that at all times.
• 18:21
  Speaker 2: Yeah, there it is.
• 18:23
  Speaker 4: Maybe I'm no doctor, but maybe we're getting down to something.
• 18:26
  Speaker 3: Also, I know who the culprit is of the messy
• 18:30
  Speaker 3: house all the time. It ain't the kids, my mom
• 18:32
  Speaker 3: is in Palm Springs right now. Days for three days.
• 18:36
  Speaker 3: The house is immaculate. I mean, and there's two kids.
• 18:42
  Speaker 3: They're they're still here running around. It's business as usual.
• 18:46
  Speaker 1: My mother is the cause.
• 18:47
  Speaker 2: Of all of the came. Oh yeah, because I go now.
• 18:50
  Speaker 1: Even the playroom, you guys were up there. It looks great.
• 18:54
  Speaker 2: Well here, yeah, because we pick up things here and there.
• 18:56
  Speaker 4: But Mom will get things out to play with them
• 18:58
  Speaker 4: and then say it was them.
• 19:01
  Speaker 2: She's a little ship.
• 19:02
  Speaker 1: And this is also what happens with my mom. She
• 19:06
  Speaker 1: will be like a tornado.
• 19:08
  Speaker 3: And my whole thing is, why don't you clean up
• 19:10
  Speaker 3: as you go that way at the end of the night.
• 19:12
  Speaker 3: You're not spending an hour cleaning up the day's mess,
• 19:17
  Speaker 3: like when you make no one makes a MESSI er
• 19:20
  Speaker 3: peanut butter and jelly toast, like something as simple as
• 19:24
  Speaker 3: that looks like someone has been.
• 19:26
  Speaker 2: Whipping up out fucking four star michel and meal.
• 19:31
  Speaker 1: I look at it and I'm like, how did this happen?
• 19:34
  Speaker 2: And she's got her one little cracker walking around.
• 19:36
  Speaker 4: One cracker and without the plane, cracker just spilling everywhere.
• 19:40
  Speaker 4: We have dogs. Let's just let's not do that. But okay,
• 19:47
  Speaker 4: just all.
• 19:47
  Speaker 3: Of these little things that are that cause me anxiety.
• 19:52
  Speaker 2: It's from the oh, is that what we've called.
• 19:57
  Speaker 1: Me to be medicated? We just I mean the Jesus
• 20:00
  Speaker 1: por shit together. Well, I want to be very very clear.
• 20:07
  Speaker 3: In case you guys along the way thought Eastern Night
• 20:12
  Speaker 3: were doctors, we are not. If you are medicated, we
• 20:17
  Speaker 3: coast that do work. We talked about what works for us.
• 20:23
  Speaker 3: It can always change. I'm glad that alex Earl because
• 20:26
  Speaker 3: she has such a tremendous platform and from the outside
• 20:29
  Speaker 3: you look at her life and go, she's beautiful, She's perfect.
• 20:32
  Speaker 3: What could she possibly be stressed about? Depressed about tripping on?
• 20:39
  Speaker 3: It's people like her that we need to continue the
• 20:42
  Speaker 3: conversation so that people who are struggling mentally know that
• 20:45
  Speaker 3: they are not alone. And even people they watch and
• 20:49
  Speaker 3: think their lives are amazing are still battling the same
• 20:52
  Speaker 3: shit as everybody else. So with that, I wish you
• 20:56
  Speaker 3: the best day of your whole life. Go out there
• 20:58
  Speaker 3: and slay the day. Thank you for listening to another
• 21:00
  Speaker 3: episode bonus episode of Untraditionally La La. I'm gonna catch
• 21:03
  Speaker 3: you Wednesday for a regular old episode and again next week.
• 21:07
  Speaker 1: Bye.