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HoCo Proposals are alot of pressure · Scott & Ally on Demand

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  SPEAKER_00: Good morning, Scott and Nelly.
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  SPEAKER_00: Just checking in Nelly.
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  SPEAKER_00: And Nelly.
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  SPEAKER_01: It does.
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  SPEAKER_00: Just checking in to make sure that you can get my messages.
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  SPEAKER_00: Have a good day.
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  SPEAKER_00: Yes?
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  SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
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  SPEAKER_00: Oh, got it.
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  SPEAKER_00: Mary, we got it.
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  SPEAKER_00: Also, I am a dish person, not because I want to be.
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  SPEAKER_00: I want to be a cone person, but it's just messy.
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  SPEAKER_00: And uh this person said, uh, dish with waffle cone on top.
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  SPEAKER_00: I love the idea.
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  SPEAKER_00: Why do I never think to do that?
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  SPEAKER_00: Like the best of the.
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  SPEAKER_01: Because you're brave enough.
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  SPEAKER_01: So today's uh ice cream cone day, and we've both agreed that we need to be dish people.
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  SPEAKER_01: I'm always a dish people.
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  SPEAKER_01: I'm training my children to be dish people because, well, first of all, you don't want to clean up the mess.
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  SPEAKER_01: I don't want to clean up the mess.
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  SPEAKER_01: I have de-evolved to being a toddler eating an ice cream cone.
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  SPEAKER_01: Not only does it get all over my face, but it gets running down my arm on a cone and all that.
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  SPEAKER_01: So I said, okay, we're gonna go with a dish here.
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  SPEAKER_01: And but you can have a cone on top of it.
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  SPEAKER_01: That's that that you get the full experience without me having to clean up the full experience.
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  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, yeah, definitely.
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  SPEAKER_00: Uh, I want to go on to something else.
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  SPEAKER_00: So, you know, when there is a homecoming hoco, yeah, and you're getting asked to homecoming, and usually it's like a big to-do.
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  SPEAKER_00: They do almost like almost like a promptle, but it's for homecoming.
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  SPEAKER_00: One of my girlfriends.
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  SPEAKER_01: Are we still doing it to that level?
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  SPEAKER_00: Oh, yeah.
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  SPEAKER_00: One of my girlfriends, her daughter just got asked to homecoming with like a big poster board and the big ask outside, and it was videotaped and all that stuff.
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  SPEAKER_01: Oh god, I would have never had the guts in school to do this.
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  SPEAKER_00: I know.
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  SPEAKER_00: So she put into chat GBT and shared it with me and my one girlfriend.
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  SPEAKER_00: We're on a group chat.
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  SPEAKER_00: She put uh what homecoming proposals would have been like in 2001.
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  SPEAKER_00: Oh.
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  SPEAKER_00: So I'm gonna give you a couple of the options that would be on the poster board.
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  SPEAKER_00: Are you ready for the first one?
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  SPEAKER_01: Sure.
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  SPEAKER_00: Um, this is peak 2001.
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  SPEAKER_00: It would be crazy if you said no, will you go to Hoko with me?
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  SPEAKER_00: Britney Spears Crazy.
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  SPEAKER_01: Oh, yes.
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  SPEAKER_00: The classic cheesy poster.
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  SPEAKER_00: It would be so sick if you didn't go to Hoko with me.
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  SPEAKER_00: Uh, boy band era.
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  SPEAKER_00: I don't want to be incomplete without you at Hoko.
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  SPEAKER_00: Will you go with me?
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  SPEAKER_00: Sure.
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  SPEAKER_00: Mm-hmm.
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  SPEAKER_00: Uh, this is a 2011 teen romance poster.
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  SPEAKER_00: There's no doubt about it.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'd love to take you to Hoko, which is a no-doubt reference.
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  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, right.
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  SPEAKER_00: Um, okay.
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  SPEAKER_00: This one, this is Pop Quiz.
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  SPEAKER_00: Will you go to Hoko with me?
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  SPEAKER_00: A yes, B, yes, or C yes.
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  SPEAKER_00: Um, hold on a second.
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  SPEAKER_00: Wait, there's one more.
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  SPEAKER_00: Uh, okay, this is for all the 2001 girlies.
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  SPEAKER_00: You're the one I want to take to Hoko Greece.
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  SPEAKER_00: Question mark?
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  SPEAKER_00: Nah, I'd I've got a better idea.
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  SPEAKER_00: I don't get that one.
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  SPEAKER_01: Uh-mm.
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  SPEAKER_01: No, I don't get that one either.
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  SPEAKER_01: I don't know.
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  SPEAKER_00: But I have to tell you what my my one girlfriend's response was to this.
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  SPEAKER_00: She goes, um, I'm glad that we didn't have this in our era.
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  SPEAKER_00: There is so much pressure.
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  SPEAKER_00: This is kind of where I was leaning.
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  SPEAKER_00: Uh, I kind of feel bad for kids having to ask and having to accept this in a public display.
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  SPEAKER_01: Yes, it's uh it's a lot.
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  SPEAKER_01: And and like I said, on the other side, I would have never had the guts to do this.
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  SPEAKER_00: I don't think I would have the city.
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  SPEAKER_01: I am really not great with rejection.
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  SPEAKER_00: I don't think I would have had the guts to do it because now I am the confident girly that you see now.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I was confident then, except for in certain situations.
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  SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
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  SPEAKER_00: I didn't join ski club because I didn't have any other friends that were doing it.
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  SPEAKER_00: I didn't go to our my confidence actually came in high school.
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  SPEAKER_00: In middle school, I didn't go on our middle school trip because I was afraid of who was gonna be there, who, which room I was gonna sleep in.
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  SPEAKER_00: I was afraid of the social situation of it.
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  SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
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  SPEAKER_00: I didn't even, and we referenced this in the studio yesterday.
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  SPEAKER_00: I bowed out of swimming in school because I was so self-conscious about what I would look like.
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  SPEAKER_01: I I think a lot of people are like that.
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  SPEAKER_00: And and so now adding a proposal in front of everyone.
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  SPEAKER_01: Yeah, it's a lot.
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  SPEAKER_01: It is it looks like it feels a little forcy.
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  SPEAKER_00: So yes yesterday when I watched the video of my girlfriend's daughter, Autumn was getting um Hoko proposed to.
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  SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
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  SPEAKER_01: And when I watched it I have not decided if I like the abbreviation of homecoming.
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  SPEAKER_01: Hoko Hoko just sounds, you know, I don't know if it's the ho.
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  SPEAKER_01: I can't figure it out.
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  SPEAKER_00: But I mean, Autumn has been seeing this gentleman.
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  SPEAKER_00: They've been kind of casually dating for a while now.
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  SPEAKER_00: So uh and by a while I think like six months.
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  SPEAKER_00: But I think that that was In teen years, that's like eight years.
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  SPEAKER_00: Exactly.
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  SPEAKER_00: So I think that the yes was going to be there.
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  SPEAKER_01: That all right, since we're talking about this, I'm gonna cover one very heavy comment in a minute about the potential of a breakup that could happen, especially if you've got kids around the teen years.
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  SPEAKER_01: I gotta I I've I've been hanging on to this for a long time, but now might be the time to share this with you.
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  SPEAKER_01: If you are a parent, I want you to hear this in a minute because you may have a kid that's in a relationship.
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  SPEAKER_01: In a relationship, and and I mean, let's be honest with you.
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  SPEAKER_01: In the back of your mind, you're going, you guys are early in high school, you ain't gonna be together forever.
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  SPEAKER_00: So there's usually like one that survives.
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  SPEAKER_01: Yeah, one out of how many.
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  SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
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  SPEAKER_01: So I want you to hear this in a minute.
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  SPEAKER_01: It's a little heavy, but man, is it an interesting piece of advice?
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  SPEAKER_01: Hold on.