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How To Ignite Your Influence For God's Glory With Diana Burks · She Speaks Life - Christian Women, Strengthen Your Faith, Bible Study, Grow Spiritually In Christ

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  Hey there. Welcome back to She Speaks Live.
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  time with the Lord. OK you guys, today you are in
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  for a treat. I have my dear friend Diana Burt
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  sharing about her new book called Wildfire.
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  Ignite your influence and Impact your world.
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  You will be Holy Spirit ignited as you listen to these life
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  giving words on how to be a woman of godly influence who is
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  on fire to see people transformed by Jesus Christ.
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  We talk about discipleship, What does that look like?
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  Our thought life, how to take control of that the enemy's
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  tactics to try and stop us from stepping into what we've been
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  called to and how to overcome it in Jesus name and about
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  authenticity and genuine character and growth.
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  What does that look like? It was such a powerful
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  conversation. Diana lives with burning fire of
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  the Holy Spirit and she is here to impart wisdom into our hearts
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  and minds. She is such a dynamic preacher,
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  teacher and has a generation ministry for moms, daughters and
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  grandmothers called G3 God Girls Greatness that she is called to
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  by the Lord to empower and equip them with conferences throughout
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  the year. I have had some major life
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  changing experiences that have come from her events.
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  They are so wonderful. So check it out on her website
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  dianaburks.com and I guarantee it by the time you're done
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  listening to this episode, you'll be so filled to be an
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  influence for God's Kingdom and will want more from her book
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  which I've left all the links below in the show notes.
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  So OK y'all, get ready to never be the same.
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  Here's my guest, Bible Teacher Ministry leader, author Diana
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  Burks. Hey Diana, Welcome to She Speaks
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  Life. I'm so excited to have my sweet
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  friend on here. Hi Jamie.
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  I'm honored to be on your podcast, She Speaks Life.
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  It's such a blessing to many women and it's an honor for me
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  to be on. Today.
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  Thank you. I know I was so excited when you
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  announced about your book and I'm like, oh, gotta have her on
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  the podcast to share. I am so proud of you and
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  everything that God has done in and through you.
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  I love, love this book. So well done my friend.
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  It's so rich with scripture and your own experiences of how God
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  was working in and still is working through you.
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  And I love how you shared all your wisdom of what God gave you
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  on godly influence and making an impact for God's glory.
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  And that's what we'll be talking about today.
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  And you wrote a book called Wildfire, Ignite Your Influence
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  and Impact Your World. And by the time I finished this
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  book over break, I was so filled up and so, you know, ready to to
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  just be that influence that God has called us to be already.
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  And so I can't wait for you to share more on this topic.
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  But before we begin, I'd love for you to share your favorite
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  scripture verse and why. Thank you.
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  I am so excited that you got to read my book over the holidays
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  and it just was released the week before Christmas.
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  So it's very exciting going into 2024 for all that God's going to
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  do to really just ignite this wildfire in so many hearts.
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  And so I'm going to share with you my favorite verse.
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  I actually it's so hard when you think of a favorite verse
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  because I love the word of God. It's amazing.
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  But I actually put the first on the 1st chapter, my favorite
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  verse on chapter one awakened to influence.
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  But I'm just going to read it to you because everyone knows it.
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  It's a popular verse, but here it is, Jeremiah 2911 through 13.
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  For I know the plans and the thoughts that I have for you,
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  says the Lord plans for peace and well-being, not for
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  disaster, to give you a future and a hope.
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  Then you will call on me, and you will come and pray to me.
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  Then with a deep longing, I will hear your voice and I will
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  listen to you. You will seek me and require me
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  as a vital necessity, and you'll find me when you search for me
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  with all your heart. And so I love it because so many
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  times, you know, we're like, what are your plans for me,
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  Lord? And I love that verse because
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  it's God himself saying my plans for you are for good, they're
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  not for harm and disaster. And it just every time we doubt
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  or we have fear, or we have those places that we feel so
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  unqualified, the Lord just comes back and says, no, no, no, I
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  know the plans I have for you. They're for good.
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  They're for a hope and a future. So I just love my favorite
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  verse, that it's always a landing place for your emotions,
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  for your feelings, for, you know, obstacles in life,
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  whatever it is, God is for us. Amen.
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  And I love how you proceeded to share the verse 12 and 13,
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  'cause I think so often we stop right there at verse 11 and
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  there's just so much after verse 11.
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  So I love that verse. So good.
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  Amen to that. OK, so let's start with the
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  beginning of what is influence? You know, we kind of hear
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  influence kind of a a flippant word that we hear, you know, on
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  social media. But what is the true definition
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  of influence and what is the first step that you can share to
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  awaken that influence in US? Great question, because
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  influence is thrown around a lot.
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  I agree with you, but you know when?
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  When I first started to write this book, I I felt like the
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  Lord said to me, I want you to write about something that you
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  have received in your lifetime and you've been doing your whole
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  life. And I said, what is that Lord?
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  And he said influence. The reason why is we're always
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  being influenced by people around us, by our environment,
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  by our friendships, by our relationships, by what we hear
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  and what we see. And I thought, OK, you're right.
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  And he said, But I've called you to be an influence.
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  And I thought, OK, Lord, I don't really know what that means.
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  But since I was a young girl, I wanted to influence people.
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  So when I started thinking about the word influence, it means to
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  have an impact, to have an effect on someone so that when
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  they meet you or they encounter you, they actually leave
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  different than when they first came into your presence, when
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  they first had a conversation with you.
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  And so I think recognizing the value of influence, that we're
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  always being influenced by something, someone, some kind of
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  impact into us, but then we awakened to influence when we
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  realized, oh, I can do that. So for a simple example would be
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  if someone comes into your presence and they leave filled
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  with joy. After they're in your presence,
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  you've had an influence of joy in their life and they left
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  different than when they came originally into that meeting or
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  that coffee appointment or conversation.
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  Yeah, that's so good. Just like your book.
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  I mean, it left me like filled up, ready to influence those
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  around me even more. So It's so inspiring.
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  And as I was reading your book, I love how you just brought in
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  some personal stories and one of them was your youth leaders,
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  Kevin and Lisa, and the influence that they had on you
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  when you were in high school. And how the the words that you
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  said that they were authentic examples of discipleship, That's
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  why they had people following what they were teaching.
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  That's why they had so much impact and influence because
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  they were authentic examples of discipleship.
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  So I wanted to talk about discipleship just for a minute,
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  because I think that's so important to look into.
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  What does that require in us to influence others?
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  Well, what? What do we need in order to be
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  those disciples like your youth leaders?
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  Yeah, great question. You know, when you think of
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  people in your life that have had an impact on you, you have
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  an you've been influenced by people.
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  All along our journey, people come into our path and they
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  impact us. They have an influence on us.
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  And Kevin and Lisa Evans were one example that came to my mind
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  because I I was shaped and formed.
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  My mindset, my intentions and my heart for the Lord were so
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  shaped by their example of just being present in my life.
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  They were my youth leaders, but they could have been hands off.
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  We're older than you, We've got kids, we've got our own thing
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  going. But what they did is they were
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  the best role models and example because they were so authentic
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  in their faith for God, their love for one another, their love
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  for their children. And what they did to disciple me
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  and my friends at that time in high school was they were so
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  intentional with their time. They were intentional.
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  They would come and they would have lunch with us on the
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  campus. They would take us.
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  You know, it used to be when we were growing up, go get a Coke.
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  You know, it didn't matter what you were drinking, but it was
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  called a Coke. And so hey, after school, do you
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  want to go get a Coke together? You know, something so simple
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  that seems someone could overlook and go, you know,
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  that's not going to matter in someone's life.
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  It does matter because it made made me feel valuable.
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  It made me feel significant. But every time we had
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  conversations, their faith was so evident and so real in the
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  language coming out of their mouth in their marriage and the
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  way they treated each other. I got to see an example of a
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  godly marriage. The way they were raising their
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  kids and interacted with their kids.
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  They invited us into their home. We would have lunch in their
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  home. Sometimes we leave school, go
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  have lunch there, whatever it was.
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  I felt like that real life example, even outside of my own
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  family and my own parents, was such a significant piece of me
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  having a hunger and a desire to follow God all the days of my
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  life and to have a vision of what married life could be, what
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  raising children could be, and having a life of impacting
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  others. So I had this vision to follow
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  and I just, I love that. I really feel like that's the
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  key is, can we be that vision for someone else?
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  Can we be that vision for someone else 100%.
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  And don't underestimate that ability, that other people are
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  watching every single thing that you do.
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  So I would watch Kevin and Lisa, how they talked to each other as
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  a married couple, how he honored her, how he treated her.
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  And I thought, oh, I'm going to marry someone just like Kevin
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  Evans. And so it was such a beautiful
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  thing. And I did, Yes, praise God.
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  Literally. His name's Kevin.
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  Yes, I know, it's awesome. And then one more thing about
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  let me say one more thing too. I also watched them lay down
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  their lives in servanthood. They they were not only dynamic
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  youth leaders. They ended up leaving Lubbock,
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  TX and moving to Dallas, starting a church, built a
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  church from the ground up, and then moved to China to be
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  missionaries. But I really saw true
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  discipleship in them and when they were intentional placing
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  that fire inside of me, that I had to live a pure and authentic
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  life for Christ, laying down my life for him.
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  So it was a wonderful thing to see that visually in front of
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  me. Yeah, for sure.
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  And I can't help but think while you're sharing the story about
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  spending time, yes, it's the action behind the words.
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  You know, they're showing action of affection and time.
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  And like you mentioned, it's a sacrificial thing to be
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  intentional and be flexible with your time.
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  Be Be available for interruptions in your life to
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  stop and say, hey, yes, let's have coffee or lunch or, you
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  know, play a board game and pray and worship or whatever it is.
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  And I can't help but think about how much we get to know God, how
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  much we get to come closer with the Holy Spirit when we spend
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  time with Him. It's it's nearly impossible to
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  get to know people on a deeper level if we're not spending
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  time. And so that doesn't just stop
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  with, you know, our time with God.
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  And God wants us to spend time with others in community, like
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  you're saying to make an impact, but that requires us to spend
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  time, just like it requires us to spend time with God to
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  develop a deep, intimate relationship with Him.
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  So influence, like you said in your book, can be fruitful or
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  unfruitful. Could you share the effects we
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  need to recognize that can influence our lives?
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  I love how you covered your thinking and your mindset.
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  I mean that's like so key. Yes, you know, everything is
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  contagious, whether it's good or bad.
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  And mindsets are contagious. Attitudes are very contagious
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  and our words are contagious. When we begin to hang out with
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  negative people, we will have a negative mindset.
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  And out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth will speak.
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  So if we hear constant negativity, it goes into our
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  ears, goes down into our heart and begins to come back up out
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  of our mouth. And we've been influenced by our
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  negative environment. We've been influenced by people
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  that are constantly talking against God's word, against His
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  ways, whether it would be someone, someone that lives in
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  compromise on a consistent basis.
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  They say one thing, they say they love God, but their their
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  life and their lifestyle and their choices are completely
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  opposite of what the Word of God says.
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  It looks like to be a follower in a disciple of Jesus Christ
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  and to follow him in our actions and our words and people can
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  see. Jesus taught about fruit and
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  it's the evidence of someone's life.
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  A bad tree cannot produce good fruit and a good tree cannot
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  produce bad fruit. So you'll know you'll know them
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  by their fruits. That's what Jesus said so many
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  times. That is how influence is.
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  You can be influenced. See one thing about influence.
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  It can be very, very subtle. Sometimes you don't realize
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  you're being influenced until you see the effect.
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  You see the fruit on the tree. And that's what I mean by even
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  an attitude. Wow, why am I feeling so down?
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  Why am I feeling so discouraged? Why do I feel so even just
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  anxious or depressed? Well, let's first check our
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  environment. Where have we been recently?
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  What kind of atmosphere have we been in?
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  And then second, who have we been around?
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  Who have we given access to our mind and our heart?
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  And what are we filling ourselves with?
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  Are we filling ourselves with the news?
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  Are we filling ourselves with, you know, secular opinions of
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  whether it would be social media or whether it is reading,
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  reading books or music? Music is such a strong influence
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  in our lives because someone thinks, well, it's just a song,
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  it's no big deal. But melodies and rhythm sticks
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  in our brain, and actually our brain is like a computer.
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  Everything we put in it, it records and then it comes back
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  out some way in our words, in our actions or in our belief
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  system and our attitudes. So those are the things that we
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  can be influenced positively or negatively, but our input in is
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  the determining factor. And I just feel so strong that
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  if we want to come up higher in 2020 24 and we want to raise our
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  level of expectation of what God's going to do in our life,
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  we've got to check the influences and say, no longer am
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  I going to allow all of the the garbage and contamination to
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  come in and steal my destiny, steal my joy because I'm made
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  for more. God's called me to hire places
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  and he's anointed me for an assignment on this earth and to
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  live at a lower level. I will remain in that same place
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  unless I check the influences guard my heart above all else,
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  because out of it flows the issues of life.
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  And that's what the Lord speaking to us about 2024, He's
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  saying I've got so much more for you.
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  I've got such a greater level of influence that I want to pour
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  through you. I want to impact masses, amounts
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  of people, starting with you in your home and your family and
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  all that you come into contact with.
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  But you've got to guard your mind and your heart, your ears
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  and your eyes and your mouth through what you are in taking
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  on a daily basis. So good and so essential.
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  It's so important. It all starts with our thought,
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  life and our minds. And you know, our thoughts shape
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  our lives and we got to guard that and make sure that we are
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  feeding ourselves. Truth and not lies.
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  And so that brings us into when I was reading your book, I came
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  across Chapter 4, which is titled Who am I to influence
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  anyone? And I kid you now, I think for
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  me, for instance God assign me to this podcast and I think
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  whenever you're going into doing something for the Lord and
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  you're called to something there, you know at times the
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  enemy can attack us. And so I love that.
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  Your quote on page 62. Let me let me go into this and
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  read it real quick. It says Satan is tirelessly
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  wanting us to focus on our weaknesses and all the missing
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  pieces. So we will think we must not be
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  complete enough to be used by God to make an impact in our
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  sphere of influence. And that's exactly what the
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  enemy the devil was trying to do was to stop me in my tracks and
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  say, you know, who are you? What are what's so special about
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  you? I know we we get rid of the
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  enemy by, you know, speaking out scripture back and going into
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  prayer and all that. But what can we do as believers
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  to position ourselves to get His truth, to be leading us and not
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  give in to, you know, those worldly stigmas or those
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  insecurities that we can so easily buy into?
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  What? What wisdom could you impart on
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  us to just do the immediate knee jerk reaction of just going to
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  the Word? Yes, You know, it is a real
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  question and that's why it is a significant chapter in this book
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  because I wrestled with it. I understand.
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  And I really feel like that that is the number one goal of the
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  enemy is to stop us, stop us as godly women in our tracks so
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  that we will not make an impact for the Kingdom of God.
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  Because we get in our head and we begin to believe those lies
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  that we don't have what it takes.
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  We're not enough. We're not qualified, we're not
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  ready with, you know, someone else is better at it.
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  They're a better speaker. They're they're more gifted.
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  They've they've got better looks, they've got better
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  advantages. They know more people.
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  I mean, he will go down the list and just write, you know,
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  everything in the world to try to stop us.
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  However, I feel like the biggest key is to go back to the one who
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  made us Psalm 119, that we were formed in our mother's womb
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  before the foundation of the world.
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  He knew us, he knew the details of our life and he designed us,
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  and he planned us so on purpose and so intentionally.
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  And one thing I know about God, when you look at the the
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  universe and what he created with the sky and the birds and
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  the animals and the ocean and the trees and the mountains and
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  the beach, everything he created is so wonderful, so beautiful.
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  And our father does not create junk by me putting myself down,
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  by me diminishing my ability. I'm turning it back to Almighty
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  God and saying what you created was not good enough.
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  What you created in me was just not complete enough and not well
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  enough. And it's a slap in the face to
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  God to come back and say I'm not enough.
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  You're actually saying he's not enough because greater is he
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  that's in me than he that's in the world.
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  So if I don't get a vision and a right vision of myself, the
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  enemy will talk me out of doing anything that God has assigned
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  me and created me to do. Because I'm believing that over
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  what God said where he said in my word.
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  And we just talked about the word of God.
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  But here's my Bible, because it is your weapon.
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  It's your weapon of defense. It is written.
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  God says this about me. Shut up, devil.
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  I'm not going to believe it anymore.
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  And you have to get tough with the devil.
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  You got to say no more. I refuse to believe your lies.
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  I'm going to be unstoppable in 2024.
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  No scheme that you're going to throw at me is going to overtake
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  the truth of God's Word. And so you know what?
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  The practical thing is? I love to have people write a
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  list of all of the gifts that God has given you.
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  And this might look like sometimes we get stuck.
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  Oh no, I don't have very many gifts.
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  I don't. I can't even write this list.
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  But what I want us to do is the unique, simple things that he
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  has placed inside of us. So maybe it's something like for
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  me, I love horses, I love design, I love beauty, I love
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  clothes and fashion, I love gifts.
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  My love language is gifts. I love to give people gifts and
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  I love to pray and hear God say, why don't you buy them this and
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  why don't you write a nice card? And this is a significant gift.
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  The simple things that the beautiful details of life.
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  We often get so busy we just blow right past them.
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  And Satan's goal is to see all of our negatives or all of our
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  shortcomings or all of our downfalls.
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  Well, I just said we're wonderfully and beautifully made
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  by our father. So if we will focus on the good,
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  we'll write out a list of God, you you put this in me.
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  You designed me this way. one-of-a-kind.
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  So let's be unique. Let's be ourselves.
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  We don't need to be like somebody else.
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  I don't need to compare myself to someone else.
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  And that's where it comes from, these thoughts of comparison.
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  Someone's already doing it. They're already doing it.
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  Well, I don't know what I'm doing.
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  Be yourself. There's only one you.
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  You're one-of-a-kind, and God made you.
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  He is the master creator. He's the master designer.
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  And if he made you so unique and so specific, lean into that and
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  celebrate the gift of God inside of you.
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  Celebrate life and get out that list when the devil lies to you
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  and say look how he made me. He made me so specific that I
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  love to laugh. I love to celebrate friends.
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  I love to go have a latte with my friends and get into 4 hour
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  conversations. You know, whatever it is, you
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  are one-of-a-kind and there's no one on the earth like you and
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  you're irreplaceable. And once we get that branded
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  inside of us, we will be unstoppable.
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  And the devil cannot overtake us any longer.
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  It's amazing. So good, so good.
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  You know, I, the creature can't create.
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  The creator creates. And so I love your list that you
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  named in your book of who we are.
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  And it was just such a special thing to turn the page.
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  And you had a whole list. Like you were saying, put a list
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  together of your gifts. Like you put a list together of
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  who we are in Christ as believers.
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  And just, you know, even though you know it, you've heard it.
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  It's so good to remind yourself who you are.
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  The creator created you unique and special.
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  And we need those reminders. So I loved having that reminder
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  in your book. It was so good.
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  OK let's jump into living it out.
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  Who are we when no ones looking and people are looking to see
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  are are we the same as we are at home as we are in the public's
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  eye. And I love how you said in your
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  in your book you had a quote It said the world around us is
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  waiting on us to be the real deal.
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  And that's exactly. I had an encounter with somebody
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  at church and and she just kind of, you know, looked at me and
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  was like, I'm just gonna wait and see if you're the real deal.
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  And so I took that as OK. She's been hurt before.
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  Like she's had phony people who acted one way and she saw them
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  act the opposite. I took that and I was like, you
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  know, I will show her I am the real deal.
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  And that's with your actions and it's a genuine authentic of who
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  you are and are you. Are you being doers of the word
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  and not just being the hearer of the word.
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  People are watching us to see if you know what we say matches
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  with our actions. So what do we need for us to
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  allow God to make our hearts pure and genuine?
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  I think it's everything because authenticity is the key.
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  It Trump's everything. You know, people eventually find
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  out if we are real or we're not real, you know?
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  That girl asked you that. Probably, like you said, out of
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  hurt, but it will show itself. The inside always works its way
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  to the outside and people try to mask it.
• 29:26
  People try to hide it well for a season they can.
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  However, long term it starts to come up somewhere, it starts to
• 29:34
  erode like a volcano because whatever is inside of us is
• 29:39
  ruling and dictating whether we truly believe our true self.
• 29:45
  Our true beliefs dictate our whole life eventually, and
• 29:49
  people can only pretend so long. So, for example, I believe to be
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  a real influence in someone's life.
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  It starts with integrity. It starts with this genuine
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  relationship and authenticity with Jesus Christ.
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  And what my biggest and greatest example was my mom.
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  I write about my mom at the beginning of the book, and the
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  one thing I could say about her, she wasn't perfect.
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  She was pure. Perfection is not what it's
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  about. It's not that you never make a
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  mistake in front of your children or your spouse or your
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  friends or the people that you're leading.
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  It's that you are authentic to be humble, repent, and say, you
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  know what, I blew it. I'm so sorry.
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  Will you forgive me? And walking in this humility
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  before the Lord of I want to have an upright heart.
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  I want to do whatever I need to do to please the Lord and live
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  in righteousness. It's called training and
• 30:47
  righteousness. Because righteousness just
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  simply means right living and conforming to God's will.
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  Because He is, He is righteousness.
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  And so he's asking us for this higher level, this higher
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  standard that we would come up to and that means we hold
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  ourselves accountable with integrity.
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  So if I say something, I now have a a responsibility to back
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  it up with my actions and my words.
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  Now, is that challenging? Sometimes, of course, for all of
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  us it's challenging. But that's where we say, Lord,
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  teach me. Teach me how to walk in
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  integrity. Teach me how to walk in wisdom.
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  The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom.
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  So it goes back to this place of teach me the fear of the Lord.
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  Teach me how big you are and how great you are.
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  And I want to be so in love with you.
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  I want to have so much passion and zeal for you that I want to
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  do whatever I need to do to please you and to honor you.
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  My life is not my own. My life belongs to you.
• 31:52
  So it starts with surrender, a yieldedness of saying, Lord,
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  take my life and teach me integrity, teach me
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  authenticity, make me honest and true.
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  And even if you didn't have the example like I did with my mom,
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  there she was just so real that it gave me.
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  And I'm speaking this right now for all the moms that are
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  listening. But my mom gave me an example to
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  follow that I knew that I knew that I knew that God was real.
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  I had no doubt in my mind because I saw the reality in her
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  life, and that's what we want. That's the cry of our heart as a
• 32:29
  mom that our kids say, I want to be like my mom.
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  I want to be like her because she lived out the authentic life
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  of yeah, she she, she still had things, obstacles and things
• 32:42
  come against her. But she would.
• 32:44
  I would see her on her knees, praying, surrendering.
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  I would see her reading her Bible.
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  I would see her serving. I would see her loving.
• 32:51
  When it's hard to love, I would see her turning the other cheek.
• 32:54
  When someone hurts her, It's OK, We're going to love them
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  anyways. I saw the evidence, the fruit in
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  her life, and that's our prayer for our children and our friends
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  to see in our lives that we are walking with a true, authentic
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  relationship with God Almighty and that He is our leader.
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  We're following in alignment with His word and conformity to
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  His will, not because we're perfect, but because we're
• 33:19
  yielded and surrendered. So good, Diana.
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  And wow, what a wonderful mom you have and that influence that
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  you had from your mom. What a what a blessing to be
• 33:32
  able to speak about her and and the legacy that she left for all
• 33:37
  the generations to follow and so good and so right on with
• 33:42
  everything that you said. I I'm, I'm so inspired by you,
• 33:46
  the truth of God's word that just pours out of you for all of
• 33:51
  us to just get built up by what you're saying.
• 33:54
  And I love in your book that you talk about growth and I had
• 34:00
  recently heard this that there's no such thing as being stuck.
• 34:04
  Now I know you know Nancy Dufresne and I know we both love
• 34:09
  her teachings and she said, you know, there's no such thing as
• 34:13
  being stuck. You're either moving forward or
• 34:15
  you going backwards and that's exactly what you had stated in
• 34:19
  your in your book that we're either progressing forward or
• 34:22
  we're going backwards and coasting in life is not an
• 34:25
  option for those that want to make an impact in the world.
• 34:29
  And so how do we, what can you say that to like not just coast
• 34:34
  through life? Because I know I've done that
• 34:37
  and you know, you're just kind of going with the motions.
• 34:40
  It's so not fulfilling. It's you don't live, you don't
• 34:45
  feel like you're living out your full potential because you're
• 34:47
  not. So what?
• 34:49
  What do you suggest to get out of that autopilot?
• 34:52
  Yeah, Well, I know that if God wanted you to live on the earth
• 34:57
  at this time in this season, it's so significant that you're
• 35:01
  here because you could have been born at any time and you could
• 35:05
  have been born anywhere in the world.
• 35:06
  But he hand picked you for this generation.
• 35:09
  So therefore, if we rise up with this fire inside of us, that's
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  what the wildfire is all about, is that when we cultivate it
• 35:19
  inside of us, we live intentionally.
• 35:21
  We live on purpose. We're not just floating around
• 35:25
  from day today going wow, you know, I'm just swept away with
• 35:28
  the distractions of this world. That's what the enemy's plan for
• 35:32
  us is, is to live at a low level of living where we never live
• 35:36
  satisfied, we never live fulfilled and we don't do
• 35:40
  anything significant in our generation.
• 35:43
  But God's plan is that He hand picked you and He hand chose you
• 35:46
  for such a time as this, and he put his spirit inside of you and
• 35:51
  He empowered you to do wonderful things.
• 35:54
  The Book of Daniel says that those that know their God will
• 35:57
  do great exploits for the Kingdom.
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  So as we progress forward into 2024, my biggest example of this
• 36:06
  is, is that if you will put God first.
• 36:08
  I'm telling you, you've heard that before.
• 36:11
  Oh yeah, yeah, yeah. I make out a goals list or you
• 36:14
  know, New Year's resolution and it's spend time with God.
• 36:17
  We get that. But I'm serious.
• 36:20
  If you want 2024 to look different than 2023, you must
• 36:24
  reprioritize your life. And that means he's literally at
• 36:28
  the highest level of your affection, your attention and
• 36:33
  your energy and your passion. Because anything we give our
• 36:36
  time and attention to, it takes our passion.
• 36:40
  It begins like, why do we do things that we love?
• 36:42
  If you love cooking, or you love gardening, or you love shopping,
• 36:44
  or you love spending time with friends, it's real easy to do
• 36:48
  that. You just naturally do it.
• 36:50
  But well, if you cultivate this relationship with God, you
• 36:54
  naturally can't wait to spend time with him.
• 36:57
  So the key is, is you get into a routine, a daily discipline in
• 37:03
  the word of God. Now I have, I teach Bible study,
• 37:07
  I lead a lot of groups, I lead a lot of people, and most people
• 37:10
  are like, wow, that's so hard for me.
• 37:12
  I don't know what to do. I recommend getting a certain
• 37:16
  place that you want to meet with God.
• 37:17
  Every day. I have a chair.
• 37:19
  I sit in it. It's my prayer chair.
• 37:22
  I get my cup of coffee first thing in the morning.
• 37:24
  I get my Bible. I turn on some worship, some
• 37:27
  soft music, and every single day it is the first thing that I do.
• 37:32
  I meet with God. I rearrange my entire schedule.
• 37:36
  I cannot go anywhere or meet with anyone.
• 37:39
  I'm sorry. I have a more important
• 37:40
  appointment now. When you have little kids in the
• 37:43
  house, I totally get that. I had to set my alarm.
• 37:46
  I had to get up even 30 minutes earlier.
• 37:50
  But you will be amazed at when you give God that first fruit
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  that first time in the morning of 30 minutes with him.
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  And you know it doesn't have to be hours and hours.
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  I know we have schedules and we have calendars and lots to
• 38:03
  accomplish, but if we will put him first, get into his word,
• 38:07
  The only way that you're going to think different is renew your
• 38:11
  mind with the word of God. The mind is the battlefield and
• 38:14
  it is the only way that you have to think different.
• 38:18
  You've got to transform your thinking Romans 12/1.
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  And two, by the power of the word of God, so that you will
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  not be conformed to this world but be thinking the way that he
• 38:29
  thinks. Then you will know the perfect
• 38:31
  will of God for your life. So every day He speaks to you.
• 38:35
  Even if you feel like I don't know how to hear his voice, I'm
• 38:38
  not that great at hearing his voice.
• 38:40
  Get in His word. Turn on worship.
• 38:42
  Get your hot tea or your hot coffee, and just set a plan for
• 38:46
  the next week. Start small, I tell all of my
• 38:50
  people. Don't overwhelm yourself.
• 38:52
  Oh, the whole year? I can't do that.
• 38:54
  Well, all of us feel that way. But if you'll start with the
• 38:56
  next seven days, what can I do to move closer to God?
• 39:01
  Because the Book of James tells us when we draw close to God
• 39:05
  that he will draw close to us. So we stand on that promise of
• 39:09
  if I will do my part, then God will do his part, and I'm going
• 39:14
  to make a motion towards him and I'm going to put in first place
• 39:16
  in my life. And he will astound you.
• 39:20
  He'll show up in significant ways.
• 39:22
  You're going to be filled with peace.
• 39:24
  You're going to be filled with joy.
• 39:26
  You're going to have the wisdom of the Lord to go about your
• 39:28
  day, to be a mom, to be a business owner, which we both
• 39:32
  are, to to be an influence on your children, on your friends,
• 39:36
  on your community. And so that's one thing.
• 39:39
  And the one other thing I really have to mention that's so vital
• 39:42
  for this topic is you've got to pick the right community.
• 39:47
  And literally, I call it fan the flame, Fan the fire.
• 39:51
  If you've got to fan that flame inside of you, and that comes
• 39:55
  from being around people that have the fire.
• 39:59
  And if you don't have someone, you just need even one other
• 40:02
  person that you see fire in and say to him, hey, can we meet for
• 40:06
  coffee, Hey, could I have a phone call with you?
• 40:08
  Hey, you know, And for a long time when I didn't have that, I
• 40:11
  would listen to podcasts like this.
• 40:13
  Jamie, I was so hungry for more. I would start filling my mind
• 40:18
  with a fiery preacher with someone.
• 40:20
  They became my mentors. They became the people that I
• 40:23
  learned from. And then I gathered my own
• 40:27
  tribe, and I begin to say, let's fan the flame together.
• 40:30
  And every Wednesday, we meet my house every Wednesday.
• 40:34
  And you know, some days you feel like it, some days you don't.
• 40:37
  You show up to go up. You really do.
• 40:40
  You just show up to community. And you're in the right
• 40:43
  atmosphere. And that influence will rub off
• 40:46
  on you where before you know it, you're on fire for God like
• 40:49
  you've never been before. So good.
• 40:51
  Well, you're rubbing off on me and you always have.
• 40:54
  And I, you know, we we love being around other people who
• 40:58
  have that fire and it's contagious like you're saying.
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  And you know, I walked into this year with I think it's Matthew
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  633. Seek ye first the Kingdom of God
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  and everything else will be added unto you.
• 41:15
  And it's like put him first. I love how you were saying.
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  That's essential. And you know, the enemy will try
• 41:23
  to get at us like, you know, oh, that's not enough time to spend
• 41:27
  with the Lord. And then people just end up
• 41:29
  throwing in the towel because, you know, it's that all or
• 41:32
  nothing mentality. But no, it's not.
• 41:35
  Just give him your first fruits. It's your first minutes of your
• 41:39
  day, and I love how you said about Littles I woke up before
• 41:45
  they woke up. That was a sacrifice.
• 41:47
  But you know what? God gave me supernatural energy
• 41:51
  and strength throughout the day. You think in your mind, oh, I'm
• 41:54
  going to be tired if I get up at 5:00 in the morning or six in
• 41:58
  the morning before the kids do. But you don't, because God gives
• 42:02
  you supplies. Everything you need because you
• 42:05
  put him first. Love everything you said.
• 42:09
  Diana and I love concluding with a take away.
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  I mean, it just sounds like you've had all these takeaways
• 42:18
  here. It's just been so on fire.
• 42:21
  But I would love for you to share what you had in mind to
• 42:25
  leave with the listener, to ponder on or take action in.
• 42:29
  Wow. I just have loved this time with
• 42:31
  you because you encourage me and I love your voice.
• 42:35
  I want to talk about the voice for a minute.
• 42:38
  A take away that I want the listeners to know.
• 42:41
  And I want you to know that your voice matters so much.
• 42:45
  It matters so much that out of all of the universe that God
• 42:50
  created everything that he designed, He designed our
• 42:53
  voices. One-of-a-kind.
• 42:56
  Nobody in the entire world has your exact voice.
• 43:00
  It's one-of-a-kind so unique that it's the highest technology
• 43:05
  to get into the secret places. For Secret Service, it's voice
• 43:09
  recognition where somebody could recognize your voice in another
• 43:14
  part of the world and go, that's Jamie's voice.
• 43:17
  And so when the enemy tries to lie to us and he tells us that
• 43:20
  we can't have a life of impact or what we do doesn't matter or
• 43:24
  we're just little old me or I, you know, I don't have anything
• 43:27
  to give away or I'm just unqualified or I don't know
• 43:30
  enough people or I'm not significant enough.
• 43:33
  I want you to come back to that moment of God gave me a voice
• 43:37
  and he places inside of me to give him glory, to honor him and
• 43:42
  just share the truth of what Jesus has done in my life.
• 43:45
  It's so simple to be a living testimony, to be a living
• 43:49
  epistle for all men to read. You don't have to go to a
• 43:53
  seminary. You don't have to know all the
• 43:55
  facts and figures of the Bible or let the devil try to take
• 43:58
  away from you that you don't know enough.
• 44:00
  You know the living Savior, the King of Kings and the Lord of
• 44:04
  Lords. And when you know him and he is
• 44:06
  living inside of you, it's like a stick of dynamite that goes
• 44:10
  off inside of you. When you begin to share what he
• 44:13
  has done for you, how he set you free, how he lift you out of a
• 44:17
  pit of depression or at a pit of despair, and he set your feet on
• 44:22
  solid ground. He gave you a reason to live and
• 44:25
  a reason to have a song, a new song, in your mouth and to
• 44:28
  praise him and to glorify him. And when we look at our lives
• 44:31
  and we see the mercy of God and the grace of God, that we get to
• 44:35
  have the next breath, that we get to Live Today, that we get
• 44:39
  to make an impact in in our generation.
• 44:42
  Then we we live totally different, with a different
• 44:45
  mindset. And we begin to celebrate life
• 44:49
  and the gift of God, of what he's given us.
• 44:51
  And we will not keep it to ourselves.
• 44:54
  We begin to share it. And it only takes one person for
• 44:57
  you to influence. What about that one child in
• 45:00
  your home or that husband that all the sudden got a new new way
• 45:06
  to see life. He got life again.
• 45:08
  And I told my husband for years and years, he is a great man of
• 45:12
  God and he is a professional engineer.
• 45:14
  He's got a lot of background in engineering.
• 45:16
  He's a consultant. But I told him, Kevin, you're
• 45:20
  made for more. God has more than he wants to do
• 45:23
  in your life. It's not limited to this one
• 45:26
  area of your brilliance in engineering.
• 45:30
  He wants to use your life to speak life into men, to speak
• 45:33
  life into our children, to speak life into me and all the people
• 45:37
  around you. He wants to raise you up to be a
• 45:39
  a powerful leader in a man of God.
• 45:42
  And for we've been married 27 years, but for years and years I
• 45:45
  said this to him until he started to go.
• 45:48
  You're right. You're right.
• 45:51
  I am made for more. I can do more.
• 45:53
  And I feel like that fire inside of us is it's so contagious.
• 45:57
  When we speak life over others, when we begin to speak the life
• 46:01
  of God that he's put inside of us.
• 46:03
  I mean, literally, there is so much that God wants to do in US
• 46:08
  and through us. That's Ephesians 320 that he
• 46:12
  will do exceedingly. He's able to do exceedingly more
• 46:17
  abundantly, more than we can ask, think, dream or imagine,
• 46:21
  according to his power in US, and then threw us to others.
• 46:26
  What if there were people in your neighborhood?
• 46:30
  What if there were people at your work?
• 46:32
  What if there were people at the PTA?
• 46:35
  Or the soccer. The soccer field, or the
• 46:38
  football team. All these places that you go on
• 46:41
  a regular basis that are waiting for you and your voice for you
• 46:45
  to use your voice for the Kingdom of God, to influence
• 46:49
  them, to come to know Him as their Lord and Savior.
• 46:52
  And on that final day when they stand before the Lord Jesus,
• 46:55
  they get to say well done. The Lord says in a well done,
• 46:59
  good and faithful servant, come in and they get to spend
• 47:02
  eternity in heaven. Because you chose to use your
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  voice. You chose to share the gospel.
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  You chose to to love them. You chose to share what God has
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  done in your life, the power of your testimony.
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  We overcome the enemy with the blood of the Lamb and the word
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  of our testimony. It's just that simple that when
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  we get on fire and we use our voice for His glory.
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  And there is unlimited, unlimited what God is going to
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  do through US in 2024. So that's what I want to say is
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  people rise up and recognize the gift that He has given you.
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  Amen. Amen.
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  I know our voice. I mean, we do not know what our
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  voice will do. I mean, it's you could change
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  the whole trajectory of a person's life.
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  And I know you have lots of stories in your book about that.
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  And oh, Diana, I'm just so encouraged.
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  I know everybody else is feeling this fire, Holy Spirit fire.
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  And your book being called Wildfire.
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  It's exactly it. And where can people purchase
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  this amazing book and all the words that you have pinned on
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  these pages? It's incredible.
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  With God's truth and wisdom. Absolutely love it.
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  Where can they purchase this book?
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  Thank you so much friend and it's such a joy to share with
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  you. They can purchase it on
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  Amazon.com. We can add a link whatever we
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  need. Also Diana Day burks.com for you
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  know information about me or speaking.
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  I also have a ministry that we do amazing events for
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  generations and that is called God Girls greatness.com and I
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  love generational ministry because my mom had such an
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  influence in my life. Then I picked up that same
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  mantle because my mom is now in heaven rejoicing and celebrating
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  with Jesus. But I picked up her mantle and I
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  said yes, Lord, I will be an influence to my generation into
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  the next generation. And so the ministry is really
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  about 3 generations, grandmother, mother and daughter
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  coming together, linking arms and empowering the next
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  generation to rise up in their identity, their worth and their
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  value in Jesus Christ alone. That they can be an impact in
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  their generation and that God has an assignment specific with
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  their name on it. So if you would like to come to
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  events, we're going to have events this spring.
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  We've got multiple events happening, and Jamie has been a
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  part of them. Jamie's going to be even a more
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  significant part of them in the future.
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  But I just am so honored that you had me on today and is such
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  a blessing to share with you. I love your spirit.
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  Love your heart. Right back at you, Diana.
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  I just want to say you are the real deal.
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  You are the real deal. And I truly love your spirit.
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  I love your joy, I love your passion and I love your
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  obedience. You are a bright shining light.
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  And it was such an honor. Thank you so much and I love you
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  dearly. You're a jewel.
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  Oh, thank you, Diana. I love you, my friend.
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  Thank you so much for listening today.
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  And I trust that God has encouraged you through this
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  story. Did you know this podcast is on
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  YouTube? Hop on there and subscribe and
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  you can see a live recording of each episode.
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  And For more information on this ministry and to access free
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  downloads, please visit my website at jamieelizabeth.com.
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  That's JAYME elizabeth.com. And let's connect beyond this
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  podcast by going to my Instagram handle.
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  Jamie Elizabeth, She Speaks Life or Facebook?
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  Until next time, my friend, I hope God reveals himself through
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  your own life story.