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How Do I Know If Someone is a Lesson or a Lifelong Partner? · Intuitive Coaching with Amy Radio

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  Speaker 1: Hi, it's Amy with Intuitive Coaching with Amy Radio, and
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  Speaker 1: this is your sacred space for spirituality, intuition, manifestation, and
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  Speaker 1: metaphysical wisdom. So the question is, how do I know
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  Speaker 1: if someone is a lesson or a lifelong partner. Well,
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  Speaker 1: let's talk relationship, because I don't want to make anybody
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  Speaker 1: a villain. Even as I talk to you a lot
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  Speaker 1: about moving away from difficult people in situations, I never
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  Speaker 1: want to villainize someone, though they might be a villain
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  Speaker 1: in your story. But I don't think we can place
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  Speaker 1: all the blame on the other person, right. We all
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  Speaker 1: play a part in relationships, So let's look at this
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  Speaker 1: question from a place of relationship. So people come in
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  Speaker 1: our lives for a reason and a season or a lifetime,
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  Speaker 1: and you can't really force either way. You just have
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  Speaker 1: to recognize what a relationship is doing in your life
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  Speaker 1: and what it's bringing to the forefront. So I would
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  Speaker 1: say the difference between a lesson relationship and a lifetime
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  Speaker 1: relationship is not perfection, but how it makes you feel
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  Speaker 1: and how it feels. So a lesson relationship is probably
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  Speaker 1: chaotic and dramatic and confusing and addictive and unstable, whereas
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  Speaker 1: a healthy long term partnership feels centering and mutual and
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  Speaker 1: peaceful and sustainable. And so instead of looking at a
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  Speaker 1: situation and saying I'm going to ignore how I feel
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  Speaker 1: on a day to day and I'm just going to
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  Speaker 1: focus on is this supposed to be forever? I want
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  Speaker 1: you to ask yourself, what is this relationship here to
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  Speaker 1: teach me? And who who do I want to be?
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  Speaker 1: Who do I want to be in this lifetime? And
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  Speaker 1: is this relationship supporting that? And so know that the
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  Speaker 1: right relationship will never cause you to abandon yourself, to
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  Speaker 1: leave a part of yourself at the door, in the
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  Speaker 1: name of being connected to another human being. Because I've
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  Speaker 1: said many times on this program, there are billions of
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  Speaker 1: people on this planet and you can definitely connect with
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  Speaker 1: someone and have a very peaceful, loving, staple soet sustainable relationship,
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  Speaker 1: and that is a choice. Sure, maybe initially we can
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  Speaker 1: fall into certain relationships, but even that falling in is
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  Speaker 1: an opportunity to learn, to grow and to expand into
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  Speaker 1: the person we're meant to be. So my thought is,
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  Speaker 1: learn the lesson, move on. I will always say that,
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  Speaker 1: learn the lesson, move on, because there is there is
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  Speaker 1: this life that we've been given and it's just not
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  Speaker 1: where feeling shitty because you're in a relationship with a
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  Speaker 1: person that's not the right fit for you and you're
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  Speaker 1: not the right fit for them. I do believe that
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  Speaker 1: when it comes to romantic relationship, it's supposed to be good,
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  Speaker 1: and it's supposed to feel good on a day to
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  Speaker 1: day And I don't think you need to cling to
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  Speaker 1: somebody because you're afraid of what it means to let
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  Speaker 1: it go or being temporarily alone. Because if you truly
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  Speaker 1: believe that it is a calling on your life to
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  Speaker 1: be in relationship, romantic relationship specifically, then that is your purpose.
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  Speaker 1: You got to do that right, and you don't have
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  Speaker 1: to do it in a way in which it feels bad, ever,
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  Speaker 1: And so see it as an opportunity to learn to grow,
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  Speaker 1: to expand, and then choose consciously what you actually want
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  Speaker 1: and don't place any judgments on if a relationship ends, Oh,
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  Speaker 1: this must mean I'm not good with relationships. No, it
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  Speaker 1: might mean that you've got to refine your picker, which
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  Speaker 1: is the way you pick people, and you might need
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  Speaker 1: to shift some energy within you so you can be
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  Speaker 1: more of a magnet to the relationship you want. But
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  Speaker 1: that's I think that's part of the journey, and that's
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  Speaker 1: a part of the fun and it's definitely the part
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  Speaker 1: of the work that we would do together. So yeah,
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  Speaker 1: that's my thought on that. Stop thinking about relationships are
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  Speaker 1: more valuable if you're with someone for a long period
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  Speaker 1: of time. No, No, it doesn't need to be like that. Listen.
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  Speaker 1: you so much for listening to this show. I look
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  Speaker 1: forward to connecting with you on the next Take care
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  Speaker 1: of yourself. Goodbye.