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204 | Gains Over Gaps: Shifting Your Mindset in ACL Rehab · The ACL Athlete Podcast

• 0:18
  SPEAKER_00: Welcome everyone to the ACL Athlete Podcast.
• 0:22
  SPEAKER_00: This is the podcast where we talk about everything related to the ACL, whether that's the injury itself, the rehab process, return to sport, and more.
• 0:31
  SPEAKER_00: I'm your host, Dr.
• 0:32
  SPEAKER_00: Ravi Patel, performance physical therapist and coach.
• 0:36
  SPEAKER_00: Between myself and fellow guests and experts, you'll learn through the lens of the patient, the healthcare professional, and the coach.
• 0:43
  SPEAKER_00: The goal of this podcast is to equip you, the athlete, with the education to make the best informed decision about your care and your ACL journey.
• 0:54
  SPEAKER_00: Thanks for joining.
• 0:55
  SPEAKER_00: Now let's dive into today's episode.
• 1:00
  SPEAKER_00: What's up, team?
• 1:02
  SPEAKER_00: We are rounding out 2024.
• 1:05
  SPEAKER_00: This will be the last podcast episode that is released.
• 1:09
  SPEAKER_00: And as the new year approaches, the end of the year approaches, we're going to do a little bit of a mindset episode.
• 1:17
  SPEAKER_00: And as you guys know, I love to really round things out, looking back on things, and then being able to set some intentions for the new year.
• 1:26
  SPEAKER_00: Now, some of you listening, you might be listening to this when it's not the end of the year or the beginning of the year.
• 1:32
  SPEAKER_00: And that's okay because it's still gonna apply.
• 1:35
  SPEAKER_00: But with that said, for those of you who are in this period at the end of 2024, let's dig into it because I think this will be a really good one to really just look back at things and really be able to set our sights for this new year coming up.
• 1:51
  SPEAKER_00: Now I'm gonna kickstart this with a story.
• 1:54
  SPEAKER_00: I had one of my youth ACLers, youth athletes, cry in our session this past week.
• 2:01
  SPEAKER_00: Now, before you're like, Robbie, what'd you do?
• 2:05
  SPEAKER_00: The thing that happened here was she's only a few weeks post op and she'd been struggling with some extension.
• 2:13
  SPEAKER_00: As I'm sure a lot of you ACLers, you know, some of you get your extension back quick, and then some of you, it takes a minute, right?
• 2:20
  SPEAKER_00: And you know, if you have a PT who is in this process and with you, they're like, let's get that extension, right?
• 2:26
  SPEAKER_00: And some of that could be in your control, some of it honestly, is the body, the graph type, the the knee kind of responding to the post op process.
• 2:37
  SPEAKER_00: And so you're really getting after it, and it can be a lot, right?
• 2:41
  SPEAKER_00: And some of that's out of your control.
• 2:43
  SPEAKER_00: Now, with that said, we worked hard in this session and also joked around.
• 2:47
  SPEAKER_00: Like it's important not to only work hard, but play hard too.
• 2:50
  SPEAKER_00: And so I want to make sure I'm connecting with my athletes, having a good time.
• 2:54
  SPEAKER_00: And again, she's early post-op, so still a little bit more of a sensitive stage.
• 2:59
  SPEAKER_00: And when I say youth athlete, this athlete is also 14 years old.
• 3:04
  SPEAKER_00: And so at the end of this session, I told her what changes we were going to make to the upcoming program after some of the stuff we had looked at and worked on.
• 3:12
  SPEAKER_00: And then she had jokingly said something about, oh, and then what about my downtime when I get to do X, Y, and Z?
• 3:19
  SPEAKER_00: And then she kind of looked away and exhaled, and it just kind of started tearing up.
• 3:24
  SPEAKER_00: And what this was was the culmination of what feels like months and months of a scary process.
• 3:31
  SPEAKER_00: In reality, it was just a few weeks, but it feels like a long time, especially when you're in the throes of it day in and day out, especially to a 14-year-old female athlete.
• 3:41
  SPEAKER_00: But honestly, it doesn't matter age or gender, who you are, like this is a lot.
• 3:45
  SPEAKER_00: And I know a lot of you in this process can really relate to this.
• 3:50
  SPEAKER_00: I know I relate to it.
• 3:52
  SPEAKER_00: I remember in those first weeks, those first months, right?
• 3:55
  SPEAKER_00: Like, especially early post-op, you're just kind of like, man, it feels like a grind, you're nonstop, and you're also kind of dealing with this ongoing like anxiety, fluctuations, and feelings of like fear.
• 4:07
  SPEAKER_00: Um, you're also just kind of trying to build, and especially if it's not going as smooth as you expected, right?
• 4:13
  SPEAKER_00: And everyone's like, oh, cool, yeah, post-op, I'll get through it.
• 4:16
  SPEAKER_00: It's your first major surgery, usually, which it is for this athlete.
• 4:20
  SPEAKER_00: And not to mention how much it's impacting her life from school to being able to hang out with her friends, like she would walk home and to school with friends.
• 4:29
  SPEAKER_00: She can't do that right now.
• 4:30
  SPEAKER_00: And so you kind of think about all the stuff and all the things that she's doing, and it just makes sense, right?
• 4:37
  SPEAKER_00: And so it has been a lot for this athlete.
• 4:40
  SPEAKER_00: Nonstop work, some of those fears of the ACL injury, that surgery, getting some tricky extension right now, and she's been working really freaking hard.
• 4:48
  SPEAKER_00: You combine that with life, right?
• 4:51
  SPEAKER_00: School, homework, rehab, and honestly, just getting a freaking minute, it's a lot, right?
• 4:57
  SPEAKER_00: That's the big thing here.
• 4:58
  SPEAKER_00: It's like just kind of needing a break, if you will, or just feeling like you're constantly on this grind, you've got the energy for it, but then maybe the progress doesn't necessarily align with how much work you're putting in.
• 5:10
  SPEAKER_00: And I know some of you, even with flexion, right?
• 5:13
  SPEAKER_00: You're like, man, I'm really pushing flexion, working on it hours and hours a day.
• 5:17
  SPEAKER_00: And it sometimes doesn't seem to budge, or when it does, it just kind of regresses back and it can be frustrating, right?
• 5:23
  SPEAKER_00: And so instead of focusing hard on the next thing, we really celebrate her progress in this session and since the last time we met.
• 5:33
  SPEAKER_00: And that was the big focus for me coming into this session, making sure that we set that intention.
• 5:38
  SPEAKER_00: And while, yeah, there was at the end some, you know, emotion around this, like that's the thing is like it just kind of culminates, right?
• 5:48
  SPEAKER_00: And then we make sure we circled back to like, you know, this is how it looked before, and like look at what it looks like now.
• 5:55
  SPEAKER_00: And so we were really trying to focus on instead of like, all right, cool, let's get this heel pop and extension.
• 6:00
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, that's the goal.
• 6:01
  SPEAKER_00: And she knows that.
• 6:02
  SPEAKER_00: So I didn't belabor the point in this session.
• 6:05
  SPEAKER_00: So my goal was making sure, hey, like, let's continue to kind of work on these things.
• 6:09
  SPEAKER_00: Here's where we can find some really productive movement, and let's really celebrate how far you've come since the last time I saw you.
• 6:18
  SPEAKER_00: The gain, if you will, not the gap, which is the main focus for this episode.
• 6:24
  SPEAKER_00: ACL rehab honestly can feel nonstop in this process, as I shared earlier.
• 6:30
  SPEAKER_00: And it's always the next thing, and then the next thing, and then the next thing, the moving goalpost, if you will.
• 6:36
  SPEAKER_00: And this is a personal struggle I have.
• 6:38
  SPEAKER_00: I'm always looking to the next thing.
• 6:39
  SPEAKER_00: And so that's great whenever you're trying to grow something or get towards something, but then sometimes you can almost lose sight of the process or how far you have come.
• 6:48
  SPEAKER_00: And I know any of my ACLers know exactly what I'm talking about.
• 6:52
  SPEAKER_00: You're aiming for extension, you're aiming for flexion to get a full bike revolution, to get off your crutches, to drive, to get down your stairs without feeling like you're gonna fall down or that your knee is gonna give out, or that you have to hold on for dear life, um, to jump, to run, and it keeps on going.
• 7:08
  SPEAKER_00: It's the next goalpost, or it is the next gap, if you will, between where you are and where you want to be.
• 7:16
  SPEAKER_00: It's focused on that, right?
• 7:18
  SPEAKER_00: And that's how we kind of look at life as human beings, where you are and where you want to be.
• 7:24
  SPEAKER_00: I want to focus on the gain rather than the gap in this episode.
• 7:28
  SPEAKER_00: I talked about this concept before, but as we're nearing the end of this year, or as I said, if you're listening at some other point in time, honestly, this is still very applicable.
• 7:39
  SPEAKER_00: And this all comes from this idea and this book, The Gap in the Gain, by Dan Sullivan and Dr.
• 7:46
  SPEAKER_00: Benjamin Hardy.
• 7:47
  SPEAKER_00: It's a great book.
• 7:49
  SPEAKER_00: And really what they talk about is that gap mindset and a gain mindset.
• 7:53
  SPEAKER_00: And so for the gap mindset, it's focusing on what's missing or what hasn't been achieved yet can lead to this feeling of being dissatisfied and these negative emotions, if you will.
• 8:06
  SPEAKER_00: Comparison can kind of sneak in, seeing where people are ahead of you and then where you are.
• 8:12
  SPEAKER_00: Versus there's the gain mindset, focusing on the progress made and your wins so far.
• 8:19
  SPEAKER_00: It provides this feeling of gratitude, feeling positive, and you get a little bit more fulfillment out of this perspective and looking through this lens.
• 8:29
  SPEAKER_00: Growth comes by reflecting on how far you've come versus how far you have left to go.
• 8:37
  SPEAKER_00: This is huge in ACL rehab, y'all.
• 8:40
  SPEAKER_00: We can get really bogged down by the next thing or the gap, if you will.
• 8:44
  SPEAKER_00: Sometimes we just need to take a second and appreciate the gain or the wins.
• 8:50
  SPEAKER_00: Whether it's a small win, it could be a big win, it could be a big milestone, it could literally just be showing up, right?
• 8:57
  SPEAKER_00: And I talk about this a lot, but this is something that we really need to look at and be able to revisit often.
• 9:05
  SPEAKER_00: And this book talks about measuring backwards.
• 9:08
  SPEAKER_00: Success should be measured by comparing current achievements to where you started, not against this kind of ever-evolving ideal, right?
• 9:18
  SPEAKER_00: This moving target.
• 9:20
  SPEAKER_00: And that's the thing that we're always after in ACL rehab is like, all right, there's this moving target or goalpost that we're constantly achieving or trying to achieve.
• 9:30
  SPEAKER_00: And this is where we want to almost kind of measure it backwards instead of measuring forwards because we're always going to feel like there is that gap or we're not attaining what we need to, versus being able to look backwards and be like, all right, cool.
• 9:44
  SPEAKER_00: This is where I was and this is where I am now, and looking at the growth and the achievement in that.
• 9:50
  SPEAKER_00: And there's gratitude in this gain mindset that helps to fuel and reframe certain challenges along the way, focusing on the progress.
• 10:00
  SPEAKER_00: And that's really big here in ACL rehab, and especially as we are kind of setting our sides forward.
• 10:08
  SPEAKER_00: And now don't get me wrong, there is value in looking at that stuff.
• 10:13
  SPEAKER_00: Like we want to make sure we are aiming towards things.
• 10:16
  SPEAKER_00: But I think when we're constantly in this mindset and in this state of like the next thing, the next thing, the next thing, you're always feeling like there's a gap.
• 10:25
  SPEAKER_00: It makes it hard to honestly be happy in the moment or in the process.
• 10:31
  SPEAKER_00: And you almost feel like, all right, I need to get to this point in order for me to feel happy or to be able to feel content.
• 10:39
  SPEAKER_00: But in reality, when we get there, it's the next thing, right?
• 10:43
  SPEAKER_00: And this is just human logic in a weird way and the way that we are programmed.
• 10:48
  SPEAKER_00: But in reality, what I want us to do is take a step back, especially as you're going through ACL rehab and be able to look backwards.
• 10:54
  SPEAKER_00: And so, from a practical application standpoint, regularly reflecting on your past wins, achievements, milestones that you've hit, journaling about these gains that you make each day or each week.
• 11:08
  SPEAKER_00: And for us, this is celebrating those wins, writing these down, even if it's like a simple note in your phone.
• 11:15
  SPEAKER_00: I'll tell my athletes to literally have a note in your phone ongoing, or maybe you set a reminder at the end of the day, or maybe the next morning at the end of the week, whatever your cadence might be, to kind of keep that momentum going, because this process is long and is hard.
• 11:33
  SPEAKER_00: And whoever tells you different is honestly not living it, or they are an anomaly because we know that it is those things of long and hard.
• 11:44
  SPEAKER_00: And so the thing is, is when we first start this process, there are gains quickly from the range of motion pieces.
• 11:52
  SPEAKER_00: And this isn't everyone, but most people, you know, you'll start making progress on range of motion, your flexion, your extension, pain goes down, swelling goes down, you get off your crutches, you know, your life starts to get back to normalcy a little bit, and it's that honeymoon phase that I talk about where you know you're starting to see all these different progression milestones.
• 12:13
  SPEAKER_00: And then it kind of hits this phase where you might not hit it as much.
• 12:17
  SPEAKER_00: You almost feel like maybe you go a month, maybe a month and a half, and you don't see that noticeable progress.
• 12:23
  SPEAKER_00: You might make a little bit more weight on some sort of movement, or you're able to kind of do things a little smoother, but it's less objective and it's less your ability to notice your day-to-day life changing.
• 12:37
  SPEAKER_00: And so then, therefore, that's where some of this stuff can really come in because especially when you hit a setback or when progress isn't as you know noticeable, it's good to be able to look back at these things and continue to keep the thing going.
• 12:53
  SPEAKER_00: And so this is where you focus on where you've come versus that moving goalpost, the gap, if you will, the constantly striving for more, getting more fulfillment in this way, and building confidence via your own self-image, right?
• 13:08
  SPEAKER_00: Finding happiness and peace now with where you are versus kind of feeling this anxious, constantly stressful pursuit of not enough.
• 13:17
  SPEAKER_00: And this is huge in ACL rehab in life.
• 13:20
  SPEAKER_00: Honestly, I'm more guilty of this, as I mentioned earlier than anyone.
• 13:24
  SPEAKER_00: I can always be on to that next thing, treating milestones for myself as you know, quote unquote expected behavior.
• 13:30
  SPEAKER_00: And my wife gets on me about this, and I'm trying to be better about it as I want to practice what I preach because of how much I know is important for my athletes.
• 13:40
  SPEAKER_00: Now having a son, it's important for me to also share with him like, hey, like you need to be able to look back and be able to, you know, appreciate the things that you've accomplished and not think about the next thing all the time.
• 13:52
  SPEAKER_00: And just like with the 14-year-old athlete who started crying as we were nearing the end of the session, we really turned that around by really talking about the gain.
• 14:03
  SPEAKER_00: And we didn't focus on the gap.
• 14:04
  SPEAKER_00: We weren't like, all right, you need to hit this extension.
• 14:07
  SPEAKER_00: This is what is missing.
• 14:09
  SPEAKER_00: We talked about really the gain.
• 14:11
  SPEAKER_00: We talked about the last time I saw her till now and the work that she's put in, and she's been putting in work, y'all.
• 14:17
  SPEAKER_00: And we were able to really turn that feeling around and be able to leave the session on a super positive note, laughing.
• 14:24
  SPEAKER_00: And it was just one of those exhales that you kind of feel where you kind of need it when you're just going full speed, working towards something.
• 14:32
  SPEAKER_00: It's not progressing like you expected, but hey, maybe there's some movement, it's those 1% gains, and that is what we focused on.
• 14:39
  SPEAKER_00: So as we round out this year, take a second to reflect on your gain.
• 14:45
  SPEAKER_00: We're so quick to move towards goals, New Year's resolutions, the next thing.
• 14:51
  SPEAKER_00: But I want you to take a second, even if you're one day post-op in this process or post-injury.
• 14:57
  SPEAKER_00: But if you have been through this process, give yourself a second and reflect on the past year or the past journey of this process and be able to reflect on the gain.
• 15:08
  SPEAKER_00: Write it down and list out these things, recognize all those wins and how far you've come.
• 15:13
  SPEAKER_00: Sure, there are goals ahead, but for right now, let's give this some space to be because that's important.
• 15:20
  SPEAKER_00: Don't rush towards the goals just yet.
• 15:23
  SPEAKER_00: Because oftentimes when we reflect and look at that gain, it helps to really put in some momentum.
• 15:28
  SPEAKER_00: So provide some space, set a timer, do whatever it is, and just be like, all right, cool.
• 15:33
  SPEAKER_00: I'm looking at gain mode, gain lens, my reflection mode, and that's what my focus is going to be for this minute.
• 15:41
  SPEAKER_00: And then be like, hell yeah, I did that.
• 15:44
  SPEAKER_00: Literally say that and be proud of it because you should be, because this is really freaking hard work, and every degree and every rep matters.
• 15:53
  SPEAKER_00: You're doing it and you deserve to celebrate it.
• 15:56
  SPEAKER_00: I know this is seems cheesy, and some of you might think that, but in all honesty, like we need as much encouragement in this world, we needed as much encouragement in this process, and this is something that you can just do to just even take a few minutes just to be like, all right, cool, I did that.
• 16:13
  SPEAKER_00: I'm able to get my full extension, I'm able to get my flexion.
• 16:17
  SPEAKER_00: I'm able to go on a walk with my friends to school now.
• 16:20
  SPEAKER_00: I'm able to get in the car so I can go travel, go and see friends, be able to see some family.
• 16:27
  SPEAKER_00: I can pick up my kid again.
• 16:29
  SPEAKER_00: Like, you know, all these things that are in life that we take for granted and this ACL rehab process temporarily takes away from you.
• 16:36
  SPEAKER_00: You're like, I'm back there.
• 16:38
  SPEAKER_00: I'm I'm me again.
• 16:39
  SPEAKER_00: But then there's more to gain, of course.
• 16:41
  SPEAKER_00: But with that said, we want to look at what so far has been gained, and that's what the focus is here.
• 16:47
  SPEAKER_00: And you're doing it and you deserve to celebrate it.
• 16:50
  SPEAKER_00: I appreciate y'all so much.
• 16:52
  SPEAKER_00: We have had such an incredible 2024.
• 16:54
  SPEAKER_00: For me, it has been wild, the busiest year of my entire life with having our son running a business and growing this business and just continuing to put everything I can into this.
• 17:07
  SPEAKER_00: And so thank you all for the support.
• 17:10
  SPEAKER_00: Before you jump into this new year or the next thing, appreciate the gain.
• 17:15
  SPEAKER_00: I'm gonna do that.
• 17:17
  SPEAKER_00: I love this time of year, and I'm gonna really try to focus on settling in and appreciating this gain.
• 17:22
  SPEAKER_00: So I'm gonna set time aside for this to reflect, look at my gains, look at the gains of our team, look at the gains of what this community has done.
• 17:32
  SPEAKER_00: And that's how we can really fall in love with the process and be happy with where we are versus always striving for the product or the next thing.
• 17:41
  SPEAKER_00: Thank you guys.
• 17:42
  SPEAKER_00: And if you have any type of reflection and you want to share with us, please send me a message.
• 17:49
  SPEAKER_00: You can send me via Instagram, ravipatel.dpt.
• 17:53
  SPEAKER_00: You can send me a message in the show notes.
• 17:56
  SPEAKER_00: There's a way to text me, and I do not see your number, but it gets basically fan mail, if you will, where I can see what it is.
• 18:04
  SPEAKER_00: If you have some sort of reflection you want to share or some sort of note you want to send us, I appreciate all of them.
• 18:10
  SPEAKER_00: I read them and save them.
• 18:11
  SPEAKER_00: And last thing, if I can request as we round out this year and this podcast continue to go week after week, and over 200 episodes, if there's one favor I can ask y'all, it's to leave us a five-star review.
• 18:26
  SPEAKER_00: It helps us so much to reach more and more ACLers, more and more clinicians, more and more coaches.
• 18:32
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• 18:34
  SPEAKER_00: So if you have a second on Spotify, all you gotta do is go up there and literally click rate it.
• 18:41
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• 18:59
  SPEAKER_00: Let's have a good end of the year, y'all.
• 19:02
  SPEAKER_00: And or maybe it's just the middle of the year for someone else listening.
• 19:07
  SPEAKER_00: And I will see you guys in 2025.
• 19:10
  SPEAKER_00: Until next time, this is your host, Robbie Patel, signing off.